No one is suprised or taken back or offended when men yell, turn red, sulk or fume. Women who display anger are perceived as difficult and worse. Even though you have a perfect right to be angry at times, men will scold you, talk behind your back or otherwise take you to task for it. They might even be jealous you can speak up and confront someone if they lack the courage to do so. But the best bet is to express your anger, then move on.
Men do it all the time.
It's part of the game. Don't be drawn into endless discussions about it, personal counter attacks or giving an apology. That just puts you in an inferior position and lets your opponent feel like he can dominate you next time. It may happen that one of your colleagues will develop a resentment or grudge after a confrontation, and be looking for a way to undermine you or your programs, a pay back which will assuage his ego. That would be unfortunate and most men aren't wired this way.