If your nurse does something differently than expected or the norm, such as putting your child down for the night on their right side instead of their left, or using the wrong tape for the feeding line, tell her right then so the incidence will not be repeated. Nurses are rarely physic and you'll only drive yourself crazy putting it back to your way after every nursing shift. Personal Guidelines Always treat your nurse with the same respect you wish to receive. Always say thank you to your child's nurse when their shift is over. This is especially necessary if they are working over their normal shift or coming an extra day.
Nobody likes to feel unappreciated.
If your nurse has done something special for your family, like cooked up a casserole or did a load of laundry, tell her you appreciate what she did. Never - Never, yell or scream at your child's nurse, no matter what happened. If your nurse is doing something you feel is incredibly stupid, chances are it's not intentional, just unawareness. Always discuss your concerns as calmly as possible. If the behavior is somehow endangering your child, like sleeping on the job, get rid of her - simple as that.