I generally dont alter my behavior, but if the person at the other end of the line is actually a 13 year old child, then I think your behavior would be different if you knew. I love Everquest, but I still miss rolling the pretty dice I picked out carefully from the book store. The world is far for dynamic, and character development is far more centered around storytelling rather than gaining items or experience. Not to mention hanging out with friends in reality is always more preferable than typing at them. I like EQ better because it gives you an opportunity to playact without being self-conscious and to meet even more people.
Quick Decisions EQ by far.
Definately, the never ending adventure, excitement, and quests in an ever-changing world are great. Roll the 16 sided die twice to see if you were poisoned, roll the 18 sided die 3 times for disease, like I'm going to remember all that. All I have to remember in EQ is the percentage probabilities that something will happen. I can get on and play EQ whenever I want. With paper games, you have to deal with setting times, getting together to play, etc.