Since dating him, she has become critical of her own appearance, talents or abilities. She makes excuse for his poor behavior She frequently cries or is sad. Why don't we talk about it. Don't push or pry. You don't have control over another person's thoughts and actions.
Fear is one reason the child stays in an abusive relationship.
Let the child know they are loved and supported. Seek help from counselors and individuals dealing in the domestic violence field. Love is a behavior, not a feeling. It is the way a person treats you.