Clearly you are not competent to educate your own children. We must dictate to you when, where and how long your children need to go to school. In addition, we are also going to decide who is going to teach them and what they are to be taught. There are many other ways in which the government subtly shows its contempt for the average citizen. I'm sure that you could come up with dozens of examples of your own.
Individuals become demoralized and no longer trust their own capacity to govern themselves.
If we can not trust ourselves, we certainly will not trust our neighbors. This sows division and mistrust within our society. We lobby the government to take from someone else and give to us while others lobby the government to take from us and give to themselves. This breeds envy and resentment, which makes a community of compassionate people impossible. As the government assumes the role of the family and community, families and communities shrivel up and become shells of their proper selves.