This process may be totally computerized in larger chain stores, or more personal and hands-on in smaller stores. Once you set your wedding date, you can register. The length of time you can be registered varies by store. Some stores keep you on the list through several wedding anniversaries. Many stores offer computer registries that allow guests to see what you registered for and what has already been purchased.
Nationwide chains offer computer registry throughout the country.
Even though you're getting married in North Carolina, your Aunt Gertrude can still go to your preferred department store in Portland, Oregon. When she types in your name, she finds out what you registered for and what has already been purchased for you. You can also register for sheets, towels, kitchen linens, appliances and even furniture. There are really no etiquette rules about registering for items. But, it's best to give your guests not only a variety of items, but a variety of price ranges.