You CAN become a virgin again, all you have to do is believe in yourself. You can keep your decision private. You don't have to tell your friends, family or anyone who won't be intimately involved in the decision. It's none of their business. Also, it doesn't have to be the first thing that pops out of your mouth with a new guy, unless you want it to be.
Equal rights has nothing to do with bed-hopping.
REAL feminists are intelligent women who don't sleep with every guy they meet to prove they are equal to men. REAL feminists promote equal rights by protecting themselves as women. You're out there developing your own talents and interests. You become a much more vital and interesting woman.