Young teenagers are usually not mature enough for a sexual relationship that includes intercourse. There are many ways to give and receive sexual pleasure and not have intercourse. Some people use erotic photographs, movies, or litera ture to enhance their sexual fantasies when alone or with a partner. Developing a habit of self-control can help us manage our desires and urges. Family members show intimacy by affectionate actions and loving words.
Family life is the first experience a person has in under standing the meaning of commitment.
Self-control helps people do what is right, even at times when they would rather not. People have a responsibility to make wise decisions con- cerning their bodies, especially when their health is at risk. Emotional intimacy does not require physical or sexual contact. Sexual intimacy should occur between two people in- volved in a lifelong, mutually faithful, marriage commitment. Developing a habit of self-control helps a person achieve fidelity in future relationships.