These may be sports figures, politicians, teachers, scientists, religious leaders, or a parent or relative whom we wish to be like. Experience gives us opportunities to learn through positive experience and to avoid our past mistakes. You can test your own observations about what works and what does not work in relationships. The results are usually negative. Win-win situations grow out of mutual respect, keeping a positive, healthy mind set, and learning how people respond to us.
Effective leaders are lifetime learners.
A passion to learn fends off fear of failure. Smart leaders pilot ideas and dreams with small groups of trusted associates. If an idea fails, the leader and followers admit it and move on. There is no need for irresolvable conflict or involuntary termination. Learn together and go forward.