Then, for each thing, list the ways in which it is helping you to evolve, grow and heal. List the ways in which it is serving others and you will realise the special mission that you have been given by the universe. The acknowledgement of a universal plan that goes far beyond your limited view. The unveiling of the perfection of existence, that all things serve the realisation of Love, that there is truly a guiding hand in the universe. The feeling that you cannot relate to others properly.
Relationships seem to always go wrong.
Peace seems to always be disrupted by others or yourself. You fear that you will never find the 'right person'. Make a list of the 'positive' things that you have given others in relationships. Keep listing until your Heart opens. For each of your perceived 'failures', list the benefits, lessons and gifts that resulted from them, for others and for yourself.