I also clean. Norm lifts heavy things. He takes the garbage out. He also takes care of office and travel trivia and returns more calls than I do. For example, I read a lot.
Norm reads less.
Rather than undertaking lifelong remediation with each other, we use our differences in complementary ways. I read and highlight, Norm synthesizes, we both write. Our work is stronger. Our strengths are utilized and our weaknesses seem more irrelevant. Interestingly, our continued collaboration has helped me to become more organized, and Norm is reading more.