Sawyer is the most somber. Jordan is the quietest, with a voice that can melt butter and female hearts and talk baby birds to sleep. Heck, I dunno. I jus tells it as I sees it. I personally think that my love scenes are popular because I don't pretty them up with frou-frou words and euphemisms that detract from the realism.
Sex is beautiful and romantic enough without that nonsense.
Plus, I try really hard to always show the emotional connection between the characters. It isn't just sex, it's mating, bonding, showing and sharing love . . . Men do it all the time. Men tend to see everything as something sexual. I think it's great, and find men pretty darn entertaining.