Some youth groups are loving and kind while other groups grow apart through unkind words and deeds. Youth groups are complex. In every youth group there are dynamics at work that can potentially create division. Some youth will lead, some will follow. Other youth will rebel and not follow anyone.
Some youth attend the group because their parents require it.
Others are happy to be there whenever there is a planned event. Some youth have deep hurts but are afraid to open up. Other youth feel good about life. Some students are hyperactive and their attention span is short. Others are mature and listen and respond.