For 11 years in the 1980s and early 1990s, I had a successful career as a product development and marketing executive for a large bank. This led me to leave banking and eventually start my own career counseling practice. But possible selves also may enrich your life in ways that don t lead to career change. You may rediscover creative, interpersonal or technological interests in mid-life that simply rekindle curiosity and growth. Even if you can t pursue these interests immediately, you may find you remain conscious of them and more receptive to related career opportunities.
Many people report a sense of relief as they bring a buried possible self into focus.
It can be fun to fantasize about how your life could be different. This can also motivate you to explore possible work selves. As you investigate these potential careers, possible selves help you to grow into a new identity. The more you try out a future self, the more confident you ll feel about making a change and introducing yourself to others in your chosen field. Uncover the Possibilities Finding possible selves that will lead to more satisfying work can be challenging.