Many other reasons could also explain depression. Anti-depressant medications are usually effective. Menopause doesn't mean you're suddenly old, or even at the end of your life. Today, a woman can expect to live one-third of her life after menopause. Sex doesn't end with menopause.
Some women say they enjoy sex more after menopause because pregnancy is no longer a concern.
If intercourse becomes painful, talk to your daoctor. Common symptoms some women experience Hot flashes describe the sudden feeling of heat in the upper part or all of the body, often followed by perspiration, and a cold, clammy feeling. You can drink cold water or juice at the beginning of a hot flash. Dress in layers. Avoid hot or spicy foods, and watch alcohol and caffeine.