Life's not like Springer's TV show. It can be just as tame or as wild as you'd care to have it, but one thing's for sure - it can be a whale of a lot better than living in shame and fear. I personally have another agenda for those stuck in the closet, or those just beginning to live their new lives. My message is simple. Honey-child, I got news for you.
Women can look like anything they damned well please.
Hell, women even can have male genitalia. Granted, this oddity can, under some circumstances, cause embarrassment and ridicule. Granted, if you're bound and determined to find the heterosexual man of your dreams, this might well not be a course for you. If you're asexual, this might work. If you're bisexual, I can see where this might work.