Gatherings and open circles are important to us because they provide us with the opportunity to exchange ideas, knowledge, and viewpoints. Gatherings give us a much needed break from this insane world we live in. In circle we help each other reach our goals. I don't know. That's something only you can decide.
Many women become interested through feminism, others through the new age movement , etc.
When you find your path and start walking it, it's very much like coming home. If you're exploring a new Path, you can expect a little confusion while you try to understand their thinking. However, if the prospective path leaves you feeling completely confused, and unable to understand why they think or feel the way they do, then that path is probably not for you. It's really not a big deal. If a prospective path does not value your thoughts, concerns or feelings, it's not the one for you.