Caution children against playing alone in isolated places. Children can tell a trusted adult if they are touched in a way that makes them fee uncomfortable. Tell you children how to reach you in case of emergencies. Children's reactions differ with their ages and personalities, and the nature of the offense. The child may be afraid to tell for fear of punishment, of blame, or of disbelief.
Older children are often too embarrassed to tell anyone.
What To do If You Suspect Child Abuse Believe your child's story. Don't deny the problem or blame the child. Intense emotions will frighten the child. Quiet, unhurried conversation conveys calmness. Never punish the child.