Intangible personal qualities make up a great part of your attraction for your mate. These have not changed with treatment. Spouses sometimes hesitate to initiate physical contact. Support, love, and affection do include hugs and caresses. These may lead the partner with cancer to feel more comfortable about sexual intimacy.
Physical exercise improves body image and feelings of well-being.
Taking on new hobbies and learning new skills can bolster your good feelings about yourself. Reconstructive surgery and well-made prostheses help some people overcome physical disabilities and emotional distress. If you cannot seem to regain good feelings about yourself, seek professional counseling or therapy. If your relationship is endangered by the stress of cancer, get professional help. You need each other at this time.