All right, already. Let's do something about it. As men, we need to respond with more than just a wince. Let's define our terms. Let's go hunting for a peace, as it were.
Men are understandably confused.
Women know how to use this to their advantage. You find it throughout nature. Take the example of the male black rhinoceros. If the bewildered male is still interested after being battered about, the lady rhino might accept him as her mate. In psychological warfare, women are Ph.D.s to our correspondence school certificates.