This is an issue whose time is coming. The damage to men, to children, to families, to second wives and to trust between the sexes demands it. They get paid more, discriminated against less and in general are given far more opportunities to succeed in life than women are. So this really is a travesty that they can't have control over women's bodies, too. I think men should just get used to the idea that they can't have everything the way they want it.
Women certainly have to.
I think Cathy Young made some good points in her article about whether men should have more input in deciding whether to end a pregnancy. But I think she was too dismissive of the idea that men need to take more responsibility for birth control. Lots of men refuse to wear condoms, or simply don't consider birth control, believing that it's the woman's problem. If a man really isn't ready to have a child, he should take every precaution he can. I think Young's article would have been better if she had mentioned some things that men could do to improve their situation, rather than just complaining about the way things are now.