Man proposes and the God disposes. If you are unhappy about this arrangement then you may communicate your suggestions and hope that in the next Creation your suggestions are accepted. Presently, it is in our own interest to know the rules of the game, and play our part intelligently, to maximize happiness and minimize unhappiness. Harmonize your thoughts, words, and action. Do unto others what you would like others to do unto you.
Meditation is the only method that can bring about harmony in our life.
There are almost 100 brands of meditation, sold as a commodity. World has become competitive. We have tooth-pastes that claim to fight tooth decay round the clock, and yet we are advised to see our dentist twice a year. We are offered meditation that will improve our profits in business, or cure our disease, but we are going deeper in to newer diseases and our business produces more Stress, Tension, and Fatigue, than happiness, year after year. Meditation can be performed only if there is harmony between our body, mind, and soul.