I know he is not cheating, he is not like that. I know he is not comfortable living here and seeing his dad everyday. I know that he was also sexually touched by his father, but I don't know if all of that has something to do with our relationship. I love him dearly and I don't want this relationship to go to waste. Please help me , I want to stop crying I want to laugh again, and I want him to be like he used to be.
Time marches on and relationships change.
Telling you now that he never loved you is stupid, and he's doing other stupid things as well, but if you really want this marriage to continue, you just have to put up with these stupidities. You can no longer rely on him to turn up at any special hour. You have to learn to laugh again even when everything seems to be going wrong. Try to see the funny side of it. He forgot to pick you up because the hockey was such fun to watch.