Fallen people are often physically mature, but spiritually like little children. Parents must take care of their children so they don't go astray. We must admit that we need the guidance and assistance of others. If we resent their assistance as interference, it will cause problems. Then even when someone sees that we need help, he will be reluctant to offer it.
Westerners have much confidence in their own abilities.
But I often find that they don't have much trust in human relationships. Many think they can find happiness by having a good living environment. But if they live alone, a good house or a good car cannot bring them happiness. They know this and seek someone with whom they can share their heart, but they don't have much confidence they will find such a person. We say that we must build the Kingdom of Heaven and live in a world of heart and that this should be done where we live.