Remember the fruit of the Spirit in Gal 5. It is vital that we learn to display the fruit when we use the gifts. The fruit is the thing that overrules as we submit our experience to the discernment of others. And it is vital that we let the fruit control our attitudes towards each other when we disagree. Because Eph 1 says that we all have every spiritual blessing in Christ.
None get it right all the time.
Don't disdain - there are many divisions between Christians about spiritual experience. We need to rectify divisions by disagreeing helpfully where necessary, never nastily, always judging by scripture never by my own experience alone. But eagerly desire everything that God has for us. Don't just overdose on the dramatic because that looks more exciting. Then pray for the gift of discernment.