This brief time of waiting clarifies not only their suitability for ministry but whether the needs and vision of the individual fit our capabilities. Going to the cross speaks of dying to the flesh and human cleverness in our attitudes and lifestyles. Such people will show traits of circumspectness, submissiveness, wisdom, compassion, transparency, patience and prayerfulness. They are humble, teachable, willing to be accountable, and allow others to speak into their lives. Abiding is the process of becoming like the company we keep.
Selfish ambition is essentially the desire for recognition, power, and control.
Some seek church leadership with hopes of lordship rather than service. Others have a mistaken notion that what made them successful in the business world translates identically to the church. Unless the Lord guards the city, the guard keeps watch in vain. Those suited to spiritual leadership acknowledge sooner rather than later that prayer, waiting on the Lord's timing, and following his plan are the only ways to build God's house. For some reason, growing churches attract ambitious people aspiring to leadership who lack the discernment to choose the church God has actually selected for them.