I have looked into Chinese and other foreign adoptions and it seems that many countries are not interested in adopting their children to single males under the age of 40. Open adoption can be a great option. We know lots of parents who have had luck with ads in Rolling Stone or alternative press publications. This seems a common view whether you believe in attachment parenting or spanking, organic vegan diet or red meat at every meal, etc. The truth is that there are a million ways to raise great kids.
Babies are only small for a while.
For real, it gets better. We are tweaky and shy, so personal appearances, to the extent that we do them, are pretty funny. We both like coffee. We let chaos be our aesthetic in all creative endeavors. We like writing in which you can hear the baby screaming right through the middle of it.