Many parents may be surprised to learn that teachers, especially new teachers, are sometimes equally anxious about encounters with parents. Avoiding Conflicts Between Parents and Teachers Through Open, Ongoing Communication T he foundation for good parent-teacher relationships is frequent and open communication. Both teachers and parents share the responsibility for creating such a foundation. There are several strategies teachers can use to establish a climate conducive to open communication. Some teachers encourage two-way communication by including in newsletters or letters home a short survey about children's interests or parents' hopes or expectations for the school year.
Teachers can invite parents to visit the class at any time that is convenient to the parent.
When they visit, parents can monitor their child's perceptions of a situation and see for themselves what the teacher is trying to achieve with his or her students. Elicit expressions of parents' concerns and interests in preparation for parent-teacher conferences . Some schools organize parent-teacher meetings to discuss their goals early in the school year. On these occasions, teachers can ask parents to share their main concerns and goals for their child. Involve parents in classroom activities .