Women simply do not understand what men go through when they're smitten by them. To a man, it seems like all the woman has to do is attach the badge of approval or the dunce cap of shame. Women could save everyone some trouble and express their gut feelings a little sooner and more openly. So do something nice, something spontaneous. You have no idea how much it would mean to us.
Men are such idiots.
All this shit is just a headache. I'm tired of it. And heck, I don't even take part in any of this. I go whether I like it or not, and I have to put up with peoples' little sad sob stories about this and that. Some people redesign their whole sites to reflect their relationship histories.