I also suggest that women take a proactive role in their medical care. I think that if she is not afraid to ask questions or insist on frequent monitoring her health care provider can go a long way toward easing her anxiety. Some of the other tips include taking care of yourself. If you know that you are doing everything possible for your baby, there is not as much for you to worry about. If a woman has been seeing a counselor, it can be helpful to continue to do so during the pregnancy.
Support groups are helpful too.
I think it's important to find success stories too. And my book is full of them. I had two healthy boys after my loss and every woman quoted in my book had a healthy baby. So as devastated as you may feel after the loss, it is important to hang on to the hope that a healthy pregnancy is possible. I don't feel like my doctor was responsible for my loss but am wondering if I should consult a specialist in high risk pregnancies before I try again.