And baby makes three but it's not always so easy. This is Ellen Levine with Good Advice From Good Housekeeping. Try as you might, you're still having trouble getting pregnant. There's no rule as to when a couple should check with a doctor. That sounds reasonable enough, but if you're trying to get pregnant, it can seem like forever.
Many women assume infertility is their fault, and their responsibility to fix.
But almost half the time, it can be traced to the man, or can't be explained at all. If the man smokes, for example, or is a heavy alcohol user, his sperm count could be low. Many doctors advise couples to meet with a gynecologist to review any medications and lifestyle habits before they try to start a family. It could eliminate a lot of frustration later on. All rights reserved.