Couples who are close often engage in fun-loving talk about their sexuality. Conflict happens less frequently, and when it does they spend less time in it. Satisfied couples have learned techniques that work for them to resolve most of their conflicts quickly. Their discussions are goal oriented and with the interest of speedy but fair resolutions. Conflict is dealt with in a healthy manner.
Satisfied couples view their sexual conflicts as just a part of an intimate relationship.
They try to find common ground by conflict resolution skills such as compromise. The ways the two of you send and receive nonverbal messages works. This means that not only are your words understood by your partner, but your intent is also clear as well. When the nonverbals are understood less, communication snafus occur. Both partners can express their affection in words more or less equally.