One perk of the online porn revolution is that you can find someone writing about almost anything and distributing it for free online. Most kids don't have computers, most women don't have computers and internet access, and then, when we have computers, it's often at school or work where there's firewalls and a lack of privacy. It's a lot easier to rummage around in the garage or the tool shed and find Uncle Earl's old Penthouse collection. It's easier to find porn on cable TV, but of course, you don't get much choice there. Most nights I find it much easier to find work by women that is edgy and exciting than to find a man who is self-publishing.
Women feel a lot of righteousness about writing erotica, a lot of female and feminist support.
One of the stereotypes I've seen enforced over and over again is that a woman cannot be a responsible and loving parent AND a pornographer. I am always happy to see women who are open about being parents and erotica writers. I'm a mom, they raise these concerns about my daughter which are pretty ignorant, as you can imagine. They project their sex fears onto my family life. It's one big exercise in latent paranoia.