The same is true of each of the other skills. The other part of preparing for opportunities, is preparing yourself . Force open your eyes. Set some goals. Build a productive mindset.
Every problem has a simple, comfortable solution.
If you're not finding it, it's almost certainly because you're asking the wrong question. It may or may not apply to you or what you're trying to do. That's your decision to make. Don't get trapped in other people's norms and notions. And don't get trapped in your own notions.