When you begin to see your life as a process, instead of a series of goals, the driving sense of urgency begins to lift. You cannot hurry a process. Things take time. Patience is easier when you stay focused on the now, this moment. Impatience comes from expecting the future to bring you happiness, instead of finding happiness in this moment.
Many people strive to be human havings .
They surround themselves with all kinds of things. Once they ve done this, they still aren t happy. Others try to be human doings . They work all the time. They re always on the lookout for the magical achievement that will make them happy.