So if you're a virgin, you're in good company. Love means wanting what is best for the other person, seeking the greatest good for that person. When he or she wants what is truly best for your welfare, your happiness now and in the future. Think about the harmful consequences that can come from sex between unmarried persons. Love is patient, love is kind.
Love wants what is best for another person.
Love never demands something that will harm you or the person you love. Love will never cross the line between what's right and wrong. It's wrong to put one another in danger of having to deal with hard choices. Having sex before marriage may feel right for the moment. But the possible costs of an unexpected pregnancy, abortion, and sexually transmitted disease as well as the deep hurts that can come from a broken relationship outweigh the feelings of the moment.