Mr. Djukanovic should have entered a monastery, or made his living as a struggling intellectual, or otherwise taken seriously the great questions of philosophy. During his youth, the best path was a spiritual withdrawal toward God. Doing so, he would have found his male self. This self is very good, very beautiful, capable of wisdom. This manly path awaits Mr. Djukanovic, whenever he decides to abandon the effeminate life.
Every man has a feminine side.
To be sure, each man should temper his own masculinity with the feminine virtues of kindness, gentleness, agreeableness, playfulness, and love. But he should never overdo these things, choosing instead to leave their full expression to the women. He should cultivate his own wisdom and strength, offering these to his people, allowing the women to to be the experts in their own womanly ways. If Mr. Djukanovic insists upon choosing the feminine path, then Life itself has no choice but to award all of his potential masculinity to someone else. For all of a man's qualities, chosen or not, must live.