You always get what you want. There are no victims, only students. They are Anonymous. There is no right or wrong, but there are consequences. Moralizing doesn't help.
Judgments only hold the patterns in place.
Just do your best, and have fun doing it. Your answers lie inside you. You know more than you have heard or read or been told. All you need to do is to look, listen, and trust. You will forget all this.