The good stuff that is happening may not be as newsworthy, but it's the vital glue that is holding everything together. Being involved in counseling on a daily basis has given me a unique opportunity not only to see problems, but also to observe what is mature, stable, and emotionally balanced. They feel good about themselves, who they are, and what they do. They assume responsibility for their own attitudes and actions. They clearly distinguish reality from fantasy, and are doggedly committed to truth and reality rather than fantasy.
Truth is the compass of their lives.
This enables them to face challenges rather than flee from them. Wisely use resources of time, abilities and money in the implementation of short and long-range goals. They have a connectedness with others around them, and are accountable to authority figures, which provide balance, enabling the avoidance of eccentricities. They're able to risk scrutiny and critical feedback from others, which stimulates learning and fine-tuning of behaviors. Many of them possess an abiding faith, and sense an awareness of forgiveness.