Most of us eventually learn that our rightness may be limiting or restricting our happiness. Our rightness about effective recovery from significant emotional losses often limits our ability to complete relationships that have ended or changed. But time does not complete anything that is emotionally incomplete in our relationship with someone who died. If we believe, with tremendous rightness , that time is going to heal our emotional wound, we are destined to wait forever. Time does not heal.
Time goes by.
It is the actions that you take within time that can help you grieve and complete relationships that have ended or changed. It is essential to take a new position of rightness about which actions are most helpful to achieve effective long-term Grief Recovery. Another example of a belief that you may have learned and practiced is keeping busy . As a response to the conflicting feelings caused by loss, keeping busy can be a dangerous short-term distraction. At the end of a busy day your heart is still broken, and the relationship may still be incomplete.