Others may be hopeful that an extra-marital relationship will help their marriage to be better. A few years ago a researcher named Linda Wolfe wrote a book on infidelity in marriage. She interviewed 66 women and found that 21 of them were having affairs to preserve their marriage. Five years later the author checked up on them to see if it worked. 2 God wants us to be happy and he will help us to be happy, but it will be in following His principles for living.
Sex is abused and as a result people feel guilty.
We were created to be sexual beings. Physical attraction is part of God's design. Sex is for pleasure. Therefore a man shall leave his father and mother and be joined to his wife, and they shall become one flesh. And they were both naked, the man and his wife, and were not ashamed.