Unlearning unsafe, abusive patterns requires accountability as well as sobriety. If you are in an abusive relationship and concerned about your own or another person's alcohol or other drug use, you can receive information and referrals 24 hours a day by calling the Alcohol Drug Help Line. The following programs meet State standards for people who are court-ordered to attend domestic violence treatment. Domestic violence treatment programs help abusers to identify and stop their abusive behavior, to recognize the impact of the abuse on their partners, children, and themselves, and to learn a variety of techniques for having safe, respectful relationships. Marriage counseling and anger management programs generally do not meet State standards for domestic violence treatment and therefore are not appropriate in domestic violence cases.
Fees vary by agency and many agencies have sliding fee scales for low-income clients.
Domestic violence is a serious crime. It is against the law in the State of Washington. It is a crime to hit, hurt, or seriously threaten a family or household member with violence. Assault includes such things as slapping, pushing, shoving, pinching, throwing someone down, pulling hair, and other violent actions that are unwanted. A person who verbally or physically threatens a family or household member, making that person fearful of being hurt, is committing a crime.