And as a final remark I have to say that sex shouldn't necessarily have anything to do with shape or size. It's to do with how people turn each other on. Just a thought. If you're not gay, you're not gay and it doesn't matter what people think you are so ignore them. It had a lot to do with the way they dressed and because they were very kind and sensitive and creative.
People are very judgmental about sexual orientation and it's very irritating.
It doesn't matter a hoot what or who you are, it's how you relate to other people that counts. Just be yourself. The answer is my current lovely, sexy partner. My suggestion is to cut down on the foreplay somewhat so that the stimulation to your penis is less and then the friction of intercourse can do its proper job. If you're still having premature ejaculation, then try what is known as the squeeze method - squeezing the penis glans on the top for about ten second several times.