Only the rapist is responsible for the sexual assault. Rape occurs only among strangers. A person is less likely to report a sexual assault by a friend or relative. Rape occurs only between a man and a woman. Men cannot get raped nor can lesbians or gay men.
Rape is about power and control and can happen to anyone.
Although women are the most frequent victims of rape, both men and women can be perpetrators. Male victims, gay men and lesbians tend to seek help less often due to embarrassment and fear that they will not be taken seriously. This myth assumes that rape is about sex. Rape is about power and control. The fact is that the majority of rapists, whether they rape men or women, are heterosexual - not homosexual men.