There are different attitudes towards the place of children at such events. While one need not take such a firm stance, it is necessary to realize in advance that children, no matter how much they are loved and valued, change the nature of any social event. If you cater to an event to which adults will bring their children, you should have a somewhat different set of expectations of what the party will be like. Children do not enjoy the same foods as adults, nor will they always appreciate the quiet decorum and heightened sense of taste that their parents value. Despite such warnings, there will be affairs at which children must be included.
Some caterers offer a service where a staff member is specifically assigned to the care of children.
Others suggest setting children's tables around the basis of a theme, selected on the basis of the age of the children present. One should also consider just what culinary fare to offer. Because children often enjoy simpler fare it is possible that the while the adults are dining on tournedos Rossini the children might gain much more pleasure from hamburgers a la lots of ketchup. Finally, make sure that your caterer comes to your home at least twice before the affair. During these early meetings select what plates and linens will be used, plan the placement and style of flowers and discuss furniture arrangements.