Sexual misconduct is defined as any unwanted act that is intended in a sexual manner. Most rapes and sexual assaults are committed by someone known to the survivor. This might be someone you are dating, a friend, classmate, co-worker, instructor, relative, or casual acquaintance. It may occur between people who have previously had consensual sexual relations. Understanding the ways in which these factors impact on intimate relationships can decrease the likelihood of becoming involved in an assault.
Some helpful suggestions follow.
Reducing The Risk Of Being An Aggressor Avoid excessive use of alcohol and other drugs. Alcohol and other drugs interfere with clear thinking, effective communication, and your ability to respond in your own best interest. Your substance use does not diminish your responsibility for your behavior or conduct. Do not assume that because a person flirts or dresses in a manner you consider sexy that he or she wants to engage in sexual relations. Do not assume that previous permission for sexual contact means a person is under any obligation to continue a sexual relationship with you.