He plucked a condom package from a drawer, opened it and efficiently rolled it down the shaft of my penis. The condom was black. I thought he was dressing my penis up for a little funeral. This did not look or feel sexy to me and I consequently lost my erection. Sometimes condoms fail even when they don t break.
Nobody likes condoms.
I said it. After seven years as a safer sex educator and counselor, speaking with hundreds of men and women about their sex lives, I can tell you without a trace of uncertainty that human beings prefer to do it raw. Nobody likes to buy condoms. Nobody likes to wear condoms. I figured that out just living in the southeast all my adult life.