Ultimately, I discovered friendships can be formed in the most unlikely of places. The snow on the Neushcwanstein castle is breathtaking. No crowds, no waiting, cheap airfares and better service. The roads are in superb condition even through the Alps. There are no tourist crowds.
Hotels are cheaper and easier to book.
I hand-washed clothes to see how long they would take to dry. Before leaving, go to your bank and get an extra check register.