The problem can be easily solved if no marriage commitments have been entered into. However, once we are 'stuck', it may be a little difficult and heart-wrenching to call off the marriage. Most of us will probably keep things inside us and not voice out our opinions to our husband or wife, if you are a guy.
Lack of communications is often a cause of breakdowns in marriages and relationships.
Keeping quiet won't solve problems. It won't make the problems go away or reduce it. A more proactive approach is needed when handling differences between couples. These differences include the level of cleanliness your other half tolerates, the level of urgency about matters etc. However, your partner may feel that it's a waste of time and energy to do so after every use of the kitchen.