I guess that is the plan for now. Just put myself in a lower gear, throttle down, and let her come to me. As I said elsewhere, historically, this has been like trying to win a staring contest with the Sphinx, but maybe we are a little further along now. Thanks for your thoughts, Karenna. Patience is what I need, you are right.
Takers are impatient.
You are really doing well, but it takes time to rework your foundation to intimacy on both sides. Congratulations on the pleasant weekend. Being patient isn't easy. Patience is simply faking nonchalance until you reach acceptance. Once you accept reality there is no need for faking or acting.