HOME Unfortunately, this story is not unusual. There is no question that a disability that occurs suddenly, from a stroke or accident, is a tragedy - or that it can come between a husband and wife. The husband you promised to love and cherish can no longer go to work. The wife you adored cannot remember your name. Changing roles in midstream is not easy, but it is not impossible.
Marriages can survive - with some professional help and disability awareness reminders at home.
If you unburden yourself of the guilt, you will be better able to take care of your loved one. You will have a lighter load. Remember, too, that it is often easier to find fault in that difference. Treasure the cognizant moments. In some age-related, developmental, and behavioral disabilities, the mind has moments of clarity.