This can be scary, so he clings to you more and avoids strangers. He is also becoming aware of who he knows and who he doesn t. He may need more reassurance when he is away from you, especially when he is tired, bored or frustrated. A pacifier, blanket, stuffed toy or thumb may help him feel more secure. Crying or trying to get away from an unfamiliar person are less common than neutral reactions, like a serious, watchful stare.
Some babies even look at the new person, then look away a few times before warming up and smiling.
Grandparents or friends may have a hard time understanding why baby gets upset when they see him or pick him up. Take it slowly. Don t just hand baby to someone he doesn t know well. Hold him while he gets to know the person. Have the stranger offer baby a favorite toy.