He was a bitter man, though he would not admit it. Grudges always work against you. And this one was about to ruin Wade's life. Dr. Sidney B. Simon, a psychology professor at the University of Massachusetts, and his wife, Suzanne Simon, have seen how grudges devastate a life, a career, a family. First, you must want to rid yourself of the grudge and be willing to go against your emotions by entertaining the thought of forgiveness.
Grudges drain creativity and diminish productivity.
They cause schisms in the workplace and dampen morale. And they can affect your health causing you to miss work. Pastor Jeff Hackleman of Huntsville has developed an effective six-step action plan for dealing with personal offenses that can lead to grudges. Don't curse it. Don't nurse it.