But, you should still involve your toddler in many of the preparations. For example, if you are unpacking baby clothing from storage, you could let your toddler help you sort and wash them. Dr. McCoy also suggests arranging an area for you toddler to set up a crib and other things for his baby doll. They can mimic preparations going on around the home. Talking and imitating help the toddler feel involved and less frightened of the unknown.
Toddlers are smart creatures.
They know what you are saying, and they know what's going on. Spend a lot of time with your toddler and show him what an important family member he is. Other people who can help prepare your toddler are your child s pediatrician and your pregnancy health care giver. Explain to your toddler that his doctor is going to help keep the new baby healthy too. Consider taking your toddler to your OB appointments and let him listen to the heartbeat and see any ultrasound images.