Understand that life is precious. It may sound trite, but understand the preciousness of life. You never know when you are going to get hit by a car when you are crossing the street. If you are talking to your doctor, and you aren't getting clear answers, or you do not like the way you are being treated, get a second opinion. There is never a time to worry about some doctor's ego.
Prayer is a powerful weapon.
If you ever had questions about it before, this is a good time to start getting some answers. Both appointments were cancelled during the previous 2-3 months. One by her, one by the doctor's office. Her doctor is wonderful. Very warm and giving.