Impotence is the inability to achieve or to sustain an erection adequate for sexual intercourse. Until recently, many health care professionals believed that the cause of impotence was psychological, according to Ira Markman, M.D., a urologist on the staff of Muhlenberg Regional Medical Center. Most men have periods of impotence at some point in their lives, and it's nothing that should cause worry. However, if the condition persists over a six-month period, it's time to consult a doctor. The ability to function sexually helps to define people's role in the world, shaping their identities.
Many men suffer emotionally, without talking about it.
These behaviors can result in a woman feeling unattractive or inadequate within the relationship, often resulting in rejection, anger, loneliness and depression on a woman's part. The reluctance of a man to communicate his condition will exacerbate such feelings in a woman, often leading to overt or covert conflict in the relationship, says Dr. Solazzo. Because erectile dysfunction may divide and distance couples, often causing conflict and emotional pain, it is crucial that the condition not be ignored or denied. While many sexual difficulties can be improved or resolved through open communication, there needs to be a mutual commitment for a couple to learn about the condition and treatment options. Overcoming impotence is best achieved when a man and his partner openly communicate, continue to show love and affection, and have a common interest in following through with treatment options.