I am 19 and I am still a virgin. But I am not quite sure what to do. I mean he hasn't even tried anything before, so I don't know what to do. I think it is neat that you are 19 and still a virgin. Studies have shown that many of the teens who say that they have had sex are lying, in order to appear cool to their peers.
Most teens seem pretty nervous talking about sex.
Sex does not lead to closeness, intimacy or feeling like a woman. It takes time for a good sexual relationship to get established. It doesn't just happen the first time, or even the first year. It does dilute what you then have to give to the man who will someday become your husband. So you can see, my opinion on sex is that it is great in a committed relationship, but you would be paying too great a price for a little fun now.