It's perfectly reasonable, and ethical, to look out for the interests of our children, parents and spouses even if we have to subordinate our obligations to other children, neighbors, or co-workers in doing so. Their goal is to secure and maintain the trust of the public, to whom they owe their ultimate loyalty. The way one shows respect varies, but its essence is the display of regard for the worth of people, including oneself. The reason is not because these undeserving souls are human beings, but because we are. We have a responsibility to be the best we can be in all situations, even when dealing with the heinous.
Respect focuses on the moral obligation to honor the essential worth and dignity of the individual.
Respect prohibits violence, humiliation, manipulation, and exploitation. It reflects notions such as civility , courtesy , dignity , autonomy , tolerance and acceptance . Nevertheless, the respectful person treats others with consideration, conforming to accepted notions of taste and propriety, and doesn't resort to intimidation, coercion or violence except in extraordinary and limited situations to teach discipline, maintain order or achieve social justice. Punishment is used in moderation and only to advance important social goals and purposes. An ethical person exercises personal, official and managerial authority in a way that provides others with the information they need to make informed decisions about their own lives.