The unbearble truth is, I may or may not find anyone. I may not have a significant other, but love is still around. I know and appreciate the love I have around me from friends and family. It may not be the love of a girlfriend, but love doesn t come easy anyway. It takes a lot of luck, faith, commitment and trust in someone else to feel real love.
Love comes naturally and can never be forced.
Having a girlfriend would not make me complete, nor should it make anyone else complete. To love someone because there is no one else to love can lead down a road of relationship dependency, confusion and possibly future guest appearances on the Jerry Springer Show. The fear of loneliness is the driving force behind many college couples. I see so many unhappy people staying together because they re afraid to be alone. It s more of a pathetic lifesaver than love.