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I'm very sorry that Berry is having so much trouble finding the working person's ultimate status symbol. But I soon discovered impossible Mary Poppins-esque expectations of nannies. Parents hardly ever sacrificed three hours a week to play with their kids or even spend time walking with them to the playground. The fathers were the payers, the mothers the planners, and we somehow were left to the parenting while trying to compensate for the parents' lack of quality time for their kids. Tania Castellanos S top having nannies and put your child in a registered day care or, better yet, a family day care with someone who has training and is a mother.