If you have funny stories from work and want to share, then by all means you should be able to share that with your wife. This is a fetish. It is a ritualized type of sex that is very unusual. I cheated on my girlfriend. Try to learn from your mistake and pray that your girlfriend does not do the same to you.
People have cyber sex because it can be fun and adventuresome.
It can spice up your life, but it can get you in trouble because you don't know who you are cybering with. The police are getting tricky in that they log on and start cybering with you. I have two wonderful kids, but I feel that emotionally my husband doesn't give me what I need, and I have talked to him about it. I have developed feelings for another man that I have known for about two years. He too is married.