The model allows for increases in responsibility when the couple demonstrates that they can handle it. The model permits a couple to operate from a distance that is emotionally suitable for them. The model assists in balancing the extreme imbalances, real or imagined, that exist. The model insures that both voices will be heard. The structure of the mutual divorce mediation model involves four stages.
Some couples are able to skip certain stages depending on the level of their intensity.
Before beginning the process, each partner is given a coach and a collaborative attorney whose sole purpose is to represent their individual needs and interests throughout all the stages. This contrasts with the usual model wherein the mediators attempt to remain neutral at all times. With each partner having their own coach and attorney, it provides them the security that their voice will be heard and that someone is on their side. This lessens their need to interrupt and make continuous demands. It needs to be noted that at no time will the coaches or attorneys express any hostility or put down of the other partner.