We began our marriage on the foundation of love, honor, respect and a genuine mutual attraction for each other. We believed, and still do, in being faithful to each other, in not lying to each other and in trusting each other, whether present or apart. Mutual attraction for each other. Empowerment Points Individuals who bring to the marriage a strong value system embracing the qualities of openness, honesty, integrity, trust, respect, love, forgiveness, understanding, and loyalty contribute greatly to the success of the marriage and a good relationship. A marriage in which two people have conflicting expectations and uncompromising demands has a likely chance to not succeed.
Premarital counseling is extremely valuable and highly recommended.
Resolve conflict in a constructive and beneficial manner. This includes focusing on the concerns of both individuals and finding options and ways that both win or gain. In almost every conflict someone does not feel loved, appreciated, respected, listened to, understood, or acknowledged. The longevity of the marriage relationship is strengthened when the husband and wife allow each other time and space for themselves. Claire, D. Bridges To A Passionate Partnership , 1996.