Fear keeps you from having what you deserve. Fear makes you unworthy of what you deserve, and hence you do not have it yet. You must do what is demanded of you, whatever that may be. For each of you it will be a particular area that is your phobic, obsessive point in life. There are so many expectations in every singular action or series of actions that you indulge in. . . . .
Reality is a multi-causal, circular phenomenon.
What one fears most, they create. What one fears most, they also arouse in those around them, and their own fear proclivitates a vulnerability in those with whom they are bonded, to gravitate toward the feared item or subject. So, energizing what is feared by overreacting to it and not balancing it out with some viewpoint shift will tend to speed what is feared into manifestation. Since fear, aside from attraction, is the strongest human emotion, the events connected with it can materialize swiftly and rather clearly, though one may not realize their fears are being materialized at the time or that they had anything to do with them materializing because there is a lag effect after generating all of the psychic clouds around the fear thought-form that then materializes some time later. So there is no connection made by most human beings, due to their very limited mortal attention span when incarnate, between the fear manifesting and their feeding the fear.