Domestic violence has no certain race, social status or whatever.
All you really have to be is a woman who refuses to be a degraded,punished,isolated,alienated slave. The best tell tell sign is how is so nice to everybody but except his victim or potential victim. He is nice to you but not quite the same extra extra nice that he displays to other people. He looks like a saint, too nice. Domestic violence has no certain race, social status or whatever.