Tips for parents Help your child feel lovable and capable The two key ingredients of self-esteem are feeling loved and capable. Parents can foster this in many little ways every day. It is important to your child that you listen, take his feelings seriously, and spend time alone with him. You also can show your respect and support by allowing your child to make decisions, respecting your child's possessions, and expressing love with words and hugs. As children grow older, they begin to discover that they have special talents and interests.
Parents can help by providing opportunities for children to experiment with different activities.
Children who enjoy sports might be encouraged to try out a variety of activities such as soccer, basketball, softball, or swimming. An interest in music might lead to piano lessons or church choir. A nature buff might wish to join the Scouts or 4-H. Remember the focus is to explore a variety of interests. Try not to push or overdo any one thing at a particular time. Childhood should be a relaxed, stress-free time for discovery and experimentation.