They only exist by virtue of the power we give them in our minds. When you are in the state of oneness, you are not in your mind, you are in your heart. To the extent that you live in this state of love, you are happy, alive and free. You can flow with whatever happens. You are confident, creative and very effective.
Great things happen.
When you are in this state of oneness, you are living in the light. This is the domain of love, joy and peace. The opposite of this state is the domain of circumstances. When you are in this state, you are just a thing that has to be protected from all the other things. All the focus is on trying to get the circumstances of life to be a certain way so that you will finally be happy instead of upset.