Intellectually I argued. However, that s still exactly what I did when I got married. I believe in the concept and viability of marriage. None of us is meant to live alone and there is tremendous joy possible in sharing your life with a mate. If we want healthy marriages though, we need to change our expectations.
Marriage does take work.
Saying I do is not enough. Entering with an open mind and heart is not enough. Man and women must be aware that what they are agreeing to is a shared growth opportunity. Philip, my husband, has been one of my greatest teachers so far in my life. We d been together four years before we got married.