Both law and love ultimately come from God. Prophets, in the biblical sense, try to tie law and love into each other. The O.T. prophets were always encouraging the people of God to keep the law of God. The recent Australian Uniting Church Interim Report on Sexuality looks at these two issues. It answers one of them very well and the other poorly.
Marginalized people ought to feel they're accepted in our churches.
Not just poorly, but heretically, I believe. It gives us permission to be revisionist when it comes to the clear mandates of Scripture, and that's not on, for a follower of Jesus. He came not to set aside God's law, but to fulfil it, by embodying the great law of love in himself. As God's chosen servant whom God loves and in whom God delights, Jesus was a meek Messiah, not a warlike one. Hang in there.