Thanks for the input. My patience is wearing thin with all these whiners. Some people who read that letter might have recently lost their jobs, or have spouses who are dying of cancer. This goes for both men and women. They are the same whiners who complain about bad hair days and how much starch was put in their collars.
People are too damned spoiled.
While it's a definite plus for a woman to be a fireball in bed, it should not be so important that other, more valuable qualities are ignored. The complainers of this world should look around. He was married before, and his wife died when she was in her early 20s. They had no children. During his period of grief, Johnny and his in-laws selected a double headstone engraved with both his name and the name of his late wife.