Even when partners agree on the major priorities, it's almost a given that they'll bring out opposite money-handling traits in each other. Check Your Attitude Toward Money Money habits and the emotional reasons behind them are acquired during childhood and aren't easily changed. As adults we may either try to emulate our parents' money habits or go in the opposite direction. Hoarders get pleasure from budgeting and itemizing every expense. They rarely spend for today's pleasures.
Worriers have difficulty feeling in control of their money.
They're compelled to balance their checkbooks and rework budgets often. Avoiders tend to not budget, pay bills or file financial papers. Checks may bounce because they haven't balanced their register and don't know how much money they have. Understanding how each of your views money is the first step in reducing conflict. Create an atmosphere of mutual respect where money issues can be discussed without fear of ridicule or anger.