The kicker is that each person's good qualities have to continually outweigh the bad. If one of you picks Rock, it doesn't matter if the other one picks Scissors. Rock still wins. Put simply, you can never force someone to stay with you if they want to go. I'd like to be in love again, to be part of a couple, but I believe it's more important to learn yourself.
Life is about changes, about beginnings and endings.
The only constant you have is you. You can't be sold that cheap. I'm not sure. I would prefer that people trust their own instincts rather than having to rely on strangers. I am still working on applying this concept to my own life, but it's getting easier every day.