They are true to themselves. They do not need to prove themselves or their abilities to others, nor do they make personal choices designed to gain external approval. They may no always be liked by others, but they are generally respected by them. Frequently, they are not identified in our society as powerful individuals. Many have such soft qualities of real power that they are never noticed or understood by mainstream society.
Genuine power is an innate quality.
It embodies tenderness, compassion and sensitivity, as well as the ability to be firm and tenacious. It includes the ability to be who we really are, no matter who is in our presence. Once we understand how powerful we really are, we know that our next step is to accept full responsibility for our lives. All of our social training has been antithetical to this concept. Our society, including the news media, glorifies playing victims.