I spend more time planning predictability than I do having it. But that's okay, because it's not the actual event that I like so much as it happens. I just love knowing what's going to happen, when and where. I like this because it gives me a sense of the future . I don't have much of that.
Stability is good, simply because it feels nice.
My home life as a child was not stable. But, my husband's personality doesn't change from 'nice'. He's never purposefully mean to me, he doesn't pick on me, and he's just generally a nice person. And it's good to know that he's not going to slap me for no reason or start screaming at me. That's a good feeling.