Apparently inquiring about sexuality when a woman states her religious preference isn't unusual. Unlike Catholicism, Paganism does not dictate what women can and can't do with their bodies. A Pagan group does not have the power to dictate sexual practices for the entire Pagan community nor an individual. Stating that there is only one true practice of Paganism is as closed minded as stating there is only one true religion. If the practice happens to be sexual, then that statement is also manipulative and cultist.
Paganism appears to be clouded in an aura of sexuality and mystery.
Paganism is an earth based religion, with roots in agricultural society. In those ancient times a village's survival of their people. This context is misplaced in our current times. Most Pagans realize that modern Paganism is from the 1960s, from Garderians and Alexandrians. These men had the courage to bring magick, poetry, and ritual into a society that was bound to the restrictive social mores of those times.