I had always said it was green because when I was ten years old my best friend s favorite color was green. I never decided for myself. I just agreed with everyone else s decisions to make sure I fit in. It was the beginning of an adventure that has led me here today. So the question you are asking is a fearless one.
Most people don t even want to admit that they don t know who they are.
That means I encourage you to give up saying yes for one week. Instead, when someone asks you to do something I want you to say, Let me get back to you. This will give you the time to sort out what is true for you rather than getting caught up in other people s needs and desires. Basically, I want you to stand back from life and examine your motives rather than making decisions based on your feelings. Remember, many times feelings are driven from our fears and those fears want us to take actions that keep us safe rather than ones that are authentic.