If University rules have been violated, sanctions may include suspension or expulsion from the University. Avoiding Sexual Miscommunication Communicate your sexual desires honestly and as early as possible. If you have doubts about what someone wants, Stop, Ask, Clarify. Do not assume you both want the same degree of intimacy. There may be several kinds of sexual activity you might mutually agree to share.
People define intimacy differently.
It may be very intimate for someone on the first date to give you a good night kiss. If you feel uneasy or pressured, leave the situation. Do not feel that you have to adopt new values or behaviors because you are in college.