T rich is a living nightmare. It is painful for you, for sure but the trichster is the one who everyone says should be in control of this thing, yet it is in control of them. It is rather like being in the trunk of a car, driven around. You have no control over where you are going, and you could be going over a cliff. Y ou might have been doing fine, like I have, for months but you have no idea if tomorrow morning you will wake up with no hair at all because the disorder attacked you in the night.
Relationships are hard.
My partner is getting better able to deal with it now but we have been together 5 years. We were together a month before I was able to take my wig off in front of him . He saw my bald head and was brutally honest with me. He said he didn't know if he could handle it. I gave him time and he came back.