Men claim to be professionals who work out every day in the gym. And they universally claim that their wives don't understand them. Women, on the other hand, claim to be slim, sexy, and adventurous. The anonymity of the Internet allows them to divulge their wildest fantasies. In fact, their frank talk and flirtation pays great dividends in the number of men in a chat room who want to talk to them.
Online affairs develop because of the dual attraction of attention and anonymity.
A woman finds it exciting, even intoxicating, that all these men want to talk to her. Anonymity feeds this intoxication because the person on the other end of this cyberaffair is unknown. He or she can be as beautiful and intelligent as your dreams can imagine. The fantasy is fueled by the lack of information and the anonymity. No one in cyberland has bad breath, bald heads, obesity, or bad tempers.