This will help your children feel less upset, less confused, and more able to cope with problematic feelings. Sometimes parents become upset with their children and say inappropriate things. Work on self-control when you become upset at a situation. Self-control will help you avoid hurting your child's feelings. You also will be teaching your child to handle being upset in ways that do not hurt others.
Good communication takes time, work, and practice.
Here are some suggestions for talking with your children. Always communicate your support for your children, even when their actions are unacceptable. Communicate your confidence in your children. If you believe in them, they will be more likely to believe in themselves. Give your child lots of praise and encouragement.