In Western society, death in itself is not a topic of conversation and very few people know how to respond to the death of a significant human let alone the loss of a beloved pet. Grieving and mourning take time and are not over in a matter of days. Grieving and mourning are hard work and sometimes very scary. People form strong emotional attachments with their pets and these attachments are sometimes very special and different from the ones they form with people. Animals serve as a source of unconditional love and support which is virtually impossible to obtain from human beings.
Animals provide comfort, safety and security, fun and laughter, and stability.
Pets have distinct personalities and habits and are considered by most people as members of the family. It is entirely possible to miss and be sadder over the death of your beloved pet than the death of your spouse, child, parent, or friend. It is very important to remember that it is the relationship that is severed and if the relationship a person had with their pet is stronger, more caring, and more trusting than their relationship with another significant human, then by all means, one is going to miss and be sadder over the loss of their pet. Two of the most effective ways to help people who have lost their pet is to validate their feelings and encourage them to tell their story. Ceremonies are very important for people need closure and a chance to say goodbye.