He also promised that true disciples of Christ would take up the cross and experience the same hardship that Jesus himself experienced. Though Rev. Moon spends a lot of time in New York, he is presently in Korea. Rev. Moon's matching does not override our own choice of responsibility. It is a loving suggestion based on our respect for him. It is not required to accept.
Personal choice is accepted.
In my case I can only testify that truly God worked through Rev. Moon to match me with my wife, Carol. It is, however, our responsibility to make our marriage a success. Rev. Moon does not consider himself to be more qualified for his role in comparison to anyone else. All he knows is that for some reason Jesus called him. Rev. Moon was as surprised as anyone.