It's mighty easy. She looked at me, pupils dilated, hungry for facts. They came of age around ACT UP, queer literary theory and Madonna. A lot of their early girlfriends later turned out to be lesbians who are now their best friend. Cheryl was starting to look dazed, but I was on a roll.
Straight fairies are wicked because they understand irony.
SNAGs tend towards Buddhism and Eastern stuff, but Straight Fairies are either secular or pagan. SNAGs may be a necessary step in the disintegration of macho consciousness, but they're so uncomfortable with their masculinity that they're obsessed with it. The straight fairies, in contrast, are more interested in a good gossip session than in worshipping the sacred phallus or moaning about their fathers. They mix up feminine and masculine qualities in a more fluid, irreverent way. But such statements only attest to the fact that 'straight males' still describes a veritable prison of personality.