Medicine doesn't make you well or solve your problems. My feelings don't depend on what you're feeling. Impulsiveness is learned. Rage is learned. People who use drugs and alcohol to cope with life need to learn other ways to cope.
People hate conflict because they lack the necessary skills to negotiate it.
Alot of people suffer because of sexual mis-information. No one is happy all the time. I'm thinking of writing some brief essays on the following topics when the inspiration hits me. Check back for links. How we sabatoge our relationships How our beliefs and past experiences affect our lives now How to deal better with our feelings.