The fear may last for an extended period and is best dealt with by kindness and understanding on the part of the parents. Research indicates that children's fears vary according to age, maturity, and previous learning experiences. During a disaster, children wouldencounter three out of the four major fears. This will have an impact on their ability to cope for quite some time. Another important aspect about children's fears is that fears may be intensified when adults back away from discussing the topic with children.
Many families ban all painful topics from family conversation.
Such strategies may intensify despair and negativity in children. To help children cope with fears, one of the most important steps adults can take is to talk with children. They may hit, throw, kick to show their anger. Become more active and restless. Be afraid of the disaster recurring.