We know what we want, we know the direction we're going, we know that we are entitled to our dream, and we let the rest of the goals go by. Humility comes with maturity. Then, next week, I want . . We only feel hurt about what we care about. That's part of the caring, too.
Most people use hurt as a reason to stop doing.
Another word for caring, of course, is love. Love is powerful. Keep it directed toward your goal. Feel the passion of the caring. Put that passion behind your goal.