The therapist's willingness to be active and directive when it's called for, not to assume that listening by itself is enough, or that the patient's needs for advice or reassurance are childish and should be ignored. T hese last three factors are things you should definitely ask directly of the therapist. We are not gods, though some of us think so, and we will not be offended by direct questions. If you find a therapist who is offended, go find another therapist. As a matter of fact, it's best if you can to see two or three people for an initial consultation, and choose the one you feel can be most helpful.
Treatment is effective and affordable.
Talk to your health care provider or call your local mental health clinic before a bad situation becomes worse.