Most people attempt to act sexually responsible. We need to assist this trend, and to stop applying glib retorts to salve our conscience of failures. But, this is only partly true. Sure, only women undergo the procedures, but the effects impact many people. Very few women who have had abortions have felt no anxiety over the act or the issues leading to the act, or the feelings after the act.
Men deal with the effects of abortion, before, during and after the procedure as well.
Abortions are almost always emotionally traumatic. Better to tell people to think with their heads and not their hormones. Better to prevent the desire for abortion. Finally, making abortions more difficult to obtain is in the best interest of the nation as a whole if it wishes to see every citizens life as having value. By systematically, methodically and with a phased approach we can come down off the drug of permissiveness.