Offer them to the Lord constantly. Give counsel according to the directions given in context. Don't be worried about mis-representing the Lord or the Church. He has chosen you for this work and will protect you. You carry the sword of truth.
Nothing happens accidentally.
Everything is gifted providentially. Therefore, the Lord will allow a particular situation to benefit the person in ways undiscovered by man. Yet, don't look at situations with the eyes of man. Put on the mind of Christ. See things only through His perspective and the vision will be clear.