It is impossible to win a popularity vote from everyone with whom you interact. Due to varying opinions on how things should be done, you are bound to receive some resistance. You must learn to become effective when delegating for success and never fear the role of leadership. This applies in your personal and professional life. Being an effective leader requires a good balance between giving and taking control, and requires a good command of communication skills.
Leadership is an art as well as a skill, make no mistake about it.
If your demeanor is weak and you come across as being insecure, then you should expect little or no respect from those you are trying to lead. People want to know that those in charge have a good command of things and know just where they're going and how to get there. They respect strong, confident leaders and will respond by giving them the respect they deserve. To avoid complaints and confrontations with family members. They clearly suffer from a fear of delegating duties and taking control.