Drop by for a visit at random times. At home alone, Leave a phone number where you can be reached. Have your child check in with you or a neighbor when he or she gets home. Agree on rules for having friends over and for going to a friend's house when no adult is home. Make sure your child knows how to use the window and door locks.
Kids can always say their parents are busy and take a message.
Work out an escape plan in case of fire or other emergencies. Don't force kids to kiss or hug or sit on a grown-up's lap if they don't want to. This gives them control and teaches them that they always have the right to refuse. Tell your child to stay away from strangers who hang around playgrounds, public restrooms, and schools. Some physical signs of abuse include bedwetting, loss of appetite, venereal disease, nightmares, and complaints of pain or irritation around the genitals.