But her comment wasn't funny to a young adolescent struggling with weight. Teasing that criticizes one's looks is especially painful, so teach your child she must never poke fun at someone about his or her body. It's off limits. Don't permit this, either. A child who's allowed to verbally abuse his or her siblings or parents is more likely to become a mouthy teenager who blasts peers and disrespects adults.
Some sensitive children dissolve into tears at the slightest teasing.
But it's not always in the best interest of your child for you to come to the rescue. Your child matures as he learns to handle things on his own. At some point, every child will be the brunt of teasing. A wise parent won't make a bigger deal of it than it is. Instead, encourage your kid to laugh at herself or to ignore the barbs.