Encourage them to write if they are able. A journal might encourage them to jot down their thoughts or start recording their life history for family members. Many tales of earlier days are lost when they are not passed from generation to generation. If there are family members who are interested in genealogy or cataloguing family pictures, perhaps they could share their efforts and include stories about ancestors and the past to include with material that is being gathered and organized. Consider magnifying glasses to help with reading, needlework or other detail work.
Music can be a special gift in many ways.
It can be soothing and healing especially to those who have grown up with music and perhaps play an instrument or sing. Select CD's or audio tapes that have music they identify with, be it classical, folk songs, or a special musical artist. Those who are coping with memory lapse or dementia may remember songs from their youth much more readily than music from more recent periods. Music can help to bridge the gap between the past and present. Soothing music can also help to relax people and shut out more irritating noises that interfere with rest and sleep.