It must be built on love. Love welds together as brother s ad sisters in Christ. Love compels me to see the good in others, and is the source of genuine peace. If we had at least some of the qualities mentioned in 1 Corinthians 13 we would be able to live in harmony with people around us. For love is patient, kind, not jealous or conceited, not ill mannered or selfish or irritable, does not keep a record of wrong, the faith, hope and patience of Love never fail.
Love is eternal.
It goes on to say that we may have a lot of gifts but unless we have love all the rest amounts to nothing. Father into your hands I commend my spirit. We need to give up our individuality and be one with the father just as Christ was one with the Father. We need to give up our spirit to him. Not my will but yours be done.