Do not duplicate without permission . Love is a commitment to another person. It is an attitude of seeking that person's best no matter what the cost. Sometimes it is an act of the will in the midst of conflicting feelings. Love does not come easily, as you've probably already noticed.
Marriage takes a lot of work.
Your feelings will come and go and there will be days when you will not like your spouse. You may feel angry, hurt, disgusted, disappointed, exhausted. Yet you still are called to love your husband or wife as you promised on the day you were married. In all circumstances, in spite of your feelings. This is the secret that happy gray-haired old couples understand, the glue that binds a marriage and guarantees a love that will stand the test of time.