Romantic lovemaking on the other hand, can be an all day affair with subtle hints at favors to be shared later. Romantic evenings, with a bottle of wine, crackers and cheese add to the intensity of anticipated pleasures. Cuddling and fondling can go a long way towards making your fantasies come true. It is the dreaming and planning which builds desire. Do it often.
Stress is the number one problem in relationships and comes in many forms.
Wherever the cause of the stress, workplace, home environment, lack of money, possibly the relationship itself, stressful emotions can put a cap on sex, and romantic lovemaking just doesn't happen . The solutions to stress are as varied as the problems of stress. It is important to recognize your stress and how it is effecting your relationship. Make a plan and just do it. When you're not stressed, you're much more open to making love.