We can be slow to speak and more ready to listen. We can value and respect those with whom we disagree. We can remind ourselves that it is the Lordship of Jesus Christ that remains foundational to our life together and that most of what we argue about falls into less important categories. We can remember that the world is watching our witness and that people look to see Jesus in our words and actions. We can relate to each other in ways that do not demand change in order to earn love.
Grace embraces people where they are.
If it didn't, it wouldn't be grace. We know that Jesus prayed often and that at least on one occasion, the night before his death, he was not able to sway God's heart. We also know that in the end it was God's will, not his own, that he sought. Many have discovered that at the very heart of prayer, it is not a laundry list of wants and wishes, but a relationship of love and faithfulness. I imagine prayer to be like God walking with Adam and Eve in the cool of the day, a conversation with the Almighty about the joys and concerns of our days.