We are dying, please help. Rabbi thinks a moment and then tells the Poor Man Kick the goat out. Rabbi say Poor Man do. The next day the Poor Man rushes back to the Rabbi, all smiles and happiness. Rabbi, thank you so much, you saved our lives.
Life is so much better now.
In case you are wondering what this is all about, that story can give you great insight into what happens in your mind when life is playing games with you. You are not happy at work. You go to your Boss and tell him I am not happy here. I am not getting enough money and nobody appreciates my work. You anxiously wait one week, worried sick about losing your job and feeling stupid for asking.