You know that each court case has a correct judicial solution. Your friend believes the decision should relate to the particular people and situation involved. In all these examples you are both right, but you see the world from different perspectives and this leads to long and countless arguments. When a child with learning disabilities marches to a different drummer, conflicts may arise with parents, siblings, teachers or peers. Because children can't explain themselves as well, we may believe the conflict is related to the child's learning disabilities, rather than the child's unique marching style.
Some people focus on experience, realism, fact or what 'makes sense'.
Others focus on hunches, speculation or imagination. There are many books which discuss temperament types. One such book, Please Understand Me by David Keirsey and Marilyn Bates, provides a short temperament sorter, very similar to the longer Myers-Briggs Type Indicator. This understanding will alleviate a great deal of tension and often result in acceptable compromises. Next time you go to the movies you may find yourself leaving the house later than you would like, still getting seats, though you may have to purchase popcorn while the previews are running.