At sleepovers, I was the one sent to another room because I was keeping people up. Her brother was already seeking treatment for the condition, but even with ever-watchful parents, the disorder did not seem apparent in her because she was a girl. Md. Boys, she says, tend to pose more problems for their teachers and may appear more hyperactive. As a result, she says, many girls with undiagnosed ADHD are dismissed as lazy or spacey, when in fact they simply may not be getting the help they need. The disorder has been considered two to three times more common in boys than girls, but many believe the numbers are skewed.
Girls seem to work the system a little better.
Girls can be charming or coy or ditzy, and it can still be kind of cute. The cultural way of looking at females has a lot to do with that. Symptoms can include hyperactivity, a lack of attention span, and impulsive behavior. People with the disorder often are disorganized, cannot complete tasks, and have trouble following more than one instruction at a time. Symptoms can begin as early as age 3 and usually are noticeable by age 7.