For example, a child who almost drowned may refuse to go near the water. Parents can do several things to help their fearful children. Many fears, like a fear of strangers, are outgrown within a few months. A child who's terrified of dogs at age two may be begging for a puppy by kindergarten. Respect the child's feelings and insist that others do the same.
Some people enjoy teasing children about their fears.
Besides being unkind, this just strengthens the fear. Desensitize your child by gradually exposing her to the feared object or situation. A child who is afraid of dogs could first play with a stuffed animal, then look at dogs from a distance, and slowly work up to petting a small, quiet dog. Encourage your child to act out a feared situation. Play can help children control and master their environment.