But the women I know who've shrugged off their lesbian identities date men, and some marry men. Apparently, men aren't a fascinating phase they're going through. Some lesbians become gay because their experience with straight men is unpleasant. More than one lesbian has told me this. Once they actually get to know a man who is not such a turd, they sometimes see things differently.
Men fuck over straight women every day.
If your theory were sound, NLOM, most women would be lesbians by the time they're 30. Likewise, women fuck over straight men constantly. I consulted Feminism for Dummies . Lesson 1 says girls are taught their whole lives to put the good of the Group ahead of their own desires, while boys are taught that their desires are the Roots of Progress. And whether the Group is your family or coworkers, the Group is much happier and more comfortable with girls who are helping to fulfill boys' desires.