Many people under severe stress do not batter. A woman who goes to a man's room after a date should understand that her date expects to have sex. Consenting to go to someone's room does not translate into agreeing to have sex. Gay men rape men. You can't be raped by a partner or husband.
Marital rape is illegal in the state of Montana.
Both parties have the right to change their minds at anytime. Many women lie about being sexually assaulted. Since there is such a stigma attached to being a sexual assault survivor, and since survivors are so often blamed for their assault, rape is rarely falsely reported, and, in fact, is widely underreported. Government estimates have found that anywhere from 3 to 10 assaults are committed for every one that is reported. The reasons a person stays in a violent situation are many and complex.