Their condition is extremely sad. From my vantage point, over the years, as curious, visiting straight lady, I have enjoyed more homosexual confessions on the subject than most priests have. I have always held that the root cause of most of the homosexual disorders I've seen in males is the result of sexual addiction by men unable or unwilling to contract successfully with females. Sex with another man is easier, quicker, and without strings. It requires little seduction, fidelity, bonding, or maintenance.
Lesbians are a whole other matter.
Lesbians have become a subculture of self-loathing, angry societal rejects, which find comfort as extruded victims of the culture's definition of beauty and femininity. Thus, we have two very very unhappy and unsocialized groups of childless activists who work overtime against the majority culture, unraveling our prevailing mores and redefining our norms as aberrant, hateful and evil by definition. I doubt it. Her unfortunate circumstance should not be reason for us to deconstruct societal norms, however. Remember each time a newsroom or police report defines the assailant of a young boy as married, and by inference, heterosexual, they skew the stats and deliver more of our boys to the sickness.