It is nice to feel a warm sensation in the middle of your being and your heartbeat quicken as you experience that first attraction. Please know, it is simply your system telling you that God made you with emotions and you are fully operational based on the way you have been socialized in the West. But you need to dig beneath the surface. A pretty or handsome face, a buff body, a nice car, or a big salary is not at the core of what keeps successful relationships thriving. It s the sensitive, caring person who will comfort and encourage you when you don t get accepted into the graduate school of your choice or when you are passed over for the promotion you had hoped for.
Time is very important-it is what life is made up of.
The way you regard time will determine, to a great extent, how you approach relationships. There are relationships that are well worth your time. Then, as many of you already know, there are other relationships that are not. Be honest with yourself. It doesn t have to be anything extravagant or costly.