We don't answer individual legal questions or give lawyer referrals. Download after purchase. And if not all of them, at least most. If you are up to date on your mortgage payments or can get up to date, you're not likely to lose your house. Not if you're current on your rent.
Most people lose no property when they file for bankruptcy.
An employer may not fire you solely because you filed for bankruptcy. Divorce judges see a lot of people who file for bankruptcy. Not unless you commit perjury, defraud the bankruptcy court or commit a similar act. It's unlikely, unless you tell them. It's about as hard as filing a 1040 long-form tax return.