Sex addicts, therefore, use sex as an antidepressant. Sex addicts, because they use sex to avoid feeling distressful emotions, also avoid emotional intimacies in relationships. Sex addicts can feel very lonely and isolated. Sexual addiction can be fueled by sexual fantasies that are a replacement for real life interaction. Sex addicts spend an unfortunate amount of time in their heads, avoiding life.
Sex addicts can be ahead of a moment in time or behind the moment.
They are often not in the moment. Not in the here and now. Sexual addiction can be progressive in nature. Sometimes the sex addict wants more and more sexual involvement. Because of their shame and fear about being found out, the sex addict might keep their behaviors secret.