You are finally feeling like you are ready to participate in being with others. This is definitely the time to get out there and mingle and merge. Relationships that have seen their better days are headed for the dumpster. They can be recycled, but both of you will have to work on it. By the end of the month, you are focusing on your career and you seem so much more practical.
Life is an illusion.
Make it a good one. Exploring the greater depths of your emotional connections to others is not your favorite place to be. But, that is the journey you are on this month. This is not markedly negative, but if you do it more consciously, you can get more from the experience. Later on you can move their stuff outside on the sidewalk.