B. Another important factor to be considered is the sin question itself. Perhaps we feel that we aren't all that bad. Maybe we grew up in a godly home with godly parents. Maybe we have just been a pretty good person all our life. C. Finally we must consider 'self'.
Human nature is depraved.
So then they that are in the flesh cannot please God. Specific Answers to a Specific Question. We must be for Him or against Him. There is no middle of the road. Jesus said 'He that is not with me is against me' cf Lk.