Any help you can give me will be really appreciated. Leaving one's home and accepting assistance is difficult at any age. Giving up independence, admitting that help is needed is some of the most traumatic events in an adults life. Now, after saying that, I'll also tell you that I have talked with many seniors after they have moved into a retirement community and most have admitted that it has been a pleasant experience. One of the most important benefits of living in an assisted living type community is the security of 24 hour assistance.
Many seniors living at home also become isolated which can lead to loneliness and depression.
Living in a congregate setting among peers your own age offers many social and well being benefits.