Unlike Affection however, romantic love rarely is given to several people at one time. Part of its appeal is its commitment to one person. Indeed some demand that as proof of love. Yet, the scholar warns against making romantic love itself the object to love. Romantic love is not sacred love.
History is full of stories of great romances, some of which defied all logic.
The fourth kind of love is ' agape '. Agape is love between mankind and God. Jews and Christians believe God created us to love us. We are his little creatures. God loves us unconditionally.