As you read through various aspects and dynamics of domestic violence, your impressions of what you have learned to believe about domestic violence will come to mind. There are many myths to domestic violence, many of which are disputed by fact. Below are some of the myths and facts. MYTH - Anger causes violence.
Violence is a response to anger.
I lost control and hit her. I didn t mean to hurt her, but things just got out of hand. If I get angry enough, I will blow and become violent no matter what. What happens is that we learn very early on that violent and aggressive behavior can be helpful in getting what we want. A youngster throws a temper tantrum at the checkout stand and is given a treat to keep them quiet.