Of course, it appears he learned this type of behavior from his family. They probably have convinced themselves that this type of nonsense is funny, no harm intended, just joking, etc. Many of the things you mention are indicative of someone who has an abusive personality. In addition, his ability to convince you that you are the problem is very typical of an abuser's behavior. In addition, you may benefit from discussing this with a counselor trained in abusive relationships.
Helps explain the different perspectives of the victim and the abuser.
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