And folks keep the peace by not bringing them up anymore. In human relationships, nations, congregations and their people frequently settle for a cessation of hostitilities . . . and think they have achieved peace. The decision to back away from conflict is a noble choice, and often involves sacrifice in one form or another. But such a decision ought not be confused with peace and reconciliation. Reconciliation cannot take place superficially, because that is contrary to its nature.
Reconciliation is an event of the heart, a phenomenon of the soul.
Thus reconciliation describes the state of relationships between people. And in such an environment, differences can be faced honestly and conflicts can be resolved openly. When reconciliation takes place, no peace keepers are needed, and definitely not armed ones. We know that reconciliation among nations cannot happen except at the direct instigation of the Prince of Peace. The same is true of reconciliation among individuals.