Where the giving is a giving because the essence of goodness is in giving and never in taking, then this is not just a marriage that was ordained in heaven, but is a marriage that is heavenly here on earth. Most likely, those who are sharing individuals are on you list of friends. Rarely does one chose for a friend a self serving, demanding and egoistic person. The same is true, and even more so, with ones spouse. No one really wants a spouse who is demanding and egoistic, yet, that is many times the very essence of whom many choose.
T here are two other words that are similar, unite and untie.
Both are spelt using the same letters but with a small difference. They possess opposite meanings. That small letter which at times can become too big that it obscures the person's view and good judgment, can even ruin one's life.