It was one thing getting dumped by the great looking, successful guys, now I'm pushed aside by the average and below average lot. So, I decide to date both types simultaneously. With the keepers, I take it slow and am in control of the relationship pace. I think that this works equally well for both men and women. I think that the real problem that people have in developing meaningful relationships is that they get ahead of themselves.
Women are interested in the emotional aspect of the same relationship.
Once a man sleeps with a woman, he goes back to watching basketball and she moves on to planning the wedding. She gets pissed that he doesn't call as much, wants to have sex every time he sees her and doesn't plan those romantic dates as often, and he starts to back up even more. I figured it out but it took me a while. I'll never change them and I wouldn't even want to if I could. The trick is to not scare off any of them.