Each Child Feel a Part of the Family Be sure each child has a private space or private time. Strengthen the children's relationship with each other early by stressing how special each is to the other, how good each is to the other, and how important each is to the entire family. Plan family activities that are fun. Games, parties, picnics and outings help the children enjoy being together. Conflict is natural, and conflicts will happen even in the best of families.
Parents can prevent some unnecessary conflicts with some thought, planning and listening.
To Do Be very careful to say positive things about the relationship. Children will usually behave as adults expect them to. Expect that they will get along. When they don't, be careful of your words. Catching them being good and rewarding good behavior often helps children to choose to behave well more often.