I have been married for 16 years and have found out in the last 8 months that my huisband is an alcoholic. My denial was also tremendous cause it made me feel save. I struggle greatly with the co-dependent issue . Isn't co-dependent also being in love. I feel that counseling is puting doubt in my and my husban'ds mind about us still being togethre.
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I feel like a ping pong ball sometimes with alot of outside forces trying to work in our lifes and I am not sure it is the right way to go. Counselors didn't help.