Accepting the failure and acknowledging your contributions to it are vital to moving on with your life. When you fail at something, it doesn't mean that you are a failure. Failure is a death sentence only when we fail to learn something from the experience. It is more often than not God's wake-up call to invite you to a fresh start and a new beginning in your life. Accept God's forgiveness.
Guilt follows every failure in our lives, whether major or minor.
Unhealthy guilt often causes us to focus on experiences that are history and cannot be changed. As a result, divorced Christians carry their own guilt as well as pressure from other believers, who often want them to feel even more guilty. The one great detergent that God provides to take away all guilt is forgiveness. Forgiveness is a gift of God that removes the stains of sin and sets us free to experience God's love in new and fresh ways. Because we are human, we will fail.