Hard work, sacrifice and resolve yield results. There is racism from both individuals and institutions. There are violent acts of hatred. Yet in a country of 250 million people of different ethnic groups and religions, one should marvel at how infrequently they occur. Goals differ, aptitudes vary, but most seek to feed and clothe their children, to send them to good schools and to live in safe neighborhoods.
Most people have neither the time nor the energy to hate.
And even if they found the way, few have the power to do anything more than make faces. There are obstacles that do prevent success. Deciding that school is a waste of time is one. Having reckless sex is another. Gang-banging is another.