Often these people are aware of the identity of their attackers yet decline to report the incident, fearing blame, judgement, retribution or suspicion on themselves. Some will not even acknowledge or recall the events consciously. If a child ever comes to you and confides to you that they have been molested, please give them the benefit of the doubt. If you suspect your child is being or has been molested, seek professional guidance. Above all, do not blame the child.
Rape is about control and power and violence.
It is not about sex. In the time it took you to read this page, another life was shattered. A woman who honors her experience and tells her stories. Who refuses to carry the sins of others within her body and life. Imagine a woman who believes she is good.