People with attitudes similar to Marge desperately need the help of friends, ministers, and mental health professionals to help them find new paths. They may require continuing intervention to prevent recurring crises, and especially to prevent crisis from deepening to the point of being life threatening. They need people who can listen and respond without judging and without forcing answers, so they can sort it out. They need help walking new paths. For example, meeting new people and getting involved in different social groups is the hardest thing in the world.
People entering new groups often feel rejected, and often are.
Looking for romance in a new group is like walking a tight-rope. Another worthwhile thing to show is people taking negative attitudes, understanding what has caused them, and transforming these into positive ways to express themselves in pursuit of their core values. Often as not, the most useful thing about attitude is just to be able to create a good character that is realistic when you need one. Characters with a little attitude are much more interesting. Marge interprets all this as meaning that she is a better person than she thought, and she applies all of this to her value as a person.