Surrounded by knowing nods as each anecdote unfolded, I decided I must be the only person in this area code that hadn't either read all his stuff or partied with him. Seems when he wasn't writing or asleep, he was drinking or drunk and having a whale of a good time. Tale after tale recounted a man sorely missed for exceptional talent, unusual generosity, and utterly outrageous behavior. Even when you're a major celebrity, others will sign more books. But it put four kids in school and bought Microsoft stock.
Many fine editors are reticent people of few words.
Slather my style across the cover letter. It may be the only thing that gets read. You'll write better and your friends will tell funnier stories. The audience was instructive, as well. When the belly laughs subsided, I vowed to always ask for what I want.