Give it to relatives as well. Schedule meetings with care givers before the school year begins, to set in place a management plan for children with life threatening allergies. If your school does not have a written policy on anaphylaxis which states their responsibility to help ensure the safety of the allergic child, offer to work on one with them. Learn to recognize , accept and control your anxiety. Have a support system.
Some anxiety is inevitable but it can be minimized.
See a professional if necessary, to learn how to manage anxiety. Enlist the support of your spouse and make an effort to give some extra attention to non-allergic siblings, who may feel left out or unnecessarily restricted by the allergy. Teach your child to be extra responsible in all aspects of life, at an early age. For his or her own safety, the child needs to take responsibility for the allergy as soon as possible. This is not intended as a substitute for professional advice.