A good leader knows when to defer to others. There are lots of areas where I defer to my wife's judgement. She is more competent in many areas than I am. I would be a fool to ignore these facts. Whatever it means, God tells women to encourage this leadership role in men.
Submission is about encouraging someone to lead and then following their leadership.
It means to support, respect, and work with your husband. Treating you husband with respect . It means not correcting your husband publically. We have fragile egos. Talk about his good points to others.