One partner, one lover, a best friend to share and grow through time. I think things are a lot easier with one person instead of someone different always being around. That is not to say that you want to run out and marry the first girl you meet believes Kelly. It's a process that can take years. Or, it's a process that can happen in an instant.
People work on different time frames.
The real search is finding out what works best for you. The real search is to love yourself. For many the search for love is a journey of insecurity and self-doubt. It's so hard knowing someone's motives during a relationship. It can be a time when you doubt yourself.