Now we shouldn't interpret this to mean girls should be quiet little things who don't care about what they look like. You should try to look nice, and there is nothing wrong with being outgoing and full of life. I think those verses are really about having a quiet humility before God. If you have this kind of genuine humility, guys will see it. But humility really does make you a truly attractive individual.
Humble people are just enjoyable to be around.
I want to know that God is the center of his life. I think this is a wonderful trait. Oh, and the guy for me is going to have to love kids, because I love kids. I just love seeing guys who can relate well to young children, guys who'll let little kids climb all over them. If he's good around small children, I think it says a lot about his character.