What an incredible deception. Can you imagine our courts telling the victim and the perpetrator to forgive each other and hug one another. No one, and that means no one, has been tempted above what they are able. They are humans made in the image of God. Hate only begets hate.
Love covers a multitude of sins.
For we know that in all these things we are more than conquerors through Him that loved us. We can get off our pity pot and love others if we choose. It's our choice. You have Questions. The Bible has Answers.