Lilli found herself divorced, employed, and the sole provider for a young child. The stress of her divorce led to many unwanted physical changes. She felt old, tired, and used. Nonetheless, she couldn't imagine a lifetime alone. In thinking about her previous relationship, she decided to get information about how to choose a better mate this next time around.
Many people change partners at least once, and possibly more than once, during their adult lives.
Sadly enough, less research and preparation often go into picking a new partner than choosing a new car or a new home. Preparation and having a clear idea of what you want from a relationship can help you and your new partner to make a happy, fulfilling, and life-long match. This information sheet won't guarantee that your next partner will be the perfect one, but it may help. Most happy long-lasting partnerships are formed by people who are quite similar. Compatibility in areas such as income level, education, religion, ethnicity, values and interests minimizes the possibility for conflict between partners and maximizes harmony.