It is difficult for him to recreate the emotions, which were ostensibly involved. In his efforts to emotionally recall he encounters a void, draws a mental blank. The narcissist is especially emotional when weaned off the narcissistic supply drug. Getting rid of an addiction is doubly taxing. The narcissist identifies these crises with emotional depth and his self-conviction is so immense, that he mostly succeeds to elude his environment, as well.
Many narcissists have emotional resonance tables .
They sculpt in words the fine tuned reverberations of pain and love and fear. It is the mathematics of grammar, the geometry of syntax. Devoid of all emotions, they watch people s reactions and adjust their verbal choices accordingly, until their vocabulary resembles that of their listeners. This is as close as narcissists get to empathy. To summarize, the emotional life of the Narcissist is colourless and eventless, as rigidly blind as his disorder, as dead as he.