I like the idea of hanging over the fence and chatting about the weather or the weeds or something. Small talk can be very comforting and soothing. . . . Small talk with each other validates that we exist, don't live on a deserted island and are all relatively similar. After all, we all sleep, eat, go to the bathroom . And if it's raining, it's raining on all of us at the same time.
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