This means we will be working with people who do not look like us, or talk like us, or have the same experiences that we do. They may identify as queer, straight, gay, lesbian, trans, or not identify at all. But simply put, we need their votes and money and voice. I would add whatever initials it takes to get us working together. We can support basic rights for all, and still be passionate about the specific needs each identity-based group has.
History suggests that very few political victories have ever been won without strong coalitions.
Third, we have to get out of the closet. It is especially important that trans-people who have made their transitions successfully, who have jobs and families, who are living with loving life partners do this. It is a shame that too many of us are comfortably hidden away in cozy lives. The reasons are harmless sounding. Others only dress a few times a year in public.