It doesn't matter. It's that simple. But if someone marries their fantasy mate, they're not just in love, they're satisfied that their quest for a mate has come to a perfect end. It's easier than you might imagine to find out if you're someone's type or not. Just tease them by claiming you're not, and see how they respond.
Timing is critical .
The best time is before you agree to go out with a new person, if they're asking, or immediately after he or she has agreed to a date, if you're asking. I heard you liked blondes. Just describe a type that's opposite to you, in a light, bantering tone. If you're not their type, they'll probably sputter and hem and haw for a moment while they're figuring out what to say. While those hands may be tempting, I'm here to keep you on guard.