They go and sit on a branch somewhere and eat us after they have disabled us by rubbing our abdomens against the branch so that our stingers won't work. I sure hope this is not how I go. Then there are the honeyguides. These birds lead honeybadgers, or baboons, or the biggest baboons of all humans to our nest. Then they sit there and watch, just watch, for an hour or so, while whoever they brought tears apart our hive and steals our honey, pollen and young.
Hornets are just plain nasty.
They show up at our doorstep. Since they are carnivorous, they are more interested in us and our young than in our honey. Twenty of them can wipe out 5,000 of us. Mites are not so dramatic. They get into our breathing tubes and suck body fluids.