Deal with it. I like frogs, and their outlook, and the way they get together in wet places on warm nights and sing about sex. I like two things stiff in life and one of them is jello. In my house I am king, and my law is that whatever my wife says shall be done. My wife suggested a book for me to read to enhance our relationship.
Relationships are hard.
It's like a full-time job, and we should treat it like one. If your boyfriend or girlfriend wants to leave you, they should give you two weeks' notice. There should be severance pay, and before they leave you, they should have to find you a temp. Dancing is a vertical expression of a horizontal desire. Beauty is quite different from charm, beauty is what you notice in a woman, charm is when a woman notices you.