Have clear expectations of how boys and girls relate in all activities. Create a climate and mood in which abstinence is valued and affirmed by youth. Social Competencies Assertiveness skills Youth are assertive in standing up for what they believe. Give opportunities for youth to act on their values and beliefs. Have a clear principle that people are not to be devalued because of what they believe.
Youth are good at making decisions.
Let young people make decisions in programs and special projects. Use experiential activities and simulations that challenge youth to make difficult decisions. Youth are good at making friends. Challenge youth to reach out to newcomers and others who may not have friends. Watch how youth interact with each other to spot those who may need special help with friendship skills.