A smattering of pastors have resigned. Many more potential candidates for ministry have turned to seek ordination in other, more orthodox denominations. Angry conversations waste Bible Study time and poison Administrative board meetings. Apportionments are withheld or at best very timidly promoted. Members quit or transfer in disgust.
Potential members look elsewhere.
The hidden costs on ministry are enormous. A number of solutions could serve as an end game. One option would be to replace the apportionment system with designated giving. This would allow churches and pastors to be faithful in supporting those ministers and ministries that are truly United Methodist. No United Methodist should be forced to support voices and actions that undercut or soft-pedal United Methodist sexual ethics.