If they've never experienced that special bond between owner and pet, they could not possibly understand the grief you're feeling. No one, therefore, has the right to judge your sorrow. Some of the people you know will understand your feelings because they have pets of their own that they love. If they're willing to listen, tell them about your pet-the good times, the bad times, and the way it ended. Talking or writing about your loss will help you feel better.
People use ceremonies to mark important passages in their lives.
One way to recognize your pet's death is to hold a memorial service. You may do this alone, standing in the woods or by your pet's favorite creek or pond. Bring a cherished photograph to symbolize your pet. Say a prayer or read a poem that expresses your feelings. Leave flowers, dog biscuits, or kitty treats, as a parting gift or remembrance.