Resistance is the result of inflexibility on the part of the communicator. Failure equals feedback. There are no mistakes, only results. Without failure and mistakes, learning would be impossible. The highest quality of information in an interaction is behavioural information.
Individuals communicate at two levels - conscious and unconscious.
Behavioural flexibility results in more choices. More choices are better than limited choices. NLP is unique in the field of models of human functioning and we may say that everything it offers is personal development. It shows us how to trigger dormant resources. Some areas I apply NLP at Elevated Therapy Feeling bad, hatred, frustration, dealing with abuse, becoming more human, becoming emotionally safe, healing traumas, dealing with traumatic experience in childhood, feeling abandoned, feeling lost and frightened, dealing with loneliness, feeling limited, fears and phobias, loss of hearing, having more of your own life, unable to learn, separating private life from business life, fear of losing your spouse, standing on your own two feet, insecurity in a relationship, not sure of love, feeling capable, public presentations, working with nervous system and changing immune response, avoiding pain of the past, grief, mid-life crisis, compulsions, addictions, resolving internal conflict, preparation in advance of a coming loss, parts work, injuries, sexual dysfunction, codependence, confidence, criticism, allergies and sensitivities.