Jakes explains that the very greatness of a woman, that which gives her great value, can make her the target of evil, just like Eve in the Garden of Eden, who thought she was doing something good and positive. Men can appeal to the woman's needs that make her vulnerable. I suspect that your boss used some of these tactics on you. He can appeal to your need to communicate. He can entice you with smooth words and interesting conversations to beguile you.
Words used correctly can capture a woman's heart.
He can appeal to your need to help and contribute. The maternal role and instincts of the woman make it natural for her to be a giver. He can appeal to your need for intimacy and affection that may lead to immediate gratification but may be dangerous in the long run. He can address your pride. It is the need to be superior to others.