I wholeheartedly believe that most people, including me, are attracted to individuals, not merely to genders. Society has forced people into the heterosexual box for a long time. Bisexual people, however, remain largely invisible and misunderstood. I do not need a man and a woman to be happy. Rather, I need a person to love who loves me, regardless of genitalia.
Some bisexuals tend to love men, others tend to love women, and others love both equally.
So here I am, a happy bisexual in love with a man. Stop the Big Bi Boat Ride. Sexual orientation is based on attraction, not action. There's a problem. In all of my work in supporting bisexuality, I've been visibly queer.