Any individual in a vehicle should be secured in appropriate restraints when the vehicle is moving. It is well known that seatbelts can lacerate a child's liver or spleen during an accident. All children on the water should wear water floatation devices, as they are of no benefit to a drowning child stowed under a seat. Our view of freedom is limited by our choice of life style- the choice that brings our children in harm's way should also realize the obligatory choice of lessening any possible injury. Protective legislation becomes mandatory.
Violence prevention starts with an attitude that all individuals and their viewpoints are valued.
Conflict is best resolved with mutual respect, negotiation and compromise. Media that promotes violent solutions to children needs to be critically scrutinized. Schools need to foster conflict- solving techniques for the bully, the victim, and the disciplinary techniques for children. Parents need to set aside times to listen to their children, thank them for their thoughts, and show that they are respected and loved. To step out of the adult world and listen intently to our children is not an easy task.