It is a sign of weakness to admit your inability to control or change things. You should be able to solve your own problems on your own. You should be able to work things out on your own, once you realize what the problem is. There is no problem too great that it can't be solved. God never gives you a problem too great that you can't handle it on your own.
People are able to handle everything in life.
That is why they were given intelligence, creativity and imagination. It is a sign of moral weakness if you are not able to get your impulsive, addictive, compulsive, or obsessive behaviors under control. You are not supposed to ask for help from others when you are dealing with your weak character flaws. When you ask for help, you always become dependent on others to solve your problems for you. Certain behaviors have a genetic basis and it is best to ignore them so that they don't occur in your life.