They did not yet live together. Yet because they were betrothed, in accord with Jewish law, her pregnancy made her an adulteress. And because he did something wonderful happened. Most of the time, in the context of the lives of the families whom I have served in various parishes a new pregnancy is a source of joy and celebration. I get little cards and e-mails announcing the coming birth.
Parents show up bright-eyed and excited for baptism classes.
They shop dreamily for baby items as they prepare to bring a new life into this world. Most of the time that is the way it is. Most of the time it is something wonderful. But there are times when it is not that way at all. Let me give you a few examples.