Sleep became a thing of the past. My phone is always tied up and my family gave up on my attending things like movies and meals. But there is hope. You can get the traffic. Java can be learned.
Forms really do work, eventually.
You can add more phone lines. Sorry, can't help with the family problems. Let me know if you figure that one out. All of the tools and knowledge referred to in this site can be learned by anyone. There is no magic, just a lot of hard work if you want to do it right.