Parents observe the ways their babies explore, the expressions on their faces, the tenor of their cries, the color of their poops, and the number of diapers they wet. We notice how long they nap, when they cry the most, and what seems to calm them. It is through this observation, this taking of mental history, that we begin to know our children. They're like little scientists. And the amazing thing is that they each do it so differently.
Most parents rely on observation to learn about their babies in the first year of life.
But once children start talking, many parents assume that observation isn't as necessary. Yet there are many things even verbal children can't articulate. As a busy parent, you may think you don't have time for observation. Moments of fascination, delight, and pride often accompany observation. You learn about child development.