Gary Poster, with essential assists from Galyn Norwood, Phiroon Phihakendr, Jose Quijada, Pavandeep Kalra. He feels discouraged and I'm burning out. First, tell your husband not to take it personally.
Most babies naturally prefer their mother, at least in the early months.
Chances are, even if you say these things, your husband will still need some guidance. When your baby is in a particularly good mood and recently fed, take a walk or go shopping, leaving her and Dad to work out their relationship by themselves. You'll be surprised at the comforting tips your husband can come up with in a pinch. And whatever you do, don't hover, ready to rescue your fussy baby. Instead, give them the time and space to work things out.