If you don't want to listen to music, try doing a crossword or some homework to get your mind off it. If you don't pay attention, it won't annoy you so much. I didn't care at first, but now he makes me lick and suck it. If I don't he beats me up. Dear Matt, I don't know much about what it's like having an older brother, but from what I've heard this is pretty normal.
Older brothers can be jerks sometimes.
You may hate him now, but just put up with it. I wouldn't tell your parents if I were you, because they either won't care or they'll blame you for being a slutboy. But when you're older, you and your brother will laugh about all this, I promise. Oh, send me some pictures, if you can. He taught me that it was a beautiful thing and God's gift, and he even had me do it a few times while he held his hand on my stomach and read Bible passages to me.