If three people tell you the same thing, do it. And if you believe in something strongly and can convince others to do it your way, then that's fine. But another way to tell constructive from destructive criticism is to see if the person is offering any ideas. I thought it was implying one thing, but when I got to the section, it was offering another. Perhaps you could retitle the section architecture instead of blueprints .
Specifics are vital to constructive criticism.
You can only make changes to personally please one person, and unless that person is your sole target audience, this can be a waste of time. Don't let your goals get lost in a sea of personal opinions. So next came a number of meetings with people inside and outside of NetObjects. One thing that emerged as a consensus was that the first priority of the site was to educate people about building better sites, and that we didn't want people to think that just because NetObjects was behind it, it was really just a big infomercial for Fusion. People could see the site as a demonstration of Fusion in action.