His design called for the use of a single key capable of raising the lock's two tumblers together. To unlock and experience the precious joys of a good marriage, one essential is wholesome communication. Communication therefore involves a sharing of sentiments and ideas. And wholesome communication entails things that are upbuilding, refreshing, virtuous, praiseworthy, and consoling.
Wholesome communication is made possible by confidence, trust, and mutual understanding.
These qualities result when marriage is viewed as a lifelong relationship and there is genuine commitment to make it work. And these jewellike qualities can adorn your marriage, for they can be yours through wholesome communication. Obstacles to Wholesome Communication Most couples approach marriage with optimism, even euphoria. For many, however, the euphoria soon evaporates, and the optimism fades. Assuredness may be replaced by a bitter mixture of frustration, anger, hostility, even strong dislike.