I do not see that in the Scripture. But to appease some I will simply say a leader needs integrity, eliminating gender. Well, I Think it starts at home. I would ask you how your home life is. These questions only scratch the surface, but they are the first questions for a leader.
Family is the big cover up in the Christian faith.
Because it is the most obvious. If there are struggles in this place, it becomes really obvious, and really public. This is true if you are a leader already. To serve Christ is to serve the Lord Jesus Christ, Our Saviour. We must serve him selflessly.