Sex is great with my wife, but sometimes it takes me close to 30 or 40 minutes to have an orgasm. I know most guys would love to have this problem, but going that long becomes painful for my wife. Most men with this problem say it takes them at least half an hour of extremely vigorous thrusting before they can ejaculate. In many cases, sex has to last an hour or more before ejaculation finally occurs. While this may sound appealing to some guys, for people like you who have to live with it, the lengthy sex episodes are actually quite frustrating.
Sex ends up turning into work, eliminating most of the fun and enjoyment of making love.
Also, the woman often ends up irritated and sore from the prolonged sex, especially if her vaginal lubrication dries up. Retarded ejaculation could be due to many things, including heavy alcohol or cocaine use, narcotic addiction, or use of psychoactive drugs, including tranquilizers and antidepressants. Certain drugs used to treat high blood pressure also cause delayed ejaculation in some men. Psychological causes include fears of ejaculation inside a woman, performance pressures, and concern over impregnating or transmitting a sexual disease to a partner. If you are using prescription or illicit drugs, or abusing alcohol, please see a professional in order to change your prescription or detoxify your body.