I am losing hope. Follow in the faith, and let God manage the rest, and you go ahead and look for romance. I don't think you'd be happy with a hairy-legged liberal agnostic, so you need to meet men of similar faith. But you probably need to diversify your social life, investigate other churches, practice some ecumenism. And you may need to find a job that lets you get out of town and travel around.
Work is where romance strikes, evidently.
Don't sell yourself short. Dear Mr. Blue, I find myself in a quandary. I have been married for 10 years now, have one son and a marriage that seems to be going nowhere. Dear Mr. Blue, I am in my mid-40s and recently moved to a rural community with a number of shy bachelor farmers. I find these men lovely, and one of them in particular who has a quiet wit and the kindest, gentlest eyes I've ever seen.