Now I realize that they are completely seperate entities, with totally different personalities and I love them for who they are in their own very special way. Love for your children is boundless, if I have 10 I would love them all equally in 10 different ways. I do try to enforce in them that they are sisters and will always have each other when their father and I are no longer here or friends are not around. I wonder why I keep the career focus going. As a mother of three grown children, having read most of the answers written about by mothers who are in the midst of raising their children, may my answer to this question give encouragement and hope.
Life certainly does change with a second child there is no doubt.
Enjoy every day and please KNOW that they will pass so quickly and you will not even remember how hectic it was. You will only remember the most precious moments, the good times and the times of love and fun. So, love your children every moment - each one of them individually and during together times as well. Truly our lives are but a vapor, as you will see. I never thought i could love another child as much as my first,my son.