Jesus was not one such as this. We read of Him that the crowds heard Him gladly, and that He was accused of being a friend of tax collectors and sinners. From a wedding feast to parties in private homes to times of grieving He was a welcome and sought after presence. There is nothing like a grace-filled disposition for putting the devil to flight. Grace and truth are meant to go together.
True orthodoxy is preserved in love.
It finds its origin in grace, its present in kindness, and its future in mercy. Holiness is living the truth in love. Glory to You for Your inexpressible gift. Free Press, 1995. I picked up this excellent book as a parent, moralist, educator, and New Testament scholar.