Discuss what is important to you about your parenting styles what things are important to you about discipline. Then find a way to compromise with each other Find common ground with your issues and be supportive of each other. Teach values to your children of respectfulness, patience, kindness, fairness and responsibility. These are shown by your attitudes towards your partner. Take action to rebuild intimacy and closeness with your partner.
Resentments can build up and drive couples apart.
Find ways to come together. Raising children is complex, sometimes difficult, but most times incredibly rewarding. Talk to each other, spend time with each other, find common ground, laugh and cry together and you will provide shelter and nurturance for the coming years. The best gift you can give your children is a strong and happy marriage. She is currently at work on a book about her experiences as a child educator.