I hope Steven and Hideous read this -I'd like to see what they have to say. And I'm sorry that quote was so long. I don't mean to be rude, but you are making blatant errors in interpretation. He was alive without the Law because he didn't know it. A totally depraved persondoesn't always see his sin as disabling him to come to God, but sees it as a more minor offence.
Man is totally depraved because of sin.
He is no longer totally depraved. Take a look at verse 15 - the tense changes. Your companion passage has nothing to do with Rom. Or maybe I just don't know why the heck you are using these verses. Because they have nothing to do with someone being spiritually dead or spiritual death.