A man often feels in love when he is really only in lust. He then declares this lust-love too early in the relationship for the woman involved. Getting sex is getting lucky. And many men don't care who they get lucky with, a concept that is foreign to most women. Intimacy First, Then Sex.
Women are often more interested in intimacy than in sex of and for sex itself.
Prior to sex females want to become friends, touch, kiss, and hug. A woman wants affection before sex. Women Want Time Before Sex. Time is usually necessary for a woman to feel love and a real desire for sex. Sex that is rushed is often unsatisfying for women.