Then the third part is acting on what you've heard so that you reassure the other person that they really do have your goodwill and that you want things to get better. Great sex involves more than technique, Hooper says. When it is about sex it's really wonderful.
Intimacy can be about many things.
I feel that's the most important thing. It's very important to get it right in the mind because, on the whole, most physical sex comes after that. In 20 years of her practice, Hooper's seen a shift in the reasons for people walking through her doors. Hooper, who uses case examples throughout her book, says a problem may exist where someone wants sex all the time. Understanding yourself and your partner is key to a healthy relationship and great sex, she says.