Fathers are often seen as playmates. Fathers are more likely to initiate rough and tumble play. Children prefer Dad as a play partner, but more often go to Mom in stressful situations. Fathers are as capable as mothers of caretaking, demonstrating competence and being sensitive to a child's needs. Fathers, like mothers, pick up on the meaning of an infant's cry and react appropriately.
Fathers are actually better at keeping a baby's attention.
Caregiving differences between mothers and fathers are believed to be due to training and experience, not to any innate qualities mothers have over fathers. Children whose fathers are actively involved with them during the first eight weeks of life manage stress better during school. Premature infants whose fathers spend more time playing with them are mentally more adjusted at age 3, regardless of whether their father resides in the same house. Sons of nurturing fathers are more likely to model their fathers and internalize their modes of thinking and problem solving. A close and warm relationship with Dad fosters a daughter's sense of competence, especially in math and a secure sense of femininity.