We enter into a fantasy world brought about by the processes of the holographic mind. This non-awareness of the mind is being not here now. Just as there is and never was anyone to blame and nothing to heal, there may not be a need to be happy. Such a radical idea may be an error of western human culture. In The Handbook to Higher Consciousness, the Science of Happiness , Ken Keyes, Jr. writes about the two extremes of happiness and despair.
Most humans bounce between the two.
The idea is to avoid the two extremes. Rather, we stay even-keeled between them, somewhere in the center. We do what we do and nothing else. We, as the Buddhist monk, are in the now. He further suggests that the cause of our unhappiness is our inability, as hard as we try, to achieve inescapable happiness.