But, in the course of growing up, children emulate parents and hide their tears. Anger comes forth when there has been a major slight, when a person's territory is assailed, and when integrity has been slighted. Scare occurs when there is threat to body or soul. Danger to a person triggers a reaction where breath is shortened, shoulders tighten, and care for survival occurs. If someone's essential integrity is challenged, scare also emerges.
Happiness is the natural state of the organism, a kind of free breathing joy in simple living.
Kids on playgrounds make joyful sounds. That is the model of happiness. Excitement occurs when a person is anticipating a good event. A kind of throbbing joy emerges as a person looks forward and sees positive pictures, expects wonderful sounds, and anticipates body fulfillment in the form of hugs, kisses, a rush - like a roller coaster, or sex. Tenderness is best understood as what parents feel when they hold a baby.