Parents possess basic authority. This authority has the responsibility to train children to function on the principles of life and the principles of the Word of God. The primary role of the young person is to obey. If you are a Christian young person then you have certain responsibilities before God. It may come as a shock to you that you have responsibility in the family.
Most children think that they have no responsibility at all.
That is true. The world does not owe us a living. The world can be brutal. To children, fairness is not the issue. Obedience is the issue.