You should remember that your anus and rectum do not have their own natural lubrication nor the kind of elasticity the mouth and vagina enjoy. Condom Use Condoms are another necessity. Enemas, douches and other cleaners will not be able to get all the germs and bacteria out of the rectum. Not only is anal sex facilitate the transmission of STDs better than any other form of sex, it can also cause urinary tract infections and other bacterial diseases. Latex protection is essential, and can offer additional slickness.
Many couples use one during anal sex regardless of how much they know each other.
The index or middle finger is best used, being long and strong. The outside can be caressed in circles and mild probes. You can trace warm wet rings around the outside of the anus. This is usually a very warm experience and helps relax the area. Make insertion by pressing gently and firmly inwards, wobbling the tip of your finger a little as necessary.