It s okay to look at both sides of the story, just don t procrastinate too long. When the pressure is on she may just be looking out for your best interests. Hers - You're worrying too much about things you can t control. Go with the flow. You never know you may enjoy the ride.
Life is too short to be thinking too hard, too long.
Have as much fun as you can this spring. In the mist of it all you will find him. His - You re a power man, but the overly controlling behavior can be destructive. I am sure you ve heard this before, among other things. Seriousness is good at the appropriate times.