We must cultivate that attitude of acceptance toward one another. Being careful about the way we think about others is important. The manager discovered that by allowing the packers the pleasure of testing their parachutes by jumping from a plane, quality rose to 100 percent. If we are this careful about how we pack our thoughts about others, then we'll have a tremendous success rate. Another way in which we can demonstrate our love is by how we speak about and to one another.
Words are powerful things.
They can either encourage or discourage. If you want to help people, speak words of encouragement. If you want to drive people away from you, speak sharp, cynical, critical words. God directs us in His word to speak words that are encouraging. Here is the testimony of the power of words from one who had personal experience.