You are worthy enough to be pursued, and remember the golden rule. Let down the armor. Come to expect it, but don't take it for granted. Always thank a guy for whatever he does for you. Men want to be in relationship with their energy opposite, so if a man is being his masculine energy then he is looking for feminine energy to complete him.
Men love to talk about themselves.
Be a good listener. Ask open-ended questions that give them the opportunity to talk about themselves. Men want to be admired and respected, in spite of their faults. So praise and reinforce them. Don't criticize, blame, show disapproval or condemn.