Each time you utter these words, your connection with your partner becomes stronger. As you prepare yourself to give and take in order to reach agreement, you feel more alive and more powerful. Feeling Powerful To negotiate love effectively, you have to see yourself as a powerful. In any relationship, you are as powerful as you perceive you are. Each sex has special, different kinds of power within.
Women have emotional, sexual and maternal powers.
Men have the powers of valuing and recognition, affection and caring, sexual acceptance, occupational support, and fathering. As you get to know yourself, you get more in touch with your inner power, which ultimately comes from God's. When negotiating love, you have to realize you are as powerful as your partner. You each bring to your relationship the unique power of your own sex. Women and men really are equals and want to treat each other this way.