It is through conflicts and adversity inasmuch as through care and love that we grow. Some people will always dislike you. That someone dislikes you says a lot about HIM or HER - not necessarily about you. People are not objects to be manipulated. They have their own emotions, opinions, judgments, fears, hopes, dreams, fantasies, nightmares, role models and associations.
Human relationships are dynamic.
We must assess our friendships, partnerships, even marriages periodically. The past is insufficient to sustain a healthy, nourishing, supportive, caring and compassionate relationship. We must gain and regain our friendships on a daily basis. Human relationships are a constant test of allegiance and empathy. We should be proud of our REAL achievements and qualities.