Kids have a natural sense of justice. The second cause of much anger is neglect . Not enough time with kids leaves them feeling unloved and anger is the result. Something happens to bring anger on. These words, used with every baptismal vow, address the spiritual formation of our children .
Nothing is more important than their spiritual formation.
And by that I do not just mean a good teaching on creed, code, and cult. More deeply, spiritual has to do with the inner life of every person and it answers questions like these. Remember that you teach by how you live more than by what you say. The spiritual task of all parents, frightful, complex and uncertain, is nevertheless the main task for us to pray about and care about. It is a call to give ourselves to our children.