Most people are followers. I'm not like most people. Taking showers in front of a bunch of other members of the same sex, is kinda embarrassing. Always keep your underwear clean, somebody, someday, might see it. People are hypocrites.
Most people are all the same.
People are scared of the few people that aren't. If two individuals are fighting, the girl is more than likely going to be believed. A soothing woman, cradling you when you think everything has gotten to be more than you can take, can be the most wonderful thing in the world. That last thing never really happens. The more you try to fit in, the farther out you'll become, unless you're a jock.