I will pray for you and trust that God will guide you in the years ahead. Slowly, unbelievably, the trapped spouse witnesses the cage door vibrate just a bit, and then start to rise. He can't believe it. It isn't necessary to fight off her advances her grasping hands any more. It's too good to be true.
Talk is cheap.
This is just another trick to win me back. In a week or two she'll be crying on the phone again, begging me to come home. She's really weak, you know, and she'll crack under pressure. It is my strongest recommendation that you, the rejected person, prove your partner wrong in this expectation. Let him marvel at your self-control in coming weeks.