In theaters we speak in loud voices on cellular phones, oblivious to those around us. While venting like this might create a sense of release, it is also very damaging, especially to the children who witness such acts. I felt so good crossing the street that morning long ago. Now, when I think of manners and civility, I remember Mrs. Reisling, who had modeled for me the best way to treat a guest. The image of her placing the warm breakfast box in my hands, and the sound of her soft goodbye lingers still.
Parents trying to teach courteousness toward others to their children can use books to help.
They will reinforce what parents have been stressing at home. Many of the books on manners provide both examples and non-examples in a format that is appealing to children. Kids will be able to recognize some of the unacceptable behaviors they are guilty of and see the alternative way to act. We have many books and stories on manners in our library. Be sure to stop by and pick up a few of the titles listed below.