For example, you get distressed when a child falls down but you realize it's part of learning. I'm really supposed to know. I would say it's another conduit. When the souls want to reach out to us, they will do it mirror or no mirror. The other side has stated emphatically that there simply is no hell or eternal life of punishment as many have come to fear.
Nothing is unforgiveable in the hereafter.
And no sin beyond the understanding of the infinite life. We then, of our own free will, place ourselves farther or closer to the light. Depending on the lessons we must learn, in order to move closer to the light. And the other side always says to me, we may fool others but we can never fool ourselves or the infinite light. A good example, if we goof off all semester, we have to repeat it over the summer if we want to graduate.