I think I got used to it and now look forward to the time when I'll be with him and look forward to getting in touch with him during the day or getting a letter. Despite the change in attitude, Smith still faces problems that would not occur if they were together in the same area. Phone bill is massive. Smith also mentions the difficulty of maintaining a long-distance relationship in regards to physical affection. Hugs and holding hands are no longer commonplace and are reserved for weekend visits or school holidays.
Sex is a difficult factor.
It's hard without the affection, and you end up feeling almost cold. You feel kind of closed off from that affection here. However, the downs of long-distance relationships also lead to some positive factors. Smith feels that the long separation clarifies the view she has of her relationship, and she can see it in a more objective light. Smith also enjoys the newlywed feeling of being together after such a long time apart.