Very often, people who think suicide is a choice for them feel like they have no other options, like they have no control over their lives, and that no one cares about them. Click here for a list of warning signs. Ask Asking about suicide can be scary and hard, but it is very important. It is the only way to find out how much danger someone is in. It also lets the person you're concerned about know that you're a safe person to talk to.
Many people are afraid to talk about suicide.
They fear that others will react with blame, fear, panic, or guilt. But it is often a great relief to someone thinking about suicide to know that you have noticed their pain. And although many people don't believe this, asking about suicide will NOT suggest the idea to someone or encourage someone to kill themselves. After you have listened for a while, ask the person you're concerned about if she or he is thinking about suicide. Even if this makes you feel scared or mad, don't let it show.