If everyone orders a salad and you want a cheeseburger, eat one. If you don't like the band that your friends are going to see, stay home. Better yet, go do something you enjoy doing. And, finally, buy the clothes you are comfortable wearing. It's all very logical and practical.
Most people are happier being around people who are comfortable in their own skin.
So, take a chance, find out who you are. Not only will you be happier, but chances are you will find people to hang out with whose interests match your own. Originally published in Vol. 91, Issue No. 6, September 30, 1999.