Unfortunately part time work is not possible at the present time, although my circumstances may change in the next 6 months. I dearly love my sister also, but at times I resent the fact that my daughter seems to prefer her. My husband thinks I am being silly as my daughter is still only a baby, but I am really beginning to feel bad about this, please give me your advice. Thankyou for your question to ukparents. You are bound to feel torn between being at home and working, but you are really fortunate that your sister can care whilst you are at work.
Few mums have a sister at hand and use a non family member to childmind instead, out of necessity.
It may sound trite, but it is a wonderful opportunity for love to be shared within the family. As your daughter grows there will be many people who will be very special to her , and I am sure your sister will always be special to her too. Try not to be possessive, as you will always be her mum, but others fulfil different roles. Hope this helps.