Arguments Quite commonly when a man feels challenged, his attention becomes focused on being right and he forgets to be loving as well. Just as men need to continue doing little things for a woman, she needs to be particularly attentive to appreciate the little things he does for her. With a smile and a thanks she can let him know he has scored a point. A man needs this appreciation and encouragement to continue giving. He needs to feel he can make a difference.
Men stop giving when they feel they are being taken for granted.
A woman needs to let him know that what he is doing is appreciated. When a women has resentment, she needs to take responsibility for having contributed to her problem of giving more and letting the score get so uneven. If a women feels resentment, if he originally had 5 points and she 30. She will simply take away his 5 points from her 30 and grant him with nothing. When a man feels unappreciated, he stops giving support.