My mate Skippy is in the business. Annie Sprinkle's Home Page - the post modernist porn queen who failed to shock us when she turned up in town. We liked her. She has a serious message behind the sexual gimmickery. It's unfair to say that women are poorly represented on the net.
Women are grrrls and they are firing on all cylinders.
This Feminist site is a good springboard for lots of good resources. It beats singing in the shower. Do the terminal sing-along. Computer karaoke with Gilbert and Sullivan. It is not unknown that I have some affinity with the Buddhist world.