Those things are what make us feel close to you. Never fear making us be less than perfect. We have already mastered that before you came along. And don t worry about being a bad influence. We all watch TV and have enough bad influences already.
Time is obvious, and the more the better.
We mostly have way too much free time. Respect is not so observable as time, but is more important and not easy to establish if it is not there to begin with. My definition of respect is when one person assumes there is just as much chance that I am right as that he is. Good peer support is always from people who are eager to learn and that means people who don t mind being wrong a lot of the time. My sense of humor is always tickled by watching people who think they are perfect not succeed and then still think they ve got to keep being perfect anyway.