God doesn t operate that way. He sees your whole character and expects purity and honesty of everyone. Neither one is unnecessary or contemptible. Marriage, as a lifelong commitment, brings more happiness and benefit than any series of shorter relationships. Many people seem to spend their youth trying to guarantee that they will never be happily married.
Intimacy requires commitment.
On a superficial level, most people understand this. You probably wouldn t kiss someone unless you re attracted to them and feel some affection toward them. If you want to, you can train yourself so that it no longer has the bonding effect on you, and then it s just a source of physical pleasure. But when you do this, you have made yourself less of a human being and have cut off a source of lifelong happiness. It is associated with the heretical doctrine that Adam and Eve s sin was premature sexual intercourse.