Any narrow standard of beauty is absurd. Some women are very surprised to find that social nudity defuses sexual tension and feels so relaxing. The mutual vulnerability of having nothing to hide somehow balances the power equation between sexes, and universal body acceptance facilitates a comfortable self acceptance. It feels like the ultimate tranquilizer to just be here now in the all together. Because it is so humanizing an experience, being nude with people also facilitates communications across gender, generational and genetic differences and makes us feel part of some great universal family.
Unexpected friendships seem to develop easily and comfortably.
Pre-schoolers take to nudity easily because it's natural, and they haven't yet been taught otherwise. Young people at play learn to accept their bodies and themselves as part of their species, just as a matter of course. Obviously, naturist men have something to do with Lupin's gentle, liberating feeling. Men who do not respect women as equals or who treat anyone as sexual prey have no place here and are simply excluded from the club whenever their unsuitability becomes evident. That such negative screening is so rarely necessary speaks well of the character of most men who are attracted to Lupin.