Your husband has been looking at pictures that are about using people, that are about consuming them and discarding them. They're not just pictures, and he knows that. Most of the women who are in those pictures were victims of childhood sexual abuse. And they are re-enacting that victimization when they partake of the industry. So people who look at those pictures are victimizing those women all over again.
Pornography is only a symptom of a deeper problem.
It's not the problem itself. The problem is not knowing who you are in Christ, not feeling the love that He has for you, not understanding that lust is really not physical, it's emotional. It's the deep longings of the soul. Focus on the Family. All rights reserved.