For the sake of the children, it is wise to have a good divorce . My wife and I are divorced and she is moving to another state. My daughter's new stepmother is a witch. My husband's new lover says awful things about me and is trying to turn my children against me. I love them so much.
Divorce is usually an agonizing experience.
Til death do us part is the marriage vow that is so painful to break. Few of us enter marriage with the idea that one day we will become a divorce statistic. Leaving your hopes and dreams behind, especially when children are involved can feel like a knife in your heart. Unlike mourning a death, you don't wear black, there are no traditions to help you and few external symbols to tell the world of the internal suffering you may be going through. When children are part of the picture, parents are often heartbroken or racked with guilt.