Avoid discouraging the person from talking about difficult and emotional subjects such as dying. Repeat enjoyable activities. Remember the value of repetitive activities and exercise. Walking or performing an enjoyable activity such as sorting coins might help distract the person from feelings of anger or depression. Create the opportunity to reflect on life.
Many patients enjoy going through old photo albums and talking about happy and enjoyable events.
You may also want to sing familiar songs that evoke old memories and feelings. Allow the person with Alzheimer's to tell stories even if he repeats the same story over and over again. That was a really happy time for you. Understanding the person's feelings and frustrations will help the caregiver react sensitively and gently to the needs of the Alzheimer patient. One of the best places to turn for additional help is the Alzheimer's Association.