This way, they'll have surprise messages from you to discover for weeks to come. The important thing is to realize that each day brings a new opportunity for closeness with your little one, and that distance will never keep you apart. They simply want to have fun and experience all the unique aspects of you. Perhaps, too, your little ones will be wise enough to anticipate the joy of looking back on the visit with photos and mementos. Parents and grandchildren, however, aren't the only ones fantasizing about the big event.
Grandparents also have dreams and even fears about an upcoming visit.
Perhaps you too feel limited by some aspect of your relationship with your children and grandchildren. These roles, once established, may seem impossible to change. Or perhaps you've made it through the important postpartum visit, but need some additional ideas to keep your relationship with your grandchild fresh during subsequent visits to their home. If so, the following paragraphs might help you recharge your batteries and take a new, positive approach. A grandparent who's ready to accept grandchildren regardless of how grumpy or outlandish they can be.