She was eluding to the definition of life. However many of us will fight the bad things of life because of the emotional colorfulness of going through such experiences. Often, we don't realize the reason for feeling pain. Painful experiences such as death within the family, loss of job or business, or relationship failure, to mention a few, sometimes remind us of the good times. Life is made up of many challenges, and the way we choose to deal with these situations will dictate the outcome of events in our lives.
Nothing is guaranteed in life.
Consequently, it is unfair to life itself when we spend a long period of time lamenting over unfortunate things that happen to us. It is the autobiography of a former hospital manager, tried by fire, who explains how he learned to overcome his obstacles and continue his life without bitterness. You can see through the words of the writer while going through the moments of trial and tribulation. Any misfortune or loss in life may be emotionally traumatic. The outcome depends on how we react to the events.