Some information and suggestions from Laurie. Losing a love one is undoubtedly the hardest thing that we will face in our lives. The overwhelming feelings that follow the death of a close relative or friend can leave us wondering if we will ever be able to function again. Feelings such as guilt, bewilderment, helplessness, anger and loneliness, while common grief reactions, can be frightening and incapacitating.
Life loses meaning.
Maintaining a focus seems impossible. Sometimes the temptation to give up is stronger than we are. It is the way we learn to adjust to the world without someone we love. Grief is normal and healthy. It means that we have been able to have a meaningful relationship with another person.