Okay, I'm going to watch the Sopranos now. There's a slight chance of nudity, a good possibility of some violence, and there will definitely be a lot of cursing. With that we proceeded to watch what may have been a record breaker for the number of uses of the f-word in a single episode. No, I get the one where the FBI searches the house and everyone expresses themselves verbally. My father is more easy going about that kind of stuff in movies.
Violence is fine, nudity is fine, but simulated sex acts is the uncomfortable point.
A few months ago we watched Swordfish. All is fine and good. Then it happens. A call girl performs a Lewinsky on Hugh Jackman to distract him while he hacks into a computer. Times have changed since I was a little boy in the early 80's.