To ask her to do such a thing without fully informing her as to what she is getting into would seem unconscionable. Yet many Christian men do marry dishonestly minimizing the depth of their homosexual struggle. Yes, he told me he had been involved with homosexuality, but I thought it was all behind him. We have heard this message too many times. Any deception going into the marriage is almost sure to breed further deception, and this can be deadly for a marriage.
Marriage is always a step of faith.
It is not unlike conversion. When we place our life in the Lord's hands we don't really know what He is going to do with it. One morning I received a call from a man in Northem Virginia, a retired army officer who had had no personal involvement with homosexuality but has been a great friend of Regeneration. He was prompted to call by something that had given him an overwhelming feeling of love for his wife, and his heart went immediately to the men and women in Regeneration who might never experience such joy. He wanted to encourage me, and urge us to somehow share with our people what wonderful things could await them in marriage.