As you become more comfortable with the fact, you can use your own judgment to reveal your sexuality to others. You must be prepared to answer many questions, Clark cautions. Parents often want to know if it was their fault or something they did when raising you. You have to be prepared to answer these types of questions when coming out. Clark says a successful approach is really experiencing these feelings on a personal level.
Emotions differ from person to person and so do the reactions of others.
The fourth step is to realize that there will be negative reactions. This is an issue that goes against social norms. I also would like to recommend you seek a good counselor. We have an excellent counseling center here on campus. If you are having a serious issue about your sexuality, then it is wise to speak to someone who will keep your conversation confidential, who is objective and someone who has professional experience.