Love and Anger Love shouldn't hurt. In happy and healthy relationships, partners try not to hurt each other. It's true that we all get angry sometimes.
Some people use anger and violence to frighten and control a partner.
No matter what kind of relationship you have, if you are forced to have sex, it is rape. If you are humiliated or forced to be sexual in any way, that is sexual abuse. Unsafe Trust your instincts. If you feel you are treated badly, you probably are. If you feel unsafe, you are probably in danger.