Perhaps you're a maid of honor or bridesmaid. Or maybe you're a sister, in-law, mother, or just a close friend that wants to plan a fun surprise shower for someone you know. Bridal and baby showers have fast become part of the preparation process in becoming a wife or mother. You need to prepare and you want even want to inlist the help of other close friends and relatives.
Every party needs a guest list.
And creating one for a shower can be tricky. Perhaps you don't know everyone that should be included. It's best to ask for assistance. The food Traditionally, most showers have either a meal or hor 'dourves followed by a sheet cake and other finger-food desserts. Don't take on too much yourself - inlist the aid of other wedding party members for financial assistance or ask family members to contribute a small food item.