Some people refuse to accept responsiblity for their actions.
Others beat themselves up when they didn't do anything wrong at all. Last night for the first time in my life, I was stood up. I had rushed around like a lunatic that entire day, trying to make the apartment spotless and then spent hours getting ready. I was seething with rage. When I finally got a hold of him later that evening, and he gave me a myriad of lame excuses, I told him where to go and how to get there.