Rich, I had a question about a recent message you preached a few weeks ago on family planning. The general theme of your sermon, as I recall, was understanding the wonderful gift of singleness that some are given. Thanks in advance for your attention to this. Of course, I wouldn't force a couple to have children any more than I would force a person to never have a beer in order that they might not become drunk.
People are free to live their lives as they wish.
Each man will answer to God on their own. However, I don't mind attacking the status quo concerning life and children if I feel that it is biblically justified. If children are peripheral to marriage, then my argument is a bunch of hot air. I hope this helps you to at least understand my position. Please don't fault me for having convictions that may be different from yours.