Decide if you are going to pack yourself or hire a moving company to do it for you. Empty, clean and defrost freezer and refrigerator. Have appliances serviced for moving. Store rugs and draperies in bags for the move. Take pets to the vet.
Most states require health and rabies shots with proof.
Have your car maintained for the upcoming road trip. Return library books, videos and any other borrowed items. Carry all valuables and legal documents with you. Do not load them into the moving van. Take your old phone book with you.