Encourage your friend to seek the types of help which are appropriate for the situation, but do not force the person into any action. People who have been violated have had control taken away and need to re-establish control over their own lives. If a friend or loved one experiences a sexual violation, you may indirectly feel the effects. Monitor your own reactions. If you find yourself experiencing extreme emotions, you may want to seek counseling, either alone or with your friend.
Sexual violations can cause problems in a romantic relationship, both sexually and otherwise.
If your partner has been assaulted, you may want to receive counseling together.