This is not the way to become a champion. When an athlete with low self-esteem is physically beautiful plus has traits of perfectionism and an underlying tendency to be hypercritical and anxious, the risk of developing an eating disorder increases dramatically. Athletes with eating disorders are less available to their friends. The eating disorder creates a smoke screen that masks the underlying issues. If someone you know is suffering from a full-blown or a subclinical eating disorder, you may feel frustrated with your unsuccessful efforts to resolve the problem.
Food is just the symptom.
The problem is this person is unhappy. This helpful resource can teach you what to say to your friend. You job is to help your friend or loved one by taking them to get professional guidance. This might mean finding a registered dietitian in your area who specializes in sports nutrition and eating disorders. Remind your friend that no weight will ever be good enough to create happiness.