Focus on aging is usually distraction from fear of death. Living in the here and now in full adult empowerment is what I would suggest is the healthiest model of spirit incarnate in human form. Releasing our fear of sex and power in their correct use harmlessly to others, enables a healthy love life which is an excellent foundation for expressing aloha to all other living beings. Both the physical and the spiritual are divine and inextricably interwoven and the whole evolves together. Infinite power and freedom for the self in the dominion of self, but limited to agreement in shared cocreated reality.
Space is important, for it provides individual empowerment and rest from conflict.
We all need our independence and space to be alone, to be allone, to be one with all, or to let the one be all, or to open up the door and let all become one in a huge group hug. Many prostitute themselves for money without ever selling sex. If you're now doing that for a living you're not a prostitute . Be who you are and do what you love to do and enjoy yourself playing at what you love to do so well that you get well paid for it because others will love it too if you fill it with your love and joy of life and being and doing.