There should be a consistency of staff and a certain warmth that is clearly evident. That's true, says Berger. You want to be very engaged in terms of how can you work with the teacher and the program to create a more nurturing situation. Today, some visits are virtual. Some facilities now have web cameras installed so parents can get a password that allows them to go online anytime and observe their child as he or she learns, naps, and interacts with others.
Parents can even send emails directly to the classroom.
Although some parents are thrilled that they can now log on and see what their children are doing throughout the day, the new technology also raises some ethical concerns including security and access to the web site. While many day care centers are excellent, Berger says, parents should try to arrange their work schedule so both parents are gone for only narrow periods of time. That will minimize the time their child spends in day care facilities. Before deciding on day care, parents should think creatively about how to change their lifestyle to be home with young children more frequently, she says. Once you decide on day care, your child may develop separation anxiety, Hoffman says.