The custodial parent should keep the other parent up to date on the child's activities, interests, and health. If the parent who lives away does not show interest in maintaining contact, then the custodial parent may want to seek support from others such as extended family and friends. These others can help the children feel that many people care about them. Children develop best when surrounded by people who love them. When one parent remains angry after the divorce, there is no simple answer.
Most divorced parents become less angry over time.
However, there are a few who remain bitter and keep trying to pick fights. If this happens, the parent who is trying to get along should not fight back. Instead, it is best to keep conversations to a minimum, discuss how to help the children, and avoid areas of disagreement. It may be helpful to call a minister or a counselor to advise in dealing with an angry ex-spouse. No one really wins a fight between ex-spouses.