The issue of lust. Sobriety is defined as no sex with yourself or outside of marriage. I need to have a relationship with god that relieves lust. Lust has driven my life, and is an indicator that my relationship with god is less than needed. SLAA deals with sex and love addiction.
Members deal with one or the other or both.
Geneder orientation and sexual orientation are irrelevant. We deal with sexual social and emotional anorexia are avoidance of interaction on those levels. Also like food. Love addiction may be serial relationships, may be behavioral as well as codependent. Addicted to the person or addicted to being in the relationship.