Blame it on their nature, blame it on their mom and dad, blame it on anything you want to, the fact remains that there are some men who really exercise the idea of being boss. They even tell their wives how to cook, how to dress. If the wife says something in public that embarrasses the man, it upsets him. I wish there were a magic pill that God would just suddenly pour down out of heaven and every man could take that. That would change his nature.
Most men are sort of selfish.
I've heard that most of them just hold to the steel wool and say nothing. Go back to the Bible with me. This idea of submitting to your husbands, Wives, submit yourselves unto your own husbands, as unto the Lord. Now, if every man were living up to the God-given responsibility that he should be living up to, it would be a wonderful joy for the wife to be submissive. But when he acts like a slob, it's sort of difficult to be submissive.