That happens once in a while. In Deer Park there's a soliloquy by Elena that's way ahead of my knowledge of women. It was like something popped. We always know much more than we think we know otherwise we couldn't be writers. Men, especially men in this country, measure sex on performance points.
Women tend to think a little more about their role.
It gets very cerebral. Of course it's different, and you would write about it differently. It was funny. She asked me a question at the beginning about point of view, and asked me to read it. I told her that if I read it, and she didn't finish it, she would never forgive me.