You can also use the notebook to keep track of the person's schedule and habits as well as problems that come up between doctor's visits. Later you can bring the notebook with you to the doctor's office to refresh your memory and to jot down notes or instructions. Describe your concerns about the impaired person's condition and about care problems. Don't neglect questions about yourself. Questions about your feelings, your needs and your own health also deserve consideration.
M ake a list of all medications being taken by the impaired per- son.
Include both prescription and nonprescription drugs. Also include on this list how much the person smokes and how much alcohol, coffee, tea, cola and chocolate the person uses. These all may affect the other drugs the doctor prescribes. R eview what you want to discuss and set up your appointment with this in mind. If you have a lot of questions, make this clear when you set up your appointment.