As children growing up in one of these households, we were not taught one culture. We were taught to love two, three or four cultures. One's identification is not in the color of their skin, but in the emotions of the heart. It is unfair to tell a person to choose a race. And it is most degrading to be told you don't know who you really are.
People are so confused about themselves, the confusion can sometimes lead to personal downfalls.
Anyone who says differently needs to get over it. The world is no longer divided in black and white. DNA does not determine how a person feels and loves. Racist people need to get a clue. If any of you were to go back to your country of origin, you would not be esteemed as one of them, but as an American.