And sexual abuse is particularly damaging to feelings of self-worth. So I went along with whatever my date wanted. My sexual escapades didn't bother me when I was drinking, but I'd wake up with overwhelming feelings of guilt. And I'd drink more to numb my feelings. Role Reversal Sexual abuse is a major barrier to alcoholism recovery.
Sexual stereotypes are another.
Because despite all the advances made by women in the past 20 years, gender roles are still alive and kicking in America today. They're most visible at home, where women are still the primary care-givers, putting the needs of men and children ahead of their own. You have to put yourself first. Your recovery depends on it. It's a double-whammy that hits a recovering woman hard.