Quite a few people over the years have asked me what I think being a coach means. Coaching to me is much more than simply someone who teaches moves or runs practices. A coach is a motivator, either directly or indirectly by association. A coach is a helper. I say suggests.
Successful coaches suggest things and then help motivate the wrestler to do the things suggested.
Training kids to wrestle is easy. My hardest job has always been to train the parents. Once the parents get over their personal concepts, ideas and have learned the details of what to look for, the rest isn't really that difficult. I think coaches who complain about getting beat or parents who complain about why their kids don't win really need to look within as in this sport nearly everyone who works hard enough and with enough dedication can be successful. Harder work results in better success.