The unexamined life is not worth living. I don't believe in circumstances. The people who get on in this world are the people who get up and look for the circumstances they want, and if they can't find them, they make them. We operate as if the options available to us, our failures and successes, are simply a matter of circumstance, skill, knowledge or experience. But, in fact, the opportunities and choices we face each day are a product of what we say and what we hear - of the conversation that we are.
Successful behaviors become transition blockers.
The transition blocker makes it difficult to create and implement new behavior that the higher level requires. The best way to predict the future is to invent it.