The basic concept underlying successful home care is that the family takes a team approach to adapting to the changes in everyday behavior in the home. Every individual should be informed about their family member's behavioral, physical and emotional needs. Decisions should be made at family meetings about how to handle behavioral issues and how to respond consistently to the family member.
Family meetings are a good time for mutual support and reinforcement.
Remember to reward him often and for small steps. Find rewards that are motivating for him. Rid his environment of unneeded distractions. Keep family directions clear. As a team, remember that your family member came home with organically-based behavioral problems.