Many people, initially, do not consider childfree to be an option, but with time it may seem to be the best decision for you. A conscious commitment to live childfree will alleviate the loss aspect of infertility and free you to bring children back into your life. Because we are a success-oriented society, choosing no treatment or quitting at some stage may feel like defeat, but it shouldn't if it is a conscious and mutual decision. Obviously, this is not successful if there is a known physical cause for your infertility. These options are not mutually exclusive.
Some people continue medical treatment while pursuing adoption.
Obviously combining options requires additional personal energy. Quality and accessibility of medical care Counseling with a professional familiar with infertility may be helpful in prioritizing these issues and may be especially appropriate if partners disagree on the course of action. It is important to remember that as your options change with time, you may also change your mind about your priorities. Try to be as realistic and openminded as possible. Allow yourself time to read, research, get second opinions and build an infertility support system before making a big decision.