Control does not mean being in control of everything, but it does mean being in control of that which you have committed yourself. Control means not being manipulated or frustrated by people or events. Control means following an agreed plan. Control means authority . By being responsible for yourself, you will be in a key position to accept responsibility for others and their trust in you will be well founded.
Responsibility means confrontation.
Total responsibility means measuring your achievement quotient. Never let an exception occur. Always be on time. Do the important and productive things first. Look for principles and key factors in every important discussion.