Kids want you to understand them, but not be like them. And be available to them on their terms. Grandparents offer a safe sanctuary for teenagers When problems exist, an understanding, compassionate, nurturing and stress-free environment that grandparents can offer is just what teenagers need. Your grandchild's problems can be respectfully heard, and advice can be freely given and received while watching a TV program together and eating popcorn, or on a drive to a sporting event or a shopping spree. Grandma's is always a good place to go.
Parents benefit too.
Grandparents can offer a safe and secure respite for parents by giving the parents respite. A weekend at Grandma's can mean that Mom and Dad can go off for much needed, although brief, second honeymoon.