When the big issue comes the parent has to shout so loud the child cannot hear them. This is especially true with teenagers. When the big issue comes she will not hear her parent. It is the same old stuff. She will not pay her parent any attention.
Some parents are natural born naggers.
They lose all effectiveness in parenting. God's primary role for the parent is to encourage their children. If parents sit around and have roast preacher for supper, children will understand the parents view of the church. We wonder why children do not respect the pastor or the church. All they ever hear about the church is what is wrong with the church.