There are a few least common denominators in all of the contributors' advice to the newly diagnosed. And they universally recommend that you take your time, do your research and arrive at the best treatment decision for YOU and your family, based on the characteristics of your own health situation. It not only affects the man, but his sexual partner and his other loved ones. Stress and depression are common consequences of dealing with the diagnosis, the treatment decision, the treatment itself, and the side effects of the treatment. If depression becomes severe and overwhelming, it is appropriate to seek professional help.
People deal with life crises in their own ways.
It is especially important during a bout with prostate cancer to be good to yourself and the people whom you care about and who care about you, so you are united in the effort to overcome the disease. Remember-if any treatment really doesn't feel right, it isn't. If any treatment feels right, it probably is. After you have studied all your options, trust your instincts along with the knowledge you have gained. Ask questions until you are satisfied.