If you ask a question you don't want an answer to, expect an answer you don't want to hear. Sometimes, he's not thinking about you. Live with it. Get rid of your cat. And no, it's not different, it's just like every other cat.
Dogs are better than ANY cats.
It's like the full moon or the changing of the tides. Let it be. Shopping is not sport. You have enough clothes. You have too many shoes.