Context: But the fact that she did n't even let me know hurt . Then someone a few nights ago basically pointed the finger at me as if I was the bad guy for wanting to take care of myself . I needed it because if I did n't it would have also taken it 's toll not only on me but my relationship , friends , and family . I did n't need to do that .

Question: What may have caused people to call you the bad guy in that situation ?
Options:
0. I did n't even let her know .
1. None of the above choices .
2. I had no desire to be independent .
3. I had a desire to be independent .
Answer: 3