But push it, and it goes nowhere. This principle of leadership applies in the church as well as in the military. Autocratic, demanding pastors will sooner or later drive people away with their ironhanded tactics.
Individuals deserve to be listened to carefully and treated with dignity.
Peter had lived with Jesus and observed His method of leadership. It was strong, gentle, respectful, and carried the authority of a consistent example. Pushing may bring about outward compliance, but good leadership creates an inner willingness to follow because of what is seen in the life of the leader. A good leader not only knows the way but shows the way.