But my contacts have not been limited to the therapeutic setting. I've also met others in a general context, here in the Netherlands, and in the U. S., and I've read some of the literature. Let me give you another example. The paedophile literature keeps talking about relationships. It's a peculiarly bloodless, essentially Latin word that may have a lot of intellectual or cognitive content, but has little emotion.
Paedophiles can make the assertion that the pursuit of intimacy and love is what they choose.
Of course, I'm not privy to God's will. I do believe it is God's will that we have freedom. I believe that God's will is that we have absolute freedom. No conditions, no contingencies. All things are lawful for me.