They want to be secure in knowing Johnny works. Men are always in a hurry to have sex. They are all set and ready to go. Today, one does have to have sex with care, and by that I mean tak ing the right precautions. This is an interesting new variable in the equation.
Sex can also be a dangerous thing.
Besides AIDS and STDs, John Wayne Bobbitt and Basic Instinct have proven that. Every guy would love to have a loaded gun underneath the pillow which he can grab in case the woman has a sudden urge to lunge for an ice pick. After watching When Harry Met Sally, one has to wonder whether men and women can just be friends without ever thinking of having sex with each other. I think it's impossible. I have plenty of female friends who always get mad at me for showing the slightest interest in another woman who is a figure of modern pop culture.