In general, that means avoiding programs that ask children to answer math problems or vocabulary quizzes. Buckleitner and others say, however, that this sort of direct instruction can be a great way to use a computer if an older student needs practice with reading or math skills. Don't underestimate what you can do with software that comes preloaded on a new computer, such as Microsoft painting and word processing programs, Buckleitner says. Kids love to doodle and draw, and the painting software lets them do that in new ways. As for word processors, they can be set to make the letters appear in various colors and sizes, allowing kids learn the alphabet and keyboard in a fun way.
Kids come to the computer to be in control.
Basically, kids will vote with their feet. No matter what parents choose to do, they should take it easy. Even if kids don't use computers at all in their early years, it's not the end of the world. We would much rather have children come to us with lots of skills and ready to learn. It's another tool for learning.