A man looks in a split screen. He can see a secretary, or a prostitute, or a cook. A woman has a better vision to see more in him than a boss. She can help the man to integrate the levels of his perception. She can help him perceive the integration.
Man looks to the principles, but woman can perceive that truth which needs to be said when.
It is important for women to place the love of a husband over the love of children. In Poland, men are left unloved very often. The love of a woman for her husband requires a greater effort, with grace, than that for children. But when there is mutual love among the parents, there is greater love toward the children. Children are never jealous of the love of parents and are always unstable during a parental fight.