They wannabe with women. So ladies, let them. Men find women, women don't find men. Women let themselves be found. Men troll and hunt for women.
Women attract and magnetize men.
It is your job to attract lots of men and then choose from the ones you have attracted. Stop acting like an alpha female and start behaving like Annie Get Your Guy. Alpha females are smart, sexy, successful and usually alone, because tough, fierce, competitive, and masculine energy only works in business. Your Guy is soft, foxy not fierce, receptive, always feminine, and is the chasee never the chaser. In relationships, men want women to act like women, so they can act like men.