Let your ears work harder than your mouth. You can be a great talker by just listening and saying nothing at all. Ask the right questions to show your interest and letting other people respond. Then, build on that by asking another question or adding a comment of your own. Finally, don't drink too much.
Nobody likes a drunk.
And most people don't like a person that will talk too loud where no one can carry on a decent conversation. Why pay more than 5 cents a minute for long distance. Communicate with Partner - Sharpen your communication skills with your loved one.