Sometimes I don't mind being spoiled, sometimes I do. If something's coming up that I don't want to know about in advance, I just stay away from the board. My POV is that if it comes down to choice between inconveniencing me or inconveniencing somebody else, I've got to go with the first option. We can stay on the board and be surprised. Most posters try very hard not to post spoilers in the topic line.
Problem is, most posters also happen to be human and occasionally screw up.
But then there seemed to a lot of snipping going on about whether or not it was truly a spoiler because it had already been aired and was thus fair game. So I was just trying to be gentle and point out why I felt it was still a spoiler. I wasn't trying to piss anyone off or ruin it for everyone. Again, geez, I'm sorry some people got so upset. It's not like I do it all the time.