When local nursing homes are having festivities, suggest attending. You can then monitor your loved one's impressions about the place. If there are special tours offered, be sure to be excited to take your family member along. If he or she doesn't want to go, it is still a good idea for you to go. Check them over for activities you think your family member would like.
Prices are, of course, a concern.
Ask about waiting lists. Perhaps you will need to complete the paperwork now, so your family will be on the list at the facility of your choice. At this point, you also must consider the need for applying for Medicaid. Inquire of the nursing home Admissions staff about who to contact to complete that process and when it should be completed. Inquire about your loved one's will.