Don't give up easily change takes time. Ending the family's isolation is a critical First step. Urge organizations and businesses to raise community awareness by hosting speakers on domestic violence, launching public education campaigns, and raising funds for shelters and hotlines. Ask the local newspaper, radio station, or television station to examine the problem and publicize resources in the community through special features and forums. Offer praise where appropriate and demand reform when necessary.
Most communities offer resources for victims of family violence.
Check your telephone directory or ask a law enforcement agency. It may seem strange to think in terms of preparing for an attack ahead of time, but that can be the very time that you are clear headed, not upset, and capable of organizing some protective measures for yourself. First, let someone know what is going on. If a friendly neighbor is aware that your spouse is abusing you, she or he may be able to call the police for you when you are unable to do so. Other friends, neighbors, or relatives may be able to provide shelter or transportation for you if you need to get out of the house, and if you talk with them ahead of time they can be prepared to help the most.