Some people have a hard time saying goodbye. Former lovers don t make good best friends and interfere with subsequent relationships. It is time to break the connection. Nice, but boring guys always ask me out. Sounds like you never get what you want.
Some people spend their lives never getting what they want.
Part of getting what you want consists of being wise about what you pick to want. Reality-based desires are more likely to be filled. Dear Mrs. Web, I found out a guy I was interested in was dating my best friend and me at the same time. My friend and I discovered it and I assured her that I wouldn't let him come between us. Therefore, I told him to stop calling me, and he did.