So we agreed communication was important, and agreed to think about it and reconvene soon, so our project could continue. Scheduling required immediate work on the project, so we delayed the conversation, but the feelings were good. When we finally approached the subject, he added one new requirement, small, but it took me over the edge. I couldn't talk about it right then. Thank goodness for the teachings and example of my good friend Serge King and Huna.
Serge is very accessible on second level.
It was too late at night to phone him and yet my telepathic call was answered. This usually happens in the form of inspired knowingness but this time it came in the form of a dream. I had to laugh about the situation, and so poignant, I had to get it. My first and old habit of reacting with anger, defensiveness, and then letting go of even the friendship if need be, would most likely produce similar responses in the other person. So I let the wisdom of another way, the way of love, have a voice.