Kindness to self or others is not always easy to come by. But you will find deep gratification in the effort spent attempting to find the third body. When the third body enters the room all is magic and the troubles of life briefly disappear. Stop treating one another as bodies to be had, trophies to be won, items to be gawked at or chided. Relationship is not about hunting, laying, taking, screwing, or victory.
Relationship is about pure kindness, intuition, communication, care, and compassion.
It is about creating not destroying. A man and a woman sit near each other, and they do not long at this moment to be older, or younger, nor born in any other nation, or time, or place. They are content to be where they are, talking or not-talking. Their breaths together feed someone whom we do not know. They obey a third body that they share in common.