There are many misconceptions about God going around, but There are ways describe the true nature of God. To understand this kind of jealousy, think of marriage. In a marriage that has a secure trusting relationship, there is no jealousy when one of the partners talks or works with a person of the opposite sex. A husband or wife does not have suspicion that there is anything wrong going on. It takes more than innocent conversation to bring about suspicion.
Unwarranted suspicion arises from jealousy.
That type of jealousy is wrong. On the other hand, there is a wholesome jealousy for the affection and adoration of one's spouse. All of us want to be the solitary focus of marital love. To share that cherished spot with another is unthinkable. The marriage bond is so special that it cannot tolerate a 3 rd person in it.