Rehearse what to do or say. If publicity efforts include an interview, rehearse potential questions and answers. Help the child brainstorm ideas about her interests, best qualities, biggest accomplishments, and desire for a family. If possible, make a practice tape and review it together, giving compliments and making suggestions. Let the child contribute.
Older children can help with descriptions.
If appropriate, ask the child to share the things a prospective family should know. Physically prepare the child. Help the child pick comfortable, clean clothes that make him feel confident. Make certain he is fed and rested, avoid scheduling the session during any favorite activities, and select a time when medications are most effective. Accompany the child to the session or event.