The devil as the word say is Genesis, is more cunning than any other creature. He uses this cunning to get you to destroy your marriage with your own mouths. Hateful words suck the life out of the marriage. But if you harbor bitter envy and selfish ambition in your hearts, do not boast about it or deny the truth. If you find these elements persisting in your marriage seek deliverance as soon as possible.
Selfishness is the root cause of all marital discord.
When ever you hear terms such as I, me, my. You can be assured this relationship is on a destructive course. Love is patient, love is kind. It does not envy, it does not boast, it is not proud. It is not rude, it is not self-seeking , it is not easily angered, it keeps no record of wrongs.