In other words, move beyond 'Generic Romance,' that is, all the expected stuff. I'm trying to surprise my husband with something special for Valentine's Day, but I'm not sure what. We already know where we are going. Now I just need the night plan. Men tend to like black and red.
Some women prefer white and pink.
Sit down with a Playboy magazine and discuss the photos. It's a real eye-opener. No pun intended. To get your romantic motor humming, check out these ideas from Greg and other iVillage members. Also, share your romance triumphs and trials in one of our message boards.