You'll feel better. However, the ADDer has developed a system or strategy to overcome this sensory block and is able to proceed via implementation of the correct solution. It is a natural skill developed from knowing who you are and feeling totally comfortable with yourself. When you are compassionate, you understand, feel and exude emotions of what the ADDer is going through in their life. ADDer's have of themselves.
Many ADDers have a low self-esteem from years of being told theywere underachievers.
Always use positive communications with an ADDer,they love it and are unaccustomed to it. The CAN'T is a physical or neurological handicap that unfortunately produces the can't. WON'T is the defeatist attitude that the ADD individual has convinced themselves they are incapable of accomplishing a specific task or activity. They don't allow themselves to think about the possibility of success and assimilate won't into their everyday vocabulary. The challenge for the ADD coach is to find out what the ADD client CAN'T, so time and effort are not wasted trying to develop systems that will never be utilized.