If God blesses your marriage with children, then you will also take your children into consideration in all that you do. Marriage is a school of love. You will probably discover weaknesses in the other which you do not now know. This will be an opportunity to love the other, heal the other, forgive the other. There will be times when like at the wedding at Cana it will seem as if the wine really has run out, times when you will forgive each other and make a fresh start.
Marriage is also a school of forgiveness.
What I have spoken about up to now is the human aspect of marriage. But you are not just fulfilling the natural human desire to share your life with another, your marriage is also a sacrament. As a sacrament your marriage unites you with Jesus and brings you God s blessing. It is not just N and N united to each other in marriage today, it is N and N united to each other with Jesus in marriage. Therefore on those occasions when it will seem as if the wine really has run out, you can and should turn to Jesus for help and guidance.