The following is an article I wrote following an unfortunate, yet somehow amusing experience I had in the dating world.
Intoxication is no reason to give anyone the benefit of the doubt.
This applies to either or both parties. Follow your instincts. Although this was a charity event, some attendees may have gained access in an unscrupulous manner. Notice details about a person. Should a perspective suitor be dressed in shabby khakis, partially unzipped, do not assume that he was just too busy to notice.