Women's external genitals may vary greatly in appearance. There are differences in the size, shape and color of the labia, in the color, texture amount, and distribution of pubic hair, and in the appearance of the clitoris, vaginal opening, and hymen. All of the various shapes, sizes and colors are normal. Many women think that their genitals are ugly or disgusting because they appear to them, for whatever reason, to be abnormal. Perhaps they compare themselves to some sexually explicit pictures they have seen and conclude that because they are different, they must be abnormal.
Sexual anatomy varies as much as facial features differ from one person to another.
While we cannot imagine a person unable to identify eyes, nose, mouth and chin, many women and men grow up without learning the locations and names of either gender's sexual structures.