Consider greeting your guests at the door rather than remaining unseen before the ceremony. Let the members of the wedding party select their own outfits rather than having each dress the same. Speak at the reception rather than letting the best man do all the talking, or ask others to give a toast as well - someone like a favorite old teacher or the best man from your parents' wedding. Jill Kester and her fianc Frank Silady, planning a July 2001 in Twin Lakes, CO, have kept traditions in mind while planning a non-traditional wedding. Still, she and Silady are planning an outdoor ceremony without an officiant, choosing instead to marry themselves.
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Consider the personalities involved. If you know your happy clan will find the garter toss an absolute riot, then you should definitely stick with it. Just know that you don't have to conform to traditions. The most important thing is that you create a day that feels just right for you. All Rights Reserved.