But they are, in fact, quite distinct. It can be fostered or quenched, but it does notarise by conscious choice. It gives us the feeling that someonecares, that someone admires us and appreciates us. Our emotionssoar with the thought that another person sees us as number one,that he or she is willing to devote time and energies exclusivelyto our relationship. For a brief period, however long it lasts,our emotional need for love is met.
Nothing is impossible.
For many individuals,it is the first time they have ever lived with a full emotionaltank, and it is euphoric. In time, however, we come down from that natural high back tothe real world. If our spouse has learned to speak our primarylove language, our need for love will continue to be satisfied. If, on the other hand, he or she does not speak our lovelanguage, our tank will slowly drain, and we will no longer feelloved. Meeting that need in one's spouse is definitely a choice.