I could try and find out the available treatment options. I turned my anxiety into action on behalf of my wife. I didn't really seek support from other men, because that's generally not what men do. But I think now that maybe I could have gained something by talking to another man who was going through, or who had been through, this experience. Maybe they would have had some valuable advice.
Wives have a way of drawing their husbands out.
Sitting and talking with other couples is a way to get issues out in the open in a non-threatening way. Even though it's the scariest roller-coaster ride you'll ever be on, keep your eye on that tunnel of love you and your wife went through when you got married. Hold on to the love that made you marry your wife. Keep your eye on recovery because right now your whole life is going to change dramatically. That's Peter's advice.