Develop a clear understanding of the basic tenets of the group, why they want you to be a member, and what they expect of you. Don't be lured by unconditional acceptance, initial provision of food, shelter, and money, or other things that would contribute to feeling indebted to the group. Before going away for a weekend or longer with a stranger or strange group, be sure you are familiar with the organization, where the activity is going to be, what is going to happen at the activity, and what will be expected of you. Most important, be certain that you will be able to leave and to go home at any time. If you do not feel comfortable with the answers you get when you ask these questions, then say no.
Cults prey on people who feel unable to say no.
If you believe you are being targeted by a cult, or have other questions, contact the Counseling and Career Planning Center or one of the ministers of the Campus Ministry Association. Some of the information in this article was taken directly from the brochure Cult Awareness published by the student counseling center at Purdue University. Appreciation is extended to them. This brochure and a wide variety of information on topics common to college students are accessible on the Internet. Helpline is a series of biweekly articles on successful adjustment and performance in college provided by the Counseling and Career Planning Center.