Your mouth is a mere receptacle to his penis thrusts. Your mouth is active . . . Take in as much of his penis at one time as possible. In this position, the couple spoons together. This position can be very intimate.
Many people report that it is natural feeling to hug the other person and feel protected.
In fact, some people find this position so relaxing that after intercourse, they fall asleep in this position. When the woman is in front, to make her vagina easily accessible for penetration should tilt her pelvis back and stomach forward. This, position is like the doggie-styled position, except that both people are lying down. I am a 29 year old, lesbian, African-American woman who was diagnosed with depression in 1989. At the time, I refused medication.