I wish it didn't matter, but it does. If we think someone could be gay, he would probably get a bid if he's a good kid. However, if someone totally flaming comes to the house, or someone who is openly gay, that's another story. Josh gave strong advice against entering the rush process. My house had to debate whether to extend a bid to a bisexual rushee.
People are stupid and ignorant.
It turns out, he is really 100 percent gay, and just told the brothers he was bisexual because he thought that was more acceptable. Despite these misgivings, the gay brothers have no regrets about joining their houses, although they acknowledged that their stories do not necessarily reflect the majority experience. Whether or not you're successful in the greek system or in life in general has little to do with your sexual orientation. My house is very liberal so things are fairly good for me. And that's really the bottom line.