Not feeling the responsibility to do something to promote Islam. Being unable to deal with calamities, for instance crying and yelling in funerals. Liking to argue just for the sake of arguing without any proof. Becoming engrossed and very involved with dunya, worldly things, i.e. feeling bad only when losing something in terms of material wealth. Becoming engrossed and obsessive about ourselves.
Tranquility then descends and our hearts become soft.
To get optimum benefit, remind yourself that Allah is speaking to you. Realize the greatness of Allah. Everything is under His control. There are signs in everything we see that points us to His greatness. Everything happens according to His permission.