However, whether people are gay, straight, or bisexual is usually established before puberty and before they begin having sex. In fact, sexual orientation may even be established before birth, just like gender. Sexual orientation is not something that people can decide for themselves or for others, it's who they are. Many people think that people who love each other should do so regardless of what their genders are. Homosexual and bisexual people are often mistreated, called hurtful names, or denied their rights because of their sexual orientation.
Some religions condemn homosexuality.
You may wish to share these questions with your parents or friends and have a discussion about it. You have a favorite aunt who you've always looked up to.