To slow down the flirtation the women might pull her body away slightly or cross her arms across her chest, or avoid meeting the mans eyes. To stop the ritual in its tracks, the women may avoid meeting the mans eyes or cross her arm across her chest. A women might hold her hair out as if to examine her split ends or she may even pick her teeth if a man is really dense. Perper says that women are more aware of what they do, why they do it , and the effect it has, rather then men who are not as conscious as women are when there is flirting going on or if both are on a date, yet a man is more likely to recall absolutely everything that went on in bed but its the women who knows how they got there. Learning The Steps Today, flirting is often a conscious activity and is also a learned one.
Women pick up the moves early.
In observations of 100 girls between the ages of 13 and 16 at shopping malls, ice skating rinks, and other places that young people hang out, Moore found that teens exhibit 31 of the 52 courtship signals deployed by adult women. The girls clearly modeled their behavior on the leader. Lott A. Deborah. The New Flirting Game. Rodgers Ellison, Joann.