There are seven key factors that go into building a strong marriage, or what I refer to as the seven seeds for growing a healthy marriage. Here's a quick look at them, along with strategies for achieving them.
True commitment means much more than simply committing to staying married.
There was once a couple who went by the name of Mr. Neat and Ms. Clean. Mr. Neat could bathe in a shower full of soap scum and not mind at all as long as the towels and soap were neat and in their place. Ms. Clean could have piles and piles of stuff scattered everywhere, as long as the piles were clean. This couple can have either a very neat and clean home or a real mess on their hands, depending on their ability to work together as a team. Without exception, every couple I have ever worked with struggles with effective communication.