We are a group of mothers who do not have custody of our children.
Mothers become non-custodial for a number of reasons.
Some of us have had our children torn from us by an unjust court system. It seems to boil down to, not who is the better parent, but who has the better lawyer. Other non-custodial mothers have given up their children voluntarily, feeling that this is best for the children in that family's particular situation. Mothers without custody have a difficult time being accepted. The implication is that only unfit mothers are non-custodial.