Loser Men become 'Losers' when they show they can be manipulated by women. Nice Guys who bring flowers to a coffee date, who supplicate all the time, are those that become 'door mats' or 'emotional tampons'. Men also become 'Losers' when they lack ambition, respect, and courage, qualities that consist of a man. Guys who are still living with their parents when they are 25 and still working in the grocery store they have been since high school is a turn off for women. They will see you as pathetic.
Pathetic guys are 'losers'.
Those that are put in the 'Loser' category are those who fail to act like a man. Girls want to marry someone they can respect and admire. The only difference between the 'Friend' category and the 'Worthy' category is that those in the 'Friend' category fail to demonstrate their sexuality. Nice guys think their sexuality will scare the woman so they hide it. Worthy Women like to sit and wonder, and wonder, and wonder.