The victim needs words of support, not words of blame. She needs the responsibility for the violence to be put on the perpetrator. The question is not why doesn't she leave, but why does he continue to abuse her. You should just dump him. It seems like he is controlling, overly jealous, etc.
Perpetrators operate from a different reality.
If I did, I won't get caught. If I get caught, I can talk my way out of it. If I can't talk my way out of it, the consequences will be light. 3 He wants to seduce you into his reality. He fails to realize that the source of the violence is different from the source of the conflict.