If you do not like what you see, a change may be in order for all. Only by looking at the problem through your child's eyes can you grasp your child's feelings, reactions, and fears. Do not deny or make fun of your child for his or her worries. These worries are real to your child and need your attention. Talk with your child about his or her concerns and problem behavior Communication is a source of information, comfort, and security.
Tension often reaches the boiling point when children feel they are facing a source of stress alone.
Knowing that their worries can be expressed helps relieve some of the pressure, as well as builds a more rewarding parent-child relationship. Tell your child the truth about family matters and crises Your child does not live in a bubble. If you do not provide honest and simple accounts of a stressful event, your child will probably create an even more alarming explanation. The goal is to lessen or prevent your child's stress. Explanations which are simple, accurate, and at the proper level of understanding are best.