Virgins are speaking out for themselves, because virginity is being shown as a powerful personal choice. Women are demanding more respect from their partners. Yes, but we have a long way to go, and ultimately that's what women want. Aretha Franklin got it right, it's the bottom line in everything. A lot of men embrace this movement, because they benefit from more flexible roles, being able to spend more time in raising children, with less stigmatization.
Men also see how they have a more authentic relationship with their partner.
The high rates of cohabitation, premarital sex and single motherhood show there is less regret and shame. There's an underlying double standard, but it's a less controlling force than ever before. It isn't black and white. I am not amoral, I'm not saying that remorse has no place in our society, but the lessening of it has allowed us to lead richer lives. That has been positive, because it has released many women from shame.