The center leader's position is similar to that of a parent. Center leaders must take good care of members, caring for their spiritual as well as their physical needs and health. If a member has a problem with his spouse, his center leader should help him take care of it. We always stress that leaders should have a parental heart. You don't have any children, so it is difficult for you to have a parental heart, but try to imagine what a parent's heart is like.
Parents worry about their children more than themselves.
It won't come easily, because you haven't experienced raising your own children. Nevertheless, try to achieve this. I think it is very good to discuss everything. Whenever you have something to discuss or some problem it is always better to share your situation. We should provide more opportunities for members to speak out.