Back in the days of uneducated clergy, denominations printed sermons for pastors to read. Now denominations give programs and successful churches spawn imitators. There are things you can learn from another parish or a program, but I believe that every parish is unique and that God is already prompting you to move God's way. I believe that the Living Lord is leading us individually and collectively. The mystery is the wonder of God's presence inside and outside, transforming individuals and history.
Guides are like tour guides, helping people to open their eyes and see the wonder and glory.
We are not only to pay attention to the wonder ourselves, but to know how to help the individual we relate to. This means knowing their abilities, nature, limitations, and where they might be most open. Likewise, pastors and small group leaders must pay attention to the atmosphere of the tour. Unlike a sightseeing tour, the wonders here are found in relationships and within. This skill or heavenly wisdom we cannot learn in seminary or from books.