You've already spent too many painful hours with Mr. Wrong, and there is no need to repeat this unhappy experience yet again. When you find a guy who meets all of your essential criteria, don't be surprised if you feel no initial chemistry with him. What you felt for Mr. Wrong was not actually chemistry, but rather a longing for something you knew you couldn't have. Healthy and lasting love is not about feeling constantly on edge. It is not the adrenalin rush that you experience at the start of a relationship, nor is it the crazy longing you feel for the guy who will never commit.
Healthy love involves devotion and trust.
Meeting potential partners in today's world is not an easy task. Over time, women successful at meeting great men have shared with me how, where and when they've found them. If you are an avid skier, it shouldn't be difficult to find a singles club or tour group catering to ski bums. If you happen to meet someone great, you already know that you have something in common. As a by-product, you just might meet Mr. Potential.