Tell the child that he or she is not to blame for the sexual abuse. Most children in attempting to make sense out of the abuse will believe that somehow they caused it or may even view it as a form of punishment for imagined or real wrongdoing. Finally, offer the child protection, and promise that you will promptly take steps to see that the abuse stops. If the abuse is within the family, report it to the local Child Protection Agency. If the abuse is outside of the family, report it to the police or district attorney's office.
Individuals reporting in good faith are immune from prosecution.
The agency receiving the report will conduct an evaluation and will take action to protect the child. Parents should consult with their pediatrician or family physician, who may refer them to a physician who specializes in evaluating and treating sexual abuse. The examining doctor will evaluate the child's condition and treat any physical problem related to the abuse, gather evidence to help protect the child, and reassure the child that he or she is all right. Usually, the child should also have a psychiatric evaluation to find out how the sexual abuse has affected him or her, and to determine whether ongoing professional help is necessary for the child to deal with the trauma of abuse. The child and adolescent psychiatrist can also provide support to other family members who may be upset by the abuse.