This is what he said. Love is patient. Love is kind. When Paul talks to Christians about the kind of love that is the mark of Christian life, the kind of love that makes a community a church, he does not describe some kind of passionate feeling or altered emotional state. He talks about a particular kind of behavior.
Love is patient.
Love is kind. Now I want to make it very clear that the church and scripture and Christian faith and the preacher, none of us have anything against romance. It s a wonderful thing. The heart gets swept away. The feet get lifted up off the ground.