Alice is glad you asked about a group. If you find a social, political, or community service organization where you feel committed to the issues, you will be more likely to meet others who feel the way you do. You can build on this and cultivate quality relationships. Also read everything you can about sexuality , since when you finally do choose to devirginize, you will be prepared with knowledge for how to be a good lover not only to yourself, but to your partner as well. In the meantime, rethink your ideas about masturbation.
Masturbation is real sex.
What it isn't, at this point, is partner sex. Masturbation can relieve the tension of sexual energy, and even loneliness, temporarily. Clearly, you can still masturbate as you go on your search for a larger social network, and, ultimately, a partner with whom to share your feelings, activities, closeness, joy, humor, and sexuality as well. Finally, many people masturbate even when they have a partner. It is a part of their sexuality, not a partner replacement.