By learning how to resolve conflicts with children in healthy, productive ways, you can help your children grow toward independence while keeping harmony in your home. Until they can be in school, parents are usually their primary role models. Use a loving tone and touch to let your child know exactly where the limits are. School age children are actively involved in a wider social group. Other children and teachers influence them.
School can be exciting and scary.
It's most important that children feel their parents' love, support and belief in them. Teenagers may feel grown up, but their parents tend to see them still as children. Influence of friends is strong. Parents should set rules with and not for their teenager. It's important for teenagers to feel that their parents listen to and respect them.