Some stalking victims don t like to be called victims. When a person is stalked, their life has changed - forever. Not accepting that may actually be helping the stalker. Many people are reluctant to call the police due to feelings of guilt or fear of looking foolish. Don t be one of them.
Stalkers don t stop stalking because someone is nice.
The police would rather take the time to investigate a possible stalker than a murder. Have a witness with you if possible. Tell the stalker in no uncertain terms and don t waste your energy trying to be polite. If you already have a dog, it can provide some security. For more information on other security measures you can take, call your local police department.