Not always, but sometimes. Bergen gave several tips for making a strong and healthy marriage. Keep a sense of humor. If people can just back away and laugh at the situation, it can do a lot for a happy marriage. Also, learn to forgive and forget.
Many people can forgive, but they never forget and keep bringing it up again and again.
They must realize that forgetting is just as important as forgiving. Also, I think it's very important to treat your own spouse as well as you treat strangers. We should put on our better selves for our spouses as well.