Not all spiritual directors charge for their services, although laypeople who are supporting themselves by their work are more likely to. Sometimes a spiritual director will ask the person to donate the money to a charitable cause. Finding the right spiritual director for you can be a challenge. Retreat centers or spirituality centers are other good sources of possible companions. While SDI does not endorse or recommend any particular directors, it can connect people with a regional contact.
Word of mouth tends to be one of the best ways to find a spiritual director.
Or you may already know someone who seems to possess an inner peace or spirituality that you admire.