If you are lucky, other guys will have read the same thing and decided to show up anyway. I'm new to this. Please provide some basics about cruising for sex with a guy. I don't pretend to be an authority about cruising. The key to successful cruising is learning how to deal with your fears.
Fear is a good thing.
It often is a way the brain tells us to be very careful of something or someone that might hurt us. Men get bashed or arrested everyday while cruising for sex. Finding the balance is the key and that takes experience. It might be helpful to know that most of the men you encounter in a theatre, park or toilet are likely as apprehensive as you are. If they stroke their cock in response that is a clear signal.