My daughter with 3 babies is in desperate need of financial help which we are in the postion of helping with those needs. My dearly beloved has informed me that we will not give her financial aid and that he does not want to have any problems in his life. He also said that he didn't want to see me kill myself and that would happen if he left me. So now I understand that all his affair was about, was a way to get out of our marriage period. It wasn't the love of another woman, it was an exit affair.
Love has nothing to do with it.
I shutter at the mere thoughts of losing him knowing good and well that his feelings for me are not mutual, my stars, I have loved him for 28 years. Hello, I have a question. What the mosquitoes do. You can wonder about letting go when the facts are such that you must. That's how I would see it, anyway.