Studies with babies show that little boys get less attention than little girls, with the boys more often being held so they are pointed away from the person they are with. Many men don't know what to do if they get someone's complete attention. The feeling of isolation can often be traced to this early training. When a boy's ability to feel or express feelings is interfered with not only is his understanding of himself taken away but also his ability to understand and empathize with others. Primary School - The great lie in the area of gender is that it is better to be male than female.
Little boys have to prove that they are better than others as a matter of survival.
The names vary with every place and culture, but you'll hear the current version in every school playground at every break. The anti-homosexual or wimp abuse in society limits the kind of boy you can be. These include the qualities needed for an easy emotional life and for interaction with other human beings. It is a choice that every male makes to survive the culture. Later on, anytime a man leaves the traditional conditioned male role he is subject to anti-gay abuse irrespective of his sexual preference or he is attacked for being a wimp.