Marcus Antonius Appearance You and I do not see things as they are. We see things as we are. It is one of the most beautiful compensations of this life that no man can sincerely try to help another without helping himself. If we don't change, we don't grow. If we don't grow we are not really living.
Growth demands a temporary surrender of security.
It may mean a giving up of familiar but limiting patterns, safe but unrewarding work, values no longer believed in relationships that have lost their meaning. The real fear should be of the opposite course. Gail Sheehy Honesty Do not do what you would undo if caught. Our hopes are but memories reversed. Basically, the word means wholeness.