Nobody is going to give the Arabs anything on a silver platter. You have to work very hard and lobby for your causes like the Jews do, and most importantly, you have to stop attacking the United States at every opportunity. This is not how you are going to build long-term relationships with the only superpower in the world. This, in truth, is an inversion of reality. If America were truly impartial, before they pressured Israel to make any concessions to enthusiastic former allies of Saddam Hussein, like Yasser Arafat, they would first demand that the Arab world show that it's capable of protecting the freedom and human rights of its own people.
Arab leaders think they have some inherent right to rule their citizens for decades.
Until there is real democratization of the Arab world, who are we to morally condescend the Israelis who at least grant people the means to hold their leaders to account. You failed to mention that the Arabs have few weapons to use to protect their interests in Palestine. Two things that the Arabs should do. They should use oil as an economic weapon just as the United States uses other methods against other nations, it may not be as effective as in 1973, but it's just a reminder to our friends in the United States that their interests lie with the Arabs and not with Israel. Most important is for the Arabs to prepare for war with Israel because history has shown us that what Israel has taken with force can only be returned to us by force.