Ask Angel Q. I am married with 2 beautiful girls. I really believe that she is my soul mate. I want to spend the rest of my life with her. You better stand back and take a look at what you stand to lose, and decide whether or not it is worth it. You have your two beautiful girls to think about too.
Divorce can be messy and very costly when there are children involved.
You would have to pay child support, provide them with health insurance, and be content to only see them a couple of times a month. You didn't say anything about your wife, so the only advice I can give you is to take a long look at what you have now. If there is a possibility of keeping your family together, you need to tell her what you are doing, and concentrate on your marriage. If it's hopeless, then tell your wife as soon as possible so that she can get on with her life. Just be absolutely sure of your decision.