To love means to open ourselves to suffering. Intimate relationships are viewed through lenses of caution, doubt, and suspicion. The idea of marrying again holds no promise of security, but rather, provokes only fear and apprehension. Sadly, it is just at the time that the divorc e begins to view all relationships with suspicion that the church decides to fold her arms in disgust and condemn the righteous with the wicked by declaring all divorce sinful. No one entering marriage ever plans to divorce.
Failure is always the unintended result.
Divorce papers are usually the culmination of repeatedly shattered hopes. All participants in a divorce soon realize that divorce is never the end of their problems. Instead, it immediately introduces new problems. In the case where one partner is the victim of another's rejection of the marital bond, the agony penetrates even deeper. Betrayal by another, especially one so close as the marriage partner, is painful.