Doing that takes time. You cannot necessarily speed up the process of healing by having or not having another baby. Parents who want another child badly may be bitter and blame God or nature for being so cruel. Parents who consider their family complete just as it is often wonder what it would have been life with another child. Even if you would have eventually decided not to get pregnant again anyway, you having the decision taken out of your hands can make it harder to live with.
Many people experience some sadness at the end of their childbearing years.
When that end has included the death of a baby, it is easy to see why it may take a longer time to work through. If you feel you probably will have another baby, as time passes you may become more fearful about getting pregnant. If you have no other children or have lost more than one child, you may wonder if you will ever be a parent. If you are older than 35 years, you may feel a sense of urgency about having another child. If you had trouble getting pregnant, you may be especially anxious about getting started again as soon as possible.