Don't confuse the sick people you work with with all abusive individuals. But I think secretly, a lot of abuse victims which you counsel feel the same way. I think if you dig deep enough, you'll find this out. I already know that. Part of the territory and part of what needs to be worked out by the victim during recovery.
Rage is a stage in recovery.
Some victims unfortunately get stuck here. When women do, they often become the misguided feminists who bash men and politicize issues that are not political. I have written a bit about that here . You are a man. Be careful to work through your anger.