Believe me, it's not a lack of desire either. But, in all honesty, I do want to have sex. There's just something else I want more. Well, marriage, to me, is not a piece of paper. It's a commitment.
Sex is one of the ways of signing that contract.
I want to marry and to have sex with one, and only one, person in my lifetime. If I'm lucky, that one person will be my girlfriend. But she's a pretty intelligent gal, and she's bound to wise up before I find the nerve to propose. Yes, waiting is a struggle. At times, I don't think I can succeed.