My suggestion is to call your local Mental Health Association. They can offer referrals based upon your needs and ability to pay. Now, now, be careful that you don't become turned off by the words mental health. We are all crazy about different things at different levels. Now is the time to put aside what you think and do something.
Every love relationship has difficulties at various levels.
Men and women are different. With so many variables in a relationship, it is a wonder that men and women get along as well as they do. So, if you want to work things out, dump your preconceived ideas about what people will think or what your love partner will think if you choose to pursue therapy on your own. They are going to think whatever they think and there isn't anything that you can do about it. Besides, it doesn't matter what they think.