We also constantly hear about pain with first-time sex. There is a range of experiences. By the third time, I was enjoying sex. The key to good first-time sex is communication, Elizabeth advises. Couples must communicate their needs to each other how it feels, does it hurt, etc.
Good sex is when both parties enjoy it.
Kavita feels that sex really starts in the mind. My husband was very patient. He spent a long time turning me on. He also mentally aroused me with verbal foreplay. The right dressing Signal your partner that sex is on the agenda.