I was born not for myself only, but for the being of a higher dimension. True love acts in the shortest distance, which is the perpendicular angle where subject and object meet. Think first of everything cubically and vertically. The root of true love is the family of True Parents. Satanic false love has no root.
True love is the ancestor of the family.
If the subject and object come into oneness for the greater purpose, true love will come to them. As we can't discern each color on a multi-colored top that is quickly spinning, in the same way, when the intense give and take between subject and object is going so fast, they become harmonized into one. Because it invests, and then forgets what it invested and tries to invest again. Love the heavenly, subjective and original holiness of your object. To be eternal through balance, harmony and unity.