However, it is not uncommon for mothers to feel guilty, blaming themselves, although incorrectly, for causing the disease. Fathers too can have difficulty accepting that they have a disabled son who will not be able to do things that they would like them to do. With Your Spouse Couples can overcome these painful feelings by recognising them and sharing them with each other. Fathers may find this difficult because of society expectations that they should be strong and not show their emotions. They need time and perhaps the right situation to express their feelings.
Every person has their own way of resolving problems.
Significance of a Father's Role Normally children become more independent as they grow older. However for boys with Duchenne muscular dystrophy, just as this independence begins to develop, the progression of the disease makes them physically dependent again. A father has an important part to play at this time and can make a wonderful contribution to a boy's life. Although it is not always possible to give lots of time, given the need to earn a living, any time available is valuable and constructive. Other male figures close to the family can also provide support and guidance.