The danger here lies in the fact that thoughtful people who are intelligent enough to realize that these rules are artificial and not based on any transcendental, universally valid principles, are liable to fall into the error of thinking the same about all the other ethical laws. And it should always be under the control of the will, as it can be if it is regarded sanely and placed in its proper perspective. Sex should not be considered as the most important ingredient for one's happiness in a married life. Those who over-indulge can become slaves to sex which would ultimately ruin love and humane consideration in marriage. As in everything, one must be temperate and rational in one's sexual demands taking into consideration one another ' s intimate feelings and temperament.
Marriage is a bond of partnership for life entered into by a man and a woman.
Patience, tolerance and understanding are the three principal qualities that should be developed and nurtured by the couple. Whilst love should be the knot tying the couple together, material necessities for sustaining a happy home should be made available by the male partner for the couple to share. The qualification for a good partnership in marriage should be ' ours ' and not ' yours ' or ' mine ' . A good couple should ' open ' their hearts to one another and to refrain from entertaining ' secrets ' . Keeping secrets to oneself could lead to suspicion and suspicion is the element that could destroy love in a partnership.