If the massage giver carefully matches breathing with the receiver, it will increase the depth and power of the connection. Plus, after matching breathing, the giver can begin to breathe more slowly and deeply and the breathing of the receiver will probably match and also slow and deepen. Many different methods are used to prepare the energetics of the space and control the energies during the massage. A common one is to sit for a few minutes in meditation after preparing the space and invite healing spirits to join you and aid you in your work. Healing has always been an important part of the Craft.
Most traditions have goddesses and gods known for their healing skill and power.
Research to learn which ones are the most compatible with your energy. During your meditation, request that they join you and guide you during the massage. Placing statues, icons, stones, crystals, elements and other sacred objects around the room can invite the energy they represent to be present and to assist. As you do massage consciously, your skill in stepping aside from your own agenda and just being present will increase. Massage gives as much pleasure and healing to the one giving as to the one receiving.