Even though our soul may be on a certain journey, we have free will on how to experience it. Whatever we put forth comes back. Hindus call it Karma. Buddhists call it Cause and Effect. The Bible says whatever you sow, you reap.
Physics say for every action there is an equal and opposite reaction.
It's all the same. We are all creatures of habit. Change our habits and patterns, and our lives change. All the answers for everything are right inside each one of us. It is learning how to listen, and then to trust.