I know this question might sound a little silly, but I'm only 16, and this is my first serious relationship. Having never done this before, I have no idea where the clitoris is located or what it feels like. We've only been going out for one month. The clitoris is located toward the top of the vagina, under a hood of skin. When a woman is excited, it usually gets hard, so if you feel a little, hard ball, that's probably it.
Some women find that when they are excited their clitoris becomes too sensitive to touch directly.
So let your girlfriend guide you if you are on the right spot and if you are touching her the way she likes to be touched. As to whether she will later remove her pants completely, since you have only been going together for a month, it wouldn't surprise me if you become more intimate as you spend more time together. If I were you I wouldn't worry about that right now but instead just enjoy whatever pleasure the two of you share at the moment. Write to her in care of this newspaper. Write to her in care of this newspaper.