It's a new year. Maybe you've made a resolution to change your status as a single guy this year. Maybe it's the thought of Valentine's Day breathing down your neck. In my last column, I suggested you take stock of where you are in your social life.
Human beings are creatures of habit.
Often these habits are not fully conscious. Notice your patterns. Some men start like a house on fire, later losing interest. Maybe you are only interested in men who are 10 years younger than you, or you only find buffed gym rats appealing even though you haven't been to the gym in 6 months yourself. If you're finding it hard to meet men who match your standards and you wouldn't consider dating someone your own age or with a body like yours, it is time to take a look in the mirror and find out what is going on.