Some people have gifts of hand skills. Some people have heart gifts which motivate them into service professions. Often one's calling from God will be defined by your gifts. The enemy does not want you to discover God's purpose for your life. He wants you to make the easy choices, or the lazy choices, or the quick buck choices, or the little effort choices.
Faith brings power to choose what is truly valuable.
Decisions to engage in sexual activity outside of marriage will complicate a person's life profoundly. Such choices often leave scars and life-damaging circumstances. The pleasures of sin for a season are only for a season. Sin is always wrong and it is always temporary in what it promises us. Satan hides this from us.