Yet, confronted with their own human failings, they are inhumane toward themselves. There is no other word for it but inhumane. You must learn to be humane toward yourself, to forgive yourself for your shortcomings, or your success mechanism will not function and you will attain no goals that will be really satisfying. Success and self-debasement cannot live together. They are enemies, not partners.
Love is an abstract idea unless it is expressed.
We may talk about love and define love, but still not be loving. Silently bless the person who seems to rub you the wrong way. He may not change, but you will change your reaction to him. To the person who seems to stand in the way of your good, who seems to be a threat to your security and success, let love cast out fear. I love you, I bless you.