We live in a highly superficial society and dating is very much affected by that. Learn to dance. Girls of all races love good dancers plus you will have a great time every time you out. I always have an awesome time when I go out. Finally, ask the girl you are interested out.
Most Asian guys are quite shy and they tend to wait way too long.
Girls want to go out too. This principle applies to girls of all races. Finally, if you meet an AF who is a banana or a girl who refuses to date AMs, don't dwell on that and think all females are like them. Make friends with other Asians who are in the same situation. It is easier to deal with problems when you are strong in numbers.