We also suffer or yearn for more, more out of life. A waif boys and girls are also associated with gothics, since we are goths we don't like eating. Also being a gothic person doesn't mean we are all sex maniacs either nor the boy or girl next door. Some goths choose to wear make up and do some out of the ordinary things. Some goths dance in graveyard, while I don't.
Death is another gothic topic.
We all will die so why not explore and try to come into terms with our birthrights. No matter how hard we try to take care of ourselves we will die one day. Therefore being a gothics doesn't mean you want to commit suicide. I like my life despite its occasional ups and down, but life is a bumpy ride. My with my gothic person basically believe sit back and enjoy the ride.