People are always busy.  They like to be busy because it makes them feel important.  People like to feel important.  You should try to make friends with people.  When you are friends with someone, they look less busy and pay you more attention.  People like it when you're nice to them.  You shouldn't say bad things about people, because it hurts them.  People don't like to be hurt.  You should also help people when you can.  People need help sometimes.  People are very complex.  They are so complex, that they can not even understand everything about themselves.  People like it when you understand them.