He uses the children as a tool to get what he wants. The husband then returns to this country under another name, resides in a different state and resumes his life without detection from our Immigration or Police officials. Her words to women, non-Muslim, who enter a marriage with a Muslim man were harsh . So, I'll pass them on to you. In Islam, the children are the property of the father - regardless of what the law in the U.S. says.
Men carouse in their youth, smoke, drink and chase women.
However, once they start getting old they realize that they must atone for their sins of their youth. This is where fanatical Islam comes into play. They are strict beyond belief and make everyone in the family miserable because they are trying to atone for their sinful ways of their youth. Glamour Magazine ran an article in their July issue which talks about an underground railroad for Arab women in danger. For Arab women, rumors can be deadly.