Maybe God has two purposes simultaneously, one internal and the other external. Anyway I really don't know about all this and have many more questions but there must be some answers out there somewhere. My oldest son, almost 19, wonders a lot about being Blessed soon. He wants to be matched by Father. My advice was to wait.
Marriages are hard to make successful.
At this point my children are inclined to be matched by True Parents, if it is available. Otherwise, they are not thinking too much about it. They are focused on sports and studies. I want their romantic hearts to have hope too. Kissing and hugging.