That is what you want, so take the initiative and give before getting. It will make for a pleasant and productive environment. Doing so increases resistance to both productivity and cooperation. Try to understand the pressures that others are under. Your views, strategies, and ways of doing things may be and feel right to you, but because everyone has a stake in the outcome, learn to compromise.
People consistently rank money much lower than job satisfaction.
Part of the satisfaction others receive should come from you.