I gave one girl a black eye and beat her on her neck. Like their victims, bullies are often isolated and have trouble making friends. They become bullies to establish power and control. Once bullies establish the reputation, it's hard for them to stop, says Anderson. When the adult steps in and stops it he is generally glad.
Parents can often spot the warning signs of a bully just by watching kids play.
If an adult observes something, that adult needs to act on it. I gave her scars on her face and broke her nose. Many experts believe that bullying is the first step in a continuum of violence. Unchecked, bullying can escalate to aggressive, destructive and violent behavior.