When a member moves from issues and substance in a discussion to accusations about a believer, he is doing the devil's work. Unfortunately, few hearers are able or willing to check the facts. Some would rather believe the lie because the truth isn't so entertaining. The Devil often can use little difficulties to tweak church members. The little annoyances become larger once human emotion becomes involved.
Molehills become mountains.
Ridiculous, but it happens. Sometimes we let things bother us more than they should. People take drastic action, such as quitting, in more serious matters, thinking the Devil has won. Do not ascribe to the Devil a victory simply because there is a battle. The battle is already won.