You can be secretive, so that even when you seem to confide freely, your closest friends never completely understand you. Just as with purple, this person likes to be considered different. You are quick-witted, though usually not intellectual. The lavender person seeks refinement in life. Yours is a fantasy land where ugliness and the basic aspects of life are ignored.
Outward appearances are very important.
Gentility and sentimental leanings also go along with this color, as do romance, nostalgia and delicacy. Since lavender is first cousin to purple, you may aspire to creativity, but if not capable of it, you tend to encourage those who do have talent. You may also see lavender as insipid or aging. You like to protect yourself from the hectic world, wrapping yourself with the security blanket of a noncommittal color. You prefer a secure, safe, balanced existence, and so unlike the reds in life, you never crave real excitement, just contentment.