I hated the fact that my soulmate was a male, mostly due to guilt. We still had good times, but argued a lot. I pleaded with him to be patiient with me, but he broke up with me. This happened a month ago, and since then I have been in hospital due to a suicide attempt. They reduce us to heaps, take everything.
Love is a savage god, beware of it.
It can be wonderful, but terrible. Love between women is the same, but at least we can understand ourselves. Sometimes with men, it's hard to believe there's anything beyond the surface. They seek pleasure from others to boost their fabricated egos. Be sure before you let someone in so deep.