You absolutely need the ability to take action in life in order to create fulfillment and happiness so follow the self-help ideas on the Shy and Free site and seek help in the form of therapy and coaching when you get stuck. Externally, things appear the same but internally your experience is very different, which will in turn result in different external experiences. After Shyness for many people will not mean a life without shyness, it will mean a new appreciation and sense of awe at all of life. Perhaps you now see that focusing on getting rid of shyness is similar to focusing on enlightenment which as all the spiritual teachers tell us, is a sure way not to achieve it. Instead, focus on the moment and be Shy and Free which will lead to incredible moments of transcendence.
Many people make it very far along their journey, but give up because shyness returns.
It is not the shyness which matters, but how you perceive, judge, and accept the shyness that determines how it will affect your life. The following information is not for everyone as we are all on our own unique journey. If you do not see the value of the information below or do not agree with the methods employed, that is fine, no judgment is made against you just as no judgment should be made against the material as it could be very valuable to someone else s journey. Knowing the true purpose of your life would allow you to see that your shyness lead you to a particular point in your journey that could best be arrived at by going through your shyness. Understanding your true purpose requires you to look from a higher level than your everyday pain and stuggles.