Remember that tribal custom expects children to behave respectfully toward their elders. Pueblos are living communities, not theme parks or playgrounds. Do not under any circumstances allow your children to wander about freely. With rare exception, they should always be under your immediate supervision. Look but don't touch or take.
Many pueblo structures are ancient.
Climbing over crumbling adobe walls, for example, can cause irreparable damage. Don't gather pottery shards or other artifacts, even if they seem plentiful. Follow tribal regulations on photography. Photography has become an issue of particular concern for most pueblo tribes. Multiple cameras may require multiple permits.