Wife doesn't like his job or hers, if she works. Relatively uncommon type. Both are very sociable and have trouble with in-laws. Least common type. Very recently, in another study, Olson interviewed over 5000 engaged couples.
Total marriage is like the vital marriage, except almost everything is done happily together.
She may feel inadequate but she runs the household. She may flirt and get a lot of attention from other men but, in general, she isn't interested in them. Both are trying to prove their supremacy. Both are afraid of not being loved or of being hurt. The anger hides the pain.