Approach lovemaking with an attitude of reverence and awe because untainted sex is the sharing of Divine nectar. With the safety created by this underlying context, all avenues of pure sexual expression open to mutual exploration. Whether your pictures are similar to these or not, notice your ideas of what spiritual sex is supposed to be. Just notice what your beliefs are. Then, see if the following questions challenge those ideas.
Spiritual sex arises out of both partners' desire for union through uninhibited self expression.
As your animal nature releases into an uninhibited expression of lust, perhaps the absolutely perfect spiritual union becomes available to you in that moment. Then, in another moment, when you are softly touching and looking into one another's eyes, you have included your human, animal lust rather than trying to bypass it. As you surrender to your lover' s feet in devotion, you can worship each other's Divinity and each other's humanness. In fact, as you let out your lust, you create the foundation upon which to build your temple. When sexual energy begins to flow, you can be overpowered by your genitals if you let them sweep you into actions that you regret later.