The pressure is lessened by not being alone together all the time. Abstinence has helped our relationship grow stronger. We never have anything to hide, to be ashamed of, or worry about being caught. Because we don t have the bedroom to solve problems in, we have to rely on good communication. Sex only inflates problems, and eventually those relationships crumble.
Every couple has certain limits.
Ours is kissing. As a girl, I only have to look at the statistics to know why abstinence is a good thing. There s also a high risk of not being able to have children if an STI goes undetected for too long. Don t forget the emotional side. Most guys jump up and start looking for the next girl that comes their way.