You ve got to get under the soap, under the aftershave, and experience love in the primal, subliminal sense. The problem is that we re all getting too rational about love. We forget that it s chemical. In the age of cyber love, we re losing touch with our personal intuition and are too concerned with how things look on paper. A lot of guys will fit the checklists, and our checklists are really long, but the guys are still unbearable.
Sex feels like a chore, or there is no sex.
You re scared of him. Lots of women aren t being beaten physically but are demolished and demoralized in relationships with men. You re compromising your values. You fear the future. It s not a natural look for women.