Some will practice and practice but never quite be perfect enough. And, sadly, some others will never quite get the nerve. There is no wrong place to meet someone. If you don't look for love, you are not likely to find it. Your next lover is a stranger today.
Strangers are more likely to be boring than dangerous.
Meet by chance. Be introduced by someone else. Meet in the singles' scene. Meeting by chance is meeting at work, in your everyday life, or where you like to play. You might run into your future love while shopping, running errands, or vacationing.