Miller and Kemp began their negotiations three months before the wedding. For us it wasn't enough time, Kemp says, adding that they sometimes fought for four days over a single issue. Typically a draft contract passes back and forth between attorneys until all agree on the terms. It was a very complicated 37 pages. If it all sounds too mercenary, don't despair.
Prenuptial agreements are still the exception.
And for couples who do successfully negotiate them, the desire to protect each other financially, honor each other's wishes, and willingly compromise can seem rather romantic. For others, a failed prenup is not necessarily a disaster. Consider Kemp and Miller. They are still together, unmarried and a bit chastened, but possessing a more intimate knowledge of themselves and each other. All rights reserved.