Sometimes these parents do not understand how to get to know their child on a deep level. Those who follow a Dr. Oracle risk the danger of studying the method rather than the child and are thus helpless in those areas not addressed by the method. Sometimes these parents go so far in their attempt to follow a method that they create problems where none exist. I don't know what to do. Helpless parents may have a wrong perspective about the nature of children in general.
Some parents believe that their children are innately good.
Then, in the face of the child's misbehavior and sin, the parents become shocked, disappointed, and helpless. Other parents, however, so stress the depravity of their children that they feel helpless to stop any misbehavior at all. Over-emphasizing either the good or evil nature of children can result in unrealistic expectations. To may helpless parents, this sounds like an angry, even hateful, outburst. You ought to put him in preschool.