Turn off topics you do not want. It is a fun topic. Meet Thor there. To me, happiness is being in a marriage with a man who fell in love with me, and who respects me, as I am, and who doesn't complain about me, just as I have fallen in love with him for the same reasons, and do not complain unduly about him. Happiness is a relationship between a man and woman in which neither attempts to change or restrict the other, in which each takes pride and joy in watching the other take on the challenges of the world in his or her own way.
Loyalty is important too.
Each must be there when the other needs his or her support or understanding, and should always be trusting. Of course there will be arguments, but they will be good arguments about things that matter, and each with respect and acceptance of the other's right to view things differently.