Although death was seen as final, there was also a belief that death may be eluded. Keep in mind that while this model might be useful, not all children develop equally or in the same order. This concept of development of understanding death in different stages should be a great concern of society as a whole. Separation anxiety is another important issue to discuss when trying to understand grief among children. Separation or loss of someone close can lead to fears of abandonment.
Insecurity can also begin to develop.
Fear of death, loss of loved ones and close friends are essential factors in children s ideas of death and grief. ERIK S PAGE is a good example of grief and loss among a scout troop who has lost a member. It also talks about what happens when issues around a death go avoided. Separation anxiety can be caused by the lack of support systems around the individual. Without being comforted the child can feel pretty lonely, frightened, and scared.