It's also easy to tell that they like alternative sexual relationships because they say so right on their web site, which they link to from their more than 30 alternative personals ads. The childless couple have been married five years and swinging for four. Cory said the web sites produce about 10 legitimate e-mail inquiries per month. Of those, they meet about four or five and have sex in some form with one or two. Either way, you wind up having total trust because nothing is hidden, and that results in the openness, which leads to tremendous growth.
Most couples decline to be interviewed about swinging.
Many seemed to approach it as sex as hobby. We're into it for the wild sex. For instance, if a couple is dating another couple, all four agree not to get together in any other combination besides a foursome unless it's approved ahead of time by everyone involved. The rule is meant to deter emotional involvement outside the established couple. Dean and many others point to much literature that they say provides evidence that swinging enhances relationships and such relationships last longer than monogamous ones.