People in our culture think everybody is selling something. Evangelism can come across as selling. We don't share the same faith, but I'm so sorry your little daughter died. When you think of it, Jesus' spirit was more a spirit of mission than it was of evangelism. He didn't rattle off numbers like we do today.
Evangelism often focuses on numbers like business focuses on sales.
I think we have to abandon that type of evangelism and let mission take its place. Yes, yes, yes. Without counting numbers. I'm a friend of Billy Graham and of the evangelical movement. But that can't be done.