Dispute resolution mechanisms include meditation, counseling, arbitration or referral to the court. A mediator attempts to have both sides reach an amicable resolution of their dispute. The mediator is not empowered to decide the matter. Often, a good method of dispute resolution is to refer the matter to an arbitrator whom both sides trust and who has special qualifications in the area of dispute. In matters concerning children, the court always retains authority to review the arbitrator's decision.
Sole custody gives a parent the authority to make legal decisions for the child.
The non-custodial parent enjoys specific visitation. Although a parent may have sole custody, courts frown on the custodial parent making unilateral decisions affecting the children without notice to the other parent. Timesharing is determined by the age and the needs of the child for a relationship with both parents. You and your spouse may agree to a specific timesharing schedule. If you cannot agree on timesharing, the court may specify timesharing.