No matter how much we invest other things, we cannot find genuine happiness in relationships. Instead of telling the truth about ourselves and finding unconditional love, we try to buy our relationships with money, power, great hair, attractive bodies, sex, and so on. We invest a lot, and we never find happiness that lasts. When we start investing the truth and unconditional love in relationships, it becomes possible to reap incredible returns. If the risk of telling the truth is too high, perhaps it's not worth doing.
Most people lie to each other constantly.
That started in childhood and has continued throughout our lives. We hide those things. The problem with that is that when we don't tell the truth, we withhold the one ingredient that MUST be invested in a loving relationship. It's the ultimate irony that we lie to keep from being unloved, but lying then ensures that we won't be loved. Let's suppose that you make the decision to invest the right thing in relationships, no matter what the risk.