That is the beginning of trust. I wish you and Danny the blessing of delighting in one another for a lifetime. Prepare yourselves for some tough love. Your wanton disregard for each other's feelings and the well-being of your daughter is reprehensible. You gave up the right to pursue these whimsical affairs the moment you chose to procreate.
Playtime is over.
It's time to shift the focus off your genitals and onto your little girl. You are your daughter's most important teachers. That you should always put your own selfish needs above others. That it is OK to hurt the ones you love. That she should find a husband just like daddy who will humiliate her and cheat on her.