The answers are not always clear. Often, the heavy drinkers seek the excuse of a real or imagined grievance in order to justify their flight to the alcohol world. It is then when they need a loving and committed spouse, companion or friend to push them relentlessly toward a treatment that is absolutely essential and may change their life radically for the better. Studies have estimated that forty to sixty million Americans have a relative or a close friend who has alcohol problems, and needs help. There are many sources that can offer effective help and assistance.
Many work places offer free and fully confidential counseling.
Furthermore, there are outside psychological and counseling services including Alcoholics Anonymous and a multitude of private providers. The penalties for not seeking treatment for an alcohol problem are so heavy and the rewards of successful treatment are so great that neither the person with the problem nor a devoted relative or friend, can stand passively by. There is true greatness in frankly acknowledging an obstacle and struggling to overcome it, particularly when doing so would save a life.