Tangible things that money can buy add to one s level of happiness until income exceeds the amount needed to meet basic needs. Thus persons who are already happy may be even more grateful for tangible things. I have seen true happiness and joy in persons who became owners of a used, manufactured home while others consider their 3600 sq. Others come for counseling who have major problems with little or no chance for resolution and still find great joy in living. It is unrealistic to expect a life that is stress free.
Stress is one of the motivators of life.
Responsibilities, deadlines, financial pressures, illnesses, etc., motivate us to action to reduce the stress. It is realistic and desirable to manage and reduce the stress in our life. It is realistic for you to know and appreciate your strengths and weaknesses and to use them in developing your goals. It is even more important that you set high expectations for yourself. Archie H. King, LPC, is a counselor and human resources consultant in Jackson.