Thoughts are the basis for our present condition. One should like one's own company. One cannot live in isolation. Without relationship you are nothing. Most of us want people to like us.
Life seems better that way.
Whether or not we like ourselves or others like us largely depends on us. To be likeable you should have a strong self-esteem. Eight steps are recommended to help you strengthen your self-esteem. First, accept yourself as you are. Second, improve your inner self.