Money issues are one of the most frequent problems couples face. For men, money tends to be a direct measure of their worth and success. For women, it signifies independence. Things becomes even stickier if the man has lost his job and the wife is the main source of income.
Prenuptial agreements are infamous for stirring up a hornet's nest of feelings.
The partner who is asked to sign one may feel he or she isn't trusted. Ledoux suggests that both partners find areas in which they do trust each other and use them as a bridge to the bigger issue between them. If a prenup is inevitable, work out the terms together if possible, and come up with an agreement that is livable for both. Couples facing serious financial problems may react in very different ways. One partner may be more fearful or angry than the other.