But the problem with such locations is that they usually lead to quickie sex . If I'm going to have sex for the first time with a new partner, I definitely want to have the environment that allows me to fully market my skills and encourages long lasting sex rather than quickies. So before inviting her back to my place, I make sure the room is tidy, the sheets are freshly laundered, candles are available and ready to be lit, and no foul odors are floating in the air. Unfortunately, many men make the mistake of not using their imagination for selecting the right music. I have nothing against these talented artists but their music reveals my plans.
Many people fail to realize the power of music when it comes to seducing women.
The secret is to play rare music that she will not recognize and that does not sound like the soundtrack to Wild Orchid . I recommend tribal music or electronic jazz, without any vocals. The last thing you need is another man's voice singing in the background about how he's going to make his woman feel real good. You need music with rhythm that will set your minds in a total trance. Tribal music has the reputation of getting both partners on the same wavelength.