At some point you might run into a person who will tell you things about them selves that you might not have never asked for, nor did you find it appropriate for such conversation. In these cases, that person seems to expose themselves to you voluntarily, at which time you might feel a violation of respect upon you. Shyness, at times is considered to equate to secrecy, in which case, people tend to equate to suspicious behavior. At time's shy people are considered recluses and though of as outcast. In which case a recluse might consider others, who separate themselves from respect, principal and concern for others, an outcast.
Perception is at time confused with fantasy or assumption.
An assumption can be made as a spoken or confirmed definition of another person or object. Perception can be expressed as a feeling of or impression that is given off by an object or person. And a fantasy is what ever dreamlike state a person lives in or acts out that is relative to the their unrealistic or untouchable interpretation of a world, object, action or course of life, might be. Exposing your fantasy to another, might change the content of your fantasy to a state that was an intimate personal secret. Which we all must attain in order to be made up of what we are, to simple, core exposure that might have been better kept as a personal gift to yourself.