He may want the baby, but his girl friend does not. To show him that you understand his problem is to win him over and begin a dialogue. Don'ts Don't talk aimlessly. Talk with a purpose. Know where you are going.
Some people are tricky.
They'll talk to you but try to get you involved in abstract debates about abortion or politics. Don't let them evade the issue. Keep bringing them back to the reality of what they are doing with questions and your constant offers of help. Do's Try to get as much information as possible about her situation. Think and plan the next action step while you are talking.