Taking it One Step Further. We've gone away on trips together, spend most of our days off together, and generally enjoy each other's company. We sleep together and cuddle, but don't let things go any further. I would like to get closer to him. In addition, you don't say how long you've known this guy and how long it's been since you started sleeping over and cuddling.
Many men like to wait before getting intimate with women about whom they really care.
They think that if they jump into bed too quickly, they'll ruin any chance they might have had of a long-term relationship with a great woman. Your friend could also have decided not to have premarital sex. Or, he could be thinking about making a move, but waiting to read the signals from you. He could also be waiting for you to make the first move. The only way to find out for sure is to ask.