Most are normal and will resolve in time with the help of caring family members and friends. However, if they are too severe or last too long, they may indicate the need for professional assistance. Sometimes, experience of trauma can result in other problems in the child's development Occasionally, these problems may be delayed until some time after the trauma. Often these signs are misunderstood - it appears the child is just being naughty. However, they may be indicators of a traumatic stress reaction and should be given careful attention.
Parental responses are very important in helping the child to cope with the aftermath of trauma.
It is important for parents to recognise that the child's behaviour may be part of a traumatic stress response, rather than willful behaviour. It is crucial not to become angry and blame the child for this behaviour. Like adults, most children's reactions diminish over time. This helps prevent children from feeling alone, isolated, and misunderstood Reassure children that they are safe and will be cared for Listen and talk to them about the experience. Honest, open discussion is best - even very young children know something has happened.