Though we are to honor our parents, we are to serve God first, Patty declares. She sees in the Scriptures that even Jesus family misunderstood his calling and purpose. It s a comfort to know that Jesus identifies with this problem, Patti says. He loved his family but chose to be obedient to his heavenly Father s plan for him. We must do the same.
Good communication is essential to a maturing relationship with parents.
You may think God wants you to go to an event, but he might speak through your parents as well. Don t wait until the last minute to tell your parents that you re going to a major conference or event, cautions Rich Henderson I-V Missions Team Leader and former Area Director. Discuss it with them in advance, and bring them into your decision-making process, Rich suggests. Describe what you re doing with words they can understand. Talk about developing your leadership skills, time management abilities or character development.