When she realized this she was able to let go of the trying so hard and became feminine. Then the dreams opened up to her naturally. There has been mention of art on this forum and there are several artists here. Art is an excellent way of employing both masculine and feminine energy flows. It is particularly good for those who have difficulty with the feminine flow.
Masculine flow is dominant, particularly in our modern western society.
We are taught that Masculine is superior. Many of us are afraid of our feminine energy flow. This is true whether you have a physical male or female body. We are domesticated into thinking that feminine energy flow is weak. The reason why technology has become so destructive to life is because it is void of feminine energy.