Like the wife in the restaurant, we don't know how someone else can have such a different perception of what to us seems obvious. Just remember that you don't have to become an instant Inner Languages recognition expert. Here's a quick rundown on the three Inner Language types. Conscious of their looks, they're usually dressed appropriately for whatever they're doing, even if it's gardening. They express themselves in visual terms.
Visual people are often slow in expressing their feelings.
Even if you're not visual, a visual person can be a good match for you, bringing beauty into your life in many ways, such as planning the route for your weekend trip so that it becomes a more scenic getaway. Like the wife in the above case history, they are unusually sensitive to sounds, from the balance on your stereo to a distant diesel truck on a quiet evening. Tuned to the sounds of words, they are often quite analytical, noticing inconsistencies and preferring things clearly stated rather than implied. Before replying to a question, their eyes will glance from right to left, like watching a tennis match, which means they're having a quick conversation with themselves about the answer. An auditory person can be a good match for a non-auditory person, even if they don't immediately notice your new hairdo or that you've shaved your moustache.