We plan for it, anticipate it, and invite it into our lives. It has become so familiar that we often push away joy or peace or harmony, declaring such experiences to be unreal or temporary or frivolous. Many folks tend to feel more alive when they are struggling against something. War and violence are glamorized. Ill health is considered routine.
Senility is the prospect of advanced years.
Suffering is considered noble. Whether we struggle against struggle or resign ourselves to struggle, we are in struggle. Consider how you struggle. Knowing how you struggle will assist you in replacing your pattern with different behavior. You may also find it helpful to reflect on what you struggle against, but I caution you about lingering there too long.