Feelings of jealousy, anger, sadness, and fear may be so intense that they strongly influence interactions between divorced parents when they relate to each other about their children. If he does I will beat him to a pulp. For the sake of the children, however, it is important not to let these intense feelings be seen by them. This can be painful, for it demonstrates that both of you will not only survive your divorce but must build a new life without each other. Perhaps this is something you really do not want.
Some people remain bitterly attached to their former spouse years after the divorce.
I just can't help how I feel. If you find this happening to you, consider talking with a professional counselor. As you master letting go you will discover that who your former spouse dates and what they do is no longer as important to you. This website contains legal information, and not legal advice. Its content refers only to the law of the State of Illinois.