Although having only known him for a few weeks, I can't be sure about him as I am about myself. Terrified in Tennessee Dear Terrified in Tennessee, What you described was very low risk, or no risk at all . Alice knows of safer sex educators who got HIV years after learning everything there was to know about the disease and how it's passed from one person to another. There are, however, many steps you can take to reduce this concern that, for many, hangs like a dark cloud over a human experience that can be enjoyed by all who choose to have it. Not only can this limit surprises and worry, but it can be wildly sexy.
Sharing usually leads to learning and reassurance.
212.645.7470 Think about getting tested, just as you did in the past. If you're having safer sex, but still worry constantly about the sex you've had, or may have in the future, a talk with a counselor might get to other issues contributing to your worry.