You cannot love or hate something about another person unless it mirrors something you love or hate about yourself. When tempted to criticize others, ask yourself why you feel so strongly. What you make of your life is up to you. You have all the tools and resources you need. Remember that through desire, goal-setting and unflagging effort you can have whatever you want.
Persistence is the key to success.
The answers lie within you. The solutions to all life's problems lie within your grasp. All you need to do is ask, look, listen, and trust. You will forget all of this. Unless you consistently stay focused on the goals you have set for yourself, everything you just read won't mean a thing.