Sadly, some cries for help go unheard or the attempts succeed better than was intended. Many suicides are caused by treatable depression. This is a waste of life, and one that could be avoided with counselling or medical or psychiatric care. Humanist thinking on suicide Humanists are guided by reason and compassion, and judge each situation individually, considering the wishes of those involved, the alternatives and the possible consequences. Anyone contemplating suicide ought to consider the effects on family and friends - the consequences can be devastating for those left behind and this is the main reason that suicide can be considered wrong.
Suicide can sometimes be a very selfish act.
Humanist ideals include greater tolerance of difference, and support for isolated, depressed, and disadvantaged people. Some suicides could be avoided if people showed more care and concern for others. Few people need be as isolated and alone as they may feel - there will be others in the same situation and there may be organisations that can offer help, support and a sense of belonging. It is right to do your best to dissuade a suicide - talk, friendship, practical advice and help, listening, may all help . If you have done your best you should not feel guilty or responsible, whatever the outcome.