While He regards many things as important, only this concern is the consuming concern. Intellectually, we realize that God has many concerns. Therefore we conclude that if we identify and yield to that concern, God is pleased and we are secure. To view divine concern as one dimensional is to view relationship as one dimensional. I will be an exceptional husband if I make a lot of money.
Time together is the most important concern in a successful friendship.
Intellectually, we disagree with those views. Emotionally, we may agree. We may attempt to use money, or meal presentation, or scheduled time to create a successful relationship. Talk to a wife married to a husband who thinks money is the key to relationship. Ask about the relationship.