Pushing, biting, hitting, punching and using a weapon are all forms of violence. Forcing you to participate in sex is violence.
Threats are forms of violence.
Physical violence, sexual assault and threats in lesbian relationships are crimes. Physical and sexual violence are the more 'obvious' forms of violence, while emotional or psychological abuse is often harder to recognise. Lesbians often say these are the most insidious forms of violence and abuse because they are difficult to explain and are often regarded as 'ordinary relationship problems'. You deserve to live and love free from violence and abuse. Afraid to tell anyone.