After all the effort, though, she is so, so beautiful, and the effort makes her more so. Please remember that YOU are the only one who can shop and glue for you, and you are more precious and fragile than any ceramic doll. You are loved, and none of us want you to sit broken in some lonely, uncomfortable place, or move from place to place without the right glue in your suitcase. As you have said before, it's not easy for you. You have the difficult job of doing, not waiting.
Treatment is available.
Take care of yourself, please. We want to support and encourage you. . I am writing to give to hope to BPD's, MPD's and the significant others. She has had extensive therapy since then and been fortunate enough to have three good counselors who really helped us all. There has been great improvement in the past 20 months and after 8 years I am the most hopeful I have ever been.