Mother's full maiden name. This is best solved by listing the mother as Alice Fosdick Gooden. Spouse's full name. If the spouse is female, again, include the maiden name. Date of marriage.
Year is minimal.
Place of marriage. Always include all spouses. If there was a divorce, or more than one, it is still important to list all marriages, with accompanying dates and places, if known. Also include the year and place of any divorces. If one or more spouses died before the person whose obituary you are writing, include at least the year and place of death.