Some agencies, including Women Alive, have HIV heterosexual socials and support groups where you can meet all kinds of interesting people in safe and confidential surroundings. And, the best thing I've found out is HIV positive men will treat you so well. The too have been through rejection. They too have felt the fear of being alone. They too have dreaded spreading HIV any further.
Positive couples can be there for each other without having any fear in intimacy.
This knowledge has changed me into a much stronger woman. A woman who knows how precious and desirable I am. A woman who will not settle for second best. Negative men no longer interest me. A few weeks ago I went out with a negative man who had been hitting on me at the gym for over two months.