Then you can let your hand glide up and down the shaft in long slow movements, gradually building up speed and pressure. You may enjoy rubbing or tickling the glans of the penis, though for some men this is too sensitive. You may like gentle or firm pulling, stroking, squeezing and stretching. Try holding off ejaculation by varying the stroke when you become too excited, before finally letting go in orgasm. Masturbation need not be something that you do only when you are alone.
Many people find the sight of their partner masturbating highly erotic.
It can also be very instructive to discover how your partner reaches orgasm alone, as this will be the best method for you to adopt when you are masturbating him or her. Masturbating with your partner will break down inhibitions and allow you to get even closer. Both men and women need to learn how to handle each other's genitals with tenderness and sensitivity. Copyright 1998-2000 Sweet Ecstacy. All rights reserved.