You have to ask yourself why you feel that certain things are important. Then you have to be willing to be creative in finding new ways to look at things. Try out new ways to do things. Don't be like Mr. Warner of Warner Bros. films, and decide that no one wants to hear an actor talk when the talking films were invented in 1927. Be willing to look at new things in a new way.
Successful people believe in themselves.
You have to have a chearfull optimism that you can succeed. And carry this optimism over to your personal life. Once you get something working right, set that part of your life on automatic and attack other problems. By keeping the overall vision of where you are going, you'll find it easier to see the importance of each small step. Celebrate each step when you managed to achieve it.