On the other hand you have not enough experience in life to know that this man is a phony. I mean knowledge that could be obtained from books, friends, or family. We Arabs like to listen to our fathers and mothers regarding how to choose your spouse. How to choose your other half . I hope all girls analyze the elements that they focus on when choosing their husbands.
Arab families are different from foreign ones.
They are protective of their children which I believe is the best policy. This means giving guidance then supervise the behavior. You are living in a foreign society and you should be very careful with getting into trouble. The big mistake that you made is continuing to see him and sleep with on the basis that he is the one who made you to loose virginity. And believe me you will forget it.