The first thing we have to do is to continue to have proper communication with Christ. If you re going to develop a relationship with someone, one of the fundamental, key ingredients to creating a relationship is communication talking to that individual being with that person. Developing a relationship with God or Jesus Christ is no different. His actions, how He would make decisions, then you can t expect Him to have much of an impact on your life. No more than you would anyone else, if you don t spend any time with them.
Time is a critical ingredient for developing relationships.
That s why as a father, I find it very important to spend time with my children. It is the same way with us as children of God. We need to spend time with Him. He s not the one who is unavailable. It s us who choose to go outside and play instead of spending some time with Dad.