New laws, however, are not the only answer. Too many people continue to believe that domestic violence is a private matter between a couple, rather than a criminal offense that merits a strong and swift response. This questions implies the victim is to blame for this abuse. Even when cases are brought, domestic crimes are difficult to prosecute. All too often victims are so terrorized that they fear for their lives if they call the police.
Silence is the batterer's best friend.
We have to end the silence and change our attitudes toward domestic crime. Neighbors must contact the police when they hear violent fights in their neighborhoods. Don't turn up the television to block out the sounds of the drunken argument next door. Call the police. Teachers should be alert to signs that students have witnessed violence at home.