In fact, sometimes it doesn't seem to want to get up and play at all. The girlfriend is really starting to take this personally, but I know it's not her fault. Are there any vitamins, diets, etc. Signed, Here and Gone Dear Here and Gone, Erection problems can be mainly physical, mainly psychological, or a mambo combo. You say that you are unable to maintain an erection during intercourse.
Some men have problems keeping erections at the beginning of a relationship.
Then, after they become more comfortable with their new partners, their erections become more reliable. Pay attention to your erection patterns to help you decide if you need to see a urologist or a sex therapist. If you have erections when you wake up or through masturbation, but not with a partner, that's important information that says your body is working correctly, physically. These kinds of difficulties are common and transient. You can view them as part of life rather than as problems.