So, what makes a specific women love a particular man. First of all, it depends, of course, on what the woman is looking for. If she is looking for sexual satisfaction, her eyes will be looking for other attributes than if she looks for a marriage partner. Most men would prefer to be loved for their potential as source of sexual satisfaction. This is one reason they are concerned with the size of their penises.
Many men even find it degrading to be loved because they make good husbands.
This smacks of being willing to do the dishes and putting the whole income to the disposal of the wife. Most men would like to be loved as if they were sexually desired heroes for whom women cry at night because they no longer can stomach their yearnings to be embraced and penetrated by their hero. Yearning of course incorporates a strong element of being out of reach. Therefore, men wanting to be longed for may put up barriers between them themselves and the women by whom they want to be loved, and whom they love. However, they often underestimate the amount of romantic attachment it takes for a woman to nurture the feelings of love for a particular man.