Constitutional Whig. [volume] (Richmond, Va.) 1824-1832, 1829-03-06

is the proportion Of 20 factory buildings which have
been burnt within the last year, to $1,000 1t ms
20 loo or less than the usual rate of insurance"
ne cultivation of Sugar appears daily rrowin, in
!nv"' NJ the South The Savannah Republ:can snp,s of
some samples Of Florida Sugar, made in that mari of the
Territory called Aachua, which grains tas,e and smell
furnish Indications of the highest quality tina,
to that article. Sixty hogsheads had been ,I,es l.,
red and II was thought twenty would be realized.
Eliract from .lTrcscueie's JuLa dc Keon5i.,,s
ne last letter which the mother of Julia leaves
TOT the instruction of her daughter.
FOR MY DAUGHTER JULIA.
Before this reach you the hand tbot write,
and the heart that dictates it. will he rnoulderinn
III tiie grave mean 1T to- supply the place of some
CAUTIONS which should think it my duty to deliver
to you, shoud live TO see Won n wifi, M ~
cePts it contains you have often heard ME i,,ccptc
but know that general observations Oh a possibIe O.
vent have much less force than those which amply to
our immediate condition. In the fate ola woman.
Is the most Important crisis it fixes her in
state beyond all others the most happy or the most
Wretched and although mere preccpt can perbons
90 little IN any case, yet there natural praDensitv
10 trylts efficacy M all. She who writes this n,ner
mas Deen long wife and nother the experiences of
Inc one and the anxiety OF the other PROMPT her in
srUctons, and she has been too happy in both char
acter5 to have much doubt OF their truth or fear NJ
their reception. -
'SWeetncss oftemper, affection to Il husband. and
W HIS interest, constr tutc the
VIE, and form the basis of matrimonial felicitv-
heso are, indeed the texts from which every rrIo
tor attaining this felicity is drawn. The charms of
beauty and brlliancyof Wit. though they may capt.
VSe IN the mistress, will not long delight in the wife.
they will shorten their own transitorv reion r.
as nave seen IN many wives, they shine more far
the attraction of every body else than of their his
bands Let the pleasure of that one person he =,
thought never absent from your conduct If he lovc
you ds You would wish he should he will b1eed NJ
for
II he does not, his pride will supply the place of low
ana his resentment that Of suffering.
Never consider tribe what may tend to please
MN. L ne great articles ofduty he will set down rs
Ills OWN out the lesser attentions he will Ike as
vors; ana trust for have experienced it. there
IS no feeling more delightful to ones self than that of
turning those little things to so precious use
III you marry man Of certain sort, such as the
romance OF young minds generally paints for hus-
Dand, you will derdc the supposition of any possible
decrease IN the ardour of your affections-But we'd
lock, even IN its happiest lot is not exempted from
the common fate Of al suburary blessings there is
even dclusion IN hope which carnot abide with
possession. The rapture of extravacant love will
evaporate and waste tire conduct ofthc wife must
substitute IN its room other regards, rs delicate and
more lasting. [ say the conduct OF the wife for
marriage, be husband what he may, reverses the
prerogatve osex-hs will expects to be rIeased and
ours must be sedulous TO please.
Ihs privilege good natured man may waive; he
VIII feel 1t, however, DUE and third persons will have
penetration enough to sec, and may have malice e.
nogh to remark, the want oft in his wife He must
DC husband unworthy of you who could bear the
degradation of suffering this in silence The idea of
power on either side should be totally banished from
the system it is not sufficient that the husband should
never have occasion to regret the want of if; the
vile must 50 behave, that lie may never be conscious
of possessing IT,
But my Julia, if 4 mothers fondness deceives me
rot stands not in much need of cautions like these
cannot allow myself the idea her wedding man on
whom she would not wish to be dependant Or whose
incllnaons temper like hers would desire to con-
tToI. She VIII be more IN danger from that sotness
that sensbility of soul, which viii Weld too much
perhaps tor the happiness of both. The Office Of
wife includes the cxcrtion of friend: rood one
must frequently strengthen and support that weak
ness, which bad one would endCavor to overcome
There are situations whore it will not be enough to
love, to cherish, to obey: shc must teach her hus-
band to be at peace with HIMSELF to be reconciled TO
the world to resist misfortune TO conquer adversity
Alas! my child. am here an instructress brit too
well skilled! These tears with which this paperis soil
ca fell noc IN the presence your father though now
they but trace the remembrance Of what then was
my lot TO feel. Think it not impossible to restrain
your feelings because they are strong The enthusi-
asm OF feeling will sometimes overcome distresses
which the cold heart Of prudence had been unable to
endure.
"But migiortmeis not always misery have known
THIS truth; am proud TO believe that have some
times taught to Roubigne. Thanks be to that Pow
er whose DEGREES reverence! lie often tcmperedthc
anguish of our sufferinos till there was a sort of
luxury in feeling them. Then is the triumph Owed
ded love!-the tie which binds the happy may be
DEAR but that which links the unfortunate is tender
ness unuttcrable.
|Iherc arc affections less easy TO he injured,
winch your mother has not experienced; those which
husband inflcts, and the best wives feel tne most
severely. These, ike our sharpest calamitos, the
lorltude that can resist can only cure. Complain
ms HH7aso H"r WHO suffers md Harden him who