When proper steps are taken for recovery, celebration is appropriate. Moral failure is sometimes precipitated to reward oneself. A good counterbalance is to reward positive character building and integrity. Only God is omnipresent. A significant gift a spouse can give in support of one who has experienced moral failure is to be present with them.
Marital drift can encourage secrecy and separateness that allows room for increased temptation.
Togetherness is a family strength that needs to be exercised in the recovery from moral failure. It allows the rebuilding of a relationship. Finally, we should remember that Christ promised to be with us always. His presence is reassuring to us as we decide how we can support each other. Focus on the Family.