Eventually spoiled children become hard for even their parents to love because of their behavior. Because they don't get along well with other children and adults, spoiled children eventually become unhappy. They may show decreased motivation and perseverance in their school work. There is also an association with increased risk-taking behaviors during adolescence, such as drug abuse. Overall, spoiling a child prepares a child poorly for life in the real world.
Parents have the right and the responsibility to take charge and make rules.
Adults must keep their child's environment safe. Age-appropriate discipline must begin by the age of crawling. If your kids like you all the time, you're not being a good parent. Require cooperation with important rules. Your child must respond properly to your directions long before he starts school.