The contents of this website are not meant to substitute for professional help and counseling. The readers are discouraged from using it for diagnostic or therapeutic ends. The diagnosis and treatment of the Narcissistic Personality Disorder can only be done by professional specifically trained and qualified to do so which the author is not. In a famous experiment, students were asked to take a lemon home and to grow used to it. They seemed to have bonded.
Habit forming in humans is reflexive.
We change ourselves and our environment in order to attain maximum comfort and well being. It is the effort that goes into these adaptive processes that forms a habit. Habits are intended to prevent us from constant experimentation and risk taking. The greater our well being, the better we function and the longer we survive. Actually, when we get used to something or to someone we really get used to ourselves.