Far from regretting their acts, they often rationalize them by saying the victims provoked them in some way. Victims of bullies are often avoided and rarely defended by their classmates because they don't want to chance becoming the bully's next victim. Victims keep mum. Children who are bullied usually suffer in silence because they feel that nothing can be done to help them. Some become isolated and depressed, and may even resort to violence against themselves or others.
Schools are aware of bullying and are always looking for ways to reduce or eliminate it.
There are ways for parents to help as well. Every child should be taught how to respond to malicious comments. Ask your child's teacher or principal for suggestions in teaching assertiveness skills to your children. Be a friend in need. Stress to your children the importance of looking out for their friends and supporting students who are being bullied.