You pickiness keeps you alone. It stops you from having to be in a relationship and let's you be right - that there's something wrong with you, that there are no more great men left, and that you'll never find Mr. Right. So here's the challenge. I am horribly upset and am trying to make sense of it all. I am trying to figure out whether his feelings had changed or the discussion the night before had pushed him over the edge.
Real men stay and talk things out.
Those with no cojones write letters and run away. Someone who would never be there for you when the going gets rough. This guy really gave you a gift by walking out. The gift was the opportunity to value yourself enough to start making better choices in men, and to stop trying to fix relationships that aren't worth fixing. He says I don't turn him on anymore, but that I am still sexy and the sex is good.