A huge assortment of finger food will save you money over a big catered dinner. One couple asked a small group of close friends to plan, prepare and contribute the food for the reception as their wedding gift. Consider making your own invitations, either hand-written or typed. Adding a poem or short essay expressing your feelings about marriage is a nice touch. These can be quick-printed at a local print shop.
Some women choose to wear a handmade dress or their mother's wedding dress.
Others prefer ethnic clothing to express a special feeling they have with their cultural background. A wedding doesn't have to be a fashion show. Think of it as a special ceremony to acknowledge your partnership. Make sure you are comfortable. Local colleges or civic groups usually have the names of good bands, musicians or DJs at reasonable prices.