Visit classrooms to observe children's behavior, and interaction with teacher and other students. Middle school Attend parent orientation night to learn how middle school procedures differ from elementary school and what's expected of the children. Go to as many school activities as possible. Ask children open-ended questions about their day at school. This is the time when parents must rely on them for much of the school information.
High school Get to know as many teachers and other school personnel as possible.
Make an effort to get involved by supporting children's extracurricular activities. For example, be a band parent or cheerleader booster. Read the school's newspaper so to be aware of the issues that are important to the children. Continue to communicate with children about school. Support children's efforts to handle school problems as they arise.