Also the disciples were accepting of Thomas' questioning. They did not put him down. It is OK to ask questions and have doubts. Jesus affirms that this is so. When he appeared in the midst of the disciples in that Upper Room in Jerusalem, Jesus in no way denigrates or belittles Thomas for his questions.
Faith is never afraid of questions.
Thomas also had the courage to look at Jesus with eyes that were willing to affirm the truth of resurrection life. In other words, he could leave his doubts behind and embrace the truth of life in which resurrection is here and hereafter. The challenge for their parents and their godparents as well as the larger Christian community, of which they will be a part, will be to allow them to question and to struggle with their fears. Jesus appeared to Thomas and the other disciples when they were hiding behind locked doors because, resurrection or no resurrection, they were afraid. What is says to me is that the Lord always comes looking for his friends.