I would not be in church today if I did not practice forgiveness. We are all so totally flawed. Your postings make me feel sad. Pastors amd priests are just humans, too. I prefer not to know them too well lest I become offended.
Forgiveness is a decision.
Forgiveness begins with ourselves and then overflows to others. Hi suchaduch, That letter you got from the church you attended sounds very hurtful and destructive. It saddens me to hear that you experienced that from a pastor or church leader. Your search for a church home where you can feel accepted is very important. And yet you do need to settle on one.