My acceptance of Jack and his values led to more effective programming that better met the needs of our guests. It also enhanced our working relationship. Many times differences in values lead to conflicts that damage relationships. To keep the lines of communication open, it is imperative that we learn to forgive. When we forgive someone we are freed from entangling negative emotions that do us far more damage than the offender.
Forgiveness provides great freedom, both for the forgiver and the forgiven.
As we work toward resolving the differences that divide us, it may be the most important of the three key elements we have looked at, but probably comes more easily after the other two. All three are vital for building and maintaining good relationships, especially when generational differences are involved. The values we develop in our youth are the foundation for what we believe as adults. Understanding this concept is the most important tool in identifying why people of different generations value things differently. Use this knowledge of differences to lessen some generational tensions with those you live and work with.