If he's hungry, go cook for him. If he ask you to do something, don't fight about it, just do it. Men need to learn there is more to love then just being with a women and spend all their money on them. Women need to be loved. They need for their man to listen to them, no matter what subject they want to talk about.
Fighting is love worst enemy.
It's like an unwritten rule somewhere that when your in a relationship for a long period of time that you don't have to talk anymore. If something is bothering you, don't sit there and let it keep eating at you. Sit down and talk about it, come up with a solution. Now don't get me wrong, some people do this, they just lose their calm in the middle. If you don't like something your lover is doing, then tell them.