When death and loss come, it can have a devastating affect upon those which are left behind. A better understanding of the grieving process may help us in ministering to people when tragedy strikes. Those that have suffered from loss will be quick to tell you that time itself is one of the great healers. Because memory is selective, we lay aside the painful thoughts that surround death, and remember the joyful events of life. Time also allows for a period of adjustment, which is one of the most distressing symptoms of grief.
Schedules have to change.
Relationships and lifestyle take on an entirely new perspective. One woman, who had lost her husband to a heart attack, shared with me during a grief support group that she was forced to find employment for the first time in her life. Her income went down and she had to move from her home of many years. Now dependent upon government support, she was at the point of nervous exhaustion. This eases the stress and makes it easier for them to deal with the loss.