I should indeed be sad if some of the places I consider sacred were threatened or denied me. There would be very few parishes when there wasn't disputes about the decorations in the building at some stage in their history. Indeed, it is assuredly one of the reasons that the religious authorities wanted Jesus killed - because he put human charity above religious observances. It is one of the reasons we can say that Jesus died and rose again for those who are charitable following another faith tradition, or of no particular faith tradition. It transpired that the religious authorities were not all that charitable towards someone who thought like this.
People are important, all people.
If some people choose to give to God to increase the fabric of the Church, that offering is accepted. If some others choose to give to God by giving to the poor and needy, again that is their choice and that choice is accepted. Indeed as Matthew and Mark portray it, the impetus for Judas to betray Jesus was the woman who anointed Jesus at Bethany. We follow only in the footsteps of our Lord and Saviour Jesus Christ, who was able to sit down and eat with all people. It should ring alarm bells when we remember that it was precisely this sit down and eat with all people which precipitated the wrath of the religious authorities towards Jesus, and led him to be crucified.