Children like that need to be disciplined. If a child does not want to learn, then the parents must be notified and the parents must be involved in ways to help the child. We can go on for many pages. Both parents and schools have problems. Somehow these two factions must learn to cooperate.
Parents are ultimately responsible for their children.
There is no question about it. If one school does not seem to fit the bill, a parent must be able to place the child into a different school. If this freedom was available to parents, then schools might become more competitive. Schools should have some motto to a commitment to excellence. Parents likewise must teach their children discipline and respect.