My mom is over protective and it makes me mad. Dear Perturbed, As a growing teenager, it's natural for you to become frustrated with your mom's over-protective nature. Most moms will deal with the fact that you are growing up. More teens are having sex these days and parents dread the idea of unwanted pregnancies. She may think that if she lets you out more, you may find yourself in situations you are not necessarily ready for.
Most teens go through a stage of rebellion along with their new found independence.
The list goes on but those are the most common reasons why moms tend to get protective. Take responsibility and initiative. Take up extra curriculars at school or leadership positions to show that you are more mature than she thinks. Clean up your room without being asked and uphold a sense of maturity. If she still insists you wear a frilly dress instead of jeans, do emphasize that you are 14 now, capable of making responsible choices and that you understand that she is worried about certain things.