The western alternative to this looks a lot more attractive. In western culture love and romance are supposedly every where. Everyone is out looking for love freely. Meeting someone, going out, seeking pleasure sounds a lot better. For love at first sight, you need to have the right image, the right hair, the right clothes.
Girls have to aspire to be like the latest supermodels, they have to hold back age.
Frustration, desperation, and unhappiness become the norm. Imagine all the heartache youth would save if they followed the Islamic alternative. In true Islam, unlike culture, there is no gameplaying. If two people wish to be involved they are both straight with one another. Unlike what goes on today amongst some Muslims, they both meet each other and make a contract to marry.