Then there can be evolution, development, growth. This is what makes the United States Constitution so brilliant. Those early Masons expected that by the interplay of these three, something new could come about. This was pretty brilliant and they messed with it afterwards, but they knew what they were doing. The key is presence.
Presence allows the third force to enter.
Everything depends upon a certain kind of inner poise in relationship to a seeming clash. Let me give you an example from baseball. There's one force at the plate with a bat in his hand, and another on the mound with a ball. This is a fast ball pitcher and he's active and he zips the ball for all he's got. The negative force, the passive element, is the bat.