Indeed, a brochure by Carol Luebering of Cincinnati, Ohio, reports that the people who will carry out your wishes shouldn't worry when they want to do something differently. Of course you have. Do not put your funeral arrangements in your will. People who survive you need a place and a time to face the loss and begin recovering. This is vital, Swenson's most heartfelt advice.
People have to get that grieving done.
Settling Affairs Of The Heart Paperwork isn't the only chore to confront dying people. They have to talk, meditate, remember and inspire. They crave, more than anything else, honest communication with people they love. This sounds like emotionally draining work, and it is. But it is necessary and unavoidable.