Once you've achieved some degree of inner peace, help others do the same. The same way you went through the steps to recognize the mechanics of the inner conflict, take others down the same road. Look at your friend's potential and arouse him to greatness. Be ambitious for him. Aim at making him big.
Many people are so used to inner conflict that they've accepted it as status quo.
People often don't know what they really want from life. And if they don't know what's worth pursuing, they lose the motivation to try. Teach people to have goals, and teach them to figure what goals are worthwhile. If you inspire others, that will give you a different dimension in the power of wisdom. Because by working objectively to help make others powerful, we master it for ourselves, too.