Nicholle's steps 1.
Sex is a very important step to take in a relationship.
Before you start talking about protection, make certain sex is what you and your partner want. Practicing safer sex is very important, and should be discussed rationally and with a clear head. Don't wait until you're hot 'n heavy to start talking about protection. Talk with your partner about what sort of things you're comfortable with sexually. Sit down with them and make a list about safer sex options.