Swollen lymph nodes. Men get sore spots, women just go straight to sick. The ulcers can spread all over the body, and make take up to a year to heal. Specific tests have to be conducted to discriminate between this and other STD lesions. Urethritis, balanitis or lesions in men.
Women itch, swell, and turn red.
Men hurt to pee, and may get sore spots. Ick and ow. This is a yeast infection. Yeast are a natural part of a woman's vagina. To stop yeast infections change underwear frequently, avoid sugar based lubricants, don't over douche, wear cotton panties.