Most males are assaulted as children. Young heterosexual men have reported being coerced or forced into have intercourse with women. It's not unusual for gay men to be assaulted on dates. Also, hate violence against gays is on the rise. Like assaults against women, this is a crime of power and violence.
Women lie about rape as an act of revenge or guilt.
FBI statistics support this as well. False claims of auto theft are reported more frequently than those of rape. Self-defense just isn't ladylike. It may not be ladylike , but it is womanlike . Passive behavior only became a measure of how women should behave in the last few centuries.