Yet if we overhear others describing us in this manner in terms of how we work, it is intolerable. We must make an effort to spread some kindness and consideration for others. There is a time and place for your anger. Just make sure that an innocent is not a scapegoat for it. Bit by bit in a day, a month, a year, all our actions can either protect or erode a worker's ego.
Negative attitudes beget negative service, and vice versa.
But we do have an impact, regardless. And now I'm coming out to people as transgendered. Transgendered is kind of a weird term. I think, under that definition, you could be transgendered even if you were a straight woman who just really hated the way society defines women, which a lot of Mills women do. Someone who finds something really wrong with their gender, whether it's in the gender roles, in some unidentifiable spark of male or female essence within them, or with their set of genitals.