In my experience, when you confront a problem, then you become the problem. You will be labeled as not having love. I would much rather love than fight. But there is something about my love for the truth that makes me fight to stand on what is right, and to uproot what is wrong. Word knowledge makes us confident in our daily walk.
Many people have no victory in the practical everyday aspects of life.
They just drift along wherever the wind happens to be blowing. They are not sure how to worship God, how to pray, how to hear and follow the voice of God. They have no idea what is truth and what is error. They have heard that Satan has been defeated, but they have no idea how to reinforce that defeat in their lives. Therefore, they are tossed to and fro, and their future is to live a sad defeated life.