Trying to protect children with vague or inaccurate explanations can create anxiety, confusion, and mistrust. It is important to answer such questions simply, but honestly. Children may experience sadness, anger, fear, denial, and guilt when their pet dies. They may also be jealous of friends with pets. If possible, it is helpful to have the child say goodbye before the pet dies.
Parents can serve as models by sharing their feelings with their children.
Let your child know it is normal to miss pets after they die and encourage the youngster to come to you with questions or for reassurance and comfort. There is no best way for children to mourn their pets. They need to be given time to remember their pets. It helps to talk about the pet with friends and family. Mourning a pet has to be done in a child's own way.