Love is a hard word to define. There are many kinds of love. A good definition of love is to find a need and meet it and then expect nothing in return.
Real love is to love someone unconditionally.
But more than 50 percent of marriages end in divorce. Meet the parents, relatives and friends. Accept the person as he or she is. Only God can change a person. A person who is used to having a messy closet will continue to have a messy closet.