A more organic structure, where everyone can talk with everyone else, makes more sense. Power is something that is shared with those who are part of the group. Language is always more complex than just the words may indicate. The closer relationship between the two halves of a woman's brain, compared with those of a man's brain, suggest greater left-right connectedness and a better ability to sense meaning from seemingly unrelated information. If women become assertive or angry, their behavior is characterized in negative ways.
Women are more concerned with emotional infidelity than men are, fearing a loss of the relationship.
It is not some intentional strategy. They are not trying to confuse you. If you are part of a team of men and women that are in negotiations, be aware of the team dynamics, the team assignments, and the team objectives to ensure that misunderstandings are minimized. Be alert to recognizing the communication style and needs of the other party and connect with them in a manner that leads to your objective. Place emphasis on learning and clarifying the agendas of the parties.