Mediation provides an alternative to the win-lose approach of the adversarial legal system. It is practical, informed, highly focused on the issues to be resolved, and involves mutual problem-solving. An impartial mediator helps the parties clarify their disputes, communicate clearly, determine their needs and interests, consider options for settlement, and reach fair agreements. Written agreements are prepared where appropriate or desired. Anyone with the desire to settle disputes reasonably and at less cost can reach agreement in mediation.
Mediation is effective even when conflict and anger is high, and communication has broken down.
In order to assist mediation clients who are representing themselves, our comprehensive divorce service includes the preparation and filing of the legal paperwork necessary to obtain a final judgment of dissolution of marriage, including a written Marital Settlement Agreement. NCMC does not provide legal representation to its mediation clients, but encourages each party to consult with an independent legal representative. I feel that your organization provides an invaluable service to our community and my only hope would be that more people will take 'the road less traveled' when divorce is the only solution.