Cheraw gazette. [volume] (Cheraw, S.C.) 1835-1838, 1837-11-08
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HOW TO CHoosEzA GOOD HUSBAND; :;
I Whan.you see a young man Of modest res
pectnl retiring manners. not given TO pride !.
to vanity or fattery be lfmake good hus.
band, forhe vii be the same kind man to.ss
wards his wife after marriage. that hewas BE-
fore it. @r7s.s-
When you see a young man of frugal aud
industrious habits no fortune hantes: hut who Z
would take a wife for the value Of hefseH and q
not for .he sakeof her wealth, that man, shl 4
make good husband for his affections vii net
decrease, neither Will be- bring himself 81 kjsi
partner to poverty and want. ~ s. 8
When you see asyoung man, whose pauness
are of;the boisterous and disgusting kind Nj
brass enough to carry him any whete,
vanity enough to make him think every Sfess
inferior to himself do not marry him guls, hs G
viii not make good hpoband. ssSs:sE:
When you see a young man who is usipg
his best endeaVofs to raise himself from obscgs.s
rity to credit, character and aaiaencs By hsis b J.
own merits, marry him, he VII make b GOOD :
husband and one worth having marx 4 s
girls, ss 80 <.s:.: : - -
When you see young mande epenapg sole
" for his reputation and standing ipssociety
upon the wealth ofhis sick father of other ne I
lations, do not marry him for goodness sake
he VIII make poor husband, SSss., ~
When you say young man half his time
employed in adoring his person Or riding
through the streets in gigs, who leaves his
debts unpaid although Frequently demanded,
never, no never, doyou marry him, for he viii s
in every respect make bad husband. 3
Whan you see young Eaan who never en-
cages in any affays or quarrels BY day nor S
frotcs by night and whose dark black dee& g
are rot Of omean a character as to make &
him wish to conceal bis name. who does NOT
keep late company nor brakesthe sabbath nor
use profane language, but whose face is seen
regularly at church where he,ought to be he J.
win certainly make good hasband.
+. When yonng man who is below you in &,
wealth, and offers you marriage do not deem q
it disgrace but look into his character ana, ifs
you find it corresponds to these directions 8
take him and you win get a good husband s
without fail. -l,S / - S
Never make money any an object for i 4
you do depend upon it to balance tolthe good
you viii get a bad husband. g -;
When yousee a young man who is atten.e
tive and kind to his sisters or aged mothes s
who is not ashamed to be seen in the streets:
with the woman who gave him birth and s. $
nursed him, supporting her week and tottering
frame upon his arm and who will attend to ali
her better wants, with 6lial love affection
tenderness, take him girls iyou can get him,
no matter what his circumstances IN life are
he is truly worth the winning and viii IN =
in certainty make goodiusbaad. - ssss
Lastly always examine into character con- Z
duct and matters and when you find these good
good in young man then may you be:sure
he will make agood husband but. girls, let me &
entreat you to beware Of the drunkard, woe
unto her that makes such a choice, so dear &
girls, viii leave the subiectiyishing yon bng !
life and much happiness,
.''s.sss sa,gsb ..rosras LArrss 49,