Don't try so hard, the best things come when you least expect them to. I call you friend. It is true great things come in small packages. Meanwhile, Grandma is baking a cake. She asks her grandson if he would like a snack, which of course he does.
Life works the same way.
But God knows that in life, with these things all in order, they always work for the good. That moment inside of you where you forgive what's happened is the moment when you are enlightening yourself. That's one of the joys of being a family, but it can also be a source of tension and misunderstanding. Instead of joy and fulfillment, many people feel exhausted and depressed because their lives are not in sync with God. Franklin Graham tells about some people whom God has used to show him how to seek God's purposes in his own life.