Having a large number of people will also make it easy for guests to move freely from the buffet table and from one small group to another. Large tables full of glasses and embellishments simply do not encourage stimulating conversations. At small tables, everyone seated will join in the conversation. At catered affairs, the ideal table for 8 should be about 100 cm. This may seem a bit small, but will encourage interesting talk between those seated together.
Soft light is most comfortable and inductive to conversation and good dining.
Candles make people relax, so do not hesitate to highlight your party with lots of candles. Avoid the tapered variety unless you want to worry about wax dripping onto tablecloths, plates and clothing. Flowers are important and should come into your planning. Cut flowers, ferns and green plants add color and a sense of luxury to any setting. Many experienced hosts find that they also have the effect of keeping conversation from rising to too high a level.