3 ways to get on with single life Archived files for Three Ways to Get on With Single Life by Harlan Jacobsen There are three ways to adjust to becoming single again. The traditional method of adjusting to divorce or the death of a relationship is to take two or three years to get back to a normal, well- adjusted happy life. Time is what our lives are made up of.
Time is our most valuable asset.
Method number two is to take brute force and grab yourself by the seat of the pants and literally make yourself do what you need to do but don't want to do. This takes a great deal of self-discipline, which most don't have, and results in extreme stress, strain and anxiety. You will be uptight all the way. It works and gets easier as you go, but takes its toll in physical maladies and illnesses from being under the stress of change. It uses up enormous energy and may cause an overall drop in your job efficiency and output and other effects.