Know the school's policy for reporting and be familiar with each step. Invite the child to listen as you tell this person what has been said to you and to add or correct anything you say which is not clear and inaccurate. It is also a check on whether the story remains consistent. Be openly admiring of this courage to reinforce the disclosure process. Affirm your caring for the child and that your relationship has not been negatively altered.
Some children feel ashamed and assume they are less lovable because of the abuse.
As soon as possible, write down the actual words used in the disclosure and in your interaction with the child. The child's first statement has forensic significance and the exact words can be important. Do NOT try to determine for yourself if the allegation is valid or invalid. This is the role of Child Protective Services and law enforcement. Do NOT use shocked or disbelieving body language while the child is talking.