They refuse to understand the tokenism that they represent, refuse to see that their single presence, far from proving that anyone can make it, determines, under the present system, that no one else will. Clearly, most female socialization inhibits such a drive, either plunging the woman into such conflict that resolution appears possible only through retreat, or imposing so much inner tension that the cost of achievement, even where it occurs, is extravagant. While it's true that motivation alone cannot equal success, the missing factor of this equation is not quotas, protectionism or welfare. It is responsibility, the aspect of her character that helps a woman overcome the conflicts and tensions found on the path to success. And yes, Virginia, the cost of achievement is extravagant.
Responsible individuals are willing to pay a price for success.