I also went to see if the culture could be so different there that my approach wouldn't be useful. Couples here don't have the same kinds of problems with sex and intimacy. In many ways, there are significant cultural differences. Adolescents in Denmark and Holland explore sex with much less guilt and shame. Girls often have first intercourse at home in their own beds, with their parents' knowledge and permission.
Women feel as free as men to experiment sexually with multiple partners.
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