It is continually necessary to remind people that coercive relationships do not rely on money, and that yes anarchists do behave in coercive ways. It is about the way we behave in meetings and in discussions, in our personal relations, with friends and colleagues. Anarcho-syndicalism is not about being 'Nice', it is about having respect for other people and ourselves. Perhaps just for an example I can use the term 'free love'. It isn't lots of people in beads and kaftans running around trying to get their notches into triple figures.
People are monogamous, promiscuous, celibate or whatever as they wish.
So the term free society does not just refer to being free from financial control. A free society is where people co-operate and practice mutual aid to achieve these ends. Why I am an anarcho-syndicalist is that I see it as the best method to get to such a society. Not by miracles, not overnight, but starting now, starting at work, in the community and in our day to day relationships. Being an anarcho-syndicalist is not a medical condition, even if the name is long enough to be one.