When you get there, lead your loved one to an area where she can visit with a small group out of the main traffic of activities. Your loved one may enjoy visiting and seeing children, but she may act differently in the middle of it at a strange place. You may enjoy a family event without your loved one present. Don't feel guilty about taking some time away so that you can relax and socialize. Find a sitter or home care aide to watch your loved one for a half-day.
Most Holidays involve an abundance of food, especially sweets.
Many individuals with Alzheimer's Disease have a big sweet tooth. Unfortunately, many people with dementia can not tell when to stop enjoying the goodies and can eat themselves to a point of getting sick. Allow your loved one access to some treats. Do not place large amounts of goodies out at one time. Instead place smaller portions.