Many BP s are very good at creating crazy making and chaos . They can often talk circles around you and make you think you are the one who s controlling, unreasonable, selfish, or a myriad of other things that you are not. Hang on to your own reality. You can find others who ve shared these experiences or many like them on our mailing list . For more information on boundaries, go to our Partners page and read some web pages, or read some of the recommended books about boundaries.
Life is a Cycle of learning and growth.
You get to choose for you. Follow the link if you want some exercises to see if you have unhealthy boundaries and to test your knowledge of boundaries in various situations. Learn to set healthy boundaries . One of the most effective ways to learn about boundaries is in counseling. It is NOT meant to replace professional advice or take the place of counseling, therapy or additional personal research.