Consequently, he will act as if he is not interested or motivated. The reality is that he is interested but incapable of doing what would have been simple for him before the injury. You may find that your family member has adequate plans and big promises, but has a difficult time following through. He may have lost interest in things that once gave him pleasure, such as his old hobbies. Even in therapy, the therapist may have a difficult time finding a reinforcer that is powerful enough to keep him motivated.
Suggestions Give the family member the needed supervision to start a task.
Never assume that because he did a task before the injury, he is now being lazy or obstinate if he does not complete it. If possible, break the task into smaller steps. Give choices of two or three activities. Get your family member involved in a support group. This will help him to participate in one activity at least once or twice a month.