This thread has caused some of you to be quite upset and I guess your feelings are your own. Shoni - I read the thread, but I stand by what I said. We have to be able to express our feelings here, positive or negative. The negative emotions for me are guilt, fear and sorrow, because they make our minds contract. It doesn't work.
Religion is a big one.
As for it being a small thing, add up lots of small things, and they make a big, big thing. If my husband did that, I probably wouldn't have found him attractive enough to marry. Now, it sounds extremely petty - but it is important. If the fact that FC's H is not a Christian is important to her, then we should not berate her for expressing that. So, it is a pretty important thing, when you really get down to it.