Is committed to reading the Bible, God's Word, daily taking the time to develop a more intimate relationship with God. Is willing to make the changes God's telling her to make in herself and her life. Is willing to be the first to forgive, reconcile and confess her sins. Is willing to submit to her husband out of reverence for Christ. Is committed to praying daily for the specific needs of her family.
Lets go of control over family members.
This doesn't mean failing to discipline her children, but offer first herself, then every family member back to God. Backing off from trying to change them or the situation. Is willing to let God parent through her. Learn to see and hear her family through God's eyes and ears. She must raise her children to be men and women of God.