Imagine your reaction if the sauce is too salty, the vegetables watery, etc. The excellent chef must deliver two things an attractive presentation of food and quality taste of the food. The Attraction Phase. The attraction phase of charisma includes the outer personality. Examples of personality may include the bubbly personality or a cynical personality or a moody personality or a bland personality or a shy personality and the list goes on.
Psychologists consider personality to be the totality of one s thoughts and behaviors.
Everything we do and think is part of our personality. Think of personality in two ways inner and outer. The outer personality is what teachers let their students see. Their inner personality may be bland, but they don t have to let anybody in on the secret. Their outer personality tells others everything they need to know.