Child abuse often is repeated through generations of a family. Abusive parents grow up with childhood images of themselves as bad, worthless, and unlovable. Looking for love at any price, they don't know how to give it themselves or how to cope with the demands of their children. The effect of abuse on children varies depending on the age of the child, the extent, frequency, and type of abuse, how the child interprets the behavior directed toward him, his survival instincts, whether there is a significant other person who provides a positive model, and the reaction of the non-abusive parent.
Some abused children exhibit no signs of pain.
Others dislike their bodies, which are a reminder of the abuse. If you witness or suspect child abuse, contact Children's Protective Services. The main number is 925.646.1680 in Contra Costa County. For emergency services, call 911. Copyright 2001 Contra Costa Crisis Center.