Our identity and beliefs are developed over time through a series of circumstances and life experiences. What takes years to solidify, can take years to unravel. Admitting I need help is a brave first step. Leaving friends and companions behind. Friendships are established.
Mutual support is given.
For someone who has felt different for most of his life, a place of unconditional acceptance feels really good. It s tough to leave it. When a person walks away from the homosexual lifestyle, that support system is lost, and it can plunge the individual into incredible grief and loneliness. Loneliness is a trigger for those that struggle with homosexuality and can drive them back into it. Unfortunately parents and family members cannot fill that void, even though they may try to do so.