Another part of the process is the giving of the Blessing to these ancestors, but Dae Mo Nim's speech at that time did not go into at what point that takes place. Dae Mo Nim, through Mrs. Kim, did say however, that families should not pray too much in thanks to TP's and God, but talk too the ancestors who come directly too us, and get to know them a bit. But the Haewon process appears to take some time and include specific stages and content. These are vital questions that really require more discussion than one post can allow. I think we would do well to discuss them more.
Many families just accept in faith, with differing degrees of understanding.
When I listen to Dae Mo Nim, I get the impression that really only Father knows all the whole answers to these questions. However, I would like to say that I think that it's painfully obvious that most of us, if not all of us, have fallen far short of the standard of accomplishment, both internally and externally, that God would have from us, and that Father has assigned to us. Of course we are responsible to resolve the liabilities of our ancestors. But unfortunately, for most of us, the only way we would be able to even attempt doing that concretely, and I stress the word concretely, would be by going into the SW and figuring all that out. If our lives had been pure and exemplary models of the Principle path, that would be done automatically or at least we would find ourselves with the spiritual awareness necessary to deal concretely with all of that.