Guest1, I think you are wanting something else out of this chat than the others. Glad to help. Easier, that is. That's what many thousands of people do. It may sound weird, but actually having romantic relationships through letters is an old-fashioned way for lovers to court one another.
Most people do try to meet eventually.
Some even decide to move in together. OK, I'm starting to get the idea. Go slow, don't be over-anxious, aim for sensual. If you start licking her as if you haven't had a meal in a few weeks it might not produce the desired effects. I want you to feel free to tell me your sexual fantasies.