If we are not careful, life's pain and suffering will make us bitter. Whatever the reason for pain and suffering, remember that God can use it for our greatest good. This is the major way God demonstrates his ultimate power over sin. He can use it to our good and his glory. But our attitudes must remain flexible enough to receive God's will.
Most personal growth takes place in times of affliction.
Some lessons can only be learned by loss. During adverse times our difficulties introduce us to ourselves. Adversity provides the pop quizzes of life to show what we are made of. A proper attitude will allow God to enter our shattered world to begin the process rebuilding and restoring our lives. Recognizing Our Brokenness Confession is an important part of recognizing our brokenness.