We have rampant drug problems because parents are afraid to check their children's rooms, books, lockers, etc. And for the record, any parent who accepts the explanation from their kid that the bomb he's building and making potholes with in the backyard is a science project needs to locked up and retrained. I teach a 6th grade class. The morning after the shooting I spoke to them, and to 2 other classes I see, about the tragedy. And I am not ready to give up either.
School is still among the safest places for a child to be.
They are much more likely to be hurt on weekends, anywhere else but school. Teach respect for all ethnic groups. Have your kids be the ones who send valentines to ALL their classmates. Teach them not to make fun of people, and to stand up for those who are picked on. Keep open communication with your children.