The law of love will not do anything that will hurt the other person. Some people think that we can't love others unless we love ourselves first. The problem is that we already love ourselves so much that we think we should always get what we want, when we want it and that the other person is responsible for giving it to us. The only way to overcome our selfish ways is to learn to love ourselves in the same way that God does. Once we learn to love as God does, we will have something really great to give others.
Mankind is very hung up on self right now.
We still make excuses for our behavior and try to pretend we have something that we don't. But if you bite and devour one another, beware lest you be consumed by one another. Those words are often used like a band aid and have lost their meaning. It takes time to do the little things other people need. If we are always too busy to feed our kids or change their diapers, it means we don't love them.