Let her know treatment is available if she wishes. Don t try and force your child to eat. This will only set up a power struggle. Since an eating disorder is about control, the illness will only be reinforced and grow stronger. This will also damage any trust that may have been developing between you.
Actions speak louder then words.
Think about how you deal with weight issues. You may need to change some of your behaviors. There are many support groups available for parents that help them cope with a child who has an eating disorder. You may be experiencing some guilt around your child s illness. Seeking help for you is also important.