We're all longing, ultimately, for a deeper relationship with God. But many of us are afraid to get closer to God because we're afraid of what He will ask us to do. The answer is no. They help you realize why you got so lonely in the first place. Counseling and groups are also important for accountability.
Trye accountability is about fellowship with other men.
Let's say you have a bible study with 6 guys. You 6 are waling around in the mall. You pass one of the stores that sells lingere. You know in your heart you're being tempted. Now, what intimate accoutnability does is being able to talk to those men right there about what you're feeling.