You don't have to wait for the big accomplishment to reward your child. Be courteous . Some parents get into the habit of complaining to Aunt Mary about Robert's bad behavior, even when Robert is standing right there. If you have something to say to your child, tell him directly and in private. Praise your child.
Parents can find lots of things to criticize their children about.
Of course, the praise would be justified. If you praise a child just to make him feel better, it will ring false. I'm proud of you for making the effort. Let your child help . Make her a partner in your tasks.