But others who aren't directly involved in your relationships can get hurt too. Maybe no sex at all, for the time being, is your best choice today. It is a choice that's actually possible to make, though many family planning organizations and sex psychologists apparently don't seem to think so. But they are people who are making lots of money off of sex, even sex among people your age, and may not want to see you stop. If there's any amount of distrust between you and another person in a relationship, you can never totally abandon your inhibitions with that person.
Most marriages go down the tubes when a partner has been unfaithful.
But inside a truly faithful, totally committed marriage relationship, trust is complete. Inhibitions are cast to the winds. There are no barriers. You touch and blend as persons , not just as bodies. Inside a truly faithful, totally committed marriage relationship, trust is complete.