Women are great listeners. We know this because they say so. We know this because women say so. Maybe it's because a common language separates us.
Shared experiences provide the basis for intimacy.
Most women know this. But pop feminist ignore the kind of intimacy men often share, expecting that we should duplicate what women do to experience intimacy in romantic relationships. This makes no sense. Where a single word can have many meanings, common experiences are often essential to clear communication between individuals who don't really know what those words mean. Most women share enough in common to make such communication possible.