Some people have as many as a thousand partners a year. After that many partners, sex would be as common as breathing, and would lose all meaning. Telling a possessive and angry husband might be a risky thing to do. You might need a priest or a friend to be a mediator. There is a female condom but it is a very odd contraption.
Nobody seems to like it.
They can't seem to give it away. The male condom is 100 times safer and more convenient. If the two of you are going to stay married and have an active sex life it would be a good idea for you to have a range of things that you can do. Men will often ask women to be creative sexually, but when women ask men to be creative sexually, we turn on football. Some women in their 40's and 50's can enjoy an increase in their sex drives.