By Elaine M. Gibson Parents who take care of their personal needs are not being selfish.
Selfishness implies a lack of concern for others and is truly harmful.
Constructive selfishness on the other hand, considers the needs of others and takes care of self. Parents who take care of their personal needs are happier, healthier, and better at meeting the needs of their children than parents who consistently sacrifice themselves for their kids. Children only respect parents who respect themselves. In our busy schedules, we most often neglect ourselves. Some mothers have a more difficult time than fathers finding personal time.