It s often a difficult, heart wrenching decision. I know what the system can do to children, sometimes they re just as bad as abusive, neglective parents, says Joan, who raises her grandson. Financial strain is one of the most common problems. Joan was retired when her grandson came to live with her. There are also increased physical and psychological demands.
Experts say grandparents often forget one simple thing to take care of themselves.
Experts advise that exercising, eating right and having time away from the child will insure that they have a lot more to give when they re with them. Judy Purdue from Project Health Grandparents says, Put yourself first. Around In 1997 there were approximately 3.9 million children living with grandparents, up from 2.3 million in 1980. Positively Grand Having a grandchild around has some positive effects too. Being around a younger person can bring youthfulness.