Thank you Barbara Dear Barbara, Exhibitionists are those that derive erotic pleasure by the display of genitals or body parts that are normally covered by clothing and considered taboo. This display is done without the consent of their audience. Some exhibitionists can only become aroused by exposing their own body but others, such as your partner Bob, derive pleasure from having their women display for them. A certain amount of preliminary sexual arousal is present while planning the clothing that will be worn and by planning the excursion itself. The sexual tension builds from the start of the planning to the completion of the outting, thus giving the participants very intense orgasms when release finally is found.
Many people find exhibitionism to be arousing.
For some the excitement comes from strutting their physique, defying taboos, being placed in bondage and put on display, teasing or seducing a potential partner, or having sex while others watch.