If he or she wants the daughter not to go to school, then the daughter has to be obedient. In such big families, women of the younger generation do not have any status and can only obey the elders and their husbands. Such traditional family concepts and family structure started to change several decades ago. The heads of household no longer have such big power. They allow children to love freely and choose their own future.
Women also have status now.
They leave home and go to work. When the eighties came, such changes were even greater. In the city, extended families are practically non-existent anymore. The young are no longer willing to live with the old. They want to be independent and establish their nuclear family freely.