Sure, there are vague concepts of other things floating around, other roles, so on. I'll gain perspective, but this is how i feel now. I realize it happens. If its a rare occassion its back to me not wanting to know and just let it be. If its common, its a problem he needs to fix.
Visits strips clubs, no holds barred.
I think it can be fun to have strip club parties or strippers, but i don't feel that its terribly appropriate either. I'd rather go out dancing and drinking with my friends, sit around and laugh at some porn movies together, exchange tacky gifts, etc. There shouldn't be any flings. What a horrid way to prepare for marriage, its a sure sign that its not the right time or person. Although I may not give him a play by play, I don't think I should do anything I would have to hide from him.