It is polite to offer a handshake and to bless the soul of the deceased with everyone in the line-up. Finally, one might choose to sit on a chair with the other people seated facing the casket for about 15 minutes. When leaving, the individual might want to repeat the entire process before walking out. A box for donations to causes in the name of the deceased or simply to make a donation to pay for funeral expenses is placed by the door for those who wish to contribute. It is important to point out that some families express grief rather overtly, expecially if the deceased is a young person or someone who was killed while working at a family business.
Some families hire professional mourners to help the relatives to bring out their feelings of loss.
In a few cases, family members might resort to hitting themselves in the head and face as a result of their sorrow. A second prayer and food offering is usually held after 40 days of the death of the deceased.