Basic needs for these kids include numerous doctor appointments, therapy sessions and psychological counseling. The challenge, the Bullards said, is trying to maintain normal school schedules and recreational activities. Randy, a mechanic for Canyon Independent School District, rearranged his work schedule so he can be home to help in the afternoons. When they take in a new child, Dana said, the first night always is difficult. It takes a lot of calming and reassuring so they don't feel more anxious than they already are.
Many foster children refuse to be cuddled.
Every day he would come home from work, pick her up and rock the baby for hours, ignoring the biting and the screaming. It took two months for her to stop pushing and show signs of bonding. And two years before she finally relaxed in her daddy's arms. And that stays forever. You can lessen it a little, but it never goes away.