Even if seniors complain at first, they may come to appreciate another's approach for a change. Other people might be very willing to help but don't want to intrude. Or perhaps they don't realize how much you feel you need help. If you are the primary caregiver, it is part of your job to communicate your needs to other family members and friends who could take over some tasks or to seek out professional caregivers should resources permit. Tips for caregivers on setting limits Setting limits is a skill.
Some people are naturals at it.
Others have to learn. Setting limits early also helps prevent the care recipient from harboring the unrealistic notion that your life is only about caregiving. Assess realistically what you can and cannot do and make every effort to stick to your plan. You must stop this cycle at the outset. Clearly communicate with the care recipient.