We live in a world where many kids fear growing older. Much of their fear comes from seeing frustrated adults trying to be kids. Teenagers need to see an adult comfortable with being an adult. When young people seek an adult for help, they are not going to confide in someone who is immature. They will go to someone who has demonstrated adult wisdom and confidence.
Some adults try to act like kids, while others try to dress like kids.
Fashion is an element of communication which may seem insignificant to us, but it is important to today's socially conscious teenager. We also need to be careful in our grooming. Our message communicates a lack of concern when we appear disheveled. Adults need to be themselves and model the truth that they are happy to be adults-the truth that life with Christ is worthwhile at any age. In order to be yourself you must know who you are.