There are few things more dreadful than dealing with a man who knows he is going under, in his own eyes, and in the eyes of others.
Nothing can help that man.
The way it actually works is the reverse. I well know. If we don't change, we don't grow. The important thing to recognize is that it takes a team, and the team ought to get credit for the wins and the losses. It is difficult to live in the present, ridiculous to live in the future, and impossible to live in the past.