It is so simple. Change ultimately wins over both stasis and chaos. CR is chaos. SOM is stasis. Reality is neither stasis nor chaos as absolutes.
Reality is balance of change and stability.
MoQ offers a reality model with incremental, ethical, moral units of change. He saw nihilism as an interim, but very destructive, phase preparatory to his own philosophy. He said humanity would have to enter a dark and fallow period of nihilism to 'reset' itself, get a new start, and escape from SOM's Church of Reason. What he wanted was a grand tabula rasa of human thought. Nihilism was his tabula rasa tool .