Psychic insight requires you to focus your intuition without the distracting clutter of random thoughts. You have to train yourself to quiet your mental hustle and bustle in order to hear that distant voice. This requires practice, trust and, very often, training. I would be interfering with the natural unfolding of your life. To take that away from you is to tamper with your life and leave you powerless.
Personal growth requires individual effort.
A psychic cannot make changes or create your life for you. A psychic can help you gain perspective and understanding, so you can direct your life with both eyes open. To answer this question, it may help to redefine a relationship. A relationship is a rich interchange between two people that offers each the opportunity to know oneself better. Relationships are alive, they are talking mirrors that give us ongoing feedback.