Take time for yourself. The example you set of caring for yourself shapes how your children will care for themselves when they become adults. Talk honestly with your children. Explain why the child with disabilities may take more of your time. Listen to your child.
Embarrassment is a natural occurrence in all families.
Assign a reasonable amount of responsibility for child care and housework. Siblings can be good models from which parents can learn to expect more from their child with disabilities. Recognize each child's unique qualities and family contributions. Allow your children to become individuals, make individual choices. Encourage them to have their own interests and participate in activities like other kids their age, ie.