No, we tend to feel there must be something wrong with us for not being able to keep up with the demands. Instead of cutting back and relaxing, most women, when faced with burn out, will deal with it by trying to work harder. We know that pursuing our dreams would be a wonderful rewarding experience. However, the sheer selfishness of the thought of such total self indulgence and what must be a self centered life is usually reserved for our dreams. Pursuing your passion in life, unleashing your creative talents and natural interests is so personally enriching that many of us are held back by guilt.
Many women still feel guilty when they are taking time to slow down and relax.
The thought of spending even a few hours indulging oneself is guilt provoking. We intellectually know the importance of taking care of ourselves first. Maybe someday when we can afford it. My husband would never let me. I'd feel too selfish and guilty to even talk about it.