Reducing pressure you put on yourself, taking the time, romancing yourself, and creating an atmosphere that turns you on can elevate the experience. Also, your thought patterns can influence your concentration. It's common for people to get annoyed or discouraged while trying to orgasm. When this happens, the trick is to take it to the next level. You may decide to take the plunge by experimenting with new sensations.
People masturbate in different ways to heighten the level of sexual arousal.
Some prefer using their fingers and hands, with or without lubricant. Others masturbate with sex toys, fantasy, or erotic magazines or videos. The World at Your Fingertips. For men, Bernie Zilbergeld's book The New Male Sexuality provides some useful information. If you're still unsuccessful, consider that certain medications, drugs, or alcohol can interfere with orgasm.