Work with them, not against them. Yes, it's the band's job to follow you. You are a team. Not one person is better than the other. It destroys the chemistry in the band.
People sense when chemistry is good.
They can hear it. So, work with the members of the band and listen to one another. Lastly, keep it fresh. It can be difficult, especially when you don't like the song. Inc. PageWise makes no representations about the content published on this site.