Of course you remained angry. He felt very guilty about it, and only through telling me could he end it. Good for you that you are as clear as you are now. Through 8 yrs of couples therapy I realized how unequal our relationship was, but I was told it was my problem that only through insisting on my rights could I win. Meanwhile I had our son, which made it even more unequal, as I bore the responsibility for child care as well as continuing to work.
Hubby has problems.
So started the latest round of therapy, with separate therapists for both as well as a marriage counselor. Meanwhile, I learned about emotional abuse. He said that he wanted to right things between us. We have talked of divorce many times, but neither of us has initiated it. He does not want a divorce.