Don't aim too low to achieve what you truly desire in your life. Do your best each day, and never look back. There is nothing wrong with being single. Being alone does not make you a loser. When you least expect it, love will come knocking on your door.
Love requires practice each and every day.
If you can count the number of true friends you have on one hand, you are truly blessed. Ego only gets you into trouble. Find a place and bury it forever. We are all winners. There truly are no losers.