Accordingly, he would have to go before the elders and explain his absence. While I am not suggesting a return to this practice, it is quite revealing. Most often it was to go find another church. Sometimes this lack of courage is the result of being young in the Lord. Oftentimes, however, it is cowardice.
People fear having their assumptions, evaluations or decisions challenged.
They do not want to discover the truth but are solely committed to having their own way. I am not saying that there aren't times where it is wise to leave a particular church. I am saying that there will be reasons for this decision and that these reasons should be discussed and prayed over with the leaders for a period of time. If anything goes contrary to my will, I immediately open the Yellow Pages and begin looking for another church. You hurt my feelings when you disagreed with me.