I don't want to be a nag, but I do want my husband to take a more active part in the marriage. He tells me that this is simply his personality and there is nothing he can do to make a difference. I feel that he does not love me. Thanks for the note about your unresponsive husband. This is one of the major differences between men and women.
Most women come into marriage with every gift to have a wonderful relationship.
Most of the time a man comes into marriage with very few. I'm not a traitor to my own sex. I am simply stating a fact. Most churches earn zeros in teaching men what women need. Our pastors didn't know because they were men.