Raping her is enough, equated as it is with her entire self-perception and value system. What we as women have done is put a powerful weapon that works with our own consensus into the hands of the potential enemy. Displaced by equality and feminism, and all of their ramifications for middle-class existence and working society, the status quo for men has changed and violence against women is one of the quickest growing crime rates in the country. If rape is viewed by the woman and the society she inhabits as something that takes away from the woman instead of a gross aberration in the mental chemistry of the rapist, then the future looks exceedingly bleak and women are going to be left increasingly vulnerable to such crimes against them. Rape is not a crime against womanhood.
Rape is a crime against humanity.
The sooner this viewpoint reflects itself in that strong hold of a nation's opinions and attitudes, its popular culture, the closer will we come to a truly equal and sex-crime free society.