There is a good chance that when you have given any thought to grief it is usually in negative terms.
Most people do.
Grief is such a mix of intense emotions that most people wish they could be over it within a month of the funeral. However it is important to understand that recovery from the death of a loved one does not happen quickly. It also helps to understand what things help and what things hinder our recovery. Some of the After Care help we provide are listed in the left column. We also provide answers to many grief-recovery questions in our Questions page.