I got a letter from Tom, my ex. Tom and I haven't been in close contact for a while now, not since before I moved to San Francisco. He met a guy from the internet and had him move in with him, and they've been together for a while. Recently, Tom and I have been corresponding via e-mail. At first, it was pretty short and easy stuff.
Work is boring, etc.
I know this isn't right, so I'm working hard on being a good friend. He's the last serious relationship I've had, and that might play into it. I remember when it was just right. Maybe I'm just nostalgic. However, Tom is the yardstick by which I measure the guys I've dated since him.