For a young man to ask a question about sex reveals his ignorance or concern. If he believes this myth, his masculinity could well be at threat. The degree to which young men subscribe to the dominant view of masculinity and related sexuality myths, directly impacts on their psychological, physical and sexual health. Young men are often seen as emotionally retarded, especially when they live by the rules of being a real man. Without the apparent ease with which their female counterparts find expression for care, love and affection, young men frequently turn to sexual relationships for these often disowned, yet vital needs.
Sex then takes on the value of love and is elevated in importance.
At the time when young men are becoming increasingly aware of their physical and sexual potency, they may be tempted to announce their masculinity with bravado. Young men are establishing their credentials as men. They have only recently 'come of age'. In their search for and consolidation of their own identity, they look to what would give them recognition as a man.