He spent some time in prison and now he's out again. Once when we were discussing how he got into this mess, he told my husband and me that he seems to be drawn to rape women who are about 21 years old. First, being turned on by the act of rape is unusual. Second, his interest in an age group that is not his own is also somewhat unusual.
Most people prefer their own age group.
One of the things that makes individuals different from each other are interests, sexual or otherwise. The interests we have in our lives lead us in certain directions. Someone else's sexual interest may lead him to choose a stable, reliable and trustworthy partner. Now she wants to sleep with him because he says he can cure her of being gay. I'm afraid I'm losing her over nothing because there is no way some man with an overinflated ego will change her sexual preference.