No one is always up or down all the time. Problems do come to an end. Give a helping hand to your spouse with patience till the problem crosses over. Clashes of opinion do happen and quarrels do occur, as we tend to loose temper in the spur of the moment. But see that you don t carry it to the next day.
Love is the undercurrent of life.
When you follow a give and take policy in love as a spouse, then it becomes a commodity. Give unconditional love. There lies the secret of enjoyment. When you give without expectation it returns in manifolds. Experience is the good teacher.