When my husband feels like talking in the middle of the night, while he holds me. It's the way you look at each other like there is no one else in the room, even if you are in a crowd. Romance is about thinking of creative ways to keep the fire burning. It entails spontaniety, passion and love. That is a birthday party for a 5 year old.
Romance is a physical power which is magnetic and attracts two people in a spiritual sense.
It is much deeper than physical. It is intuitive and won derful. It just happens. It does not have prerequisites such as roses or whatever. When real romance happens it happens under any circumstance and there is no stopping it.