The Biblical role of a leader, and especially that of a father, is based on servanthood. Learning this concept is essential because it is a far cry from the norm today. The tendency of many men is to expect to be indulged, to seek self-fulfilling activities, and to demand their own space. There is no comfort in the Scriptures for this attitude. If you are not willing to sacrifice your own desires to meet the needs of your family, your sacrifice to any religious activity will be regarded as phony by your wife and children.
Gravity means the characteristics which entitle one to reverence, respect, dignity, and honor.
The word comfort means to entreat or to call to one's side. It was common practice during Paul's time for fathers to affectionately instruct children, even when they were disobedient. You need to show that you possess a compassionate heart set on placing the needs of your children and wife as priorities. There are several incidental ways you can directly influence the quality of your children's education. Supper time is prime time to stimulate thinking skills and discernment.