All of the major Web portals, without naming names, are really just big 'pick-up joints'for millions of singles across the country. Ask questions about hobbies, career, education, family relationships, political interests, and other reasonably personal questions. There's a lot less pressure. There's no need to make up some excuse. Just click on delete and move on.
Online personals are much more convenient.
I am sure you have seen the 'desperate hour'right before closing at a singles type bar. There is a huge selection of singles online. You can scan hundreds of photos and bios in a very short period of time. It's easier to custom-tailor your search online. Ask if the dating service you are thinking about using provides anonymous e-mail, so you don't have to reveal your identity.