Even Cary Grant is on record saying he wished he could be Cary Grant. When four or more men get together, they talk about sports. When four or more women get together, they talk about men. Men are less sentimental than women. He just didn't want to call you.
Men hate to lose.
I once beat my husband at tennis. I want to have your children. Sometimes they leave skid marks. Men are self-confident because they grow up identifying with superheroes. Women have bad self-images because they grow up identifying with Barbie.