Some try to ignore it. Others negotiate, with or without outside assistance. Some wage psychological battles, or resort to harassment or physical violence. Others submit to non-binding or binding arbitration, or file civil or criminal complaints. A skilled mediator enables disputants to see their own and each other's interests more clearly, and to discover solutions which are advantageous to all.
Mediation has advantages over other approaches.
The terms of these agreements are more often fulfilled than are those of settlements imposed by a court. Mediation is faster and less expensive than litigation, and it is confidential, so your dispute stays out of court records. You retain flexibility to create solutions that suit your circumstances. You also have opportunity to establish or repair relationships with other parties. You gain skill and confidence in resolving disputes.