If all you see are problems and the challenges, they will probably defeat you.
Spirituality is an attitude that reveals life's meaning through everyday experience.
Relationships with other people prepare us to live and love on life's terms. It is the crucible where this transformation occurs. Facing relationship realities like these produces the personal integrity necessary for intimacy, eroticism, and a lifetime of loving relationships with others. Integrity is living according to your own values in the face of opposition. It is also the ability to change your values, beliefs and behavior when your well-considered judgement or concern for others dictates it.