In the book I analyze the kids of things pedophiles look for in spotting they prey online. I also noted how they typically try to lure your children into trusting them. The more your children display cyber-smarts, the less likely they will appeal to a predator online. Before your children wander around online unattended, surf with them. If you're new online too, find some helpful sites to get you up to speed fast.
Pedophiles look for loners.
Many parents buy their children a computer because they don't have many real life friends. These kids are easier prey, since it's less likely they'll talk about the overtures to their friends, and they are more susceptible to someone trying to befriend them. They're lonely, and the pedophile poses as a much-needed friend. Pedophiles look for kids who are having problems at home. They too are easier prey, since they are looking for a sympathetic ear.