We have sex maybe once a week. I just have no desire anymore. At three years of marriage that is the time when you start to make the transition from dating sex to marital sex. Marital sex is not necessarily boring, but it is very different. One of the things you have to do is gain back the time for sex that has been stolen by other parts of your life.
Time is the biggest problem in newlyweds.
They don't date anymore and don't play anymore. It's a good idea to date and play. Sex needs to become a priority. My boyfriend makes me have sex, oral and vaginal, even when I don't want to. He says it's not rape because we're a couple, and he doesn't threaten me, but I feel it is.