It is difficult to talk about life and death matters, and absorb everything that is said. Accordingly, patients may not know what to say or ask at appointment time. Feeling overwhelmed by this information is common and understandable. Talking to a social worker is one way to help relieve these feelings, and have someone help you prioritize your concerns. The doctor s style of communication can sometimes put you off.
Some doctors talk in language that is complex and technical.
They may appear rushed or insensitive to your concerns. As in any relationship, the doctor cannot read your mind about what you are feeling or thinking. Your part of the bargain is to try your best to communicate your needs. If you do communicate them clearly and the doctor still does not adapt his or her style, you may want to find another doctor. This will help you describe in detail what you are experiencing, and help you make the most of the time you have with the doctor, as it is often difficult to remember things at the time of the appointment.