Some women find themselves feeling quite calm. While these reactions are very different, there is nothing abnormal about either one, or the combination of the two. Even the most well-meaning, supportive family and friends may not comprehend the situation or your emotional state right away. While family, friends and even you may wish to review the crime to determine how it might have been prevented-this can be an unnecessary and painful experience. Rape can and does happen to anyone.
Some women react to rape by wanting to withdraw.
In the long run, this may not be helpful. Talking about the experience and your resulting feelings with family, close friends or a counselor may hasten your recovery. These feelings range from helplessness, fear, humiliation and embarrassment to anger, revenge and self-blame. Women often react to the violent aspects of the rape as well as the sexual aspects. Some women develop new fears after being raped.