Let your adornment be the inner self with the lasting beauty of a gentle and quiet spirit, which is very precious in God's sight. A couple of years ago a poll in U.S. News and World Report found that 9 out of 10 Americans consider incivility a serious problem. If we want the world to be a less stressful place, we have to start with our everyday encounters with everyone. In the family It is all too easy to take those closest to you for granted. Yet civility among family members makes home life more pleasant and shows respect for your loved ones and yourself.
Spouses can also make an effort to show special kindness.
One husband packed his wife's favorite pillow to surprise her when they took a weekend trip. A couple made a point of never interrupting each other-no small feat in a busy household. But they knew it made a difference in the way they treated each other and set a good example for their children. She made a point of listening thoughtfully, asking questions and getting filled in on family news. She also took breaks at the library while her children went on outings with their grandmother.