The subject is charm. I'd like to explore charm from these various perspectives. First, the civilized, expansive and responsive behavior we call being charming. We can adopt charm in all our relationships. It is the oil with which we anoint small and large meetings.
Oil makes the mechanism run more smoothly.
Another concern is when charm is a facade, literally a false face. Other times, it's an unconscious habit, not a mindful practice. We are striving to become more mindful. We have years, decades, of half-conscious habitual patterns. We learned those habits by practice.