Looking for a bike that I can do both. I went for two bike fits and consultations. The Tri bike shop recommends a Tri bike, the road bike shop recommends a road bike. Each shop ruled out certain bikes because of their geometry. The problem you are facing is that tri bikes have steep seat tubes, since they are made to be ridden in an aero position.
Road bikes have a more relaxed seat tube for a better ride.
The tri bikes need the steeper seat tube to place the saddle forward, and allow efficient pedalling when you are dropped real low on aero bars. This makes them ride really hard, and can make you really sore on long rides. A road bike has a softer ride, which means you can ride longer without getting sore, and thus keep up a high efficiency ride. Jim suggested sites that have adjustable seat tubes that allow you to move the seat really forward on a road bike. You can also get a stem that allows quich bar changes.