Some of you who are priests and religious are also dealing with these issues. This is a matter of justice, not charity. The parish has a responsibility to provide spiritual and other support for caregivers, for example, by helping to form support groups for caregivers, referring you to community resources, sponsoring adult education programs that deal with issues of particular concern to caregivers, or periodically recognizing and blessing caregivers. Too often, however, as a Church and as a society we have not provided adequately for the needs of caregivers. We must look for ways to support caregivers who are themselves growing older, who are trying to balance multiple responsibilities, and who can expect to provide care for a number of years.
Respite care is one possibility to explore.