If you look at the profiles of men in power, they typically have very supportive spouses who always seem to make their husbands look great in public situations. There are rarely reports of problems in the home. If there are problems, the couple keeps a public front of unity and mutual respect. The corporate world trives on order, stability and predictability. That's how the game is played.
Successful men have wives who understand how to play the game.
We should be encouraged to seek and push the boundaries of freedom. Each of us should be encouraged to find what freedom means to us without fear of put-downs or ostracism so long as we are within the law. Our leaders should encourage us to learn. Not just school knowledge, but lifetime learning. Our leaders should especially encourage us to learn the ways and languages of others so that we can be prepared to compete in the global market of goods and ideas.