If you don't talk about it, you're eventually going to have some major resentment going on, which could have you seeking sexual solace elsewhere, like even the bathrooms at your neighborhood fast food restaurant. Of course, how much this bothers you is directly proportionate to how secure you are with yourself and how much of a sex magnet your mate is. AND THEN is okay. As with everything in life, moderation is key. Time is the last biggie and another tough situation that gets a new couple trying to figure out whether it's time or not to get out the boxing gloves.
Time can be a real sticky subject.
Time also means that giving of yourself to someone is sometimes more important than going to that basketball game you want to with your buddies or spending three hour a day workout sessions at the local gym. But TIME, as with everything, is a balance. Second thing, try not to take your partner's head off in the first five minutes of contact. While it's imperative to talk things out in a fight, it's important not to say anything you'll later regret. Name calling and picking on your spouse's mother will not gain you points in the grand scheme of things, even though it might make you temporarily feel better.