She says that she does not want to, and he replies that he knows she does and proceeds to have intercourse with her against her will. Given the circumstances, this would legally be defined as rape. Most rapes are planned in advance rather than occurring spontaneously. If a rape victim blames herself for the assault, it often means she played some role precipitating it. It is not rare for a rape victim to have experienced more than one sexual assault during her lifetime.
Most victims report rapes to the police and want to see their assailant punished.
There is little consensus as to whether it is better to submit to a rape attempt or try to resist and risk further harm. It is not uncommon for a victim to delay in reporting a sexual assault. Because of the trauma of the rape experience, victims seek stability and tend not to make any sudden life changes, such as moving or changing jobs. When victims delay in reporting a rape, there is reason to believe the rape did not really occur.