I talked with a girl once who was very upset that her fiance wanted to break up with her for good. It was all because she hated her job. She was in tears telling me about it. The situation seemed hopeless. To make a long story short we found her a job she really loved within two weeks and later they were married.
Life is for the living.
It is not just for existing. If you want to change it you MUST make new decisions and follow through. Happiness is a choice, a decision, an infinite number of actions taken with joy. Your comments, suggestions, and corrections are always welcome.