Anything that represents your personal inner boundaries requires cleaning, organization, perfection, and finally getting around to doing everything you wrote upon that list you cannot seem to find. This set of actions generates the initial peace you crave. Take some time as you do these tasks, and note how you feel as each task gets done. That is the key. The mental aggravation and mundane detail you apply to your surroundings serves you by actually opening your already open consciousness to the burst of the Galactic Center.
Nothing can fill an occupied space.
In that order. This sequence chases away the haunting sense that some aspect of life will sneak up on you and drop the other shoe at the worst possible time. When you address the Universal Forces, you will relieve your personal stress. Finally, let your feelings be known. State your emotional requirements in no uncertain terms.