Children can have a lot of choices and parents may question how much activity is too much activity, said Charlotte Shoup Olsen, K-State Research and Extension family life specialist. My advice to parents is to consider a more relaxed schedule that will treat time as a gift. Either can be appropriate. Parents are encouraged to consider a child s age, interests, abilities, and level of independence, as well as the required investment of time and money. Priorities may not be the same for each family or each child within the family.
Review plans periodically and offer reminders as needed.
With younger children, be careful about sharing too much too soon. An effort to plan ahead does not, however, mean that impromptu opportunities should be readily dismissed, she said. Planning too many activities can diminish the benefits that may come from them. Also, allowing time for the family to settle into a new routine or environment can influence how well they handle a new situation. This applies to a family vacation, visit with friends or relatives, and when parents are divorced or separated to visitation.