Also, Viagra doesn't work automatically. Sometimes, he said, neither partner is motivated. They come into therapy trying to prove that nothing can be done, and since that's what they want to prove . They get what's called the guilt-free quit. So don't blame the pill, he said.
People destroy the relationship.
Viagra doesn't destroy it. In cases of performance anxiety, Viagra can be such a confidence booster, some men need it only a few times. After that, they're more relaxed, perhaps comforted by keeping a pill handy. As for women, Viagra seems to be effective only for some women whose ability to have orgasms has been affected by antidepressants, Gambescia said. Oddly, when Viagra does work, it can be most disruptive of all - especially when he's able and willing, but she isn't.