Not only are there many strong opinions on what or what not to observe, but in-school parties often divert time from instruction, causing stress among students, staff, and parents. Everyone knows what to expect, and families plan home festivities accordingly. Increasingly, school celebrations are as diverse as their populations. Many districts have switched from traditional American holidays to seasonal fairs, flings, or carnivals, with an emphasis on learning about the holidays of many cultures. Many schools find that after-school, evening, or weekend events pay off.
Families come to school for fun, often introducing new foods and traditions.
The school keeps the daytime focus on learning. Sometimes, funds are raised for important projects. Some communities would sorely miss the annual Christmas concert, while others would picket the school at the mere suggestion. Check with your colleagues in nearby schools. Ask your PTA to survey parents.