Allow this evolution. The planet is in a frequency of evolving and to resonate with it, we must also carry that frequency and evolve. On the other hand, preferences are okay. There is free flowing energy in preferences. Then there's fear.
Fear is just the expectation of pain.
We learn about our fear if we understand how we expect to be hurt. Of course, expecting nothing will help relieve this. Fear dissipates in the light, so whatever you are afraid of, bring to conscious-ness and it will dissipate like fog. Then there's the adage to stop, look and listen. Stop engaging in the Illusion.