However, they tend to avoid identifying themselves precisely. It is impolite to address Chinese by their family names without a title, therefore Chen Yunpo should be addressed as Mr. Chen. A guest should also make the first move to leave. Guests are also expected to conduct themselves with restraint, as loud or boisterous behavior is impolite. Chopsticks are used for all meals and should be placed neatly on the table when finished eating.
Food is placed in the center of the table.
When eating rice, it is customary to hold the bowl close to the mouth. Any bones, seeds, etc. should be placed on the table or on special dishes, not in the rice bowl. At a restaurant, the host will pay the bill. Business is not discussed during the meal. Drinking alone is impolite, therefore, toasts are often offered.