As it stood, however, it generated anger rather than thoughtful commentary. The idea I had been rocking in that cranial cradle went to its grave without ever having experienced even a tumultuous adolescence. In going about the communication of my views the wrong way, I rendered my argument ineffective and even detrimental. Using my own column as a prime example of its own point, I stand by my belief even as I regret the manner in which I approached it. First comes the realization that tolerance must come from both sides.
Diversity lies first and foremost in variety of opinions and ideas.
Tolerance of opposing views are paramount to successful and productive race relations. It is possible to understand a contrary point of view even as you disagree. That is what we all should strive for. Leaving contentious tones such as condescension, hostility and mockery out of dialogue as much as possible will foster better communication on racial issues. Most important is the careful thought that must be put into translating ideas from mental conception to vocal realization.