He prefers to feed himself, but then he won't eat very much. He has more fun just playing with his food. Sue Gilbert Sue is a consulting nutritionist. For many years she worked with Earth's Best Organic Baby Food, integrating nutrition and product development. She has written numerous articles on children's health and nutrition for parenting publications.
Toddlers eat little relative to parental expectations.
It may be that your worrying about his intake may be somewhat unnecessary, due to unrealistic expectations. It makes for an interesting picture. Then, after you have provided the food, leave it to him to be sure he is getting the calories he needs. Left to their own devices with healthy food, kids will eat what they need. To help you help him get the proper nourishment start by becoming familiar with the daily food needs of a toddler.