He seems a little more grown up. You're like the character in the spooky movie who, after seeing the trail of blood, proceeds to venture into the dark and scary room all by herself. Others remain silent but close their eyes to the impending slaughter. Please feel free to be honest with your opinion. Thank you, I will.
People break up for a reason.
Ten times out of ten, when they get back together that reason is still there. Oh sure, it may take a while for that reason to re-emerge, but, trust me, it always does. And Bingo was his name-o. Three years is a long time to cook, clean and take care of someone. Now that Baby Hughy is gone there is a void and you probably have a lot of free time to fill.