They just expect me to change everything at a moment's notice. Just do what you can do. I can't believe I forgot to call my aunt today. She needs me. His solutions only made things worse.
Women talk to releive tension.
They don't want solutions. What happens is over time, she begins to fight to have her feelings validated. Just listening with empathy is the best thing when your wife is having problems. Also, more hugs, compliments, bringing home flower, writing note of encouragement, etc. Also see the section ' Parents support group ' for a great piece on parent and children with trich, very applicable to other loved-ones too.