Like professional counselors advise good communication for great sex, I advise full financial disclosure for lasting marriages. They stimulate communication and compromise. Money is a big bugaboo. People don't like to talk about it. Once you start to talk about money, it opens the door to honest and open discussions in other sensitive areas and strengthens the emotional bond.
People think prenups cause divorce.
That's as silly as saying health insurance makes you sick. A prenup increases the chances of an everlasting marriage because you've already done a lot of the hard work. There are certain facts people who are getting married ought to know. Even if it's a turnoff, it's better to find out before rather than afterwards. When two people enter into a marriage, they are already looking out for one another's best interests.