Actually, it's not dumb. It's void of thought. These inspirations avail themselves to anyone who is willing to ask and listen. You can ask, but often your thoughts impede your inner ability to listen. Editorializing upon the whispers of spirit is not permitted here.
Pure receptivity is called for.
The other problem might be soothing the nervous Virgo stomach into a calm state. If you are to do this, negative emotions must be purged. Now that your tummy is empty, have the courage to step up to the banquet table of the Creator. The big question is whether or not you can listen to the needs, beliefs, and complaints of your partner without losing your place on your own page. You need to check any uneasiness settling in your stomach or any statement you hear that makes you feel queasy.