I will try again. I need depth all of the time when I relate to another person. Without depth, there is no worth while relating for me.
Passion is a sort of depth as is good thinking and creativity.
I suspect that you find relaxation and comfort in a smoothly flowing social context that I cannot find relaxing. In the long ago past I referred to this as you tryng to create a group or be a part of a group with me. In the medium past I called it my getting stuck near you. Now I am more apt to refer to it as scheduling too many events in a row in sequence. You have claimed a number of times now that I am keeping the lid on some topics.