Don t focus attention on them only when there s a problem. Let your kids know you are proud of them for doing the right thing even when it seems like no big thing. Watch for signs that your teenager needs help. Learn the signs of drug and alcohol use, school failure, depression, and violence. Don t be afraid to step in and seek outside help.
Most communities have resources to help parents help their kids.
Make your home safe and teach your kids the importance of safety. If you own guns, make sure that they are kept locked up. Don t bring illegal drugs into your home, and keep your liquor cabinet locked. Don t smoke around your kids or allow others to do so. Make sure your teens wear seatbelts, get good drivers education, and know the danger of drinking and driving.