Some men plan to have sex with a woman even if they have to force the issue. Such a man may have forced sex before and gotten away with it. Alcohol and drugs are sometimes a significant factor in date rape. Sometimes a woman passes out and awakens to find a man having sex with her. On the other hand, some date rapes occur when alcohol is not involved or when the victim has had little or nothing to drink but the man has been drinking and becomes sexually aggressive.
Mixed signals are another element in date rape.
Some men find it sexually exciting to have a woman struggle. Sometimes a woman is not clear in her own mind about what she wants or she may think she will make up her mind as she goes along. If she changes her mind at some point and decides not to have sex, the man can feel cheated, rejected, and angry. He may be interpreting her nonverbal messages, such as her enjoyment of kissing and caressing, as meaning that she wants to have sex with him. The result can be rape.