Youngsters are more likely to accept limitations regarding purchases if they have an awareness of the family's financial situation. Many families have found that a family council improves communication and decision-making. The family council is a meeting that gives every member of the family the opportunity to express opinions and ideas, offer compliments or complaints, and most importantly, be listened to. All families develop habits, routines, and a set of rules. Some of the more obvious patterns are who cooks, washes dishes, does the laundry, or fixes the car.
Many families find it helpful to have a chart of household tasks and to rotate the assignments.
Parents can set the example of flexibility by offering to help out a child who has an unusually heavy load of homework or other activities. The development of a stable family pattern is necessary to deal with all the things a family must face, decide, and accomplish in daily life. But a family must also be able to adapt to new needs and circumstances. There are a number of common changes most families face. Children get older.