Here's some advice that should help when asking the young ladies out.
Girls have no particular use for 'sissies' and they are quick to scent the sham of the pretender.
Their natural intuition guides them in their admiration or dislike for others, to such an extent that any boy should feel honored if he has gained the respect and friendship of a nice girl. There are many ways, son, to gain and hold their friendship. Handsome is as handsome does,' you know, and ten to one it's what the boy does that makes the impression. If you expect people to like you, above all be genuine, be yourself, and don't pose in imitation of others. Remember, son, a gentleman can have as much fun as the next fellow.