Discussions and reactions occurred as various points came out. Many new and deep insights were shared as well as some touching moments and deeply serious concerns as well. What we are trying to do is very serious. It not only effects and involves our families and our church but can also be expected to be the pattern for society at large. We want to create a pattern that our children will be proud of in front of all young people and one that those young people will choose to follow themselves instead of what society is offering.
Every child is unique and every family is unique.
God looks with love on every situation individually and uniquely. No system can be rigid and express God s love. The BC to be matched has the ultimate responsibility of accepting the match and creating the resultant marriage and family. The parents must use all of their resources, spiritual and physical, together with their child to find the spouse that God has prepared, not the one that they might personally think is best. Numerous outside resources are available.