A woman must continually watch herself. Men survey women before treating them. Consequently how a woman appears to a man can determine how she will be treated. To acquire some control over this process, women must contain it and interiorise it. Men look at women.
Women watch themselves being looked at.
This determines not only most relations between men and women but also the relation of women to themselves. The fact that women spend three times as much as men on their clothes, and have three times as many clothes shops to visit as men have, also lends considerable support to this idea. I remember Princess Di, some years ago, going on holiday with a few women friends and without Prince Charles, commenting in the press that it was such a nice holiday because as there were no men present she did not have to wear make-up or dress smartly. A few months ago, George McCaulay, of our Scottish Branch, was taking part in a panel phone-in programme on radio. A staunch feminist who was also on the panel was at pains to explain that women only dress to please themselves, not to please men.