Try to spend a few minutes on yourself each day. Any relationship takes time to develop. A relationship with a stepchild should happen naturally so that it isn t forced. Take your time. It may take several years to genuinely get to know and feel comfortable with one another.
Most families have certain traditions and rituals.
Holidays are an excellent example of this. Perhaps one family opens their gifts on Christmas Eve, or decorates the Christmas tree in a special way. When two families come together it is an opportune time to combine the traditions of each family, as well as establish traditions for the new family. The blending of two families together can be hard work. Having patience will help make the transition much smoother.