At 8 months of age, these babies were also better able to calm themselves and continued to show better weight gain and intellectual and motor development compared to babies who didn't receive the massages. You don't need extensive training to provide the benefits of massage to your baby. Softly stroke your baby's tummy, back, arms and legs, using slow, deliberate movements. Follow your baby's lead. He'll let you know what he likes and dislikes.
Some infants respond best to quick strokes and kisses and others prefer a longer, slower caress.
Still others seem to like softer, lighter touches. Pay attention to your own child's reactions to your touch and you'll soon learn his preferences. Maintain eye contact. Look at your baby and talk to her quietly during the massage. Set a time limit.