It's really quite simple. Not them us, but us us. By just putting a little effort forward we've discovered enormous returns.
Friendships continue despite the miles of separation.
You do have to be a Pubrat, or at least a linear relation to one, to join. We're not exclusionary, but we are protective of our cluster. Privacy is important, but more so is the freedom to say what we want, how we want. Knowing the audience is private helps us to release our thoughts. You don't have to act grown-up here.