The Holy Spirit is the Spirit of Jesus Christ. It is the regenerating and enlightening influence of Jesus Christ, not of some third person. We don't need to put any effort into our salvation. Faith alone is not enough. We must actively resist evil, while acknowledging that the effort to resist comes from God.
Regeneration is a gradual process taking many years, involving effort, love, good works.
Marriage love is heavenly, spiritual, holy, pure and clean. Genuine marriage is spiritual and lasts forever. The husband is the head of the wife. Husband and wife are equals before God. Heaven is a place of praise and relaxation.