Perfect love is not afraid of men. It is not afraid to turn the searchlight of God's word on any tradition of man. Perfect love never turns the cold shoulder on another brother, for whatever reason. Perfect love does not condemn. Some Christians love their enemies and hate their brothers.
Perfect love finds it impossible to hate anyone.
Fear holds back. Love gives freely. Fear worships the letter. Love obeys from the spirit. Let's put Christ back into the Church of Christ by practicing His love in the church.