What happens to you now and hereafter is strictly up to you and your future circumstances will be without anyone to blame. It is your life and you have to live it. You now have a chance to write the script for the next act. You have come to terms with the fact you are single. The sooner you wear them and get on with living, the better.
People are about as happy as they make up their mind to be.
The trouble with many divorced is that many have not made up their mind to be happy. If you have not set goals for your new life, we strongly urge you to do so. When you program your subconscious as to where you are going, your inner intelligence will guide you, if you will listen to it. You may still feel like a visitor to singledom, like a person from another planet and you have refused to put down roots. So you see that right now your are not ready for Mr. or Ms. Perfect to come along.