These must all be resolved one by one before you can realistically start on a road to learning new skills. Study your answers and look for a common theme. Write a paragraph about what you think a perfect day would be like. I've talked with hundreds of women over the years who seem to think they are incapable of learning and succeeding at anything new. Somewhere along the line, they've been told by parents, spouses, or friends that getting ahead was reserved for the lucky ones.
Most people are naturally opposed to learning new things because of fear of failure.
Ignore the others. No one is asking you to become a nuclear scientist or brain surgeon, unless, of course, you feel drawn to those professions, which is exactly the point. We usually feel attracted to areas and levels of skill that are within our comfort zones. Trust your instincts. Know the difference between lack of ability and lack of desire.