Religion, media, society, and peers all have an influence. I never forgot what I heard her say one day as I walked by her and a group of her friends. Instantly, I began to equate money with love. Money can make people feel safe or free.
Some people view money as dirty and feel guilty if they make too much.
Others equate money with self-worth. Money can mean power. In a relationship where a woman earns more than a man, this can be a challenge. Whoever has more power can be undermined by the person who doesn't. It takes a very strong sense of self-esteem to be with a male or female who makes a disparate amount more.