Richmond palladium. [volume] (Richmond, IA [i.e. Ind.]) 1839-1854, 1841-12-11
WHOLE NUMBER 500.

are formed. Every thing pertaining 10 this life
Is the change.
a well cultivated m nd, united with pleasant
and easy disposition, is the greatest accomplish
men, In lady. have endeavored from the first
TO the present time, to bring you up in such a
manner as TO form you for future usefulness in
society Woman was never made merely 10 see
and be seen; but TO fill inportan, space in tho
great chain IN nature, planned and formed by tho
Almighty Parent OF The Universe. You have
been educated in habits Of industry, frugali,y G.
economy and neatnes, and 10 these YOU have not
disappointed me.
It's for the man TO provide and for tho wife TO
take care and see that every thing within her cir.
Gle OF movement, is done in order and season;
therefore let method and ORDER DO considered i'm
poriani. a place fer every thing and every
thing IN time, good family mottos.
A thorough knowledge OF ever. kind Of bust
ness appropriate TO the kitchen, is indispensable,
for without such knowledge n lady is incapable
of the Management, of her own business, and is
liable TO imposition by her servants every day.
But IN those you have been instructed.
You will be mistress of your house, and OBJ
serve the rules in which you have been educated,
You Will endeavor above oil things TO make your
fire side the mos, agreeable place for the man Of
your choice Pleasantly and happy disposition
will ever be considered necessary to this impor.
taDt end-bat foolish foudness is disgusting to
all. Let reason and common sense ever guido
these, aided by pleasant, friendly disposition
render life happy; and without this IL is not de-
sirable. Remember your cousin Eliza. Sho
married with the highest prospects, but, from q
petuleni, peeNish, complaining disposition and
negligence, every thing went wrong; and her
home became place of dIsquioiude to her hus-
band To avoid this, he sought place TO pass a.
way vacant tune; where associated with those
more wicked than himself, he contracted the hab-
it of intemperance, and all was lost-and poor
Eliza was thrown upon the charity Of her friends.
BE pleasant and obligIng to your neighbours
ready TO grant assistance when necessary. DO
careful Of their characters and do not readily be-
lieve an i'll report. Throw the mantle of charity
over their hiIings, knowing that we are human
and liable TO Abhor a tai,ler, and give no
place to the reports Of such. However strong a
provocaton may be, never contend for the last
word.
Let your Bible show it is used. Give no place
TO novels in your library. Let his tory, and biog-
raphy be read when time and opportunity admit,
without interfering with the important duties Of
the family. BE not ignorant of the events Of tho
time bang, therefore read some journal of the day.
rs 4" tho friends who may call you, never
be confused or In hurry; treat them W ih hOspi-
taIity and poItencs, and endeavor to make them
happy IN their own way. Never ieaZe them TO
do this or that which they do not prefer True
politeness consists in easy and peasa ut deport
men', and making friends easy, and permitting
them to enjoy themselve in that way which is
most pleasing to them.
Speak with delberation. The other sex tell
US that "the female tongue is never trcd,n DO
II SO! let II be regulated by reason.
AT the close OF the week, if possible, let all
your work for the time, be done; SO that on Sun
day you may improve your time in such a man
ner as VIII BIO appropriate TO the day, and never
extraordinarics excepted, let your seat be vacant
at church.
As TO dress, decency is becoming to all; but
extravaganza opens the door 10 want; follow the
fashion Of the dey as far deccncy and good
sense will approve, bu, avoid singularity. Be no,
troubled for what you have not be thankful for
and take care of what you have. leghorn hat
loaded with flowers, will not cure the head ache
nor gold watch prevent the consumption
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