It is okay to be direct and firm with someone who is sexually pressuring you, even if it hurts his feelings. After all, he is not attending to your feelings. Educate yourself about men and sex. This is simply not true. Think twice about going to a man's room or apartment.
Most date rapes occur on the man's turf.
Be careful about inviting a man into your room or apartment. Some men see this as an invitation to sexual activity. Until you begin to know a man well, try to arrange double dates or schedule the first few dates around public activities such as movies, dinner, concerts, etc. Heavy petting or removing some of your clothing may confuse your date about what you are willing to do sexually. If you are threatened with rape by either a stranger or an acquaintance, you will have to use your own best judgement about how to react.