We are to put others first. We are to serve those 'under' us. We are to obey God and others. If someone asks us to accompany him one mile we are to go the extra mile. We are to obey those in power over us, the government, and all our leaders.
Slaves are to obey their masters.
The logical fulfillment of Christian submission would be for men to serve women. Smack, Smack, Smack, Smack, Smack . . . Pain also causes one to be very aware of the body. In terms of either attraction or avoidance pain can motivate behavior. Chastening is not always based on cause and effect, it is not necessarily administered due to bad behavior but to demonstrate who is in control and to remind the object of the punishment that their body is not their own.