Heat index is usually over 100 every day. A thorough house cleaning is definitely in order. AZ, as for my story, I've been married 13 years. Lost a pet in March and a very dear friend died the next week. Oddly enough, that's when I seriously contemplated seeking affection outside my marriage.
Intimacy is nonexistent within the marriage.
I don't make him happy, and he doesn't make me happy. I feel like my H lives in a world of his own, and that world doesn't include me. I truly believed that if I had an affair that my H wouldn't care. Fortunately, I found this board before the thought became anything more than a fantasy. I was looking for a way out of my marriage when I found this board.