Moving to a new community may be one of the most stressful experiences a family faces. Frequent moves or even a single move can be especially hard on children and adolescents. Studies shows children who move frequently are more likely to have problems at school. Moves are even more difficult if accompanied by other significant changes in the child's life, such as a death, divorce, loss of family income, or a need to changes schools.
Moves interrupt friendships.
To a child at a new school, it may at first seem that everyone else has a best friend or is securely involved with a group of peers. The child must get used to a different schedule and curriculum, and may be ahead in certain subjects and behind in others. This situation may make the child stressed, anxious, or bored. Children in kindergarten or first grade may be particularly vulnerable to a family move because developmentally they are just in the process of separating from their parents and adjusting to new authority figures and social relationships. The relocation can interfere with the normal process of separation by causing them to return to a more dependent relationship with their parents.