We should respect tradition and maintain different types of work for men and women. Work is the only real way to personal fulfillment. I must choose between really having a career and having a family. Women should not compete with men for jobs, especially those that involve creativity, managing others, and decision making. Since they are passive, emotional, and respond to things intuitively, women are just not equipped to handle such situations.
Life is always unfair.
There just seems to be on one interested in what I really want to study. It is preferable to avoid making a decision than to make the wrong decision rather than the idea that the is no perfectly 'right' decision for any situation. I have made mistakes in the past which are controlling my actions today instead of believing I can now take control of the decisions which will determine my career path. There is one and only one right job for me and true happiness is impossible until I find it instead of the idea that there are a number of jobs with which I could be very happy. Acquiring the responsibility of a decision is too much for me to handle instead of seeing myself as a person who daily makes decisions and lives with my consequences.