The secret formula of a happy, lifelong, loving relationship is to always focus on what you can give instead of what you can take. The fourth secret - the power of friendship . To find a true love, you must first find a true friend. Love does not consist of gazing into each other's eyes, but rather looking outward together in the same direction. To love someone completely you must love them for who they are, not what they look like.
Friendship is the soil through which love's seeds grow.
If you want to bring love into a relationship, you must first bring friendship. The fifth secret - the power of touch . Touch is one of the most powerful statements of love, breaking down barriers and bonding relationships. Touch changes our physical and emotional states and makes us more receptive to love. The sixth secret - the power of letting go .