This is not a good life plan. It is a better life strategy for you to claim your responsibility and change the situation yourself. Don't wait on others to change. If you can name and claim your problem then you can change it. Naming and claiming your responsibility gives you control.
Responsibility leads to action.
When you accept responsibility then you are in charge. You can change your thinking and attitude and plan a course of action. You can change your behavior. You can accept and deal with your emotions. Learn to claim and exercise your responsibility and life will improve.