Get out of the house. Go some place new. Do something different. You will radiate that and that will be the end. If you go to co-ed volleyball at the YMCA, don't do it to get laid.
Women have intuition and they trust it.
Go to play volleyball and possibly, perhaps, maybe meet a few people who are on your wavelength. Do something different tonight. Look at the stars. Turn off that computer and get out there and make yourself change. You are responsible for not meeting and mating.