Addictive love is always looking for more or better. Healthy love is based on the belief that we want to be together. Addictive love is based on the belief that we HAVE to be together. Healthy love teaches that only we can make ourselves happy. Addictive love expects that other person to make us happy and demands that we try to make them happy.
Healthy love creates life.
Addictive love creates melodrama. Adapted from the University of Northern Colorado s Women s Resource Center website.