They will not demand responses from the congregation which are inappropriate and create stress for individual participants. As for any ministry, it is not good enough to enlist the keen but ungifted. They will be a distraction and often an embarrassment. So often it appears that there has been no real communication with the ordinary folks who turn up week by week. If there is upset or unhappiness, it is time for a yarn.
Great leadership is marked by great openness.
This does not meant that you can meet all needs but there is a much greater tolerance when people feel that they have been genuinely listened to. Yes, there should be. No good purpose is served by backing off into our musical corners. Let us reach for fresh ways of accepting each other and being especially sensitive to those differing needs which are inherent in every congregation. Well, let us incarnate our words in everything, including our music.