If so, you have to strive to be of good character, honest, loyal, trustworthy and a good communicator long before you get married and then continuing into marriage. It is too much to expect all these qualities to appear overnight. Also, carefully consider, with advice from those close to you and whose own marriages you respect, whether this person is really suited for you and you for him or her. There is no replacement for time spent together in different circumstances. Doubts or areas of concern which must be faced will not come to light over candle-lit dinners alone.
Honest communication is very important.
To rush into marriage without careful forethought is a huge gamble - it may pay off for some, but for others it does not. In a world where extended families and communities are separated, it can be difficult to meet the right person. What is most important is to be living a positive life with a wide group of friends. However, do not deceive one another. This is the harsh reality of many modern marriages.