Sipp and her children regularly go to dinner at their favorite Mexican restaurant, followed by a trip to the nearby book store and ice cream parlor. You've got to have some fun. A workaholic doesn't know how to do that. They have to be trained to have fun. My children have taught me how to have fun.
Workaholics are brutal to themselves.
In some instances, they're co-dependents and often will do anything to please the people they're working for. Once you do this, you have room for the support system you need. Find a worthy cause of service. Volunteer, but keep it in check. If something doesn't feel right, walk away.