Stop, I don't want to hear it. Yes, we must refuse to participate in building and propagating strife in the church and working the opposite, to help others find peace with God, and to keep peace with God. It is the Lord Jesus Christ. For God is not a God of disorder but of peace. But as a peacemaker, be sure of three things.
Every time there is sin in our lives our peace is disrupted.
Keep short accounts with God, confess your sins, be submissive at all times, realizing that any inequities you may suffer, God will make it right and reward you for any loss experienced for the sake of peace. Only when we are at peace with God and experiencing the fullness of it, can we help others to find it also. In every assembly of God's children there are those who seem to be unable to have God's peace ruling in their hearts. Go to them, befriend them, find out the source of their problems and then pray for them and help them. Ask God to search your heart.