Pressure changes often cause ear pain for small children, especially during takeoff and landing. Often the steady drone of the engines puts young children to sleep, so be sure to dress the kids in soft, loose clothing and bring along a special blanket, teddy bear or small pillow. Telling your son in advance what to expect, then describing each step as it happens, may head off problems. Ask your librarian to suggest a book about airplanes to help him get into the fun of it. When you board the plane, perhaps the flight attendant will let him meet the pilot and look into the cockpit.
Most airlines have pilot's wings to pin on young travelers.
For both children, bring a bag of small surprises to bring out one at a time over the course of the trip. Things to include are nonsticky finger foods, beverages, paper and crayons, small toys and books. Although planes don't allow for a great deal of movement, feel free to take your kids for a walk up and down the aisle as long as the seat belt sign is off and no food or beverage service is underway. Many have been in your shoes and will understand how difficult it is for young children to sit quietly for long periods of time. See other topics in the Archive .