They're not leathermen. They're big girls in nipple clamps. Or look at the gym. Here's an aspect of gay male culture that is perfectly healthy, even admirable. In general, gay men in their 30s upward are in much better shape than straight men, and that's all to our credit.
Gyms are also great social outlets, flirt parlors, and gossip-shops.
We turn them into manic muscle factories. Not content with a healthily buff physique, the gym boys go roidal, until an arms race has become a pecs race and an everything race, and the parading gym bodies of summer assume a cartoonish, buffoonish similarity. And for the final coup de grace, they shave every inch of themselves. So many aspects of gay life are saturated by gluttony. Too much sex.