Be more flexible and creative to help your child do what is expected. When your child misbehaves, match your response to the behavior. For example, if children are fighting over a toy, remove the toy. If a child spills a drink, he is more likely to learn by having to help clean up the mess than from being yelled at. These are responses to unwanted behaviors that make sense.
Spilled juice takes time and effort to clean up.
Pointing out the consequences of a preschooler's behavior for others and for himself is also a helpful lesson. He doesn't want to play with children who hurt him. Instead, tell Charles in words that you are angry. This kind of response gives your child important information. It teaches him how his actions affect others and how to be responsible and get along in the world.