Adults without passes or who are not rostered retire to the spectators' side of the field without incident. Game starts on time. When game is delayed, it is because of a bona fide emergency. Games delayed longer than 30 minutes are forfeited. Games called by the referee because of inclement weather are tentatively re-scheduled between the coaches before leaving.
Players play hard and within the bounds of fairness.
Players, coaches, and parents alike, respect the calls of the referee. Players, coaches, and parents realize that the referee is in a better position to see and to make calls, that the referee will do the best possible job, and that spectators who are making harassing remarks do not improve the quality of refereeing. The quality of refereeing will be improved through experience, mentoring, and retention of prior years' referees. Think how you would want your son or daughter treated in such a situation. Treat the referee as you would treat a respected colleague with whom you disagree.