When the inevitable problems arise with children, parents should take steps to solve the issues promptly and completely. Parents should apologize if they are in the wrong, convey commitment to their relationship with the child and seek constructive solutions. Prompt attention to problems keeps hurt feelings from festering and serves as a role model for future disagreements. Share family history. Kids will enjoy stories about when their parents were growing up and the feelings they experienced about their own parents.
Parents can point out how their youth was similar or dissimilar to their children's.
Boys and girls need ongoing parental support. They require guidance, assistance, applause and comfort.