You're probably wasting your time and you are exposing your children to his abusive behavior - which they may pick up and become abusers themselves, or learn to tolerate abuse. For your sake, and the sake of your kids, find a way to leave. This is unhealty for all of you and will probably not change. Abusers have a very difficult time changing because they truly believe they don't need to change, and even when they can admit it, change is VERY difficult work, so most don't stick with it. There is a good chance that the abuse will continue to get worse if you stay.
Most abusers become more abusive with time.
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