Doubtful feelings are normal, however, it is important for your child to feel comfortable talking to you about the abuse and to feel like you believe him or her. Do not communicate anger toward your child as you arrange for various appointments related to the abuse. Your child may feel like he or she is a burden. Communicate your support and pride in your child for telling about the abuse. Seek therapy for your child from a professional with experience in treating sexually abused children.
Sexual abuse can bring devastating trauma if left unattended.
Do not pressure your child to disclose all of the abuse. Disclosure is a process, not a one-time event. Through therapy and your support your child may disclose more when he or she feels comfortable. Do not pretend that nothing has happened. By ignoring the abuse neither you nor your child will be able to deal with your emotions in a constructive and healthy manner.