Mistress Kira Veritas Even a big, strong man needs to feel small sometimes. Clich d but true, the intelligent, dynamic man of action is the man that needs to be controlled the most. Even a powerful man needs to be challenged, and every man, powerful or not, needs to feel treasured, cared for, touched.
Sadomasochists are extreme romantics.
Vanilla play is not emphatic, or dramatic enough, for those that lust for a sweeping gesture. Often an invisible bell jar exists between the sadomasochist and the vanilla lover he is kissing. Although the lips move, the feeling simply taps on the glass. At my best moments, I have turned the individual into the mask of passion, blank and smooth, his only expression a mouth hole punched through velvety leather. A hole in a black hood, with a pink tongue exploring blindly in the night.