Ask yourself the following questions. If the answer to any of these questions is yes, It's time to get help. First, don't ignore the problem. Talk to someone. Part of the abuser's power comes from secrecy.
Victims are often ashamed to expose intimate family problems.
However, the first step toward solving the problem is admitting to yourself and others that there is a problem. Plan ahead and know what you will do if you are attacked again. Tell your neighbor to call the police if they hear any disturbances. Even if you decide to stay, you should be prepared to leave on a moments notice. Set aside some money and clothes in a secret and safe place.