She expressed not understanding why her brother was mad all of the time. Monica stated that she would do what he did to her when he was mad at her. Monica's parents spent time with her, separately and together, to teach her alternative ways to handle Joe's anger. For example, when they are sifting at the dinner table, Monica could learn to ask for the salt and pepper instead of reaching across Joe's plate. Over time, Monica tried the new social skills, which replaced the yelling and hitting of her brother.
Family meetings bring a family together to talk about the issues important to the family.
The issues can be around problem solving an issue or conflict to planning a family vacation. Family meetings can occur once a week or twice a month. Keep in mind the more frequent the more impact they will have on helping the family communicate. The length of a family meeting is determined by the family. Each persons attends the meeting with an agenda item or ideas to discuss.