Inflation, the Cosmic Munchhausen Effect takes care of all these problems because of rapid expansion together and doesn't need supraliminal connection. And it expands faster than the speed of light. This leaves us with the question why is the universe just right for intelligent life to develop. This is known as the Anthropic Principle. We are then left with two possibilities.
Science provides no decision between the two.
If we do experiments differently we get different answers. There will always be a degree of uncertainty. We cannot separate mind from matter.