Great marriages are characterized by an abiding sense of teamwork based on deep, mutual respect and love. In some ways, this model is like a road map to keep you on the path and moving forward when you have a specific problem to work through. Try it out and see what you think. It is folly and shame to him. You should separate Problem Discussion from Problem Solution.
Premature problem solving leads to poor solutions and poor follow through.
This is a step not mentioned in the secular material, but we would emphasize the value of a couple praying together and seeking God's direction and help. Whether silent or out loud, at this point in the process or earlier, there is power and peace in acknowledging God in your working together. Setting Pick a very specific piece of the issue you are working on to try to solve right now. Stay on this focus for solution ideas. Brain Storming Suggest any ideas at all and be creative.