This evaluation and treatment period can last days or weeks, depending on the baby's condition. Tips for Parents Time away from a newborn is extremely difficult for the family - particularly the parents. Feelings of disappointment and guilt are common. Dr. Chescheir advises parents to talk with the medical team or a hospital social worker to help alleviate these feelings. Additionally, parents should get as much information as possible about their child's problem.
Most hospitals encourage parents to spend as much time as they can with their babies.
If the baby is transferred to a hospital with a special neonatal care unit, parents might request that mom receive postpartum care at the new hospital, if possible, so the two can recover together. As hard as it may be, parents should get plenty of rest and regular exercise and be sure to eat well during this time. If the mother is going to breast-feed, she should talk with a nurse or lactation consultant about getting a breast pump so she can freeze breast milk for when the baby comes home. Dr. Chescheir also suggests letting friends and family help. The family is more knowledgeable and less intimidated about asking questions.