Monitor what works and what doesn t work. If you aren t getting the results you want, ask yourself what you could do differently that would allow you to. When you believe that there is no failure in life and that whatever result you get is a learning tool, you will succeed. Learn from what doesn t work and do something different. Monitor and become aware of the effects you have when you flirt.
Some women send out signals of overt sexual flirting when all they want is to be friendly.
Others send out overtly sexual signals because they want attention. And they will get it. Unfortunately, some of the attention will be unwanted. Practise with your close friends asking them to give you honest feedback. Practise in the mirror.