If you need them, wear contact lenses. If he pursues, point to your head, indicating he s to shower the money. Sometimes artistry is appreciated even more, by dint of contrast with the previous raunch queen. Personally, when discussing a future job with a possible employer, I politely make it clear that I don t do bachelor parties, stags, etc. or dance in shows with strippers or topless dancers. I ask if women are a decent portion of the audience.
Lecture s over.
About 30 years ago, I had a gig for an American audience in a large N.Y. hotel banquet hall with four really cool Mideastern musicians. I clanged my sagat , to let him know I was ready. The flying missiles stopped. As I took a third bow, two men came from the back of the hall carrying a big basket. As they got to the stage, they turned it over, dumping hundreds of rolls at my feet.