It is sometimes hard to leave family and friends under the best of circumstances, and it is even harder when serious illness occurs. Powerful feelings accompany this situation. Students may feel much fear and anxiety over the loss of communication that occurs when they move away from home. Getting news of a family member's condition is different from being there to see for yourself. Sadness and rage can well up at the uncontrollable losses of serious illness.
Many students find it hard to know whom to tell, and when, and how much, about the stress at home.
Many students are helped by being able to talk a lot about the home situation, but many who have not been through such a thing find it awkward to listen. Things may be going along well for a while, then news comes about the family member that is frightening or discouraging. It's important to remember that there are people on campus who have had the experience of illness in the family, and some would welcome the opportunity to connect with others on this experience. The Health Center, with both medical and counseling personnel, is a resource for information, general support, and counseling for the stress a student may be experiencing. Chaplains are a good resource as well.