Many men will not use a public rest room at all. Or they walk into a restroom to be sure no one else is there before using it. I share all this partly because virtually no women are aware of this code of conduct, and it has a bearing on the behavior of men everywhere they go. Most men are not even consciously aware of the rules, but they keep them anyway. There's a point to all this.
Women often blame their husbands for the lack of intimacy in their relationship.
They get angry because their husbands aren't more communicative, warm, and sensitive. Men learned from the time they were very little boys that the more they communicate, the more they open themselves up for criticism, ridicule, and pain. As I describe typical male behaviors, men all nod their head in agreement, remembering all these things very well. Women shake their head and think I'm talking about another species. Actually, men and women are not so very different.