In other words, they generally reflect the treatment they receive from others. Consequently, treating others with courtesy usually causes them to be courteous to us. Patience and kindness promotes patience and kindness, etc. Then treat others with the same attitude and consideration that you wish to be shown. The great effect that we have upon others by our behavior, is one of the most important reasons that God wants us to fellowship with other believers.
People imitate how they are treated.
What you sow into the lives of people is what you will reap. You'd be amazed at how many people feel lonely and lack friends simply because they don't apply the law of sowing and reaping. The ability to make friends has nothing to do with how attractive, smart or successful you are. Once again, our attitudes and actions toward others are the measure by which they usually relate to us. Sometimes persons may have a low self-esteem or may be preoccupied with problems which may cause them to seem distant or unfriendly to others.