As I allow myself to look, it becomes clearer to me. I really can trip over my beliefs and judgments. It's incredible how I could end up going down paths I never intended to walk. I always thought I had to be careful and weigh everything . . . Yet, it is the very same judgments that seem to cause the problems and confuse the issues.
Judgments are beliefs.
Perhaps, the most significant was that I am not giving enough . . . All these judgments are either about material issues or about the quality of loving and feelings. As I look at it, it's amazing how material assessments come so fast and furiously. The woman who feels she is not living the life-style her mate had promised. I've met her.