Before I talk about what love should be, you need to know that before you can love anyone else, you must love yourself. Loving yourself means that you place a high value on yourself. It means that you believe that you are worthy of good things. No one is going to value you, unless you value yourself. Feel good about who you are as a person and don t let anyone take that away from you.
Many women have the notion that loving someone means denying themselves the right to true happiness.
One should want the best for their loved ones and make an effort to help them achieve their dreams. There are far too many people however, whose only hope is to live their lives through their family and friends. To these women, it makes their life seem more bearable. Loving someone else doesn t always mean denying yourself. Nor does loving someone else mean putting your needs and wants on the back burner, so that you can fulfill someone else s.