The former leader and the new leader couldn't really speak to each other. They were polite, but in reality they were more like enemies. He said that the atmosphere was very tense. Their words and behavior were contradictory. We call ourselves a family.
Ideal children feel and share their parents' joy and sadness.
If they don't share their parents' heart, they cannot be called good children. This is essential. For instance, if a brother is sad and we aren't concerned or don't take care of him, we cannot consider ourselves his brothers and sisters. We should share our feelings of joy and sadness. Then we can call ourselves a family.