Both of you should be responsible for raising the children. This ideal should be pursued if a parent's problems do not endanger the child. Develop a support network of family, friends and community resources. These can provide emotional and practical help for children during divorce and afterwards. Grandparents can play an especially important role.
Religious organizations can help.
Quality child care centers and schools can provide a nurturing, structured, predictable environment for children. For more information, contact your local Montana State University Extension office. Duncan has a doctorate in family studies from Purdue University. You are the 34659th person to access this page.