It is not possible to overdo in the act of surrendering because it is ever increasing from inside. It comes to a natural halt when the effort is exhausted . Elders evaluate the youngsters in terms of the values of their generation. Psychological values do not so readily change as social values. One who readily changes his dress, will not equally readily change his values of social superiority, or etiquette .
Mother restores lost objects, lost rights, lost happiness, etc.
Restoring a broken bottle is theoretically possible when melted into the original liquid glass, but in practice it is not feasible. Lost rights need change in law or custom to be restored. To let a habit express itself for its own joy or comfort is like that. A beginning can be made by controlling the irresistible desires . It is a valuable self-guidance to decide to examine, after each advice we give others, as to how much we ourselves follow that advice.