The one time I tried to have sex, I could not get hard. No matter what my girlfriend did to me, I could not get an erection. I was definitely very nervous. Almost all men have had at least a few experiences when they wanted to get an erection and didn't get one, or when they lost an erection at some embarrassing point.
Some men have problems with getting or maintaining erections at the beginning of a relationship.
As they become more comfortable with their new partner, their erections become more reliable. Assuming that you don't have erection problems during masturbation or other sex play, you can think of this as a part of life rather than as a problem. Explain to your girlfriend that you need some time before you get comfortable enough for your penis to join in the fun, or better yet, put off having sex until you feel more comfortable with your girlfriend and are ready for the experience. Click on her picture for her bio. Shop O2 .