Love in action makes all the difference. A loving person is the best definition. Jesus asked the members of the young church the love each other with his quality of love. I will look at 4 facets. The Jesus type love respects others.
Respect takes the other person, with their dignity and rights, very seriously.
Respect recognises the God-given unique and precious nature of the other person. It does not look down on another, nor talk down nor put down. The followers of Jesus were not clients to be pandered, not cases to be patronised, not fools to be humoured. Neither were they statistics to be counted to prove the importance of the preacher, nor salesmen of the kingdom to be psyched up to work overtime without complaint. Each was a unique, invaluable child of God.