A letter was written to the doctor about a husband whose wife spent alot of recreational time with a friend of the opposite sex. The doctor belelives this WILL lead to a divorce. I had a friend of the opposite sex for years, he has since passed on, but not once did we ever have an affair.
People can be JUST friends even if they do spend alot of time together.
I also had respect for my husband. We were truely the closest of friends and my husband and he ended up becoming the best of friends. I don't think the Doctor should assume that all opposite freindships will lead to anything more. So to the man whose wife is spending time with another man, don't loose to much sleep over it if she's honest enough with you to tell you she is with him and what they are doing. I wouldn't trust myself in such a situation at all, and you shouldn't either if you really care about your relationship.