If possible, consider doing some activities and shopping at other times, rather than during the holidays. This can save you time and money. For instance, rather than entertaining during the busy month of December, hold a neighborhood open house around Valentine's Day or host a family reunion in the summer. People may be more likely to attend and appreciate an event during a less demanding time, such as mid-winter. Likewise, consider sending cards and letters when things slow down after the new year.
People appreciate hearing from distant friends and relatives at any time of the year.
If you have a computer, you can send electronic cards and messages that don't require postage or purchasing cards. To save money, you may want to reduce the dollar amount you spend on each person, or you can reduce the number of gifts you purchase by exchanging names with family members. If you don't want to cut back on gift purchases, consider spreading your gifts throughout the year. For instance, take a special friend or relative out for lunch or dinner later in the new year. Or, make a certificate offering one free night of childcare or a homemade and delivered meal each month for a year.