The answer is that as Witches, we cannot. Power and magic come from the ability to change consciousness with the fluidity of the sea. Magic requires an ongoing flexibility. We live as though there is plenty of time to achieve our goals, to live happily, to find the right partner, to find our spirit. It is strange because in truth, there is no such thing as tomorrow.
Tomorrow is only a concept.
It is figment of our imaginations. It does not exist. What happens as a result is that we don't live fully today. We hold back. We don't live with immediacy because there seems to be nothing immediate about our lives.