There are conditions. Another lesson helps mothers set aside relatively short times each week to be alone with every child, doing whatever that child enjoys. Such times can be as short as 15 to 20 minutes once per week, if necessary. More is better in this case. They say their kids are less whiney and have fewer sibling fights.
Moms also report that they really start enjoying time spent with their children.
Wolchik's program has other keystones. They address maintaining clear, consistent discipline, minimizing interparental conflict, and setting up appropriate contact with the noncustodial parent. Participants in New Beginnings are advised to consciously seek out things their kids do well. People under stress tend to perceive more negative issues. Anger management is a large part of the program.