If the parents have great expectations for their child, the child may vow to become a success at failure. Failure is the retaliatory measure that expresses hostility toward being pushed toward impossible goals. A very small number of homosexuals have entered the life-style simply because they are certain it will strike at the heart of parents they deeply resent. There is a vow that mother and son unknowingly take together. If the father is absent, indifferent, or hostile, both will be looking for a man that freely gives unconditional love.
Mothers have no idea how they encompass their children in their search of emotional fulfilment.
God set up a plan for family relationships. When imbalances occur, the results are disastrous to every family member. Unconditional love must be the norm in a Christian home.