She doesn't want anything to do with me now. I am confused. She is very confused. I need some help or guidance on where to get some . John Dear John, You both need to understand that masturbation is a natural form of sexual expression that continues throughout our lifetime.
Masturbation is especially important in keeping a marriage sexually balanced and happy.
No two people have the same sexual interests and appetites. Another very important aspect is that masturbation offers some variety into what could easily become monotonous monogamy. She should be glad that instead of running around trying to get laid, you are at home masturbating. Having sex with the same person day in and day out year after year and expecting hot monogamy is the result of raising girls to believe in a romantic myth. Far too many women end up loving love and have unrealistic expectations about partnersex.