If things work out, we may start having classes for men too. We have had several inquires about it and hopefully some of them actually interested in dancing, not just watching. Please let me know if you have some information. The dance is, of course, derived from a culture in which men, women and children all dance. The fact is that they may not dance at the same time, in the same settings, but they do dance with the same fervor and expression.
Point is - they are everywhere.
You write that you have no idea about instruction. Join a predominantly female class, and get started. Many teachers have little experience teaching men, but can give the basics that can be adapted to the body, as necessary. Keep an eye out for workshops. Don't be intimidated, and think you must have some degree of expertise in the dance, in order to attend.