We're compiling your responses on the qualities that represent your perfect mate. To read about these perfect people, click here . Surf your way to spousal bliss. Find expert guidance on how to meet your perfect mate, plus sites that tell you what it is men and women really want in a partner. To begin with a negative, I was never attracted to women who took themselves seriously.
Vanity makes people tiresome and boring.
And competitive even in love. My ideal woman is an intelligent one. Intelligence is far sexier than figure or clothes to any man who isn't content with a silent relationship. I could never understand this obsession with clothes. Our moronic mass culture equates beauty and sexuality with slim waistlines and tender years, depressing even teenagers with the thought that for the greater part of their lives they will be inferior beings.