Yes, communication and the lack of it can leave you very much an outsider in Singapore at times. I am not taking offence. In the interests of balanced journalism, and drawing on three years' experience, I suggest we take a good look at why some expats fail to become effective members of society here - and leave as isolated and unenlightened as when they arrived. The issue is more about examining why, and looking for answers, than tossing blame. Why expats feel alienated Expats have many reasons to come here.
People attach almost reverential importance and hype to the word.
What it can't do, though, is transport the homely touches at your old place to the new location. Whatever global technology can give, it can never replace our need for friendship, love. In fact, they shield you from the realities of life. The locals are often helpful, friendly and supportive. That is why 80 per cent of my friends are Singapore-born.