Stress is a result of positive and negative experiences. Connecting with other grandparents raising grandchildren can be a lifesaver during this critical time. Establish a Routine Establishing a daily routine is invaluable to the grandparent-grandchild family. Regular mealtimes, naps, bedtimes, play areas, and toy boxes help to reduce chaos. Many grandchildren lacked consistency and structure in their previous home life and desire a lifestyle in which they feel safe.
Predictability builds trust as well as a sense of control.
Parenting newspapers available at libraries and grocery stores publish a monthly calendar of events for children. Pick one up. Grandchildren will love the exposure to new and different activities. Grandparents will love the free time. Maybe the beds got made, maybe they didn't.