However, quick mending might not be the best mending. A broken heart teaches you how careful and cautious you need to be with giving someone your heart. Well, trust is very important in a true intimate relationship. You have to be confident that your lover will not betray you. Trust is defined in different ways.
Some people define it to be sexual fidelity and others define it as emotional fidelity.
On the one hand, the best long-term lovers start off as friends. Don't jump into sex right away but try to make the relationship a little more romantic by kissing and hugging and see how that goes. It is not normal. Our culture doesn't support that level of sexual desire. In the pursuit of sex, you are trying to satisfy something.