In our society we find it difficult to discuss sexual assault, especially when men are abused by other men. The reality of sexual assault is horrific, disempowering and humiliating. Often when abused men try to get support from their friends all they get is uncomfortable looks and silences, jokes, mixed up fantasy and a suggestion that they perhaps bought it on themselves. The campaign reminds us sexual assaults happen to people like us. The survivors of abuse often need our help and support.
Some men are able to cope with the consequences of having been sexually abused.
Unfortunately, for others abuse is only the start of the problems. There is help out there. Specialist services are available with trained staff to help men learn to cope with experiences of sexual abuse. We can all could help too by recognising that, chances are, some of our friends have been assaulted and may well need support to cope with it. The campaign lists services offering real, professional help to men who are having difficulties after being sexually abused.