Your father is alive. Often whether a relationship suceeds or not depends on your focus. Of course not. Because your other hand is a part of you, too. Taking revenge on the other guy is as self-destructive as slicing your other hand with the knife.
Humanity is one unit.
Taking revenge on the other guy is as self-destructive as slicing your other hand with the knife. This is so important that if we don't realize it on our own, it may take an outside force to make us realize that we are one people. They viewed us as all one people. In marriage and friendship, too, the bond can be strong if we make the effort. This is what the Almighty wants from us.