Bullying also is a part of many adults' lives. These bullies use words and subtler forms of intimidation than the physical violence employed by children. Some workplaces have a gatekeeper who rules the kingdom with a mind-set that anyone coming in is not going to be very successful. Negativity can cause co-workers to feel that what the bully is saying must be true. Nice people really finish last.
Most people spend their life trying to get along with other people.
Quick to anger and to use force. Often exposed to aggressive behavior such as physical and emotional abuse. Inappropriately perceives hostile intent in the actions of others. Has parents who are poor role models for getting along with others and constructively solving problems. Believes one cannot control one's environment.