Mediation can help these couples take back control over their lives, come to terms with their predicament, and secure a mutually acceptable resolution. If you are interested in mediation, there are various resources for finding a mediator. The Yellow Pages, under the heading Mediation Services of the telephone book provides a selection of mediators. A divorce is a sad and traumatic event in and of itself. However, the divorce process does not have to be a knockdown, dragout fight to the finish.
Mediation is a viable alternative to litigation.
I hope you will check that reflex to contact an attorney and call a mediator from the list above. Regardless of what you have experienced, heard, or seen, it is possible for a couple to Divorce Lovingly.