Jamais vu is of course, the opposite of deja vu-the sense that you've never been there before. It's easy when you go to someplace new, or try something new, but it's more difficult when it's retread territory. The trick is to look upon the daily, the mundane, the familiar in a new light every time. Every person that you know can surprise you with who they are, were, will be. Maybe it's just a damn leaf, but you never know.
Trees are clever.
Let yourself be the center of attention. Even if you're not ready. Especially if you're not ready. Don't wait for people to force you into the center of the dance circle, chanting your name, to start freaking and jiggying. People will resent you for invading their precious personal bubbles.