Take a friend. Hey, at least you will be comfortable. If you know a coworker that is fun to hang out with, ask him or her to go with you. Go to a sporting event or concert, and don't be afraid to talk to people around you. Be outgoing and take a chance.
Life is full of rejections and opportunities.
You won't know until you ask. Don't take your brother, cousin, et cetera. Don't advertise yourself in the paper. Don't go looking in Woodland. Don't flash body parts.