To succeed by one's own efforts. Before you continue, please read the Disclaimer . But the only real victim is the person who thinks like one.
Life is a self-service gas station.
You can sit in your car and honk, or you can fill the tank yourself. No one honks longer, louder, or with less effect than a victim. It's easy to think like a victim. For one thing, it feels good. It lets you off the hook.