Some will speak briefly to you by telephone, preferably with each member of the couple. Others prefer to send out information, waiting until the introductory session to address questions. Mediators generally charge an hourly rate with the couple deciding how to share payment. Find out whether the mediator charges for a brief introductory meeting. Obviously this is hard for the mediator to estimate, but the mediator should be able to give you a rough idea.
Most mediators are either therapists or lawyers.
Find out whether the mediator handles only some issues. Mediation is a profession itself, and it is important for your mediator to have had training specifically in mediation techniques. Membership in professional groups of mediator is one indication of the mediator s involvement in the profession. Also some professional organizations have required standards for members. Most mediators do not have a full-time mediation practice.