But to them, it is a major problem. It s easy to tell people answers to their problems. Though this may solve the one problem, this is usually a poor approach in the long run. Rather than dispensing advice, help group members find their own answers. Help group members see the real root of the problem instead of the surface indications.
Some people are dramatic.
When we listen to them talk, we can get caught up in their dramas. As leaders, we can t afford to do this. We must remain impartial and level-headed. Scripture says wisdom is found in many counselors. Call on pastors or counselors.