None of these labels are true and all of these labels are true. But I do continue to identify myself as part of the bi community. Just to piss you off, of course. As far as I'm concerned, sexuality is only partially related to behavior. That's the assumption.
Most people seem to think so.
It gives me a headache thinking about it. When I moved back to Connecticut after college, I found a thriving gay and lesbian community. But I got this vibe off the lesbians I met that bisexuality was not an option. This kind of attitude is not uncommon. And considering the struggle for a lesbian identity that went on in the 1970s, I can understand it.