I will not allow them to be blamed. The fault lies wholly on the shoulders of the elders, the parents, and the leaders who shape the norms which they imbibe. That is the essence of spiritual discipline as laid down in all Faiths. Their grief at your behaviour will haunt you during your last moments. LIFE is a mosaic of pleasure and pain - grief is an interval between two moments of joy.
Peace is the interlude between two wars.
Troubles and travails will haunt you but you must not allow them to deflect you from the path of duty and dedication. God will never desert His obligation. He will feed you and foster you. They keep men on the moral path and inspire them to follow spiritual discipline. Their hearts are tender and full of compassion for the hungry and the distressed.