Young children are likely to believe their thoughts or feelings have power over others. A child who was angry at his mother before her death may believe he is responsible for the death. They often are very curious about physical details. These children need physical, tangible ways to experience and express grief. Rituals such as visitations, funerals, and memorial services are very important.
Children accept their parents' religious beliefs.
A belief in life after death generally comforts children if that concept has been part of their religious beliefs before the death. Boys tend to have more difficulty talking about death and showing their feelings. Choose a location where you will not be disturbed. Stay with the known facts. If you don't know the facts, find out before telling the child about the death.