Plan to be spontaneous - tomorrow. If you think nobody cares, try missing a couple of payments. Love may be blind but marriage is a real eye-opener. It's just stale bread to begin with. I went to a bookstore and asked the saleswoman where the Self Help section was, she said if she told me it would defeat the purpose.
Schizophrenia beats being alone.
If at first you don't succeed, redefine success. You have the capacity to learn from your mistakes, and you will learn a lot today. A thing not worth doing isn't worth doing well. Heck is where people go who don't believe in Gosh. Time is just nature's way to keep everything from happening at once.