Consider letters from a spouse's co-worker. Often you've never met the children whose virtues are extolled in the letter. Nevertheless, holiday letters are popular, says LeRoy, whose store sells decorative sheets for that purpose. Holiday tips show appreciation for services rendered in the past year, and they ensure good service during the new year, Lett says. Tipping shows how they feel about us.
Tips extend beyond hairdressers.
Hemphill, who throws a lot of dinner parties, relies on his butcher's services. During the holidays he gives him both a tip and a gift. Recognize consistent service from any steady server, he says. If you have the same doorman in the building, you better give at Christmas. The thought of dividing up your bonus to tip others can turn you into the Grinch.