Get assistance . Although you want to help, do not take full responsibility by trying to be the sole counsel. Seek out resources which can lend qualified help, even if it means breaking a confidence. Let the troubled person know you are concerned - so concerned that you are willing to arrange help beyond that which you can offer. . Unbearable pain can be survived.
Help is available.
You are not alone. The Counseling Center offers group and individual counseling to help with these issues.