Parents who sacrifice to buy toys and games for their children that are left under the tree as Santa s gifts should realize that this experience is one that their children will fondly remember well into their adult years. Even so, parents should be sure to reserve at least one item for their own signature. Parents who sacrifice to buy a special gift for their child, but sign the gift-tag Santa, may not realize that they also are giving their children a very special gift. In years to come, children will know and appreciate their parents willingness to keep the spirit of Santa Claus alive. Their parents efforts will be remembered and passed on to future generations, said Smith, who advised signing Santa s name to some, but not all gifts.
Gift giving depends largely on family traditions and resources.
Parents sometimes buy toys they wish that they had received as gifts, and often are disappointed when a child ignores a toy and chooses to play with the box or packing materials. Smith encourages parents and grandparents to consider age-appropriate toys that encourage childrens interests, imagination and creativity. His suggestions include art supplies for a child interested in drawing, an ant farm for a child interested in insects, and craft materials for a child interested in working with their hands. Giving money or contributions to a child s savings or educational account can be thoughtful gestures usually appreciated by older children, but they are not particularly meaningful to a small child who would rather have something to play with, Smith said. Family gifts also are recommended putting together a puzzle or playing a game can help bring a family together, he said.