When talking with your child about being held back, make it clear that you, the parents, made a mistake, unknowingly allowing your child to be placed in the wrong grade for which he was not ready. Educators say that a big part of the decision to repeat is the child's reaction. While some may have a sense of relief if they have been struggling, others will feel hurt, which is hard on the child's self-image. What really matters is how the situation is communicated at home. Otherwise, repeating could be a blow to the child's self-esteem.
Educators say that early on is the best time to 're-experience' a grade.
Retention in kindergarten or first grade is preferable to later grades when children become more socially aware. 2000 Families Plus The information contained in this publication is being provided with the understanding that Families Plus, LLC is not engaged in rendering legal, medical or other professional service. If legal, medical or other professional assistance is required, it should be sought from the appropriate professional personnel.