Fight or Flight - if you miss a note ignore what is wrong and concentrate on what you want to hear. We don't play by phrases-we create phrases. Building phrase by individual notes. We know what individual notes sound like. For example individual words make up the complete story we hear.
Suction is important.
The psychology is important. Muscles should not be used to produce product. Instead use product to move muscles. Your body can lie. For example you can move chest and abdominal region and not inhale.