Regardless of this, we have to deal with this outcome since human beings are emotional creatures. The work of the psychologist Elizabeth Kubler-Ross has shown us that human beings will go through a series of emotional steps as they deal emotionally with being told that they have a terminal illness. Her original work described the stages patients went through as they came to grips with their illness leading to their death. Interestingly, we can identify similar emotional stages anytime that we deal with losses even those less severe than one's own death. If we think back to how we reacted to losing something important to us whether it was a job, a promotion, our grandparents and so on we can frequently identify having gone through similar stages emotionally.
Infertility is a loss.
The couple will find that they are unable to have that which comes naturally to others and being human, it is reasonable to expect that the couple will have to go through similar emotional stages of emotional adaptation. Infertile couples who never succeed will ultimately find acceptance of their diagnosis. It is not an easy or pleasant process but it is a necessary one. After couples have resolved their situation, different choices will be available. If the lack of success is due to poor quality eggs, donor eggs have enabled these couples to be parents.