This event is meant for informational purposes only. Good to be here. There has to be genuine remorse by the partner who cheated. There isn't always. We've been married less than a year and he keeps things bottled up.
Men tend to do that, and it's a real danger sign.
The key is to do something different because more of the same will not put a spark back. Maybe you need to stand on your head, change jobs, or move, but you have to do something different. My husband and I fight a lot about stupid little things. The only things people fight about in marriage are stupid little things. You may feel strongly about George Bush or Al Gore, but that won't cause a marriage fight.