The grueling process of deciding who gets what is first governed by emotion and then by the laws of community property or equitable distribution. There are, however, some exceptions that you should discuss with your lawyer.
Equitable distribution is the law in all other states, and the District of Columbia.
The principles dictate that marital property is divided fairly, although not necessarily equally. Dividing your debts A divorce will force you to do some harsh thinking about paying the bills. When you plan to divide assets, you and your spouse can agree to pay off specific credit card bills with some of your funds, giving you both a much-needed shot at a clean slate. Talk to your lawyer about dividing debts in a manner that considers disparities in income, expenses, and the person responsible for specific debts. Giving up the family abode is a painful thought, but unless you're wealthy, it could be difficult to manage the expense.