It is like everyone thinks that a man likes to hear that the main part of his sexuality is small and insignificant. It would be like telling a woman that her breasts are so small that a child would have to nurse for weeks just to ease the hunger pains. If that was ever said to a woman she would be highly offended and the person who said it, lets say that it was a man, would be in a lot of trouble. Somewhere our society has set this double standard that men can only sexually harass and not be harassed. This is not the case.
Women use the sexual harassment charge as a way to get even with men.
There is an example of this in the movie Disclosure . And there is also a real life example in Fort Lupton, Colorado. In this case there is a man who told a woman that he wouldn t by her a car and shortly after that she filed a charge of sexual harassment. The man gave the woman a hug while she was standing on the top step of the bus this resulted in his head in her breasts. He was uncomfortable with where his head was and he apologized to the woman.