These things are understanding, acceptance, patience, creativity and more love than you can possibly imagine. Please don't be afraid to talk. As I said previously, agreeing or not isn't important. What is important is that thoughts and ideas are shared, so that there can be a conversation, then an understanding, and with that - a relationship. Talk is good.
Relationships are better.
I love you all. It's more important to share our thoughts and ideas than to agree on them. Understand that it takes time to accept cancer into your life. We all have different perspectives on life. Cancer teaches us, at the least, about patience, acceptance, time, creativity, love, honesty, giving and receiving.