This is a done through the supernatural love of Christ expressed through us. We must come into a right relationship with Him who created us before we can love His creation. Pray that the Lord would heal and comfort her through His Son Jesus Christ. Often it is the times in our life when we are hurting that becomes the tilled soil for the planting of the Word of God. His word will not return void.
Timing is everything.
Wait on the Lord for an opening but don't be timid.