Something is wrong with me because I cannot be that way. Others know what is best for me. Somewhere there is an expert who can tell me what to do. Everyone must climb the ladder of success even if it means doing things that do not interest you. You must thoroughly analyze all aspects of a choice before you implement it, otherwise you are not really prepared.
People are either successful or complete failures in their career pursuits.
There is no in-between. Go where the money is, regardless of what kind of work it involves. The world of work is changing so rapidly that you really cannot plan for the future. We should respect tradition and maintain different types of work for men and women. Work is the only real way to personal fulfillment.