Even though I ve only been visiting this site for a few weeks, it s clear to me that your advice has been of tremendous help to so many others who have come here as well. I simply want to make sure I do this in a way that gives the best chance for success. As you can no doubt understand, this is the most important thing I ve had to do in my entire life. A letter had any immediate affect, but I'd do it again because it may be something she'll remember when the fog lifts. Nonetheless, your mileage may vary.
Time wounds all heels.
WAT Thanks for the feedback. I m not very optimistic that my letter will have much affect on my WS either. Like you, the most I can probably realistically expect is that she might remember when the fog lifts. I knew you would help me understand. I liked the letter, and agreed with Jim's comments.