Regressions are not unusual during the process, particularly if the child is affected by such things as illness, a move to a new home or child care center, or a new baby in the family. Accidents are to be expected and never met with disapproval. Daytime control may occur earlier than nighttime control.
Girls tend to develop complete control of the elimination process earlier than boys.
Because of the complexity of a child's learning to successfully and consistently use the toilet and the intense emotional relationship between parents and the child about the process, the Center will not initiate toilet learning. Parents should keep Center staff aware of the child's movement through the developmental stages at home and request a formal conference at such time as the switch from diapers to pants is to be attempted. This will help ensure that staff is supportive and consistent with parental efforts with the child. Develops sphincter muscle control as evidenced by 2-3 hours of dryness. The child wants to use the toilet.