If it s there, you get married. If it s not there, you divorce. This is one of the silliest ideas I have ever heard. First of all, people don t just fall out of love. If love dwindles it s because the marriage wasn t a priority.
Love is a living thing.
If you nurture it, feed it, care for it, it grows. If you neglect it, starve it, ignore it, it becomes frail. The number one cause for the breakdown in marriages in our country is that people don t spend enough time together. They take their marriages and their spouses for granted. The marriage gets placed on the bottom of the priority list.