Oh the hand job. Manual stimulation of the genitalia either by oneself or another in order to produce an orgasm. I am a female, and though historically the hand job has referenced men and their organs, the myth that men are the only ones participating in this activity must be dispelled. Girls get hand jobs. Now, the best hand jobs they receive are generally by themselves.
Men really have no clue what to do with their fingers in the female region .
Because you have to, or you would never ever have sex with anyone other than yourself. They are accustomed to this simplicity. With women it is very different. All of those hidden nooks and crannies, nothing about this is easy for men to comprehend. Even if they do manage to find the clitoris, they have no fucking idea what to do with it.