Keep it simple and direct. If you develop greater capacity to communicate your feelings with others, you ll soon find that people do one of two things. Some folks will reciprocate and share their feelings. Others will not, and may even feel uncomfortable with your opening up. Don t allow others responses to put you off-track.
People choose different levels of intimacy with one another.
If your goal is to open up the walls and have more intimacy in your life, look for people who respond positively to your initiatives. These are the people who have the greatest potential for giving you what you are seeking. Intimacy requires being genuine and sincere with people. Genuineness and sincerity require telling the truth. Small wonder that learning to speak truthfully about your feelings, experiences and desires takes practice for some of us.