This is the time to have honest discussions about how the expenses will be divided up and how much those wishing to contribute can realistically afford to spend. With a preliminary plan in mind, start calling around. Get estimates from some of the reception locations you're considering to see if what you're considering is, in fact, realistic. If necessary, change your plans now, rather than later. And outdoor weddings, such as in a garden or historical setting, can be beautiful in their own way, but again, they can require more planning and can be dependent on the weather.
Weddings can be formal or informal.
They can be a candlelit night affair, or they can be a casual morning church ceremony followed by a champagne breakfast with a menu of coffees, teas, rolls, muffins, crepes, and fresh fruit. A wedding can be anything the bride and groom want it to be, provided they are willing to take the time to plan it and can afford what they want. However, once a wedding style is selected, stick to it. The theme can be exhibited in the location of the ceremony and reception, dress of the participants and guests, decorations, and food. The advantage of a theme wedding is an endless opportunity for expressing your personalities and creativity.