There is no open, general preference for male children. Educated Americans usually try to avoid conveying the idea to their children that males are naturally more dominant, and females more submissive, and that certain social roles are only for males while others are only for females. Visitors from abroad will notice considerable debate and comment on the status of women in American society. Child raising customs differ from culture to culture. Depriving a misbehaving child of something the child wants is acceptable.
Physical punishment is acceptable, but only within certain limits.
Punishment that leaves a mark or causes a wound or injury, however, is not only unacceptable, but is also illegal. Parents who harm their children, even though the purpose is to discipline them, can be arrested for child abuse. In the United States there are laws aimed at protecting children from physical abuse at the hands of their parents or childcare providers. Financial responsibility for any damages caused by a child fall on the parent or guardian. Teachers, neighbors, police, and the DHS are interested in keeping children and property safe.