God is kind to the riff raft in Capernaum. That's the problem with love. It undermines things. Life gets out of whack. There are no clear lines.
People get confused.
It is only love that can tame the ego and humble the boastful. It is only love that can inform speech that builds rather than scatters. Some use what they claim to be such powers to intimidate, frighten, control, dominate others. Prophetic speech without the kind of love Paul announces leads to the likes of the Davidian compound at Waco. This is not, obviously, the kind of love thrown on the silver screen and bleated from the daily soaps and devoured in pulp fiction.