Suggest other choices, show them other ways to do it, or teach them to ask for help when they need it. When dealing with discipline, always address the child's behavior, not the child. Do not tell them that they are bad for spitting. Tell them what they do right, not what they do wrong. Try to reward their positive behavior.
Positive feedback is the best way to reinforce good behavior.
Let kids know that it is okay to feel angry, but that the way to deal with anger is to express how mad they are with words. Parents who slap, hit, or spank their child send the message that they approve of hitting in anger. If you have questions about discipline, talk with your healthcare provider or a family counselor. All Rights Reserved.