And I think it's a good idea to pray together. When Christian couples come for counseling about an adulterous situation they sometimes tell me they don't pray together any more. But with all its emotional complications that's exactly when you should pray together. It's a good idea to schedule communication-time into every week. It's called 'transference', and it's very important to recognize when it's happening in a marriage.
Women do it too, of course.
We bring into marriage all the accumulated experiences with significant others. My wife had an angry father, who beat her, often unjustly, until she was eighteen. But may god enrich your marriage, and bless you both as you journey into an exciting future together. God the father lovingly enfold you. God the son grace your home and table.