Jesus will hold our hand, and if we die, Jesus will take us home. And if someone we love dies, Jesus will be with the people who are left. So even though we feel scared, deep, deep down, we are not scared. God is still God. God still loves us very much and is holding the whole world in his hand.
Hate is evil and never solves any problems.
One of the truly sad things about evil is that it snowballs as groups and people keep getting back at each other. So one horrible act can unloose many other acts of evil. If we respond to evil with our own acts of hatred, we are letting evil win. God has already won the ultimate war against evil, and we are to be living symbols of that victory. Some people are very happy when the United States suffers.