Rape is forced sexual intercourse by another person. That can be in the form of vaginal, oral, and anal. Rape can be homosexual as well as heterosexual. Rape that occurs on a date by the person that you are with is called date rape.
Rape is an illegal crime.
Most of the time the rapist is a man and the victim is a woman. The victim undergoes a terrible trauma including physical damage, feelings of humiliation and guilt. Nothing a woman says, does or wears can justify a rape. Many people don't, because they are embarrassed but people who do, feel more satisfied to knowing that the criminal is off the street. Overall, do seek help for yourself.