If you look around, you'll see that there are opportunities for you to meet new people all around you. The lady I am seeing, we'll call her Jane, is very aggressive sexually. I am attracted to her, but want to move a bit slower. This prominence of the inside of the first metatarsal is an inherited instability that develops over time. Often, from shoe pressure, you get a redness of the skin so perhaps you should consider not wearing a tapered or high heeled show.
Podiatrists recommend wearing a shoe with a round toe box and lower heel.
But, to properly assess the problem, see a podiatrist and have him or her analyze an x-ray.