He is from Australia and very helpful. This information came from APC from a mother who took her daughter to China to adopt their second daughter. It's been edited for clarity. Here's some info to consider if you are thinking of taking a young child with you to China. The trip can be very difficult.
Some children cope better than others.
We really wish we had done this. It would have been another sympathetic person to deal with the first child while the second was bonding with the parents, and an extra pair of hands to help with luggage, thrown toys, squabbling, etc. It also would have meant another hotel room where we could have taken turns retiring to get naps, calm down, etc. In fact, even if you don't take an extra adult along, perhaps you could get another hotel room for this purpose. More sleep would have turned our nightmare trip into more of an unpleasant daydream.