When your daughter gets too old to pin down on the floor or toss up in the air, a big bear hug can often do just as much good. Host an impromptu picnic for your daughter and her friends. While flipping the burgers, take the chance to get to know the people outside your family who are an important part of your daughter s life. Studies have shown the more physically active a girl is during childhood and adolescence, the less likely she is to get pregnant, develop an eating disorder, drop out of school, abuse drugs or stay in an abusive relationship. Put some fluffy pillows and warm blankets on the floor, pop some popcorn and read stories or watch one of her favorite movies.
Snuggling is a great way to create an emotional bond.
Give her a sense of history. Dig out your old photo albums and share them with your daughter. Show her where she fits into the family tree. Tell her stories about what life was like when you were growing up. Make a point to really listen to what your daughter is saying.