Let's make the events fun-orientated and we will attract other young adults. Socials are not sufficient to keep young adults - they need a place of their own where they can discuss needs that are unique to them. Socials do not provide the substance needed for Christian growth, and they lack the consistency that is needed to form a group identity. It is not the fun events that will be the highlight of the group but the opportunity singles have to open up to others and have their concerns addressed. Weekly meetings cause less schedule conflict - not all the singles will make every meeting but at least they will not be confused about when the group is meeting.
Many singles are afraid of churches.
Negative feelings exist due to poor childhood experiences or bad experiences during separation or divorce. The best solution is to meet away from the church facilities. This meeting place should be an informal, non-threatening setting that will serve as a bridge to the church. A home for initial meetings is ideal, although a larger venue must be discovered as the group out grows the home. The extent and the quality of the advertising will determine the response that is received.