This guilt is further accentuated when well meaning friends and neighbours begin to imply they must have done something wrong to bring this eating disorder about. There is also fear of losing the sufferer altogether, as the disorder takes over more and more of the person s life. Mistrust Of all of the above, mistrust may be the most damaging effect the disorder has on relationships. This leads to mistrust and resentment from both sides. With all these emotions going on it is not surprising that relationships are adversly affected.
Marriages break up, friendships are broken and family tension increases.
It is understandable that at times, relatives and friends feel trapped and frustrated and some may have given up hope of ever seeing the individual recover. This is unfortunate as these are the people who could contribute the most to recovery. Recovery is slow and difficult, but it is possible. Relatives and firends can play an important role in forming a network of loving, nurturing and healthy relationships that can be a life-line to people with eating disorders. Recovery is slow and difficult, but it is possible.