In other words, like the commercial said, don't hate me 'cause I'm beautiful. Being very good looking in a work environment of mostly men can backfire on you big time. It can be veeeerrrry difficult at times to get taken seriously when you're little, young, and pretty. And he drove me away with all the complaining. Starting with viewing yourself from that standpoint.
Nothing is a bigger magnet than self-confidence.
Be proud of what you like about yourself, and then fix or accept what you don't like. And then get out there and make your dreams come true. Thin and gorgeous isn't the magic pill. And like Dolly Parton said in Steel Magnolias, there's no such thing as natural beauty. Thin and gorgeous is a lot of hard work, some of it very detrimental to one's health.