Don't be afraid to write a few notes about key points that you want to be sure that you cover in the conversation - you can always decide to keep them in your pocket rather than referring to them, but knowing that you've done your homework may give you additional confidence. However, it is important to note that a number of recent studies indicate that a combination of information about delaying intercourse and about contraception is the most effective way to postpone the onset of intercourse, and to increase the use of condoms or other contraceptives by teens when they do become sexually active. Whatever your specific wishes for your son's behavior during adolescence, we encourage you to initiate a conversation with him soon, in order to make it clear to him that you want to be a source of information and support as he enters puberty. This is usually a very confusing time for youngsters, as their bodies and their emotions begin to change so drastically, after a fairly long period of stability. It is also beneficial when parents are able to communicate clear expectations or guidelines to their adolescents in a way which invites openness and discussion rather than ironclad rules.
Parents are important, and teenagers do listen.
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