The fallen parents who did not receive love from God are doomed to hell. The agony of God was not being able to have three generations, with Adam and Eve being the second. Now God and True Parents are planting the true seed of life and love in this world. The fallen descendents are wild olive trees, to be cut off at the root and engrafted. Once the engrafting takes place, then the remainder of the old olive tree becomes fertilizer.
Women wear earrings because they want to hang onto men.
And they wear necklaces because they want to hang on their husband's neck. When she is hanging on, he has no choice but to embrace her. You went through four fingers, representing the four directions, to get to the marriage state. A poor wife forces her husband to go clean himself up when he gets home hot and sweaty from work. The husband comes home and is tired, and he even falls asleep during dinner and wants to lay down on his wife's lap, but she pushes him away.