The symptoms of the heart are acceptance, allowance, inclusion, sharing, excitement, and truth. Sexuality can not be confined by marriage pledges or restrictive moral code. Instead, it needs truth and trust. For life to be sensually and intellectually fulfilling, and for true love and respect to grow between the sexes, this split must be repaired. Love free of fear, free of violence, and free of lies is a healing love.
Free sexuality is simply a fact of life.
In no way is a partnership in opposition to free sexuality, because it itself is free of jealousy and possessiveness. Falling in love and sharing sexual and sensual joys together are wonderful things, but they do not equal partnership. Growing old together is a remarkable phenomenon, but it is not necessarily a partnership. If two people are together because they are afraid of being alone, that, of course, is not a partnership, either. Nor is a relationship that requires sexual exclusivity and isolation to sustain itself.