So, it's more like a random game of chance than a betrayal of someone who loved you. So, if you can think of him as just a jerk, who happened to turn his attention on you, maybe you can change your anger to disgust and let it go. It is irritating to know that an abuser can fool so many people. And, it would be nice to be able to spot an abuser right away. It is possible to increase your chances of identifying an abuser early on, perhaps before you have gotten too involved with one.
Helps explain the different perspectives of the victim and the abuser.
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