Erfahrungen beziehen sich immer auf altes, nie auf neues Leben. Ende eines Lebens her beurteilt werden. In the interaction with persons who have been deserted by their partner it is of importance not only to concentrate on the topic at hand, but also to consider and discuss value experiences on a more general footing. By admitting a failure we open up areas for new hope. Enhanced recognition of one's own worth and meaning potentialities may lead to the reestablishment of self-esteem and sense of meaning.
Indignation is a vigorous spiritual reaction in the face of evident injustice.
It furthers self-esteem and prevents resignation, bitterness and hate. Considerate friends can provide valuable help in finding answers to unsolved questions. Being deserted can be a strong challenge to develop self-reliance. Experiences always relate to the past, never to the new life. A short overview is presented on the counseling and therapy of parents of drug risk and drug dependent youths.