Until about age 6, children are unable to understand death s finality. Children of all ages, though, can grieve and feel sadness. Parents should invite grieving children to attend the funeral of their loved one, but it shouldn t be forced. Visiting the cemetery at a later date or saying a special prayer for the deceased are other ways a child can say good-bye. It s important to speak honestly with children about death.
Parents can offer simple facts about what happened.
They can explain that death is normal and final and acknowledge that it s hard to lose someone you love. They also should spend time with the children and be available to listen to them. Children often experience many emotions when grieving. Parents can tell them they understand the wish to bring back their loved one. Some children blame themselves when there is a death.