I love you, but I won't allow your behavior to control my life. That's another matter altogether, and may actually require intervention. Consult a professional to clarify your options if such a situation ever applies to you. At the very least they probably won't refuse help if it's offered. They might respond by getting angry and by trying harder to get support from the family.
Many parents find it hard to keep from giving in.
They feel guilty about abandoning a child in trouble, or they don't want their children to be angry with them. Parents in this situation can use practical advice and emotional support. If Your Child Needs Help Go to Table of Contents . It Now Foundation.