When the patient is ready for calls or visitors, keep them brief. Several short calls or visits are better than one lengthy session that tires the patient. At other times. she may enjoy having the newspaper mail or a book read to her, or hearing about what's happening to family and friends. Don't make the patient feel that she must engage in a lively conversation. She may only have the strength to listen during your visit.
Some patients enjoy receiving physical care such as a foot massage or a back rub.
Ask what the patient wants, and encourage her to be honest about what she needs and would enjoy. Mail is an excellent way to keep the patient in touch with the outside world, and to let him know you care. If you want to do something special, try sending a cassette recording of get well wishes, pictures of family and friends, or a video of family members. Handmade cards and pictures from children also can be fun. Not only did they cheer up the patient, but they brought a smile to the faces of other patients with whom she shared them.