For a child's emotional security, it is important that the children feel they have two parents who love them and are interested in their well-being.
Evidence shows that children tend to do best when they have ongoing contact with both parents.
Protect them from physical and mental harm. Assure that they receive adequate health care. Teach them values and respect for the person and property of others. Encourage them to be good students. Working out a plan that gives the children enough time to be cared for by both parties.