She probably won't want her children to know so she will be lying to them as well. And that in the long run won't make her feel any better - it might make her feel worse. If this woman has never been through a divorce before - she knows nothing about what the other side of divorce is like. What people who have never been through a divorce don't know is - usually for years afterwards you deal emotionally with what happened during the marriage. If she hasn't already - she really needs to tell him that she is seriously contemplating an affair or a divorce and that he needs to work with her on this sexual problem that they have or the marriage will inevitably end.
Fornication is wrong - but the man is wrong as well.
His body is to be hers and hers is to be his. Gluttony is wrong as well - and he should be keeping his food intake in check, etc. etc. Hi Ruth, I explained to Ron privately that she has been requesting for several years for husband to go to counseling with her. He refuses to do this. He is aware of the problems though.