It seems to them that their old life-commitment can never be recovered and old relationships restored. Perhaps they cannot. But there is hope and there is recovery if the sufferer seeks it where it is to be found. There are, of course, some places or actions which are not the solution. The universe has not singled anyone out as a special target.
Trouble comes to all.
To flee in despair is the common temptation to all whose world falls apart. Perhaps there are occasions when one must begin afresh someplace new. But the negative desire simply to run away to hide does not solve any problem. There are more problems lying in wait wherever we go than we can possibly guess beforehand. No victory can come to a soul steeped in despair and hatred.