Would like to see his wife in visually appealing lingerie. Husbands character, attitude and how he treats her is more attractive to her than his body. Needs sexual intercourse in order to open his heart to love his wife. He is conditioned to hide and suppress his emotions. The intensity and immediacy of sexual love liberates his suppressed heart to open.
Women are naturally expressive.
They have little trouble expressing their emotions. For them sex is not needed to open their hearts. Therefore his goal is to release this tension. This release gives him satisfaction. Therefore the sooner the man gets release the better.