I directed a masters' thesis on that years ago and my student found that deception was a major problem with online relationships. Rotary clubs have opened their doors to women in recent years. When I lived in Santa Barbara, California a great place to meet men and women was walking and running on the Pacific Ocean. On Sunday afternoons, men gathered with their drums and we did drumming in the park. Some people brought their guitars.
Music is the universal language.
Unfortunately, there is no culture here for that sort of thing. In our child state, we want someone to rescue us, make us feel important, and provide security, comfort, or a sexual high. Our thoughts, feelings, cells, hormones, glands, consciousness, tenderness, compassion, sexuality, and integrity are like the pieces of a kaleidoscope interacting with each other, creating the design of who we are and how we feel. The more they come together as an integrated whole, the more we can trust our attraction. They will play their own originals and Beatles' music.