People call each other to check in, not to gossip about the latest news of Joe Christian. And people pray consistently for others, not just on Sundays and at home groups. Battered and wounded Christians are part of the average congregation here, not a fringe to be avoided. Recommendations for doctors and counselling are swapped by those who have been though this before. You are not expected to get better overnight.
Healing is a long haul.
There isn't any pressure to suddenly transform into one of the shiny happy people. Quite the reverse, given that this church values honesty and openness. The atmosphere is friendly and caring. Telephone numbers are published in regular lists so we can keep in contact. Close relationships are formed in the home groups, reinforced on Sundays and through the week.