Experts say instead, parents should work hard to provide a good role model. And also encourage their kids to really try to get to know a classmate who is in special ed. Sara-Kate, who is confined to a wheel chair, and is difficult to understand when she speaks, says she just wishes other students could look past those surface traits. Help your child feel special and appreciated. Also, try role-playing situations with your child to help demonstrate the steps involved in problem solving.
Many children do try hard and still have difficulty.
Children are less defensive when the problem is cast as strategies that must be changed rather than as something deficient with their motivation. This approach also reinforces problem-solving skills. Be an empathetic parent. Provide choices for your child. This will also minimize power struggles that may arise.