Love is best characterized as a need that did not previously exist. Whereas before we felt the ability to simply move on in our lives, we now feel we cant do so without the object of our love. Our destiny is inextricably linked to theirs and they now possess the ability to make us happy or upset. But the romantics are right. Love is an empowering emotion because the greatness of man is not his ability to go it alone, but rather his ability to acknowledge his fundamental reliance and dependence on others, to join them as his partners, and build a better self, and by extrapolation, a better community and a better world.
Human greatness is reached collectively.
Here we have the reason for the extreme unG-dly nature of anger. When we get angry we utter all kinds of abusive and intemperate language at those we love most. I said those things. I didnt mean them. Its just that I was angry at the time.