Use Flattery Flattery is to flirting what a match is to dynamite. So to refine the power of flattery, you must be sincere. Expert, mutually rewarding flattery is harder to pull off than most people think. Figure out what strikes you about this person. Once you determine this, use it.
Flattery is most effective when there is an element of surprise.
When someone doesn't expect the compliment. The first compliment he knows himself, the second he may suspect, but the fact that you mentioned this is delightful and surprising. When you say hello, pretend that there is an electrical current pulsating through your body. Remember that what follows from an introduction or meeting depends on how your new acquaintance perceives your hello. Listen to your voice on a tape recorder.