People love to talk about themselves, so let them. At the end of a conversation when you let them do all the talking, they will turn around to you and tell you how great it was to talk with you. In fact, they will tell you how interesting you are. Model or mirror the other person s behavior, body language and body movement, and voice. Don t be overt about it, do it subtly.
People like and are drawn to people like themselves.
Mirror the tone, patterns, and cadence of their voice. If it s slow, speak slower, softer be softer, etc. Guys usually tell the jokes and women are to laugh at them. Okay, once in a while ladies you can be the center of attention and tell the jokes, but don t make this standard operating procedure because you re then taking on the male role. Men are usually visual so paint pictures with your words.