Discuss the role of alcohol in their incidents. If people do not wish to discuss specifics at that time, move to the next section and broach the subject again later. As long as it is dealt with constructively it can actually enhance relationships and situations. Anger can be caused by both external and internal events, known as triggers . Some people are more easily angered than others.
People have what psychologists call a low tolerance for frustration.
The aggressive individual hits, kicks, harasses, uses put-downs, threats or beatings. Being assertive does NOT mean being pushy or demanding. It means being respectful of yourself and others. Or taking action when you are not as angry and can focus. The key here is that the suppressed behavior must be expressed eventually or it may lead to a multitude of proble ms.