He is in the military and we are stationed overseas. He refuses to even consider counselling or therapy, and says that he fell out of love with me over 6 months ago. Although we have no children, I am having a very hard time dealing with all of this, as I thought we could work out any problems that we may have had. I am scheduled to fly home two weeks from today, and we have divided our assets ourselves, as we really don't have much.
Most states require marital counselling if one party believes that the marriage can be reconciled.
You simply have to state as much to the judge and ask the court to order counseling. You can even have them order a christian counselor I am trying to save my own marriage through counseling and my husband refuses to go. He is filing for divorce in Maine and the state will not continue with the proceedings until we do go to counseling because I believe the marriage can be saved. Don't let people tell you to let him go if you don't believe it's right. The two of you made promises to each other and to the lord and its your responsibility to do everything you can to keep those promises.