I can do so in my own way. I encourage you to do something very uniquely personal this holiday season. Remember there is no greater gift you can give than by simply being yourself. We all win when we express ourselves in unique ways. Hopefully you choose some sort of joyfullness as a theme, but it's not mandatory.
Nothing is really mandatory.
Find your message. Deliver your message. Live it and love it like it was the most important thing you could do in that individual moment.