We wait for the results of a medical test. We wait to hear how many positions will be downsized and whether ours was one of them. We wait to hear whether our proposal was accepted, if the new job offer will come, or if we will receive the promotion for which we we were hoping. Sometimes there are things to do while we wait. But sometimes there is nothing to do but wait.
Wisdom is in knowing the difference.
But then there are those glorious moments that come, unbidden. Those times and events, beyond our control, that redeem what has been, and disclose what will be. Advent is like the instant just before we recognize that we have fallen in love. Advent is like the child in the snowsuit standing on dry leaves, looking through clear air at the still gray sky straining to see the first flake falling. Advent waiting is being open.