Another paradox is created, we are taught to use Caution and good Judgement in every situation. The result from caution is that it keeps us in Fear. Taken to the extreme we can easily become Afraid to experience anything and never Live. Judgement leads us to becoming cynical of everything but our own opinion leaving us with a life hardly worth living. A more objective and productive method of doing things is garnered by assimilating the best available information on or about anything and making an informed choice based on facts.
Preferences then become the imperative and a far easier method of operating.
Working in the material reality this scientific approach allows the building of many things including space craft. When one starts dealing with the realities of our Spiritual aspects it is a different matter entirely. It is almost a completely emotional level process. Women are more attuned and used to dealing with feelings, thereby enabling them to experience the deeper spiritual experiences. Most men are used to using their logic in an attempt to understand for what in the most part is an abstraction that has never been quantified.