All the respondents to the survey, regardless of whether they chose themselves or others as the cause of their problems, missed an important possibility. Whether we choose to blame others or ourselves, the game is the same. Guilt is the operative word. The recognition that we have no problems engenders the elimination of guilt and fear. It is perception of the past as if it were occurring now, and still were there to see.
Memory is a choice.
Our old habits and ego-dominant thinking require us to choose someone as the cause of our problems. We can train ourselves to consistently remember the always nowness of our lives. Since this now-memory has no link to the past, it ends the guilt and the blame. The past is gone. The miracle actually does nothing , entering our minds when we stop an instant and are still.