So to discipline means to educate, especially in matters of conduct. Everything we do to help our children learn is discipline. This basic concept of the parent as a teacher is central to effective childrearing. The effectiveness of discipline has to be judged on how well a child has learned from us. Memories of Discipline Responsive discipline emphasizes decision making.
Responsive discipline is thoughtful.
It is not impulsive or indulgent. This does not mean that the decision to act is time consuming. Sometimes action has to be swift for safety's sake. But impulsive decisions are most often ineffective. The first reaction is not always the best reaction.