Being the head of someone does not mean you are always right and the wife should always do whatever you say, jumping at your commands. Paul, God didn't choose him cause he was a good writer. In fact, he didn't write his own feelings. Preachers don't preach their own feelings, preachers stay with the Word of God. And that's what we intend on doin'.
Preachers do preach their own feelings on matters.
This minister did so in his sermon. If preachers never preached their own feelings, there would not be any variation in church standards, for instance. In the United Pentecostal Church, the standards may vary from church to church, depending on the individual pastor. One will allow a wedding ring, another will not. One will allow sleeves to the elbows, while another forbids anything unless it reaches the wrist.