Click the Connect icon in the Pro Shop. Click OK to proceed. Your name should be here. Other names will show up as the connections are made. You should wait at this dialog until all the players you are expecting show up in this box.
Timing is important to make a successful connection.
Now you should be in the bowling alley ready to bowl. If your connection did not work, then start over and try again. If you have not disconnected from the Internet, your IP address will remain the same. Synchronize your watches, because you should be connecting with one another within one or two minutes. Find out the name the hosting person plans to use for the game.