Beware that the majority of students believing they fit into this category, in our judgment do not, and their posts are deleted without ceremony. So, you may just want to move along now and not waste your time. Communicates an urgency, even desperation, for answers. Unwillingness to offer own opinions. Asks to be answered in e-mail.
Query sounds like an essay question.
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