Rutland herald. [volume] (Rutland, Vt.) 1823-1847, 1836-11-22
MISC ELL AN Us.
Pros hs Pastors ogtri.g or Coort,aip and Marriage
COURT SHIP.


Do not marry fop. There 10, in such char
ascier. nothing OF true dignity. There il nothing
except ais form, and hardly thst, which Classics
him with the human species. There is nothing
sbou, him that ctn command respeci--snd there
Ia nothing that will ever insure him a decent stand.
ing in the community. fIis very s,ltude and gait
pfoelsim to the stranger who he is; though he only
passes him silently in the street. To unite yonr
destiny with such a man would be to impress the
seal Il Disgrace upon yonr character, and the seal
Of wr,cbedness upon your doom. Never let i;
Be sadI respecting you, "she has married a
fob
Do not marry aspendihrih. Even II he posses.
ses millions. you cannot venture your destiny with
bis without hsZs,3irg your happiness. II he be q
spendihrih yon hsve no eecur'y that he viii not
Of no distant day plunge yon into the trials Of pow
sry. II he is 4 spend,hrn, though he now pos
sssses a fortune. you would wed yourself to q man
Who will ., length no, only bring upon you pow
sr,y bu, disgrace and shame, by his vices and
crimes.
How many females md females, too Of great &C
compliments, consert to unite themselves to- men
Of fortuna; with the perfect knowledge that they
are proHga,e and prodgal in their habits! Soon
their immense fortune disappears. ike the snow be-
fore the summers sun. a thousand is squandered
male who has rolled amid The overlooking bountie,
Of Providence. is left to provide, with her own
hands bread Cor herself and for her more than or.
phan children. Her husband has perhaps many good
qualities has mind richly stored with learning
digni6ed and elegan, in his personal appearance:
but in early life. through the indulgence Of too fond
parents. he became a srendthrift. The habit grew
opon him as he advanced in vears. Nov it is the
fearful rock upon which the fortunes Of himself ana
family have been wrecked.
Do not marry miser. Such man may be rich
but you could expect that his riches would yield
you little else than misery. You will be mortified
by such . connex'on in thousand ways. Yon
will never be able 20 meet with liberal spirit, an,
OF the calls ofcbarlty which 1t is the trial Of our
fellow men TO make, and which II our duty and
privilege to en,eusn: For every cent you give
away, ypu will be called TO strict account By you
psnurious husband. Such will be his ayaric,ou
desire amer wealth that he will be regardless o
your own personal comfort. A thousand liiil,
comforts which families need, you will no, have il
your power 10 supply. You will have the NORTH
cation Of ueadiug on gold and pearls, and yet III.
tnal Of a npscious injunction from your husban,
no, TO appropriate dollar to your own convent
sncs. sUeh msu will grudge you The very brea
you ca, and the raiment you wear. HIS lost fo
filthy lucre will triumph over his natural afeciin,
and bruishI'ng the las, feeling Of humanity IN hi
soul. To add TO his i'll cotton gsins he would no
seruple TO convert you and he little ones and YOU
furniture into stock and sell you TO the hphe,
bidder II you have q noble and generous .p,r
he will break IT down and mond aud fashion
snef his own. lie will never rest TIL he make
MIXERS OF you and your children. And where ca
there be found N all the cntapas. ofGod'. cres,io
. more useless. selfish. culd-he.ue Gishono,e
community than . miser's family, They woul
zee eniombed the entire race from want and Ian
and ocean hong with the dtapery Of mourning: an
ye, With hear, obdur,s .. he'll. ,hu, their eve.
The solemn speeiscl.,.bd turn s~sy 10 pay The
devotons to Msmmon.
Do not marry any ma n who 10 mol industrou,
some honorable vnca,ion.
II the man 10 whom you would unite ,our,elf
without employneLt, you have no Assurance IN
be Viii moi fall into vicious company and contru,
the nosi desiraotye hsbi.. A nan without Or,
perry. aud Stihont business, too, ALL never rend.
you hsPPT. Bot n he be without, property and =,
- an industrious msn, sou have a guarantee i'm
industry, that, Nth The smilns OF PROVIDENCE. "a
oil never come TO wsnt ur have fastened on =,
the m'ssf'e, Of d,ssiPaied hosb,nd. A b.bt
iedasiry, once formed. is not likely To be ever le,
Place the individual IN whatever eirc umst.nces =,
will and he ~tll not be satisfied unsss he can be
tive. His habit q industry too will inp.ri TO h
character energy efficiency and dignity u h,
viii si~sys secure for han the respeo, Of his silo
nsn. ~ill project h;m from tie society of m
,sis.ths vicsess and the abandoned, and make IA
kleasiow ko sonrv~H ard % e<.rt.sx