Men and nations behave wisely when all options are exhausted. Because cucumbers can't fix a car. Men fight because of causes. Causes exist that men may fight. Men growing up are rewarded socially for eating a lot.
Men hate more readily than they love.
Men have become the tools of their tools. I would never think of cheating. Beer does as many chores as a man. Beer doesn't care if you balance your checkbook. Beer doesn't care if you go shopping.