The news is tragic, not just for the victims and their families, but for the kids who hear about it and ask their parents why. Adolescence is supposed to be a time of optimism when problems are limited to acne and who made the cheerleading squad, when blue ribbons symbolize homecoming not horror. But optimism is fading. Tina did not know the victims but she shares the tragedy. Psychologist Dr. Jon Jensen says kids will feel better if they feel they have some control.
Experts advise parents to teach scared kids to protect themselves.
Teach kids who feel hopeless how to be part of the solution. Parents should encourage children to get involved, make their neighborhood a better one and prevent the violence. What Parents Can Do Research shows that aggressive behavior is often learned at an early age. Parents and caregivers can teach children to deal with their feelings without the use of violence. Give children consistent love and attention.