When something goes wrong in life it is often blown out of proportion. They are self-focused and are seldom conscious of other's needs. They expect everybody to jump when they have a need. Parents develop an abnormal delight in the success of their children and run the danger of living their lives through their children. Children see their families as special or privileged.
Work can be one of the best disciplining factors in a child's life.
Be obedient over directions that they think are not pleasant. Persevere and stick at tasks that are long and tedious. Realize that they are not going to be waited on in life, and need to contribute like everyone else. Realize that they are a member of a family where everyone needs to pull their weight, not just mum and dad. Be physically and mentally more robust.