Like most falls, falling in love doesn't feel very good when you finally hit bottom. Unless you have learned and practiced the skills of Sacred Loving - Spiritual Sex, it is difficult to graduate from falling in love over and over again with a new partner each time, to creating a love that satisfies through and through and lasts forever with one partner. It lasts forever because it isn't something that just happens to you, rather it is something that you have learned to create . Once you learn to create love, you can continue to create more love, because love is by its nature abundant. The more you give, the more you can give and the more you will receive.
Love is a lot like smiling, only much better.
It is hard not to smile back at someone, and to feel a little bit better inside because of it. With love, some people seem to act as if they have a finite supply that they carry around in a little sack. They dispense just a bit of it from time to time, always fearful it will run out if they use it up. And sure enough, their experience convinces them that what is actually a grave error of judgment is reality. They create what they fear and live in a world of emotional scarcity.