I hope this little sermon has helped you some. I am sure this man is a fine person, but that is not good enough. Marriage is a bonding of two people and if the arrangement is unequal it is doomed. God warns us about being unequally yoked. If a man is divorced, in God's sight he is still yoked to his former wife.
Marriage is a blood covenant between a man and a women.
It is for life. This last sentence is a very hard saying. Most Christians that I know would be very angry if they read it. When we see people whom we think might be the right mate for our lives we need to ask ourselves, is it my mind at work or is it my will, or is it my emotions. My emotions might tell me one thing and my mind would agree with it, but it is all wrong if my spirit is at war with my soul.