We can still hear our old parent hypnotically shouting at us, Do this. Don't do that. Don't play with matches. Don't go into the street, Sex is dirty. You are bad.
Girls are good and play with dolls.
Our childhood's little adult now allows us to act some what independently of our child and parent memories, but it can never change or erase them. They mostly remain unconscious, although sometimes they can be directly and briefly recalled under the right circumstances.