It s important to admit how much you miss the way things used to be. The relationship previously enjoyed by both partners must now encompass a parenting partnership. However, this new relationship can offer an opportunity for both partners to grow, develop new insights, deepen their understanding and awareness of each other, and find more meaningful ways to communicate. Ultimately, becoming parents can strengthen all aspects of a couple s relationship. It s important to remember that there s a direct relationship between the quality of the couple relationship and establishing a parenting partnership.
Harmonious families are the result of happy, connected partners.
Both mothers and fathers need to give each other extra understanding, support and nurturing during the postpartum adjustment period. Remember that parenting is learned, so don t expect to have all the answers. Don t sweat the small stuff. Take the time to really enjoy your baby and your time as a family. Take care of yourselves.