I caught her and explained to her that I would share anything I have, if she would only ask permission to take my things home. I told her this way I know where it is, if I should need it back. Due to the sensitive state the kids are in, we've all been through an awful lot the past six to 8 months, we are not sure exactly how to handle. Her father is estranged and her mother has suffered horrible brain damage. Grandparents and relatives will only be caretakers and guardians and never replace her parents.
Many people can go through rehabilitation and lead fully functioning lives.
As for her stealing I wouldn t get too upset about it. First, she isn t stealing anything major. Give her attention for other things, any thing, other than stealing and it will go away. What she really needs is reassurance and love. Have patience with the outer behavior and attend to the inner hurt.