Sometimes I want to shake this person and yell. I want to tell this person to stop being mean. Then sometimes I feel sorry for this person. Desperate Dear Des, It must be difficult being around someone who is perpetually bilious. She says it works pretty well.
Problem is, ornery people often don t see themselves that way.
They think everyone else is weird and that they are the normal ones. Aunty s approach to the type of person you described may not suit you, because it is confrontational and occasionally requires the use of body armor. That s all there is to it. How to accomplish this will be the subject of my next letter. In the meantime, try Dora Belle s sign.