Do not ignore it. Seek Professional Help as Soon as Possible Heller says psychologists can help us learn much about the mental state of our children. Even if the child was joking when he made his threat, a psychological evaluation can't hurt and can only help. Much recent study has focused on the influence the first three years of upbringing has on the development of children, says Heller. But although early upbringing is important, she cautions parents not to give up hope of being able to change children's behavior when they grow older.
Kids can change.
Some of these are tough problems, but it is important for people to have hope and remain optimistic about what we can do with professional help. Who Deal With Such Behavior One of the most difficult things for parents to do is admit that they and their child have a problem and to notify authorities about it. It's difficult, but if you know your son or daughter needs help, it's best to get that help before the problem escalates. You could also speak with your child's pediatrician or a clergy member. If your child is actually making threats, there is cause for more immediate concern.