When it comes right down to it, you just have to put yourself in her shoes. If you really expect those things, then you should be willing to do the same for her. Follow through is the most important. I can't tell you how many times I've been promised special favors and was let down. If you make a promise, keep it.
Women remember everything.
It's probably not a good idea to kiss your chicky after you're done licking the carpet. Especially if you have in the past and you notice she avoids your kiss or tries to turn her head. In other words, it is a very good thing to rinse your mouth out when you're done. Water isn't good enough. Not every woman feels this way.