So I have an open mind about this. Only if the Holy Spirit gives us that gift. So I think that whoever speaks in tongues should take it as a sign of encouragement from the Holy Spirit. But the encouragement is not to stay in a place, but to move in a direction. The proper response to this encouragement is to move on and to graduate from tongues to the greater gifts of Christian service, and finally to the greatest gift of all, which is love.
Love is the key to all the gifts and to their proper application.
On the other hand, Scripture tells us not to quench the Spirit. If it is possible for us to quench the Spirit, then it follows that He does not override our free will or our discretion within a given situation. The occasion on which you are given a gift is not necessarily the occasion on which you are to use it. For example, if you are a pastor and you receive an insight while brushing your teeth, you don t preach your sermon right there in the bathroom, you use that insight to prepare the next appropriate sermon. The same with tongues.