A man's brain has a more difficult time shifting from thinking to feeling than a women's brain does. Women need real moments of solitude and self-reflection to balance out how much of ourselves we give away. In order to experience everyday spirituality, we need to remember that we are spiritual beings spending some time in a human body.
Love is a force more formidable than any other .
And that training makes it very difficult for men to be intimate. Only when your consciousness is totally focused on the moment you are in can you receive whatever gift, lesson, or delight that moment has to offer. We need to find the courage to say NO to the things and people that are not serving us if we want to rediscover ourselves and live our lives with authenticity. What allows us, as human beings, to psychologically survive life on earth, with all of its pain, drama, and challenges, is a sense of purpose and meaning. When you make a commitment to a relationship, you invest your attention and energy in it more profoundly because you now experience ownership of that relationship.