A restaurant with only one item on the menu will soon go out of business. Each time you ask men on the fringe to take another sep, some will drop by the wayside. The parable of the sower is always at work. We reach out to the men who want help. We entrust the others in prayer to our sovereign God.
Most meaningful change takes place in the context of church-based relationships.
One of the best ways to foster these relationships is to get men involved in small groups. Provide as many men's growth and discipleship opportunities as possible. The greater variety you offer, the more a man from the fringe will find something that engages him where he walks. Obviously, overlap will occur. Bible studies will pray.