Finally, memories, rather than tangible property, can become the connective link to one's place in the world. There are a few general guidelines that caregivers should consider when helping seniors cope with a tragedy. Aggressive outreach strategies are needed as many elders do not or are unable to seek help. Help people realize that their reactions are normal. Plan group or community ceremonies for anniversary dates.
Supportive relationships are essential.
Help seniors stay in touch with family and friends. If these relationships are not available, consider involvement in a support group. Help re-establish routines and locate a permanent place to live close to familiar surroundings. Enhance self-worth by encouraging seniors to talk about past successes. Help elders set manageable goals.