Set the right example in your own relationships. For instance, you and your child could team up to do something nice for a neighbor, such as raking leaves or shoveling the walk. Acknowledge and encourage your child's efforts to overcome aggressive behavior and to be considerate toward his or her peers. You can't expect to solve the problem in five minutes. If all else fails, and you see that the frequency or severity of the bullying is escalating, consult a school psychologist or a family counselor.
Schools can reduce bullying by fostering a safe, supportive climate for all students.
Better adult supervision during recess and lunch hour, with teachers and administrators stepping in to stop bullying as soon as they become aware of it. Consistent and immediate consequences for aggressive behavior, such as after-school detention, during which the bully participates in programs to improve social skills, reduce aggressive behavior and develop empathy for others. Formation of groups and activities that help victims make friends, develop interpersonal skills, increase self-confidence and learn how to be assertive. Redirecting the bully's power with socially acceptable ways to get peer recognition, such as serving as a peer tutor or mentor. Parent-teacher seminars to discuss bullying and other parenting issues and effective strategies.