Some may like to novelty of the idea, but find they are not committed to the idea, leaving behind quite tragic situations. The debate continues once the choice to have children is made. The next step is timing. Many choose to wait for the perfect conditions to have the first child, while others enthusiastically embrace parenthood the minute the 'I do's' is completed. After coming to the decision to include children into the family dynamic, when a child should be introduced into it cannot always be perfectly planned out.
Several factors weigh in on the expectant outcome from fertility to complications.
Some get easily pregnant then have a subsequently more difficult time trying to get pregnant the next time. If the road to adoption is the only option then legalities and cost can stand in the way. Timing and spacing is another key issue that often arises in family planning issues. But sometimes it is never what is expected. Various arguments abound in the matter of spacing of children.