Romance is ALWAYS in the "little things": a word, a glance, an acknowledgement, a perception, a helping hand, a kiss, a bed made, laundry done, flowers for no reason, a hand written note, a poem on the refrigerator, a meal prepared, the toilet washed, a kind hand -- patting, a shoulder to cry on, a person to laugh with, a committment like no other, a friend, a child hugged, a dirty diaper changed, warm bodies, wet places, companionhip treasured.