What we believe usually dictates how we feel. Our attitudes about people and events will generate our emotional responses to them. Our attitudes and beliefs are always right , otherwise we would believe something else. Since we have practiced our attitudes and beliefs over a lifetime, we are very loyal to them. It is very common to get stuck on our rightness and lose sight of our real human objective which is to be happy.
Many people believe that being right IS being happy.
Most of us eventually learn that our rightness may be limiting or restricting our happiness. Our rightness about effective recovery from significant emotional losses often limits our ability to complete relationships that have ended or changed. But time does not complete anything that is emotionally incomplete in our relationship with someone who died. If we believe, with tremendous rightness , that time is going to heal our emotional wound, we are destined to wait forever. Time does not heal.