It is easier on your memory. Spin yourself a web of lies and the fly you catch will be yourself. Speak softly and wear a loud shirt. Let people think that you are stupid. You will have more fun when you foil their schemes against you.
Goals are deceptive.
The unaimed arrow never misses. If you have always succeeded in your endeavors you must be easily satisfied. He who dies with the most toys still dies. It takes a death experience to show us what counts in life, but most of us don't get a chance to learn from that experience. Age is relative.