It means going to the trouble of not wasting time in our relationships, as the days are evil and there s only so much time to grow. Therefore, we make the first move in deepening the content of what we are saying, moving from the events and circumstances of the day to the more vulnerable issues of need, hurt, badness and confession. People who take initiative bring their feelings to the safe individuals in their lives, not being content to wait for permission to get close. Taking initiative also may mean taking the step of confronting a wrongdoing, or problem in the relationship. Love without risk is immature love.
Many people are afraid to be close because of past hurts and transgressions.
Sometimes they will wait for a perfectly safe environment and relationship to emerge before they attempt to love again. Sometimes they will judge others as not deserving of love. While it is a sad reality that our ability to trust can be deeply wounded, and that we all need repair in this area, the fact is that there isn t a totally safe place around, as all have sinned. But there are good enough places and people. Love without risk is immature love.