Mediation is an entirely voluntary process. Although the mediator is carefully trained in specific skills, good mediation is more than a set of techniques. Mediation is a way of restructuring relationships to enhance the quality of life for everyone concerned . This is as true for individuals, couples, and families as for large organizations. It will work for an orderly restructuring of the family in a way that fosters the healing of emotional wounds.
Mediation has many advantages over other approaches to conflict resolution.
It is private. It retains control of the outcome in the hands of those involved. Its cost is lower, both emotionally and financially. Solutions are reached more quickly than with other approaches. And it helps preserve the self-esteem and dignity of everyone involved.