The mothers who have abortions risk higher rates of infertility, infection, and even death. They risk life-long guilt and depression. And yet they are rarely told this, even when they ask. It should not surprise us that women are victims of abortion. Objectively, abortion is a very serious sin.
Sin hurts the sinner as well as others.
We know from Genesis that we are created in God's image and likeness. Created like God, we are called from our very creation to imitate God. We should act like God. This is not an external requirement imposed upon us. Rather, it is internal.