Our motivation is for them to feel Love's honoring of their being. As we also gain expertise in separating a person's bad actions from their true identity, we see all others as Love sees them - worthy and capable of love. Love does not excuse hurtful or evil actions by anyone, but Love creates conditions that cause transformation. This is what a LoveMaster knows and how a LoveMaster heals, redeems, and transforms - by being Love's capable Presence. By remembering that unconditional love, by its very nature, must also include us.
Love abuses no one.
That includes you. If abuse does not stop, it is Love's nature to lift us out of harm's way. Aligning ourselves with Love means we are also protected by Love. This is Love honoring and cherishing us as we honor and cherish each other. Sometimes, Love's method of protection is to remove us from the circumstance or relationship.