Rape and abuse destoy a woman's ability to trust and function in society. For a man to have that ability over another human being - it's all about power. As for women feeling safe, there's a long way to go for that to happen. I am not paranoid, just realistic. Do what you can to avoid going to to grocery store alone at night.
Rape is Power.
Protection and Responsibility is Power. Be Responsible to Yourself. Rape is a horrible thing, I personally know. That doesn't give anyone who has had it happen to them the right to use it as an excuse. I think that instead of worrying about being raped, women should do something about educating.