Paglia is just stating the truth and being real with herself.
Women are just as aggressive as men.
If a woman goes into a bar half dressed, then goes home with some drunk man she knows what he wants, and its not a good conversation. You have to use common sense sometimes. If you let them come over then you have sex with them because you didn't want them to be angry, don't cry about it the morning because you weren't date raped. Hinting around to someone does not mean no. That person will probably think that you are just playing hard to get.