Litchfield enquirer., 1833-02-14


on security. y Once web beeun,is twice
done. waM skI Aat sE
No, is very useful word be not afraid
touse i. Many q man has pinned inmise-
ry for years by not having courage to pro-
ncunce tliat little m6nOsy llablS. 4, 8 1.t
Work for q man that Il ppnc,ual al less
wages than for him Who i not; you get
the balance in ceflainty Of payment. One
dollar sure IS better tllaR fwo doubtful, and
will avail more npon shift. If you can.
not get full wages, take less-better so
than be idle. Iels 4sSl II. gss faa ~
Shun idlsness is 1 disease. Al shilling
q day i better than nothing. The very
fact Of being II work viii procure employ,
by and by az q fair rate. Men avoid him
who is all the time strOlling about the
streets--he b judged nnfit for any thing,
and may die for want Of employ. S.
&c you can find nothing else 10 do, read
and Improve your mud, aud iit yourself
for better doing whnt you may have To- do.
Instruct yoiir children; see thar they have
good schools. visit them occasionally, and
take . glance al The method in which ii IS
conducted. Do you think they will ever
respect you, or be worthy If having. IyOu
neglect them in their youth, when the
mind FIRST takes IFS bent and ilIclinationa
No man who has family ever should shy
that he has n6thing ID do. 81 akAssgssH 9sstf
Dr.. Franklin once lived we'll upon about
fifty dollars year, inclnding al expenses.
One may, in this country, carry himself
well with lesssmoney. sssy $500. \. ,ssss
Stroll not about. begging patronage.
w S..x,ssas,c ~f.na ,~,~.an
ability 10 KNOWN. Then, if you are .fit for
employ, you will have Il If not, a better
man should. You must stand competition;
this IS the life Of business get work by SUI
perior skill, punctDality, and attention.
Men know their interest. and viii follow
il in spite offriendship. Give me the skill,
and You may have oil the patrons. i They
will stick to- you as long as you serve them
best---no longer.a re many are in the
business let the balance clear our, and they
will soon do SO if the public do, not falsely
cherish them with fair words of patronage,
which mean nothing but every man for
| himself" \. Z ..ss !. a f.+s NJ s.
Recollectthe main point is employ, and
not fair words. One man giving . job is
worth forty promising il. Promises are
the ruin Of many, and usually impart
Enothing but vitality 70 hope. Many 9
man promises from mere good nature. and
will wantoniy promise the same thing 20 .
hundred in day--and disappoint ninety
! nine doubt every man who has moi strict
lily complied with his engagements. IT he
has disappointed others. may be not disap-
lpoint you3 In. 6netnevers think yvai have
money sat your command nntili Is actual!
u In your hand ;and therefore take care no,
u you promise it.-- Neglect Of such pEuden
aials binders mon from becoming. rich, an
produces HARD TINES.
sfa n Fyem ne SsSsata school, 3vGsixor III
Letter from Ckin0.--Iii China d mar
often has two or more wives and some.
times, eight 81. ton. ]. have heard Of one
man, now living in CANTOR, who has tsgs,..
4 IT, four and says, he means 10 have a new
one every yeaf.ss or my, three boys. 81
whom i hope to tell you more by and By
--she oldest onessl father hasAiwo wives
the second ones, four, and the third one.
father, only one. Ia CHM, Is ID ancient
Jndea, children are often espoused, whel
i quite young. But they are mot usually
married, until girls arrive IL the age Of n
Epr l6; and ahpys 10 the age oflS Or y
years. ss ss4a gNa III lsss3A s8~s i9tsaA
/ When parenis wisl, to lave q daughter
married, they write on sheet Of red pa
per the year, month, day, and hour Of he
birth, and give the paper 10 agclbetween'
matcll-maker, who carries il 90 the houss
Iof the intended husband, and brings back
from his parents, ! similar statement. Az
ter This the girl father + iniFOdnccdt - tlll
young man, and biz mplller on Tie sogbe
\ side, IL intrpdnced To the Cir. Many pre-
seats Or fancy articles. dresses, meats, cakes
fruits. aud the like, are shen intefeIsneed
and the marriage contract y considered y
TNo, thrse, four 81 more years. q. per
4 l,aps only u few, months elapses which tins
4 Is usually regpl6tsd by tbe agesp f ahei par
4 ties, and then Oihess and mere ,yaluabls
/ gifis are refrigerated !; and anolhsr inter
lgala of monllls, ioF years passes awsy, ant
then comes the wedding day. On tlsa
day ihe young man ssnds ? sedan g bring
Home tiis bride. Ttlis sedan i always 81.
egant. and .offen superb, costing severe
Il hundred dollars. II 4 20 eoDstrpetsd q
sptirelyi 10 conceal thepsTson carrisdin 4
| III tllis Sedan, the yonng mospan y scared
~ kerspasenfs, and tears aro sbed hothb5
4 tho dauehtsr and her pasentss e she issep
i arated from them, and Borne OF Id tile mar
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