Handle with care. Remember that resolving conflicts is a fragile exercise that exposes family members' vulnerabilities. Dr. Kenny says the natural changes that children go through create many family stress points. Since no one is born knowing how to parent, these skills must be learned. Check with your child's school or pediatrician for recommendations.
Finances can be a major family battleground.
One way to circumvent arguments is to make a budget. Keep track of your family's income and expenditures. Discuss how resources should be allocated. This is much less stress-inducing than arguing over every purchase. There may be even an Employee Assistance Program available at your workplace.