She needs your guidance and support every step of the way. Even a toddler can learn that there are limits to her behaviour and that when she misbehaves, a parent will stop her. It is important that parents keep the consequences immediate, to the point and brief. If parents use a firm, calm, loving manner, these situations can provide a wonderful learning opportunity. If a parent wants his child be behave well, he needs to respond to his child in a calm and rational manner.
Pleasing parents is very important to a toddler - especially during the second year.
Praise and attention are rewards that can motivate her. If the rules a parent sets out for her are reasonable and achievable, a child will experience success. The positive feelings this will create go a long way to developing a healthy self-esteem. A child knows that if she's a good girl, she must also sometimes be a bad girl. She will feel much better about herself if a parent praises her efforts and intentions.