A Safety Guide for BDSM Beginners - Written with the benefit of hindsight 1. Safe Meeting Guides. You can find these on the Internet. Meet somewhere public and neutral.
Munches are generally good, safe places to meet up with someone.
The Informed Consent UK website is a good place to find out about munches going on around the country. I am paying 75 each plus free ticket to the park. The other participant wants to be pierced. I am offering guest list plus 75 and drinks. This article is intended primarily for people who run fetish and BDSM related groups online, particularly those using the Yahoo Groups service which we've probably all heard the rumours about recently.