Mature, mainstream corporate media can only tease. New, outlaw media delivers. Newcomers can't get by on production values, because they have none. Author Howard Rheingold has made some waves recently with his vision of a network that will actually hook some sort of tactile feedback devices onto our bodies so that the fantasies don't have to be so damned cerebral. With it, you'll have virtual reality coupled with the ability to construct your own erotic consort for work, play, or simple experimentation.
Progress marches on.
In time, robotics will deliver household servants and sex slaves. I saw The Naked Lady about three months ago. I asked her if she was still up to the same old games of online sex. I'm a consultant for computer security these days. Besides, I have a kid now.