When that tension is gone, single parents can better focus on children's needs and increase the consistency in rule enforcement. Second, there may be greater flexibility in planning time together with children. Single parents aren't distracted by the expectations or time demands of another adult. With fewer schedules to negotiate, there may be more time to spend with each child. Third, a more interdependent, working-together approach to problem solving and daily living.
Single parents depend more heavily on the voluntary cooperation of their children.
This cooperation is encouraged by holding family councils, where children are involved directly in decision-making and problem solving. When children are thus involved, they are more likely to help carry out the decisions. Fourth, an opportunity for growth and sharing. Single parents often need to develop new skills and obtain additional education. While it isn't easy, pursuing the task of balancing a full-time job with full responsibilities for housework and parenting can help make us stronger people.