I think that Grant Hill is correct when he says that you should push your game and not a stroller. It is too hard in this world today to bring a child into a child's life. All I can say is think wisely. Boys CAN abstain and wait for Mz. Several of my friends do and those that have sex use condoms.
Some guys even buy their girfriend pills and condoms.
I had a boyfriend that did that. He was really considerate and I knew he truly respected my wishes. Yes, as a matter of fact, my boyfriend. I'm on birth control and he uses protection. It was my first time and we waited a year before we originally had sex.