Lots of people does not like to be criticized, moreover, the critics are said in front of the public in attacking manners. Hold down and find a wiser way out is a way to compensate those criticizing. Not to show off. Showing off will lead to arrogant. Reduced revenge action.
Revenge is also a burden towards oneself.
Especially when it is applied to small matters. We will be exiled from our community, not having any friends and destroy ourselves. Lessen the action of taking anything into account. Not to make any trouble, not being a nuisance or annoying others. Those are often become a disaster, which caused a broken friendship and inharmonious life.