Without the rain, there would be no rainbow. If you run into a wall, don't turn around and give up. Figure out how to climb it, go through it, or work around it. Now put the foundations under them. You can be a victor without having victims.
Most motivational speakers speak only of success, But there is only one problem with that.
Just be yourself. If we never try, We shall never succeed. But inside you. If we crave respect in our old age, It may be advisable to begin earning it in our youth. Help a person at least once a day.