Here are some things to consider before leaving your child home alone. Children develop at different rates. One child may be able to care for him or herself, while another of the same age may need supervision. Look at your child s past performance in carrying out responsibilities as an indicator. Some children feel proud that their parents trust them to be alone, but others feel deserted.
Some children are capable of being home alone for longer periods of time than others.
Start by leaving your child for a short period of time, talk to them about how it went, and gradually work up to longer periods of time. It is important to have an identified trusted adult, preferably nearby, know that your child is home alone in case you cannot be reached. Parents must be very clear as to which child is responsible for supervision and teach them appropriate parenting and disciplinary skills. A child who is ready for self-care may not be ready to supervise siblings. Children should have clear set limits about what appliances they can operate and how to handle situations such as phone calls and strangers at the door.