It is the acting out of love and caring between two people who have committed to each other for a lifetime in marriage. Intimacy is something you must have in a good marriage. O.K., you may not be thinking about marriage now. But most guys will admit they want a good marriage - someday. When a guy engages in the act of sex for recreation, or as an expected part of a relationship, he can lose the ability to be intimate.
Females become objects for sex.
The part of his heart that responds to intimacy shuts down. The more partners he has, the harder it becomes to open up and allow someone to see inside. Actually, a lot of guys all over the country are making just that choice. Even many of those who have been sexually active are choosing to become abstinent. Others are virgins and are committed to wait until marriage.