The person who uses manipulative advertising, to try to take my money, by getting me to buy something I don't need, is another one. Everyone from the jerks who throw beer cans on my lawn, to the terrorists who make me afraid to travel, is an enemy for me to deal with. And I have to decide, what I'm going to do, with the fear and anger and rage and hostility that these people evoke in me. I frankly think that it's next to impossible. Sometimes I can do it, and sometimes I can't.
Love also brings up the whole issue of forgiveness .
We're not all that sure what that means, either. That sounds pretty sick, to me. I am not always sure what love is. One of the reasons we gather in community, is so that we can help each other. We help to bear each others burdens.