Frustration and rejection by peers is frequent in both variants. In the engaging AS pattern, the child's symptoms are seen in excessive bossiness, rigidity and an inability to sense the social context in play situations. They demand too much of their playmates and are apparently oblivious or indifferent to their perceptions or feelings. The exact cause of AS remains unclear. There is no evidence that social or other environmental factors can cause Asperger Syndrome.
Every child displays social processing impairments in a unique way.
Our efforts as developmental psychologists are directed towards an improved understanding of the particular nature of their social challenge and supporting the specific weak trait. An expression of a particular Aspergian trait or social struggle may cloud the appreciation of a child's vast array of positive and wholly unique characteristics. Although children diagnosed with AS share similar social processing issues, it is easy to lose sight of this individuality, especially in difficult developmental periods. Personally I have found the most useful approach towards viewing AS is from the perspective of development and change. The child's achievements and struggles will vary each year with new problems, challenges and growth.