Look, you young people, if you want to steer away from trouble, be hard-boiled. Be quick with a good loud 'No' to anyone and everyone. If you follow this rule, you will seldom be bothered as you tread life's pathway. Love conquers selfishness. The two cannot co-exist.
Real love puts the happiness of the other first.
Couples who adopt the every man for himself approach end up feeling like married strangers. From now on, I'm looking out for my own needs. Words like these indicate a relationship or a marriage is in serious trouble. Love does not demand its own way. Love expresses appreciation.