He has recently asked for a divorce. I don't want to spend the rest of my life alone, and I am still quite interested in a sexual relationship. I know you're afraid you'll never have sex again. However, before you seek a new lover, you need to give yourself time to deal with the loss of your emotional as well as sexual partner.
Divorce is devastating, but also an opportunity for much growth.
You don't want to sleep with someone you're not comfortable with, and the landscape has changed in the last 33 years. You should find out your prospective partner's sexual health and history before taking him to bed. All rights reserved.