Encourage your people to build personal victory lists, too. Individuals should list 25 things that they've done well in their lives. For example, among other things, I played the part of Hiawatha in a school play in third grade. I'm telling you about it 46 years later. When losers are about to make decisions, they review their past defeats.
Winners review their past victories and then make the decisions.
Distribute your church's victory list each time you have all-important decisions to make. Individuals should review their victory lists each time they must make decisions. Recruit five people in your church to send two thank you notes a week to people in the church who have done something well. Blanket your church with thank you notes. Host an annual banquet to celebrate someone who has given unusual service to your church.