I ll bet if you asked which one was most important, the response would be sincerity over skill. If you can find a good example of a non-directive approach in film, it would be a great transition into the next method. Now an important point is to emphasize that both methods are appropriate and that you may actually move between the two in various degrees. No matter what method is used, there are techniques to effective counseling. Depending on the audience, it may be worth discussing some examples of this.
Physical layout is an important element in counseling.
First and foremost have a plan for each and every counseling session. The first step in developing this plan is to develop a solid objective. Although the first may be possible, it is much more likely that the second will be accomplished with surety. The objective will normally guide you naturally to a method, either direct or non-direct that is appropriate for the task. If, for instance, the objective is to make the individual aware of expectations, a directive method will be most appropriate.