That means entrusting one another with secrets, feelings, knowledge that makes us vulnerable. Marriage is a process, not a fixed state or a pre-programmed routine. I felt alienated. Finally, I admitted my feelings to my husband. From then on, he naturally drew me into conversations.
Intimacy is more than sexuality.
It is the closeness that permeates a couple's relationship. Susan and Edward Judge are parents of four boys. They jot each other a note every day. It's a habit that forces them to notice and make time for one another. Others have told me how important I was to them.