Show him what you like. Most people are generally too involved with their own life situations to always be alert and in tune with your own needs. Be direct and straightforward in terms of what you want if you do not want others to continually disappoint you. On the flip side, knowing who you are and what you want is primarily important. We are all human, so try not to place people on a pedestal, or yourself for that matter.
Mistakes are natural.
This is why it is especially important to do something extra nice for yourself once a week, particularly when you are angry. Whether it be a bubble bath, a glass of wine, going for a walk, or buying a new journal, you deserve it. It will help you lighten up. Also doing at least one deed of gratitude or generosity is not only helpful to others, but also is uplifting and calming for your spirit. Even if you follow all of the above steps, anger is still going to sometimes creep into your life.