Total respect and control is always maintained. If someone gets out of line, they are removed by the other members and not asked to ever participate again. No second chances. We have both male and female members, couples and singles. No one knows the names of the other members unless they give it.
Total discretion is used.
No phone numbers or addresses are given. Usually, unless the clients are comfortable with hosting in their home, the client will get a motel room and make arrangements with me.