Be sure the outer ring lies flat over the anal area. Studies show that it is unlikely for Reality to rip or tear during use. If this does occur, remove it right away, throw it away, and insert a new Reality. Reality has been designed to fit the averaged size penis. It is not necessary because in effect Reality is a condom, covering the penis and the anal cavity during sex.
Reality is designed for penile insertion only.
Yes, providing the outer ring remains outside the anus and all contact is protected by the barrier sheath. Reality is not designed for activities involving urine. If you're new to this site, we strongly recommend that you visit our home page to get a better sense of all that we have to offer.