We do not release whom we did not call. Focus your efforts on helping people rather than on accomplishing tasks. Measure your accomplishments by what others are able to do because of your help. When you're invited to help with a position, work WITH someone, and do less and less. The greatest temporal and spiritual blessings which always come from faithfulness and concentrated effort never attended individual exertion or enterprise.
Interest is necessary to build motivation.
When helping someone, you need to let them do it their way as much as possible. Give input, but don't make decisions. Show people HOW, but don't do it FOR them. Don't do anything which would weaken or undermine the Priesthood line. Teach them how to find what they need A Christ-like helper is an individual who helps someone else accomplish a goal.