He wishes we would learn how to respond when life is unfair - lemons. Deal with actions, words, attitudes. Rich use, abuse others. Makes me angry. Describes the attitude which can endure delay and bear suffering and never give in.
Patient people have a long fuse.
God knows it. And patience is hardest when you need it the most. 1st characteristic of love in 1 Cor. 13. Life is a learning experience. Wife bitter at husb.