We need to work hard on self-control on a daily basis and to handle situations as Christ would want us to with love, and kindness trying to understand both sides of a problem. And that might be a hard pill for us to swallow. If we learn to control our tongues, we will keep those friendships alive and healthy. As Christians, we try very hard to be Christ-like and not hurt others and to set the proper example. It will take work on our part.
Words have the power to encourage, build, praise, reveal love and heal.
The wrong words spoken can destroy, conquer, tear apart, and remain forever hard to take back, remembered by the injured person. But in the long run, how long it will take to undo the damage done by words spoken in anger without thinking about what was being said. We need to surround ourselves with people who are positive and encouraging. Do not be afraid or too proud to ask for help if there is a problem with anger that is continuously getting one into trouble. Above all else, remember, our Father in heaven can walk with us if we are trying to live the Christian life.