Women with low self-esteem are everywhere, including in prison visiting rooms, but they are also married to ministers, doctors and judges. I generally concluded that these women have low self esteems or semi retarded. Then came ashe. Attractive, articulate, compassionate, and educated. I have stopped feeling tired for black men who make bad choices.
Life is full of opportunities for anyone who sees it as such.
Creating your life's actions around choices that are self defeating is pitiful. If you are pitiful it is because you have taken the imagination that someone else has of you and made it your own.