I've outlined just a few of the most common types of self-sabateurs below. The Control Freak. A Control Freak will never find anyone who will live up to her expectations. If you are a control freak, you need to learn how to be more flexible and let others make the decisions and, God forbid, do things their way, even if you don't think it's the right way. The Man Hater Women need to be careful not to let their anger about past boyfriends, husbands or fathers turn them into angry man haters.
Guys have a radar for man haters in the same way that women can sense if a men are gay or married.
If you are always in a crisis, you are probably a Drama Queen. A man might be attracted at first to the Drama Queen because of his need to rescue you. The Ladies Man Ladies' Men make good boyfriends, but terrible husbands. Handsome doesn't help a woman in her eleventh hour of labor. You probably go after women who have low self-esteem, telling beautiful women they're smart and intelligent women they're beautiful.