Sometimes, out of loneliness, I would go out with married men. As a result, I ended up with several curable diseases, an abortion and was emotionally destroyed. Currently, I'm in therapy, but now the issue is my age. Be honest with these girls. Some of them will be unlucky.
Fate can be mean and unjust.
All the praying in the world won't help. I've cried in front of church altars, talked to fortunetellers, and phoned hotlines. Destiny can be mean, just tell these girls the truth. Disappointed Dear Disappointed, Clearly, it's certainly been a rough, tough, and full forty for you. You may say this girl is cursed by fate or doomed by destiny, but unless she can first find happiness within herself, her chances of finding happiness within anyone else is near impossible.