God has shown us how to express that love through commands, exhortations, teachings, principles, and examples. Man has tried consistently to interpret these as lawful requirements, but God gave them as directives to love. Men argue, fight, and divide over lawful interpretations and thereby defeat the love into which God was directing. As new covenant people, we are guided by these but not justified by them. Freedom is not for unrestrained indulgence.
Messianic congregations are more susceptible to legalism in regard to the Torah.
Remember that Abraham did not keep Glatt Kosher. Recall Abraham served the LORD, Ha Shem a tender good calf, butter, and milk. We are to offer new life in Messiah, not a burden that even our fathers could not bear. More often than not it is Messianic Gentiles who try to enforce the Torah on other believers. A messianic congregation can not and should not try to compete with the local Orthodox synagogue on the Torah.