Positive attention should be given consistently. List as many positive behaviors that your child does. List small and large things. Describe in detail the last time you praised your child. Praise the desired behavior as enthusiastically as possible.
Parents often use loud, exaggerated responses for bad behavior.
Praise should be similarly loud and exaggerated. Tips for dealing with angry outbursts This expression of anger is maladaptive and will result in difficulties in relationships with others and school performance. Start by encouraging the child to share his or her feelings. Many children do not know how to express anger appropriately. These include talking about feelings, writing a letter or story expressing emotions, drawing a picture, exercising, relaxation or deep breathing techniques.