We must first learn to acknowledge that we have a problem, then do whatever is consistent with our commitments to our relationship. A problem is anything that gets in the way of our commitments. Both love partners, however, must be willing to do whatever it takes. They must have a similar level of commitment to the recovery process. That is the question.
Successful relationships thrive on love.
They do not self-correct. They must be worked on. Without love, your relationship weakens and dies. When considering the option of therapy, some people are willing to put aside their preconceived notions about what works and what doesn't work. They love each other and can't seem to work things out by themselves so they finally come to the decision that to delay seeking assistance may cause irreparable damage to the relationship.