But even in such cases, it's not necessary that the intercourse end right after the climax. When you don't want to reach the orgasm, you must avoid the point of no return, by limiting the stimulation. But if you surpass it, you must continue until the climax. In no way the male should unilaterally stop the lovemaking. And if he reaches climax earlier than expected, he should try to compensate his lover up to a balanced situation.
Some men think they are capable of prolonguing the arousal.
But if you start from the principle that a caress is not a race towards a precise target, you can manage to slow down your own passion. He must offer her a lot of tenderness, caressing her all. The caresses over the most intimate places of the female must be gentle, following the natural lines with tenderness. No other touch is so delicate. Many males ignore the existence of the clitoris.