We understand biblical principles for rearing children, and we know some of the mistakes that we have made, but now our children are more than half grown. Now, in Part 2, we will consider principles to use in overcoming past errors and deficiencies in child rearing, and in attempting to bring about biblical changes in your children. First, prepare to act wisely.
Wisdom is especially important when dealing with a child who is nearly grown.
Acting from pent-up emotions, rather than from wisdom, can precipitate a difficult situation into a disastrous one. In order to act wisely, your emotions must be brought under control. Actions must not be controlled by resentment, bitterness, anger or wrath. Bad feelings toward the child is one of the most common reasons that parents fail to overcome problems in child rearing. Your feelings are not volitional.