Perhaps she is just too tired, too busy from the kids and household chores, or work. It takes two minutes. That's all complete baloney and that attitude ruins marriages. Oh, I see, not the uncaring, unsympathetic attitude of a Neanderthal who can't live with an erection. It's all her fault.
Women make a big deal out of a two-minute hand job.
They want him to go clean this up or do this or whatever. That's all it takes. Oh, there's that saving the marriage bit again. If the marriage fails, ladies, it's your fault. You haven't pleasured your man enough in exactly the way he expects.