As it has been said, life changes dramatically when you marry. They should not forget that under the burdens of home life, tender words of appreciation and courteous acts are even more appreciated than during the courtship. To confirm the message of Elder Critic, many other authorities courtship begins at the time when a person marries. Too many couples have come to the altar of marriage looking upon the marriage ceremony as the end of courtship instead of the beginning of an eternal courtship. It is well to keep in mind that love can be starved to death as literally as the body that receives no sustenance.
Love feeds upon kindness and courtesy.
The wedding ring gives no man the right to be cruel or inconsiderate, and no woman the right to be slovenly, cross, or disagreeable. Many things have yet to be said about what you may discover about your spouse when you marry. If the new bride were to discover that her husband was just an actor before their marriage and now his quest is ended he stands revealed as a cheap counterfeit of his former self either in appearance or conduct, that would indeed be a shocking experience. Evidences and tokens of your love and a daily proof of your unselfishness toward her and your family will make love's flame burn more brightly with the years. Surely the same qualities and traits in you that first attracted him are just as important in married life in keeping alive the flame of his affection and romantic desire.