Love does not cherish inflated ideas of its own importance. It is not self-centered. It has the ability to change and to accept change. It is flexible. It doesn't allow, or expect, life to revolved around itself.
Love has good manners.
It has respect for others which results in a set of Christ-centered standards. It has discretion. It knows what is proper and when. Love does not pursue selfish advantage. Love is not touchy.