True Father often pulls out a little black book at meetings with a very long list for the leaders to fulfill. The leaders go away from meetings with True Father feeling overwhelm with multitude of directions and their hopelessness to accomplished just even a few of the directives. These directives or needs of God are very real, but we members are too little and too unaccomplished. Older members, blessed members and blessed children are diamonds to True Father and God. They would never want to lose older members to gain new, younger, untrained or weak members.
Wisdom speaks to keep the rock foundation of a structure strong and reliable.
Protecting and growing ones blessing is the main mission we all have, but not the only one. As marriage unfolds the problems are overcome by individuals rising above their spiritual situation to find unity on progressive higher levels. This requires both husband and wife to agree on the sacrifice for a particular mission. If one spouse doesn't agree then there is a great chance evil will be pulled into the blessed couple's situation or one member and an eventual destruction of the couple. This is not in God's interest for it is one more brick of Heavenly Father's foundation lost.