Or if you are fortunate enough to be able to exchange articles with your wife, ask her to let you try one of those items you have been looking at, but didn't think it would look good on you. You just might be surprised. If you are going for a new look, how about taking your wife or SO along and both of you get into looking at something new and different. Makeovers can do wonders for both of your outlooks. It doesn't have to be expensive or total.
Thrift shops have a wealth of clothing ideas without a great deal of cost.
Wig shops are fun places to try on all kinds of styles and colors without having to decide right that minute on the one you want. Any one of these adventures can be done at minimum cost, but with a lot of fun, especially if you have someone with which to share the fun. So relax and go have some fun while shopping for that new look. And just maybe you will discover you already have the best for yourself. Looking Toward 2000 Everyone in our community is aware of the parallel threads that surface when members of the cross-dressing community get together, either in person or on the Internet, to talk about the problems with which we are coping.