In Vietnam women are carrying out more social work. Men said 'I am a husband'. With sex workers, they do not have any economic power. Men tell them to do what they want because men pay. Men said 'I do pay'.
Men always make the last decision.
They fell that they are the natural controller of the family. The research results showed that the women's lack power in many relationships in home. The wife has no power to talk or discusses safe-sex. When woman asks for 'safe sex', the man gets angry at his wife's lack of trust. They believe men have a right to seek a variety of sexual experience.