They soon become able to lead others outside the group, and maybe even outside the congregation, to the hope they have within them. The discovery of spiritual gifts comes as you share your life with other Christians. They begin to see your strengths and where God might be working in your life and can show you what they see. Us having spiritual gifts is sometimes hard for us to believe, but for a Christian, the Bible is quite clear about one spiritual gift you already have. And you will receive the gift of the Holy Spirit.
Prayer is an integral part of the small group.
Prayer in a small group helps build this love for God and for others. Prayer at the start asks God to be present during the meeting, to give understanding and direction. Prayer at the end thanks God for all that went on. Also, one way to develop love for one another is to pray for one another. The small group comes together in prayer for members who are in need.