The tension is all pervasive. We carry it in the very fiber of our muscles, in our memories from toilet training, in the way we walk, talk, think and even feel. For many people, the tension has become so habitual and familiar, it has become transparent. That is, they think the tension is themselves. They do not see the parts of themselves which they mistakenly buried when they were very young as mystical treasures.
Some people can step aside.
They grasp that the deep tensions prohibiting them from producing brown feces at a business meeting, are the same tensions that keep their essence locked in a dark cavern, for fear it will say something honest. There are these schools. I'm not sure if you find them, or if they find you. Once inside, you find yourself finding yourself, contacting the part of you that dreams at night. Almost all of life wants you to forget yourself, to get ahead, get an education, get a job, get money, get laid.