I mean we could have just played games. Fortunately none of that did take place. But it easily can. People that you work with, husbands and wives, children and parents. If you really care you'll be aware.
Wisdom is gentle.
A wise person is not defensive and is willing to learn from anybody. If you are wise you are not stubborn and you are willing to listen and learn. We can so easily get to the place of assuming that we know it all. A wonderful transition in parenting is when they move to acknowledging that you really are fairly intelligent, that you do know a fair amount, and there is also an enormous amount that you don't know, and together you can learn a great deal from each other. That is the beginning of wisdom between the parent and child.