We have to see ourselves as source, see our own complicity in everything. We have to examine how we close ourselves to love. We must also learn to be kind body owners. The Taoists transform negative emotions on the deep inner level. Grief, for example, is the emotion associated with the lungs and transforms into courage.
Fear lies in the kidneys and can be transmuted through inner alchemy into gentleness.
They could play more into women s fantasies. What men fear is failure, but when women get what they want, they spoil their men. What I love about men is their emotional ease. They need to enter us gently. Sometimes just the soft embrace is enough to return us to emotional balance.