As a result they tend to repeat the same relationship patterns they knew as children even when they are resisting these patterns. They seem to have built-in radar that attracts them to partners that have traits similar to their dysfunctional family. They unconsciously support the abusive and addictive behaviors of others. The good news is that this condition need not afflict a person for life -healthy relationships and family life are possible in your future. Group Counseling is a preferred way of dealing with these issues.
Therapy groups are small and include only nine members, with two co-therapists.
Because of their small size, with the encouragement of cross-talking, and professional leadership, participants go deeper and progress more rapidly than with other therapeutic modalities. They also have the support and encouragement of a caring group in carrying through on the needed changes in their lives. Treatment has to be holistic, that is, it must include physical, social and spiritual as well as psychological healing. The core problem is that the participant's True Self -that essential inner identity is submerged in the unconscious and needs to be brought into conscious awareness. When this True Self comes into awareness as a conscious identity they are filled with quiet joy and deep peace and find their life aligned with their true purpose.