Hopefully, he will realize that you can be happy and gay. Sadly, one of the things I lost was faith in God. I could not understand the hatred brought upon gays by people who were supposed to be Christian and loving. Maybe, one day I'll find it again. For now, I just like living my life, feeling sane, and loving my man.
Life is great.
Thus, it does not need to be cured. In 1990, the APA said scientific evidence does not show that conversion therapy works, and that it can do more harm than good.