Maybe it is hope, or perhaps determination, resolve, strength, fortitude, mettle or courage. It would be understandable for those suffering to wallow in self-pity, but instead they face adversity with an attitude that things will get better. Maybe they don't view themselves as victims, or maybe its because they understand there is no one to blame. Another explanation for people being able to move forward with their lives is the role of social support. Feelings that others care and perceptions that there are others you can talk to about the problem may be quite important in accepting the loss.
Research shows that adequate social emotional support is a critical component of the grief cycle.
There is not a single solution to the current problems that grip agriculture. However, through a process of self discovery and seeking outside counsel and advice, producers are seeking solutions that best fit their operations. Lasley enouraged all Iowans to show forbearance as producers make these difficult decisions. This is the time for the state to pull together and display the kind of caring that characterizes rural culture. These are difficult times and, while we can not reverse the trends, we can make the transitions easier by demonstrating concern and care.