We learn to accept their calling and we become less inclined to push OUR reality on them. Some feel they must be the giver always, never the receiver - partly because they fear the rejection they believe will follow if they open up and allow others to see them in truth. A finger is pretty ineffective if you cut it off - find it laying alone on the street, but when it is attached to the body it does wonderous things. It is very interesting with all it can do. So it is with each of us.
Prayer comes in many forms.
Prayers can be spoken, gestures, written, and danced. They can be sung and can be silent - transmitted from your heart to God's heart. They involve breathing deeply and focusing on a single object or light while repeating a single word, sound or phrase. This is helpful in grounding. By becoming centered we are able to release the stressors of the day and better listen to God's voice.