Even though it is often expensive, time consuming and painful, it's still too easy to get divorced. Unless there are compelling reasons to immediately remove yourself from a relationship such as personal safety or the safety of the children, try everything you can think of to salvage your marriage. Your marriage is not disposable but if it must end, it deserves a respectful and dignified termination. Respect and dignity may be hard to come by during divorce. Preserving your marriage may be less painful than dissolving it.
Divorce takes time.
The amount of time it will take is directly proportionate to the length of your marriage and the amount of your material accumulations. When children are involved, divorce usually takes longer and costs more in legal fees and emotions. Let your case run its course. You can't rush love and you can't rush divorce. Divorce is stressful and it hurts even the strongest among us.