If they don t do their part, then let go of it. Don t allow others to take you, or the special things they like about the holidays, for granted. If child care is a problem, see about arranging with another friend to baby-sit for you for a morning or afternoon to allow you time for shopping, doing things around the house or simply relaxing by yourself. Stay in touch with a good friend during this time. Talk about what you are doing and other things on your mind.
Talk is an excellent way to relieve stress.
It s important to be creative with your celebration. Take advantage of the opportunities or unique characteristics of the place you live. Create Christmas tree ornaments that represent the place you live. Over the years it will lead to an interesting collection. Stories about each place may be told at future tree trimmings.