Be wary of behavior that makes you feel uncomfortable. If it persists, leave. Do not assume you both want the same degree of intimacy. Protect yourself from a charge of rape because you didn t ask. Having sex with someone who says no, is rape.
Men can be victims of rape and have the same rights to counseling and legal action that women do.
Don t isolate yourself, don t feel guilty, and don t just try to ignore it. Rape , whether by a stranger or by someone you know, is a violation of your body and your trust. Do not shower, wash, douche, or change your clothes, even though that s your immediate reaction. Seek medical attention. If you choose to press charges, the evidence will be there.