In fact, questioning the truthfulness or plight of a victim is often considered socially unacceptable and politically incorrect. A victim never has to be wrong. He can blame his unhappiness on everyone else. He's never responsible. He doesn't have to make difficult choices.
Victims enjoy the power and attention they get, but the cost is overwhelming.
They always feel alone. They know that what they get isn't given unconditionally. He doesn't feel the connection of unconditional love because he knows he has to manipulate people to get their attention. When we claim to be victims, we can never change. A victim's happiness is absolutely chained to the behavior of other people.