Lovers behave as if they have only one mind. Enemies on the other hand behave as if they are of two minds. If we are enemies and we have a Granny Smith apple, one of us might try to gobble it down while the other is not looking. Or, the other being too smart for that, we might just agree to share it by cutting it in half. Then we would both look to see which half was bigger and try to take it.
Enemies behave as if they have two different minds.
There being only so many things around at any one time, they try to acquire as many of them as they can. Life for them is a process of competing and taking. The difference lies in whether or not you understand that relationship, unlike matter, is timeless and spaceless. For instance, if we make a mistake with a loved one, say we are sorry, and he or she forgives us, it can be as if it never happened. Yet materially it did happen.