If a minor expresses interest in the groups, they are directed to informational sources and peer groups. The bondage community is one of the most wired communities in the world, Richard says. Many people meet potential partners and find local activities on the Internet through discussion groups and message boards. Dungeon parties, fandangos and play parties allow participants to leave their sexual inhibitions at the door. Participants are tied up, whipped, chained and bound in gauze and leather.
Nothing is spared when it comes to carrying out the bondage party theme.
Party-goers dress in elaborate costumes that bring a sense of adventure. While some may feel alcohol and drugs are necessary to leave such inhibitions behind, they will not find any chemical substances at the parties, Richard says. The bondage community is a very sober community, he says. Participants need to be in control and aware of their actions in order to guarantee safety. Dungeon monitors walk around carrying gloves and condoms, handing them out to all participants.