The experience working with these kids and watching them grow and mature, not only as golfers but as human beings, has been very rewarding to say the least. It is a genuine pleasure to watch youngsters develop into real superstars. I've watched, in some cases, youngsters spend endless hours practicing and reaping the rewards of their hard work. They must understand it's not just the hard work involved in developing a perfect golf swing, but also their emotional development which is a major attribute of the top-notch tournament player. But along with the many successes, I have seen disappointment.
Many problems arise as a result of attitude parent's attitude.
I strongly believe a parent's role should be that of spectator and rooter only. Many times a child will rebel, lose interest and sometimes give up the game entirely. This happens too often. Playing golf competitively, or any sport for that matter, requires a great deal of emotional stamina and inner development. This cannot be taught, only experienced.