If we allow God into our life and truly ask, He will send help. This help can come in many different forms. It could be people coming into your life when most needed, medication to ease your distress, Bible and book passages which seem to help. It could be counseling, internet sites or books to read. It could be a well timed phone call from a friend or even an inspiring email.
Help is there.
Our task is to recognize and be ready to take advantage of the help when it is sent to us. Sometimes we confuse wanting help with wanting someone else to deal with our problems so we won't have to. When we ask for help it will be sent. When we ask for someone else to carry this burden that might not happen. It's already been given to us to carry.