Acted on it too. I called H at work and told him I can't work things out with him. I can't be with him. I was thinking about all the things I never wanted to think about before. He LOST my son at the park one day when he met his OW there to talk to her.
H denies that.
With my H waffling back in forth a couple months back, my 3 year old has becoming very attached to me. I mean he will not let me out of his sight. He never used to be like this but now because of his father I think he has a major fear of abandoment. Especially my oldest. I can not risk my H leaving for her again and hurting my children.