The potential member and the Sorority are looking for compatibility, not necessarily a family connection to the group. The only opinion of a chapter that should matter is yours. Each chapter is different from campus to campus and from year to year. If you allow someone else's perceptions to influence you, then you may not feel satisfied with your choices during Recruitment. Remember that each chapter is made up of many different women with different talents and qualities that compose the entire group.
Recruitment is no exception.
If you hear derogatory remarks about any Sorority or any women in the group, please disregard those comments as inappropriate and antithetical to the Panhellenic spirit. Any questions regarding rumors or inappropriate comments should be directed toward your Rho Chi or a Panhellenic Exec. Potential members often experience the greatest disappointment by beginning the Recruitment process only wanting to be in a certain Sorority. Sorority membership is more than wearing certain Greek letters. It is giving your time and energy to the Sorority, agreeing to abide by rules and regulations, and living up to high expectations.