I felt empowered by knowledge. I asked my doctors a lot of questions. The more knowledge I gained, the more control I had. I need to know what's going on. Then I can talk with my family, and they feel better because I feel better.
Reconstruction is a viable option for many women.
When I was considering all my options, my husband told me that if I decided to have reconstructive surgery, I would be doing it for myself, not for him. Reconstructive surgery can give women a big psychological lift. It's easier to wear clothes, you can buy a pretty bra, and it's just easier emotionally. The experience is so devastating, there are no words to describe it. Reconstruction helped me feel better about myself.