Weird or inconsiderate is now different. To not step over the line of judgment, stay away from guessing another's intent. Having many opportunities and choices can be fun when you know you don't have to take all of them. When something sparks a reaction, instead of riding the wave of emotion, take a moment to think about the thinking behind the reaction. It may be something you want to adjust.
Humans are so funny.
Like tomatoes, they seem tough on the outside but are soft on the inside.