Some might puzzle at the thought of paying someone to abuse them. She's speaking specifically of the men who come to her for abuse, but it soon becomes clear that this applies to her fellow dominas as well. Given the misconceptions that frequently pervade popular ideas about the topic, it's not surprising that many local dominas were reluctant to speak about their profession. Most people, Lady Victoria admits, don't understand what she does. Every-body thinks we're prostitutes, and that's far from the case.
Sex is a driving force for human beings as much and needing air or water or food.
Lady Victoria became a professional domina eight years ago. She was performing in a local peep show and came in contact with men who expressed an interest in being dominated. Experience has taught Victoria how to discover a client's interests. You have to know what they like, what they're afraid of, a little bit about their background, whether they're claustrophobic. People need to realize that we're not hurting each other.