Men love to impress women. Ask questions that will give him the opportunity to impress you. Ask then shut up, listen, and praise accordingly. Surrender the battle and win the war. Being aggressive and combative is not the way to win men and get a date.
Men are warriors.
They don't want to be conquered. Don't try to conquer them. Don't call a guy. Let him pursue you. Force him to chase you, but also let him capture you.