I certainly recognize that. They don't even want to face the guilt. Fear and anger are directed outwardly. With fear and anger we get to blame someone else. It's easy to do.
People resist working on their own guilt.
However, with many sexual abuse cases it is THE issue to address and complete resolution will not come about it is handled. When I spoke with her a few days later, she said she really felt different. Connections with people feel different. I feel an easiness being with people. I just feel closer.