Try an Enticing New Angle 5. Women should use their mouths in every possible way during sex. So speak up. I don't mean abusive talk or barking out a list of instructions like a drill sergeant. The words that excite men the most are spoken clearly and sweetly.
Men are very goal-oriented.
They're driven to orgasm. If women can find a way to communicate the concept 'Slow down,' they'll have more foreplay, and men will be happy to give their wives what they want. This is a big turn-on to guys. Don't just talk get mushy. It will come in especially handy as you both get older.