Sometimes people have emotional messages to share and weave it into their words. Ask if you think you may have missed the point. Ask for opinions. Show your interest. Open the communication door.
Studies show that sharing information especially helps relationships begin.
Be generous in sharing yourself, but don't overwhelm others with too much too soon. Most of us try to keep people and situations just the way we like them to be. Take care of you . Don't forget to please yourself. If you make plans with someone, follow through.