Another study shows that 20 mg of paroxitine, brand name Paxil, at bedtime stop premature ejaculation temporarily. Premature ejaculation should never be a problem for a considerate lover. A man is usually satisfied after he reaches a climax. If he reaches it before she does and doesn't help her to reach one also, he's inconsiderate whether he climaxes in 2 seconds or 5 hours. Most women take more than 20 minutes to climax with conventional penile-vaginal contact and only 4 minutes when they stimulate themselves because women know more about women than men do.
Most women require clitoral stimulation to climax.
A premature ejaculator should always ask his lover to tell him what he should do to help her climax. Since most men lose interest in lovemaking immediately after climaxing, she may prefer to climax first and let him climax as quickly as he can afterward. As long as he is considerate of her feelings, it shouldn't make any difference to her how quickly he climaxes. I'm Dr. Gabe Mirkin on Fitness. AG Keresteci, G Koren.