You don't have to be a rabbi to create a meaningful ritual. In the steps that follow I've outlined simple and powerful steps for offering a meaningful Jewish ritual for your circumstance. Please let me know how this goes for you. Reb Goldie 1. It is traditional to start with a psalm.
Psalms are rich in the variety of human emotions.
See which verse strikes you and just repeat it over and over as a way of being in touch with God and your feelings. Do this beside her grave. Recite a small eulogy, let her soul and God know at least one good thing about her life. It is a time to sing praises as a soul moves on and send it blessings to be free of its issues on the next plane of existence. Read the following words.