Suggest to the child who is being bugged to tell the other child a joke. Usually it s the older child who is bothered by the younger ones. Some parents commented that family trips without friends help siblings learn how to get along. A project or chore that they have to do together will sometimes force them to cooperate. To The Mall, Secrets of Parenting, by Tom Wolfe.
Some kids are intolerant and impatient with the world.
Community projects show them that there are a lot of different types people in the world and helping those who are different than us can foster tolerance. Some parents expressed that they understand why their children sometimes seem entitled. The community service projects seem to have an impact on the kids. Some kids get exposure to different people through church groups. Exposure does lead to appreciation.