There is no judgment. Life is relative. It's no big deal. You do what you feel. You do what you want and at the end of your life your done.
Life just ends.
There's another thing our culture tells is that God's contract really isn't true and there's many different ways to find the same results that you want in your life. And we know by living in this area that there is a huge multiplicity of faiths and opportunities to think about. Culture has a favorite phrase . . . I kinda like it myself . . . I wish it was true . . .