That is not the gospel. That is not God's Word. That is the folly of man who seeks for his peace and rest where there is no peace and there is no rest. It is not your boss. It is not your job, your friends, the clothes you have or do not have to wear.
Sin is the ugly reality which is shown in the setting of the manger.
Sin demands satisfaction of God's justice. If you want just the slush of the Christmas story and simply sentimental music, then you have to see that the Scriptures, the gospel of Jesus Christ, are not that. That is the very opposite of the gospel of Jesus Christ. The account must not be adjusted to avoid the issues of your sin and your accountability to God. The setting of His birth cries out man's fall and depravity.