And let's talk about quality time. Even if it takes a few more minutes to rideshare, you can use your time to catch up on your reading, your knitting, or even on your rest. Driving is the only time I have to myself. What some people won't do for a moment alone. Instead of driving solo, we suggest talking with your carpool partner or vanpool in advance to set up ground rules.
Some people like to chat, but many make a habit of just reading or sleeping.
Okay, so maybe transit is out-but you'll, be amazed how many people share your personal quirks and would enjoy sharing the ride. Again, setting ground rules in advance helps. My work schedule is too irregular. There's more flexibility in ridesharing than you might think. Get the schedule for the transit line you'd take, so if you need to leave later than usual, you'll have the information on hand.