That love was not episodic, occurring only once in Jerusalem 2,000 years ago. It continues forever in the heart of the Risen Christ. The priest in the mass provides his heart as the locus, in a given time and place, of the timeless love of the Risen Christ. Christ's love is masculine, even as his human nature is masculine. It cannot exist sacramentally in a feminine heart.
Sacraments have to have their proper matter.
And so, a bishop might say the words of ordination over a woman, and she might then say the words of mass. But in both cases, nothing real would happen. The language, as we say, would not be performative. Those who believe that reserving ordination to men denigrates women seem not to understand the role of gender in our personal identities. Being masculine or feminine is not peripheral, like eye color or musical talent.