I have never had an orgasm during oral sex but have orgasms all of the time during intercourse. Every time I am with a new guy, I am wondering if he will be the one to make me have an orgasm during oral sex. But, it has never happened. No, there is definitely nothing wrong with you. Approximately 80 percent of women who engage in penile-vaginal intercourse do not have orgasms during this activity.
Most women have orgasms when stimulation to the clitoris is more directly received.
This typically happens during oral sex, finger-genital stimulation, or sex toy stimulation on the clitoris. Most women do not receive direct clitoral stimulation from intercourse unless she or her partner are touching or rubbing the clitoris with their hands during intercourse. I m sure that you feel a bit odd or different because you have heard others talk about how many orgasms they have during oral sex and this simply has not been your experience. Pay attention to where your mind goes while your partner is going down on you. Anxiety can play a huge role with inhibiting the orgasmic process.