Programs vary in the extent of behavioral limits they set for children, so check to see that the philosophy of the program you choose is similar to your own. Both you and your provider should feel comfortable in sharing your expectations of one another. Teachers and child care providers should encourage you to share information about your child and any change in family circumstances that could affect his or her behavior. They should also give you regular feedback about your child's day, his or her developmental progress, and any problems that he or she might be experiencing. Some child care programs may offer parenting workshops and resource materials.
Most young children feel more secure when they have set routines.
Try to observe the way that daily routines, such as going to the toilet and washing hands, are handled. Children should be prepared in advance by adults when activities change, or the group moves from inside to the outside area. Picking up and putting away things should be a natural part of an activity. Sufficient time should be allotted for activities as well as for clean-up. In programs that provide meals, food should be nutritionally balanced.