Each may be too overwhelmed to reach out to the other. Those in non-traditional family structures may face additional complexities in their process of mourning. They may be denied legal protection afforded to other families. Church and extended family may not recognize their grief. Mourning, though a painful process can also be a way for families to grow together.
Petty conflicts seem less important in the face of loss.
Relationships seem more precious because they are fragile and impermanent. Family members may learn to support each other and truly listen. M.D. When you first hear the news that you have a serious illness, the first reaction is often to shut it out of awareness. Denial is not all bad. In limited amounts, it may serve a protective function.