But as she obeys God, she also begins to see things she never saw before. She realizes, for example, that he is a hard worker and provides well for the family. When we begin to cultivate gratitude and respect for our husbands, we find more and more to respect. Conversely, without repentance and obedience, we see less and less to respect. If only wives would be grateful for their husbands and respect all the good things about their men, they would soon stop complaining and moaning about the things they do not see.
Thankfulness drives away discontent, and respect and honor build the husband up.
In other words, the Bible teaches that the behavior of wives has a big impact on husbands. But frankly, most of them will . Begin with repentance before God, ask for His enabling, and begin to admire, honor, and respect your husband. It will soon grow to be a joy.