In return I want to be consumed. I am a very passionate, sexual, sensual woman and I want the same in a man. A man who will let me talk care of him, but also vulnerable enough to let is most intense, passionate thoughts and fantasies out, and share them with me. A man that wants to touch me, hug me, kiss me, and in return I will do the same. A man that will stand up for himself and his loved ones, including his lady is a huge turn on.
Romance is a big part of a relationship especially sex.
If a woman doesn't take care of her man, he in return will loose interest and excitement in the relationship. Passion in a relationship is the most important of all, passion for each others bodies, passion for experimentation, passion for each others thoughts. Believe me, if you find the right person, it can and will work. Relationships are work, but don't ever discount the sex, sex is the major part of a relationship, it always opens the opportunity for conversation and communication. Sex, making love, is the best form of communication a man and a woman, or vice versa, could have.