Wait for that distant day as a small step back toward a freedom that once glowed briefly, but joyously like a bold renaissance sun. I hate rape. It is as blasphemous as committing murder with a crucifix. It says abstain. Last year the Pope condemned masturbation.
Society condemns fooling around with another guy.
And forget about an adult partner altogether. Any man who would think about having sex with a kid today should have his head examined. One mother actually said she'd have preferred the pederast to have murdered her son rather than have sex with him. Another mother got off virtually free after murdering her son's abuser in front of a courtroom full of witnesses. This sexually needy teen male thought it might be rape.