And the physical effects of the birth may linger for many months afterward depending on the type of birth. Physically Natural childbirth can be fatal in a minority of cases and must be a consideration for surrogate mothers. Also a number of births result in the sterility of the mother and must be a price she is willing to pay. Emotionally It is inherent in the pregnancy that the mother will develop a emotional relationship with the baby she bears. This is designed by God for a lasting mother-child relationship.
Some surrogate mothers say they have never stopped grieving.
If the two persons live in close proximity and see one another on a regular basis then an adulterous relationship could result because of the special bond that they have because of the child. The sterile wife may also feel estrangement from her husband because the child is from her husband and another woman. Although some surrogate mothers may do it for reasons other than money, they may still be branded as someone willing to sell their child for a price. The following are possible problems that could arise that would cause real distress for all parties. What would happen if the child was retarded or had physical problems requiring special medical expenses or care for the rest of his life.