It lose culture. So long as the anti-pajama cultural elite constitutes a majority of the Watchers, we pajama people will find political power arrayed against us. But so long as there are He-Men among us, and so long as our activities are not punished by law, our presence will force the cultural elite to explain its reasons for sneering at us. Once the cultural elite is forced into a dialogue to defend its values, the culture it defends is dead. Because cultures are ways of life, and the function using unspoken rules.
Unspoken rules are hard to challenge or change, because no one knows precisely what they are.
They serve as the background habits that form our behavior and make our choices for us. When we break them, we feel shame. And shame makes us afraid for the Watchers to begin with. But cultures change all the time. They adapt to new practices by adopting new unspoken rules.