Patronize the farmers market regularly, and you ll make that neighbor a friend. Some day you might lend a hand with some seasonal chore and later enjoy a little hunting or fishing together. Your kids might get to see a calf born and discover where milk really comes from. Shop at home. Support local business owners and service providers.
Nobody wants a hand-out.
Nobody is asking for charity. But a little neighborliness will exchange hands sevenfold and that will benefit the community.