The women, I am told, cannot be aggressive, otherwise the men become frightened. I could be wrong. I think your average bar-dweller would become confused at the breaking of the social order. It would be like letting go of a pen and instead of it hitting the floor due to gravity, it hoverred in the air. Somehow, the woman on the aggressive, is wrong.
Women seem to be trained at birth to wait for men to make the moves.
Women love to date assholes. The more an asshole the better. I fear these asshole males. They aspire trust when they shouldn't be trusted with the responsibility of caring for a dead baby. Somehow, they would screw it up.