Depression and loneliness are considered the most painful processes. When a loved one is removed from their lives, people are overcome by feelings of utter depression and isolation. This too is a part of good healthy grief. One day depression will pass. The presence of a friend or two can help give the grieving person positive hope for the future.
Loneliness can be overwhelming for widowed persons.
They not only lose the adult companion they interacted with on a daily basis, but also must assume responsibilities they may not be accustomed to bearing. During this stage people may search for a quick replacement. However, freedom and happiness are more likely achieved if people complete the grieving process before seeking a new partner or making any final commitments. Delaying major decisions gives people the opportunity to see new perspectives, to make decisions more easily lived with during the years ahead. Allowing the depth and meaning of a lost relationship to be totally experienced will heal the grieved person more completely.