So we need to keep talking with them. TV or pictures and headlines in newspapers and magazines can also help us start a conversation. Sexual fantasies about family members of both genders are common, too. Kids may find these thoughts upsetting. We must reassure them that just dreaming or thinking about things doesn't make them happen.
Most kids touch their sex organs for pleasure.
Masturbation is very common during this time. We must reassure kids that it is normal to masturbate, but only in private. Boys worry about their penis size. Girls worry about their breast size. We must reassure our children that no two people are the same and that it is normal to be different.