However, after many years of inner search I've learned that to forgive is to remember that we are not separate - love follows. But that can only be done beyond space and time, because our memory is very limited. We all have the potential to help each other, and trigger the button that activates that Intelligence,which many people call God. You may not realize it now. But wait, for it is just a question of time.
Every event comes from a oneness and everything on earth is a symbol of that oneness.
People go to Lincoln Center, and or to the Bolshoi to see something extraordinary that lasts about 3 hours, and yet comes from a simple, short story of about 1.000 words. And from that simple, short story a mind expanded and wrote beautiful music, and another mind expanded and created a beautiful ballet, and another mind learned how to dance. I think my friend did the same when she wrote her mother's memoirs. One of the stories somehow helped her mother achieve a monumental change in her mental and physical condition to the point that she started moving her hands, talking and may be, even, appreciating life again. Yes, so are you.