This way, the listener is less likely to become defensive. Be as specific as you can. If you're annoyed by someone's gripe sessions about her husband, identify first what is bothering you. But don't condemn or scold. Ask questions that may help clarify.
Questions encourage openness and honesty.
In certain situations, mentioning your worst fears paradoxically reduces the chance that they will happen. Please hear me out without losing your temper. 5th Floor, Concorde Condominium Bldg., Benavidez St. cor. Some parents think that this is something like a planned weekend or vacation. For the Love of Life .