Questions of a broad interest will be posted here, courtesy of the Washington Wedding Guide. I have heard that anything goes, but I've also heard strong sentiments that white should definitely not be worn. Much has changed over the last several years, and it's harder to apply rules that were made up years ago. As a celebration, a bride should wear what makes her feel special, and she should avoid something that makes her feel self-conscious. If you think you will spend time worrying about what other people think by choosing pure white, then don't choose it.
Ivory is an acceptable alternative.
You may also wish to consider a champagne or rum pink, colors that look great on fair skin. You may also wish to choose a dress that features touches of color. Wedding gowns with touches of pale pink or champagne accents can provide a fresh new perspective with a wedding gown. I'm losing weight, but my mother and I both agree that I should get my wedding gown the size I am now and take it in later. You have stumbled across one of the more frustrating aspects of wedding gown shopping.