You'll be surprised how quickly and easily elegance can be achieved. You can be as smooth and elegant as your partner just by adding a few tasteful touches.
White gloves are easily obtainable and give an air of distinction.
They'd go well on your manly chest. Grandpa's old fob watch chain would add a certain something. It's quite fun when you get started. Of course, even though you're immigrants, you'll be wearin' your best clothes for the voyage. The ladies will be havin' their shawls and maybe a mob cap.