This will help the child begin replacing fears with pleasant memories. Work with the school and inform teachers what has happened. By doing this, the teacher may not be as punitive if your child has difficulty concentrating at school or shows signs of anger or depression. Remember to take the role of a survivor. Teach your children the difference between a survivor and a victim.
Survivors become stronger because of the traumatic experiences while victims remain weak.
Learn to overcome pessimistic thinking, self defeating behaviors, and self doubts. There are many resources that are available to help you and your child. Seek them out. Some churches have good programs, and community mental health services provide cost effective treatments that help the entire family recover from traumatic experiences. If we can be further of assistance to you, please use the resources at The Family Clinic on the internet.