They, likewise, will learn honesty from the lies that you tell, and self-esteem from the movies that you watch and the language you use. They will learn the value of money from the way you care about and share your resources. You owe your children warm beds, adequate food, educational opportunities, and examples of godly living. But the accessories are privileges to be earned. Talking on the phone, driving the family car, going out at night, and receiving an allowance are privileges which must come with proven responsibility.
Payment is the reward for hard work.
Giving is mutual. These concepts are best taught by example and consistency. Joe White is the author of 11 books, including Pure Excitement , Looking for Love in All the Wrong Places , and The Gift of Self-Esteem . He is president of Kanakuk-Kanakomo Kamps, Inc., which hosts 14,000 campers each summer. Joe and his wife, Debbie-Jo, have four sons.