Neither is either cursed. It is the serpent who was responsible. God turns to the serpent and curses it. Childbirth and planting are hard work, Males tend to dominate, and Female and male are both responsible. Life is not easy because humans now know things that it would seem only God should know.
Humanity now knows how to embody good and evil.
The acts that follow can be seen as gifts. God sends Eve and Adam forth from the garden. If there was to be a condemnation, this is where it would fall. But there is no cursing. In God's image Today, though we have techniques to minimize pain at childbirth, agriculture is mechanized in many places in the world and male domination is decreasingly assumed, we face variations on the same life challenges.