Most other colleges weigh verbal more than math because professors are concerned about declining reading and writing skills. Ideally, you want scores to be good and close to each other. SAT is important because it is the only uniform number they have for all candidates. Your extracurriculars -Activities that you participate in after class make you different from everyone else. Colleges want students capable of doing college level work first and foremost.
Quality is more important than quantity.
If you can't take part in extracurricular activities because you have to work after school, you are not at a disadvantage. Works builds character, among other things, so you should think about your job as and activity and use it to convey what a good college candidate you are. Early in your junior year, complete the NCAA Clearinghouse application and write to both the admissions office and the coach. When you receive application forms carefully compare them. Although they appear identical, the set from the coach may contain a code to signal a recruitable athlete.