They think success is limited to money, power, and status. As a result, they do not recognize that they themselves are successful. Yet they are confused and uncertain about the meaning of success. They are surprised to discover that success is much more than the popular definition this culture suggests. Wealth and position are only one part of the meaning.
Success is more than a career.
It is a state of mind, an enjoyment of living life in a manner that is satisfactory to the person. So much of this culture emphasizes success as defined by work, so it is important to stop and reflect on this principle for a moment. One thing that has been discovered time and time again through scholarly work is what those who live it, already know in their hearts to be true. Namely, that men and women view work success differently. For example, a questionnaire given to college students recently asked them to define success.