Golf in Sweden follows the rhythms of a culture steeped in socialist tradition. But the federation also has a mandate to seek out the best players and give them the opportunity to compete at the highest level. They know their place and they stay there. They are afraid to stand out. Everyone the same, but not many better.
People actually hope others fail.
But those that try are the people that really risked something. I'm doomed, because I have to live up to the player's expectations from here on out. It is better only to ask questions, and the player has to answer. To give the answer, then I've just taken away any chance that person has to grow as a player and as a human being. That's why as coaches we must, excuse the words, shut up.