Use a distraction such as a song, a book, or a favorite activity. Here's a green dot on Joshua's picture. A yellow dot goes here. Before long Joshua is directing where the dots go by pointing to the page. When the teacher senses the time is right, she encourages Joshua to draw the dots himself.
Tantrums can be as hard on parents as they are on children.
Evaluating the situation at a nontemper time can strengthen coping skills. Take preventative steps based on your analysis. If your child frequently has a fit leaving school, arrive early to spend some time with her in an activity. Since children react negatively to rushing, prepare your child for transitions and allow adequate time. In five minutes it will be time to gather up your things and go home.