Just as you prune plants in your garden, God prunes attitudes such as stubbornness or impatience out of your life. It may hurt while God is pruning you, but the process is necessary for you to bear fruit. Plants that are common and taken for granted in one part of the world may be rare and highly prized in another. The blessings you take for granted may be considered precious by someone else who doesn't have them-good health or a car, for instance. Considering the perspective of others will help you appreciate what God has given you.
Invasive plants are the bullies of gardens, blocking other plants from growing properly.
Don't let the expectations of others that don't align with God's plan for you bully you. If you break some of gardening's often stringent rules, you'll actually see better growth than if you had followed the customary practices. People can come to Christ in unconventional ways as well, but their experiences are genuine. God isn't nearly as interested in people's methods as He is in their hearts. Certain plants require lots of maintenance to thrive.