Oppression never justifies more oppression.
Pop feminists need to accentuate some men's immoral behavior as a means to justify their own. When people whose hearts are full of hate die, with few notable exceptions their hate dies with them. When people whose hearts are full of love die, their love lives on in the hearts of those they leave behind. Lesbian advocate Chastity Bono says even though he publicly opposed her politics, Sonny Bono, her father, was proud of her efforts on behalf of lesbian rights. She doesn't get it, perhaps because in her paradigm hate and disagreement go hand in hand.