Use simple material in the group. Read a chapter together and discuss what these ideas could do to your lives. This group must be a safe place for the participants to say what they are feeling. Get involved in larger groups. Have all the men in your group attend the conference men's retreat.
Join promise Keepers and attend one of their rallies as a group.
Wear the same T-shirts. Analyze all that is happening. Talk about what you're learning and plan ways to implement it in your congregation. Do something for someone else. Start a prayer journal for the men's group.