You will begin to flirt naturally and adapt your style of flirting to the situation. Sigmund Freud, whether you agree with him or not, had a few cool things to say. Phoneys get discovered sooner or later. If you pretend to be that which you are not, you will very quickly find yourself with less friends, less connections and less opportunities to meet someone who is right for you. Of course, remember how important it is to show yourself in a good light.
People often give up when they don t get immediate results.
Monitor what works and what doesn t work. If you aren t getting the results you want, ask yourself what you could do differently that would allow you to. When you believe that there is no failure in life and that whatever result you get is a learning tool, you will succeed. Learn from what doesn t work and do something different. Monitor and become aware of the effects you have when you flirt.