Show your child how to break down homework so it doesn't look so overwhelming. Start teaching your child time management. This will create less anxiety. Each child has a day of special privileges. Rotate with each child.
Rivalry -Remind older kids that they once had parents all to themselves.
Give each child special time on a consistent basis. Some parents say to the child, if you believe then there is a Santa or tooth Fairy. What do children know and how and when to tell them. Follow the child's lead if they are ready and mature enough. Give enough information to avoid confusion.