We are always in emotion - it is present in us always. The entwining of languaging and emotioning is conversation. Language takes place in the relationship. As the elements in a system change its manner of operating changes. It depends on the connectedness of the system and the flow of structural coupling.
Organisms undergo structural changes which are congruent with the medium in which they exist.
These structural changes are contingent upon the history of the organism. The organism operates as a closed system. The structure of its neuronal elements is highly plastic, not fixed. Therefore its coupling can constantly change. Changes outside the organism cannot be instructive.