Truth is not a compromise. As you can tell above I don't advocate changing church's to please someone. My problem with your statement is that I sense some resentment. I'll move this far but you have to move that far. Those kinds of deals are for business, not for marriage, at least not for a Christian marriage.
Marriage is an unconditional committment of life for life, good or bad, no exceptions.
It is the greatest leap of faith a person can make in this life. We don't even know what is happening next week, let alone next year or 10 years, or even 50 years down the road. When marrying I said, in so many words, I give you my life for life, unconditionally, and will love you as Christ loves me, and I accept you unconditionally, as you are, for life. Good luck on your journey. Don't avoid the effort, and sometimes the pain, it takes for these times are the signs of growth.