We do not deal well with this sort of stress. This is a thing we have not figured out yet. I know if we are involved with humans, humans sometimes become ill. Perhaps it would make a difference if it was someone we loved. We do not know.
Wife is a strange term to apply to a multiple household in the first place.
Honor is so important to us. To do the honorable thing. All these years we thought we were. But now we aren't sure what that means in this circumstance. LIfe is too short.