Physical abuse includes punching, slapping, kicking, biting, throwing objects, hitting with objects and using weapons. It isn't uncommon for an individual to feel they are not being physically abused just because they have not been hit in the manner above. However, pushing, pulling, grabbing, choking, scratching and spitting are also forms of physical abuse. While it does not leave any physical marks, the verbal attacks have a great impact on the victim's self-esteem, thus making it difficult for the victim to seek help. This type of abuse includes ignoring feelings, ridiculing feelings, constant criticism and belittlement, humiliation, manipulation, lying, and insults.
Sexual abuse can take many forms besides non-consensual sex.
Some examples are sex with threats of violence, withholding sex, criticizing sexual performance, sexual name calling, forcing uncomfortable sex acts, and insisting the victim dress in an uncomfortable manner. If you are living with domestic violence, we at Personal Consultation Services, the Employee Assistance Program for faculty and staff can make a difference.