Maybe we commented on the developing nature of the breasts of that girl who happened to hit puberty before we did. Yet, these are the same people who might kill the rapist that robbed their little sister of her virginity at age twelve or date-raped their mother when she was young. It is true that there is no mark or insignia one receives after violating a woman. If there was, every one of us would be punishable for some act or another. My point is not to direct our consciousness to the obvious fact that men rape women.
Redundancy has no place in trying to actually fix the problem.
The same is true here. It is about your own inner integrity and self-worth. If each of us do not truly analyze, accept, and vow never to repeat acts of violation, these atrocities will occur ad infinitum. There should not be pleasure in sex that is not concensual but instead coerced or forced on anyone. If you are convinced that raping a girl is the only way to nirvana, you need to rethink your love and respect for yourself.