This will make you more relaxed and enjoy the act itself. My boyfriend and I were keen to get married, but our horoscopes did not match and both our parents were insisting on this. So we decided not to displease our parents. But I cannot forget him. Memories come and go.
Good memories are a strength in life.
When you remember enjoy that memory and move on actively in your daily life. Ours was an arranged marriage. We had seen met each other, except through photos. Then we met three months before marriage. Ask him the reason for his dissatisfaction.