If you cannot keep an appointment, call in advance and immediately suggest a substitute time. When you and your relative are planning your visiting times together, look over your schedule carefully and realistically. Decide how much time you can spend each day, week, or month. Realistic planning avoids disappointment for the resident and feelings of guilt or anger for you. Anyone who is important to the nursing home resident should visit regularly.
Most nursing homes have minimal restrictions.
This is not a hospital setting and children should be welcome. Young children rarely react negatively to older or sick individuals. On the other hand, teenagers and older children may need some time to adjust. If you cannot provide such support, a staff member may be more than willing to support a young adult during the first few visits. The resident is usually the best teacher of all, often putting everyone at ease with a humorous comment.