I hate this family. My friend's parents are a LOT nicer than you. Let me tell you, those phrases seem to be the 'national anthem' at my house. Welcome to the world of parenting temperamental children. Temperament is the foundation of behaviors.
Temperamental kids are often highly spirited and adventurous.
They can switch gears in the blink of an eye, one minute ornery and the next sensitive. Temperamental kids tend to react strongly to their environment. They are fussy infants, rambunctious toddlers, testy adolescents, and downright obnoxious teens. Some children are simply born grumpy, others have disorders that enhance temperamental behaviors. Seek the advice of your medical doctor, in order to determine and treat the needs of your child.