It's God's way or no way. God is a forgiving God. We don't teach condemnation and neither does God. He is a merciful God and a forgiving God. Guilt is something God us es to convict, to convict those to turn from sin.
Failure is a part of that.
Do not destroy the work of God for the sake of food. A woman in green walks to the podium and begins to speak. She is hesitant, but then the spirit takes over. I have this dress I bought. I was only able to wear it twice before I blew up.