This may be the only way to find out what displeases the other person. If you act defensively, you may not be able to benefit from useful criticism. Don't be sarcastic or intimidate the other person. You want to learn how to become a better person from the criticism. TO LIKE YOU Good relations with your co-workers and your superiors will not only help you but will make work more enjoyable.
Every employee wants to be liked by other employees.
If you treat people the way they want to be treated, they will like you. Some of us don't know if what we do is objectionable to others. I am going to give you a list of things that attract other people to you and things they find objectionable. When you move up in the company, you will need all the support you can get. Everybody enjoys being praised.