I suggested that the father take a different course. I think the little boy wanted his dad to talk with him, take a walk with him, play with him. I encouraged the dad to go right to his son when he got home from work and initiate some activity. Normally, an infant cries because of tiredness, hunger, or some other discomfort. When we respond promptly and sensitively to their needs, children are less likely to have tantrums.
Parents can also help their children by setting reasonable limits.
We have the right to a peaceful dinner. If you need some time for crying, you are welcome to use your bedroom. We hope you will soon be ready to rejoin us. The objective is not to punish the child but to give him or her a chance to deal with feelings while, at the same time, respecting the needs of the family. If a child frequently has problems with whining at dinner time, maybe the child needs an afternoon snack or a nap or some engaging activity.