Teenagers experience rage at the events that so completely altered their lives and environment, and robbed them of their youth. Women feel humiliated that they were powerless to prevent the catastrophe, and cannot now provide for their families. This undermines their self-esteem and sense of personal dignity. All these factors need to be taken into account in undertaking the healing work. The humiliation and intimidation has not ended.
People face questioning, searches and frequently arbitrary arrest at Russian checkpoints.
Their life is bleak and there is little hope for the future. Nevertheless there is a strong will amongst the people not to be defeated by events. An essential element in the healing process is to uphold the dignity of people. For those coming in from outside, this implies respecting the local culture and traditions, and being a respectful witness to the stories people have to tell and the emotions they express. It also implies involving people, children included, in decision-making processes as they adjust to the present life and prepare for the future.