No, as far as we are concerned, there is no conflict between The Rules and feminism. Rules girls can be feminists. We are feminists. We believe in and are grateful for the advances women have made in the last century. All women have different definitions of feminism, but to us, it is about getting equal pay for equal work.
Feminism is also about women believing in their own importance.
It is about being fulfilled by our jobs, our hobbies, our friendships. But with all due respect, feminism has nor changed men or the nature of romantic relationships. Like it or not, men are emotionally and romantically different from women. Men are biologically the aggressor. Men who respond to The Rules are not sick or stupid, but quite normal and healthy.