Many of our clients had either given up and hired a divorce lawyer before coming for counseling or were already divorced and we were privileged to re-marry them. That was truly a resurrection type of experience. If you can handle your emotional reactions, provide your own motivation and can think of appropriate strategies, you don't need a marriage counselor. In fact, we suggest that you try solving your problem on your own until you hit a roadblock. But if your efforts hit a snag, find a qualified Christian marriage counselor to help you.
Marital problems are too dangerous to ignore, and their solutions are too important to overlook.
The phone book is probably one of the most common places to discover where to find marriage counselors. Your physician or minister may also be able make suggestions. But the most reliable sources of referral are people who have already seen a counselor that has successfully guided them to romantic love. Since couples are usually tight-lipped about their marital problems, that kind of referral is usually difficult to obtain. That is one reason we have shown anonymous Client Comments on this site.