They can't relate. For certain ministries, such as puppet or drama ministries, we can rent videos or use seminars to provide instruction and inspiration far beyond what we have to offer. Volunteers commit themselves to attend meetings. Beyond covering training material, the spiritual accountability and relationships that develop will provide fertile soil for followers to grow into leaders. Although some leadership groups meet monthly or bimonthly, the ideal is usually weekly.
Meetings can include training, sharing, prayer, and evaluation of youth programs or recent events.
A game of softball, volleyball, or a potluck supper can go a long way toward building relationships. The informal atmosphere of a home is conducive to fostering friendships. Try to spend personal time with volunteers. Let them know you care. Talk to them about their interests.