Sexual assault can be devastating to all victims, regardless of gender, and many reactions are shared by both men and women survivors. However, there are some concerns that may be different for you as a male survivor. Many men express concerns about what being sexually assaulted means to their sexuality or their masculinity. There is a myth in our culture that only gay men rape or only gay men are raped. This is not true.
Sexual assault has no boundaries.
The responsibility lies with the assailant. Resources are available for you in our community. If you need medical attention, the Sexual Assault Nurse Examiners at UVA and Martha Jefferson Hospitals are trained to be sensitive to your needs. SARA volunteers and staff are available to provide you support as well as information and referrals. There are also therapists in our area who have experience working with Male Survivors and offer individual counseling and support groups.