By the Reverend Charles Bidwell, Ph. When someone close to you dies, you stop what you are doing and for a moment it seems as though the whole world stops. You are entering grief and mourning. Grieving has many aspects.
Some people experience widely different feelings.
Some feel anger at being left behind or not having a chance to say goodbye. Some feel numb and can't cry with others. Some feel as though if they start to cry they may never stop. Please be gentle on yourself and grieve in whatever way comes naturally to you. Don't let anyone tell you how you should be grieving.