There are no crownwearers in Heaven that were not crossbearers here below. It is to decide forever to have your heart walking around outside your body. If you want your children to keep their feet on the ground, put some responsibility on their shoulders. A man travels the world over in search of what he needs and returns home to find it. Home is where the heart can laugh without shyness.
Home is where the heart's tears can dry at their own pace.
However often marriage is dissolved, it remains indissoluble. Real divorce, the divorce of heart, and nerve and fiber, does not exist, since there is no divorce from memory. You don't need to be a friend to everyone. Remember the model of Jesus. He preached to, ministered to, and healed thousands of people, but he only had twelve disciples.