Part of the job a person with depression needs to do to take care of the illness is to not take things personally and to be specific about the support they need. Most people want to help their loved ones, but they also want to feel like they are actually doing something. Be specific and let them know that their support and help is getting you through this and that things will continue to improve. There are no clinics that will do mental health that are inexpensive around here and the hospital will only accept her if she is suicidal, which she isn't right now speaker Multiple personality disorder is a very serious illness and not everyone has the skill to treat this illness. Although she has not insurance - she needs to find someone who can help her with it.
Most professionals take cases that are pro-bono or for a lesser fee.
Also - community mental health centers are required to treat everyone. It may be a case of just having to push the envelope and force the issue. Community mental health centers are often so booked up they will schedule only the most severe people. But - try to get your friend on a waiting list or talk with someone who might provide treatment at a lesser fee. My depression came after he became sober.