I got kicked out a cafe for not being up to its coolness standards. On one hand, I got kicked out. They value looking and acting a certain way. They are perfectly justified in excluding me from their social group. I examine the idea of society.
Society seems to be the idea that groups of people who have the same values clump together.
Right now, most humans have a few values in common. Things like staying alive and being healthy. As you look at smaller and smaller groups, the values they share get more and more specific. Much conflict is caused by people trying to get everyone else to share their values. None of these things has any universal right to exist.