I also think men are quite a bit more satisfied before their eternal vows were taken. In all truth, women are willing to be more sexually open in order to compete for that long-term relationship. They are more willing to reciprocate to oral sex and they do put out more often. I must admit I am the guilty party of sexual resistance in our marriage, and my husband mourns for the days when we were having sex for sport. But I also tie sex into the bigger picture of our relationship.
Sex is the last priority after a day of full-time work, childcare, and household chores.
I too long for the good old college days of running amuck naked, drunk on tequila that ended in all night rendezvous. The only real consolation that I can offer my husband is that, as opposed to a single man, he gets sex on a regular basis and he saves an extravagant amount of money courting me. Also, I'm still a cheap drunk. Hugh Hefner, I must admit even I'm a little jealous of him. Right now I'm putting my money on the old married couple.