It was the Fathers great love for us that commissioned our salvation and our redemption. Everything we do, every reaction we have must be from a foundation of love. You can't get angry anymore. You can't get ticked off anymore. You can't get offended anymore.
Perfect love casts out all fear.
Perfect love, Gods presence in our lives casts out all fear. Not some fear, not most fear, not just the real tough fear, but all fear. It's time to realize that we are rooted and grafted into love. And everything we do we must do from the perspective and the compulsion of the love of God in us. Now I don't know how lovely you tend to be, I only know myself.