He's been hurt before and is afraid of commitment. There's no respect in being a long-term booty call. My nerves are gone. Obviously you enjoy getting used as a sex toy. For some reason, the female sex is plagued with low self esteem.
Scientists report that a womans chief concern within relationships is that of being abandoned.
Self esteem is demonstrated when we keep our promises, honor our commitments, deal with others honestly, fairly and straightforwardly. When we behave in ways we are able to respect, our self-esteem increases. When we approve of ourselves rather than seek the approval of others, our self-esteem increases. When you can look yourself in the mirror and honestly say that you are proud of your moral choices, that you made choices that were for your best interest, mental health and emotional stability, and that you admire the person you have become, then you have high self-esteem. Women need to do more of that.