When God presents a need to us, we should it like Jesus did. Clarify with God the plan you believe you were handed, and then get busy. Multitudes of people are suffering today as a result of someone following their feelings instead of God. When one follows their feeling to make decisions, they are really trusting themselves for making the correct decisions. If you are not trusting God for the decisions you are making, you are trusting yourself, and trusting in yourself is sin.
Lets look at a few examples.
Achan and David Achan trusted his feelings, and it cost him and his entire family their very life. He committed what we would classify as a minor sin. He simply took something God told him not to take. He did not kill, or speak evil about anyone. We have another example in David.