We are proud of our limitation. Start feeling guilty when you don't take steps toward your Dream. Feel all those guilt-things when you honor the comfort zone. Eventually, however, guilt will be as staunch an ally to your Dream as it currently is to your comfort zone. My philosophy is that not only are you responsible for your life, but doing the best at this moment puts you in the best place for the next moment.
Most people use it to mean blame .
We are experts at finding blame. We blame others for not making us happy, for letting us down, for not fulfilling our dreams. It's time to grow up. In any of life's challenges, opportunities, or disasters, we can respond in whatever way we choose. Our response dictates what life hands us next.