The fact is that a professional labor support person assists the father by making practical suggestions so he can better help his partner, spells him when necessary, and frees him to participate in ways in which he is most comfortable without compromising the needs of the laboring woman. Having a doula present allows the father to concentrate all his energies on his partner, while the doula advocates on their behalf by reminding other members of the birth team of the birthing couple s wishes. Some doulas provide care at home during early labor, helping the couple decide when to leave for their birthplace. She helps provide comfort measures such as positions for active labor and pushing, massage, relaxation techniques and visualizations. At the birthplace, the doula can help the birthing couple be aware of their options so they may make informed choices as the birth process progresses.
Many doulas remain with the birthing couple for a short time after the birth as well.
This is beneficial in helping to get breast-feeding off to a good start. The doula also becomes an advocate for the newborn. Many standard hospital routines such as bathing, warming, weighing and measuring, etc. can usually be done at the mother s bedside, allowing more time for the family to bond. The support person may remind hospital personnel of the parent s wishes at this special time. Choosing your doula is as important as choosing your midwife or obstetrician.