And his relief finally came when he received hormone treatments that reduced his sex-drive to a manageable level. People whose sex-scripts call for them to choke themselves should definitely read this book. But it also casts light on all sex-scripts. Based on 304 completed questionnaires, about half of this book consists of quotations from these anonymous responses. Most of the subjects were married or had been married.
Some fantasies are much more elaborate than others.
But no unusual or bizarre fantasies appear. Almost all of the subjects report heterosexual fantasies. Only a few have lesbian fantasies and lesbian relationships. Shanor found 34 different kinds of fantasies in her female subjects. Some fantasized sex with other men than their husbands.