As I sit typing this to you, my son took all his toys out of his toy chest. I walked into the room to intervene. I say I am here because I heard you threaten to Slap Craig across the face. I don't threaten, and I should slap you both in the face. Patty Dear Patty, Your husband has not crossed the physical abuse line, but he is inching his way there.
People are next.
Something you did back in the Fall set him straight. Think hard so you can repeat it. Whatever you started doing the day you were ready to flee, Do it again. Or, perhaps it is time to sit him down and tell him in no uncertain terms that you will tolerate threats of slapping, hitting, etc., etc. No where in your letter to you refer to loving him, wanting him, etc.