Dr. Louise Davis, child and family development specialist with Mississippi State University's Extension Service, said the holidays can be overwhelming if one person assumes all the responsibility for the many details needing attention.
Some people are just better at certain things, and they spend time in their most gifted areas.
Families need to sit down and communicate their expectations, then divide tasks and responsibilities so that everyone can contribute to the holiday experience. Davis said children need to see parents sharing in the holiday effort. Take time to teach children that the holidays are a time of giving to and doing for others. Even when parents are divorced, effective communication for the good of the children is important. The list of holiday chores can be staggering when considered by a lone family member.