If you did not understand or hear the question, say so. Never volunteer information beyond the scope of the question, and never guess. If you use notes to refresh your recollection, be prepared to show your notes to opposing counsel. Unless you are a welfare recipient or have unlimited resources, you need to minimize or eliminate legal fees in connection with divorce. State bar associations maintain lists of attorneys willing to accept cases on a reduced fee or no fee basis.
Eligibility depends on family income.
Volunteer lawyers offer free advice at county probate and family courts. If appropriate, volunteers refer cases to legal aid offices or bar association referral services. You can perform many simple tasks to cut down legal fees. Avoid using your lawyer as psychotherapist. Before calling your lawyer, make a list of discussion items.