An increased state of confusion also increases the chances of UNhappiness. If you truly love her, offer to find her a good therapist. That way you can feel justifiably angry when people think that you never experience any 'real problems'. Then one fine day, when you feel ready to spread your vitriol, unload your tales of woe on somebody who looks too happy for you to take. This works best when you have no intention of dealing with what ails you.
Resentment is a dish best served hot, swimming in a rich sauce of self-pity.
They may never know if you truly love them, but at least they can't say you are boring. Make everyone feel guilty for not giving you enough attention and praise. Make your wife feel guilty for not constantly noticing you and admiring you. Let everyone know how lucky they are that you are in their presence. Medical Communications Resource Unless copy written elsewhere and reprinted by permission here , the material on this website may be distributed freely in print for non-commercial purposes, provided that author credit is given.