From way south of our borders, Bodegas Weinert Cabernet Sauvignon would be high on my list. And for those inclined domestically, I think I'd grab a bottle of William Baccala Estate Merlot. For dessert, I recommend going light. Remember, you want to have enough energy for after dinner activities. We've already filled up with three dishes of food.
Poached fruit is the way to go.
Melt butter in frying pan over low heat and gently saute the figs for 2 minutes. Mix honey, amaretto and nutmeg together and add to pan. Simmer until amaretto has evaporated and sauce is thickened. Serve warm with a large spoonful of whipped cream. Save the rest of the whipped cream for your after dinner activities.