The most successful achievers do not succeed because of self-serving actions, calculated to gain them the maximum return. They act out of authentic commitments to lofty ideals. And because they do, others respect them, want to be around them, and follow them willingly and enthusiastically. The world is full of vicious creatures and sharp edges. We try to avoid its snags and bites as we make our way through, but without exception, a difficulty strikes each of us - and it hurts.
Many people handle difficulties badly.
They do dumb things, things that worsen matters and enfeeble their ability to handle it effectively. What direction that growth takes depends on what you choose. Or, you may face your difficulty head-on and work imaginatively and productively to overcome it. Turn your difficulty into a challenge and work to rise above it. If you do, you will grow wiser, stronger, and happier.