Deceive the enemy into believing that he needs no defenses against you. Unguarded, he is vulnerable to attack. Concerned about hidden assets, Gina focused on identifying Mark's real estate holdings and business interests by going through records, interviewing Mark's colleagues, and spending time with his mother. The friendly weekend led to interesting revelations about joint mother-son assets, information which helped Gina negotiate a fair settlement. Whether or not you receive any direct benefit, it never hurts to develop and maintain good relations, but if the loss of your cordial relationship is inevitable, it is healthier to let the relationship go.
Water can float a boat, but can also sink it.
Spies can help in your success or in your ruin. You might learn whether businesses similar to your husband's have been bought, sold, or liquidated, and whether a competitor is interested in buying the business. Gain insight about your husband's business by observing what makes his competitor successful. If your husband claims that business is slow, but his nearest competitor prospers, take a hard look at the business, since he may be suppressing income in anticipation of divorce. If the entire industry is suffering, consider delaying the divorce until business improves.