Be very very still. Never be the first thing that moves. Brushing with an electric toothbrush is like having oral sex with a vibrator. I am captive of several games, the Internet game, the enlightenment game and the love game. I just wish they would up my handicap.
Life is a full-contact sport.
What I keep doing in real life is looking for the search function. Therrorpists-Counselors to the disgruntled. My Zen Master is a Koan-head. Someone I worked with offered to fix me up with a date one time. They say America is a state of mind.