But you don t have to be a Kennedy to borrow the unique flair of legendary brides, says Baldrige. While the cost of some weddings can equal a down payment on a house, a couple can have an appropriate wedding within reasonable cost. Shop smart for a wedding gown. The wedding reception can be held in the church rectory or hall instead of at a commercial location. A wedding meal does not have to be served, Baldrige says.
Many people have a kind of cocktail party wedding reception.
The food sandwiches, hors d ouevre, cookies and ice cream can be made or purchased by a couple of close friends of the bride s family. Punch can be served, with champagne in it, if the church or synagogue will allow that much alcohol to be served. If the church insists on its own caterer, the expenses of using it are usually nominal. To save on flowers, find out if another couple is getting married the same day in that location. You may be able to split the cost of the flowers and bouquets right in two, says Baldrige.