Personality must construct itself, enrich itself, fill itself with universal content , achieve unity in wholeness in the whole extent of its life . But for this , it must already exist . There must originally exist that subject which is called upon to construct itself.
Personality is at the beginning of the road and it is only at the end of the road.
Be sexy , but not sexual. Be honest , but don't hurt anyone's feelings. Be independent , but be nice . Be smart , but not so smart that you threaten the boys .