If you challenge the routine that is defined for you, expect to be told how important routines are for children. Suddenly, living with your in-laws is not rosy. The urge to question your survival ability without direct supervision will be difficult to control, but you must not reveal your frustration. As I mentioned earlier, if you have children in a setting with multiple families sharing a common residence, expect additional problems. You may even be told that you should designate an occasional Saturday to relax.
Every couple has arguments periodically.
Expect this to occur, recognize when it occurs, and try to remain calm. Most couples engage in intimate activity on a regular basis. Continue to search for a home. Be flexible regarding your needs and desires. Don't make a hasty decision.