But leaving it open leads to challenges and open problems. Lord knows if something happened to myself and my H, I would not want the OW trying to collect from my parents. I got off the subject. Once again thank you. You are right, children are happy if their home life is happy and nothing else matters as much to them.
Stability is the key in their lives.
There's a lot of bitterness, resentment, and anger at the OW's over here. I don't think so. If you work through the process of forgiveness and heal yourself, you'll move past this. You should absolutely write to protest the current child support laws. They don't help families, or the children they're meant to protect.