We are so often wrong when we think ill of them. If we dislike someone, we feel inclined to judge them more harshly than others. If God were our main interest, we would never think ill of anyone, even those who really offend us. How often we are aroused against our neighbors because, knowingly or unknowingly, they have opposed our pride or selfishness in some way. We should not expect everyone to see things our way.
Every person is different and each one has their own tastes and experiences.
So often God excuses all those whom we condemn. One of our worst faults is that of condemning our neighbors. This is the reason that Jesus taught us the doctrine of charity. As we judge our neighbors, so will we be judged by God. If we condemn our neighbors, we too will be condemned.