I see children confused by the rules because the adults don't know how to clarify the gray areas of life for themselves, so how can they explain it to their children. Logic is so important in the area of black and white, but it doesn't have much to do with the emotion of being human. I see people trying to make life out to be boxes and everybody must fit in their little boxes. It's one or the other I believe. Someone is always trying to confine us to black or white.
Life has a way of doing that.
Me, I happen to like gray. Never was one for boxes and fitting into other people's modes. After all, there's really only one me. And beside that, it's so much fun seeing life through MY eyes, and not the eyes of others. People have a difficult time though when they have to accept someone's individuality.