You are family. You need each other. You know what they did to You. I ll get hurt in family. Of course you will, but I m not talking about minimizing pain but about maximizing love.
Family hurts, but family heals, too.
Family and suffering are channels of life. Love those who hurt you. I grieve over your disobedience in abetting and tolerating disunity. Obey Me by uniting in the Spirit. You become family when you live like family.