The best lesson in life is Self Reliance, and the college that inculcates this best will approach the ideal. No man should be pitied, excepting the one whose future lies behind and whose past is constantly in front of him. A heart that has learned to trust can be at rest in the world. Self-esteem is a good thing, but not when you carry a pedestal under your arm ready for instant use. If you know not the highest love, you can not depict the highest joy.
Love can create a world that is healed and holy.
The two are the same thing. The love you seek is seeking you at this moment. Be sincere but don't be serious - at the last nothing matters much. Mortals give things an importance quite beyond their gravity. The way to live the Ideal Life is to try to make life ideal for someone else.