Until they do, most will continue to judge their spouses harshly. Men are more intuitive than women. Put Mom behind a clear plastic screen and wait for first sign of toddler distress. Crying much more often evidenced by girls. Hitting the plastic screen much more often evidenced by boys.
Women are more logical than men.
In the above ideal society, little girls and boys would play equally often with toy trucks. In the above ideal society, men and women would NOT be equally interested in right and left-brain activities. In the above ideal society, jobs would be given to the most qualified applicant, male or female. In the above ideal society, the average man and the average woman would have equal interest in sex. In the above ideal society, the average man would do more housework than he does now.