Tom got so excited that he ended up masturbating in front of me even though I asked him to go in the corner and do it. I can enjoy doing some kind of work together with someone I love, but it isn't essential to love. I can love someone whose work is in a different field where I do not have talent. For me, I need to feel good about what the other person does for work. I have to be able to respect what they are doing and feel that it is part of the salvation of the planet.
Diversity is vital to the Neutopian world view.
In true love, the individual difference is what attracts people together. It seems that the key to mating is that the couple comes together with the same intensity of purpose in the Great Work of re-structuring the world economy. This creates a balance of power between the two.