We as adults are busy with the daily responsibilities of our own lives in our fast-paced society. Sometimes we as parents push children into activities and programs because of our desire to have them involved, not necessarily their desire to be involved. Community opportunities such as sport teams, art classes, computer classes, and other enrichment opportunities can be an asset to a child or a stressor if they deprive them of developmentally appropriate activities and play. After the discussion, review his or her answers and evaluate the true desire or lack thereof to guide you in making future plans. In many homes, children are assigned tasks beyond their capabilities.
Parents expect positive choices and wise use of time to accomplish all items with perfection.
Or, another example would be to confide in the child about adult concerns such as divorce, finances, remarriage, etc. The school has become a source of pressure because of the measurement-driven programs. Through the media, children are exposed to circumstances and situations outside of their worlds. Consider play an important aspect of childhood and encourage children to explore, invent, and create through play appropriate for children rather than adults. Reduce the over-emphasis of adult life experiences on children's lives.