The child can never therefore meet such goals, either in studies or other activities. Such parents must realize that children will not be able to necessarily meet the specified standards. A parent should be a pillar of strength, supporting and encouraging in any circumstance. A pleaser will do almost anything to make the child happy. Such a parent often wants to be loved more than the other parent.
Outright appeasement spoils the child.
Irrational love showered on the child allows the little one to manipulate the situation in his or her favor. Therefore, every parent must keep his or her self-respect intact before dealing with the child. A rule maker is a very controlling parent, also extremely rigid and judgmental. Such parents have a strong code of conduct for the entire household, with no room for mistakes and lapses. Too many dos and don ts do not allow the child to grow in a wholesome and healthy atmosphere.