If you curse when angry, don't be surprised when a child does. If you count to ten when angry, don't be surprised if your child follows this good example too. Learning to manage anger is a skill for the future The Role of Discipline Good discipline includes setting limits, but being flexible when needed. It means explaining the rules and sticking to them in a neutral way. Handling angry children means understanding why they are angry and responding appropriately, setting your own anger aside as much as possible.
Bad discipline involves punishment which is unduly harsh and unpredictably meted out.
Sarcasm and ridicule also go along with bad discipline. One of the most important things you do as a parent, teacher, or other adult in a child's life is help them respect themselves and others so they can be happy in the world. While it takes years of practice, it is a vital process that pays off. Teaching your young child to manage anger and talk about feelings can prevent many angry outbursts in teenage years ahead, in their adult relationships, and in their own relationships with their children.