God would never ask us to do anything without providing the grace to do it. It is impossible to be the prudent wife described in Proverbs 31 without possessing Godly characteristics. If these attributes are a part of who we are, displaying submission in our behavior will not be difficult. In fact, we would do it with the greatest of ease because we understand that we are to submit to our husbands with the same intensity and love that we submit ourselves to God. And, the earlier we allow God to develop our character during our time of being single, the more valuable we are to our husbands as excellent helpmeets.
Marriage is a partnership where there is mutual understanding and likemindedness.
Our role is to help our husbands by freely offering our gifts and talents to labor with him as an honorary employee. By laboring with our husbands, we are easing his burdens and offering him comfort. It is important that we labor with him out of loyalty and devotion. This promotes the concept of constancy, that says no matter what, our husbands have a vote of confidence that we are always there as a support system. The man needs the woman.