Yes, sometimes hatred. We often forget that even though we are parents, we also are just plain old human beings. We are people that can get hurt, we don't have all the answers, we fail routinely, and we love things and we hate things. So, although we are parents, we also are people. Our kids put demands on us, ridicule us, treat us shamefully, take from us, hurt us and are cruel.
Kids assume that parents can handle it all and bounce back.
It just isn't true. I have advised some parents to use the system to protect themselves and others from their kids' actions. These parents could no longer handle their child, and the child's actions had become too difficult to handle at home. Sometimes it just gets to be too much. But before you turn to the system for help, many of you will seek reassurance that you have first tried everything possible.