I want you to be willing to look at these nine fantasies that can ruin your life until you are willing to examine, adjust, and discard them. These fantasies are causing you to spend time and energy living in an imaginary world that will not allow you to be effective. These assumptions are pervasive, ubiquitous, and dangerous. Winning the lottery would free me. Men and women are from different planets.
Ignorance is bliss.
Good always triumphs. Somewhere I have a soul mate. These treacherous fantasies need to be dissected and expunged. I'm warning you up front that this process isn't easy, because these myths are deeply ingrained. Even a shiny red apple can turn out to be poisonous.