Regrettably, my mind went blank. It was just a momentary blip on the screen of consciousness, a nanosecond of neuron short circuitry where my mental wet ware went whirring away in search of sage advice. Of course I took credit for her wisdom. True, I was less than profound at that moment in the car. Unfortunately, it is not that simple.
Many parents warn their children against substance abuse.
Many parents model appropriate behavior around drugs and alcohol. And still many children abuse them. Society loves to blame it on peer pressure. Most of the teenagers I talk to, privately and in groups, tell me that peer pressure is not as big a deal as we adults make it out to be. It involves a combination between parental influence, developmental windows, personal choices, and yes, peer influence.