If you have picky eaters onboard, make sure to visit spots that will serve at least some things they're sure to like. Don't expect your kids to act like adults. Most children get cranky on long car rides, so bring a bag packed with snacks, toys, games and books to keep them busy in the backseat. Do set some rules in advance. Do give yourself some personal time.
Many women are so busy organizing everybody else's fun that they forget to indulge themselves.
But it's important to schedule at least one thing you love every day. If you're an avid swimmer, ask your husband to watch the kids while you do some laps. If photography is your passion, steal away for an hour to take some shots. Don't bring your work with you. There are times when it's OK to meld work and family life, but vacation isn't one of them.