But, children today are over scheduled and their families are under connected, he says. Parents are more sensitive, but more afraid to exercise authority. And children are overwhelmed with consumerism. There is lots of research on its value. It's the one time in the day when the family can come together in conversation and nourishment.
Kids are adrift without it, unless another ritual replaces it.
Doherty believes young children need routine bed times and bedtime rituals. I think bedtime rituals are also important for young children. When kids are connected to their families, society benefits. A calm period after young children are in bed is an important time when parents have time for themselves and for each other. The author's appearance is sponsored by the Spokane Public Schools, in conjunction with Washington State University's 7th annual Northwest Regional Parenting Conference, which will be at the WestCoast Grand Hotel at the Park, Spokane on May 8-9.