If you are sick you can t be your best you. Develop Certainty Constantly self educate your self. The more you know, the more you can share other people s favorite experiences. Become a voracious reader, travel if you can and learn from audio and video about your areas of interest. As you become more knowledgeable about various subjects, people seek you out for ideas and advice because you are an expert.
Experts also know how to be wrong, and how important admitting to being wrong can be.
They also know that people search them out because of the confidence that their certainty brings them. People with certainty about who they are and where they are going are magnificently exciting to be with. We are inspired by their focus and their quest. Certainty is not arrogance. Certainty is an almost faith-like conviction that someone experiences about her path in life.