Although it can be painful to recognize what is happening, it is very important to do so and get help as early as possible. Most abusive relationships get worse, rather than better, over time. Intimate partner violence is a crime in all fifty states. Whoever you are, you are entitled to protection. Men batter other men in intimate relationships, women batter men, and women batter other women.
Nobody ever deserves to be abused.
And you are not alone in your struggle. By logging onto this site, you are taking an important first step towards reclaiming control of your life. However, we are not able to take into account your individual questions and concerns over the Internet. Effective safety planning requires consideration of individual circumstances. For this reason, we urge you to call our office as soon as possible.