The word says that God's love does NOT seek her own. God's love never is a respecter of persons whether it be their color or their back ground, God sent his son to die for everyone. God's love also does not get upset over every little thing that happens. It also does not think everyone is out to get them, or is out to do bad stuff. God's love is never happy to see someone caught in trouble.
Love loves the truth.
You can not be a liar and love at the same time. I have heard people say that they lied to protect the one they loved. Well if you lied to them you did not love them. Love bears, believes, hopes and endures all things. If you have figured out that it is not easy to love like God does you are getting the point.