Here is the twist, Rather than take this laying down, I set to work to stop her. Really a lot of fun. This is how they get your e-mail address. Also there is a FBI section that handles internet fraud. The Russian postal agency.
Trick is to make it almost impossible to get the money.
Then keep at the officials and providers to stop them. And heck I just started ha. Message here is don't take this. For one it is not fair to the sincere ladies out there. With enough pressure they will fall.