It affects the whole family. Some facilities or community groups have a social worker who can help you prepare for the change. Allow some time to adjust after the move has taken place. Regular visits by family and friends are important. They can be reassuring and comforting.
Visits are necessary, too, for keeping an eye on the care that is being given.
They will give you information on local long-term care resources and programs. The nursing home guide includes a detailed checklist. Each state Office of the Long-Term Care Ombudsman visits nursing homes on a regular basis and handles complaints. The association has publications about long-term care and can provide a list of facilities.