I want to do bible studies where people aren't afraid to disagree and prayers where people pray all the wrong things. I want to find people under the Christian shells and figure out what's really happening. Let's be honest with each. That's the sort of church I want to be in. No, of course nobody would say it.
Nobody ever does.
We must learn how to say what we think with compassion and clarity. I'm interested in hearing from Christians and non-Christians on this one. Maybe you go to a church that lets you do all of the above.