Choose better not worse. A life that isn't changing and growing is not the kind of person you want to spend a lifetime with. Often it's hard to overlook the physical changes that occur over the years - the lovehandles that aren't lovely and the receding hairlines. Temper the better with the worse. Choose to speak and not to speak.
Good communication is a necessity and a rarity in most marriages.
It won't happen by itself. Communication skills must be cultivated, in both spouses, in order to bring your marriage closer. Choose to Make your house a home. When one person is overly burdened with the task, there is a lack of joy for the whole family. Couples need to pray for and look to God for ways to partner in the daily routines of the home.