Some people are born with it, others learn it through trial and error.
Ten Easy Ways to Become a Better Manager Demonstrate confidence and competence in meetings and others will look to you for advice and input. Your boss and your organization don't have all the answers for making your job and career more spiritually meaningful. It's your job to figure out what you want, create it where you are, or go somewhere else. If a fellow staff member suggests an ill-conceived idea, don't argue, build on it. Look for ways to continually refresh them.