Even if you mean well and want to offer comfort, remember that the person who assaulted her took away her control over her body. Be a good listener. Assist her in getting the help she wants and needs . This may mean providing phone numbers, transportation, information, etc. Talk to someone else about your feelings about the rape .
Sexual assault can also be traumatic for.
You deserve support, too. Don't give advice or try to tell her what to do . Don't tell her what you would have done . Don't ask her why she didn't scream or fight . This can feel blaming, even if you didn't intend it that way.