Her eyes take the wanted future relation and try to find its promise in the first meeting. She wonders how much the relation will attract his committed energy the way it does hers. He sees the flow of her sweet energy to him and delights in the image of what that does to him. She sees her ways going to him and wants to take delight in it with the assurance that he will be there for her. Men have more assumptions and women more evaluations in their first moments together.
Males take the present moment as a headline for things to come.
Females release their intuitive ways to foresee a likely future with him. Men quell their fears of failure with visions of rewards to come. A woman's way keeps her more composed while sensing what the meeting reveals. Other words for this say that men feel they have read the omens already while women want to gather more signs. It matters little to a woman how much a man may need to be awakened to his feelings.