Help children understand and cope with strong feelings by giving them words to use when they are angry. Teach him to request, bargain, negotiate, and apologize. Take questions seriously. Talk to children about what happens and why. Give answers they can understand.
Specific praise helps children understand the true value of their actions.
Provide a comfortable place to be alone. A large cardboard box makes a wonderful hideaway. Take fears seriously. Reassure children that you will make sure that nothing bad will happen to them. Remind them to wash their hands until it becomes a habit.