An older child who just can't get his act together, who has trouble organizing his materials and time, and is driving his parents nuts. All children have these problems at some time. All parents worry. But when the tiny voice becomes persistent, when the child becomes increasingly unhappy, it is time to seek help. Don't be afraid of crying wolf.
Educators say parents' instincts are often right on target.
They are the real experts on their children, and pick up signs and signals long before the best-trained professionals. The key is trusting your gut. Even if a problem does show up, you will find relief by facing your fears, and your child will, too. It will free you both from a vicious pattern of blame, excuses and self-loathing. Too many frustrated parents start labeling their children as lazy and irresponsible.