Thus, further meetings were planned and an established pattern of evening prayer, teaching from an invited guest speaker and informal time together came into being. Occasional social outings are also held, as well as weekend retreats. Numerous women have felt the benefit of the VGW, in particular the freedom to come along whenever they feel it helpful. It is widely acknowledged that in today's society seeking one's vocation can often seem isolating, especially as a young woman considering devoting her life to Christ in one form or another. The women are encouraged, after attendance at several meetings, to begin a parallel journey of vocational discernment with spiritual directors of their choice.
Spiritual direction is seen as an important support for anyone discerning their path in life.
The monthly meetings are attended by about fifteen to twenty women, with over ninety belonging to the group. All concerned have been surprised by the unexpected response from Catholic women and feel that this indicates a real need for informal support amongst young women trying to discern their vocation. With this in mind, it has facilitated a diocesan prayer vigil on the World Day of Prayer for Vocations and vocational talks in parishes. One of the mottoes of the group is Eccomi - 'Here I am'. This expresses the desire, as individuals and as a group, to imitate Our Lady's openness to God's will.