And yes, from time to time I would think of him, you can't be married to someone and never ever think of them again once you've divorced them. I feel sad for his family, he's the second child to die before the parents. I remember hearing how hard hit my ex was when his sis died. Some people don't want to be saved from themselves. Don't want or won't accept help.
Some people start in on their demise years before the final outcome is death.