I once complained to my father that I didn't seem to be able to do things the same way other people did. Margo, don't be a sheep.
People hate sheep.
They eat sheep. The good news about the comfort zone is that all the energy that makes up the comfort zone is yours . Life moves on, whether we act as cowards or heros. Life has no other discipline to impose, if we would but realize it, than to accept life unquestioningly. Everything we shut our eyes to, everything we run away from, everything we deny, denigrate or despise, serves to defeat us in the end.