Be aware of how unresolved childhood and family issues can affect your role in a relationship. Make agreements about your relationship. Talk openly about sex if it becomes an issue. Confront any issues that are bothering you right away. You should also make agreements on any other issues that you feel are important.
Honest communication is the foundation of a healthy relationship.
Communication involves sharing your thoughts, opinions, and emotions honestly and openly with your partner. The key to expectations is making them realistic. When expectations are realistic, they are more likely to be met leaving both partners satisfied and happy. In a healthy relationship, both partners are honest about what their needs are, and both partners are willing and able to meet the other partner's needs on a long-term basis. Influence deals with who leads and is in control.