He's just upset that I cannot enjoy sex like he does in all the time we have been married. And I'm upset that I cannot do this for him. I'm just really confused about all this. Thanks for listening, Trina Gayle Peterson Gayle Peterson, MSSW, PhD is a family therapist specializing in prenatal and family development. Dear Trina, Consult your gynecologist to determine whether there is any physiological reason for decreased sexual sensitivity.
Women sometimes experience difficulty achieving orgasm due to adhesions of the clitoris.
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