Child development classes teach us that people learn more from birth to five years of age than in any other period of life. When the emotional, spiritual, intellectual or physical development of a child is neglected before he gets to school, there is often no reversing the effect of this neglect. Successful parents nurture their young and look for opportunities to stimulate every facet of a child's development. Children need structure from the cradle through their school years. It cannot be delayed until kindergarten with good results.
Successful parents establish structure as soon as a child is born.
Often children are the bosses at home, not the parents. You don't have to go home with them to know this. Just stand in the grocery store sometimes and listen and look. As teachers we are taught to look for solutions when we present a problem. I can't think how we can solve this one.