Too much of a good thing, though, and your beloved will feel that you are trying to buy their favours. Major turn off time. Ongoing little courtesies and favours will go a much longer way and speak of a deeper sense of caring. Broaden your expectations. I know of many people who never get a date because they are waiting for the TV ideal to walk into their life.
People can come in all sorts of packages and still be sexy and loveable.
You could be limiting your choices too severely. For instance to say that you would never go out with someone who cheers for the Seattle Seahawks means you could be missing out on all sorts of people who share your love of football. Broadening your expectations to me also means freeing yourself from roles. Don't expect your beloved to behave in certain ways because of their gender or career. In freeing yourself from judgements and expectations, you open yourself to enjoying the new and unexpected aspects of your beloved, thus broadening yourself.