55 Chapter 16. If you combine a candlelight shower with love making, you should easily be able to turn intimate moments into intimate hours. This is where holding, kissing and talking for a while can make the intimacy complete. Sometimes, we need a refresher course. Physical security is as important as emotional security.
Most women love to be held.
It does wonders when a man walks up behind his sweetheart and slowly wraps his arms around her waist, drawing her close. This works both ways. We love it when they hold us. We enjoy the warm feeling that we get when we're kissed. I have, on many occasions, faced my wife, held both her hands in mine, drawn her close to me, wrapped her hands around my waist and held her for several minutes.