The major concern for men is the object of their desire. They also pursue money, sports, and cars with almost equal passion. Some would say that our society is cursed with this constant pursuit of the object. I say we need balance. Women know best how to create.
Men know best how to achieve.
Both are essential elements in maintaining a balance for men and women. However the lack of balance has brought us to a precipice where the survival of the race and the planet are at stake and the achievers so bent on achieving have a difficult time recognizing this important fact. The object rather than the whole is a battle that has been waged, and for the past 5000 years, the masculine point of view of achieving has prevailed. There has been an imbalance. The point is not to stop achieving because that's when humans are happiest.