These kids are older now and they wanted to let you know how they got through their divorce. Sometimes your parents just don't get along anymore. You see, big people make choices to get married and to have kids. They make the choice to get divorced. Kids can not cause a divorce.
Divorce is between adults only.
Sometimes a parent may ask your opinion but it's still an adult's decision. You have to just kinda hang in there and watch it happen whether you like the end result or not. Kids tell us their parents get so busy they forget to listen to them. Some kids have told us they have called a family meeting. In the family meeting everyone gets a chance to talk.