This article appears in Vol. Yet, the sexual assault of boys is drastically under-reported. It is never an expression of love, so it doesn't have a thing to do with true sexuality.
Molesters are predators.
They come from all walks of life, all social classes, all races, and both genders. Those few men who do speak out about their molest experiences often do so in monotones, without any outward emotion. Other men minimize their trauma by playing it down. In his eyes, he entered into a barter arrangement wherein he swapped blow-jobs for candy. I know why so many men won't talk about their molest experiences, because I was sexually abused by my grandmother from infancy until the age of five.