Speaking for others. If in doubt, ask the person. Avoiding critique of self by finding superficial confrontations to oppression in one s self. Not dealing directly with conflict, seeking third and fourth party to discuss and possibly even discredit the person. Deal directly with the conflict, in the context where the oppression took place.
Money is power.
Volunteering to pay for something that has not been consented to prior to the offer and possibly would not be consented to without the offer.