In order to draw all your church members to you in leading a church, you have only to attract those at the top and those at the bottom in the church and all the rest will follow automatically. He who criticizes his leader is the prince of Cains. He who wants to cover and take responsibility for the defects of his leader will eventually stand in the position of Abel. If you are not capable, you must think that you can serve a man of ability as if he were your big brother and supply him with opportunities in which he can act in your place. Serve him more than the outside world would do, and try to establish a foundation next to his.
Family members are flesh and leaders are bones.
Bones are never exposed, so flesh must surround and cover them properly. If you want to lead people, you should work harder than they. Be a better offering than they, and treat them with a warm and affectionate heart. He must pray for that place even if it requires losing sleep. Since he should offer himself in order to give life to many people, he should toil with all his sincerity.