I definitely did NOT feel comfortable when I realized my innocent questions were being deleted without a word. I felt even less comfortable when my questions about the deletion were deleted as well. This is not a healthy environment to create a sense of community in to begin with. In the short time I was here, I've mainly witnessed nastiness on your part and arrogance on Bob's. It is YOU who should set the parameters for a healthy community.
Much speech is offensive.
If you do not want to be flamed, don't be on the net. I'm flamed regularly by someone who disagrees with me. This does not appear to me to be copyright violation as this is public. Same thing as a reporter writing down a speech he's listening to, I would think. Postings of speculation, rumor and hearsay are not the result of evil or hostile intentions on the part of the posters.