And the other thing that we have to remember is that a lot of these women are asylum seekers who have very little mo ney so buying bottles, equipment and milk can be very difficult. Even on these sort of nights it's hard for the African communities to ignore the scourge that is HIV and Aids. Oliver Umtukutze , a hugely popular singer from Zimbabwe, sings of love and joy but adds in lyrical warnings. Yet you know you have a virus which will lead to death. You live with a baby in your womb which you know will die.
Safe sex is a message that's gone through to everybody.
We all know if you are going to sleep with someone without protection then you are going to get something. It doesn't matter whether you are British or African. Fortunately they've come down. Winnie is British-born but brought up in Uganda. She's been positive since 1988 and has already lost a brother to Aids.