We have been taught to be responsible for everyone else, that is outer responsibility. From this point of view, responsibility becomes a burden, not an opportunity. We are afraid of change because change is more responsibility. Life is constant change and you cannot stop change. If you try, it just drags you along with it, and that way is not very pleasant.
Life is in constant change .
Trying to keep things the same will not work, for stagnation can only occur. Here is an example of being loyal and responsible. In reality, they are 'growing experiences', opportunities to learn, grow and unfold. They help you understand more about yourself. If you can think this way, then you start to live life, instead of life living you.