However, there is a very important action that you are not to condone and you have to stop it immediately for whatever means possible. No one has the right to abuse another person physically or verbally and if you are caught in that situation, do leave and seek protection against your spouse or companion. Make agreements, pay attention to what he does, talk about likes and dislikes and establish a respect zone before you make a commitment. It makes it a little bit easier to get adjusted to leaving with another person for the rest of your life. Now, monogamy is another problem that a lot of couples face.
Some people still fool around after they have made a commitment.
These people do not value who they have at home. They believe that they are still playing a game where they can get the upper hand if there is a miniscule disagreement with their partners. These individuals are showing complete and utterly disrespect for their partner and themselves. You have to watch out for these ones. They are true heart breakers and back stabbers.