Evaluating one s life is not a bad thing, as long as it doesn t move a person into a victim role, where they see themselves only as a victim of their circumstances. When you take on a victim role, you end up giving away your power. Rather, use this time of re-evaluation to make positive decisions for yourself and your family. It may be that reprioritizing some aspects of your life might be in order. When there is a lot of uncertainty, there can be a lot of stress.
Stress affects different people in different ways.
Talking about your stress and the feelings that the uncertainty can bring up, allow for a positive expression of the stress. Ask your family members, how the uncertainty is affecting them. You may find that with greater understanding of each other s experiences, that you can create a closer bond within your family and everyone can help to support each other through it. It allows your family to work as a team against the stress of the situation. When this happens, then it is less likely that the stress will be accidentally taken out on a family member.