Post Traumatic Stress Disorder is a common problem for rape survivors. The crime effects not only the primary victim, but spreads to include significant others, friends and can even impact distant family members. The devastation for the victim can be far reaching and the conviction rate is poor. There are many situations where guys don't feel thier behavior has broken the law, but according to her, he did. Sometimes it's plain old miscommunication fueled by common rape myths.
Girls say no when they really mean yes.
She wouldn't have gone out if she hadn't intended to have sex. I deserved something for buying the dinner, flowers or movie. These are all misconceptions about rape. When a woman says no, the answer is no. By going out on a date a woman is not automatically agreeing to have sex no matter how much money was spent.