All rights reserved. Well, he's wrong.
Humans are a species.
The Human Race is a popular, but misguided, term. A future that lets people date happily across these lines should be manageable without warping the language. On these occasions I would wake to him trying to have sex with my sleeping body. I would come out of sleep frightened and confused, and as I became more lucid I would feel violated and sad. I was disturbed by the thought that he would even want to have sex with me when I wasn't really conscious.