Forgive me if this is the impression. I have all the same kind of hassles and hang ups that you have. But having a road map of how to get to your destination certainly helps. This is, of course, the mortar which binds the whole thing together. Ensure these privileges to all others, and you will receive love.
Universal peace is the goal.
To achieve the goal, we need to is to oppose all forms of violence. This does not mean only physical violence. They say that you don't know freedom until you have lost it. Freedom of speech, religion, association, politics, sexual preference, whatever. If you want your music loud - cool.