Read the technical information as well. You have friends and family, and they all care very deeply for you. For support, I mean. Don't keep this a secret. I mean people eat sticks of butter for breakfast, get heart attacks, and tell the world.
People get cancer through no fault of their own and feel embarrassed.
Everyone will show their support and love for you and help you get through this. Some people have asked questions and made comments. They have been paraphrased below. I am aghast at what you've been through - but proud of your for your courage. That defines 'manhood'.