Experiencing sexuality and its variety of results forces us to be aware of this. Whether we enjoy a sexual experience or not, it is provocative. We have no choice but to grow. Eventually, sooner or later, we have no choice but to love and love ourselves, and sex is often at the root of our movement in this direction. No matter how distorted, denied or crushed our sexual instincts have become, following where they lead guarantees healing of our relationships, our creativity and our sense of wholeness.
Sexuality is such a vivid expression of life that it's impossible to miss.
It may take time, but we get there. We may get off the track, but things like pheromones, irresistible people and our basic biological urges help us get back on. We may have all our weaknesses revealed and our jealousy and rage triggered in the process, and then we get a chance to heal it. And then we get to be truly alive. There is one little catch.