Not literally, these are your relations after all. Be safe and assume everyone there is related to you and off limits. That means no flirting with the cute guy at the other table. He s probably a cousin. No war, no fighting.
Negativity quickly brings down the mood and makes others feel uncomfortable.
Forgive and forget. It s time to make up. However, if you were 32 and she stole your husband, then ignore this advice. Explore your family tree. See a somewhat familiar face, go up and introduce yourself.