Reformers also seek changes in federal pension and social security laws to provide more benefits for second wives. We now have federal laws prohibiting the recognition of same sex marriage. Traditionally, states recognize marriages, not the federal government. In buttressing so-called family values, Uncle Sam tramples on more than 200 years of constitutional law. Graduates often have a better understanding of their children's feelings and greater empathy for one another.
Women sympathize with male classmates describing the heartbreak of being a noncustodial parent.
After attending co-ed classes, men comprehend the anxiety of mothers juggling work, child care, and a reduced household budget. The classroom is neutral and instructional, not judgmental and threatening. If classes are not offered, check out books and videotapes at your local public library or bookstore. A recent survey of children's books on divorce at the New England Mobile Book Fair in Newton, Massachusetts came up with thirty book titles ranging from how to tell children about divorce to step parenting issues. Instructions and blank forms are also included, along with sample forms from a made-up case.