I can't give you specific advice about what's available in your area, but I will give you some general advice that other parents in similar situations can also use. I would first ask all the professionals who are now involved with your son to meet to discuss their treatment of him, and to work together to create a better treatment plan. I would like to know if he's exhibiting the same patterns in school. If he's not, then find out what the school has been doing to help him have more self-control and fewer outbursts. It may be that structure and clear expectations are helping him during the day, but he may be falling apart at home.
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Use these tips and resources . Medications Learn more about treatment for ADHD . If that's the case, you should ask the school or your health plan to send a behavioral specialist into your home to observe the interaction between you and your son, and give you practical advice and support to help you deal with this behavior. If your son is acting this way at school and at home, then he probably needs more help than he's getting. It may be that more frequent therapy is indicated.