By playing golf, I have learned to use the golf ball as a way of releasing my stress and anger. By simply picturing my ex wife's face painted on the ball, I now have a way of releasing my stress and anger. By swinging the club, smacking the ex-wife's head, and watching her fly off, I gain the satisfaction of knowing that control was maintained. This can also effect the accuracy of one's game. I have only been playing for about 6 months, but I can drive nearly 250 yards very accurately.
Many divorcees find it difficult to get back into the single life.
The best thing I did was to get involved in a relationship as soon as the divorce was final. My relationship is terrific. Many people think that one should wait before getting involved again, but I did not, and I am happy. My golf clubs have never let me down. My clubs are caring and understanding, and are great listeners.