That onerous accountability should drive sane men to their knees pleading with God for mercy and help. I'm not blind to the fact that some 100 pound wives have developed the fine art of beating 200 pound husbands into submission. There are cynical, bitter, angry wives who beat their husbands into cages of apathy, rejection and self-pity. They love to snap pictures of your loaded little red wagon. But the camera stays on the shelf when you rebuild character foundations.
Some wives try to keep hubby enslaved in the prison house of materialism and social standing.
Wives, don't be afraid of hubby becoming radical for Jesus. Don't fear the cost of laying foundations of Godly character. Get excited about the possibilities of influencing generations to come. There are many highly motivated, energetic, leadership gifted, decisive, courageous, enterprising, resourceful godly women. Praise God for women who are mighty in word and deed.