The ability to control bowel movements can only develop after the child has overcome this reflex. The child must be able to sense that a bowel movement is occurring. In most children this usually happens after one year of age. But the final act of this complex learning task will not be accomplished for another year or two. Children should not be rushed to the toilet.
Frantic activity can be a frightening experience for some children.
The speed with which you take your child to the toilet should be similar to the speed with which you do other things with your child. Once your child begins to inform you that he or she has to go, you can begin taking the child to the toilet. Most children will be able to do this when they are two or three years old. Beginning toilet training should be a relaxed affair. Remember if using a potty-chair the chair is on the floor where cold tends to concentrate.