Monogamy is a valid choice for some peopleat some times. But it is not a valid choice when no other valid moral options are known. IntiNet's purpose was to gain acceptance, especially for women to choose legitimate non-monogamous lovestyles as a choice. Ryam years ago became tired of a culture where love is viewed as such a small word. The Myth is that love can only be shared with two people.
Reality is very different.
In addition serial relationships are common, moving from one relationship or marriage to another, often for the sexual variety that is natural. Ryam has been with two male partners for 15 years in a totally committed polyfidelity group. The State says its illegal so Ryam can't legally marry both her husbands no matter how committed she is towards them. Therefore, the people being true to theirselves are doing it in the closet much like gays and lesbians have had to be in the closet for many years. Gays and Lesbians however, are coming out, but people in non- monogamy are still too timid and afraid of cultural myths about sexuality.