Listen until the person is finished, and then decide what you are going to say. If you heard right, then respond to that statement or question. Do not criticize, pass judgement or preach. If you hear an idea that you do not like or have not heard before, explore it with the person before deciding on its value. Sometimes, it is best not to communicate.
Parental advice is motivated by excellent intentions.
Parents do not want to see their children repeat parental mistakes. One of the best aids to family harmony, and one of the hardest to acquire, is a firmly closed mouth. It helps to remind the parents that it is more important in the long run to maintain cordial relations than it is to get a few more bushels per acre. This can improve long-run profits too, not just family harmony. Helpful Listening Tips Listen actively and passively.