It can bring you closer with love, understanding and trust. Another rule to follow with your children is to remain courteous and respectful in ordinary daily requests. Show real interest in the feelings of others. Sharing your time and energy with others are clear examples of compassion and selflessness. Talk about your thoughts and motives for respecting others with your child.
Good manners teach children to care about others.
You can't expect a child to use good manners if the adults in his or her life don't use them. If the child knows the rules and breaks them, then a simple comment on your part will suffice and there need not be a big public scene. Use gentle physical contact and a normal tone of voice to guide the child, rather than grabbing, yelling or threatening. As children develop, they need privacy. They learn to set boundaries around their bodies, ideas and possessions.