Free sex with no commitment has nothing more to do with being gay than it has to do with being straight. It is not consistent with a Christian life and this selfish instant pleasure oriented sex can be emotionally and physically destructive. As humans, we have the special God given love that we can share with others. Sex without love is nothing more that animal lust. It is This special gift of love that makes us unique.
Love is so much more than sex.
It is the total sharing, trust, and a desire for a life long commitment. It is within the context of a lifelong committed loving relationship that sex can be a wonderful expression of that love. Sex is meant to be special not casual. To be special, it must be held precious . So precious, in fact, that it belongs only as part of the relationship with the one person with whom you have chosen to have a life long commitment.