Often victim of abuse. Does not like confrontation. In desperate need of empowerment. Often becomes compulsive almost immediately once predisposing factors emerge. Sometimes has winning episodes after becoming compulsive, but at this point winning is simply a means of gambling longer.
Money is like play money, Monopoly money.
Usually seeks help for their gambling within 6 months to 3 years after becoming compulsive. High probability of long term abstinence from gambling if able to become empowered by replacing gambling with other activity and regaining or developing coping skills . Recovery greatly accelerated by recognizing and dealing with codependent issues. Have a much more difficult time in early recovery. They don't forgive themselves easily and have a deep sense of shame and guilt.