Every country in the European Union except Turkey allows gays in the military, and with none of the disastrous effects that Americans have predicted. If disaster would strike in our military but not theirs, we are doing something wrong. I was in the military for 5 years. I can tell you the rights that you have. Sodomy, anal sex, oral sex, etc are all illeagal and actually punishable by imprisonment.
Rape is punishable by death.
Other than that, take normal American rights, and cut them in half. You don't have freedom of speech or press, you do have the right to plead the 5th and an attorney and to vote, but just remember the the military isn't a Democracy, they just protect one. Please help if you can. I once believed that those of us that are homosexuals in the military should keep our mouths shut about gay rights. However, I would like to voice my option about gays in the military.