Everyone wants someone special, to come home to at the end of the day. Be brave the first step is the hardest. I would like to suggest that you make a list. Just list what you want and then start looking for it in the women you meet. This takes the edge off the fear, because you have some control.
Fear is only the feeling of no control.
Aunt Tee Q. Dear Aunt Tee , I am attracted to this woman at work. I think she is gay because has a lot of obvious gay friends. I also think she may be attracted to me. No one at work knows I'm gay. She may have a very good heart and open mind.