A story of faith with Jesus has to be a personal story, a personal quest. It is not enough to know all kinds of facts about Jesus Christ. One must encounter the wonder of God's grace for sinners and then make a personal decision to receive him into our heart as Lord. One must decide to follow him and then do so. No one else can do that for us.
Faith is like the difference between having read about how to make a cake and actually making one.
Third - The wise men sought help from other people as they tried to find the king We so often try to live our lives without making any demands on others. We try to be independent. To stand alone. To make it by ourselves. Sometimes this comes out of noble motives - we do not want to burden others.