Most parenting suggestions offered by grandparents come from long experience and can be very helpful. Occasionally advice can be unwanted or outdated and parents must decide how to handle this situation. If possible make time to listen to their suggestions but remember that as a parent you are the person deciding how you care for your child. If you are concerned about the advice you receive call the Parenting Line, visit a Parenting Information Centre or talk to your local child health nurse or doctor. Cultural differences Families can be greatly enriched by sharing a strong cultural background.
Grandparents can provide the necessary link between cultural heritage and present day customs.
This helps children understand their place in the family and the broader community. However cultural and generational differences sometimes cause conflicts as traditional ways to raise children give way to more modern ideas. Grandparents can feel left out or they may become critical of the way you choose to bring up your children. If this type of conflict arises try making time to discuss your ideas on parenting with your parents. Remember that both you and your children's grandparents only want what is best for the children.