It is your right to know whatever it is you feel the need to know. Don't waste time on small talk. Taking notes while the doctor is speaking or asking an assisting staff member to do so for you will prove helpful. Often, literature is available about common physical problems or medications. Ask for any available and appropriate to your situation.
Physicians can also give information about community resources and assistance with medications.
Don't be intimidated by your physician or his or her staff. Each physician or diagnostic practice should uphold patients' rights to ask questions and be treated fairly. If you feel that you are not comfortable in one, you have the right to find another situation that best suits your needs. Your physician should be special to you because he or she becomes more of an integral part of our lives as we age. Treat them as you would like to be treated.