Family members seldom show affection. Family members spend small amounts of time together. Family members each make decisions independently of the others. Family members are most influenced by friends and activities that occur outside family life. There is not much family loyalty or dependability.
Family members are unable to discuss and solve problems together.
No family is perfect, so don't expect yours to be. Remember that ignoring a problem does not make it go away, but makes it worse. Recognize that people and families are in a constant state of change. Ask how you can help to get through this difficult time, rather than denying problems exist. Quit worrying about what others think.