Others may lash out at their friends and teachers. Still others may become very quiet and withdrawn. Imagine, for example, that one of your children has parents who recently divorced. Before the divorce, he was an independent, active child. But now he seems to cling to you as much as possible, seeking your attention and wanting your approval of everything he does.
Anger can also mask sadness and grief.
Children's sadness may emerge only after the anger is accepted and safely expressed. If you feel angry, you are welcome to pound this playdough. When you're through, we can talk about it. Recognize when children's grieving requires professional assistance. Recommend that parents seek professional help if their child's grieving becomes a problem for the child.