In addition, traditional adoption options have changed, and adoption can be more costly and time-consuming than expected. It is, however, still possible to adopt the healthy baby of your dreams. There are also many older children and children with special needs available for adoption. My partner might leave me because of our infertility. You know what loving parents you would be, and it is painful to have to explain to others that you have a medical problem.
Infertility is nature's way of controlling population.
Zero population growth is a goal pursued in a time of world overpopulation, but it still allows for couples to replace themselves with two children. Individuals or couples can certainly elect the option to be childfree or to raise a single child. Infertility, for those who desire children, denies them the opportunity to choose. Continuity in treatment is important, but sometimes a break can provide needed rest and renewal for the next steps. I'll be labeled a 'trouble maker' if I ask too many questions.