Try to get some other judges and planners to help you evaluate and plan. 4.Ways to get assistance with such projects Counselors are professionals trained at assisting people with understanding their own feelings and fears. Courses, projects and books that increase your knowledge of personal trends in yourself or ways to capture the essence of yourself. Tools and records such as video or audio tapes of yourself and diaries or journals. Maybe examining old records pertaining to yourself such as old diaries and letters can turn up some information that will be of value when compared to the present.
Support groups can help and are a major modern tool for any personal study or change.
Such groups may be formal ones like AlAnon or informal such as you and a trusted friend undertaking mutual study and discussion. Whether the purpose is a fuller religious life or getting in better shape, many people find that doing things together easier and more supportive than working alone. A good answer is whatever most calls to you. Often the direction of most need or strongest interest makes itself felt inside you. This inner feeling is not clear to everyone.