We do not have the power to screw up the Great Spirits plan. Truth vs emotional truth - Intuitive messages from our Soul can often feel the same as emotional reactions from our wounded inner children. It is by recognizing that we are powerless to control our life experiences out of ego-self that we can access the power out of True Self, Spiritual Self. By surrendering the illusion of ego control we can reconnect with our Higher Selves. The Twelve Steps - The 12 Steps provide a formula for integrating the Spiritual into the physical.
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What helped me was when someone told me that surrender didn't mean I was a loser, it just meant that I was smart enough to join the winning side. The Twelve Steps , different interpretations - four different versions of the 12 steps from different sources. My favorite is the Twelve Steps for Kids. By using these steps, I've become a new person. I don't have to feel alone anymore, and I can help others.