When angry, count to four, when very angry, swear. It is because we are not the people involved. The man who does not read books has no advantage over the man that can not read them. A man who carries a cat by the tail learns something he can learn in no other way. Soap and education are not as sudden as a massacre, but they are more deadly in the long run.
Training is everything.
To love is to place our happiness in the happiness of another. Where there is sorrow, there is holy ground. Experience is one thing you can't get for nothing. Art is the most intense mode of invidualism that the world has known. No great artist ever sees things as they really are.