The bear is strong. The coyote is clever and quick. The hawk is perceptive and fast. The special relationship is developed through love and respect, and possibly confirmed by an omen. An omen is an unnatural event, such as an owl flying down to your fire and watching you for a few minutes.
Omens tend to happen more to people who live in harmony with nature.
An animal totem is a statue that reminds you of the animal and your relationship with it. Some Native Americans, especially in the northwest, carve large totem poles representing animals and spirits special to a whole family or clan. She is willing to discuss the strengths and spirit of each animal so you can find an animal for your special relationship. This will help you develop love and respect for that animal, and draw on their strengths.