Women have different feelings when they look at their scar for the first time.
You may look at it very early, even the first time your doctor or nurse comes to change your dressing in the hospital. Breast cancer surgery is not the radically deforming surgery that you may have seen in your grandmother's day. We do skin-sparing incisions, we try to make the incisions low enough that you can wear anything you want, we're not taking muscle out. You don't end up with a concave area where the ribs are showing and the scars run to the collarbone. It's a different era.