That may take some getting used to. We have, in the past, treated them as enemies. In running from these enemies, people have abandoned their dreams and ransomed their futures. Yet friends they are, and friends they'll stay. Our perception of their friendship might not always be up to par, but they'll continue doing their friendly activities whether we realize those activities are friendly or not.
Guilt is the energy for personal change.
Unworthiness keeps us on track. Hurt feelings remind us how much we care. Anger is the energy for change. Discouragement reveals our courage. Observe your personal process of discouragement.