Being intentional in making a positive connection to your mate creates competence for the one making such a choice and validates the receiver of the act. When members of a couple both act with intentionality to connect, they validate the relationship. Marriage can bring out the worst in us and it can bring out the best in us. The difference is in acting with intentionality. His message is that we must choose to make things happen, we must be intentional.
Intentionality is mutually exclusive to automatic.
Fear keeps us from acting with positive intentionality. Opinions expressed are not necessarily shared by members of the Coalition. All rights reserved. When you send a reply message it is read by Diane Sollee, director, only.