It means taking advantage of your events and relationships to work effectively. Some churches have events where children can come and make gifts for family members. Offer to pick up the child and take her to and from church. Invite the family and offer to meet at a particular place in the building. Better yet, bring them with you.
Some parents are more willing to attend low-stress events at church.
Consider planning a springtime picnic at a park near the church. Or, bring the child to VBS and encourage the parents to attend Family Night. Before an event, try to find adults with similar interests to the family you are inviting. Arrange for them to meet. Work with the Teachers of Siblings Be sincere.