We all have so much to learn, and I would love to learn them from people who have lived what I'm living. Couldn't have said it better myself. Love is meant to heal. Love is meant to renew. Love is meant to oust all fear.
Love is meant to harmonize differences.
Love is meant to bring us closer to God. I think when the tempers flair - the real issue is not who's pain is greater. That is what fuels some of the background to any disagreements. We must not diminish another's pain no matter where it came from. A little understanding, tolerance and compassion for a fellow human is not too much to show.