Your spirit is being molded. Temperaments change, and you learn to maintain your own identity. Regardless of what your emotions go through, you will feel strongly optimistic at times because of being acutely abosorbed in emotion. Women of water envelop you into a world of the unknown -trust,faith, and deep spiritual love. The resolution comes when you turn this love inward and learn to love yourself.
Water dissolves the solid boundaries in life.
If you love a water woman, you will continually be challenged to dissolve your inner barrier to love. Sometimes this may be confusing as you also lose your sense of a well-defined identity. Just remember that when you love a water woman, you may lose your cherished beliefs of a personal identity, but you may also create a greater identity, based on who you really are.