Too many women have sexual relationships with men they care nothing about because those men provide material comforts. If a woman doesn't love herself, she certainly won't love her children enough to chose a man who is positive, caring and hard working instead of some con with an expensive car. If women chose only positive, hard working brothers for sexual relationships, there suddenly would be a lot more positive, hard working brothers around. If men stopped looking to put notches on their belts and instead formed loving relationships with positive, caring and hard working sisters, our communities could grow and prosper. Marriage, which should be a positive institution in our community, has been deformed into legalized prostitution.
Sex is used to lure a man into a legal contract to support a woman and their children.
She loves his BMW and he loves her mammaries. So the caring and often the sex stop just minutes into the marriage, and the husband now moves off to become a married dog instead of a single one, if he stays in the relationship at all. Black people have to learn to love themselves, love their partners, their children and their community. We must form relationships based on love, not greed, sex, self-hatred or insecurity. Give us your thoughts on sex . . .