For him - the music is how he worships, he studies the Bible extensively on his own and needs only a minimum of teaching from the pulpit. For other people - music is nothing and should only last a few minutes, followed by extensive preaching. If you are not looking forward to your church service - you need to find another church. There are more and more churches available every day that feature upbeat, exciting music - and people are flocking there. But a warning - if the preaching isn't on target, they have a large turnover.
Truth is truth from any pulpit, and the spiritual hunger can only be filled by correct doctrine.
Traditional churches, in most cases, are full of frustrated people - wondering where all their teenagers, college students, and young families went. Sad - really sad. I received a visit just the other day - from a Baptist church up the street. It is also excellent to deter cults from knocking, and it should encourage churches who are performing visitation to concentrate on unsaved people in other houses. Anyway, a friendly black lady had two teenage girls with her, and after initial introductions - she solicited us to come to her church.