Newborn baby dolls are helpful in teaching the newborn's limited capabilities. Talk about how your newborn will be fed. This can be a sensitive area for the older child. Let your child decide which toys she does not want to share with the baby. Respect her need to identify private property.
Many children enjoy becoming more independent in response to a new baby.
This may be a good time to begin an activity such as gymnastics, skating, or a play group that makes the child feel more grown up. You may consider a mother's helper or baby-sitter who will care for your baby while you have time alone with your older child. This information is not a tool for self-diagnosis or a substitute for professional care.