It's almost scary. Two years ago I was closeted, isolated, and depressed, but I was safe in my dark little hole of surburban Philadelphia. I never imagined I'd be where I am today. I didn't plan on coming out or being a leader of the gay community. Things just have a way of happening.
Situations present themselves and decisions have to be made.
We all go through this. Every day of our lives we make decisions that will ultimately affect our future. These are the things that we take for granted every day of our lives. Those things we dismiss as unimportant may be the same things that are shaping our futures. Last year I was outed by my roommate.