When people stop taking medication they often self-medicate with drugs or gambling. He doesn't want to be back home at age 24. People with depression can lead productive lives. They may have to spend the rest of their life on medication but this is something people can conquer. Cindy First of all, take the long view.
Some people reach their highest achievement in middle school, high school or college.
Others wait until they find a career. I think the key is to focus on what your son or daughter is interested in, whether it's skateboarding, community service, music or sports. As parents, understand that the best and the most significant tool you have to motivate your kids is your relationship with them. Let them know it matters to you. Make it personal and be persistent.