I almost had a psychic girlfriend but she left me before we met. If everything seems to be going well, you have obviously overlooked something. Depression is merely anger without enthusiasm. When everything's coming your way, you're in the wrong lane. Ambition is a poor excuse for not having enough sense to be lazy.
Hard work pays off in the future.
Laziness pays off now. The only substitute for good manners is fast reflexes. Everyone has a photographic memory. Some don't have film. Drink 'til she's cute, but stop before the wedding.