Beth El has a lot of single moms. It's clear that for singles programming to be successful we have to reach beyond one congregation. While affiliation with a synagogue or federation often makes it easier to organize singles events, some organizations that are not affiliated prefer a less-formal approach. Once or twice a month, Contra Costa East Bay Jewish Singles holds Shabbat potlucks in members' homes, both in Contra Costa and Alameda counties. The meals are informal.
Religious observances are limited to the prayers over the candles, wine and bread.
Participants range in age from late 30s to mid 50s. We want to let single middle-aged Jewish men and women know there's something out there. For the past 14 months, Katie Triest and Leah Goldberg have been part of a chavurah that meets for potluck Shabbat dinners followed by discussions on Jewish themes. Members take turns organizing the discussion. With a core group of 11, ranging in age from 30 to 45, they often bring guests to their Friday night Shabbat potluck dinners.