Although some couples seem to have virtually no trouble adjusting to retirement, most find that it takes some getting used to. The lack of structure and increased togetherness often put a strain on even the best marriages. But with a little give and take, most couples report that the retirement years are among their happiest.
Experts say one of the keys to a satisfying retirement is having a positive attitude.
Instead of dwelling on what you're giving up, concentrate on all of the positive aspects of retirement, such as the increased freedom and flexibility. Look at retirement as an opportunity for you and your spouse to relax, spend more time together and enjoy some of the things you weren't able to do when you were working. Here are some practical steps you and your spouse can take to ensure a smooth transition into retirement. Respect each other's need for independence and solitude. Now that you're spending more time together, it's important to give each other some personal space.