For a run down of what your best man's duties are, see our best man area, in advice and ideas. It is traditional for the bride and groom to exchange presents with each other on the day and the bridegroom also pays for the thank you presents for the bridesmaids. Often, this is jewellery, but it could be any kind of memento of the wedding day. Try our gift shop for ideas. If you have a pageboy, they should also receive a small gift.
Popular choices are a pen or box engraved with their name.
In addition, most couples like to thank both sets of parents, the best man and the ushers. This is one thing that should be nobody else's business, but your and your future wife's. Bear in mind that surprises can backfire, though, so before you plan an elaborate extreme sports holiday, check she wasn't expecting two weeks on a deserted island. Nowadays, many couples prefer to make a joint decision about their honeymoon destination and share the cost too, but it's still usual for the groom to make all the arrangements - only fair considering your fiancee is likely to be snowed under with other wedding preparations. You might want to plan a nice surprise such as candles, soft music, Champagne or flowers.