However, do not always think of your pain as the cause of problems. Women who are near the menopause should not be afraid to discuss this with their doctor. Most people think about intercourse when sexual relations are concerned. If intercourse is not possible, there are many ways to have a full and meaningful relationship without. Many people will describe finding other parts of their bodies which when caressed by a loving partner can give great fulfilment.
Touch is so very important.
Another taboo subject is that of masturbation, and yet this is an excellent way to explore your own body and find areas that give pleasure. Also experiment with the different positions suggested for intercourse and this may give you the confidence to try them out with your partner. Remember hurt does not always mean harm and relaxation does help pain. There are many resources available. SPOD has already been mentioned but also the Internet has a variety of web sites, which deal openly and sensitively with this subject.