When you get down to it, it's not that suprising. It's not very romantic to talk about your credit history or what you think about debt. Most people assume that the person they love thinks exactly the same way they do about money, and has the same financial goals. Throughout life we develop values, attitudes, and beliefs that affect the decisions we make. These influence the way we think about and handle money.
Money is linked to many aspects of our lives.
A key factor in developing a relationship is the ability to communicate effectively with your partner as you go through life. This includes being able to talk about how you will handle money. Decisions are needed on how you will handle money day to day, where you will live, how you will use credit, and how much you will save for the future. It is common for couples to not always agree, or discover they have differing points of view. However, it is important to find ways of talking about your financial affairs so that you come to an agreement that meets both the family's needs and financial goals.