I wished someone had stressed the importance of safe words , and i wished i'd known about sub drop . MEET before you make the final decision to scene with this person. Meet for a coffee or a drink. Talk to them face to face. Anything can be hidden behind a computer screen.
People become hero's in their own lunch hour in the world of cyber.
Wait till you actually meet this wonderful creature, before you form an opinion and most certainly before you agree to any type of play with them. When you arrange to meet with this person, arrange a safe call . You should also aim to get personal details from the person you are meeting as well. Full name, phone number, address, where they work and anything else you may feel is relevant. Call them at work to ensure they really do work there.