You see the difference. Love is not reaching out because we're hard pressed, Or because it feels obligated. It's motive isn't to repay a favor, or save from us from embarrassment. True love doesn't wait until necessity demands an action. True love doesn't take opportunities.
True love seeks out opportunities to bless others in Action.
True love actively seeks out opportunities. 12 - Paul discusses the transformation of a believer. He says don't conform to the world but be transformed. We must demonstrate our love for each other. Going out of our way to find out needs of others - and doing what we can to fulfill those needs.