On college campuses, the majority of reported rapes happened in residence halls and fraternity houses. Sexual assault does not happen to men. In our society, men are expected to be in control, powerful, and never afraid. Same sex assault is a traumatic and potentially life-threatening experience. It is typically more violent than opposite sex assault and there is usually more than one assailant and use of a weapon.
Serious injury is common.
Be aware that a survivor may just be figuring out what has happened. Be patient and allow the survivor to sort out what has happened. Be a good listener. Recognize and confront your own myths . Rape myths help us preserve our own sense of security, but will interfere with our ability to provide effective support for a survivor.