By telling children the truth, parents can help them deal with the numerous reactions they will have, as well as keep good memories of the person who has passed away. This can be confusing for kids, as they go to sleep, but always wake up. Parents are encouraged to explain the physical effects of death so that children understand. They should know that when someone is dead they don't breathe, hear, see or speak. Basically, the body stops working.
Parents play a key role in helping a child to grieve.
Let them know you are hurt and sad - and it's OK if they are, too. Encourage children to express their feelings about death and to ask questions. Share good memories of the person who has died. Spend time with your child to help them get back in the daily routine, but leave time for grieving. Relieve any guilt the child may have and reassure them that they will not be abandoned.