Here's an example of this kind of dynamic. The conversations would sometimes turn to how can we check our behavior that is preventing women from taking on responsibility, what kind of internal culture do we have and how does it privilege men and keep women down. Men worrying less about appeasing women and more about ending sexism is what must happen. White radicals also need to think about how we go about forming working relationships with people of color. This is a major distinction - no white savior coming to make it all better, but rather white allies working in solidarity with people of color in a way that respects leadership and builds trust and respect.
White activists finding ways to show solidarity and act as allies with people of color is critical.
The struggle against racism for white people might be thought about in at least several ways. One, white privilege is the flipside of racial oppression and each must be challenged if we are to move towards equality. White radicals need to think about ways of talking about and organizing against white privilege - in the movement and in general white society. White radicals need to think about how organizing against racism is also about freeing our humanity from the grip of the slave society. There are two main ways that white people are generally organized around race in the United States today - guilt and fear.