How one could stoop to such a low point of self control. Similarly, in a general sense most men believe themselves to be superior in physical strength to a woman. Therefore, striking a woman is an incongruent act and a validation to lacking the most basic traits of manhood and masculinity. Yet abuse continues to be a common cause of divorce. Strong, lasting relationships don't happen, they are developed over time.
Strong relationships can only occur when two people deliberately work at it.
A man and a woman who are continually in total control of themselves, their emotions, and whose goals are to make it work. This means never, under any set of circumstances, ever raise your voice. This is most damaging, regardless who is right. To the man, I remind you that the opposite of abuse is to plaudit, and to respect. Frequent commendations, and verbalized appreciations for anything, no matter how trivial, can build, as opposed to weaken or destroy your relationship.