You have enough clothes. Anything you wear is fine. Shopping is not everybody's idea of a good time. It's like the full moon or the changing of the tides. Let it be.
Dogs are better than cats.
Get rid of your cat. And no, it's not different, its just like every other cat. Sometimes, he's not thinking about you. Live with it. If you ask a question you don't want an answer to, expect an answer you don't want to hear.