Everything is based on sex now. When a man ask you out 9 out of 10 just want sex from you. But, you might find 1 out of 10 out of the bunch that wants to take you out to get you to know you better. Baisden concludes that all the blame can't be placed on fathers. Again the emphasis is on the word some.
Some mothers date several men during a short period of time.
Often times, these men are introduced to the children with the expectation of him being around for a while. Most often the relationships fails and the revolving door of men continues to turn. This sends a very negative message to kids. They begin to see dating as a non-emotional sexual game that exist for the moment. Mack says she knows a lot of people who hook-up regularly.