The incidence of female violence is rising. The abused mate may become depressed or addicted. The spouse may feel locked into the situation because of lack of financial independence. Additionally, more women are killed during or immediately following leaving the relationship and many mates stay out of fear of harm to themselves or their children. She may think she can help the partner change.
Therapy involves changing cognitive distortions that maintain the abusive relationship.
Psychotherapy can help the abused partner look at her own family of origin issues. Anger management and assertiveness training may be needed. Support for employment and financial security is often an issue. If reunification is planned, family therapy is in order. Parenting classes can also be used to increase family skills and provide support.