And keeping your word later. Don't be a snappy conversational smartass. Instead, in silence and inner reckoning, take responsibility for what you pulled in, for your life, for all of it. God is working THRU him or her. You'll be surprised how much more you 'cognite' from events that can polish you into a diamond if you just stay in a vantage point of quietude.
Life is a great teacher.
Be reverent of it. Avoid 'desire mind' as it creates 'LACK' mentality. Chronic desire mind creates chronic non-having. They occur when your thinking is out of sequence in relation to the event, teaching, going on in the room at that second. Stay in present time.