The key is your willingness to suspend judgement and denial and be open to the possibility that you may not have all the answers and that there are alternate ways to feel and behave in your interpersonal relationships. Be brave and be honest and hopefully you will gain from this exercise. You are not your brother's keeper. You will manifest what you think you are worth. Wake up and smell the coffee.
Nobody is a mind reader.
Achieving the respect of others. Those who don't trust are usually untrustworthy. Anger is fear manifested.