When you have the Ancestors and Elders giving you Blackup, the brothers infidelity is not a question. There is no fury as that of the Ancestors when one's mate runs amuck. Polygamous brothas are men like all others, except they have been politicized and trained and embraced by the Elders and Ancestors to function in a righteous, principled and disciplined manner. Brothers who have been denied their Afrikan ethos are not able to fulfill it in a mono context, much less in a poly reality. The brother in a polygamous relationship, to survive it, must overstand that he is not an individual and reality is NOT segregative.
Reality is wholistic.
The Afrikan reality is 360 degrees. Circular, not linear. In other words, the brother overstands that everything is related. Therefore, he is responsible to view his life in wholistic terms. This for a brother is a question of Afrikan perception.