Some states have a specific advance directive form. Choosing an Agent Choosing an Agent for your Advance Directive could be one of the most important decisions you ever make. Unless you state otherwise in your directive, your Agent generally has the same authority to make decisions about your health care as you would. Since this person will be acting on your behalf if you become unconscious or unable to make health care decisions, this should obviously be someone you know and trust thoroughly. And he or she should be someone who cares deeply about your welfare.
People often choose their spouse or other close family member to be their Agent.
You can limit your Agent's authority if you choose to do so. For example, you could specify that your Agent will not have authority to override your desire not to be put on life support equipment. You should make sure the person you choose is willing to be your Agent. It is also a good idea to designate an alternate Agent in case your Agent is not able to act as your Agent for any reason. Make sure you are both comfortable with what it says.