A lot of areas we have seen completed, to the point they were not the same, and yes, I know the verses about women keeping silent. That was directed toward those wives with children who could miss something while taking care of the children. Instead of having the husband miss something trying to explain what the wife missed, the husband would teach her at home. Also, we are all equal in grace. I will not disagree that some men need a man as a pastor as some women need a woman.
Some men can handle a woman as a pastor, just as women handle men as pastors.
Remember what separated us at the beginning was not the physical differences because we are whole together, and only half as individuals. God removed something from Adam, meaning Adam and all men from then on were not whole. He created woman, and that meant all women could not be whole unless joined to the man they were taken out of. What we are missing they have, and what they are missing we have. We make a great team, if we can just get past some areas that divide us.