If you kiss him five times, you get to keep him. Cute boys have no intrinsic value. Boys who are not cute have even less value. People will like you because you want them to. People who like you are your possessions.
Emotional intimacy is irrelevant, and has no value at all.
Physical intimacy is a mechanical act. You don't have to be involved in it to do it. You can have everything you want with no effort except to defend what you have from others who want to have the same things with no effort. Your friends are your enemies. Your enemies are your friends.