Real power is like electricity. We can't see it. You can plug into an electrical outlet, those two little holes in the wall, and light up this room. You can light up a surgery. Or you can electrocute a person strapped in a chair.
Power makes no demands.
If you're not, you will use me with deception. It's up to you. You use power according to how you acknowledge it inside yourself. A number of young women today are having babies because they want to get out of the house. So they go on welfare before they finish junior high school.