If you want a good relationship, you at least have to get to this level . This is where a couple tells how they actually FEEL about their Opinions and Facts. The couple share joys and sorrows together. At this level, a couple is totally truthful with each other, to the point of complete vulnerability. Now, along with GOOD communication, we all have forms of BAD communication.
Silence is born out of fear in a relationship.
Fear of pain, fear of vulnerability, and fear of inadequacy. This person is eager to please. This person wants to keep the peace at any price, and doesn't express anger well. Blaming - This person looks for faults. The Blamer has to learn to speak on their own behalf, instead of inditing others Computer Style - The Calm Cool and Collected One.