People already have all the resources they need in order to effect a change. They just have to utilize what they already got in a different way in order to get what they want. The ingredients are within us, but we may need to change the recipe we follow or learn new ones. Behind every behavior is a positive intention. People always, consciously or unconsciously, expect some sort of positive response to or result of their behavior.
Every behavior has value in some context.
Many behaviors once were useful but our brains may have failed to recognize that reality have changed. Other behaviors are still useful, but not at the time and place we use them. Behaviors does not appear from nothing. There is no such thing as failure. There is only feedback.