And then, because they are not happy with themselves, they look to others to make them happy. Habits are caused by attitude and expectations. Here's how to develop a positive dating 'tude. Make a list. If you don't like your attitude, change it.
Most people are usually nervous on their first date.
By the second date, you're both more relaxed and you've broken the dating ice. However, if after the second date there's still no chemistry or connection, then at least you know you gave it your all. Focus on what's positive in your life, what you have and what's working, your good qualities, not on what's missing. Make a list. Decide that you are worthy of a good partner and totally deserve to have a great relationship.