Paul gives us three ways his love directed him in helping his beloved friends. Giving encouragement provides new strength and confidence to use what we have. We are affirmed that what we have makes a difference. Much weakness prevails upon us. We're sensitive and easily get distracted by various suspicions and worries.
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The comfort and acceptance of another often provides just the salve we need to get up again and try. Because so much is at stake, urgency is demanded. Healthy exhortation must have a place for being given and received. Truly loving each other means we will urge others to continuously follow hard after Jesus. The above links probably will not function before March 30, 2001.