You listen with your skin, if there are no words. The naked, trusting body itself is talking all the time, sending out an endless stream of messages, and you know the subtle gestures that communicate. Praise your spouse. Thank him or her for a gift well given. Praising preserves the gift, makes it part of your sexuality.
Pride shuts our mouths.
Don't be ashamed. There is no law to keep you silent about your bodies, about the sexual motions in them, the dampenings, the erections, all the sensations that come before a climax, the climax itself. But expressive lovemaking truly draws us inside each other. As you talk with each other, your spouse can know your body and your heart. Trust encourages your mate to present his or her whole self to you, and your honesty hides nothing from your spouse.