I'd like to hear about what brought you into the hospital. Many patients will feel quite close to the student on the team. Students usually have more time to spend with a patient, listening to the patient's history and health concerns, and patients certainly notice and appreciate this extra attention. Many patients appreciate a physician who brings a personal touch to the physician-patient encounter. They may feel more connected to a physician whose extracurricular activities and interests make her seem more alive.
Physicians choose to share parts of their life stories according to their level of comfort.
However, it is essential that the patient, and the patient's concerns, be the focus of every visit. Occasionally, a physician may face requests for services, such as contraception or abortion, which raise a conflict for the physician. Physicians do not have to provide medical services in opposition to their personal beliefs. In addition, it is acceptable to have a nonjudgmental discussion with a patient regarding her need for the service, and to ensure that the patient understands alternative forms of therapy. However, it is never appropriate to proselytize.