Many young people today openly admit to this shameful practice, but we of the older generation would never openly admit it. What we do to ourselves is nobody's business. If you can get someone else to do the manipulation, then it is not considered masturbation and you won't feel guilty. People of our generation don't usually talk about oral sex. But since the Clinton sexational disclosures, it is something that everyone is talking about.
Oral sex is a great way to stimulate a partner, both male and female.
The younger people have no qualms about doing this. But many of the older generation finds it distasteful. Many people of our generation think that it is dirty and shameful. These same people think nothing of French kissing and perhaps trying suck the partner's tonsils out. They may not realize that, bacteriologically speaking, the mouth is one of the dirtiest parts of the body.