Some people prefer a ceremonial service, religious or secular, with the body present. Others choose an immediate burial and hold a memorial or other ceremony with no body present. Another service is cremation which may be performed either directly or after a ceremony. To help ensure that your wishes are carried out, you may want to write down your preferences. It may also be helpful to tell relatives and other responsible persons what you have decided.
Most states have a licensing board that regulates the funeral industry.
You may contact the licensing board in your state for information or help. The Conference, which represents licensing boards in 47 states, provides information on laws in various states and accepts and responds to consumer inquiries or complaints about funeral providers. If you want additional information about how to make funeral arrangements and the available options, you may want to contact interested business, professional, and consumer groups. AARP is a nonprofit, nonpartisan organization dedicated to helping older Americans achieve lives of independence, dignity and purpose. These publications are available free by writing to the address listed above.