People with dementia often become extremely upset if they find themselves in a strange situation or among a group of unfamiliar people where they feel confused and unable to cope. Sometimes the person with dementia may become very violent for a short time. They may become verbally abusive, cause damage to property or become physically violent. Try to stay calm and not show fear or alarm. Try to understand that even if the aggression is directed at you, it is not a personal attack.
Some tranquillising medication can increase confusion.
Sudden over-reactions may leave you upset and a little shaky. It is essential that you seek support for yourself from a supportive family member, a friend, an understanding professional or a support group, and that you get a break from the constancy of the task. Allow yourself to get help with other tasks such as cleaning so that you can conserve your energy. However, if you feel you are losing control, it may help to discuss your feelings with your local Alzheimer's Association Support Group or make an appointment with one of the Association's professional counsellors. The Alzheimer's Association NSW offers a variety of statewide services to people with dementia and their family carers.