Those are the times when you feel most disconnected and at loose ends. During this phase in any relationship an unsuspecting partner may tighten his or her grasp on the object of affection, fearing rejection and abandonment. Possessiveness may only serve to drive a deeper wedge between partners. Each relationship phase has a distinct purpose. The inward phase allows us to return once more to the warm hearth as stronger, wiser people who are more aware of the purpose of our love and lives.
Freedom is the engine that keeps the spark alive.
Forgiveness is the glue that holds any relationship together. Both participants must be totally committed to open, honest communication. Let it go. Forgive your partner for his or her preferences, but don't participate unless you truly feel compatible. All rights reserved.