Guide to Getting Married . It is nevertheless a serious and dignified way of celebrating a relationship and for a couple to make their promises to each other. Simply, a view of life that is non-religious and free of superstition, and which recognises the equality of everyone and the good within us all. We believe that we should care for one another, and that we should all be free to find our own happiness as long as no-one else is harmed in the process. Even if you have religious friends and relations, you will still be able to design a ceremony that everyone will respect and enjoy.
Most people find that they can share the Humanist way of thinking.
Particularly lesbians and gays, who feel included in a moral outlook which values diversity. No two are the same, as couples are encouraged to be creatively involved in the planning stage and to use their own ideas. There is always a statement of the couple's love and commitment to each other, frequently accompanied by an exchange of rings. But apart from that there may be music, poetry and contributions from friends and family. The important thing is that the ceremony should be personal, sincere and meaningful.