Wander through the residence halls. Notice how students decorate their rooms. Talk to faculty members and campus security officers. Walk through the commercial neighborhoods near campus. Campus climate is important, but ultimately it is up to your son or daughter to make responsible choices.
Studies show that parents remain a key influence on college students.
Listen .You won't get far by lecturing. Ask your child to talk about alcohol and other drugs. Make your expectations clear. College is a huge investment of time and money. Set clear expectations that your son or daughter will focus on academic work and personal development.