The main public ref is an unrated ref for persons over the age of 18. Although there MAY be some nudity in this ref, persons badgering for others to show will immediately be escorted out. Most adult activity takes place in the private member's refs. Members can geek you, and you can see it, but non members can not geek back. This is to protect the sanity of the ladies in the ref.
Ladies rule, and men obey.