A man's life is dyed the color of his imagination. Always eat before going to a wedding, funeral, confirmation, or bar mitzvah because it will be a long time between services and meals. The little boy who dropped his chewing gum in the chicken yard. The man who can smile when things go wrong has thought of someone he can blame it on. We are the people our parents warned us against.
Suicide is confession and confession is suicide.
Whatever hits the fan will not be evenly distributed. In every organized activity, no matter the sphere, a small number will become the oligarchical leaders and the others will follow. Life is largely a matter of expectation. Regarding alcohol, four is more than more than enough. Anything that begins well ends badly.