And, there's a greater likelihood of being disappointed when you do finally meet. In your search to connect with that special someone, you like most of us, had hidden deep inside of you that flame or, at the very least, a flicker of hope, that this date with this woman would be your last first date. I'm sorry that it didn't happen for you this time. But stay open because maybe your next date will be the one. Don't confuse chemistry and infatuation.
Infatuation can happen by seeing a picture, reading an email, hearing a voice or in person.
It doesn't matter how many levels you connect on, chemistry only happens when you're up close and personal. Don't give up on love. In Love, S hari Dear Shari I started dating a guy about a month ago. I stated that all things take time and in time I will realize if we have something more than friendship or if something more than friendship is possible. He said that he couldn't see himself getting into a serious, long-term relationship with anyone.