Do recognize that an eating disorder develops from multiple factors. Don't blame yourself for causing the eating disorder. Do educate yourself about eating disorders. Read , attend lectures, and ask questions . Don't feel stupid for not knowing the issues.
Most people are unaware of the underlying factors of eating disorders.
Do recognize that your friend or loved one needs help. Encourage them to come into Counseling Services . Don't blame them for bringing this on themselves. Do recognize that people with eating disorders can get caught up in dishonesty, deception and manipulation. Do realize that this is part of the problem.