This means that God does not want His people to turn to other gods. Obviously, if they do, then the problem lies not with God, who is perfection, but with the Children of Israel. It may be that my partner has a problem. Behavioral is simply running away - and is employed much more by men than by women. Statistically, twice as many women are depressed as men, and much research has been devoted to this subject.
Evaluative coping is the most difficult, because it involves changing patterns of evaluation.
It means seeing the good in any situation, the silver lining in the cloud - thinking, OK, I failed, but it's not terrible, there are also good aspects. He devotes another entire chapter to it in his book. What he writes there, he says, is absolutely the first understanding of that particular emotion. If we differentiate between the two, and see pleasure in others' misfortune as a completely different emotion from sadism, then it becomes less morally reprehensible. It is very natural, but people connect the two, and the harsh moral criticism of sadism comes to be directed, mistakenly, against pleasure in others' misfortune.