If your son or daughter starts discussing a problem, make an effort to listen more than you talk. As children grow older, they spend more time with friends. This is a necessary part of growing up as teens learn how to get along outside their family. But peer pressure can lead to unhealthy behavior, including early sexual activity, drugs, and alcohol. Invite them to spend their after-school hours in your home.
Parents are usually surprised at how early children think about experimenting.
Teach your child how to say 'no'. You might role play a situation in which your teenager is offered drugs or alcohol. No means no. Talk with other parents. As children move to middle school, organize your own Parent Support Network with the parents of your child's friends.