If this is a strain for you, you might want to just stick to unadorned sluts. E-mail is a great flirting medium. Most nerdsluts have more than one e-mail account. It's a preferred mode of communication during daytime hours, and you should exploit it to your utmost. Make the most of your oral and written communications skills.
Truth is, there are no rules.
You can't generalize about an entire group of people. There will be variations, and depending on where your tastes are, you're going to have to find out what works with them. Of course, we'll do the best we can to help. While the exact specifications are being worked out at the Institute for GeekHo Technology, we would welcome your suggestions . Upcoming issues will explore the technoslut, the English ho, and the ever popular medical student fetish, to name a few.