So forget your lofty ideals and come back to earth. Love cannot live on caviar alone. There is a restaurant rationale for each stage of a relationship, and singles and marrieds will tell you, never underestimate the power of the cheap date. Pre-date You may be traveling with a pack since there's safety in numbers. You need a non-commital place where you can nibble on inexpensive pupu and maybe have dinner if you're comfortable.
Loud music is a plus because it minimizes the necessity for discussions on the meaning of life.
Fast service, easy exit. Ryan's Grill, Ocean Club, Gordon Biersch. First date Gotta be the movies. You'll dine on hot dogs and oil-drenched popcorn, but it's a fair exchange for two hours without conversation. The challenge comes afterward when you have a little chat over dessert and coffee.