But this special nature is due to the work of the Holy Spirit inside us, not our own nature. For some years, before returning to teaching to earn my living, I was either a salesman or a sales manager. In sales, one's job is to persuade another to an idea, and then to service the new customer to keep him loyal. A salesman is one who relates well to others. So it is with evangelism.
Evangelism is relational.
I think of the example of a woman in one of our congregations. She has built up a small group of women. Her evangelizing has been done by personal invitation. She is being herself, and the women keep coming. As a result of her invitations, she has brought many others to Christ.