Because of frequent and unrealistic media depictions, they may think violent events are more common than they really are. Children may not fully appreciate the true consequences of violent behaviors. As a result, children pretend to be violent in their play with little harm, yet when they become frustrated or angry, these behaviors may take a more serious form in some children. Participate in family management training or counseling opportunities. Specific skills can be learned to reduce stress and challenges of raising children, including problem-solving, communication, coping with anger and stress and conflict mediation.
Training is often available through the school or faith communities or in the broader community.
Seeking help from friends or family members who are experienced parents is another way to better meet the needs of children. By working together and accepting responsibility where appropriate, we can help the children in our communities feel more safe. Charlotte W. Cross Extension Specialist, Youth Development, Teen Assessment Project Director UNH Cooperative Extension programs and policies are consistent with pertinent Federal and State Laws and regulations on non-discrimination regarding race, color, religion, sex, age, national origin, sexual orientation, disability, veteran status, or marital status. UNH, U.S. Dept. of Agriculture, and New Hampshire counties cooperating.