Parents who love prepare their children for the freedoms needed to fly on their own. Keeping them permanently under their control isn't love us at all. A happy creative marriage is when both the woman and the man care deeply about each other's freedom. That is what grace is about. I call it creative love .
Grace is love creating the freedom of the other.
So let me suggest three ways in which the creative Love of God creates our freedom. God the Father, God the Son, and God the Holy Spirit each create our freedom from a different angle. When your mother was expecting your imminent arrival in this world she got the crib ready. She made sure you had the freedom to sleep and breathe. Diapers were at hand to free you from smelly discomfort.