How to Get Your Husband on Track to Mutual Dreams By Dr. Kevin Polk Copyright 1999. When you and your husband got married you had some mutual dreams. Part of the reason is probably that you are both so darned busy with your jobs and family. Another is that it is sort of hard to get your husband to talk about such things.
Men tend to keep that kind of stuff inside.
Come to think of it, we don't talk all that much. That is because talking about anything deeper than sports or computers is scary stuff to a man. Enough has been written about why men think it's scary, so I won't repeat any of it here. What you need is some talk from your husband about your mutual dreams. What you need is a strategy.