We all tend to admire and be drawn to certain personality traits and driven away from others. There are many characteristics that blend to create a fantastic personality. People who have a tolerance of others tend to be more charismatic. Tolerance doesn t mean that a if a person approves of criminal behavior that they are tolerant. That is stupidity.
Tolerance means that differences are perceived as nothing more than differences between people.
Most people are also drawn to people who have a sense of humor. A person who can laugh at himself is someone who might be a lot of fun to be around. Anyone can make fun of someone else, but to be able to be self-effacing with style is something that is admired. People who can make light of somewhat difficult events can draw the attention of many others. Sincerity means a lot to people.