They might choose a song or reading for the funeral. Tell the child what to expect ahead of time. People might be crying. If the child wants to approach the casket, go with him or her. It may be best to do this in private.
Some children like to write a letter or draw a picture to put into the casket.
Help children begin to heal by Listening - Watch and listen. Get a sense of what children are feeling. Telling the truth - When questions come up, try to answer in concrete terms. If you don't know the answer, say so. Accepting feelings and helping children to express feelings - Remembering can be a helpful way for children to grieve.