Paid personals typically have a higher quality membership of people who are looking to meet someone to date, are hopeful they will find a relationship, and less likely to be people playing games. Matchmaking systems provide you with the most compatible match and quality members to choose from. Most matchmaking systems have questionnaires that provides the most accurate match based on many criteria. In addition, some allow you put your personality into your answers to the essay questions. With Matchmaking systems, you know in advance whether someone has common interests, goals, values, personality traits, habits, and more.
Free classifieds lack the matching questions and essay questions.
The majority of the profiles typically are members ranging from 28-50. If they are a single parent, just don't have the time to go out and meet someone. It is easy to hop on line and search after their kids are in bed. The fact is that YOU are in control of your own destiny. And you have to get out there and meet people.