In such a world, men can wear velvet leggings. They can be corsetted. Lace drips from collars and cuffs. Clothing makes the person, be it man or woman. I've less to gripe about music than fashion.
Music is reasonably easy to find, unlike attractive clothing.
The goth genre of music spans only some of my tastes. For A Blue Girl , merges easily with David Sylvian , Loreena McKennitt , and Bel Canto . Philip Glass provides a counterpoint to harsher things. Authentic Iraqii and Iranian music blends with Dead Can Dance . There is, in fact, such a divergence of musical genres, that I'm amazed how little music some people enjoy.