Many people act out of unresolved incest, molestation, violence and fear.
This fear is often not fear of God or hell but fear of being reproached by the Church. Because sexuality is such a taboo subject, we Christians often do not have healthy open conversations about it. While this model is preferable it does not address all of the realities and struggles faced by people who love God. This is evidenced by the presence of sexual impropriety in every level of government and in the leadership of some denominations and faith groups. For instance, many of our young people are sexually active before marriage and need to learn coping skills to negotiate not having sex or at least having safe sex, if they are active.