G-d's children are the children of Israel. To show that we are special to Him, the Torah added an extra day to Sukkos, Shmini Atzeres, on which only one ox and one ram are sacrificed. To show His love for Israel, G-d invites them to have a special private meal with Him. Love is Like a Plant That Needs Nourishment Similarly, in a marriage, we often become busy with the children, with other relatives, or with guest. However, it is important that a husband and wife also set time aside especially for each other.
Every couple needs time when they can be completely alone together.
This helps the relationship between them grow, and become refreshed and nourished. When spouses love one another they must reinforce that love by showing it. Just as the muscles in our body develop more fully when they are used, so too does love blossom when it is constantly shown. On the other hand, if the marital relationship does not receive the proper attention, even if the bond was once very strong, it will eventually wither. It is similar to a plant that needs constant watering or it will die.