This may also allow the person with suicidal thoughts to feel less lonely or isolated, and perhaps a bit relieved. How You Can Help Most suicides can be prevented by sensitive responses to the person in crisis. In most instances, there is no rush. Sit and listen - really listen to what the person is saying. Give understanding and active emotional support for his or her feelings.
Most individuals have mixed feelings about death and dying and are open to help.
Don't be afraid to ask or talk directly about suicide. Talk about the positive alternatives which may establish hope for the future. Although you want to help, do not take full responsibility by trying to be the sole counsel. Seek out resources which can lend qualified help, even if it means breaking a confidence. Let the troubled person know you are concerned - so concerned that you are willing to arrange help beyond that which you can offer.