Motherhood and fatherhood are not interchangeable parts. A child does not need gender neutral parenting. A child needs a father who is a man. Of course, many men sorely need re-educating. They need to learn what a man is and what a father does.
Many men perceive their manhood in licentious, materialistic, even violent terms.
I am a man because I have sex with lots of women. Being a man means being a good father. When you father a child, you do so in the context of marriage. The unwed birth epidemic is cracking the foundations of the nation. The basic role of father is that of provider.