That is bad. We need someone to make sure the rules are followed. Kids sometimes need adults to help solve problems. There is nothing wrong with conflict resolution as long as we do not forget who the adults are. It think we also need to look at boredom in schools.
Fundamentals are important.
Without reading, writing, and arithmetic, education is a waste. We need to put as much resources into early education as possible. Family support is obviously not always there. Attitudes are most important in education. Sometimes children just do not apply themselves.