And I say unto you, Whosoever shall put away his wife clearly applies to the man. The same holds true for the woman who divorces her husband except for adultery, it is sin, and if she remarries it is a perpetuation of sin. And whoso marrieth her which is put away doth commit adultery. This clearly speaks about the woman. Divorce is not the end of the world, and certainly the Lord can use it to grow some of us up quickly.
Divorce is no different than any other sin, there is the blood that washes white as snow.
For the one who had no fault in the divorce, it can be trying when all around have been taught to treat you as a second class citizen. The grace of god is available for all of us, not just the non-divorced people. God forgives when there is repentance. Even the one who had the heart that was calloused, that one can repent. Divorce rips the soul apart as the two had been one, but God heals and forgives.