Lifelong commitment Reggie and Sara, who have been married 14 years, admit to their share of bumps in the marriage. There were times that I'm sure she wanted to leave, and I wanted to leave her. I just can't see a perfect couple not having a disagreement, not having problems. Communication, she says, is key to a successful marriage-and to parenting. When a child is upstairs in his room and you are downstairs, that's not communicating.
Kids open up that way.
No backing down Reggie says that despite the problems he's faced since that speech in Wisconsin, he will continue to speak out. The Bible constantly says that we should rejoice in suffering that comes against us. I understand that if I'm not stirring the pot up, if people are not mad at me because of the way I live and the things I say, that means I'm doing something wrong. Tom Neven is editor of Focus on the Family magazine. He happens to be a Denver Broncos fan.