As you understand more about the energy of soul partnership in you, there will be less and less of aloneness and separateness. Relationships are wonderfully accurate mirrors, revealing to us where we need to go with our own inner process. We can see much about ourselves that we would otherwise have a great deal of difficulty learning. When you allow your ego to direct your search for love, it doesn't know what love is. Getting Along With Others by Karol Kuhn Truman.
Many people have real challenges in their relationships with other people.
I see adults with life experiences that have either brought them into relationships or out of relationships. I see some that are quite content being alone and others that appear to make a relationship look easy. Enlightenment through Relationship by Dr. Paula Sunray. We have a relationship with money, with our body, and with our car. Relationships are difficult and challenging spiritual practices.