Keep on loving, no matter what. And talk to God about it instead of constantly talking to your son or daughter about it. Your truth, your love, and God's power are a powerful combination for changing a young life. And I will not base my actions on my child's immediate response. As a parent, you will not be able to be all your children need.
Life is too demanding, children are too complex, and parents are too limited.
Trust God for the gaps . Several years ago, Karen and I rode bicycles across the romantic island of Nantucket. It was settled by the same kind of Puritan stock that landed at Plymouth Rock. Apparently, they understood something very powerful about raising a family. Especially when it comes to the gaps in our parenting.