Of course, you're right.
Married women make outrageous anti- male statements.
I see that stream of anti-male feeling as a sign that straight women who are struggling for equality inside personal and intimate relationships with men know more about the gritty details of that struggle than lesbians do. I guess feminism can emerge and be expressed in both radical and conservative ways. I have read a radical view of feminism that argues that we live in a society in which all its institutions foster gender inequality. The union of men and women is one of those institutions that fosters gender inequality. Therefore, radical feminists, even though they may be attracted to men, must choose lesbianism as a form of resistance to this gender inequality.