Reassure the child or teen that the loss is not contagious, that the death of one person does not mean that another loved one will also die or be injured. Maintain order, stability and security in the child or teen's life. Take your own advice. Take care of yourself. If you're not okay, the child or teen cannot be okay.
Many counselors can assist in working through feelings.
All Columbine H.S. students, their families, and especially student witnesses can receive victim compensation for counseling. When an individual witnesses or is victimized by violence, they experience the symptoms of trauma. Over time, as people work through their feelings, they learn to move through the trauma and are once again able to focus on their lives and interests. If a victim or witness needs more than you are able to provide, seek professional assistance. ALL Columbine H.S. students, their families, and especially student witnesses can receive victims' compensation for counseling.