Please see my separate page on Finding North American Friends Meetings and Churches for a listing of where to look by state. Friends encompass a wide range in both theology and style of worship. If there are several Friends congregations in your area, you might want to visit not only the one closest to you but others to find one where you feel most comfortable. Unprogrammed congregations have no pre-planned order of worship or sermons, but gather in silence with anyone moved by the Spirit being free to offer vocal ministry. These are not hard and fast divisions.
Some congregations offer both styles of worship.
You can get a clue to style of worship from the name of the congregation. Unprogrammed congregations virtually always call themselves meetings. Most programmed congregations call themselves churches, but some use the traditional meetings term. If you can't find Friends congregations in your area using the Internet, and there are congregations in your area, there are more traditional ways to find them. The Friends World Committee for Consultation Section of the Americas periodically publishes a Friends Directory of Meetings, Churches and Worship Groups in the Section of the Americas .