They can get their doctors to accuse you of anything, and you can't stop them. And you can't get any more information to or from your child. You can't tell your children you love them. They will cancel your visitation, then tell your children that you cancelled because you don't love them. Once the court has taken custody of your children, it is illegal to take them and run.
Some parents do anyway, at their own peril.
Before the state gets your children, consider what price you are willing to pay to keep them in your possession, and get your life in order now . Because once they're gone, they're gone. But they told me I couldn't get my children back unless I made my husband move out. Better choose between your husband and your children, Sophie. No, it's not.