Make sure the child knows what is expected, and show appreciation when the rules are obeyed. Set up a routine with your child to help him or her feel secure and responsible. Decide on a time for play and a time for homework and for household chores. Make sure the child has a checklist of chores that are supposed to be done. Keep healthy snacks and drinks available.
Most children are hungry when they get home from school.
Tell your child exactly when you can be expected to be home and try to be there at that time. Continually evaluate all aspects of the situation to be sure your child is receiving the best possible care you can provide. Do not be afraid to change your child-care arrangements. You must feel that the situation continues to promote his or her positive growth and development. Revised by Louise E. Davis, Ph.D., Extension Child and Family Development Specialist, School of Human Sciences.