In addition to its effect on the victim, rape profoundly affects family members and other loved ones. Partners of victims may have a particularly difficult time coming to terms with what has occurred. Yet, a partner is in a unique position to help a victim deal with the consequences of such a traumatic event, and thereby assist the loved one in making the transition from victim to survivor. Below are some helpful hints for becoming an ally to your loved one.
Rape Is an act of violence.
Is frightening, degrading, and occurs without consent. Is NOT the victim s fault. Assistance in seeking medical attention. Be available to discuss the experience when the survivor is ready. Provide physical comfort when needed.