But, sometimes parents are unaware of how easy it is to damage their child's self-esteem without even realizing it. Research shows that children with learning disabilities are more likely to suffer from lack of self-esteem than their peers. The Coordinated Campaign for Learning Disabilities , along with Dr. Robert Brooks , have compiled a list of ways parents can develop positive feelings of self-worth in their children. Help your child feel special and appreciated. Also, try role playing situations with your child to help demonstrate the steps involved in problem-solving.
Many children do try hard and still have difficulty.
Children are less defensive when the problem is cast as strategies that must be changed rather than as something deficient with their motivation. This approach also reinforces problem-solving skills. Be an empathetic parent. Provide choices for your child. This will also minimize power struggles that may arise.