They just can no t keep their hands off each other. But as time goes by the thrill w ears off and sex becomes less intense as the demands of everyday life set in. After a year or two and perhaps the arrival of children, sex may drop to the bottom of the agenda. Once a pattern is established of having sex infrequently, or not at all, it can be hard to get back to a regular and satisfying love life. Most relationships go through phases like this, but there i s no reason to think that the passion has gone forever.
Many couples find their sex life matures as they do and become more meaningful and satisfying.
If you can identify with any of these, you will need to tackle the root cause before you can work on improving your sex life. Counsellors often find the lack of sexual desire stems from a basic dissatisfaction within a couple's relationship. Problems like these need working through, since only when you feel better about your relationship is there a chance of your sex life improving. Try talking with your partner about how to make things better. Counselling can be very helpful if your problems seem to daunting to tackle alone.