Extended family gather to provide support and instruction. In our more mobile culture, the extended family is less available to provide extended support. The new mother may be expected to get her parenting instructions from books or simply to know it. Our more flexible view of the role of a mother can be liberating but can also be overwhelming. Support A supportive spouse who can take time off work, or the presence of older family members can ease the transition to motherhood.
Some new mothers hire a baby nurse or a housekeeper to help out for several weeks.
Most women with postpartum depression are not diagnosed or treated. This may lead to long-term depression and difficulty bonding with the baby. One study showed that young children of depressed mothers are more likely to have problem behaviors and to score lower on standardized tests. Fortunately we now have effective treatments for postpartum depression. Counseling and support groups are helpful.