The vision does not need to be based on what has happened to other children with similar disabilities, or on what anyone else suggests should happen. It's for you and your child to determine. Try to realize that the dream does not need to be limited to where certain things currently exist. Once you have a dream, you can work toward getting the things where your child will need them. By building a vision, you and your child take control of their life and what path it takes, not the system.
Vision is the fundamental force that drives everything else in our lives.
It impassions us with a sense of unique contribution that's ours to make. It empowers us to put first things first, compasses ahead of clocks, people ahead of schedules and things. Keep the focus of your vision on your child's strengths and interests. Think about the things in life that you value and would like your child to have. Most people value their relationships with others and being an active member of society.