By resembling its subject, the object can have a significant existence. In human relationships, the object should do its responsibility as its subject does his. One for two, two for one. Every being, thing and affair is relative and paired. To not give back after receiving is to perish.
Personality means a man's position and mission centering on a certain greater purpose.
Without the object, love can't be formed. If you want to have a perfect object, you should be perfect. The invisible subject can be seen and recognized through the visible object. Therefore, the subject is relative. When there is a subject, then the existence of the object can have significance.