We have a lot of issues for our divorce already worked out. In choosing a mediator a combination of experience and formal training are important. You should find a professional who has experience in mediating your type of dispute and a minimum of 40 hours formal mediation training with a respected mediation training organization. In divorce and post-decree situations, it is especially important that the mediator has knowledge and experience in working with divorcing couples and that she understands the law. Katherine Head has 14 years experience as a divorce mediator and has had more than 100 hours of formal mediation training.
Mediation is generally less time consuming and less costly than the adversarial process.
Agreements reached in mediation tend to last longer than decisions imposed by an outsider because they are mutual and take into account the needs and wishes of both parties. The process is voluntary, future oriented, cooperative and confidential. It is especially useful in situations, such as divorces that involve children, as the process enhances the likelihood of a workable future relationship between the parties. If both parties are willing to participate in the process, it is generally worthwhile to give it a try. You never forfeit your right to seek a settlement through the adversarial process if you are not able to resolve the issues in mediation.