In contrast to prevailing myths, bullies appear to have little anxiety and to possess strong self-esteem. Students who are victims of bullying are typically anxious, insecure, cautious, and suffer from low self- esteem, rarely defending themselves or retaliating when confronted by students who bully them. They may lack social skills and friends, and they are often socially isolated. Victims tend to be close to their parents and may have parents who can be described as overprotective. Back to the Table of Contents Consequences of Bullying As established by studies in Scandinavian countries, a strong correlation appears to exist between bullying other students during the school years and experiencing legal or criminal troubles as adults.
Victims often fear school and consider school to be an unsafe and unhappy place.
The act of being bullied tends to increase some students' isolation because their peers do not want to lose status by associating with them or because they do not want to increase the risks of being bullied themselves. Student surveys reveal that a low percentage of students seem to believe that adults will help. Students feel that adult intervention is infrequent and ineffective, and that telling adults will only bring more harassment from bullies. School personnel may view bullying as a harmless right of passage that is best ignored unless verbal and psychological intimidation crosses the line into physical assault or theft. Bullying is a problem that occurs in the social environment as a whole.