The Greens' spiritual turnaround did more than strengthen their bond as husband and wife. It also affected the way they deal with conflict. And on the infrequent occasions when they did argue, rather than work to resolve their differences, they would withdraw in silence. Now, with a new transparency and deepened love, they began communicating instead of retreating. When we had a conflict over finances or a disappointment over failed expectations, I realized that I should take the first step to confess my wrong and make things right.
Pride builds walls of self-protection, but love seeks to be reconciled.
He admits that such humility takes practice. A marriage that Steve says used to be based primarily on personality and physical attraction now relies on honesty, spiritual unity and unconditional love. I wrote it realizing she needs the constant reassurance that whatever the years bring, I will be with her. With two kids needing extra attention during adolescence, and with Steve's dad's health declining, the Greens don't know what the future might hold. But they're confident that whatever life brings, it won't erode the bond they share.