Any fact facing us is not as important as our attitude toward it, for that determines our success or failure. You will find that they haven't half the strength you think they have. One of the greatest moments in anybody's developing experience is when he no longer tries to hide from himself but determines to get acquainted with himself as he really is. Never talk defeat. Use words like hope , belief, faith , victory.
Problems are to the mind what exercise is to the muscles, they toughen and make strong.
The first step is to fill your life with a positive faith that will help you through anything. The second is to begin where you are.