While my Capricorn Moon started in on me, I took total responsibility for everything that happened. I berated myself, I beat myself up, I cursed myself for what a fool I was. I hid my head and wouldn't come out. I was eventually able to work through it, and I was able to see the lessons of my Witch War. What it taught me has changed how I view everything with regard to my religion and community.
Witch Wars are insidious things.
They are an energy unto themselves, and the more people that get involved in it, the more it feeds on itself. Two people in the community can rarely each tell two other people in the community about a heated, emotional, and volatile disagreement without it becoming a Witch War. There are always people to take sides and get caught up in the drama, and it may be a minor Witch War, but it's still a Witch War. There are always allies who will take one side or the other in a War, always minor disagreements that are smoldering, just waiting for the winds of a Witch War to stoke the warm ashes back intoa fire. It takes two to fight a war.