If the relationship is extremely wicked than it is better not to ever see such people. Just pray for them quietly and do them any good if you are capacitated to do so and dont ever let them come near you. Life is too short to be facing constant negative energy. If you can dialogue and talk and settle fine, if not just do not deal with any such relation. This is the best approach.
Nothing can ever happen then.
Develop friendship with your own self, books, do other activities and communicte to your friends, than getting crippled in the war of words periodically. Be firm, dont heat up your mind and forgive them but dont try to change anyone. Waste of time. I look forward to his e-mail and want to let him know how much it means to us out here. I am asking this question with regard to political stability, economic condition, and how India will affect the world in these fields and be part of it.