Those who are familiar with those 'spiritual laws' booklets might remember the illustration where the emotions are the caboose on the train of faith. We live in a world that seeks thrills. We have become voyeurs of celebration, thrilling to achievements that are not actually ours, rejoicing for freedoms and victories won in fiction, for partying as we see it on TV, or even cyber-sex. The thrills get harder to come by as time goes on, but there seems to be no end to our capacity for creating new thrills, even for voyeurs. But this is not God's way to live.
Emotions are a lousy foundation on which to build a faith or a way of life.
Anything that's disorderly will displease those who have the most stake in the existing order of things. If you find yourself having one of those reasons, I suggest you take a good hard look at how Jesus and the Church in Acts handled people who are not of their class, sex, or ethnic background. The early church's decision to reach out to both Jew and Gentile without trying to make one into the other was one of the main marks of its faithfulness to Christ. God put them there. Our feelings will try to run amok in our action, because they're as broken and smelly and obsessed with power as the rest of this world.