Marriages in which the bride was already pregnant at the time of the wedding have the poorest record of success of any marriage category. Ninety percent of adolescent suicide attempts are made by girls, and a number of different investigators have determined that guilt over their own sexual license is a major factor behind this statistic. As, in regard to drug addiction, the source of the difficulty seems to lie more deeply in psychological factors than simply in the availability of the drugs, so it seems to be with sex addiction. But what it all comes to is that the more easily accessible a person is as a sex partner, the less likely you would want him. I know, and I was getting to that.
Sex is like oil.
Oil is found by seeking the promising context and then approaching the oil itself from the perspective of that context. Likewise, sexual ecstasy is nowhere near as likely to be found by concentrating one s search on the organic union that is supposed to spell ecstasy as by seeking out the kind of site which innumerable researchers have found to be the one dependable location for the discovery of strong and continuing reserves of ecstasy. That site is marriage. On the contrary, outside of marriage, many elements come into play that drastically cut the chances of successful sex. A pattern of genital sex without fidelity is not easy to change into an expression of fidelity, so when the time comes to make the big commitment that could spell sexual fulfillment, the controllers often won't respond.