But I met Jay when we fatefully ended up in a band together. It was a terrible pop thing for which I sang backup vocals. I even did backup dancer moves. It was heinous. But shit IS fertilizer.
Good things grow out of adversity.
From this I met this shy and quiet young man who had the deepest eyes. Kevin soon entered the dynamic, too. We played jazz standards together with an upright bass player, we played blues and soul standards, early Aretha tunes together, hell we played weddings for survival money together, and eventually we started playing MY songs together. Jay is absolutely my favorite drummer in the world. He is one of the greats.