Many who abuse were either abused themselves or observed family members abusing each other. Domestic abuse cannot be blamed on genetics, illness, anger, stress or the behavior of the victim. The judge reminded the audience that men can be victims of domestic violence as well, but the overwhelming threat is to women. Although the majority of abused woman range between eighteen and forty-four years of age, they report having been abused as young children and as elderly adults. Domestic abuse knows no socio-economic or ethnic barriers as it affects all races, all religious groups, all levels of education and all categories of employment or income.
Women face formidable barriers when attempting to leave situations of violence.
In fact, forty-five percent of those who are currently abused live with the individual who abuses them, according to Judge Lamberty. She briefly addressed each of these barriers, continually reminding the audience of the difficult bond the woman has to break as these factors often combine with one another rather than operating singly. Judge Lamberty ended her presentation by suggesting several remedies. She emphasized the law and judicial system, but noted other approaches as well. The highest number of orders stems from non-marital relationships.