They must understand that they cannot fulfill all of the needs of even those they love the very most and not make this demand of another. They must be able to free themselves of all feelings of possessiveness of their children. A community in which all of the members take part in the rearing of the children as ours needs to be established. Perhaps the most obdurate reason that women are forced to accept a life of being the wife of one man is that traditionally men did not want to work to support the children of other men. It is the author s prayer that The Compassionate One bless this master with the gift of surrender.
Relationships are to be established on the basis of on-going genuine love and respect.
In order for Polyamory to be pure, it must exist within the context of a society in which the ideal of sharing and community responsibility for fulfillment of the real and valid needs of real human beings is the societal norm in all spheres of life. It needs to be a society in which both the women and men alike have transcended the base egoism of proprietary feelings in all spheres, even concerning the children of the community. Spiritually evolved human beings understand that others are capable of giving our children what we cannot. This is in accordance with the recognition that another beloved can give to my beloved that which I cannot give. When humanity acquires the emotional and spiritual ability to live with this generosity of spirit, we will be relieved of the stifling aspects of partnership in adult human relationships as we suffer them today.