Whether you are male or female, a cigar is a sine qua non of this activity. You needn't light it, but it must be carried in the hand or mouth. The Tao of hose sweeping is meditation and the pondering of the imponderables of the universe. A weekend is also perfect.
Relaxation is key.
As is clothing. Here you see the Forward Swoosh . This motion is used to push the dirt, sand and other debris on your driveway toward some point about 10 to 12 feet in front of you. There is no good reason for doing this. So, just do it.