He thanks the guests for their gifts, before proposing a toast to the attendants. The final speech is made by the best man, who replies to the groom's toast on behalf of the attendants. The best man may also read out cards, faxes and email messages, although this is sometimes left to the toastmaster. It is at this point that the bridegroom leads his wife to the wedding cake, places his hand over hers and together they make the first cut of the cake. It is then taken away by the caterer to be sliced for the guests.
Some couples decide to cut the cake before the speeches so that the caterer has a bit more time.
It is customary to send a slice of the cake to those friends and relatives who were unable to attend the wedding. Specially designed boxes are available for this purpose. Departure of the newly-weds The bride and groom are usually the first to leave the reception, and their departure is announced by the best man. The bride turns her back on the assembled guests and tosses her bouquet over her head. Tradition has it that the girl that catches it will be next to marry.