Your child's right to privacy, though, should be earned by the demonstration of trustworthiness and responsibility. At first I thought it was just her age, but this has been going on since infancy and now her teachers are starting to complain. The other day at a field trip, my husband was constantly bombarded by comments from the staff about how slow she is. My child spends too much time playing computer and video games. He's so passionate about these games, that when I suggest he's overdoing it he gets angry with me.
Regular chores establish helpful habits and good attitudes about work.
Children who grow up perceiving chores as a normal part of life will find the flow into adulthood much easier than those without responsibility will. When your morning activities run smoothly, and you're out the door on time it can make your whole day feel better. I think we all know one family that fits this description. It puts you into a very uncomfortable position. You know you can't discipline the kids, but you want to be able to enjoy your time with their family.