As most of you have noticed most of these issues deal with the fraternities. This is because I can only comment on what I've seen. And I've only observed the elitism problem with the sororities. I'm all for the fraternities trying to change their image and making the world take notice. Unfortunately the only thing that the world is noticing are the parties turning into riots, fraternities fighting with golf clubs, houses burning while members are taped up and left behind.
Members kicking people in the head while they are lying on the ground is high profile.
Regardless of who starts something or why, there is a point where things have gone too far, and you have to know when that is. If you want to change your image you'll have to do better than that. Try behaving yourselves sometime, see if that works. Try acting more like the ladies, I've never heard of them doing these things. But then again, that goal may just be too high.