She's in therapy now, so I hope that helps her some. She's become very distant from me, though. Never in our marriage have I seen her like this. Jesse, rape causes a complex set of emotional reactions. Maddie is going through quite a bit.
Many women feel dirty or disgusting after a rape.
My best advice is probably that you make it clear to her that you don't think it was her fault and that it hasn't changed the way you feel about her. Let her know that you are there for her and are willing to talk and to listen. Doc, she knows she isn't to blame. I'm not so sure she feels the same about me, though. Jesse, your emotions and reactions are going to be complex as well.