Some feel the need to have constant interaction with a dying person. Although it s important to support a loved one, it s also important to take care of yourself. Take time out for yourself. Stand in the shower five seconds longer. Sit down and have a cup of coffee or tea.
Little things help in times of death.
Get outside help from hospice workers or other family members. I wish I could tell you I prayed for him to die for his relief, but is was for mine. I can remember sitting back in the pew horrified. It took me years to realize that that s a human mother. I didn t want him to suffer anymore, but I couldn t suffer anymore either.