He enjoyed himself, and we knew that he was safe. Talking to him about his plans was the best thing that we could have done. Bowling is a great idea. Depending on where you live, some bowling alleys offer a 'Rock N Bowl' where they play really loud rock music. Check with your local bowling alleys and see what they offer.
Parents organize it, volunteer as chaperones, and donate food.
They solicit donations from local businesses and have prize drawings throughout the night, everything from bikes, stereos, TVs, to coupons for free bowling, video rentals and pizzas. It starts after prom and goes on until 4 or 5 a.m. The gym is open for basketball and volleyball, the pool for swimming, or the kids can just hang out, listen to tunes and be together. In the past, we have told our son that he absolutely could not spend the night in a hotel room. But since he is a senior this year, and he has never given us any problems, we thought he should be allowed to go this year.