The personal happiness of an individual is more important than putting up with a bad marriage. If one spouse becomes mentally or physically disabled, the other person should stay in the marriage regardless of his or her own happiness. Marriage is for life, even if the couple is unhappy. In marriages where parents fight a lot, children are better off if their parents divorce or separate. Add up your total score.
Marriage is hard work.
It takes real effort to have a successful marriage. If you discover that your divorce attitude scores are limiting the efforts you make to have the kind of marriage you want, change is possible. A key to attitude and behavior change is understanding, then living by the principles of successful marriage. You'll also find these principles taught in marriage workshops. Check them out.