Create a climate of encouragement by transforming negative comments into encouraging ones. Use methods that are based on logical consequences and respect for the child. There is a recognizable difference between praise and encouragement. Praise can be discouraging because it evaluates behavior and places value judgments. It has potential to create negative feelings for a child.
Praise is a type of reward that is based on competition.
Children may begin to believe that their worth is dependent upon the opinions of others, especially their parents. When we encourage, we motivate. When we encourage we focus on strengths, improvements, and efforts made but not always accomplished. Parents teach their children to accept their own inadequacies, to have confidence in themselves, and to feel useful through contribution. Families will spend the week creating, playing and just being together while they read, explore nature, enjoy neighborhood potlucks, make music, play sports and games, tell stories, and so much more.