When your daughter doesn't appear or perform according to the strict, sometimes unspoken guidelines of her peers, embarrassment crests. Strong friendships can help your child survive this difficult stage. A friend who accepts your son unconditionally can greatly increase his self-image. This, in turn, will make him less likely to be humiliated by little things. Encourage healthy friendships through after-school activities, outings and social situations.
Parents are often an acute source of unintentional embarrassment to adolescents.
No matter how loving your relationship is in private, your presence is a constant reminder that your child is not yet an adult. It's normal and healthy for an adolescent to crave independence. Talking to your child privately shows that while you're still in charge, you do respect her status as a growing young person. Praise and encourage their efforts. When kids know they are good at one thing, the importance of looking cool in everything else is diminished.