It doesn't stay. I'll believe it when I see it. If you have any questions, be sure to ask here . These folks are very helpful. Might as well try it long before it all falls out.
Women like to touch it, run their fingers through it, braid it, etc.
Sorry, I'm not sure about Gay men. Something different to try. On average, only 6 inches per year. You may experience some discrimination. Depends on where you live.