If he's like most men, Bekkar says, her partner quickly suggests how to fix the situation. Somehow, hearing it from Bekkar made it ring true. Helping Out More Besides listening, a guy whose partner has PMS can help out more around the house when symptoms flare up, be understanding of her moods, and encourage her to exercise. Instead, he suggests, offer to watch young children while she works out or suggest going for a walk together. Men with partners going through menopause might help by being patient about sex, encouraging their partner to stay on hormones or other medications, if prescribed, and to keep doctor's appointments, Bekkar says.
Most women appreciate their partner's help in trying to decide on the best options.
At the bottom is a cartoon-like supportive guy, looking muscular in a Superman costume. Smith, the originally hesitant student, was glad he came. His girlfriend was concerned that her symptoms, particularly her heavy menstrual flow, were getting in the way of the relationship. In true supportive-guy style, he reminded her that relationships aren't all about sex. And I was touched that he cared enough to go.