Prioritize the items, and get rid of activities you do not feel are essential. Be realistic about what really has to be done. Cross off the activities as you complete them. Go ahead, it feels soooo good. Share your list with your family, and tell them that you expect them to pitch in and do their share.
Money is another source of holiday Stress .
Use deferred billing only if you know you can pay off the charges before interest starts to be added. Reflect on the true meaning of the holidays, and keep within your budget. Don't let love be confused with money. People, even children, will forget what you bought them, long before you pay off your credit card charge for that item. Whenever possible, use only cash.