The only good use of debt is to create wealth. Find out how to stop your shrinking heart. Crisis mode living is when you spend every waking moment of every day trying to figure out how to keep all your balls in the air and all your plates spinning. In crisis mode, you keep running faster and faster, from project to project, deadline to deadline, quota to quota, meeting to meeting. Your RPMs creep higher and higher until you hit the red line.
Most active people have to spend a certain amount of time in crisis mode.
The problem arises when you spend too much time in crisis mode. That's when crisis mode goes from being a season of life to become a way of life. When that happens, you start doing the only thin you can do. First, you skim in relationships. The bond with your spouse, which used to be strong and intimate, becomes increasingly weak and distant.