This can destroy desire, particularly if the mate herself is having her own issues. One or two counseling sessions can be very helpful. A plan can then be formulated to repair the problem so one can go on with a normal sexual life. Women Women also struggle with sexual problems, but usually it is not as obvious as men. The most common problems among women are lack of desire, failure to respond sexually, or inability to have an orgasm.
Some women also struggle with sexual addiction.
The causes of this are often very complicated, including psychological reasons or medical problems. Psychologically, women who have either been given a poor or negative education about sexual health or have been victims of some type of abuse, both sexual and physical, may have problems functioning comfortably in the sexual act. Oftentimes education as well as psychotherapy can be quite helpful. If a woman has been hurt or sexually abused as a child, this can have a tremendous effect on her comfort zone. Intimacy has to be with a mate who is comfortable with himself and with sexual expression.