We welcome frank and open discussion on all of these topics and indeed any other topic. If you become embroiled in topics you don't want to discuss check out our chat tips page. You decide your own standards but if it appears that the conversation you are having with a few friends is unacceptable to others in the room you should move to the Shebeen or the Lion's Den. No information is available to other people in the chat room other than what you tell them so don't give out personal details unless you know exactly who you are talking to. Also see Chat Tips on this.
Some people like to enter the chat room under different names and personalities.
So the person abusing you one day could be your best buddy another. You will still need to use a real email address else you will be removed from the database.