Experts and married couples agree that the simple but magic ingredient in a love relationship is the expression of affection. They are just as quick to point out that this aspect of a couple' s life together is usually the first to grow dim. In researching what creates satisfaction in a marriage, one of the most significant findings was expressing affection on a regular basis. In other words, the couples who indulged in frequent terms of endearment, nonsexual touching, such as hugs and pats on the head, and tokens of affection, such as little gifts, reported extremely high levels of marital satisfaction. Conversely, there is often a correlation between lack of overt affection and the breakdown of intimacy.
People are a little embarrassed by what they perceive as kid stuff.
They think the candy and flowers, the sweet nothings, the silly names, are just a prelude to a real relationship. On the contrary, they light up your relationship. Send a card or love note to your spouse. Complete daily chores together and let this time become special sharing time. Put on a slow song and dance before retiring for the evening.