This web site is owned by a person with a disability. The main aim of this site is to a promote a good understanding of tough love and to show that suffering can brings out the best in us.
Most people going thorugh tough times only realise it as tough love after the fact.
If we can see God's hand in the midst of suffering we can see it as an act of discipline and love on the part of God. Then, instaead of moaning and complaining we can be thankful no matter what happens to us. This site is also about re explaining the relationship between tough love and tender love. Note this is not an offical Salvation Army website. I am just a volunteer.