I'm trying to be as opened minded as I can,but I can't help thinking that he broke my trust in him because he did not tell me during our dating, engagement or before marrying him. He tells me that he does not like men and loves women,but I don't know what to believe. Confused wife Dear Confused, You've only been married for a year. The first year of marriage is often filled with revelations for both husband and wife. A marriage is a commitment that has to survive lots of surprises.
Nobody knows everything about another person when they marry that person.
Sure, in a perfect world, he would have told you before you married that he liked to wear women's underwear. In an even more perfect world, he wouldn't have such a fetish. He's shown a lot of trust in you by telling you and trusting that you would still love him. Wearing women's underwear is a very common fetish and usually is not connected to having gay tendencies. It often happens that a very young boy's very first arousal in life is when he accidentally touches the silky underwear belonging to his mother or aunt or even grandmother.