An affair may seem like the easy way out, but try and discover what you're trying to avoid. Whatever you don't resolve will likely lead you to repeating the pattern with someone else, until you decide to do it differently. This search for the perfect woman is enabled to a great extent by the endless images that the media perpetuates. The truth is, when it comes to sexual fantasies, men are not easily satisfied and there are very few women who will actually undertake the project of satisfying their man. Sex for women and men is a completely different animal.
Most men are interested first in having their own needs fulfilled.
The fantasy for men is easy to understand, or at least easy to view on any newsstand, television station or movie screen. Although she comes in many shapes and sizes, some things are paramount-young and virginal. I think the female form is the most beautiful of God's creations. It's an ideal few women achieve, even in their teenage years and early adulthood, despite all the dieting and exercising. This is the fantasy ideal most men look for, encouraged by the mainstream media, which spells disaster for many men and women looking for a committed relationship.