Context: Mom and Bob are helping me pay the bills that that money was slated for , but still ... After work Sunday , I was such a wreck that I went over to John 's to hide from the world . I needed to go someplace where people were n't telling me how to fix it , were n't asking for a post - mortem , were n't forcing me to deal with it any more at that point in time . He said the only thing he might force me to do is eat .

Question: What has lead the speaker to become fed up with people telling them how to fix the problem they have ?
Options:
0. The people suggesting solutions are the same ones that caused the problem and they ca n't handle it
1. They have already made their mind up about the problem , and have to no need to get input on it
2. None of the above choices .
3. They have already done their due diligence and find that the best thing they could do is focus on something else
Answer: 3

Question: What has lead the speaker to become fed up with people telling them how to fix the problem they have ?
Options:
0. They have already made their mind up about the problem , and have to no need to get input on it
1. They ca n't do anything to fix it at the present time . Instead , they do n't want to think about it anymore .
2. The people suggesting solutions are the same ones that caused the problem and they ca n't handle it
3. None of the above choices .
Answer: 1