According to Christian morality, this makes you a more immoral person than someone who spontaneously yields in a moment of sexual passion and thus does not take precautions, because they never really planned to have sex. Demanding that a new partner either uses a condom or does not touch you requires tremendous resolve for people of all ages. Saying 'no' may mean the immediate end to the budding relationship that you avidly sought. Still the fear of AIDS and pregnancy could be dismissed if most people actually began to practice safe sex or abstained from having sex with recalcitrant partners. The question of personal alienation raises a much larger objection to random sex at Beltane.
Many people are deeply unhappy today, because they are alone.
The reason they are alone is that they have systematically destroyed all potentially meaningful relationships with family, friends, and partners. If you use others only to satisfy your desires, i.e. treat them like a bottle of wine to be consumed and discarded, your lovers and friends will respond in kind toward you. If you are in a relationship and that relationship has any meaning for you, remember that the quickest way to turn your current partner into an ex-partner is to ignore their feelings, while you are lustily satiating your own desires with someone else. Multiple sexual relationships can easily turn into no relationships with anyone as the hurt partners leave you and look for someone better. In summary, remember to look before you leap at Beltane.