I thank God for her. You are not sacred to him. If a man ever asks you to do something that will cause you to lose respect for yourself, that will cause him to lose respect for you, that is contrary to the will of God, then it isn't love. You are really developing your love. There's a third standard.
True love has a quality of self-giving.
God so loved the world that He gave. I can tell when a couple is in love, for then the primary purpose of each person is not to exploit, but to enrich each other. Each wants to devote his entire self to this other person. In true love, a person thinks more of the happiness of the other person than he does of himself. If a young man can come into marriage with his paramount passion in life to completely satisfy his wife, and if a girl can come into marriage with her sole purpose the satisfaction of her husband, and both are sold out to satisfying Jesus Christ, then you have the ingredients for an ideal Christian marriage.