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Mediation is required in some states, and in a number of cities and counties.
Where required, mediation usually takes place right at the courthouse, with the right to have the case heard by a judge if mediation is unsuccessful. In areas where mediation is recommended but not required, the court will often refer you to a community mediation service, located away from the courthouse. When you reach an agreement with an opposing party through mediation, you can make it legally binding by writing down your decisions in the form of an enforceable contract. Or, in some areas, you can have your agreement made part of a court judgement. Most noncriminal matters can be mediated.