After all, this person is not attending to your feelings. Educate yourself about men and sex. Many women have been taught by men to believe that a man can not control himself sexually once he reaches a certain point. This is simply not true. Think twice about going to a man s room or apartment.
Most date rapes occur on the partner s turf.
Be careful about inviting a man into your room or apartment. Some men see this as an invitation to sexual activity. Until you begin to know a person well, try to arrange double dates or schedule the first few dates around public activities such as movies, dinner, concerts, etc. Heavy petting or removing some of your clothing may confuse your date about what you are willing to do sexually. Do not accept drinks from anyone you don't know well or from anyone you don't trust.