Charity begins at home. Create Caring Coupon Books to encourage acts of caring and service. Kids can do chores for one another, read to one another, share a special toy, allow their sibling choose the TV show or music in the car or practice a sport or play a game with the recipient. Have each child choose a family member to give the coupon book. Illustrate it and make a cover.
Staple sides together.
Deliver to the lucky recipient. The heart of manners is caring about the other person. Kind manners and good behavior makes one feel good about oneself and a stronger sense of self. Consideration of others at home makes people want to be around you. Letitia Baldridge's More than Manners.