We are all born with no idea about life or the way to keep ourselves happy. As we get older we learn from experiences and change our strategies for living. Part of this experience is that we make inevitable mistakes. This is not only our right it s unavoidable. It s part of being human.
Past mistakes are nothing to feel guilty about.
On the contrary the act of recognizing and learning from them is something we should all be very proud of. Everyone learns at his or her own rate that s also part of being human. The important thing is that we get there in the end. If you are starting to acknowledge your part in past difficulties, perhaps for the first time, give yourself a large pat on the back. You ve just learned a vital lesson.