Community can meet many of your needs. The more your needs get met, the less needy and the more attractive you become. Also, the more needs that get met, the less you need a partner. It s a good thing to want to choose a partner, not need one. What's more, the more your needs get met, the happier you get.
Many singles feel lonely and disconnected, and it affects the quality of their life.
They act as if the only way to get emotional needs met is through a partner. Build community by joining clubs around subject matter that interests you or by volunteering. Rekindle or strengthen community by reaching out to people already in your life. The pleasure of time, space, rich surroundings, luxurious body care, flowers, etc. are not just reserved for a lover to give as gifts. These are gifts you can give yourself.