I'd tell him, well you only made four mistakes. You didn't raise before the flop, and you didn't bet the flop, turn or river. Other than that you played perfect. Theirs, I think. Yes definitely theirs.
Most people are congenitally unable to own their past.
The cost of confronting their former failures is simply too high to pay. As a consequence, they turn former failures into current ones, reinforcing bad habits with more bad habits and compounding loss upon loss upon loss. And friend, your failings are not my problem. Face your flaws. He directed this question to the player on his left, who, deaf in her right ear, heard not a word Vic said.