When it concerns meeting women, men tend to separate from the squadron to wander helplessly towards the female pack, only to hit a wall and be shot down and humiliated. Most men will sit or stand around all night holding a beer, and watch women dance all night without doing anything. At the end of the night, they're disappointed because they did not meet any women. If you can't talk because the music is too loud, then invite them to dance with you. The only way to actually meet women in nightclubs is by following the ways of the jet fighter pilots.
Men have to learn to fight in squadrons.
Look into the eyes of a pilot. In his stare you will see, among other things, great intelligence. It is precisely that intelligence that makes the fighter a great pilot. When pilots fight, the members of the squad gather together. Survival depends on cooperation.