It is very difficult to change yourself. After putting strong egos aside, and learning to work together and support each other, these tennis players can become unbeatable. If you do the same, you too can have an unbeatable relationship. Without this sacrifice, they and you will just pull at each other and get nowhere. It is sad.
People get into relationships with no intention of putting away their egos.
If you watch what goes on, you would think that love was the last thing on their minds. Love means different things to different people. To some, having a companion and getting great sex is tantamount to love. To others, security and a provider for their kids is love. Perhaps a three-carat diamond or a new Mercedes equals the price of love.