How we deliver sex can become the fantasy of the evening for him, if we so choose to engage ourselves in the adventure our man desires. But we must realize that the reasonable objective of a man s romantic overtures, whether it be taking you out to dinner, cooking dinner for you, buying you drinks or flowers is to get the two of you naked, sweating and satisfying each other fully sexually. The problem begins with our different points of view, which start with the axiom that most men like to look at porn, and most women like to read about extravagant adventures of romantic fantasy. Tradition says that the genders do not share any common ground here, though that fallacy is changing, thankfully. From there the obvious occurs.
Men look at porn, usually masturbating so that some physical satisfaction is experienced.
Women read romance novels, usually experiencing the entire fancy in their own head, without any physical gratification needed for a satisfactory experience, or so many women think. Thus our ultimate satisfactions through erotic daydreams, fantasies and voyeurism are interpreted as being quite different. It is very healthy that women are buying erotic toys and other sexual products more than ever before, as well as admitting their voyeuristic curiosities. The flesh is gaining with gals, and this is very good news for us all. As liberated individuals, we must find a way to honestly bridge the traditional gap that exists between men and women with regard to romance and sex , even admitting that a little sexual training could do infinite good on both sides of the gender map.