Almost half of all women murdered in this country are killed by their husbands or boyfriends. Nearly four thousand die each year. In the U.S., a man beats a woman every 15 seconds. Abusers tend to follow the same pattern. Someone is unlikely to beat you up on the first date.
Most abusers are very nice at first.
Then they start to seem a little too jealous. They may start putting you down when they talk to you. Often you start feeling worthless. Eventually, the violence begins. By that time, you may feel like you deserve it.