The voice of your father still echoes in your head and those same words come out of you too. Sometimes this is good and at other times it is not beneficial. If you look carefully you will find that statement is not altogether true. Some things our parents said to us hurt and some of us still hurt to this day. But there is hope.
Words bruise and batter on the inside like physical blows bruise and lacerate the skin.
That's why we call it verbal abuse. We're often unaware of the damage our words cause because we can't see the inner cuts and bruises. Even when the verbal assault stops, the emotional damage continues within the child into adulthood. Taking delight in you child's suffering is abusive. With every dish you wash, ust remember what a disgusting little creep you've been.