This web page summarizes the techniques which we think produce the most positive behavior outcomes in toddlers. When looking at different behavior management techniques, it is important to remember that disciplining your child will show more positive outcomes rather than punishing your child. By using discipline instead of punishment, you will be showing your child respect while teaching them that they are responsible for the consequences of their own actions. Discipline is also more effective because it does not embarrass or degrade the child. Appropriate discipline differs with the development of the child and the act being disciplined.
Research notes that the most effective discipline techniques are tailored to the act.
Therefore, a different discipline method will be used if the child hits another child or if a child has a tantrum and does not want to go to bed. It is important to remember that discipline focused on the act rather than victimizing the child is always best. Discipline that lowers the self-esteem of the child is not effective because the child begins to think that there is nothing he or she can do to make their caregiver happy. Your confidence in the child s ability to act appropriately should always be evident. Up to 2 years of age and sometimes older, the parent is entirely responsible for the comfort and safety of the child.