If you think you don t have to bother romancing her anymore now that you re married, you re in for a rude shock. Women love to feel special. Make sure you send her roses and a card at the minimum on her birthday. Think of a different good quality she has everyday, and remind yourself silently just how lucky you are to be married to this wonderful woman. If you have a fight, swallow your pride and try and resolve the issue quickly.
Grudges are like little nails that cause the foundations of a good marriage to rust.
It s been a hard day s work, but here s a little trick. If you know your wife loves to tell you all about her day the moment you step into the house, then pull over by a quiet park on the way home and take a short ten minute stroll. Collect your thoughts and take a few deep breaths. When you feel ok and not so stressed or grouchy, then get back into the car and drive home in a better state of mind. Involve your wife in major family decisions such as buying a car or a house.