Many people have real challenges in their relationships with other people.
Whether your challenges are manifest by the way you interact or react to a spouse, a parent, a brother, a sister, a friend, an acquaintance, an employer, an employee, or a co-worker is determined by your past feelings and how they have registered inside you. This means more than a grudging realization that you'll never again be some way that you used to be or some way that you wish to be. This allows you to stop judging yourself negatively, which invariably brings forth feelings of blame, shame, guilt, or fear and escalates the cycle of anxiety and tension. Getting along with others can be simple or complicated, depending on how you look at it. Someone comes in to be waited on.