It's an awful risky thing to live. Rogers Grief is intense emotional suffering caused by loss. It is a deep sadness and or an acute sorrow. Loss results when a child's basic needs are not met. Loss results when one is or when one feels neglected and or not cared about.
Loss results from a wide-variety of experiences.
Loss, in life, is inevitable. Learning to cope appropriately with loss is a major part of recovery. If you are dissociated from your grief many of life's average situations and interactions will set off pain and distress inside of you. You may or may not understand and be aware of the connections. Remaining dissociated from your grief serves to increase your pain because so much of the behaviour and the resulting distorted thoughts govern the patterns that emerge from these efforts to protect and avoid the pain of your loss or losses.