Not even when I'm a hundred. Pooh thought for a little. Here are some tips for teenagers and also for parents to help young children tell kids as soon as possible.
Some people like to leave letters to their loved ones at the grave site.
There are lots of good resources on the web. Some Do's and Don'ts from a mom who is helping her kids cope with the loss of their father. Raindrop is an online story and explanation of death. Julie's Place is a wonderful site for parents, children and teens with lots of information and sources.