Sexual abstinence, like contraception, is only effective when it is used correctly and consistently. To be sexually abstinent is a decision that has to be made by each individual. Sexual abstinence cannot effectively be imposed on others. To have sexual intercourse or to be sexually abstinent is a decision that each individual makes repeatedly throughout life. In other words, to have sexual intercourse or to be sexually abstinent is not a permanent, one-time decision.
Sexual abstinence requires planning, commitment, and skill in being assertive.
Sexual abstinence is an option that can be used at any time. Sometimes, a person who intends to abstain from sexual intercourse is forced or pressured into unwanted sexual activity.