We both watched it go up and come back down until it landed right on her forehead causing a big gash. After telling this story, she showed everyone the scar she still has to this day from that incident, and it was obvious that as the oldest brother she still thinks I should have done something to prevent her injury. That's the way we are too often. We might forgive someone, but for some reason we can never forget. To experience true forgiveness, we also need to learn to forget.
Nobody likes to be wronged.
Nothing will get us more upset than when we feel we've been taken advantage of and it's not our fault. Peter thinks he is being generous by offering to forgive those who have wronged him seven times. Let's admit it. For most of us, that would be extremely generous. We don't like to be used or abused.