Remember leaving that one dance, and ahead of you, walking home, was the woman you had danced with for hours. You could not quite summon up the courage to approach her, to ask if you could at least accompany her to the nearest subway stop. She walked away into the night and out of your life. A gaping chasm splits off the landscape of the shy and lonely from the rest of humanity. This is the great divide between losers and winners , so we are told.
Personality change is virtually impossible under ordinary circumstances .
What shapes your fate is your own perceptions, your old ingrained habits of fear and failure. Others sense how you feel about yourself and mirror your self-image back at you. Face yourself, know thyself , and take your life into your own hands. Become a stronger person and depend no more on fortuitous happenstance, on wishing and hoping . We are all worms.