You alone are responsible for it. Spend 30 minutes alone each day to meditate. Contemplate your life and where you're heading. Seek and talk to a person who currently is doing what you want to do most and doing it well. Not that we all can be winners in every aspect of our lives.
Winners take responsibility for themselves.
They know what they want and set realistic goals for themselves. Winners have a positive self image. They read biographies of famous people. They watch educational and inspirational cassette tapes for self improvement, as well as stimulating television programmes in general. Winners have a quest to gain knowledge and make the most of themselves - they know their time is limited and precious and so they make the most of it.