In order for a relationship to be fruitful and satisfying those involved in it must set clear goals.
Most people go into relationships with a vague idea of what they want out of it.
When pressed, they often are unable to specify their goals for the relationship. Goals can be stated or written, but they should be agreed upon by the partners at the beginning of the relationship. Goals sometimes are documented in a behavioral contract format and signed by both partners. The goals stated should be only those on which both partners agree and can claim ownership. The relationship goal contract should be kept in a safe place and reviewed annually.