Current statistics show that 1 out of 2 marriages end in divorce. We discussed and argued and cried. We have worked through situations and worked apart as well. I feel it means that marriage is something that will change and grow as the people involved in the relationship change and grow. I also feel that it is something that depends on infinite patience.
People are individuals.
They do not grow at the same rates. Sometimes, one grows and one does not. Sometimes it will then go the other way around. It can be very confusing. If one spouse has grown beyond the other, it takes patience to wait for the other to catch up.