What is pathetic is that she is so fearless that she doesn't bother to hide her abuse. Most of the women will talk quite candidly about it all. I had to. It doesn't have anything to do with logic. It is a simple manipulation strategy designed to engender support for her continued control of him.
Male abusers deny.
Female abusers manipulate you into supporting them and increasing his turmoil. This effectively punishes the abused man for speaking. You are the blame for everything. So society supports the abuser in her abuse in a very direct way. What matters to her is her own continued and complete control.