Nothing is better. Understanding, cognition, positive thought energy. Taking care of one's commitments. Looking at one's own accomplishments and failures and feelings. The importance of this is not known to the nonspiritual.
Shame is dangerous.
The essential balance of the Universe. That communion between two souls, with a beauty that can never be forgotten or ignored. The meeting and joining of two souls. The chance for betterment that one should never miss or overlook. That spark of genius that arises when one is touched by love.