Get some emotional counseling, not just career counseling. If you're feeling unfocused, stop what you're doing, take time to be quiet, go inside yourself, and meditate. So I've decided to stop backing away, and start moving forward. Listen to some tapes on effective selling. Usually after doing this the charge will be gone and it will reduce my worry.
Every day get out and be with other people in some way.
Eliminate the fluff. Schedule the rest.