The time the child was in care was not a factor in whether the child developed a secure attachment to the mother. Caldwell, Ph.D., Child Psychologist Mother and Child The University of Massachusetts at Amherst study like many others reports that it s the quality of the relationship between mother and child ultimately determines the child s wellbeing. The Kaiser Family Foundation reports that between the ages of ten and twelve kids name their parents as their primary source of guidance communicating most with mom. When possible, be ready to listen and explain. Look for teachable moments often opportunities for teaching present themselves at unexpected times.
Kids crave the good feelings that come from hugs, kisses and warm touches.