The same advice applies to hiring an attorney to handle your military divorce. There are many types of lawyers, and you need to find one who specializes not only in domestic or family law, but one who specializes in divorce. Further, that person needs to know about the federal law that applies to the military, and of which you will have already educated yourself. It is imperative that you retain the services of an attorney who is absolutely knowledgeable and experienced in military divorces -a professional who is intimately familiar with military marriages, benefits, and military retirement and divorce law. Hire your own.
Many attorneys charge for a consultation.
Sometimes calling the attorney's office can help you make a decision. A paralegal in the office might be able to answer your basic questions as well, such as whether the attorney handles military divorces at all. Preparing yourself for a consultation requires that you gather military specific information. You need to ask the attorney about his experience as well. If the attorney asks you what SBP is, then you need to access whether you even want to retain this person.