The person my be moved to a back room or taken out of the public view. This will increase the transsexuals sense of shame. The transsexual may also believe that everybody is talking about them and looking at them when in fact there is only a slightly elevated sense of curiosity which diminishes over time. I assumed that my story lasted in the faculty lunch room up until someone was discovered having an affair with someone else. Mature love relationships are a difficult part of this process.
Most transsexuals see the relationship from the point of view of their new gender.
However, potential partners often see it from the point of view of the old one. So, I consider myself a heterosexual female, but many men would see me still as a homosexual male who just went too far. Two equally problematic situations can arise. First, the transsexual may ignore all this and find themselves in deep trouble when the person in question discovers the situation. This might also include violence.