He learns at an early age that boys will be boys. Girls are warned not to talk with strangers. Boys learn that sometimes they just can't control themselves. Society tells her to take responsibility for her own protection to prevent rape. He learns it's just a game.
Rape is a violent, vicious crime.
It is a crime of power, control and domination. It is not a crime of sex. But then again, this refers to a specific type of rape. Yes, there are many shades and all situations differ. In this type I am talking about just some woman and a man that she has never met.