The lessons in Quality Schools are the same lessons for marriage, church, work and any organizations. I recommend this book for anyone interested in improving their leadership and their spiritual growth. A boss drives. One way is by example. I always heard what my parents did, not what they said.
People can easily change what they say.
They do not easily change the patterns of what they do, until they grow some more. Growing some more means learning how to give unconditional positive regard some more, so that we can reduce negative emotions and fears. Then we will have more loving in our leading. It does not matter what your current position is on your team, you can lead by example from where you are. A boss relies on authority.