We are all growing and changing. In a way, I'd like to use evolving experience, but it often is healing because so many of us had wounded births or were wounded in our childhood by parents who didn't trust us which is the predominant way of parenting, and so birth becomes for most women as I see it a healing because they regain a responsibility for themselves and their responsibility for themselves has been taken over by parents. I see so many healing experiences and it all comes down to relearning and trust in how our bodies work. It is very hard to verbalize. I mean look at your birth and what you had to go through to let go.
Woman is incidental, delivering babies is what doctors do.