Toast (honor)

Atoastis aritualduring which a drink is taken as an expression ofhonoror goodwill. The term may be applied to the person or thing so honored, the drink taken, or the verbal expression accompanying the drink. Thus, a person could be "the toast of the evening", for whom someone "proposes a toast" to congratulate and for whom a third person "toasts" in agreement. The ritual forms the basis of the literary and performance genre, of whichMark Twain's "To the Babies" is a well-known example.
The toast as described in this article is rooted inWestern culture, but certain cultures outside thatspherehave their own traditions in which consuming a drink is connected with ideas of celebration and honor. While the physical and verbal ritual of the toast may be elaborate and formal, merely raising one's glass towards someone or something orclinking glasseswith someone else's and then drinking is essentially a toast as well, the message being one of goodwill towards the person or thing indicated.
According to various apocryphal stories, the custom oftouching glassesevolved from concerns about poisoning. By one account,clinking glassestogether would cause each drink to spill over into the others' (though there is no real evidence for such an origin).According to other stories, the wordtoastbecame associated with the custom in the 17th century, based on a custom of flavoring drinks with spicedtoast. The word originally referred to the lady in whose honor the drink was proposed, her name being seen as figuratively flavoring the drink.TheInternational Handbook on Alcohol and Culturesays toasting "is probably a secular vestige of ancient sacrificiallibationsin which a sacred liquid was offered to the gods: blood or wine in exchange for a wish, a prayer summarized in the words 'long life!' or 'to your health!'"
Toasts are generally offered at times of celebration or commemoration, including certain holidays, such asNew Year's Eve. Other occasions include retirement celebrations, housewarming parties, births, etc.The protocol for toasting at weddings is comparatively elaborate and fixed. At awedding reception, thefather of the bride, in his role as host, regularly offers the first toast, thanking the guests for attending, offering tasteful remembrances of the bride's childhood, and wishing the newlyweds a happy life together. Thebest manusually proposes a toast in the form of best wishes and congratulations to the newlyweds. A best man's toast takes the form of a short speech (3–5 minutes) that combines a mixture of humor and sincerity.The humor often comes in the shape of the best man telling jokes at the groom's expense whilst the sincerity incorporates the praise and complimentary comments that a best man should make about the bride and groom, amongst others. The actual "toast" is then delivered at the end of the speech and is a short phrase wishing the newlyweds a happy, healthy, loving life together. Themaid of honormay follow suit, appropriately tailoring her comments to the bride. The groom may offer the final toast, thanking the bride's parents for hosting the wedding, the wedding party for their participation, and finally dedicating the toast to the bridesmaids.
Typical traditional wedding toasts include the following:
Toasts are also offered on patriotic occasions, as in the case ofStephen Decatur's famous "Our country! In our intercourse with foreign nations may we always be in the right; but our country, right or wrong." Equally traditional are satiric verses:
Toasts may be solemn, sentimental, humorous, bawdy,or insulting.The practice of announcing one's intention to make a toast and signalling for quiet by rapping on the wineglass, while common, is regarded by some authorities as rude.Except in very small and informal gatherings, a toast is offered standing. At a gathering, none should offer a toast to the guest of honor until the host has had the opportunity to do so. In English-speaking countries, guests may signal their approval of the toast by saying "hear hear".The person honored should neither stand nor drink,but after the toast should rise to thank the one who has offered the toast and take a drink, perhaps but not necessarily offering a toast in turn. As toasts may occur in long series, experienced attendees often make sure to leave enough wine in the glass to allow participation in numerous toasts.
Putting one's glass down before the toast is complete, or simply holding one's glass without drinking is widely regarded as impolite, suggesting that one does not share the benevolent sentiments expressed in the toast, nor the unity and fellowship implicit in toasting itself.Even the non-drinker is counseled not to refuse to allow wine to be poured for a toast.Inverting the glass is discouraged.
Toasting traditionally involvesalcoholic beverages.Champagne(or at least some variety ofsparkling wine) is regarded as especially festive and is widely associated withNew Year's Eveand other celebrations. Many people nowadays substitute sparkling fruit juice (often packaged in champagne-style bottles), and many authorities consider it perfectly acceptable to participate in a toast while drinking water.Toasting with an empty glass may be viewed by some as acceptable behavior for the non-drinker,though feigning to drink from such a glass would likely be seen as ridiculous. The person giving the toast should never do so with an empty glass, even if the glass contains nothing more than water.
