My touch also seemed to soothe him. I now know that this intensive-care parenting not only helped me feel more like Daniel's mother, it also helped him. It's important for parents to know they're not just visitors. Of course, how much you can do depends on your baby's health. During the first day, simply being near your baby, speaking softly, and gently touching his head or bottom can help him feel more secure.
Some mothers place cotton balls soaked with their breastmilk near their babies.
As your preemie's health improves, you can participate in routine caregiving, such as changing diapers, taking temperatures, and feedings. My son went home on both. Indeed, most parents of preemies feel overwhelmed when they first get home. You need to learn that you can make mistakes and your baby will still be okay. In the meantime, creating a support network can help you feel less isolated.