It's difficult enough for men who aren't sexually addicted not to give in regularly to lust and its inexorable pull. In Western culture, viewing sexually stimulating material is almost inescapable. Sex addicts must have the understanding, accountability, and support that is provided in the loving context of Christian treatment and follow-up care. Recovery for sex addiction is a long and winding road. Addicts must be brutally honest with themselves and others.
Sex addicts can experience withdrawal, which can cause painful emotional and even physical distress.
They need companions offering support and accountability without condemnation, especially during times of failure. In addition to encouraging the person to get treatment, pastors can provide ongoing care. Reaffirm that God's grace and power are available for all who turn to God for help. Reaffirm your love for the sex addict. You may need to ask God to give you true compassion for one who has disappointed you and may have done things you cannot fathom.