Many of us splurge during the December holidays, not just on gifts but on parties, decorations, cards and food. The result is not only empty pockets but often exhaustion and frustration. Reevaluate what the December holidays mean in terms of financial as well as personal resources. Holidays should be a relaxing time to spend with your family, something children need as much as adults. Children want attention from parents who are busy trying to buy gifts, clean house and decorate.
Parents are often at office parties or gatherings with friends.
The children end up spending time with a babysitter or tired, parents. Holiday responsibilities are not often shared by family members. Buying and wrapping gifts, decorating the home, baking cookies and mailing cards is usually done by women. Women may feel guilty if the holidays are not picture-perfect. Setting priorities for holiday spending, activities and work sharing will reduce stress.