Run get me a bag. It is the only one of the above examples that is a part of a climate that helps your child grow into a self-disciplined, responsible, resourceful, resilient, compassionate human being. The young graffiti artist gets to scrub her scribbling off the wall and is allowed to use the markers later to draw a picture on an easel. If children are isolated, humiliated or threatened with brute force, don't bother with the rest of this checklist. Cross this caregiver off your list and look for a new one.
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