Basically, all you have to do is play the oblivious card when people notice you. Yeah, by both men and women. I prefer to get hit on by women, but I'm flattered either way. Actually, it's more flattering when a guy hits on me.
Most gay guys have really good taste, and they're really picky.
Right now, I'm single. I'm going out with a friend on a pseudo date. We're going to drown in our misery together. Well, I can tell you about the second kinkiest thing. I finger-banged a sexy young lady on a couch in front of 30 people at a party.