The person may have lied because of momentary pressure or fear of man. Unless it is established by witnesses or confession that he has made a practice of flagrant, malicious lying, the elders would endeavor to readjust the person through loving Scriptural admonition without holding a judicial hearing. If there is a question about the mental state of a baptized individual who commits some deed for which he might be disfellowshipped, a judicial committee should consider the facts of the case. Weigh the evidence along with the extent of mental incompetence, and then decide whether some announcement should be made or whether disfellowshipping should occur. Although there may be a basis for showing more than ordinary consideration and patience, the elders must protect the cleanness and spiritual well-being of the congregation.
Engagement is a serious commitment and is normally a personal matter.
However, unilaterally breaking an engagement may require inquiry if the one doing so has an organizational position of responsibility. Marrying an unbeliever is contrary to Bible principles. If a dedicated, baptized Christian marries an unbeliever, this would result in disqualification from all special privileges for the time being. If the parent is an elder, a ministerial servant, or a pioneer and encourages, allows, or gives tacit approval to the marriage, this raises questions regarding his or her qualifications. Use of the Kingdom Hall must be in harmony with God's standards.