They are alot more resilient then you give them credit, but their armor is only so thick. Both of you are going to have to contribute. One of you will think they are getting too little and the other will think they are paying too much. Fortunately, most states have implemented child support guidelines. This takes the guess work out of who pays what and how much. 5.
Most states have some type of domestic violence statute.
If you have been abused, call the police, seek medical attention and file a petition with your local court, police or commissioner. This will send the abuser packing for a cooling off period. However, the alleged abuser will have a hearing generally within 1 week, depending on service and the court system. At that time the court will decide whether to extend the time to stay away or not. Most courts can give you use and possession of your home, temporary custody of your child or children and temporary support.