Television can also provide strong role models. The most important force that will help children deal with anger is knowing that people love and care for them. They need our active attention, our loving concern, and lots of hugs. Affection and knowing how to solve problems in frustrating and conflict situations will help children get along well with their friends. The following questions could be used to talk with children about anger.
Kids sometimes get into fights.
Sometimes you can feel disappointed when your parents don't do what they promise. They say that you have to tell others how to feel. Activity Ask children to write down some of the things that other kids do that make them angry. They might name things such as hitting, teasing, not being included in a game, and so forth. Together with the children, talk about each situation and help them think of all the things they could do to handle it without being aggressive.