But this plainly shows that Jacob, like most any man in the flesh, was able and willing to have sex with someone he did not love. Women should never think a man loves them just because they have sex. A 1993 Los Angeles Times article interviewed young men to find out their views on sex. That s why we re men . . After sex, he explained many boys dump the girls.
Girls get mad, but they don t take it hard.
They get over it. This is the kind of man a woman might have sex with in the misguided effort to keep him as her boyfriend, because he has deceived her into thinking he loves her. The birth of Levi. Leah still lives in the hope her husband Jacob will love her and become attached to her through the birth of these sons. The pain in the heart of Leah is as evident as the hardness of Jacob s heart, and as evident as his fleshly attitude towards his wife Leah. 5.