It does not make them weak. Love gives us power, especially the love of nonsexual friends, be they Ours or not. Someday, they will beg for your love and then, if you so desire, accept them into your Heart. These addresses may change sooner or later, so it is best to check with the Women's Resource Center at your local university or in the references I mentioned or if everything else fails, ask the 800 directory for a counseling service for teens. If someone betrays you, try someone else.
Masturbation too is holy.
Also remember, Ours depend on the mercy and forbearance of other human beings, especially those who hold power. Do not oppose power, do not aggrandize powerful people. Avoid, if necessary. Leave, if you can. Appease and flatter, but do not confront.