In many cases, the teacher is the first to recognize that a child is hyperactive or inattentive and may consult with the school psychologist. However, teachers sometimes fail to notice the needs of children who are quiet and cooperative. They're the ones who are so often in trouble at school, can't finish a game, and lose friends. They may spend agonizing hours each night struggling to keep their mind on their homework, then forget to bring it to school. It's not easy coping with these frustrations day after day.
Some children release their frustration by acting contrary, starting fights, or destroying property.
Some turn the frustration into body ailments, like the child who gets a stomachache each day before school. Others hold their needs and fears inside, so that no one sees how badly they feel. It's also difficult having a sister, brother, or classmate who gets angry, grabs your toys, and loses your things. Children who live with or share a classroom with an ADHD child get frustrated, too. They may feel neglected as their parents or teachers try to cope with the hyperactive child.