If she does not have a high school diploma or work experience, it is very unlikely that he does. When we provide work experience and job training for her, we need to provide the same for him. If we do not include him in our programs, we will create a female whose mate sabotages her mobility. We cannot develop programs that are not father friendly, not partner friendly, and expect that she is going to stay involved. You have to move him simultaneously with her.
People live inside relationships.
As we build a program for her, we must build one for him or the program will fail. We also have to get rid of this notion that men are evil creatures from another planet. Men, by and large, are the products of their society. And they are very important to their children. We need to quit moving them out of the family, and out of our programs.