If children have learned to make responsible decisions and have the courage to stick with those decisions, however, they are ready to meet life's challenges on their own. Cooperation A child who can cooperate with others learns that life involves teamwork. In a society of equals, a child who can cooperate is more likely to survive. A parent-child relationship should be one of cooperation, not conflict. That cooperation must be won through many family experiences.
Parents are leaders, encouraging cooperation and helping children learn.
There is order, routine, and the sense that every person in the family is an important member. The key to allowing choices is to make them age-appropriate. Younger children need tighter limits, while older children can handle expanded freedoms. Balance choices with a child's age and level of responsibility. Active parents help children learn to have courage, be responsible and cooperative, and feel good about themselves.