I know that the thought of hanging into a vessel of herb tea does not immediately strike one with the most manly of images. I can relate to your resistance and appreciate the visual hilarity of the adventure. However, when communicable infection is involved between caring lovers, each partner has a responsibility to the mutual care. No matter how absurd the image of this therapy strikes you, in times when your female partner is stressed with recurring vaginal infection, discomfort and pain, the most chivalrous act is daily hygienic penis soak until the cycle of reinfection has been stopped. Keep in mind that this will not only help your female partner, but it will also enhance your relationship and ultimately hasten and improve your sexual reunion.
Words of love are merely promises.
After this doesn't work, and often as a result, a yeast bloom has manifested to accompany the original infection, many women seek the help of an herbalist. I give this female douche formula to you because it is helpful for the male partner to use it for a penis soak or in a sitz bath concurrently with the female's self-care. It will help you both become more comfortable and much happier, sooner. Hot tea reduces the itch, so make the douche as hot as is comfortable. As we are all learning, it always takes two to solve problems between partners.