Follow God's way. You should not try to change your spouse or your marital status. Rather, you should work at changing yourself. The first step is trusting in Jesus Christ. The third pillar is that of Unconditional Love .
Unconditional love is basically acceptance.
I accept you just as you are, warts and all. Couples who accept one another are encouraging and honest with each other. They do not publicly criticize or embarrass each other, or even subtly add sarcasm to their relationship. They reinforce their love to one another, demonstrating constant approval and affection toward each other. You have your whole life ahead of you to make a difference in yourself and bless your family, with a changed heart.