Most couples say that one of their most romantic moments was the first time they held their first child. But you can t think about most people. You have to see with clear open eyes what he wants and what you want. In the context of forever. You may decide to make this sacrifice and stay with Jason, knowing that you ll never have children or grandchildren, or great grandchildren.
Life is full of trade-offs.
Spending the rest of your life with Jason will include spending many holiday celebrations with no kids to hide eggs for, bake birthday cakes for, or plan weddings for. You will never read to children of your own, laugh with them, or teach them and watch them grow. As Jason may see it, you will not have to discipline and worry about them, spend a small fortune on them, or sacrifice luxuries such as free time and romantic vacations. Also realize that saying yes may also be a sacrifice for your parents. You wouldn t be presenting them with grandchildren, carrying on the family line, and passing on the family traditions.