And obviously, sometimes we cannot handle the hardships we are given, and that can leave us with many emotions and circumstances. If you cannot, or if there is even a doubt in your mind that you maybe cannot, handle a situation, then get the heck out of that situation. It isn't worth being in. If you love the person who is trying to talk you into a situation and you don't know whether you can handle it, then stop. Maybe even postpone it until you know for a fact that you can.
Life is too precious to waste.
It's a gift, and you only live once. If you mess it up, there is no second chance. Live with vibrance and a little caution. Surround yourself with good people, and you will get back more than you ever can imagine. Live like every day is your last.