But if you truly want to God will provide the will power for you to do so. I never want to see that creepy person I became when my taker took over. The hard part is we all tend to see the things that others need to change. We believe that we can change them or that they should change overnight. We all know how hard it is if we want to change something in our life, stop smoking, lose weight, etc.
Life is funny.
We all affect every person we come into contact with. If we could all understand that the quickest way to change someone else, is to change one thing that we do. Once that happens, the other person has to change. God is good. Lay your bad habits at His feet and ask the Holy Spirit to be your guide.