If we can appeal to the side of the person who wants to live, there's a lot we can do to help. But first, some common misconceptions need to be cleared up. First, never assume that someone who talks about suicide won't actually attempt it. I think that's a real mistake. Another is to treat failed suicide attempts merely as manipulative pleas for attention.
Some people believe that it's impossible to stop someone who really wants to die.
Anything you can do to put distance between the person and the plan can save lives. For example, installing barriers on high bridges, buying medicine in small doses and reducing access to guns all reduce the likelihood of suicide. The problem with guns, she said, is that they kill instantly, leaving no time for a change of heart. All it takes is one second of intent to end a life, leaving loved ones to cope with the devastating loss. The grieving process for friends and family members is extremely painful and confusing, Firestone said, full of both anger and intense guilt.