With maturity comes the knowledge that every major success in life is based on a hundred failure. Each seeming failure is another rung on the ladder of your development. Failure is not a matter of failing or being knocked down. It is a matter of staying down. You are never beaten until you give up.
Nothing remains the same.
No child ever learns to walk without falling over. We do not consider the fall a failure. If the child believed it was, it would not try again. Learn that you can change your life by changing your attitude. Life, when you discover how to take control, can be very rewarding.