For example, a woman with osteoporosis may be more comfortable one way than another. You need to experiment to see what works best for you and your partner. I recall hearing that sexually active women have tendency to have less medical problems. If you are taking estrogen that helps with lubrication and staving off problems. What's the difference between sexual desire and libido.
Sexual desire is libido.
Lack of libido is defined as lack of desire or interest in sex. Try in front of the fireplace or meet in a motel in the middle of the afternoon in your own home town. Create excitement in your relationship. I've covered lots of ways to fire up your lovemaking in my book. Or, of course, you can get it at your book stores.