We always respond to pain and fear. Mike reacted to his fear with anger. He felt less alone and helpless when he was angry. Other people lie when they're afraid, or run, or act like victims. These behaviors destroy any possibility of loving relationships and happiness.
Fear is a staggering burden.
We can think of nothing else but the thing we're afraid of. When we're afraid, we can't be happy or loving. We can't be good husbands, wives, and parents. The solution to fear is simple. But most of us don't know that's possible.