He gave me oral sex a lot more at the beginning of our relationship. There are often times that we would like to change, increase or decrease certain activities in our sexual repertoire with our partner.
People often become comfortable within sexual patterns after being together for several years.
Of course, the difficulty in changing matters is knowing how talk to your partner about this issue and trying to figure out what it all means. As you can imagine, communication is a huge issue in relationships and it can be even more difficult to talk about uncomfortable topics. There may be several reasons why your partner is not going down on you. One possibility is that he may not know that you actually like it. Another possibility is that he may feel as if he is unskilled in giving oral sex.