At that time, my son was just two months old, and I was out of touch. When it was time to enroll him in school, I realized that Islamic schools are not always viable choices for parents and that often there is no choice but public schooling. Rather than complain, we, as Muslim parents, should be positive and realistic and must maintain clear visions when we seek other alternatives that would help our children recover what they have been denied, by being enrolled in public schools. Therefore, it is especially incumbent on the parents of public school children to re-double their efforts in supporting their children through Islamic values. Public school environments often reflect non-Islamic ideals and behaviors, making it difficult for children to adhere to their beliefs.
Parents play the most vital role in a child's life.
Therefore, our kids need our support so that they can be proud of being Muslims. Having different traditions, cultures, and values make it difficult for them to deal with the challenges they may face. Without our support they may not be able to overcome those obstacles. But, if we teach them, in the early stages of their lives, that it is neither a shame nor a deprivation to be different and unique, we will help them confront peer pressure and refuse un-Islamic behavior in the future. If we teach them to respect others' values, they will expect reciprocity and will be more steadfast in their beliefs and behavior, despite difficulties that may arise.