Making choices about alcohol, sex, etc. Remind students to take advantage of many activities that don't include alcohol. Discuss setting sexual boundaries for self and partner and how to communicate them. An occasional card, letter, e-mail message or call can be helpful. Stress the positive and try not to worry them with home matters that are out of their control.
Some students require longer adjustment time than others.
Be aware that adjustment is inevitable and don't overreact to initial problems expressed by your student. Be supportive and encouraging. Stress that all new situations require adjustment time. For those of you who have sent other children to college, remember that this may not be a new experience for you, but it is for you student. Listen to their prospective and acknowledge it.