It may be that your husband will agree to get some counseling, but he needs to go by himself. This is not a couple problem. It may be there are other couple issues, but until he gets a handle on his abusive behavior, it probably will not be helpful to consult a marriage counselor. Abusers will focus their efforts on making the other spouse look bad in order to convince the counselor that the problems are joint. Some counselors will actually be taken in by an abuser's convincing lies.
Helps explain the different perspectives of the victim and the abuser.
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