When you are working with the horse you need to observe, remember and compare. We build resentment into our horses because we do not get them prepared before asking them to do something. Lee is riding her horse around with a flag on a stick. She is pushing the filly around trying to get her interested in Lee. When the horse faces up to Lee, she turns away and walks off.
Horses earn respect in the herd by pushing each other around.
There are 6 directions that a horse can move. Left, right, up, down, forwards, backwards. A lead horse shows that they can control the other horses motion. We as humans have a hard time allowing the horse to try and make mistakes . We all learn through our failures and mistakes.