Neither a borrower nor a lender be. While it is true that our highest purpose as individual spirits is our spiritual evolution, if that evolution were possible entirely in the realm of unmanifest spirit, we would not bother to incarnate in physical bodies. The point of being a spirit incarnate in a body is to own and deal with all aspects of both, to fully manifest the glory of our spiritual essence while enjoying and revelling in the body senses as well. Denial of spiritual essence has not produced happy bodies. Denial of bodily pleasures has not produced happy spirits.
Fulfillment comes from filling until full, the body with the spirit, being fully Here Now.
We have far to evolve in a very short time, to transform our world from a scarcity based reality to a reality of abundance, grace, and ease.