We read in the Gospel of Matthew that Jesus actually makes himself the hungry one, the naked one, the homeless one. And he says that at death we are going to be judged on just what we have done to the hungry, to the naked, to that man who knocked at our gate, to that child who needed us. We have seen that it was Him. He that was dying of loneliness, maybe even in our own family. And because of that, it doesn't matter how small the act is, but it matters how much love the act carries in the giving.
True love hurts.
He loved it so much that He gave His son, Jesus Christ. It was a giving that hurt. For true love is a gift that hurts. And lest we forget that God gives all, we always see among Christians a cross, the sign of His everlasting love. He wants us to love like that.