When commitments are vague, misunderstandings are likely. Schedule a family meeting from time to time to help other family members understand the situation and to involve them in caregiving. If family members are not able to physically help with care, suggest they contribute to paying for respite care, a person to cook and clean, or an aide to help your loved one bathe, eat, dress, use the bathroom or get around the house. Accept help from friends. Keep a current list of errands and chores that need to be done.
True friends like to know their efforts are helping.
Respite Care Respite care gives caregivers a rest from the responsibilities of caregiving. Respite care gives you the opportunity to attend a support group, go to lunch with friends, see a movie or enjoy some time alone. Private caregivers can be hired to come into the home for a few hours to a full day. If you need to get away for a longer period of time, check with local nursing homes or community residential facilities to see if they offer limited stay admissions ranging from a few days to several weeks. If the person you are caring for still lives in his own home, but needs you for daily help with medications or meals, consider a home health aide or companion to occasionally fill in for you.