To me it seems that L, H and K are unavoidable but also necessary. I couldn't conceive of reverie going on neither in a mindless state of a mother or of a group. Maybe John and the rest of this Board group want to say something more. I agree loving, hating and curiosity are unavoidable and necessary. If you can t conceive of it then the creative potential of these thoughts won t form common ground.
Psychoanalysts don t generally like to talk about their own experiences except within theory.