When asked to describe a special family memory, individuals often recall specific events or activities in which their family accomplished something. Many treasured memories center around family rituals. Rituals also help to create an awareness of our connection with those who went before and those who will follow after us.
Families use different types of rituals as they move from one state of development to the next.
Many families journey through each of the six stages outlined in this fact sheet, along with the corresponding rituals. Seasonal rituals center around yearly celebrations and activities, such as birthday celebrations, holiday festivities, and vacations. Hackneyed rituals reflect the easiest way to get through obligatory interactions. Courting rituals represent intimate activities between the couple, such as hugging, holding hands, and doing special things for each other. Leisure rituals include relaxing activities, such as attending concerts, plays, games, and other events together.