Counseling requires a positive attitude and lots of energy. Acting on behalf of the students, as their advocate, provides a great deal of satisfaction. At times a counselor is the only neutral adult in the student's world. Providing a safe, trusting environment for students is a counselor's goal. Parents have an emotional attachment which sometimes clouds their judgement.
Teachers carry the all-powerful club known as grades.
Having a good sense of humor is a necessity for a counselor. Teenagers often find themselves overwhelmed with expectations and stresses from many different directions. Helping prevent young people from taking themselves or events too seriously is an important ability of a successful counselor. Counselors often have a special area of expertise. Being a diplomat is an important role of a school counselor.