Non-things, or Quantum objects, like atoms or molecules, don't have attributes. They are basically clusters of oscillating possibilities, the possibilities not even being well-defined. It might reward us to look that way at people, as oscillating possibilities. He took a long draw off his Dos Equis, and signaled the waiter for another. Randomness I associate with the spontaneity that is within people.
Uncertainty is the very essence of romance.
The notion of treating people like possibilities rather than fixed structures is a healthy one, I think. It's so strange. The terrestrial belief system that comes the closest to quantum connectiveness is VooDoo. This was getting good. Of course, the VooDoo conception is naive in comparision to Q.T.'s connectiveness.