If you feel that your boundaries have been challenged or invaded, you may experience a wide range of emotions. I might not say the right thing, but I want to work together with you to give you what you want and need right now. This is not your fault. You have the right to any feelings you have. Often these situations require the expertise of a professional.
Many resources are available to assist both students as victims and students as supporters.
In either case, you should feel free to consult Jean Chagnon, director of the Carleton Wellness Center and counseling psychologist. The primary concern in any crisis or emergency is the health and safety of the person who has been victimized. In many situations, individuals who have experienced a traumatic event may not look like they need immediate medical attention. It is always better to err on the side of being too thorough in situations where it is not certain what happened. If you are victimized by either sexual harassment or sexual assault, you should first seek a safe place.