The main reason I almost didn't graduate was that I missed gym class. Joking aside, equestrian competitions and school work proved to be a tough assignment, and Lende-O'Connor gratefully acknowledges the support she received from her parents, trainers, and certain teachers. Equestrian training was particularly hard because it occurred outside of school's auspices, which made it difficult for some people to understand her training schedule and support her commitment. She credits her parents with fostering her interests and talents, even when she practiced her jumps over the picnic table. Joanne and Phil Lende have since moved to New Hampshire, but they are now preparing to move to Virginia to be closer to Karen.
Parental pride goes without saying.
The Olympic medal, says Joanne Lende, is a symbol of more than one competition. It represents years and years of hard work and disappointments and achievements. It's very exciting, too. The Lendes were in the stands at Atlanta cheering Karen on, remembering the dedication it took to get there. She recalls a talented, determined, and above all else, nice young woman.