There are children who go to mosques. They consider that normal. The child takes in his world as if it were food. And his world nourishes or starves him. Nothing escapes his thirst.
Secrets are impossible.
Let the one who is no longer a child at heart cast the first stone. Some eat fried bananas. No one can eat food. You will not be able to eat what you get. I could say something similar about many of the customs of my culture.