Here are some character traits most people would agree should be nurtured. Perhaps you can think of other traits equally as important. If you could stick to your convictions, you would never do something you'd be sorry about later. If you were a caring, trustworthy person, you would be the kind of person others would want to love and depend on. Even though this talk is about sex and character, your conversation with your child should not be about frightening, shaming, or intimidating her to the point that she doesn't want to ever have a relationship.
Many parents believe that sexuality is healthy and wonderful.
A relationship that is sexual can be one of the most pleasurable experiences in life. We also know that life is complicated and that decisions about being sexual come with big responsibilities. This talk is about empowering your child by giving her skills, primarily communication and critical-thinking skills. These skills can help her navigate through her daily life and as she matures make informed decisions about whom to be involved with. At the end of this talk, your child should understand that there are ethical ways to behave.