A person without self-control is as defenseless as a city with broken down walls. A great forest can be set on fire by one tiny spark. The tongue can turn our whole lives into a blazing flame of destruction and disaster.
Intelligent people think before they speak .
What they say is then more persuasive. You will have to live with the consequences of everything you say. It is a trap for a man to dedicate something rashly and only later consider his vows. An honest answer is the sign of a true friendship. In the end, people appreciate frankness more than flattery.