The music, books, art, candlelight, real fireplace. AND there are no obligations or responsibilities. Just come and soak in. You are not a parent, an employee, a church member. You are just yourself.
Nobody asks for anything.
Or one can chat with somebody with no obligation to join a committee or look good. He is a channel of the Light. He is a real well of Love, who needs to give and to receive. Come to the oases of the Spirit, and be with God and yourself. I initially asked if I was in the right place because the setting was more intimate than I expected.