You will be in complete charge. You determine your baby's health based on its weight. Your baby keeps demanding a feed even when she is not hungry. You think a pacifier may calm her down. But it is a controversial subject.
Some mothers strongly advocate pacifiers.
Others are reluctant to use it, or use it too late. You have the most precious and beautiful thing in your hands, and instead of feeling on top of the world, you are feeling depressed. Take heart, you are not alone. Changing levels of the pregnancy hormones play havoc with emotions, and affect most women, some more severely than other. You had never heard of it until your child was classified as one.