We will not badmouth each other or each other's parenting in front of Tommy. We will not ask Tommy to choose between us. We will encourage him to have the best relationship possible with the other parent.
Holidays supercede the regular schedule.
At the end cf the holiday the regular schedule resumes as if there had been no holiday. Under this parenting plan, the words 'custody' and 'access', are purposefully not used. This includes issues such as nutrition, homework, emergency medical issues, religious and values education, babysitting. Both parents will keep closely in touch with the school in order to be informed of school events. Both may attend school and extracurricular games and performances.