So it's not surprising then, that the way to a more loving relationship is to be more loving ourselves. Interestingly, the principles that apply to relationship with a partner can be applied to all of our relationships, particularly those with our children. Children will trigger unhealed parts within us again and again. Sometimes, because we have raised them and think of them as ours, we may believe it is our right to try to change them, responding with anger and rejection when they refuse to be who we want them to be. The more we can respond to others with gentleness and compassion, the more real they will be with us.
Relationship implies two parts or sides.
Through loving consciousness, we can balance the two. The result is harmony.