The human species has really gone out on a limb by allowing other persons to raise their offspring resulting in an existence that is unnatural and chaotic. I don't think that anyone alive on the planet today can look at the state of the human race and not see that chaos reigns. Most people can look at their own lives and if they look long enough and deep enough and will be honest with themselves they would admit that, indeed, chaos courses throughout their lives. This always produces a false and unnatural environment where conformity is primal and independent thinking and freedom are forbidden. I say this is not choice at all.
Men leading other men produces nothing but slaves.
The result is always reflected on society as a whole and always results in the unnatural and chaotic. Disorder and mayhem reverberate throughout today's human population. Neither would have ever developed if the man would not have strayed from his natural calling of being responsible for the raising of only his immediate family. The human species along with all other species were created to be self-governed. No where in history will you find that a conscientious man raising his family according to his own free will, inflicts any type of harm or devastation on society as a whole, whatsoever.