You might want to talk to more than one campus pastor to gather a variety of perspectives and ideas quickly. University of Chicago students are able to use many of the libraries in Hyde Park's five seminaries. We can bless your new home, whether you own or rent, with a liturgy that can include your friends and family. You might want to plan a memorial service in remembrance of someone close to you who has died. Whether you couldn't go to the funeral, or you went to the funeral and it wasn't a good experience, campus pastors can help you plan a gathering on campus or nearby that will help you express your grief in a meaningful way.
Some people find it helpful to plan something to mark the anniversary of a death.
A soul friend is someone whom you trust who can help you articulate your beliefs and doubts, and direct you to practices that will help you grow spiritually. Any of the campus pastors can act as such a sould friend, and meet with you either a couple of times, or over a long period of time. The campus pastors also want to be of help to you in any crisis or need.