We should teach our children new ways to relax, to enjoy life, and to cope with stress. The development of healthy sexuality is fraught with peril. Our culture is deeply split about sexuality. We raise our daughters to value themselves as whole people, and the media reduces them to bodies. For example, sex is the most precious gift a person can give, and it's the best way to sell suntan lotion.
Sex is associated with freedom, adulthood, and sophistication.
The movies make sexual encounters look exciting and fun. But girls are scared of many things. They are worried that they will be judged harshly for their bodies and lack of experience. They are worried about getting caught by their parents or going to Hell. They fear pregnancy and sexually transmitted diseases.