However, you should keep the whole college application and selection process in perspective. Above all, remember that acceptance or rejection is not a measure of the child's worth nor does it guarantee eventual success or failure in life. Be prepared Keep realistic expectations in mind. All schools have something to offer. Don't confuse your ambitions or past disappointments with those of your child.
Parents have the benefit of age and experience and they want the best for their children.
Although teens can profit from parental advice teens must experience things for themselves. As much as we would all like to imagine otherwise, there is no such thing as a perfect college. There is such a thing as a perfect fit, or a good enough match to make the college experience an enriching and enjoyable one. Have a plan for what will happen based on the outcome of the decisions. Know ahead of time how you and your teen rank order schools, list the pros and cons of each different place.