It is more important that we celebrate the Sacrament of Reconciliation, knowing that we are experiencing God's love and forgiveness, rather than just saying words that were memorized long ago and may not have any meaning to us. Often a personal prayer, from the heart has more meaning. We have to remember that priests are human and can be having a bad day. We have the right to choose our confessor. If there is a priest you feel comfortable talking with, then you should make an appointment with him to celebrate this Sacrament.
Most parishes have a scheduled time that a priest is available to hear confessions.
The priest will greet you, perhaps with a formal greeting. You tell your story, your sins as well as your blessings, and ask for forgiveness. The priest may ask some clarifying questions and will perhaps offer some advice. This act of penance may suitably take the form of prayer, self-denial, and especially service of one's neighbor and works of mercy. These will underline the fact that sin and its forgiveness have a social aspect.