Monica calls Jean to ask her about it, and Jean says that she just didn't have time this month because of so many commitments at her children's school. She's beginning to think that it's time to retire from La Leche League. Jean feels hassled by Monica's uptight attitude and wishes she would retire. La Leche League Leaders shine when it comes to giving support and encouragement to others. Many Leaders remain active because they are watered like a thirsty plant by the warm words of their fellow Leaders.
Effective communication helps Leaders achieve that goal.
When Leaders acknowledge one another's strengths, everyone feels appreciated and valued. When Leaders express their concerns, desires, and disappointments, they achieve a deeper understanding of one another. When Leaders communicate their irritations, upsets, and even anger in an assertive, rather than aggressive, manner, their relationship remains clear so that the work of leading a Group can continue. Feelings of disappointment, irritation, and anger are a normal part of human relationships. Leaders who risk communicating these feelings assertively can empower each other to achieve their shared goal.