You see, it's statements like that that make me crazy. This stirs up the other quest which is the one to get informed and knowledgeable about inflicting pain. I was glad to find out that sex was part of the experience for her. Just choose who you want to be with. BDSM is like bicycle riding.
Some people do it for fun and some people do it for the elitist rush.
Okay, I admit it, I'm in it for the fun. But also the relationship intensity. To take someone up and down and all around you need to know that person pretty well. This is insight. This is connection.