Due to the open nature of the forum, other individuals may be responding to messages. A local attorney should always be consulted when legal advice is needed. The psyc test did reveal that he acts impulsively and irresponsibly. EEK - not what I wanted to hear. I am very very confused.
Most abusers view court orders as a test.
If you fail to enforce a court order, then they are encouraged to violate more court orders. One of the best things you can do is enforce a monetary order. It usually results in the abuser hiring a lawyer. The lawyer usually tries to keep their client out of trouble by encouraging compliance with the court orders.