I'm not a feminist. Because feminism is scary and exclusive. Throw it all in the pot. All those answers, excuses, explanations. Boil it down.
Feminism is a frightening, dirty word.
It scares us. Like all groups, feminists have tended to gather like people together. And so it happens that we think feminists must fit a certain description in order to be allowed into the club. You know the stereotype. Halfway between professional and bohemian.