If they get what they want by throwing a tantrum, they are more likely to use tantrums in the future. In fact, if tantrums are well rewarded, children may skip the pleading and go directly to the tantrum. In contrast, if the tantrums are not rewarded, they are less likely to be repeated. If the first few tantrums are not rewarded, children are almost sure to drop this method. One fear of many parents is what to do if the child holds his breath when he throws a tantrum.
Some children do hold their breath when they have a tantrum, even to the point where they faint.
To the unknowing mother, this can be a terrifying event. Essentially all of these children will resume breathing in about 30 seconds. But to a terrified mother, these seconds seem like hours. If she can't wait for the 30 seconds, she can bring him around immediately by splashing some cold water in his face. Once the child starts breathing, the mother should again ignore him.