During that time, I had shed enough tears to fill up a lake. However, over the course of time, my grieving became less often. However, every time I visit her grave, I still cry. Mourning is health and necessary to the healing process. If we deny or delay our grieving, we deny or delay our healing.
Shock is a numbness or feeling of unreality.
This is generally the first stage of grief that a person goes through just after the death of a loved one. Fortunately, this stage does not last very long. Depression is the stage when you may not want to go anywhere, see others, or engage in normal activities. During this stage, guilt normally enters into the picture. When it becomes too painful to feel the hurt, you get mad instead.