Mine wasn't either. I can't fight the good fight anymore. That's why I disowned those bastards. I guess I just don't have any illustions that my family is or is supposed to be perfect. Classic American Puritan theology tells us that the flesh is weak.
Humans are fallible.
We should expect it rather than hold ourselves to impossible standards. Otherwise we are guilty of our own judgment. What I don't understand is this isolationist rhetoric I'm reading. Maybe you're not reading it right, then. It is your statement, not mine, which is isolationist and lonely.