As adults, we can choose to structure events and contests so that competition is a learning experience. Competition becomes negative when winning becomes the overriding goal. In these instances, only a few people are able to achieve their goal. The majority of individuals will feel beaten and defeated. Striving to achieve a goal is a productive form of competition where success is measured in growth and not by a ribbon or trophy.
Youth strive to be their best and measure success against a standard.
Individual differences are allowed for and individuals can build on their personal abilities, knowledge and skills. The goal is personal development, rather than being champion or beating others. Cooperation Benefits Youth Cooperative activity is an extremely positive method of learning. Avoiding the negative side of competition Studies have shown that results of competition are negative when they focus only on the outcome or winning. Children who do not win may feel that they have failed and have negative feelings about themselves.