If you agree with the old saying 'sticks and stones will hurt your bones but words will do no harm' then sexual harassment can only be harassment when it involves physical contact of some kind. So many of the people I meet just don't know how to go about flirting because they are sabotaging themselves. At one time or another we have all experienced states of calm, excitement, confidence, joy, curiosity, compassion, love, contentedness, fun, freedom and much, more. State reigns supreme. The most important component of a successful flirtation is being in the right mood for flirting.
Good flirts are playful, have a sense of fun, adventure and a curiosity about people.
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