You want to snuggle, he wants sex. You want commitment, he says oops, it's time to go. Join the club. Men are often more able to separate sex from the emotional relationship. A lot of men have difficulty getting into intimacy.
Sex is a way they can do that.
So they often start their relationships with sex and bring the feelings in later. Many men don't like women who want you to talk about your deepest emotions. Men like novelty in their sexual lives, Dr. Pietropinto says. They're more likely to suggest that you wear provocative clothing or seek exotic places to have sex. When you do make love, a man is probably more concerned about his performance than you are.