They reminded me continually of the change I was making. Creating and taking part in your own ceremonies and rituals heightens the experience. You will see how rituals help us to recognize who we are and what we value and to come together in community to share and acknowledge both the joy and pain of our existence.1 With repeated ceremonies the framework becomes familiar. Try to state your intention simply and clearly. Even spontaneous ceremonies require gathering your thoughts and possibly a ceremonial item or two.
Many traditions have formal invocations.
These may be appropriate for you or give you guidance in creating your own style. Ask yourself, who is it important to invite and why. Consider ways of inviting people so they will feel genuinely welcomed and comfortable. Whether the site is outdoors, in a public building, or at your or a friend's home, make sure you can create the level of privacy you need to avoid interruption. Celebrations and ceremony can be enhanced by attention to what the participants wear.