Remember back to the last time you became upset. Try to remember the hurt and desperate feelings that welled up within you. Because they know the answer to the cosmic riddle. They know that eventually and absolutely inevitably that all people will come to realize the integral-integrity that is within them and that always has been 'with' them. They know that all images which a person may create of him or herself, whether they be of pain or pity, hate or wrath, is only so because their eyes are only partially open.
Nothing is at last sacred but the integrity of our own mind.