Once you have identified possible providers, you can call them to find out if they have any openings that meet your basic needs. Begin by asking if it is a good time to talk, and if not, when you should call back. If the care giver is willing, you may want to bring your own child so you can see how they all get along together. Simply explain that you are visiting. Do not ask your child to make the final decision.
Some providers have standard procedures for parents visits.
Ask each one what they suggest. Explain that you don't want to be in the way, that you just want to watch a regular day and that you will talk to her later when she has time. Allow at least hour for each visit, although you might decide to leave earlier or stay longer, depending on what you see. You will quickly be able to see whether the children are happy and busy, bored and listless, or tense. Listen to the sounds.