Some move through the door as they are reunited with birth families. Others spin from home to home. For some, the door stops as they are adopted by their foster parents. Agencies used to discourage foster parent adoptions, concerned that families hoping to adopt might sabotage reunification efforts. Workers worried about losing homes as parents adopted then stopped fostering, or worse, if they continued, that the remaining foster children would be adversely affected.
Foster families nurture foster children during difficult times.
They experience moments of joy, but also encounter trying times that test their relationship with each child. Parents have firsthand knowledge about the child's medical, emotional, and behavioral needs. Their commitment is not based on expectations of the dream child, but grounded in reality. The child and family are already attached. By becoming a permanent member of the known family, the child gains a sense that she is safe and secure, and can trust people in her world.