I jus tells it as I sees it. I personally think that my love scenes are popular because I don't pretty them up with frou-frou words and euphemisms that detract from the realism. Sex is beautiful and romantic enough without that nonsense. Plus, I try really hard to always show the emotional connection between the characters. It isn't just sex, it's mating, bonding, showing and sharing love . . .
Men do it all the time.
Men tend to see everything as something sexual. I think it's great, and find men pretty darn entertaining. I've learned that around men, especially the young ones, there are certain things you don't say. For instance, I told a neighborhood boy who'd been at our house playing golf, not to forget his balls. My kids snickered and elbowed each other for an hour.