One of the most important things for parents to keep in mind is, in dealing with their children s fears, they must not belittle the child. The parent knows that the dark is nothing to be afraid of, but to a child the fear is very valid and extremely real. When your child expresses a fear, you must be accepting of his or her apprehensions. You can t see your room clearly or your toys. But I promise, the dark isn t bad.
Night happens just like day happens.
Of course, this problem can readily be solved by a nightlight bright enough for the child to recognize familiar surroundings upon awakening during the night. Fear of monsters can force parents to get creative. If they don t work a play telephone and a special number to dial can work. Even a talisman will work. Get that pretty rock you found at the park.