If you were to ask me who is the greatest man I have ever known, I would not hesitate to name my father. Today is a day officially set aside to honor his memory. It is expected by society that today I will traipse off to the plot of ground where we left his body many years ago and lay dead, decaying floral monuments above his decaying bones, so that all will know I honor him. I know this is not what my father would expect of me. This act would not have pleased him in his life, and will not please him in his death.
Life is for the living.
My living family is all that is left of my life. Do not waste that life here crying over my bones and pretend you honor me. Honor me with your life, not dead flowers. So, on this Memorial day I will honor my father. I will take my grandson fishing.