I enjoy being single, but it hasn't been without difficulty. I get lonely at times. But I know married people who are lonely, too, and many who are not as fulfilled as I am.
Life is a choice.
I can only choose what I feel is God's best for me today. I find men and women within a singles pod can feel sorry for themselves. I prefer to see singles integrate into other groups in the church with older people, people with varying marital situations, people of different ethnic origins and people from other countries. It allows us to take our eyes off our problems and learn, grow and contribute to others. It's a tough row to hoe because people like to label.