We must confess our sins to one another. Paul tells us that there is not sin that is not common to man. There are countless men and women who struggle with sexual sin. We can find an answer to our loneliness through fellowship with other Christians who really know us and who know what it is like to struggle themselves. The truth is that fellowship is equal to freedom from lust.
Sexual response is a normal part of our human makeup.
It is normal and natural to be tempted. God calls us to live in the world but to not be of the world. Like the writer of the Psalms, there are times when it's OK to be angry. God hears that and understands. We must be honest enough with God to allow for true intimacy with Him and with others to take place.