We must learn never to neglect that infinity of love that is within us. Life is made up of an infinitude of moments. We may as well make them loving moments, and turn ourselves into true lovers. Love needs to express herself in many ways, not just one way. People who limit themselves to expressing love only in this or that way are not allowing love to breathe fully and completely within them.
Love needs to be given total liberty to breathe.
Love is a queendom having its own dimensions and boundaries. It is a heavenly queendom. You cannot force your way into that queendom any more than you can force someone to love you. All you can do is to work lovingly, work lovingly to create the very conditions that would allow true love to flower. We each have to look for and find the conditions that are ideal for love to flourish within our being.