We sometimes can be very stubborn, and yes, even rude about it. But God wants us to have a different standard than the rest of humanity. God wants us to be willing to allow others to have their way. And God wants us never to be irritable or resentful or rude or arrogant. Love steps aside and lets others win the argument.
Love is willing to back off and put others first.
So Moses went to Lot and made him an offer in verses 8-9, So Abram said to Lot, Let's not have any quarreling between you and me, or between your herdsmen and mine, for we are brothers. Let's part company. Moses was the older and had the authority to choose whichever land he wished. But instead he did not insist on his own way but gave the choice to Lot. This way, Lot would not be upset about getting short-changed.