Then recruit the help of your spouse, partner, friends, children and plan something that will create lasting memories. Whatever you do, honor the unique, wonderful woman you are. O ne thing that a number of women I know have done is to make a memory book. The point is to have close friends, children, parents, people who've been meaningful in your life each write a letter sharing their memories of you and time spent together. Many people include photographs.
Some people get creative and make collages or use interesting papers, stickers, flowers, etc.
It's a wonderful gift and something that you'll return to again and again.