No one can tell you how you should feel. Each woman goes through a rape experience in her own unique way. Whatever you feel, it is right for you. Many people believe a rape victim should be crying and somewhat hysterical following the assault. Though that may be how you reacted, not all women do.
Some women find themselves feeling quite calm.
While these reactions are very different, there is nothing abnormal about either one, or the combination of the two. Even the most well-meaning, supportive family and friends may not comprehend the situation or your emotional state right away. While family, friends and even you may wish to review the crime to determine how it might have been prevented-this can be an unnecessary and painful experience. Rape can and does happen to anyone. Some women react to rape by wanting to withdraw.