Somehow, Jesus gave people both, and their lives were changed. We need to copy His truth and love balance in the way we treat our family, our mate, our co-workers, our friends, the folks at church, the folks who don't know Jesus. You see, we've got to honestly tell people the truth, but if you do it in love they'll feel valued even though the truth was tough to hear. You see, if you really love people you'll confront them when they're out of God's bounds. It isn't love to let people proceed down 'Destruction Boulevard' without showing them what they're doing.
Truth is good, but too much of it without love leaves people cold.
Love is good, but too much of it without truth leaves people in hot water. Give the people you care about 'both', like Jesus did . Jesus gives us both, and He captured our heart and changed our life.