Teens especially, want to know what their parent's feelings are about drug and alcohol use. Talking openly with teens about this subject can build trust. Kids and adults turn to drugs and alcohol for the same reasons. Some do it because of pressure from friends. Others are trying to get rid of stress or emotional pain in their lives.
Some people do drugs to act rebellious or act more mature.
If we keep these reasons in mind, we can help our children avoid substance abuse. Let kids speak their mind, and respect their opinions. If they get positive strokes from you, they will not have to turn to their friends as much. Also, talking about their feelings helps them to cope with the ups and downs that teens feel. Kids, especially teens, hate to be lectured.