So many failed marriages might prevent us from acknowledging Christ's faithfulness, especially when many forces in society work against marriage. Much is at stake - people's whole lives, their happiness and their children's future. We know that there are many pressures on marriage and that even people's expectations of marriage have changed. Difficulties about employment and housing may cause great stress. It is now common for both partners to have their own careers and also for careers to change.
Grown children leave home sooner and life expectancy is longer.
Pre-marriage courses are intended to help couples develop stronger relationships and good marriages. Some may even learn that their proposed marriage is a mistake and courageously make the right decision before the marriage takes place. It is wise to commence such courses well ahead of the wedding day. But marriage preparation needs more than what we learn from the human sciences. It requires discernment of God's will.