For some strange reason, a few individuals seem to feel the photographer should just do his or her job without their participation or cooperation, as if they are challenging the photographer to make good pictures of their wedding without bothering them. If the photographer has to work hard at coaxing the appropriate expression from a groom who seems determined to remain stone-faced, or has to place everything and everyone on hold while waiting for the bride to pull herself away from a lengthy conversation during the time when pictures have been scheduled, there will be few truly satisfactory pictures. Yet, we have seen it happen, more than once. When the bride and groom provide their full cooperation during a picture-taking session, there is a kind of positive momentum that builds up. One good pose progresses to another.
Enthusiasm sets in, and becomes contagious.
The bridal couple will feel it, and become even more involved in the process, just knowing their pictures are going to be good, and that their attitude and participation are a big part of it. The photographer gets into his or her stride, the bride and groom become relaxed and confident. They look natural and feel good, and the job gets done smoothly and relatively quickly, with outstanding results. A good photographer will capture many moments when you are unaware you are being photographed. However, when being posed, try your best to make the pictures look good, and you will find that they will.