If he truly loves you he wouldn't touch you in places you don't feel like being touched. Call me a slut , but I kind of like a guy to be a little aggressive in a sexual situation. If a woman says no, it means no. No should not mean yes in any circumstance. If a woman says no but means yes, then she needs to examine her thoughts and motives before going further into the relationship.
Mixed messages tend to lead to disastrous relationships.
I have a very hard time saying no. I feel that if I say no, he'll just force himself on someone else, and then I'd feel guilty about that. I've dated a lot of losers in my time, just so my sisters wouldn't have to. The likelihood of someone getting raped or pressured sexually will decrease if I am the one who is with the potential perpetrator. It has a lot to do with feeling no self-worth.