The Wilmingtonian, and Delaware advertiser., 1827-06-14
T1SE aAD1Us' pRzIND.
MATRIMONIAL MAXI,IS
.ql,ircssed to Married Ladies.

not ONLY make the men IN love with hi2ifi-
age. but cause them to be good husbands
The first is to be good yourselves. 10 avoid
all thoughts Of managing husband. NeV-
er try to deceive or impose upon ms UNDER
standing, nor give him uneasncss, but treat
him with affection, sincerity ana respect'--
Remember that husbands at best are ohly
men, subject, like yourselves to error ana
frailtv. Be not tco sangnine, thch pciore
marriage, or promise !ourselt happiilcss
without alloy. Should you discover any
thing in his humor, or behaviour, ne. alto-
gethcr what you expected OF Wishe.l, P'ss
it over, smooth your own temper, anu Wy "
mend his by attention, cheertulncss ana
qood nature. Never reproach him with
misfo,tunes. which are the accidents and IN
Grmi les Of human life; a burden winch caeh
has cnraped TO assis. tho other in support
ing and to which both parties are equally
.xnased. hut instead of murmnring, ana re-
asct;ons divide the sorrow between you;
m.ke the hest of it, and it will be easier 20
| bntb II is the inuatc Office OF the so!ter
s.v 70 smooth the troubles OF the other,--
Resolve every morning to be cheerful that
day: and Should any thing occur 70 otea@
vo,,r resolution. suffer it not to put you out
Of temper with your husband. Dispute 10.
( with him, be the occasion "hat II may ~
much rather deny yourself the ,filli's 80
faction of having your own WIN, =. sa",a
the better Of an argument, than rish q
rcl or create heart burning, Whch y y
;mnossiblc 70 forcsee the end OF. lmpiict
srhu.ission in a man to his wife IS ever ols'
graceful to hoth but implicit snon''ss'o. =, :"
wife to the will Of her husband IS W'a' ~.
good will revere her for. and Wnas = ~ ias'
the greatest honor she can recetNci -
suretI. a woman's power, as wen IS ,'ei ~
n;ness. has no other foundation than her
husbands esteem and love; which IL IS nei
interest. by all possible means, to PIesei -
and increase. Study, therefore, hi$ teuipei
and command your our. Enjoy win ilili' l.9
satisfaction. share and soothe ms CARA A..s'
with the utmost assduitv conceal MS i'iil :"
tiles If YOU value your own and youi 10
bands ease, let Your expenses anu u,9
be ever within the reach Of his circu''stanN.
es: for il poverty should follow, !oA 'uS'
share the evil Be very careful never 70
) give him anv cause of jealousy het 'o'
many days pass without a serious eAh''''''a-
ton into yourself as wltt; anu ~ r' -
fect,on. YOU find yourself guN'y % any
. foibles or omissions, the best atohclheHe :
to be more careful in future.
e Religion IN female secures all her inter-
ests.-It graces her character, promotes ''
:. peacc. cndears her friendship, secures es-
: teen, and adds dignity and worth inac'
scribable 20 all her deeds. How sWec.
when the mistress of family is inc haaa'
maid of the Lord---when the mother y
children is an example OF pisty-"1e" "a ,u'
: wife Of the bosom is cspoused 70 ."c w
deemer: how desirable that the eausu.S.
be chaste virgin Of Christ tnat 'nt s'sse
lean on his arm who stlckcth closer NO
brother that the sonssters OF thc 'e,np.
belong to the heavenly choir lio@ ', 2ls"s -
y ant, when the absent huDand Can 'h'nN -,
home. and reflect that angels watcn thf
e n1,ce. that they guard the interest ant
health of his heaven-born companion, ah'
the children of the covenant W hen apou
!. to leave her widow, and commit TO her eA
= elusive care her helpless offspring, no"
consolinp. if her character is such, that sh'
!, can lean on the widows God, and put hel
children under the guardianship OF itim
who is the Father of the fatheriess' hei
he Quits the world calm and happy sup
). ported by the hope that he shall meet theH
all in heaven.
Religion has peculiar sweetness, whei
Il m;nqles with the modest sottness ot the
female character. So the dewdrop borroW'
i odour and colour from the rose.
Females need the comforts, the hoPcs
and the prospects of religion more II posi-
y BILE than other sex. Subjected to tne ,'la'
y of disobedience, and the weakness OF a ieep
Ter constitution, their state, when Taiseu oy
Improvement and propped with ehristla' M
consultations, is still a state Of slhjection ant
pain. Suppose one of your number yokea : :
husband of acid temper and the prey
disappointment and disease, where, put IRON
heaven. does there dawn upon her one oeali
of lphtp But, if she can look upward ah'
descry place of rest when the tohs
. life are 6nished--a home where she may ~
happy, friend who will ever be klna' anu
nature raised above fatigue, and pam, an'
deatb-then, while the pains OF ivihs ar
softened by the hope of dying, and e"r,h olo. o
ted out by the glories OF heaven, s'iu i,, Va Va
exercise patience and submission, TIL IN y.
time appointed for her release. Ihus' reii
pion fills the cup with pleasure, that wa
full of gall; converts the verlest hovei ihto
palace, and adapting the spirit TO It's loas
p. ment makes it happy. Thus the nope
heaven, if that hope was dream sniooll'
her passage to the tomb, and renders reii
zion essential to her happiness.
The bee and the butterfly are both bus
bodies, but they are differently employed