They just received their invitation, addressed to the parents and their three children who I grew up with. Now the mother has asked if all three of her children can bring a date as well. I do not want them to invite dates because, to begin with, I can't afford all of the extra people. Apart from that, I think her asking is rude. I refuse to have them bring dates, as they are not my friends or family.
Many brides find themselves in the same sort of awkward situation.
But not to worry, there is a very easy way to handle it. First and foremost, the number one thing to remember is that it is imperative that you remain gracious and congenial at all times. Any other behavior would be very unbecoming of a bride. When planning a wedding you are preparing to host an event that is still looked upon as an extremely important occasion in our society, therefore, from an etiquette stand point, maintaining good manners and graciousness as you deal with your guests, regardless of the challenge, is a must. With that said, here is what you must do.