He is willing to do whatever it takes. I know that we do not have to divorce to set up support agreement. And only his income would be involved. I too think we need to see a laywer. But as you can guess when it rains it poors.
Property taxes are due, registrations are due so on and so forth.
We will need to pay to see a counselor and a laywer. You may be able to read about your state law on internet. I honestly think it will be worth the dollars spent to set up defense on front end. It is easy to do. And check with health insurance on what they may provide for counseling.