Such a tradition can be as simple as one family member each week getting to choose where the family eats out one night or it can be a particular activity the family does together. Traditions are often passed from parents to children, and from grandparents to grandchildren. Their longevity is due to the satisfaction they give that one generation wants to pass on to another. Dr. Louise Davis, child and family development specialist with the MSU Extension Service, said good traditions can be simple, nonstressful and adaptable. Some holiday traditions are not as easy to keep when children get older as they used to be.
Traditions help strengthen families by creating bonds and a sense of belonging in children.
Get children involved in forming and participating in the tradition to make it more meaningful to them. Davis referred to one family's Thanksgiving tradition of writing something for which they are thankful on the plain white tablecloth at their place at the table. Each year at Thanksgiving, the family adds to the list. Each holiday season offers many opportunities for parents and children to do things together for the benefit of others and that strengthen their family ties. Recommendations on this web site do not endorse any commercial products or trade names.