Mark and Barnabas went to Cyprus, and Paul found another companion and went to Syria. The crossroad of misunderstanding. You've got to walk that lonesome valley, and you've got to walk it for yourself. Nobody else can decide for you which way to go. Families try to walk together.
Parents try to provide guidance.
Preachers and teachers help. But at the crossroads our hearts won't always let us go the way our companions want to go. We have to listen to the Holy Spirit for ourselves. It's not just young people on the highway. A middle-aged man lost in the middle of this road we call life.