The term itself was created to make people aware that rape isn't only when a stranger attacks, but also when it happens between two people who know each other. This type of attacker may be a friend, work associate, classmate, neighbor or relative. Most rapes occurring in this category are as violent as stranger rapes and usually are more traumatic since the survivor fells guilty and to blame. If you are raped, report the crime immediately.
Many victims delay too long to make apprehension and prosecution of the offender more difficult.
Know your sexual intentions and limits. If you are uncertain about what you want, ask the man to respect it. Take the time to hear what the woman is saying. Communicate your feelings firmly and directly. Back up words with clear voice and body language.