While debate and intelligent discussion are encouraged, harrassment, flame wars, insults and such are not tolerated, and will likely get you booted from the list, unless you can apologize for them in a way that I find believable. Sexually explicit conversation will be tolerated to a point, but should be limited to intellectual discussion of specific issues related to sexuality. No posting of erotica, as this is not an adults-only list. Light flirting on-list is also ok, but if you want to hot chat or stuff, please do it elsewhere. If it looks like the list is being subsumed in talking about sex, I will ask evenryone to end all related threads.
Sex is groovy and all, but there are other places to get into gory detail about it.
Straight, gay, bi, or whatever you call yourself, but straight couples who come on list obviously looking for a hot bi babe will be discouraged. This list is also supportive of all gender identities and physical configurations. Likewise, while I encourage people to form online relationships, personal ads will not be accepted on-list. There are other places for that stuff, please use them. No discussion of relationships involving underage persons will be tolerated, unless all partners in the relationship are underage themselves.