Any woman or man can abstain from sex play. Many do so at various times in their lives. Some choose to do so all their lives. Women and men often end their abstinence without being prepared to protect themselves against pregnancy or sexually transmitted infection. Sex play includes vaginal, oral, and anal intercourse as well as other activities that lead to sexual arousal.
Pregnancy is possible if semen or pre-ejaculate is spilled on the vulva.
Any woman or man can abstain from vaginal intercourse. Many do so at various times in their lives. Some choose to do so all their lives. Partners can enjoy it together while hugging and kissing or watching one another. Masturbating together can deepen a couple's intimacy.