Some children try to hide their sadness to protect their parents. Children may long for the loved one, become preoccupied with memories, or may carry an object that reminds them of the deceased. For a while, this can help the child deal with the pain. Anger and acting out Children may become very angry at death, God, or adults in general. Or they may be angry at themselves, and somehow feel responsible for the death.
Some children believe they are responsible for the death.
Some may feel guilty because of a thought or deed. The child needs to talk about these feelings and needs your help to understand that they are not true. The child may learn more slowly than usual due to difficulties in concentrating, memories, sadness, and grief. Physical complaints Common complaints include headaches, stomach aches, and may even include symptoms similar to those of the deceased. Children need rituals.