Martinsburg gazette and public advertiser. [volume] (Martinsburg, Va. [W. Va.]) 1826-1833, 1832-09-06
ADVICE TO YOUNG LADIES


a young lady, at eighteen, often needs a
warning voice to po'at out the qncksands
over winch she - speeding her thonghtless
career IL you are beautiful and have MANY
adnilfeis, am sorry for II A Young ". =
man. VIII Sc conduct sm3.llcd with strict h :
nor aan pfihciPai, cannot have many adm
rfrs. There Is nothing that more certainly
marks bad heart aud dcpraved moral p,in
cipie, or worse, thorough ,lestttu,ion OF il
than crewIl and guilty encouragement of
honorable love.
Young man is never long attached "a a
young lady wlthon, her beng aware of il.
conmenly indeed before be is himself
ware OF the extent of his feelings The
&ho"odge IS almost intuitive. From that
moment, II she he persuaded that she cannot
Ftcipfocate his sentiments, her course is
PLAN before her-it is cool, nnequ;vocating;
uhh"Saling repuse-on every occasion.
place and manner Love sojH die ,,itbout
nope 10 crush love IN the bud. is easy:
fri'e and tamper with IL I'LL II has ,eken root
~ the heart. and its destruction is attended
Fvith The extinction of the hearts nobiest fec
hngs
Never forge, this prime maxim in these
maittrs--''not 10 dtscoufGge is abrams IN en-
c0HrGge.n 4 mean aud culuabIe An.r,4s of
crqnetIy, Is the practice of not giyln., a de.
cined encouraS nent or repulse. With view
Oh keeping your slave til you have learned.
20 use the cant phrase, you cannot do better
KNOW not an expression that hctrays more
ntsncaoic meanncss, and she vh no uses IT,
eil w. Willingness TO sell her hand, TO traf
ne her person for value received, that is re
voting in the highest degree.
70 one. ao' even parent, can tell what
'acler Will render lady happy, but rtr
OIL ia herself alone then must and ouaLt
70 rest the responsibility of her choice.
pave seen so many marriages commenced
with all TIL glitter of wealth and nomp ter
p"na'e IA misery and broken hearts: and 50
many that were te-un wiz, 10 very prom
ls'ng auspices. which have proved as happy
as hunifh life adults; that am cony,nced
that the parcnt who eff ia, lnterpos,s $.
etands answerable To God, his child, and hIs
conscience 'h degree OF responsibility most
teariully and Tremendous.
.4doice 10 Yomg Mem - In the selection of
partner, be extremely cautious Never
IN 'rfy Tor riches alone for that is bad. Ne
yer marty a young lady because .he has a
handsome iigure, aud can promanade and
car spin fine street yarhi Tor tina, is a greet
o. Al worse But listen TO an OLD man In
tie selection OF a wife, seek one that is ac
c"mpiShed. (tor such there are 10 be C,und \
mean those who pc se,s the accomniSh
h'en' oi beng able TO make their own gowns
'n'T husbands shirts; can make I'D batch
VI nfedd, pale the cows, and do the other
ana essential part towards keeping house.
an IN 'be evening, can entertain lou with
p'eaSih5 conversation, or IN reading soo,e
good book II Il should SO happen That vonr
VINE can We without dong thIs dyurgcgy A.
y"o may caH 1t. rest assured, il Is no dtsad
va, u,"1n'ase' fo'h very great accomplishment.
axe care moi to marry IN FANNY whore
tnere are half d zen OF daughters. and a
h''ed S''i to DO The sewing, or where the
same may ht put out to be done. II Won find
tou"s lady at her wheel or engaged m
sewing instead Of being Leiorc her toilet. All
'h'iins her curls. take thai girl, for She uIll
'''0 "sFCedhie VIE ROBLRT.
ihe PhIladelphi4 Inquirer relates The fol- !
i'"i'~ 'idence Of the ruling passion strong
81 "ea'o' among The singular circumstan.
"t teh we nave seen recorded as counec /
!, seu :, WIN The Cholera, We NAV mention the |
io'''""g' winch sc have receive d from thc !
i Z Hhq7'sh"uabie authority We COW u |
.iOfA a otter before us, dated Princeton |
~ > August "a We rreset.t the ipi.,4ls |
. 'nhi the iuii names OF TIC partics.-..nr
o---r, OF Pennington, was seized with il
lhe ctoteraJ on Monday night last, and OF,
nesday, tcacR IN a collapsed siGle he was man
ta Ia Miss W., u whom he had
,e'h engaged for soIae time pas, in order |
nat Sic might inherit his property"