Children learn from the role models what they see and hear. For the past 35 years, some children's television has very effectively used the combination of words, music and fast-paced animation to achieve learning. Most parents are concerned about what their young children see and hear, but as children grow older, parents pay less attention to the music and videos that hold their children's interest. The sharing of musical tastes between generations in a family can be a pleasurable experience.
Music also is often a major part of a teenager's separate world.
It is quite common for teenagers to get pleasure from keeping adults out and causing adults some distress. A concern to many interested in the development and growth of teenagers is the negative and destructive themes of some rock and other kinds of music, including best-selling albums promoted by major recording companies. Parents can help their teenagers by paying attention to their teenager's purchasing, downloading, listening and viewing patterns, and by helping them identify music that may be destructive. An open discussion without criticism may be helpful. Music is not usually a danger for a teenager whose life is happy and healthy.