In fact in the beginning they are simply at their wits' end of how to deal with the chaos in their life caused by their chemical addiction. Character building is a by-product of those who seriously commit to and work the twelve steps of Alcoholics Anonymous. This character building comes through selfless service. I enjoy the feeling of being of service, but the truth is that I would like to get credit for it. Selfless service does not come easily.
Selfless service is a way of living the twelve steps.
Twelve-step exercises are very practical and are similar to exercises found throughout history in groups directed toward strengthening a sense of conscience. It doesn't have to be big. It might be getting to work early and fixing the coffee for everyone else. Like a lot of little things that make a big difference, this sounds easy or small. The experience of doing is what counts.