Not being able to work out an acceptable parenting plan when families divide further contributes to this social problem. Sole custody should only be used when one parent is clearly incapable of caring for a child. In joint custody, both parents retain and share the physical and legal responsibility and authority for the care and control of their child. This arrangement is ideal when parents can cooperate with each other and agree on key decisions about the child's life. When parents can't cooperate and agree, a legally enforceable parenting plan serves as a tiebreaker.
Joint custody means assuring children of frequent and continuing contact with both parents.
This arrangement requires parents to share the rights and responsibilities of child rearing, regardless of their compatibility with each other. There are several advantages to shared parenting. A child of joint custody has two parents who are emotionally involved. Regular contact with both parents is maintained. The child receives a clear message that he or she is loved and wanted by both parents.