I may have set this situation in place so that I could use it to take back responsibility for my own life by using some discernment, and by recognizing at some deep level that what the doctor has said is incorrect. We do not need a degree in medicine to know this. All we need is to listen to our inner voice, for it is always there to serve us, and only ever tells the truth. Whether either of us actually connects with these underlying truths is up to us, but we have both created a situation of which we can take advantage. Instead of casting blame, we should take the opportunity to look a little deeper and see, at least from our own perspective, what it is that we can learn from the experience.
Nothing happens without a reason.
Nothing happens by chance and there is no such thing as an accident.