Intimacy requires being genuine and sincere with people. Genuineness and sincerity require telling the truth. Small wonder that learning to speak truthfully about your feelings, experiences and desires takes practice for some of us. Someone once said, Sincerity is the most important thing in life. Beware of false intimacy .
False intimacy can easily develop in online chat rooms, for instance.
Then you make plans to meet and they don t show up, or they aren t who they represented themselves to be. These folks aren t practicing intimacy. For them, relationships are simply a source of entertainment or diversion. The party drug Ecstasy also can lead to a false sense of intimacy. One of the things many men like about X is that it increases their sense of well-being, connection and affection.