By the same token, exploiting loopholes in the rules for your one-sided benefit also dilutes the game. Talk to the hand. The GM's ruling is final. You don't have to agree with it, but you don't get to argue about it in public. Don't go there.
Every group is different.
It is your responsibility to know where the line is within your group and not cross it. Don't be gross, or at least know when it's okay to be gross. Know when to say when. Life is real. This is a game.