In the rearing of the child in the home, freedom should be given gradually as trust and virtue builds. The child's positive response is genuine humility and his negative response is in need of being broken by the potter's wheel. Negative volition to the authority at home results in life in the cosmic system. Parents teach children the principles of self control, self discipline, poise and restraint by the use of volition as the means of reaching genuine humility in life. The sooner the genuine humility eventuates from the enforced humility, the sooner the child grows up.
Genuine humility develops a sense of destiny and the foundation for good decision making.
It is almost impossible to become mature spiritually without having some maturity from the human and temporal standpoint. So, once you leave the home, your soul needs organized humility. This becomes the most powerful thing the individual will possess in all his lifetime. If organized humility is lacking it is a great detriment to the person. It is from our inculcated training under the system of authority under the laws of divine establishment that we obtain orientation to life.