Society is enamored with love, but shallow. Much sentimentality, hormones. B. Don't allow your heart to rule your head. Then do something about it. Love of deep insight.
Real love starts out shallow, grows deeper.
We've all seen kids who were spoiled. They are afraid their love will be doubted if they don't give their brats everything. The kids end up with no values. They can't tell the difference between what they want and what they need. The love of parents must be according to knowledge and insight.