Sex lives sometimes go downhill. Worry Caregivers worry that their spouse's condition might worsen. They worry about their own health and mounting fatigue. They worry about maintaining the same level of care as they could when they were younger. At the same time, they worry that someone else won't do as good a job - not entirely unfounded.
Finances are another source of worry.
Share your feelings Ask about support groups at rehabilitation centers, local chapters of the National Spinal Cord Injury Association, Paralyzed Veterans of America or at independent living programs. Consider starting your own group, using one of these organizations as a resource. One very successful support group was started by a few wives of disabled men. Improve your relationship Research suggests that the better you feel about your relationship, the less stress you will have. Talk with him or her.