We all competed for attention. Physically demonstrate your love with hugs, kisses and gestures of esteem. Thankfully, I grew to love my brothers and sisters very much. And as the mother of five children of my own, I've learned how to overcome some of the reasons that sibs quibble. Assure each child of his or her worth.
Every child is unique.
God's plan includes a role for each of us in advancing His kingdom in the world. Verbally remind your children of their distinct positions in the family. Physically demonstrate your love with hugs, kisses and gestures of esteem. When you pray as a family, audibly thank God for each of your youngsters and his special gifts. Hold celebration days for individual family members, perhaps after success on a difficult exam or some other noteworthy accomplishment.