In dating, know what you want and what the other person wants. Make sure you are both going in the same direction. Men want to be admired and respected. Women want to be cherished and adored, because that makes them feel safe. Good relationships are the result of giving all the players what they want.
Feelings are important.
Men want to feel they are winning in a relationship. Women want to feel safe. Don't rely on a make-over to find happiness. Keep your heart open. For those who think war is hell, they should try dating.