Such a person shows the kind of character that we should want in a mate. You can be sure that their example has left a deep impression on your future mate. And by the way, don't forget to study your own family life and your parents' marriage example. What you've observed may or may not be the type of marriage that God wants you to imitate. Love at first sight is a myth.
Love takes time to grow and develop.
Look in the appropriate place. Ask the Lord for help. Study the family. The Old Testament regulations that Jews were to marry only within the Jewish race were intended to keep Israel from close associations with their idolatrous neighbors whom the Lord wanted destroyed. The purity of the race was also important because of God's plan for Israel as a unique nation, the race through whom the promised Redeemer would come.