My life felt wonderfully secret and private. At breakfast, we did all the chores and served ourselves without any comment. Sometimes this is the hardest part for people at a silent retreat. They are so used to making pleasant conversation, saying good morning. To not do the habitual is a challenge.
Some people avoid others' eyes to lessen their discomfort.
Others smile greetings without speech. By the third meal all this had faded. We just did. We had signed up for duties. When they were complete, they were done.