Many second-time parents will tell you that having another child more than doubles their work, so offer to help with the housework, pick up Junior at preschool, or feed the baby. While you're at it, throw in some coupons from a local video store. Mom and dad won't be making a trip to the cineplex anytime soon, so keep them, and their firstborn, entertained with the latest video release. Enter the doula. Hire one for a few hours or a whole day, and they'll thank you forever.
Doulas can wash the dishes, make dinner, and do the laundry.
Plus they're trained to care for newborns, so they can pitch in with the baby when needed. For more information, visit Doulas of North America . This gift is pricey, especially if you opt for a video camera, so it's best for groups and generous grandparents. Get them started with Welcoming Your Second Baby by Vicki Lansky. Books on sibling rivalry and temperament are also great choices.