I am impotent because of a medical problem. My wife claims that this was the cause of her affair.
Many men face impotency problems.
For most, they are a cause of considerable sadness. Many men feel that they have lost their masculinity with the loss of erectile ability. I most of the couples whom I have treated who are faced with this problem, the wife's affair is not a direct result of the impotence. Wives in this situation reveal in therapy that their complaint is his loss of interest in bringing her pleasure. Another reason such women report is their husband's depression following the development of impotence.