Education about sex is an ongoing process, and children will probably need to hear this information many times before it begins to sink in. Parents should be sure to include their own thoughts and feelings about sex in their discussions with their children. Children need to know what their parents think about sexual issues, in addition to the facts. Discussing Sex with Pre-Schoolers Children begin to develop an awareness of their own bodies and an interest in sexuality at an early age. Parents should keep in mind that this is a normal process.
Young children have a great curiosity about their own bodies.
It is quite normal for them to touch and handle their own genitalia. Instead of punishing and shaming children for this normal behavior, parents should treat it matter of factly. As children approach school age, they should be taught that while touching one's private parts is okay, it is something that is to be done in a private place, like in the bathroom or in the child's bedroom. While children are young, parents should teach their children that private parts are private, and that nobody else should touch them. This is also a good time to let children know that they should come to you or another trusted adult if anyone does try to touch their private parts.