Community, extended-families, teachers, etc. are important and play a role. But at the same time, what was out then is nothing compared to what's out now. Just like to her what was out with me, was nothing compared to what was out when she grew up. More an more we need each other to make things come together, but more and more we leave each other isolated continuing to perpetuate this only look out for yourself type attitude. It's self-destructive and we won't reach one another by further isolating ourselves.
Parents are overwhelmed.
Society is saturated with negative images. They can't do it alone. Kids who know nothing about raising kids, have kids. They can't, not alone. They still have so much to learn themselves If things are going to change, it has to be a collective effort.