So if you choose to drink or use drugs, pay attention to how much you consume, and know your limits-before you find yourself in a difficult, possibly dangerous situation. Learn how to use your voice, mind, and body as weapons against assaults. Develop relationships based on mutual respect. Watch out for your friends, and pay attention to potentially troublesome situations. Regardless of the victim's appearance, behavior, judgment, or previous actions, the victim is not responsible for the rape.
Rapists are responsible for rape.
Rape is an acceptable expression of sexual desire. Rape is a violent abuse of power in which one person acts without regard for the pain and trauma inflicted on another. It won't happen to me. Men can't stop themselves when they are sexually aroused. Rape is usually committed by strangers.