Bring spiritual awareness into sex - and increase the pleasure.
Sex is a powerful drive, second only to survival itself.
If we don't control our sexuality, it will cause us great harm. When our hormones are running the show, we're no longer free. The first thing we must do, therefore, is to decide that our mind is going to dictate our actions. The power to overcome great challenges lies within us. We just have to create the appropriate stimulus to bring it out.