Women can't come if they're not relaxed. There's no way I could come if I weren't relaxed. It depends on how horny I was. I hate that adjective. I think I could.
Some women are into that, too.
Maybe it's that the orgasm isn't the thing. Maybe it's just the thrill of being bad or dangerous. At first, when I was really young, I just played sports in there, and then when I got older it was my jack-off palace. I had the same posters on the wall for, like, ten years. Farrah Fawcett posters.