It is a selfish behavior. We need to believe in god, believe in our families, and believe in ourselves. And just as importantly, believe in reality. I pray for no more destructive outcome, no more broken families,hearts and dreams from the misuse of the internet. I have read in too many responses here about the bad devastating effects of internet temptations that came to an action.
Most common outcome is the destructive loss of the family, and marriage.
I guess most men and women will wake up, maybe too late, only to find they are the big looser. And the grass on the other side is a burned up field. My husband had an affair over the net. She came from Austraila to meet him .