The one who loves us gives us an overwhelming victory in all these difficulties. Many Arminians feel that the idea of eternal security gives us too much freedom to sin. We need to strive for holiness. We are called to rise above the normal and to be different. If we continue to satisfy our fleshly desires instead of that in which the Lord has called us, we will suffer the consequences.
Relationships go two ways.
We can't just defy God and expect Him to protect us from Hell. He sees everything including our motives. Then I will tell them publicly, 'I never knew you. Depart from me, you evil doers. Our Creator wants to have a personal relationship with us.