But this is not true . Family members must be considered also. They should not be subjected to the shame and punishment which AIDS brings. My son, keep my words . . . Although some people call having sex 'making love', it is not.
True love means giving to the other person and striving for their best interests in every way.
Sex before marriage comes from wanting to get, not from wanting to give. To imagine loving children who have not even been born yet may be difficult, but many young people do. They look forward to their future home and family. Those who have true love will be concerned about their future wife or husband and their future children. You could some day find yourself married and with a bitter spouse, frightened children and an unhappy home.