Most people would think yes. I am married and I don't want to be touched by him. Just the thought grosses me out. If you are married to a guy and the thought of him touching you grosses you out, then you have a BIG problem. By all means, you need to see a therapist to try to save something.
Sex is a part of the responsibility in marriage.
My girlfriend and I have mutually decided not to have sex until we are married. We indulge in oral sex. Well, if you think oral sex is not sex, then you are going to have an interesting discussion with God. So let me advise you although you are not having vaginal sex, I can't imagine any religion in the world granting permission for what you are doing, so you are lying to yourself. If you will service her and she will not service you, then this is the greatest predictor of what your sex life will be like in marriage.