And it does not mean that nothing needs to be done. I cannot accept that one should do nothing in such circumstances. There is a relationship difficulty that I believe must be taken seriously. But I am likewise troubled at the prospect of doing something that may be right in itself, but causes more harm and more misunderstanding. Humility is needed.
Self righteousness is to be eschewed.
Repentance is demanded wherever a wrong has actually been done. But that is the problem. For myself, I am troubled by the idea of retaining my place on the Standing Committee, lest my brothers and sisters think that their censure does not matter to me. That would be a skandalon . I assure you, friends, it matters.