In spite of these changes I see Twila and Eunice adapting and accepting their grandmother roles with much the same courage and hope their grandmothers did in pioneer days. Twila says her grandchildren have saved her life. They give me a purpose to live every day. There is no time for me to sit home and feel sorry for myself. After school she picks up the boys again and does what is necessary until Mom is back.
Many grandparents find it difficult when their child or grandchild chooses another religion.
But Eunice says she finds that supporting her daughter in her religious choice is the right thing to do. In fact, Kathy's Jewish community welcomes Eunice with open arms because Eunice is such a kind, generous and understanding person. Both grandmothers know the value of their vital connection to their grandchildren, and their roles and responsibilities as an openhearted parent. Acting upon their dedication has given meaning and importance to their lives and has bestowed rich blessings on their grandchildren. Many grandmothers ask about having a grandparent's day in their local schools.