Whereas communication is seen in a coordination of behaviour, when we say we live in languaging, we refer to living in the coordination of coordinations of behaviour. Emotion or emotioning is a kind of behaviour and a manner of relating. Whenever our emotion changes the domain of relating changes. We are always in emotion - it is present in us always. The entwining of languaging and emotioning is conversation.
Language takes place in the relationship.
As the elements in a system change its manner of operating changes. It depends on the connectedness of the system and the flow of structural coupling. Organisms undergo structural changes which are congruent with the medium in which they exist. These structural changes are contingent upon the history of the organism. The organism operates as a closed system.