After you have tried it, look for the results. You might decide to keep it as a part of your life together as a couple. Rituals are important in our lives. They give us a sense of order, unity, and connectedness. They help us feel safe.
Rituals always connote a deeper unspoken meaning than the mere acts of the ritual itself.
Simple rituals like this one can bring about amazing positive life changes. The lighting of the candle can symbolize the light of spirit, the love each has within, the everlasting quality of immortal love, and your sincere desire to know truth. When you light the candle you can feel the symbolism of the act. It can have great meaning for you. Agree to a time of day that is convenient for both of you.