In an effort to encourage both parents and teens to communicate more effectively about sex, love and relationships, Delaware Congressman Michael N. Castle, co-chairman of the Congressional Task Force to the National Campaign to Prevent Teen Pregnancy, today unveiled new research, polling data and practical tips for parents to help children avoid teen pregnancy. Studies show that nearly one million teenagers become pregnant each year and eighty-five percent of them are unintended. In fact, most girls who do get pregnant say that there is a lack of communication with their mothers and fathers compared to those who are close to their parents and are choosing to remain sexually abstinent, postpone intercourse, have fewer partners and use contraception. While this picture is sobering, it can be changed.
Parents play a critical role in preventing teen pregnancy.
Most teens would rather die than admit it, but they really do listen to their parents. The National Campaign to Prevent Teen Pregnancy conducted a focus group of teenagers and parents across the country concerning teen pregnancy and also has surveyed mothers about how they communicate with their children on sexual matters. Families are an important influence on whether their teenagers become pregnant or cause pregnancy. Parents need to be clear about their own sexual values and attitudes. Parents need to talk to their children early and often about sex and to make sure the conversation is a dialogue and not a monologue.