This winter, Jennifer brought her San Francisco nanny to Vail because last season her toddler fell ill and couldn t join the resort s childcare program. I learned my lesson. After everything we d invested in that vacation, my husband and I had to take turns staying in the lodge all day. But for Ellen, bringing a nanny turned out to be the real nightmare. The kids had a great time but I was so concerned about whether or not my babysitter was having fun that I could never relax.
Expenses are another common sore point.
Ms. McGuire also recommends establishing guidelines for spending money when your nanny is alone with the kids. Remember to ensure accountability by asking your nanny to bring back receipts. Meg invites her niece, a Seattle college student, on all family trips to serve as a mother s helper. Sally Anne s case may sound familiar to many working women. Since grandparents and other relatives often relish spending time with children, they are naturally great caregivers.