Listening is more than paying attention. Actually, it s being attentive to the other person. Stay close to the person and touch. A touch can show the other person that I m really present in this conversation. Truly it s not easy to be a good listener.
Life is full of activity, entertainment and multi-tasking.
If I m hearing , it s what I get out of it. If I m listenin g, it s what you get out of it. How much you get out of it determines how effective my listening is. Listening does not happen by accident. Couples have to concentrate on it.