Be vigilant in noticing odd behavior or inconsistencies. If someone is evasive, this is a red flag. Trust your instincts. If anything makes you uncomfortable, walk away for your own safety and protection. Find out as much information as you can.
L earn to ask many questions.
Find out where he grew up, where she works, and how he is connected to his community. These are clues to finding out who this person really is. Be suspicious, if someone is unwilling to reveal any personal identifying information. Probe any discrepancies in their stories. If your correspondent is unwilling to answer your questions, this is another red flag.