While the process may seem overwhelming, a successful adoption and children are truly one of life's many blessings. Laws and requirements vary by agency, state and nation, so licensing and reputation are important. Public libraries, state adoption information centers, support groups and adoptive couples are good places to start. Newspapers and TV report stories of financial loss and heartbreak from connections made this way. So please beware.
Caution is advised.
In an ideal world, infertile couples seeking to adopt would have dealt with any feelings of grief and loss that accompanied their infertility. They would have reached a higher level of emotional maturity required for parenting and would be willing to accept different temperaments and traits than might accompany their biological child. Would-be adopting parents should be able to provide a safe and loving environment for the child and be able to keep life's challenges in perspective. Knowing when to seek professional help in times of stress is likewise important. Generally, adopting parents lead ordinary lives - have good days and bad days.