Disasters hit kids even harder.
Some reactions come immediately, others have a delayed response weeks or months afterward.
The youngest lack verbal and conceptual skills to cope fully with the sudden stress, and may be affected just as much or more by their parents' or siblings' reactions. They be especially hurt by the loss of prized objects or pets. Peer reactions are very important to pre-adolescents. Kids in this group need acceptance from friends, and to feel that their feelings and fears are normal. Adolescents are especially affected by their peers' opinions.