Infrequent sex also affects control. Even a man with normally good control may reach orgasm quickly after a long period of time without sex. Premature ejaculation is also common the first few times a man has sex with a new partner. Men with good ejaculatory control can enjoy sustained levels of sexual arousal before choosing to ejaculate. A man without this control tends to go from zero excitement to orgasm without leveling off.
Premature ejaculation is very common.
It is also a problem that responds well to treatment. Make a commitment to your treatment and you are likely to see good results. The good news is that many men can learn to control their ejaculation. To learn more, ask your healthcare provider for information. Some men may prefer to work with a sex therapist.