I bought the store and decided to build a community. I wanted it bright and open with nothing to hide. But Decima will only be tied up by her spouse. That's the prevailing philosophy, and the vast majority of Decima's clients are powerful men wanting to be manhandled by women. Psychiatry professor Ng Men-lun of the University of Hong Kong says that the desire to be submissive is not uncommon among bigwigs.
Remorse can be a factor too.
There may be a lot of things someone has done in a position of power that he or she feels guilty about and wants punishment for. Robert got into being dominated when he found he was bored with ordinary sex. There is never any sex between a professional dominatrix and a submissive. Robert points to his temple. Raised in Hong Kong, her family doesn't know her occupation.