Most children think that they have no responsibility at all. That is true. The world does not owe us a living. The world can be brutal. To children, fairness is not the issue.
Obedience is the issue.
Just because you have old fogies for parents that does not justify disobedience. Children are not their own person while under their parents roof. This is basic authority. The breakdown of the authority of the family will break down society. If children resent their parents because they are not easy going, they are on their way down.