Focus responses on the issues, not the person who made the comment. Verify statements about the beliefs, behaviors, and quotations of other groups. Cite URLs, where appropriate. Avoid stereotyping and sweeping generalities, such as defining whole groups behavior by the behavior of some. Avoid words of incitement.
Money is fungible.
The contributor money is just part of the pot. This thread has permeated the last six issues. By and large, the responses have been entirely predictable. Our orthodox friends, basing themselves on their interpretation of Torah disapprove, which is their right. A religious community has the right to determine its standards for its members.