It is shocking that nearly all the worst problems facing man are man-made. Kant's ideas, eg that it is never rational to lie, show the utter bankruptcy of rationality if it is divorced from common sense. Psychology Unconsciousness is no excuse. We need other people to keep us sane. All of us are anonymous royalty.
Thoughts are idiosyncratic, feelings are universal.
One criticism erases ten compliments. People give advice in order to make themselves feel better about another's situation. I'm still not finished with being young. Emotion is important to learning because mistakes hurt. Other people's hang-ups seem silly and unnecessary.