I know nothing about how divorce works, and I don't have any money to pay a lawyer. I'm concerned about how I will raise our two children. I've started looking for a job, but I may need some training before I can get something decent. For starters, he can't unilaterally decide that he gets the house and you get the kids. These types of decisions must be made by the two of you together, or in a court of law.
Some people divorce amicably, and they remain great friends for life.
Others can't agree on much of anything, and conflicts get resolved only with the assistance of lawyers, appraisers, accountants, and the court system. The bottom line is that when people get divorced, a number of issues need to be resolved, and it is often a good idea to hire a lawyer to help you. Even though Texas law doesn't call it alimony, one of you could be required to make spousal maintenance payments for as long as three years. Whether you would be entitled to maintenance from your husband depends on a number of factors, including who gets the business, whether you can get a job and how badly you need the money. Even though Texas law places limits on spousal maintenance, you and your husband can agree on different amounts and the timing of payments.