Similarly, cultures have specific expectations about the proximity of others. Latin Americans and southern Europeans stand closer to each other and touch more than Americans. Yet several British Leaders confided in me that they are sometimes uncomfortable with the level of hugging and kissing that American women display. Verbal language can also be a barrier, even when everyone thinks they are speaking the same language. British Leaders point out that British English and American English have different words for the same object such as nappies and diapers.
French Leaders relate that the same French word can have a totally different meaning in Quebec.
In addition to body language and verbal expression there are issues of food, religious beliefs and parenting practices to consider. All combine to create a network of values and opinions that must be respected. Within my own Group, a very diverse one, monthly meetings find me cautioning members about frequent use of Yiddish and Hebrew words that others may not understand as well as talk about religious holiday preparations. Further, I must think about our meeting place. Some women may feel uncomfortable meeting in a location that is a house of worship.