Gang members are looking for someone to listen and understand them. Their parents do not give them that love and understanding. Because of the lack of communication, they leave their families and join a different kind of family. The only problem with that family is that there is a great bundle of hatred created. The key reason is lack of communication.
Many couples fight over finances and lack of love.
There is not an easy flow of talking involved. In order for a marriage to last the couple needs to talk often and be open with one another. It is obvious that talk is not cheap. Talk is more vital today than ever. Bray s essay clearly observes that we need to talk more to each other.