Even volunteering to work in the school office one day a week can be valuable. Elementary school children enjoy seeing their parent in the hallways, and feel proud that their mom or dad is interested in helping out at their school. Be an active participant in extracurricular activities. Coach a Little League team or become a Girl Scout leader. At very least, attend your child s hockey game, track meet or dance recital to cheer them on.
Small gestures go a long way in strengthening the parent-child relationship.
Lead by example. To gain respect from children, parents must also give in. Be firm in your household rules, but also give validity to their feelings. Encourage open and honest communication by holding family meetings where everyone has an equal chance of expressing himself. Sometimes all a child needs is some alone time with mom or dad away from siblings, friends and stressful situations to reveal what is on his mind.