We don't want to have ecstatic spiritual experiences because they are unhealthy. There is nothing more fortunate than just plainly feeling good which allows us to enjoy our daily lives. We are already spiritual. The mystery of life is everywhere. We don't have to go to church, to a synagogue, or to an ashram, and we don't have to go inward in meditation.
Spiritual development is a pathless path .
The intellectual realization that we are the spark of life is an attitude that can change every one of our thoughts. Like a rancher branding all of his cattle, an attitude leaves its mark on every thought. However, it also important to reinforce this attitude occasionally to avoid going back to the principle that we have to work to achieve some spiritual state or raise our level of consciousness . Spiritually we don't need anything because the spark of life doesn't need anything. In retrospect, I lived much of my adult life in a mild kundalini crisis due to the attitudes which accompanied my long yogic meditations.