Some foreshadowed their departure by hinting about an area of dissatisfaction. But most left without notice. In a congregation of eighty, the disappearance of a family of four is anything but quiet. By the time I get wind of it, the decision has been made. Many never say good-bye.
Sudden departures create unfinished business.
When I entered the ministry, I tried to ignore people's exits. Three groups need help when church members suddenly depart. My family When a family drops out, my feelings can run the gamut of emotions. At times, I've been thrown deep into introspection, trying to uncover the real reason. I have been hit so hard by some sudden departures that I have dusted off my resume.