Literature is considered an important approach to the topic. Students read Tuesdays with Morrie by Mitch Albom, Toni Morrison's Sula and other selected articles. Tuesdays illuminates a very special relationship that cuts across age and involves a teacher instructing his former student about life through the experience of his approaching death. Sula raises issues that are often ignored, like the question of class differences among African Americans. The principle characters, Nel and Sula, share age, race and gender, but not class-the most significant challenge to their friendship.
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According to Cole, the way American society is structured, as well as prevalent cultural attitudes about differences among people, serve as barriers to cross-difference friendships. Look at the fact that 93 percent of top executive jobs are held by white men. Black people are dumb. These are all obstacles. And yet, some people do develop and sustain friendships that cross race, ethnicity, gender, religion, age, sexual orientation and physical ability and disability.