Sex becomes sacred when you approach it from your heart and body, rather than your mind. The body is only layers of invisible energy in form, and it can be awakened if we let go in sex. This is the way of Tantra. It affirms the life energy within you in totality, so that those on this path find themselves whole and self-confident, with a positive panoramic view of everything. Tantra changes one's view of relationships as well.
Relationships are less co-dependent, jealous or neurotic.
They tend to be harmonious, fun and energy-filled. In the way of Tantra, you also discover that the relationship you seek outside is already within you. There is no reason to hang onto anything if eternity exists. In Tantra, sex is used to create the polarity charge, or potential, that connects with the primordial energy from which everything in the universe arises. The body is only layers of invisible energy in form, and it can all be awakened if we let go to the sexual energy .