Fathers in particular get to connect with the nurturing side of themselves that our society has traditionally frowned upon. In fact, cross cultural studies have demonstrated that in societies where infants are held, massaged, rocked, breast fed and carried, adults are not only less aggressive and violent, but are more cooperative and compassionate. Unspoken Communication Becoming intimately acquainted with their baby's body language is another important bonding aspect that many parents discover from massaging their infants. An unspoken dialogue of trust will develop from a daily massage as the parent begins to identify their baby's physical reactions as nothing more than simple patterns, or rhythms of communication. From that recognition the parent will become aware of how much stimulation the baby wants and be able to recognize how their baby's body looks and feels when in a relaxed or tense state.
Parents can begin massaging their newborns from the moment of birth or as soon as they desire.
Oil is recommended during the massage to avoid creating friction. Be sure to include your voice in the massage process. By talking softly or singing, you help create an atmosphere of calm. Marc Krulewitch is a freelance writer from Boulder, Colorado. Instilling healthy habits in children starts at home and makes a difference for the rest of their lives.