When you have to see her, try to distance yourself from the thoughts of what might have been. Deal with her courteously and reasonably, but don't allow her to abuse you anymore. I'd suggest reading The Verbally Abusive Relationship by Patricia Evans, for tips on how to handle the various types of abuse your ex uses. Also, I'd advise consulting an attorney to make sure you know and understand your rights as the biological father of this child. Get the custody issue, living arrangements, support and visitation settled as soon as possible.
Helps explain the different perspectives of the victim and the abuser.
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