Right now, church workers all across America are mailing annual statements covering donations. Studying these rather utilitarian issues, said the Ronsvalles, quickly leads to other questions. The answers are rarely comforting. Some people make major donations in order to control the institution that frames life's major transitions. Some act as if they are purchasing shares in a beautiful building for these events and, as every clergy person knows, they care deeply about what that building looks like.
Many people view their offerings as payment for services rendered by the staff and clergy.
Perhaps they want witty and practical sermons that please their intellects or emotions. Youth pastors must heal and entertain their sons and daughters, answering awkward questions feared by parents. Others are buying a culture. Some use the church as a social club, or the focus of ethnic identity. The church and its clergy may even be expected to carry water for a powerful family's favorite social causes, either liberal or conservative.