Now she wants to put all men through the wringer before she gives them the time of day. The source of her hang-up should not matter to you. It's a real shame that some structured women have had abusive boyfriends in their past, but excuses aren't recipes for success in romantic relationships. Women like this should be pitied, but never dated. If you fall for one of these sad cases, John, you will only end up suffering instead of getting the love that you so richly deserve.
Women are twice as intuitive as men when it comes to relationships.
This is because relationships are the woman's turf. If this is true, then you may be wondering, John, why some women ignore their intuition and choose abusers for love partners. Because, sadly, some women consider abuse preferable to being alone. A woman can read a man's Interest Level within five minutes, but it takes five or six dates for her to read his attitude. If she is sharp, she'll walk.