Deprived of narcissistic supply, she will vanish in your head as she has done in your life. My aim is to provide the victims of narcissism with an available figure of transference, with a substitute-narcissist, someone to take it out on. I am happy that you do. BUT this does not mean that I should be mute, deaf and blind. I intend to fight back if I feel that the attacks are uncalled for.
Narcissists are halls of mirrors.
No sense applying logic to them. No sense applying empathy, emotions, straight thinking. It's all useless. It is also the premise of this list. It is through this crude mechanism that I am trying to help you all, victims of narcissism, cope with your past.