There must come a time, after we have tried everything reasonable to confront our hurt feelings, when we must claim our freedom. It is our God-given right, and our healing depends on it. I will own my problems. Choose the road leading toward forgiveness. Just don't let it lead to sin.
Forgiveness is a positive response to anger.
To forgive, you do not need the other person's cooperation. Giving up your right to get even is not about giving in but about letting go. You are free to move on. But forgiveness is not a onetime option. It is an ongoing choice.