She is your personal channel to eternal life. If there is no forgiveness, then we may miss the possibility to enter the Kingdom of Heaven. The critical factor is language. We must train ourselves to use beautiful words. One simple word spoken in haste or insensitivity can destroy a relationship and lead to separation and even divorce.
Words can be very powerful.
If wrongly used it s like being kicked in the stomach. Be thoughtful and charitable toward one another in word and deed. Love is giving, not receiving. Those who only want to receive are failures. Husbands have a tendency to act as boys, always wanting to receive more love, but originally, man was to give love.