They could have spoken of their hopes and fears, and she might have assured him that she would be all right after his death. Myths about grief abound, stifling your ability to grieve in healthy ways. Simply knowing the facts can make a great difference in the way you mourn and the way you support others in their bereavement. Grief paralyzes you indefinitely. The only way out of it is through it.
Tears are a sign of weakness.
They are a healthy way to move through grief. Of course, some people can t cry because tears are unnatural for them. You never really finish grieving if you truly loved someone. You will always have the memories of your relationship, and you can keep the loved one s memory alive in healthy ways. Grief is never finished.