Some people look good with liner on the bottom of the eye, and some don't. You will have to see what looks best on you, try one lining style on one eye, another on the other, and see which looks better on you. If you like mascara, apply a coat or two to the upper lashes and a bit on the lower. It does add color to your face and helps give you a finished look. You don't have to match your lip color to your clothes or your blush.
Lip pencils look great on some people and awful on others.
Outline your lips with the pencil in either the same shade as your lipstick or one shade darker. Add a touch of lip gloss afterwards if you like. It is supposed to make your lipstick stay on longer. It is also good for conditioning your lips. Shimmer Gel Shimmery highlighters can look really pretty for a party or for shopping at the mall with the girls.