To integrate our love of our lost child into our lives. We work at these tasks for the rest of our lives. When your parent dies you have lost your past. When your child dies you have lost your future. I look back, and one of those I was to protect has fallen.
Suggestions are welcome.
This page and my others are, in part, an effort to understand what happened to my son and what happened to me. We have not only lost our child, but also the part of us that they represent. We have lost the future that we would have made together. This is not the aspirations of academic, athletic, or professional success that we all may harbor. It is the vision of being together in the future as we were in the past.