Hard Choices Made Easier When to take a stand, when to argue, and when to let go are hard choices for parents. As in any relationship, constructive criticism is easier to take. The trick is to say that something was wrong without saying the one who did it is hopeless. You You can help your teens mature when love and trust are the basis of your relationship. A positive attitude and realistic expectations are important.
Open communication is the key.
Equally important is the support available to you outside the home. Parent groups, school and community counselors can give you ideas and skills. For drug and alcohol problems, 24-hour service lines are listed in the telephone directory.