And a pathology and values are not mutually exclusive. And he may not even be pathologic. Men have drives in the direction that he is acting out. Women should visit porn shops so they know what men want. The porn shop represents what even healthy men want.
Men are sex addicts by nature.
We are all addicted to pleasure. The more you get, the more you want. Friend said that the reason he did not fool around was that he wouldn't stop. The male sex urge is stimulated by the female. And many women have lost their visual appeal.