Look up often. Everything we do in life is a choice and with that choice comes responsiblities. Often one complains about their life and let circumstances dictatate their actions, even that is a choice. The truth is what you seek. Because everytime It does, a new religion is born and claims it has the only true answer and the divine way.
Organized religions are like blind men touching an elephant.
One man touches the tail and says it is a snake. Another man touches the leg and says it is a tree. Nobody has it right.