By willing I mean both partners agree. IF one person is loooking for sex and happens to find the member, which I hope is the opposite sex, in that same position of hoping to have sex that night, then more power to them. If I am looking for a beer, and so is someone else, that is not immoralo.
People have the right to do what they wantt.
If you do not like that atmosphere then youshould not be there. It is actually quite simple. No one has the right to say it is wrong to look for sex. No one has the right to say you cannot smoke and no one has the right to say you cannot talk.