Don't blame anybody. Look inside yourself for how you need to be strong. That's real courage. Don't rush to fix things either. That's a big mistake.
Impatience is a massive cover for fear.
Believe me, I know. Feel what your afraid of, don't do something to just make it go away. Meditate on your adversity, learn from it. Then take action, but not before. There's the myth, and then there's the man.