So please don't go getting so self righteous on me when you have not been there. I have never been verbally or physically abusive to a woman in my life. We are not even married yet, but I want her to have all I have. I just don't think it right a person could change sometime down the road and 'take' whatever they want. It is futile and foolish to say it would never happen to me or I would never do that.
Facts prove otherwise.
People who say they would never do things often do them. Incidentally, it would be heart breaking to lose her in any way. If she died before me, I would surely follow soon after. I can tell you from experience that divorce crushes an individual. It is very personal.