So when your new lady tells you she wants to do something, like go to a movie you would hate, tell her how you would feel. Suggest she go with a girlfriend, or suggest something else to do, that you would both enjoy. Do not go to that movie unless you are prepared to sit through endless foreign features or soppy love themes, or whatever her genre is. You see, by going the first time you are setting a precedent. And if you start to try and put your foot down later on in the relationship, she is the one who is going to be confused and feel that you have changed.
Relationships are a tricky business.
It does not pay to enter in them unless you are being yourself. The same applies to her as well. If you can be accepted for the way you are, your likes and dislikes, the way you dress, even your love of something boring, then you will have a lot better chance of the relationship growing and enduring. Accepting her differences is important too, but we will go into that next time. Inc. PageWise makes no representations about the content published on this site.