The only way to do this is to release your issues and move past them. This will result in balance in your life. You find out the root cause of your issues - then heal them physically and emotionally. If you feel you are worthy of emotional abundance you will heal quickly - not allowing anyone in your life to 'push your buttons' and take away your personal power. You can seek a partner to help you find abundance - but if you rely on that partner to support you totally it will often backfire on you.
Some people seem to be able to generate money into their lives no matter what they do.
If they loose a fortune - they will make it back in a shoort period of time. A friend has told me that they have earned the money with good karmic merit. I am not sure about that - only that karma does have something to do with it. On some level these souls know how to attract it and make it work - legal or not. If it is not legal they will pay a price for it in this lifetime one way or another.