She frequently visits friends on her own, while Charles goes to Boston every month to lunch with former work colleagues. The Dunlaps also have separate interests. Mary serves on the board of Boston Cecilia and the Brookline Friendly Society. Hugh serves on the board of a Rhode Island nursing home and the development board of Boston University School of Education. The Dunlaps say they feel free to choose activities they want to do.
Older people have something to contribute.
Mary Moriarty, a part-time librarian at St. John's Seminary, sees her husband's retirement as a new journey that will evolve over time. For now, they have more time to walk together, heading frequently to Jamaica Pond, a favorite route. They are active in their parish. They are also planning a trip to Ireland together this year. It's nice to have him cook and do a load of laundry,'' she says.