There are many couples that are infertile and cannot have children, but want them desperately. It only makes sense to give these babies to these couples, as opposed to killing them. The only reason why such couples would ever have to wait that long is if they have very restrictive preferences for the child that they are willing to adopt. Also, if a baby dies naturally, that is honorable since we all should die naturally. I don't think anybody feels that natural death is less honorable than sucking a fetus into a sink.
Death is death.
Someone who dies of old age is just as dead as the victim of a fatal accident. No, I'm not. Its a humanistic view that is so old and tired that its not even worth the energy to regurgitate it. Therefore, I'll try to brush it aside and hope that nobody notices. But, that consensus should be that the mother should have the absolute right to determine for herself whether or not she wishes to carry a pregnancy through to term.