Maximum love is a learned skill, a growing process in a relationship of Trust, honesty, respect and kindness. Trust is knowing another will not hurt or reject me if I reveal my deepest weakness but will try and be actively involved in my growth. Love invites, encourages, smiles, makes each other feel good about ourselves. We can go out in the world and do what we wish and have the courage to be all we can be. Results in accepting ourselves when we fail, knowing we are still loved which brings us the self confidence to try again and not be overcome with fear of failure.
Emotional responsibility is the loving response to the vulnerability in openness to each other.
Sometimes we reject a loving friends advice because we don't want to hear the truth. With love we can still be friends and discuss the concerns of life and share each others visions from their perspective and respect their views. We must listen with an open mind. We must desire honesty in others and stop the games we often play. Love is sharing when passing through pain to deeper understanding.