I also know that failure to intentionally construct a caring environment leaves a moral vacuum in which a range of random behaviors will occur. Community demands forgiveness, the ability to recognize that each of us is a work in progress and that we make mistakes as we grow. We must not lose sight of the fact that most people aspire to lead positive lives, contribute to society, and genuinely connect their lives to others. At the same time, there are many in our society who are isolated and disconnected from positive social institutions. Such isolation allows for personally and socially destructive behaviors.
Some people learn hate, while others learn love.
Whatever the response, our ability to move forward as a community when we have been damaged by hate will be anchored to our ability to draw upon our collective energy and stay true to our values. We need community as a healing element. The environment we have allowed to develop has profoundly affected the lives of many in our community. Many have been the direct targets of racism, sexism, and other forms of violence. As a community we must possess the capacity to embrace and support those who have been hurt by those who are not in community with us.