Maria Montessori I am saddened to hear that your daughter is being criticized for being who she is.
Every child is different.
Some children are very physical and it's up to the school to accomodate them. I know that in the past if we've had a child who was not ready for a nap that child always had the opportunity to go outside and play before winding down for a little quiet time. Sometimes that would include story telling or resting with the child. It's very important to observe the Montessori program you are enrolling your child into. Ask the kind of questions that you are presenting on this message board.