Neither do I have in mind the Archie Bunker-type loudmouth who slouches in his chair, barks out orders, and thinks the world gravitates around him. This type of fellow lives in a fantasy world, only imagining he s running the show. In actuality, he s a frightened child inside a man s body, the object of sarcastic ridicule among friends and family alike. True manhood calls for discipline of character, strong determination to set a course of action, and courage to stay at a task. Authentic men aren t afraid to show affection, release their feelings, hug their children, cry when they re sad, admit it when they re wrong, and ask for help when they need it.
Vulnerability fits beautifully into mature manhood.
So does integrity. I am concerned about a vanishing masculinity that was once in abundance. They aren t afraid to take the lead, to stand tall and firm in their principles even when the going gets rough. Such qualities not only inspire the respect of women, they engender healthy admiration among younger men and boys who hunger for heroes. Children especially like having dads like that.