That's why it is so critical that we understand what's occurring. The difference is that now we're pilots who know what's taking place as opposed to pilots with rockets firing at random and no idea where we're headed. A feelings inventory is our control panel. Sometimes our retro-rockets may fire in a direction that's good. It helps to know that, too.
Infants have few fears.
During the early days of life, we tune in to our confidence voice like a radio picking up a strong signal. Put it in my mouth. Throw it on the ground. Unfortunately, once those fears do come into our lives, we usually take on more than we need. We find we become more adept at hearing our fear voice than tuning in our fainter confidence voice.