I saw a cabinet door open and a pan came flying out. It flew out and landed about four feet from the cabinet. The trajectory was elliptical, it literally flew out of the cabinet. We then asked the woman to yell out to it. And many other things occurred, one of which was the apparition I described.
Most occurrences are of the kinder variety.
It's the other ones that make for the kinds of stories you hear about. But most of the encounters are quite playful and kind. We had a case where dishes would be left on the sink, and they'd be washed each night. There are many cases that seem to have a purpose. It seems that whatever's there wants to impart some kind of information.