The cycle can also be broken when the victim safely and with support leaves the abusive relationship. The victim is NOT to blame. The abuse and violence get worse and happen more often the longer a couple remains in this kind of relationship. Abusers are not always hurtful. Maybe abusers have a likeable and loving side that makes their victims wish only that the abuse would stop.
Many victims think they can change the abuser's behavior.
Abusers often threaten that the violence will get worse if the partner decides to leave. It's not always easy to admit that the relationship you are in is abusive. You may be concerned about losing social status with your peers. Some teenagers believe that their parents will react violently if they are aware of the abuse. It is never too late to make your feelings clear with your partner.