For example, a lifelong company accountant could become an accounting consultant, help a nonprofit organization with its bookkeeping or study world history at a community college or university. A carpenter could build playground equipment for a child care center, build furniture to sell at craft fairs or build a portfolio of original poetry. For people in the second half of life, a strong support network of family and friends is important, says Newhouse. Spending time with those who are significant to you, including grandchildren, will keep that network strong and contribute to your quality of life. Sibling relationships can be especially significant, says Newhouse.
Sisters are frequently important supports for one another in later life.
In fact, gerontology research indicates that female-female familial relationships are strong across the lifespan. Approximately 75 percent of those retiring own homes, she says, and for most, the longer they can remain in their homes the happier they will be. It doesn't happen to everyone, although it is more likely at 75 or 85 than at 65. The assistance of family and friends can help mitigate the effects of frailty if it occurs. If the informal support system breaks down and long term care must be considered, it doesn't have to be traumatic if you have matched your needs and resources with appropriate living arrangements.