The decision concerning any abortion must be made by the woman and not by the state or any other external agency. We oppose all constitutional amendments and legislation which would abridge or circumscribe this right. We call upon our rabbis and upon the Union of American Hebrew Congregations to strengthen their support of the Religious Coalition for Abortion Rights on national, state and local levels. Yes, most of God's Hebrew name are in the nazhor form. No, there is no difference.
Words have power.
The problem that you see is mainly a problem in English, which does not have grammatical gender in nouns, but does in pronouns. There are languages which have no grammatical gender, and languages which have varying amount. Some languages, such as French and Spanish, do not even have that, and has grammatical gender for all nouns as well. If I dismiss anything which contradicts my theory, my theory will certainly seem well-founded. And if the evidence doesn't exist, I suppose I can always make it up.