There is, it is true, more suggestive speculation than most people suspect. An optimal sexual encounter is the paradigm of productive play. The participants potentiate each other's pleasures, nobody keeps score, and everybody wins. The more you give, the more you get. In the ludic life, the best of sex will diffuse into the better part of daily life.
Generalized play leads to the libidinization of life.
Sex, in turn, can become less urgent and desperate, more playful. Click here for more Bob Black essays and some other unusual and interesting books and rants. This essay is in the public domain. It may be distributed, translated or excerpted freely. Bob Black can be reached at P.O. Box 2159, Albany NY 12220.