1 One of women s chief complaints is that men run from commitment. There is some truth to that, because I mentioned the C word to a group of guys at a party a few months back, and they all groaned and rolled their eyes.
Guys know when that conversation is coming, and they dread it.
However, in fairness to the men, I do meet men often that are looking for a committed relationship with all their heart. One 36 year old put it beautifully. He started off by complaining that to many people, there was only surface commitment, sometimes based on nothing more than sexual exclusivity for a minute nothing of any real depth. To him, a commitment meant a lifelong understanding, love, respect, and communication you invest in each other economically, emotionally, and spiritually, and grow together as human beings. I m here for you baby love.