But you know, your husband sounds as though he may be depressed, as well. It may be that he is only letting you see the anger component in his depression and not the hurt and sadness he must be feeling also. To change this situation and perhaps recreate a happy marriage, each of you is going to have to openly share your feelings of hurt and helplessness. If you're not happy with the atmosphere in a restaurant, then by all means, leave. However, marriages are supposed to have a little more staying power than that.
Most people are just about as happy as they decide to be.
It's tempting to blame other people for our unhappiness, but more often than not, our bad attitudes are as much our own fault as anyone else's. It sounds as though you and your husband need to sit down and agree to a fresh start. Confess your bad attitudes to one another, ask forgiveness and resolve to devote the entire next week to compliments, rather than complaints. Questions and answers may be edited.