We learned that when children are taught an effective conflict resolution strategy and are given time to practice it, they are more apt to stay out of fights. That's not realistic, conflict will always exist and kids will always get angry. It's knowing what to do with that anger that's critical. Knowing how to resolve conflicts could save a child's life. Know when to intervene.
Some conflicts take care of themselves.
Kids often find a way of working things out without getting into a full-blown fight. Sometimes our involvement can add fuel to the fire. Use preventative maintenance. If you see increased irritability or elevating emotions, step in before the conflict has a chance to completely erupt. Separate your kids and have them cool off - take slow deep breaths, get a drink of water, wash the face, engage in physical activity.