The 1996 wedding of John F. Kennedy Jr. and Carolyn Bessette, by contrast, ushered in an era of low-keyed simplicity, says Baldrige. The white, see-through long gloves were another fashion statement, and the bouquet of lily of the valley she carried was just the finishing perfect touch. But you don't have to be a Kennedy to borrow the unique flair of legendary brides, says Baldrige. While the cost of some weddings can equal a down payment on a house, a couple can have an appropriate wedding within reasonable cost. The wedding reception can be held in the church rectory or hall instead of at a commercial location.
Many people have a kind of cocktail party wedding reception.
Punch can be served, with champagne in it, if the church or synagogue will allow that much alcohol to be served. If the church insists on its own caterer, the expenses of using it are usually nominal.'' To save on flowers, find out if another couple is getting married the same day in that location. You may be able to split the cost of the flowers and bouquets right in two, says Baldrige. Save dollars by cutting the number of blossoms and increasing the greenery. For wedding music, the church organist usually does not charge much for his or her services, says Baldrige.