I find myself going to bed later and later to avoid the hassle. I have talked to my gynecologist and to a therapist. They both tell me that I am depressed, but actually, Ann, I feel just fine. It doesn't make sense. I want to feel like my old self again.
Many women suffer a loss of sex drive after the birth of a baby.
Make an appointment with another therapist and another gynecologist immediately. It will help your marriage, and you will no longer need to stay up late to avoid him. Meanwhile, please make those appointments and go soonest. I read the letter in your column about the man who gave his wife a family heirloom as an engagement ring, and when they divorced, she refused to return it. I say, shame on her.