Now usually it's at this point that we start to pay attention. Certainly we all listen to problems that are screaming at us for attention. Though there are still some who just don't get it, and very quickly, because they haven't dealt with the problem, it has now reached a Crisis. At this point every one of us gets the message. It's too painful to ignore.
Nobody likes a crisis.
And thus we receive the message the hard way, as they say. Learn to look for messages, pay attention, and be perfectly present with what's happening at this very moment. Within each message is the seed of a Transition. What I've just outlined, very briefly, is a two step process for creating positive change in your life. Gaps and Transitions go hand in hand.