Life was not meant to be perfect here. I'm curious as to how old the two of you are. I'm guessing that you are not in your twenties. That's why that new pill for men has been such a best-seller. Sometimes a little tragedy like this can cement a relationship and give you shared sorrow.
Intimacy includes verbal and physical closeness.
A good marriage shares more than just sex. Not to minimize intercourse, but people can enjoy each other physically and not have it even include intercourse. You guys can still have a lot of fun. Find a good sex therapist and a good marriage counsellor and spend some time finding out all the things you can do to compensate. Don't let pride get in the way.