Some people prefer this position because it allows a woman to move her pelvis to accentuate the stimulation. If you are a more meticulous giver of oral sex, you may not like this position because it is difficult to place your tongue right where you want it. Couples who wish to engage in playful dominance-submissive role playing might like to try standing while the other partner performs oral sex on his or her knees. Feeling comfortable If you feel uncomfortable about performing or receiving oral sex, don t do it. It is better to stop, relax and communicate about your feeling with your partner before you begin.
Oral sex involves very intimate areas, in the most intimate ways.
It explores tastes, smells and feelings unlike any other form of lovemaking. Feeling comfortable about your body and your partner may take time, and you should take all the time you need. The results will be better for both of you. You will never know what your partner wants or finds satisfying unless you talk to them. If it is your first time with a particular partner, communication may seem uncomfortable.