We need to work on changing that. Not that we can change the world as well as ourselves in a week or a year or even in our lifetimes. But we can take steps, day by day. That is what I want you to do. I believe the secret of success in virtually any venture,i ncluding difficult life circumstances, is to set goals and move toward them, even when it seems as if you are crawling.
Every movement forward is an advance.
Do it for your ill relative and do it for yourself. As a result, whenever possible, I not only suggest what you might try but also how to try it. My over rearching goal is to enable you to identify goals for yourself and your relative and to offer you ideas on how to move toward the goals that are right for you. I want to reduce despair and hopelessness and empower you as much as possible. Then when you are energized and empowered, you can spread the word to others.