Every couple has certain limits. Ours is kissing. As a girl, I only have to look at the statistics to know why abstinence is a good thing. There s also a high risk of not being able to have children if an STI goes undetected for too long. Don t forget the emotional side.
Most guys jump up and start looking for the next girl that comes their way.
This can be so damaging to a girl s feelings. Her self-esteem drops. Every one of us has hope for a good future. But getting pregnant or acquiring an STI or AIDS means having to backtrack. Sure, abstinence is hard, but very worthwhile.