That's listen, not obey. When you keep the media under your discerning control, you will have much more time to dialogue with your children. Learn what is going on in their developing minds and guide them with your own responsible judgment. Live as a responsible adult who's on top of life, and let them learn what this means. Teach them that beer is not a kind of soft drink with a buzz.
Maturity means, most of all, a sense of responsibility.
Remember that your children may forget most of the details of what you teach them, but they will remember what was important to you. Do not offend Him and do nothing that would betray what you learned in our family. We will pray for you everyday.