A. Sometimes, someplaces, yes, they were. Each culture has its own attitudes concerning homosexuality. Try finding out what your persona's attitudes would have been. No one should assume anything because a somebody is or is not wearing a blue feather. If you want to know why a person is wearing one, ask them politely.
Most gay people go through the same approach and courtship rituals that straight people do.
If you don't respond to the initial overtures, they'll probably assume that you aren't interested. End of problem. Alexandros Pantellios has submitted a very detailed charter to the East Kingdom for the creation of the Guild of the Blue Feather, to function as a research and social support group. This Guild will be empowered to poll its members and to present awards to society members for outstanding efforts in research, service, martial prowess before the crown. The Guild of the Blue Feather is primarily a research arm of the Clan.