In fact, therapists say the family plays a key role in the development of sexual compulsion. Many sex addicts report some form of abuse or neglect as children and frequently see themselves as diminished or damaged in the process. Their parents, often sex addicts themselves, may attempt to compensate by raising their children with inflexible attitudes about sexuality. The cycle can repeat itself into adulthood. Sexual compulsion is often accompanied by complex, competing feelings of arousal and shame, excitation and embarrassment.
Stress also plays a part in fueling compulsive sexual behavior.
Demands on the job and in the home can trigger sexual compulsion by feeding the addict's need for withdrawal and fantasy. The person continues to engage in sexual activity despite negative consequences and a sincere desire to stop. A sex addict can feel as powerless as an alcoholic or drug addict over his or her addiction. The psychological fallout is equally crippling. Addicts may suffer other behavioral problems, particularly chemical dependency and eating disorders.