Remember, also, cancer or other chronic illnesses are rarely the cause for infidelity in a good relationship. Treatment might make you feel uncomfortable about your body and sexually unattractive. Open discussion of these feelings with your mate is very important. Intangible personal qualities make up a great part of your attraction for your mate. These have not changed with treatment.
Spouses sometimes hesitate to initiate physical contact.
Support, love and affection do include hugs and caresses. These may lead the partner with cancer to feel more comfortable about sexual intimacy. Taking on new hobbies and learning new skills can bolster your good feelings about yourself. Reconstructive surgery and well-made prostheses help some people overcome physical disabilities and emotional distress. If you cannot seem to regain good feelings about yourself, do seek professional counseling or therapy.