I have seen over and over again that in a relationship, when the trust and respect have gone, so has the relationship. You have to have integrity in your life. I won't make you angry. Wise people work at maintaining harmony. They're not just looking for a fight.
Wisdom is peaceable.
If you're wise you don't antagonize people's anger. Two things that cause arguments. You're asking for a fight. Don't compare inappropriately. We just build up all of the guilt.