My mom would always tell my things like if you lost five or ten pounds you would be so much prettier. That really hurts. When as a young girl and teenager you think you already have to be perfect to be accepted hearing somthing like that from your parents in truly devastating. A person should be loved for who they are and not their weight. As many of us know that this is not true in our world.
People make judgements based on our weight and apperance.
I can understand how you might be hurt and frustrated. I would love to talk some more with you.