For example, masturbation, oral sex, homosexual behavior, or even a love affair could be viewed as compulsive behaviors because someone might disapprove of these behaviors. When someone is distressed about these behaviors, they are most likely in conflict with their own or someone else's value system rather than this being a function of a psychological compulsion. Behaviors that are in conflict with someone's value system may be problematic but not obsessive-compulsive. Having sexual problems is common. Problems are often caused by a number of non-pathological factors.
People can make mistakes.
They can at times act impulsively. Their behavior can cause problems in a relationship. Some people will use sex as a coping mechanism similar to the use of alcohol, drugs, or eating. This pattern of sexual behavior can be problematic. Problematic sexual behavior is often remedied by time, experience, education or counseling.