They love to stare at pictures of babies, talk about babies, carry around baby dolls, etc. If this sounds like your toddler, you might start preparing him by encouraging that curiosity. Dr. McCoy says that it definitely depends on age. Fortunately, most toddlers seem to immediately accept mommy s growing belly and some even seem to understand that a baby lives there. Use that acceptance to your advantage.
Most parents worry about their toddler being jealous of the new baby.
If you have friends or family with a newborn, try to spend some time with that baby in front of your toddler. Get his interest focused on how different the baby looks, or how soft her skin is. If you are lucky enough to see a baby regularly, you may want to let your toddler explore new sibling tasks. This is an excellent opportunity to teach him how to develop a gentle touch and demeanor. Ask him to get a diaper for the baby or find the baby s favorite blanket.