Reproducing or republishing an article, in whole or in part, in any other forum requires permission of the author or the moderator. Additional information regarding subscription, submission, and backissue requests may be found at the end of this digest. More info in v4n18. Anger makes us unhappy in our marriages and other relationships. It also causes us to do many grave sins which are against the Torah.
Many people spend large portions of their life being angry.
They wake up in the morning and have a fight with their spouse. They get in the car and are angry at the traffic, they honk, honk to get people out of the way. G-d should help the person who caused him to miss a light. At work if the person is in a position of authority he yells at his subordinates all day long. When he gets home after another traffic jam he finishes the fight with his wife which he started after he woke up.