Victims look for excuses not to even make an attempt. Victors look for ways to get it done. Victims ask for pity. Victors look for challenge. Victims worry about who is to blame.
Victors find a way to make a difference.
Victors take action. Victims find comfort in the weakness of others. Victors help others to develop their strengths. Victims agonize over yesterday's losses. Victors prepare for the opportunities of tomorrow.