He is distrusted. This option is not open to him. Even lust is viewed as healthy and a sign from God, just as long as it is heterosexual lust. Many articles written by Christians favour heterosexual lust for the former gay. Yes, the world still has strong inroads into the thinking processes of Christians.
Many former homosexuals do in time marry and raise a family.
Marriage is a real possibility and must not be discounted. But it must not be a sign that is demanded of the former gay. Causes of Homosexuality. There is no easy answer here. Life patterns are said to be set by seven years of age.