My hair is a mess and my clothes aren't fit for the Goodwill box. And I feel just as bad as I look today. I've got to run now. I don't make nearly as much as a teacher as he does as a lawyer. I couldn't afford to take us both out or pay my own way to all the nice places we go.
Some traditions make sense, given the economic realities.
Chris is aggressive. Chris's initial hostile statement produces resentment and withdrawal. Chris is aggressive. The tone is accusing and blaming. Pat is immediately placed on the defensive and no one wins.