Joell, Well, I am in a similar situation, as I am due very soon, but my H has chosen to accept this child as his own. If your H is unwilling and unable to help you raise this child, and accept it as his own child, then, yes, I would give the child to a family that desperately wants a child but cannot have one of their own. In fact, when we first found out about the pregnancy, I told my H that I would do that if it was what he wanted. And I still would, although it would be harder at this time since we have gone through the whole pregnancy with the decision to keep the child. Your H's choice may seem selfish, but you would be more selfish to keep a child in a situation where one of the two parents isn't willing to keep the child.
Every child deserves to have two parents that love it with all their hearts.
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