Like a computer which is programmed to operate in a certain way, so are our lives. We are constantly bombarded with information which has the potential to shape or reshape our lives, especially the process by which we develop our beliefs, attitudes and feelings about ourselves, other people and even God. This programming process takes place over time not to mention the time involved in the unlearning or undoing of certain aspects of this process. Let me share with you some illustrations about the effect of social programming in people's lives. Take Tom and Susan for examples.
Few people know their agony.
They have been very concerned with their daughter over the last year. They are Caucasian by background. Their daughter is now in a love relationship with an African American young man. They worry that this relationship is getting very serious and might end up in engagement soon. They are suspicious about this man.