Every so often, caregivers and parents should review their use of time-outs as a disciplinary tool. During these times, adults should support children by remaining calm and helping the child regain control. Calm talk works better than reasoning when tempers flare. It also helps the child feel better about what has happened. Save reasoning for the calm after the storm.
Many caregivers probably misuse or overuse time-outs.
Caregivers should evaluate their use of this practice regularly and try to adjust their disciplinary methods when it is appropriate. Use time-outs sparingly. When you do use a time-out, do it because you understand the child needs it and not because you are angry. Also be sure the length of the time-out is appropriate and clearly communicated to the child. It hurts other children when they are kicked.