Don t feel sorry for children who bully because they are sad on the inside . New research shows that they enjoy the power of bullying and making other people suffer. Far from regretting their acts, they often rationalize them by saying the victims provoked them in some way. Children go along to get along. Victims of bullies are often avoided and rarely defended by their classmates because they don t want to chance becoming the bully s next victim.
Victims keep mum.
Children who are bullied usually suffer in silence because they feel that nothing can be done to help them. Some become isolated and depressed, and may even resort to violence against themselves or others. Schools are aware of bullying and are always looking for ways to reduce or eliminate it. There are ways for parents to help as well. Every child should be taught how to respond to malicious comments.