Heartbroken Dear Heartbroken, The villain threw you off the cliff and you lie broken and bleeding on the rocks below, and you happen to be holding a rope that's tied to the villain's left ankle. You can harass and frustrate him, but this is pretty meager revenge. The issue isn't what to do with the divorce papers. What's important is getting you repaired, and that's going to take some work. Take care of yourself, dear, and just don't do anything to the villain that will hurt you.
Revenge can boomerang in the most surprising ways.
Dear Mr. Blue, I am 22, female, college-educated and independent, and have bounced between three jobs and a temp job in the past year. I tell my parents I have plenty of time to sort things out. But I don't know that I believe it. My friends seem firmly established in career or family or both, and I'm left floundering with countless dreams. I'd love to become a writer or teacher or own a used-book store or travel around Europe.