Search and try our ways , and turn again to the Lord. God wants all our self-interest, pettiness, spite, revenge, cruelty, foolishness, egotism, possessiveness, addictions and selfishness removed. These self-centered ways not only affect our communication with God, they also affect our communication with others. Until these things are purged from our soul, we cannot have the union with Him that we so long for. We must become detached from all our self-centered thoughts, hopes, plans, preferences, sorrows, successes, failures and comforts, and dead to all desires but those of God.
Presumption is a preconceived belief about certain things, events or people.
It's taking something for granted or assuming something is true in the absence of proof to the contrary. In itself, presumption is obviously not sin. It's a behavior common to all of us. However, presumption can often be based on falsehoods that, if not dealt with, can lead us to disillusionment and bitterness, which is sin and will quench God's Spirit. When this proves not to be the case, the wife can easily become embittered and resentful.