A man when he is making up to anybody can be cordial and gallant and full of little attentions and altogether charming. But when a man is really in love he can't help looking like a sheep. To love deeply in one direction makes us more loving in all others.
Free love is too expensive.
It must be the foundation, the cornerstone - but not the complete structure. It is much too pliable, too yielding. Great loves too must be endured. Love is the white light of emotion. Earth has enough of bitter in it.