These things are tangible proof that their child lived. You Care Touching is our most basic form of comfort and communication. If you must break sad news, try not to rush away immediately. At the time of informing parents that their child has died, tell them what steps to take next. They are in shock, disbelief and will be confused and need direction and guidance.
Most parents appreciate being asked about organ transplants.
Sometimes, parents who aren't asked feel left out or even insulted. However, parents also need reassurances that their child's body will be treated with respect and dignity. If possible, go to the visitation or funeral. It means more than you can imagine. Families will really appreciate your showing you care.