Crowds are based on stereotypes and reputation, and often crowds help teens identify with who they are or want to be. Cliques, on the other hand, are smaller groups, and usually members are close friends. Teens tend to hang out with friends who have similar tastes in dress, music and often enjoy the same types of leisure activities. No matter whether the influence of the crowd or clique is negative or positive, teens need to feel wanted and that they belong. So here are a few tips to channel the influence of peers in a more positive direction.
Most teens like to hang out with their friends.
Adults can't always assume that they know best. Sometimes they're not. Don't worry about being in the in-group or you'll miss out on a lot of great friends. There are more people who are average than are popular. Most people think the 4-H Horse Project is just for showing horses.