That's a classic. The majority of clinic attenders are men. Half are married or in steady relationships. You begin to get a picture of what these people's bedrooms are like. But one man's obsession is another's life work.
Some work environments enable people with the syndrome to flourish.
Richard Borcherds, professor of maths at Berkeley in California, was 38 and teaching at Cambridge when he won the Fields medal - the equivalent of the maths Nobel prize. He suspected he might have autism after reading an article about it when he was in his 30s and recognised many of its symptoms in himself. Most maths departments I've been in have at least one person who is clearly weirder than I am. People may need to think like this, to a greater or lesser extent, to be the best computer analysts. That does not necessarily mean that all computer analysts have Asperger.