Or, it can be more elaborate and planned such as a vacation, volunteer time together, or regular monthly dates. Do not think this is only about quality of time spent. Quantity is significant. The fifth language of love is physical affection. There are some people who are born huggers.
Words are tasty, gifts are sweet, but it is physical touch that tells the story.
This too can be simple as walking hand in hand, a pat on the back or kissing for ten seconds every morning and night. Repeating the same type of physicality will not always work. Creativity is called for. The sixth language of love is listening. Considerate, thoughtful attention is usually rewarded with attention because it seems like there is so little of it in our world.