They learn from each other in a dynamic way, and do not allow their roles to become too rigid. The wife has periods of spontaneity, and the husband then becomes the stabilizer. The non-ADD spouse may misinterpret the partner s disorganization and procrastination as deliberate offences. Both partners should have a thorough understanding of the psychiatric diagnoses and how the behaviors associated with the diagnoses affect the entire family. It is important to address these conditions too.
Many couples feel euphoric early in the treatment process when medication begins to have an effect.
They are lulled into the belief that the diagnosis and the medication will be a panacea. A spouse may despair or even leave the relationship when old patterns and behaviors re-emerge. Remember, it took a long time for each family member to learn their behavior patterns and it may take time to make lasting changes. Instead, understanding your strengths and weaknesses can help you develop creative coping strategies. We are located in Northern Baltimore County and serve the Baltimore County, Carroll County and Harford County areas in Maryland.