All sin originates from a love of self. Human EGO is the foundation of all wickedness. We crucify self and this permits Jesus to take command of our life. Self crucifixion is an absolute requirement. It is not easy to shoulder your particular cross but with Jesus strength you can achieve it.
Total surrender clears the way for burdens to be carried.
You can't lose, giving your heart to Jesus. Tomorrow the super bowl will be played. When you give away to Jesus your heart, you can't lose either. With Jesus there are no losers. Denial or surrender is the key to spiritual victory.