Everyone has a grid system built into them during childhood which affects the way we act and react.
Every man has a little boy inside, and every woman has a little girl inside.
Many marriage problems are the result of not identifying the things that bind, govern, or dominate a person's life. We need to ask . . . That Bind Us A. Measure up. A child who grows up thinking they can never please their parent feels guilt, inadequacy, and rejection. The child's initiative is destroyed, and anger, resentment, and hostility are created in the child.