You must choose to believe what you really want. Have the courage to embrace the greatness for which you were born. Don't debate, find what's great. Don't bother arguing or trying to defend yourself when things don't go right. Look for the silver lining in every cloud.
Every adversity contains the seed of at least an equal blessing.
This can be tough to remember in the middle of a storm. But if you waste energy trying to stop the rain, you'll completely miss the rainbow, and maybe not even be around to enjoy the flowers. After falling down, go one more round. If you are not falling down from time to time, you'd better take another look at your goals. You might be living too far within your comfort zone.