Men who abuse are very insecure with themselves and believe me you do grow to despise the to despise him deeply if you are forced to stay long enough. The best tell tell sign is how is so nice to everybody but except his victim or potential victim. He is nice to you but not quite the same extra extra nice that he displays to other people. Most people never do see anything unkind about him at all. He looks like a saint, too nice.
Domestic violence has no certain race, social status or whatever.
All you really have to be is a woman who refuses to be a degraded,punished,isolated,alienated slave. The best tell tell sign is how is so nice to everybody but except his victim or potential victim. He is nice to you but not quite the same extra extra nice that he displays to other people. He looks like a saint, too nice.