Make a hissing sound on your exhalation. Do this for about fifteen seconds. Then draw in one last, deep breath, hold it in, and then release it slowly, sending the warmth you feel into your root source. For the double the pleasure, double the fun, the two exercises can be combined. Or you can try them together.
Every couple is different.
They may culminate in love making, they may not. Just take pleasure in each other and let the rest go. Bewitching women don't cotton to quotas and are anything but average. Happily, magic works like, well, magic most of the time. Sexual Bewitchery is full of hints and info galore.