You're now halfway to ''retraining'' your lover to meet your innermost desires. I hope you had fun practicing getting his attention and complimenting him as discussed in weeks one and two. These are lifelong habits that you can apply for maintaining and increasing pleasure, fun and happiness. The next step now is the actual asking part. The goal this week is how to make your sexual and romantic desires known to him in the most attractive fashion, so that he'll be motivated to change his ways and please you more.
Men really do want to please their women, but they want to be in control.
Let's say you want to go out more. While sitting in front of the TV, you say something like, ''I can't remember the last time we went out for a special night. With that kind of conversation-starter, you can bet he won't jump up and transform into Mr. Romantic Evening Planner. However, if you were to say something like, ''I was just thinking of that night you took me out dancing a few months ago. We had such a great time.