In step 1, she says to stop, put space between you and your child, breathe and count. But even if you do get mad, your anger will not feel out of control, and you'll have a plan for dealing with it. I enjoyed reading Kid Cooperation very much and am happy to have it on my bookshelf. Also, we recommend reading Elizabeth's articles on StorkNet . Of all parenting challenges, discipline is probably at the top of most parents' list.
Every parent wants to raise kids who are responsible and caring people.
Often the only blueprint we have for discipline comes from our own parents, and involves methods such as spanking and shouting, which are neither effective nor respectful to children. I must admit to being somewhat sceptical when I come across claims such as those in this book title. The wonderful thing is that the skills outlined are easy to learn and implement, they actually WORK, and probably most importantly in my opinion, they are kind to and respectful of children. Elizabeth's style is very readable, positive and not at all preachy. She allows you to determine areas needing improvement in a way that leaves you feeling both hopeful and positive.