Thanks for sharing, Steve. I just have a comment. It's a comment directed towards the phobia aspect of commitment. Not very many people wish to be involved in an unhealthy relationship and when one recognizes too many red flags in one person, then supposedly they move on you cannot generalize, and say that the person who consciously moves onward is indeed a commitment phobic. And I didn't.
More people ignore red flags.
Or get excited by red flags or think they can change those flags. I think the person who makes a balanced decision to move on because there are too many flags is a person who is moving toward something better. Thank you, Dearest. I was trying to understand the subtleties between red flags and phobias. Sometimes, we are running from good things and sometimes we are running from bad.