I might give the impression that I only care about gold attendance stars. But when I ve taken the time to build a friendship, then new people I meet know I want to share an important part of my life with them. Don t ask whether someone wants to go, invite him or her to come. If my friends feel like I m going out of my way or, worse yet, the only reason I m going is to take them, they ll likely say no. Give your guest an idea of what to expect.
Many people fear the unknown.
Knowing what to expect will reduce the stress. Mention what you are likely to wear. Say you will bring a Bible for the two of you to share. If your guest brings a child, explain about activities for children. Suggest going early to decide whether the guest s kids should attend Sunday school or the worship service or both.