While we as parents are attempting to put our children s noses to the grindstone, it seems contradictory to encourage breaks. However, the truth is, planned breaks are more likely to increase motivation. We periodically need variety and relaxation. If students intersperse fun with work, they are more likely to not feel resentful of the work that lies ahead. Be reasonable in your expectations.
Motivation is a strange animal.
I have had the privilege of sitting with many students in my work as Counsellor and find it safe to say that most students are extremely motivated. Some just require some assistance with direction and focus but, once found and aimed in the right direction, can effectively leave their mark. I believe it was Kahil Gibran who likened our children to arrows we send out into the world. All we need to do is give them lots of support and encouragement and set them off in the right direction. They ll take it from there.