The best way I know to do that is to play with horses on the ground through lateral longeing techniques. This is a way for you to understand horses and for them to understand you. In this book, I'll explain theories and techniques for exercising your horse on the ground as well as in the saddle. I've asked this everywhere I go. Nobody gets forced into liking horses.
People get into horses because they have a dream.
The dream starts off with them and their horses riding off into the sunset harmoniously. Then they get involved with horses and something happens. Eighty percent of people who get into horses get out in the first year. I estimate that 80 percent of the remaining 20 percent get out in the next 5. These fears are founded on three lies that have been told to all of us when we first got on a horse.