What a miserable parent it is whose habit is to share honestly everyday all the complaints, dissatisfactions, disappointments from every relationship. The children who listen to parents like this surely will grow up distorted. So let us never give up being people who love. That means we speak positive words to give life to others. Let us never give up being Life-givers.
Words are very powerful and they carry either love or fear.
Let your words convey love, hope and inspiration always and let your period of lack of inspiration, complaint and frustration in love be conveyed to someone who could actually help you overcome your negativity. That means you have to choose your garbage receptacle well. You can t just throw it where ever in hell you feel like. Confess non-inspiration to someone whom you respect as a spiritual counselor. I like to put my wife in that position.