Then there are the people who treat sex as something sacred, scary or maybe just with a touch of awe or confusion. Location - come to California, you'll get laid. It's a very sexual place. Women take many partners, and notch their bedposts. Women consider themselves conquerers, and all you have to do is learn cunnilingus and let it be known that you're good at it.
Religion is a joke and hedonism is the rule.
There are many places in the world where this is true, but I can certainly attest to this one. Looks - you hate it, but if the rest of the country is half as concerned with looks as California is, you're in trouble if you don't want to look good. All you have to do is dress nice once, and as soon as she gets that impression in her mind that YOU are the MAN, you won't need to try so hard after that. More and more this is happening, especially with photographs being so central to a relationship. Women suck - you know it.