That they are to say no until he says I do and no unless he has a job and can provide a home. We don't need double minded big mouth women that cant live for God unless their husbands do. That always make an excuse for not living right or supporting the church because their husband won't agree to it. You know you do what you want to do whether he likes it or not. If you love God you will live for him and you will be faithful if your husband never steps foot inside the church doors.
Marriage is a covenant.
Not bricks and mortar, not material possessions, and believe it or not, it is sure not made with just physical beauty. One man said a man marries his wife hoping she never changes and a woman marries her husband hoping someday surely he will change. I always told our children to find the ugliest person they could find and they would be good to them. Nola my wife would speak up and say that's what I did and it has worked for me all these years. Husbands, love your wives, and be not bitter against them.