Or maybe I'm in denial. I think, therefore I am. I could be a computer program, designed to spit random entries out at random intervals. Online, I profess to be an anti-social no body. Yet, when the groups were breaking up for the night, Dr. Scott's wife, Amy, wondered if I was going to the bar with them.
Nothing is as it seams.
The problem is that people are complex, by nature. You cannot look at someone, talk to someone for a few hours, or even live with someone for a few months and know every single facet of their personality. I'd been talking to him online for a year before I came out here. Sure, there are people like the guy I work with named Nick who blatantly show off one part of their personality, one minor part of their internal mechanism that makes them uniquely them. Nick is gay, and quite flamboyantly so.