If you're taking your child somewhere away from home, let him take a favorite blanket or toy. Something familiar can help ease unsure feelings. This will help your child develop the security she needs, and it will make goodbyes easier in the long run. Keep your goodbyes short. Give your child a quick hug and kiss, then leave.
Long goodbyes can make things more difficult.
Follow a routine. If you leave your child every day, saying goodbye in the same way each time helps him know what to expect and feel more secure. Call if any plans change or if you'll be late to keep your child from worrying or being afraid that you won't return. Staying in touch will build trust. Though there may be tears when you leave, remember that your child will probably be playing happily a few minutes later.