Too many parents feel guilty saying this, but after all, you are the parent. Give your children chores and make sure they are age-appropriate. Parents often feel they must shoulder the burden of household tasks. But children grow from taking on responsibilities, and kids as young as two can help around the house. If you start them sweeping or dusting alongside you, they will consider it fun and will get into good habits early.
Kids can also rotate tasks from a chore list.
Helping around the house teaches them to accept responsibility and contribute to the family's well-being, which enables them to feel good about themselves. Be sure to state your expectations in a positive way. Wait till Dad gets home and sees your room. Children can be very creative and often have wonderful ideas. And they are more likely to cooperate with a plan or solution in which they've had a part.