As I noted, three themes emerged. They make things happen, and they don't rely on, nor blame, fate or other people. To me, that's what separates the wheat from the chaff. And, relationships aren't something you can just go out and acquire, they're something you have to build and nurture over time. They take time, energy, and personal investment.
Relationships enrich our lives.
They make it possible for us not only make to succeed, but also to share our success. But, the calls and e-mails I got from employees meant even more. I feel that deep bonds with other people are key to a successful life experience. You need a place to vent, and a place to share successes and defeats so they stay in perspective. The third success strategy that emerged from my discussions and experience is resilience.