Effective communication is rooted in knowing how and when to just listen. Remember that spur of the moment visits are often unappreciated as students sometimes feel like they are being checked up on. University is a time for exploration. Let your student find out what they want and on their own terms. The best thing a parent can be is supportive of decisions that their child wants to make.
Life is one big learning experience.
Special thanks to UVIC for the use of these tips.