You've paid for a night on the town or an expensive gift. Do not assume you both want the same degree of intamacy. Protect yourself from a charge of rape because you didn't ask. Having sex with someone who is, is rape. It's RAPE .
Men can be victims of rape and have the same rights to counseling and legal action as woman do.
The single most important thing a rape victim can do is tell someone-the Police, a friend,the rape crisis center, a counselor. Don't isolate yourself, don't feel guilty, and don't just try to ignore it. Rape whether by a stranger or someone you know is a violation of your body and your trust. Do not shower, wash, douche, or change your clothes, even though that's your immediate reaction. Seek medical attention.