And so, for more than 20 years, they lived within the walls of their own hate. We kind of chuckle when we hear this story, but at the same time, it kind of makes us uncomfortable. Maybe we can think of an event in our own life that drew battle lines. Maybe something was said that caused another, or even ourselves, hurt. After all, seven times for the same offense does seem to be a lot of times.
Forgiveness means totally release of hurt, anger, impatience, or bitterness towards a person.
Seven times seemed to be a lot. In other words, perfectly forgive every time. Because God, for Christ's sake forgives us every single time we ask Him to. Whether it's 20 minutes ago, or 20 years, let go, because God for Christ's sake has forgiven you. Go to them.