This can be done in a brief classroom meeting. After giving basic information, we discuss what they can do to make their peer feel more comfortable. Perhaps its inviting them to play at recess, sitting next to them at lunch. Often in the discussion, children will bring up their own losses, be it cats or birds, or grandparents. Questions about the death can be asked in a supportive climate.
Teachers play a pivotal role in the partnership.
Often they provide outside support such as visiting you and your child at home, attending the memorial service, and maintaining contact with you through notes and phone calls. Teachers help to provide stability for the child in the school setting. Modifications in work may need to be made. Initially, tests may be postponed. In addition, work might be shortened.