For instance, if someone looks more like an adult, we usually expect more adultlike behavior from him. If someone looks much younger than he is we tend to expect less mature behavior from him. This can be problematic for teens who do not look their age. Some teens mature physically much more rapidly than their peers and look more like full-grown adults while others mature at a slower pace and may look like preteens even at age eighteen. Be sure the behavior you expect from your teens is age-appropriate behavior, regardless of how they look.
Teens possess an incredible amount of raw talent.
One teen I know could play piano by ear after only a few lessons. He realized his musical talent after I told him that he always seemed to snap his fingers to the beat of the music any time the radio was on and he always seemed to have perfect pitch when he sang. I wouldn't have discovered it if you hadn't pointed it out. Take the time to help your teens discover their talents, skills, and abilities. Once your teens become aware of their various talents, skills, and abilities, encourage them to choose one that they like the best and then explore career opportunities in that field with them.