The twin of fairness is justice. In order to realize fair decisions one must commit to procedural fairness, which requires fair notice, impartiality, a gathering of the facts and a fair hearing. The sixth virtue is citizenship and pertains to fulfilling one's civic duties, doing one's share, playing by the rules, respecting authority and the law, attempting to pursue civic virtues - demonstrating conduct that is desirable and praiseworthy but not morally mandated. Striving to express these qualities gives us an emotional as well as rational underpinning and sets the stage for sturdy character development, self-reliance and self esteem. It embraces a code of civility and urges the individual to reach beyond himself.
Nothing is as contagious as example.
Those who teach the pillars must subscribe to the principles they advocate. Adults can lay a foundation for character development in children by teaching them right from wrong, by demonstrating that their success and happiness will depend on who they are inside. By strengthening awareness of moral obligations and emphasizing the moral significance of choices, by improving the ability of the child to anticipate potential consequences, adults can encourage children to live up to the six pillars. Adults who are in a position to influence character development should hold themselves to the highest standards of character and use teaching moments to illustrate good character. The six pillars of character are enduring.