However, whether parents live together or separately, teenage years are when individual interest, school, sports and friends can seem more important than being with a parent. Also, part time jobs can be important to teenagers during breaks from school. A helpful hint is for parents not to take this personally. Continue to let teens know parents are interested and love them even if teenagers are unresponsive to efforts to have a relationship across a distance. Let teens know parents are happy to hear from them anytime and see them when they are ready.
Many young adults reestablish relationships with parents once they are out of high school.
Frequent calling sometimes feels like prying to teens. Call from time to time and give permission for them to call you whenever they like. When they call, try not to criticize or question excessively. Teenagers love to eat. Send gift certificates for restaurants.