It's not just where you are touched, but how you are touched. Dim the lights. Work with oils. Get to know your own body To make that first time more pleasurable, Elizabeth thinks it's important for women to get in touch with their bodies. Tthat's one of the main reasons why women don't enjoy sex.
Many people remember worrying about simple little things.
Jean remembers one thing that kept going through her mind. The best advice perhaps came from Kavita. As far as orgasms go, it's mainly the domain of men - at least, the first time round, some women tell us. But sex isn't just about having an orgasm. When 2 people are in love, they don't just want an orgasm.