Life After Life, Moody 65. Learn to love other people and acquire knowledge. He now feels that it is his purpose while on earth to love people like the light being loved him. Beyond the Light, Atwater 9. There is no purpose in feeling a need to assess gains or losses made so as to be aware of what one learned or failed to learn.
Memories can be open-ended and can include the infinite knowledge as well as the memory knowledge.
I had a purpose to fulfill on earth and I could come back to the light after I completed it. Some NDE near death experiences involve women and men who will occasionally meet the children they will eventually beget. Children will sometimes meet dead siblings or siblings to be born in the future. Before we are born, we promise to pretend that time and space are real, so we can come here for the purpose of advancing our spirit. I was shown the evolution of spirit and soul.