And then I was in this other play and again acknowledged him. Rapp has advanced his queer cause by making public the fact that he's loved, and loves, men. I don't want to get into labels, but I've never labeled myself except to say I'm queer. The things that's been most important to me to be out about is that I have been in loving relationships with men. Because the truth is that I've also been in love with women, although the truth is I do think I'm primarily homosexual.
People have such misconceptions about it.
I'm really happy that right now there's a great conversation going on about fluidity, because I think that for a lot of people, that's the case. Rapp says Anne Heche falling in love with Ellen DeGeneres, despite having never previously identified as bisexual or lesbian, is where he hopes the future debate remains as far as sexuality, if there has to be a debate at all. He also has no doubt that Anne is in love with Ellen, and not, as some contend, making some bizarre media play. I know someone who knows her very, very well and she says this relationship with Ellen is absolutely true. It's not some play.