You'll be damned if you do and damned if you don't. Care no more for the opinion of others, for those other voices. Do the hardest thing on earth for you. Act for yourself. Face the truth.
Capitalism counts on it.
The secret of being miserable is to have leisure to bother about whether you are happy or not. The cure for it is occupation. The only way to behave to a woman is to make love to her, if she is pretty, and to someone else, if she is plain. In life, Love is the answer. But in the meantime, sex poses a lot of great questions.