Cultivate your own capabilities. Your own style. Appreciate the members of your family or your fellowship for who they are, even though their outlook or style may be miles different from yours. Rabbits don't fly. Eagles don't swim.
Ducks look funny trying to climb.
Squirrels don't have feathers. There's plenty of room in the forest. Interests and talents can change at various stages of a woman's life, and the ages and needs of her children and the needs of her husband affect her availability. Outreach is simply finding a way to put feet to your faith in a way that will work for you. Reaching Out . . .