It's tempting to compare your child's capabilities with those of other children the same age. But remember, children differ markedly in their rate of development. We need to help them feel successful in whatever they can do well, rather than push them into tasks they're not ready for. Let them try to solve problems on their own, when possible. It's natural for children to feel inferior to adults who seem to do everything well.
Parents can see that children have many opportunities to do well also.
In everything you say and do, help your child have a good self-image. Show that you love and support your child regardless of his or her behavior. Young children lack our experience about right and wrong behavior, and they're bound to make many mistakes. We can show them their mistakes without humiliating them. Since children are so dependent on us, they are usually eager to please.