I don't want to sound cliche, but I really became a man when we had little Bret. I had the heart to appreciate it, I found love I had never felt before, and I found that I could love Jane even more than I did before. I didn't know it could get any better, but it did. I find it very difficult to discuss this with quite a few men, because they just don't get it. I tried to talk to a buddy who was trying to understand why his relationships weren't working out, but he didn't get it.
Some men never do.
So, I say run ladies. No amount of drugs or counseling will fix it, and you can't change it. For some reason, guys rarely expose themselves after. Trust me, stretch it out, hold out, and do everything to avoid crossing the lines. Keep it interesting, and keep the tension high, but be friends first.