The best programs take you through each component, as would a high-priced wedding planner. The programs allow you to plug in costs in your area, and then calculate taxes and gratuities. They also allow you to print out the invitation list and prepare your thank-you notes. What these programs can't do is make your wedding truly individual and special. You have to supply the personality.
Memorable weddings are all about themes, colors and surprises.
The more unusual your concept, the less you'll have to spend to make the day a winner. Cut silly frills and invite more guests. Those imprinted napkins that cost 70 cents apiece go right into the garbage. Keep the wedding dress simple. The more ornate, the more you'll have to pay for your dress.