Plan ahead One mistake that parents make is to expect children to behave in socially acceptable ways on special occasions without preparing them. Plan ahead for social events, explaining what will happen, the behavior that's required, the proper words to use. Be as specific as possible. If your child forgets his manners during the excitement of the event, subtle reminders or step in and model the words and behavior you are trying to teach. Children learn what they live The best way to teach manners is to make them part of your everyday home routines.
Parents often say they are embarrassed by their children s table manners when dining out.
Practice makes perfect, and families can avoid this common complaint by eating together regularly, making it a relaxed, pleasant time of the day. Set an attractive table. Include the children in your conversation. Turn off the TV, telephone and other distractions. Expect good table manners but don t dwell so much on manners that the meal becomes unpleasant.