Jesus loves me perfectly, wholly, absolutely, unconditionally, unceasingly. I do my best to love other people as he loves me, but I don't do it as well as he does. But I just keep trying. And his commands are not burdensome, for everyone born of God overcomes the world. This is the victory that has overcome the world, even our faith.
Peace is wonderful, and living out the commandment of love produces peace.
It is one of the paradoxes of the Christian life that obedience is the means to freedom. If you don't know Jesus, I invite you to seek him. He is present with you now, offering you his love. Take it, dear friend.