If men and women are so self-absorbed and unable to ignite their erotic potential, the birth rate is going to plummet. Dr. Cojone suggested a one week sex vacation for every couple. They should go somewhere with no telephones, take few clothes, and do things like take showers together to get to know each other. Another good activity is to go out and buy each other's underwear. Dr. Cojone also noted that the visual problems of sexuality are overrated.
People love each other as they are, it is just that neither partner believes that.
Women usually think they're too fat, and thus don't want to expose themselves, whereas men also think they're too fat and pretend they're not. If a person likes themselves, they'll be sexually appealing. If they don't like themselves, that is contagious. Dr. Cojone had one final suggestion for people to improve their sex lives.