Basically, he didn't realize how good it was, until he lost it. Innocence was replaced by guilt and shame, therefore we have a need for self-worth to be restored. Most psychologists try to stroke man's ego to elevate his self-worth. Self-worth is not a matter of who you are or what you look like. Authority was replaced by weakness and helplessness, therefore we have a need for strength and self-control.
Some People control by nagging, badgering or even physical viloence.
Attempts to exert control are attempts to prove you are the master of your fate. We will never be the master of our fate. We weren't designed to function as master. You'll either serve the One true God, or the god of the world. These needs are legitimate and should be looked at closely.