Clarity happens when the subject is brought to the light of day. As long as we continue to honor each other it makes no difference what religion we are. If we stand united as Pagans we will present a very powerful force. If we can be convinced to fight within our ranks we can be defeated because we are too busy fighting ourselves. My personal opinion is that it makes no difference what path we take to Spirit as long as we go.
Traditions are merely different flavors of a marvelous feast.
Taste everything on the smorgasbord and choose what suits you best. No one way is perfect for all of us. Wiccans in general are still unable to honestly establish genuine moral systems so long as we insist that all things are true valid and real. We cannot expect to free ourselves of the bitter and nasty elements of Witch Wars. This is not to suggest that Lady X is always right or that Lord Y is always wrong.