That I was letting my daughter control me out of fear. It was when she clarified things I started to think I might actually be the victim. It took a long time to admit it to myself. But I did. Then the anger came .
Victim rage is a rage that consumes.
I see it so often in these pages and my heart aches. In a rage, the abuser can do no right. Even an attempt to do right is taken wrongly. It really didn't last too long with you. I think it is about fear.