Mothers wind up feeling overwhelmed, resentful and very angry.
Fathers feel as if their wives monitor their actions with the kids.
They end up feeling like second-class citizens. What results is a couple who lives in different worlds under the same roof. In ordinary time you create the strongest bonds with your children, not in the Mr. Excitement times. He said this will not only lighten the burden on Mom, it will also build strong bonds with your kids. Moms need to let fathers find their own way without criticizing and monitoring what fathers are doing.