It probably begins with a touch, a glance, whatever signal you and your partner exchange as the evening progresses that says, Let's. But anticipation is one of the most delicious parts of any sexual encounter. You avidly turn the pages or urge time to pass as you wait for the spark to become a flame. It can be like that for you and your partner.
Spontaneity is wonderful.
Coming home from work, dragging your partner into the bedroom, and ripping all of your clothes off can be wonderful. Deciding in the middle of a movie that you need to be home, now, is deliciously erotic. But planning a night of making love and letting your partner in on the plan can be just as arousing. Let's begin this, our first Saturday night together, with the idea that tonight's the night. Begin at the very start of the day.