Sad last-times are what happy times beget. It does not. I know of at least one person, whose spirit, having died in this manner, did shortly thereafter, physically die as well. It is also how my father's grandfather died. This is a test to help you decide who is the real victim and who, merely the deceased.
Victims feel pain.
The other ones neither feel nor experience any pain or discomfort. The survivors have taken that on for them. You MUST choose it. Life truly IS for the living. You sense deep down it is not proper for you to let your spirit float in limbo.