The holiday season may be a time for many grandparents to indulge their grandchildren with gifts and treats. But grandparents also can provide many other important gifts that grandchildren can cherish for a lifetime, according to a University of Wisconsin-Extension specialist on aging. They may give the gift of time to their busy adult children by entertaining the grandkids for a few hours. However, one of the most important gifts then can give grandchildren is a sense of their family history and traditions. Brintnall-Peterson said the holidays are a natural time for grandparents to spend some time talking about their own history and the traditions of the family.
Grandparents are important role models for children, even when they live far away.
Talking with grandchildren about their lives builds closeness and helps children better understand their parents and grandparents. For children to build a sense of security, they need to feel connected to other people. When grandparents talk about their own experiences and the history of their family, children gain knowledge about the past and the past's connection to the future. Attach a note or tell a story about when you received the ornament and the history behind it and its giver. Choose something that was popular in your house during the holidays.