Holcomb said that when he starts to get worked up, he now wills himself to think, 'This is distressing, but not dangerous. His wife said he is a different person. He doesn't have that dominating need. He's the person I saw 29 years ago. Members say that in will training, they learn to control thoughts and impulses and to be suspicious of feelings they cannot control.
Feelings lie and deceive.
Your brain can only have one thought at a time. If it is one of danger, then your life is going to reflect that thinking. If your thoughts are of resentment and judgment, your life will reflect that. Walburger, who has had a lifelong problem with anger, said he is now happily married to his third wife. He has also been helped by Prozac-like medication.