It is important to be able to be happy without other's approval. Only those who have learned to love themselves, who feel good about themselves, can approach the world in gentleness and humility. You do not need to be validated by others. Let them go their own way, and receive your sanction from your own inner being. True power comes when you are able to move through the world confidently, serenely, and can allow others to do the same.
Evolved people are always gentle, light souls.
The challenge is to be light and loving when those around you are dense, resentful, and negative. Become a radiating source of light, hope, and balance to all those around you. Not by pretending you are someone else, but by being the real authentic you. By feeling empathy for the plight and growth needed in others, and allowing your Light to shine no matter what is going on around you. Compassion is the barometer of Grace.