Baton-Rouge gazette. [volume] (Baton-Rouge, La.) 1819-1856, 1841-02-27

}Fsess-stE EFF il no great need Of enforcing
on 40 unmarried lady, tbs necessity of beiog
agreeable uof ID there any great art REQUESTS
In a youthful beauty to enable her 10 please. Ma
lu,e has a4aH piled attractions round her. Youth
il Ia Itself attractive. Tbs freshness of bu1ding
baauty nae3s 10 foFefgn eli to set It off; il pleas.
~ merely because it IL flesh, and badiing and
beautiful. Ea! il is for fhe fFar5ted stale that q
WOMAN needs the moz: obstruction, aud 10 which
she should be most on her guard 10 n~4aintaia her
go.et, Of pleasing. 10 aoHan can ezFtct to bs
to hex husband Ill that he faUcied her when he
was q lo4er. Msa are aI8ags G1sH1ed to be dopcd,
got SO mnea BY the arts d lie SEX, as By their
own inaginasionz faay are always wooing god
iessos and Hafrsing aanea. 4 woman should
sherefage ascertain what was The charm that
rendered her 50 Fascinating as a gifLand endeaveur
10 keep il Ep when ste has bsessae a wife. One
grga. hing doubtless was tic Ghariaess OF herself
AMI her conduct, which an unmarried female al
waYs observes. Sic sha45& maintain The sunte
utceasxs and yegergc in her person and huJiiy,
and eadearg4r stiA to prsssrge q freshness and
v5rg:a dehcaeY IN The eye u der husband. She
ssouli remember that the province Of women is to
he wuoei. MT 70 g7o, 10 bs cafessed, mol 10 caFess.
Man is al uasra.ssaE being 10 lose; bounty loses
instead Of winning hin. The secret Of 0 woman's
payer does nat consist 50 mgca in giving; as in
Withholding. Il II 10 q thoasaHd kae deheaciss
gfcarsd'ttcG that ske msast trzsSt to keep aiire pas
sioa. and to protect heraeJ fom that, dangerous
familiarity, thai thorough acquaintance with
everg weakness lai inperfsettoa, incident 10 mat
rinong; o. these means 5he will still niajntsIn
her power. though she Jas surrendered her per-
son, and may continue the romance oil love esEn
beyond the honey-nocn.
s-she that aasl q wise husband" ssTs jeremy
ravf9f. snuzt eatiea hin 10 eternal endearness,
By tie veil of naodesty, and grave .aoes OF chasai-
ty. the osnaassa.s Of meekness, and the Jewels Of
Gaith aud charity. She must have no paintings
bat b~fasbins. Der brightness tnusg be purify, and
sae must shine round about with sweetness and
friendship; and she stall be pleasant while she
l;ses, and desired whea she dies
I have wandered into : rambling series Of re-
marks on q tFite sttiect, and 9 dangerous one for
a b4chslq5 10 NEEDLE With. ThetI may NOT,
however. appear &c coaGne my Observations en-
tirsly 10 the vifs. / will conclude With another
4~aoEation from jeremy Ieyiot, in which the du-
ties of both parties are uenlioueslg while | would
recommend his sermon on the marriage fiag. 10
as these who. wiser than myself, ara about 'enser-
Ing The happy state Of wedioct:.
There i searcs any matter Of iuty bat il con-
csrrs them both alike and j. oUlg distinguished
BY Names. and hath its variety by circumstance
and Enls accidents; and nhas in onai Is called love,
in he other is called reseteneei and what in Tho
wife il obedience, the sans il the man j duty.
E1e provides and she 3lspensss; be gives COM
mandreats. aud she rules b. them: he rules her
by authority, and sic rules him BY laves she
ough! By all means 10 please him, and he must by
40 a1eans d~3srEsase haE.'