Perfect love never turns the cold shoulder on another brother, for whatever reason. Perfect love does not condemn. Some Christians love their enemies and hate their brothers. Perfect love finds it impossible to hate anyone. Fear holds back.
Love gives freely.
Fear worships the letter. Love obeys from the spirit. Let's put Christ back into the Church of Christ by practicing His love in the church. God is love, and anyone who lives in love is living with God and God is living in Him. If we are afraid, it is for fear of what He might do to us, and shows that we are not fully convinced that He really loves us.