Programmed services are planned in advance and may include hymn singing, vocal prayers, Bible reading, silent worship, and a sermon. Other than the bride and groom exchanging vows and signing a marriage certificate, an unprogrammed Quaker wedding ceremony is very much like an unprogrammed Quaker worship. There will be much silence, and a few people may speak. Do not feel compelled to speak. The bride and groom will probably be seated at the front of the meetinghouse, and sometime during the service members of the meeting house or friends or relatives of the newlyweds will bring the wedding certificate for them to sign.
Guests also sign the certificate.
This is usually done after the ceremony. Quaker worship and ceremonies are usually fairly relaxed, so do not dress to the nines. On the other hand, remember that the wedding is a special, festive event, so don't wear your most casual clothes. Inc. All rights reserved. Use of this site is subject to Terms of Service and to our Privacy Policy .