Trust provides room for deviance from an accepted idea and trust causes ambiguity. In an age of litigation and in environments where the emphasis is to control students, trusting people can be very difficult. The focus too often is on placing limits. A decision to allow only staff and faculty to reserve a special facility protects the facility from potential harm of student groups, but also eliminates all possible positive events which could occur with student access. By allowing access and educating students about the responsibilities, there is the opportunity for new gatherings to happen.
Possibilities are the source of change and evolution.
By allowing opportunity there is growth, where as limits reduce the possibilities of both positive and negative outcomes. Humility Trust and love are incomplete without humility. Humility is something I knew only in concept as a graduate student. It is a life long endeavor because the idyllic condition cannot be arrived at and held on to eternally. Humility is essential when engaging in any true dialogue.