The various hospital services provided by the Shriners are for crippled and burned children, below the age of membership in Freemasonry, and no Masonic affiliation is required for treatment in them. In Freemasonry, records are kept and are available to all members. Cult records, if they exist, are confidential, hidden from members, and not shared. Freemasonry's records extend back some 300 years, all readily available. While membership lists are not posted publicly, this policy is no different than that of private golf clubs or lists of employees of privately held corporations.
Members are free to disclose their membership to whomever they please.
A legal system exists within Freemasonry and a Mason can also utilize non-Masonic legal and law enforcement agencies and other representatives if needed. In cults, there is only the closed, internal system of justice, and no appeal, no recourse to outside support. Families of Masons talk and deal directly with schools. Children of Masons may attend public or private schools as they wish. In cults, children, child rearing, and education are often controlled by the whims and idiosyncrasies of the cult leader.