Maybe we have to do better. Traditionally, we'd throw a work party, so we could shovel mulch or dig post holes. This is called sweat evangelism. Who wants to work hard every time we get together. Besides, this operates under the productivity model of self-worth.
Drinks are on the house.
Sorry, cigars on the porch only. Literally, Lent means the lengthening of days. The Season of Lent has nothing to do with another word meaning to temporarily give away, lend. We all know that expensive habits are a problem. Yet plastic is the far easier burden when compared to relationships confused and distorted by debt.