Be understanding and non-judgmental. A lack of understanding and appreciation of cultural diversity can result in tutors becoming judgmental, thus foreclosing the opportunity to develop a trusting relationship. If your student comes from a different ethnic background, learn about the values and traditions of that culture. Be sensitive to socio-economic differences. There are, however, psychological effects of chronic poverty.
Poverty often prevents people from believing that their future holds any promise of getting better.
Try to remember what it was like to be your student's age. How did you respond to adults and authority figures. Keep in mind that you are the adult - you are the experienced one. It is your responsibility to take the initiative and make the student feel more comfortable in the relationship. Remember to be yourself.