Depending on the situation, safe places might be police stations, homes of family or friends unknown to the stalker, domestic violence shelters or public areas that may discourage the stalker from creating a disturbance. Get the police involved if you feel threatened or unsafe. Some stalking victims don t like to be called victims. When a person is stalked, their life has changed - forever. Not accepting that may actually be helping the stalker.
Many people are reluctant to call the police due to feelings of guilt or fear of looking foolish.
Don t be one of them. Stalkers don t stop stalking because someone is nice. The police would rather take the time to investigate a possible stalker than a murder. Have a witness with you if possible. Tell the stalker in no uncertain terms and don t waste your energy trying to be polite.