He had five children by another woman whom he never married but who worked for him as a servant girl. He forced her to abandon all five of the children to an orphanage without a thought for their welfare. My point is quite simple. Being smart is not the same as being wise. Wise people love God, worship God, seek God's will, and give God thanks in the name of our Lord Jesus Christ.
Smart people know sex is powerful and can be a controlling force in life.
Wise people are committed to living in one sexual relationship within the life-long bonds of marriage. Smart people know about chemical addictions such as smoking and drinking and drugs. Wise people don't let themselves get hooked. Smart people know that honesty alone makes for a good relationship. Wise people are committed to speaking truthfully.