I have my own opinions. I value their opinions and feel free to discuss mine. If I want to get them to believe my opinions, I make a good case for my beliefs but am not disappointed if they continue to hold their own values on a subject. Important Politicians are masters at this skill. If people felt wanted and appreciated, we would have fewer interpersonal problems.
Politicians make people feel good and say what people want to hear.
I am not saying that we should go around saying what people want to hear, but if you want to get their attention, you do need to be at least positive. A kind word goes a long way since kind words are not frequently spoken in this day and age. American Value Systems People put their money where their values are. This is nothing new. Please keep in mind that when educational programs are not funded and education, in general, is not supported, many people do have money for sports events and their own entertainment.