The essay is surprising both because its subject matter lies well outside the bounds of normal Islamic religious teaching, and because it has been released in the last forum one would associate with a nomadic living, the internet. This third paradigm focuses on completely satisfying a woman's sexual appetite. Complete sex has three components, foreplay, hard sex and the denouement.
Hard sex begins from there and continues until the woman's sexual appetite is satisfied.
The denouement involves any afterplay and cuddling, and may involve the man's orgasm. It is on the suppression of the male's ejaculation. Insufficient attention is paid to the woman and her satisfaction. In my system, the man stays focused on pleasing the woman. We find that when a man does this instead of pursuing his own selfish pleasures, he is able to make love for as long as it takes.