Help your child cope and solve his problems. Keep your lines of communication open for those very difficult times children go through, like shidduchim . Help your children grow by letting them discuss things with you. When a child has a problem, some parents send him away in the hopes that somebody else will solve the problem for them. Usually, if you don't face up to problems they continue to grow.
Problems have to be faced up to, and solved.
You have to plan your day in such a way that you utilize these times of communication to the fullest. Let's say you have a family of eight to ten children and you don't work outside the home. Plan to have supper ready an hour before the children are due, so that you can rest before they come home. If it will take you two hours to bake a cake and you can afford to buy one instead, even if it's smaller and everyone will get less, weigh the choice carefully. Maybe it's better for the children to have two hours of your time than a freshly baked cake.