Men and relationships just tend to complicate things. I guess I'm too independent. So you see - sex gives you too much trouble. People have different ways of looking at things. To me, it's not that important and that doesn't make me boring or retarded or anything.
Sex means different things to different people.
Not that sex is always great. If so, I went too far. I will say that a good sex life makes most people feel more fulfilled. And that seems to be the problem for you. You know that sex is about sharing and trusting and opening up yourself to another human being.