Loss of routine. Desire for retaliation. Some men are socialized to not express their feelings and don't feel comfortable asking for help. Sexual assault counselors and advocates understand that sexual assault is a crime of violence and stems from issues of power and control. It is important to communicate this information both to victims and to their partners.
General education can be very helpful.
Treat all of their concerns respectfully and give factual answers. Any misconceptions that a counselor can clarify will take that burden off the victim. Sexual assault removes a person's control over her body and personal physical safety. Parents and partners often fall into the pattern of wanting to take control of the situation, hoping that they will alleviate the victim's pain by taking charge. Communicate the importance of being supportive versus demanding or overbearing, and of the victim's need to make decisions about the process herself.