In the same way, when the wife sees the love of her husband, she will love him and submit to him. Our goal as husbands must be to fulfill God's command to us and leave our wife's reaction up to Him. He made Himself of no reputation. Jesus had a complete attitude of unselfishness. He humbled Himself.
True authority comes from humility.
A man who is constantly lecturing his wife on his authority probably has very little. A husband must be firm and decisive, but also humble and unselfish. C. Love Unconditionally. The fact of the matter is that many wives are not sure if their husbands love them. There are three different words in the original Greek language for love.