It is our mission to have patience and believe that God's power and inspiration can work through us. In that way, we will grow tall and strong and we'll become an example to others, and like the mustard plant, a refuge. Losing something of great personal value is a low blow. The person wants to be rid of the pain. The most important way to succeed in doing this is prayer.
Prayer is like a telephone call.
It is a form of communication with God. It is the best way to ask for repentance and to relieve pain. When God hears the constant prayers of the person, God takes action. Things in the griever's life change, and start to get easier. Even though He never says why he does things, he does do things for a reason, and He is always right.