If you want to do what society says, if you want to fulfill your own fleshly desire, you will disobey them. Ideally, a young wife and mother has grown up in a wonderful Christian home and has been trained by her godly mother in the domestic realm. Some of you have been blessed in this way. A humble, teachable attitude is so necessary to grow in grace as a Christian woman. Women must be on guard against pride.
Pride keeps many women on the defensive about the way they conduct themselves in the home.
Many do not want anyone else to offer any input into their situation. Some have rationalized their current lifestyle and act offended and threatened when challenged about it. Deep down it may be because they are convicted that they are wrong, but their pride won't let them admit it. This type of woman doesn't want to change. They have locked themselves into a no growth pattern, all because of pride.