If you are saying this, it is showing that you have a problem with your own self-respect and you are trying to push the blame off on me. By trying to push the blame off on me, it is showing that you do not wish to be responsible for yourself and your own actions. You have to love and respect yourself before you can love and respect others. Having an abortion is the killing of a human being. Those that do have abortions have a lack of respect for themselves and a respect for life.
Many abortions are because of sex outside of marriage.
That is just one reason that there should not be sex before marriage. If a woman does have an unwanted pregnancy and does not wish to take on the commitment and responsibility of raising the child, the child should be put up for adoption. There are many couples that want to have children but can not do so. If you know of someone that has had an abortion, the following book may be of assistance in dealing with the abortion. Children as they grow up need restrictions as to what they can and can not do.