Show a model to others and do good to others. This is a real precept. These days, even the monks do not keep the precepts completely. It is selfish to follow the stream of condition. Some of monks would give up their monastic lives because of many difficulties.
Homes are just the same.
Divorce and arguments are common now. I came into the temple when I was 14 years old but attained Bhikku ordination at 16 years of age. At that time, there were no cars, no rubber shoes, so we wore only grass shoes. There was bus service between Pusan and Unyang only twice a day. We made grass shoes ourselves, carried parcels ourselves, and planted rice fields with a lot of hard work but the mind was comfortable.