It is there, in others, that he lives. They are too lazy and have no empathy. To be considerate and understanding one has to invest effort and thought and to empathize. It is FAR more cerebral, premeditated and controlled. Fortunately, humanity is not a monolithic abstraction, a dull formula, an essence to be captured by representation.
Humanity is elusive, it is diverse, it is vast.
Without narcissists, or women, or blacks, or Jews, or Nazis, or the tribesmen of the Amazon - humanity would be a far less intriguing and successful proposition. It is in diversity that the secret of adaptation and survival lies. It is from adversity that resilience springs forth. We need their drive to excel, their ruthlessness, their pathetic pursuit of our adulation, their neediness, their emotional immaturity - this is the stuff untrammeled ambition is made of. This is the stuff of life.