Let me know if I've jumped the track again. I often pick a theory based on the opposite of how a person routinely organizes zirself. That is, if someone's very aware of zir feelings, I'll talk Ellis or Beck and demonstrate how getting into their head can impact zir feeling state. If zie's very heady, I'll do a Perls thing and get zir into the body and feelings. There's no point in treading ground already trodden to death.
Feelings are a no-no, and thoughts are too nebulous to understand.
A wedge, a foot in the door. Well, we finally got too long for my e-mail system. I hit my own impasse with the computer, and it wouldn't let me write anymore until I cut the last part of this off and pasted it in a new message. So, part 2 is coming up. E-mail Tina .