Treat teens the way you expect to be treated. Adolescents have much to offer-provided they are given a chance. One way is simply to ask for their opinions and suggestions- and then pay attention to what they have to say. Recognize their talents, abilities and efforts Instead of assuming teens already know when they've done a good job, tell them so. This means providing specific feedback about what they're doing, as well as telling them that their contributions and actions are appreciated.
Teens live in a terribly competitive world.
Sometimes they feel that no matter what they do, it's just not good enough. Look for ways to let teens know they are valued and respected because of who they are and the qualities that make them unique and special-not just for how well they measure up to others' standards. Help teenagers learn to believe in themselves by recognizing that effort and progress are often as valuable as awards and winning. By the time teenagers reach young adulthood, they are expected to be ready to leave home and take charge of their own destinies. This doesn't happen overnight.