Both of you deserve better. People often need help to get out of abusive relationships. There are lots of reasons why breaking free can be hard. From a very early age, we get the idea that having a romantic relationship is the most important thing in the world and is worth any sacrifice. Going out with someone can be a status symbol, a way to feel more secure, or a way to break into a new circle of friends.
Some people just don t like to be alone.
They may feel that any relationship is better than no relationship. Many teenagers don t want to ask their parents for help. A boy s parents might not approve of his girlfriend s influence and take away his car keys. The parents of a lesbian, gay, or bisexual teen might see one violent relationship as proof that all same-sex relationships are unhealthy. Don t think the violence and abuse will just stop by itself.