They have the hormones, the surgery and the belief, but their voice and architecture give the away every time. As a man. I have been fortunate enough to have the choice, but having made it must stop rethinking it. It is not unlike a marriage vow or a moral code that one imposes upon oneself. Sure, we all can change.
Divorces happen, people violate their most deeply held convictions every day.
It only becomes a problem when you refuse to make a commitment at all because of the possibility of eventual change that you get stuck in the loop and keep on making progress without ever arriving. This is all well and good, yet is logic only. As my deadlines passed, first Dramatica, then anniversary, I saw my feelings change. For my career, I no longer craved the fame and fortune, the acclaim and awe. They are no longer the purpose to which I strive in my work.