Eventually you'll get to the point where you want the information to come to you. Start placing queries of your own on some of the message boards found on the World Wide Web. There are a wide variety of message boards for almost every county in the United States. You might also try the surname message boards at Genforum. It's easy to get discouraged.
Genealogy is a feast or famine sort of hobby.
One day you'll find tons of material on your family line and the next day your sources will dry up for months or maybe even years. It's an emotional roller-coaster. If you keep plugging away at the problem eventually you'll find the answers you started out to find. This site may be freely linked to but not duplicated in any fashion without my written consent.