The court can enter a protective order that prohibits one person from committing family violence against another. The protective order usually goes so far as to prohibit one person from even going near the other person's residence or place of employment. A copy of the protective order is given to the police. Your spouse cannot waive the requirements of a protective order. If you have been involved in family violence, either as a victim or as the abuser, I urge you to get professional counseling.
Professional counseling can break the cycle.
Also please let me know the details so we can discuss a protective order. After all papers are filed, there is usually a delay of several months before a judge can hear the case. During this time, the attorneys for both sides try to help the parties settle financial questions and other differences. The husband and wife may sign a written statement agreeing to a particular division of marital property and financial obligations. This document may also include the wishes of the husband and wife concerning child custody, support and alimony.