When they are ready they will emerge if the facilitator effectively does her job. The coordinator should be committed to learning all she can about the variety possible in small groups. Confidentiality should be stressed repeatedly by her to the facilitators. Inform women there are different levels at which degrees of personal revelations are exercised. Some women may wish to reveal certain things only to their personal prayer partner.
Prayer changes things.
It is important to realize that a situation may change as a result of the group praying about it. Even though a woman may feel comfortable asking the group to pray about something, she may not want the whole church told about her problem. Women need to learn that even if their intentions are good, they do not have the option of sharing private information outside of the small group. It is also important for women to realize that they are responsible for their own relationship with God and their own salvation through him. It can be helpful to remind the women that Christ is present at each meeting and knows what occurred there.