If we are, then we are called by a number of things that supposedly un-sex us. Often both of these at once. The one thing that these two epithets have in common is that they connote a woman who has sex how she wants it, and may not be at the beck and call of a man. Times when someone tells her not to. A woman who fights the guilt that society puts on her shoulders.
Society has a perfect niche for such women.
What society detests is the girl who can and will say no, when and wherever she feels like it. A girl who will sleep with this boy and not that one. A girl who will want this woman and not that man . A girl who exercises choice . The Sexuality Of A Thousand Names, and what it really means.