We first learn our values from parents, teachers, religious and youth leaders as well as other influential adults. We also learn from our peers. Over time we make certain values our own, realizing that our choices and actions have consequences for ourselves and the larger world. In the Western tradition, the Ten Commandments, emphasizing respect for God, neighbor and self provide a moral touchstone. If we are all honest, if we all respect our parents, if we all refrain from harming others in any way, then society will reflect those personal virtues in the quality of its life.
Most talents are a gift.
Good character, by contrast, is not given to us. We have to build it piece by piece-by thought, choice, courage, and determination. Only by recognizing and using God's gifts will we ever become our best selves. Compassion For Jane Huggins, compassion meant not pushing her aging father to move into a nursing home before he was ready. Family and friends told Huggins that her father needed help with everyday tasks.