Twenty years ago, people would not have imagined doing quads or triples. Three of four sounds fine. The family is in the future. Never in competition. Hopefully, you are leaning the right techniques from a coach.
Repetition is the key.
You have to repeat the jumps over and over again. I always wanted to complete 10 years. I will continue skate doing one-time events. We are both very busy during the winter months, but we try to see each other as much as we can on days off. We have lots of phone call and e-mail conversations.