When we have the self-confidence that comes with knowing and liking ourselves, as well as the ability to make life decisions which enhance us, we should be able to decide fairly easily about whom to trust. A good balance is maintained between both people. If this balance is disrupted, it is difficult to maintain trust. The building of trust is a mutual process and it takes time. We feel comfortable revealing things about ourselves when the other person has shown that he or she is willing to take the same risk.
Some people trust blindly.
They reveal everything all at once, expecting that the other person will be able to reciprocate immediately. What is more likely is that the other person will feel overwhelmed and may back off from closeness. People who trust blindly may want to look into issues like boundaries, self-image and why they need to be so close so quickly. Other people find it difficult to trust anybody else at all. People who have difficulty with opening themselves to trust may want to lookinto the pain which may have closed them off, or they may want to look into ways of improving their communication skills.