To be a successful negotiator, you must understand the system and how it works. Many parents don't realize that school systems are bureaucracies. Parents often don't know how important decisions are made - or by whom. Read this article . . Parents of disabled children understand one crucial fact - that only by obtaining an appropriate education will my child have a real opportunity to lead a fulfilling, productive life.
Parents feel the stress too.
If you are like many parents, when you receive a telephone call or letter inviting you to an IEP meeting, you respond with anxiety. Few parents look forward to attending IEP meetings. You may feel anxious, confused and inadequate at school meetings. Most parents of special needs children know that they must understand the law and their rights. Few parents know that they must also understand the facts.