Just find a place where you like the music and don't criticize someone else's style of worship. Some of our smaller churches don't have the advantage of being able to have professional musical talent, so they resort to whoever had some kind of music lessons years ago or someone who has enough guts to stand up in front of people and open their mouth. Sometimes, the singers and musicians are not the best. Well, if you think you can do better, go ahead and try, but don't judge people on their musical ability. You don't have to be a virtuoso to be anointed.
Some churches have great pipe organs, some have orchestras, some have small ensembles.
Some have it loud, some soft, some stately, some contemporary. The style of music is not important, it is the heart of the worshipper. The music doesn't make the worship, the worship makes the music. Find a church that has the kind of music you like, and pray for the worship leader and the pastor and support them. Now, I'm not a dancer.