So tell us how you became an intentional single father. I wanted Stefan's mother to stay involved with him, but I wanted him to live with me. But they're just gambling with their own future and their kids' futures. The truth is, people don't stay married any more. They separate in a fury that's just as hot as their love once was, and it's the kids who really get burned.
Romance is by nature often a fleeting, temporary kind of thing.
A child needs stability. And Stefan can count on both me and his mother always being there for him. She and I have never been in love, so we never have fallen out of love. But look at what kind of relationship many kids see their parents having. I've had three relationships with women since he was born.