Don't turn your back on the ocean. Never surf alone. More than just appearing competent, passion and commitment make you outstanding. Because change is disturbing, a host of people are willing to tell you what can't be done. You have to turn these kinds of people, and your own inner voices, aside and persevere.
Rigid goals have rigid results.
Goals only limit your potential. Try working easier, not harder. Mess with success. Don't bask in your accomplishments. Fix it all the time.