But I think we do care, we want to do right. We don't want to walk around feeling guilty about how we could have done better. But many of us do. Often I walk around unconcious to what I could be doing or should be doing. Sometimes I'm even aware when those moments happen, but I stand there frozen not willing to make a move.
Relationships take time and energy to be successful.
I've never been a fan of compromise when it means you have to give up something that is of great importance in your life. But I'm slowly coming around to the idea that in a relationship, compromise is necessary, as long as there's a balance of it. I know a lot of you out there are wondering why it took me so long to realize this, so I want to make something clear. I'm not ignorant to the idea of compromise. And with small things like watching a sappy movie that she wants to see or giving up some of your time you normally spend playing video games - so you can give some attention to her, is no problem.