Your identity and yourselves are formed by the concepts within your mind. Now, frequently you form concepts in your youth and your teenage years, in times of stress and duress, and you forget to let these go. So you have made decisions in your past that influence your world today, your emotional reality today and the level of pleasure you exist at. . . . . If you have any emotion over any particular subject, it means you have a charge on that subject. There are even neuter emotions.
Indifference is an emotion.
There is a difference between indifference and non-attachment. When you learn to distinguish the difference, the more pure that you become, the more sensitive you are to different psychological feeling states within the body, so that you will look at a person and a friend of yours in another perceptual condition will look at the same person, but you will see nuances in the anger the perceived person may be experiencing that your friend would not. As you get more evolved you would then see the cause of the anger. And as you get more evolved you would then see the beliefs that led to the cause of the anger being a justified reality. . . . . However, one must be aware that the ego can use any intellectual function, including controlling memory and mood to produce aberrant decisions that waste time, resources, and the reaping of benefits.