Our house was very quiet and there were few demands on my time. We took the time and space to create our own little peaceful world. At the end of 40 days, we had a family ceremony celebrating the safe passage of life and introducing Gage to the earth forces. Thus we dedicated him to the healing of our earth and the strengthening of our family. Women are served and treated like queens during this rest and recovery period.
Mothers heal faster and babies are more settled when they stay at home.
This is your special time to savor with your entire family. Some people have a 'Baby Blessing' ceremony after the 22-40 days of seclusion at home. It is a welcome ceremony, to welcome the baby into the world. It also welcomes the mother back into her community. In Hawaii flower leis are always shared.