Next on the ethical checklist is knowing what you want and how you are willing to change. When you cast a spell, even if you only half-believe in the effectiveness of magick, be prepared to get what you ask for in a sometimes literal sense. Think through your requests, always. In ideal relationships, Mr. or Ms. Right adore you as you are. Whenever you meet and become intimate with a new person, you change, just based on the information you absorb about the other person.
Some people only seek partners because they fear being alone.
In an ideal world or an ideal state of mental health, they would recognize that love relationships are meant to enrich an already full life, not fill a void. However, culture at large places such a high value on partnerships that many people will seek out lovers and stay in unhappy relationships for too long because of a fear of the stigma of living aone. Many times, who you are attracted to is not who you are compatible with but learning that is a process that can take decades. Again, you might project for someone sexy and exciting only to find that that person might be fun in bed but has a maddening habit of flossing his or her teeth while watching television. If you choose to enact love magick, act in accord.