He wants to go all out. To feel passion. But, but, but all those things sound suspiciously like a life of Love. Yes, but Love also requires something out of a person. Love requires deep commitment to experience true passion.
Love requires steely discipline to follow through on a true adventure.
They like the feeling of falling in love, but they don't want to do what it takes to experience true love. And that, by no great coincidence, is also why most people fear a life with God. There's more to you than meets the eye, Smithers. We offer him thrills galore, without him having to worry about anything else. If my thinking proves correct, he's going to then start looking at the Love of God as restricting, as no fun.