Avoid arguments with the abuser in areas with potential weapons, like the kitchen or garage, and in small spaces without access to an outside door. Men and women who follow their parents' example and use violence to solve conflicts are teaching the same destructive behavior to their children. Urge organizations and businesses to raise community awareness by hosting speakers on domestic violence, launching public education campaigns, and raising funds for shelters and hotlines. Ask the local newspaper, radio station, or television station to examine the problem and publicize resources in the community through special features and forums. Offer praise where appropriate and demand reform when necessary.
Most communities offer resources for victims of family violence.
Check your telephone directory or ask a law enforcement agency.