Not all guys are the above words, but hey we can dream. You have to be careful with guys, some aren't all what they seem. Always keep your guard up, then if you feel comfortable around the guy then let a little bit of your guard down, but not too much. Guys are strange. They are all different, but can be sweet and stay away from the ones that make you feel uncomfortable.
Some guys take things slow.
Other guys take things fast. Most guys will go at thepace that makes the girl they are with feel comfortable. Don't worry not all guys are scary.