This is an extremely turbulent and emotional time. As such you may find yourself thinking and doing things that you would not normally do. The most devoted of parents have been known to put their children in the middle. They are right.
Most people do go through some sort of metamorphosis during their divorce.
We tend to be much more emotional and rash in our decision making. It's part of the process that we must watch very carefully. Try to always think before you act. This is a list of things that under normal circumstances most people would never do. This list was developed based on personal experiences, having had these things done to us, or as much as we may hate to admit it, having done some of these ourselves.