You may not be able to ask them to sit on the good sofa and have a cup of tea, but you can construct a personality within your site that makes them feel like you invited them to sit and visit with you at the kitchen table. The good sofa is where you listen to salespeople and the membership interview committee from the country club. The kitchen table is where you visit with your friends and family. Just that there are two different ways to look at the same event. The server-master looks at activity levels and only cares that all demands put upon the server are serviced well.
Every good server creates a record of everything that happens on the server.
These are called log files. The server creates one massive file containing every activity that occurred on the server. Every request for an HTML page. Every request to have an active page executed. Every graphic file requested.