I have a problem making myself like a guy. I always find things wrong with them right off. If you are critical of guys, it sounds like you are fearful of getting into a relationship. You may have been hurt in the past and may be fearful of giving your heart to someone. You will not find Mr. Perfect and you are not Ms. Perfect.
Some flaws are deal-killers and some are charming, quaint qualities.
I think you are being too protective of yourself. People sometimes date rejectable people, so if they should get rejected, it doesn't hurt so much. It is a self-protective thing. The notion of that is somewhat controversial in the field. Most experts do not believe there is female ejaculate that is like male ejaculate.