Recognize that you have them always. You cannot change anyone, unless that person wants to change himself or herself. We are all capable of greatness, as long as we believe in ourselves. You will never create the loving relationship you desire, unless you are willing to put forth the work and effort. Always maintain your dreams, goals, values, and lifestyle choices without serious compromise.
Infidelity hurts many innocent bystanders.
The grass is not always greener on the other side of the fence. The answers always provide better choices for one's life. Sexual intimacy keeps a loving relationship strong and resilient. Life is not about wealth, success, or who earns the most money. Life is about love.