Concentrate on what turns you on the most. Be positive Some women go through a stage of arousal where they are not becoming further excited. Many feel that this is where their arousal will end and that they will not be able to achieve an orgasm. Once a woman believes that she is not going to be able to have an orgasm, that is often exactly what happens. It is okay for you to touch yourself during sexual intimacy with a partner.
Self stimulation is encouraged, and often accentuates the feeling of intercourse.