On our own and from a secular view, of course, this is totally impossible. The main reason the lives of so many people today are miserable is because family relationships are destroyed. Satan is the author of selfishness and self-centeredness. In a family, self-centered living is like putting sand in an engine. This sand will completely destroy everything.
Uncontrolled egos are like computer viruses.
Left unchecked, the viruses will also destroy everything. Now, a special word to many of you who are not turning 40 this year. Now you're in your 80s. Consequently, there are those who would want you to be full of despair and discouragement. It's not just those who are turning 40 who are depressed.