He was not a dropout. He had a quest for truth. This kind of kingdom will perish. This kind of kingdom creates fights and wars. In this way giving up becomes a receiving.
True renunciation is full awareness of the kingdom within.
That inner level will also bring deep meaning to relationships. When husband and wife inspire each other, they become beautiful company for one another. Their communication turns into an eternal communion. The idea in marriage is to work out karmas and be a complement to each other. When we live on that inner level, we communicate and find out what is our mission.