Mostly, it's Armo-odar. That's just the way it seems. If you're the first or second generation, then there's a much higher chance of having your heart set on a dreamy Armenian man or woman. That may be the reason why so many more spyurkahyes rather than hayastansis get occupied with odars. One thing for sure is that Armos' views on the subject vary greatly from one person to the next.
Guys see it differently from girls, spyurkahyes from hayastansis, generation from generation.
Some of us think being with an Armo is the greatest thing, while others debate that it's just as good if they date an odar. Then that's your thing.