Expanding rapidly Feeling whole, complete Alive in relationship 4. We use our mind to devise a plan, then systematically follow it to graduation. We decide to use a big allotment of energy to reach our goal, energy that could be used in more leisurely pursuits. We do this because we feel the goal is worthwhile for our future financial support and career satisfaction. We commit our energy till the goal is attained.
Relationships are similar.
We water and fertilize the flower of our relationship every day to keep it growing and flourishing. We make a big commitment just by living. We say that feeling peaceful and happy inside are worth any expenditure of energy. Sometimes we are not consciously aware that happiness is our underlying goal, but if we look back we see that everything we have done was done because we wanted to feel happy. Happiness can be ours at this very moment.