The idea is that time will change that. What you are doing right now is building up the foundation of your relationship which has been so severely broken down. In time, there will be more give and take in your marriage, it just has to do some more healing first. Because you are the catalyst for that healing, you are the one that will undergo the most sacrifice. Resist the urge to LB, it will only cause a setback in everything you've done so far.
Triggers are hard.
When I first used to have to drive by the hotel where my H took the cheerleader, it made me sick to my stomach. Now when I drive by, I refuse to look at it or give it my attention. You are doing great, Dynamo. Keep up the good work. Love and Prayers, KristyAnn If I have a faith that can move mountains, but have not love, I am nothing.