Paul, in I Cor. This could mean either the coming persecutions of Christians or what he thought was the imminent return of Christ. In either case, one can hardly believe that this was intended for the entire church in all times. Taken on the whole, it appears to be God's intention that every man marry unless he is called to a special ministry in which singleness is definitely preferable. God's plans always prove to be totally practical.
Many sociologists recognize today that marriage is a great civilizer of unruly men.
The married man is far less likely to engage in violence, to be in prison, or to be an alcoholic than the married man. He also lives considerably longer. In fact, if the thoughts I offer here are true, it is normal to expect certain parts of the healing to take place in the marriage. Obviously eventual marriage is dependent on when God brings the right woman along. However, many men in our ministrles may not be recognizing this woman because they are not open to the possibility of imminent marriage.