As many of you know by now, the list has been moved to a new address. I am the sole owner of that address. I never liked the idea of checking addresses and phone numbers, so I don't do it. To join the VDA, just sign up for the e-list. Since November, we've expanded a little.
Some cities have enough members that it's practical and fun to organize munches.
Usually we piggyback our Gatherings to science fiction conventions, fetish balls, etc because it's more economical for us and it helps us reach out and recruit. However, we aren't really organized. There is no real central core. There are two annual Gatherings for all list members. This year it was held in Cincinnati, at my house.