If the vibrations are the right speed for you but seem too intense, then you might try draping a cloth between your clit and the vibrator. If even this is too intense, then you might try folding the cloth. You might try using lighter pressure but moving the head of the vibrator on your clit, rather than keeping it stationary and using heavy pressure. If you feel comfortable making a little noise, you may find that letting yourself moan or sigh on your exhalations will improve the whole experience for you. If you want to see just how incredible of an orgasm you can have, then you might experiment with some of the following advanced tips.
Some women find they can have multiple clitoral orgasms with their vibrator.
The secret is to back off on the pressure, keep the vibrator moving, and avoiding direct contact with your clit until the energy builds back up again. Men can enjoy these same vibrators. Men can also enjoy using vibrators on themselves, with or without a partner. Hitachi Magic Wand Good Vibrations reports that this is their most popular vibrator. It comes with a one year manufacturer's warranty.