If you do not wish to kneel, you may stand in front of the casket for a moment. What you say depends entirely on your relationship with the deceased and their family. However, if you are closer to the family you may want to ask if there is anything you can do to help or express your feelings about the deceased. You should not ask for details from the family about the illness or death. The casket is normally placed beside the grave, prior to when all the mourners gather at the gravesite.
People then gather around the casket to listen to the rites of burial given by the clergy.
Following the clergy's remarks, family members may place a flower on the casket. In many cases the funeral director will provide flowers for each mourner. They should follow the family in placing flowers. Inc. All Rights Reserved.