Anger is likely to color communication not only with professionals but also with immediate family and friends. Fear, too is an immediate response. Professionals offer terminology that is difficult to understand. Even well-meaning teachers may soften messages in such a way as to make them unclear. Compounding this are feelings of powerlessness and disappointment.
Some families reject all help, or worse yet, reject the problematic child.
Seeking Assistance There are many constructive actions that you can take immediately, many sources of support, reassurance and help. Reach out to a parent of a child with special needs, Contact Parent Helping Parents. Look for groups at your school or in your area. Keep lines of communication open, especially within your family. Too often couples clam up rather than rely on each other for support.