Nothing ever is.
Since You are in charge of my life, I'm only responsible for doing the footwork. The results belong to you. I could tell by the look on her face, the tone in her voice and her body language she had a head start on this yet to happen conversation. Experience teaches me to say nothing, do no facial expressions, no grunting or smiling and definitely no leaving the room until she is finished. I said the serenity prayer requesting there be no need for any input from me.