Take time to listen to your child, especially if there is a problem. Involve children in making family rules and decisions. Make sure the children understand the rules and the penalty for breaking them. Develop an understanding in your family about consistent good discipline. Respond when a child misbehaves instead of waiting until things get worse.
Rules can change to get the desired response as the child matures.
Help the child develop inner control. Give children real responsibilities, like household chores, to help them feel like they are doing something important and to build independence and self-esteem. Avoid personal criticism and focus on the unintended behavior. Try not to nag but offer constructive ideas. Avoid power struggles and allow your child to express some disagreements.