If we seek the pleasures of love, passion should be occasional, and common sense continual. We can't expect a continuos stream of molten passion to keep our love relationships burning. But we can hope for the occasional eruption to keep the romance alive. In QueenDom's survey on passion, we asked what tricks our visitors use to spice things up on those special occasions. This could have to do with the fact that women tend to focus on everybody and everything outside of themselves.
Women have more trouble than men in putting top priority on the self.
So these spicy sessions make women the center of attention and function as a little lavish vacation. Just varying your love making routine in simple ways is enough to excite you and your partner into passionate lovemaking. In fact, simple variations on a familiar theme seems to be the simplest and most effective ways to spice it up. Donning lingerie to look and feel sexy is a straightforward way to light a fire under your love life. If you aren't used to the idea of sexy bed wear, it doesn't take long to get in the groove.