In contrast, God's way is to build a stable home like a three-level pyramid. When severe earthquakes recently shook Egypt, modern skyscrapers fell. But the pyramids stood firm. Because of the geometric ratio of the foundation to the apex. God's love is a self-sacrificial attitude that finds its greatest joy in giving to another.
Sexual attraction is to be the fruit growing out of the first two levels.
If the self-focused physical aspects become the foundation, then one serious car accident or fire devastates the couple's intimacy, unnecessarily. None of this is to say that the physical should be ignored. It just needs to be in the right priority. Also there are some basic medical facts that help in understanding and enjoying the God designed physical differences between men and women. We can't read minds.