Some kids can think of different ways to handle disagreements. Some kids know why they get upset. But other kids get upset without knowing why. Some kids believe that others think they are tough when they win a fight. But other kids believe that others think they're dumb for fighting.
Some kids can figure out right away how another kid is feeling.
But other kids have a hard time figuring out how another kid is feeling. Some kids figure that if another kid does something that hurts them it was probably on purpose. Some kids get more angry when they talk to themselves. Some kids think it is best to get excited during disagreements. Some kids know why they get angry.