Once it starts working on me it just seems to fuel itself and it grows and grows. Self-control is the issue. I feel like an anvil with two hammers hitting me from both sides, between Karyn and my daughters. Can do right by everyone. That is not the problem.
Problem is to see what is right in each case.
Can love, no matter what they say or do. Cannot control other side of relationship. Do what is right and realize others will do what they choose. Anvil feeling comes from wanting to please. Not always the same as doing what is right.