Vainglory is glorifying ourselves, or bragging about ourselves. To be lowly in mind means to not think of ourselves more highly than we should. It is being humble, or modest. Esteem means love, hold precious, hold in honor. DAY 3 Review definition of deference.
Edification means building up.
He did not please Himself. Instead, He pleased His Father first. And we can see in the gospels that He frequently also put other people before His own needs. By being deferent, you will be doing your part toward unity. Pray for God's grace to honor others and defer to their wishes.