That's what keeps life interesting. It is two different paths to the unknowable, but a continuous journey of life. What I sometimes refer to as reality is just the sense perceptions tempered by my own subjectivity. But that is not reality in a real sense. To which, BR responded.
Reality is all that is , including a person's subjective view of it.
However, mere thoughts alone have yet to alter any concretes in this universe. As such, reality remains untouched by the feelings of men. It simply is, whether or not men agree on this fact. To deny reality is to deny all that exists. To remove reality from the realm of objectivity is to attempt to reserve your own little corner of the galaxy in hopes of justifying endless confusion.