Good communication involves five basic elements. The sender - the person sending the message. The message - what you want to communicate to your employees. Some guidelines for improving your communication skills. They have been socialized to take care of other people's desires ahead of their own.
Men have a task orientation to their communication patterns.
Doing what needs to be done to get the job done. Influencing the direction of conversations versus controlling the conversation. By doing this, you take responsibility for decisions and the results. The other person is responsible for implementing his or her own decisions. You can help someone explore ideas, facts, feelings, etc.