He shook his head no. She nodded yes. Expressing your fantasies can help ensure that your partner will not feel judged. When your lover does something right during sex, let her know. Dress to make yourself feel attractive, especially if you have a negative body image.
Masturbation can help address an imbalance in sex drive.
Set aside time for sex, and make the bedroom a sanctuary. I've changed my mind since then. In fact, Love offers thousands of words of advice in her influential book Hot Monogamy , an extensive guide for monogamous couples wishing to enjoy a passionate sex life. All of us can feel when the thrill is gone, for example, but few of us know that this is a simple matter of biology. Then, when sexual interest fades, we often believe we're not in love anymore.