That's because there is none. Or until you wanted to make love to him, whenever that may be. He understands getting angry at refusal was wrong, but I was trying to make him see that it was selfish to ask under certain circumstances and he doesn't get that one. He thinks sex in marriage is an obligation. It is not.
Sex is an expression of love.
Many days the only way I can work is to alternate Tylenol and ibuprofen every 3 hours to keep the fevers down. I also have seasonal depression which was pretty major several years ago but is pretty well controlled now with medication. He's always been impatient with my problems and acted like if I had better self-control it would be better. Treated me like my illnesses were psychosomatic. There should be consideration on his part.