It can't be felt, so the lovee still feels empty. Love is really a verb, not a noun. The lover is filled with love. All major religions have this somewhere in their teachings. Sexuality is NOT love.
Sexuality is sexuality.
It is mother nature's little trick for making surethere are more little species running around. Sexuality is a need, a drive,a hunger, and as such is not under conscious control. Being destructive in the name of love is sacriledge which merits burning at the stake.