The boys then begin to feel ashamed of their true feelings. This first happens at age six and is associated with the boy going to school. It then happens again in adolescence. Pollack points out that boys will naturally separate at their own pace and should not be forced to do so. Otherwise there is fallout that affects the boys, and ultimately, our society.
Several chapters cover the ways that mothers and fathers can connect with boys.
There are also chapters about the value of sports and friendships. Problems, including depression, suicide, violence, and divorce are covered. Our boys will then become stronger, which can only benefit us all. The book is a highly recommended and excellent resource for any parent. You can order this book in paperback.