Trust level around parenting issues during your marriage. Strength of both your motivations to make it work. Children s ages, needs, and personalities. Level of emotional adjustment of both parents prior to the divorce. Arrangements are planned around the children s needs and developmental requirements.
Schedules are predictable and stable but flexible enough to change when circumstances dictate it.
Parents live in physical proximity. Parents are careful to support and not undermine each other, regardless of their feelings about each other. Financial resources are available to maintain two full residences. Children whose parents are in less conflict will fare best in either arrangement. Divorce mediation offers the best structure for discussing and negotiating both large and small details of your parenting agreement.