There are Gyms in every town, from the big Bally's, Golds Gym, NY Sports Clubs to smaller places to work out including local Y's. The area has Short Hills Mall, Woodbridge Center and the Menlo Park Mall. Downtown Westfield also boasts many fine shops. There are very active Gay organizations, both service and social. We have a Gay Community Center in New Brunswick and we are only 45 minutes from the Gay Community Center in New York City.
New Jersey offers equality to ALL of it's citizens.
We even have the right to be treated equally in adoption.