It gives Satan an advantage in our lives. Forgiveness costs you, because it bears the penalty of the other s sin against you. Forgiveness is an activity of the will. We cannot wait for a feeling before we forgive. Forgiveness is surrendering my right to hurt you back if you hurt me.
Forgiveness draws out the sting of the bee.
Even though, at this time, you may be unconscious of any unforgiveness, realize God looks upon your heart. B. Ask God, by the Holy Spirit, to search your heart and reveal hidden hurts or resentments that may be buried. C. Confess your sin and ask God to forgive you. You may find it necessary to go to someone to make the forgiveness complete. Forgiveness will cost you your pride.