If you stop listening, they'll stop talking. Recognizing the impact of peer pressure To many teenagers, their friends' views are more important than their parents' views. Downgrading those friend or their views usually drives the teenager even further away. Children need responsible adults with high standards who care about their welfare. Respect the fact that peer pressure exists, but tell your children when you think that pressure is leading them in the wrong direction-and why.
Most districts have a written policy on discipline.
It outlines unacceptable behavior and establishes penalties. Ask your child, or the school, for a copy. Read it, You gain the respect of your teenager and the school staff when you take an interest in the rules of behavior. Stress the importance of an orderly school environment. If your teen has a problem, contact the school.