The female must never let the male know whether or not she wants him to be angry or upset. If the female has PMS, there are no rules. You shut the door. Go for younger men. Best way to get a man to do something, is to suggest they are too old for it.
Love is blind, but marriage is a real eye-opener.
If you want a committed man, look in a mental hospital. The children of Israel wandered around the desert for 40 years. Even in biblical times, men wouldn't ask for directions. If he asks what sort of books you're interested in, tell him checkbooks. President now shouts entire State of the Union address with his face 18 inches from TV camera.