Some doctors encourage shared decision making with parents, others are more directive. Breast versus bottle feeding, circumcision and nutrition arc good topics for discussion. You should feel comfortable sharing your feelings and concerns with the doctor you select. By sharing your wishes and goals you can begin to develop a good working relationship. First, share your concerns with the doctor.
Open communication is the first and most important step.
If your concerns persist, then you may wish to consider going to another name on your list. References Caring for Your Baby and Young Child , Steven P. Shelov, Ed. What To Expect the First Year by Arlene Eisenberg, 11. Workman Publishing, 1989. Touchpoints by T. Berry Brazelton.