It surely seems to me that at least women play an important part. With the lady gone, I'm slipping further down the evolutionary ladder every minute. Anyone who's lived in both coed conditions and all male housing knows that guys are vastly more civilized with chicks around. Which brings up the real damage in all of this feminist indoctrination. Sure, the boys will ultimately resist the push to make them girls.
Men follow the market.
If women demand squishy, non-judgmental weenies, than color us weenies. If women swoon at men who strive to do right, then more men will strive to do right. And, if women are unwilling to assume their responsibilities in encouraging men to be gentlemen, then men will not be gentlemen.