Check out this article and example letter and then write your own. Start the healing. A message to everyone who think they know about single moms. And support for single moms who are being attacked and unjustly discredited by people who have been recruited by dead-beat dads. These types of attacks are reported to be the most damaging and traumatizing experience for single mothers.
Single mothers have little resource and time.
Their efforts are spent on raising their children - on one income, with one person's physical strength. Most single moms are deeply concerned about their children's welfare and how they will continue to provide for them from moment to moment. We've all heard of the irresponsible or neglectful single parent. Every small expense is a big decision. No matter what anyone says or has come to believe.