No man sets out to succumb to temptation on purpose. Yet every day we learn of men, Christian men, who fail. Unless a man remains perpetually vigilant, his own evil desires carry him into temptation and sin. The Bible gives no similar instructions to wives because wives are naturally drawn to an intimate love relationship. For men it must be learned.
Men become sexually stimulated visually.
When a man looks and lusts, that does not mean he no longer loves his wife. He is engaged in temptation - physical and spiritual. We live in a sexually over-stimulated culture in which many men are drained of the spiritual energy needed to expose temptation and the moral Taken from What Husbands Wish Their Wives Knew About Men by Patrick M. Morley. The best way to resist sexual temptation is to flee from it. You can have only one god.