Each day, I make decisions that attempt to reconcile between these opposite lifestyles. A classic example of cultural paradox lies within the family structure. In the Indian culture, marriages are pre-arranged, and premarital dating is unacceptable. Parents decide whether another family's social, political, economic, and religious views are acceptable for their child. This system of marriage has traditionally created a sound family bond.
Indian parents are inclined to maintain a strong family in the children's best interest.
On the other hand, the American culture encourages dating as the precursor to a marriage of love. The percentage of broken American families proves that even though this family structure looks appealing, it is far from sound. While I have chosen to abide by my parents' wishes and cultural background in regard to dating, I would rather not experience an arranged marriage. By combining the strong elements of the Indian culture with the innumerable opportunities provided by the American culture, I can make well-informed choices, and create my own uniquely diverse culture. For the past five summers, I have attended several summer academic and athletic residential programs where I have been exposed to almost every type of diversity one could imagine.