With so many people, so many professing Christians, and so many among our own acquaintances involved in divorce, there is tremendous pressure to conform to popular thinking about this issue. To follow what Jesus taught means taking a very unpopular position. It means exposure to pressure, misunderstanding, accusation, and ridicule. The bottom line for what is right or wrong, however, is not what others are doing, but what God has said. God has said clearly that divorce is wrong.
People justify divorce today by reasoning that they are victims.
I had no other choice. To be sympathetic and understanding here, we must recognize that marriage problems can be very complex and extremely painful. There are no easy answers to these problems. When marriage problems multiply, divorce often looks like the only way out, like an answer that normally wouldn't be considered but has to be under the circumstances. Hard as this may sound, such thinking is the reasoning of the flesh.