If you imagined that all electricity could do was to power light bulbs, you would never turn on a computer, toaster, coffee maker, vacuum cleaner, oven, television, CD, or radio. Similarly the love of God is expressed in innumerable facets of grace. If all you know is being loved and accepted, your Christian experience is very limited. Grace is the expression of the love of God in multifaceted ways. But if grace is the multifaceted expression of the love of God, we should begin with a definition of the kind of love we are talking about.
People love pumpkin pie, and skiing, and horror movies.
You see God's kind of love means caring for the freedom of the other . Parents who love prepare their children for the freedoms needed to fly on their own. Keeping them permanently under their control isn't love us at all. A happy creative marriage is when both the woman and the man care deeply about each other's freedom. That is what grace is about.