After she properly objected, a court of record ordered her to reveal Item A to the opposing party. She did not appeal, but instead revealed the information to the opposing party. After a few drinks at a holiday party for the partners, she jokingly revealed Item B to another partner. She called a lawyer in another law firm for ethical guidance on the case, and revealed Item A in the course of seeking guidance. Husband comes to your office for a divorce.
Divorce is a sin.
It will help support the claim of general indignities. Perhaps you can even go back and reconstruct prior events. Buddy, grow up. Leave the little bimbo and go back to your wife and kids. You're giving her too much.