Trying to become a parent is another. Thus, I asked for permission to share her personal response with you. Some readers who are raising challenged kids may find it directly appropriate. But I suspect that most of you will find a place, deep within you, where Barbara's words will touch a responsive chord. Parenting can be difficult, even under the best of circumstances.
Frustrations are normal.
I have them with my non-disabled children and even more with my disabled child. What surprises all of us however, is the anger we feel towards everyone and the anger we often feel towards our child. They are the victims of their disability. But let's face it. This is real life here.