We keep a candle burning on the dinner table in memory of our grandmother. Yes, I thought of lighting a candle in his room. Since he was cremated we have no grave to visit. I would like to light a candle at the accident site where a cross has been put up but as this is on the roadside it may not be allowed. Sometimes even talking about the person you have lost helps.
People seem to avoid speaking about the person who has passed away.
They are afraid they might cause you to think about them when of course we are thinking about them all the time. He loved music. He sang and played the guitar. We have only his more childish voice singing. That's a good idea, Bina.