So, using substances may also impair our ability to protect ourselves. Female condoms are available in drug stores and are an effective, female-controlled barrier method. Using a condom may be easier said than done, but it s definitely possible. We need to remember that this isn t an issue of trust. It s better to lose a relationship than ruin your life.
Some people think that condoms decrease the pleasure of sex.
An untreated STD leaves a sista more vulnerable to HIV infection. Talking about getting tested can be very uncomfortable for you and your partner. Make sure that what needs to be said is said. But also listen to your partner s feelings and concerns. Partners may prefer to get tested together.