There is no system that tells me I have to do something just for money or just to make others happy. My intuition will lead me to the best negotiation system for myself. I may spend large amounts of time on something purely for the enjoyment of the process while I am in it. There is no drug that will inspire me. I inspire myself by the way I choose to look at the world.
Most conventional wisdom is suspect.
I find out what is right for me by listening to my own wisdom, by taking risks and contemplating the results and by cultivating confidence in my uniqueness. Empowerment is in my own hands. Nobody can empower me but me according to my own values, passions and motivation. I find what works for me and use it as best I can. I am a rugged individualist.