You live in a world where people of color have the control.
People of color are our senators, our congresspersons, and the head of all the major corporations.
They are our university presidents, our school administrators, most of our church leaders. POC are everywhere. When you go to your bank, you will know that a person of color is in charge will make a decision about your loan. When you take your clothes to the dry cleaner, your shoes to the repair shop, when you put gas in your car, it is a person of color with whom you are interacting for these services. You have to search to find foods that are more to your liking although recently some of the major food chains have set aside one aisle for the kind of foods white people eat.