And that is basically due to arrogance. Becoming very pushy and trying desperately to make things happen is a sign of relying on your own timing. In divine timing situations flow naturally together. We are born at the right time and we die at the right time since both of these decisions are made from the sovereign will of God. So, timing in life is a matter of understanding and knowledge of God's plan.
Timing goes sour when one's scale of values goes astray.
The whole problem of timing then rests on man's failure to do the right thing at the right time. If you enter a disaster in life while in bad timing you will not be prepared to handle it properly. The biggest problem man faces is that he does not want to wait for God. Man is generally too busy with his own plans. Inordinate ambition causes people to seek fulfillment of their desires in the wrong way and in the wrong time.