Plead for your marriage. Beg for deliverance. There are no shortcuts. Authenticity is that which is genuine, true, and real. It takes time and effort to find the authentic.
Authenticity is found indeep pools where rivers meander slowly along.
It is found next to still ponds which reward you with reflections if you will look a long while. Consider this letter from a friend, I lost my job in a 'restructuring' and, for the first time, began to realize where my real allegiances were. It was really the first time in my life when I sought the Lord honestly. I remember sitting in my living room early in the morning with no place to go, but having time to just be with the Lord. I learned for the first time to pray honestly without an agenda, to study the Bible without an agenda, and to listen to God speaking to my heart.