First intercourse is an indication to begin annual Pap smears and pelvic exams. So, the first thing to do is make arrangements for an appointment with a gynecologist. You also will want to talk to her or another adult that you trust about your partner. At 14, you are below the age required to give consent for sexual intercourse, in most states. If your partner is an adult, especially if there is a large age difference between the two of you, sexual activity with you is not appropriate thing for him to be doing.
Many teens feel that the older their boyfriend is, the more adult they are.
Or they are turned off by the awkardness and immaturity of boys their own age. Still, sexuality should be shared between equals, and though it may be hard to accept young teens cannot be equal in a sexual relationship with an adult. Doing so often causes emotional harm that young teens may not realize at the time. A large percentage of teenage pregnancies are a result of relationships with adult men. Your doctor will also discuss your future plans for intercourse.