Don't be vague but firmly grasp what you know to be the will of God. Thank God at all times for everything, in the name of our Lord Jesus Christ. The willing subjection of the Church to Christ should be reproduced in the submission of wives to their husbands. Christ gave himself to make her holy, having cleansed her through the baptism of his Word - to make her an altogether glorious Church in his eyes. She is to be free from spots, wrinkles or any other disfigurement - a Church holy and perfect.
Men ought to give their wives the love they naturally have for their own bodies.
The love a man gives his wife is the extending of his love for himself to enfold her. And that is what Christ does for his body, the Church. For this reason a man shall leave his father and mother and be joined to his wife, and the two shall become one flesh'. The marriage relationship is doubtless a great mystery, but I am speaking of something deeper still - the marriage of Christ and his Church. Bring them up with Christian teaching in Christian discipline.