If it doesn't smell good, you'll never be happy to have Dad there. In addition to visiting personally, there are some other steps you can take. The Federal Health Care Financing Administration has a revised guide available free titled Choosing a Nursing Home. It is full of practical suggestions. If you choose a nursing home that is close to family and friends, they will be able to visit more often.
Nursing homes have a limited number of beds.
When you find a nursing home you like, find out if there will be a bed available for your dad or if you can add his name to the waiting list. If you will be using Medicare or Medicaid to pay for your dad's care, make certain that the nursing homes on your list will accept Medicare or Medicaid. The nursing home must inform you, in writing, about its services, charges, and fees before your dad enters. Be sure to check about extra charges for personal services. Religious and cultural preferences.