The man must be attracted to and then pursue the woman. It simply doesn't work any other way. That doesn't mean we have to like it. Even we didn't want The Rules to be true. Everyone wishes certain things were different from what they are.
Rules girls are realists.
They accept that men and women are different and act accordingly. They don't always like to do The Rules, but they do them anyway because they love the results. We would like to examine these criticisms one by one and explain why they are unfounded. While The Rules may sound like something your mother may have told you about, times and circumstances have completely changed. No, The Rules tell us not to pursue men for one simple reason.