And in a divorce, it's much more difficult to demonstrate contributions to the household without a pay stub. If a bride or groom is considering staying home, the prenup should compensate the spouse for everything he or she will be giving up. Another big mistake is co-mingling money. Financial advisers and attorneys recommend that the bride and groom become very familiar with their partner's finances. Some even recommend running a credit history.
Some lawyers insist that debt brought into a marriage remains the property of the debtor.
Others argue that judges, in a divorce, will look at all the obligations facing both parties and split things accordingly. Consider a family limited partnership, a device used by giants like Nordstrom. And remember, rights to certain assets, like retirement plans, can only be legally waived after the wedding. All other states are equitable distribution states. In the state where you live Also remember that where you live might make a big difference in how you live if you should get divorced.