Put your foot down. Don't stand on ceremony. Get what you want and create the life you both should have. He'll be glad you did and so will you. Forget only wanting to marry someone who passionately wants to marry you, and marry the man you passionately want to marry.
Women are usually ready sooner.
Don't break up just because he's not passionate about marriage. Good luck, Dr. Tracy Submitting a Question to this column Dr. Tracy regrets that it is simply impossible for her to answer all of the hundreds of questions submitted to this column each week. However, she does read every question, and tries to select the three which are of the most general interest to the visitors here. Many of the most beseeching, desperate messages I get are not answered in this column because the answer is just a couple of clicks away in my Love Library . If you can't find your answer in the Library and you feel you MUST have an answer, you can get a personal answer from Dr. Tracy within 48 hours by availing yourself of her inexpensive private counseling.