Please don't do this. Health care decisions are hared to make and people do not need to be second guessed. I have a great life. I have three children I am proud of, an extended family that will be there for support, and a circle of friends that I cannot even begin to explain their importance. Humor ought to be a large part of every person's day.
Every day there is a new mountain to climb.
Some adventures are not much fun and do not turn out the way you want them to, but all of them shape who you are. I always make myself try to do new things because I swore never to get complacent and do only what is comfortable. This year I have made a decision that changed the makeup of our family, truly the most difficult decision I have ever made. Time will tell whether it is the right decision. In the future I challenge the three of you to always be willing to climb new mountains and greet new adventures.