Most decorating shows offer suggestions for choosing paint to go with white trim.
All of the trim in our home is wood - specifically old looking pine. I'm not clear if you're looking to just paint the walls or the trim too. We have golden oak trim in our great room with a creamy off-white paint on the walls. So basically, it depends on the color the wood trim is stained. Bring lots of paint samples home and stick them up next to the trim.