Do not meet him or her alone. Do not let him or her in your home or car when you are alone. Avoid being alone at school, your job, or on the way to and from places. Always tell someone where you are going and when you plan to be back. Plan and rehearse what you will do if he or she becomes abusive.
Most teens talk to other teens about their problems.
If a friend tells you things that sound like his or her relationship is abusive, here are some suggestions on ways to help. Don't ignore signs of abuse. Talk to your friend. Express your concerns. Tell your friend you're worried.