Give it to a friend. It's only one of a handful of parenting guides I can wholeheartedly recommend. After each of my suggestions, J. S. Salt's kids offer their advice on the topic. It's readily apparent to me who the real experts are. Take me to where you grew up.
Quality time is a myth.
Talk to me about your day. Eat dinner with me. Take me somewhere special once in a while, by myself, without my sister. Respect my stuff. Let me go on the escalator that goes up when I'm going down.