Now you have an opportunity to discuss this with him and find out how he really feels about it. The other problem with the questionaire is that it focuses on the past. The past is not important. What is important is growing into a better person for your dh and for yourself. You lived through the first of each, learned from them and now you are a skilled grown woman.
Marriage is full of new experiences, even for the old pros.
Learning to recognize and meet your dh's needs is one of many new experience we all have to learn. Fortunately, life has already taught us that the more anxiety we allow our selves to feel, the less we will learn from and enjoy the experience. Relax, remember the old times, laugh a little and look forward to this outstanding opportunity you have in front of you. Puzzled by what that means. I thought we were doing good in that area.