Each of us needs the influence of Godly friendships. Parents, your children need your faithfulness to your church family so that some Godly choices in friendship can be provided for them as they grow up. The kind of vocational choice we make influences our lives. Everyone here has unique gifts and a calling which relates to your vocation. Some people have gifts of helps and service.
Some people have gifts of intellect.
Some people have gifts of hand skills. Some people have heart gifts which motivate them into service professions. Often one's calling from God will be defined by your gifts. The enemy does not want you to discover God's purpose for your life. He wants you to make the easy choices, or the lazy choices, or the quick buck choices, or the little effort choices.