Times were different then. We can still choose to make things work. Well I'll say this and let it go. I didn't 'ask' her. I never wanted know in detail about my w's past.
Lets be real.
My wife tried to justify it by saying it was over a six year period. To be real when I posted all of this in the first place. I wasn't seeking advice or counseling. I just wanted to see what others would say to it. I appreciate those who agreed with me and those that disagreed alike.