This is also referred to as a state of witnessing, where we seem to be involved in our activity and watching ourselves at the same time. It is not uncommon for this to also happen during sleep, when we have the experience that, even though we know we are asleep or dreaming, the presence that never sleeps watches over everything. At this level of consciousness we begin to realize that who we really are, is the role player, the silent witness behind the multitude of role we are constantly playing. Without knowing the context in which Pema Chodron is speaking it is impossible to comment on her statement. We believe there should always be hope and faith.
Evolution is like climbing a mountain.
For some people, the weather seems clear and they have a good indication of the progress they are making. However, many people climb in the clouds, unaware of how far it is to the top. When we are immersed in the clouds, the only thing that keeps us going is hope and determination. We may be just a short distance from the top but, if we give up hope, it means we are turning back and missing life's greatest opportunity. Read the experiences of the great masters, remember your own special experiences and use these to inspire you whenever you feel lost in the clouds.