It's especially hard if they're in a large, confusing place such as a cafeteria or gym, where they may get overexcited and have trouble calming down. Compensate by gradually decreasing the activity, or by letting the child know that gym will be over in ten minutes so he can begin to calm himself. One thing at a time Parents and teachers get exasperated at the child who can't remember a series of directions. Ask him to go up to his room, get a sweater, and bring it downstairs. By the time he reaches his room he hasn't a clue why he's there.
Most children hear the first direction, but lose it after that.
When you give this child directions, have the child look at you. Watch his eyes. The minute his eyes go up toward the ceiling, he will not hear the next word you say. If he does, most likely he will then remember what's been said. Back to Contents Bite-size pieces Help the child learn how to break a project down into smaller sections.