Selfishness causes some people to complain about the lack of police protection and high taxes simultaneously. Selfishness causes others to simultaneously complain about poor public education and high taxes. Obviously, there are exceptions here. Some schools do a poor job of educatiing children even with large budgets. War is caused by selfishness on the part of at least one country.
Divorce is a product of the selfish desires of at least one of the two people involved.
The goal of each member in a marriage should be to unselfishly give more than they take. Managers usually change jobs every 3 or 4 years. Therefore, they want to see the company make a profit while they are there. They don't care if it makes a profit in the future. Some drivers are not courteous enough to let other drivers know what they are doing.