The People Factor Orchestrating the interaction between your cat and the people in your household makes for a peaceful home. Analogous pheromone sprays , like Feliway , are a great tool for calming domain boundary angst. By applying this synthetic facial pheromone, you remove the uncertainty of an unfamiliar environment. Cats need constant reassurance and affection from you. Petting your cat gently and speaking softly will help to not only calm your cat, but also bring the two of you closer together.
Many cats have a select group of people with whom they choose to associate.
If you're one of the chosen few, respond and pet the cat in an appropriate manner. Over-petting can become an intense experience for many cats. Watch for the tail movements and other behavior cues that indicate your cat's mood of the moment. Taking the time to learn and understand how your cat communicates is always an excellent investment. Small commercial treats are a great prize to encourage a calm cat.