Informs himself about normal developmental stages. Sets limits and enforces them fairly and predictably. Implements appropriate discipline as well as constructive criticism when necessary. Does not engage in abusive behavior. Attempts common sense remedies to problems.
Seeks help from friends, extended family, and the community, e.g., teachers, religious institutions.
Give and accept praise and affection and provide emotional support. Share joint decisions and interests, support individual decisions and interests and be able to solve problems together. Understand differences and respect them. Allow individuals within the family to make choices. Know that time together is important and that time alone is also important.