When we address this level of wholeness we can rightly say that something that is fragmented is not whole, that exclusion prevents wholeness, and so on. At a certain level this is true, just as there is a level at which matter exists separate from energy. However there are deeper levels at which matter is just a form of energy, and at which fragmentation and exclusion are part of wholeness rather contradictions to it.
Full integration involves seeing or finding a place for everything.
Suddenly we find it almost impossible to talk about this very important distinction. The universe IS whole. Each person IS whole. It provides a transcendent understanding that helps us avoid the booby-traps of absolutism and ideology. But we can't DO much with it.