Sponsors never take anothers inventory but give honest answers if asked. Sponsors never give advice or make decisions for the member, particularly about family issues. Sponsors have a commitment to recovery and lets the newcomer know that the quality of recovery is in direct proportion to the effort put into it. Sponsors underline the importance of principles above personalities. Sponsors avoid dwelling on personal problems, but share the Experience, Strength and Hope of personal recovery.
Sponsors present the program simply.
Sponsors lead by example, and a good sponsor does not expect the newcomer to do anything they themselves are not doing or have not done. Sponsors avoid talking about their own problems to those they sponsor. Sponsors use their own sponsors. Sponsors are good listeners. Sponsors give Al-Anon solutions.