You're trying to escape rather than exploring whatever is upsetting you. A - When you are making choices, there are always tradeoffs. And you are always making choices, even when it doesn't feel that way. Not to make a choice is to make a choice by default. A breadwinner with financial and family responsibilities can step off the track.
People walk away from families.
They leave them destitute. So it's not that you don't have a choice. It's that you're not willing to take the tradeoffs of that choice. A - It is the basis from which every choice springs. We do, in fact, live according to our values, though not necessarily according to our stated values.