Pain is unavoidable, but extra suffering is inevitable and prolonged, if either the patient or the healer judge, or assess the situation according to outcome or need. The goal of healing is to recognise first it is possible to heal, and then know it is attainable for oneself. The two way process of acceptance between healer and patient is the means of healing, even if this is not readily apparent in the various forms that healing seems to take. The form is not important, because healing is a recognition of what is already true, not really a change at all. Healing is a gift to others in a way that enriches both.
Healing is inevitable.
The goal of healing is to replace the thought that healing is necessaryTruth is perfection. I am responsible for the choices I make, and how I see myself. Everything I experience, I have chosen to experience, giving me another chance to choose agaiIt is easy to believe that because I make mistakes, I am guilty. However my mistakes have had no effect on Truth. Forgiveness is my only function here, remembering I can only forgive myself for what I think I have done, or been done to me.