As you settle into your relationship, it's pretty common for the initial flames of passion to die down a bit. Dear Desperate, If you are pretty convinced that you do not love him anymore, then you need to think about leaving and consider the pros and cons. If you are unsure, you need to figure it out as well. This way, you can identify the plus and minus side more easily. Think about what you want for, and from, your life.
People make all kinds of decisions in their lives.
Sometimes it has more to do with one's self than it has to do with the other person. Alice knows a woman who was about to leave her boyfriend. This is not a dress rehearsal. Live it the way you want, and with whom, even if the company you keep is your own.