If the child has not yet been born when the process begins, the adoptive parents generally must provide for the costs of adoption and all reasonable pregnancy-related medical expenses and living expenses of the birth mother. This can amount to several thousand dollars. In addition, some states may help you out financially even if the child does not have special needs. An attorney or agency in your state will know if this kind of financial assistance is available. Whether or not you must be married to adopt a child will depend upon the law in your state.
Some states permit adoption by married couples only.
States have different rules regarding adoption by homosexuals or same sex couples. The law in this area of adoption is developing, so it is important to consult a family law attorney knowledgeable about family law in your state. When deciding whether to recommend allowing you to adopt a child, the agency will consider everything that is in the best interests of the child - including the marital status, financial condition, sexual orientation, age, physical, mental and emotional health, religion, and race of the adoptive parents. It is a good idea to get legal advice as to what agencies and courts in your state take into account. Inc. All rights reserved.