Many excuses may be given but the bottom line seems to be a lack of love. This is not a passive love but a love that is committed to serving him, above all else, during good times and bad. Into the life of every faithful gospel preacher will enter times of great discouragement or outright opposition. The wives need to be willing to stand loyally with their husbands at all times and especially when the chips are down. Secondly, there must be unwavering love between husband and wife.
Love is more than passion.
It broadens to include a deeper appreciation for the life and convictions of one's mate. Because I love my husband, I appreciate his steadfastness in providing for our daily needs. I appreciate his high moral conduct and, most of all, his dedication to serving the God of heaven. They have also earned the respect of our children. Because he loves me, he appreciates my efforts to make our home a haven from the world, my loyalty to him and our family and, most importantly, of my sharing in his devotion to God.