I feel valuable. I feel loved. I feel like I complete him. It makes me want to meet his needs. It's amazing to me to see how his love for me increases my love for him.
Love is a choice.
I may not always be feeling it, but I can still choose to act in loving ways. I don't even need to have the desire to do loving things. All I need to do is choose to obey the Lord, to depend on Him to help me demonstrate unconditional love in understandable and tangible ways. That is to be my major role in our marriage. How It Works One particular incident from our lives may help you understand how this submissive spirit and loving leadership works in a marriage.