With men, nothing is invading our body and we do not have a foreign substance left inside us. The thought of so many penises violating their lovers' bodies is not a pleasant one for the majority of men to deal with. This comes from sensitive, educated men who have been in long-term relationships. I wonder what your readers think. Since you're writing me, I'll tell you what I think-that you are, indeed, a sexist with a double standard, simplistic and overgeneralizing.
Sex is a sacred act for some, men and women, and a joyous diversion for others, men and women.
I'm certainly open to hearing from my readers and I'll print a fair sampling of the responses. I am able to have healthy, normal, loving relationships with men. I have one problem. The men always want to meet my mother too soon. She has been a psychiatric patient off and on most of my adult life.