Our society and culture actually encourages women to be single mothers and to divorce their husbands by providing substantial financial and social rewards to them. Any man who marries today in the face of this reality is a fool. Women can opt out of maternity, but men cannot opt out of paternity. Even if a man does not want to be a father, he is compelled to be one if a woman chooses to entrap him. Men have no rights in this regard whatsoever.
Women have shelters.
Men have the street or jail. Their lives are taken from them. This is something from which women are unjustifiably exempt. Being killed or losing a limb is much worse then being raped. Women actually abuse, assault and kill men more often then the reverse.