A date who's sitting up is being attentive. Try not to jump to conclusions. Men should remember that children's needs can distract a woman. Make sure you've arranged for the children to be fed, bathed and entertained before embarking on a romantic evening at home Men should remember that children's needs can distract a woman. How we interact with the world around us makes the difference between having an effortless life or one with continual struggles.
Relationships strongly depend on trust - complete, absolute and reciprocal trust.
They also rely on openness, honesty, love and caring. Do not back your partner into a corner by giving ultimatums or by making threats. It will eventually backfire. Intimacy can only be experienced in the present moment. Find the time, make the time, take the time to be intimate with one another.