It is easy to misidentify yang as male energy and yin as female. This is sexist oversimplification. Yin is soft, yielding, receptive, enfolding. In our culture, these are attributes that don t always come easily to men. Men who bottom in anal sex can be understood to be feeding their yin energy.
Sex becomes a way of balancing energy and creating wholeness.
Healthy anal sex is good for you. If your ideas about anal sex don t include concepts like softening and enveloping, it may be because most of us don t know any better. Not likely, I m afraid. Probably one gay man in a thousand had a healthy conversation about anal sex with a parent or teacher. In addition, there is something of a prejudice against penetration among some gay men.