Psychology recognises some basic instincts, each one of which has related emotions which arouse those instincts. Thus anger is the emotion which arouses the instinct of pugnacity or belligerence. Fear rouses escapism. People differ in the development of their instincts and their emotions. It becomes extremely difficult to harmonise them.
Emotional divergence becomes a major cause of the disintegration of a family.
One member is given utmost obedience, while another comes up with several reasons for not agreeing. Show discreet disregard occasionally. A certain individual is not very desirable and yet has to be kept in the organisation. For it discreet disregard has to be practised. In other words, some degree of neutrality has to be observed.