If you act selfishly, you will have neither a tender heart nor be a thoughtful person. After empleying your bag of frichs, your real tenderness will apear. You will be able to integrate your heart with the hearts of others and the warmness of sublime pleasure will be left in your daily life. This is the reason why the ESP society is pure heart. Without a pure heart tenderness will neither be revealed in your attitude nor will pleasure be evident in your conversation.
Real tenderness needs a heart of truth.
If you have this heart, you will get the pleasure of the heart and the trust listeners. Therefore, I am saying that tenderness is pure heart. You need not be influenced by the opinions of others about the happiness in your life. You'll find that your life becomes more enjoyable by just thinking about it and strength and courage, combined with a strong desire do live, will be realized more in your daily life. The ESP society is surrounded by the concept of pure heart and beautiful flowers are springer forth from it.