Try to be fair and consistent, it will pay off. Make an effort to say nice things. Too often, parents tend to focus on poor performance and behavior. Every human being needs acceptance and appreciation. Hold family conferences.
Most teenagers feel they have little or no voice in family affairs.
Family gatherings offer an excellent opportunity for children to participate in decision-making and to work things out together. Our generation wants understanding from our elders. They may have experienced some of the same problems. It is necessary then, that I live up to their confidence. What I do reflects on them, and they are held accountable for my actions and behavior.