But if a woman is on SSRI's and falls madly in love with someone, she will strongly want to make love. This is because the motivational component of sexual desire is far stronger than the drive part. Now, the major aphrodisiac for a woman is psychological intimacy. But when people think the desire is diminished by the SSRI's, they tend to mistakenly think that ALL desire is diminished. It is only the biological part that is diminished.
Some people like to reveal their erotic fantasies.
I have no partner. The thought of developing a relationship that will eventually involve sex frightens me. With no sexual drive I worry that I can't enjoy that type of relationship. This is esp. I guess we don't generally appreciate how we can overlook our sexual feelings and responsiveness.