The truth is three out of three. If you believe in it, it works. They have purpose, but they are unplanned. Like dreams, they imply what we infer. Rational wisdom is important.
Intuitive action is essential.
The first step in changing any negative behavior is to deny there's a problem. You need to stop doing what you're doing to find out what you're doing. Transitions are letting go of the past while grabbing at the future. The lessons in life that keep coming back are most important. Dreams are the subconscious mind's way of working through important issues.