I feel more like he is a best friend. I rarely want to be affectionate at all with him. Perhaps you are confusing the skittish feeling you experienced in the passionate beginnings of your relationship with feelings of love. Over time, it's normal for love to take on a more settled quality that you may be now experiencing. Although you sound desperate over what may seem like impossible circumstances, I want to remind you that only your mind can make things impossible.
Happiness often depends on our attitude rather than on our circumstances.
If you are sincere about not wanting to lose your husband, I suggest you remain true to your wedding vows. Love must have a way to grow, so I recommend that you work at rekindling a sense of romance in your relationship. Romance provides a creative highway for nurturing love. We are now in a debt situation that is driving my husband crazy. I am going out there on a daily basis looking for work to help him pay our debts.