You are still likely to feel nervous or uncomfortable at times talking about herpes, but there are strategies you can use to minimize discomfort. When the time comes to tell someone you have herpes, focus on giving the facts and emphasizing the positive. Literature and support groups may provide additional suggestions about how to discuss the topic. If your partner or friend has herpes, consider how difficult it may have been for him or her to tell you. Read about herpes, discuss sexual behavior, and seek more information or a support group if desired.
Open communication is important.
Many couples have successfully maintained relationships for years without transmission of herpes from the infected partner to the uninfected one. You do need to be cautious to minimize your risk of transmitting the virus. The Truth about Herpes , 3rd Ed., Stephen L. Sacks, Gordon Soules Book Publ. If you are concerned about any difference in your treatment plan and the information in this handout, you are advised to contact your health care provider.