I frequently receive e-mail and questions about birth control and sexuality, and I am glad to answer these questions whenever possible. I attempt to respond to what I have noticed are the most common problems facing couples. Whenever I become aware of teens having sex , I am deeply concerned.
Sex is a wonderful and powerful expression of love.
Like a fire or a gun, it should not be used by someone unprepared for the consequences of its use. I have counseled with many, many teens, and I have yet to find one who was even partially prepared to deal with the consequences of sexual behavior. Pregnancy is the natural result of having sex. Once a pregnancy results, there are usually three options, and each has its own set of unpleasantries. Abortion is a common response to teen pregnancy.