You both have faults. Wait until you know what those faults are before you decide to live together. I can't guarantee that these tips will help in every case. There is no fool-proof solution to this terrible problem. However, if you are a strong, confident, happy woman with friends who would do anything for you and money set aside just in case, you are in control of your life.
Domestic violence is about control.
If a potential abuser sees that he can't control you, he's likely to look for someone else About the author Bethanny Davis lives in Michigan with her two children. She writes articles about money, parenting and relationships. She also enjoys writing short stories and poetry.