With 400 billion cups of coffee consumed globally each year, you wouldn't have to look far for a mate with that criterion. Even our deepest secrets are not unusual. That's just the human condition. The Net emphasises similarities. Someone telling you their hopes and dreams, that's very compelling.
Imagination fills in all the gaps.
Even those of us who know how writing works and should be more cynical seem to fall in love all the more readily. What lovers do Four years ago, a cyberlover had to make do with a keyboard and their imagination. Now there are several enhancements for online affairs. Chat and ICQ instant messaging can simulate a real-time conversation. You can talk to each other using Internet telephony or you can make that big step towards real trust by exchanging real phone numbers.