It really is all about control. It's all about imposing my way, how I experience the power of God, and trying to impose that on everyone else. For me, most of the fighting around worship or music does not lead me to talk about theology or beliefs. It leads simply to talk about issues of control and power and how people exercise power over other people. I would warn transformational leaders that just like the top-down world is over, so also the strategically planned world is over.
Transformation is very messy business.
It's not organized. It's not a strategic plan that you follow over 5 years. Starting is important because delay could be costly. I don't think any church is going to be able to survive with business as usual. But the pace of change will vary from place to place.