Flashbulbs, the rice raining down on you. Someone is crying. The ushers are laughing. The bridesmaids are dancing. Till death do us part.
Most people have the dream of falling in love, getting married and living happily ever after.
You block out of your mind that maybe you'd like to go to law school in the fall. The time bomb for crisis is set early, often as soon as two people meet. Like a homing pigeon, you marry the very qualities you don't think you have but want to acquire. Nature leads us to fall in love. It is here, in the twilight zone of your emotions, that you make the psychological contract of wedlock.