Admittedly he did come looking for me, and I called the police and I pressed charges against him. The thought of him finding me again, still chills me, but I wouldn't be scared of him. He is a pathetic man who is scared himself. He is like a school bully - stand up to them and they back off. It will take time for you to feel that you can stand up to him, but believe me you can.
Every woman can eventually.
It isn't love you feel for him anymore, you will also realise that once you leave. You will get away I promise you. I did, and here i am now with a guy who adores me, and treats me so well, and we are getting married in January. The one day out of the blue he became jealous of a friend of mine and started to hit me if I even spoke to them on the phone. I really didn't know what to do.