If your address bounces messages for more than a couple days, you will probably be unsubscribed. Usually this occurs when someone abandons his account and therefore doesn't care he's been unsubscribed. In a nutshell, we talk about what it's like to live in a world as a single nonreligious person. Well, not in the sense that we actively try to match people up. However, we maintain a Member Info List where you can post information about yourself and describe what you are looking for in a significant other.
Most people even have their pictures online.
You can also post this information directly to the list and request people to contact you if they are interested. There have been at least two marriages between people that met on this list. As mentioned above, we have a Member Info List that serves as a personal ad. It also doubles as a source of information where you can find out more about other people you regularly talk with on the discussion list. Posting an ad is fully automated and is very easy.