Many others do not experience orgasm but pretend to do so. Still others reach orgasm easily but do not really enjoy it. Other women don't care whether they reach orgasm or not as long as they have enough lovemaking, with lots of variations. The problem is that some men make women feel that they are abnormal unless they have an orgasm each time they make love. Let us pay less attention to orgasm and more to the Tao teachings of more fulfilling love.
Many women can enjoy their orgasms as a bonus whenever it comes their way.
For most men the situation is quite different. Men should learn to control their ejaculation, for whenever an ejaculation comes it temporarily terminates the lovemaking session. The man should ejaculate only when both partners feel that it is time to pause. There are many ways of controlling male ejaculation which are taught by the Tao. Far from it.