Yeah, the homemaker should do this and that. Blah blah blah. Don't start squirming in your chair making up excuses. Do not apologize for your life. Figure out your own personal family values and then pursue them.
Nothing makes one feel more accomplished than trying hard.
As my expertise lies in the realm of cooking I will share with you my goals. Do not believe for a moment that I expect you to agree. It is an educational experience only. Having said that, I think kids and grown-ups should eat as much home cooked food as possible accented with take out pizza and sushi when necessary. I think this homemade food needs to taste good.