We've all become aristocrats. We hold out for the best cars, the best clothes, we make lists of things we look for in a mate and wait for someone to match it. The peasant lives a painful life at the whim of others, but every day he goes home to a woman who holds him and his pain goes away. She's his soul mate. Believe in yourself and others will believe in you.
Relationships flourish in sacred moments.
The Sabbath is a reminder that time is more important than space, the gift of yourself more important than objects. The greatest gift is just to be present. To show gratitude is to show that we can be touched by human gesture. Once you can no longer be touched but have to be impressed, you've set your standards too high. Don't kill - the sixth commandment.