Be sure you pick a group that is receptive to new members, and get involved with their activities. There are some basic communication strategies that can help get the ball rolling when you find yourself in the company of new people. Starting Conversations Self Disclosure Talk about yourself, your interests, ideas, thoughts, and reactions in an open, non-boastful manner. Many people will relate to your experiences with similar ones of their own. This exchange opens the door for people.
Most people love to talk about themselves.
Invite them to do so. Listen and watch how they do it. Compliment or thank them, with sincerity. Give good eye contact and a relaxed smile. This helps others relax and feel welcome.