Provide No Encouragement or Guidance. The only thing that might be worse than an overly controlling parent, is a parent who doesn t seem to give a darn about their son or daughter s future. That s why we suggest that you assume the following role in assisting your child with his or her career choice . What You Can Do . Show Interest Ask to be kept apprised of your child s academic progress.
Praise is a better motivator than bribes, threats or ultimatums.
Be a Referral Agent - You probably retained more information at Orientation than did your son or daughter. If they need writing help, refer them to NIU s Writing Lab . If they are confused about their department s academic or course requirements, urge them to schedule an appointment with an academic advisor in their Academic Department .