As we progress in the Christian life, we mature in Christ and grow in the love of God and neighbor. Always begin and end with a scripture reading and prayer . Allow members to voice their prayer concerns or joys. Remind members that the group is a forum for respectful, open discussion and mutual learning .
Vital groups invite people to reflect on sensitive or even controversial issues.
A spirit of humility and a genuine desire to learn from others enriches the experiences of the group members. Invite contributions from all, but respect members who choose to remain silent . Encourage members to share ideas and experiences briefly so that one member doesn't dominate the sessions. Keep discussions moving within the focus of the planned topic , but always be sensitive to what's being shared by members. Gently guide the discussion back on track after acknowledging members' statements.