I want to be best at whatever I do. My personal past forms my point of view. The pulse in our wrists has much more to say. What drives the insight home is that the harmonic progression behind it is perfectly true to the tango, and also really compelling in the way it winds the mock tension ever tighter, then releases it perfectly at the end. Growth's not growth if it's prescribed growth.
Growth is only growth when it breaks with the prescribed form.
Mostly what passes for growth is the fullfillment of Prescribed expectations. One learns, bit by bit, how to be a boy, etcetera. One grows into, not out of - into, not out of prescribed expectations. Garland's songs contain too many funny noises, complex harmonic progressions, and free-form lyrics to ever make it in the pop world, but he is a thinking man's sensitive, honest, musically brilliant songwriter.