It's OK if your neighbor needs to break down and cry. Show by words and actions that you care. A friendly arm around troubled shoulders or a few words of support and encouragement can help in times of crisis. Small, kind deeds and sincere expressions of affection or admiration also will mean a lot. How Family Members Can Be More Supportive of One Another Tell family members when they have done a good job.
Laughter can help relieve tension.
Be considerate of other family members. Express love and concern often. Neighboring in Times of Trouble Offer specific types of help or ask how you can help. Go ahead and act. Don't be afraid of saying or doing the wrong thing.