Milena's other grandparents, Bill and Mildred Meador, are fine folks. They love the Lord and each other. Milena will have many aunts, uncles, and cousins on both sides who will set a good spiritual example for her. In most cases, grandparents don't get to, nor should they, have much day to day responsibility for rearing their grandchildren. Of course there are exceptions to this rule of thumb.
Many grandparents DO end up rearing their grandchildren and do a very credible job.
In our case, we trust our children to do a fine job in that department, partly because they just might have learned something in the nurturing environment of our homes that rubbed off and set some kind of standard. It doesn't always work that way, but that's what we'd like to see. In this case, we have full confidence that the nurturing effect will be positive and effective. To us, it doesn't matter if she wears only designer diapers. It matters that she grow up in an atmosphere where love freely flows and lots of hugs get easily and frequently swapped.