Good kods are suffering. Yes, I have been abused. Abused by my wife and had the laws of domestic violence turned on me. There are no safegards in the system to weed out real victims from the women using good laws, designed to protect, as wepons of destruction. The shelter movement will take in any women and create a victim.
Women are even more abusive then men if the same standards are applied.
If a man is the slightest bit upset with his wife and runs to the police , then claims domestic violence because she ran up credit cards or yelled and nagged him or better yet slapped him. This is considered acceptable behavior by most women. Its not and it is abuse by standards set today. I do not advocate violence or abuse in any form . Get you deinitions strait.