To my credit, I don't hold it against them. I mean it's not as if their virulence is intentional. Nevertheless, I absolutely refuse to go anywhere near them. I bring this up, Virgo, because I'd like you to follow my example as you deal with the influences that bug the hell out of you. Don't pretend they're benign.
Life is pretty lousy sometimes.
Here's my response. I think fate has a tendency to bring us the kinds of experiences which we unconsciously believe we need and deserve. If you take as gospel the trite dogma that suffering is the best motivation for personal growth, you'll probably attract lots of experiences which seem to prove it. If, on the other hand, you resolve to relentlessly stalk love and joy and peace and play and revelation, you're more likely to sense the Divine Presence in everything that happens. It should be pretty easy for you to cop the latter attitude these days, Libra.