We need to learn to do what is right, regardless of past bad experiences. Instead of looking for comfort, ease, and fun, let us find joy in simply doing the right thing. Jump ahead and look back. Many little things will appear less urgent when looked upon from a distance. There are things that only seem big or relevant for the moment.
Mature people are people who have learned to drop things that aren t worth fretting over.
Stop over analyzing the flaws in others. If we look hard enough we will find flaws in everyone.