Two or three sprays at my neck and on my hands always refreshes me, although lavender is also commonly recommended for tension induced insomnia. It's also terrific for killing germs, so I spray lavender around hotel rooms. Also some balm s and aromatic oils like Tiger Balm or White Flower can be applied to pressure points at the wrists, temples, feet and collar bone for a refreshing uplifting sensation. Romantic enhancement is possible with a variety of herbals. I mentioned an elixir called Erotikava in the last issue of Oxford Health and Fitness of the winner of the 1998 best new natural product award of the west coast.
Users report that it creates a warm friendly mood coupled with exciting physical sensations.
Other new products which have developed an enthusiastic following overnight are the pheromone infused body oil called Allure and its companion candles. The pheromones are extracted from wild yam. I've heard lots of fun stories about informal experiments with these tow goodies. Yohimbe and Damiana which are commonly used for increased sexual prowess, but can be dangerous for those with high blood pressure, and reportedly are not very reliable. The therapeutic use of essential oils from plants is known as aromatherapy and can be used to create a romantic mood.