If we have really taken in our partner's thoughts and feelings, they will provoke a change inside of us. This change requires an adjustment of our next message to our partner, who in turn adjusts to what is received from us. The flow is circular. Decide which one will initiate. Partners face each other in silence.
Initiator takes the partner's hand and closes eyes.
Communicate an objective through touch. Partner must sense and respond through touch. Listen for respiratory changes, sensing body tension, and vibrations in the air between you. Pursue your objective for three minutes in this way, adjusting all the time to the response you are receiving from your partner. Discuss with your partner what you thought the objective was.