Sexual excitation increases for both partners as a result of the new types of sexual experiences and there are discussions of actual sexual experiences. Women receive a great deal of positive reinforcement. They may begin seeing themselves as more desirable. Women uniform ally report that they have been able to shed sexual inhibitions that they were raised with. You think of yourself as a person and not a thing.
Many swingers say that swinging creates stronger bonds between couples.
Married couples find that swinging increases their ability to communicate with each other. Many couples believe that if a married couple can discuss swinging together they can discuss anything. Generally, swingers believe they experience individual growth and develop an ability to communicate better with other people. Generally, swingers believe that swinging has a positive effect on their marriage. About 85 percent of both husbands and wives feel that swinging is not a threat to marriage or love between spouses.