And more women refuse to silently endure years of frustrating and non-intimate sex the way their mothers did. In the narrowest sense, male sexual difficulties involve getting or keeping an erection, ejaculating too rapidly, or difficulty reaching orgasm. Uneven sexual desire and dissimilar preferences in sexual style are normal and inevitable in long-term relationships. It is how you handle these that makes the difference. Do not confuse the average guy with the Energizer Bunny.
Many men have low sexual desire, too.
Just like women, lots of men know what it is like to feel pressured by their spouse's larger sexual appetite. Men's sexual difficulties usually decrease intimacy, too. When either partner has frequent dysfunction or low desire, both partners eventually retreat during sex into separate mental worlds of worry and frustration. Sexual Difficulties Are Normal. You do not need sexual dysfunctions to fall into this, either.