If you have fallen into the habit of not spending private time together and really talking, schedule some time. If you have children, hire a sitter and go out by yourselves. If you can't afford a sitter, perhaps a friend or family member can watch the children for a while. Find out what little things would make the other happy. Work up to bigger things.
Marriage counseling can be useful.
Marriage counseling is not guarantee of saving a marriage. In order for a marriage to work well, it takes commitment by both partners as well as a reasonably good match of partners in the first place. Even if marriage counseling does not save the marriage, a good counselor can facilitate communication and clarify issues. Although FindLaw tries to provide accurate and current information, the ideas, information, and conclusions provided here may differ depending on local, state and federal laws and regulations and court cases. Given the different possible applications and interpretations of the law, you are urged to consult professional legal counsel regarding the applicability of legal issues discussed here to any specific legal problem you may have.