Sexless marriages are all about husbands listening to what their wives are saying. For me, taking the sex out of marriage is the first step toward a better relationship. In one sense, sexless marriages are something to be delighted about, because they show women are now capable of standing up strongly against demands for sex. The answer to why couples become sexless is simple. There're so many other enjoyable things for them to do.
Sex is something that a couple can be creative with, and share with each other.
Some couples may have something else that allows them to communicate, but a world where many couples don't want sex is a sad one, indeed. Sex counselor Reiko Okawa sees the decline in importance of physical compatibility in relationships as the result of growing gender equality. Though no figures exist, we in the sex counseling field have seen for a few years that sexless couples are on the rise. Many women hate mens' relentless demands for sex. Men and women nowadays are both tired.