Well it worked and I recommend others do the same to get over some painful hurts. Janice Now on to my second point. No one is responsible for your feelings. When we say someone hurt our feelings we're really saying we allowed that person power to influence our emotions. As humans we have an intense need to believe in something or someone, unfortunately when we put all our trust in people and things we're left with hurt feelings and disappointment.
Humans are imperfect.
We deceive ourselves into thinking certain people will or will not do certain things and low and behold they do just what we thought they wouldn't. The healthier approach would be to have your moment of pity then move on, don't exist permanently as a victim. To remain as a victim is to sacrifice those very things you want for yourself like joy, abundance, lasting friendships, and closer family relationships. Also remember, we don't have to give in to those feelings of hurt if we don't want to, our feelings are our responsibility. The footsteps of those proud spinsters that have gone before and those that are soon to follow.