They are sensitive to others' needs. They recognize the needs of others, respect their differences, consider their feelings, and put themselves in the other's shoes. These people still value their independence, make their own decisions, pursue their own goals, but marital harmony still remains their top priority. In order to maintain this harmony, happily married couples spend a lot of time talking and sharing their thoughts. Couples who understand each other's expectations before they get married are more likely to have happier and more successful relationships according to K-State Research and Extension family life specialist, Charlotte Shoup Olsen.
Money can be a real issue.
Couples should discuss how money will be handled. Discuss employment issues and options. How you divide or share household responsibilities can become an issue if not discussed. Leisure time doesn't sound as if it should be an issue, but it can turn into one. One partner may not value the need for a family vacation.