Wendy Dutton says even squirt guns. I remember there was a lot of praising going on. The priest praised Jesus's life and works. He praised His birth and Apgar. And some have just one mom or one dad.
All families are different.
For the past century, mothers have been advised to get it on for the sake of the kids. When crossing the street, never trust the judgment of drivers. They may not stop for you. They may roll over you, and keep on going. In fact, never trust anyone.