You may meet one that you would feel a strong emotional and physical attraction to, whom you feel a great comfort in being with and whom you would wish to reside with. If there is another that feels the calling of your spirit and what is important on a spiritual level, that the first person cannot comprehend, then it is important to be open. The concept of possession is now in play here upon this planet in regard to relationships. It is unfortunate that humans think of each other as their possessions. In relationships it is thought that there are certain rights that may be brought forth.
Relationships demand boundaries and restrictions.
To be with another, is to enact restrictions. The spirits of many upon this planet are revolting against this. They know that it is not the true nature of the beings that they are becoming. When one feels that they would wish to make a commitment, it is important to state the nature of the connection that you would wish to bring forth. If there are negative feelings from the one you are making these statements to, it is because they are being asked to fit into a different framework then they are used to.