Remember the maxim that often you can use both your options rather than choose one and lose the other. For example, you want to study medicine but want to do a management programme too. What you can do is to study for an MBBS programme and then go on to do a full-time course in Health and Hospital Management. If you do, you may feel that you have no options at all. When you feel stuck, look at the problem from a different angle and try a new solution.
Options have to exist.
Take your 'own' decisions. You should neither take decisions for others nor allow others to make decisions for you. Choices are never good or bad. Choices are the decisions you take on the basis of your priorities. They are always appropriate or inappropriate.