He wants to control me in ways that destroy me. Satan is like an adult who allows a small child to do anything. He could not care less about me. Love never allows certain things to happen. Love never allows self-seeking ambition to neglect the one loved.
Love never encourages the one loved to hurt self.
Love never lets the one loved believe the present makes the future insignificant. Satan encourages me to indulge my desires. When my desires control me, I become addicted. In time, my addiction becomes a prison. Satan urges me to be selfish.