Most likely your gift will be something simple and basic. It may just be rest and relaxation. One woman, tired of moving from one relationship to another looking for her Prince Charming, decided she needed time to be alone with herself. She decided to give herself the gift of bubble baths and books. Instead of running around in the hope of meeting someone, she promised herself nice, long bubble baths and time to read books each evening after work.
Most women take an occasional bubble bath and read a book.
Focused commitment are the key determinants to success. That's not easy. It doesn't make you a selfish person. You have the right, and the obligation, to take care of yourself. If one of your loved ones needed your time and attention, you'd find time for them no matter how busy you were.