Communication between partners is difficult or non- existent. Fighting or arguing becomes frequent. Loyalty and fidelity begin to be tested. There is competition to have needs met. Problems and disagreements go unresolved.
Partners feel chained to the relationship.
People outside the relationship know about the problems. One person controls problem solving, rules of conduct, and planning. There is competition to see who is the stronger. There is a sense of non B productivity. An enabler covers for the other.