The Bible teaches that the rulership of Adam over Eve resulted from the Fall and was therefore not a part of the original created order. After they ate the forbidden fruit God confronted them and explained the consequences of their disobedience to His spoken word. Your desire will be for your husband, and he will rule over you. You will have to live in a fallen world with upside down values. A world in which men will flex their muscles and dominate you.
Sin always distorts relationships.
It wasn't God's original idea that universally women would be used and abused by men. That is the consequences of rejecting the rule of God. Author and psychologist Gary Smalley has identified five basic differences between men and women. Sin turns these differences into negatives, into points of conflict. Sin uses these differences to alienate spouses so that God's creative purposes do not get fulfilled.