My last girlfriend asked me out. I was totally flattered and excited. If you're not having a good time on a date, say so. Be nice about it of course, but say something. You never know, that could be the icebreaker needed to get you to actually talk to each other.
Nothing is more of a turn-off than sensing the mental checklist in action.
I wanted to do so,if need be, he could arrange everything in advance. I really appreciated the courtesy. I once spent eight hours on a date that should have ended after the first half hour. No amount of hinting gave this guy the message that all I wanted to do was go home. Next time I will just take the direct approach.