Praise should be similarly loud and exaggerated. Tips for dealing with angry outbursts This expression of anger is maladaptive and will result in difficulties in relationships with others and school performance. Start by encouraging the child to share his or her feelings. Many children do not know how to express anger appropriately. These include talking about feelings, writing a letter or story expressing emotions, drawing a picture, exercising, relaxation or deep breathing techniques.
Some children exhibit a great deal of noncompliance in an effort to regain control over their lives.
It is important to help children distinguish when it is appropriate to assert control and express independence and when it is necessary for them to accept certain circumstances and comply with instructions. One way to help with this is to give effective instructions. Avoid instructions that are in the form of questions. Such instructions may give the false impression that you are offering options, one of which is not to comply. Say, please pick up your toys now.