Remember that lies, half-truths, and deceptions confuse a child. No matter how tough the question, the truth is always better. If you avoid giving honest answers, your child will get the feeling that she can't trust you. Perhaps you've noticed that children, especially as they approach their teens, often get defensive when you ask even the simplest question. Though you are genuinely interested in their lives, they for some reason think you are snooping, prying, or butting in where it is none of your business.
Teens share only what they want, when they want.
This too shall pass, and you will once again be able to have a normal conversation. Copyright 1996 by Judy Ford. Reprinted here with permission from Conari Press. This essay may be printed out for personal use but may not be reproduced in any manner, including electronic, without prior written permission from the publisher. To purchase this and other great parenting books, please peruse TNPC's Mall.