I put out breakfast food and every one eats as they want, and we only have a sit-down dinner together. Amazing how that small job seems to make them feel they are assisting. Celeste I've invited nationals to our home on many occasions. At first, I didn't know how to host them as our ways are quite different from theirs. I found that they appreciated us to be natural with them, prepare some of our national foods for them.
People are people after all and they just want relationship.
They would give them unsweetened yogurt and then cook a chicken for them. The unusual thing about the chicken is that they would cook the whole bird, with intestines tied to the feet, and the neck would keep the head and the eyes. I have a special friend I like very much, she is American and we were invited by a couple of Bashi. When we got there she took the neck and of course the head and eyes. Only the two of us understood what had actually happened.