You are rarely if ever escorted out in public, or introduced to family, friends or coworkers. Communication with you is maintained strictly to continue the sexual relationship. It's common for older couples to base relationships on companionship. The sexual attraction and sparks that younger people seek in a romantic partner is of much less importance than being able to have fun, talk to, and share the rest of their life with someone that can be admired and respected. Gotta Have Somebody .
Many women believe they are nothing without a man.
In spite of their careers, education and economic success, these women often believe that without a man they are a complete failure. Desperate Fear . Fear of AIDS, of herpes, of being alone forever. The thought of having sex with an attractive partner and dying the following year is frightening. Others acknowledge that the years are passing with nothing much to show for them.