These assertions carry a lot of weight when the parents, not someone else, are telling them. Where to Turn for Help Keep one or two age-appropriate books about sex on hand. Read them first to be sure you agree with their philosophy. Older kids generally prefer Web sites and videotapes. Be sure to look at them before the children do.
Most states offer sex education in school, but the lessons vary tremendously.
Find out whether the curriculum taught in your child s school jibes with your family s values. Schools are good at teaching safe sex, but they re not as good at helping kids make choices, Dr. Johnson says. Teaching morality is the parent s role. Visit your religious institution s library for guidance on sexuality. Your community school may offer classes for parents struggling to help their children learn about sexuality.