When we meet people for the first time we can establish a friendship simply by asking them what they do, what they like, who they live with, where they've been. Asking two or three questions and answering questions lead to an immediate friendship. The more scientists study brain functioning the more we are mystified and amazed at what people can and can not do. There are many people who have Ph.D. degrees and still must look at which wrist has a watch band to determine left from right. In the long run, our children must carry on their relationships themselves and improve social skills when they receive positive or negative feedback from peers.
Social involvement starts in preschool years.
As children get older it is very frustrating for parents because they have less control over their child's social involvement. Provide opportunities to play with peers . Being with just two or three peers is best. It's best to carry out non-competitive activities which are comfortable for your child, particularly ones your child is good at. Don't worry if he does more listening and less talking than the other children.