The seventh principle deals with renewal. Habit number four, according to Covey, is we should adopt a win-win attitude. An attitude that everybody can win. An attitude that says we are not going to be happy if we win at somebody else's expense. That is, I win and you lose.
Nobody wants to lose and somebody else wins.
Steve Covey takes it further, he says, neither should we have an attitude that it is okay for me to have my way, if you get less than what you want or you need. At the core of this principle is the belief there is enough pie for everybody. God's grace is sufficient to meet the needs of all of His people. As we look at our life as a gift of God's grace, then we have enough to share. God's grace can flow through our lives.