Others need to talk about it and reach out for comfort and support. There are many professionals specially trained to help families cope with the distress of having a child with cancer. Nevertheless, friends, family members, employers, co-workers, and others not familiar with cancer in children and teenagers may find themselves close to someone struggling with its impact. The most difficult task for those who hear the news is knowing how to respond. All are saddened, but beyond the sadness lies a wide range of reactions.
Many people are uncomfortable in the presence of the person affected by cancer.
A common response is to withdraw, leaving the suffering person feeling isolated. This section of the book is intended for any person who wants to help but does not know where to begin. If you are such a person, you may find the following suggestions helpful. What They Want to Hear People always seem so shocked When I tell them things aren't well. If I'm in pain, or if I'm sick.