Disagreements and arguments crop up in the best relationships. It's how conflict is handled that is the key to success or failure. Set a regular time to talk about problems. Take turns speaking and listening to one another about concerns. Quality communication in marriage includes sharing feelings, accurately sending and receiving messages, and empathy.
Poor communication precedes marital trouble.
Successful married couples talk to each other more often, talk about personal topics more often, spend less time in conflict, and show greater sensitivity to each other's feelings. They keep communication channels open and pay attention to nonverbal messages. Keep courting each other. Couples who continue to court are actively doing things that help love grow. They continue the kindness, consideration, tolerance and expressions of affection that first ignited their love.