Sounds like someone needs to learn the definitions of words. Then look up dipshit and you'll see a little picture of yourself on the page next to it. But when you do, it's a shitty thing to do. I have had sex with up to five girls on many occassions. It was a lot of fun.
More sensory stimulation is nice.
However, there is no way that I would involve anyone I was in a relationship with in sexual activity with other people. It weakens what sex is about in a relationship, reinforcing bonding, and that will weaken all other aspects of the relationship. I race cars fast for fun as well, but I wouldn't drive the same way in a town, and when I do drive fast I take precautions. It was too awkward, and not very erotic. Sometimes it sucks living out a fantasy, because reality never lives-up to your expectations.