Do not be afraid of those who kill the body but cannot kill the soul. Look at the end of the road that you have started down in your secret sin . No one who commits adultery leaves home in the morning a happily married man and suddenly decides to sleep with a stranger. No one is a satisfied employee one minute and the next decides to embezzle thousands from his company. Adultery usually begins when a man develops emotional ties with a woman who is not his wife.
Embezzlement comes after long periods of bitterness, lack of contentment, and greed.
Secret sins are like an addiction it inevitably takes more and more to satisfy our cravings. Like a river rushing towards a waterfall, secret sins gather strength the farther we go downstream. When Satan tempts us, he offers the bait but hides the hook. Momentary pleasure can become bitter for eternity. Confess your sin to an accountability partner as well as anyone you have sinned against.