The first step is to MEET.Think about it , of all the millions of people in the world,two person met each other. Its a mini miracle. Sometimes not seeing the other person erases our biasness and takesaway our preconceptions. You actually focus on what they're saying insteadof , say , on the person's gawdy tie. You can actually terminate a relationship easier through Email , believeit or not.
Phone bills are really cheaper than restaurants.
You can quote poetries and proses that belong to someone else, likesome dead playwight. You can pretend to be anyone you want, true. Well , that's it. So it doesn't matter how the other party really looks or thinks. What matter is that you find enough common interests to sustain a relationship and be discerning enough to know what you want in a relationship.