Most transsexuals are either married or divorced and have kids.
I'm no exception. I was married for almost 13 years and am now divorced. Everyone assumes that gender issues were the reason for our divorce, but in fact we had other irreconcilable differences. My ex was aware of my gender issues long before we were married. Of course relations between my ex and me have been tense at times, but our lives are slowly returning to normal, enough so that we can do each other occasional favors and focus squarely on parenting issues.