Being thankful for the time you had together, rather than angry that it has been taken away is a healthier way to relate to your universe. People must come to realize that in their universe they are still related to those who die. Think of someone closely related to you who lives several hundred miles away. Unity is the nature of things. We are all united in space and time.
Science says so.
Our great religions say so. Philosophy and the poets say so. You live united to all who have ever lived. Born in Chile where he struggled from humble circumstances, he became a well-known professor of Latin American Theater at The University of Chile. Political and social stress motivated him to seek new beginnings in the United States.