They cannot deal with strong expressions of anger, frustration, fear or guilt. Unpopular children often do not form bonds with others. They may turn to antisocial behavior seeking activities which are stimulating to them. Angry children without friends feel alienated from the higher concepts of respect for others and democracy, and turn off to school activities, often resorting to alcohol and drug use and gang behavior. Children need skills of expressing their negative feelings in safe ways.
Young people are hungry for tools to deal with conflict.
Children who are adept at positive social interactions feel more in control of their lives. Social skill training increases self esteem and the ability to solve problems. Social skills are easy to present in groups. They are fun to teach. Children can learn to reconnect with positive values of treating each other with respect and taking responsibility for their own behavior.