No one would believe that Fred Astaire and Ginger Rogers did not practice in order to be graceful as they appeared on screen. The same holds true for sexual activity in the bedroom. Good lovers are made, not born. Fearing failure, they do only what is tried and true. One of the most common problems that couples have is the lack of innovation.
Sex becomes boring.
Such predictability can lead to staleness and apathy. Communication about sexuality, and the willingness to experiment will keep the bedroom activities exciting, interesting and fun. It costs nothing to compliment your partner and it sure feels good to receive them. We do not have to wait until some occasion when we purchase a greeting card to let our mates know that we think they are special. Another small thing that feels good.