Trust that God will guide you in soul making. Stay open to the deeper meanings embedded in your pain. Know the difference between pain and suffering. Pain is any physical or emotional anguish that comes, usually unbidden. Suffering is pain held onto.
Resistance creates persistence.
If you fight what is happening to you, it will only increase your misery and become true suffering. Drop your story. We love to tell how we are victims, how we don t deserve our fate. Telling and retelling the story only keeps us stuck in it. Check your avoidance.