I decided I needed a plan, so I sat down and wrote one. Now I can have a party for 100 people and have a great time. I actually look forward to hosting a party. And believe me, so can you. If you are not having fun, nobody else will either.
Frame of mind is everything.
Sometimes you have to remind yourself to have a good time. Enjoying yourself, the good food, and the company of friends, makes all your effort worth it. So what if everything isn't perfect. These are your friends. Of course not.