Medical staff are there to help us, not do the job for us. Family Meetings Family meetings can really work. It is a great forum for relaying information, addressing grievances, recognizing accomplishments and setting the rules. Weekly meetings allow you to lay out the schedule for the week. Have a moderator.
Moderators give time limits, cut people off if they're rambling, keep order, etc.
By addressing the issue and reaching compromises and settlements, you've taught your kids valuable skills such as negotiation and mediation. Time outs We all need to learn to cool our heels and think. When used properly, time outs are not only a good way to do that but an opportunity to learn. Set a timer so your child knows that there is a beginning and end. General rule of thumb is one minute per age of child but, as they say, your mileage may vary.