The pleasure of time, space, rich surroundings, luxurious body care, flowers, etc. are not just reserved for a lover to give as gifts. These are gifts you can give yourself. Think of your life s outlook after indulging in something nurturing and pleasurable, such as being in nature, exercise, a good meal, etc. Imagine a life rich in such moments of pleasure. Living such a life would greatly improve your quality of life and happiness level.
Many singles forgo pleasure, time, and self-care for business or job.
Add three luxurious, pleasurable things to your day. These don't have to be huge. Figure out what these three things are by remembering the last few times you felt truly luxuriated. Your life happens now, today, and is not a dress rehearsal for when you have a relationship. When you want to participate in life, but stop yourself because you are single, you stifle your spirit.