I used to teach at Rutgers, and worked on the VMI and Citadel cases, so I thought I'd respond. Douglass has been scrutinized carefully and found to NOT be in violation of the 14th Amendment, because the classes are all cross-listed and there are no separate departments in each of Rutgers' five colleges.
Students take courses at all campuses, and faculty teach at all campuses.
But the tone of your message suggests that you are concerned about some putative discrimination based on gender at Rutgers. I am also. In my experience there, a few years ago, gender discrimination was alive and well at Rutgers. Alas, men were still its beneficiary. Women have an advantage in gaining admission to Rutgers since the male college became coeducation in 1972.