Family members in our support group have reported that they derive strength from watching how their family member with cancer copes with the condition. Seeing the person handle the difficult emotional strain of the condition in a courageous manner is reassuring to families. You, as a person with cancer, become a model for emotional strength to your family members. By helping them to be strong, they in turn can help you. This connection between individuals with cancer and their families is often overlooked in cancer treatment.
Medical treatments focus on helping the individual to battle the disease.
Psychological treatments focus on helping the individual handle emotional distress. Family therapists understand that families are groups just like other groups in society. Families operate according to certain rules. They have certain values and beliefs. They have certain ways of communicating with each other.