If you can't get into normal sex, you could pretend you're getting paid a lot, do your act, and hope that the real emotions kick in. But it's better to learn to get off on the real rewards, like knowing that there's someone who really cares for you, who treats you like a person instead of an object, who will be there for you, and who you're lucky to have in your life. All of which has to be freely given, and isn't available in that other scene. You will find new self-esteem and pleasures in your new life. Congratulations on your escape.
Some women never make it.
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