In nonessentials, liberty, and in all things, charity. Conflict resolution in the church Marlin E. Thomas, founder and director of Resources for Resolving Conflict, in Colorado Springs, Colorado, spoke to the regional pastors about conflict resolution in the church. Dr. Thomas helps Christian churches, families, ministry organizations, businesses and the community at large to build hope in overcoming the destructive effects of internal conflict, abuse and indiscretions that destroy relationships and render ministry and service ineffective. Conflict is a reality of life, Dr. Thomas said. It is important to be able to identify conflict and be able to respond appropriately.
People avoid conflict because it is painful.
However, Dr. Thomas said, when conflict occurs, we have an opportunity for reconciliation. Don't fight back in a nasty way. Overcome evil with good. You don't have to punish every evil deed. You don't have to be a doormat either.