If you can't do that, then you really shouldn't be in that circle. If you can't put those things aside, your dislike, or your disputes with the people that are inside, then you have no place being there. You have to be able to release them and put them outside the door. And being able to put them in perspective because you are going to be doing spiritual work. We're talking about a spiritual community here, not a collection of houses or people for one purpose or the other, that is built into something that is intensely spiritual and for a purpose.
Human beings are just naturally quarrelsome entities or beings.
That's the nature of the beast. But in something like this there's got to be that type of a thing when you work with other people. Also, harmony within yourself. Because of course if you are carrying a dislike for someone or something that is out of balance in your life, then you aren't harmonious within yourself. You're not perfectly balanced in the concept of the medicine wheel.