The way that women search for conclusions is by talking to someone. When a wife asks her husband to listen, that is all she wants. She does not want him to think for her or give her advice. She does not want him to solve the problem for her. She does not want an editorial.
Men solve problems by reasoning within themselves.
And they want to be left alone while they think. If his wife understands his feelings and his needs, she lets him think. The insensitivity of ignorance is the problem Paul addressed in Romans 14. Jewish Christians did not understand the spiritual needs of Christians who worshipped idols before conversion. They did not understand the spiritual realities of a person who worshipped idols in the past but now believed in Jesus Christ.