You need to love a person for who they are and not what they look like. I think that ben is saying that when one is in love that that one doesn't care about beauty. That's what love means. I think he meant that beauty isn't everything. Someone can love someone and the person loved may be ugly but the person who loves can't tell.
Love makes people blind.
It's a shame. Even if they don't seem that way to others. I know what he means. Juliet Stafford , Ft. If you are in ture love than you love the person for who that person is not what they look like.