Any NO for any reason blocks the flow of communication and energy between the parties involved. If you truly want to spiritually progress, then you truly need to learn to say YES to initiate a Divine communication and keep energy flowing within yourself and between you and all others involved as well as between you and God. YES is one of the most powerful affirmation on earth. YES starts to create a positive attitude. YES may instantly kick off your sleeping Kundalini Shakti and get it flowing again freely.
Parents have children.
Children are free Divine children of God being temporary guests in the house of their physical parents. Let's look at a situation with small children. A two year old girl likes to be dressed the way it can find itself pretty. Many girls like to be dressed pretty and colorful. Small children often still see the aura or people as well as their own aura.