One of our goals in hsling is to teach my children to be discerning and wise. They just don't get that at school. It sounds like you might benefit from a night at the library or something where you can get some peaceful rest. Time to myself isn't a problem. Janet, that's a very real problem and temptation.
Kids get lonely for fellowship.
In fact he gets upset when children come over and just want to palay with toys. He doesn't care what age the child is. I know I have many talks and prayers with Megan. All your children shall be taught by the Lord, And great shall be the peace of your children.