Know the rules. There is nothing more frustrating than having a coach yell at you when they are simply incorrect. Screaming out wrong information to referees simply makes the referee angry and you look stupid. If you are not sure about the correct ruling, discretion is probably the better part of valor. Courtesy is contagious.
Referees are generally quite responsive to genuine questions asked in a calm manner.
In addition, remember that your behavior rubs off on those around you, so consider having your discussions with the referee in private, away from your players. For example, there is plenty of time at half-time to ask questions of the referee away from the people on the sideline. On a final note, I would like to congratulate Phil Johnson, head coach of the Stillwater High School boys varsity soccer team. His professionalism has clearly affected his players as well and his team is a pleasure officiate as well as fun to watch. Return to the publications page.