God rewards headship to the servant. The Christian man is the priest in the home to his wife and family. As father he represents God's image to his children. He is to instruct his wife and children about God. He is also the intercessor for his wife, children, friends between God and them.
Submission is to yield oneself to the control of another.
Puts others above oneself. Humility is opposite to pride. Hurt feelings, really are anger. Harmony is the absence of unsettled offenses between two people. Only speak positively.