The traits that are intrinsic to you, that set you apart, that make you unique are what you will be loved for and treasured. Find a woman who will value you for what you are, and she will be worthy of your love. A man does not insist on physical beauty in a woman who builds up his self-esteem. After a while he realizes that she is beautiful. He just hadn't noticed at first.
Originality wins extra points, so avoid the commonplace and the fashionable.
All this gives you an ego boost, gets women to notice you and possibly approach you to start a conversation . It will make a striking first impression . Note that attracting attention could have undesirable side effects. The technique is not without its perils, and may not be appropriate for everyone . Now we come to the critical question.