That is not the most important relationship. A prophet who loves God, and who loves Saul enough to confront him when he is off base. Let me leave you with two things to think about. This is particularly important for men. Because when you and I are not accountable to someone, and we don't have someone in our life who loves us enough and is willing enough to confront us, then partial obedience tends to always win out over obedience to the call of God.
Most women seem to already have accountability relationships of some kind.
That is why I am in a covenant group here in Baltimore. Not just my national covenant group, but with three other pastors here in town. We have been meeting together for about seven years, and we confront each other. We hold each other accountable. We ask each other tough questions in order to hold ourselves to a greater standard of integrity and authenticity and love, in our marriages, in our families, in our ministries, in our churches, and in the larger Christian community in Baltimore and beyond.