Part of the reason that this is so is because many women do not realize that they are being illegally victimized since the act is committed by someone they know. Unfortunately, date rape is a common crime in our society, and it often occurs in a college environment. 1 in 8 college women have been victims of rape. 1 in 12 college men admitted to sexually abusing women but did not consider themselves rapists. Also, you should realize that men and women share a responsibility in a relationship.
Women have a responsibility to talk openly about sexual expectations.
They should assert themselves in their rights and reject the sexual stereotype that defines women as passive and compliant. There is nothing for you to feel ashamed of or guilty about. And remember, reporting date rape may lessen the chance of it happening to other women. For help in overcoming the effects of rape, seek counseling. The Counseling Center for Human Development offers supportive counseling services and referrals for victims of rape or sexual abuse.