If they re not doing well, men experience immense stress. Push themselves so hard they become strangers to their own children. For women, money is more personal. Too often, wives leave their finances entirely to the man of the family. Millions of widows are thus left vulnerable to mismanagement, or even to con artists.
Many Unificationist couples place great emphasis on their children.
It may be sports, or the arts, or practical skills. Some insist on a maximum of formal education and tutoring. Other couples place top priority on tithes, church projects, and campaigns. Time and money are heavily shifted toward these. There are ways to smooth out these differences, and create a happy and secure household.