The risk can be even higher if the condom is not used correctly . Obviously, using a condom is safer than unprotected sex, but putting sex on hold for the time being is an even safer choice. Sometimes condoms slip or break. Even if the condom doesn't break, there has be en a report that even new condoms have tiny holes in them which might be big enough for a virus to pass through. There are benefits of putting sex off for a few years.
Many people find they enjoy dating even more when sex is off limits.
If a relationship doesn't work out, it can be ended with less pain, and if it does work out, you've got a solid foundation on whic h to build a lifelong friendship - a place where sex is truly safe. One more thing. Very few people remember the seventeenth time they had sex, but everyone remembers the first time. Consider saving the lasting memory for the experience when you are r eally ready and with a partner that you really care about. If you don't, I'll find someone who will.