Illness and psychosomatic problems for adults and children. A sympathetic listener is important. Spend time with the traumatized person. There is no substitute for personal presence. Offer assistance and sympathy.
Voiced support is critical.
Traumatized people are not consoled by such statements. Tell them, instead that you're sorry such an event has occurred, and that you want to understand and assist them. Respect a family member's need for privacy and private grief. Strenuous exercise alternated with relaxation will help alleviate physical reactions. Remember that you're experiencing normal reactions to an abnormal situation.