Both men and women felt that women portrayed sex more erotically, more passionately, than men. Some men said that when they go see movies like Basic Instinct, that they feel manipulated, and feel that it wasn't that erotic. What's really erotic is the hole in the stocking in The Piano. Many men like working with women. They like their leadership style.
Women are more collaborative.
They are not out to compete with men. I interviewed forty men, both international and American, and they reinforced the perspective I heard from women. I was pleased at how open the men were to being interviewed. I might add, as a result of working on the book, my own appreciation of men has gone even higher. Women cannot gain equality and opportunity without the support of men.