Our will, combined with our conscience about goodness, and our ability to feel the results of true love deep within the core of our hearts, allows us to go so far as to select and choose our emotions. We have the freedom to reject anger, resentment and hatred, and the freedom to transform those ugly emotions into good ones through repentance, love, and service. It is these internal traits of mind that allow husband and wife to meet in the depths of their hearts, and become one in harmonious true love. It is these traits of beautiful sensitivity that allow us to look at our spouse and think deeply about his or her feelings and thoughts. Consider for a moment the results of many years of sacrificial love between a husband and wife.
Relationships deepen because of communication, loving service and time.
To be a moth, flitting between partners, is to deny the opportunity to reach the invisible realm of true love with one's spouse that is built upon absolute trust and commitment, and that can only happen between husband and wife. By its very nature, this invisible realm of heart and love belongs to God, as the Creator of love, rather than resultant created beings such as instinctual animals. Breaking the fidelity between husband and wife will do more than damage our own ability to co-exist in a world of love. It will without question cause pain and suffering to our spouse, our children and many other people. This reason is in itself an adequate motivation to be faithful to our spouse, and care for him or her eternally.