You may need to communicate with the cat that s coming around. I regard antidepressants as a last resort. Cats are often accused of being less caring toward us than dogs. They re different animals. They re solitary hunters, and dogs are pack hunters.
Dogs are more social, and domestic cats are more social than their wild cousins.
A cat still has its genetic programming to be more independent. People label this as indifference. They ignore you. They have to express their nature. You can t tell a cat not to claw.