Psychological and Emotional Consequences 1. Intensity of sex vs. Intimacy of Love Let's say on a scale of 1-10, you're a 4 emotionally, and a 5 intellectually with the guy you're dating. You feel very close, but it's false. There's a gap between where you feel you are and where you are in reality. If we're not having sex, we're not getting along.
Sex becomes a substitute for communication and intimacy.
Research has shown that there is a high correlation between those who were involved in premarital sex and those involved in extramarital sex. Some believe that intercourse is a sign of maturity. Two dogs can have intercourse. Virginity is something to be proud of, not ashamed of. If it doesn't work, then share your feelings about being pressured.