What the authors say may hurt. This because they will make your fantasy go up in smoke when you read the truth behind your ex's behavior. The majority of woman have an ex who holds a dear place in their hearts, especially if it's a first boyfriend. No other man will ever be able to live up to that measure of perfection, nor should he. This is because it was a first love.
Relationships end for a reason and are better left in the past.
When a woman wants to get in touch with an ex, it's usually because she's not getting her needs met in a current relationship. Its not any more complicated than that, regardless of what you tell yourself. The only way to feel content with your current partner is to point your finger at yourself. A lot of times a woman will blame her partner for the problems. She may say that he is not paying enough attention to her or that he isn't romantic enough.