Much of your pain is self-chosen. It is the bitter portion by which the physician within you heals the sick self. The cup he brings, though it burns your lips, has been fashioned of the day which the Potter has moistened with his own sacred tears.
Pain often brings up issues of that person.
It ceases to be pain and becomes more like a build up to an intense release. Some women decide they need preparation with LaMaze or Bradley classes. 1. to make it easier for themselves 2. to avoid pain. We are a society that likes to avoid conflict yet conflict helps shape our lives and opinions. The woman not only avoids the closeness of feeling birth but shooses to rely upon machines and other people to tell her what to feel.