If she has a problem with that she needs counseling herself. Build in these check points often enough so that you will see the progress that is being made. It would be wise to build in a reporting system to help you follow up on yourself just in case you have gone amiss, and may need time to recover. Pays Off Being held accountable is at the root of your life as a Christian, and as a Minister of the Gospel. Rest assured, our Lord is going to hold us accountable for all the gifts that He has given us.
Godly love demands accountability.
The satisfaction of accomplishment, and proper relationship with God, and others is within itself a great reward.