I have been married to my second husband for two years. I was married to my first husband for 17 years, and I dated some men before him. This is a common complaint we hear from women. It's just the difference between male and female biology.
Women are generally slower to warm up sexually and take more time to cool down.
With any difference between two people, a compromise of some sort is often the answer. When we address this difficulty in the office we first determine what the two people want. We then ask if they can think of any compromise that would suit both of them, remembering that a compromise means that no one gets 100 percent his or her way. Sometimes people need help figuring out a solution. A popular solution to this is where he sometimes enjoys a quickie with very little foreplay, which then frees him up to take more time with her on other occasions and also increases his interest in doing so.