When you look for a partner in life or business you usually give it a bit of thought. It is reasonable to think in a similar way when choosing your doctor. Having a good local doctor who listens and gives good advice is very important. Doctors are human. You will get along with some and not others.
Some doctors listen, are sympathetic and communicate clearly.
Others don't and you may not have good experiences with them. Find a doctor who you feel comfortable with and who respects you. This is a normal and natural thing to do. Remember that often it is a matter of persisting with your doctor and educating him or her rather than changing doctors, although sometimes changing doctors is the right thing to do. Don't let doctors 'talk down' to you - you too have a brain.