Next, there is the temporary self, which develops behavioral changes or mood changes in the adolescent with family and friends. Third, the social self deals with what the adolescent feels that others see. Lastly, the ideal self is the kind of person the adolescent would like to be. A second concept is self-esteem. A self-esteem is the thought or opinion one has of themselves.
Many problems can result from having a low self-esteem.
An adolescent with a low self-esteem may acquire an eating disorder, become an alcoholic or substance abuser and will most likely become depressed. As a parent or teacher it is crucial to reinforce children positively other than negatively. Of course criticism is good as long as it is positive. Children do not like to be put down or humiliated anymore than you do as an adult. Respect them as they do you.