It definitely helps to know your spouse's style and try not to take pouting personally. If you know your mate needs time to regroup, then find something to do and give him or her some time. When asked about this issue, Lawrenz quoted from a sign that hangs in the waiting room of her office. You can't force it. It's very important to know when you've done your part.
Forgiveness is a process.
Sometimes it comes quickly, sometimes it takes time. And sometimes it even comes before an apology is offered. The bottom line, however, is that you should not have to beg or grovel for mercy if you have responsibly owned up to your failings. God doesn't require it, and spouses shouldn't either. After the waiter took our order, Tom hit us with one more trivia question.