Other problems can wait until the child is older. Sometimes the repair takes more than one operation. After surgery, your baby will stay in an intensive care unit for a few days so the doctors and nurses can keep a close watch. Tubes and machines keep track of your child's condition. They don't cause any pain.
Many children are back at play just a few days after heart surgery.
Support is very important. Parental support groups let you talk with other parents who are going through the same thing. You can talk about your fears and share what you know. This can be very reassuring. Talk with your doctor or a hospital social worker to find out about respite care, day care programs and homemaker services.