Your son also needs to develop trust with others, especially your husband. You might try breastfeeding him and then leaving him with your husband, they need time to bond. Leave the house if possible. About the sleeping issue. You and your husband need to decide as a family what is right for you.
Many cultures have their children sleep in the parents bed.
You are developing routine that your son will get use to and when he is older may have some trouble changing those routines but you need to decide what is going to work best for your family now. This needs to be a family decision. This material if provided for general informational purposes only and should not be considered a fromal medical evaluation. If you have specific questions, please contact your primary physician. All rights reserved.