Love is never turned inward and seeking only for itself. When you remember the love of God as it was revealed in the Lord Jesus, this is so obvious. At every point along the way, Jesus put the n eeds of others above His own interest and concerns. Love is not easily angered. It is not irritable.
Love keeps no record of wrongs.
The idea in the word is that of keeping a record of the wrongs you have experienced with the secret intention of getting even. Love does not delight in evil. The sins of others always bring pain and grief to the heart of God. The Holy Spirit is able to give us this kind of love for others. He produced it fully in the life of Jesus.