Children may come to think that physical violence is a way of dealing with problems. Abused children are more likely to get into an abusive relationship when they grow up. Abuse to an unborn child, child abuse, or fear of child abuse are major reasons why some women choose to leave an abusive partner. First, ask yourself if your relationship is safe. Arguments are normal in a relationship.
Physical violence is never normal or acceptable.
No one has the right to hurt someone. You have the right to feel safe from harm, especially in your own home. Let a doctor, nurse, counselor, close friend or family member know about your situation so you can call the person should you need to leave a dangerous situation. Learn to recognize signs of a possible violent incident before it occurs. Know exactly where you will go and how to get there at any time of day.