We need to provide at least two separate camps as part of host organising interventionary actions. Camp 1 can be a reception camp for anyone prepared to sign adherence to a code of ethics, including process agreements. Inside this camp will be reception, briefing, training, formation of affinity groups, coordination and support as appropriate. Camp 2 can be for anyone who doesn't want to sign an agreement. At this camp can be wood and water.
People there can do whatever they like, and take responsibility for it.
People in Camp 1 can do whatever they like too, within the agreed parameters. In this camp we can celebrate our diversity as women, men, children, and wood elves. We can join with others to carry out actions that give meaning and strength to all of us. Camp 1 can become many camps, according to need and choice. This could happen in Camp 2 as well, but I doubt it.