Both are available. Many expats live in houses with yards, many with pools. Many apartments are available, specifically in Makati area. Some national systems have schools as well, like the British School. Generally, good for all these groups.
More leisure time is available because of domestic help.
There is an active, vibrant expat community, with lots going on. There are good, relatively inexpensive, restaurants and a varied nightlife for couples and singles. Opportunities for interesting travel in the Philippines abounds. There is great snorkeling and scuba diving within a few hours of Manila. Very good international restaurants, improving movie theaters, clubs, casinos, and cultural events, including symphony, ballet, and repertorie theater.