It is a psychological problem stemming from our society's overemphasis on performance. Girls become unhappy when they realize they cannot be the best, the most accomplished persons. Self-starvation is a death wish. God, in creating human beings, did not do the same thing twice. Edith Stein, the main function of woman is to protect, preserve, shelter, guard, help, bring warmth in a cold universe.
Woman cares more for people than for things.
The men would glance at the baby, then head for the computer. Men desperately need women in order to keep their sanity. Without the feminine touch, the world would be cold and impersonal. I recall that when my brother and I were children, he would promptly destroy the toys he was given in order to find out how they worked. I thought that was stupid.