The verdict passed on an interfaith or a second marriage generally reflects disapproval. We need to recognize that the couple who is contemplating marriage or those who have already joined their lives together are the ones who can offer insight into their relationship. The assumption that unlike backgrounds signifies an inherent flaw in a marriage composition suggests that society can only sanction love when there are no strings attached. Often couples face bitter obstacles which love alone cannot erase. A quandary exists as to how best to respond to an insensitive, even hostile environment.
Some couples question the wisdom and prudence of their heartfelt decision to marry.
Some couples elect to move to another place where the expectation is that a less judgmental culture will prove more conducive to raising children of a mixed marriage. There can be no doubt that couples with diverse backgrounds face a valid wide range of concerns as they pledge to make their marriages work. Grandparents' concerns about which religion the children will be raised in. Family Concerns such as which religious and ethnic customs will be observed and remain intact. Isolation resulting from a breakdown of support from the family and friends.