Most men haven't learned that dancing is a sure fire way to women's hearts. If he can dance, women will automatically attach endearing qualities to his nature that he never imagined. The man of a woman's dreams dances.
Women have never been self-conscious about dancing, they almost always know how.
We may never know, but now is the time to catch up. It takes courage for a man to learn to dance, but once he has learned, he can practically have his pick of women in the room. He no longer has to stand fearfully with his pals along the wall or bar. No more standing in one spot and swaying in poor imitation of dance. This, then, is the time for a dancing man to get close to women he formerly felt were out of his league, the beauties he always wanted to approach.