If you force yourself to think about how you benefit from each situation, your emotions will grow and mature. As your analytical mind becomes used to thinking about how you are benefitting from each situation, your sadness, grief, anger, and disappointment will lessen. At the same time, your happiness, joy, love, friendship, and excitement will grow and become more frequent. Your self image and confidence will also develop and strengthen. Life is much easier when it is full of joy.
Life is either a daring adventure or nothing at all.