Get to know your partner better and give yourself time. Remember, all relationships face challenges, most far tougher than herpes. Social and Emotional Impact of Herpes For most people, the social and emotional impact of herpes is greater than the physical distress. At least in the beginning. Society tends to have a judgmental attitude about sexually transmitted diseases.
Many people feel embarrassed or isolated after they are diagnosed.
With time, accurate information and support, most people put herpes in perspective. A diagnosis of herpes can challenge our personal view of sexuality and health. Many people can be uncomfortable talking about it. Once you or a partner knows more, know the facts, you may find your views changing. Some people don't tell, or don't tell every partner.