It could also be called over-discontent. I eat therefore I am. Nines also pursue being through belonging. According to Riso, Nines positively identified with both parents or with other parent figures. That's how they learned to identify with other people.
Nines live through other people.
According to Rohr, Nines report that in their childhood they were overlooked or swamped. They were ignored or rejected if they expressed their own opinion. According to Palmer Nines felt overlooked when they were young. They remember that their point of view was seldom heard and that other people's needs were more important than their own. Nines are caught in the dilemma of whether to conform or rebel.