We can help those who are close to us through this time by being with them and showing we care. Help is also available in many communities through hospice organizations. If they want to talk, be a good listener. Listen to what is said and how it is said as well as what is meant but not said. Try to feel comfortable when there is a conversation lull.
People can sense discomfort in others.
Silence can help focus our thoughts. Constant talking can have little meaning or lack true communication. Don't feel you have to say something. Patients also learn from your tone or voice or even your facial expression things you may or may not want to communicate to them. Try to maintain eye contact so they will feel you are being straightforward and open.