If a woman says no, she means no. Stay in touch with your feelings, believe in your right to express them, and learn how to do so assertively. Beware of situations in which you don't feel relaxed and in control. Trust your instincts. Anyone who uses force to have sex is committing the crime called rape.
Sexual assaults can happen to anyone regardless of age, gender, or status.
People have been sexually assaulted by friends, family, neighbors, dates, acquaintances, coworkers, service people and others. The rapist or sexual assailant is known and trusted by the victim. Society has conditioned men and women to send strong nonverbal messages about their sexuality. Often these unspoken and unintentional messages contradict words and contribute to sexual assault. You need to be conscious of your voice, gestures, and eye contact and clear in your verbal communications.