In John F. Kennedy s inaugural speech he noted that the Chinese symbol for crisis or opportunity is the same. Having coped either with elegance or misery in times of crisis, I m aware of the pitfalls as well as effective ways in which to heal. I ve heard others say how angry they felt at God when a loved one died or a child was ill. Blaming God or anyone is a choice. You can allow it to happen to you or take responsibility for that choice.
Responsibility comes with knowing.
Therefore, to ease blame and pain, remember in darkest moment, we are loved by God. Ask the Universe or God for healing the pain of sorrow or fear. Yesterday was the one-year anniversary of Dad s death. The sadness I was feeling allowed me to release feelings too painful to experience when the event took place. It s helpful to remember the guidance of forgiveness.