Some become withdrawn and others unusually aggressive. Children of battered mothers have high rates of emotional problems like depression and sometimes show delays in learning. Many develop physical symptoms including frequent colds, headaches, or upset stomachs. If only I'd done my homework on time. If only I'd done the dishes.
Children also struggle with conflicting emotions.
These feelings of helplessness and confusion often lead children to attempt a coping strategy of denying that the violence is occurring. These children may be able to express their feelings only through play, art, and writing. He responded by drawing a picture of a hand dripping with blood, holding a gun. I hum to myself. I listen to music.