Anger - attack on and destruction of a person, object, situation, or the desire to do so. Hostility - generalized anger without a specific object. It's all your fault. They're out to get me. My sister got all the love.
Some people find it hard to express their feelings and emotions.
It's easy to get angry - to shout or to mutter and withdraw in a sulk. They often get angry with themselves, but take it out on others. Love - I can't afford to be soft. We learn how and when to get angry from our parents. It can become a personality trait.