This is repeated until he eventually feels in greater control. One thing that clinicians actively discourage is apologies. Men who are worried about not lasting long enough are often anxious and apologetic during and just after orgasm. This makes their partners more tense and further interferes with their ability to be physically, mentally and emotionally in the love making encounter. What makes sex good in general also makes for good Staying Power.
Good sex is based on good communication between partners.
It is also based on working out issues in the relationship so that emotional pressures do not distract from sex. So, for better Staying Power, don't distract yourself by counting backward from 1000, don't use a desensitizing cream or feel guilty about having an orgasm. Although every effort is made to present accurate information, security is imperfect and unintended errors or mischievous material may be present. Please alert the Webmaster to anything that seems wrong. Of course, while visiting any of our pages, you can be assured of privacy .