Many feel guilty believing that they did something to cause the death. Still, other children complain they are sick or have stomach aches. Time and understanding will help children. Be available to listen. Have an object that reminds them of the person they lost.
Many children worry about forgetting.
Carrying a picture or other special reminder can help. Extreme behavior may be a cry for help. Talk to a counselor if a child's behavior worries you. Adults may worry about taking children to funerals, wakes and memorial services. Actually, rituals can help children cope with death, just as they help adults.