Lhasa Apsos are not cuddly lapdogs and should not be spoiled, or else they can become very demanding. However, these dogs are also generally stubborn and strong-willed, and should never be jerked or harshly disciplined. There are times the dog will refuse commands and even guard its food or toys. In addition, this breed can be suspicious of strangers and jealous of other animals, so they should become accustomed to people and other pets as puppies. The long coat tangles and catches burrs easily, and needs lots of combing and grooming.
Many owners keep the dogs shaved to make coat care easier.
Unless raised with gentle older children, they are often not very good with them and can be snappish. Even if raised with children, they may accept their own family's children, but not the children's playmates. Also, they can be notoriously difficult to housebreak. The Lhasa Apso is a stubborn dog that is recommended for experienced owners only. Even though they appear to be cuddly and cute, they are not lap dogs.