They should remember that you will not actually be in the operating room the entire time.
Time is spent before and after the procedure getting patients and equipment ready.
Extra time and effort is taken to ensure things run smoothly. If the operation is taking longer than expected, someone will try to contact your family. Remember, however, that we are concentrating on the surgery and cannot be distracted. A long operation does not mean that something is wrong. Your family's involvement is very important and is included in all aspects of your care.