The prettiest silver has a patina as it's been used and used. Silver is a wonderful memory maker for Southerners. You may remember the gravy boat that is always brought out on Thanksgiving or the sip of your first mint julep in a real julep cup. Whether you enjoy bringing out a piece that's been passed down through your family or you're just starting a collection, silver makes an indelible memory that travels from one generation to the next. The secret of a good room is to have something black, something very comfortable, and something unexpected.
Silver is a wonderful unexpected item.
Even if your entertaining is informal, add at least a silver serving spoon or accessory. Use silver in unconventional ways. Stilton cheese and marrow scoops make interesting, unusual bar servers. A child's baby cup is great for accessories or as a vase with a single seasonal bloom. Don't be afraid to mix your good silver with cheaper reproduction or plated pieces.