Although women have changed significantly over the last decade in Japan, men on the other hand, still remain unchanged by holding the old value of companionship for marriage. Men work outside and can do anything they want to while women take all the responsibility for the household. What Japanese women have found out in life is that they truly want to seek the inner circle of happiness for understanding, sharing, caring, and trustworthy partnership in marriage with their lifetime partner rather than endlessly being devoted to serving only husband and children. Unfortunately, however, men in Japan have never appreciated women's role in society. That role has been taken for granted for so many years.
Japanese men are also too busy working for a company rather than serving the family.
As a result,those educated women usually with good finacial backgrounds are disappointed in marriages with those old-fashioned Japanese men as their lifetime partners. Japanese women seek true loving companionship for life,based on mutual understanding and respect for upgrading the quality of personal life. Japan is one of the most advanced countries in the world. Women here do not seek Western men solely for economical reasons. This is very very important.