During feeding she will start with a short burst of constant sucking. Very quickly, she changes to a burst-pause pattern. These pauses are a signal that your baby wants to communicate as well as eat. She is waiting for you to talk gently or touch her. This may make the pauses longer and feeding time more pleasurable for both of you.
Every baby deserves to be held for feeding.
Communication and closeness at feeding time are as important as the food. Diapering is another opportunity for you to interact with your baby many times a day. She will enjoy looking at something interesting and listening to your voice during diapering. Bathing can be another important time for communication. Many babies do not like to be undressed.