E ventually, you will come to terms with your feelings. You can begin to resolve and accept your horse's death. When you have reached resolution and acceptance, the feelings of anger, denial, guilt, and depression may reappear. If this does occur, the intensity of these feelings will be much less, and with time, these feelings will be replaced with fond memories. Although the signs of grief apply whether the loss is of an animal or a human loved one, grieving is a personal process.
Some people take longer than others to come to terms with denial, anger, guilt, or depression.
If you understand that these are normal reactions, you will be better prepared to cope with your own feelings and to help others face theirs. Family members should be reassured that sorrow and grief are normal, natural responses to death. Well-meaning family and friends may not realize how important your horse was to you or the intensity of your grief. Comments they make may seem cruel and uncaring. Being honest with yourself and others about how you feel is best.