I m learning in my ripening to take better care of myself. Beauty is many things besides just how a person looks. I suppose another aspect of living here, is that there is less emphasis on just the surface of things. Some people would come here and hate it. I have one relative who likened it to drug rehab.
Some people are uncomfortable with nothing to do.
There is actually a lot to do, but not a lot of distractions. You have time to reflect. But I understand, that kind of reflection can be quite painful. Okay, laughing, having a good time, breathing, just embracing life. I will go back to work soon, but right now I am living my life and raising my children.