There is a strike zone from the floor to an adult's shoulder height. This is an area which should be free of matches and lighters. If an older child is curious about matches, show him the proper and safe way to use them, but only when an adult is present. Often, when children play with fire, nothing happens. They develop a false sense of control over it.
Fire play is very serious.
Don't assume it is just a phase and will pass by itself. Children who play with fire can be dangerous to themselves and others. Because children usually don't understand why they are setting fires, they can't stop without help. The Rancho Cucamonga Fire Department offers an interview program for children up to age 14 who have shown fire play behavior characteristics. If you want to discuss this problem with someone, call 477-2770.