The first step in being able to attract and create your ideal relationship is to clear the way for it by dropping baggage from your past. Baggage here refers to resentments, hurts and fears towards anyone who was either a role model or participated directly in a relationship with you.
Some people carry their hurts, resentments and fear as badges of honor.
Others learn from them as if they were undisputable life lessons. They are neither. They are byproducts of unfortunate situations and become your baggage. The sooner you can truly let go of this baggage, the less likely you are to recreate bad situations. Dropping such baggage is what will be termed completion.