They want what revival does. They want revival to do it to them. The focus needs to be a personal, intimate love relationship with the Bridegroom. The Song of Solomon is the model. Revivals come and go.
People come and go with the revival.
We have made everything about us. Our prayers, our worship, our church programs, even our evangelism is to save people from Hell. It is not about us. It has always been about Him. We are saved to love Him.