Ask your husband why he does what he does. Ask him about his father's parenting style. Ask your husband what he thinks, and be open to his ideas about raising kids. There's no question that dads can learn a lot from moms. One of the greatest things moms do is watch and anticipate.
Moms are usually right there to solve a problem before it even occurs.
But that anticipation can sometimes be a problem for dads who want to be great fathers. When Pam and David had their first child, Pam taught David how to change diapers, how to hold the baby, how to feed him, dress him and talk to him. David, wanting to be involved in nurturing his new son, did his best to follow Pam's instructions. During feedings, she hovered, making sure David held the bottle correctly and burped their son at the right intervals. Your husband probably won't handle every situation like you would, but unless your child is in actual danger, do your best to resist jumping in.