Restraining orders solve everything. Marriage counseling is the best solution to the problems between the victim and the batterer. Battering is a private family matter. We should not interfere. Leaving the abuser guarantees a woman's safety.
Outward appearances are an accurate gauge of what's going on in a relationship.
It is a felony offense. It is a misdemeanor. No, you do not have to report the rape. It is entirely your choice. You have the right to refuse to give any information about the rape if you choose.