I hate them. Sex is unsafe when there's anal or vaginal intercourse without a condom, blood contact, semen or urine in the mouth, sharing sex toys or needles, and oral to anal contact. Always Be Safe Better safe than sorry, the saying goes. And of course, better dead than alive. So, definitely remember to use a condom, persuade him to when he doesn't want to, and finally, DON'T HAVE SEX if he won't.
Real love is safe love.