As love grows, it includes doing things for the other person to please that person. This is also true with our relationship with God. After the introduction comes time to learn to love Him by spending time with Him, talking with Him, and letting Him talk with us. Prayer and Bible study accomplish this. As we discover how God loves us and what He wants from us and for us, the love relationship will grow deeper.
Some people are less lovable than others.
We need to realize their condition, their need. They are hopelessly lost, spiritually dead, separated from the source of life. We are given no assurance to believe that a person who dies without hearing of Christ has any hope of salvation. We speak to those who are perishing. As Christians get hold of this fact, it will help us understand what it means to love other people.