Life has a way of doing that. Me, I happen to like gray. Never was one for boxes and fitting into other people's modes. After all, there's really only one me. And beside that, it's so much fun seeing life through MY eyes, and not the eyes of others.
People have a difficult time though when they have to accept someone's individuality.
When you're confused because people are telling you all different sides of how they would respond to a situation, or when they are telling you how you should behave under certain circumstances, just think about this for a moment. They are telling you how THEY would react, but they are not you. You know what feels good for you. What we sometimes forget is that way down deep inside of us is a little box of gray. I don't know where it came from, but I have to tell you, when I found my little box of gray inside of me, I was so very happy.