When I tried to reply to his ad, it turned out that I had to put an ad on too. I promised myself that I would only respond to ads and not put up an ad about me. This was worth it. I didn't put much thought into my ad. It was a stream of consciousness.
Members can fill out a profile of what they are looking for.
When a new ad gets posted, it automatically gets e-mailed to the member if it fits their profile. Of the nine responses that I received, one made my heart flutter. There's some irony for you. We went out the next night. That was two and a half very blessed years ago.