But mean it. Swell belt, Ralph. Find something nice. If it's painfully difficult to come up with something that you sincerely like about the person, you shouldn't be out with them in the first place. Kindness Thank the other person for the date - always, without exception.
Good manners are still in style.
Well, not necessarily good manners - but common sense. That sort of thing is always in style. Focus on the Other Person - pay attention to your date. No wandering eyes. No preoccupation with old relationships, work, bank robberies.