However, in the long term, the negative consequences are enormous. Apart from the direct injuries caused by assault, long-term physical symptoms include fatigue, body aches, and tension. Psychological symptoms include feelings of helplessness, fear, depression, shame, and a reduced sense of self-worth. Since men usually are the aggressors in domestic abuse, it may seem that they escape its negative effects. This is not true.
Men often feel guilty about their aggressive behaviour.
Consequently, there is a loss of self-respect. Their behaviour also reduces the quality of a relationship by destroying trust and engendering fear in partners and children. Children are always affected by witnessing domestic abuse. They often feel scared, anxious, angry and responsible for the abuse. Their physical and psychological symptoms may be similar to those experienced by their mothers.