But talking about it in advance might help. Getting started with gradual variants can work out in a lot of ways. You might end up discovering all kinds of things about each other and having lots of fun in the process. Even if the endpoint is not the rape scene either of you has in your fantasy life, the exploration can be productive. And I'm a firm believer that even just fueling your fantasy lives, even if you don't end up enacting all the things you find hot, is a positive benefit from exploring at edges.
Great fantasies make people's lives happier, just as great sex and great play do.
Rape Scenes, Forced Sex, Overpowerment, and Abduction Scenes Please see the linked section for more safety and how-to information on rape scenes. Please do not copy without permission.