Lilith would hear none of it. Both she and Adam were created from the same dust, and she saw no reason they should not be equal. The Kabbalah describes her as a seductress. In the Sumerian culture, she was Inanna's handmaiden, bringing men from the streets to the temple prostitutes. Only then, when we start to heal the split - to bring dark into the light and light into the dark, can we begin the journey towards transformation to wholeness.
Transformation can be a frightening experience, especially when it comes to motherhood.
We are taught that when we become a mother, we are supposed to be the rock solid foundation of our children's lives. It's a rare woman who is. We have nothing in our society that recognizes or validates such feelings. In contrast, Hindu societies venerate Kali , triple Mother-Goddess of creation, preservation and destruction. She is connected with the cycles of the moon, and womens' menstrual cycles, nature at her most fundamental cyclic best, which regularly demonstrates creation and destruction, light and dark.