This is the morality paramita. If something is bothering you, then be patient and forgiving. A patient mind will make you happy. Then inside you will feel pride and want to try harder. This is the patience paramita.
Pride is like a pond plant which has no roots-it comes and goes freely.
Fear only that you will fall into indulgence. When you cry, just cry. When you laugh, just laugh. Feelings change from happy to sad, from joy to anger. Countries arise and prosper and then they decline and are destroyed.