Their reactions often intensify the patient's fear. The patient needs to recognize that those closest to her are experiencing the same kinds of feelings-shock, anger, fear, and helplessness. The ability to recognize and communicate these feelings will help alleviate them and make them more manageable. During this time the patient needs empathy. Acknowledge what she is going through is terrible and that you are sorry she has been diagnosed with breast cancer.
Patients feel that minimizing what they are experiencing tends to be condescending.
The individual with breast cancer finds it difficult to go through the process alone. Even when family and friends are supportive, they really do not know what is feels like to have cancer. This is where the efficacy of a support group comes into play. Once a patient finds a support group where she feels comfortable discussing her situation with strangers, the people in this group will provide her with a feeling of security and belonging. The support group will become her buffer against the outside world.