I am simply stating a fact. There are exceptions of course, but most women are into connecting while men are into independence. Women are into people and relationships while men are into things. Women are into equality while men are into winning and losing. Women are into details while men are into the big picture.
Women are into serving while men are into being in charge.
Most churches earn zeroes in teaching men what women need. Our pastors didn't know because they were men. Our dads and grandfathers never said anything. Therefore we men are totally ignorant as to the ways of a woman, and we offend them terribly without meaning to. They would come as our gift, and I think he would be helped by what we have learned.