If you use words such as penis, vulva and rectum as you would words such as eye, ear and nose, you will be more comfortable using these words in conversations when your child is older. Characteristics of sexual development Toddlers have more curiosity about their own bodies than do infants. Masturbation increases, especially when your toddler is tired or going to sleep. They also have an increased awareness of being a boy or a girl. Toilet training is an important landmark for your toddler.
Toddlers associate their genitals with what happens when they have bowel movements or urinate.
Praise and reinforce your toddler during toilet training. Promote your child's self-esteem and healthy sexual attitudes by accepting their questions and explorations. Parents will respond differently as their children's awareness of sexuality grows. Many parents wonder how they should respond to their young child's genital play. Although genital play and masturbation are normal and universal in young children, parents' responses may vary.