They don't want to be held accountable for their failures. I feel this way because I've seen too many good people get too much dumped on them. Finally the will to live snaps. But for the strong, who've held out, and finally their cup was full - for them no penalty. The power of prayer is something that most people don't realize.
Invisible agencies are always ready to respond to a sincere cry for help.
I feel that's the reason the other side condems suicide. They don't want to be held accountable for their failures. It's easy to blame someone else I suppose, but I believe in personal responsibilty. I would never blame my Spirit Guardians for my failures or God for that matter. Depending on the level of spiritual level the person is at, then he will see any obstacles in a different and clearer light.