They feel embarrassed and resentful toward parents who are perceived as giving their own needs priority. The following represents common reactions of children to divorce in broad terms. Some reactions may overlap age groups. Research is just beginning about the long range effects of divorce. It takes time to adjust, and the time needed varies from child to child.
Parents can help their children cope with divorce.
Parents should do their best to build and maintain healthy and smooth environments. Children need frequent and regular contact with both parents. Parents should be on time for the exchange of children for time sharing. This sets a good example for children and does not disrupt children's routines. Children need continued contact with friends and relatives of both parents.