I talked for over two hours with some really great people. It was interesting, intelligent conversation with people of my own age with similar interests. I realized I was getting everything I needed from my girlfriend, but intellectual stimulation. I just don't know. Please help me.
Intellectual stimulation is incredibly important.
The reality is that many couples beyond 16 are unwilling to recognize this reality. Obviously, you've matured way beyond your 16 years. So, the mature way to handle the situation is to take a break from this younger woman and explore new and stimulating conversation. In a few years, she could be thinking like a woman in her twenties and that could make for very stimulating conversation. Until then, enjoy conversing in the caf .