Hors d'oeuvre often include Japanese food. You should not bring a gift on the day, it should be sent before or after the celebration. Money should be passed in envelopes related to the occasion , such as wedding, funeral, visiting someone at the hospital, etc. I'll put the photo of it in the future. Finally, funeral service is conducted.
People burn incense by turns in front of the altar while the priest recites a sutra.
After the service is over, family members and close relatives go to the graveyard and lay ashes to rest. Dates and arrangements of funeral shown above are merely examples. People often decide the dates in accordance with the Buddhist calendar. Family members prepare token gifts to be given back to the people who come to mourn for the dead. Money should be passed in envelopes related to the occasion, such as wedding, funeral, visiting someone at the hospital, etc.