I get irritated, fight with my husband over silly things. As far as the financial crisis is concerned there are ups and downs in every life. Talk to your husband, see how you can also add to the kitty by taking up some job. I told my husband about my former husband, and he has stopped speaking to me. He had also had a girl friend before marriage.
Past is history, the future is a mystery, only the present is real.
Learn to live in the now. Write to your husband to express how sorry you feel for having hurt his feelings and give him time to handle his hurt, start behaving normally. Now after two days of marriage, my friend's wife has left home and she will not return, nor give any reason for her strange behaviour. So the family has also sent my brother's sister back. Let some mutual friend talk to the other girl's parents and find out what is the real problem and how this can be handled.