The thirteenth question involves marital communication. It's best if a couple can talk openly about problems without fighting or withdrawing. If you always fight rather than talk about problems, then give yourself a 2. If you sometimes fight, give yourself a 0. The fourteenth question deals with happiness.
Feeling fulfilled in marriage is critical.
If you are unhappy in the relationship, give yourself a 3. If you are not consistently happy, give yourself a 0. The fifteenth question deals with sex. Being unsatisfied with frequency or quality can create tension in a marriage. If you are unsatisfied with your sex life, give your marriage a 1.