While it's not necessarily fair that the media feeds us images of people that are more attractive than the real thing, that's what we ask for, and that's what we get. We pay for it with more than money. I don't know. Maybe it's just their style. They're doing what they have to do to succeed in an industry that exists only through the good graces of the general public.
Some people take drug tests to keep their jobs.
Some wear suits and ties. Female musicians try not to be intimidating. It's no different. Keep telling yourself that, and everything will be just fine.