And sometimes, they don't. But don't be fooled. Most teens are secretly pleased when their parents want to spend special time with them. The key is to get involved in something your teen is interested in. Volunteer to help with an after-school activity.
Parents can do everything from coaching to passing out snacks after a performance.
Ask your child about his favorite band. Try listening to the music. Then talk about it with him. Read her favorite book, and ask what she thought. Take your child to work with you one day, if possible.