All women have different definitions of feminism, but to us, it is about getting equal pay for equal work. Feminism is also about women believing in their own importance. It is about being fulfilled by our jobs, our hobbies, our friendships. But with all due respect, feminism has nor changed men or the nature of romantic relationships. Like it or not, men are emotionally and romantically different from women.
Men are biologically the aggressor.
Men who respond to The Rules are not sick or stupid, but quite normal and healthy. Your average guy. But that's not what we're talking about. She's simply not too eager and doesn't drop everything to see him at a moment's notice. That way he respects her and wants to be with her and marry her.