We had to replace you because you did a bad job teaching Sunday School. Then, after he joins. Jesus knew it, and pastors should learn it. At first, the language is subtle egs. I' ve felt that way too.
Nobody does help.
Then, things regress to outright hostility. After becoming angry, behavior changes. Often there is one final and desperate cry for help. Blames external items for his dropout status. Exhibits aggression and criticism.