Your not alone. I think porn is one thing, kind of natural for a man to a certain extent. They do have alot more testosterone. But when it goes beyond looking at magazines, tv, internet, video and goes to constant fantasy and the forbidden sorta speak and to same sex and desire, thats when I get alittle nervous. I want him to go to therapy.
Men do think of woman all the time, thats nothing and think different than woman.
Jerking off is again nothing. I am very open minded and understanding. Yet I am not what you would call over sexual. I just read, and understand what is common. I need input from anyone out there.