We must protect them from undue hurt and turmoil. One of the most difficult and painful parts of a dissolution of marriage concerns the children . You should remember that in a dissolution action, you are ending your marriage to your spouse. Neither of you are ending your relationship with your children. You will no longer be husband and wife, but you will always remain a father and mother to your children.
Divorce is a major personal crisis for adults and children.
This stress can produce physical symptoms as well as behavioral and emotional problems. Children of different ages may react differently to divorce from irritability in infants to drug use in adolescents. Recognizing the signs of trouble early and helping children deal with them may prevent serious future problems. You and your spouse can work out the parenting issues, avoid or minimize the harm to the children and avoid a court fight. However, if you are unable to resolve these issues, the court must decide them for you.