So call this column a celebration of the genitals. More than that, this column is a celebration of youth and love. It's okay to give in to your desires. In fact, it's right to give in to your desires. The only time people are really sluts is when they use sex to get something that they want.
Sluts use people.
They are heroes because they do not tower over their sex like an angry father. People who have sex for the sake of sex are strong, because they are able to open their hands and be free. If you are happy in a monogamous relationship, then that is fine, but be careful. Too often, people allow themselves to become complacent in such relationships, and before long the sex that once made life worthwhile becomes a prison. If you can break free with new positions and bizarre role playing, then do it.