Women admire ambitious men, but resent men who lose sleep over their careers.
Women love men who feel as comfortable on a baseball field as they do in a tuxedo.
At least that's what I realized when I interviewed women about their top five turn-ons. You can't build a relationship on one turn-on. The ladies want a package deal, however quirky the contents. A really funny boy who loved Minor Threat and watches movies all weekend long is worth losing some dignity over. But not all women have such inimitable requests.