Please contact a feminist rape crisis centre, transition house or women's centre to get further information and referrals for legal advice for your specific situation. The most common characteristic among rape victims is vulnerablitity. Women enjoy being raped. The idea that women could possibly enjoy forced sexual intercourse is a male fantasy which confuses rape with sex, instead of violence. The idea that rape is comparable to sex between consenting people is as preposterous as suggesting that food is enjoyed whether rammed violently down one's throat or eaten normally at dinner.
Women ask for it.
Our society entices and rewards women to appear sexually attractive but those unlucky enough to be raped are condemned as 'deserving it'. These myths make a woman feel responsible and unprepared for an assault. They also justify and condone the offender's actions. As for society, the collective judge, it passes sentence on this distorted view of reality. Moving through the myths and realities that support sex-role stereotyping, we can uncover two differences that do distinguish men from women.