Our own black men have been confused about this type of woman they can't handle the unusual sexually aggressive black female. Even though they too have presented us with double standards by using tracks with explicit lyrics and by using scantily clad females in their videos. There is nothing wrong with gaining a few pounds when you are carrying another life. For so long the excuse of black men for having a relationship with a white woman wasn't the fact that he liked the colour of her skin or he enjoyed looking at the colour of her eyes, or that he was plain and simply attracted to her personality, but due to the fact that the vast majority of black women were so sexually inhibited, repressed and boring. The simple answer to that is if we are boring, so are they.
Sex is as boring or as exciting as the two consenting adults make it.
When Janet Jackson released her much awaited new album 'The Velvet Rope' the media hype was about the provocative sexual connotations which the album provoked, they even went as far as mentioning Janet's piercing, those seen and unseen. It is possible that Janet wanted the album presented this way to get rid of her sugary teen image, maybe she wanted to reach a wider target audience, but the fact remains that Janet is one of the most top selling female singers in history. Athlete Denise Lewis had a similar reaction from the public when she had her body painted in a promotion for milk. It seemed that for that moment the media had forgotten what a good job she had done representing Britain. Marketing and management go a long way, and money talks.