It's easy to do if you actively listen and are sensitive to others. This is important because we all come from different experiences. Generalizations may make others feel excluded or misrepresented. The option to participate in an activity or discussion is up to each participant. You can choose to pass if you would like.
Identity is self-defined.
You don't know how a person identifies until they tell you themselves. No cross-talking or Disruptions Interact with the group and actively listen to others while they are talking. Talking while someone else is talking and others are listening is disruptive to the group. If you need to talk to an individual during group, wait until there is a break or if necessary leave the room to talk. Additionally, no happy hooking, which is leading the group off topic, on tangents, or to more exciting subjects that are not related to the topic being discussed.