Consciously we do not choose to be aroused by one sex or another. Few would choose to receive the ostracism and the hatred of others that so often come with not being heterosexual. Gay men and lesbians do choose to act or not act on that sexual arousal. Most have tried to become straight, and therefore they know by experience the absurdity of those who say that the goal ought to be to make them straight. Some words will be offensive and some will be arousing, depending upon your partner.
Sexual arousal tends to follow emotional loving feelings.
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