Find out if that is a good notion of love. You shouldn't have to lose your identity in the process of falling in love. The relationship should make you better. That is your homework assignment. Teeth during oral sex.
Men really hate that.
They also hate when they can't tell whether the partner has had a good time. They hate it when you call them by someone else's name. They hate it if things don't go right and hate being laughed at and ridiculed. They don't mind being used on occasion, though. Women dislike guys that rush into sex with no foreplay.