When team members don't get along or don't support the choices someone makes for their life, it's up to the team leader to help get things going again. One way is to write down a list of the things that people agree on and another list for the things that people don't agree on. Next, the team thinks of new ways to look at the things they don't agree on until everyone sees something that can work. If things still aren't working well, then the team may need to choose a new leader or ask someone else to come in and get things going again. The important thing to remember is that the team decides what is written into the plan together and the plan is written to help people get the support and service they want and need.
Goals are the things that people want to do in the next few years.
They are the choices that people make about where to live, what to do during the day, who to spend time with and hopes and dreams. I will go to church. I will get a job. I will meet new friends. I will live in my own apartment.