Consequently, it is not wise to talk about penalties for failure to implement a solution at this time. You also may be able to offer suggestions to help him remember to do his job. Sometimes you or the other person will discover weaknesses in the solution, in which case the problem should be returned for more problem solving. Sometimes it is important to go to the other and ask how he feels about the solution. Both of you should have an understanding that decisions are always open for revision , but that neither of you unilaterally can modify a decision.
Modifications have to be mutually agreed upon, just as was the initial decision.
On using these six steps, they learned that the problem was not, as you might suspect, having only one bathroom. The problem was that neither had good lighting in their bedrooms. The solution agreed upon was a lighted make-up mirror for the daughter. The results peaceful mornings. To produce a healthy, functioning relationship and people with high levels of self esteem, you need to cultivate a win - win perspective in a climate of mutual respect.