My teenage daughter Kristina found your website awhile back, just to see if there was a Leidecker website. Please accept our sincere condolences. I've always known, without a shadow of a doubt, that they love me. Trust me, your mom knew that as well. Don't fret over things you said or didn't say nor things you did or didn't do.
Moms are that way.
May God bless you and your family. She'd be so very proud of your wonderful, inspiring words. I can only hope that my children would have been as compassionate and thoughtful as you have been. I'm going to make sure that they read your tribute. Please accept my sympathies.