My whole belief system is that our paths are drawn for us. I believe in reincarnation. I believe we're here to learn and grow. We choose how we come into this life based on what it is we have to learn.
Some people have harder lessons than others.
You have to go in fearless. Scully is insanely intelligent. Just remember, you can do anything you set your mind to, but it takes action, perseverance, and facing your fears. When I became a mother, something inside me shifted. I have a little person who looks to me and depends on me.