It makes sense for both parties to take part in choosing a neutral, since they share responsibility for making the process work. If the financial and parenting issues are covered in a mediated agreement, the legal aspects of divorce are very simple. Parties are well advised to each have their own counsel review the agreement before it becomes binding. Usually one of the lawyers will file the divorce and assist in completing the process. Some Georgia courts send every case to mediation, while many others don't use it at all.
Mediation is a n idea whose time has come.
Parties willing to talk about creative ways to settle their differences are now seen as smart. If they need help or support along the way, they can always consult with their lawyers. And if the process isn't helping, there's never an obligation to continue.