Yours was a tricky situation and almost everybody gets it wrong. When someone pulls away from you, that's the time to ignore them, not give them more attention. Ignore his e-mail. He doesn't deserve an answer. He just wants to keep you on a string and he just wants to make you crazy.
Time is always a good test of a man's love.
If a man doesn't make time for you, he's just not interested. Find someone else. Submitting a Question to this column We regret that it isn't possible for Dr. Tracy to answer all of the hundreds of questions submitted to this column each week. Dr. Tracy selects the three questions which are of the most general interest to the visitors here. Many of the most beseeching, desperate messages I get are not answered in this column because the answer is just a couple of clicks away in my Love Library .