Go shopping with your fiancee . Play tennis with your fiancee . Listen to your fiancee talk to their mother . Or are they short, curt, and not interested in someone else's feelings. The conversation is a good indicator of the type of communication you'll have with your fiancee.
Lack of communication is a primary root cause of divorce.
Variations of Barry Cameron's five recommendations will help you partner-up with the best Activity Based Management consultant, coach, workshop leader, or software vendor to meet your needs. Call several ABM firms. If it takes very long, or never comes at all, it may be symptomatic that they don't practice what they preach. If it takes 2-3 weeks to receive their information, how long will it take them to respond when you need a quick solution to a problem or question. If not, your partnership is destined to end in a messy divorce.