Several provinces have programs where older people volunteer to take on a grandparenting role. Both the children and the older people win in these relationships. Grandparents are a source of constant support to grandchildren of any age. They provide respite to tired parents by taking care of the children. They share their energy lovingly with their grandchildren, providing them with a fresh point of view.
Grandparents are the connection between the past and the future.
They allow us to learn from past mistakes and to plan for the life to come. They are the conduit between what is known and what is as yet unknown. In families under stress, grandparents can provide the anchor that allows children to escape even briefly the tension at home. By alleviating the anxiety and being solid pillars of calm in a confused world, grandparents help their grandchildren to cope. The children may not realize it until later in life, but grandparents can provide a stabilizing and powerful influence.