I am greatly concerned by the way these big boats are driven and the damage they cause. River banks are not meant to be slamed into by 3 foot rollers, this creates severe erosion. Just because your boat is bigger than mine gives you any more rights to the river than me. Also I have noticed some of the ruder boat operators seem to be guides. I have basically the same set up as you and fish the mo too.
Rude behavior is rude behavior.
I don't mind the size of the boat and have run into some polite owners who own big jets. I agree though that the MO has really turned into a big circus the last few years. I tried to fish it last Friday and left out of frustration. Guys were driving over my water while I was trying to cast and I ended up yelling at about 3 guys before I decided it wasn't worth it and to just pack it in for the day. Its just too many people in a small area.