Your first 12 steps, first 12 words out of your mouth and how your appearance 12 inches from the top of your head on down. Compare this to the life in their steps when they are going out at night or having fun with their friends. The ability to relate to others is invaluable. This gives you the power to make some mistakes and take some risks. Recognize your assets and use these relationships to develop your talent .
Ethics come into play in adult relationships.
The highest level of ethics give priority to what is right for the player. A player has to understand that an adult may be telling them something they don't want to hear. Great coaches excel at telling a player what they don't want to hear, but express themselves in a manner that the athlete understands. Good athletes understand this process and reciprocates. The creates a healthy atmosphere.