Members avoid feeling pain and do not validate other's feelings. Family denies stresses. Pain is never resolved. No one can cope with the family problems. Parents may compete with kidsSex is not discussed.
Parents relate by a clear hierarchy or as equal partners.
Children feel secure. There is a shifting pattern of domination between parents, and little communication. Hidden coalitions exist between members. There is direct expression of feelings. All feelings are O.K. Anger is allowed.