The Hillsborough recorder. [volume] (Hillsborough, N.C.) 1820-1879, 1839-02-07

be disssnshlrd. flor Il arises lrnm natural
P'Inr'plss. that aaarrisd ~amsn ARE gen
orally mare pleasing Than sueh ~ never
iaFm'd this saRnsKi.'n; Ihey have banisl,-
ed hat shy nssrse Hhirh yaung lsdirs
think themselves. aud. indeed. IN some
dsgrre. are obliged Ia p'zriirr. hut WHICH.
nsrr-s~ry ~ u may be, Generals many
IL I,rT lnrrlIssI gr ee.. BE- MT. L"~-
r,rr. dissPpnlnlrd. n al .our mrTii aud
sInIahlrnsss iia moi srrnEr 10 yau snrh L
e"nnrS,an - y"ur principles and jHdg-
mFni ran apprase. :.
The lives &c y"ung men are % undo
mssiic."d. and. Indeed. sa criminal. that
d.ssrng wnmen. Ia the present age. are
lar ir"m receiving thasr sitrniiaus aud
cirIlIiirs. Ia ahIrb. nn every prinriple nf
jusI,re aud pol,irnrss. Ihry are certainly
rnullrd. Ia pr"porI"n A. the morals al
mrn are drpr.vsd. marriage Will always
he understandable and rare. Pleas nf IN
sh'lny 10 suppon family. of lhr exren.
snrEts. af wives. aud ihrT propensity
IL splendT aud Dissipation. are usrd, I
knaa. by some 90 s"iirn their mIsrnn.
huri aud To throw 1Imsy veil Over their
rIImrs.
A." rxirsraesnt Iurn for 6nery and show
il = great disadvantage Ia rveTy w0msn.
Il - adverse 10 all her haPpiest pros.
peris. ahd prevents not a lea iIom ever
addressing her. ahn. ~ resli'y. might
have hrrn the must faithful and nbligIng
e"np sninn. through life. | have long
r"n.HIeIsd tie rxprnsiyenrss af young
i.tlIrs - by III mrsns favorable Ia tlerr
g.r".peris, ar happIurss IN any 'Irw.
There cannni he. ~ p"In, Of real taste. q
greater mistake in education. True Dig
nHy cnnsi..e,h nni IN Lnssl ar show.
Tie nearest appruarh &C can make g.
suprrI"r spirils. 10 To have as frw wants
a. possible wh,lsi we inhabn this lenc-
mrhi Of clay.
a. ynur mannrr with tie sex 81 large.
| Gould wIsh you To synId The In"drrn
t"rs ar'inrss. a. veil a. that shy reserve,
. huh ihr"ws damp an all lhs lnnnceni
ga.r,Ies 81. lilr--,hr fiFst bears up"u It's
L.rr = masrullne Indel,cary. the nihFr il
lie eiT.ct "f t"S nrgh, prudsry. i'll bead.
'ng m slT.ct,,Ion.
sumo womrn al, 81 = enltlness in their
| Department. aud acl A. Il t.ey supposed
that every man Who approaches Them had
= dr,ien on Their prisons. Alas! how
mi.rrabiy are Ihey drcrised! How re-.
diculaus - the VANITY which gives birth
H. surh cnrduri. Men are 80 engaged
~ business. plrasurr. aud the amusenenis
al tie world. that tie conquest IL . fe.
m1l+ heart ~ often thought heacSth their
anh'h A. any rate. a Is time enough
Ia b. up n ynur guard. when you really
believe them bent on making SIRIUS all
,~nres. MANY of them aIli approach
You with q ,tt-ry; tins they have been
led 10 think is the only currrn. coin with
the e-nrraluy "f females. II 1t be mol
very grnss. hear IL with good humnur.
Though yoa may drsplse, do not won.
lonl, return II wIth contempt.
Th"uah by no means seriously bent
upan mslIimnuy. vet nut lew al them
Will paw yau q .ttrrng attention. These,
" yau be nat cauii"us. may very Iusen'
| .ihly sol,en y"ur heart and ensnare Your
siF-c,oas. par icularly " they come from
m-n whose general character ynn e.
tcrm. One csuu"n. ihrreiorc, permit
me to give ynu; never believe any man
in rarue.t, iii he makes The most point.
cd declaration in your fdror. Fashion
has made II 20 much = matter OF form
To nav aiIcniihus Ia . woman, aud par
/ tcuIsrly iT she - smai.. aIlly aud beau-
! ,ifuI; Il she u celebrated fu high connex-
! ions, nr accomplishments, or makes a
eond figure 10 public; that numbers OF
mrn - III be mechanically led Ia fluIler
! about them, VIM, ~ fact, mean only IL
smnse the m"nen,, nr Ia do h"n"r 10
! lhrIr own good breeding and pnl'teness.
But helic,e me. this CAV and lively sea-
son will snon he at an cuj. Girls that
spnrt away. aud dwell an every b"dy's
iungue IN all their eaudv c"innrs. dn.
rug summrr mnn,hs. like butterflies,
are never heard ol III win,cr--"nce t"t.
gotten. they seldom revive. but are dis
pl.crd by other Using favnti'es. To en-
lrrIa,n a secret pattlal,iy without know
ing II rer,procal. is dreadful inderd. l,
vii cause YOU infinite grief, anxiety aud
.rxaIioa. Il will tnally unfit y"n Tor
any Other connex inn; iH who wouii taIe
the b"iy. whrn another person 10 in pos
session I'll he soul.
II any man. therefore. can deliberately
be SO cruel as to vlsi, y"u frequently, and
show y"u every particularly tina. is "nI,
shor, Of thus grand explanation. never SEE
hum in private, and il that be insufficient.
aud you still feel tender sentiments to
, war,l HIM. determine 10 shun his compa
ny forever.
i Ify"u suppose, On the other hand, iha
any person lal,es with your feelings irou
wanionness. ur mere amusement, You
cauuut shaw him TOO marked contempt
+ There are Thousand mrthods al making