Just because a person isn't talking doesn't mean she is listening. She may be preparing her response or daydreaming. Listening is not easy. Listening effectively requires concentration and energy. A good listener is appreciated by friends, family, and business associates.
People love a good listener, a receptive audience.
Through your listening efforts you gain more than respect. You also gain insight into other people. You can learn about the world and about yourself. He categories listening styles into appreciative, empathic, comprehensive, discerning or evaluative listeners. Appreciative listeners generally listen for pleasure to balance their work and social lives.