Be sure a happy couple is in the visual. Posters, calendars, paintings, collages, photos, and figures of you and your significant other. Copper - if you have too much earth, this is a cure to slow down the energy. Install a outdoor light in the 'Self Cultivation corner and a bench for two in the relationships with bird house or birdbath and wind chimes. Most are ongoing until one walks away out of fear of being hurt or from hopelessness.
Relationships take two to see the magical possibility for the third to come into play.
Each of you have experienced that. Close your eyes if necessary to turn off that mind. If you are alone, be your own best friend, use affirmations and inspirational readings to bring out the best in yourself. Our first connection in order to live and love is through our Mother. You must know and understand this in order to live and honor Mother Earth, and in order to have a healthy, loving relationship.