But there was a very good reason that these ladies and gentlemen could be model social butterflies. They had slaves to do the work on the plantation while they led their lives. You cannot claim this upper class aspect of the old South and not take with it the racism and oppression of blacks necessary for this way of life to survive. I m embarrassed that the citizens of Mississippi voted 2-1 to keep a flag that still bears the Confederate logo on it. I m angered by people who try to deny the power and symbolism the flag holds.
White people have no concept of how that flag can affect black people.
The lack of intent to hurt is nice, but if the display of the flag makes any person feel threatened or unwanted, then it should be removed, regardless of motive. I have no problem with knowing where you come from, or even taking pride in your past. I have a problem with the inability of some people to stop doting on old wounds or to start living in the present. Pride in your state is not foolish, but don t take pride in the Alabama of 1860, take pride in the Alabama of 2001. Help develop the state you seem to be so proud of.