You have to pay rent, utilities, food and sometimes parking. Instead, find a trustworthy roommate and split the rent, utilities, parking and sometimes the groceries. Bring lunch to work. It's easy to get caught up with coworkers going to lunch everyday. Take public transportation.
Most employers work with state transportation departments to provide employees with discount passes.
Get a Second job. Consider taking on a second job at a favorite store, such as the Gap or Banana Republic, which may provide an employee clothing discount. Use the extra money you make to reduce your bills as fast as you can. Meet with a financial planner. Finally, get some expert help.