After all, anyone who has seen a person get up at 6 AM and stumble around gathering their work items, as well as their child s backpack or shoes, has to have respect for their dedication to not crawl right back into their nice, warm bed. Teaching a child that hard work pays off is an invaluable lesson in humility and personal character. However, if it pays, it also costs. There are many different prices to pay when both parents work. Your children are with other people more than they are with you.
Familiarity is what leads to habits.
If your child is not around you, your choices for their behavior and habits are few. Their personalities are being formed by others. Sometimes, if you are among the very fortunate few, this will be a family member. Most times it will be a complete stranger, either in your home or in a day care environment. Either way, the implications are very scary.