The Second Blessing is about creating unity in the family. The happiest marriages and families are those that live by biblical family values of men and women being opposite and having different roles.
Men are to be the heads of their home and be the sole provider.
Women are to focus on the home in which she cares for her husband, children and the grandparents. Two of my favorite authors that teach biblical traditional family values are the Andelins and Mary Pride. It is not a coincidence that they have built large and successful families. Every sister should buy, read, study and do what is taught in Helen Andelin's Fascinating Womanhood and Mary Pride's The Way Home . Every brother should do the same for Aubrey Andelin's Man of Steel and Velvet .