Some people find enough motivation in true love or great financial incentive or a sucking void of loneliness to get through this discomfort, but most of us require a little chemical aid to get our water to blend with their oil. This chemical is not alcohol or roofies or chloroform. Soap is the wonderful concoction that turns pan grease into dishwater. It makes impenetrable sludge into drainable slurries of cooperation. Oil and water both love soap.
Soap brings everything together.
Soap is good. Simply put, soap is a person or group of persons who knows you AND your party of interest. Soap introduces you and helps you through the first conversation. I heard that Soap and you are working to patent cold fusion. Yes, well, Soap is a real son of a bitch.