In abusive relationships, the perpetrator may use tactics other than physical violence or sexual assault to maintain power and control over his or her partner. It is common for an abuser to be extremely jealous and insist that the victim not see his or her friends or family members. The resulting feeling of isolation may then be increased for the victim if he or she loses her job as a result of absenteeism or decreased productivity. Emotional and verbal abuse, attempts to isolate and threats and intimidation within a relationship may be warnings that physical abuse will follow. Even if it doesn't, emotional abuse and threats are considered domestic violence.
Domestic violence is recognized as a crime in all states.
But abuse victims are often reluctant to testify in court because convictions for domestic violence can be difficult to obtain, and they fear retaliation from the abuser. Work with an experienced lawyer in your state.