They may fear their physician will be offended but patients should understand that they have a right to a second opinion, and most health care professionals acknowledge that right. Physicians shouldn't be offended if patients request a second opinion. After all, second opinions affirm the first doctor's judgment most of the time, according to Dr. Weisdorf. Patients should also know that doctors frequently consult other doctors. We question our own opinions constantly by talking to each other.
Second opinions are a way of life.
Thus, most physicians are not apt to feel offended if you seek a second opinion, he adds. Typically, you'll want a doctor who has at least as much expertise in treating your kind of cancer as your original physician. To find such a doctor, ask your primary care physician or cancer specialist for a referral. If you feel uncomfortable asking your physician for a referral , seek advice from other professionals on how to talk to your doctor about getting a second opinion. To act on another's behalf, you must have the patient's permission.