Most rapes are committed by strangers in a dark place at night. It is estimated that as many as 80 percent of all rapes are committed by someone the victim knows. Rape can take place anywhere, at any time. Many acquaintance rapes occur in the context of a dating relationship and typically take place on the man's turf. Women provoke rape by how they behave, dress or where they choose to go.
Rape is the victim's fault.
Rape is never the victim's fault. If a woman wants to be involved sexually with a man, it would not be necessary for him to use force or threats of physical violence. Research shows that rapists look for available women they perceive as vulnerable. In fact, anywhere from 50 to 90 percent of all rapes are not reported to police. Think about what your sexual limits are, and be prepared to communicate them directly.