Young girls are told that to be desirable they must be sexually desirable. That's what they should be about in their marriages. If they fail to discharge that responsibility, they can expect their marriages to fail. It's all a matter of taking care of their men. The message goes on into adult life.
Men have only to provide, women have only to care.
Our culture, as has often been observed, parallels in many ways the ancient pagan Roman culture. Perhaps we should at this point recall that the early list of Roman martyrs included a score of young women who were martyred for remaining virgins. St. Agatha, St. Lucy, St., Cecilia, and numbers of others were a threat to the pagan Roman value system, a value system that insisted that the only reason for the existence of girls is to give men pleasure. The value of a woman was measured in terms of her usefulness to men in observing the pleasure principle. When these young Christian girls openly declared that their value was more than that, when they openly declared that they were valued in the eyes of God as more than sex objects for men, they were put to death.