Not only did I develop friendships with my fellow conference chairs and committee members, but I also developed friendships with individuals across the nations. What started as a question about the conference often developed into a friendship through more and more communication and an eventual reunion at the conference. It is true that hosting a conference is a large time commitment. Although it was not easy, I knew that it was important to keep in contact with them and it worked. A social life is essential for a persons sanity and should be included as part of hosting a conference.
Life is too short to worry all the time.
Everything happens for a reason. The work of one effects the work of another. Respect is essential in all situations. Test your limits. Set attainable goals and write them down.