My first instruction to women reading this essay is to go back and read, or re-read, the contributions from other women contained on this site. That fun exercise should give you some reassurance that what you are seeking is okay and that it is achievable. Who knows, you might pick up enough tips there to solve your current orgasmic difficulties. And if you have a story of your own to tell, especially a success story after reading and working on the suggestions offered here, please write them down and send them in. All of this information will be a great help to other women.
Women describe their climaxes differently.
And, indeed, as most orgasmic women can tell you, orgasms are not always alike. Some are explosive, others are quiet. The peak period is accompanied by increased heart rate and blood pressure, a mild clouding of consciousness, and release of tension. There is also an intense wave of highly pleasurable sensations concentrated in the pubic area the intensity of which can vary from orgasm to orgasm. Many people experience a corresponding wave of emotion.