This is why it is so vital that trust is never broken. Instruct them that no-one can ever be a leader until first he has learned to follow a leader. Bring up your future commanders from the ranks, drilling in them along the way the necessity for discipline and respect for authority. There should be no insubordination in your commands. Give Yourself Away You must be willing to give yourself away.
Love is like that.
It is always giving itself away. Your disciples will see when you deny yourself of the comforts and pleasures of the world and became a servant among them. They see when you refused physical satisfaction, popularity, and prestige. There is no service too small nor sacrifice too great. Teach them that they are to give as freely as they have received.