It's kind of like running. You can't just get up one day and run a marathon. You have to start out slowly and work up to it. In my book I offer several deep relaxation exercises which are excellent to do right before you go to sleep. Unfortunately most of us come to bed with the accumulated stresses of the day, and we don't know how to let go of them.
Gentle yoga can also be helpful.
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