Gay people are not sex fiends. Get real people. Every gay bar I've been in looks like every straight bar I've been in, only decorated better. But there was never sexual attraction. I loved them a lot, but I knew a life together would only be a lie to them, and a farce to me.
Some people think people end up gay because of absent fathers.
This is Philip. We are a happily-partnered bear couple. I call Philip my HusBear. We met in Minneapolis, Minnesota in 1996. We've recently moved to the Castro area of San Francisco, California.