We will talk more about that in the next chapter. If you have no family, it is especially true that the road appears less lonely when shared with a few close friends. You might lose one or two. Some people will find it too difficult to talk with you or to be around you, and they will slip away. On the other hand, you may discover hidden strengths and compassion in the least likely of companions.
Some people make themselves scarce if cancer is mentioned.
But, cancer patients soon learn who their trusted friends are. If it isn't revealed, family and friends are robbed of the opportunity to share the feelings and anxieties that arise from having the disease. At most, life is very short for everyone. As you move from hope to despair and back again, family and close friends will sense something is deeply troubling you, even before they learn the facts. When you feel ready, try to share your news with them.