Women of any age are sexy when we accept and appreciate our incredible bodies, and tune into enjoying touch and other sensual pleasures . Now is a great time to put on those silk sheets, light up in an assortment of scented candles, and spend an afternoon with your lover and a jar of chocolate body paint. The willingness to be creative and open to new things is one of the best ways to keep sexuality alive for years. Studies show that the couples who have satisfying long-term sex lives are those who are open to experimentation. Novelty creates excitement.
Anticipation builds arousal.
We can go wild wondering what might happen next. Vibrators, sex toys, erotica, and even romance novels, can add to excitement and help get the juices flowing. As physical problems surface now and then, having a variety of activities to choose from can enable us to stay sexually active. If one thing doesn't work, you don't roll over and go to sleep, you try something else. These alternative positions can be less stressful when people are tired, stressed or their bodies ache for one reason or another.