So many people of my generation do feel used and abused because all the morals and values that previously protected us from emotional and physical harm were tossed aside in the sexual revolution. We were not meant for a haphazard, animalistic life without guidelines and principles, to live an accidental life without significance or purpose. We were born to have a special relationship with our Creator, who gave us these guidelines and principles to protect us from bodily and spiritual ruin and to provide for us a full and meaningful life. Part of the sense of cynicism and despair that pervades modern culture stems from an evolutionary view of the world that says we were an ironic biological accident, and we are no different than the animals. This world view implies that since we evolved from a primordial soup, we are only accountable to ourselves.
Life is harsh and unrelenting, where only the fittest survive.
That may mean doing whatever it takes, whether moral or immoral, to get what one wants out of life. After all, since we evolved from protein strands, we have no souls, and when we die, we die. There is nothing else. We might as well take what we can today, and forget about tomorrow. This evolutionary world view also implies that religions, cultures and values are insignificant.