I always take the rough road into town, for big potatoes always rise to the top on a rough road. The ambitious farmer went out to the truck with the lazy farmer and looked at the truck. The little potatoes were all at the bottom. The middle size potatoes were in the middle. When you go through rough times, if your heart is right, you will rise to the top.
Every problem is either solvable or manageable.
You can have control over your problem when you realize that it does not have control over you. There is no need for problems to have control, and the way you can get back in the driver's seat is to adopt a positive mental attitude toward your problem. There is no such thing as an unsolvable or unmanageable problem. That is the truth. All other negative attitudes are just illusions that can drain the creative energy needed to find the solution.