Don't get caught up in meaningless or destructive illusions. When trying to understand dreams and fantasies it is hard to be abstract. You must begin by dealing with your own dreams and fantasies. It is essential for them to be encountered in a personal fashion. This fantasy of yours that is promoting the illusion of objectivity.
Some people use their imaginations to manipulate the images of others.
They attempt to control others in their imaginations even if they cannot control them in physical life. Not being able to get what they want from others physically, they try to take this from them in their imaginations. They can relate to these fantasy images to much. This will cause others to be perceived unclearly. They are to busy projecting private mental images over the physical images of others to respond to what others are creating.