The child sees his parents sleeping together and obviously wants to be in their company. But the habit of sleeping alone should be encouraged. Scientific studies have shown that only infants should sleep with parents, but children above the age of two years should be encouraged to sleep independently. Though some western cultures recommend that children should start sleeping alone from infancy, this school of thought is gradually changing. So one should not apply the sleep-alone principle in the early years.
Physical proximity provides a secure and happy environment to children initially.
Start the process gradually by telling your child that within a few days he or she will be allowed to sleep independently. Make it sound like an exciting event. Decorate the room Shop for decorations for the child s room. Involve your child in the shopping so that he or she can choose some soft toys and wall hangings. Do up the room cheerfully and make it a space your child will love to be in.