To have the designation of KiTA or PiTA does NOT mean automatic arbitrator of disputes. Be careful when you follow-up to someone's posting. Remember we are all friends here. Also don't take what you read as a flame. It may have not been intended as such.
Words can be so vague sometimes.
Sometimes a little innocent flirting can be taken the wrong way. Use your discretion when cuddling. If you at any point feel that someone has crossed your personal limits, discuss it with the person in question so that the person understands what your limits are. This is preferably done by email. Do NOT respond to their provokation.