Because of these factors, your grandchildren will probably not get defensive when you give them advice, and they may listen to your healthy living messages more closely than that of other adults who play a disciplinarian role in their lives. Please note, this all changes quite a bit if you are your grandchild's primary caregiver. 10 Tips to Keep in Mind-and Put to Use. Whenever possible, don't send the message through another adult-deliver it in your own voice in person, on the phone, in an email, or through a letter. Find a system of communication so you and your grandchild can keep in touch-and develop a relationship outside of family gatherings.
Email is a wonderful way to keep in touch with kids.
Ask your grandchild for some advice. Many public libraries offer free Internet access. Good old fashioned letters and phone calls also work. Let your grandchildren know that the difference in your ages doesn't mean you don't understand what's going on in their world.