But the reality here, too, is not what men generally believe it to be. Whether or not men choose to recognize it, men are hurt, just as the entire society is hurt, by attitudes and behaviors that restrict a person's freedom and limit one's equal access. Because of rape we pay a terrible price in the quality of our relationships with women and with men. All of Us A national survey estimated 1 out of every 4 college women reported being a victim of rape or attempted rape. While most men are not rapists, most rapists are men.
Rape is an act of aggression.
Rape is a crime punishable by law. Women do not provoke rape because of their appearance, behavior, or reputation. A high percentage of campus rapes involve the use of alcohol. False reports of rape are extremely rare. Discussing mutual expectations and clarifying any mixed messages are effective ways of eliminating confusion and greatly reducing the risk of sexual assault.