During our entire life we constantly are being shaped, pressured and exhorted into accepting the current version of acceptable public tenets and conduct. From childhood through our last days, you cannot evade the lessons that are unending. This has always been the price that needs to be paid for the security to reside within a 'Civilization'. By its very nature, this process is neutral. Perspective and value systems will judge if this method of consociation is freely accepted.
Society has a deep vested interest in creating cooperative members.
Conflict should be keep to a minimum if the mechanisms of a society are to achieve their objective. It can take the form of an idea, a structure or a leader. But the necessity of practical requirements demand that choices must be made. Even the decision to do nothing is a choice. So what we have as one of the cornerstones of organization to community life is the process of establishing a norm by which all actions are judged.