Sexual intimacy should be a consensual activity that is not based on either bribery or verbal coercion. Type of clothing does not cause men to rape. Imagine for a minute how ridiculous this belief really is. If this belief was really true, women who wear bikinis and hang out on the beach would get raped all of the time. Obviously, more sexual assaults are not committed on the beach than anywhere else.
Men are ultimately responsible for controlling themselves sexually in dating situations.
You cannot assume otherwise. Although some men may report discomfort when aroused for long periods of time, there is no evidence to suggest that physiological change or damage will occur. While these beliefs are the most prevalent myths about dating and sexuality, there may be other myths that exist. We should all examine all of our beliefs regarding dating and sexuality. It is your responsibility to check out your thoughts and assumptions that may cause you trouble in the future.