That s the system if you will. You might as well blame the stars for shining at night or blame a cat for not being an earthworm. We live in an imperfect world accept it. The way to stop blaming the system is to stop pretending that the world ought to be other than it is. Listen for yourself saying things like things should be better or it isn t fair .
Life just is.
You can either accept it for what it is or ruin your quality of life blaming and becoming angry about the system you can never hope to change. And the wisdom to know the difference. Stop blaming yourself Have you ever met the perfect person I mean really perfect. Of course you haven t because that person doesn t exist. We all make mistakes.