We are all in this position of parenting together and everyone's opinion matters. I think it makes our jobs easier when we hear other ideas, then decide which work for us. They learned to work to earn money. I gave them specific chores to do weekly and never nagged or reminded them. My girls are freshman and sophomores in college now and both work to earn their spending money.
Chores are a tough thing.
A few years ago I created a chart for my three boys for doing chores. We now have two charts. Daily chores, which mainly focus around dinner time and weekly chores for the weekends. Daily chores consist of jobs split up three ways, for three boys, you would have to change around for other family sizes. These chores are also posted for one week, meaning they would have to do the chore the whole week.