There can be those who, with hidden motives or sometimes motives not so hidden, are purposely trying to scuttle a project to achieve their own ends. But means can be found to prevent this. Meet with them and seek an accommodation. It is such a tragedy when people, friends or family, for example, face a problem and end up alienated from each other. Rather than binding together, they split apart.
Reports indicate that when a couple loses a child in death, it frequently causes a divorce.
Yet bereavement is the time when they should be comforting each other, when the deepest love should and can prevail. To summarize, when things go wrong, don't just look for someone to blame. In doing so, analyze the circumstances as well as the motivations of those involved, and take the action necessary to put the situation back on track. Blame most often prevents a solution. The author would be most grateful for your responses and comments.