Stress the benefits of the procedure and anything that the child may find pleasurable afterwards, such as feeling better, or going home. Allow your child to participate in simple tasks. Encourage participation during the procedure, such as holding an instrument, if allowed. Provide information about any appearance changes that may result from the procedure or test. Ask your health care provider if such films are available for your child's viewing.
Drawing is another way for children to express themselves.
Ask your child to draw the procedure after you have explained it, demonstrated it, or your child has watched a video. You may be able to identify concerns or misconceptions through your child's artistic expression. Your child may or may not desire your presence, and it is best to honor his or her wishes. If you are not asked to be by your child's side and would like to be, ask your health care provider if this is possible, and ask your child if he or she would mind your presence. Out of respect for your child's growing need for privacy, do not allow peers or siblings to view the procedure.