I wasn't getting what I needed either, but I didn't betray him. He says it was just because I didn't have the opportunity. I told him I made sure of that. When I tell him these are the things I need, he says he knows and he understands, but that is it. He says them, but he doesn't show them or feel them.
Words mean nothing when they come from the mouth of a person who can live a lie so very easily.
He gave her everything that I longed for since the beginning of our marriage. He was attracted to her and I never felt attractive. He chose to spend time with her and never spent time with me unless there was nothing else to do. He was sexually stimulated simply by her, not just by what she did to try to stimulate him. He never acted like the mere thought of me was enough to stimulate him.