Read the classics. In matters of love, loyalty and consistency matters to you. This is a good start. There is more. Work to create a healthy place for romance and sex.
Energy is restrained.
Reality is what matters to you. You know how to control your power and marshall your forces. When necessary, you can be strongly enduring. You assert yourself and go after what you want in somewhat conservative fashion. The more you become self-sufficient and learn to think for yourself, the easier your life will become.