Orgasm is the point at which all the tension is suddenly released in a series of involuntary and pleasurable muscular contractions.
Many women have difficulty orgasming, either by themselves or with a lover.
Fear that you won't have an orgasm, even though you are aroused, and so you don't want to get into the hassle of trying, repressing your sexual response. Fear of asking too much and seeming demanding of your partner. Trying to orgasm simultaneously. Conflict about, or anger at, your partner. A Sexual and Personal Growth Program for Women .