If you offend an elder or a child and you take upon yourself to admit that I have committed these atrocities or these crimes, the African is a soft-spoken human being. On most occasions they accept that you have repented. I believe that people should be encouraged to come and listen to those they call 'perpetrators' and for those who are alleged perpetrators of crimes to say what they have done. If we want to actualize the terms of reference of the TRC, we should start to remove some of those words, like 'vengeance' and 'justice'. Tell me why did you do it'.
Reconciliation has to come from the heart.