You are the creator of your life by your thoughts and actions. We must stop letting worry control us. Our society has conditioned us to feel guilty. It's a learned emotional response. We have been taught to believe that if you feel guilty, it shows that you're a good person who cares.
Guilt is a neurotic behavior that our society has come to accept as normal.
It has nothing to do with caring. It's pure manipulation to control other people. Since the pain of guilt makes us feel so bad, we will do just about anything to please others so we do not have to feel guilty. By feeling guilty in an attempt to show that we are sorry for our actions and really care, we are in reality simply getting into a very unresourceful state of mind and beating ourselves up in an attempt to change what is now history. The past is a locked door, and whatever occurred cannot be changed.