The only way we can develop as human beings is by developing an understanding of our relationship with God. Religion is for people who believe in hell, spirituality is for people who have been there. If we are not loving ourselves then we are not loving God. Forgiveness is an act of creation. Thought plus faith creates.
Mercy is an integral part of forgiveness and creativity.
Our creativity is what nurtures our self-esteem. If you have no faith, you have no mercy. Life is a string, don't cut it. I am a professional highly intuitive and gifted reader. I believe that empathy is the highest form of love.