The Spirit makes us conscious of our frailness, our human fallibility, our need to listen and learn. It is so easy when you feel you have a message from the Lord to become presumptuous and cocky and lose the meekness and gentleness of a learner. But those whose burden is from the Spirit will be slow to speak, quick to listen and learn and grow. They will remember that the difference between what they know and what they should know is much greater than the difference by which their knowledge surpasses that of others. Second, there does come a point, however, when the Spirit-driven man gets angry.
Most human anger is bad.
Most of it arises from proud self-asserting hearts which feel like their rights have been denied. And most of it aims at revenge. If we have been put down we will make sure they get their comeuppance. But there is a rare holy anger that comes from and aims at the righteousness of God. The man or woman who is filled with the Spirit will be humble and gentle and slow to speak.