Realize that teachers appreciate feedback from parents. Realize, too, that teachers sometimes are afraid of parents, because of the many criticisms directed toward educators. When it's time for conferences, remember that the purpose is not to judge your performance as a parent. You're not alone if you have mixed feelings about attending your child's parent-teacher conference. Many parents are intimidated by teachers and worry that they may not speak the teacher's language, but conferences are a chance for parents and teachers to share insights about a child's strengths, as well as about areas that need attention.
Teachers usually arrange for several parent conferences in a row.
Try to relax. Don't go in with preconceived notions or worry about making the right impression. Approach the teacher as another caring adult who shares in the responsibility for your youngster's development. Be prepared to listen first, and then speak. Organize your questions.