The first of these spiritual laws in regard to marriage is the Law of Love. In other words, treat people the way you'd like to be treated. Unfortunately, we don't always obey the Golden Rule and, as a result, we create problems for ourselves not only in our marriages, but in our lives in general. If you yell back with harsh words, you're violating the Law of Love and you're weakening your marriage. Love is patient.
Love is kind.
Love does not envy. Love does not boast. Love is not proud. Love is not rude. Love is not self-seeking.