We need to reverse the spiral and go into a happy spiral. Everybody wants happiness. It is because we allow those who are not happy to manipulate us into feeling bad. If you aim a camera at garbage that is what you get. If you turn it around to a beautiful scene and click it, then that's what you get.
Life is like that.
If I take responsibility for my life, I don't waste half my time telling you it is your fault and blaming, condemning, and judging because I am too much of a coward to look at myself. I have to face myself first and get myself right. When I get myself right, the world will fall into place. If each one of us concentrated on ourselves instead of putting everybody else down we would be able to do that. I think the world is finally coming around to believe this is true.