I believe in the joy of love relationships and the power of commitment and marriage, and I can visualize myself having those things once again. My heart is open once again, ready to give and to receive love in the healthiest way possible. I am able to be vulnerable, and to still take care of myself. Keep going with your list until you have listed every detail of that picture of you down the road - happy, healthy, and emotionally complete with this relationship. When you are done, you will have your emotional prescription for recovery - that you are intending each and every one of these things to come to pass, and that you are taking the steps for that to happen.
Intentions are very powerful.
By setting them down in writing and being as specific as possible, you place a precise road map in front of your unconscious mind and you push it forward. You cannot help but complete the journey with more velocity and greater ease than someone who just drifts along in a sea of anguish and bitterness. So, don't worry about making this happen. Just keep intending that you will complete each item, live each day the best way possible, process your emotions, practice forgiveness for yourself and for him, and trust in the journey. Copyright by Net Content Creations, Inc.