The only way to get love is to give love. All other wats are temporary, unfulfilling, and impotent. Without struggle, we cannot know ecstasy. Dull people never learn from their own experience. Most folks learn some things from their own experienced.
Wise people learn from the experience of others.
Before you run off treasure-hunting, take complete inventory of the jewels that you already own. If you hope that something will happen, that usually means that you are afraid taht if won't happen. Be willing to let it not happen so you don't get trapped in fear. What I really want is peace of heart. Not peace of mind, because the mind is like a computer - a great servant but a lousy master.