Strong familial ties are maintained during army service and parents are expected to support their children while in the army through visits, care packages, laundry and financial assistance. Soldiers also develop an increased concern for wider social issues and a broader understanding of moral, political and ideological matters. Soldiers go home regularly - most visit their families and friends at least once a week in addition to longer furlough every three months. On special occasions and especially in the early months of service, parents usually visit their children on the army base. Regular soldiers are given opportunities to call and write home and soldiers in training or on active duty are encouraged to do so.
Reservists repeatedly make the transition between army and civilian life.
Permanent soldiers in advanced stages of their military service generally cultivate contacts with the civilian world outside in preparation for their second career. Outside experts are brought in for educational seminars and some forms of professional training. Due to these contacts, there has been considerable civilian influence on army life. Aside from basic training and certain courses, the atmosphere in the IDF is generally informal. Most orders are given as directions, and disagreement and discussion of such directions are not uncommon.