If I had a formula for bypassing trouble, I would not pass it around.
Trouble creates a capacity to handle it.
But I do say meet it as a friend, for you'll see a lot of it and you had better be on speaking terms with it. Oliver Wendell Holmes, Jr. You can expect difficulties and setbacks in the course of your social development. Consider problems as challenges and learning experiences, rather than as painful failures and evidence of incompetence. Women seem to find you physically repulsive.