A friend is someone who has your best interests at heart. A friend may have to give unpleasant advice at times for the other person s own good. By contrast, someone who tells you what you want to hear and happily sends you on your way with bad advice is no friend. We tend to hear what we want to hear, but a friend s advice, no matter how painful, is much better. Confront your girlfriend first, if she refuses to end the affair, before you go to her husband, consider a counselor or minister who may be able to help.
People react in different ways to devastating news.
Taking on the responsibility to tell the husband this news would need to be done only after much prayer. Someone who is trained to help deal with circumstances such as this one may help. We encourage you not to turn your back on this situation. You are already involved. For the sake of this family we encourage you to hang in there.