Find out ways to end your arguments agreeably . Read how marriage can be the best form of therapy . Visit the Web's top relationship sites . You can change someone's opinion, but not their philosophy or personal style. When arguing is necessary, it's not a bad thing.
Successful couples devise their own rules of combat.
According to John Gottman, author of Why Marriages Succeed or Fail, people in healthy relationships vary greatly in their conflict tolerance. Some pairs are volatile. Others seldom clash, except when it is absolutely necessary. For many, that's a great rule. But some healthy couples rarely choose their battles because they don't mind little skirmishes that may lead to progress in the relationship.