We re trying to please a lot of people, and sometimes we don t please any. And along comes this warm, spiritual woman who affirms, affirms, affirms. She was the only one who affirmed me. And that affirmation can so easily lead to closeness, then affection, then sexuality. Occasionally she is a woman with a predetermined plan, intent on compromising the man of God, but usually she is simply a sincere person seeking help.
Prevention begins with our marriage.
We must keep it in good repair at all costs. To love like that demands a lifelong commitment renewed day by day. We must constantly choose to give our marriage priority time and energy. Let me share some guidelines that have served Saundra and I well these past thirty-three years. Protect your day off at all costs and spend it together, as a couple, and as a family.