You work in order to accomplish goals. You will have lasting happiness when your goals are based on family relationships and service to God, friends and community. The pursuit of wealth and the things it buys produces only short-term pleasure. The same is true for fame and praise. Your employment will be more rewarding as you establish lasting priorities that emphasize meaningful relationships and service.
Men have the responsibility, the obligation and the right to provide for their families.
Because it is a commandment, the Lord will guide you to proper employment. For women, wisdom dictates that you should have employment preparation that would provide you with options. While you must do your part, you can have confidence that heaven will help. You have undiscovered talents and abilities and can do more than you know. Heaven knows each person's future and can guide your choice and timing of employment preparation.