Help them to know that everyone should make a private response to the service, but that some people want to tell others about the decision they have made. Discuss the service on the way home or at home, answering questions they may have about the experience. Comment on things that were meaningful for you. Help your child to listen for certain words, Bible names and places, and other simple concepts. Younger children can draw pictures of things they observe or hear.
Older children can keep simple notes.
Most children are able to draw, write and do other quiet activities, and still hear more than you think they do.