Thus, in a manner reminiscent of an attempt to pin down an electron or the image of a snake eating its own tail, the nooks and crannies of the computer program involved in this case contain sophisticated feedback loops which seek, in essence, to continually adjust for the tax effects of a given order, but at the same time formulate an order in light of those same tax effects. Parents are not people to lean on, but people to make leaning unnecessary. Dissolution actions by their nature are a hindsight view of family economic relationships engaged in when the marriage was functioning as a cohesive and loving unit. We do not believe that hindsight view must be applied to such relationships in the same legalistic fashion that it would be to arm's length business transactions. Intrafamily activities are not, and should not be, conducted as if the parties were adversaries each interested in protecting his or her own interest.
Marriage is a personal partnership based upon love, trust and a mutuality of interest and benefit.
When it comes apart courts must assess the economic activities from the perspective of the parties as loving partners, not from the perspective of adversaries as they are at trial of the dissolution proceeding. I imagine the only way to end divorce is to stop marriages. Had nothing going for her except for her physical attractiveness. He had just gone through a divorce which cost him a million dollars. And then she moves in.