The problem is her mother. There is nothing about the child that would indicate she is a female. Ellie has started to rebel against her mother, and they are constantly at odds. I believe this may be one of the reasons. I don't want this to happen to this precious child.
Studies indicate sexual orientation is established at birth.
What the child wears has nothing to do with it. If Ellie doesn't like her boyish appearance, her mother will hear about it sooner or later. This little girl is only 10 years old. Please MYOB, or you will be persona non grata in the family. For a personal reply, enclose a self-addressed, stamped envelope.