When I'm sick, I just don't have the urge to be intimate with him and he gets so angry. He is being so cold and distant. I still cook, clean house, and work when I'm sick. I just don't have enough energy left to be romantic. He isn't even talking to me today.
Nobody feels particularly romantic with snot dribbling out of their nose.
If he ain't there for you now, he sure as hell isn't going to be when your actually married. The whole concept of a cold is that your tired and have no energy. Getting it on is the LAST thing on your mind. If he's so keen to release his urges, tell him to go have a tug of war with Cyclops in the fucking can. Promise him when your better, you'll be revving to go.