But then, that attitude is exactly what would make the repeat of such a moment impossible. Posted by d.d. You tried to understand her feelings, logical or not, empathized with her, gently showed her a solution that would be painless, but most of all, you loved her. I'm sure if you just remember this you can do it again and again and again. I thought your articulate female comment might bring more of us out of the woodwork, but, anyway, here goes.
Nothing melts the heart of a woman quicker than humor.
I would say your moment of inspiration revealed our tendency to revere special belongings in the same way one cherishes a pet. Some of us never loose that playing with dolls spirit. Your little impromptu play-act with your wife made her see that in herself, and so she let go the knife as one would let go of a pet at the inevitable time. I want to add, you are right. It is a paradox.