Yes, that and the experiences of countless others. I can say that I'm optimistic. Kate and I for example are coaching ADDults in a brand new adult treatment center in Cincinnati, The Affinity Center. Understanding that the behavior is not intentionally hurtful, etc. acknowledging that recovery is a process and one's partner's progress will come in fits and starts. With both it is more chaotic but more understanding between partners.
Time management is a biggie - getting projects done on time, for example.
And then there is the paperwork nightmare. And there is the difficulty with trying to find a balance between enough challenge and not pushing yourself too hard. Not so much - it depends on your areas of strength, and for both of us we have verbal gifts. We often try to juggle much more than anyone ever could, so we need to clean house, first, and simplify. That sets me up for anxiety and daily routines thrown out the window.