Schrader acts as if he is a prophet of love and romance, but there is no love to be found in what he writes. Maybe it's just his definition of love. He writes of a married man who sleeps with another man and speaks of this adultery and other perversions as if they were great acts of love. Sounds more like lust to me. Love is selfless devotion, not running from sexual partner to sexual partner regardless of gender or previous commitment.
True romance is more than just a night or two of sleeping around.
Romantic people are those who are willing to sacrifice everything they have for the one whom they love, even their desires and urges toward other people. Animals behave like this, not humans. Love is an action, not a constant caving in to every whim that strikes the emotions. People who remain in love are those who are willing to work at it, who give up their own personal wants and needs for the good of someone else. Unfortunately, thanks to the sexual revolution, many in this country have abandoned themselves to this kind of love.