For example, try coming from gratitude rather than complaints. Criticism erodes love. Even if we don't like what's happening, we can accept it, we can change our perception and hold it to be perfect just the way it is. After all, we brought this challenge into our lives so we probably needed or wanted it. Trust is another important requirement.
Most people wait for proof of trustworthiness before bestowing trust.
That may be a good practice in business, but not so in love. An alternative is to extend trust, to find the place in the other that is already trustworthy, where we know there are loving intentions. Then trust that. Our commitment is to the relationship. For if a relationship has been conceived in love and dedicated to a higher purpose it will take on a form greater than its creators.