It is written to include only the pathological aspects of the disorder with full recognition that healthy aspects of behavior do exist.
Narcissists possess an exaggerated sense of importance concerning themselves and their work.
Work and self come first while other people, especially close, intimate relationships, become less important. Concerned with self-promotion, narcissists show disdain and a lack of consideration for other people, while upgrading themselves. For example, a narcissistic female may feel disdain and negativity towards her husband, and be devoid of normal heterosexual, nurturing feelings for him. Narcissistic husbands may also feel negativity and disdain towards their wives, yet feel entitled to nurturance from their spouses, without any obligation to provide the same in return. The self, logic, strength, power, a mission or a job is over-idealized, while any signs of weakness or feelings of pain are devalued.