Or if you were raised by one parent, so long as they were a good parent, that would be fine. Your father did not go through the changes that you did. It would be kind of hard for me to ask my father about such and such. He probably wouldn't give me the answer and I don't want to go to anyone else but my mom. The same if you're a guy with a mom.
Parents know what it feels like a long time ago, in the olden days.
If the male grew up cooking, cleaning, it would be just as good as a female because not all females can cook and clean. It depends on the person. It wasn't very good. Neither of my parents stay at home, except my mom works part time, so she ends up doing more of the cooking and stuff. If my dad stayed home, we would have a lot of stir-fried hot dogs.