The essence of feminism is a rejection of this age-old arrangement and an affirmation of women's right to exercise power directly. One feminism differs from another in terms of what sort of power women exercise in what way, and to what purpose. In the late 19th and early 20th centuries, feminist women wanted to exercise political power by voting, as men do. In the 1960s and 1970s, they wanted to exercise personal power by pursuing the vocation of their choice, as men do. It is as antifeminist as it can get and still be reckoned feminist.
Nothing means anything anymore.
All that remains is recycled silliness. And don't hesitate to use it as a weapon if that's what makes you feel personally empowered. But the power of postfeminism is fallacious.