Participating in the evaluation is extremely important. Although every GAL and Evaluator is different, this publication suggests some things you can do to increase the chance of the evaluation being positive for you. It may be difficult or impossible for you to follow all of these suggestions, but being aware of these expectations can help you prepare for this experience. Try to be prompt and provide responsive follow-through. Keep your appointments and be on time.
Return calls and paperwork promptly.
Put on a calm front, even if your insides are chaotic. In the interview and during every phone call with the evaluator, try to be polite and calm. You may ask questions and disagree with your evaluator if necessary, but try not to lose your temper, even if you think the evaluator is rude to you. Simply state your concerns about the other parent as calmly and reasonably as possible without attacking the other parent personally. Focus on what is good for the children.