If fulfillment dwindles or becomes barely existent, a foundation of the relationship is betrayed. One will often feel imprisoned and act out in emotional or sexual ways. There is, or will soon be, trouble in paradise. And often, because couples lack the skill required for sensitive dialogue, they go into denial, often for years. This is not necessary.
New skills are available now.
I am happy to report that I have been living in a sexually fulfilling, loving relationship for many years now. In that moment of letting go and dropping defenses, a greater reality bursts forth. Loving sex heightens consciousness, and for me, God is consciousness, and pure consciousness is love. Imagine yourself and your partner, with open hearts, choosing to pleasure each other. Imagine breathing and letting go into the bliss, whatever it may be, and knowing that you are going to God or the highest energy powers.