Then there are those who don't necessarily see their extremely anti-social behavior as a problem. Take Unabomber Ted Kaczynski. He kept a copious journal, but not for the purpose Farkus mentions. Avoidance, while attractive as a short-term solution, may not be so good in the long run. Basketball player Latrell Sprewell's alleged assault last year on coach P.J. Carlesimo is one example.
Some folks are skilled at false obliging.
They let the other person believe they won, when they really didn't. It's similar to compromise, but also involves finding a solution that allows all parties to come away as winners. The first step to fitness is choosing a good walking shoe. Helping an overweight child lose pounds is easier when it's a family affair. The first step to fitness is choosing a good walking shoe.