Drink more coffee. Happy mama's day to you. It has been such an important resource for so many mamas. I think the most important thing that the site does is give people a mechanism to find friends in their own real communities. I have looked into Chinese and other foreign adoptions and it seems that many countries are not interested in adopting their children to single males under the age of 40.
Open adoption can be a great option.
We know lots of parents who have had luck with ads in Rolling Stone or alternative press publications. This seems a common view whether you believe in attachment parenting or spanking, organic vegan diet or red meat at every meal, etc. The truth is that there are a million ways to raise great kids. Babies are only small for a while. For real, it gets better.