Real, but not deep. Seek to resolve conflict. Affirm your humanity. Realize that others often bear unrealistic expectations. Ours is a competition culture.
Pressure comes to be competitive, but the ministry calls more for cooperation.
The expectation that you be a model family is real stressing. And some folk will test you. In preparing a resume, be honest, but direct it to the needs of the congregation you are seeking so that they will want to look at you carefully. Be concise and clear. List the roles you are expected to play preacher, prophet, priest, teacher, pastor, administrator, organizer, community model, lover, and bell boy.