It is by using this approach in our endeavors of kindness that we will merit to be among those who walk in Hashem's ways. If someone is straight and trustworthy, kind and gentle, honest and pure, people will like him. There are four elements of human existence. Our existence as members of society. Therefore, one who pursues sleep to such an inappropriate degree pursues non-existence and death, and leaves this world behind.
Wine gladdens the spirit.
However, a person does not need cheering up until the end of the day, when the spirit is weary from work. A person is at his brightest at noon, and therefore wine drunk then is an excess that erodes his spirit. The conversation of elders is replete with wisdom. Conversely, children's talk is hollow banter and misinformation. It follows that such conversation removes a person from the world by effacing his wisdom.