Let this be our goal. You've probably noticed that certain colors have certain effects. We feel different walking into a dimly lit black room than we do walking into a brightly lit yellow room. Green is soothing and seems to promote healing and growth. Color me healed.
Laughter is one of the most healing activities around.
Whatever it is that makes you laugh, do it. Rent a video, buy a comedy tape, read a funny book, talk to people who make you laugh. Ask your friends to call you with anecdotes, stories and jokes they may have, hear or meet. And, yes, it's OK to laugh about your loss. There is a fine line between tragedy and comedy.