For years she blamed herself for not being disciplined, not sticking to it as she felt she should. She wanted to do it. Finally, we have given up this blame and guilt. We now agree that I am organized and she is not. We are just different.
Life is like that.
She still has her maniacal frenzies a hundred times a day. I always know where everything is. She still wants to be organized and I still want to teach her, but we have come to accept that it is not likely to happen. I truly do not understand why, except, of course, that we are different. So, she is trying to teach me about chaos.