Often, we do have to carry books, files, lunches, umbrellas, etc. But our purse isn t the place for those things. A lightweight briefcase or tote bag is the answer. That way, when you go for lunch, you can leave your tote behind. Or, when you re going to and from work, you can carry your purse on one side, and your briefcase on the other thereby distributing the weight.
Many times there is a psychological reason such as insecurity behind an overstuffed handbag.
Empty the contents of your purse and consider each item carefully before putting it back in. Consider your wallet. Take inventory of your wallet too. It could even help your budget if you put one or two in a secure place at home. If you are the kind of person who prefers to use bills when making purchases, get into the habit of putting your change in a jar every night when you get home.