Nobody likes to talk about death and dying.
But, as usual, what you don't know can hurt you. And this is true in regard to the laws governing final disposition of the remains of a loved one. These issues are particularly relevant to the gay community, for, unless the proper paperwork has been executed, funeral directors will follow the wishes of the immediate family, leaving a gay or lesbian partner out in the cold. But there are things you can do to protect your partner's right to direct your funeral arrangements and protect yourself against unscrupulous funeral directors. There are also sources available to help with funeral and burial expenses.