Decide to wear clothes only if they give you feelings of power, strength, and comfort. Decide to find the beauty in the world and in yourself. It's simply a descriptive term. It might make people uncomfortable, but can be regarded in positive ways. Daily, large-sized people face discrimination, especially in areas of employment, insurance, health care, education, adoption, access, and social interaction.
Women are the main victims of discrimination based on size.
You could lose weight if you wanted to. It's your own fault that you're fat. It just takes willpower. In addition, many ethnic groups with the genetic predisposition are stigmatized in other ways in our society. But it's not healthy to be fat.