It robs a person's ability and the capacity for values and beliefs. Healthful and productive ways of thinking are replaced by fear, anger, resentment, dishonest thinking, shame, and guilt. Self-worth is greatly replaced by suspicion and fear. The belief that there is meaning and purpose to life becomes a mere daydream. A corollary seems to exist that the more a person is feeling shameful and guilty, the more difficulty it is to approach God because of what has happened.
Shame has to do with what kind of person the alcoholic has become.
Shame is a difficult area to deal with because of its deep roots. Reconciliation is much needed. The alcoholic's journey is much like the prodigal son's. This is not a new concept, but it needs to be said again and again. Our Christian spirituality would be virtually empty without Jesus Christ at the head.