It is important to recognize, however, that one way to damage self-esteem is to avoid discipline altogether. Parents are the symbols of justice and order, and a child wonders why they would let him get away with doing harmful things if they really love him. 6 - Keep an eye on the classroom. Make certain a child has learned to read by the end of his second year in school. Self-esteem has been assassinated more frequently over reading problems than over any other aspect of school life.
Tutorial help can pull a child through a rough spot academically.
Sometimes a change of schools or change of teachers in a school can be in the child's best interest. The slow learner, is even more likely to have self-esteem problems. De-emphasize academic achievement. Anything your child cannot accomplish, despite his best efforts, should be toned down in importance. 7 - Avoid overprotection.