Context: Somehow , I lost the ability to console someone who 's in doubt about relationship issues . My advices are not very convincing anymore , i think . ( Or all along , it 's not)Plus i m not in a position to say anythingSave myself before saving others : ) Its time t scrimp & save , i m terribly broke this month . Thankfully , there is school holidays so i can eat at home!Who wanna share your pay with me uh ?

Question: What must I have been going through before coming to realize my advices are not helpful ?
Options:
0. I must have gone through things that made me enhance my ability to be helpful .
1. None of the above choices .
2. I must have gone through things that made me ascertain my ability to be helpful .
3. I must have gone through things that convinced me of my ability to be save myself .
Answer: 1