Read it only when you have time to contemplate and think it over. Don't be in a rush to respond back. Men and women mature differently and this causes a lot of problems in young marriages. They build careers, take up active sports and at home, they do work around the house. You are a bit unusual in that you contributed more at home than most.
Women are different in that they focus more on people.
They value what you do for them but not as much as how you treat them and others. How an I describe the difference. Well, when we go to work we do things for our boss. We do things for co-workers. We do things for clients.