The problem may be that you're not seeing them. One of the amazingly popular ways is through personal ads in the newspaper. I'm always amazed at how successful they are. Then there are always chats. You probably need more of an adjustment in your attitude toward the women all around you than a new location.
Love means different things to different people.
So it's hard to know what your lover means without knowing you lover. However, to some people it only means how they feel at the moment. If you cheat on your fiance then you don't have an exclusive, committee love, which is probably what she thinks she has with you. It looks very dark. I've worked with many couples where the man is totally frustrated that his girlfriend doesn't believe or accept his compliments.