As you talk, think about how you want to spend your time. Most couples can handle the demands of a busy work life, a relationship, and a little housework. They may occasionally get overburdened and stressed out, but they survive. Many couples find that they need to sit down and talk about the differences between their lives before and after parenthood, and to help one another understand that each has probably had to give up a lot of time that they used to take for granted. Ask him for help.
Some fathers get involved in the care of their infants very early.
They feel comfortable holding and soothing their babies and enjoy playing with them. Although some dads naturally take on this active role, it is particularly common for dads whose partners have had a cesarean birth to be more involved in the baby's care over time. Because they have to be so involved during the first days when mom is recovering from major surgery. The dads start feeling necessary and competent and they stay that way. But others may take time to learn how to adjust to their new role.