They will continue to do that until somebody confronts them. Many of these people have been abandoned by parents, have had bad relationships, feel betrayed and want to punish the world. They are terrific, another resource. The best way to date, however, is to go out to places and meet different people. There is no substitute for going out and meeting other people .
Fantasy is essential.
Even Einstein said fantasy is more important than knowledge. When you can share your fantasies with someone you love, it will embolden your sexual repertoire. Cybersex is fun, as long as you don't become addicted. It's a great source of fantasy, and I recommend it for couples to do together. I don't consider it being unfaithful, fantasy isn't being unfaithful.