How to Give Advice to Children - The Natural Child Project How to Give Advice to Children by Naomi Aldort Parents often ask me if there is ever a time when our wisdom as adults is useful to give to our children in stressful situations.
Timing is the key.
Following the child's lead is the best way to know if and when our input is appropriate. In general, children are more capable than we realize in their ability to self-heal. I have found that most of the time children will come to their own wise conclusions if their expression of pain is fully accepted through listening and validation. When our wisdom is essential, they will let us know with specific questions. About once a year, this occurs with my children in the area of emotional distress.