But if they don't, at least you are heading in the right direction. You need to take a few precautions. Make really sure you are ready to do this. Don't go from kissing to intercourse. Make sure you have lots of lubricant, either KY Jelly or Cornhuskers lotion to make sure that penetration is as comfortable as possible.
Some women report pain and some report no pain.
My boyfriend left me for the third time for another woman and says that he really does love me and wants me back. Orgasms for women in intercourse have traditionally been difficult at least in American culture, so the fact that you are having some is a very good sign. When you become more comfortable with him and are able to surrender to the experience, they will probably become more frequent. Your potential for orgasm varies with each experience and sometimes you will need more stimulation than other times, so be sure to let the person know if you need more stimulation. What you are doing wrong is not kissing him.