The eve of Yom Kippur, considered a semi-holiday, arouses mingled feelings of joy and solemnity. The day is marked by generous giving. At this time, forgiveness is sought from those who one may have insulted or injured either purposely or inadvertently, and peace is hopefully established between the contending parties. The final meal before the fast is a festive one. A memorial light, to burn throughout the twenty-four hours of the fast, is kindled to recall departed ones.
Women generally wear white garments as well.
This absolution from vows refers only to those that the individual voluntarily took upon himself, and that concern his relation to his conscience and Heavenly Judge. No oath or promise involving another person, a community or court of justice is included in the Kol Nidre. Prayers of penitence Petitions for forgiveness regarding the particular commission of sins constitute a major portion of the day's ritual. Furthermore, according to Jewish tradition, a person is not forgiven on the Day of Atonement for sins committed against his fellow man unless he makes direct overtures to the actual person or persons involved to rectify the situation. Yizkor Memorial services are conducted in memory of departed parents and relatives.