The plant image emphasises the profoundly biological nature of sexual attraction. Misogyny may be interpreted as a flaw in oneself. One receives what one gives. Woman is delightful insofar as she can reflect your own delight and your confidence in yourself. To look for more than that may be a grave mistake.
Woman is the object of desire.
But false expectations may viciously rebound. Different women desire different men, that makes for human variety but if you are lucky there are enough for you. See yourself also as a plant, the most fundamental nature of the instinct, its essence. Your self confidence, your definition, yourself. The extent to which that is what you are.