By the time the grandchildren arrive, we figure we should have just about got it right. There is only a difference in personalities. It is a myth that parents are responsible for how their kids turn out. In our Chinese tradition, family unity is very important. Hong Kong has such 'hustle and bustle' that people find it hard to strike a balance between work and family life.
Few parents have enough time for their children.
Hong Kong's uncertain political future makes them worry a lot, and their plans and expectations for their children do not always facilitate mutual understanding. The education system in Hong Kong is extremely competitive. Inside many young people's hearts lie fears and doubts. They aren't sure what they are chasing, or what their future will be. As 1997 approaches, even kids say they are afraid of political changes.