Using lenses in the 200mm focal length with its narrow angle of view and careful use of depth of field will minimize this problem. Too many flowers are bull-eyed in the frame. Dead center compositions usually don't work well. Keep the flower out of the center and work with the flow. The flower should be sharp.
Wind is a real and almost constant problem.
Shoot only when the flower isn't moving. It you want to take blurry flower photos, then really make them blurry by using slow shutter speeds and fire when the wind is blowing the flower around greatly. Look for flowers that have something extra. For example, a skunk cabbage with its' mirror reflection would be an extra touch that would make an ordinary photo special. Natural raindrops or dew on flowers also provides that special touch.