You're the only one who can decide how much is too much and what you're ready to do about it. Sexual abuse is so common that it too is beguiling to seem almost normal to some people. Have historically had so little to say about their sexuality that it's a very confusing area for many of us. You might give in to your partner's wish because you truly want to, and you know he'll do the same for you. But if you give in because you're afraid not to, or because you know he'll keep at you until he wears you down, it will be an important step to admit that he's really forcing you.
Emotional abuse is sometimes even harder than sexual abuse to define and recognize.
And almost everyone does it at some time or other and many couples develop a habit of hurling insults at each other. It's often hard to determine who did what to whom first, especially if the injury is delivered in a subtle way. Ignored your feelings. Ridiculed or insulted women as a group. Ridiculed or insulted your most valued beliefs, your religion, race, heritage or class.