Bullying is often dismissed as part of growing up, but it's actually an early form of aggressive, violent behavior. This type of bully gets his or her power discreetly through cunning, manipulation and deception. The Victim Victims often are singled out because of their psychological traits rather than their physical traits. They frequently have low self-esteem, are insecure, lack social skills, do not pick up on social cues, cry or become emotionally distraught easily and are unable to defend or stand up for themselves.
Some children actually provoke their own victimization.
Such a child might tease the bully, make himself a target and not know when to stop. Then the victim is not able to effectively defend himself when the balance of power shifts to the bully. Children who are not bullied tend to have better social and conflict management skills. Suggest compromises and alternative solutions to problems. Tend to be more aware of people's feeling.