If you had, it would have moved the conversation along and I wouldn't have been upset at all. You don't listen. You sit there filing what I say into pigeonholes in your brain. You are not listening to what I have to say. She left the next day.
Men listen to other people.
It's a wonderful experience. I recommend it to any woman. Not listening to people is a deep dishonesty and a deep control game . Once in awhile I want to talk my talk. It will open up new circuits in your brain.