A monthly newsletter of activities and a directory come with membership. Many Surface spouses are not only members but also serve as officers of this group. The objectives of this club are to foster fellowship among its members, to promote interest in the military and civilian communities, to provide information, and to support community oriented organizations and local charities. Monthly programs of note from the past two years have included a trip to the Williamsburg Winery, a luncheon program with the Virginia Opera Company, and a tour, and lunch at the Hermitage Foundation. A Welcome Coffee in September hosts a variety of organizations looking for volunteers, and offers door prizes to local community activities.
Membership includes a monthly newsletter and a directory.
As civilians, the roles of these spouses have no official status or prescribed responsibilities. However, unwritten or unspoken expectations still exist, and demands are made. The very ambiguity and lack of clarity of the role can be confusing and stressful. In a positive light, this ambiguity offers spouses the opportunity to choose the role that will be comfortable for them. The conference also provides a forum to gather information and network with others in similar roles.