Open your arms to change but don't let go of your values. Constantly check to make sure your fly is zipped. Remember that silence is sometimes the best answer. Especially if the question has to do with physics, or history, or some other subject that you know absolutely nothing about and will look like a total moron should you try to comment. Read more books.
Television is no substitute.
Trust in God but lick your car. A loving atmosphere in your home is the foundation for your life. Do all you can to create a tranquil, harmonious home. Sometimes, though, there's no substitute for a good thrashing with a hickory switch. Be gentle with the earth.