Much conflict can be avoided when parents are clear and firm about what they expect. When parents set guidelines, they should try to think ahead and foresee the kinds of situations involving their teens that are likely to arise. The parents will then be better prepared to take the right stand when the time comes. It's best to know in advance whether or not you are willing to compromise. Show them you love them.
Adolescents are hard on themselves and on their parents.
At times their behaviour makes them hard to like. And of course, teens go through phases when they don't like their parents very much either. Nevertheless it is important to show affection even in difficult circumstances. Teens do not want to be kissed or hugged by their parents in public but they can still exchange kisses before bedtime and before leaving the house. Teens need to hear from their parents that they are loved unconditionally for themselves and that their parents will stand by them no matter what.