Given the high divorce rate, today s young women cannot rely on marriage for economic security. This has meant ever-increasing education beyond high school. For women pursuing high-status professions the schooling can extend several years beyond college, well into their twenties. Then, for as much as another decade, such women must invest heavily in developing their careers. Indeed, women on the make adopt the same priorities as men on the make.
Work is in the foreground, love in the middle distance or the background.
Neither men nor women have the time or a pressing desire for marriage, especially when they can get some marriagelike benefits without it. So they put it off and enter into relationships that offer some combination of sex, companionship, convenience, and economies of scale. By the time high-status single men and women reach their early thirties, however, their marriage prospects begin to diverge. For men, age is no barrier to attracting women. A few gray hairs can be sexy.