She was still lubricated and receptive to him as he eventually mounted, and ejaculated with his own intense climax after thirty seconds of rapid thrusting. Still in her afterglow, the woman held the man as together they quietly congratulated themselves and each other for a spectacular end to a spectacular evening. But, we have already said that some people, on one or the other end of that thrusting penis, would like intercourse to last longer. There is concern, there are things a couple can do. However, there is no illness here, only individual differences.
Some men are fast, some are slow, and most fall somewhere on the continuum in-between.
It is also unfortunate that some professionals claim to be able to cure premature ejaculation with some simple exercises and within six to eight weeks. Techniques for better ejaculatory control can indeed be learned, but it takes time and patience, it helps if both partners are involved, and it requires that some things learned never be forgotten without the risk of once more feeling out of control. It is probably obvious that women should never blame or shame a man for ejaculating rapidly. Rapid ejaculation has nothing to with love, and everything to do with a super-sensitive nervous system. I would like to assure the women in relationships with rapid ejaculators that these men are not doing this on purpose.