Life was normal. I wasn't struck down with boredom. I had cravings but lived through them and learned about my own power of self-control. My year of celibacy did end, but it ended when I wanted it to. Not everyone will choose celibacy on purpose, but I think those who do will learn a lot about themselves.
Sex is a wonderful thing, but it is as much a responsibility as a pleasure.
There's no shame in taking a break from it when you choose. It's just as important to know yourself as it is to know your partner, and a period of celibacy can give you a better perspective on both. Life Stages When dating, don't replace your feather boa with a burp rag unless you want to. Relationship Junction Start the year off right with our sassy and smart advice about love, sex, family and friends. Find out what romantic style works for you.