You need to decide if you want to grow up as a he or as a she. While in-between sexes are entertaining to those with limited intelligence, the Jerry Springer Show isn't real life. When you're an adult, you'll need to be a man or a woman. Glazed asked what the differences between the two were. Women usually get paid less for doing the same jobs as men.
Men play poker, drink beer, smoke cigars, and grow mustaches.
Some women do too, but most don't. Glazed made his choice. When Glazed was six, I sent him to public school, but not before teaching him to box. Before noon on his first day in school, Glazed was suspended for beating up five bullies, three crossing guards, his teacher, and the principal. Worried that Glazed might have an inbred tendency for violence that could lead him to a military battlefield, I told him what I knew about war.