Life is ever ready to deal u a blow when it comes to love and matters of the heart.
It is not possible to lose yourself in a world of love through literuature and expect to know enough about the heartache of love to survive. It is true to say people learn from their mistakes. Once u have been walked all over, abused, taken for granted and treated as a second rate, inferior being, then u know how to handle the dreadful emotion and how to survive. U have to lose in order to ever be able to win.