Every child wants and needs a chocolate, ice-cream, new clothes or toys, as well as the time their parents would spend only with him or her. But, parents of so many children must invest their energy and skills into bare survival, feeding hungry mouths and meeting ends meet. They do not have either strength or inspiration to dedicate themselves to every and each child separately. Therefore, their kids are sentenced to live with in continuous needy state of mind and body. Love can not replace the wish for the taste of chocolate on children's tongues just the same as all the chocolate in the world can not replace mother's or father's hug.
Every child needs both.
Every child has right to both. Those who can not provide both to their children, should think hard before they give birth to one.