When you look in the mirror, you will be more positive than negative. Your attitude is important, but you also need skills. Zig believes, and I agree, that you can have every thing you want in life if you just help other people get what they want. There are several essential points to be made about getting what you want. The first is that you have to be optimistic.
Optimism is learned.
Having it will help you get along with other people, because these relationships will make you happy, building on your optimism. The second point is that to get what you want you need to be able to express gratitude. This is not easy for most people. Many of us do not like to be complimented because it makes us feel awkward. When we are complimented, we do not know what to say.