Eternal Punishment Those who wear hair shirts are punished in the afterlife by being told it was all for naught. You have to catch your own fish. Faith Faith is a verb. You can't please everybody. Even God disappoints somebody.
Some people pray for sunshine, some for rain.
No one can pressure you without your permission. Perhaps you could try asking. It is OK to remind people of their promises they have not yet kept. Prayer I prayed for strength. Oneness Everyone helps answer my prayers.