But considering the influence from Western culture, which is so preoccupied with appearance and superficialities, perhaps that is to be expected. Thank you all for your participation. Islamic character is the first thing to look for in person, if the person fail to have islamic character then they will fail everything else. Because without Islam the other qualities are pointless. Off course the islamic character, looks that is matter, the rest, O mankind, we created you one soul, male and female.
Sense of humor makes life easier.
Average finance helps. Same culture lessens gaps. I think, if a man want to marry, he has to choose a wife who fear Allah soubhanah wa ta a'ala. Someone can be pretty, but if they're not religious, they can ruin your life. The islamic character of a person can make that person rich, good looking, beautiful, humorous and intelligent.