Don't learn the hard way. Do a better job of knowing what you might be getting into than I did. But, if the job doesn't work out, re-enter the job market again, this time wiser, more determined. Remember that you can still find another job. I believe I can enjoy, and with colleagues who are friendly and helpful.
Life goes on.
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