Those tights that didn't fit, I gave to another lady doctor. This is going too far. We are warned that fairness does not matter, that everything on the three page list has been the subject of a suit. Examples of successful suits for millions of dollars are described. We grow confused.
People take notes, adding forbidden acts and topics to the lists.
In national companies, in Dharma centers, and now in the White House ,we have become a nation focused on the issue of sexual harassment. We are obsessed with the details. There are some fundamental problems here. First, we can never get the facts straight because our human memories are just memories, shaded, imprecise, serving the needs and defending the fears of the small self. Memories are not reality.