Don't attribute to malice that which can be explained as stupidity JohnC Very funny, Scotty. Don't Panic Douglas Addams, The Hitchhikers Guide to the Galaxy Climb down off your high horse and turn the saddle around. There are no glass houses.
Some activities are impossible in the open.
And these secret events are the voyeur's game. He seeks them out with his myriad army of eyes - like the child's notion of a Deity who sees all. If you knew me yesterday, please do not think that it is the same person that you are meeting today. I have experienced more of life, I have encountered new depths in thos I love, I have suffered and prayed, and I am different. I am affraid to tell you who I am , because, if I tell you who I am, you might not like who I am, and it's all that I have.