When we're bored, we talk. Don't use conversation as an escape from reality. Unnecessary talk dulls the mind. Be fascinated with human beings and you'll be an excellent conversationalist. Wisdom is what life is about.
Human beings have wisdom.
That's something you and another can share together. Have a conversation, not a confrontation. Get other people interested in hearing you and your ideas. Negative speech will make you a negative person. Happy people are healthy, optimistic, and have more driving force to achieve.