Secondly, forgiveness is an act of the will. When you forgive another, it is done. After Christ forgave us, he still hurt. So the hurts you carry just mean you re human. So many people fear the future anxiety just takes all your energy away, and it doesn t let you live in the moment.
Older people fear they re going to become a dependent.
I anointed a wonderful old man last night, a man close to death. Don t be afraid. If you become a lot of work for someone, maybe God wants them to learn to love through you. The same loving Father whom cares for you today will care for you tomorrow and every day. Either he will shield you from suffering, or he will give you unfailing strength to bear it.