Only by working together in a cooperative effort can we insure that victims of violence don't fall through the cracks, and guarantee that perpetrators receive swift and sure punishment. Even when cases are brought, domestic crimes are difficult to prosecute. All too often, the victims are so terrorized they fear for their lives if they call the police. More than once during my tenure as Iowa's Attorney General, I spoke with women who refused to press charges against abusers due to fear of being killed before the criminal justice system could act to save them. Their terror forced them to remain silent.
Silence is the batterer's best friend.
That is why all of us have a responsibility to end the silence in our communities and change our attitudes toward domestic crime. Medical professionals who see the victims of violence need to report these crimes. Too often, doctors or emergency room personnel accept the statement of fearful victims that their bruises or cuts are the result of household accidents or falls. Neighbors must contact the police when they hear violent fights in their neighborhoods. Don't turn up the television to block out the sounds of the drunken argument next door.