Yes, but with each time, the giving becomes easier and easier. Simple little things. One of the things I like most on TV is the ad from the Mormons. Mom, I m sure more than once, has told her child to not take any of the groceries out of the car. Well, the child does, and the result is a dropped bag, and a smashed pie.
Mom goes into the house, and emerges with two forks.
Now maybe that is an exaggeration, but what a wonderful code to live by. Basically, don t sweat the small stuff. I think we can all picture ourselves, if faced with a similar situation in December, reacting in a similar fashion. Now, picture it on a hot day in July. Results may not be quite so picturesque.