Adoption is a positive solution. Not everyone should adopt. Openness serves the child best. Racism affects all of us. Same-race placements are desirable.
Transracial families can work beautifully.
Love is not enough. Always, always leave the door open. Get an option in writing, to be able to choose to see or contact your child. I didn't and now I live every day in regret. Pact, An Adoption Alliance, provides the highest quality adoption services to children of color.