There are times that it is lonely, confusing, and treacherous. I t is tempting at times to find a coven to join, particularly when you have just begun your path. But spirituality is so individualistic that it can be difficult to find others who share your views and style. Many people then are tempted to create their own coven or tradition and teach others their own style and views so they have others to share with. Rather than forming a coven, it can sometimes be preferable to surround yourself with loving people who will help you out when you need it.
Magical bonds can last a long time, some believe even lifetimes.
Try not to rush into a coven or join one because it is geographically close to you. Besides, until you have found your own power, you cannot offer anything genuine to a coven and would simply be another warm body. A coven that recruits or accepts inexperienced members should be regarded with caution. Such a coven may have an 'outer court training circle' or some other measure to help you as a newcomer, but all too often you will find covens accepting new members are only accepting individuals who are willing to take orders and be a subservient subject. I t is not my intention to present here any dogma which is to be strictly adhered to in fear of repercussions on any level.