Child care providers need to be positive and supportive. Brainstorm about solutions to various situations. Ask the child for guidance, try different solutions, consult with other people, and keep looking at ways to make things even more accessible in your program. Remember that activities change, children change, and we're never done being accessible. Parents may have figured out a strategy that allows their child to accomplish a task.
Therapists often have a lot of ideas for simple adaptations and modifications.
Consider the child's parents, who might be struggling, too. Parents may have fears about their child being accepted. If a teacher will just take a few minutes and watch what he can do, she'll see that he can do everything. Sometimes he has to figure out how to do it, but gee just give him a chance. They let Carrie try everything that other children are doing.