I knew Pain. No apology, no remorse from me will bring his birth back. I even thought in the months before the homebirth of my seventh that I could somehow give birth to Henry again. There is no going back. He didn't even wake up for the birth.
Every baby has only one chance to be born.
Women, stay home to give birth. Know that you are safest where no one is waiting to cut you or drug you. Learn all you can about the true nature of childbirth, and how unproven and dangerous the typical hospital birth really is. Midwives- help women give birth in ways that celebrate sanctity and intactness. Trust in birth- as spirit, as life force, as biological obviousness.