You should experience love, fireworks, bells ringing, the whole thing. Sex before marriage. Its nothing bad, but that doesn't mean that its not scary. I simply said that sex is scary, not that it was bad. I think you misinterpreted what I was saying.
Sex is natural.
It is healthy and, as you pointed out, it is the reason that I and the rest of the people in the world are alive today. Yet at the same time sex is no longer just that. Sex comes with diseases such as HIV and other less fatal infections. It is true that if you wear a condom the chances of getting such diseases decrease, but they don't disappear either. Yes, again, if you wear a condom the chances decrease, but say there is a tear in the condom and you get pregnant.