We fight all the time and long periods of time go by recently before we talk or see each other. Please help me put some of this together in my head. Thank you very much. Your first bell that clanged was the fact that he was married before he started seeing you. Boy is that some word and should be taken out of the dictionary for it is truly one of the most misused words out there.
Love is a verb and is a word of action.
It is something that just happens and when you leave the person you have a warm and fuzzy feeling, not sadness or depression. The second red light that went off was when he told you that his family does not like you. And if a family does not get along with you, it will never work anyway, but that was just his excuse. And the third and final blow, or slap in the face, or being rolled over on by a big Mac truck, was that you have to beep him and don't leave him a message. Certainly not at your house.