Let's do things in only familiar ways so our routines and schedules and pecking order and everything else is the same. Outsiders throw this all off. Our family is large enough. We don't need any new babies. Except that only Satan is happy when the church stands around in a circle with our backs to the world, patting ourselves for how well we care for one another.
Real love makes room for one more, and another, and another, and even one more.
Because each one is an important child of God, and this is God's house. That's an important lesson we learn from our mothers and from Jesus the Christ. Scoot over and make room.