And, to be sure, the person who called you this was being judgmental. By acceptance, this does not mean that we condone nasty behavior. Nor does it mean remaining in a situation damaging to our self-esteem due to someone else's problems. However, it does mean accepting that we are all different. Each person has a unique thumb-print, no matter what race, gender, age or size.
Judgments lead to anger, which leads to conflict, which can lead to a battle or war.
Yet, there are many races, cultures and religions. To live in the new world, we will need to accept these differences and send love, rather than judgment, to help build understanding of others. In the journal, note how often we pass judgment over the course of a week. Even if you do not verbalize the judgment, write it down. You might be surprised how often you judge others.