Growing up, most of us are taught very little about dating. These are only guidelines for initial dates but trying them out can help you develop important skills that increase communication and give you time to look beyond physical attraction. They can also help you to delay sexual activity until you know your partner better and you feel emotionally ready to develop a deeper relationship. Be clear about the plans for your date.
Many initial dates occur between two people because of physical attraction.
However, problems often occur when you confuse physical attraction with compatibility, trust and love. It is suggested that the plans for initial dates be clear to help prevent confusion and the possibility of finding yourself in an awkward situation. It is a good idea if the first few dates take place at a public place and during the daytime. This helps to provide more safety and control for both individuals, as well as providing a more relaxed atmosphere. Meet for lunch or for a school-sporting event, for example.