You are trying to dispose of community assets and convert your spouse's legal right to their share to your own benefit or simply deny them. That is frowned upon by the courts and would not stand up. Additionally, you face penalties for such stunts.
Irreconcilable differences are usual grounds in such states.
In other states requiring grounds, those grounds are unlikely. Cruelty is determined by psychological evaluations, statements of witnesses, doctors records and reports, etc. In cases of physical cruelty police reports, hospital records, photographs etc., as well as statements are utilized. In other states courts make dispositions of debts and property based on the grounds for the dissolution. It can be.