All of these things are good things that God wants us to do. But they are not the primary way we should rate our spiritual life. And they are certainly not the standard by which God decides how much he loves us. God loves us not because what we have done or will do - He loves us because of what Christ has done. His acceptance of us is complete in the cross.
Moralism slips back into our lives because of our rebellious hearts.
Just like people who don't know Christ find ways to avoid God through addiction, pleasure, power, success, and relationships, people who know Christ are tempted to avoid God through performance. This is just another attempt to justify ourselves and live independently from God. Moralism also sets us up for certain defeat. Moralism requires that we establish a code of behavior based on our own best ideas. If we are more laid back, our expectations will be lower.