Besides the pattern, you will need to determine the flatware grade you want. Sterling is the highest quality of silver and is therefore the most expensive, with price based upon weight and the degree of craftsmanship. European sterling products are stamped with the weight percentage of silver. Silverplated flatware is less expensive but enjoys the same lustrous look of sterling. The difference is that whereas sterling is solid silver, silverplate is made with an outer layer of silver electroplated to a base metal.
Silver comes in a variety of settings.
The one you register for will depend on your entertaining needs and your budget. However, you always have the option of adding to your settings in later years. Each piece should feel comfortable in your hand. Look closely at the tines of the fork. The tines should be even and have rounded edges.