Sexual fantasy can give a man powerful wisdom about the path to wholeness in his life. I am not talking here about enacting wild sexual fantasy but learning from it just as we do from our dreams. Our excitement informs us about what we need more or less of to lead a high quality life. This is the feeling that I am my own person, that my life is mine, and that I can be honest with others. Finally I need to be able to give and receive love.
Love is a fundamental requirement for human existence, the basic ingredient in human life force.
There are times that he may be particularly attracted to airy, fun, gutsy women. The media image of Marilyn Monroe personifies this quality. Beautiful, uninhibited, and free. We express our freedom or lack of it in everything that we say and do. Openness, honesty and their reward, delight are potential for us.