Patients are frequently flooded with information from people they love. Piles of articles, books and tapes can add to pre-surgery stress because they do love you and they may feel guilty for not reading about the latest diet, vitamins or exercise. Support every member of your family who lives with or nearby the patient. Call at reasonable hours to cheer them on or express your love for them. Ask what you can do and if it is possible, do that.
Prayers can be as or even more important to people as fresh cut flowers.
Cards with a note and photos can make a huge difference in a long day after surgery. There may be stories or family jokes that only you know. If you are a team member for a child , adolescent or senior - read specific tips in regards to their care.