Ownership - Many children fight over belongings, friends, and parents' time. Parents should stress their children's unique traits and individuality and should acknowledge their individual accomplishments. Praise getting-along behaviors. Parents should catch their children being good and should praise them for getting along. Parents should be specific in their praise, so their children know exactly what they are being praised for.
Praise can be an excellent motivator of good behavior.
Parents should be careful not to use praise as a way of comparing children. This will quickly backfire. Spend time alone with your children. No matter how many children are in the family, each child needs individual attention from both parents on a regular basis . Special alone-time with children need not be complicated.