I for one, could never come to see the logic nor the rationale that that which I believe is somehow diminished by the beliefs of others. My faith in the ideals I hold is not threatened by another's differing viewpoints, though I may passionately disagree. Disagreement brings discourse and debate. From that, we learn from one another. In these modern times, we grown away from talk with each other.
Fear brings hatred, intolerance and, often, hostile reaction.
From those who support civil rights for same gender civil union, I heard only love, kindness and compassion coming forth. I cannot say as much for many on the other side of the divide. I believe that is an important question people need to ask themselves. To them I would offer, look inside. There is nothing to fear from the Ides of March.