Watch for signs that your child has to use the potty. Explain to your child that he or she should try to use the potty chair and encourage him or her. If your child does not willingly accompany you to the potty, you may try to convince him or her to go by offering to read a story. Reading or talking to your child may help him or her relax, too. Encourage your child, and after your child uses the potty chair, verbally praise him or her.
Positive reinforcement is very important.
Some children sometimes need tangible rewards like sweets and snacks or stickers. In the Bathroom Don't keep your child on the potty chair for more than about five minutes, even if he or she is enjoying hearing you read or speak. If the trip to the potty is unsuccessful, don't act disappointed. Let your child know that you know he or she tried to use the potty. Never scold your child.