Yes recognize the disability but focus on the ability. For partnerships to grow we must be willing to take chances not fear taking risks. Partnerships must be truly equal, expectations must be shared as well as the responsibility for making things happen. Listening is the key to a healthy partnership. Respect for each other's abilities is critical.
Partnerships change, to remain static means to remain in the same place.
Be prepared for partnership separation or cancellation. Be open to the formation of new partnerships. Partners must be included in planning, research, implementation and evaluation of projects. Good role models help partners to achieve their goals. Our world is far from perfect for persons with disabilities, if it was none of us would be here.