Sometimes a congregation can be like a child demanding attention. It may be very important for the pastor to cover certain situations. However, it may help laity and staff to develop skills and discover gifts by providing their own coverage in some circumstances. I urge you to surround yourself with trusted men and women who are gifted enough to minister in congregational life. Arranging for coverage by others will be good for your congregation and for your family and for yourself.
Sleep deprivation is a common problem.
Perhaps you know from personal experience that we tend to answer more critically, be less sensitive and less creative when we are tired. Anger is closer to the surface when we are too tired to figure out another solution. A good night of sleep can be very healing. Balance is difficult work, but to survive as a bivocational pastor, it is necessary to plan time with family, involve laity and find rest for body and soul. Focus on the Family.