You have free will. How much of each is in your own hands. He isn't that petty, that little. He has bigger and more important things to do than that. Once individual souls return to becoming apart of omnipotent, omniscient, and omnipresent again, they will have enough to do sharing and experiencing their own actions and workings generated within the reality in which they had just journeyed.
Women feel guilty when raped.
They feel like they must have done something wrong. Children feel guilty when a divorce takes place. People losing a loved one, people becoming inflicted with terminal illness, spouses being abused, people losing their jobs, and on and on it goes. We need to throw out the concept that we are being punished in life and get on with living. That does not mean to say that people should not mourn.