Whether you're talking about family love, love between friends , or romantic love, it is possible to get it right - to communicate, to negotiate, to learn to step round rows and hurts disappointments in a way that leaves both people feeling good about themselves and about the other person. Last but not least, of course, we can actually use that word 'love', and turn it to the positive. Because the reason why it's dangerous is not that it's intrinsically wrong. Yes it can bring someone down, keep them down, take away the will to live. But it also has the most incredible power to help.
Love lightens the day, and brightens up life.
So use the word - dangerous though it is. Take a moment, today, to tell someone that you love them. Write it on a post-it note and put it on the fridge. Dial a number and leave it on a friend's answerphone. Buy a card and pop it in the post.