These qualities provide a safe environment for both the individuals and the relationship to grow and develop. It is the responsibility of both partners to develop and maintain a relationship based these qualities. Unfortunately, not all relationships are, and the lack of respect and poor communication create opportunities for sexual assault. According to Illinois law, Criminal Sexual Assault occurs if an individual commits an act of sexual penetration by the use of force or threat of force, or commits an act of sexual penetration knowing the victim was unable to understand the nature of the act or was unable to give knowing consent.
Most people know it is against the law for a stranger to sexually assault someone.
Some people, however, do not realize that forced, unwanted intercourse with someone you know, maybe even someone you are in a relationship with is also against the law. The issue of consent is very clear. There are steps everyone can take to enhance the quality of personal relationships, and, thereby reduce the chance of a sexual assault occurring. Everyone, both men and women, share the responsibility for treating others with respect and clearly communicating their needs and desires. If you are getting a mixed message, don't guess about your date's intentions or wishes, speak up and ask for clarification.