Be understanding if the parents do not want phone calls in the hospital. Remember that the child can hear all phone conversations when parents talk on the phone in the room. A cheerful hospital room really boosts a child's spirits. Encourage sending balloon bouquets, funny cards, posters, toys, or humorous books. Be aware that some hospitals do not allow rubber balloons, only mylar.
Rubber balloons can be a choking hazard.
Flowers are also not allowed in children's rooms since they can increase risk of infection. Laughter helps heal the mind and body, so send funny videotapes or arrive with a good joke if you think it's appropriate. Puzzles, games, picture books, coloring books, age-appropriate computer games, and crafts are welcome. Remember that attention spans are sometimes shortened by treatment, so keep it simple. A friend who was a nurse came to my son's room shortly before Christmas and brought an entire gingerbread house kit, including confectioner's sugar for the icing.