Kristine, Michigan, age 16 'Normal' is different for every individual. I cannot dictate someone else's life, body, or anything else by my standards. I tend to laugh at people who are close-minded. Also, I speak up in school when anyone makes the slightest homophobic comment. Yes, you are normal.
Many people are lesbian.
Many experts agree that a person's sexual orientation is determined at a young age, even as early as birth. It's normal and healthy to be yourself, whether you're gay or straight. What's really important is learning to like yourself. Difficult - some days I don't want to be gay. But, I just love women too much to ever dream of hiding it again.