I feel like I've taken some great leap and am scared. Goofy with Anxiety Dear Goofy, First of all, take the damn TV and stick it in the corner of the garage and put duct tape over it. Writers write for TV, they don't watch it themselves. Secondly, look around you and decide how clean you want the house to be and figure out how many hours a week it takes to keep it that way. I assume you're living in an apartment, not a 14-room mansion, and it shouldn't take you more than four hours a week to keep things decent.
Most writers spend that much time staring at a blank screen and clearing their throats.
So whenever you're in a stupor, just get up and run a vacuum cleaner around and mop a bathroom floor. And then take 20 minutes to toss supper together. You've got a sweet husband and you're getting some success writing. Move ahead, day by day, and do what you know you have to do. Don't put too much effort into defeating yourself.