A three dimensional reality when you meet a person who matches some or all of your criteria for the fantasy. I'm meant to be with. No one can ever meet or come up to my standards. No one can understand what I want in a relationship. I am always misunderstood.
Most people are incapable of giving and receiving love.
No matter how hard I try, I am never able to find the perfect mate. I've worked hard at this relationship, and I do not believe that my partner has put as much effort into it. I believe that we have irreconcilable differences. I can never forgive my partner for what was done to me in the past. It makes me so uncomfortable to be in the presence of my partner.