And what we often learn when we cross cultures is not how other people deal with these issues-it is how we do, or do not. Finally, we learn what it is like to be a child again-dependent on others, filled with wonder and awe, fear and dread. The European-manufactured enamel plate plate is a substitute for a large, round shell. The plate demonstrates the viability of the traditional spirits in spite of culture change. Professor Silverman's adopted sister, nephew and basket presented to him in return for a meal of sago and chicken he had given to his nephew.
Gift giving is a way to ensure the recipient's well-being.