Parents should take a back seat in the recruiting process. This is the athlete's first adult decision.
Parents can help gather information and guide their child, but let the athlete make the decision.
Parents, be realistic of your athlete's ability, be knowledgeable on the college options and be a great listener. When it comes to talking to coaches, the athlete is the person who should do the talking. College coaches want to get to know the athletes who will be making up their future team. Parents can and should ask some questions, but let your athlete set up meetings and ask the majority of the questions. Coaches will be more impressed when the athlete takes charge.