Vaginal or rectal bleeding, pain, itching, swollen genitals, vaginal discharge, or sexually transmitted diseases. Unusual interest in or knowledge of sexual matters, expressing affection in ways inappropriate for a child of that age. Fear of a person or an intense dislike at being left somewhere or with someone. Other behavioral signals such as aggressive or disruptive behavior, running away, failing in school, or delinquent behavior. Finally, do not blame yourself.
Sexual abuse is a fact in our society.
Many individuals who molest children find work or are involved in community activities which give them access to children. The vast majority of abuse occurs in situations where the child knows and trusts the adult. Children rarely lie about sexual abuse. Commend the child for telling you about the experience. Assure the child that you will protect him or her.