The way she makes me feel. The way her smiles just warm up my heart. I think that intelligent men are sexy, but in my experience men are scared of women who might be smarter then they are. Well Amy, I can't speak on behalf of all men. I can say that most men are intimidated by women.
Most men like to think that they are superior and more intelligent.
Seriously, I think that men are attracted to intelligent women. I think that the insecurity on the men's behalf is for the man to become truly attached to the woman only for her to find out truly how ignorant the man is. Thus his fear is of her leaving him for someone smarter. I know that I have gone through a stage of insecurity in my life, so, I'd have to say that it's not a myth. I'm not talking about physical attraction.