I do not wan't to go my family doctor due to confidentiality issues. Also I would also appreciate info on what else it could be. Dear Brandon Thanks for your question. We avoid making diagnoses over the internet, but the chances that you at 19 have cancer is rare. Penile cancer ususally occurs after years of exposure to poor hygiene or carcinogens.
Lesions are very difficult to assess by description alone.
Their profession is built on associating new lesions with others they have seen in the past. Sorry, but I would suggest seeing a dermatologist for the diagnosis. Too bad you do not have a better relationship with your family doctor. You are an adult and your doctor is bound by laws to keep your medical record confidential even to your parents. Hope this has helped.