Vaginal infections are associated with itching, burning, a foul-smelling discharge, discomfort much of the time and urinary symptoms such as burning on urination, having to urinate frequently, urgency to urinate and having to get up in the middle of the night to urinate. The most common cause of superficial dyspareunia is an ignorant partner. Most women need time to lubricate. Inserting a penis into a dry vagina can tear the vaginal linings as well as the skin on the penis. No caring individual would ever insert his penis into a vagina until it is lubricated.
Most women prefer to use oral sex as foreplay.
She often will lubricate while she is performing oral sex and he can lubricate her by depositing saliva, the most effective lubricant known to man. If taking your time doesn't lubricate the vagina, you may need to treat an infection or lack of estrogen. If oral sex turns you off, you may need to use a non-greasy lubricant such as KY jelly that you can buy at any drug store. Greasy lubricants can damage condoms and can be aesthetically unpleasant. Deep dyspareunia , or pain with deep thrusting of the penis, almost always occurs when the penis hits something tender in a specific spot.