Your kids will brag about what a fine Mother they have, and you will getyounger. It's worth it to you to train the kids. Secondly, and by far the most important, the children benefit from being trained. Children have a developing conscience. They are making judgments about themselves, about how they are doing.
Many children look into their parents' faces and know that it is useless to even try further.
It doesn't matter, I can't do anything right. I am a bad person. Nobody likes me. I have this problem. No one listens to me.