We all need some emotional healing time. Awesome things happen sexually when loving behavior is integrated into the sex act, both at home and in the lifestyle. Yes, I know. A lot of people are afraid of it, especially men. That's why it's been cut out of lifestyle parties.
Men feel awkward with it but the behavior can be learned.
They are learning. I know men who have changed dramatically under their wives' tutelage. And it's time. Now that we've learned how to have sex with the many others, it is time to go to the next level and learn how to love the many others. When SSG was at its zenith, we saw love being experimented with during the parties between people.