We will discuss this later, amongst a myriad of other topics that will hopefully enable you to drop yourself and your own situation into the examples, analyses and solutions. Think of how many that is it is a huge number. So wherever possible from here on I shall refer to you as we I have suffered and know how you are suffering we are in this together. Firstly, however, I would like to outline my own problem, its age, inferences and outcomes, which will hopefully strike a familiar chord, even though my own circumstances may vary somewhat from your experiences. The bottom line is that no matter what these experiences are, the underlying symptoms and cures if not the triggers themselves are nonetheless the same.
Memory provides a base in beginning to assess our own situation.
Simply put, the more experiences we can collate the easier it is to find a common thread. Teenage years and late adolescence in general are the refining stages of ascertaining who we are. The freedom experienced in these young years lets us judge right from wrong, good from bad. I guess to an extent we put a value on ourselves. Over time we accept this value as a benchmark of our abilities and in line with our perception of right and wrong , good or bad, we set our goals and judge or think accordingly.