Look at Michael Jordan. The strength of his game at 25 was driving toward the hoop and executing some amazing maneuvers. It s the same for sex and the middle-aged man, says Klein. Your body changes a great deal throughout the life cycle. Erections and their duration will change, sex will change, but not necessarily for the worse, he reassures.
Sexual fantasy predicts sexual behavior.
Normal, sexually healthy people have fantasies. People fantasize about an enormously wide range of activities and partners and situations, says Klein. But that doesn t mean they would want to do all of those things if they were given the opportunity. The human mind is a wonderful playground. Klein says unless fantasies interrupt daily functioning, they are perfectly normal.