We have been broke up for 1 year or so. Do most women do this or is something wrong with me. I should of got out a long time ago. Please help me with a anwser to this. Dear Bothered, You're not alone.
Most people are upset when their ex's find someone new.
Even if you had broken up with a man your own age, you'd be upset when he found someone new. Because you imagine the new woman has found the man you always wanted him to be. You don't think that she'll have the same problems with him that you had. You think that now he'll be the sweet, considerate, wonderful, perfect guy you always knew was in there somewhere - and that the new woman in his life will get it all. Well, believe me, he'll be the same as he always was.