And it doesn t work. As my wife reacted to my constructive criticism regarding the direction and pace of her growth with resentment, I became indignant. Self-righteous indignation is Rage in its most cancerous form. Call it false pride, hubris, egomania, narcissism it s all the same. It s also a spiritual problem.
Love is the ability to give.
I m not sure what Hell is, but I hear the path is paved with Good Intentions. I wound up in hell. And with the grace of God acting in strange ways, I began losing control of my life, my wife, and my little boy who was now 27 years old and moving 2,000 miles away. That is not when I saw the anger. I knew about the anger.