A negative, picky, overly-critical congregation will not lead to a loving, generous pastor. The Apostle Paul teaches us to see ourselves as the body of Christ. Each part needs to be lovingly built up and supported by our words, prayers and for those who are paid, by our financial support. It is difficult to give one's full attention to being a pastor when you are worried about paying the bills. Here are some suggestions from a booklet developed when I was the executive director of the national Commission on the Ministry.
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Contact my office if you would like a few for use by the leaders of your church. Below are the suggestions of what churches can do for their pastors to help them feel appreciated and valued. Pray for your pastor in public and private. Recognize anniversaries of special dates such as ordination or call to the church, making these occasions of celebration for both the pastor and the congregation. Develop with your pastor a mutual vision for ministry and shared goals with an agreed-upon method for constructive review.