However, the carers are there to assist in specific ways. Do not assume that they are the mouthpiece or the advocate for the person with a disability. It is insulting to talk in the third person about a person who is present. If the person with a disability has a communication problem they will usually let you know and indicate a preferred method. A disability is an inconvenience in certain situations, but it is not necessarily a tragedy which dominates a person's life and makes fulfilment impossible.
Individuals find their own ways of adapting.