Well, she had them, but she still she wanted to move on. Some of the women I have written about are in battles because they are stuck. I think that's what brings on the war. Apart from the fact that she is beautiful, she is passionate and has a strong sense of herself. Men want to colonize her independence and her happiness for themselves.
Many men run to colonize such a woman.
Others, I suppose, run for the exit. The astounding thing is that male readers, also, are falling in love with this woman. It is hilarious to me. If a man were to spend one day alone with her, she would probably cook his goose. This book has been termed a feminist novel.