It is not unusual for this process to take over one year, especially for more experienced lawyers. Once you accept this time frame, structure your activities accordingly. If things happen sooner, so much the better. We all like to keep our options open, but lack of focus is a killer when it comes to career management. Make your decision, commit to your choice, then get on with it.
Planning is tedious but critical.
Sketch out a basic career plan which contains your overall career objectives, a brief sketch of your interests, skills, and abilities, your specific career goals, the action required to achieve your goals, an estimate of the resources you will require and the costs you expect to incur. And reduce your plan to writing. Nothing gets done unless it is in writing. You must have an up to date computer system and be reasonably literate with the basic functions and popular programs. It won't do you much good if you're not on-line.