God created humans to be sexual. Since Adam and Eve first knew they were naked, humans have been embarrassed and have tried to get rid of their sexuality. After adolescents learn about sex from their friends, parents embarrassingly explain it, often leaving the impression that is is something dirty you do with the one you love.
Sex is bad, feeling sexual is worse.
We say that sex is a gift from God, but our attitude says it is the ultimate curse. As I became aware of my sexuality and as I understood the church's teachings on sexuality, I knew I had a problem. For me to be a good Christian, I could not be sexual. I had discovered the joys of masturbation - along with its bondage. Others were in the same battle, but it wasn't discussed, If only I could be free from my sexuality.