The truth of the matter is if we have real love there are times that we need to be confrontational and confront sin. If someone is straying from the truth true love demands we call out to them. Every parent knows that love means discipline . True love calls for rules about safe Big Wheel driving. You can't drive at night and you must not ever take it on I-75 may not be popular rules but they are for the child's well being.
True love calls for discipline.
This is the idea behind the Ten Commandments . God gave us laws for our own well being. If we keep the Ten Commandments and God's other laws we will be happy. If we break them we will be miserable. God always wants the best for us.