This is especially true for women who are married to the eldest son in a family. Women are not supposed to do strenuous work or lift heavy objects, and someone close to her is obligated to help her fulfill all of her cravings. It is also recommended that women should not attend funerals or wakes during pregnancy. Pregnant women should try to keep their emotions stable, and it is best to avoid situations that might evoke a strong emotional response. No formal childbirth classes are provided, so most women learn about pregnancy and delivery from their mothers.
Women also rely heavily on their obstetrician for information.
It is very important to listen and follow your mother's advice. Most women give birth in a hospital. In the past the birth was attended by the obstetrician and a nurse, but now a woman is allowed to choose someone to stay with her during labor and delivery. Traditionally, the birth of a child was considered a matter only for women to be involved in, but now more and more fathers are present at the birth of their children. Right after the child is born, religious tradition states that a man must whisper an athan into the ear of the newborn.