Some people want to hear everything such as statistics and chances for survival. Others prefer to hear the least amount possible for making good decisions. It will be helpful for you to think about what you want along these lines and communicate it to your doctor. Never feel embarrassed to ask your doctor to define a word, or explain something in language you can understand. You can even ask to see a picture of what is being discussed.
Respect breeds respect.
Doctors are people too. If you respond pleasantly and courteously, chances are good that your doctor will respond in this manner as well. Issues of time, feeling rushed by doctors or waiting too long for appointments may cause you to feel disrespected. It is important to discuss these issues openly by letting your doctor know your needs, while respecting his or her time constraints or emergencies. If you know you are going to have to wait for an appointment, take along something to occupy your time while you wait, like a book or magazine.