I'm currently living in a bourgois suburb of Chicago that I absolutely loathe. I have no reason to talk to my neighbors, nor would I want to. That's why churches are outlawed in a lot of South American dictatorships, not because of a hatred of religion, but because when people gather together, they start spreading ideas. Which is why the Internet is so damn dangerous. Well, then you might want to volunteer at the Internet Service Collective, or the Electricity Co-op, so that people don't have such a crappy impression of your work ethic.
People get bored pretty quick with doing nothing.
A community would have to make a commitment to non-violence. If anybody breaks that commitment, then the community has a right to defend the victim. This is why anarchists are so often viewed as being violent. The idea was to use these actions to spark revolution. Food for thought, anyways.