They never get finished. I don't think so. If people are offended by my poetry, they just don't get it. I know men have been offended by the sexual pieces. If people think about what it is that actually offended them, they'll see it's their problem, not what I wrote.
Style is irrelevant.
I don't think poetry is a place to exhaust your vocabulary, either. I don't read poetry to learn, I read poetry to enjoy and relax. The people who have helped me the most are Ron Androla, Kurt Nimmo, Lyn Lifshin, d.a. levy, and Jack Kerouac. In that order. I am often put into a Nimmo or Androla mood after reading them.