Today married, tomorrow harried. To catch a Tartar. This is a bad thing in matrimony. You look for a Celestial to make your tea, and find a Tartar to make you a pickle. Better be a lonely martyr Than be married to a Tartar.
Wedlock is a padlock.
A padlock is a very useful thing to preserve treasure. But it is hurtful to locked into a marriage much disliked. Wedlock is either kill or cure. A fair face may be a foul bargain. Young men should not be carried away with mere beauty, but look to character and disposition.