If you don't succeed at something, you'll be accused of not having tried at all. You're expected to whip the butts of other kids, just because they've been told to do it to you. Black people aren't really like what white people think they're like. Bullies don't appreciate logical arguments. Society will tell you as little as possible about sex, but all you want to hear about homicide.
Few children are as cherubic or as gullible as adults think they are.
Many girls like to look at stolen porno magazines too. If somebody hits you and you scream, you'll be punished for screaming. For girls, it's what you are that's considered important. For boys, it's what you do. There are reasons to eat or drink something besides whether it tastes good.