That was months ago. I ran into the guy recently. It was a pleasant encounter. He said he had gotten home before his roommates that day I left the message. People are just trying to connect.
Some connections have more impact than others.
The connection tends to take on a life of its own, even after the person is gone. The Goddess Speaks runs every Tuesday and is a column by and about women, our strengths, weaknesses, quirks and quandaries.