Other times, you'll be amazed by things that formerly would have seemed catastrophic, but now seem insignificant, in comparison to your loss. You'll feel you've been through and survived the worst that could happen. Your faith and your view of humanity may be shaken. You may find it impossible to trust strangers, even those who may genuinely be trying to offer help. You may also question your rights and who can best advocate for you.
Most survivors heal slowly.
As mentioned, this process can take from four to seven years. Over time, survivors find that meaning gradually returns to the daily activities of their lives. Some day, when you look back, you will find that most people stood by you and supported you. You may even find that you've become more sensitive to the pain of others struggling with similar issues. Many survivors join others in doing volunteer work and offering support to those with similar burdens.