Before I had a hard time even getting him to talk to me. I often feel like when we were dating all was okay, but as soon as we got married, I feel like he's changed and is not ready for marriage. I have several issues I can deal with alone or with his support, but he won't even talk to me about anything unless I bring the subject up first. I just know I'm left questioning the value of marriage. My husband holds to society's typical standard of marriage.
Wife stays home, cooks, cleans, laundry, and leaves the man alone.
Like what he wants to do is fine and dandy, but when I want to do something, I have to do it on his terms. I say my husband could be doing me better, but our parents say this is normal and that I'm to live with it. As if I've got no choice. Like he can do as he pleases, but I must include him in all I do. I get upset and he does not understand why.