I don't think there's anybody in this business who doesn't want to be famous. It's too much work to not want fame in some way. Build up the muscles in your middle finger instead. It's the people who tell you that you suck who make you stronger. I'll answer that question the way I usually answer it.
People can listen to whatever they want to.
Con Can does make a difference, but I'm not sure if I entirely agree with the idea. I can't complain though, because it did seem to help me this year. Actually, I love Napster. I use Napster to download songs, so I can sample breakbeats for my songs. I'm a total pirate.