She councils her clients to seek out some of the nice alternatives to singles bars and clubs and has written particulars about these places in her book. The timing of a relationship is crucial. Both parties have to be ready for it to work. He simply wasn't ready for commitment. It usually isn't about insufficient love.
Guys tend to be pretty black or white.
They are either ready or not ready. Gals, don't drive yourselves crazy. Your gut instincts should tell you a lot. It's pretty much common sense. But each of us deserves respect.