I feel that going out and courting are very important to a relationship. Sadly, he does not feel that way. He just does not make any time for you. Part of the process of being in love and looking forward to marriage is spending a lot of time with your intended. And you are right.
Women thrive on being courted and wooed because that is how they are made up.
If he cannot find any time to seek you out to share time of the day or night, then you are taking a huge risk in getting married to him. My parents accuse me of having an affair with a taxi man Dear Helen, I am a girl of 16 and I am very upset about my present situation. My parents are very strict and they are always ready to think the worst things about me. Sometimes, they are so cruel with their words that I often think of suicide. There is a guy who told me that he loves me and that he would wait until I am finished with my high school education next year.