We probably know less about the depth and levels and revelations of relations between Father, Son, and Holy Spirit than we do about the universe. An often-quoted study describes the dynamics of cohesive families and it rings with the truth of Scripture. A spiritual orientation, vs. a life without God or godly concerns. Contrary to much secular dogma, the research is showing that consistent fellowship and church-going yields healthier, stronger, more contented, more lasting and fulfilling lives than those who do not actively pursue God. A deep and abiding appreciation for one another, vs. taking others for granted, or judging them, or refusing to respect other opinions.
Quality time is a good concept but it is insufficient.
The searching questions you'll be asked, the fascinating things you'll hear from your children or friends when you simply hang out with them, giving them long blocks of time, simply do not happen when little time is spent, no matter how good the intended quality. People in caring communities spend as much time and energy on listening and communicating understanding to others as they do presenting their own views. High levels of caring commitment to others, vs. selfishness or a self-absorbed orientation that always demands first place. Healthy and effective ways of crisis management and resolution, vs. chronic conflict, misery, denial, broken relationships and unresolved wounds that fester and embitter. Ongoing relations will always involve some level of hurt and disappointment, and unless they are well-oiled with grace, forgiveness, repair and renewal, they simply will not last as desirable relations.