Dresses nice attends Sunday school, sings in the choir, drives slow, wears a tie, shows up, picks up after himself, always puts the seat back down. Soft, sweet, nice, media stereotype. Nicely dressed sissyfied fat. Likes to drink tea with old ladies. Face it, religion is feminized.
Men sense a loss.
An unrequired sacrifice. Becoming like mother or wife. And we lose touch with a path to spirituality. Our own manhood. We are more aggressive.