Once I have a waiting list of thirty women a new e-mail group will be opened. This usually takes anywhere from one day to several weeks. We encourage new members to write a brief, or not so brief, introduction so that we can know a little about you. That varies from group to group. Some of the lists are quiet due to everything from the personalities of the women involved to the busyness of their daily schedules.
Several days can pass without receiving any e-mail.
There are other lists that generate a handful of e-mail on a daily basis. If you're placed on a list that's just beginning and all the members are relatively new and getting acquainted there can be as many as fifty e-mails a day. I'm in the closet as a lesbian and am concerned about confidentiality. Your concern is a very common concern among many of the women. One of the main rules to joining any of these lists is that no member of the group ever divulge anything that has been shared on the list with others.