The deflated singles often go out with people demonstrating behavior patterns and other characteristics that are unacceptable to them. The unrealistic repeat unacceptable relationships or spend time with their VCR and same-sex friends. So, right now, before we go further, complete the inventory of you below. After you list your attributes, try to put them in the perspective of the opposite sex. Bear in mind that men rarely understand what women consider physically attractive or sexually desirable and vice versa.
Men often think women want the same things they want and women make the same mistake.
Maybe an opposite-sex friend could help you get a better perspective. Look at the personal ads for guidance. Again, men don't realize how important these traits are to women. Women rarely understand just how visual and sexual men are. Once you have an accurate inventory of what you have to offer, you are ready to embark on a realistic search for a special person.