The problem with graphite in irons is that the clubhead, if properly striking the ball, has to go through the resistance of the turf, and that gradually breaks down the fibers of the shaft. Graphite is OK for woods and drivers because it's more of a sweeping motion in the swing or the ball is hit off a tee. There were 18 manufacturers of graphite shafts and one manufacturer of titanium shafts. Eighteen voices carried a lot more weight than one. There are so many better drivers on the market than 20 years ago, but the national handicap average hasn't come down much.
Distance is a pleasure.
The big thing in golf is the enjoyment of hitting good shots. But the amount of good shots, or let's say satisfying shots, someone will hit is greater with metal woods than with wood woods. In the game of golf, however, score depends on your level of comfort. If you're comfortable shooting 80, somewhere along the line in trying to break 80 you're going to screw up and shoot 90 or 91. That's just the truth about the game.