5 - Cognitive Abilities Preschoolers cannot reason or use logic. They do not understand lengthy or complex explanations. Therefore, preschoolers need concrete rules and definite boundaries of appropriate behaviors to provide consistency and security. Preschoolers do understand the concept of consistent consequences. Discipline and parental responses must be consistent and appropriate.
Inconsistency indicates insecurity and confusion to the preschooler.
Preschoolers become familiar with and excited about favorite stories and recognize the value their parents place on reading and on written materials. Preschoolers look forward to the time spent with their parents and associate reading with pleasant experiences. Although general developmental charts exist, children develop on their own timetable. Major delays in development may indicate medical or psychological problems. Minor delays may be quite normal for the preschooler.