Think of it as getting ready for a party. When throwing a party, we women go to great lengths. We remember the tiniest details. Not only do we sweep, scrub and decorate the house, we make sure we look and feel fabulous ourselves. Since sex is one of life's keenest pleasures, a little extra care in planning will heighten our anticipation and enhance our experience.
Some couples add ambiance with candles and sparking nectars.
Others have fun with scavenger hunts leading up to the bedroom. Experiment with ways to spice things up. Be daring, while ensuring both of you still enjoy yourselves. Finally, laughter is truly the best medicine. Learn to laugh at yourself, even in the bedroom.