Growth also happens here. It comes about when there is the security of knowing that the members of the household are unconditionally loved by each other. When their relationship is directed and bound by Christ, they feel accepted, loved and cared for. Love, this God given love, promotes growth. Relationships are real in the genuine family.
Relationships are authentic only when honest and open sharing takes place.
There is an environment for personal honesty and openly facing mistakes and feelings. In the enabling family, true thoughts and feelings are spoken and received in love. At this point, true relationship can begin, free from barriers of mistrust and deception. Family is about commitment and lifelong meaning. There is a fidelity and righteousness that is about faithful, open, honest, responsible and caring action in relation to all in the household.