The family bed and nighttime parenting are practical solutions to the short-lived distress of night waking. This study analyzed CPSC death certificates for the period 1990 to 1997 and found that 515 babies died in adult beds. There was no evidence in the study, however, of whether or not an adult was present in the bed with the child. This study gave us important information regarding the possible danger to babies of loose bedding, loosely fitted mattresses and too many pillows. However, other studies in the United States, Great Britain and New Zealand as well as over 20 peer-reviewed papers report no direct risk to babies from sleeping in parents' beds.
Parents have to weigh the pros and cons and make their own decision.
Being a vegetarian is a perfectly healthy choice, even for a child. While it may take some experimentation in the kitchen at first, it is easy to adapt to a vegetarian in the family. Look for health practitioners who treat the whole person, not just the symptoms. Take courses or read books on herbs, and homeopathy. Try out some simple home remedies.