Making some definite decisions will eliminate that tension. God's way is always best. If the limits are not clearly drawn at your house, it's time to establish them. But when you do, there are a few things to keep in mind. First of all, keep the rules to a minimum and make them reasonable.
Some parents make rules just for the sake of making rules.
They need to learn who the boss is around here. It is usually found in a rather insecure parent who needs to boost his own ego. The Apostle John has already taught us that loving God means keeping his commands. The Christian life is not a tedious chore. It is not designed to weigh us down and discourage us with unnecessary regulations.