I really appreciate it. Dear Scared, The problem with this relationship is that you both rushed too much in the beginning. It's always better to build a relationship slowly. On the other hand, you've done the right thing by putting your foot down and letting him know there are things you absolutely won't put up with. Be sure to give a little less than he's giving and always make certain he's the one doing the pursuing, not you - or that at least he thinks he's the one.
Men are competitive.
They like to think they're getting something that's hard to get, not something that's easy. Say no once in a while. Be unavailable sometimes. I always recommend going on a business trip or vacation - just so that you can be missed. Always keep him wanting a little more of you than he's getting.