But you don t need any special training or expertise to be an ally , just the willingness to offer a sympathetic ear and a commitment to the survivor s healing. Despite greatly increased public awareness about sexual and intimate partner violence, a number of harmful myths persist. You might also wish to discuss your particular concerns with a knowledgeable listener. Trained advocates are available for you twenty-four hours a day, seven days a week, just as they re available to survivors.
Many survivors also experience anxiety about telling others what happened.
One person might be outwardly calm while another appears more visibly agitated. Someone else may use humor or sarcasm as a defense. Regardless of the outward manifestations, sexual trauma has a profound effect on nearly everyone, and the healing process can take years, marked by gains and setbacks. Take me to places of nature. Ask me if I want to talk and take time to listen.