The poor fellow couldn't figure out why his gas mileage had fallen back into normal ranges. At least he stopped boasting. There's a lesson here. Our self-congratulation can backfire and leave us looking pretty foolish. There is something repulsive about talk that advertises our own abilities or good judgment or superior knowledge.
Most people see right through it to the underlying fears and insecurities that motivate it.
As we do, we find that we are becoming much more interested in the needs and successes of others than we are in advertising our own accomplishments to get our needs met. And if we do mention what we have done or achieved, it will be as a means of encouraging others who are bogged down and need an uplifting word. Besides, even though we're honestly not looking for it, this approach will get us the proper kind of notice and approval. When people sing their own praises, it's usually a solo. Record your reflections by sending e-mail to yourself.