This is Satan's way of trying to defeat Christians. And through the power of His grace, He will help us to forgive. The words of our Lord and Saviour, Jesus Christ, are very explicit concerning the matter of forgiveness. If you have a problem in this area, I trust you will turn it over to the Lord, and experience the joy of salvation and answered prayer in your life. Our society today is very selfish.
Individuals are prone to put themselves before anything or anyone else.
How happy and full our lives would be if we would but follow God's chain of command. I wonder today how many of us truly love the Lord our God with all our heart, soul, mind, and strength. It should be the desire of every Christian to have a greater capacity for love and compassion for those around him. We should love people for Christ's sake. God loved us so much that He gave His only begotten Son to die on the cross for us.