God's kingdom love is much different from worldly love. It is something that operates independent of how we feel. In God's kingdom we first love. That love is the guiding force as we get acquainted. In the world, we first get acquainted and then decide if the person is worth loving.
Most people have a few friends and many acquaintances but are starving for love.
When we have a relationship with God, our relationship with our fellowman takes on new meaning. We begin to look at others as God looks at us. It is then that we can begin to help others discover what God sees in them. A Changed Relationship with Our World Nothing changes our world view more dramatically than a relationship with God. It gives life a renewed meaning.