It becomes a way to lead the child out of isolation. But successful living also requires us to be able to change and adapt to new situations. This is very difficult for autistic children. They need a great deal of support and practice in dealing with new behavior expectations, so that the child knows just what he is expected to do and what the results will be. At the same time, the child needs to experience just enough change to keep him challenged and learning, but not overwhelmed or discouraged.
Some children do best with a program combining both methods.
Every child needs a treatment program designed just for him or her, one which parents feel is right for that child. Autistic children have many needs, and need help from many people. Counselors can be very helpful to parents and other family members. All team members must share the same information and understand one another's goals, so that everyone works together. Every state has a public health or education agency serving children with special needs - call your local public health department and ask for information.