Bomis doesn't personally care who you are. That's your business. If you are a member, we email you a newsletter. If you are not a member, we don't know or even give a fuck in any respect who you are. That's your business.
Spammers are the scum of the earth.
Bomis will never give away your email address. Therefore, it is not possible for anyone to steal your personal information. If you want to make your email address available on your ring, you can do that. We personally don't care. That's your business.