That brings us face to face with what love really is. The only way you can love a great unlimited person like God is to obey Him. If love is obeying God, then love has a definite order. For example, when Jonathan surrendered all his claims to his father's throne to David, that was love. In the same manner, it is love for the wife to let her husband be her head, but it is sin to reverse the order.
Love also has a clearly defined meaning and character.
Homosexual acts are sin, not love. A woman forsaking her family is leaving love behind. She will not find true love in adultery. Love for your marriage partner is a peculiar love which cannot be shared with any other human being. Failure to give your child proper discipline is a sign of hatred.