Bad marriages don't just happen. Love or sex craving neediness drives us to hunt down and qualify a partner like we do a roomate, a car or employment. It's too intimate and long term to be treated so lightly. I wanted to tell people what I wish someone had told me long ago, about relationships, marriage and divorce. Everyone knows it.
Nobody says it.
It would have saved years of confusion for me. It's plain information and encouragement to help you make up your own mind. Mine and many others who were generous enough to share. The only requirement was that their marriage lasted ten or more years. Bringing up the subject of bad marriages usually caused information to pour out of people.