Fads and home remedy type plans are usually doomed to failure because they don't address the chemical dependency to tobacco. Check with your doctor and focus on your health. Whether you want a relationship, or want to tweak an existing relationship, the most important thing to remember is we are all human. Mistakes will be made, promises will be broken, and healing takes some time. When dealing with others, remember to be courteous and compassionate and expect the same from your partner.
Professional counseling can be of great help in clearing the air and starting fresh.
Make a commitment to yourself to be a kinder and more understanding person just as you have decided rather unconsciously not to rob a bank. Make these life choices and you will see instant results in how others view you and respond to your advances. Too often we get caught up in the race to make more money. What we don't realize is that we will always spend that money creating a need for yet more. Before you rush out to get the Sunday paper to scour the want ads for that higher paying job, or before you scold family members for their spending habits, take a step back and evaluate your financial position.