Rebecca has kept her vow for two years running. New research published in the American Journal of Sociology indicates abstinence pledges are working for plenty of other teens as well. On average, according to the report, teens that took chastity pledges delayed having sex 18 months more, on average, than teens that didn't. Researchers say they considered variables, such as religious background and social setting, so they believe it was the abstinence pledges alone, which accounted for the differences. Instead, parents can help the child come to that decision on their own if they consistently give kids a clear chastity message.
Researchers point out a potential pitfall in chastity pledges.
Experts say whether or not parents agree with having their child take an abstinence pledge, they should make their values on the issue of sex clear. On the health issue alone, they shouldn't shy away from reminding their children that sexual intimacy should not be taken lightly. Rebecca took a vow of chastity until marriage. But next year, she goes to college, and figures that will be the toughest test yet, of her resolve. And that's going to be when I prove to myself that this promise that I made is really real.