At the same time he needs to calm down other people on both sides who are trying to instigate a fight. These are learned skills, but they are difficult for most people to learn, but with practice anyone can learn them. I t is a myth that only 'bad' kids cause fights. It is true that a small percent of teenagers cause most of the fights in a school, but normal kids can cause a fight if they spread rumors, encourage other kids to fight, show up at a place to watch a fight or tell their friends they will 'help them out' if they get into a trouble with a fight. T here is a clear connection between violence in the home and violence on the streets.
Families give messages to children about how to handle conflict out of the home.
Parents can show children how they handle situations that make them angry in non violent ways. O ur neighbor keeps letting his dog do his business on our lawn. Speaking of lawns, I'm having a problem with mine and hoped you could help me out. This house is supposed to be the safest place on the earth for everyone who lives here. When you are both calmed down figure out how both of you can work this out.