Most young adults develop complex lives that progress in a random manner rather than in a sequential, linear pattern based on age. The maturity rate tends to align with life experience rather than with chronological age. Relationships are paramount with younger adults. They readily seek out friends, social intimacy, community, and companionship. Authentic, meaningful relationships are the goal.
Young adults search for peers, friends, and associates who reflect their viewpoints or perspectives.
This is especially important in their search regarding questions of faith. So . . . they need their space. Create space for them in the congregation. Niches should be acknowledged and affirmed. Despite their fervent desire to hang with each other, they also need the affirmation and validation of both maturing and experienced adults.