It is not reserved for the bold and beautiful, or the young and the restless, or the lucky and the strong. It doesn t care what you drive, what perfume you wear, what mutual funds you invest in, or what country club you join. You can t look it up on the Internet, define it with a checklist, or base it on some statistical probability of compatibility. You have to go where love takes you and be glad of the invitation to travel. Loving is the greatest nonmaterial necessity of life.
Love is infinite.
You can freely give it away, because it is an infinitely renewable resource. Feel free to love extravagantly, for there will never be a day when you cannot give love, and there will never be an instant when someone does not need it. Love is the ultimate goodness. It is not lust, nor need, nor domination, nor an escape from loneliness and despair. It is not a mutual collusion in romantic delusion.