All rights reserved. When we look at deep sky objects and make reference to them, we include our experience. Communicating to others what we see, like brightness, position and color, we use that experience and we must allow for this when relating some thoughts to beginning star gazers. My experience, in this respect, has been mostly on the receiving end of the talk. In this way, we can be sure of holding our listeners and then aid them in building their vocabulary in astronomical terms.
Proper description relates the idea to the term used and aids understanding.
Put that in action when your time comes to speak to others of the stars and planets.