Still unskilled in the art of negotiation, Ariel simply reaches over and grabs the doll, even if it means biting or hitting to get it. Caleigh, now bereft, naturally begins to howl. The way to deal with this phenomenon, says Segal, is to have some duplicate toys available for play dates. You can also encourage your child and her buddy to play with general categories of toys, such as stuffed animals and building blocks, that you're likely to have plenty of. Check the clock.
Timing is everything when it comes to toddlers.
Scheduling a play date for late afternoon when your little one is usually cranky is asking for trouble. A half hour to an hour works well for starters. If your child seems to be having fun, you may decide to extend the date. If, on the other hand, her mood deteriorates before the time is up, pack up even if you wish you could stay. Play dates are, after all, for the benefit of the child.