And you can quote me on that. I often side with Paglia and always appreciate those like herself who make us stop and think. She is right about gay men appearing to many people to be amoral. The irony of your article is that people like Epperly who you quote are the reason we come off that way. Epperly would rather make a sweeping statement to condemn men who don't have sex the way he prefers, than deal with the very complicated nature of our sexuality.
Some men do appear to be amoral in their conduct.
Epperly finds so offensive have a fairly well-developed moral code. At least when it comes to their sex lives. I can't speak for the rest of their lives. The gay movement in the USA is very provincial when compared to the larger world out there. And the local communities are almost always the same.