You could just focus on survival and trying to do the best you could for your family, realizing that each additional unplanned child in your family just divides the already short supply of food and other resourses one more time, and that your ability to educate and care for the health of your children would become an even more remote dream. There are too many 'northerners' who don't understand the situation,have never been there, and speak without real knowledge about what's best for others, in another world they've never seen. Patrict would then learn. He would learn that without help, the poorest three billion people in the world just keep going further backward. Let's reverse this ridiculous trend, and share our resources and our knowledge.
Reproductive health is no longer a taboo secret.
It's OK for everyone to have it. I think most reasonable Rotarians can see the introverted nature of Stanton's Comments, and realize that those thoughts are actually the one's that hurt and leave behind those in need. It's time to look forward to a time when all of the world will be educated and healthy, and able to make informed choices about the number and spacing of the children they want, and can support and care for. They just want the same things that you have, Mr. Stanton.