I too had a similar situation. We kissed once and afterwards he told me that he had always been attracted to me. A few days later, I let him know how I felt because my feelings were just too strong to let them go untold. Unfortunately, for me, we never really spoke much after that, but I'll never regret telling him how much he meant to me. Sometimes you have to take charge of your own destiny because if you sit and wait you could be waiting a lifetime.
Life is too short and much too precious to spend it wasting time.
Other people say destiny is picking up the phone and making someone else's phone ring. Whatever you're philosophy, the people making the calls are the people most likely to move forward in all aspects of life. But if you're someone who insists on waiting for the phone to ring, at least get a cell phone so you can get out of the house once in a while. Not only that, he's been going through most of our savings. Even though he sounds like a jerk he really is a nice guy.