I have a lot of respect for Chuck. We happen to disagree on this issue, though. Chuck begins by saying that he thinks the gift of singleness is very rare, and that there's no biblical reason for this woman to still be single. But current societal trends leave more and more people single for longer periods of time. The average age at first marriage is rising steadily.
Divorce rates are high.
So, whether or not we're actually called to be single forever, many of us are single today. We can believe, as Chuck suggests, that we aren't supposed to be single, that marriage would be best for us, and that we won't be complete until we're married. People think that if they are supposed to be married, they must have done something wrong to miss the person they were intended for. Maybe they went to the wrong college. Maybe they should have gone to that other, bigger singles group.