When you feel a gathering tension in the vaginal area and a build-up of warmth, orgasm is on the way. Continue to stimulate yourself, as if you stop, these sensations will fade and it may be difficult to get them back again. The clitoris becomes increasingly sensitive as you proceed, whether you are stimulating it directly or not, and then orgasm breaks out with waves of vaginal contractions. Some like to insert a finger into the vagina as they come. About Mutual Masturbation Masturbation need not be something that you do only when you are alone.
Many people find the sight of their partner masturbating highly erotic.
It can also be very instructive to discover how your partner reaches orgasm alone, as this will be the best method for you to adopt when you are masturbating him or her. Masturbating with your partner will break down inhibitions and allow you to get even closer. Both men and women need to learn how to handle each other's genitals with tenderness and sensitivity.