Take your phone off the hook during rest periods. Limit visitors for at least the first 2 weeks. It is fun to have others admire your baby with your - but it is also tiring for both you and your baby. Fathers can be as good at caring for a baby as mothers, but men need a chance to learn, just as women do. Let dad do things his way - as long as they are safe.
New mothers hate having someone watching and giving advice every moment - and so do new fathers.
If you find yourself feeling down or getting angry with your baby, look for help. Never pick up your baby when you are angry. Give yourself time . If you are having a very hard time and are afraid you might hurt your baby, call for help. Many communities have crisis counseling that you can call 24 hours a day.