The WTM discussion forum is here. Your child's lack of enthusiasm for school, and subsequent lack of success in the classroom, may mean she is not learning according to her strengths. Every child was born with different thinking patterns, or learning style strengths. Our learning style is the way our brain perceives and processes information. In other words, it's the way we see our world.
Some children are visual learners.
If they see something, they can usually remember it. Descriptive language is another tool that helps this learner. Other children learn best by listening and talking. If you see children moving their lips as if they are talking to themselves, or turning to their neighbor to whisper something, often they are repeating what they just learned. Auditory learners need activities that allow them to do this, such as verbal drills with a partner, spelling words out loud, or engaging in small group discussions.