She must have financial independence. You can't get sick about money. But it's important. It's a way of protecting yourself. Money is also power, in the sense that you need a great lawyer, or a great CA, or a great doctor, and you can have them.
Financial security is very important.
Of course I like money. It buys me all my luxuries. From the age of 15, I've been modelling, so when I'd go out, I wasn't asking my mum or dad for money. If I decide to blow it on something ridiculous, it's my money - I don't regret it. My most treasured possession are my South Sea pearls.