Men and women often react differently to different smells. Generally men are acculturated to prefer spicy, woody smells and women are acculturated to prefer floral smells. That's not true 100 percent of the time, but we are definitely steered in that direction. Blend jasmine with sandalwood, which is a fragrance men usually love.
Frankincense is a wonderful oil to mix with one of the flower essences or to use with spice oils.
Men often really like the spice oils cinnamon, ginger, clove, nutmeg, coriander and they all work on an aphrodisiac level . Use the spice oils very sparingly. Most men I know really love the smell of jasmine. And I wear that blend. But some people can't tolerate that smell, and in most cases it's because they react to indole and anything that contains it.