The Father through Christ. I think it is pretty self evident that the 'light' and 'life' of Christ are within us and that we can enjoy more of both if we Come Unto Christ. The interesting implication is found with the 'law' being inside of us too. Behold, I am the law, and the light. The changes that need to occur in our lives are not found in the outer garment of social acceptability but rather in the inner chambers of the soul where the tensions build between surrendering our will to the light, life and law of Christ.
Many children become fragmented and lost growing up.
They get pushed off the path of selfhood by well meaning but wounded people who become parents before they learn to heal from their own woundings. Over time the child learns to live outside themselves and to focus upon the reactions of others. Their own realities, spiritual and visceral, will be ignored in the exchange for acceptance and approval. This lose of self will introduce outer products, sensations, relationships and process that will be used in attempting to fill the void left in their hearts when they abandoned the Sanctuary. These outer realities will begin the process of addiction where over time the person will use them, more and more to escape their own feelings of anxiety, sadness, pain and disgust.