We like those who come in looking right, smelling right and talking right. We don't have to change our positions spiritually or psychologically but we must never forget that God has called us to minister to those who have needs, deep needs. It is tough to love a sinner when he is sitting next to you. Easy to pray for him from afar. There are no simple answers to some of the situations we face.
Gays tend to be well-educated and articulate.
If we feel that they need Christ in saving grace, we must reach out to them. I have seen it happen and I am praying for God to give me the greatest harvest of my life this year. I love transfers, but I love fresh fruit better. Time forces me to sign off. We believe that they should feel free to worship.