I obtained my teaching credential, which enabled me to have a work schedule that fits in with my children's schedules. I then earned a master's in education. I am currently finishing my course work for a Ph.D. in education. Along the way, the four of us went for counseling to help understand the nature of alcoholism. It made all the difference in the world.
Nobody is bitter, and nobody is mad.
Incidentally, the children's father is still unemployed. It's not easy, but the smiles on the faces of my children tell me I did the right thing. Thanks for the encouragement your letter will give others who feel trapped. You're a great role model. Her sister had just found a note taped to her windshield telling her she was overweight and should do something about it.