Some people use this time to finish thinking about what's been happening at work and to shift gears and make plans for responsibilities at home. When they get home, they are mentally organized to get started. Others use commuting time to listen to music or read a book. This time can be devoted to a pleasant activity without feeling guilty about home or work demands. Helping Each Other It is important for couples to help one another make the transition from work to home.
Good communication is important between couples about what needs to be done and who needs to do it.
There are no hard and fast rules about who and what should be done. An open discussion will help each spouse understand the other person's roles and feelings. Children can also be given tasks that will help the family accomplish what needs to be done in a relatively short time. This sharing of tasks not only teaches children responsibility but also gives them a sense of belonging. Small children are often tired when they get home.