As long as you can talk, then you will be able to find out where he stands. The best way of doing this is to ask him how he thinks the relationship is going. Ask him is he ever thinks of the future. If he starts to get skittish about this, then you might want to back off and wait for another time. When you do this, you must do it in a non-confronting way.
Some people take much longer to fall in love than others.
Some relationships take much longer to develop. Just tread lightly and keep everything upbeat and positive when you talk about your future. Mitch Dear Mitch, I am dating all sorts of women and spending much too much money. Broke, There are two ways to do this. Before I tell you this, you need to be sure that you want to date all of these women.