Mark has seen me before, he's in his 30s, fat and gingery. He likes to cuddle after the sex and chat about his business or current affairs. If he becomes a regular he'll encounter feminism anyway. Geoff is 19. He's had girlfriends but has been coming to brothels since he was 18.
Some men come to get sex without the complications of a relationship.
Jeremy's long-term lover has R.S.I. and can't caress him at all, which leads to a lot of tension. O.K. Some clients would be better off using their hand - my existence seems pretty peripheral to their experience of sex. Fred, a 52 year-old plant operator, fingers me as if beckoning a mate across a pool table. Peter broke up with his girlfriend last month. It's his 18th birthday and his friends have hassled him into seeing me.