They want everybody to come out and be active right away. They don't understand that social change is slow. Look at how long it's taken the gay male and lesbian camps to come together as tentatively as they have, and how much progress we still have to make in bringing bisexuals and transgendered people fully into the community. The emergence of the transgendered and bisexual movements is happening. It's always a process.
People love to point out the isms and the schisms and the differences.
I just look at it the other way. I remember when there was NO conversation across differences, NO understanding between men and women in the community. We were living on different planets. And that was twenty years ago, even just fifteen years ago. We accent the negative all the time.