I m worried. Well, let me put it this way. There is a lot more to sex than just genital stimulation. I think we all can benefit by opening our minds up to new ways of experiencing sexual stimulation. For example, the whole body can be involved.
Some people have very specific responsive areas on their bodies that are good to start with.
Again, I suggest the Tantric techniques, as they promote the idea of sexual rituals designed to enhance your mood, relax your body, and create connection with your partner. In our society, we consider sex very special. There are breathing techniques that can really stimulate your body to become more responsive. I realized that we breathe just enough to get by on. But with special breathing techniques and special stimulation, the point is to take the focus off the clitoris.