All of us - teachers and students. When you know about the skills, you have a different take on a bad fight. We didn't use any of the skills we learned. It sure doesn't work when we don't. We were nasty and ineffective.
Next time let's try to use the skills.
There is a new perspective and a couple is less likely to conclude that they are a bad match, wrong for each other. They recognize that they just aren't as good at conflict resolution and conflict management skills as they need to be. If you happen to be in conversation with those who wrote, please give them my thanks. What I liked were the people who said they had no idea about the links between suicide and divorce. You helped educate the whole list.