Mediation is like a round table conference, where you and the other people involved discuss your needs, each other's needs and your children's needs. Mediators ensure that discussions are orderly, and that both of you have a say, but will not give advice or tell you what to do. Mediators will assist you in talking about your concerns and ensure that the discussion is balanced and fair. The mediators summarise both sides and help determine what the issues are. The main issues are listed and then discussed fully.
Private sessions are optional if required by the parties.
During negotiation, options will be discussed and offers may be made. Voluntary agreements may be made between the parties. It is important to get legal advice before using mediation so that you are well informed about your legal rights and obligations. Also, legal assistance will be necessary to make your agreements legally binding. Do NOT offer counselling Do NOT make decisions Do NOT take sides with either party.