Official unofficial HC church here. No bulletins, no clergy. May be unwritten and informal, but HC is fast becoming its own bully with its own theology, clergy, meeting formats, and denominational distinctives that you need to adhere to and follow or be excluded. I have happily experienced a natural way of being together by meeting outside the traditions, in homes, in simplicity. Hopefully, you have as well.
Structure is about control and conformity.
Life grows wild and messy left alone, but with its own order of chaos and complexity you cannot duplicate with human constructed models. Occasionally an artist captures a single facet. But never the myriad beauty and depth of life. I'm doing like my wife done. I can't wear this hat anymore and follow Jesus.