You have no control of where you're going, and no one wants to be near you. Human responsibility is what makes us human. God has given us the freedom to be in control of our lives. God has allowed us to make right and wrong decisions. With this freedom, comes an awesome sense of responsibility to do the right thing.
Life is about choices.
If we choose to make healthy, God-centered choices, then our job will be easier and easier with every right turn. However, the opposite is true as well. If we choose to make poor decisions, lacking in responsibility, it will become easier and easier to make the wrong decisions. We are in relationships, and these relationships can make the task more difficult. There is no easy course for becoming a responsible adult.