Men are overwhelmingly the victims of violence and homicide, a health issue to be sure. Understandably, men's lifespan is seven years shorter than women's. Black men's life span is 14 years shorter than white women's. The question of health and well-being is not just a question of mortality. The most important predictor of good health is one's economic status.
Poverty is the greatest cause of ill health.
Women represent the largest portion of those individuals living in poverty. If women's health is poor, then they are that much less able to care for the children in their homes. I don't disagree with what you say about homicide, and certainly about the stark figures for African American men. Focusing on women's health care concerns is not meant to minimize the very frightening statistics for black men, in particular. No, it's not our survey.