They always sent them to Freddie Mae. They said, don't worry, Freddie Mae can do this and she can do that. I took care of kids from the time they came home from the hospital until, well, they were ready to go to college. I always got along with my kids. I never yelled too loud at them.
Children are people.
They're just little. You've got to treat them like you would treat people. If you go yelling and screaming at them and their friends hear you, you'll embarrass them. Then they'll get nasty with you. If you treat them right, they're going to act right.