Housing may be an issue if they are living in a senior citizen complex. The issue of medical care for the children is difficult. There is the loss of time for themselves and their dream of retirement dies. Their social life and circle changes drastically. There is also an emotional toll.
Feelings range from fear, anger, exhaustion, resentment, grief, and shame to thankfulness and joy.
This type of stress can damage a marriage. It takes about a year for the average couple to make the adjustment. Even though there are so many stresses in their lives, many grandparents report that through it all, they feel a greater purpose for their lives. Caring for their grandchildren makes them feel young and active. They say that the sacrifices are worth it.