I am sure that I cannot remember who all of these people are by now, but there is probably not one original idea here. Anyway, I hope not. I recognize in particular the work of William Glasser, Maria Montessori, Jean Piaget, Paula Tallal and Michael Merzenich and their 'fast listening' teams, Frank Vellutino, Denis Waitley, and Susan Sordon. The causes and motives of human behavior are complex. Teaching and therapy are artistic as well as scientific endeavors.
Individuals respond differently, for different reasons.
One solution does not fit all. Naturally we tend to seek out and hold on to information which is agreeable to our biases. We comprehend in terms of what already makes sense to us. This is not all bad. It is up to each of us to make judgments, to absorb what we personally can use, and to apply it as well as we can.