What distinguishes an abusive relationship is an ongoing pattern of disproportionate control and coercion. Contrary to popular belief, domestic violence is NOT caused by stress, mental illness, alcohol, or drugs. The only true cause of domestic violence is the abuser s choice to act violently. There are many reasons a person may not be ready or able to leave. We should also ask why an abuser would stay in a relationship with someone they don t respect or value enough to keep them from harm.
Theses are all examples of abusive behavior.
If any of these things are happening to you, call today and talk to someone about it.