More anger results. A parent's good sense of timing can help to avoid the tantrum point. Knowing when and how to give the right amount of help keeps tantrums under control. The right amount is just enough help so the child can be successful. Encouraging words may be all that is needed.
Tantrums frequently occur just before bedtime or mealtime.
Weary, overanxious children are more likely to lose control. Offering a light snack, insisting on quiet time, helping with a toy that won't work, or cutting short a shopping trip help to avert the potential tantrum. The overcrowded, noisy grocery store may have been too much for a tired little boy. He momentarily lost control. Flexibility and patience help along with preparing the child for the confusion.