Suggest other choices, show him other ways to do it, or teach him to ask for help when he needs it. When dealing with discipline, always address the child's behavior, not the child. Do not tell him that he is bad for spitting. Tell him what he does right, not what he did wrong. Try to reward their positive behavior.
Positive feedback is the best way to reinforce positive behaviors.
Let kids know that it is OK to feel angry, but that the way to deal with anger is to express how mad they are with words. If you slap, hit or spank, it shows your child that you approve of hitting in anger. If you have questions about discipline, talk with your healthcare provider or a family counselor. All rights reserved. Information in this document is subject to change without notice.