The hungry, needy energy is not what we want to send out when seeking love and fulfillment. Throughout time people have used different means to affirm their desires into reality through ritual and prayer. An affirmation is a short positive statement that is repeated over and over again. Negative or undesired thoughts are kept at bay. Unity of body and mind is encouraged.
Affirmations are quite popular with some people.
The love you get is the love you choose to let in. This is a first positive step one can take to attract love. Learn to love yourself and you will draw love to you in turn. When using positive affirmations be very clear and concise in your intent. Use positive wording when affirming what it is you want.