When two people enter into a marriage relationship, they usually do not plan to divorce. But if and when the inevitable occurs, it becomes immediately apparent that our children are the innocent victims of the breakup of our marriage. We must protect them from undue hurt and turmoil.
Divorce is a major personal crisis for adults and children.
The stress can produce physical symptoms as well as behavioral and emotional problems. Recognizing the signs of trouble early and helping children deal with them may prevent serious future problems. For the average person, the divorce process is traumatic and usually financially draining for both parents. It is difficult for us to be emotionally present to the special needs of our children during this critical time. Each significant loss must be grieved by the child.