I mean so it doesn t seem like just sex. I sure do know what you mean. You want lovemaking to feel like more than a gynecological exam. GSpin, go ahead. There are a number of excellent techniques to slow down ejaculation.
Men learn to climax rapidly and can learn to arrive more slowly.
He describes the stop start technique and the squeeze technique. Tried and true. That s why I say, if you miss the bus once in a while, don't worry and enjoy the walk home. If one of you does most of the initiating, I'd suggest you reverse roles and see how that change spices things up. GSpin, go ahead.