Men can't stop themselves when they are sexually aroused. Men are capable of, and responsible for, controlling their minds and bodies, just as women are. Biology does not prompt rape. Rape is usually committed by strangers. College women are in far greater danger of being raped by a friend or fellow student than by a stranger.
Sexual intercourse forced by an acquaintance is rape.
In some ways it can be more traumatic than stranger rape because the victim's trust in others and in her own judgment can be seriously damaged. Men are never victims of sexual abuse. Both men and women may be perpetrators or victims of sexual abuse. Unfortunately, male victims rarely seek help, due to embarrassment and the fear that they will not be taken seriously. Sexualviolence does not occur between lesbians or between gay men.