In these situations, drinking does not excuse the crime or make things easier for you or the person in question. Although alcohol may help you rationalize sexually aggressive behaviors, rape is rape, drunk or sober. The most valuable weapon against unwanted sexual situations is a clear line of communication. You have to make your limits known and the earlier the better - to eliminate the guessing game. No Glove, No Love Having sex without protection is like driving drunk with your eyes closed.
Safer sex is the responsibility of both parties.
If you are sexually active, carry a condom. Even if it might fall out in front of your mom or dad, carry it. The fastest growing group of individuals infected with HIV are heterosexuals. In 1993 the Kansas Legislature amended the law on rape. When the victim is incapable of giving consent because of mental deficiency or disease, or when the victim is incapable of giving consent because of the effect of any alcoholic liquor, narcotic, drug, or any other substance, which condition was known by the offender or was reasonably apparent to the offender.