If meeting after a long absence, old friends may slap one another on the back as they exchange phrases that show how close they are and how pleased they are to see each other. Greetings may continue with inquiries about a person s family and friends. Titles and last names are not often used when addressing others. First names are known and used by almost all Tuvaluans. When speaking English, Tuvaluans adopt the English custom of using titles when appropriate.
Unannounced visits are usual in Tuvalu, and guests are always welcome.
One would not normally visit early in the morning or around the time when people usually work or prepare meals. Friends sometimes drop in on one another, but it is mostly relatives who visit one another, and daughters frequently visit their mothers. The traditional timber-framed house does not have permanent walls, but shutters that are lowered, so visitors rarely need to knock to announce their presence. If a mat is not laid down, the visitor waits for one to be spread out. One also says Tulou when reaching for something above another person s head.