For example, monks in my monastery in Ladakh used only to study Tibetan and Sanskrit. Now, they also learn mathematics and many other subjects. Western people have a different approach, they understand Buddhist philosophy in a more practical way. Buddhadharma is very scientific, and we have to go by facts. In this way, it is very suited to modern culture.
Modernization is possible, but it is important to maintain the basics.
If the monks receive no respect, it's no use. These are spiritual matters and you cannot force people to accept you.