John was always direct in what he said, but sometimes all it took was a certain look. We learned to use our non-verbal behaviour to get someone to question what they had just said for themselves. Experience occurs only in the present. All resources come from the past. Resources are states or skills.
Goals are always behaviour.
It was, as John would have put it, A Kick Ass Experience. Personally, it brought a lot of things together for me. There were many Ah ha moments and No shit too. I thanked John for all the abuse. It really helped.