We're proud of creating a loving, extended family for our son, all of whom are involved in our son's life. This is one of the things I love about being part of the gay parenting community. I see all these beautiful families built on love, pride, respect and commitment. Parenting is a spiritual journey and my kids are my healers. When you become a parent, it's the first time in your life that the world isn't just about you anymore.
Every decision is made in another human being's best interest.
It's also a profound experience to feel your childhood wounds healing by being a good parent to your child. I found myself weeping, as I remembered doing the same thing and my father not being there. But the tears were about joy, not sadness. It was like I was parenting myself, as well as my child. Well, if you think about it, faith and family are the two most cherished emotional institutions of human existence.