There are no winners in war. This is a simple goal but hard part of conflict resolution. It is the job of each party in a conflict to initiate a reconciliation. When You Are Wearing the Shoes of Your Opponent. There is no better way toward resolving and managing conflict then by seeking council from more experienced parties who have a good perspective about both parties in involved.
Life is about perspective.
Right or wrong depends upon from which perspective of a problem you are looking at. I can honestly say that I was not always been able to anticipate problems, manage and resolve conflicts as a coach as well as I would have liked. However with each year of experience I get better at resolving conflict and so can you. No one teaches you these skills in life. In many cases our conflict management skills are inherited by example from our parents, mentors, or bosses.