A tear stain on a letter says much more than the sum of all its words. A tear falling on a casket says what a spoken farewell never could. When words are hard, tears speak clearly. Please notice that grief is natural and normal. If you care about someone you will grieve for them because you have suffered a loss.
People grieve in different ways and go through different stages.
For some people grief brings on feelings of regret or guilt. Some go through prolonged periods of depression. Most people eventually get to the stage of acceptance and hope. Notice also that Grief takes time . No one hurries Abraham.