When we experience attraction to someone, all sorts of hormonal changes go on in our bodies. Other people find the hormone cocktail that comes with sex so intoxicating that they compulsively prowl for the next partner, hoping to re-create that buzz. Of course, like other mood-altering substances, this hormonal cocktail can cause problems. Just as some people swing between euphoric highs and painful lows as their drug of choice kicks in or wears off, the whole dating scene can feel like a ride on a runaway roller coaster. Gay dating patterns are different from non-gays' because men and women have different styles of dating.
Women seem to make attachments more easily than men do.
Men often prefer to keep their options open, may be slow to commit and more likely to find sex a recreational activity rather than a prelude to a commitment. A U-Haul trailer. Taking time to look at our patterns in relationships is an important part of personal grow and getting more satisfaction out of life. If you are waiting around for happiness and expecting it to show up in the form of Mr. Right, you may have a long wait. Better, perhaps, to take a look at what you can do to get your need for intimacy met in ways which are more likely to get you what you want.