This is about your dreams, your aspirations in life. Let yourself dream but also be realistic. This is about making choices. Find some common ground where your dreams collide. These are your financial goals as a couple.
Saving means different things to different people.
If you're saving, set a specific and reasonable amount you can both agree on. Decide how you will invest your savings and who will administer the money. You might want to get financial advice here, but the key is that you discuss it. For many couples, having separate accounts and a third household account is a method that works. Others prefer a joint account with a specific allowance each person can spend as they see fit.