Too passive to be a clubhouse leader, she needs to be more vocal in the field. Procreation turned into perversion, pleasure into pain, satiation into sickness. De Sade was not the exception, but rather the rare embodiment of the rule. The erotic impulse is the futile attempt to deny the death instinct. One form of sexual expression valued above all others, and if one doesn't fit the pattern, what results is a hellish life of prejudice and discrimination.
Gender is a tenuous definition, more correctly tenuous position, along a continuum.
All forms of expression have equal value. Eros can escape from its binary opposite, Thanatos. Money then becomes a fetish, with all of the attendant ills. Worship of the Money God is only a temporary position - once enough capital is accumulated, one is freed from the frantic, exhausting pursuit of money and can focus their energies upon other deities. After relying upon his tremendous size and leverage during the early years in the league, he has became a student of the game, and has developed a devastating back-door move that allows him to score at will.