We let truth be what it is, whether it happens to fit our paradigm agendas or not. We let out pursuit of the truth spill over our current thought boundaries, drawing us into areas we have not considered before. David Bohm mapped out three criteria - t hree rules of dialogue . These rules cannot be imposed from without or faked. The exercise lapses into ping-pong.
Real dialogue grows with soul connectedness.
In paradigm terms, a dialogue response grows from soul connectedness assumptions and strategies . We simply love the truth and want to explore it in the same spirit with others. We are not trying to win in a dialogue. We all wind if we are doing it right. Even the best paradigm falls short of reality, which is infinite and surpasses our most advanced ideas.