Actually my guess is that most people have horror stories about dating. There are jerks out there on both sides the sexual fence. It's tough not to meet one on the dating scene. Too, being a jerk is in the eye of the beholder. Life and dating are a lot like being in an office.
Offices bring all types of people together.
Married people, single people, singles with children, marrieds without children and people of different ethnic and cultural backgrounds. You have the good and the bad, with many people saying there are more bad than good. Maybe when we find a good office situation, we should stick with it. So you better stick with this one, Linda. You aren't going to find anything better.