You may wish to seek counseling to work through any mixed feelings you have. Therapeutic abortion is legal in the United States up to the 24th week of pregnancy, although abortions after 12 weeks are more difficult to obtain, more expensive and carry more medical risk. Try to arrange an appointment before your actual day of surgery to see how well prepared the staff and clinic are to meet your needs. Do not hesitate to call and ask for references. If abortion is not an option and you are reluctant or unable to keep the child, adoption may be an alternative.
Many agencies have waiting lists for couples wishing to adopt infants.
As you consider this option, think about the emotional and physical impact of the nine month pregnancy, labor and delivery, and how it may affect your ability to give the baby to someone else. Examine emotional, family, and economic resources as you explore the options best suited for you and the baby. The Clarke County Adoption Resource Exchange provides information and guidance about area adoption agencies and adoptive issues. They coordinate the efforts of multiple denominations and will support your efforts to seek spiritual counseling as a part of your decision-making process. T. David Fletcher Information .