Playing with any cylindrical object such as a pencil, pen , stem of a wineglass or finger is often a reflection of subconscious desires. Sometimes women will even accentuate the roll of their hips when walking in front of a male they want to attract. I'd like to get to know you better. Women tend to stand with their legs apart with weight on one foot, when displaying a sign of openness or availability. Slowly crossing and uncrossing the legs while being watched by an interested male is a strong attraction signal, especially if the woman is simultaneously slightly stroking her thigh.
Women entwine their legs to draw attention.
Once the legs are crossed, sometimes a woman begins to slightly kick her top leg back and forth. This kicking or thrusting, again, displays a courting signal. Dangling one shoe while seated in a relaxed position, with one leg crossed over the other at the knee, is one of the most intense courtship signals women use to indicate interest in a male. Even when a woman keeps time to music with her head or hands, leans forward towards a male, or even sometimes brushes the male's body with her hand or breast, she is still conveying effective courtship gestures. The first step in courtship for a male is to attract attention to himself so that eye-contact can be made.