Based on these experiences and the advice of JoAnn Magdoff, a psychotherapist in private practice in New York, I came up with ten rules for single moms. If you're dating or want to be but feel nervous about it keep these tips in mind. You make the rules. A single mother can date, seriously or casually. A single mother can be seen out dancing on a Saturday night.
Nobody loves a parade.
It's not necessary to introduce your kids to every guy who takes you to a movie. Have a reliable sitter lined up, suggests Magdoff, so you don't end up bringing children along before you're ready. Don't lean too hard too soon. Resist the temptation to make the new guy a parenting helper right away, adds Magdoff. Until you've actually decided that the time is right, don't ask him to pick up your daughter from ballet just because it's on his way over for dinner.