If you do meet someone you want to chat with outside the game, it is ok to ask for their icq number or email address, but pestering the whole server to join any clan just makes you look desperate. The name 'player' is always associated with people who have never played TFC before, so everyone on the server will expect silly behavior from them and quite often treat then badly and avoid being on their team. Ironically, some of the very best TFC players will often change their name to player when they don't want to be recognized. I guess they do this because they feel people aren't tolerant enough of new players and so like to teach others the lesson that you shouldn't judge a player just by his name. As you may know, medics and engineers have the ability to heal their team members.
Medics give health, engineers give armor.
This is a very helpful way to keep team members who are not near a respawn alive. However, imagine how frustrating it is when a defensive soldier is in the heat of a battle with an enemy and an engineer keeps standing right in front of him, trying to hit him with a spanner. If they wont stand still, don't try to chase them, just stand still and wait for them to come to you. If they start shooting at someone, get well out of the way. Give way to oncoming traffic.