Do your job well, wash your hands, and know when to head for the beach. There are those times in life when we don't get what we want, only to realize we didn't want it in the first place. Then there are those times when we do get what we want, and then discover we didn't want it. These endless meanderings can seem to waste a lot of time. Astrology is a map.
Maps are very useful in navigating through challenging terrain.
They provide useful advice about where to find good roads and interesting sights, as well as what mountains not to walk into and cliffs not to walk off. Most of what we call relationships are really control dramas. We use them as a means of both defining existence, and of avoiding self-contact. All the marvelous dramatic turmoil can seem to promise growth and fulfillment, yet we're not so quick to recognize that it's pointless. So often, it seems that other people's lives are easier to grasp than our own.