Even in this supposed age of male sensitivity, some young men are still thinking the manly way to deal with problems is to withhold emotions. Go it alone, and refuse guidance.
Men are more reluctant to seek help.
There's a theme in the culture relating to definitions of manhood. Being self-sufficient, independent and competent enough to handle your own affairs is part of our culture's definition of manhood. It probably ties into the notions of freedom, independence, the historic ideals that are part of the general American myth. Whether in movies or in sports, in families or at school, men are still getting that message, but at the same time they also are hearing they need to express their emotions and seek help with their problems. You don't know what to do.