When I lose that focus, everything else goes out of whack. Keys to understanding girls. And if you get this basic stuff, you will probably score some serious points with the ladies. First of all, men and women are VERY different in almost every way. Look in the Bible, they're all different.
Girls are emotional, analytical and complicated.
Girls need reassurance, acceptance and security. Be who you are. Let girls be girls. Don't mock or put down girlness. TALK to girls and find out who they are.