We look too closely at ourselves and judge by standards that might just be unattainable. Be good to yourself, expect the best, don't demand it. It's never too late to start something. I really believe that - it's essential to continuing to grow and evolve as a person. It's okay to fall down sometimes as long as you get right back up and at it.
Today is goal setting day.
What one item would you like to accomplish that is work related, one item that is for personal gratification and one item that is perhaps household related. Write out what it is you want to achieve, realistically, and plan a route to achieve it. At the end of the month determine your level of satisfaction with achieving your goals. If even one aspect of your life is how you want it, then be thankful. It's a day to appreciate what you do have.