The first column will correspond to the number by the character list. The second will be the name of an individual on your list above. Do a table for each individual that you have on your list. From those tables you should be able to determine what type of support you can expect from each one. You can also see where you might be able to improve the type of support you give them.
Relationships are always the responsibility of both parties involved.
It is never just one person that destroys a relationship. Part of the problem is that each person has expectations, some of which they are not even aware. Expectational journalling is one of the best techniques to help with this. Look at how the individual rates for support. This will tell you if you are getting the support that you need.