It was discovery time, and I was stimulated. After studying emotional intelligence I realized that while it was good material it was still in the area of diagnosis. We have both mental and emotional intelligence. High emotional intelligence is doing the right thing, with the right person, at the right time, in the right way. Low emotional intelligence is doing the wrong thing, at the wrong time, with the wrong person, in the wrong way.
Some people have a high and others have a low emotional intelligence.
The answer to how do you do it is, with spiritual intelligence. High emotional and spiritual intelligence both are doing the right thing. High spiritual intelligence occurs when we access the sense of inner peace by using our conscious faculties. When we are experiencing this sense of Peace, Love and Joy we will see, hear think and act differently than when we are feeling insecure, unloved, unhappy. Emotional intelligence is the diagnosis and spiritual intelligence is the treatment.