I was literally shocked to find out this was not the case. And afterwards, I couldn't help but feeling like a complete idiot for thinking otherwise. But I refused to listen. Again, speaking from experience, an affair is not worth it. Way too many people get hurt.
Love is meant to heal.
Love is meant to renew. Love is meant to oust all fear. Love is meant to harmonize differences. Love is meant to bring us closer to God. I think my H had a problem with immaturity.