Every moment of time offers us a choice. We can choose to spend the moment looking backwards to the past, looking forward to the future, or we can live in the present. Whatever choice we make can determine our spirit and attitude for the day, week, month, year. Our choices have the magic effect of changing our attitudes. Let's examine two of these choices.
Many couples spend the course of their infertility looking at the past.
Sometimes looking backwards can be helpful in infertility treatment. In the process you may learn something important from history that will make a positive contribution to addressing the infertility issue today. If only we had started trying to get pregnant earlier. The past is just that - time that has past. It can't be lived over again and it can't be changed.