Take one step at a time as His will for us unfolds, as we weigh one set of options against another and thus make the right choices guided by the principles found in God's Word. The ultimate right choice is our sanctification - that we live a Holy Life. Lifestyle choice may well involve sacrifice. We are obligated to make lifestyle choices that fit us best for fulfilling God's will in our lives. The author mentions singles and gives us only one option - pursue a full vibrant lifestyle minus sexual activity.
Lifestyle choices reflect commitment, nonconformity, sacrifice.
At every stage our lives need to be lived according to eternal values, reflecting the image of God to the world around us. Confident choices depend on a healthy self-image derived from the knowledge that we are created in the image of God. The chapter on compassionate choices tells us that compassion is more than simply doing good things, it is an attitude, a service given with love motivated by our love for God. Mrs Corrie Vannoort - Bishopdale.