And either way it would be far better for them and for the church than what has too often happened. The inimitable Charles Spurgeon had this to say about marriage. Marriage without the fear of God is a fearful mistake. You had far better remain in the cold of your bachelor or spinster life than warm your hands at the fire of unhallowed marriage. These words were spoken a hundred year ago, and of course they were not spoken with special reference to those seeking the ministry.
Every experienced pastor knows how much the church today has been weakened by marital problems.
But the damage is multiplied many times over when it encumbers the ministerial office. After all, there is such a thing as teaching by example. And it is right here that the pastor's wife has a unique opportunity.