Some families are already living in poverty, or are pushed into it when older children can't find jobs. These figures refer only to young people who are single and without children. This gives us some estimate of the percentage of this age group who are likely to be dependent on their parents for at least some financial support. Expectations which both parents and children have about the future are called into question. Parents may feel anxious or even guilty if they can't help their children in some way.
Young people become frustrated, depressed, discouraged and lose confidence.
They are often unwilling to ask for and accept support even if it is available. Most want to be independent and don't like being placed in a child-like position by being too reliant on parents. Many parents will be aware that a brash, apparently selfish and aggressive attitude on the part of their older children may cover feelings of anger and humiliation at being so dependent. Unemployment may increase the difficulties. Parents who have expected reduced financial responsibility for their older children, and gradual separation from them, find they have to adjust to a different reality.