I wasn t through saying hello. Talk in terms that relate to today. For instance, talk about the contents of lunch or when a visitor will be coming. By doing this, an ill person is distracted from dismal thoughts of the future. Time together is precious.
Time is a gift.
Unlike other deaths, terminal illnesses give family members time to express themselves. A letter, a gift or soothing words can be helpful. Also, use the time to plan death. Dying people have the opportunity to talk about death. For example, meaningful funeral arrangements can be made.