After the child's fifth birthday, between 10 and 12 guests is a good number. Although parents often want to invite other adults to the child's birthday party, they should keep in mind that trying to maintain conversations with adult guests while also supervising the children can be overwhelming. If the child requests a party theme that focuses on a favorite television or film character, listen to the child. Such parties are fun for the children, but they need not be expensive. Consider purchasing a paper tablecloth with the character printed on it and then add color-coordinated cups, plates, and napkins that are less expensive than those printed with the character.
Children can decorate plain paper bags with markers to use as their party favor bag.
Games and Activities Avoid competitive games and make sure there are prizes for all the invited guests. Alternate quiet with active game activities, scheduling a quiet activity before the eating of cake and ice cream. With a small group, a parent may be able to easily guide the children through simple craft activities such as making paper tissue flowers. Simple games include a bean bag toss and a balloon chase. A treasure hunt for items specially hidden according to the child's abilities to follow maps can also be a fun activity, with the treasure divided among the children.