Ten Rules for Caregivers Choose to maintain charge of own your life. Don't let your loved one's illness or disability always take center stage. Educate yourself about your loved one's condition.
Information is empowering.
Trust your instincts. Most of the time they'll lead you in the right direction. Remember to be good to yourself. Love, honor and value yourself. You're doing a very hard job and you deserve some quality time, just for you.