Put all of your experience on your resume. It's okay to have 2-3 pages. Listing your references on your resume is acceptable. If you answered all three false, you are correct. List the experiences that match the needs of the organization.
Employers generally prefer one page resumes.
If you must have two pages, list the least important information on the second page. Don't list the names of your references anywhere on the resume. List name, address, telephone number and e-mail address. Give a telephone number which will be answered during normal business hours. Create a professional message on your answering machine.