And if you are steamed because your partner doesn't do the dishes or doesn't take enough of an interest in your hobbies, chances are you won't let yourself be carried to the pinnacle of orgasmic pleasure. Communication is again the best antidote. Once an emotional issue is resolved, passion and orgasm can surface once again. The body is a map of erogenous zones that respond to the touch of your partner. Anorgasmic women and anorgasmic men are equally likely to blame their lack of orgasm on an inexperienced partner, or bad technique.
Sexual positions stimulate women and men in different ways.
However, unfavorable positions were not picked as primary obstacles to orgasm. And even more surprising, twice as many anorgasmic men than women blamed sexual positioning for their lack of orgasm. Even Shakespeare once commented that alcohol increased sexual desire but impeded sexual performance. Realizing the obstacles to your orgasm is the first step to overcoming them. The second step is communication with your partner to clear up any issues or sexual details that may involve him or her.