You contributed to the problem somehow. Every problem has met its match somewhere. Every problem is pregnant with a possibility. No problem is totally impossible. Every problem is temporary.
Problems are frequently just distortions.
A problem is just a decision waiting to be made. When you can adopt the positive attitude that problems are O.K., then you have a solution to the embarrassment that problems can bring. If you have a problem, don't be embarrassed about it. Problems are natural. So often in my role as a pastor, I have seen embarrassment hold people back from seeking the help they need.