It's not a game I'm playing with myself. I consider myself to be a three-way masochist. In a lifestyle relationship, I get all three. I have no rights in this relationship. I don't have safewords.
Every relationship is different, of course.
I own no property any more, except for a black-leather rose which he gave me. I keep on my vanity table. I'm told when to wake up in the morning. I'm told when to go to sleep. When I'm not working, he gives me my orders for the day.