I never dreamed that sometime in my life I myself would need this so badly. Now it is my turn to be here for those in need. When we start talking about his fear, fear motivates him to look for other solutions, instead of staying there, abusive, and out of control. This gets directly to the problem. Just as I've stated, if I cannot help someone I will do my best to refer them to someone who can.
Some abusive circumstances are so bad that the only outlet the victim has is their internet.
These victims of violence may be too embarrassed to talk to someone in person and also more often than not it is fear of the assailant finding out that keeps the victims from seeking help from someone or something close to them, even a shelter. This type of documentation may be very valuable to you. I highly commend the author for being brave enough to share her words. It is so easy for 'outsiders' to tell a victim what she should or shouldn't do. We know that victims are being told this with their best interest at heart, unfortunately however, it is easier said than done.