Depression is also very common. Symptoms may include increased or decreased sleeping or eating, and a loss of interest in hobbies and activities. Seniors suffering from depression may avoid contact with the people they love, shunning their remaining friends and relatives. When older people are unsure of themselves, when they're not functioning well, they can develop a fear of being around people and of going out in public. The most alarming sign is when they isolate themselves.
Social isolation is the single greatest risk for suicide.
It helps when people are connected to anyone, even just a counselor. It can be hard to convince older people to seek help. They value their self-reliance and have no desire to discuss their problems or seek support outside immediate family members. But the benefits of counseling can be far reaching. Vulnerable seniors can be hooked up to the medical and support services they need, and they can discuss confidentially what is going on in their lives.