You don t see who you re actually talking to, so you have to be careful and general. Get invested in something else. It sounds like you re holding onto something that s not all there. To really, really love someone, I think you have to take the time to know them. No way, according to Lola.
Relationships can break up friendships.
Lola also told Kass that The Boston Globe s Calendar section, which comes out every Thursday, is an innovative way to rub elbows with new people. The weekly listing includes lectures, concerts and clubs all activities that invite potential romance.