Your local library is filled with accounts of people who ve made radical changes. Consider Charles Colson, the Watergate criminal who later began an international agency to offer prisoners spiritual help. I ve seen couples come to counseling, convinced they ll end up divorced, only to amaze themselves and each other by building love between them again. The fourth myth flies in the face of God s truth, which insists that there is always hope because he is all-powerful. It s time to throw out the myths and get ready to accept these six positive realities.
Trouble is inevitable, but misery is optional.
Sometimes when two people are in a troubled marriage, one curses while the other prays. The difference is attitude. Focus on how terrible the situation is and it ll get worse. Focus on one positive thing and another will appear. In the darkest night of a troubled marriage, a light always flickers.