My personal definition of success is to set goals that will make me happy, my life more rewarding, and to see those goals achieved. For as long as I can remember I ve wanted nothing more than to be a good wife, mother, and to earn a college degree. Today my dreams are becoming realities. Today I take charge of my dreams and believe that, with determination and a sincere desire to succeed, I can do anything that I set out to do. As it says in our book, Creators and Victims speak different languages.
Victims make excuses, but Creators seek solutions.
Victims blame, but Creators take action. Victims repeat ineffective behavior, but Creators try something new. Most of all, Victims are powerless, but Creators take control of their choices and their lives. As for me, I lived the Victim role for so long that I had become very comfortable with being uncomfortable. Everything that happened to me was the result of someone else, of their behavior towards me, never taking responsibility for anything myself.