This person may have vast experience with operating the farm and family expenses, but in bad times, finds it difficult to know what to do, or which way to turn. But, feeling backed against the wall, he may begin to resent the lack of support or understanding by other family members. Thus, understanding individual issues and perceptions of the same situations is extremely important. In short, the lack of communication can lead to increased stress, strained relationships, and problems. Coping Through Communication First, recognize individual communication styles and skills.
Some people process information internally.
Once they have a clear understanding of an issue, they can share their thoughts with others. Others process issues aloud, and talk through problems to generate solutions. Understanding individual communication styles may help family members to use different communication strategies. Just as important to family functioning, are the issues of when, what, and how to communicate, and with whom. This last question is very important.