When the cards are stacked against you, you have no choice but to fold, so you never have to face the pressure of playing to win. And you never lack for something to do. You can fill every idle moment with the bittersweet memories of your misfortunes. Unfortunately, you can never fulfill your dreams. When you think like a victim, you turn yourself from a cause into an effect.
Nothing can kill a dream faster than that.
When you blame the world, you lose your power to change it. In the name of what you can't fix, you sacrifice what you can. It's not what happens to you that counts, it's what you choose to do about it. We are all victims of forces beyond our control. The people who get what they want from life are the ones who focus on forces they can control.