But shared concerns might also be the cost, or the guests' well-being. Discovering these mutual goals can make a solution appear where none seemed possible. It may be that you can compromise in one area in order to preserve a shared area. However, occasionally some issues transcend even conflict resolution techniques. Generally these issues involve some deeply held values of the people involved.
Religion often arises as one of the most difficult areas to compromise on.
Religious beliefs are at the core of our life choices and our lifestyle. Many a wedding plan has fallen apart over the issue of what religious content the ceremony should contain. When these deeply felt conflicts surface, it may be best to enlist the help of a therapist or a mediator. Having someone neutral to oversee the discussions can give everyone involved the feeling that they are on equal ground. Knowing that each point of view will get equal time may be enough to allow families to compromise on items that previously seemed non-negotiable.