Drinking is often used as an excuse, but it is not the cause. Unfortunately, the battering doesn't just stop. A battered woman will need to leave to get herself and her children to safety. Many of the children watch and learn from their parents. Some of these children grow up to be victims of batterers themselves.
Domestic violence is a crime that goes in a continuing circle.
This is also called the honeymoon stage where the batterer is sorry for his action and usually states that it will not happen again. A victim of Domestic Violence has several options to follow to get help for herself and children. Leave the house. Take all documents and any cash. Do not leave at night if you have no transportation.