Divorce is sometimes the only way to safeguard the family idea. We must have divorce, preferable cheap. From the book The Case Against Divorce by Diane Medved. No one ever emerges from a divorce unscathed - he or she is inevitably permanently harmed. Divorce hurts you.
Divorce brings out selfishness, hostility, and vindictiveness.
It ruins your idealism about marriage. It leaves emotional scars from which you can never be free. It costs a bunch of money - and significantly reduces your standard of living. Divorce hurts those around you. It devastates your children for at least two years and probably for life.