Norm and love must be united with each other. So, norm includes love. The twelve loves, or norms, are indicated in the diagram. Grandparents teach the husband concerning the tradition of the family and taking care of the whole family. They teach their sin about how to keep the family precepts, how to worship to their ancestor, and how to multiply a family -tree.
Grandparents express a dignified and stern love.
They usually give her a proper responsibility and advice as a woman and teach her how to be unified with her husband. As they know their son's characteristics, his behavior and his desire, they can connect her to their son. Also, they are good teachers in terms of bringing up their Grandchildren. Grandparents sometimes suggest and advise to her about the stern method of grandchildren's education. Furthermore they advise her about how to manage the family and show how to make traditional family-food and sometimes teach family history.