These types of questions help children learn to care about the feelings of others. By understanding that, children will be less likely to hurt others. Another important step in helping children deal with aggressive behavior is to be a good role model yourself. As parents and as adults, we must show that we can handle our angry feelings without hitting and yelling. Children who see adults handle their feelings by being aggressive all the time will assume that it's okay for them too.
Television can also provide strong role models.
The most important force that will help children deal with anger is knowing that people love and care for them. They need our active attention, our loving concern, and lots of hugs. Affection and knowing how to solve problems in frustrating and conflict situations will help children get along well with their friends. The following questions could be used to talk with children about anger. Kids sometimes get into fights.