This is the opportunity many military men and women both dream of and dread. For some it means visiting new and exciting places, sampling different cuisines and exploring vast cultures. However, for others it entails leaving friends, family and your home behind. It has been said that the toughest job in the military is being the spouse of a service member. This is true in many ways.
Most families share the responsibilities of the home.
This includes everything from paying bills to mowing the lawn. But when one of the family's deployed all of the responsibility is shifted to one person. This leaves the spouse with everything, and sometimes that is too much. The first and foremost thing to remember is keeping your family safe. If you have children, teach them how to use the phone and who to call for emergencies.