There is no evidence that men who are uncircumcised, or their partners, have more infections or genital cancers. Men and boys are capable of keeping the foreskin clean if they are taught to do this properly. And circumcised men have less sensation during sex. There is nothing wrong with an uncircumcised penis, it's just different from what she is used to. As far as your penis curving up goes, that is perfectly normal.
Many men have erections that point up in the air instead of straight out.
So this really isn't something you should be worried about. Alexis Williams has a Masters Degree in Public Health from Emory University. Her specialty is health education. She's also pretty cute and if we had a picture of her up here you would pine for her like you had never pined for anyone before. What we're saying is that she's qualified to write this column and that you can trust her advice because she's not just some chump we pulled off the street.