Be careful of clich s, religious platitudes, or easy answers. You may not be able to help us with certain issues right now, so don't be too quick to share your opinions if we say something you don't agree with. We need time to work things out on our own. Be sensitive to our needs, be patient, have confidence and believe in us. Be on the look-out for destructive behaviors.
Traumatic loss can lead some people into depression, alcohol or drug abuse.
We may need you to keep an eye on us while things are especially tough. Help us find humorous diversion. Laughter is good medicine. Be willing to do difficult things with us. There may be some hard times ahead and facing them alone can be terrifying.