Now I want to have sex. Dr. A., take a woman who's experienced pubic hair loss. It's easier to be honest and explain, if it's at all necessary to, that it's normal to have those kinds of changes, but there are a bunch of other changes that are better. The ability to make love when and where you want and at the speed that you want. For him, especially if he had premature ejaculation before he'll be able to last much longer now.
Quality takes over from quantity.
Ellen, go ahead. The cause of his angioplasty may also be the cause of decreased blood flow to his penis and he might be experiencing performance anxiety due to an inability to maintain or achieve an erection. By avoiding intimacy he can avoid the embarrassment of the dysfunction. If you reassure each other that intercourse is not necessary all the time he may be able to be more intimate without the fear of failure. The taffy pull describes everyone and every tension pulling you in 15 different directions.