We will talk more about that in the next chapter. If you have no family, it is especially true that the road appears less lonely when shared with a few close friends. You might lose one or two. Some people will find it too difficult to talk with you or to be around you, and they will slip away. On the other hand, you may discover hidden strengths and compassion in the least likely of companions.
Some people make themselves scarce if cancer is mentioned.
But, cancer patients soon learn who their trusted friends are. If it isn't revealed, family and friends are robbed of the opportunity to share the feelings and anxieties that arise from having the disease. At most, life is very short for everyone. Because there are no guarantees, we should make the most of each day. On a practical level, trying to hide the diagnosis is usually fruitless.