My baby is the love of my life. I'm so exhausted at the end of the day, I have no energy for sex. I don't want my husband to wander, but by the time the baby is asleep, I need to sleep too. The part about small children. Because if you pass out from hypoxia you are a liability, not an asset.
Many women feel unsexual for months after delivery of a baby.
If he used to be the love of your life, and your baby is now, I'll wager he feels pretty much kicked into last place. If you are with child 24-7, you are doting. I think you already know how to address that one. Decrease your calorie input and increase your calorie output. I know that there are many demands on your time, but if you and your husband don't drop whatever you're doing on the weekend when the child goes down for a nap, so you can jump in bed together, expect him to complain, suffer in silence and resentment, or be vulnerable to preying female stalkers who savor the alleged safety of sex with a married man.