Great for big brothers or sisters first cuddle. Remember Talk with your older child about what is going on. Provide time for them to ask questions and express their feelings. My daughter when talking with a young friend whose mother was pregnant, told her friend that she was lucky as the friend's mum was going to have a 'live' baby. Or even 'live'.
Grandparents can be a special support for children and teenagers.
If you have any suggestions or ideas about supporting siblings in the nursery, please write to me. The best ideas come from families who are experiencing and managing the complex issues that go with having a premature or sick baby . Copyright 1999 Angela Falkenberg.