After all, she is likely aware of how her appearance may affect others. Perhaps it is the elderly woman who is turned off by someone of her gender dressing so radically. Or perhaps the elderly man finds the young woman attractive and flirts with her. In any case, to make assumptions based on appearances without any previous information or contact with the participants will likely result in stereotypical assessments and outcomes, leaving many to wonder about the principles of justice guiding such experiences. Look at the world through the eyes of another.
Every participant is unique.
Cultural influences may be quite evident, yet each individual will reflect cultural heritage somewhat differently. If mediators are going to work with clients within a restorative justice framework, then they will need to take the time to meet with the clients, listen to them, and learn how they see their world. Mediators will also want to pay attention to communication styles. In human interactions in which the stakes are as high as they are when matters of justice are being decided, mediators must know the key participants so the process leading toward a just resolution is not derailed by what may initially appear to be incompatible points of view and communication styles. To gain such knowledge requires spending ample time with each participant, asking appropriate questions, listening thoroughly, and adapting one s communication style to that which is encountered.