And the clergy aren't really of much help. Many people who work in parishes are struggling to articulate a coherent and faithful sexual ethic that they can both teach and live by. As an example of what form this kind of Christian formation might take, Ms. Kimball described her experience in forming a small intentional community committed to listening carefully as two questions were explored. You are holy. Sexuality is good.
Sexuality is powerful.
You are not alone. You must take responsibility. We are invited to really listen, to hear what is being said and not said. Ms. Kimball is currently an adjunct faculty member and consultant to the University of Minnesota's Youth Development Leadership Program. She was Canon Missioner for Youth and Congregational Development for the Episcopal Diocese of Minnesota from 1995 to 2000.