We have worked through many problems together, some caused by ourselves individually, some caused by us both and some caused by others. I believe that needing or giving help from or to, my spouse, is not a sign of weakness or dependancy, it is a support role we have to provide to our life partner, so that we can make it together and raise a good family. We so often walk paths of quiet desperation, that co-workers and others cannot see, we have to have someone to talk to and release our concerns. Some times we think that things are actually worse than they are, so if you are worried about your relationship, ask your significant other, they're probably wanting you to talk about it. Nothing, but nothing will get resolved unless it is out in the open and discussed honestly and truthfully.
Life is difficult.
Lif will not get any easier. When a member of your family asks for, or needs help. GIVE THEM IT, you will need a hand sometime too. Love your kids, squish them real tight every so often and tell them that you love them. When you make love to your spouse do it with as much passion as you can, it will be returned.