I myself did not respond to the posters question for it got so out of hand before the question was really answered. This isn't English class, and the responses aren't going to be essays that have been written in rough draft form and then edited before posting. If nobody posted replies for fear of not being perfect enough, there'd be complaints about that, too. Sometimes I LOL or just shake my head trying to figure where they are coming from. At least on a forum such as this, you can take your time reading and composing your reply.
Some people just seem to read more into a post than what is already in their face.
Reading comprehension isn't always the issue. When questions are posed clearly, they usually get a clear response. When a question is expressed emotionally, they get many emotional responses. Before posting a message, please be sure you are in the appropriate category. No advertising is allowed on HGTV's message boards.