They are rhythms. If you move into a valley, know that a mountain is ahead because that is the way life is. We have a rhythm that we go through. The rhythm can blend so when one is in a valley, one is happy, and when one is on the height of the mountain, one is happy. When this occurs life begins to make sense.
Life begins to be a delightful blend of vibrations coming together to achieve a purpose.
What you may also do which may create delight for your relationship is to continue to ask yourself what your purpose is. When we surrender to possibility and when we ask our self these important questions, it points us in directions where we can begin to create more choices. When we have opportunities in front of us that give us possibilities and choices we create growth and we feel more of our individual essence. So, Alana feels that you are doing well. Your soul mate vibration is evident.