You are absolutely right. Children won't show their love to a parent in the presence of the parent that disapproves. One of the reasons some parents stop seeing their children is precisely because they cannot tolerate being met with bitterness every time they come for the child. Sometimes they remove themselves from the child's life because they cannot tolerate the horrible position it places the child in. This is a major tragedy for the child.
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