I'm saying nobody from the outside can quantify the suffering of any man or any woman. My group represents divorce under the best circumstances. I chose youngsters who were psychologically sturdy. They weren't in any trouble before the breakup. And so, I think I was able to see the psychological impact with great clarity.
Nothing applies to all families in America.
But so far, every one of my findings has held up with large studies, and that's a record of 30 years. Well, there are a lot of myths I think are unfortunate. Many parents are told that if you're unhappy, the child is unhappy. A child is not a mirror of a parent. So my first message is, don't jump, stand still.