Lately I have been questioning my sexual identity . I have been calling myself bisexual, and I am currently involved with a man, but I think I am a lesbian. This is the most important thing. Sometimes we cannot always predict to whom we will be attracted, and labeling ourselves may prevent us from accepting our range of feelings or accepting what we really want. We also understand that within a label, we can feel supported and affirmed.
Physical attraction can be different from a more emotionally based attraction.
You may be sexually attracted to the man you're involved with, but have a more fulfilling relationship with a woman, or vice versa, or your situation may be even more complicated. But when it comes down to it, you love who you love. We can't tell you how to place yourself in categories or what criteria to use, but we urge you to be open and accepting to all your feelings. Realize that this is not a simple process, especially when surrounded by social and political ideologies that make it even more difficult. If possible, separate yourself from these influences and do what feels best for you.