Many people have real challenges in their relationships with other people. Whether your challenges are manifest by the way you interact or react to a spouse, a parent, a brother, a sister, a friend, an acquaintance, an employer, an employee, or a co-worker is determined by your past feelings and how they have registered inside you. This means more than a grudging realization that you'll never again be some way that you used to be or some way that you wish to be. This allows you to stop judging yourself negatively, which invariably brings forth feelings of blame, shame, guilt, or fear and escalates the cycle of anxiety and tension. Getting along with others can be simple or complicated, depending on how you look at it.
Someone comes in to be waited on.
From the very beginning of your encounter with this person, they demand your undivided attention. They act as if they're the only one in the store. You can hardly wait until they have completed their purchases so you won't have to put up with them and their attitude any longer. Right here and now, as you complete your transaction with them, is the time to take a look at the issue you may have where these characteristics are concerned. This person is only mirroring something that is in you.