Impulsive decision-making that is so characteristic of the adolescent experience. Teens also tend to set priorities on a horizontal rather than a vertical scale. In other words, everything takes on the same significance. A lost history paper is as upsetting as not being able to find that special eye shadow. The team losing a game is as traumatic as losing an important friendship.
High drama is the order of the day when teens are under stress.
But certain things can tip the balance and make normal stress much more serious. This is more likely to occur when adolescents use alcohol or drugs , feel that they lack supportive resources, or when they experience depression , anxiety , or other mental health disorders. Be aware that if your teen is in a bad mood, appears very irritable, or acts anxious or distressed for several weeks, he or she may be experiencing stress. If that is the case, talk to your child. Don't wait for your teen to come to you.