But if we look at life from the perspective of the Helper, we find a conviction that survival and getting love depend on sensing and meeting the needs of others. The connection with others is lifeblood to the Two and is guaranteed if they become necessary to us. Life is about presenting a successful image. They make things happen. Threes can adapt to any situation or group with a chameleon-like ability to match the environment.
Performers inspire and motivate through charm and presentation of a successful image.
No type on the Enneagram is more aware of the power of image. They are natural salespeople. Dark side of the gift. Three's focused attention on goals and tasks can overshadow other aspects of their lives. Feelings are often relegated to the back burner in service of doing.