Couples fight for years over who's preferred sexual positions, themes, and roles will prevail. Everyone's entitled to their sexual preferences. Granted, when sexual practices or habits include pedophilia, rape, incest, or sexual abuse, the picture is different. Civilized people don't believe you're entitled to sexual preferences that come with drastically negative impacts on others. That is, unless you're married and you do it subtly, in which case it seems to be okay.
Spouses greatly pressure each other with their sexual preferences.
But don't take normal marital mayhem between the sheets too personally, however. Some degree of this is the deal. One partner drives the other wacko by constantly expressing their sexual preferences. The other accomplishes the same end by repeatedly hiding theirs. Society's newfound awareness of sexual harassment and abuse helps us see how the high-desire partner of a pair could easily oppress their mate.