The only tool we have to accomplish this is government, whether we like it or not. Like you and all the other stinky, messy humans, I want to have it all. Besides, I actually enjoy the wishful thinking, the comradie of wishing together with others. If I want others to respect my hopes, I must respect theirs. I really only want to be in charge of me, not you.
Force is probably a bad idea, in the long run, at least against fellow humans.
So, I'm a libertarian. So are you, probably. I've heard that the majority of people in the USA are already libertarians at heart and in thought, but don't see any way out of the liberal-conservative bind we have gotten ourselves into. I suspect the same is true throughout the world. So, these past weeks I have been giving you some food for thought.