Obviously, our attitudes can sometimes embarrass us without our even realizing it. Sometimes a more subtle approach can open the lines of communication without a lot of bloodshed. Sometimes they come right out with it. Other times they ask around it. Ultimately, how you present yourself and the way you represent the chiropractic profession will not only affect your relationship with that professional, but their opinion of chiropractors in general.
Every relationship is based on honesty and trust.
Many other health care professionals are looking to you with some degree of trained bias. You will need to overcome that bias, and then begin to build a trusting relationship. Ultimately, you must remember who you are talking to and their vantage point. They are usually looking to see if you are a responsible provider, able to work within the system, and capable of presenting the case honestly to all parties involved. Unfortunately, a trusting relationship doesn't happen overnight.