You have more to share with others because you're not terrified someone is better than you are, or has more than you are or wants what you've got. You are, in a sense, free to live your life. Selfhood gets a bad rap in general, because it's thought of as divisive in our communities. I would think developing one's self and loving one's self can only enhance community life. This practice is long overdue.
Masculinity is more than penis and testicles, as femininity is more than clitoris and vagina.
We often mistakenly ascribe these attributes to a person as if they were the only factor in one's mental and spiritual make-up. I suspect we know the truth. Still, we persist. I don't believe we've really ever had the opportunity to see what our lives would look like if we were encouraged to be what I believe might be our true selves. Imagine how open some men would be about their feelings to women and to other men.