Teach your children how to love by touching and holding your loved ones often. No one is all male or all female. We are each a mix of masculine and feminine. Don't compare yourself with other people. All men are not created equal.
Every person is unique and different and special.
Don't do it if somebody else should be doing it. Disease is any condition of the mind or body over which someone has lost control. Alcoholism, Co-dependency, and addiction to drugs, money, sex, love or control are the secret diseases. Your diseases are not your fault. They are, however, your responsibility.