Often a sexual addict does not realize his use of pornography is a sin. He thinks all men do it, and that his friends all do the same thing. This is not true. He is secretive, and his use of pornography is devoid of intimacy and relationship His fantasies are victimizing and his sense of pleasure is always followed by a sense of despair. Many times, the wife recognizes her spouse's addiction and points it out to her husband, only to be rebuked for trying to have too much control in the relationship.
Some people give pornography blanket protection under the cheap defense of censorship.
If this describes your marriage, the next paragraph is for you. First of all, your husband's sexual addiction is not your fault. It is important to be firm and have self-respect when you confront your husband and insist that he do something about his problem. Before you confront him, research sexual addiction and know all the facts. Be able to tell him why his problem is not normal and not acceptable.