First of all look through all the mebers and cross out all,who you are certain are for one reason or another unsuitable. Then systematicaly write the members you have not crossed out,even if there seems to be doubt in your mind about wheather or not they are suitable. Write 2 or 3 letters a week ,every week. Don't worry if wheather you will have too many suitors,we will deal with that in a later article. As I said earlier I would allways advise initially to use your box number.
Many people just send a letter with their telephone number, worst of all, a mobile number.
Many people are shy,reserved and nervouse and it take a lot of courage to pick up the phone and ring up a complete stranger cold. They then wonder when they get no replies. By using your box number,you are an unknown identity,and if they reject you,its not you personally,its just the box number,so you dont need to feel rejected. Write each letter individually,read what they say about themselves,what their interests are and point out similar interests you have,and try to make the letter humerous. Never mind if you are not a good writer,put in in your words,and if it seems funny to you,the person who will suite you will find it funny too.