Some scholars feel that Vlad the Impaler enjoyed putting so many Turks up in stakes. But it was also undoubtedly done to warn the Turks about invading the region. Governments and religious orders have long used torture to extract confessions and in retribution for wrongs or perceived wrongs. Torture is not always unwanted. Consensual sexual torture is alive and well in today's society.
Some people feel pain heightens sexual intensity.
At the end of the day there is nothing special about any of us. We are piles of meat forfilling tasks that keep us alive. We are animals. I get really fed up when people try to appreciate life. There is nothing to appreciate.