I expect you to put forth a good faith effort. Any critical understanding of these various -isms means that we need to recognize that we have been taught misinformation about our own group as well as about members of other groups. Based on this assumption then, let's agree that we cannot be blamed for misinformation we have learned, but we should take personal responsibility for repeating misinformation once we have learned otherwise. This is not to suggest that any one person has a corner on truth or that disagreement with any one idea carries with it any kind of punitive response. People and groups, however, are not to be blamed for their subordinated positions.
Lets assume that people are always doing the best they can.
Let's actively pursue information about our own groups and those of others. Let us share information about our own groups with other participants in the workshop but never demean, devalue, or in any way put down people. Essentially, what this means is that we can talk abou t any ideas the workshop agrees to discuss, but that we will do so with respect for each other as human beings. We will not engage in depersonalized name-calling. We each have an obligation to actively combat the myths and stereotypes about our own groups and other groups so that we can break down the barriers which prohibit inter-group cooperation and gain.