Such parents teach that it's not good to be competitive and that winning is not always the most important thing. Caregivers need to form alliances with children, letting them know that they are friends and not the enemy, Wilhelm said. A parent who instills confidence and trust in their kids leads them to make better decisions. Kids also need to enlist the aid of adults to resolve situations. They need to be unafraid of asking for help.
Some children have a fear of being blamed for problems.
Also, victims should try to keep company with at least two friends at all times. Bullies are opportunists who normally strike when others are alone. They depend on victims' silence, says Wilhelm. Middle schools seem to have the highest incidents of bullying due to adolescence, Wilhelm said. Kids become overwhelmed by hormonal and physical changes and tend to form isolated peer groups, she adds.