Understanding of these issues will build gradually over the years. Ask questions about the child's learning and social experiences to use as your guideline and to adjust your information with his or her understanding. Use lots of comparisons and examples with which the child can identify. Depending on your child's age and maturity, his or her understanding may be enhanced through the use of concrete examples and analogies. They walk when they are ready.
Some children read earlier than others.
Encourage your child to talk to his or her doctor, teacher, or mental health professional about any questions or concerns. Sometimes it is easier for children to express their feelings to someone outside of the family. Be prepared for specific questions that might come up. Resource materials and consultation with knowledgable professionals will help you prepare appropriate answers to these and other likely questions. Obtain pamphlets, books, and videotapes on ADHD and LD that you can share with your child.