I stated earlier that you cannot be with your child at all times of their adolescence. Your child must know your standards and rules for surfing. You must be willing to monitor and enforce those standards. You will have difficulty in stopping your child's surfing activity. Your child must know your standards and realize that he or she could unknowingly engage in online activity that could be to their detriment.
Most children enjoy mingling with other people.
One of the primary reasons that malls are so popular is because they are a type of community where people can gather, mix, and associate. Chat rooms are no different. Chat rooms have and probably always will be popular to youth, and it is therefore worthwhile to explore how to help your child mingle safely. You should investigate the chat areas your child wants to frequent. Request that the chat area provide you with their policy on objectionable language.