This is becoming an addiction. Manipulation is when we try to control others to get our own way.
True friendship is all about love.
When you threaten your friend by saying you won t be her friend anymore, you re being selfish instead of showing love. Because this tactic has worked in the past, it may be hard to stop using it. Next time you re tempted to threaten your friend to get your way, choose to give instead of take. When she tells you no, accept her answer. Ask her why she doesn t want to do what you say, and listen carefully.