Next, make your body language more friendly. Align your body with your husband's, drop your arms, lean toward him, and nod your head. If he's not being attentive while you speak, gently draw him in with a touch on the arm or by holding his hand until you make eye contact. This is especially important when you're trying to reach an agreement. Don't underestimate the power of this gesture.
Many men respond aggressively when they feel anxious, threatened, or afraid.
A calming movement from you lets him know you're as unhappy to be arguing as he is, and that you're with him not against him. All rights reserved.