Unfortunately most people fail to see how God wants to use problems for good in their lives. They react foolishly and resent their problems rather than pausing to consider what benefit they might bring. Sometimes God must light a fire under you to get you moving. Problems often point us in a new direction and motivate us to change. Sometimes it takes a painful situation to make us change our ways.
People are like tea bags.
When you have many kinds of troubles, you should be full of joy, because you know that these troubles test your faith, and this will give you patience. Some lessons we learn only through pain and failure. It's likely that as a child your parents told you not to touch a hot stove. But you probably learned by being burned. A problem can be a blessing in disguise if it prevents you from being harmed by something more serious.