But it also takes in account that at some point, contact should be made with others in the community. Not necessarily for social purposes, but more for safety reasons. Then think about what you won't do. Three that instantly spring to mind for me are anything to do with children including age play, anything to do with animals including puppy play and scat. None appeal to me for varying reasons.
Some people have a fear of fire.
Others of canes . Perhaps mind fucks aren't a good place to go with you. There are lists online that act as checklist . This is a good place to start. READ as much information as you can about what you are interested in.