This is so terribly unfortunate. She seems like a wonderful person. My hope for her in the future is that she stop being insecure about her Jewishness and simply include herself, and will thus be included. I would also like to comment on Michael Horowitz's comments about the status of women in Conservative Judaism. No one would be so insulting as to ask such a question.
Theory is wonderful, and the basis of action.
But the acceptance of theory must be based on reality, or it has no validity whatsovever. We plan to visit several congregations before selecting a place to live. If you are familiar with the area, I would love to hear your suggestions and comments about different congregations and the Jewish community in the area. Other subscription management information is available on the home page. Also note that many of the people who write in wish their privacy preserved.