Telling you not to tell your mother or other people about things that happen between you. Coming into your bedroom at night. Sexual abuse isn't always penetration. There are many forms of abuse. It may involve touching, constant comments or other behavior that makes you feel uncomfortable.
Sexual offenders come in all ages, shapes and sizes.
It gives the offender time to discover how far he can go and whether or not you will tell anyone. If these things are happening to you, find an adult you trust and talk to them about it immediately. You could talk to the school counsellor, a relative, friend, your doctor or contact a crisis line or sexual assault center in your area. If someone is doing something that makes you feel uncomfortable, it is important for you to find someone to check it out with. Don't be embarassed to ask questions.