It is the true name of the beast. Suicide grief is driven by learning. Most of what is encountered is negative and amplifies grief. Grieving opens with conflict among what is felt, believed, and heard. Expectations about life are rocked.
Healing is encouraged, but there is no leverage.
Lack of knowledge about suicide leads to seeking information. Hopes of healing wither. Pain worsens with holidays, birthdays, and the anniversary of the loss. Anger comes from seeing the loss may have been prevented. The enormity of the loss fosters disaffection and powerlessness.