If you ask somebody to change, you're asking them to lie to you. Emotion is such an effective distortion to common sense. As a man thinks, so he becomes. What profit does a man gain, if he gains from the world, but loses his own soul. The one who doesn't believe in miracles isn't a realist.
Some people make things happen.
Some people watch things happen. Some people wonder what happened. After all is said and done, more is said than done. Some people talk because they think sound is more manageable than silence. No one can make you feel inferior without your concent.