Or stop in just to shoot the breeze. Post a question, offer advice and enjoy a lively exchange on dozens of topics, from pregnancy to poetry, from career advice to cooking. He has been with three women so far in my dreams. I wouldn t ignore attention-tugging dreams like these, but I d be wary of instant analysis. Dreams are messages from our inner being.
Trouble is, the language of symbols and allusions can be hard to decode.
I recall a story told by a psych professor in one of my earliest grad school classes. One of his female patients repeatedly dreamt that her husband came up behind her, pressed his body against her back, and tried to penetrate her with his penis. In each dream she pushed him away, until, in the last of these dreams, she allowed him to have sex with her. Doctor and patient spent quite a few sessions trying to unravel the meaning of the dreams, to no avail. However, a few weeks after the final dream, the woman learned her husband had been having an affair.