Post these pictures around your house. Find pictures of people from different times in history. With your child, talk about their actions that merit admiration or praise. A picture of civil rights leader Martin Luther King, who believed in nonviolent change, can lead to a talk about succeeding in spite of prejudice. Very rarely will a child go through school without ever breaking a rule.
Some children act out so much, they make it hard for others to learn.
That's when the school will let the parent know the child is in trouble. You may agree, or completely disagree with the school. In either case, you need to respond and work with the school so your child can be successful. Give the school staff a chance to tell you what they've observed. Also, ask your child for her side of the story.