Well, there's no formula for it. I think genuine discernment is what's required, as well as a kind of centering and not getting uptight about things. It is possible to be a very uptight environmentalist who's continually worrying. But relaxation and enjoyment are also very important. There are beauties to be enjoyed, and when people have made beautiful things they are to be enjoyed.
Good food is to be enjoyed, and cooking it is to be enjoyed, and growing it is to be enjoyed.
I did some research a few years ago now on time budgets in families, and I discovered something very interesting. In other words, they played for them. And once children left home, the family didn't know how to play anymore. The sense of play is so important. Life is an adventure .