There are certain stages in their lives when you have to give them the time when they want it. You can't run your family like a company. It doesn't work. Assume any career moves you make won't go smoothly. But don't look back.
Methods have to change.
Focus has to change. Values have to change. The sum total of those changes is transformation. Technology is both an end in itself and a means to other ends. When you figure something out and make it work, there is pleasure and excitement.