Essentially, safe sex is no sex. Safer sex is sex that greatly reduces the unwanted consequences of sex, such as unwanted pregnancy, coercive sex, and the spread of sexually transmitted diseases. Talk with your partner. Find out what your partner s needs and dislikes are. Don t assume you know what your partner wants or needs.
Lack of communication can lead to unsatisfying and unsafe sex.
Like many other things, sex is what you make of it. Eroticize the condom. If you or your partner is male, sex with a condom should be your practice. Experiment with many different brands and styles of latex condoms until you find one that suits you. There are different colors, textures, strengths, and sizes of condoms.