I am well met. Isn't it wonderful that through this forum we, who began so sharply, have gestalted ourselves into new experiences and awarenesses shared. Makes the many days ahead brighter and more inviting. This is how I like contact cuzz it is solid and longstanding and easily refreshed in memory. Your knowledge of all those shoulds and should nots could come in rather handy when you will be able to so clearly appreciate the differences of what a real free and existentional justified experience of I-Thou is as a human out of the bondage of all those shoulds and should nots.
Nobody appreciates freedom more than one who was once a true slave.
Throw the chains off to be sure Javier, but you might do well to welcome the memory of your paradox with a strong confidence of your knowing both sides of the tracks. For myself Javier, my life is bursting with paradoxes. I am a drug addict who remembers the joyful entrancement of a cold beer and a hit of orange LSD but has not substanced abused since 1981. I am a polio survivor fighting a battle in which even if I win I loose. I am a gestalt therapist without a formal recognition degree or licensure.