I set my heart's attention on the living God. This is an act of the will, a decision to be quiet, to listen, and to be sensitive to the Spirit and His presence. When I shut the door, I recognize the high privilege and blessing of intimacy with my Lord. I am not in a hurry, but have made a commitment to slow down and allow myself to experience His peace and rest. Shutting the door insulates me from the world and enables me to focus on the Lord.
Some married couples have a favorite restaurant where they go for important nights out.
They love the atmosphere. They find it easy to talk in that environment, and they look forward to going there. It's a special place in their relationship. Some families have a regular vacation spot that feels almost like a second home to them. The families look forward to their vacation times.