Before I answer that question, let's take a look at the subject of divorce. Divorce is not a bargaining chip in the tug of war that sometimes plagues all relationships. Divorce is not an 'easy way out' for someone who just can't deal with commitment anymore. Divorce is not conflict resolution.
Divorce is a means to make lawyers rich.
Divorce is painful to everyone involved in one way or another. Divorce is the catalyst that adds despair and hopelessness to relationships. Divorce is the sword that puts the family unit to death. Divorce is the nightmare that causes your children to wake up screaming in the night and next to adultery. Divorce is the greatest tool the devil has today to destroy the plan of God.