But because of our own man made rules, we've avoided the truth that people need to hear. Sometimes adults leave out the most important information. People need to experience God's love first hand. That's the only thing that will make them complete or whole. It fills in the gaps that we try to fill in ourselves, but cannot.
Rules can be good.
An ID badge isn't going to keep undesirable people off a school campus. A dress code isn't going to identify the people who mean to do harm to you. The only order IS through God. Many of these rules don't make any sense. Control is an illusion when God isn't a part of it.