There is one thing that I'd like to ask you about, though. Thanks for your comments. In your article, you basically said that if homosexuality isn't caused by genetics, it must be a willing choice. However, I don't think that those those two options cover the entire range of possibilities. Whenever something traumatic happens to any given individual, that person will naturally have some reaction to it.
Many people deal with it successfully and the event becomes little more than a bad memory.
In other words, they react by behaving in ways that will make it less likely that the event will happen again. However, both reactions are choices. While I agree with you wholeheartedly that such behaviors are most definitely choices and as such should not be defended with protestions of bigotry, I don't think the same reasoning applies to gay people who don't particularly dress or act any differently from the mainstream. Whether or not one flaunts their sexuality in public, it is still practiced in private. I don't think that most people's opposition to homosexuality would disappear if there was no public flaunting of it.