And some people lose their appetite in the first few months of dating. Generally this feeling will go away within a month or two. If you are serious about your desire for a long term relationship, rushing into a sexual relationship could jeopardize it. First of all, there is no such thing as instant intimacy. There is instant sexual attraction, that is not the same.
Intimacy takes time and trust, and develops from shared experiences.
If you are looking for a committed relationship, you are more likely to be successful if you wait to discuss all the issues that go with a sexual involvement. Monogamy, birth control and physical health are some of the obvious issues. When you get sexually involved before the rest of the relationship has developed, your relationship is often lopsided. She may pick fights and not really know why. It can be very confusing for both partners.