That is why I went into such detail about what I did, what I felt, and what I was thinking before and after. I want the thousands of Raped men to know they are not alone. It wasn't their fault and they can survive this. I am a survivor, and I become stronger every day. I hope that female rape victims can also find something in this that might comfort them.
Rape is rape no matter who it happens to.
There are more similarities between men and women then differences. There is only one way to be sure you will not become a male rape victim in jail or prison. That is to never be arrested. Anyone can be raped no matter how big he is. Anyone can be overwhelmed by numbers.