Women bring into marriage everything needed to have a wonderful relationship by God's design. We men bring in very few. This is not man-bashing, and I'm not a traitor to my own sex. I am simply stating a fact. There are exceptions of course, but most women are into connecting while men are into independence.
Women are into people and relationships while men are into things.
Women are into equality while men are into winning and losing. Women are into details while men are into the big picture. Women are into serving while men are into being in charge. Most churches earn zeroes in teaching men what women need. Our pastors didn't know because they were men.