But now, adoptees and birthparents are having more luck finding the information they're looking for. Here are some things to keep in mind if you're considering a search. Don't be overly optimistic or pessimistic. You may or may not find the person you're looking for. And if you do find that person, be prepared to experience a wide range of emotions.
Reunions can be wonderful experiences and they can be painful.
Make sure you have someone you can talk to about the ups and downs of the search process. There are many places where you may be able to dig up information about your adoption. Public Agencies Confidentiality laws vary from state to state, but you should check early with your state's adoption division or county department of social services. It may be able to give you some helpful information. The Child Welfare League of America suggests that you begin your search by contacting the agency that arranged your adoption, assuming you know the agency's name.