We are drawn to legs and breasts and shapely bottoms, and should we fail to notice them, she will point them out for us. Her own body is not perfect. Her chief complaint is that her legs are too short and her bottom too big. But it's those things that melt my heart when I watch her get dressed in the morning. You see, I love women, most of all Elaine.
Lingerie straddles the border between the two realms.
It's often assumed that when a man buys lingerie for a woman, he is giving himself a gift, and there's certainly some truth to that. But lingerie works for women, too. They buy it for themselves and wear it for themselves. It doesn't matter if they're single and not dating or even really looking. Lingerie is powerful stuff.