Confucianism emphasizes the hierarchy of the family and of society. The son is subordinate to the father, the wife to the husband, and the daughter to the mother. If you are the kind of man needing a woman who believes in this family structure, then perhaps you should concentrate your search for love in Korea. Man for man, the South Korean army is one of the toughest in the world. Their macho attitude toward fighting spills over in their attitude toward family.
Korean marriage is often an arrangement in which the husband rules and the wife serves.
His word is final. The relationship between the man and the woman, and their love for each other, is not the most important thing in a Korean marriage. It is the family. The family is regarded as belonging to the husband. When a woman marries a man she is entering his family, not starting a new one with him.