It's one big exercise in latent paranoia. Personally, it can frighten me, anger me, and it makes me resentful. In my professional life, I know that the answer to this kind of prejudice is public sexual education and since that's a lot of what my writing and teaching is about, I'm patient and prolific in those ways. But on a personal level, I rely on a loving family and community that share my politics and sympathies. There are SO many great moms who are sex positive, and finally this book brings all that perspective together.
Worship can be very flattering.
Some people get a taste for star-fucking, and others find it too unnerving. I think I've been inbetween. If I'm really interested in someone, I have to blot out my awareness of the Susie Sex Star image, because it's just too inhibiting. It works onstage for me, but not in bed. I read that sentence over and over again as it sank in.