However, some students take more caution in the process. She said these requests are respected as much as possible because it is the best way to satisfy students and avoid roommate conflicts in the future. Once the selection process has finished, the two students must actually live with each other, which can sometimes lead to problems. Jennifer Montgomery, assistant director of residence life, said there are certain times of the year when roommate conflicts increase. She said one of the peak periods was 1 1-2 to two months into the semester when students have settled in and start realizing what they like and dislike about their roommates.
Communication can make or break a relationship.
Saunders said usually the clash is blamed on personality differences, though sometimes simply addressing the issues at hand can clear up conflicts. If breaking communication barriers fails to help, students should contact their resident assistant, who can act as a mediator in their discussions. If the RA does not solve the problem, troubled roommates are referred to their area director, who can suggest available options to students if one roommate chooses to leave. If a room is not available in the area, the area director can also refer a student to the director of another area to look for potential rooms. When an individual has spent his entire life with his own room, adjusting to sharing one can pose difficulties.