If you give us a hug and we pull away please know that chances are we're not rejecting you. We may have a hard time being able to respond right now. If we do pull away from you please don't get mad. Tell us you care. If you're together and the survivor has a flashback try not to be mad at the survivor.
Flashbacks are always rough.
It's difficult to know what to do. It's got to be difficult to watch. Any anger should go the one who caused the rape and not the survivor who has to put her life together. Don't be afraid to talk to us if we're upset. Knowing you are there may be just what we need.