Find ways for them to help. Make lists of small tasks that they can handle with little guidance, and praise their efforts in helping. Sort out broken or outgrown toys and pack the ones to be moved. Have them fill a backpack with things they will want immediately in the new home. Sort clothes, separating out the ones that no longer fit.
Older children can take responsibility for pets during a move .
Helping Children Adjust to Their New Home Saying goodbye to the old Children are not really that different from adults. They need to say goodbye to their old friends for the move to feel resolved. Take the time to get to know the new community with your child. Go for walks paying particular attention to where kids are playing. Find parks, bike trails, and playgrounds.