Be a sincere and reliable narrator. Trust is generated through the exposure of our own betrayals, uncertainties, and self-mistrust. The enemy is self-righteousness. Examine own prejudices . Egotistical , but walking the fine line between being irritating and pleasurable Mischievous impudence .
Style Be flexible .
The style is open to digression and promiscuous meandering. But the supposed formlessness is more a strategy to disarm the reader with the appearance of unstudied spontaneity than a reality of composition. Attempt to surround the subject , the mood, the problematic irritation by coming at it from all angles, wheeling and diving. Start one subject, set up a countertheme, eventually braid the two Elaborate . Draw out a point through example, list, simile, small variation, hyperbolic exaggeration, whatever.