When we can be kind and forgiving in this way to ourselves we are better able to be that with others. Unconditional and forgiving self-love fosters unconditional and forgiving love of others. The Vibration of Self-Love How you feel about yourself has a lot to do with how others feel about you. Sometimes how people feel about themselves is obvious in their appearance. We may feel that someone who walks with a severe slump, or doesn't meet our eyes, or speaks in a barely audible voice has a low opinion of herself.
Some people speak their opinions of themselves.
Often, though, it's not that clear. Inside, though, we may be riddled with doubts about ourselves. We may be nervous about how our remarks or appearance are received. This way we avoid the fear of rejection by not taking a risk. In order to have loving relationships with others we must have loving relationships with ourselves.