Women are much more emotionally available in general. I think that long-term lesbian couples have a much greater intimacy level. I've read somewhere that at seven years, it's equivalent to forty or fifty years in a hetero relationship. The role of a woman in hetero sex is simply as a receiver in my experience. There is no power.
Women are more manipulative.
We had an awesome time, and there was a part where we had a real connection and flow happening. There was another woman there that really intrigued me. And for days after the event, she was all I could think about. It was then that I started to wonder about my true feelings for women. So, I gave it a go, and here I am, not looking back.