Parents should not exhibit hesitation or guilt about leaving their children alone. Children are very sensitive and will pick up on this immediately and take a cue for their own behaviour on being separated from their parents. If parents give in to their child every time she throws a tantrum on being left alone, she will soon learn to manipulate them. After a while, the child may exaggerate her fear just to enjoy the power that she has over her parents. It is important that parents realize that they have to draw the line.
Separation anxiety can continue till the child s first day at pre-school.
Suddenly, the child feels that she has been thrust into a new environment and everybody is a stranger. This may cause her to cling to her mother. It is important that the mother appear confident, cheerful and unafraid otherwise the child will feel that her fear of school is real. If the child s fear is disproportionate, then it may be advisable to check with the doctor. All Rights Reserved Worldwide.