Start answering ads on your own and meeting as many people as possible. Dealing with the smaller sites on the internet will take time, but the exposure is worth it. You have finished the hard part. Put step four and five in place and keep going. So what if this embarrasses you, do it anyway.
People love to play matchmaker.
FIVE Network with all the people you meet. Unfortunately, there is NO chemistry with this person. We don' t have a real spark with many people. Don't expect it often and don't be surprised when YOU ignite a weak spark with others. Instead of trying to fan a cold fire, you need to keep moving.