My aunt and uncle's church is a good example. The pastor is a woman. All the elders are women. This makes for a VERY weak home life and church life. I really believe that what is going on is the same action that took place in the Garden.
Men are more than willing to allow women to take the lead in spiritual matters.
This is a weakness IN MEN, not women. So women are prohibited from teaching over men and ruling over men, but they can share testimonies, give illustrations, read Scripture, pray, and be deaconesses in the church. Of course, they are completely free to teach other women and children. I don't think the women in our church feel stifled. There are plenty of opportunities for significant ministry and use of their gifts.