After all, most of us go through times when our physical reactions are less than ideal. As this little chemical sojourn reminded me, that doesn't mean that you can't have good sex. Write down something you would like to do with your lover, to be acted out at an agreed-upon time. BDSM aficionados are often known for using scripted scenes, especially when playing with people they don't know very well. A scene written in advance helps give the participants the key elements for fulfilling their fantasies while protecting their safe boundaries.
Scenes can be fun between long-term couples, too.
They give you a chance to do things which might otherwise seem too outlandish or silly. Send your partner an erotic e-mail, or leave a naughty note, describing your fantasy situation. Make sure there's enough lead time so that your partner can make changes or suggestions. A good and easy scenario is to meet in a public place, such as a bar or coffee shop. Not your local favorite, though, because you're going to pretend you don't know each other.