With so many things in our lives changing every day, it's understandable when two people forgo a formal relationship in lieu of casual sex. Men love casual sex. Deep down, we all want to be married to the perfect wife, with the perfect 2.3 kids and 1.2 dogs, but this isn't realistic. To the men who do find this kind of marital bliss, I could only say that I sincerely envy you. For the rest of us whose lives are so hectic that we miss birthdays like we miss appointments, the optimal solution is casual sex.
Women also love casual sex.
Casual sex is the result of an understanding between a man and woman that they are about to consummate a physical relationship. Not every woman does this, but many do. Women shouldn't feel used or any less special because they are in a casual sexual relationship. If you can't handle casual sex, sit at home and wait by the phone for Tom Cruise to call, or go back to your terrible boyfriend. As you get older, it's not the times that you made an idiot of yourself that you regret but rather the times that you never took the chance.