Porn is porn no matter what form it is in. Sometimes I have felt like jumping off a cliff because I will never amount to women in porn. We could never use porn together because of the way it makes me feel. Talking to many other women, it seems it hurts more relationships although I know there are women out there who like porn and do not mind and maybe makes theirs better. I can say for sure that it definitely hurts and has almost destroyed at one point my relationship with my boyfriend, which is wonderful otherwise.
Pornography is very healthy.
Pornography, which I will define as ANY media intended to invoke an erotic response, is inherently beneficial to people. Learning how to USE it is important. All things around us can have sexual impact. Our cultural context sets the stage for what we view as erotic. Pornography is an excellent tool for working with our sexuality.