He wasn't even as close as my grandfather. Only once in a while, when I wasn't looking for it, did God surprise me and seem to come very close. I may write letters or talk with someone over the phone. But I don't necessarily relate to others as a buddy. Factors such as age or social differences may keep a relationship rather formal.
Persons communicate ideas.
My point of view is gradually, subtly affected by others. Likewise, God communicates ideas, helping me to understand his way of thinking. Persons affect each other through love and encouragement. I can love my car to death, but I can't make it run any better. God affects me tremendously, gradually, by the amazing way he loves me.