Bethany asks for a complete medical and social history of you and your family. It is very important that your child know as much as possible about you. We strongly urge you to tell your child about yourself through a note, a photograph, or an audio or videotape. Your life story is a great gift to your child. Your child may have questions similar to this one.
Every child needs to feel wanted and loved from the beginning.
When you know you are not ready to parent, choosing adoption means that you care enough to give your child every opportunity possible. In most states, if your girlfriend chooses parenting, you are required to pay child support until the child is 18 years old. Consult with an attorney or your county Friend of the Court office to learn specific details about your rights and responsibilities, filing for paternity, and other legal issues. Bethany is financially supported by churches and individuals, so there is never a charge for services to birthparents, their parents, or anyone else affected by an unplanned pregnancy. All adoption costs are covered by the adoptive family and Bethany supporters.