It is not clear if child sexual abuse is happening more these days, or if people are just more likely to talk about it. It is never okay for an adult to have sex with a child, even if the child seems to consent or even seems to want it. These are common excuses that child sexual abusers give. Most people have ideas that are wrong and that may put their children into dangerous situations. People usually fear that strangers may sexually assault their child.
Most abusers are relatives, friends, neighbors, or people that the child knows socially.
Most use the child's trust in them rather than using force to get cooperation. Many do not believe that they are doing anything wrong and may seem to be people who love children. Most child sexual abusers are male but there are females who engage in this as well. Do not trust your child to someone just because she is a woman. Many people are afraid that gay men will assault their children.