Sudenly the woman has a choice to make and the man has no legal right to enforce the decision he has made. The man no longer has the choice once conception has occured. But reality is that upon conception a man's choices are no longer equal to those choices of a woman. Sad as it may be, but this is reality. Man then decides he has a child on the way and needs to provide.
Woman continues to alienate father from pregnancy, birth, and early years of life.
Father and mother split up because of mother's infidelity. As a child, dad never wante to have a fmaily, he was going to grow up and play professional hockey, and was well on his way, till mom 'trapped' him. Dad had offered many times when child was very little to relinquish all rights, mother refused. She had on several occasions stated with no parental rights, there would be no parental obligation to support child by father. And without parental rights, she would have no reason to be a constant part of father's life.