Nedarim 20a-b provides the most extensive statement about permitted sexual practices within a marriage. Because it is focused on what a MAN may do, it gives the impression that women have no say when it comes to sexual matters. As we will see in later selections , that is not the case. However, the intention of this selection is to show a remarkable openness on the part of some of our sages. Our sages continue.
Some scholars believe that it means sexual intercourse with the woman above the man.
Others maintain that it refers to anal intercourse. At the same time we learn about certain interesting aspects of the sexual relationship between Imma Shalom and her husband, Rabbi Eliezer. Both were physical pleasures. Because they are as distinguished as they. A woman once came before Rav and complained.