Of course not. Obviously it is a function of the law of the harvest we will always reap as we sow.
Marriage also is subject to the law of the harvest.
The key is alignment with principles. We control our actions, but the consequences that flow from those actions are controlled by principles. The body, the mind, marriage, family, all relationships every natural system is governed by principle, by natural laws. This is particularly true as we consider how to find a sense of balance between work and family. Now intellectually, this may not be hard to understand, but emotionally this is a tough idea because the social value system of most people is determined by some quick fix, some way of short-cutting this natural process.