I ts important to realize that each of us have had such different lives.
Some people seem to go through life unscathed, untouched by tragedy.
Others, like the Kennedys, seem to be in a constant state of mourning. The life choices for these different kinds of families will probably look very different. As you contemplate your future, both in the world of work and in your private lives, remember to take into account the events that led you to where you are now. Develop identity, live in and out of parent's world, explore careers, plan educational goals, build for furture family and lifestyle, develop skills in sports or the arts. C learly people go through life stages at slightly different time sequences but these stages, borrowed from Jung and others, are a rough outline of the tasks that we all face.