Many women search hard for the perfect child care provider so that they can work.
We have avoided the feelings of guilt associated with letting others take care of their child, or the feelings of isolation some have experienced when staying home full-time with their children, by sharing our daughter's care. Three days a week I work outside the home while he takes care of our daughter, Kye. I take over when at night and during other days of the week Ross works on various e-commerce and consulting ventures. Weekends are generally spent with all of us together, with Ross usually trying to schedule a breakfast meeting or other business in between the brunches, shopping trips and socializing we enjoy. I have always wanted to give my children loving, intensive care, but I knew that it was a job best shared.