But no matter what the reason, intercourse involves two people with individual thoughts and feelings. You have to live with yours. It may help to practice saying it to yourself before you need to say it to someone else. Try to think about what sort of person you are and want to be. The more you are sure of yourself, the less likely you are to be flattered or frightened into doing something before you're ready.
Sex is a significant part of life.
It is not separate from everything else. In sex, as in many other parts of life, respect for ourselves and other people is vital. It allows us to accept and appreciate each other. And to treat each other with consideration and trust. It's not always easy.