Which undoubtedly will come to pass. One way or another. Because in these times, most bad marriages are allowed to end. Because not allowing them to end is just madness. Nothing in a divorce can remotely compare to the traumatic event of the children witnessing one of the parents killing the other, or killing each other.
Peaceful separations are the vogue today.
India and Pakistan separated, albeit that was a lot more contentious. We could do it fairly easily. Now some of the kids will undoubtedly want to stay with you, Mr. Liberal. New York, New Jersey, Connecticut, Massachussetts, Rhode Island, Iowa, Minnesota, and authoritarian loving places such as Illinois. Others, like the South and the Rocky Mountains, would be better served by going with Miss Liberty.