Most aspects of the ceremony can be created and selected purely on personal preference. Legally, the requirements are minimal that is why a civil ceremony is so short. In a sacred commitment ceremony between a gay couple or a couple not opting for a legally recognized marriage, no witnesses, I dos, pronouncement or clergy is needed. In the Eastern traditions such as Hinduism and Buddhism wedding dates are decided upon with the assistance of professional astrologer. It is firmly believed marriage rites should occur on a day that reflects the most astrologically favorable aspects for love and commitment for both the bride and groom.
Many modern couples ask astrologers or clairvoyants to suggest dates.
It is not recommended that a wedding date be selected to accommodate out of town relatives or the availability of the venue. It is also not a great idea to choose to marry on the anniversary of a sad or inauspicious occasion. Selecting the venue Love between a couple is what creates a wedding altar and temple anywhere. Pick a place that is personally meaningful and sacred. Many couples are married in the same locale as the ceremony in a room or area set off from the reception Hall.