Sure I'll take your cart. He did and I felt great because I create my own wonderful interactions. A Finesser always thinks the best unless overwhelmed by proof to the contrary. That young man in the parking lot didn't realize he could help me and at no cost to himself. Once he understood that, he jumped right in.
People LIKE to help.
Finessers show others how helping them will make the do-gooder feel great. Finessers always look for the pony. You know the story. Twin little boys. One an optimist, the other a pessimist.