On the contrary, pretending it did not happen will worsen the problem for many years to come. In deciding what counsellor to use, look for someone who is experienced in cases of sexual abuse. Find a counsellor you are comfortable with and don't be afraid to change counsellors if it is not working out. Treatment usually focuses on empowering victims and helping them realize that the abuse was not their fault. This will hopefully relieve the guilt that most victims feel.
Group therapy is a common method of treatment for teenagers and adults.
It offers the victims the chance to discuss their problems with people who have experienced similar abuse, and allows an atmosphere where blame does not exist. Such treatment also can help to relieve feelings of isolation. There are things that a parent can tell a child that may lessen the risk of being sexually abused. Simply warning your children not to talk to strangers is not good enough considering the fact that children are in more danger of being abused by someone they know. One of the first things a parent should do is to ensure that their children know that they can talk to the parent about anything, and that the parent will believe them.