Whatever you now see in yourself, there is always more to find. If one person can do something, then anyone can learn from them. Choice is better than no choice. People have all the resources they need to bring about change and success. If what you are doing isn't working, do something else.
Sensory acuity is key.
These lies have a lot in common with Rand's Benevolent Universe Premise. With Others NLP focuses your internal resources to respect other persons' own associational minds as such. Clear, consistent communication creates comfort. Every behavior would be useful in some context. A person is not his or her behavior.