When we asked teens how they made decisions about whether to have sex, we got a wide variety of responses. After all that time and growing, then you can positively say you're in love with someone. You just know. But first you need to reach a certain maturity level. It's hard to explain someone's maturity level, but it's when you get past curiosity and begin to want to do it.
Most boys are always ready.
He says that he won't have sex with a girl unless he feels strongly about her. Juniors Melvin Williams and Kayla Washington feel it isn't wrong to have sex with someone you've only known for a little while. Just because you feel like having sex doesn't mean you should act on that feeling any more than feeling like hitting someone means you should actually hit them.