Divorce and separation and dispensation not withstanding, it is the dimension of permanence that is the essential beauty the fidelity of the individual to the loving God, spouse of his soul, lover of His Heart. The threefold quality of marriage solitude, commitment, generativity are characteristic also of the soul's union with God. For we remain forever who we are, engaged in a commitment that is deep and everlasting, and the union is fruitful for our good and the good of all. At Cana Christ gave expression to this. We are not like little old ladies, but notwithstanding, old monks enjoy the entrance, the clothing, the vows of the newcomer.
Life goes on.
The birth of grandchildren is perhaps a deeper experience for the old couple then it is for the actual parents by reason of years of committed love that was at once solitary, communal, and creative. Who is the Source of eternal joy.