We want to be at peace with ourselves. Peace comes from accepting who and what we are at any point. They are just things we want to change. We want to be loved. I believe that love is acceptance without judgement.
Love is different than like.
A like is a personal preference. A personal preference is not a judgement. We can accept ourselves and still have things about ourselves that we don't like and want to change. Then we have self love. We can fulfill all those wants in ourselves.