I am proud of her. Perhaps my need to protect is a way to feel like I am actively doing something. It's good to be aware of these varied and normal emotional responses. Siblings of children with hydrocephalus need lots of love, attention, and comfort. A diagnosis of hydrocephalus can truly be a test of your marriage, either bringing you closer together or pushing you apart.
Emotions are high, and coping skills differ.
Couples must simply survive the first few overwhelming weeks, then work together to rearrange the pieces in a new pattern. How hydrocephalus impacts each of you, and how you respond, also impacts the two of you as a couple. If you have hydrocephalus, it is important that you talk openly with your spouse about your condition. If you haven't already done so, share information about your medical history. If you have copies of your medical records, let your spouse read through them to better understand what you've been through.