We call this experience the human condition. Christians know the dark night of the soul, but we also know that self-glorifying rage will only plunge us deeper into the abyss. T here can't be a relationship where two people are working to make changes in the world. Something has to give.
Someone has to be focused on the kids.
I think Arnold has made some changes in his life, but one of us had to be flexible enough to be there for our kids all the time. F eminists are becoming difficult to identify, not because they do not exist, but because their philosophy has been integrated into mainstream society so thoroughly. The philosophy is almost unidentifiable as feminist, for it is virtually indistinguishable from mainstream. I have taught feminist theory. I have debated gender feminists on college campuses around the country, and on national television and radio.