We must see one another through eyes of faith and hope. We are to receive one another as Jesus received us. And when we came to Jesus we were all freely accepted. Another way in which we can demonstrate our love is by how we speak about and to one another. The Scriptures exhort us to speak words seasoned with grace.
Words are powerful things.
They can either encourage or discourage. The words we speak ought to be words of encouragement. If you become someone who always has an encouraging word people will beat a path to your door. Everyone likes an encourager. No one likes a cynical, sharp-tongued back bitter.