However, it is important that they be completed correctly and having an attorney involved may give you peace of mind. You also may wish to contact your attorney with any questions or concerns about the effect of these documents. Your agent will have direct control over your health care decisions if you become unable to make such decisions. Therefore, it is necessary that your agent be someone you trust, and someone who is capable of understanding the responsibilities involved in being a health care agent. Many people choose a spouse or an adult child but the agent does not have to be a member of your family.
Some people choose a friend, spiritual leader or their personal attorney.
Be certain to spend time with the person you appoint ensuring they understand in detail your values and specific medical treatment wishes. An employee of anyone treating you, including any employee of your doctor, or the hospital, nursing home or hospice where you may obtain medical treatment, unless the employee also is your relative. It may happen that you are unable to find an agent. Without an agent, you cannot execute a Durable Power of Attorney for Health Care. Complete a Living Will.