Get over that, phoneliner, because there's nothing healing in being told your fantasies are sick. I think the best way on the phoneline to talk about safer sex is to talk about it as a celebration of sex. Advice around safer sex based on fear, condoms as a survival guide, etc. And I think these efforts have left the gay community with negative feelings about sex. At least that is certainly emerging as a reaction to the AIDS epidemic as a whole.
Sex is bad.
Anita Bryant and the Pope are right. And I hate myself for being a sexual being. Phoneliners should see talk about safer sex in a different way, in the context of celebration. And in the context of self-esteem. Man, if you use this little latex sucker you are going to have such a party.