If we were abusive, we will be abused. If we treated others with kindness and respect, we will be treated in the same manner. To refuse to handle a tough situation, to deny your full potential, to neglect doing something that should be done will affect the physical body, the mental health, the emotional stability and even the affairs of life, and will follow you through each incarnation, until correct action is taken to balance that which has been avoided. Every thought creates an alchemical process in the conscious mind. The force of the Action is a direct result of the strength of the Thought and the power of the Will.
Nothing happens by accident.
We cannot deny responsibility for our actions. Everything simply changes form, and becomes a part of forever. Each of us has pure free will, whether we choose to exercise it or not. In the failure to exercise our free will, we are yielding that gift to an outside force to make our choices for us. We have the free will to control all things in our life, at all times.