And again, many are ashamed to seek medical help. Our society still sees women as nonviolent peacemakers, the victims of men, perhaps, but not as aggressors against men. The fact that women are more likely to be severely injured in domestic violence adds to the problem of recognizing male abuse. Health care professionals often do not even think of abuse as a potential explanation. When they see an injury, they accept even a fairly lame explanation.
Men find it harder to discuss pain then women and even harder to admit to being a victim.
In addition, men often have more hazardous occupations than women and certainly show more physical aggression to each other than women show to other women. All of this makes it easy for the health care professional to accept an injury explanation other than domestic violence. Even a mugging might be more acceptable than a female beating. Unless the report is of a woman wielding an iron skillet, of course. When a man does report domestic violence, he often encounters law enforcement professionals who are quick to believe his female aggressor rather than him.