He wanted to get his mail at a new address but yet obviously wasn't committed enough to OW to start getting it at her place. I went to the little store in town where 2 of my SIL's work. We do not have mail delivery here in this little town of 152. All the mail goes to our PO boxes at the store. SIL's do our mail.
Nothing is sacred.
They don't open our mail, but they do flip through catalogues - and ask point blank what was in the envelope if the return address wasn't familiar to them. Nosey nosey nose. Now X got a job at the store. I put a change of address in to the lake house as soon as I found out she was going to be starting at the store. I went and talked to the store owner confidentially, and said I do not anticipate any problems with X working there, but we were changing our address to avoid any problems, and I would appreciate him being aware of our situation, and asked him to keep this in confidence.