An acquaintance rape will often not involve the use of weapons. Instead, the acquaintance rapist uses threats, coercion, physical strength, or authority to intimidate or overpower. Victims of acquaintance rape often report that they initially trusted and liked their assailant, not recognizing the assailant s intent to rape until it was too late to get help. Frequently, women who have been forced or coerced to have sexual contact do not report the experience to police or authorities. If women do tell someone, they are more likely to confide in a friend or a roommate.
Men are even less likely to report forced sexual contact.
There are many reasons acquaintance rape occurs. One is the myth that women say no to sex when they really mean yes. Another is that some people have learned that it is acceptable to use force to take what they want, especially if they believe that they are unlikely to be held accountable for their actions. Finally, many acquaintance rapes are characterized by unclear or unheard communications, differences in expectations, and consumption of alcohol by one or both parties. In recent years, cultural stereotypes and cultural climate alike have changed.