I consider myself to be a strong man but there is no way I would subject myself to 12 hours of labor. If a woman goes through that and the man abandons her by withdrawing support, he needs to be stoned. Women with this phobia desire a child, they are just afraid. If the fear is greater than the desire, the woman could cripple her chances to give new birth. Along this same line Satan seeks to cripple any desire that a sinner has to be born again, by any means nesscerary .
Neurotic fear is a natural enemy of change.
It creates an anxiety that disrupts your communication with God along with your understanding of God. Man and Satan give this type of fear. God does not intimidate man, that is condescending. He could if he wants to , nothing could stop him. He has no loving reason to strike us with unfruitful fear, none that I know of.