Women don't usually pay others for this. Two men or two women who share a home over a long period with less or more degrees of affection. To lump all these together under the modern and totally unbiblical words homosexual and homosexuality makes any kind of useful exegesis impossible. In making laws for our country it would for example be ridiculous for evangelicals to argue that two men or two women who share a home should be sent to jail for being homosexual in the same category as a man who rapes and murders little boys. The problem with our rantings against sexual sins is that it results in huge numbers of people never coming near our churches.
Young people keep away because they have powerful sexual feelings.
People living common law know they will be viewed with suspicion. If adultery has occurred, better not meet any Christians. Divorcing and divorced people are afraid they would be condemned. People with confused feelings about others of the same sex expect to be lectured about homosexuality. And any two men or two women who choose to share a home wonder if they will be under investigation for being gay or Lesbian.