Dear Doreen, Thank you for sharing your story. I don't think I did. I didn't understand the 'projection' sickness part of this. When projection is severe, it can be delusional. The individual usually doesn't realize they are projecting their stuff onto the other person, though in milder forms its hard to say when they don't see it vs. when they won't fess up.
Projection is related to paranoia and anger.
I'm not kidding when I say he was devious - he was going around behind my back spreading lies about me, calling the police, etc. At one point, he even had my own parents convinced I was nuts. He did it in such a way that he played on their fears and like he was so concerned about my well-being. His was a sudden change. He turned on me as the enemy about 2 months after his father died suddenly.