A partner may also be reluctant to engage in sexual activity for fear of hurting the patient or fear of contracting the disease. Most people are able to resume normal sexual activity after diagnosis and treatment for colorectal cancer. That includes patients with colostomies. The most important factor is usually the patient's own attitude and feelings about having a colostomy. For those who have jobs prior to their diagnosis, returning to work may be an important part in re-establishing their normal routines.
Most employers are usually willing to let patients take time off for treatment or follow-up visits.
As long as the patient is comfortable in doing so, sharing information about the disease with curious co-workers may ease the transition back to work. Many patients find it helpful to talk to other cancer patients. I had a hard time adjusting to the fact that I had colorectal cancer. But with a wonderful doctor, nurse, and much support from my family, I was able to deal with it, and to realize that I was a survivor. Several organizations sponsor support groups for cancer patients.