Mostly it's arduous and time consuming. On the other hand, I love to cook. It's cathartic, creative and different enough from what I do for a living to provide me with a much-needed reprieve. So I cook. I also clean.
Norm lifts heavy things.
He takes the garbage out. He also takes care of office and travel trivia and returns more calls than I do. For example, I read a lot. Norm reads less. Rather than undertaking lifelong remediation with each other, we use our differences in complementary ways.