Some transitions, like puberty and aging, happen gradually. Other transitions, like passing the test for a driver's license, occur in an instant. However, there usually is considerable overlap and see-sawing back and forth between the new and the old. We need to take time to adjust to the new identity offered by change. Each person's progression is unique to individual circumstances and abilities.
Every transition begins with an ending.
Before we embrace the new, we must let go of the old. Once we say goodbye and let go, we may experience a winter-like time. When we allow ourselves to experience our new feelings fully, we move into the springtime of our transition and make a new beginning. Fall transition is a time to break old patterns. At this stage we say farewell to familiar people, places and routines.