I spent the next day sweating and hating life. I finally told her that I could not deal with it. I could not live with it. She sees this guy everyday and he sits next to her at work. Monogoman Yep, you opened the barn door and then cried when your goats ran off, and I'm not surprised.
Goats are hard to come by.
But let me tell you - I don't think it has to do with being a possessive son of a bitch or being a man or whatever. I think it has to do with being in love. Loving someone and wanting them and only them is not uncommon. Some people want to sow their oats in as many plowholes as possible, others are happy dung fertilizing their one and only corncob. By the two of you coming together in tears and having a heart to heart - you decided together to stay monogamous.