Be aware of the grief stages and their effect on decision-making. The following is Elizabeth Kubler Ross' model of grief stages, with comments on our ability to make decisions during each stage. It is common for people to avoid making decisions or taking action at this point. Making decisions at this point is difficult because all one's energy gets put into the emotion rather than problem solving. Because it's hard to make decisions at this stage, consider asking a family member, friend, or professional for help if important decisions need to be made.
People become more willing to explore alternatives after expressing their feelings.
Decisions are much easier to make because people have found new purpose and meaning. For more information, contact your local Extension Service or Health Care Provider.