I'm an attractive, intelligent woman in my early thirties. I've been having an ongoing discussion with a female coworker about my wardrobe. She thinks I should dress in more form-fitting clothing, since, when she and I aren't arguing about the way I dress, I spend a lot of time complaining that I don't have any men in my life. YOU WANT to trap a bear, don't run off into the woods carrying a salad. Likewise, if you hope to attract a man or two, don't trot around town in some sadistic fashion designer's update on the burlap feed bag.
Men are visual creatures.
They are drawn to the female form. You'll improve your chances of their being drawn to yours if they aren't required to don infrared glasses to find it. Yes, yes, you want them to like you for what's inside. Frankly, though, you could have the wit of Fran Lebowitz and the genius of Stephen Hawking, but if you dress as if you are hiding the body of Drew Carey, few men will experience the breadth of your mental charms. To figure out how to package yourself, don't bother turning to women's magazines.