A few of them can help make the process easy, but many won't. Despite its stresses, coming out offers great relief from internalized homophobia, although it is not a cure-all. Ridding ourselves of it may be a process that continues most of our lives. Many people find comfort in the feminine and masculine gender scripts dictated by social norms. Many other people are made uncomfortable by them.
Many people accept their gender roles.
Many people don't. They may become sexually inhibited by their conflict about gender identities. Some feel that they have aspects of both genders. This sense of sexual self is called androgyny. Some feel they have nothing in common with either gender.