Make it easy to find and pick up toys by storing them on low shelves and in clear plastic containers rather than in a toy box. Color code shelves so that older children understand that small, breakable items that are dangerous for younger siblings need to be stored up high, out of reach. A small rug or blanket can be used by each child to create a special place to play on his or her own. When play is over, the rug can be rolled up or slipped under a sofa for easy storage. Buy two of inexpensive but favorite items.
Family pictures give children an important sense of belonging and strong sense of history.
Create a cozy place for family discussions. Block off wide open spaces with a well-placed sofa. Move the chest that is always getting hit by the back door when the kids come tramping in from the back yard. Avoid a crisis by keeping things that are breakable, valuable, or dangerous out of reach. Music often soothes the souls of wild beasts.