If she is creative and loves to write stories and draw, she will do just great in life even if she never balances her checkbook. I don't balance mine and I'm reasonably functional as adults go. Cuisenaire used to have some books that taught math through fairy tales. Older kids need to see the application of the facts before they can be convinced that there is any value in having those facts on the tips of their tongues. The Oregon Trail software has kids plan a trip west.
Cooking involves a lot of math skills, and catering involves a lot of arithmetic.
In short, make it practical. When it is, the facts will come. There are books that do calculator math, and let's face it, all adults use calculators. Skip the facts and teach her how to use the technology. But whatever you do, make it interesting to her.