Time and time again my teens have shown me this. The decisions that are made by teens gives us gray hairs and ulcers. One of the great mind-boggling times for our household is when we have grounded them for an unacceptable decision that was made by them using the most brainless excuses. Immediately after they get released from grounding they make the same, identical, unacceptable decision to do it again. There IS a reason.
Teens are unique and they are tuned in to their own needs and their own desires.
Their minds do not wonder what is right and wrong. There is no right or wrong in their world. We need to learn from their example. This precious non-reality world can be OURS too. Make your decisions based on YOUR needs and on YOUR desires.