It is a rare day that parents don't teach their children. And children ask many questions that allow parents an opportunity to explain the ways of the world. This excerpt is from How To Say It to Your Kids by Dr. Paul Coleman. But teaching can degrade into lectures or nagging, and the message may get lost.
Some parents feel comfortable teaching but uncomfortable showing much affection.
Those same parents often get uneasy when their child is very emotional. They try to overcome their uneasiness by trying to get their child to understand the logic of the situation. They get impatient when logic doesn't help their child. Like each of the six styles, teaching has its benefits and its limitations. Of course, tone of voice is key.