There have been more black flags raised about sex than about gay pirates, mice with ears on their back, or that stupid illegitimate sheep. Sex is what makes the world go round, and there is nothing more flashy in media except perhaps death or violence. Sex is sold on the street, sold in the media, sold in the movies. Sex is a release or a job. Sex is oral, anal, penetration, kinky.
Sex is sleek, slim, and well curved.
Sex is Madonna's crappy book, and Pamela Anderson's stupid videos that keep getting released. Sex is a penis inside a vagina. There is much more than what you describe. I agree with you. I don't agree with sex before marriage.