They say he's wrong. I know that Brad is a good guy. I think most of the flamers, in calmer moods, understand that too. When they work, they're like offices and meetings. Collaborative places where people help and support and listen to each other.
People contribute to each others' success.
Give and get. When they don't work they're like unhappy families. Thru the virtual interface it's very easy to project. Time to release, to let go of some old stuff. And out it comes.