That sounds like a double standard to me. Also, you claim that more men might endanger themselves in order to help save a female. I don't think the gender of the person really matters. What matters is that person is trying to fight for our country, like yourself and every other person in our military program. If you are trying to imply that women have more of tendency to need help than you seem to have been mislead.
Women can save lives just as well as men can.
It all depends on the situation that each individual is in.