These tenets are the basis of the programs understanding of domestic violence. The safety of the victim is primary. Violence is an intentional act. Battering is the systematic use of physical, force, threats and emotional abuse to maintain dominance and control in relationships with wives or partner, our society. The learned use of violence can be unlearned.
Substance abuse is a problem separate from domestic violence and requires specialized treatment.
Mediation and couples counseling can be dangerous for women. Treatment providers must not communicate in ways that perpetuate attitudes of sexism, victim-blaming, racism, classism, ageism, or homophobia. Treatment providers must immediately notify the victim, the victim's advocate or the police if the victim is at risk. Treatment providers must immediately report additional violence or threats of violence perpetrated by any group participant involved in court ordered treatment to the appropriate authorities. Treatment providers - must immediately report suspected incidents of child abuse or elderly abuse to the appropriate state agency.