Paul is the author of the ED homepage and its archives. That's his stewardship. Please allow him to decide what to keep there. We are welcome to visit his home any time we want and to stay as long as we want and do almost anything we want. When we're in Paul's house, let's respect the reasonable standards that he has set.
Some people require guests to remove their shoes before entering their home.
Others love their friends who smoke, but ask them to refrain from smoking inside their homes. I do not permit guests or TV shows or whatever to bring profanity and obscenity into my little home because such language has associations of violence and abuse. Emily Dickinson loved little children and lowered treats to them from the windows of her home. Her language has a level of decorum that is safe enough for children and yet extremely interesting for adults. Could we not modulate the tone and register of our discussions to be in harmony with hers.