Task Responsibility is the sense of doing one s best at something, and Personal Responsibility is not only knowing right from wrong but also, knowing to do right when no one else is watching. Dr. Rosemond, a family psychologist, suggests these 5 old-fashion principles. Praise the act, not the child. Use phrases such as, You did a great job on this project, and you should be proud. Instead of You re a terrific little girl.
Excessive praise can create a strong dependency.
Children can become addicted to praise which can lead to feelings of insecurity. Help your children learn they are capable of standing on their own two feet by not letting them stand on yours. Do for your children only what they can t do for themselves, and remember that children usually underestimate their ability. Provide support and encouragement. Teach your children that choices result in consequences.