Being in the flow with prayer makes it much easier. Praying with awareness and intention helps give the prayer a more powerful vibration. But then it is imperative to let go and let Spirit take over. The Universe will ultimately give you what you ask for, but you need to shift your perspective and release your Ego's agenda for what it wants. Set an intention.
Intention is key to all prayers.
Trying, wanting or hoping only manifests trying, wanting and hoping. Observe any doubts or limiting beliefs that come across the screen of your mind once you state your intention. Once you say this clear intention, listen for a moment. If any doubts arise that you really can have what you desire, write them down. Intentions cannot manifest if you have any beliefs that block them.