I pondered the question and then told her about my inconsistent meditation practice, my experience of being a man and a brother and sharing that in my men's and father's groups, the deep love I experience with my partner, my connection to my mentor. Then, while reflecting even more deeply on my current practices and inspirations, I mentioned my son and the love we have for one another. Fathering is the most profound spiritual work I've ever done. My love for my son has given me a higher purpose. Being an involved father provides me with daily, intimate and accessible spiritual lessons and teachings.
Spiritual work is about being love.
I often forget about my breath, I can forget to be mindful, but I can't forget that whatever I'm doing and how I'm doing it affects him. This is sacred territory. Wherever we are, that's what we do and that's what's needing to be done. It's everywhere we are, in every moment. I might take him there.