I came for coffee and I raped her. My cup is sitting on her sink. The record of my calls to her number are already public record. Even if I had used a condom she has simply to insert it and squeeze. Or simply produce it.
Dominants are at just as much risk as submissives.
I remember when I played casually with people I had met via all sorts of methods I never once considered myself at risk of anything. Maybe sexual disease but a condom soon fixed that. After all I was the total sexist. I was a man, she was a woman. I could handle anything a woman tried surely.