Leave the cha-cha pumps at home. If a guy keeps staring at you, don't get excited. He's not flirting, he's considering homicide. Don't mock the music, clothes, or dancers until you are at a safe distance. Don't look too good or dance too well.
Straight men are violent when intimidated.
Don't look too good or dance too well. Straight women are clueless and will hit on you. Don't do anything you would naturally do.