They are more concerned with what is happening to them. Separation is a major worry. Assure them that they will be taken care of. Children this age need simple explanations about cancer. Stories that relate cancer to familiar ideas will help explain cancer and treatments.
Teenagers understand that cancer can lead to death.
They need to be reassured that progress is being made to prevent this and that many people with cancer survive and lead normal lives. A practical guide that explains children's special needs when a parent is seriously ill. Provides guidelines, advice and real-life examples to help parents and other caregivers help children during this stressful time. Mom has cancer to the day she returns home. Acknowledges fears and questions children have when a parent is seriously ill, especially when a bone marrow transplant or stem cell transplant is involved.