Speaking the truth in love, we will in all things grow up into Him who is the Head, that is, Christ. Do not let any unwholesome talk come out of your mouths, but only what is helpful for building others up according to their needs. The third rule in good communication is be positive. The fourth rule in good communication is to be an active listener. The Pharisees and the Sadducees of Jesus day heard sounds, but they did not listen.
Some people are like that today.
They hear what they only want to hear. In the family, however, we need to truly listen to what is being said. Everyone wants to be heard and listened too. Although the family unit is in trouble, we as Christians can turn that around and have strong, healthy families. A spiritual commitment.