I remind women that no one deserves abuse. Then I offer them a safety plan handout to take home and phone numbers for local hot lines, women's shelters, and other available resources. However, women who are going home to their abuser may not be able to take this information with them. Adapt the following information for use in your own practice. Make sure the child can provide your name and address.
Many employers have workplace violence protocols that encompass domestic violence.
Ask your friend not to tell anyone that you'll be living with her. If you can't, get into a room with a phone where you can lock yourself in and call for help. If your partner follows you in another car, drive to a police station and honk your horn until someone comes out to help you. Call a domestic violence hot line or the victim's assistance program in the district attorney's office for advice. Six items you need to make an escape 1.