A counselor can help encourage both people to actively work on the relationship, or they can help you make the decision to end things if it isn't working out. The male structure that is similar to a woman's G-spot is the prostate gland . This area can be stimulated by pressing on the upper surface of the rectum, and men often find that the sensation intensifies or even produces orgasm. However, men of all sexual orientations and their partners can and do use fingers or sex toys for prostate stimulation. Remember, if you want to find your own or someone else's prostate, use a latex glove or condom and plenty of lubrication, and discard the latex before touching other genital areas.
Sexual passion is nearly always highest at the beginning, when everything is new and exciting.
Couples who are expecting to always maintain the same level of excitement an passion may be disappointed to find that their kisses are no longer spine-tingling. Another problem that many long-term couples experience, however, is falling into a routine . Early in the relationship, it's not unusual to spend hours trying different styles of kissing, or exploring erogenous zones all over each other's body. After a while, though, many couples get into a rut without even realizing it. For example, maybe you and your partner always brush your teeth together at night, get in bed, turn out the lights, and then make love.