Not to worry. This is not about religion, it's about a spiritual connection. The work RUTT seems to be something most of us are in. You name it, we can escape to it. The relationship RUTT is a BIG RUTT that a lot of us fail to see until after we are right smack dab in the middle of our unhappiness with our significant other or with the lack of having a mate at all.
Fear runs rampant.
Maybe it's time for you to replace fear with faith. It's up to you. And then there is family. We may be able to choose our friends, but our family is our family. It's really ALL about life.