It is absolute and irrefutable that you can't have both. Each of us lives in one tree or the other. If you don't know, taste your fruit. Every day presents riddles without clues - challenges dressed as problems. Questions rise from needs to know.
Mysteries knock on our door and come in uninvited.
What you do with this is run to a Tree. Always a Tree. You have your favorite, the one you trust. At one Tree, you wait. You quietly wait.