Some others find that the young adults they have as members are not heavily involved in congregational life. Churches which are successfully reaching young adults often check 13 or more of these items. Our church has young adults on the board, council, or other primary administrative body of the church, so that we remain sensitive to young adult issues. Our church offers child care at any events at which we hope for young adult participation. People in our church accept the fact that many young adults may only attend two or three times a month and don't make them feel guilty for not coming every Sunday.
People are welcome to dress informally for worship, and that is modeled by ushers and greeters.
If a single parent comes to our church, that person can go through an entire morning without being asked where his or her spouse is. Our church can make decisions quickly and doesn't frustrate people with slowness to change. Our church has a caregiver system so that there is quick follow-up when persons who have been regular in attendance stop coming. Our worship services are child-friendly. Our church programming doesn't constantly assume that everyone who might participate is married or part of a family.