She is the perfect guest and hostess. Delicious simple food that gives them all pleasure but never interferes with their enjoying each other's company. The food should be a supporting player in a successful dinner party, never the center of attention. For seduction, by the way, it is fragrance that counts. As to what foods go best with making love, it is really up to individual tastes.
Seedless grapes are always useful, as are fine chocolates with runny fillings.
San Francisco is renowned for its many and diversified restaurants. New York, my hometown, used to have great Chinese food, but the quality has dropped catastrophically. Because I have so many friends in the Bay Area, I often organize a crowd and we go for a Chinese feast. I also love the seafood preparation at the Hayes Street Grill. In Menlo Park, there is the Flea Street Cafe, where Jesse Cool serves incredibly sensuous food.