As your relationship continues, you can explore the deeper, more subtle aspects of her personality, and get to know her quite well indeed. A simulated composite rendering of some selected character traits. Combining discrete character traits into an overall profile of a personality structure is an art form in itself, something that psychological professionals attempt and consistently fail at. Personalities do not readily fall into neat pigeonholes, nor do they fit standard templates, and the complexity of human behavior defeats all efforts to explain or categorize it. All models are wrong.
Some models are useful.
George Box A woman, meeting you for the first time, has an agenda . Less commonly, she might have more sinister motives - looking for someone to exploit or to take out her anger on. In any case, she would certainly be interested in your agenda, in your intentions and desires. The marvelously complex process of exchanging tidbits of personal information, of feeding one another snippets of feelings and patchwork fragments of experience - this is what can make a first meeting so rewarding.