A year later, Tom walked up to John. No,' said Tom, 'I'm not talking about the bicycle. We all wait for the end. People thought that the truth commission would be this quick fix, this rugby World Cup scenario and that we would go through the process and fling our arms around each other, and we'll be blood brothers for ever more. And that is absolute nonsense.
Risk is the foundation of any positive relationship.
Until there is restoration of risk, there can be no restoration of trust. The nature of the risk is of less importance than the fact that a risk is taken and that this is the first concrete step towards reconciliation.