But what we're teaching in the book is that healthy conflict is transformative of both the relationship and each of the people's lives or identity. It never gets boring, both people keep growing and they have the possibility to continually deepen their intimacy and discover new and more romantic ways to appreciate each other. Yes, we're almost finished with our next book, on romantic relationships of course, which will be out in the fall of 2001. It will be published by Renaissance Books and will also come out in audio book. Those who've read the manuscript say they've never read anything like it and that it freed them from the fear of failing and opened them to an intimacy they hadn't before imagined.
Sincere curiosity is one of the best aphrodisiacs there is.