Young children may lack the capabilities to appreciate that their parents' behavior is a response to the genuine needs of the child with the disease, rather than a lack of love for their other children. They may regress or exhibit negative behaviors to get attention. The use of respite care and other supportive services is helpful to both the parents and the other children in the family. The daily challenges in caring for an ell child can inhibit time to respond to the needs of other children in the home or for family fun. Using respite care, set aside special time with each child and provide opportunities for family activities.
Siblings often feel isolated from their peers.
Like their parents, they need to connect to other siblings with similar challenges. For most parents, the thought of going it alone, without the benefit of knowing another parent in similar situation is unthinkable. Yet, this happens routinely to brothers and sisters. Research shows that peer-support programs reduces a child's sense of isolation, and provides them with support and insight with the problems they face. In addition, libraries provide books and newsletters for siblings of children with special needs.