If so, you might want to explore the reason for being so. If you are not desperate, then why are you even considering either one of these guys. The second issue concerns loyalties. You have two friends here. Your roommate and the guy who is away for the summer.
Friends are hard to come-by.
Romances, especially at age 21, come and go. Friends often last a lifetime. Best Good Fair Poor Dr. Edward A. Dreyfus is a Clinical Psychologist, Marriage, Family, Child Therapist, and Sex Therapist. Dr. Dreyfus has been providing psychological services in the Los Angeles-Santa Monica area for over 30 years. He offers individual psychotherapy to adolescents and adults, divorce mediation, couples counseling, group therapy, and career and vocational counseling and assessment.