The only tried and true method I know of to guarantee you'll have sex with a beautiful woman every time you get together with her is to go to a prostitute. So, if having sex with a beautiful woman is that important to you, this will solve your problem. Whether you like it or not you'll get rejected most of your life, just like everyone else, male and female. And you won't just be rejected by women you'd like to have sex with. You'll be rejected in job offers, salary increases, requests for credit, etc.
Rejection is a fact of life, just like birth, taxes and death.
Like the rest of us, I think you've already found out the second option doesn't provide any tangible results other than venting frustration. Since everyone deals with rejection differently, the way you deal with it personally in terms of being rejected by beautiful women depends on how you deal with rejection in other areas. To help you deal with rejection, let's change your desire to have sex with beautiful women to a desire to have a Mercedes Benz automobile. You look at your budget. You also realize, understand and accept that, based on your current income, you could never afford repairs, maintenance or insurance for a Mercedes.