Teetotalers may view the drinking of toasts to be abominable and incompatible with their stand, as witnessed by this narrative fromThe Teetotaler(1840):
It is a superstition in the Royal Navy, and thus the Australian, Canadian and New Zealand Navies as well as the United States Navy that a toast is never to be made with water, since the person so honored will be doomed to a watery grave.During aUnited States Air ForceDining In, all toasts are traditionally made with wine except for the final toast of the night made in honor ofPOWs/MIAs;because these honorees did not have the luxury of wine while in captivity, the toast is made with water. Some versions of the protocol prescribe a toast in water for all deceased comrades.
It is or was the custom in the (British)Royal Navyto drink the Loyal toasts sitting, because in old-type wooden warships below decks there was not enoughheadroomto stand upright.
L'Chaimin Hebrew is a toast meaning "to life". When a couple becomes engaged, they get together with friends and family to celebrate. Since they drinkl'chaim("to life"), the celebration is also called a l'chaim.
The origins of the custom to toast this way may be traced to an account described in the Talmud, whereR. Akivasaid upon pouring cups of wine poured at a banquet a benediction of "Wine and life to the mouth of the sages, wine and life to the mouth of the sages and their students."Many reasons for this custom have been offered. One reason based on theZoharis to wish that the wine would be tied to the tree of life and not to the tree of death with whichEvehad sinned. A second reason brought forward is that there was a common practice to make people who intend to kill drink wine and thereby be calmed, and therefore there is a custom to proclaim "to life!" over wine in the hope that it will prevent bloodshed. A third reason is that wine was created to comfort those who are in mourning (based on Proverbs 31:6) and there emerged a practice to toast thus when drinking in sad times in the hope that one day the drinker will drink wine in good happy times, and the practice of toasting this way subsequently extended to all situations.
Prosit is aLatinword, meaning roughly "be well", which is a toast in Latin and modern Italian, from which the German short form "prost" is derived. This is a toast in German. The expression dates back to the beginning of the 18th century when it was used among university students and eventually made its way into everyday language. In a ceremonious context and in connection with a short speech, the English word "toast" may also be used.
The Latin word comes from the verb "prodesse" (= "to benefit sth/sb", "to be beneficial"). Consequently, "prosit" is theconjugatedform (3rd person Singular, Present Subjunctive, Active) and therefore anoptative: "To you/ to your health". Like the colloquial "prost", "prosit" was originally used by university students.
In German,synonymslike "Wohl bekomm's!", "Zum Wohl!", and many versions from other languages may also be used instead of "prosit". The acclamation itself is also referred to as a "prosit". The verb form is "zuprosten", where the prefix "zu" means that the speech act is targeted at one or several people.
In theSwabian dialect, the word has the further meaning of abelch, called a "Prositle". The acclamation is followed by the clinking of glasses, often linked to other rules like making eye contact. This ritual is commonly attributed to a medieval custom, whereby one could avoid being poisoned by one's drinking companions, as a few drops of each beverage got mixed whenclinking glasses. There is every likelihood that this did not work. It was much more effective for one table to share one or more drinking vessels, a procedure which was common for a long time.
In Danish, Swedish, and Norwegian, "prosit" is a blessing used in response to a sneeze, in the same way the English expression "bless you" is used.
In Germany, toasting, not necessarily by words but usually just by touching each other's drinking vessels, is usually a very closely observed part of culture. In private company, no one should drink a sip of alcohol before having toasted all the other people at the table. In doing this, it is very important to look directly into the other drinker's eyes. Not practising this is considered rude and often, humorously, believed to attract all kinds of bad luck (e.g. "seven years of bad luck" and the like).
In the BritishRoyal Navy, the officers' noon mess typically began with theloyal toast, followed by a toast distinctive for the day of the week:
The sequence was also prescribed in at least one publication for theUnited States Navy.
A toast might be spontaneous and free-form, a carefully planned original speech, or a recitation of traditional sentiments such as this Irish example:
An informal variation of the last two lines:
In various cultures worldwide, toasting is common and to not do so may be a breach ofetiquette. The general theme of a toast is "good luck" or "good health". At formal meals in certain countries of the Commonwealth of Nations, the first toast to be proposed is traditionally theLoyal Toast("The King"). This may be adapted in other countries to give a loyal toast to the appropriatehead of state.
Selected examples of toasts worldwide: