This has happened, and it is VERY, VERY rude. Which I then have to edit out for the archives. It is not a good thing to say the least. If a discussion becomes a personal exchange, such as arranging a tape swap, please take it to private email and off of the list. Since this is a list dedicated to ani, please try to keep discussion related to ani, her music, and her fans.
Tangents happen, but when they take over it can get annoying to others.
This list is a 'closed' list, meaning that only list members can request a list of members from Majordomo. However, it is not a moderated list, any one can send anything they want to. Self control is the rule of the day. I don't work for them, they don't pay me - they may not even like me. I hope this list serves that purpose.