Can Do The Children, Youth and Family Consortium says parents should encourage children to talk about their anger, to tell what is bothering them, including hostile feelings toward the parents. It gets strong emotions out into the open where they can be handled. Parents should provide children with a variety of outlets for hostile emotions. Physical exertion through participation in sports or work may be helpful. The Consortium says learning control is also important for children.
Every child needs to learn internal discipline.
Without it, there is constant discomfort and inner conflict. Plan group rules that include sticking together, no hurts, and having fun. Say something positive about each child every day. Midday circle time can help children regroup and allow them to tell what they have been doing during the morning. Music, fingerplay, and poems are all signals to change activities smoothly.