I just don't think it has to do with who I fall in love with. What's evil is the theology that has a young gay kid who thinks he is separated from Christ because of his homosexuality, and who is holding a gun to his head since he cannot change. I close respectful of you as a person including how you experience your sexuality and ask for the same consideration. Steve, I have all the respect in the world for your sexuality, whatever it might be. I'm so happy you found your true self.
Few people find even that much.
My experience is that I spent over ten years begging God to change me. I agreed with him in the Holy Spirit. I had laying of hands. I lived a celibate life and prayed continuously for this change. After ten years, I was not more heterosexual than I had been when I started.