If first message you receive is positive, follow it. But, trust also if that first message you receive is negative, that you need to back off, stay away. When you hear that something is not good for you, pay attention. How many of us have chased after the wrong man or woman, though we knew inside that they were not right for us. Your Inner Guide is there, not only to lead down the right paths, but also to warn you off the wrong paths and the pitfalls they may be hiding.
Nothing comes easy, peace of mind, especially.
But, the longer you strive for it, the more common place it becomes. Being at peace, being happy - Is Your Choice. You may choose to be miserable, or you may choose to be happy. It is amazing the transformation that comes when you choose Happy. Think about it, what is the better way to be.