We wouldn't want to stifle him. It wasn't that long ago when having a baby out of wedlock was something to be hidden in our society. The ostracizing of society kept many young people from being sexually promiscuous. Shame used to keep homosexuality in the closet. Now they march in Washington and demand that we accept their lifestyle.
Homosexuals demand acceptance into the military.
They demand that St. Patrick's Day parades accept them. They march naked in our nation's capital. Shame used to keep many of our citizens off the welfare rolls. For fear someone might see them, people would drive to the next town to use their food stamps. We used to ridicule the people who made us blush.