By building self-confidence, members can expand their social lives beyond The Friendship Network. Or they can choose a gentler route and have a pen pal or a phone pal. Alice and Berna recognize the value of clubhouses, but offer an alternative for people who are highly anxious or fearful of socializing in larger groups and for those functioning on a higher level. Adults suffering from schizophrenia, bipolar disorder, depression, anxiety, phobias, obsessive-compulsive disorder, or other personality or mood disorders can join. Alice and Berna are not professionals, so they consult with a social worker or the member s therapist if there s a problem.
Members fill out a detailed application that includes background, hobbies, and interests.
Alice and Berna provide the introductions. On call, day or night, they help people get started with their friendships. They ll even make it easier by role-playing with people who may feel uneasy in social situations. There are workshops on nutrition and building relationships. And when they re ready, members can make their own plans with their new friends.