The only questions you may not ask are the truly tasteless and disgusting questions we get from time to time. I'll be the first to admit that we violate AOL's Terms Of Service with our chat, but mature adults occasionally throw off the shackles of censorship in an act of justifiable civil disobedience. Please respect AOL's TOS to the extent that you refrain from questions that are racist, sexist, revolting, refer to incest, rape, bestiality, necrophilia or are otherwise offensive. Don't play a lot of stupid generic .wav files like those that come with AOL and Windows. It's bad enough that we have to hear them when we log on or have mail.
Women can ask questions and men can answer questions.
That summarizes this section. Don't crap on the men if they answer a question that wasn't specifically directed at females. If you don't say it's for women only we don't assume that it is. They're very patient with you and deserve a turn. One of us will make a private room and we'll all go and chat as friends and give you our support in an environment that doesn't have questions which may reopen the wounds.