Victims of rape, especially when committed by an acquaintance, often feel a sense of responsibility for the attack and don't report the crime to the police. Acquaintance rape is fostered by the common sex role stereotype that men should be competitive and aggressive while women should be yielding and passive. Experts advise women to be open and assertive from the start to prevent any misunderstanding with their date. Rape is an act of violence. It is about power and control.
Rape can happen to anyone.
Learn to protect yourself. Take the time to hear what the woman is saying. Take the time to hear what the woman is saying. Use common sense. Realize that you do not have the right to force a woman to have sex just because you paid for her dinner or drinks.