They teach children self-control. Successful parents build self-esteem. Successful parents learn from their children. They develop reaction patterns that reduce misbehavior. They follow through.
Successful parents stay calm when their buttons are being pushed.
They use punishments that teach, not get even. Successful parents connect special activities with good behavior. Successful parents anticipate problems. They have a game plan. They have proactive strategies for managing tantrums, disobedience, fighting, arguments, and power struggles.