They cost nothing, but are the most precious presents you can give to your friends and family. But there are other gifts called psychological gifts that are the most precious gifts you can give to those you love. They cost nothing, but their effects can last a lifetime. Like a growing plant, any relationship between two people can thrive only if it receives care. A chatty phone call to an unhappy friend, or a half-hour visit to an aunt who lives alone can mean a lot, but cost very little.
Most people learn fundamental attitudes and behavior by observing others.
Be a good example by handling difficult situations in a mature manner. Many problems between husband and wife or between friends begin when one person tries to change the other to fit preconceived notions. When we expect people to respond is a positive way, they usually do. But you must let those you love know that you expect the positive. All of us have habits that annoy those we love.