Shame, fear of revenge or rejection, and the trauma of a court trial are common reasons for failure to report a sexual offense. Rape is most often motivated by extreme anger toward the victim or a need to overpower the victim. The motive is rarely sexual and violence is not always involved. Forced sex is intended to abuse, humiliate, and dehumanize the victim. Fifty percent of all rapists are under the age of 25 and most rapists average ten rapes before they are caught.
Studies indicate that rape occurs most frequently with someone the victim already knows.
Drug and alcohol abuse are frequently related to sexual offenses. The effects of rape are both physical and psychological. If you are sexually assaulted, do not wash or douche. Call the police to report the incident, then go to a hospital. The doctor will give you a thorough physical exam, including a pelvic exam, to determine the extent of your injuries.