Parents may feel they have nothing to live for and may think about a release from this intense pain. Be sure that many parents feel this way but the sense of purpose and meaning does return. The pain does lessen. Guilt, real or imagined, is a normal part of grief. In order to resolve this guilt, learn to express and share these feelings, and learn to forgive yourself.
Anger is another common reaction to loss.
Anger, like guilt, needs expression and sharing in a healthy and acceptable manner. Children are often the forgotten grievers in a family. They are experiencing many of the same emotions you are, so share thoughts and tears with them. Though it is a painful time, be sure they feel loved and included. Holidays and the anniversaries of your child's birth and death can be stressful times.