Take a moment to thank God for them. Now stop and ask God to help you to spend more time utilizing what He has given you and to satisfy your spirit. Jesus suggests the true test of Christian discipleship is not how well we get along with our friends, but how adept we are at loving our enemies. Think for a second about a person you have the hardest time getting along with. They are Eros, philia, and agape.
Philia is an attraction to another person because of mutual interest or concern.
Agape, unlike the other two types of love, does not depend upon the loveableness of another person, or upon shared interests. It arises from the recognition of the needs of other people. In the Bible whenever love is commanded as a duty toward our neighbor or toward our enemy, it is always agape that is used and never the first two. Jesus chooses an example in which no element of Eros or philia are mixed in. You can love your enemies even if you do not like them because you can control your will even if you cannot command your feelings and emotions.