They have all verbally attacked me at one time or another. I am wondering if strong women attract verbal abusers too. But now, my problem is that I feel terrible. I feel so NOT good about myself, so doubting of myself. You are complaining of a very, very common scenario.
Nice girl meets controlling guy.
Either way, your details will be kept confidential. But watch it, you are really on the doorstep of Hell. You have hooked up with an individual who is in pain and who is looking for somebody to take their pain away. I don't have to worry about your emotions because this is all about me. It has never occurred to this person that it is their job to take care of themselves.