When Counseling Victims of Domestic Abuse 1. When a woman comes to you for help or you suggest there may be violence in the home, there are some specific things to keep in mind.
Problems associated with domestic violence are difficult to work through.
Usually patterns of abuse have existed for a long time, and unless you are a professionally trained counselor, you should not enter into a long-term counseling or therapy situation. You are in a unique position to relate and minister to all parties and these pastoral relationships need to be preserved. The response of clergy and laity to the religious crisis caused by domestic violence can be a great resource for victims. As a clergy person you need to be aware that the life of the victim may be in immediate danger and safety is the first concern. Ask the question.