Although it is sometimes nice to give in to lust, for it does satisfy our current needs and desires, it usually amounts to nothing substantial. To not have those burden upon your shoulders. To be able to live a life where none of it matters. Such a life can be achieved. I think most people desire love for what they see around them.
People complain all the time about love, lust, and make-out, and feeling left out of it.
But I also see those same people do the opposite when they do fall in love. I will admit that I myself have done and will probably do it again. And so it goes.