When we are right in front of a problem it seems to be enormous, but if we allow a little time into the mix then the problem can be cut down to size. If you are hurting try to help somebody else. When we extend ourselves to help others we can see what we go through in a better way. It is also great to see some good come out of our efforts. The world tells us often to grab for all the pleasure we can, but the truth of life is that happiness is not in that.
Happiness is found in generous care for others.
Get to know the old people down the street - rake their lawns and get to talk to them. They can teach you a lot. We your parents love you. This truth is meant for the ears to hear, the mind to understand, and the emotions and psyche to be bathed in. It has to be shown, not by the giving of things, but rather by the giving of the very self of the parents.