Become a backup dancer or a tour-bus driver. We've done four cities in a day. Unless they're a dancer on the road with us, or a DJ or something. It's just very difficult. The prior evening, for instance, the three played a show, then ate pizza and chocolate cake and watched Forrest Gump on the tour bus.
People just think that.
They see us on TV, around all these people. Which leads us neatly into the next point. Make the first move. I would never approach a dude. I will never ask a dude to go on a date.