Humility must never be imposed on someone. Humility is something we must find or come to in our spiritual lives, of our own free will. Not only will our pride, ego, and selfishness keep us out of heaven, our pride, ego, and selfishness will destroy other people by humiliating them in the here and now. Humiliation is a horrible feeling. It can be devastating and hurt so deeply it can nearly rip out a person's soul.
Humiliation can leave people scarred for life.
People of humility never do anything to humiliate another person. Instead, we are called to build up others, not tear them down. Jesus calls us to go the extra mile with people, to love them, to care about them, to never be critical of them. When we respect someone, we are humble with him or her. When we are humble we do not criticize others or find fault with them.