If any person doesn't respect themselves at the moment, really effective communications are unlikely. When we communicate, we're each seeking Self and mutual respect, and one or more of the other five goals. If people aren't aware of their communication focus in key situations, they're much less likely to get their current real needs filled. Use awareness, clear thinking , and digging down in all important interpersonal situations . See the example of mapping a communication sequence for more perspective.
Professional communicators use awareness of a much wider array of factors.
If you haven't already, review the communication fundamentals page to grow your perspective on learning and using these seven powerful interpersonal skills. If you wish to profit, please contact me .