But healthy thinkers see strength in these same differences. Most of us marry our opposites, a tendency that holds great potential for creating a richer life. For instance, if a saver marries a spender, the saver can help the spender be more responsible with money. And the spender can help the saver loosen up and get more enjoyment out of life. 6 Practice loving thoughts.
Some people habitually picture their mates in the context of their deficiencies.
But healthy thinkers reflect on things they respect and love about their spouses. A young husband told us that he and his wife set a time every day when each thinks about the other. Spend time practicing loving thoughts of your spouse and thanking God for bringing you together. This is the best way to eliminate the negatives and build the healthy thought patterns that help make marriage a joyful adventure. Click here for reprint information on Marriage Partnership .