Churches have their own struggles. Tensions exist on boards and commissions, between pastors and laity, between laity and laity. We've got to learn to live together as Christians. A significant part of my time and energy is spent dealing with interpersonal and group conflicts in UB churches. Let me share a few observations about conflict and tension in the church.
Generational differences create tension.
The generations have different values. There are differences about how we value work, personal relationships, money, credit, political systems, family values, working parents, free time, insurance, family planning, and much more. Your age affects your values, habits, and perspectives. Going through the Depression colored my grandfather's decision-making regarding the future. That is understandable.