There are also some wonderful books available, particularly Coming Out of Homosexuality by Bob Davies, and Someone I Love is Gay by Anita Worthen and Bob Davies. Another excellent book is You Don't Have to Be Gay by Jeff Konrad. But discipleship is hard work, and there is no simple and easy fix. The most effective route to real, lasting change for those caught in same-gender attraction is a redemptive approach. This means discipleship, being taught and encouraged and held accountable to develop intimacy with Christ.
True discipleship is hard work.
But it takes tremendous self-discipline to choose to operate in the Spirit instead of in our own flesh, to depend on God's strength instead of our own. The real battle is in the mind. The steps to overcoming homosexuality also apply to overcoming any stronghold. First, the person has to stop the sinful behavior. It's best to ask for God's help.