Intuitive action is essential. The first step in changing any negative behavior is to deny there's a problem. You need to stop doing what you're doing to find out what you're doing. Transitions are letting go of the past while grabbing at the future. The lessons in life that keep coming back are most important.
Dreams are the subconscious mind's way of working through important issues.
Don't worry about the dreams you don't remember. Recurring dreams are the ones we can learn the most from. Your interpretation is the only one that counts. You'll drive yourself crazy if you insist on doing the impossible. Thankless jobs aren't worth doing.