When we work together as a trans-denominational community, one of the things we are implicitly saying is that we cannot judge another's path through the mitzvot. I cannot know just by looking what your special mitzvah is. Shalom, peace, and shalem, completeness, are connected linguistically and philosophically. Following the Way of YHVH means to let go the notion of separateness and embrace the Reality of Unity. Friends can quarrel and still be friends.
Neighbors can challenge each other and still remain good neighbors.
There is room in the Way for individuality and honest disagreement. There is no room for separation, disrespect and war. To me, this is the heart of what makes JCDS unique. We should do the right thing, but not simply because it is recorded in the book. Rather, we do it as a way of coming close to, and remaining aware of, the presence of God in the world and in our lives.