Your choice to believe in God or Satan if the difference between freedom and bondage. Most people confuse love and lust. Let me explain a few of the differences. Love is patient, love is kind, love does not envy, does not boast, is not proud, or rude, not self seeking, not angry, love forgives, love hates evil, love rejoices in the truth, always protects, trusts, always hopes, perseveres, love never fails, is unending, always endures, is faithful love is committed. Lust on the other hand is impulsive, is critical, boastful, lust is easily threatened, disrespectful, demanding, moody, vengeful, not rational, lust is untruthful, jealous, and suspicious, lust is not dependable, is insecure, lust will cheat and is not trustworthy.
Infidelity is lust.
If relationships were grounded in love then marriages would last. Those who are dating would respect and honor one another. Because we are flesh and blood we will always be tempted. We will continue to have things laid before us we should not partake of. There is no way flesh and blood can resist.