And when we see a friend go through that same or similar trial, we can be there to encourage them. We can let them know that they are not alone. We can walk with them and let them know that Jesus walks beside them too. A friend loves at all times, and a brother is born for adversity. Ministering to a struggling person walking a difficult path that we have already walked has it's own rewards.
More strong friendships come from the valleys than they do from the mountain tops.
And even those who reach the mountain tops will have to descend into the valley again to reach the next peak. Lord Jesus - You walked in our very steps and were nailed to our cross. You have suffered our temptations and pains - both physical and emotional. No one can say that You have no idea what they are going through. It is Your ability to identify with the pain of another that should be our model for reaching out to others who struggle and suffer trials.