They have no need to hate homosexuals as proof to themselves that they are not homosexual. To MakeMany men think that being male is superior to being female. For a man to throw away his superior position by acting like a woman is to them an abomination. For them, a homosexual lifestyle is wrong even if the man never takes the passive role. That person is still failing to take his proper role in society by being the head of a traditional family, that is, by participating in the subjugation of women and children.
Many women also think that being male is superior to being female.
It is no wonder then, that so many fathers are afraid that their sons might grow up to be gay and do their best to make men out of them. They may, perhaps, think that they had a close call. Nevertheless, they want to minimize their boys exposure to such risks, particularly in a passive role, and they want to send a consistent message. The wife, by the way, usually has no knowledge of her husband s homosexual experiences as a youth. He doesn t tell anybody about that.