Do not participate in activities where the end result determines whether you enjoy yourself. Maximize your use of time. Let all of your friends and relatives know you are seeking a mate. Make use of business associates. Everyone is a potential agent.
Most people love the idea of helping someone find a mate.
Tell them about yourself and specifically what you are looking for, so they can better represent you. Think of these people as you would a real estate agent. Tell them exactly what you are looking for so you can increase your likelihood of success. The more information they have, the better. Make use of dating services, but check them out first.