Accept the responsibility for leadership in your life. Don't accept responsibility for others performance. This is codependence. Don't accept others expectations for you as being more important than your own goals and expectations. Take the time to establish personal ties with others.
Intimacy is essential to peace of mind.
Accept others mortal limitations. Recognize and avoid those individuals who do not have your best interests at heart. Take some time to have fun every day. Identify the things in your life you don't control. Give up responsibility for these things to Heavenly Father.