Zukav says romantic love is like a drug. It produces euphoria, energy and vitality. When you find someone you think is competing you, Zukav suggests making a list of the things you love about that person. It is very likely that those traits are qualities that you have the capability of possessing within yourself. Another person can never give you those things.
Romance has nothing to do with love.
It is not real. Until you intend to make yourself whole, Zukav says, you will not be able to experience true love. Romantic love has nothing to do with love. It is important to listen to your partner, but don't try to see things through your partner's eyes because people are different. McGraw says couples must find middle ground and agree to disagree on some issues.