Read the story of Tom and Beth Rutherford. They recently appeared on Tom Snyder show. He is a pastor who was fired by his church due to his daughter being led by church counselor to confabulate false memories of abuse. Beth's sisters are now suing the counselor and the preacher of the church involved which refused to admit they had done wrong.
Nobody ever wants to admit they've done wrong.
This requires humbling oneself instead of maintaining the attitude that they can do it all themselves.