An example in Canada would be someone that honors Parliament, and the procedures and conventions in it. Of course, this doesn't necessarily say anything about their opinions of the current residents. But it's clear that, for most people, their utopia is basically their own country, or society. Their personal variation tends to involve ways to make this society better for them, their friends, and the people they otherwise respect or admire. But these visions are basically in the background.
Most people have lives, after all.
Only a few of them take up utopianism as a specialty. And these tend to have two varieties, too. They're the idealists of the bunch. The usual way is for them to be gregarious among the group that's put them in the slot they have. But there's another type, which tends to gather most of the press.