You've got a cell phone in your pocket, a beeper strapped to your waist and a laundry list of phone numbers, fax numbers and three email addresses. And you're still close to tears. Separation anxiety is arguably harder on the parents than on the child. But your child will take his or her cues about daycare from you, so don't give vent to your emotions. Talk positively about daycare, and tell your child what to expect.
Most children find daycare fun and exciting.
You're the one who has to go back to work. Once you've selected a daycare provider, start easing your child into the new setting. Go for an hour or two at first and let your child meet the other children and explore the environment. Gradually increase the time you both spend there and when you're comfortable, try leaving for a while. Be sure to let your child know when you will be back, and show up on time.