With the restructuring of legal systems and realignment of the Church the accepted practice evolved into the Giving of Notice and license to marry. Presents are sent or delivered in advance, unwrapped and placed on display with recognition of the sender of each gift for all to see. The bride and bridal party are available for conversation and light refreshments are provided. Along the parade route his friends would harass the poor man until at last they arrived at his intended's home. If she was not yet satisfied the parade would be repeated.
Salt is added to the crock representing the necessities of life.
She is handed a baby-doll or other representation of the children to come and is then paraded through town to gather money and additional wishes from passersby for a successful marriage and happy life. Part of the bridal preparations includes the washing of the bride's feet and is traditionally performed on the night before the wedding in front of well-wishers and family. Added to the wash-water at the beginning of the preparations is a matron's ring. The lucky attendant that finds the ring in the wash-water after the bride is through is thought to be next to marry. Escorted by family, friends and musician she traditionally walks to the local church.