They let things happen. They make excuses. It s easy to do that. Easier than taking the risk that goes with making choices. Easier than realizing that they are the cause of most of their problems.
Victims always tell their stories to anyone who ll listen.
They ask for advice and then ignore it. Scarlett is a victim. She s a librarian who took a lot of computer courses to become the library s certified network administrator and Web site developer a few years back. She absolutely loves the computer-related work. She s been at odds with her boss for quite awhile, but can t bring herself to make a job change.