Balance spontanaeity with planning ahead . But in many cases you'll never do it if you don't plan. Host those who can't repay you . But when you give a feast, invite the poor, the maimed, the lame, the blind. Most important passage in Peter's writings concerning spiritual gifts.
Gifts are for every believer .
Gifts are for ministry . Like apple tree - produces fruit not for its own consumption, but for the benefit of others. Gifts involve personal responsibility . Moreover it is required in stewards that one be found faithful. The woods would be silent if no birds sang except those who sang best.