If you do not trust yourself to stay calm no matter how your partner receives your message, write a letter to your partner so that you are able to take out any language which might make your partner feel even worse. Let your partner know that you want him or her to feel better, not just so you'll be happy, but because you care about his or her general well-being. Also, be sure to give credit wherever you can for the efforts your partner is making to address sexual problems because he or she is really doing the best they can. With antidepressant medication, it could take 4 to 6 weeks before your partner notices a change in the way they feel. If symptoms like sleep disturbances, low energy and irritability persist after 6 weeks, they should talk to the doctor about dose adjustment or switching to another medication.
Recovery depends on an individual taking medication as prescribed.
It is important to note that other symptoms, such as memory lapses, sedation and lowered libido may be side effects of the medication and not the illness. Troublesome side effects should be discussed with the doctor, since such side effects may discourage your partner from taking medications as prescribed. If you experienced sexual dysfunction upon starting a new medication or with an increase in the dose of the medication, it may be a result of the antidepressant. Since intimate relationships are important, especially when coping with or recovering from depression, you should make sure to discuss your concerns with your doctor. Depending upon your situation, an appropriate medication can be prescribed to avoid these side effects.