Sometimes she wakes up in the middle of the night and can't remember where she is. Plus, she can't seem to remember which rules apply at which house. Her whole world seems to be topsy-turvy. There is no doubt that divorce is a painful experience for kids as well as adults. Fortunately, there are many resources to help kids survive a divorce.
School counselors are a good place to start.
Kids need someone to talk to. They need to be reassured that life will go on and that the anger, sadness, and resentment that they are currently feeling will eventually ease. If the school counselor is unavailable or doesn't work out, ask him or her for a few names of child therapists in your area. Find out if the Youth Commission in your town offers counseling services. Many communities provide counseling on a sliding scale basis.