They flee with tails tucked between their legs from girls who have lost themselves in some superior power trip. It's one thing to be independent, but another to be She-Ra. I happen to like men with manners. But that's a whole other story. Truth is, men and women are so confused that they don't know how to treat each other anymore.
Society teaches women to be submissive.
I think everyone just needs to relax. Don't ruin it for the rest of us. And make sure to say thank you. Some lucky girl will appreciate it. But, don't do too much and don't do too little.