The shamed inner child does not know this, so they simply search for and accumulate MORE things and MORE money and MORE of everything else in an attempt to be happy. The bottom line that we look outside the self is that we have no real self-value. And we are surrounded by a world full of people who also do not know how to value themselves. The ego will always seek self-importance through achievement and accumulating things in order to cover the shame and emptiness that is held inside. However, no amount of self-importance will ever leave us with peace, joy and a true sense of self.
Fulfillment comes only in meeting our authentic needs.
Most of us are not aware what those needs are, much less how to meet them. Therefore, identifying our needs is the foundation for this work. Working together, we discover clear and grounded ways to re-connect to our true inner self. In doing so, we learn how to meet our own needs. Only then can we open to true joy and fulfillment in our lives.