All relationships have ups and downs, but the key to a fulfilling one is to keep striving for something better as a couple and to not look for something better away from home. Many relationships are worth salvaging and there is no doubt that it requires two people wanting to make things work. Most of our visitors feel that lifelong great sex in a monogamous relationship is possible. But nobody can claim that such happiness is easy. A happy relationship that includes an active and satisfying sex life takes a lot of hard work, open communication, and dedication.
Relationships become more complex as time progresses.
And good sex dips and bobs in the vast sea of the relationship experience. Even in the 'ho hum stages', there are episodes of a few exciting days. Sexual passion and satisfaction can be seen as a metaphor for relationships and life. There are ups and downs, valleys and mountains, whirling eddies, high tides and low tides. Things change, mature, age, ripen, and develop.