Most patients with ostomies resume their usual sexual activity. In men, removal of the lower rectum for cancer may result in sexual dysfunction due to injury to nerves that pass close to the rectum. This is unrelated to the ostomy. Many people with ostomies worry about how their sexual partner will think of them because of their appliance. This perceived change in one's body image can be overcome by a strong relationship, time and patience.
Support groups are also available in many cities.
If the surgical procedure will require removal of the rectum, you may wish to discuss sexual function with your colon and rectal surgeon or an ET nurse prior to surgery. It is often comforting and reassuring for a patient who is facing a permanent ostomy to visit with another person who has already been through the surgery and adjusted to his or her ostomy. Such visits can often be coordinated by your surgeon or ET nurse. If circumstances dictate the need for an ostomy, it is likely that you will return to a fulfilling lifestyle. With the skill and support of a colon and rectal surgeon and ET nurse, one can cope with either a temporary or permanent ostomy and resume a normal life.