Identification of self with role or job over family concerns. Submission by conforming to other's values, then avoidance of depression by achieving the other's approval. Community emphasis on prestige. To stop valuing themselves in terms of their performance. Usually only a significant failure can precipitate the depression needed to sufficiently slow down and question what they are doing, and why.
Hope comes with the practice of truth and in glimpsing a larger vision of lawfulness.
I conform to standards of excellence. Attachment to a melancholy mood, impatience with flat ordinary feelings, need to re-intensify through loss, fantasy and drama. Submission to loss and limitation by making a transformed version. Luxury and artistic good taste as bolsters to self-esteem. Push-pull attention focus on negative features of what one has and positive features of what is not available, reinforcing feelings of abandonment and loss but also fostering sensitivity to emotion and pain in others with abiltity to support them in crisis.