Always make her aware that others want you, but you shouldn't actually go out with them. Let her know you choose to be with her but that if you ever wanted, you could have plenty of action. Women love guys who make them laugh, if humor comes naturally to you great. If not, try and make an effort. You should ignite a lady's desire slowly but surely.
Female pleasure is like a flower it needs water, warmth and sunshine.
Trying to jump in bed with her straight away is a big mistake. This will make her feel cheap and make you seem desperate. Delaying foreplay builds up and expands her excitement. Let her know that you desire her in the way you look at her and touch her. How to Keep Her Its hard work to win her over, but once you have don't think that you can sit down comfortably with your feet up.