This time from a passionate perspective. I was expecting a call. I'm up because I was terribly worried and couldn't sleep. I'm glad you're home. I'm going to bed, and we'll discuss this incident, including rules for using the car, later in the morning.
Passion is sparked by pure emotion and pain.
However, there's a spontaneous response, not a reaction. This person still has a sense of self-integrity and the other's boundary. Passion with proportion is possible. A key point is that confrontations don't have to be wrapped up in one setting. Choosing a temporary retreat for regrouping and refocusing can prove most constructive.