They all seem to be experiencing the same thing and peer presure makes it worse. All the forbidden things become even more attractive. Their hormones are running riot anyway. It is against this background that most of us develop sexually. Frigidity and sex addiction actually find their roots in childhood experiences.
Most people develop their feelings for the opposite sex quite early in life.
The daughters of an abusive father are not likely to trust men wholeheartedly likewise the sons are not able to treat women with any respect. In a background of mistrust, sex is a chore. At times painful and humilating for the women, while for the men a quick release of tension in a few minutes of gratifiation. For some men, a woman who enjoys sex is morally bankrupt and cannot be trusted. Most men actually feel safer dating and marrying sexually retarded women to prevent adultery.