So if I were in your shoes I would figure out how much time you're entitled to, to move out, once your foreclosure is final. Once you know that you could calmly plan your move to your next residence and not subject the kids to the panic a forced eviction seems to cause. Tell you what. It's a little too late right now to research it on the internet, but tomorrow I'll dig up the NJ codes on foreclosure and see what I can find as to the length of time you have to quit after the auction what you're entitled to by law. I have too many questions and no answers.
Long story dont feel like typing it all out.
This is insane at best. In fact, I think you're foreclosure is so far gone that it's not really feasible for you to salvage your ownership. So if I were in your shoes I would figure out how much time you're entitled to, to move out, once your foreclosure is final. Once you know that you could calmly plan your move to your next residence and not subject the kids to the panic a forced eviction seems to cause. Be back soon.