Achieving this state takes diligent effort, a commitment to be your best and a strong belief in the benefits of the desired results, both to you and to your love partner. You feel the need to share your personal discovery with anyone who will listen. . . It's like giving away love as fast as you receive it. What you give has a profound effect on what you receive. Putting more love into the relationship, in most cases, will create more love in return.
Love is the answer to all questions.
I have discovered that my universe works best when I acknowledge and am grateful for the Truth of this Divine idea. Egos aside, a common excuse for not going to a professional therapist is money. Some insurance policies will cover part, if not all, of your investment in therapy. Therapy doesn't cost. . . To obtain the rewards of therapy may require sacrifice.