I am not a drag queen or a diesel dyke. Just because I don't identify with my gender does not automatically mean I feel comfortable with being considered of the other gender. Trust me, look at me, and you know my assumed gender. Perhaps I am not transgendered, between genders, but rather extragender, 'outside of gender. Even when I look through the literature which has started to surface regarding transgendered people, I do not always feel validated.
Many texts refer to, or are written by, people identifying with the other gender.
The issue of people who don't really feel like they're part of either is rarely mentioned. A movement, a very important movement, has begun in the lgb community to recognize the transgendered people that are a part of our community. And yes, we are part of the community. For example, for female to male transsexuals who are attracted to people of their opposite preferred gender, this means that they grew up attracted to people of the same sex. For others, such as me, bisexuality is a freedom, because it is a chance to see people as individuals, not as members of one specific gender or the other.