Some people will love you for you. Most will love you for what you can do for them, and some won't like you at all. The statistics on sanity are that one out of every four Americans is suffering from some form of mental illness. Think of your three best friends. If they're okay, then it's you.
Language is a road map of a culture.
It tells you where its people come from and where they are going. You can't be truly rude until you understand good manners. Language exerts hidden power, like the moon on the tides. A peacefulness follows any decision, even the wrong one. To love without role, without power plays, is revolution.