This communicates attention and interest in the person you communicate with . Firm handshakes apply to all genders and communicates confidence and respect. Charm the Universe and Commend Others Charm is the art of making other people feel comfortable on their own level without diminishing your standards of behavior. Try to find a common link or interest between you and the other person. You'll be able to relate to one another and this helps establish good rapport.
People like to talk about themselves.
It makes them feel good to know others are interested in them. Ask open ended questions that require some explanation. Make Others Feel Important Become genuinely interested in other people. Care for others. Speak to the person in terms of their interests.