Or the ladies won't go. Romance should not feel like your just going through the motions. Its knowing the other person on the phone is smiling because of you. It's the poem from the heart that makes the mind tingle with excitement as hot words melt deep down inside. Its a gentle massage when he's tired, scented candles as you draw her bath, its remembering her favorite beverage and most of all, taking the time to find out what he or she likes or dislikes then, caring enough to cater to those desires.
Romance is a lost art that forever remains flexibly creative.
And just like clay it has to be molded to meet one's own unique specifications. Floods of endless devotion.