What is more important is how well a man can control his arousal and his physical response to it. Men who have little or no control are said to have a problem with premature ejaculation. However, many men who do not have the disorder may want more control and to last longer. This desire for Staying Power can be helped by what we have learned from the more severe problems of premature ejaculators. There are a lot of things which affect Staying Power.
Sexual inexperience is a common cause.
Young guys tend to come quickly, but they improve as they gain more experience and are better able to monitor signs of an impending orgasm. Another common problem is when the woman wants to go on for longer, but the man wants a quickie. The woman is not too thrilled and, if the couple communicates poorly, neither may be aware of the mismatch in their wants. Anxiety and other emotions arising from problems in one's relationship are other sources of problems with Staying Power. Take Frank and Jane.