Safe sex is protection from people that would extort or exploit or blackmail. I feel very safe, knowing that I have had sex with only one woman in my life, my very sexy wife. And I have to be very honest and tell you that nobody has enjoyed sex more than I have. You can't carry your previous friends into your marriage unless they happen to be good friends of your mate as well. If either of you has difficulty with any of your old companions, then it is best to let those old relationships fade away.
Marriage is the time to establish a whole new set of friends.
Marriage comes first before your old buddy or your old girlfriend. It is significant when a father gives away a daughter. That act states that the bride and groom's first commitment is, from now on, to their mate. It is never wise to make unkind comments about your spouse's relatives. Unfortunately there are too many people today who look for happiness through chemical stimulation s rather than through real and lasting relationships with their spouse.