It's that simple. Remember that A person has the right to say no to sex at anytime for any reason. Rape is never the victim's fault. No one ever asks, wants, or deserves to be raped. Date or acquaintance rape is all too common.
Women can rape women and men can rape men.
Remember what rape is. Being under the influence of alcohol is never an excuse. If the victim is too drunk to say no, it's still rape. If the perpetrator is too drunk to know what he or she is doing, it's still rape. Go on a group date or meet in a public place.