Masturbate and get to know what you like, where your clitoris is, and how much stimulation you need. Get comfortable with having orgasms, and when you are with your partner, have a lot of foreplay. You need to relax yourself and don't worry too much about having the orgasm. It is one of the pleasures in life like having a nice dinner. He hints, and he knows how I feel, but I am not exactly sure of where he is.
Men are more closed than open.
They welcome women to be the guardian of the relationship. You need to ask him if you have an exclusive relationship. By asking him that you can open up with him. I'm married and I want to have an affair just to be more satisfied. If you read my book Adultery, the Forgivable Sin , you probably will never want to have an affair because you can see how devastating it is.