He notices that you are very stubborn. Your life gets back to normal. Work and school take on importance again. You discover that you are behind in your schoolwork. He discovers that his finances are in trouble - due to wining and dining you so much.
Reality sets in.
But since you have been on a fantasy trip, you do not know what reality is. You may even learn how to argue with each other and still come away feeling loved and respected, though you may still disagree. No long-term relationship can survive, in my opinion, until you have learned to wrestle with differences and come out whole, not torn to pieces. During these periods, you may need to take a break from each other. Trying to find your common bond is exhausting.