Many White Crane readers may be especially interested in Anderson, who is an erotic masseuse, and her connection of erotic energy and meditation. Both women clearly understand themselves to be sexual healers, and they approach their work with humor, insight and compassion. And so, finally, we return to the koan and this discomforting red thread. To his credit, Guy offers good questions rather than answers. The questions are as relevant to gay men as to other human beings.
Sex is certainly full of paradox at times.
David Guy's book is an entertaining and enlightening addition to the conversation. Buy it here . John R. Ballew, M.S., is a licensed professional counselor in private practice in Atlanta. He specializes in issues related to coming out, sexuality and relationships, spirituality and career.