There are many warning signs which indicate underlying psychological or emotional problems, but several are particularly important. These signs and symptoms may serve as an indication of psychological distress, and you should consider either consulting with a professional counselor or expressing your concerns directly to the student. Ideally, students experiencing psychological difficulties would recognize these difficulties and seek appropriate professional assistance. Actually, the denial of psychological difficulties is probably the most common symptom of a psychological disturbance. Despite the availability of a variety of counseling resources, students frequently choose not to take advantage of them.
Many students insist that they can work their problems out on their own.
This may be true, but it shouldn't prevent you from expressing your concern or consulting with someone about the situation. Always emphasize that you are intervening because you care about them and are concerned about their welfare. Be as specific as possible regarding incidents and behaviors that concern you. Avoid using judgmental statements and be respectful of personal, cultural, and gender differences. Develop a plan that is mutually agreeable.