But because you have a lot of children, it's a big burden, and your furniture is still old. The other family eats pretty well, and you eat so-so. They have fewer children so they can bring their children to the city in their spare time. But you can't enjoy life because you have too many children. By comparing to the family with fewer children they realize that they should have fewer children and use birth control.
Most people agree that family planning is necessary.
They might not agree with the methods. But there is a misconception about coercion. After so many years of education, most people agree with the family planning policy and that they should have fewer children. We let them be born. But we ask the parents to pay a fine for birth without permission.