The subject of divorce has divided families, friends and even whole churches. As a Christian woman who has been divorced, I know firsthand how it affects relationships outside the home as well as in. Even if you are not bound by religion, many people are pressured by family and friends and culture to stay married. Even though it is not as taboo as it once was, divorce is still something that is looked down upon. I agree that God hates divorce and that it should be avoided at all costs, even if it involves infidelity.
Forgiveness can be a powerful thing if applied liberally.
That may seem like a funny thing coming from a two time divorcee. But my situation was a bit out of the ordinary. I hung on to a hopeless situation in my first marriage for 12 years. I did not rush into divorce even though I should have gotten out sooner, because abuse was involved. I think that is what caused me to get out of my second marriage so quickly.