A common tech. of wives who try to get their husb. Crying, lying, baiting. Classic example - Rebekah. Marriage is ministry Eph. To win her husb.
Motivation is ministry.
Does not mean husbands can be saved apart from the gospel. It means he may be reached by wife's silent demonstration of Christ's transforming power in her daily behavior. Rather than trying to argue - she should live it out . His conscience will be forced to admit the presence of divine power. The closer you are to lost one, the more important it is to consistently model your Christian walk.