When it comes to talking about sex, she says men are generally much more private than women. If you believe in the different planet theory about the sexes, then it will probably come as no surprise to learn that men and women, generally speaking, view sex differently. Men often enjoy a fast rush to sex. Women prefer a slow buildup. Most men absolutely love getting a tongue kiss in the ear, but most women abhor this.
Men tend to be visual creatures, coming alive at the mere sight of a bare breast.
Women are more aural and tactile. They need to hear and to feel a man in order to get excited. Women usually know when they are going to have sex, whereas men can be surprised. Women usually make up their minds based on how they've been treated. And often the thing that tips the tables isn't anything you are aware of.