My WH rang me about 4 times last night last one being 11pm. This morning he is having a panic attack because he opened up to me and is scared I will use it against him. Life is very complicated, I said you are on a huge rollercoaster. Forget the cards etc and take pressure off. Find a ne hobby something YOU have always wanted to do.
Men are like rubber bands.
The stretch to the max and fill up wiht you then they need time out while they relax. Then they will stretch again and will need you. Also the first relationship they enter into you will find is very similar to the one they have just left. I think my Wh is finding out that now. I have also found that it takes them days to process information we give them.