Just as children's reactions are each different, so are their coping strategies. Children can cope with stress through tears or tantrums or by retreating from unpleasant situations. They could be masterful at considering options, finding compromise solutions, or finding substitute comfort. Usually a child's thinking is not fully developed enough to think of options or think about the results of possible actions. Children who live in supportive environments and develop a range of coping strategies become more resilient.
Resiliency is the ability to bounce back from stress and crisis.
Many children do not have a supportive environment and do not learn to cope with stress. Well-developed social skills. Ability to act independently At least one coping strategy. A sense of positive self-esteem and personal responsibility. Ability to focus attention.