And for true romantics, photographs are worth their weight in gold. The possibilities really are endless. The point here is that with small tokens of your esteem, you ll deliver more than happy moments in the mail for your partner. You ll also make sure that you are in their thoughts, just as they are in yours. You probably have better things to do than keep score.
Every relationship is work, but in the long distance variety, the work is easily quantified.
If you find yourself constantly comparing your efforts to your partner s, you are setting up a game that no one can win. Anything that you do in this relationship should be as much for your benefit as your partner s. After all, if it didn t make you happy to do these things, that doesn t say much about your relationship. But at the same time, consider what you gain and lose by doing this, and if there is any chance that your tally might be off. Don t fall for the Honeymoon Syndrome.