Both men and women like it the fastest in doggy style. Anal sex should be undertaken at slow speed. Stages of sex and degrees of roughness How gentle or rough one is during the stages of intercourse depends on gender and relationship status. In general women like it slightly rougher than men. Women who are dating and having sex with different people tend to like it a little rougher, though married women and divorced women love for things to get wilder during climax.
Married men are the gentlest of the lot.
The following table gives the means of men and women for each stage of sex. The scale is from 1 to 10. 1 is very gentle and 10 is very rough. Once orgasm is complete, wind down at a gentler intensity than what was invested in foreplay. Lay back with lover in arms and have sweet dreams.