God's Word tells us that He opposes the proud and gives grace to the humble. Getting our own revelation means going to God. Not going our own way, trying to fix ourselves, but seeking God's face and leaning on Him alone. God is not looking for behavior modification, He is looking for heart transformation. The rest is fruit .produced by a nourished growing spirit.
Victory is the product of obedience.
Obedience grows with gratitude, as we learn to love our Father. It is a response of falling in love. Help me to be diligent in my search for you Lord. Then will I be filled with life sustaining instruction and transforming wisdom. I depend and lean on you alone, Lord.