My home phone number was listed in many newspapers to contact for more information about the group. One of the things I found, listing my home phone number, is that people will call at all hours of the day and night. There are gender differences in the way people handle the phone calls. Women callers tend to ask just for information. They ask when the support group meets or how they can be added to the mailing list.
Men sometimes do that.
There is also a category of men who will call and ask about the support group. And I would give him the information. Why don't you come over. I tell that story because it is funny, but I also think it illustrates a certain point around people who are just beginning to question their sexual orientation and are taking the step of calling for more information and support. The men, at least the ones I work with, want the opportunity to turn their fantasies into realities.