Getting parents to realize their increasing physical and mental limitations is a particularly thorny problem for families. Let s face it, caregiving is stressful, probably one of the most difficult jobs you ve ever had. The common desire to do everything you can for your loved one often leads to physical and emotional exhaustion. Financial and social stress also take their toll. It s imperative that you take good care of yourself or you ll become ill and unable to provide help.
Most support groups are free or low cost and are led by a healthcare professional.
See the resources in this chapter. Caregivers also can call information and assistance hotlines sponsored by local hospitals and nonprofits. Remember, though it might not always feel like it, providing care for an aging parent can be extremely rewarding. It can bring you closer than you ve ever been before. So, cherish the moments of joy.