Affections have to be channeled properly, and the surroundings had better be safe if the affections make you vulnerable, exuberant and not reserved in innocence. In proper, affectionate relationships one tries to avoid overt and covert manipulation, and also the harsh and blunt need to be noticed. Tactful reserve often deals with suggestions and manifests things without bitterness. What's behind the inner voice is like a dear old dea captain in need of being noticed before things go very wrong. Or maybe he tries to enable you.
Tricky deals abound in the outer world.
It's a good story. Jesus wasn't much for hailing bigwigs. If reading is a help, read good literature and self-help manuals if you can. Guideposts we often give away for free, are all tied in with cardinal, basic, general or rather widespread phenomena. They were deducted.