He's comfortable and perhaps over time will stumble into love with you. By this logic, if you are straightforward with him, you become adversaries. You want to grow closer and he doesn't want to commit. Your calling yourself a girl also makes me wonder what kind of relationships you've had before, how you think of yourself and how well you think of yourself. I don't want you to hurt.
Sex is an obvious question.
Until you hear differently from him, he has told you he doesn't want to marry. Keep that in mind whatever you choose to do. Leya Aum, MA, MFCC This question was answered by Leya Aum . She is California licensed marriage, family, child counselor certified in clinical hypnosis. She is also human resources consultant, writer and editor.