Wearing a tank top and clam digger pants, Bonacci spoke of how teenage girls often see themselves through boys' eyes and try to flaunt their sexuality, use their bodies or try to achieve impossible standards of physical beauty to get boys to like them. We figure we can use our bodies to make guys like us better. We think if we dress a certain way to accentuate certain body parts, guys will like us. Referring to Adam and Eve as a model for marriage, Bonacci said that they loved each other as God loved them, wanting what was best for the other. They gave themselves to each other and made that gift physical through their bodies.
Sex is private because it is sacred, good and holy.
God created sex. When we take it outside that relationship, we cheat ourselves. During sex, she said, women release hormones causing them to become vulnerable and forgetful and developing in them strong emotional attachments to their partners. Men produce different hormones which kick in an increased sense of responsibility. These reactions are good for marriage, she continued, and damaging to the unmarried.