The problem is not that there are problems. The problem is expecting otherwise and thinking that having problems is a problem. I like to listen. I have learned a great deal from listening carefully.
Most people never listen.
It's not something you learn in school. But if you haven't learned the meaning of friendship, you really haven't learned anything. Choosing your socks by their character makes no sense, and choosing your friends by their color is unthinkable. The hardest thing in life is to know which bridge to cross and which to burn. We must learn to live together as brothers or perish together as fools.