This is troublesome to Catholics because we believe that God created the world and gave us life for a purpose, a purpose that has real meaning and real value. Not only that, but God became one of us and entered into our world in order to join us into His purposes and His plans. For Catholics, the world is definitely NOT separate and apart from God. God's only begotten Son became incarnate of the Blessed Virgin Mary, thus bonding God and Man together. The world for us is anything BUT secular.
Secularists are radical individualists.
They decide and choose for themselves. No outside agencies can impose values on the secularist. Catholics, on the other hand, find themselves by belonging to the People of God, finding their identity along with the meaning and purpose of their lives in belonging to the family of Jesus Christ. I bring all of this up here because in today's Gospel account we find Jesus at a wedding. His presence blesses the meaning and purpose of marriage.