Self awareness embraces a positive self perception. One that generates an I care about me position and requires a daily commitment to self. Being yourself in a relationship necessitates awareness of boundaries. Boundaries include knowledge of limitations, what is acceptable in a relationship, as well as a clear perception of where we stand on significant emotional issues. This also includes maintaining an emotional bond with others who think and feel contrary to the way we think and feel.
Self acceptance is also crucial to definition of self.
I am OK with me attitude. It is imperative that self acceptance has present meaning. The key to dealing with shortcomings and simultaneously maintaining a positive self concept entails small, yet significant, daily activity towards your projected goal. Daily commitment to growth and change enables you to focus your energy in the here and now. Further, you will not feel overwhelmed, as you will be focused on the process and not the future result.