So they created a 16-page prenuptial agreement. We are accustomed to hearing about this kind of prenuptial agreement. To my surprise, the purpose was not to protect assets in the event of divorce. Nothing may be left on the floor overnight.
Shoes are to be left in the garage.
In sharing this story with couples I have seen recently, I've heard some interesting comments. All the couples gave me permission to share their reactions anonymously. Some details have been changed to protect confidentiality. It just seems to me that they are trying to manage something that should come from deep within the heart, soul and mind. In my experience, that something is commitment.