Here are more tips from decorating experts on turning your bedroom into a refuge. He suggests a soothing color, although designer Jay Dillinger points out that this is your chance to try a color like chocolate brown that you'd be afraid to use elsewhere in the house. Scents, such as lavender, are an inexpensive way to create a relaxing atmosphere. A comfortable chair and perhaps an ottoman are important additions. It might not be possible, but a fireplace in the bedroom is wonderful.
Upholstered headboards are comfortable and add a feeling of warmth to the room.
Everyone needs at least one set of luxury sheets. If you like floral patterns, this is the room to use them in. Matelasse coverlets are very much in style.