Men's behavior is the product of five million years of evolution. Acknowledge this, and improve your own social life. In other words, men, you are stagnant and unchanging creatures, content to grunt and scratch. We should all be insulted. Men have always and continue to look for fertility, as signified by physical attributes in women.
Women have and continue to look for security, which translates today into wealth.
Maybe, just maybe. Men want the body, women want the wallet. Relinquish the idea that your friends take priority over meeting a man. Most friends will get married and move on. You'll be without friends or a man.