The level of conflict between parents appears to be more important than the schedule of contact for preschool children. Almost as important is the predictability of the contact. Frequent contact also is indicated. Sporadic, infrequent access is clearly contra- indicated. Weekly access consisting of one overnight for younger preschoolers and full weekends for older preschoolers throughout the year is recommended.
More frequent contact is recommended assuming a low level of conflict between the parents.
A few week long contacts for holidays and summer vacations can be handled well. If practicalities dictate periods longer than a week at a time, the parents should obtain specialized consultation on helping children handle the lengthier time frames. For children this age the primary influence of the parents is now shared with teachers, peers and often community contacts. Schedules of access need to take into account various organized activities in which children may be involved. The recommended schedule is a minimum of two weekends per month, and assuming the parents get along reasonably well, more frequent access including midweek contacts.