We each have the responsibility to choose correctly. There are rules in games, and there are rules in life. If we play within the rules we experience freedom, creativity, beauty and joy. Within the rules of basketball we can enjoy Michael Jordan ' s special unique talents. Within the boundaries of laws we can all express our individuality and have a good time.
Rules give order.
Without them we have chaos. The following chart will show that we have two choices to make. In the next chapter we will begin looking at the fundamental rules or laws that all marriages must live by if they are to be happy. The most important one is principled leadership.