I love myself when I make my own happiness my life goal. I love others to the degree that their happiness becomes important to me. Part of loving is letting go and letting the other person take responsibility for their own happiness . That means normally attempting to give them what they ask for not what we think they need. Each potential relationship will reach its own natural maximum level of closeness.
Relationships have beginnings and ends .
I will try to resolve problems with a person I care about . The creative forces gave me life, persons who took care of my survival and most basic needs, and a world full of opportunities for me to meet my own needs and happiness. I only care to be loved by someone who will love me as I really am. I will always be hiding who I am and trying to be someone I don't want to be just to please them. I may have been hurt by others in the past and feel distrust and anger.