Sometimes, we re not strong enough to live in the present with a lover, so we have the ghost lover in our imagination, constantly comparing. Your first love affair is with your own soul. Remember how you loved some of those sweeties so much, but it just didn t work out. That s because you stopped doing your own soul work. When we partner with people who are more like friends, they allow us to deepen our soul s work.
Love is mutuality and reciprocity.
Understanding sexuality seems to open many doors. Sexuality is power. You have to reach down deep, be kind and honest, to go there, as sexuality is where all our demons lie. If you don t integrate your sexuality and enjoy the practice of refining yourself as an intimate and learn to express it in a healthy way, it will be expressed in an unhealthy way. We become more fulfilled by revealing ourselves, letting go of paranoid concealment.