Use some of the imagination and creativity you bring to your music-making, to the business side of your art. Schedule time each week to work at the business side of your art. Research and networking take time. You'll also need time to find concert series presenters, places to perform, and you'll probably be the one to negotiate the contract, arrange the publicity, hang the posters, write the press release, and plan the reception. If you don't make the time for all this, it won't happen.
Goals are dreams with deadlines.
The trick is to use your goals as motivational tools and guides. Keep your goals in sight, but don't let them strangle you - your goals need to be flexible enough so that you can respond to the changing market and the range of opportunities that may come your way. Thou shalt feed thy soul. This means taking care to remind yourself often why you got involved in music in the first place. Your most basic motivations for being in music are crucial factors in keeping you moving forward in your career.