A successful death can be more important than living through something. When the time comes, you help somebody over, and that is the healing. Part of what I've done in Intuitive Healing, in chapter five, is that I take people through a death meditation where I ask them to invite death in so they can get a firsthand experience with it so that their fear can be alleviated. Until we confront our fear of death, we can never live life fully. We need to know that our spirit lives on.
People tend to fear almost all transitions because to an extent, they all represent death.
That's very true. Be in your body. That means not to just live from the neck up. It means listening to your body's intuitions which will tell you about people. Your body will tell you if you like somebody or not.