Parents should repeatedly reassure them of their love. Older children, more aware of parents problems, tend to react out of anger. They may withdraw from the family or rebel. Adhering to a balanced schedule helps preserve a sense of stability in the family. Devoting time to each child is important, and parents should talk to their kids regularly.
Parents can keep in touch through notes, letters and phone calls.
Communicating with kids is critical. Parents need to listen to them, let them know that all feelings are acceptable and respond calmly when they express strong feelings. This will help them release their emotions and build trust between parent and child. There are many ways to help children live with divorce. Read books together about divorce to start a dialogue.