It is important to communicate with each other. Spouses need to find common ground and a shared philosophy on raising children. As a mom, we always feel like the rule maker, disciplinarian, bad guy, while Dad comes in and is the fun guy. It depends on the situation. Mom and Dad should talk about roles.
Some nights make a conscious effort to switch roles so the child sees both sides of each parent.
Issue Being challenged in front of other parents and kids. How to assert yourself. Berkeley helps by teaching values, but we as parents must set the tone. We should teach by explaining how we behave. Be a good role model.