I am an attractive, single gay woman who has long blond hair and who wears skirts, high heels and makeup to my professional job every day. You're never going to find me if you prejudge me. If you really want to stop others from discriminating against you, you should start by not discriminating against others. As avid naturists for years, my lover and I want to point out a mixing up of terms in a recent column. A fellow wrote that he enjoyed walking around his house naked and that he wondered whether there were other naked outlets he would enjoy.
Naturalists study nature, especially by direct observation of plants and animals.
While I'm sure that some of that goes on among us naked folk, the correct term is naturist. You are my after-work reading delight on Wednesdays. Making a blanket judgment about shyness is unfair. Reasons people are shy or appear to be shy are as varied as people themselves. A good place to start for more information on the subject is The Highly Sensitive Person, by Elaine Aron.