I told him that all I ever wanted for him was to be happy and finish school and have a good career. I really need someone to talk to about this heartbreaking situation. My 2nd son was a very angry child and even angrier teenager. I have no words of wisdom. I think that sometimes they hurt so much inside that the only road they know is to hurt others.
Mothers are an easy target.
For a long time he hated me. But it was my house he kept coming back to when he was homless. He suffered from severe depression. All I can tell you now, is that my ds did grow out of his anger and hurt - or at least learned to put them to one side. He is now married with 2 sons of his own.