Make sure you are person of eternal values. That Christ is your central structure. They say that a Triangle is the strongest shape, but much stronger than that is the Family Circle. A family where most are Christians is a powerful factor in the outcome of our life. Each influences and helps the other.
Families are sort of like a flock of geese.
The other day I noticed a flock of geese heading south. I think those birds are so smart. We probably should have taken a lesson from them and gone there ourselves. They were headed south. Geese don't fly in a big crowd like blackbirds do.