We find more couples now have to enter the doors of the counselors. Happier and longer marriages are getting too difficult to attain. I personally believe no outsider can help unless the two very people involved are willing to work on it. No one person is totally responsible. In my past 25 years of experience, I find the key to a happy marriage is not a tug of war.
Love is the sole factor in determining long-term happiness.
When two people are truly in love they do not think as each other to be two, but as one. In some situations it may not be so, yet the concept of unison is of prime importance. When two people are in love the consideration and caring for each other comes automatically. A husband would think his wife has had a long day and his appreciation, caring and helping hand would be a good idea. A wife in turn would also think the same way and would think twice before starting to nag when the husband returns from long day at work.