Let's say we have a kid what comes inside the school and paints graffiti on the walls and gets caught. The next thing we need to work on with our kids is to make them understand how life works. So many kids are given every little thing by their parents that they don't know how to deal with failure. It is as important for a child to learn how to fail as it is for a child to learn how to succeed. In our day we had to learn both.
Nobody likes a bad sport.
We has to come up with some way to let kids learn how to win, through making their mistakes and giving them the proper guidance along the way. That's what we used to do when we'd start learning how to git us a trade as a youngun. Being an apprentice lets a young'un work along side a master, learning what the skills needed for the trade are. The apprentice would take years to train, little by little the master would teach them the finer points of being good at something, and the apprentice would develop a respect for the master that was unparalleled. That's how it ort ta be between a parent and a child.