His response to your proposal should give you clear information about his values and choices. It will also tell you about his mental competency. If it seems that your father is not capable of handling his own finances, you could involve a therapist in assessing his mental state. If necessary, you and your brother could seek legal assistance to allow you to protect your father from being exploited. The tone of your e-mail suggests you are dealing with a typical painful situation that is often difficult to accept some people have more money than others and that seems unfair.
Some people have millions, but are being given more anyway.
Some people have debt and are struggling. It will take effort, but it will be worth it for you to come to terms with such inequality. You will then be more at ease with your own financial situation and much more able to figure out how to improve it. Copyright 1999-2001 MyPrimeTime, All Rights Reserved. Inc. The names of actual companies and their products mentioned on this site may be the trademarks of their respective owners.