As you can see in the above example, only September 3rd is good for everybody. If you have other requirements for your wedding, you can simply add another row below the others. Prioritize them, with the most important consideration as the top row, etc. I have heard quite a few stories about things that have been said at weddings by other wedding officiants that the couple did not want said. Maybe you've heard some odd things yourself at a friend's wedding.
Some officiants give long, boring sermons.
Also, many weddings sound almost exactly the same, with only the names of the Bride and Groom being different. Your wedding ceremony should say all the right things, the way you want them said, and nothing else. The only way to ensure this is to have the officiant provide you a written transcript of the planned ceremony in advance of your wedding. I have performed hundreds of weddings, and no two weddings have been exactly the same. And they have the whole script in their hands in advance of their wedding, so they can make any changes they wish.