She was a good example for the rest of us. Regardless of the outcome, they request feedback. They bring along new members and those who've been around since the walls were formed. Readers also shared their peeves. Aside from a lack of organization, a frustrating meeting is often due to an irritating member.
Members wander off into 'war stories' and other peripheral directions.
We are all busy, and I want the time I donate to account for something. The property committee believes the money might be needed if the boiler blows up. We used red the first year, green the second. Finally I said 'blue' in disgust. One congregation said beginning the year with a goal-setting retreat worked for them.