If you want to practice witchcraft, please stick to reliable sources and don't believe everything you hear or read. I would like a spell that could let me know where my soul mate was or if he will come to me. As I understand it, your soul mate is a lover, possibly spouse, from a prior life. Personally, I would look for the right person for you in this incarnation, and maybe that person is and maybe not. Look towards the future for the goddess would have us grow and not stagnate.
Spells are powerful and dangerous things.
If you still desire such, I shall see if I can find such, but my advise, is to live this life and enjoy all that the goddess has given you. A Witchcraft is the same regardless of gender. We worship the Goddess and her Consort, giving each their due. I must caution you however, this is not the easiest of paths to follow. You will be challenged and tested.