If you get on drugs you are poisoning your family, and not just your body, for maybe generations to come. If you are a faithful man of God you are enriching your family for generations to come. You must be faithful. It's paramount that the father be what he wants his children to be. When a father sets a bad example the family falls into a deep ditch filled with quicksand that sucks the family down for generations to come.
Homes are in a crisis in America.
Even Adventist homes are in crisis. The invention of the automobile took the family out of the home. Today's fathers are fighting a battle in the most critical time of all history. And harder to do. You don't have to learn how to raise bad children.