As Christians, when we believe that marriage begins with the legal standard, we would have to be consistent. This would mean that marriage would have to be recognized by the church if the law ever allowed homosexual marriage. Or if a man never leaves father or mother but is legally married. These would be considered unrighteous before God and maybe even fornication. The church has conformed in other areas as well.
Higher education is preached from the pulpit as if it is a requirement for salvation.
As saints everyone has to seek God's will for his or her life. This may or may not mean a college degree. This sexual force is real and needs to be respected, and not overlooked in self righteousness. God expects us to handle this force in wisdom and in righteousness. Sexual maturity or puberty comes earlier in females than in males making higher education harder for women to accomplish in righteousness.