Good news for Martha Stewart wannabes who find holiday planning more stressful than enjoyable. When it comes to the holidays, he says the best strategy is to plan the details ahead of time, start the work early and perhaps most important of all, get others involved. Perfectionists should structure their lives so there are not going to be a lot of minor hassles. Let someone else pick up the Christmas crackers this year. It's advice he recognizes may be difficult to follow.
Perfectionists try to do it all themselves because they believe no one else can do it better.
They can be difficult to treat. Blankstein's study on perfectionism, based on a series of questionnaires involving 443 university students, was conducted with McGill PhD candidate David Dunkley and a group of UTM students. It is published in the October issue of the Journal of Counseling Psychology . Judy Noordermeer is a news services officer with the Department of Public Affairs.