Decisions boil down to a matter of judgement and sometimes the key to sound judgement is taking the time to duly consider the issue at hand. This approach is not at odds with being decisive. It is at odds with acting hastily. Sense of Justice Sense of justice is an all-important trait. There are few quicker ways to lose a following than to appear arbitrary, partial, or unfair.
Standards are critical.
Set them, articulate them, model them, and hold everyone to the same measure equally. Young people will respond. They are comfortable in an environment in which they know the boundaries. We all like to know what is expected of us, and the consequences of failing. To lead others, you must know your business.