And those eyes see a very different world. It started almost 5 years ago. I was involved in a pretty brutal custody battle over my son. Accusations of all kinds were flying at me like a ball-throwing machine gone bezerk. In our family court system, it's typical for these things to happen.
People get angry and get very creative about expressing it in court.
Usually the courts grant physical custody to the mother along with joint legal custody for both parents. The exception is when either or both parents is so mentally unstable that such an arrangement is not in the child's best interest. In order for the judge to make such a decision, psychological evaluations are generally called for. My evaluation was favorable. In fact it recommended an increase in the amount of visitation time with my son.