I do not know how we will repair our relationship, considering all the damage it has suffered over the last eight months. Only that it will take a lot of time and mutual effort. So, this is what I have decided. China will have to wait. I am saving for a longer trip.
Japan is the current destination of choice.
If all goes according to plan, I intend to apply for a teaching position in about half a year. In the meantime, I can take language classes and prepare for culture shock. This idea is not a new one, but has only recently acquired a sense of decisiveness. And a stamp of parental approval. Most companies require a one-year commitment.