Remember that there is no problem in the world that is new. Yours is not unique, and there is always a biblical answer for it. God has not left you without hope. This is not something you can do unless you are very much in the Word yourself. Calling it a syndrome does not changes anything.
Sin is sin is sin.
Stay away from books that get you to look inward instead of to Christ. Especially stay away from books that get you to think that you have problems that you never knew you had before. Guard against another popular trend in the modern counseling movement, which is to dig up all the hurt and misuse from the past.