Now is not the time to play coy. Once you decide the time is right, dont skimp on foreplay. It is up to you to know what your partner likes and what arouses her. If its little kisses all over her body, start there, but dont forget to try massage, it's one of the great tactile sensations. Because we usually have sex behind closed doors, we assume sex to be a private act.
Sex is an act of sharing.
Dont be afraid to tell your partner what you need nor to ask what she needs. The more you share, the better your sex life will be.