Theoretically, you could have someone of the opposite sex spend every night with you, but you couldn t have them live there. All of the other policies I understand. The alcohol policy is acceptable because the guy above you can t throw raging keggars till 4 am. The candle rule is a little insulting , but I can see forgetting to blow one out and a whole dorm burning down. But visitation is pointless.
Sex happens, and it ll happen with or without a stupid visitation policy.
The administration and the regents are catering to scared parents and gave us the policy to provide the guise of virginity, innocence, and purity. It isn t about protecting us or our roommates, hell, it s not even solely based on sex, it s about money and who pays the school. I believe the visitation policy is a stupid asinine policy that underestimates the morality and maturity, but then again, no one asked me.