For some of us, that's like our therapy. I need a hit. It's like a drug. It's also like tearing yourself down, in the process of opening yourself up to this. That's one of the many ways that people keep themselves sane.
Some people go to a shrink, sit on a couch.
It works for some people. Well, yes and no. The true test of family for me is when things are really hard, to see where they're at. Sometimes it's been hard. But it's a test, and we've been through it.