So David wanted me to recall the situation and start to really feel it. By the time we were done, I said some very honest things on camera. Sutherland's technique of letting stories unfold naturally, prompted him to set up lights and a camera in your bedroom, wake you and your boyfriend Herb up first thing in the morning and roll tape. I'm a morning person, so that made it easier. I used these times to talk with Herb about our relationship in ways we had never done before.
Herb has a fear of communication.
He didn't know how to do it. He's never learned. It was a little intimidating at first, but after a while, I was on automatic pilot and what happened between us was quite genuine. From watching you remove and clean your prosthetic eyes to dancing at roadhouses and breaking in horses, you appear to be a confident woman. Though I was really tired when it was over.