Good communication is important between couples about what needs to be done and who needs to do it. There are no hard and fast rules about who and what should be done. An open discussion will help each spouse understand the other person's roles and feelings. Children can also be given tasks that will help the family accomplish what needs to be done in a relatively short time. This sharing of tasks not only teaches children responsibility but also gives them a sense of belonging.
Small children are often tired when they get home.
A nap at this time will improve the child's disposition and give the parents time to do what needs to be done. The simple act of changing clothes can make the transition from work to home easier. A different set of clothes can make you feel like you're finally home. Work and home often require different roles and behaviors. Being dressed for the job at hand makes the transition complete.