Try to figure out what it is about wine and roses that is so important, or why it still makes a difference if you open the door for her. Ask them some questions. Ask about their fears and their hopes, or why and how women are so very important to them. Then try to write something from a more male point of view. Now we are stereotyping here, but remember that all stereotypes aren't true and you can see this easily if you take the stereotype to the extreme.
Nobody is all male or all female.
Think about that for a few minutes. The stereotypical all male is strong and certain, able to fight and build, farm and protect, but lacking the female qualities of nurturing and sensitivity. A John Wayne image of a man who is more comfortable with his horse than a woman, a man who could never write a song worth singing. Both of these stereotypes are completely wrong, I don't think there is a man or woman on earth who fits them completely. All men have feminine qualities and all women have masculine qualities and the proportions vary in each of us.