Coping, not coping. Time, no time. People who responded to a recent survey said they were not happy. That is because happiness is defined in externals. I will be happy when I change my outside, my circumstances.
Happiness is misunderstood.
Happiness is ultimately internal. Happiness is not really available in things, accomplishments, promotions, the list seems endless. I finish college, when I get married. If you are married, when my marriage gets better. When I finish school, when I can go back to school.