Infants Realize babies don t intentionally violate standards and boundaries. Don t punish them for violating boundaries they can t understand. Distract children from inappropriate behavior and draw attention to how you want them to act. Enforce boundaries consistently so children don t get confused. Affirm children when they act appropriately.
Preschoolers Stay calm when children act out in highly emotional ways.
Learn what to expect from preschoolers. Read about child development in books or magazines, talk to other parents, or talk to preschool teachers or child care workers. Be firm about boundaries that keep kids safe. Don t negotiate with these boundaries. Challenge children to do their best in school, and help them whenever you can.