He did not feel revenge on America, but reached into the root of America and found God dwelling in the deepest place of American misery. How wonderful that is. At that point Satan has to retreat When we see some misery coming, see this as a chance to make a victory. Don't lose the chance to occupy and overcome Satan. When women speak they are bound to complain.
Women are a complaining fountain.
Yes, don't just see everything. If you really want to be a filial daughter in law, try to obey the rigid law of heaven and forget complaint. Don't complain no matter what. Set your standard low so you can always be happy. Look down, not up.