Those interested in you. People that you probably can't fail with. After you have succeeded with these, you can then move on with that harvest to others, as your confidence grows and grows. All the time, working and concentrating on the growing of the new you. You can add to their life and growth, too.
People only grow through interaction with other people.
As you help make a today a little better for others, you grow, and each day becomes better. Give up on trying to change the world and the way it treats you.