It was much easier having the reception in a place with running water. In an example of an outdoor wedding that didn t work, Carl and Rhonda decided marry at sunrise on the beach. There were two problems with this. One, many guests simply refused to show up at this outrageous hour, and two, my voice, as the minister, along with the voices of Carl and Rhonda, was inaudible against the sound of the crashing waves and the chilly wind. Be aware of problems like this.
Nature is beautiful, but it can be cold and noisy.
While you may insist on a traditional white church wedding, it s important to know that you re allowed to improvise on the content of the ceremony. Consider a few alternatives, such as writing your own vows, having a talented friend sing a special song, including a reading of your favorite poetry, or involving selected friends and family in the ceremony by having them say a few words. This last idea is the one I like best, because a commitment ceremony is about declaring your love to the world, and then taking your place in that world as a bonded couple. Also, a very common mistake made by many couples is that stand facing the officiant, with their backs to the audience. It's really sad when they do this.