If you have a problem with purity do something about it. Bad childhood and bad teachers don't cut it. You are without excuse. The second characteristic Cawley listed was the posture of servanthood. Don't let your title cause an inflated sense of self importance.
Pride can be dangerous.
The fourth characteristic Cawley noted was predictable and sustainable trust. The fifth characteristic he cited was partnership and parenthood. He said if leaders were poor at exercising leadership at home their leadership at work will be questioned. Cawley concluded the list of characterstics with the element of prayer. Rely on prayer.