Having a bursting gut will make you feel very unsexy and it leaves you feeling sluggish. You can find recipes on the internet or in one of the many books out there. Perhaps you want some candles or incense burning in the background and a little something to apply to yourself. Jasmine has long been known for its affects, it is considered a great cure for frigidity in women. Other great scents are sandalwood, cinnamon and frankincense.
Some people like to use raw eggs as a massage lotion.
Only you can decide what will work for you. But probably the number one aphrodisiac is your own state of mind. If you feel sexy, you will be sexy. This will in turn, cause your partner to feel sexier. Think sexy thoughts or talk dirty to your partner.