Never feel or demonstrate shame or feel you have to apologize for you stuttering. You did not choose to stutter, and it does not reflect some weakness in your personality. Don't feel that stuttering is keeping you back from being whoever you want to be. All right, I would make a lousy newscaster probably, but there are a lot of things I am not good at. You have a right to be taken for the person you are, and the quality of your communication, not for the cosmetics of your speech.
Fluency is only one aspect of good communication.
You should feel that it is your responsibility to stutter openly and honestly and to educate the people you come into contact with about your stuttering. Do not expect them to respond appropriately, if you are not up- front about it. In this sense, you have control over how others treat your stuttering. People will generally react to your stuttering in the same way you do. WHAT TO DO I can only give you a general list here.