Having made an appointment, he arrived and found a very tastefully furnished reception room. Then he came into another place and, as you may have guessed, there were two more doors. One is the very model of low self-esteem. That is, that he could only read the lesser of the choices. The other is habitual behavior.
Habits become barriers to change.
What Jesus did that night long ago, was to offer startlingly higher choices. Their very human habits limited thoughts and actions and radically circumscribed choices. Live habitually, and you end up back on the street. Real religion, right religion, can open the mind and hatch the heart. Though it sounds very ordinary, read a challenging book for your soul's health.