The action side is lacking the judgment and the judgment side is lacking the ability to act. If they were together there really wouldn't be any problem. The whole idea of perpetrations comes out of fragmentation, the idea that one isn't whole. There is somebody else who sets the rules, there is somebody else to commit perpetrations against, there is somebody else to judge them. If one takes responsibility for being a whole person and one starts acting according to one's own integrity, then there is no issue of perpetrations any longer.
Integrity is to be acting out of wholeness.