But when one knows before God that he has made every effort possible, I believe he is free to leave. The same God who forgives the wayward, the prostitute, is merciful to the beaten wife who simply desires to live in peace and raise her children in a home free of fear and abuse. However, Jesus is Lord of the Sabbath, and mercy triumphs over judgment. I could give lots of other examples. Of course not.
Legalism is deadly.
But if a woman chooses to defy the Lord and the scriptures and have an abortion then she should have that right. All authority has been given to Jesus. Killing Jews was legal in Hitler's day, but that didn't make it right. Slavery was legal in its day, but it was still wrong. Likewise, even though killing unborn babies has been legalized, it is still murder.