If you are the biological parent, explain that this is your new husband or wife, not a potential father or mother. But in the meantime, respect is the order of the day. Every blended family has its ups and downs. From sullen teen-agers to former spouses who would never dream of cooperating with anyone, you'll find life in a blended family is challenging. You will not be a family in one day or possibly even in one year.
Persistence is the key.
Stepfamilies are a long-term commitment. If you cultivate patience, concentrate on the positive, and keep your sense of humor, you, too, can become an effective and loving stepmom or stepdad. But setting the ground rules first will go a long way to making your new family successful. Return to Stepparents Directory. A fact of life in America today.