Laura and Bob are a married couple who have begun reaching tentative agreement regarding their  sexual incompatibility.  They love each other and want to remain together, but have decided that they can see other people to fulfill their needs as long as they are honest about it.  Then entire negotiation is being done with a surprising amount of what given the subject matter?
fucking calmness compromises
calmness
the subject matter can often leated to some very heated situations. so while "compromises
tentative agreement