Law enforcement and judicial responses such as arresting batterers or issuing civil protection orders are useless. Thus, law enforcement officers must make arrests, prosecutors must prosecute domestic violence cases, and courts must enforce orders and impose sanctions for criminal convictions. It is important for batterers to receive the message from the community that domestic violence will not be tolerated and that the criminal justice and law enforcement systems will be involved until the violence ceases. Children are not affected when one parent abuses the other. For example, an advocate at a shelter in North Florida reported that one abuser threatened to come to the shelter and kill the victim and anyone who stood in his way.
Domestic violence is irrelevant to parental fitness.
A history of domestic violence can indicate that the perpetrating parent physically or emotionally abuses the child as well as the other parent. In addition, abusers frequently use the children as pawns to continue to control the other parent. Further, an abuser's focus on controlling the victim undermines the abuser's ability to parent because the primary concern is not the child. Courts should consider the effects of the abuser's behavior on the children when determining custody and visitation arrangements. In most states, however, custody statutes now recognize that domestic violence is relevant to the abuser's parental fitness.