All the various parts of our lives can be split off from each other. Whereas women are more like a ball of yarn where everything's connected to everything else. That's why a woman can't get romantic when there's some unresolved anger or frustration with her husband, and he doesn't see what the two things have to do with each other. When we feel hostile, our first instinct is to release it physically. And when we're upset, the way for us to feel better is to actively solve the problem.
Women are verbal.
Our hostility is released with words rather than fists. And when we're upset, the way for us to feel better is by talking about our problem with other people. We need to be apart from everybody else while we figure out our problems alone. Remember, a man is very self-reliant and competitive, and to ask for help is weakness, so he will first want to solve the problem by himself. When we're stressed, we get more involved with other people.