This is something that no court should have an opportunity to do. Most men have a shocking lack of awareness of the ever-increasing family issues, including divorce, custodial conflict and parental loss. Male ignorance crosses over racial, religious, social and national divides.
Unmarried men live in a world of romance and optimistic expectation.
This state of mind is part of our historical socialization. Married men go about their lives also without thinking about these painful issues. Neither group even recognizes let alone accepts the uncomfortable facts about family crisis and the breakdown of modern marriages. Men fear opening the proverbial Pandora's box threatening their inherited and reinforced systems of belief. Men are living in denial.