I can attest to that personally. The main point of difference between new pagans and Christians is the attitude to suffering. The Pope keeps going, despite his illness. Love takes the sting out of suffering for a good cause. The force is gone.
Society too needs self-sacrifice or it falls apart.
The way the leaders and priests have looked after you. God is good. God loves us. Jesus has saved us. This has been the Church s message for 2000 years.