It occurs in heterosexual and same-sex relationships at about the same rates. It affects people of all ages, genders, and physical abilities. Many physically violent relationships begin with some cruel comments or intentional put-downs. Over time, the stress can manifest in physical symptoms. Although it can be painful to recognize what is happening, it is very important to do so and get help as early as possible.
Most abusive relationships get worse, rather than better, over time.
Intimate partner violence is a crime in all fifty states. Whoever you are, you are entitled to protection. Men batter other men in intimate relationships, women batter men, and women batter other women. Nobody ever deserves to be abused. And you are not alone in your struggle.