So as far as I can see the argument against the gifts of healings today is not compelling. Gifts of healings and workings of miracles are not for self-exaltation but for the benefit of others. They could easily become the basis of pride just like teaching or preaching or mercy or hospitality or prophecy or any of the gifts. But they are meant to be expressions of love. Gifts are not the main thing.
Love is the main thing.
Using gifts is one way to love. That is almost a sure way to spiritual self-centeredness. What we should really want is that Christ be honored through our self-sacrificing love for others. The greatest need we have is not for gifts of healings. The greatest miracle is that our hearts begin to care more about the lostness and pain of others than about our own personal comforts and leisure plans.