This is the first and great commandment. Thou shalt love thy neighbour as thyself. You cannot have that without the Spirit. Human love is not that great. But the fruit of the Spirit is love, joy, peace, longsuffering, gentleness, goodness, faith, And if we pray for God's will to be done, we will love and therefore not judge.
Some people never see fault in themselves only in others.
The spiritual man and woman will not even notice other people's faults because they are so overwhelmingly aware of their own. Spiritual people LOVE others. God made man from two extremely different things and put them together to make man. When we die, the dust and spirit returns to their sources. But if ye forgive not men their trespasses, neither will your Father forgive your trespasses.