Teens are keenly aware that they are growing physically, emotionally, cognitively and socially at different rates over a period of years. Adjusting to these changes is a developmental process that everyone experiences. These changes are often accompanied with a sense of insecurity and self-doubt. Often being connected with others is a way of increasing self-esteem and gives one a sense of belonging. Dating provides a way to connect with others in a significant way.
Maturity is demonstrated by the ability to consider someone else's needs as well as one's own.
Skill develops over time, after individuals have a clearly defined sense of self before trying to build a significant relationship with others. Ask students to write about their best date or group activity with friends. Have volunteers share their experiences. Ask the class if there were things in common from the experience that made the event a positive memory. Next, do the same activity, but this time ask them to record experiences that were not good.