A few months ago, I realized I was not setting a very good example for my daughter, so I told him no more vacations or sex until he gets a divorce. He still sees our daughter daily and claims to love me, saying he will divorce as soon as his youngest daughter gets a little older and can handle it. I can't get on with my life. I am still so attracted to him that I do not desire another man. It's very hard to me to keep my stance of no sex.
Major conflict arises when the shift occurs from sexual passion to feelings of deep affection.
You have to examine if you are willing to live in a make-believe world with this man. If not, then you will need to form new relationships that offer greater hope for the realization of your desire to create a stable family.