Older woman coming out. When I fantasize, it's always about sex with women. I've been married three times and have never enjoyed sex with my husbands. I married because it was the normal thing to do and was expected of me. I'm now engaged in an online love affair with a woman.
People come out at all ages, at all different points in their lives.
Coming out is the process of accepting and affirming your lesbian identity. It is also choosing how open you're going to be about it. It sounds like you're already there. Now it's time to get to know other lesbians, think about telling your friends and family, consider being open at school or work. Many lesbians spend a good deal of time deciding whether, when, how, and to whom they want to come out.