It brings about an unwelcome change in one's social structure. Persons once counted on in times of stress are unable to handle the bereaved's pain. The world seems cold and frightening. The beloved is a reference point for interpreting one's past and present. Grief creates a frightening sense of helplessness.
Fears are close to the surface and often difficult to control.
The stress of grief places a strain on interpersonal relationships. It causes one to take a new look at their value system and redefine their priorities. It can sharpen one's spiritual awareness. It provides insights never before experienced. It allows the person to reach beyond themselves to touch the lives of others.