Ask God to help you demonstrate to him that you can restrict yourself. Then you can be able to say greater, but later-to the flesh. Either overcome the desires of the flesh , or they overcome you. When the heart looks to lust, the mind must hold the heart to the intended truth of God. God's word can stimulate you more profoundly than lust.
Romance is future tense.
It is a feeling, and we imagine those feelings to be proof of a long lasting love. It can be an impulsive decision made with no regard to the future. At the spur of the moment, immediate gratification is mind. Many people decide to take things as they come. They may not be sure of what they want to spend their life doing.