Conducting formalities through solicitors can be expensive and often adds to the bitterness and stress involved. An alternative is mediation. Mediators are trained to help couples focus on the best outcome they can achieve both for their own future and that of their children. They help couples identify the issues that need to be sorted out such as children, finance and property and find for themselves a solution that is acceptable to both. Mediation isn't suitable for everyone, however, especially where domestic violence is involved.
Some legal advice is also necessary alongside mediation.
The new Family Law Act is designed to offer more protection for abused women than before. The new Family Law Act will actively encourage couples to use mediation services to resolve disputes - and it will be available free of charge for anyone eligible for legal aid. Mediation can help to prevent the worst effects of separation and divorce and help couples salvage some dignity and stability for their children. Cost is according to means but is free if you qualify for legal aid. Karen and Ray had been married for nine years and had been separated for three months when they decided to go to mediation to see if they could resolve their differences regarding access to the children.