This is supposed to be a formula for 'no gaming', yet, I've done more gaming in the last three years than I ever have. Here's how we make it work. We're adults, and we act like it. The gaming nights are part of our schedule, just like work, continuing education, martial arts classes, bowling night, or any other activity. We don't need to decide to spend time gaming or spend time with our loved ones.
Gaming becomes an activity that is done as a 'together thing'.
A little gaming all the time is easier than a lot of gaming once in a blue moon. But we DO get some gaming done. But a few hours, just long enough to get a little further in the story, can become an easy habit to keep. We meet regularly. We play non-RPGs like Apples to Apples or Chez Geek or whatever.