As for Playboy, it's harmless, an aid to masturbation, and you shouldn't deny that to him. Be attractive in the best way you can, and that is to be his partner, his soul mate, the mother of his child. Make sure he gets plenty of time with the baby, that he developes some skill in handling her and caring for her, that he feels essential, which he is. Tell him how you feel and let him reassure you that he loves you. I hope he does a good job.
Every mother feels unattractive and every father feels useless.
So help each other. Searching for the Tooth Fairy Dear Searching, You don't get much time in her chair to start a conversation and establish a connection, and most of that time she has her fingers in your mouth. I guess you'll have to write her a note and leave it propped on the instrument tray. But be sure to floss regularly. And make it a good sonnet.