Let us examine the way in which we come to know anything about the world. It starts with sensations. Sensations are not things. They do not have reality as things. Their reality is that of an event, an action.
Sensation is an interaction between the subject and the object, a physical phenomenon.
Then the signals resulting from that interaction start their long path through the nervous system and the brain. It is for this purpose and from this angle that the brain processes information from sense organs and forms its representation of the world. Experiments with high energy elementary particles were certainly not included into the goals for which the brain was created by evolution. Thus it should be no surprise that our space-time intuition is found to be a very poor conceptual frame for elementary particles. We must take from our experience only the most fundamental aspects, in an expectation that all further organization of sensations may be radically changed.