As teachers we have to be careful not to come off as condescending, know it alls. And acknowledging the value of parental input is important, even, or especially when, we don't agree with what they say. Frankly, I thought the book, when I read it as a teen, was a really depressing, whiny book, but I do realize I should read it again for a new perspective. We have to be open and welcoming to parents, and really listen to what they have to say. Often you can come to some compromise without sacrificing your principles.
Literature is the illumination of human experience, good and bad.' is so very shallow.
And yes, I had led a somewhat sheltered life and hated Catcher in the Rye. I think it's essential we not make assumptions in that area, even in today's somewhat jaded climate. Although I was already teaching ed classes as an adjunct when I rec'd my MA in English, I let the English people at my U know my intentions, and then I talked to and made friends with one of them who had helped us with local writing project workshops. I asked for and rec'd permission to sit in on some of his classes, as well as another instructor who is a parent of a former student of mine. They asked for me to sub for them the couple of times they were out of class, and I did that.