Avoid rushing the person with the weapon. Focus on the person, not the weapon. Think about options that will sound good to both sides. Be objective to make sure the outcome is fair. Counselors are people who can help you work through emotional issues.
Some people go to counselors to talk about issues in their families.
Others need to talk with an adult but don't feel comfortable talking with their families. Whatever the problem is, make sure you get the support you need. Counseling is confidential . It is something you can do to help understand your feelings, fears, and experiences. It can be a gift to yourself.