We enjoy curling up with our bibles and reading together. These things we do together make us strong and build our relationship. Even with our many similarities, we have very different hobbies. My wife loves to play the piano and to sing, while I have the voice of a gravel crusher and the only thing I play is a compact disc. I love to tinker with my computer and am always learning some new programming language or technology, while my wife has no desire to learn computer programming.
Inner beauty wins hands down.
While it is important to find your spouse attractive, it is their inner beauty that should capture your heart. This meant that for the two years we dated, I only actually was able to be with her two sevenths of the time. For five sevenths of the time, our relationship was one of communicating by telephone, letters and cards. Now, I'd be the first to stand up and tell the world that my wife is beautiful, but it was her inner beauty, her sweet spirit and her wonderful personality that made me forsake all others to spend my life with her. Don't let the world dictate your definition of beauty, especially of women.