You might be afraid. You might be worried.
Life is too short.
Trying, leaves the back door open to escape back to previous avoidannt resistance. To justify the existence of any pattern, or person in your life that is not serving you in a healthy way, right now, today, is tantamount to volunteering to be unhappy. Any and all such unhappiness does not just happen to us. If we allow it, we have chosen it. If we continue with that choice then we have given our permission through our opposition to changing something and we are the masters of the maintaining of the same old, same old.