People hope the good stuff counts. They fervently hope that the bad stuff they do doesn't get noticed at all. Yes, what you do does count. Good things you do help mold your character. Even if others don't notice what you do, God does.
Home is one of the most important locations in life.
Here is where we can learn patience, perseverance, goodness, and love. After your days are up you will die and there is no second chance then. To fail now is to miss out forever. He doesn't compare you with anyone else. There are definite consequences for ignoring and disobeying God.