The students look after each other, caring for their more vulnerable colleagues in a way which is heartening to everyone who visits the campus. Surrounding Local Authorities often nominate de Stafford as their first choice since they know the ethos which is cultivated. The College has a formal agreement which all students and their parents sign and to which everyone is expected to adhere. This emphasises above all the respect which all members of the College should show to each other. Links with parents are very important.
Parents receive regular reports throughout the year and a newsletter on a weekly basis.
There are consultation evenings and numerous events which parents both arrange and attend. The Parent Staff Association, to which all parents and staff automatically belong, is very strong and supportive to the College. The Learning Support Department works to support all students. Some need help with their academic work. Some may have short or long term physical problems.