Get newsletters, cool content and more. The truth about his aching balls. Plus, learn about womens' aching vulvas. No matter what he says. It's often called blue balls, because with all that blood, the balls can actually turn a bit darker in color.
Girls can experience vasocongestion too, just like guys.
In a boy, continued blood pressure in the penis and genital area can get pretty uncomfortable. Basically, the sooner the blood leaves the pelvic region, the sooner the swelling goes down and any discomfort goes away. It really is a crime that boys are taught to pressure girls into any kind of sexual activity. They can either masturbate, or simply wait for the pain to subside, which it will do relatively quickly. Related Links The ABCs on STDs Everything you need to know, plus cool pics including one of pubic lice.