It is never OK to force a woman to have sexual intercourse, even if you think that's what she really wants. You must take responsibility for your actions. A woman with previous sexual experience isn't asking to be raped. Neither is a woman you consider to be dressed in a provocative or revealing manner. Money spent on a woman does not entitle a man to have sex.
Psychological pressure is still coercion.
Remember that men can also be rape victims. If you are victimized, you have the same legal and psychological resources available to you that are available to women.