Hold spiritual life meetings with a neutral visiting speaker. Exercise church discipline when appropriate. Involve neutral mediators to settle the disturbance. Firestorm in Full Fury Slander is the common form of communication. People become identified with strong positions.
Leaders emerge on each side.
Organizational structure is used as a weapon. The constitution and bylaws are used to leverage positions. Each side believes they understand the other s wrong motives. Interventions Hire a crisis management consultant. Prayerfully determine if there s an evil core to the conflict, and start church discipline.