A good leader leads by example. Some men are of the mistaken opinion that leadership gives you the right to command those who work with you and for you. Leadership by example is always better than military-like commanding. Push it, and it will go nowhere at all. Leadership isn't something that comes automatically just because you have people working for you.
Leadership depends on followers.
Is it to tell those who work for you exactly what you want done. . . If that's how you see your job, you don't have the viewpoint it takes to lead successfully. Leadership depends on the ability to make people want to follow . People who are successful leaders don't think that way. They work to inspire people, to make them want to cooperate.