I didn't do anything to bring this on me. This was a person I trusted and loved. I never imagined that he would rape me. AK Dear Elka, There is no easy way to explain why rape occurs. Everyone has their own opinion on this topic, but it seems like little is being done about it.
Rape is a crime.
It should not be taken lightly and rapists should be punished severely. Until we as a people go a step further and teach what is acceptable and what is not acceptable, rape will remain overlooked as a serious crime. Go to your friend and let her know what happened. Try to get comfort and support from her, or try to join a support group. Try to help other girls by telling them that he rapes girls by using drugs, so that they can be aware of what he is about.