We believe that the manner in which we work toward our goals is as important as realizing them . Victims provoke the batterer, they deserve what they get, and are responsible for the situation. Batterers are crazy and out of control, and cannot be held responsible for their actions. Battering only occurs in certain cultural, social and economic groups. Restraining orders solve everything.
Marriage counseling is the best solution to the problems between the victim and the batterer.
Battering is a private family matter. We should not interfere. Leaving the abuser guarantees a woman's safety. Outward appearances are an accurate gauge of what's going on in a relationship. It is a felony offense.