No one wants to throw the first punch, show their weaknesses or wear themselves out. Besides everyone wants to see who is available and not play their trump card too early. Because once you do, you are out of the game. If you really want to remove yourself from the game, just walk down main street holding hands with someone. Find someone who works with that person and put them on the case, usually for a small retainer amounting to something to eat or drink.
Names are are good.
Before you head out to date,though, keep in mind Mackinac presents many obstacles. Also, many summer workers do not have phones. This makes communication difficult. Another little-known line of communication is the Mug Club down at the J.L. Beanery Coffeehouse. Simply slip the manager, Patrick, a five-spot, find out which is your prospect's mug hanging on the wall and then slide a note in it.