She has earned what they have not. She ought not be your only concern, but neither last priority nor over-ridden by others demands. Tell this to all involved, so others will be less likely to take advantage of unearned priority. Karyn seems to perceive sinister motives in me. Only she can do that.
Suspicion feeds on itself.
Can look within self. See own motives clearly, honestly. Recognize unworthy motives and resolve not to act on them. Change viewpoints that cause them. I'm scared, to the point of tears.