I make it a point to give it as a wedding gift with a recommendation that the couples listen to it one year after they're married and once every year after that. In more than one case, husbands who have listened to the tape have come to their wives and apologized and asked for forgiveness for taking them for granted and abusing their position as husband. I am not unaware of tendencies in some Christian circles to belittle women. In an effort to ensure that women don't assume roles in church government not properly theirs, some men assume they don't have any place in discussion or decisions. Women in this position will find their comfort in fulfilling their God-ordained role in realizing they were fashioned to help their particular man, whether or not they are appreciated at the moment.
Marriage is a perfect institution comprised of imperfect people.
Failure to put our whole effort into glorifying God through our marriages leaves us open for most of the ills our society inflicts. Both wives and husbands need regularly to evaluate their faithfulness to the high calling given them by God.