Give special attention to surviving siblings. They are often ignored. Mention the child's name. Using the child's name lets the parents know they are not alone in remembering their child. Share fond memories of that child.
Laughter helps heal the hurt.
No one is required to talk at any meeting. We understand how difficult that can be when our grief is so fresh. We do ask that you listen, however. My child was an adult and didn't live at home. Chapter meetings are open to all families who have experienced the death of a child, at any age, from any cause.