Children are around their parents too much to be fooled by hypocrisy. They know us as we really are. Love does not mean letting children have their way all the time. It is much easier to give in to children and do what they want. However, parents should have more maturity and wisdom than their children.
Love does mean letting go when the time comes.
B. We've succeeded as parents when we've caused our sons and daughters to understand the importance of putting God first in life. Fearing God is more important than being rich and successful by human standards. By humility and the fear of the LORD are riches, and honour, and life. It is a good thing that we set aside days to honor mothers and fathers. However, that honor should go on throughout the year.