We all need brothers to whom we can say anything, and still feel safe. The third foundation is confidentiality. In other words, what is discussed in the group stays in the group. Many of our wives can handle self-disclosure in a heartbeat, but it is harder for men. That is why we express our need for confidentiality, take the risk and experience the growth in our male friendships as we honor each other.
Risk builds relationship.
Relationship builds trust. Trust strengthens character. A fourth foundation is to be uplifting. It may be something as simple as giving him a high-five and letting him know you are on his team, that you believe in him. Remind him that you will stick with him in his effort to be a godly husband and father.