If you get an opportunity to visit Serra San Bruno, you will find a beautiful monastery which Saint Bruno set up. I was fortunate to visit my mothers home town Simbario, where the old traditions and values still remained. I noted that all people took special interest in every child that walked the streets. A family, is a shared co-operative, which is based on sacrifice, mutual respect, and trust. I say this because the best teachers of family, are too busy building and developing their families to teach or write books .
Reality is complex and ever changing.
Theorists should be careful to appreciate the limited applications of their theories. As my mother lay sick in her bed suffering from a stroke and blind, I will never forget the comments my Mother made to a visitor, a Mr. Luceno. When mother was told of the visitor her comment made in the depths of illness was . . . Perhaps our society pays too much attention to words, their spelling, and their grammar and so little on their actual meaning and so little to the concrete actions of people towards other people.