Men connect by doing things. Women connect by talking. A fascinating aspect of this difference is the way the two sexes define intimacy. They think doing something together, even watching TV in stony silence, is the epitome of closeness. Try discussing each other's needs in this area and then work on meeting them.
Men tend to compete.
Women tend to cooperate. This can help explain why a man suddenly starts an argument over something his wife had no idea would start a fight. This competitiveness extends into all kinds of areas, from jobs to child-rearing to driving. Be more concerned with being a loving husband and supportive father than your status as head of the home. Men tend to be controlling.