There is probably no better technique for controlling anger than cultivating a balanced outlook on life which sees things in proper perspective. Advance integration of the right philosophy implants the preventive mechanism forestalling anger. There are volumes and chapters of traditional Jewish texts addressing the control of anger. Their study should bring with it the resolve to be extra scrupulous about losing control. Good intentions, reinforced over time by study and hard work, translate into concrete, positive results in cultivating and strengthening marital harmony.
Domestic bliss includes harmony, contentedness, love, purposefulness, etc.
Pirkey Hanhagat HaBayit, vol. See also Sefer HaChinuch, no. See Sefer HaChinuch, no. See Yevamot 62b, Sanhedrin 76b. Relative to being careful not to embarrass, see Binyan Aday Ahd, p. 62.