To do the right thing is always fraught with issues that are difficult to understand. But to offer yourself to the Creator in the strength and beauty of your heart's desires is to reside within the truth of yourself, from which there is no recourse. If you are on your center, in your heart, you are standing in that innocence that allows you to be Divinely yielding. You only sacrifice a lesser way of being for a greater one. Hold true to that, and be in your heart.
Vulnerability is a misunderstood term.
To be Divinely yielding makes us vulnerable and that is truly an uncomfortable feeling. It's up to you.