When you are behaving as if you injure someone you dislike, you will find yourself disliking him more. If you do him a good turn, you will find yourself disliking him less. There is however one exception. But whenever we do good to another just because he is made like us by God, and desir- ing his happiness as we desire ours, we shall have learned to love him a little more or at least to dislike him less. We don't like to be bothered or interrupted.
Love is both.
It is a bother and a major interruption. Just take a look at the cross. Some of love's greatest opportunities come at the the most inconvenient times. Rather than being insensitive during these occasions, we must be alert to their occurences and stand ready as God's ministers of love. Love It costs nothing but creates much.