Almost everything that gets talked about in therapy ought to have come spontaneously from your own thoughts and feelings. Your therapist is there to help you explore what is inside you, not to suggest things you ought to be thinking about or trying to remember. The process of psychotherapy is fraught with historical inaccuracies. These small distortions of the truth have little effect on the healing power of psychotherapy, but no one should take what is remembered or talked about in the context of psychotherapy as historical truth. How we experienced the past is far more important to the process of psychotherapy than verifying each and every detail.
Life consists of shades of gray.
Almost nothing is absolute, at least here on this planet. Learning to live with uncertainty and mixed feelings is a part of growing up. Who you are and the problems you are having are all a mixture of lots of things, including your genetic makeup, the family you grew up in, your personality and temperament, and a host of other variables. Life is a whole mix of events, experiences and emotions, all of which influence and change the others. In other words, there is no particular problem or illness that always results from childhood abuse.