First, if it is given careful attention and developed, it can be one of the most sacred of all human gatherings. It can become an alliance established by the capacity of love for the expression of charity and support, nurture and protection. It can be a refuge that sustains joy, comforts pain, and unites prayers. It can be a place where people join with God in creative activity, to obtain respect and know the fullness of life. At the heart of this place of shelter is the God-given love that reflects an unwavering care for and trust between its members.
Growth also happens here.
It comes about when there is the security of knowing that the members of the household are unconditionally loved by each other. When their relationship is directed and bound by Christ, they feel accepted, loved and cared for. Love, this God given love, promotes growth. Relationships are real in the genuine family. Relationships are authentic only when honest and open sharing takes place.