Ask if the therapist specializes in EMDR if you have many trauma symptoms. They are listed as such in the phone book or other directory. Ask a women's center to refer one to you. All of these have been affected in a stlking situation. Think of yourself as the 'machine' that will take care of your children.
Some groups offer free childcare, even free meals.
The best kinds are non-judgmental, relaxed and free. Some areas offer single parenting classes, and everyone can use a course in parenting whether they are single or not. Stalking support groups are popping up everywhere. Information can be found in the library, book stores, or on the internet. Be careful who you date.