Then examine your list to remove expectations that might be nice but are unrealistic. If you have identified goals that appear reasonable but are not being met, make an appointment to meet with the program's administrator. Be aware that even though the programs are held at school, they might be run by a local ymca, park district or private company. Begin and end the conversation with positive comments about the service. If the administrator promises change, set an appointment to meet or talk again by phone in four to six weeks to get an update on the improvements.
Twos appreciate the security of a routine, so be consistent with nap time each day.
In addition, develop a routine of prenap transition activities. You might set aside some music or lullaby tapes to be used just before nap time. Or sing the same song as you pull down the shades or plug in the night light. Just do the same things in the same order each time. That will help your daughter settle down.