I saw the hurt it caused, and knew the problem was not in the decision, but the problem was in me. So I tried to place my finger on it, and the following is what came about. Inconsiderate - 1. Lacking regard for the rights or feelings of others. Without proper consideration or reflection.
Similar words are thoughtless, uncaring, unthinking.
The apposite of inconsiderate is considerate - 1. Showing concern for the rights and feelings of others. Consideration - 1. The process of giving careful thought to something. Information that should be kept in mind when making a decision.