To avoid a carok, one would consult an Islamic clergyman. These clergymen are among the most influential people in Madurese society, and are said to have even more power than the village council. According to Islamic law, a man may have more than one wife. Marriage proposals are usually made by the groom's parents, preferably to a first or second cousin. The groom's parents then set the date for the upcoming wedding.
Most newlywed couples live with the bride's family.
Although most of the Madurese are Sunni Muslims of the Shafi sect of Islam, their religion is actually a mixture of very different belief systems. To ensure good luck and success, they have incorporated various forms of sorcery and magic into their Islamic practices. The Madurese do not have adequate health care. Only portions of the Bible have been translated into the Madurese language. There are no Christian radio or television broadcasts in their area at this time.