A better understanding about the complicated issue starts to occur. The wife reevaluates her own identity and becomes more autonomous. Often this is accompanied by fear of moving on and the realization that the relationship will forever be changed. This is a stage of great growth. They are learning to cope with a newly defined relationship.
Open communication is essential.
Each individually gains more independence. The couple begins to build trust and commits to moving forward. If children are involved, boundaries and rules are negotiated. The wife defines new goals. Often careers are expanded.