Many children lie because they are afraid the truth will disappoint their parents. Thank you for telling the truth. I know that was difficult. I admire the way you are willing to face the consequences, and I know you can handle them and learn from them. Stop trying to control children.
Many children lie so they can find out who they are and do what they want to do.
At the same time, they are trying to please their parents by making them think they are doing what they are supposed to do. Can Learn Children can learn that it is safe to tell the truth in their family. Even when they forget that, they are reminded with gentleness and love. They can learn that their parents care about their fears and mistaken beliefs and will help them overcome them. Many children lie to protect themselves from judgment and criticism because the believe it when adults say they are bad.