I've always been attracted to men, have been sexual with one man and loved it, but felt very guilty later. But I'm attracted to women and always have been, so I'm very confused. Answer Thanks for writing. It's easy to see how you could be confused.
People have a tendency to think everyone is completely gay or completely heterosexual.
The reality is much more complicated. Some of us are strongly attracted to members of one sex, but also feel some attraction to members of the other sex. Men who are primarily attracted to women may have some feelings for other men. Lesbians who are primarily attracted to women may occasionally feel some attraction for men. Some of us are strongly attracted to one sex and have no interest in others, men who are only attracted to men, for instance, or heterosexual women who are only attracted to men.