It may take some time to get used to your neck looking different. Cosmetically, some people find it helpful to wear a scarf or cravat around their neck. Psychologically, it will help if you talk to your relatives and nurses about how you feel so that they can give you the support you need. When the tube is first inserted you will not be able to speak because breathing through the tracheostomy tube re-directs air away from your vocal cords. This is temporary.
Many people can eat and drink with a tracheostomy tube in place.
You may find that certain foods and drinks are easier to swallow than others. Your dietician and speech therapist will work with you to find which foodstuffs are easiest for you. Therefore some external device needs to be used to add heat and moisture. There are a number of devices available. Your nurse will help you decide which is the most suitable for you.