When outdoors, he likes to chase her. The female doesn't lay her ears back or puff up her tail like she wants to fight. Thank you, B.S., Middletown Dear B.S., This is a time of year when new cats and kittens will be added to many households across the country. Some are content sharing a small space. Others want to possess and dominate everything in their midst.
Some cats are naturally more sociable than others.
While some cats are particularly playful, others just want a warm, comfortable place to nap and view the outside world. You are comfortable and familiar with your environment. You know when and where you'll be fed. All of a sudden, there is a stranger in your home. This new cat doesn't know anyone yet and doesn't know the house rules.