There are a bunch of useful resources listed at the bottom of the page, too, for finding out more. Hi, I am a 21 year old male, and I am a virgin. My girlfriend is 20 years old and is also a virgin. We have been dating for 2 years. She does not believe in sex before marriage.
Masturbation helps a little, but barely.
She says that she has sexual thoughts about us, but won't share them with me. I only want her to do all these things to please me. I am perfectly open to pleasing her as well, but she just does not seem to be interested. I don't know what it is. I don't know how much longer I can hold out, and I really don't know what to do.