God may be putting the relationship to the test so that you are convinced that you are related to a person who not only wants privileges, but who is willing to take responsibility. Responsibility in love calls for commitment. A couple must be committed to Jesus Christ and to each other and to the fact that they will not consider divorce a live option. Otherwise, they will bail out when problems come. But if they do not recognize divorce as an alternative, they will work out their problems.
Magnetism develops in love.
Two people who are really in love do not weary each other. But one of the most depressing scenes I know is to watch a couple go into marriage so excited about each other, and within six months, or six years, they can hardly stand to be together. In a real love relationship, you cannot be away from your partner for long periods of time without feeling that there is something missing. But there must be balance. A mature relationship can sustain separation.