No man is charming all of the time. Even Cary Grant is on record saying he wished he could be Cary Grant. When four or more men get together, they talk about sports. But when four or more women get tog13. He just didn't want to call you.
Men hate to lose.
I once beat my husband at tennis. Getting rid of a man without hurting his masculinity is a problem. I want to have your children. Sometimes they leave skid marks. Women have bad self-images because they grow up identifying with Barbie.