Never allow yourself to be pressured into doing something you do not want to do. Use I statements when expressing a concern. This shows that you accept responsibility for your own feelings. For example, I feel angry when you assume that I want to have sex. View conflict as an opportunity for growth.
Open communication can lead to a deeper sense of trust and intimacy.
Select a time when you are free of distractions. For example, it is not a good idea to discuss sexual issues when you are fighting or disagreeing about some other issue. Listen empathetically when your partner expresses a concern. Encourage equal communication and autonomy in the relationship. If you choose to drink, drink responsibly.