One way would be to divide them up between even and odd years. For example, the children will be with parent A on Thanksgiving and Christmas Eve on even years, and then the children will be with parent B for Christmas Day on even years. Children will live up to their expectation of what is expected of them and their belongings. What are your thoughts on handling the children's clothes Children will wear different clothes at each parent. The children's medical and dental well being.
Typical childhood illnesses such as chicken pox, strep throat, ear infection.
Broken arm, or leg. Emergency room visit. The health of your child is very important, do not compromise it. Make sure the other parent has all the proper forms and phone numbers. This is a start on how shared parenting can work.