She may abuse drugs or alcohol. In general, they may not act much at all. Women with Attention Deficit Disorder have trouble initiating activities. They may waste hours and hours simply because they can't focus enough to get started on any one thing. They may cut back on fun, friends, and sleep.
Some women compensate in their professional lives, by spending more time on tasks.
They have piles everywhere. Unpaid bills, unorganized papers, laundry, objects. At work, at home, in the car. They may express impulsivity by compulsive shopping or eating. She has too much trouble keeping track of jewelry, make-up, and all the parts of the outfit.