Tell children they are liked and loved for what they are. Encourage children to develop creativity and individuality. Children with higher self-esteem are better able to be courageous. It gives them a kind of security. Peace and the control of temper is a powerful and important value that is largely a product of love and of the atmosphere created in a home.
Understanding is the key.
Children who are taught to try to understand why things happen and why people act the way they do will become calmer and more in control. Those who don't have it hurt others by blaming them and by failing to develop the gifts and talents that could serve or enlighten or benefit other people. One who reaches his potential helps others in many ways as he develops himself. One who never seeks his full potential indirectly hurts others by not doing the good or setting the example he is capable of. This includes physical, mental, and financial self-discipline.