Believers can hide severe dysfunction at home by putting their best faces forward at church. Children often contribute to this scenario by erecting false fronts. But an image of perfection often signals deeper problems. When you see a perfect family, that s a red flag, Lees says. No family is without problems.
Some conflict is normal.
Since food is such an important part of society, events all around you can trigger problems. She recalls the need for someone to recognize the seriousness of her problem rather than considering anorexia just a phase. She also valued the way her mother showed gentle concern and made herself available to talk. She didn t force Paige to eat, something that could have easily led to bulimia. Instead, she tried to help Paige get to the root of her problem.