We don't need to be ritualistic or leagalistic about our time with God, but we do need to spend time with God. Each of us are wired to sense God in many ways. Still, most men will especially identify with some of the following suggestions. As you read along, why not mark the ideas that most ring your bell. Then, pick one or two to try out.
Some men are contemplative.
They experience a greater awareness of God when they think about who He is and what He has done. There are two ways to contemplate God. Sit quietly in a quiet room at a quiet time of the day. Become aware of everything in the room-the noises. Become aware of the Spirit of God in the room, in the same sense that He was always there even when you were not focused on Him.