Since you are of two different sexes, you have different outlooks and ways of communicating. First you can discover what your most painful wounds are. Feeling Powerful To negotiate love effectively, you have to see yourself as a powerful person. In any relationship, you are as powerful as you perceive you are. Each sex has special, different kinds of power within.
Women have emotional, sexual and maternal powers.
Men have the powers of valuing and recognition, affection and caring, sexual acceptance, occupational support, and fathering. As you get to know yourself, you get more in touch with your inner power, which ultimately comes from God's. When negotiating love, you have to realize you are as powerful as your partner. You each bring to your relationship the unique power of your own sex. Both you and your partner have feelings and needs that are valuable and worthy of being honored.