A commode or urinal may be necessary when flexibility and distance to the bathroom are a problem. They may be especially helpful at night. Lack of control over bowel or bladder functions can be embarrassing and older people may try to hide it from caregivers and professionals. Be sensitive to the older person's feelings, and mention this to the doctor. Loss of bowel and bladder control is not a part of normal aging and often can be controlled.
Specialized programs exist to retrain a bladder and bowel function.
Check with your doctor or nurse for a program in your area. Constipation or Irregularity Many elderly become constipated due to medications and inactivity. If your carereceiver is experiencing this problem the doctor or nurse can suggest a stool softener. Avoid constipating foods like cheese, rice, bananas, etc. Be sure your doctor is aware of all the medications being taken.