Compare that with the kid who's always hoping that maybe his parents will get back together. Maybe they do, two or three times. Like I say, making babies with your lover is short sighted, self indulgent and just plain irresponsible. And like all self indulgence, in the long run it's less fun, not more. Well, you've made your case.
Lets see what reactions the mail brings.
I find your point about the difference between making love and making and making a family to be an interesting one. I would like to raise a child as a single parent, either through adoption or with the help of a woman who would have my child. Get to know a woman you think might be willing to help you. There is more to this than just donating sperm. To minimize the risk that she will change her mind and keep the child, you must show your commitment by being there to assist her in childbirth classes and labor.