This process of facilitation and communication opens our eyes. When every member of the family looks at the child with new eyes and much greater respect, this changes how that family deals with him. Once a child is communicating through facilitation he often experiences a major change in bearing and comportment. Behavior usually improves dramatically. Effective communication markedly decreases frustration and the tendency to use force or temper tantrums to try to solve problems.
Life becomes easier and more fun.
When problems do arise they can be discussed and handled using facilitation. This means that a profound change takes place in the environment of the child. Once the environment changes, the child now performs differently in response to that new, more challenging, and more dynamic environment. The child's increased willingness to take on new challenges brings about basic and important neurological changes. Parents are clearly thrilled to know their children more intimately, which increases their respect and love for them.