Things have suddenly switched, I don't remember the exact day it happened, but happen it did. Cycles repeat on a generational basis until somebody lassos the core issue, faces it, accepts it, and changes it. I'd rather feel guilt than resentment. Feel the fear and do it anyway. We are all different facets of the same jewel.
Footpaths are different for everyone.
What really matters is that we walk the paths we choose with good intent.