Because children are so trusting and defenseless, they are especially vulnerable to sexual assault. Children often make up stories, but they rarely lie about being a victim of sexual assault. If a child tells you about being touched or assaulted, take it seriously. Your response helps determine how the child will react to the abuse. Explain that you are concerned about what happened, but not angry with the child.
Many children feel guilty as if they had provoked the assault.
Children need to be reassured that they are not to blame, and that they are right to tell you about what happened. Sometimes a child may be too frightened or confused to talk directly about the abuse. Be alert for any changes in behavior that might hint that the child has suffered a disturbing experience.