This is esp. I guess we don't generally appreciate how we can overlook our sexual feelings and responsiveness. If you think about this, this could be considered a positive thing. When you have a sexual partner, you have a sexual drive. When there's no one in the offing, if you consistently have sexual drive, then your outlet would be masturbation.
Many people feel negatively about masturbation.
And so when there is no partner, they have no sexual feelings. When there is NO sexual partner, there is NO sexual feeling. However, men's sexual desire IS affected by SSRI's, esp. I happen to think sexual function is an extremely important function of our sexual health. Therefore, with any drugs that diminish sexual drive or desire, I want to make sure the benefit of the drug far exceeds the costs of taking that drug.