For most people, the idea that anger is love seems like total nonsense. We have been taught that anger is destructive, that by being angry we can hurt someone or get hurt ourselves. Anger becomes confused with violence.
Violence is actually a non expression of anger.
Violence comes when one does not have a healthy respect and understanding of anger enough to express it fully, completely and lovingly. Anger is a way of saying to the Universe and those in it that you deserve to be treated in ways that are unconditionally loving and respectful. Think of anger as a divine force that cleanses and makes room for something more loving to grow. When we speak of anger, we are talking about expressing anger from an understanding of the Oneness. When this happens we come to value not only our own Selves but also those of others.