Everyone gets hurt from time to time. Stay in the present. Neither of you can do anything about the past, anyway. Let go of the idea that you can win an argument. It s easy to score points in a verbal battle while losing sight of the bigger picture.
Relationships take work.
Taking the time to work through arguments and disagreements is one way of showing a partner that we love him and are committed to growing closer together. John R. Ballew, M.S., is a licensed professional counselor in private practice in Atlanta. He specializes in issues related to coming out, sexuality and relationships, spirituality and career.