Be generous with praise, cautious with criticism. Be considerate of the feelings of others. Be alert to give service. What counts most in life is what we do for others. Type C occurs when there is an intention to cooperate, collaborate, be close, agree, share, and, ultimately, love.
Type D occurs when there is distance, disagreement, distrust, disapproval, criticism, and hostility.
At times the type D behaviors are barriers others must be willing to overcome before any type C warmth will be shown. Or it may be a protective tactic. The Power of Positive Thinking 1. Learn to remember names. Inefficiency at this point may indicate that your interest is not sufficiently outgoing.