Some people, however, may be limited in their ability to express their choices. In these instances, every effort must be made to ascertain their preferences and choices by people who know them well. Surrogates parents, family members, and guardians will sometimes need to make decisions on people s behalf when it is impossible to determine what they want. The choices that surrogates make in such circumstances should be limited to the range of choices and opportunities available to people without disabilities. People with or without disabilities can make bad choices.
Some people pursue unhealthy life styles or spend their money poorly.
Disability is not a reason for depriving any person from making the same choices other people have the right to make. Family members, friends, and loved ones can and do influence the behavior of others. Choice should never be used to justify neglect, poverty, or an absence of realistic options. People do not choose to go hungry or be homeless. To people who might make bad lifestyle or spending decisions, we should be magnanimous.