If Sue comes home late from his friend's house, then she can't go there tomorrow. Your child repeated forgets to feed the cat. Then he has to find a new home for the cat. If you don't go to bed on time, your bedtime is even earlier for the next few nights. Emphasize order and the need for order.
Work comes before play, chores come before breakfast, and so on.
In the real world, courtesy is a prerequisite to receiving. If it gets left laying around, then it goes in the box until Saturday. Jack continually brings the car back to his parents without gas. Or Jack doesn't get to use the car. Pull over and stop.