The type is ubiquitous. The woman will do her best to cenceal all personal qualities, in order not to bother the man with them, and in order to give the man what he is looking for, his preferred type. The woman or rather the contemporary urban doll is completely engrosse in her appearance. She wants to be taken as a member of a sex, and therefore she puts her body, in the forefront. She wants to be impersonal and to represent whatever type happens to be the fashiom happens to be going well in the market place of erotic vanities.
Love perceives the value potentialities in the beloved person.
Love sees person the way God meant him. It reveals to us the valuational image of a human being. Love helps the beloved to become as the lover sees him. For the loved one wants to be worthier of the lover, a worthier recipient of such love, by growing to be more like the lover's image, and so he becomes more and more the image of what God conceived and wanted him to be. For the lover the sexual act is the physical expression of a psycho-spiritual union.