Behavior management involves changing the antecedents and consequences so that the child's behavior changes. Here, rules and expectations are clear and consistent, and consequences are set forth ahead of time and delivered immediately . Demands are limited. Rewards are plenty. Praise is frequent.
Negative feedback is minimal.
By establishing structure and routines, preparing the child for changes in the routine, building opportunities for the child to be successful, setting consequences ahead of time, and anticipating where difficulties may arise, parents and teachers can change the antecedents and cultivate an environment that encourages the child to behave appropriately. When adults in the child's life do what they say they are going to do, and do so on a consistent basis so that the child knows their word has meaning, then they are providing the consequences to encourage the child to continue behaving appropriately, plus discouraging any undesired behavior. Behavior management is a skill. It requires practice, and it requires patience. Changing behavior takes time.