And yes, we were told we couldn't use their stove to heat up Chris' bottle. The day of our departure they gave our friends some potted plants from their garden, exchanged telephone numbers and addresses, and didn't even say goodbye to us. By the way, we haven't seen that couple since then either. To be fair, I'm sure there are some very good bed and breakfasts that treat families well, and perhaps someday we'll find one. Not all our experiences were bad before we had kids.
Many associations also have inspections or are in the process of implementing an inspection program.
I'll leave the computer on for you.