Let it be remembered that it is recorded of the Perfect Man that He wept by the graveside of Lazarus and made lamentation over the doomed city of Jerusalem. He who created muscles in the face which are only called into action by a hearty laugh and a tear-duct for the eye, meant that each should be used in their season. Nevertheless, it remains that our emotions are to be disciplined and regulated. Responsibility attaches as much to our inner life as it does to our outward. The subject is admittedly a delicate one, yet is it one of practical importance.
Intemperate grief is as unjustifiable as is intemperate joy.
That God takes notice of inordinate grief may be seen from the case of Samuel mourning for Saul. Samuel is one of the brightest characters of which we have recorded in Scripture, yet he failed at this point. This incident is recorded for our learning and warning. The hour of emergency is what usually brings to light that which is to be found within us. Therefore it is of little or no use to bid a person control himself or herself when deeply agitated over an unusual experience, for one who has never learned to govern himself day by day, cannot begin doing so under exceptional circumstances.