Never point out the reality of a situation. Never express your feelings unless they are positive. Don't ask questions, especially if they are tough ones. Don't do anything outside of your role. Don't trust anyone.
Nothing is more important than giving money to the organization.
At all cost, keep up the image of the organization or the family. When I read these in their book ALL of them proved true in the ministry my wife and I exited from a little over a year ago. Our ex-pastor never was wrong. If something did not work out it was usually the congregations fault or the devil . . . All in all, I would recommend this book for anyone who is in a bad faith situation or has left one.