Guilt, remorse and shame are commonly expressed emotions among some women. Many women seek approval, acceptance and confidence through their relationships. When the relationship fails they often feel they are the failure. Women lack family support. One study indicates that 9 out of 10 women stay in a relationship with a chemically abusing husband, but only 1 out of 10 men stay with a chemically abusing wife.
Women still struggle with double standards.
Chemical use is more acceptable behavior for men, but conflicts with society's role of women. Women, more often than men, lack education and job skills due to family and household responsibilities. Meaningful work is a key to recovery. Women may find it difficult to enter the workforce. Women metabolize alcohol at different rates at different times in their menstrual cycles.