If you hate someone you simply misunderstand them. Innocent love is the only true love. To die with hate is to live without love. If you want to understand me, you have to love me. Hating is easy, loving is hard.
Hate is just misguided love.
Think with your brain but live with your heart. But they are far less than the long range risks and costs Of comfortable inactions. After enlightenment - chop wood, carry water. You must stay in water over your head to really succeed. They have to have last-minute stamina, They have to have the skill and the will.