ALL well-adjusted women, beautiful or otherwise, respond positively to sincere flattery. The key to effective flattery is sincerity .
Women can sense an insincere compliment a mile away.
And it doesn't even have to be anything as obvious as staring at her perfect breasts while telling her that she has the most beautiful brown eyes you've ever seen. Women are masters at detecting subtle signs in the tone of your voice, your body language, and the look in your eyes. Hopefully, it goes without saying that you'll experience more than your share of rejections if this is the impression you convey with your compliments. When people don't know us, our opinions carry little weight because, despite our best intentions, it's often difficult to maintain objectivity about our own shortcomings and attributes. For this reason, the best way to reveal something of yourself to a woman is to relate a story that illustrates the strong points of your character.