Children may withdraw into uncustomary behavior patterns. Behaviors may appear non-responsive and be overlooked. Unresolved grief - Unresolved grief could move into deep depression or major character changes to adjust to unresolved demands of grief and trauma. A child may stay sad or angry, be passive or resistant. Shame and guilt - Children do not believe in randomness and may even feel at fault after a disaster.
Shame is one's public exposure of vulnerabilities.
Guilt is private. There is a need to resolve these feelings, regain a sense of control, gain a new sense of independence and feel capable. The effects of trauma in childhood can be found both immediately and after a long period of time. Trauma changes those involved. Knowing what to look for in children can lead caring adults to seek professional assistance.