A few minutes of physical pleasure is a costly price to pay over your entire lifetime. Abortion is crippling almost 1 out of 3 women in our entire population. The hurts come from emotional guilt and shame, depression, along with physical-medical aftermath such as increased miscarriage, heavy menstrual cycles, and possible sterility. But relationally, a majority of relationships consumated sexually before marriage ends in destruction sooner or later. What every teen male and female needs more than hot sex on Friday and Saturday is a vison and goal for their life.
Life is short.
You spent 12 years preparing for college. 4-6 years in college. All of that is prepares you to work and live successfully for the next 40-60 years during which time you normally marry, have a family, and start the cycle of life over. That is what life is all about. Certainly not about how many people I can score with or how may times can I have intercourse.