It is by Frederica Matthewes-Green. Not that it is an unsuccessful approach. Christianity is not about God doting over humans. It is about humans coming to God, paying attention to God, serving him in their lives. Worship is not about being entertained, or being refreshed for the week ahead, and not even about building bonds of fellowship.
Worship is about adoring one who is holy and who is a consuming fire.
We lose our petty selves to him, to be reborn as servants, not our own but bought with a price. Our budgets may soar. We may have to build new gymnasiums and conference centers and increase the pastoral staff. Our churches may rise to prominence and influence that the mainline churches had in the 1950s. A few decades later, we may wonder where it all went.