If an individual tries to participate in an activity and finds that there is a problem, look for similar programs. Often the problem is with a particular leader, who may be rude or inconsistent, for example. Sometimes a group will die out for lack of participation. The meeting schedule may conflict with something more interesting or more necessary. I see too many people just give up and go back to sitting around at home when those things happen.
Organizations provide many worthwhile and interesting hours.
In addition, many of them offer chances to serve others while having fun. Sandra Holland and her husband have driven their children all over the State of Texas in pursuit of learning and fun. There are even more than that. Sure we can. By then we arrived home and the questions were quickly forgotten as Beth dashed off to play with her brother, Ben.