All team members must be on the same wavelength. Parents must make every effort to help build that team effort. They should also know what they must do if that effort is not forthcoming. Always keep in mind that the spirit of the law is just as important as the letter of the law, and your child is entitled to a free, appropriate, public education. Every child is special.
Every child has unique gifts and talents.
Every child is entitled to reach his or her full potential. You, as the parent, are to be regarded as the expert on your child. You should be treated as a valued member of the education team. Here are some of the terms you'll need to understand to be a better advocate for your child. You also must start keeping excellent documentation of everything that transpires.