Bond damage causes men and women to be violent, suicidal, sickly, and have a short life span. This human tragedy also causes the man to hide his feelings, to be easily agitated, and have conflicts understanding and using his cycles. The bond damaged woman waiting for unbalanced mental and emotional cycles to mature before altering their behavior distributes negative feelings to others or traumatizes herself. A damaged bond does not allow the child to complete the defining of personality. Personality relates to the spirit.
Marriage helps in bonding mind, body, and culture.
If the personality is bond-damaged then concrete thinking and the physical world are used to fulfill the missing ingredients of an ill bond. This is typical of caucasian personalities. In any case, white racist institutions continue to damage Afrikans by dislocating the bond. They transfer the bond to white culture and this causes spiritual, physical, mental, and emotional illnesses. For example, the original idea by Carter G. Woodson of a Negro History Day is now a white institution called Black History month with role models picked by caucasians.