You can tune your budget from there. Learn something from your spending habits, by spending some time tracking your expenses for a few weeks. Cut down expenses by cutting down house helps.
Household is fun when every member of the family is involved in it.
Budget for a fun item, a toy or a vacation for example. You could make impulse buy difficult by leaving credit cards or check books at home. Don't make too many expense categories. Pay off the highest interest rate card. Until your balance is paid off, avoid using credit cards again.