A woman worries about the future until she gets a husband. A man never worries about the future until he gets a wife. A woman will always cherish the memory of the man who wanted to marry her. A man, of the woman who he didn't. Before marriage and after marriage.
Married men live longer than single men.
But married men are a lot more willing to die. Any married man should forget his mistakes. No need for two people remembering the same things. A woman has the last word in any argument.