The catch, of course, is that you have to know what you're aiming for or at. Once, a few years ago, I asked a roomful of people to say what love is, in the hope of zeroing in on it. Love is a giving and a sharing. Love is a connectedness, and a communing. Love is open and accepting and non-judgmental.
Love is strong and tender and warm.
When love is there, life is lifted up into a realm that transcends the ordinary. Love gives a sense of meaning to life. Love makes everything possible. Love is all you need. Wherever love exists we feel safe, nurtured and ourselves.