This kind of superficial nonsense is a direct product of the contemporary debasement of the sanctity of sex. No amount of political conversation or mutual dedication to saving the whales has the power to bring forth our strongest, most intense emotions, making us feel intensely good about ourselves and our partners, the way sex does. And when things don't work well in the bedroom, they're not going to work well in the living room either. Hence, it is imperative that we respect our sexuality and develop its potency to maximise the intimacy and closeness that we feel within a relationship. Many people tell me that you have to have sex before marriage in order to ensure that you are sexually compatible.
Men complain of sexual incompatibility in order to excuse poor performance.
All men and women are extremely sexual. If a man and a woman are deeply attracted to one another, if they care about the relationship and are willing to invest the time and effort required to make each other happy, then the sex will be great. It's that simple. But unlike men, women usually need to be warmed up in order to have steamy, hot sex. While a man's sexual drive is immediately manifest, a woman's is more latent.