Unnecessary worrying and imagining the worst possible scenario will strangle your faith. Allow yourself to be humble. If you are silent and peaceful when humiliating things happen to you, you will grow in grace. Here's a way to know if you are actually trusting God with something. You will not think about the matter any longer nor will you feel a lack of peace.
Silence brings blessings.
Silence encourages God's presence, prevents harsh words, and causes you to be less likely to say something you will regret. Silence also helps you put space between you and the world. Out of the silence that you cultivate you will get strength to meet your needs. Growth and change are the work of the cross. It is a process that starts with the new birth and ends at the close of our earthly journey, by which time we are hopefully more mature in the likeness of Christ.