Make no mistake you may not have had to work at it when you were 22, but you do now. Actually being sexual takes a lot of work. For me, it's worth it. When I tell my girlfriend about the date, I let her know how I hope we'll use the time beforehand. I find dinner afterward to be far more intimate than it would be if the food came first.
Scheduling is the beginning.
With the time set, prepare for your sexual encounter with your spouse as seriously as you would for a business meeting. Find out what it takes to make your partner more comfortable as well as more excited. This is particularly important for men, because women take longer to become aroused. Featured Tool Intimacy Quiz Open your heart with this exercise from relationship expert Harville Hendrix. Copyright 1999-2001 MyPrimeTime, All Rights Reserved.