An innate connection exists between charismata and diakonia - spirit and service. Spirit and service are equal and parallel means of expressing God's love and power to the community of faith. Obviously you see yourself. You see someone unique, with qualities and abilities that no one else in this world has. God has made each of us with a variety of unique gifts.
Most people do.
But there is not one in this world that is self-created. God made each one of us special and different so that we could work together. We all can not be great at everything, but if we work together, we can do great things. We xns sometimes moan about how bad the word is, and I guess I am also guilty of that, but what the scripture is saying that if we are actually going to do something instead of just moaning and groaning about the problems, we must all come together with all our differences to work for a common cause. The corinthian church also had another misconception.