Many people grumble about obligations as unpleasant aggravations. But fulfilling obligations helps actualize your potential and is the basis of self esteem. Human beings are pleasure-seekers.
Most people seek pleasure in careers, cars, big homes.
In our generation, many people grumble about obligations as unpleasant aggravations. Perhaps that's why many today wait so long to get married. This is a superficial attitude. You can actually become energized by the idea of obligations. That's intrinsic to who you are.