Women prefer a slow buildup. Most men absolutely love getting a tongue kiss in the ear, but most women abhor this. Men tend to be visual creatures, coming alive at the mere sight of a bare breast. Women are more aural and tactile. They need to hear and to feel a man in order to get excited.
Women usually know when they are going to have sex, whereas men can be surprised.
Women usually make up their minds based on how they've been treated. And often the thing that tips the tables isn't anything you are aware of. The book contains plenty of advice on how to bring your lover to unparalleled heights of pleasure, but it is not just about great moves or technical proficiency. The deepest and most satisfying sex usually comes when two people are open, honest, and respectful in their communication,'' Paget says. It is not a substitute for professional medical advice.