I am completely faithful to him, and I know he is to me. My problem is that I want to get married, and I don't feel that he does. Whenever I mention getting married, he just smiles, and somehow blows it off. He is wonderful to me in every other way. I would like some advice on what to do, I obviously don't want to leave him, I love him and we have a son together.
Some people are afraid of marriage.
Just the thought makes them feel that the relationship will change somehow. A marriage certificate is more than a piece of paper. It can provide health and life insurance to a spouse and children. In case of his death it will ensure benefits for you and your son. In some states you would be considered to have a common law marriage, but only your attorney can advise you on that.