Now, I could go on and on about others having their families destroyed by Scientology, but I talked to her about my experience specifically. We talked about how the Sea Org makes its members have enforced abortions. In fact I now recall a Flag Order which forbids Sea Org members to have children. You have to say how having a child will increase Sea Org productivity and forward the goals of the group. The reason for denial was purely financial.
Kids cost money.
My wife and I went through this nightmare when she became pregnant. Neither one of us wanted the abortion and it caused us much grief. However she was convinced to have one anyway, and nothing I said or did would stop her. I even told her we could both leave the Sea Org, but she didn't want to. Going to an abortion clinic was a horrifying experience in the dark side of human nature.