Attitude, atmosphere, and power of suggestion are of primary importance when setting the mood. You can start delighting the senses by including sight, sound, smell, taste, and touch in your pleasuring. Turn your life into a garden of sensual delights. Take a few minutes to arrange candles and flowers, create a circle of rose petals, or lay a trail of flower petals leading to the boudoir or table laden with goodies. You may wish to select special sensuous clothing, something to attract, arouse, or enhance certain features, perhaps using diaphanous fabrics and silks.
Music can soothe the savage beast and it can also arouse the sensual creature.
Sounds can be a great inspiration and can include the yums and aaahhhs of eating as well as the moans, groans, grunts, and gasps of primitive passion. Try reading or sharing erotic stories and poems. Plan a passion picnic outdoors, where you can be inspired by a babbling brook, ocean waves, or any of the wondrous sounds of nature in a forest. Speak to your lover in an arousing manner. Touch is the ultimate sensual and sexual sensation.