Only then will your heart learn what love is. You must be lost before you are found. We're all entitled to be stupid, but your abusing the privilege. Education is the progressive realization of our ignorance. The problems of puzzles are very near the problems of life, our whole life is solving puzzles.
Love is like breathing.
You take it in and let it out. Wally Lamb Skill to do comes of doing. It is a great ability to be able to conceal one's ability. No sooner said than done. No one can give you better advice than yourself.