To protect your own emotional well-being, clearly and firmly refuse to be put in the middle. Help your parents understand what you are doing for yourself . During and after the divorce, your parents may have difficulty seeing things clearly, or appreciating your point of view. Make an effort to prevent hurt feelings or misunderstandings by explaining your experiences and actions. Find out what works for you .
Reactions vary widely to parental divorce.
There is no set pattern of how you are going to feel. Don't ignore your feelings, and stay productive in your own life. Try to avoid making major decisions or changes. Your familiar surroundings, friends, and activities will help keep you on the right path. Use helping resources outside your family .