If they decide not to press charges, you can ask why. Their decision may be based on the seriousness of the crime, the kind of evidence, or how likely they think they are to win in court. Photograph visible physical injuries such as cuts, scrapes, bruises, torn clothing, and so forth. Keep a list of the names of police officers, hospital workers, and court officials to whom you speak. Write down and date what they say.
Sexual assault can be a method of homophobic violence.
All of these can seem overwhelming. However, if you can break down the difficulties that face you into small, concrete, distinct issues, it can be much easier to address them. Most cities have Rape Crisis lines, with trained counselors available 24 hours a day. There are a number of concerns and issues that are unique to the lesbian sexual assault survivor. As a result, we may be less aware of important issues and how to address them.