The notions of the Immaculate Conception and the Virgin Birth, of Mary as mother yet virgo intacta are all contradictory. Virginity is trauma. Young girls arrive at adolescence, a time which can be irrespressibly joyful or tragically sorrowful, and find they are hemmed in by so many taboos that they become bewildered and completely overcome by their mental and physical metamorphosis. Some sail through adolescence with great ease and happiness, but others find it a traumatic or unsettling time. Virginity is a challenge.
Virginity is self-regarding.
A young girl studies her new shape continuously, gazes at it and then covertly compares her development with that of her friends, some of whom will already be almost mature women at a very early age, whilst others remain childlike and underdeveloped. Conversely, she may be tempted to wear tight or low-cut dresses. Girls with small breasts may agonize over their perceived inadequacies and wonder whether they are ever capable of being sexually aroused because of their dificiency in size. Virginity is a thing of beauty. Often a young girl will never realize that she is beautiful per se simply because nobody bothers to tell her.