The Casualty Assistance Office can help you. Planning ahead is the key to paving a smooth path for those you leave behind, who will otherwise have to make many difficult decisions during a period of great sorrow. Many people feel so devastated and overwhelmed at a time of death they assume they should leave all funeral planning to the funeral director. Being actively involved in funeral planning can be very therapeutic, and you won't be grieving over the bill later. Guilt or proof of love .
People often think how much they spend is a demonstration of how much they love someone.
Poor family planning. Many people wish for something very simple, but don't make these wishes known to family members. One gentleman was still paying for his wife's funeral when he died eight years later. A unique and personalized memorial is what others will remember. Failing to shop around.