Man talks to persuade. Woman to please. Man has a daring heart. Woman a tender, loving one. Man has power.
Man has justice.
But the Neptunes and the book's other fans are correct when they say the writing is clear-headed and the advice solid. Love the ones you're with. The chapter on courtship is particularly apt. If two people are open with each other, they'll know what they're getting into. If not, they're in for some cruel surprises.