Victims worry about who is to blame. Victors find a way to make a difference. Victors take action. Victims find comfort in the weakness of others. Victors help others to develop their strengths.
Victims agonize over yesterday's losses.
Victors prepare for the opportunities of tomorrow. Victims take credit. Victors accept responsibility. Victims search for quick and easy answers to their problems. Victors spend the time and effort needed to build the life they desire.