You start fantasizing about other people. You may take it further and actually have an affair. Or you might just up and leave. Without effort, however, monogamy can slide toward the pits. If you're drifting into the sexual doldrums, Cox has a prescription.
Relationships go through phases.
The excitement of the new spins after three to six months into the ho-hum of life as usual. We become bored because we ignore our need for variety, making love the same two or three ways every time. Monogamous sex doesn't have to be boring at all. But it does mean hard work and actively fighting the rut. Copyright 1999-2001 MyPrimeTime, All Rights Reserved.