And, if you're a lesbian like me, I can assure you that it can work. I can only speak for lesbians, but there the climate towards us is not quite as bone-chillingly frigid as it once was. Many of us have found love and lovers despite being pre-op. Sure, some radical seperatist types will rant against us, but by and large, the ordinary Joan Q. Lesbian goes her own way, thinks her own thoughts, and loves whom she pleases. All I ask is that you think about it some before you join the lemmings, rushing to the cliff.
Surgery is always risky.
It's also expensive. Think about it.