Mirror the tone, patterns, and cadence of their voice. If it s slow, speak slower, softer be softer, etc. Guys usually tell the jokes and women are to laugh at them. Okay, once in a while ladies you can be the center of attention and tell the jokes, but don t make this standard operating procedure because you re then taking on the male role. Men are usually visual so paint pictures with your words.
Many women are kinesthetic and about touchy-feely.
However, men and women can be visual, auditory, or kinesthetic. Remember who you are talking to you and what you re talking about. You only live once. Think of the next party and how terrific you will be. If you have any great tips for getting people to like you, please send them to me .