Fussy eaters Tantrums and tempers Tantrums may start around 18 months, are common around two years, and are much less common at four. One reason is that around this age children often want to express themselves more than they are able. They feel frustrated and the frustration comes out as a tantrum. Once a child can talk more, tantrums often lessen.
Tantrums tend to happen when children are tired or hungry.
Sleep or food might be the answer. If sleep or food isn't the answer, try to work out the reason and tackle that. It may be frustration. It may be something like jealousy. More time and attention and being extra loving, even when your child is not so loveable, can help.