Remain calm and be aware that she may be hurt and sad. Do not go into detail about all her shortcomings as a bridesmaid. Remain calm and be aware that she may be hurt and sad. Let her express herself and just listen. Holycross recommends cushioning the blow by inviting her to take a special role at the ceremony, such as a prayer reading.
Some couples manage to sidestep potential bridal party problems altogether.
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