That was when, Bell said, she decided to make some changes. Bell set out to find information about visiting people with dementia, but could not find anything, not even from people who were in similar situations. I'd ask what do you talk about, what do you do. Through personal experiences and research, Bell began building techniques that would provide quality time with her mother. She told the audience of about 40 that is is possible to continue communicating with Alzheimer's patients, whether they can speak or not.
Preparation is an important part of visits.
Holding up a blue tote bag, Bell said she always stores a small gift inside for her mother, who now looks forward to seeing what she has brought. Other residents also now look forward to seeing her. When you go visit, do not expect to see one person. Music can also be helpful, Bell said, adding with a laugh that her mother has listened to the same singer for seven years. Bell has also put together a small book of pictures that she and her mother can look at together.