Be Your Own Therapist. Men are often just trying to pacify women concerning housework.
Women are usually the ones unhappy about the lack of housework help from their spouses.
Many women fail to see that they have been overtrained and traumatized as young girls by their mothers. Therefore, they have all sorts of standards and shoulds which to their spouses are just simply absurd. Leaving an often-used can opener on the counter is more efficient. Putting clothes in a drawer makes them less accessible. Dusting seems irrelevant.