Children become the main reason for sticking together . So in reality the child is not the end in itself, but is the means for some other ends. In general the case of parental love, and particularly the maternal love, is much more complicated than that between men and women. In the latter, the couple fall in love, then fall out of love, a situation not feasible in the former case. There are many factors that do not allow a mother to fall out of love with her child.
Women still have relatively less psychological freedom .
This is the main reason why mothers can be so sacrificial. What gives us the power to put up with the most dehumiliation conditions arise from this sense of love, responsibility and commitment, no matter what may be the source of it all. So many roles have been attributed to and entangled with motherhood that in order to answer this question, we should start with what she is not. First of all remember that we are living in the era of specialization and expertise, and all the roles that mothers played in the past, have now become a speciality, requiring knowledge and skill. Thus a mother is not a nurse, for example, since there are always far better and more skilled nurses, specialized in this profession.