A sk for a specific time to work on one decision. Some families have regular family meetings which can be a good choice. Others set aside time when needed, like making an appointment. G ive and get suggestions from everyone directly involved in what the decision can be. At this point, you are interested in having lots of choices, and not in criticizing the ones that might not work.
R eview the possibilities and make a choice.
Many times there are several options that will work, but they can't all occur at the same time. E nergize the decision. Make the necessary plans, and take the steps to act on the decision when it's time. E nd the decision-making session. Review everyone's understanding of the decision, when, where and how it will happen.