Today we look for his press agent. The master addiction is control. No one loves the one whom he fears. That is, most of us will pay a large price to be a part of some group of people where we depend on each other - where we know that others will cover for us, stand up for us, and bail us out if we're in trouble. If you can create such an association, people will flock to join you, work harder than they've ever worked, and often stick with you even if the financial benefits would be greater in some other place.
Nothing happens unless first a dream.
Instead, teach them to yearn for the vast and endless sea. A candle loses nothing by lighting another candle. If it isn't to the apparent, urgent things in your life, it is probably to the most fundamental, highly important things. Even when the urgent is good, the good can keep you from your best, keep you from your unique contribution, if you let it. One half of knowing what you want is knowing what you must give up before you get it.