Not offering false assurance. Encouraging them to talk . Just knowing someone is aware of their pain can mean a great deal. Showing by words and actions that they care. Nothing said to a distressed teen will help unless it is said in a warm, caring, supportive way.
Some parents find it difficult or impossible to discuss disaster with their children.
Others feel talking about the crisis will only upset children more. In fact, studies show that children need to bring their fears, fantasies and confusions out into the open. Adult evasion and concealment may shake children's trust and increase their fears. Avoiding needless alarm and panic. During crisis, children turn to adults for cues on how to behave and feel.