People who can make light of somewhat difficult events can draw the attention of many others. Sincerity means a lot to people. Women almost equate sincerity with long term commitment which is what most women biologically need. Sincerity is not always easy to manifest in relationships because of the very different ways that men and women think. People of both sexes admire those people who can be upfront about who they are and what they feel when it comes to the long term.
Flexibility is the trait of adaptability, which is of course what life is all about.
The person who can adapt the best to changing circumstances is usually the most successful or effective individual in any given situation. People admire flexible people and find them enticing to be with. Some people just sit there when they talk. Their eyes don t light up, their hands never leave the table, their voice never rises or falls. They are not attractive, not interesting and not going to be the focus of anyone s attention.