Just for Today Today, I'll take some time and do something playful that only a child would do. If I'm afraid of feeling embarrassed, I'll find a safe place where I can play without the fear of someone else judging me unkindly. I'll let the child inside of me out, and see what delicious feelings such play can give me. If my SO is willing, I'll explore this new playground with them. I may be amazed at the difference this makes to our relationship.
Life is made up of small pleasures.
If you don't have all of those zillions of tiny successes, the big ones don't mean anything.