I don't call. I have given up. So has Peter, from what I can tell. So have a few others. I see no good being done by Carolyn.
People have choices about who they become.
I have no problem with exhibitionism but it is simply revenge to force others into one's own fetish pattern involuntarily. In this respect I would note that you are as guilty as her, for forcing your own correspondents into your own view that no matter is too private to discuss in public. Mostly insane people who will respect my definition of the term. It's good to hear from you. I've been very busy, both with work and with my own personal stuff.