Separation is rarely easy. Although they've become more independent, college students still need to know their families love and support them. Even in an encouraging atmosphere such as Mercer's, students may sometimes feel that professors don't care, competition is tough, relationships are perplexing and they're not just sure how well they are handling every thing. The winter break offers a great opportunity for you to listen to your student and show you really care. At the same time, your student has made numerous decisions and has been maturing.
Many parents find it is appropriate to modify old rules on issues such as curfew.
It's a balancing act for all of you. Try to temper your expectations about the winter break with the reality of who your child is becoming. Make plenty of time for them, but be aware that they will also need time for themselves and reconnecting with old friends. Some have run for student government positions and have lost, others have had difficulties in the romance department, and others have figured out that they need to study more at college. It takes many freshmen the whole year to adjust to college life, so stay supportive and encouraging.