The truth is that there are often consequences when you have sex with someone else. There are lots of emotional ones too. The true mark of a man is his willingness to deal with the consequences of his decisions. All of them. We all know there's a difference between sex and love.
Sex is a powerful physical excitement.
Love is a powerful caring for someone else. Often love is also physically exciting. Whether for love or sex, or both, you can't have sex without getting involved in someone else's life. No matter how long they last, sexual relationships are partnerships. Men and women who understand that sexual relationships are partnerships try to be honest and caring with one another.