Despite possible physical problems, family tension, work and geographical distance the care of the elderly parents fall on the children. Most of the children accept this responsibility willingly. Even thought they themselves have not had much respite between the tasks of childrearing and caregiving of the parents. Perhaps, this is where social services can assist the family. The much needed respite can be obtained if the family is informed and educated regarding services that are available in their own community.
Families are the strongest link in the social network.
The family can be assisted to maintain their elderly in the home, not in an institution, with help from community resources. A practical approach for the family to consider is what does the elder individual actually need for every day living. Assistance with finances and bill paying may be needed as well as someone to provide home maintenance. Make a list of services or tasks that need to be done or provided on a routine basis. When discussing this with the parent ask for their input.