I know that I might end up having no sex, but I'm not having any now, anyway, except for Rosy Palm. I am only 34, the idea that I will never have enjoyable sex again with a willing partner makes me want to take the bridge. I don't resent my wife, but I do feel that our lives have turned downward, and I don't know if cutting our losses now would be the thing to do. I was the one who pulled away from the sex activity with my husband but my reasoning was that was the only time he came to bed. There were no other intimate moments.
Sex is nothing without the flow of real passion and emotion.
Maybe you should try to find out why those things are not there and that would help you find out why the sex isn't there. The lack of interest on her part is a symptom of something bigger if I had to guess. It was for me anyway. My Monster in law lives 5 miles from us and that is the reason he wanted to move where we are now. My husband left a little over 2 weeks ago to live with mommy and daddy but guess what I am making it and finding that maybe with a better line of communication we could have avoided this.