Communicating with Young Children Communicating with Young Children Peggy O. Harrelson , Extension Specialist, Child Development, Virginia State University Introduction Communicating positively with young children helps them develop confidence, feelings of self-worth, and good relationships with others. It also helps make life with young children more pleasant for children and parents. Positive communication focuses on respect for the child and involves both speaking and listening. Communication is what we say and how we say it.
Positive communication leads to nurturing relationships, cooperation, and feelings of worth.
Adults sometimes have difficulty communicating positively with children when feelings are involved-either their own or the child's. There are ways for parents to improve their communication with children. Get the child's attention before speaking Children can only concentrate on one thing at a time. Look directly at the child and call her name. A touch on the shoulder or taking her hand will help get her attention.