An appeal is appropriate only when the judge commits an error of law in the way in which he handles the case or reaches his decision. In most cases, you should simply accept the ruling, move on with your life, and try to get yourself in a good position emotionally, physically, and financially. It may seem hard and you may feel overwhelmed. Be positive while recognizing that things take time. A divorce decree cannot and does not end your responsibility as a parent.
Parents are forever.
Both parents should make every attempt to play a vital part in the lives of their children. Children need the ongoing affection, interest and concern of their parents. Children must feel that they have two parents who love them, even though the parents could not live happily with each other. Guidelines for Parents 1. If you think getting a divorce will mean you are fully and permanently rid of your spouse, think again.