But much of your body is still sensitive and responsive, so, like all humans, find out what works for you and your partner. First I became a psychothherapist at USC in So. Then I took special training at the UCLA Human Sexuality program and became a sex therapist. You can consult with me through my website if you like, or find a therapist in your area. Vaginal wetness is a very unreliable measure of female sexual arousal.
Sex is best when it's a perfect blend of friction and wetness.
It's more a sexual statement, and your visions of what she's getting out of it. Like Monica Lewinsky snapping her thond for Clinton. Fabric has power. People say just find a pretty girland ask her out. There is NO HER, there are thousands of HERS, that is, women you could connect with.