Hang around winners. The best place to learn winning ways is from a winner. Permission comes from winning thoughts and ideas. Take winning actions. There's no such thing as a passive winner.
Permission is a winning action.
Act like a winner. As it evolves in your psyche, your thinking will begin to automatically adjust to disappointments and set-backs, and find a way to get around them or overcome them. Winning will gradually become instinctive. Your mind-set will be different than anything you've ever experienced before. Your approaches will be exclusively winner-oriented.