Reading, writing, internet. I travel so much, I really enjoy spending my time at home hanging out with my family, or reading. I also spend time practicing Wicca. The couple answers the questions with ease, emotions flashing across their face, reflecting their true feelings about the subjects broached. I'll let you know.
Women are much more emotionally available in general.
I think that long-term lesbian couples have a much greater intimacy level. I've read somewhere that at seven years, it's equivalent to forty or fifty years in a hetero relationship. The role of a woman in hetero sex is simply as a receiver in my experience. There is no power. Women are more manipulative.