Poor women need abortions. An unwanted pregnancy means an unwanted child. I tell my son that I didn't know that it was time for him, but that God knew better. Poor women should have abortions because their poor nutrition will lead to low birth weight, birth defects, and sickly children. My little nine-pounder is a hale and robust child.
Pregnant woman are always capable of making sound, informed choices.
Our emotions are unstable, and it's often difficult to think clearly through emotional issues. Often we need a cooler head, somebody with a little distance from the problem, to help us see clearly. If a woman thinks she can't parent a child under her circumstances, she's right, and it's best for her, her family, and the child if she aborts. In fact, the first two developmental tasks of pregnancy are acceptance of the pregnant state and bonding with the fetus. A woman who panics, in other words, is normal, and needs to be told so.