After all, kissing is a motor skill, and top athletes have long been perfecting their motor skills via intense imagery. So think of someone you'd really like to kiss, then close your eyes, picture that delicious face, those ruby reds. Try to feel it. The more senses you bring into play, the better. Before long you'll have to come out of the kissing closet.
Second pitfall is unrealistic expectations.
It would be a shame to live a fantasy life to such a degree that reality is nothing but a letdown. So enjoy those imaginary kisses but don't fall in love with your fantasies. And remember to dry off the pillow before lying down to sleep. A. Things cool off at a rate proportional to their temperature difference with the surroundings, so if you put in the cream right away, you take the coffee down to a lower rate of cooling, eliminating the initial period of rapid energy loss. A. Sounds from up ahead will screech past as they are pitched up an octave, side noises will seem normal, rearward will be silence as you outrace these waves, say Penn State physicists David Swanson and Robert Keolian.