An investment in these mentally ill probationers, parolees, detainees and inmates would seem to appeal not only to our generous hearts, but to our selfish minds as well. Trust your instincts. They are born of years of valid experience. If you feel afraid, you probably have a good reason. Be honest about your own feelings, but don t judge those of your mentally ill family member.
Violence is often the product of anger and fear.
Try not to make it worse. It is okay to ask your family member if you are in danger, and what they would like for you to do. If you become frightened during an argument, back off. It s not a good time to negotiate, anyway. Persons with mental illness are often more afraid of their violent feelings than we are.