Again, I waited. It's not possible. I probably can't, anyway. Still I said nothing. After all, it's a natural act.
Kids do it all the time.
We're afraid we can. If we imagine we can't have it, we're left to deal with all the feelings of undeservability, disappointment and limitation with which we surround ourselves. If we decide we can have it, we're forced to face up to actually doing what it would take to make it happen. What a rotten double-bind deal. Well, we do the wise thing, of course.