They're really not allowed to do that in some instances. But in cases where it is clear that she is not being forced into this, then that decision needs to be respected. Ms. Stanton of the Victim Witness Program agrees that victims should be allowed to make their own decisions but should know what their options and rights are. If in fact they decide to reconcile, we tell them please come down to the court. Ms. Whitney said sometimes the law isn't enough.
Nobody can predict violent behavior.
The psychologist can't do it, the lawyers can't do it, but that's what the judges are called upon to do every day. Day 9 help file . . .