They are often labeled as trouble makers, because they don't learn from past mistakes. Parenting these children can be a challenge. There is no one right way to parent them. It is often hit or miss, trial and error. The base starting point appears to be constancy, structure, and routine.
Every child is a valuable human being, full of wonder and curiousity.
You may be familiar with The Broken Cord, a book by Michael Dorris. He tells the story of the struggle to raise an adopted FAS child. Experiences in Educating Children with Fetal Alcohol Syndrome, by Judith Kleinfeld and Siobhan Wescott. Parenting Children Exposed to Parental Substance Abuse, by Amy Bullock and Elizabeth Grimes. I have read many articles and attended workshops.