That is why it is so hard to know what to do or how to respond. The behavior could indicate a much more serious problem but it could also indicate a normal kind of response. I think what's important is that all kids of this age get a real opportunity to express their thoughts and feelings, in their own words, to adults who listen to them. I don't think so. Just make sure they have the chance and continue to know that the opportunity is available to talk to someone who will listen to them.
Kids respond in a variety of ways to events in the real world, depending on many factors.
What we want to do as adults is be sure we provide them with a safe outlet. Thanks for your timely question. Ms. Martin's answer to your questions is intended to be educational and informative. It is not a substitute for face to face consultation or psychotherapy with a mental health professional. It may be duplicated for distribution only with Karen Martin's permission.