We receive him by the grace of God. Being baptised with the Holy Spirit Read the following scriptures and write out what signs followed the baptism of the Holy Spirit. Remember we receive the Holy Spirit first before the manifestations come. When asking for the Holy Spirit we should not be asking for the signs but rather the power of the Holy Spirit. Speaking with new tongues is one of the signs.
Many people are scared about receiving the gift of tongues or similar gift.
Please remember that it is a biblical gift. God has also promised that if you ask Him for the gift of His Spirit, He will not give a bad gift in return. He has promised to give good gifts when we ask Him. The true sign of Spirit filled life is power as an effective Christian witness. Prayer to be baptised with the Holy Spirit Lord Jesus, I come to You humbly acknowleding You as Lord of my life.