Talk to your children about how you expect them to behave and treat others in school. Read, and then read some more. Set reading goals based on age and ability, such as reading one book a week. While you're reading, ask your local librarian for children's stories that stress the importance of education and learning. Watch for warning signs of stress from too many expectations.
Stressed children cry easily, tire quickly, and dawdle.
Talk to the teacher about ways to turn down the heat. You can also get a copy from county offices of the U of M Extension Service. Ask for number 07585. The University of Minnesota Extension Service is an equal opportunity educator and employer.