But if you have a lot of other passions or if you're preoccupied with something else like work, even in a good way, you'll need more cues. When the cues are seen as pressure, sex is no longer fun. And having children under age 5 is not associated with a great sex life. There just are real drops when women have young children. Wow, that last part was so good to hear.
Men are able to go out and do their thing.
Maybe if we could go play golf on a Sunday, the shoe would be on the other foot. You know, your sexual responses don't begin in the bedroom. Ideally, they should be going all day. If you think of sex as energy instead of a set of actions, it's easy to see that if you're constantly having to stop yourself in all aspects of your life, you'll also stop your sexual responses. This was good stuff.