Babies soon turn into children, who turn into adults. Infant care work is available. Being a mother is a woman's highest calling. Beguiled into believing compliance is noble free choice. Motherhood, and fatherhood, may be achieved without breeding.
Many children wait for good homes.
My child could find a way to save the world. If you want something done right, do it yourself. Gender identity insecurity. Dissatisfaction with existing offspring. Appreciate who you have, they might resent their sibling whose gender is preferred.