Moreover, inappropriate behavior in the early phase of the relationship may last a lifetime. You could hear about the first date on your 50th anniversary and, you won't like it. If they are uneasy, they talk a lot to give the appearance of being in control. Another common reaction is to withdraw. If you give truncated answers to questions, look away while you're being spoken to, or show little interest in your date, you're going to make an unfavorable impression.
Women have a reputation for talking a lot.
When it comes to first dates, it is often the man who controls the situation by talking on and on about himself. If by the end of the evening you don't know as much about her as she does about you, if you have spoken more then you've listened, take a good look at her because you may not see her again. Sure, you can call me at the end of the month. Being attended to is a high compliment and a carryover from the vulnerability of childhood. Showing the other person that you are interested in them is the beginning of intimacy.