I also think you should step back and try to judge each person for their character. It is up to you whether you believe their statements to be true or false. You are welcome to submit your comments to anything you do not agree with. A rip-off is when you pay money and get nothing in return. And whites don't think blacks are lazy.
Some whites think some blacks are lazy.
Blacks were very important to the growth of certain American industries, such as agriculture, but did not single-handedly build the country. You can learn a lot from listening to what the man on the street has to say. I learned a lot about you from your question, for example . There just weren't a lot of dating options, and parties tended to have the same old people over and over. It's literally having the state of being a social minority magnified to the Xth degree.