To be happy with a man you must understand him a lot and love him a little. To be happy with a woman you must love her a lot and not try to understand her at all. A woman marries a man expecting he will change, but doesn't. A man marries a woman expecting that she won't change and she does. Men marry because they are tired.
Women marry because they are curious.
Both are disappointed. A woman worries about the future until she gets a husband, while a man never worries about the future until he gets a wife. A woman will always cherish the memory of the man who wanted to marry her, a man, of the woman who didn't. One is to let her think she is having her way, and the other is to let her have it. Married men live longer than single men.