A point well taken, any time one chooses to deligate ones own feelings, or just opts to not stand up for their own self, then they are in a very real sence, undermining themselves. In that case, it could be said that they are only setting themselves up for harrassment or even harrassing themselves. That was so well said that no comment on my part is needed. I think that pumping someone up the ass is sick and wrong. When your right your right.
Sex is the most natural act that every living thing animal does.
I think the problem is that humans call it sex and every other creature is mating. Then you get into fight about the enjoyment factor for humans, we don't do it just to mate. We do it because it feels good. I believe women have the right toemowerment and deserve the same chance as men. However, we all need to do our parts in taking cotnrol of our own lives and responsibility for our actions and decisions.