They have felt the pain. Go to the library and take out a book on miscarriage. You will find stories of women who have lived through the experience. Read them, you will see that you are not alone. Connect with others who have had similar experiences.
Many places offer support groups for women who have lost a child.
This is a place to meet women and men who understand what you are going through. If these groups do not exist in your area the Internet is another place to connect with women who have had similar experiences to your own. Please look at the resource page for information. Men and women often grieve differently. Many women have found it difficult to find the support and comfort they need from there husbands after a miscarriage.