True love is kind. Your understanding smile, your warm embrace, and your tender touch ar kindness. To be kind, you cannot just go your own way, generous, open, hospitable, warm hearted and gentle are the paths. True love is not envious. Love searches for a way of being constructive.
True love looks to the other person.
It seeks to build that person up, and to help that person grow. True love is not boastful or arrogant. Love is neither anxious to impress, nor to cherish inflated ideas of its own importance. Real love promotes strongly within the other person and not weakens it. Real love enforces self-sufficiency and not dependency.