And while a woman can have sex even if she isn't very aroused, a man's erect penis is more or less required for intercourse. Although there are many pleasurable sexual activities which can be shared if a man can't get or sustain an erection, most men find even an occasional erection problem to be so embarassing and shameful that it precludes any other kind of pleasure for them. I imagine gay men share the concern about who does what to whom with lesbians, for many of the same reasons. Many gay men also worry about HIV and other STDs. I'm curious to know what fears about sex students have, so I'll be taking an informal survey through email and will share the results later in the semester.
Most users report lowered inhibitions .
This could have some negative effects, such as having unsafe sex, having sex with people you wouldn't normally want to have sex with, or getting into a dangerous situation where there is the chance of being raped or otherwise sexually abused. As far as whether you should be having sex while taking Ecstasy, I think you have to make that choice. You have to decide whether E is causing you to make good or bad choices, whether it is bringing you closer to your partner or causing distance, and whether you want to keep taking the risks involved with Ecstasy use. Well, it sounds like both genders are having variations of the same problem when giving oral sex. My guess is that most of the ear grabbing, head pushing, hair yanking, etc.