Many women never discuss verbal abuse. Indeed, some do not even recognize that they are being verbally abused. Many verbal abusers are delightful, charming men in public. They save their abuse and cruelty for a private audience of one. Often a verbal abuser is quite sensitive to outsiders finding out about the abuse and is very careful to save these scenes for the home environment only.
Many verbal abusers are delightful, charming men in public.
They save their cruelty for a private audience of one. During the courtship period, everyone is on their best behavior. The verbal abuse is slight and probably few and far between. Since women want to believe the best of their lovers, they overlook obvious verbal abuse. Chemistry adds to the capability women have to overlook the first subtle signs of abuse.