Be prepared to accept the expression of feelings such as anger, sadness and depression. Those experiencing infertility often feel inadequate because they have no control over their reproductive system. Some people experience fertility problems after having one child. This is devastating and frustrating for those who feel their families are incomplete. You can offer support by understanding what this means to them.
Some women experience recurrent miscarriage.
You can help by understanding the mixed feelings of hope, anxiety, guilt and despair. Do not offer false hope - or be unduly pessimistic. The woman has enough feelings of her own to cope with, and miscarriage always represents a very real loss. Don't forget, too, that the father has also experienced this loss. He also needs your support and understanding.