It's the same with books, paintings, or houses. Quite simply, some houses have the gift of loving us, and others don't. Houses are actually a permanent correspondence between their builders and the people who live in them. People's houses are like big, beautiful or ugly letters. For houses have a sex, just like us.
Some houses are female, others are male.
And that's the whole point. So, I want you to build me a house that's like a love letter. I know it is not given to everyone to kindle the fire of love. Some are not able to. But you can.