Winners have a sense of humor. I've worked with some first-class mopes who drag everyone down just by their hangdog faces. Think of the people you work with that you really enjoy. Chances are they're the ones that keep you laughing. It's a rare gift.
Winners have a life.
Rarely do winners work 20 hours per day. People who work those hours are usually martyrs or very poor time managers. As I've discussed in past articles, if you keep your bedroom slippers in the office, chances are you're not a winner. Obviously, we all have periods of work where we're cranking it out around the clock, and I love that adrenaline rush as much as anyone, but not every day. Winners motivate others.