On the other hand, you have different fingers. Change is inevitable, except from a vending machine. Dates on calendar are closer than they appear to be. If you can't be kind, at least be vague. Success in life is a long, hard climb.
Nothing is foolproof to a sufficiently talented fool.
Its better to keep one's mouth shut and appear stupid than open in and remove all doubts. If you can't convince them, confuse them. If you can't beat them, arrange to have them beaten. Pride is what we have. Vanity is what others have.