Money talk can be an emotional subject especially when spouses have different money values. Making choices for yourself is far easier than making choices with a partner or several family members especially about money decisions. Here are some suggestions to establish or improve the process of talking about money. You have the right and the responsibility to be clear about the things that are important to you. Respect and love grow stronger when family members understand each other's needs.
Most people get upset and angry when there is a conflict over money.
If you are upset, step away until you are calmer, but do not ignore the conflict. Do not try to talk while watching television or getting ready for the day. You will not be very attentive or creative with ideas. Listen , listen, listen. Most of us think more about what we are going to say than about what the other person is saying.