Recognize changes in the person that signal they are ready for more independence, or need more help if doing less well. Inform doctors, therapists, etc. of changes in person's condition. Provide stimulation without stress. Visits, outings, etc. are good only if the ill person is interested and can function acceptably. Discovering this is a trial and error procedure.
Families can help explore available community programs.
Become a knowledgeable aggressive advocate and your relative will get better care and do better. Take care of yourself. Families must take care of themselves. Share your frustrations with others. Join Support Groups.