Too many people forget that laziness is a sin. Laziness is a major cause of evil. Therefore, to him who knows to do good and does not do it, to him it is sin. Love requires commitment and work. Those who are lazy are seldom willing to use that much energy.
Lazy people think that love is just something that happens.
Love to a lazy person is like an accident. Laziness is why there are so many husbands who do not love their wives and why there are so many wives who do not love their husbands. Marriage fails to bring great happiness when people do not work hard enough to create love and build marital relationships. Many know what the problems are in their marriage, but they are not willing to work hard enough to restore the relationship. People come up with all kinds of excuses about why their marriages do not work.