Take on chores that are normally your mate's. Leave loving messages on greeting cards under pillows, in cabinets or the fridge, etc. Drop all restraints while you take turns reading aloud and acting out sensuous stories. Imagine yourselves as fictitious characters and be a Rhett Butler to her Scarlet O'Hara. Maybe act out being a ravishing spy seducing a gullible American scientist.
People having fun together stay together.
Here's a personal growth guidebook that's won the admiration and recommendation of Ted Hughes, Poet Laureate of England. A commitment to test knowledge through experience. The continual refinement of the senses, especially sight, as the means to clarify experience. A willingness to embrace ambiguity, paradox, and uncertainty. The cultivation of ambidexterity, fitness, and poise.