But the truth is that commitment fears are rarely that subtle and most people with big commitment problems let you know very quickly. As you heal, you become less attracted to problem personalities and unworkable scenarios. You are less tolerant of abusive behaviors. We repeat the past until we heal the past. That is why I am such a strong proponent of good therapy.
Relationships are definitely the hardest thing to commit to.
If you can do the rest, you certainly have potential but something about your connection process must not be working. This is all about connection, levels of connection. The years should bring you in deeper. We've actually gone over the time. . . Cougrwomyn, go ahead.