I love him and I want to tell him, but I don't feel the time is right. I'm very sad and confused about the whole situation. Trying to Move On Dear Trying to Move On, I know that you are going through a very difficult time and what I'm about to tell you may seem really harsh, but the fact of the matter is that the relationship is over because he's moved on. So there's nothing left to tell him. If he wanted to be with you, he wouldn't let his fear get in the way.
Men are goal oriented and programmed to go after their goals.
When a man is clear about his goal, almost nothing stands in his way from going after it and achieving it. Don't think that your telling him that you love him will change his mind and get rid of his fear. He's just not ready for prime time or the majors. I'm a little confused though. In any case, you need to start healing so you can move on.