Tips from Survivors For survivors, the beginning of their reactions to the death of loved ones is the death notification process. It is important that death notification be handled as well as possible because it is the critical point of trauma for most survivors. Properly done, it can begin a healing process. When it is done improperly or without insight into the survivor's possible reactions, it may delay the process of reconstructing the survivor's life for years. You never know when you are making a death notification.
Many people think of death notification in terms of the notification of next of kin.
Clearly there are many additional family members who need notification and who might react with strong emotions. In addition, there are often colleagues, and even long-time acquaintances who may be severely affected by a notification. Be sure someone is with the person being notified Take another person with you when you notify family Victim's families should have victim advocate immediately First prepare the person that you have some terrible news to give them Notify in person Have a friend or family member present Have a Chaplain present Basic facts should be given in clear terms Tell about procedures, i.e., body release, etc. Don't have several policemen staring at you Transportation should be offered to identify body, etc. Do not be judgmental as to reaction of bereaved Police should notify D.A.'s office for address of next of kin.