When you do, sex may be even more exciting and rewarding than ever. Check your hang-ups at the door. Simply go into the bedroom with your body and your feelings. Focus on the emotional connection you have with your partner and the pleasure your body has in store. Keep it fun.
Sex can be fun, frivolous and relaxing.
We are so far from that in our society. We feel like we have to have fantastic sex each and every time. Forget performance, Dr. Zussman says. Just concentrate on having a good time with your partner and sex will be much more like laughing time than working overtime. Get back to basics.