I wanted to pose the question about which of these scenes is typical for adolescent females or even adolescents in general. That question may be worth asking and of some interest. However, I realized, the answer to that question doesn't matter to the girls who are attacked, raped or harassed. Typical or rare doesn't matter to them because their trauma remains no matter what the answer. There are several important questions raised by the assault and harassment we witnessed.
Niceness training is pervasive.
In this country many females are raised to believe the solution to problems is to be nice. If that fails be nicer. An example is often seen in singles situations. A woman is approached by a unpleasant male she has no interest in. Her response is to try to solve the problem by being nice.