We must have last word and final decision. We want our own selfish needs satisfied. C. Abuse never delivers satisfaction. Only God can. If he doesn't satisfy us, it's because we're abusing Him.
Most molesters are regular church attenders, devout, conservative in beliefs, and even moralistic.
James calls it spiritual adultery. V. Deliverance from cycle of violence. A. God loves you and can heal abuse. He understands, because Jesus was beaten and abused. Perhaps we cannot forget, but God can take edge away.