Women become a volcano. In our life, conviction, love, sex are very important. If you do zazen, you can control everything. No need to try to run from sex. The subconscious is very important.
Repetition is very important.
Originally, the characteristics of each person are pure, holy, but karma influences them. If you do zazen, unconsciously, naturally, automatically, you can find the truly pure spirit and become a saint, Buddha. But, if you have something in the subconscious, you cannot. If you have the conviction, you can do anything. It is not necessary to fall into fatalism.