But the church really is for everyone. People in the church do want to be welcoming and helpful, even though some of us are not so good at showing it. Baptisms, Weddings and Funerals. Most churches put details on their notice boards telling you what number to ring or where to call if you want to arrange a baptism, wedding or funeral. It is also about joining the church on the Christian journey, so most churches will have some kind of preparation to help parents and godparents to make the promises required in the service.
Weddings also require preparation.
You need to find out which parish you live in and they will tell you what else you will have to do. The Church needs to be booked, the legal matters dealt with, fees paid and other preparations made. Funerals are often arranged through the Funeral Director but clergy welcome approaches from families directly. It often feels much better if you already know the person who will be taking the service. A service in church can often give more time and space, before going on to the Crematorium or cemetery.