It is scarier still, because we believe we either cannot achieve it or do not deserve it. So, conflict resolution is a risk. Every Human Psyche contains an element that will push for growth and happiness, following your bliss for each one of us. In our hearts we have a picture of how things could be. This is a dream that we all share in which everyone is happy and fully satisfied with themselves and, so, with others.
Society then becomes a series of peaceful, harmonious, and mutually beneficial relationships.
I have yet to encounter anyone who does not share this dream. What you may hear, however, is that although the dream exists, it has no possibility of ever becoming reality. People steal, they lie, cheat, kill, they're physically violent, verbally abusive, deceitful. I can't trust anyone I don't know and even then, you never know when your best friend may turn on you. And we know it.