Never take for granted that a person who says he or she wants to die is just kidding. Often, people who talk about suicide do attempt to kill themselves. Taking responsibility for your own medical care is one part of this independence. Teens need more privacy at home as their bodies begin to change and develop during puberty. They also need privacy when visiting a doctor, nurse, or health care provider, both during the physical exam and while talking about health issues.
Parents often have a hard time leaving their child alone with a doctor or nurse.
Parents often need to be included in the visit, especially with a new doctor. Answer them as completely and honestly as possible. Confidentiality is important. For the most part, what's discussed between the teen and health care provider stays between the two of them. It's important for teens to discuss confidentiality with the provider before information is shared.