Because she was a gender queer, they wouldn't legalize her. They kicked her out instead. One of the main differences between these two groups is that Primary TSs are far more likely to have been thrown out of their houses and disowned for being obvious gender queers. Gender queer kids never really enjoy the luxury of coming out. Hiding their gender differences and being able to come out in adolescence or adulthood are luxuries denied.
Tomboys are cute.
Sissies are beaten and harassed at school. If they are discovered dressing up and learning to perform the gender of their identity at home, parental love is withdrawn. I was hit with the reality of what I was one day when I was 11, when my parents caught me wearing my mother's clothes. In an instant, I went from being a sissy to being a queer. In that instant, my life was turned upside down.