Start simply and demonstrate obedience to Jesus. Our next door neighbor used to train puppies to prepare them to become seeing eye dogs. She shared with me some of the steps that are essential in the training process, stressing that it is important not to skip any steps. I believe most of these steps also apply as we seek to help ourselves and others become obedient to Christ. First, love them .
Puppies respond to love, so do children and so do all adults.
We are under Jesus orders to love one another. As I have loved you, so you must love one another. This is above all other commands. I do not believe we are to love others grudgingly. Lets love in response to the love we have received.