Bad move, you need to be assertive and insist that HE move. Talk about major conflict avoiders. I think you should write your Plan B letter if you haven't already done so. You can tell him you still love him and want the marriage, but not at the cost of your love for him. Then still Plan A whenever you see him or talk to him.
People grow through experience if they meet life honestly and courageously.
This is how character is built. I really need each and everyone of you. Surround yourself with people who have a positive influence on you right now - it's worth it. People grow through experience if they meet life honestly and courageously. This is how character is built.