But sooner or later he'll catch you. Next time you lie, consider what's entailed in its upkeep. If a fib does slip out, there is a way to recover. He'll take it as flattery. Go ahead and challenge his laissez-faire attitude.
Men have all the time in the world.
An ultimatum may just be the push he needs to make his move - and the push you need to reaffirm your limit on waiting. You're suspicious or you're just plain nosy. Either way, snooping will only raise your suspicions, not give you the truth. If you just have to know, ask him. So unless he's taking you to a road side snack bar, go ahead and groom.