So we're in a bit of a bind. So it doesn't take a genius to see we're raising kids who feel emotionally and spiritually upside-down regarding sex. And it's no secret that the church has lost its voice, partly from confusion and fear, partly from screaming itself hoarse. In the real world, kids encounter sexual information and experiences in a process that stretches over decades. And out of those ideas and values, they act.
Kids read, listen, watch television and movies, and hang out with friends and acquaintances.
They watch their parents and other adults. They watch their siblings and peers. And from that picture come their sexual attitudes, opinions, and actions. These are the boundaries, don't cross them. This is the truth, believe it.