This conviction stems from the primordial sin of their autocide. Prone to neologisms, I invented this word recently to describe the murder of the True Self by its False distant relative. The guilt fostered by this act festers and yields a rich concoction of fear and self loathing. Kafka described an inexplicable, arbitrary universe in which punishment is meted out for no apparent crime. This is a typical narcissistic reaction.
Narcissists compartmentalize their life.
He is deserving of a focused, directed, intensive hate. A tremendous difference. That we have no control diminishes our responsibility. Drives ARE controllable. So are impulses.