Your dog will be trained to behave well and respond to several commands, and when you pick him up we'll show you how to transfer the authority from us to you. If you need more personal attention or have special training needs, private sessions offer concentrated lessons to fit your schedule. You can't change this nor would you want to. This very trait is what endears dogs to humans. It makes them actively seek human companionship, and makes them dependent and responsive to us, as opposed to being solitary animals like cats.
Every pack has one leader.
I very, very strongly suggest that the one who pays for the dog food, rather than the one who eats it, should be in charge.