Men are responsible for farming, working the plows, and carrying rice bundles after the harvest. The household duties are assigned exclusively to women. A person's rank is primarily determined by his ancestral heritage. The family structure is headed by a male. The wife and children must show respect for the head of the household while they are in public.
Final decisions concerning the family are always the husband's responsibility.
Communication between the prospective bride and groom is strictly prohibited. The Makassarese work alongside their neighbors in matters of mutual concern, such as building houses and working in the rice fields. They also get together for times of celebration, such as birthdays and weddings. Special ceremonies are held at the beginning of planting and harvest seasons. During such ceremonies, the spirits of the deceased are honored.