I was a nervous and excited wreck. He was nervous too, and we didn't even hug at first. He broke the ice by going over to my computer and installing some programs, and talking about the computer. That got some conversation started, and before long, we were just as relaxed with each other as we were when we talked on the phone and online. I don't believe there can be an immediate chemistry between people online, other than lust.
True love takes time to get to know a person inside and out.
While you can go into a chat room and meet someone who has a lot in common with you, you can't be sure that person is being honest. Even when I met Bill online and we hit it off right away, I was still cautious. Some people who are desperately looking for love will jump right into it with someone they meet online. That's not love, that's lust, and you can't form a relationship based on lust alone. Being online showed me that there's a whole world out there and that I 'can' have friends and that I 'can' have a happy life.