To be exalted, one must be a slave to all. Not so with you. Instead, whoever wants to become great among you must be your servant, and whoever wants to be first must be slave of all. Judas enthroned himself and committed suicide. Hitler followed the same pattern.
Life works just the reverse of what the natural man thinks.
My way stunts growth. When I do everything my way, I have no opportunity to learn from others. I am doomed to commit the same mistakes over and over because I won't listen to or learn from others. My horizons are too narrow. My way allows no freedom.