The equal but opposite nature of each gender's concern often makes for comic misunderstandings and lost moments. It can unknowingly part a man and woman who are well suited to be each other's. The difference can detour positive energy away from a relation's better direction. Men are deeply concerned about the moment of first meeting. They usually assume that if this goes well then good things will follow of themselves and otherwise they must try their luck elsewhere.
Men see women as portals to a better world and a kingdom of joy.
In men's eyes a female guards her treasure well and must be won quickly in that first meeting or she will vanish, not to be seen again. The likely prospect of no second chance makes men anxious about their first meeting with a woman. Most of the time men are left clueless with how blithely a woman can leave the moment as if another one were a breath away. The next opportunity is usually just a breath away in pursuing her but most men take her leave as final. His hopes live in the idea of enjoying the relation with her after making his critical first connection.