Kind words are worth much and cost little. Tit for tat is fair play. Only the person who is willing to give up his or her monopoly on truth can ever profit from the truths that others hold. Avoid quarrelsome people as they will only make your life miserable. A person who will not flee will make others flee.
Soft words ensure harmony.
One gift for another makes good friends. The best way of handling conflicts is to avoid them. Put your foot down where you mean to stand. Gentleness will triumph over anger. Getting part of what you want is better than not getting anything at all.