Give your child chores. Plan a family meeting. Be an example of a good listener. Set time limits for the meeting and stay within them. Establish family boundaries.
Family meetings are a good time to discuss boundaries.
Explain what behavior is acceptable and unacceptable in your family - and outline consequences. Your child needs to experience the consequence of his choices. That's healthy, and fair, when the consequences are swift and consistent. Help your child say no. Explore alternative activities with her.