The pain and hurt we feel doesn t come from love, it comes from our doubts, fears, anxiety, perceived rejections, broken trusts, anger, jealousy, and envy. Our primary relationships are important to us, so we assume these doubts are a part of the loving experience. This isn t about love, this is internal insecurities about how life would be without them. If we felt empty before they appeared in our lives, we fear the emptiness returning if they leave, so their staying with us becomes paramount. But this isn t love.
Love feels good and secure.
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