Each child possesses sexuality from birth and expresses it in a unique manner. Our gender, sexual orientation, sense of humor, values, body image, and ability to form relationships and to feel and express a wide range of emotions are integral aspects of our sexuality. Because sexuality is a central element of who we are, it greatly influences how we live our lives. Fostering a healthy sense of sexuality in our young people is one of the greatest things we can do for them. We as parents cannot afford to ignore the importance of sexuality education since young people who have a positive sense of self-esteem and sexuality are best prepared to make healthy decisions.
Sexuality education is an ongoing process.
Each developmental stage provides a new opportunity for education. In addition to being age specific when talking about sexuality, each of us needs to stop and assess our family's religious and cultural beliefs and how these will influence our children's development and expression of their sexuality. All parents can be sexuality educators. If discussion of condoms, AIDS or sexual activity makes you uneasy, your discomfort will be evident to your children. It is vital for you to be comfortable with your own sexuality so that your children see you as approachable.