Examples include secure doors, safety features in the bathrooms and hallways, lighting, etc. Once you have determined what is important to you, visited various settings, asked questions, and made observations, it's time to choose the residence you believe is right for you and the person with dementia. Before you make the final choice, consider revisiting that care setting unannounced. The transition can be difficult for everyone involved. Approach the transition in a way that will create a positive experience for the person.
Some families find it helpful to bring the person with dementia for a tour of the setting.
Decorate his or her room with personal belongings before the admission takes place. Try not to show your own fear or sadness in the presence of the person with dementia. Visit to your comfort level and arrange for others to visit to help lessen the feeling of abandonment. Ask other family members and friends to share positive thoughts about the move with the person and with you. Care for yourself by doing things you enjoy.