It may be that your husband's inability or unwillingness to communicate is caused by depression. Some signs of depression may include negative thoughts, reduced activity, physical problems, guilt and low self-esteem. Depression can be insidious and may not always be recognizable even in people we live with and think we know well. Evaluation for depression should be encouraged. Although farming is a cherished way of life for many families, it has long been recognized as one of the most stressful occupations.
Farmers have to cope with more stress than the average worker.
But how they deal with these problems is very much within their control. It is critical to do what you can to promote better communication. Work together to set measurable goals for your lifetime. Communicate realistic expectations clearly. As problems arise, schedule time for the two of you to brainstorm.