Rutland herald. [volume] (Rutland, Vt.) 1823-1847, 1836-09-27
NtsCELIAN EDUs.

COLLECTED for the Boston Couuor)
SENTIMENTS CONCERNING LOVE, WO.
MEN, sc.



The ordinary logo Of grls is not so much tina,
OF actual and natural feeling as it sa forced pre-
disposition.
frivolous education, like that which f now
too much in vogue makes women generous in
grea, thlngs petty in smal--vain irritable full Of
the lIttleness Of herself aud her COMPLIMENTARY
TO plunge into an abyss with her lover but equally
read. TO fret away al love with repropches, when
the plunge has been made.
Long ADD continued attention. sympathy and
kindness TO a lady will almost invariably inspire
her with love a, last.
French writer has said, phy enough
compare for moment the apathy Of hvsJand
with the attention, the gallautry, the alteration Of
iorer--snd can you ask the resuin'
Let woman once think you unconquorablo, and
IN ess she is unlike all other women, she will want
to conquer you.
The surest mode Of dazzling our interiors what.
ever j, may be with our equals, IL by splendor,no,
taste. All young persons, all women in particular
are caugh, by show, and enamourcd of una guiicence
Assume grandeur and taste, and you will be more
talked of aid notoreiy wins a womans heart
more, than beauty or youth. Women will not res
pcci you, If you suffer yourself to become stale
and cheap to vulgar company"
People are naturally augty at the thought, that
two individuals should be married aud heartily
Join in abusing both The ladies' yituperete her
art, aud tbs gentlemen his folly. i thought she
would play her cards well deceiiful creature -
says the former January and May the mans
sixty" mu,iers the latter.
man feels bat slight comparative happiness in
being loved, if ho know tina; It is in vain. But 20
woman that simple knowledge is sufficient to
destroy the memory Of thousand disiressos: and
II Is not TIL she has told her heart ogain aud again
that che 10 loved that che viii begin 10 ask il 1t be
in vain.
lady who is beloved, must not Judge Of her lo,.
or by his conduct towards herself His manner
and tone with her Viii not be such a. they seem
to others. Love rofues every rourhness and
that truth, which nurures ieudeness,ls never bar
rem Of grace.
Absence, too long Pro,rac,ed is injurious to
love.
To DO oyed and tended by the ono | love. I
would walk blind and barefoot over tie whole
earth
WHO can compare the FILTERED ana divided az
sse,ons formed in cities, With ,hal which crowds
esnno, ds'rAet BY opposing temptation or dissipa-
lion affect with It's fii,otiesl
The only delicious" marriages. ere those in
which the husband is wise enough to see ht,le Of
his wife. The absence Of the morning. prevents
eszni in the evening.
There is slssys this difference in the love of
women and Of meu-lhst 90 tie former. hen once
admitted. ], cngfosscs sll tie sources Of though,
and excludes every obec, bot nse.f bu, "a Tie
latter, II is shared With 81. the former reflections
and feeling which esa neither constitute The whole
Of our happiness not The whole 81 our NO.
The love Of man ia hi' matuter years. IS no,
90 mech a emotion o. NAL and couc.p-
t-siion Of ell he Departed affections - o,hrfs.-
Who, when he turus 20 recall hs frat sn1 C5rdes,
associations. when he throws OF one by one.
the layers q earth and stone which have grow q
and hArdeaed over The records of tLe pact, - wbo
has not been surprised 10 discover hos ircsh and
uuimPsfed Ihoes buued treasures rro sgtin upon
has hesn They haze beea laid up "a The store
hocse Of iime ibeif very eoncealmen, hss PIE