The relationship between families is voluntary based on mutual love and respect. As they can, they share their lives and get together to celebrate holidays and special occasions. Through letters, e-mail or phone calls, they keep one another informed on developments in their lives. They share a mutual concern and delight in the well being of the rising generation. Grandparents play a meaningful role in helping the next generation of children learn who they are and bask in the love and enjoyment of extended family.
Grandparents can learn how to grandparent at a distance as well as from close proximity.
Good family life includes healthy, respectful interactions between generations. It is a wonderful thing when it happens. Val Farmer is a clinical psychologist with MeritCare in Fargo, North Dakota. He specializes in rural mental health and family business consultation.