Live as if you'll die today. I'm desperately trying to figure out why kamikaze pilots wore helmets. Donate it to the Salvation Army instead. They'll clean it and put it on a hanger.
Next morning buy it back for seventy-five cents.
Misery is optional. That would make you quite unpopular in what's left of your unit. If held loosely in the palm of your hand it stays there, but as soon as you close your hand tightly it slips through your fingers. You didn't hold the pillow down long enough. Because if they all went, it would be Hell.