We are too busy working, then coming home to cook and clean and check schoolwork, to meet the folks next door. We no longer take the time to meet our children's friends or their parents. We have to take an interest and find the time to pay attention to our children before their behaviors and peer groups become a problem. One way to do this is to keep them involved in positive activities. Sports and martial arts are great outlets for using children's energies, teaching new skills and having a positive peer group.
Martial arts can teach self-discipline, control, coordination, and respect.
Another important thing to consider is their peer group. They know when we are not listening. Preteen and adolescent males are attempting to identify themselves. They are starting to experience numerous physiological changes, including their appearance and voice, to name a few. Although that is age appropriate, it can be trying to the parents and school officials.