I spent my life being polite to women because that is what I believed they wanted. Yes, a handful do, but a handful is all you'll get if you are only nice. Sure, women need sensitive men, but only to tell them about the assholes they are dating. Now you can either be the asshole or the guy she is telling. Many women go for the more traditional Knight in Shining Armor.
Many women wait for Prince Charming.
As the story goes, she lies asleep awaiting the kiss of a prince to wake her. What the fairy tale forgets to mention is that she is sleeping on the wet spot next to a slob who didn't kiss her before, during, or after. Of course, some women like sensitive men. But only sensitive women. At first they're attractive, but then you have to read her poetry.