Don't blow off attending the parent-teacher conference because you're tired. Believe me, your child's teacher is just as tired as you are. It's important that the two of you meet face to face. Also, pop in at school when you have the odd moment off from work. Schedule evening school meetings and special programs on your work calendar and your family calendar so other activities won't crowd them out.
Teachers find it difficult to work with children with invisible parents.
A handshake, smile, and a short conversation with you will help the teacher develop a stronger bond with your child. Know your child's school friends and their parents. Don't let them go to a friend's home if you haven't met the parents. Enforce house rules concerning having friends over if you are not home. It should be completed before any television viewing or computer games.