Often several generations take vacations together to renew family ties. Today's grandparents may use video cameras to share information with their grandchildren. Whatever way grandparents use to keep in touch with their families, the connection between the generations helps both the young and the old. Divorce has come to mean change and adjustment for more and more children. Parents may be so involved with their own feelings that they may not have the time to help children deal with their emotions.
Grandparents can be a special source of support for their grandchildren.
A challenge for these grandparents is to avoid making negative comments about their son or daughter's former spouse which could damage a child's view of their parents. Grandparents can express their love and concern during this time to give the children the extra attention they may need. The majority of today's families are busier than ever before. Parents often have to use evenings and weekends to catch up on chores and errands. Grandparents and stepgrandparents can offer children time with adults who provide stability, companionship, and a listening ear.