But if a mother has difficulty with immunizations or other procedures, I ask that another adult be present to reassure the child. I find that fathers often have a calming effect, especially with boys. Duncan advises parents to help kids prepare for doctor's visits. Before an appointment, it helps to act out procedures on dolls and stuffed animals. Then I let the kids touch my instruments before we begin.
Some mothers add incentives to the mix.
I talk to him the whole time and it calms me down too. When I can see things and ask questions, I feel much more relaxed. Johnson adds that familiar objects help considerably. When Aaron needed stitches, I grabbed my purse and ran. I didn't even know he brought his favorite truck until we got to the emergency room.