You cannot be who you are when you are trying to be who you are not. A person can only sustain themselves for so long when focusing their love in a way that is harmful to them. The Universe is not designed for a person to be anything but loved and supported. And so a person begins to see that their lives are out of balance. Some people can see this right away and some take longer.
Most people can require many lifetimes.
It is all about love, love of Self. Money is just one more arena in which a person can choose to learn about Self love. We suggest to you, then, that money is a means of Self love, of spiritual growth. Like all forms of love and all teachers, money is neither good nor bad. It is just another way for you to understand how you flow, how you let love in and give it out.