To nurture the mystical and build your energy, allow yourself to be filled with a sense of love. This is an ambiguous, unclear answer to dealing with human conflict. In addition, it is far removed from real life. Overcoming conflict biblically involves a decision of the will to deny yourself and seek others' interests before your own. Childhood traumas block our ability to fully experience the mystical.
Interrogators steal it by judging and questioning.
And Poor me's make us feel guilty and responsible for them. Become aware of the family dynamics that created your control drama and you can focus on your essential question, which is how to make of your life a higher-level synthesis of your parents' lives. The language employed by Redfield is an attempt to fuse together current secular pop-psychology with a New Age worldview. Once cleared of traumas, you can build energy through contemplation and meditation , focus on your basic life question, and start riding a steady stream of intuitions, dreams, and synchronistic coincidences, all guiding you in the direction of your own evolution and transformation. One is asked to surrender to the irrational.