Here are some suggestions on getting the discs spinning and the conversation flowing even when you're not crazy about the selection. This will set an example. Your child may, in turn, ask more thoughtful questions about your music. Asking these questions can also give you a peek into what circles your child is moving in and what interests her. It could be something as silly as the Macarena dance craze or as important as the political issues that bands like Fugazi sing about.
Love songs are good examples.
Your favorite James Taylor song may have a lot in common with a Korn song your kids enjoy even though it sounds a little different. It can give us peace, energize us, and remind us. Music videos have added a visual element someone else's interpretation of how the song makes him feel. Asking kids to critique music videos helps them to think about what they are seeing and question other people s interpretations. Have it loud enough to hear, but quiet enough so you can hear each other.