The sexes say their objective is unity but often they work against their own goal. To be a patriot of your gender is a noble thing. Though we are born into our bodies, we have the choice to be in favor of that which is important to us. To be a patriot requires not only that we are loyal but that we bind together with those who also hold the same beliefs and feelings. Therefore you are part of a team, an elite grouping of people who demand the same respects and dignities.
Feminism is a project.
Being a member of that project makes you directly responsible for the outcome that follows. The female sex is completely responsible for shaping their world, to make it coexist with that of the male sex, and to be responsible for that which falls upon them as an individual. It is also her role and obligation to her gender to take charge of the things, both good and bad, and form them to fit and define feminism. It is arguable that you were born into your sex, and that you have no choice but to defend it. Though it is your responsibility to help further the cause into which you are a patriot by birth, you can sit idle or work in a retrograde fashion, not only moving back the progress of your gender, but redefining the sense of what it is to be that.