And yes, I know, you're so exhausted with the search, you'd just about settle for any guy who doesn't sweat when he eats or puke on your shoes after a rough night out. What I can offer you, though, is a comforting set of instructions to make seeing through bad guys easier than seeing through Grandma's underpants. I've designed this from my own personal struggle to understand what girls need. This resourceful blueprint includes observational generalizations for eliminating the posers and catering to the objective interests of all those nice, sweet boys. First, if you hope to meet a good guy in a social atmosphere, don't go out and drink yourself stupid.
Good guys go to bars, but they're usually just there for the merriment and cheerful interaction.
If you get Betty Ford-hammered, the only guys you're going to impress are the ones that drive 70 miles per hour down Allen Street. Dress is also a frequently mishandled issue these days. Wear what makes you comfortable, nothing more and especially nothing less. Only posers reason that a girl's worth correlates well with her skin exposure, but the good guys know better. Try to look interesting without looking like you're trying to signal for a synchronized swoon from the male audience.