Each soul mate brings to the union something the other is missing, whether love, spirituality or something else and each rounds the other out. When soul mates are together they form a dynamic bond and provide a source of strength that is hard to find in the world or destroy. Another important factor is that soul mates is every Soul's Original Companion from the Creator who gave us life. In reincarnation, every action, every thought every idle word sets up reaction according to the Universal Law. Because of our separation from the Universal Consciousness we are unaware of the dynamic force behind even the littlest thing.
Most karmic reactions come from the individuals own deep memory.
Decisions goals, and reactions are all based on our souls pasts lives. Yet no soul is given more than it can bear to carry , that is the hidden blessing in the limitations of time and space. Reincarnation is not a way to avoid judgment or responsibility, but a way to allow the soul enough time to correct it's mistakes and develop.