A feeling of guilt may also be present for a youth who loses a loved one during this distancing period of their adolescence. Academic changes Overt risk taking behaviors Feeling overly guilty or resentful Bullying or fighting Inability to have fun Self depreciating behaviors Experimentation in drugs, alcohol or sex Conceal their feelings Over-achieving behaviors Taking on adult role of caretaker to survivors Try to take the place of the deceased Watch for the above signs, which may clearly indicate that your teen's grief may becoming unhealthy. If he or she is experiencing any of the above symptoms, seeking the professional medical advice from your health care provider is advised. As adults we need to support our teens through the grieving process. Teens need caring, compassionate adults who will guide them through the wide variety of emotions they will be feeling.
Support groups are beneficial to the healing process, especially when they are peer led.
Check with your local school, church or community center or check with a private therapist. There are many ways parents can encourage their teen to heal. Be patient and realize your teen will heal when he is ready to. Encourage them to get out their emotions. Releasing emotions helps anyone deal with them more effectively and more quickly.