Our family never really askes too much, but a lot of friends do. I know that they have no idea what is going on, but it still bothers me. Everyone needs support going through infertility but you don't have to shout it from the roof tops. I hope you're not ashamed of it though. Infertility does not define who you it is just something that happened like lupus.
Nobody wants it but lots of people have it.
Even though most times you just want to slap the question right out of their mouths remember that they don't know. Infertility is not a part of their daily lives like it is ours. It usually drops the subject on it's own. Repeat violators of healthboards policy will be permanently barred from the boards.