I'd choose a funky ethnic joint over white tablecloths any day. I sat through the meal feeling strangely disconnected from the proceedings, as if I was an actor in a play anticipating the lines from the other characters. I was keenly aware of the gentle pressure of his hand on mine. It felt insistent. Moving in together before marriage is a sure sign that the couple is NOT ready to make any real committment.
Someone can walk out at any point in the relationship.
Jessica wanted Andy to propose and he was too much of a coward to so. I can empathize with Jessica. Your transactions are secure.