The events that trigger change can be positive or negative. As adults, parents can see changes as an unavoidable part of life. All of these events bring about change in the life of a young child. For a complete list and a stress level quiz, refer to Elkind's book.
Mother goes to work.
When a child moves he suffers the loss of his home, friends, teachers and child-care providers as well as other familiar adults and surroundings. When a new baby arrives, a child may lose being the center of her parents' attention, her baby furniture and clothing, and time alone with grandparents or other respected adults. Older children are typically expected to give up old toys for their younger siblings. Separation When parents separate, children lose a parent, a playmate, security and a lifestyle. A parent may provide the physical needs of the children but be emotionally unavailable.