The key is for each spouse to participate voluntarily and to work cooperatively on reaching solutions. The parties control their own decisions. Because the decisions are their own, the parties are far more likely to comply with their final agreements. Post-divorce conflict, with potential litigation and additional costs, is less likely to occur. Mediation is faster than litigation.
Mediation is generally less expensive than litigation.
The parties can discuss emotional issues and have those issues considered in making their decisions. The parties can use their improved communication skills and enhanced understanding of each other's concerns to reduce stress in post-divorce dealings. Children benefit from reduced tension and hostility between parents both during and after divorce. The mediator drafts an agreement detailing the parties' decisions. The agreement is reviewed by an attorney for each party.