Context: * sigh * It does n't help that she passed a week before my birthday . I do n't feel right being happy on that day , and I do n't feel right being so sad on that day when my family tries to make it a nice day . * sigh * In happier news I received a Birthday card today . It was lovely , with flowers like a garden across it .

Question: What is the reason for so much ambivalence surrounding my birthday ?
Options:
0. None of the above choices .
1. Because mourning a death and celebrating a birthday at the same time is awkward .
2. Because celebrating a death and birthday at the same time is awkward .
3. Because mourning a birthday and celebrating a death at the same time is awkward
Answer: 1

Question: What is the reason that it does n't help ?
Options:
0. I am sad because of her death .
1. None of the above choices .
2. I am going to be absent .
3. I am ill .
Answer: 0

Question: What may be the reason they do nt feel right being happy ?
Options:
0. None of the above choices .
1. They do nt think they will get a gift if they are too happy .
2. They are not a very happy person in general in life .
3. They were very close to the person who passed away .
Answer: 3