Simple joys are often sacrificed when we re preoccupied with what others think. My weakest moment comes on Sunday morning when I have to fight with my kids to get them to wear itchy sweaters or loafers to church, says Mindy. I know how they feel. But I think I worry more about our family s image than their comfort or the sanctity of a peaceful Sunday morning. People-pleasers often make choices that lead to sinful behaviors or poor stewardship of time and money.
Teenagers can t say no to sex or drugs.
Women rack up huge credit card bills enlarging their wardrobes beyond need or practicality. But worst of all, we may even be tempted to fake our spirituality, which impresses everyone but God. Be careful not to do your acts of righteousness before men, to be seen by them, Christ warned. I know a gifted writer, for example, who never gets to write because she s bogged down with the PTA, Girl Scouts, and several church committees. When I questioned her unwillingness to relinquish those responsibilities, she replied, I couldn t drop the ball now.