But I don't want to accept that I am just another guy at the right place and time. Now I want her to love me and be with me because she loves me and thinks that I am the one for her and not because I happen to be there. What you're asking for is assurance that she really loves you. That seems to be a natural desire. There is no way you can know this for sure.
Relationships always carry the risk of failure.
If you love her and want to be with her, try to forget her past. Although, I'd suggest refraining from involvement until she has settled the annulment. No part of this website may be used on another's website, newsletter, ezine or other electronic or print publication without express permission of the author. Nora Penia is the sole owner of all content not attributed to others. All this material is copyrighted and any illegal use is against the law.