It's been difficult for me because I've had to be patient. He gets anxious, unconfident and I have had to basically help him learn to let go. My question is twofold. These are things I feel are necessary for good sex. Shall I marry for love and hope that lust develops, or should I first fall into lust and discover love in the process.
Sexual comfort begins early in the lives of most spontaneous and creative lovers.
To have missed those messages is a handicap. To have avoided the early innocent explorations into the mysterious of our erotic nature is a loss. As the years roll on, the inhibitions become more firmly and deeply implanted. To marry for love is wonderful, but I have told many couples that a long-term relationship requires love, compatible passion, trust, and mutual respect. If any one of these is missing, a gap will be felt.