Men really hate that. They also hate when they can't tell whether the partner has had a good time. They hate it when you call them by someone else's name. They hate it if things don't go right and hate being laughed at and ridiculed. They don't mind being used on occasion, though.
Women dislike guys that rush into sex with no foreplay.
Women hate it when you treat them like they are two bumps and a portal. Women hate when they ask men how they look and men tell them the truth. Don't ever do that. Women in this society are extremely sensitive to their bodies. That is why communication is so important.