We spend January 1 walking through our lives, room by room, drawing up a list of work to be done, cracks to be patched. Maybe this year, to balance the list, we ought to walk through the rooms of our lives . . ., not looking for flaws, but for potential.
Traditions are the guideposts driven deep into our subconscious minds.
The most powerful ones are those we can't even describe, aren't even aware of. Values are not trendy items that are casually traded in. We are told that people stay in love because of chemistry, or because they remain intrigued with each other, because of many kindnesses, because of luck . . . But part of it has got to be forgiveness and gratefulness. There's a trick to the Graceful Exit.