If you lean towards it, you get excitement. Many people don't manifest what they want, because they are not willing to choose. They are so scared to make a mistake that they never move. The universe responds to your moves. But if you don't make a move, you'll never know.
Life is pretty much like driving a car.
When you're driving you make decisions all the time, you get feedback all the time and you make new decisions based on that feedback. As you drive to work in the morning, you have taken hundreds of risks and made hundreds of decisions, without thinking too much about it. This is how powerful the gift of feedback is. We make decisions and then get the response. An interesting fact about feedback is that when we receive it from others we don't like it.