Trace social pain back to its paradigm origins Spiritual awakening - waking up to the spiritual purpose of social systems and envisioning social structures built on this model. Goals - how paradigms guide our actions. A control paradigm goal might be, for example, to establish a military model of social order, or to establish a superior position. In contrast, Soul-based paradigms give us goals that have to do with inward evolution . Partial shifts don't cut it.
Paradigms turn out to be deep-structure contexts that shape both people and their systems.
Families - From birth, we turned our lives over to the care of parents and siblings, whose mental and emotional worlds became our playing field. Connectedness Paradigm, in contrast, views relationships as celebrating unique talents that come together for mutually beneficial growth. The Control Paradigm at School Ranking context rewards for academic excellence in mathematics and verbal skills over those skills involving intuition, artistic ability, interpersonal skills, musical skills or learning talents. In contrast, in the Connectedness Paradigm values differences and leads to cooperative learning processes, where students use their unique talents to help themselves and others learn, so that everyone masters the material Control Paradigm Rules Paradigms speak through rules , which draw the context of the paradigm. Rules are only as good as the paradigm behind them .