We are taught that it is desirable for a woman to be passionate and emotional by the older generations, and by the younger generations, we are taught to be tough and fearsome. Well, it's not cute. Most men have gotten a clue. Most men have learned from early boyhood that it's not okay to hit a girl. Some men still do, but unless you're into something really kinky, it's not cute.
Many men are gentlemen.
I am forever impressed by a man who is thoughtful enough to open a door for me. I have made it a point to thank them by insisting on returning the favor. I am an intelligent woman. I am not afraid to say otherwise. I think that I as a woman is in every way as good as a man.