There is a device that you drive and work pedals with your hands I said. I heard he was a lawyer in Chicago. He escaped from the Rouge in cambodia, they killed his entire family, all teachers, doctors, lawyers, they kill everybody he said. He escaped, they let me go, what could I do with no legs, they laughed at me he said. He did something positive and I wish that I had more sincerity then so that more could have been done for him at the time.
Fear seems to be at the root of anger and rage that is driving the world today.
I have had guns pulled on me at work, spit at, hit, kicked, and beat in the course of being a teacher of the behavior disordered for 24 years. I don't think that people really know with full consciousness what they are doing at times. I share your sorrow but never will completely understand your pain. And the Dali Lama have a good approach to dealing with this issue of forgiveness. Who's war it was may not be as important as creating peacefulness and closure to what was bacically a european banking investment that used pawns from many countries to bring about blame on the US and China.