If this is someone you won't see again and just want to get it over with, then that is one thing, but if you are in a relationship and you fake it, then you are not doing the relationship any good. Sometimes guys cannot reach orgasm because either they are tired or drunk, etc. You want a fault tolerant sexual relationship where, if things go wrong, they just roll off your back and everything keeps trucking along. In the sex therapy I do, it is not only about dealing with problems but making sure that the problems don't cripple the relationship. You have to work at love.
Love is based on confidence and a security.
Infatuation is highly unstable and has an urgency to it, so I think you might have the second one. That will have to be the last question for today. Great chat Michael. Thanks for being with us again today and for the great answers. Your questions were awesome.