He wants to be the father you never had, or the friend you can fully trust. Saved from forever long destruction. But it is just a wish. You are the one who needs to make the decision. God doesn't send anyone to hell.
People send themselves to hell.
The bus was there on the corner, the driver opened the door. You chose not to get on. Don't miss heaven because of a wrong choice. If you do, then show me. If Jesus real, then proove it.