The same is true of marriage. A marriage can easily rust from distrust. If any woman has to rip a layer of skin from her face on a regular basis to keep her spouse, he is not worth having. Don't look for happiness in marriage. Take happiness into marriage.
Variety is a spice of life, but it is better to have one spicy wife.
Marriage is not the cause of divorce. It is forgetting what marriage means that causes divorce. Don't look for 'a like-minded' mate. A happily incompatible' mate is a much better choice.