I've learned not to pay attention to the foolish actions of others. Worry is interest on fear. My friends were all victims - it makes me wonder how that could happen by accident. The wind does not wait for the tree to bend. Time is natures way of keeping everything from happening at once.
Most people lie when the truth is too tough.
At sometime it will have to come out. A cockroach doesn't turn into a butterfly. A complete change of nature is necessary. The main value of Iying has yet to be discovered. God is closer to me than I am to myself.