It's a good article, but a bit long for this page. Click here to see the full text. No one would love me as I am. My needs are never going to be met if I have to depend on other people.
Sex is the most important sign of love.
Here is the list of questions I used when I was interviewing for a counselor. The Outreach Division of the American Family Association has a list of Christian counselors that might be helpful. An online professional referral service, but so far only covers North America. Select a therapist by state or use their Therapist Finder to help find someone who can help. A Plan for Healing the Soul and the Marriage A site promoting healing for marriages affected by sexual sin and adultery.