It can help the writer feel a sense of control and closure about death. There are no rules that dictate the format or content of an ethical will. It is important that the writer express his or her heart and personality. The only limitation is the writer s creativity. Ethical wills can take many formats.
Some people use poetry or songs.
Others dictate on a cassette recorder or use a video recorder. A writer who wants the will to remain intact for many years should use acid-free paper that will not disintegrate, fade or mold. The length depends on what the writer chooses to include. Some people describe life events, goals, values and beliefs. Other people address specific topics such as My happiest and funniest moments , Why I love you and will miss you, or My Definition of True Success.