Now that you are past the initial shock of discovery, you may be experiencing feelings of anxiety, guilt, anger, and frustration all understandable reactions. Seeing a loved one suffer from an eating disorder is very frightening and trying. We know it's not easy. First, understand that the illness did not develop overnight, and that recovery will not happen overnight. But also know there is hope.
Recovery is attainable.
When singer Karen Carpenter died of anorexia in 1985, it was at a time when many doctors lacked the awareness and education needed to diagnose and treat victims of eating disorders. Today we know much more about these illnesses what causes them, how to recognize the symptoms earlier, and the steps required for recovery. Even though you may find it difficult to understand, your loved one finds security in their eating disorder. To its victims, the illness is a powerful, though misguided, coping mechanism. But with correct treatment, enough time, and lots of love, you can look forward with hope to a day when your loved one will be able to break the stranglehold of this illness.