The family should try to promote the child's self-esteem and competency, and provide support in the challenges of school or extracurricular activities and in peer group relationships. The goal for family members is to develop the flexibility to give special help when needed, but not to overprotect. Children see themselves through the eyes of their parents, and they will feel as much confidence in themselves as they feel valued. Through encouragement and praise they will gain confidence. One way that is often effective in encouraging good behavior and positive self-image is through the use of rewards.
Rewards can come in the form of treats, praise, or just a simple warm hug.
Above all, always remember to follow through on your promises. Parents of a child with TS have to walk a fine line between understanding and overprotection. They are constantly faced with deciding whether or not certain actions are the expression of TS or just poor behavior. Parents must then determine the appropriate response. Parents are urged to give their children with TS the opportunity for as much independence as possible, while gently but firmly limiting attempts by some children to use their symptoms to control those around them.