Don't ask the child if the child wants to do what the child has to do. Teach the child real names for all the child's body parts. Understand things from the child's viewpoint then help the child adapt to requirements. Work on one thing at a time. Don't act like your two year old.
Parents never know what to expect.
Temper tantrums increase and are used for attention and control. Masturbates frequently Wants to be treated like a baby when the child gets tired. Patient, kind, firm parents. Instead of spanking all the time, learn to ignore attention-getting misbehavior when possible. Take over for the child when necessary.