I was uncomfortable that she was not happy. I felt guilty that I'd dragged her, against her will, over one-thousand miles from everyone she knew and loved. We usually accept this in ourselves but not as often in our children. At such times, they need extra comfort and love. If their feelings are due to the usual, inevitable disappointments of childhood, the sadness will be short-lived.
Sadness is part of the human experience.
For 1995, I have challenged myself, and I challenge you now, to be more accepting of our children's feelings. I won't let you because I don't think it is safe. And when I accidentally ignore a child's feelings, I'll admit I'm human and try to do better next time. All Rights Reserved. Permission to reproduce for use with parents and families of young children is granted provided no financial gain is involved and this copyright notice is included.