They do not want to realize they settled after it is too late and they feel obligated. Trinity wants to date and be friends with various women before he gets married. He says it is different with each one. Valerie goes camping with him like one of the boys. Sophia studies with him.
Terry is a good cook.
Mays has the intuition to understand him. He is not intimate with them all. I don't lie to them. When you see many people it is hard to be honest with them all. One goal of a relationship is to achieve the highest degree of intimacy possible with another person.