For instance, don't be too picky about physical attributes as the more important ingredients in relationships are more often than not the more internal qualities that blossom with care into splendors so rare. So again, be flexible and negotiate. If it's hard to be objective, or you are just too complex, get some other opinions. But don't count on their sight. Wisdom and creativity don't always get attention on the street.
First impressions are powerful.
The first five minutes are sooo important. Initial impressions rarely change much at all after the first encounter. This doesn't mean to put on some mask. It just means making first impressions work in your favor. Somebody that might be put off by a certain mannerism may be blown off their feet if you show you aren't basing your self-worth on merely their judgement.