To know someone here or there with whom you can feel there is understanding in spite of distances or thoughts expressed. That can make life a garden. When a society abandons its ideals just because most people can't live up to them, behavior gets very ugly indeed. Too long a sacrifice Can make a stone of the heart. The truth is, laughter always sounds more perfect than weeping.
Laughter flows in a violent riff and is effortlessly melodic.
Weeping is often fought, choked, half strangled, or surrendered to with humiliation.