You always get a gray box where ever in the code you place it. So I solved the problem by putting the embedded video it its own window. By doing that I didn't mess up the formatting of the main page with a gray box, and you got to see the movie. I'll show you the code in a moment. Problem Two Size.
Videos are huge.
The video I took of the guy introducing the page pushed a half meg. That's a three minute download over a 56KPs modem. In Internet terms, that's way too long. It ran great through the presentation because it was coming off of my hard drive. But when I tried to run it from the server, it took forever.