My parents are about to split up and I'm scared. I've read about kids who get really messed up by their parents' divorce. Y ou are in for a ride on an emotional roller coaster. And all of those are understandable responses to what's happening to you. But the last one, guilt, is one I hope you'll let go of.
Guilt is a very common feeling among the children of divorcing parents.
But you need to know that your parents' problems are not your fault. You didn't cause the potential divorce, and your parents might have had problems in their marriage long before you were born. Contrary to messages you might hear, you must believe that you are not to blame for your family's situation. I'd advise you to find some supportive people you can talk to about your feelings and the stress of home. Your own parents are probably too emotionally drained to offer you much support right now.