When there is a decline of intellect and memory in dementia, incontinence may occur. Infection Constipation Medication Hormonal changes Prostate enlargement Many of these other conditions are treatable, so the first step is always to consult the doctor to obtain a full medical assessment and find out why the incontinence is happening. Use the toilet properly Caring for someone with incontinence When caring for someone with dementia, incontinence may seem like the last straw. But there are measures that can be taken either to alleviate the problem itself or to make it less stressful. It is important for the carer to seek professional help at an early stage and not struggle on their own and to let anyone else who is helping to care know of the problem too.
Incontinence can be very distressing for the person with dementia.
It helps if the carer remains calm, gentle, firm and patient and tries to accept and get over their own embarrassment in having to help the person in such an intimate way. Sometimes a little humour can help.