Indecision can cause lingering uncertainty and anxiety. Freedom of choice requires some personal work. It is necessary to find out what is personally rewarding and what you want to do with your time. Of course there are some limitations, but even within the limitations a broad range of options are available. Each person is free to look at the situation they are in and decide either to do something or not to do something.
Risk is always involved in making a choice.
Whatever your personal dream is, take a step toward making it happen. Sometimes it helps to talk to family or friends to get some support when making changes in our lives. Ask for help from those you know will be supportive, or seek help from a professional counselor as needed. Many women at AIDS-service organizations may feel isolated. Reaching out to other women is an opportunity to connect and share common feelings and experiences.