If you give your power away through either anger or blame, you not only lessen yourself, but increase your risk of being attacked. Back to main page. This site is not pro self-defense, nor is it pacifistic. Both options work. Recognize, however, that in order to ensure your safety you must make a clear choice as to one path or the other.
Many people have reservations about using violence to protect themselves.
Others have no such qualms and will do what is necessary to defend themselves. In doing so however, they must act responsibly and to a higher standard. There is no right or wrong answer to this question. However, the decision to use force or not must be clearly made with full understanding of what is involved . You must choose to walk on one side of the road or the other.