In his mind it is important that he succeeds in providing for them. Like providing for his family, man is highly programmed to protect his family. The need for a man to protect his offspring should not be underestimated. When talked about in contemporary society, this word most often refers to a man's sexual ability. While this applies, it is not limited to sexual activity.
Performance encompasses man's ability to perform in various aspects of life.
Successful performance in the social arena secures friendships and helps a man achieve his desire for pleasure. Society often judges a man based on his ability to be successful at pleasure, procreation, provision, protection and performance. When a man experiences abortion, these key elements of life are seriously damaged, or often totally obliterated. Perhaps the most consistent and evident symptom in men due to loss of a child from abortion is anger. A counselor, who personally experienced the abortion decision, indicated that every man he has counseled has a higher level of anger than before the abortion.