Companies from IBM to Mass Mutualto General Electric have employees playing paintball in Connecticut. They're Ph.D. scientists, and they're here all the time. In person, paintball organizers tend to emphasize paintball's family fun side. Most paintball fields outlaw cussing because it's a family game. Wouldn't want anyone to think you were playing at death or anything.
Some people take it too seriously.
It's all about good, clean personal development. Some field owners notice a young, male and aggressive slant to their clientele. The general populace of the online newsgroup rec.sports.paintball is certainly testosterone-heavy and tough. But most owners want you to know that women can play, too. They're a lot better than the guys.