Thanks for providing the site. I am sure that there are a lot of parents out there that can use this kind of support, including me. Thanks again, Lisa . All suggestions and ideas gratefully appreciated. I am joint custodian of 3 girls.
Physical custody is with their mother.
She remains significantly acrimonious 6 years after divorce. Visitation has always been difficult to obtain and rare in occurance. It is becoming clear that the kids will not have reasonable access to both parents if the only motivation is my private encouragement of their mother. Enforcing the original stipulation would be enough. Your 'resources' looks promising.