Listen to God's life-giving word and let His truth set you free. If you are teachable - then you will not give occasion for God's word to be dishonored. Well, obviously not. At least women do not always love as they ought to love and can always grow in showing love to those closest to her. This is the only use of this Greek Word in the NT, but this word was common in the epitaphs of wives written on tombs.
Affectionate love makes a house a home.
Though there are many trials and much work always to be done around the house, do not neglect this work of loving your husband and children. Yes, it is work. Some of you will find this difficult because your husband is not very lovable. But the command stands, regardless of how hard it may be for you. You may even be to the point where you just don't feel any love for him.