Small children often still see the aura or people as well as their own aura. Hence very young children see the beautiful colors in the aura of loving persons and hence they like to dress in a colorful way. Parents dress their children the way they want. Children often are unhappy and uncomfortable that way. Suddenly - may be minutes or seconds before leaving home the children may require to dress differently.
Parents say NO - period.
A YES opens the door for self made happiness within the children. As a YES causes your Love for your children to flow into and through them and at the same time allows them to be dressed in a way they feel comfortable and can love themselves. Feeling good is important. Finding yourself pretty is a prerequisite to find yourself worthy to be loved by anyone. Compliments from others may be important but even more important is that each and every person can find himself being worthy to be loved by others.