Question I am afraid to have a relationship. I can't trust men because of being hurt too many times. I am afraid to try again. I am a very loving and caring person, attractive, with many hobbies. I want so much to have a relationship that is stable and secure.
Most people are afraid of rejection just as they are afraid of failure.
However, without taking a chance there can be no possibility of success. When it comes to relationships, just as with most things in life, there are ways to increase the probability of success by making better choices. Make a list. Then ask yourself where you would more likely find people who possess these characteristics. Increase your odds of finding a potential candidate by only frequenting places that you enjoy even if you are alone.