This is an awesome and sacred privilege being able to cooperate with God in the creation of his own children, whom he desires to live eternally in his company. Contraception is contrary to God's plan because it artificially separates sexual love from its God-given power to create new life. No matter what type of contraception is used, a girl can still get pregnant. It happens and then there is a developing life to deal with. Chlamydia which, undetected, can lead to pelvic inflammatory disease and scarring of the fallopian tubes, is the fastest growing cause of infertility and may be transmitted by skin contact outside the area covered by the condom.
Sex involves our full person, our whole self.
There is no condom for the heart, mind, or soul. I truly regret that my first time was with a guy that I didn't care that much about. Since that first night, he expects sex on every date. When I don't feel like it, we end up in an argument. I don't think this guy is in love with me, and I know deep down that I am not in love with him either.