They are singled out for questioning by the police, asked to explain to friends and parents why charges are being made, and generally are subjected to campus gossip. People may avoid them and alert their friends to beware. When a case goes to the criminal legal system, the accused often pays hundreds to thousands of dollars for legal advice. Ultimately, all members of the campus community pay the price of sexual assault. Women learn to be fearful and defensive.
Men are frequently in or establishing relationships with women who have been affected by rape.
These women are their sisters, girlfriends, and mothers. The frequency of sexual assault on campus is alarming. It is estimated that 20 to 25 percent of women and 15 percent of men will experience forced sex at some time during their college years. Approximately 10 to 15 percent of male college students unknowingly commit rape. However, when they learn they are doing something wrong, that figure drops to five percent.