They are trying to be more giving, understanding, to listen and bless those around them. Those are the spiritual qualities that open the door for the possibility of true intimacy. Together, they form the spiritual matrix that grants us a safe space, a secure space. It is out of such a safe space that we then have the freedom to let ourselves shine from within. We make a soul connection.
Great sensuality follows from soul connection.
Great sensuality, of course, is bigger than sexuality itself. It is very nearly synonymous with people that are able to make a spiritual soul connection. It is the same spirit of character that makes for profound friendship and sharing. It radiates passion for others, passion for life, passion for God. Occasionally we will meet people that simply possess a passionate aura, a charisma.