All this, while undergoing the second most stressful event an adult can face. Legal fees can vary substantially, depending on how much lawyering you need and your lawyer's hourly rate. High asset cases can cost more. Some lawyers will do simple, agreed-on divorces for a flat or fixed fee. Most lawyers charge an hourly rate for their time.
Lawyers generally require a substantial deposit or retainer at the beginning of the case.
You may be able to find some information about hourly rates and retainers by phone. For specifics that would apply to your case, the lawyer will need more information about you and your family situation. Plan to interview 2 or 3 lawyers. During the interview, if the lawyer doesn't mention fees, ask him or her about hourly rate, retainers, and projected total costs. Your lawyer should be knowledgeable about family law, including any special issues or factors in your case.