Some children become uncomfortable with the change in routine while others can be worried about how their behavior will be judged, thinking they are to be rewarded or punished at the holiday. A surprise treat given before the holiday can help an anxious child wait. Focusing on non-gift activities, involving children in the preparations, and keeping some semblance of a routine schedule can also help diminish the tension. Gifts should be tailored to the interests of the child. Figuring out what to give can be as difficult as deciding how many things to give.
Wish lists make the job easier.
With the help of an adult or older sibling even young children can compose a list of the presents they would like. Adults may prefer to give gifts with particular value such as education related materials. But to make any gift a success, it helps to investigate the child's personal likes, dislikes, and abilities. Books, for instance, may not be appreciated by a child who is having trouble learning to read. Knowing blue is a child's favorite color can make the difference between a fleece vest that's worn or ignored.