Too bad verbally abusive men do not come with a warning label attached to them. While it would be very drastic to tattoo misogynist on their foreheads, it would certainly save many women lots of unnecessary grief and aggravation. I also want to bring up another point. I don't agree with you that all recipients of verbal abuse are co-dependent. A stranger can do this to you, and they have no idea what you are all about.
Road rage is a good example.
That's a real eye opening experience. You bring up the point that I do not stick around over the long haul for the people I train. This is true, but minimal short term bonding happens, if it happens at all. Therefore, it is not necessary to be in it for the long haul. Unlike your profession, where much bonding occurs for the long term and it is necessary to be in it for the long haul.