Once, when she was ill for two days, he asked me to call her at home and at the same time called her himself to check if she was okay. This would be a nice thing to do, if he were a boss who cares about his employees. I know it sounds as though I am jealous. I might be. Dear Ordinary, There is nothing you can do about your boss's attraction to another employee.
Offices are microcosms of the rest of the world.
And, like it or not, good-looking people tend to be noticed and catered to by the opposite sex more than others. This is not to say that there is nothing you can do to alleviate your problem, however. On the contrary, you have many options here. But in order to exercise them, you have to separate your distress into different categories, and deal with each separately. The only way to deal with it is to remind yourself regularly that you are special for the qualities that make you so, including the way you look.