Each child is unique and will handle life changes in their own special way but most children will express their emotions through their behavior. During a divorce it is important to be sensitive to the needs of a child. A child may feel angry, guilty or insecure and will need extra understanding. They will need loving support and opportunities to express their feelings. Understanding common reactions to divorce can help a child care provider be sensitive to a child's needs.
Divorce can disrupt a child's development.
Children may cling, whine and have tantrums when left at child care. When a parent returns, the child may greet the parent with tears or crankiness. Anxiety about abandonment is still common. It may be expressed through overeating, begging for gifts, or fantasies about special treats or vacations. Children often regress for weeks or months.