Impared judgment is what makes infatuation dangerous.
This projection of seeing what we want causes us to overlook attributes that we may not prefer later when infatuation subsides. An infatuated state of love that is based on good discretion considering the whole of a person's nature is more realistic. This also prefares you for considering a forgiving state of mind if unprefered attributes manifest situations that are trying. Love that is nurtured is unbeatable.