There won't be any responces from guys if there is a lack of communication going on. I think romantic men are rare. I think its nice to be romanced frequently, but not all the time. I believe at first men are as romantic as theyll ever be, but once the relationship is comfortable they dont feel they need to be romantic anymore. Every partner needs some romance occasionally to keep the love going and strong.
Romance tells the other that they care, and when the romance dies the relationship dies with it.
I think the problem is not just men. Women all have diferent ideas of what romantic is, so what works for one lady may seem silly to another. So instead they offer to buy your drink and dry-hump you on the dance floor. That's courting in this new millenium. However, I do think that views toward romance as well as what constitutes it are dissimilar between the sexes.