These are three very different forms of the same idea. Family is unconditional acceptance . There's nothing you have to do first. It's a given. Even hermits are part of Us.
Family is unity in diversity .
Or sometimes unity in spite of diversity. Somehow, family unites the salesman and the seeker and the sage and the sot and binds them for life. Somehow each such motley crew must find at least a hillock of common ground where they can meet. We were amazed to discover that each one of us had experienced the perfect Christmas. Unity is sometimes enhanced by diversity.