What I was trying to say was the attention of the culture wasn't on kids. The attention of the culture was on adults. And one's own pleasure as an adult. And one's own needs. There's nothing wrong with that, but what was missing was a certain amount of attention on kids as well.
Kids have different needs and different expectations.
I'm eternally grateful for the transformation of our society. In 1965 birth control was illegal in the state of Connecticut. I hope to God we don't go back to that. I assume they weren't wife swapping. My parents got divorced when I was about 4.