I don't think women are oppressed like they were in years past. Yes, we have to work like crazy to accomplish what we want to do, but I don't think this is oppression. We're free to work in different professions, free to have a career or not, free to be independent. I agree with you that Woolf was convincing in her conclusion where she gave advice to women.
Motivation is a key for women reaching their goals.
If a woman is not motivated, I believe this is when she begins to believe she is being oppressed. As we have both commented on, we both agreed with Woolf that women are hard on women. Our discussion is class was interesting. I felt almost nervous to bring up the subject - probably just as you were about how you believe women aren't oppressed in today's society. I was thankful, though, that people piped up with their opinions on the attitudes of women toward women.