The second step is learning to live, and continuing the walk without feeling the need to define yourself primarily by the pain you experienced in the past. Transcending your abuse, not just recovering from it. Some of us have tools in our healing process that others find scary. This is the place to discuss them. Anything else you can think of.
Sensitive topics are more than welcome.
How abuse may have affected your sex life, the way you look at God, issues you might have surrounding any facet of your existence that doesn't fit the mainstream. You say it loud. You say it bluntly, and you say it with strength. Stand on your own two feet. Don't shy away.