Their problem is how to get married or be in fulfilling relationships. They may or may not be able to relate to their mothers. Besides, some mothers, trying to be hip and modern or desperate for their daughters to get married and produce a grandchild, will give them bad advice and tell them to call men and pay their own way. Women have turned to The Rules because it's the only advice they can count on that works. No, as far as we are concerned, there is no conflict between The Rules and feminism.
Rules girls can be feminists.
We are feminists. We believe in and are grateful for the advances women have made in the last century. All women have different definitions of feminism, but to us, it is about getting equal pay for equal work. Feminism is also about women believing in their own importance. It is about being fulfilled by our jobs, our hobbies, our friendships.