But guilt is what happens when you have done a bad thing. It is your own conscience calling you to fix it. Guilt is the emotional equivalent of physical pain. Nobody likes to feel pain, but it's your body's way of saying something's wrong, get help. It's very dangerous to be numb, because you don't know you're the one who's bleeding until it's too late.
Guilt is the same thing on a relational level.
It's your heart's way of telling you something is wrong which needs to be fixed. Nobody likes to feel guilty, but if you become so insensitive, if you are numb to the people around you, you won't even know you're doing damaging. You won't even realize you're killing off the very relationships that give you life. Listen, salvation comes by relationship. Some people run from guilt, because of the shame they feel.