Submit to one another. We all rebel against submitting ourselves to others. It just is not natural. Fallen creatures look to their own happiness and fulfillment first. Fallen creatures think about themselves first.
Submission is totally alien to such people.
This failure to submit is one of the reasons so many marriages today end up in divorce. Submit to one another out of reverence for Christ. Because of Who Christ is, because of the place He occupies in Your life, because of what He has done for you at the cross and the grave, you are to submit to one another. Herein lies the secret to submission. What is impossible and unnatural for sinful, fallen people is possible for those Who know and love and serve Jesus.