Rapists are out for sex. Most rapes are premeditated with respect to time and place. Most rapes are committed by a date or acquaintance. Forced sex in a dating situation is not considered rape. Physical force is required, otherwise it isn't rape.
Forced sex is permissible if the people involved are married.
Victims of rape may be either female or male and the rapist can be either female or male. Under certain circumstances many college men believe that is permissible to force a woman to have sex. Some people do not want to deal with the issue of rape. Adapted from Avoiding Rape On and Off Campus by Carol Pritchard.