These may include problems requiring improvisation, flexibility and the seeking of unusual approaches. However, you should avoid situations which could cause tension in your relationship because of both partners' preference for improvisation and flexibility in their approach to a solution. These spontaneity and flexibility of the partners might lead to tension in relations if both of you should make decisions on questions which primarily require planning and deadlines. Attempting to solve this type of problem will cause tension in the perceiving partners. The fourth block bears proposals for optimal behavior, counting all the four criteria, for the partners' interaction in a couple.
Proposals consist of three parts.
The first part shows those life situations in which the partners can feel easy and natural. The second part describes the situations which are regarded as relatively acceptable for both of the partners. That means, that under these situations the interrelations in the couple are essentially more strained as compared to the situations in the first part. The situations in the third part are considered as unfavorable. Under these events each of the partners should let the other act on his own.