THAT's opposition, and that type of opposition certainly doesn' t balance. Another sort of destructive and unbalanced opposition in covens is found when individuals work their workings in Circle at loggerheads to one another. If balanced correctly, no one overloads, and no one gets drained. Yes, different people give off different energies. Some energies I wouldn't join up into with a ten foot battle lance.
Some energies are quite homey and comforting.
Other valuable energies are quite dynamic and persuasive. The whole is greater than the sum of its parts. Quite possibly, the average man gives off a differing energy than the average woman. We're both human. I wouldn't want to reverse these arbitrary and limiting labels for my benefit, either.