Assumptions, expectations and our desire to control and possess others bring disappointment and conflict. The more we practise unconditional love and acceptance the more we discover that our peace of mind is not dependent on other people's actions. To talk about love and healing is scary. The whole topic is controversial and not often discussed. Everyone agrees that sexual love has no place in healing.
Love has different meanings for different people.
The love of one's family is certainly different from the love of one's clients. Unconditional regard, empathy, acceptance, concern, caring, are all aspects of love. Perhaps the extremes of love are a hindrance to being a doctor. There are some people that you don't connect with and even dislike. This may get in the way of providing unbiased, professional care.