Being a grandparent is often a much anticipated role for many adults. The idea of spoiling one's grandchildren and then returning them home to the parents is cherished. Grandparents are increasingly assuming parenting responsibilities when parents experience major life crises in order to provide a safe, stable, and secure environment for their grandchildren. This figure does not include extended kin households in which grandparents live in a home maintained by the child's parents.
Stress is a result of positive and negative experiences.
Connecting with other grandparents raising grandchildren can be a lifesaver during this critical time. Establish a Routine Establishing a daily routine is invaluable to the grandparent-grandchild family. Regular mealtimes, naps, bedtimes, play areas, and toy boxes help to reduce chaos. Many grandchildren lacked consistency and structure in their previous home life and desire a lifestyle in which they feel safe. Predictability builds trust as well as a sense of control.