Until you are totally intimate, you will really not know who you really are. You need a mirror to know what your face looks like, and you need a relationship with someone who is trustworthy before you dare to be intimate. There are a lot of people today who have self-esteem problems because they have never built relationships through trustful experiences in the intimate area of life. A lot of people fail in relationships because they don't dare to be intimate because they are afraid of commitment. You cannot be intimate with someone who might leave at any moment and share another bed.
Marriage is a divine institution.
I didn't invent it. The Catholics didn't, the Muslims didn't, the Buddhists didn't and the Jews didn't. Commitment leads to real love, and breaking up leads us down a road that ends in loneliness. Life offers us two choices. Love or loneliness, it's our choice to make and we have the freedom to pick.