If they make it beyond 85, they are proud of their special status. The previous generation, few in number, did not have the distinction of being the fastest-growing age group, nor will the next generation, since by then, longevity will be relatively commonplace. You don't see many new heart, cancer, diabetes or stroke problems. Men and women age differently, said Barer. Men over 85, who comprised less than 30 percent of the study, seem to manage fairly well, until they die of a heart attack.
Women tend to develop chronic illnesses, such as arthritis or osteoporosis.
Some 20 to 30 percent had no family, either having outlived them or never having had children. Some had good friends. Others withdrew and had very little social contact with others, enjoying their own company. They were alone, but not lonely. A primary factor in their sense of well-being among the entire group is that they tended to stop worrying, even about their families.