And that's fine. But if you really DO NOT WANT to, and still give in, it will eventually lead to resentment and anger. Connie O'Reilly Othello, absolutely. One of the most wonderful things about physical intimacy is that giving pleasure gives you pleasure. And often, clients say that in this process, lo and behold, they begin to feel sexual desire.
Planning is so important to mental health.
Without something to look forward to, life is tedious. Yes, you may have to change those plans, so have alternate plans. Instead of a night out, it may be in front of a fireplace with popcorn. Be flexible, but be together. I also tell couples, no one is responsible for taking care of all you needs, sexual or otherwise.