I had a fabulous time writing my book. One of my patients told me in an airplane in the bathroom is very exciting. Also, in the backseat of a car or in a picnic area, maybe in Central Park would be exciting. Maybe try having sex on the beach early in the morning. You don't just want to do it in the bed all the time.
Women take longer to turn on and men turn on quicker and cool down quicker.
Men need to slow up so the woman can speed up. It tapers off as they get older. It can be from once a week to once a month. Everything is relative and depends on the couple. I've never loved like I did with that guy.