If you look like your passport picture, you probably need the trip. Always yield to temptation, because it may not pass your way again. A conscience is what hurts when all your other parts feel so good. Eat well, stay fit, die anyway. No husband has ever been shot while doing the dishes.
Men are from earth.
Women are from earth. Deal with it. A first grade teacher collected old, well known proverbs. She gave each child in her class the first half of a proverb, and had them come up with the rest.