Most kids, and adults, think of themselves first. Look around and see all the loners. Strange as it may seem, happiness is in serving other. I have no money, job, or future. Yes, unemployment may be high, money may be scarce, but you don't know that future.
Poor people make it to the top.
Make yourself useful to someone. Work for low wages or no wages. Make a name for yourself that you are friendly and willing to learn. I want to hurt the one who hurt me. But, it take your life is wrong.