You should follow her lead, no matter how long it takes, if you really care about her. However, this could be a classic female ploy where one guy must beat up the other to prove his worthiness to be with her bullshit. He won't leave me alone. I don't want to hurt him. He's in love with me.
Nothing's wrong with what homosexuals feel and express.
I just prefer being ignored and passed over by women. Any kind of male is a total turn-off on many, many levels for me. Eradicate urban gangs, set fire to all high-crime neighborhoods and bulldoze them. Set fire to all inmates in jails and prisons, torture the presidents and CEOs of drug companies until they lower all their prices and immediately make the cures for all diseases available to everyone. Rob banks and sleep in the beds of single, frustrated women and be a teddy bear that's warm and hugs back.