Winos drink the fresh stuff fast because it's cheap. For a table or party wine, folks like a recent vintage because the occasion isn't too special and the wine is inexpensive. Coneseurs savor a good wine slowly. That the men most women hang out with are the winos of love should give women no cause for blaming their hangovers on we who prefer good company and good wine. Yet, that is exactly what they do.
Romance is like the ignition system on an engine.
If the timing isn't just right, the engines of love won't start. As the pistons in the engine move up and down in the cylinders, the spark plugs spark, the fuel burns, and the engine runs. If the dwell is too advanced, combustion happens too soon, and the engine pings. But if the dwell is too retarded, combustion happens too late, and the engine will sputter. Love is a lot like that.