It affirms the complexity and uniqueness of each individual conflicted homo- sexual, by reminding us that transformation may look different for different individuals. This definition also reminds us that the goal of transformation is not conversion to heterosexuality. Heterosexual relating is not a prerequisite for spiritual maturity let alone salvation. Change can and does occur in the lives of many individuals who struggle with their sexuality. When defining homosexuality, it is important to differentiate between one's sexual behavior, identity and orientation.
Homosexual behavior is sexual activity between two members of the same sex.
Homosexual orientation is the persistence of sexual attraction toward persons of the same-sex. Homosexual identity is the experience of the self as innately homosexual. Individuals with a homosexual orientation may or may not have a homosexual identity. The same is true for those who engage in homosexual behavior.