Yet during these difficult times, important decisions often need to be made. Be aware of the grief stages and their effect on decision making. It is common for people to avoid making decisions or taking actions at this point. Making decisions at this point is difficult because all one's energy gets put into the emotion rather than problem solving. Because it is hard to make decisions at this stage, it is a good idea to consider asking a family member, friend, or professional for help if important decisions need to be made.
People become more willing to explore alternatives after expressing their feelings.
Decisions are much easier to make because people have found new purpose and meaning. Supporting Family and Neighbors Distress and despair can grip a community after a disaster. Temporary homelessness, damaged personal items, lost crops, and an uncertain future weigh heavily on survivors. The most common coping tools are our abilities to listen, talk, and support one another. Be considerate of family members, neighbors, and friends.