To succeed, you must master and use a myriad of skills, often simultaneously. All mothers need networks. New mothers are often surprised at how unprepared and isolated they feel. Even if you view yourself as self-sufficient and confident, it is surprising to discover how much you need support. If you can't find a support group, start one.
Mothers are the real experts.
Despite the booming market of books, videos, and other educational media for parents, recognize the validity of your instincts and trust your own decisions. Consult with others, but listen to your own judgment. Real mothers don't define themselves through housework. Your priority during the active years of motherhood are nurturing and enjoying your children, while finding ways to develop yourself. The housekeeping will always be there.