WE make the choices, and so, we make our choices very carefully. If it does not manifest, then perhaps we have asked wrongly or do not have all the information. A n example can be given here in the working of love spells. To manipulate a person into a relationship in which they have shown no interest developing is to try to negate that person' s right to free will. But Witches do cast love spells.
Self esteem is essential in correct magical working.
To bring a complete and balanced person into a relationship, is indeed to give a precious gift to another. To be capable of receiving love, we must be able to truly give love. T he point here is that while Witches are free to influence energies to accomplish a purpose, they are not free to manipulate people. A nother area of confusion can result from a too quick interpretation of the Rede. Witches are empowered individuals.