Leaving a simple note also works wonders. This gives them the chance to put everything else aside and relax, watch TV or visit with friends. If the evening schedule is busy, homework can be started. Of course, this is also the perfect time to throw in a chore. We are fortunate to have extended family close by.
Grandparents are a great help with transportation and checking in periodically.
With everyone's busy schedule, we keep the grandparents busy, too. Expectations and responsibilities are built over time, as the kids grow up. They also change with the age of each child, but the same basic elements remain. They need to have a plan, be safe, check in, and stay within the guidelines established. Children must have the opportunity to learn to make good decisions.