Hollywood teaches that love just happens. Love is not something that you work at, that takes time and effort to develop, it just happens. It is not a thinking thing or a choice of the will, it just happens. And when it happens, you hear music and see lights, and it is just so wonderful. If you look at Hollywood, you will see exactly what happens.
Husbands leave their wives and marry someone else.
The problem is that love was just a happening. The world also embraces a Playboy philosophy. In this case, love is getting. It means getting all you can get out of the other person. Playboy love uses a person to satisfy his own needs, then when it is over, they move on.