I know that women who know me enjoy my company, and guys who see that absolutely hate me for it. It sounded to me like she was simply asking a question about the way men, in general, are perceived. I agree that real men aren't tough dudes totally devoid of emotion. All men aren't anything. You can't put every man into any one category.
Some men are gay and total sweethearts.
Some straight men are gay men and don't know it and are too sweet or too angry. Some straight men are total assholes and the pun should be intended. Don't judge a book by its cover or a man by his dick. HE SAID Snowblowing is what you can expect to do a lot of if you live in the Chicagoland area. Seriously, though, snowblowing refers to the act of oral sex with a twist.