Similar political views. Activities, outdoor interests. An emotional connection. While these are qualities that extend beyond the youthful lust and drive for sex, I don't necessarily seek a girl to fulfill these needs and desires. It's the companionship of a guy that matters to me.
Sex is a beautiful expression.
But it's not the sole basis of the relationship I seek. I've also had a lot of grrls come and go from the e-mail list, and I would love to have feedback as to what I can do to make this a welcoming space for everyone. Mostly we aren't going there. Nor have I met him at my university, which purports to be among the most liberal in the nation. Or even in my drum circles.