You gotta get some true honesty. You have to have it. If you go in there self-concerned, just spreading your garbage thoughts, you are going to cause suffering for the one s you re supposed to inspire. True honesty must be attained to have the qualification to be a husband, wife and parents. Without that you will cause suffering to your family.
False honesty causes much of the solid rock of resentment.
What a miserable parent it is whose habit is to share honestly everyday all the complaints, dissatisfactions, disappointments from every relationship. The children who listen to parents like this surely will grow up distorted. So let us never give up being people who love. That means we speak positive words to give life to others. Let us never give up being Life-givers.