If your partner says this is true, believe it. While some people who do the licking are quite proud of their technique, others feel uncertain or insecure. Another trick is to make sure you're comfortable when you start. A neck or knees that start out bent at a funny angle will soon ache and make you wish that your partner would hurry up and climax. A woman whose body is chilly while she's being nibbled will find it hard to let go and really enjoy the attention.
Many women shy away from cunnilingus.
This is a shame. You don't have to look like a model to taste good. You and your partner can create plenty of intimacy with sounds and caresses. And most of us male and female alike could use some practice just lying back and sharing our body. Never blow in the vagina, as this could cause medical problems.