I assured him that I was not. Ever since, he asks questions about my MS with apparent ease. That question seemed to break a barrier within himself and between the two of us. Having friends who know about your MS can be essential. In addition, a support group of people who share similar concerns, or NMSS peer counselors can provide relief, understanding, and direction.
Timing is critical.
Telling every person you date could be a bore, but not telling when the relationship progresses is unfair to both persons. How to tell. The person you tell needs information, not a label that provokes frightening images. We recommend writing down what you want to convey and doing some role-playing with someone you trust. When you have practiced and feel more confident, you will be more able to speak candidly and without apology.