You can then post an answer or counter an answer that has already been posted. Please read the guidelines for answering questions before making a posting. It may just be normal for him, or he may have some medical or physiological issue that should be investigated. Back in the dark ages, it was the man's job to look for sexual opportunity and the woman's job to say she wasn't interested unless there was a wedding ring involved. I, personally, am thrilled when a woman takes the initiative.
Many modern men are.
Yes, but some men are stuck in the dark ages. They may assume your invitation to a first date is an invitation to immediate sex. Decide what kind of man he is, and what kind you want. If you're scientific and careful, you could even use the first call as a screening method. My boyfriend of three months is very lousy in bed.