Understanding what sexual assault and rape are, as well as knowing some of the feelings survivors experience is important for friends and family members. As a result of being raped or assaulted, many survivors may leave school, isolate themselves from others, and even attempt suicide. Knowing the impact of rape or sexual assault on a survivor s life will enable you to be more supportive. This pamphlet provides useful information to help in her healing process. Because most victims of sexual assault and rape are women, female pronouns are used throughout.
Men can be victims too.
At Penn State, the same medical, emotional, and legal services are available for men. All One of the most important aspects of helping someone survive a sexual assault or rape is understanding that what happened is not their fault. Because it is ultimately the rapist s decision to carry out the act of rape, victims of this crime should not be blamed for any part of the assault. Often, survivors question their role in the assault, perhaps blaming themselves for using poor judgment. While a victim may have been in a vulnerable situation, it was ultimately the perpetrator s decision to take advantage of her.