Our sexuality, like our spirit, was meant to evolve indefinitely. The pleasure we feel in a loving union is not something that is meant to diminish over time. The reason sexual pleasure tends to diminish is not because it is simply natural to do so or a function of biology. It is because we haven t tended to be honest with others or ourselves. As we get away from expressing our true selves, our body begins to shut down.
Sexuality is an expression of joy, or at least is intended to be.
The realm in which there is greatest room for transformation in our lives is that of sexuality. The 1960s saw a liberation of values which led to sexual objectification in the 70s and 80s. The 90s have seen a fear-based shut down. Our bodies have numbed and armored. We tend to be more honest with our friends than with our partners for fear of being sexually or emotionally rejected.