Durham taught English as a second language and helped counsel young people. I tried to find out what someone wanted to do and then tried to find ways to help him or her develop it. My daughter was surprised I did that. But they were trying to discover if they would be able to be together. Today they're married and they have two beautiful children.
Life can be surprising.
The boys had the YMCA, which we didn't have. But we girls did fine. We wanted to swim. So we just hopped off the rocks, into the water.