Sexual addicts attempt to escape family wounds and associated painful feelings through sexual activity. An incident at work or home causes him to question his competence again . He suffers emotional pain, and then the downward spiral begins for him. Another addict may fear loss of control. This person's identity may be wrapped up in being able to manage things.
Most addicts are controllers.
A crisis occurs. The addict feels insecure, and the spiral begins for them. For another the triggering mechanism may be fear of rejection. He is the answer to every emotional and psychological need. However, most people do not know how to practically experience His ability to meet emotional needs on a daily, practical basis.