There are other factors to consider, of course, and you may want to talk to your husband about some of them. Certain medications can interfere with male sexual physiology. Anxiety about sexual prowess is a common impediment to erectile function. Use of alcohol or illicit drugs can affect sexual function. Depression also is commonly associated with a decrease in libido.
Relational issues are always crucial.
Unresolved conflict in the marriage can cause men and women alike to become resistant to sex. In addition, freedom in sexual play depends on a sense of trust and safety, so guilt over real or imagined sin can also interrupt lovemaking. Any of these factors are possible culprits. The first step to take in solving this dilemma is to talk to each other. Sexual dysfunction feels very threatening to men.