You don't deserve to be abused. It is not your fault. Get other groups in your community such schools, churches, clergy,and civic groups. Ask them to help you work to end family violence. If yes, you are not alone.
Conflict is present everywhere there is human interaction.
While conflict is unavoidable, we can learn how to manage it. Focus on the problem not the person. Keep an open mind. Things aren't always the way you think they are. Think of several alternative ways to peacefully resolve the dispute.