Janie's mother found that once she became willing to explain to strangers that her child has autism, people were more accepting. We have a right to be here. Many parents feel deeply disappointed that their child may never engage in normal activities or attain some of life's milestones. Parents may mourn that their child may never learn to play baseball, drive, get a diploma, marry, or have children. However, most parents come to accept these feelings and focus on helping their children achieve what they can.
Parents begin to find joy and pleasure in their child despite the limitations.
Many parents find that others who face the same concerns are their strongest allies. Parents of children with autism tend to form communities of mutual caring and support. Parents gain not only encouragement and inspiration from other families' stories, but also practical advice, information on the latest research, and referrals to community services and qualified professionals. By talking with other people who have similar experiences, families dealing with autism learn they are not alone. The Autism Society of America, listed at the close of this pamphlet, has spawned parent support groups in communities across the country.