Also, you may notice events have changed, either for or against you. Finally, as a wonderful gift from Allah, you may be blessed with a dream. Also, you should firstly clear your mind, not to set your mind already decided, and then afterwards follow the results willingly. The Prophet e once sent Zainab t a proposal of marriage. Allah, the Responsive, answered her plea for help and revealed an ayah approving of the marriage.
Marriage is a serious step, and requires the right attitude.
A woman married for the wrong reasons can only weaken the Muslim household. Consider that she will be your life-long companion, the rearer of your children. Don t marry her for her worldly wealth, but for her wealth in Islamic wisdom and knowledge. Her status in this life is but illusionary, so choose her for her status in the sight of Allah. Beauty is but superficial, but the beauty of Iman is transcendent.