Regardless of race, ethnicity, national orgin, gender, sexual orientation, religion, age, and ability, you will be treated and respected as a human being. Ignorance, bigotry, and harassment will not be tolerated. I am not sexually aroused and would rather just not do anything but kiss. I have performed oral sex with guys in the past but have never had sexual intercourse. I have no desire of intimacy.
Sexual desire ranges tremendously among individuals.
Desire also changes throughout your lifetime. Your desire to simply kiss your partners may be a function of your age, the person you are with, and what you are comfortable with. If, in the next few years, you feel your lack of desire to be sexual with your partners is affecting your ability to have important relationships, then you might think about talking to someone about it. The Kinsey Sexual Health Clinic at IU would be a place to start. In the meantime, however, listen to what your body is telling you.