It is best to keep the abuse a secret, so that they don't have to endure talking to any one else about it. A rape offender commits his offense for sexual gratification. Offenders could stop their sexually offending behavior on their own, if only they really wanted to stop. All it takes is a desire to do so. Men who rape do so because they cannot find a consenting partner.
Some men rape because they are under the influence of drugs or alcohol.
They represent the majority of molesters. Victims can suffer many forms of physical and emotional harm including fear, shame, guilt, embarrassment and rejection. Cases of children making up stories are rare. The level of trauma that is incurred is based on many factors. With appropriate support, children can work through their trauma.