Jesus' burden was far greater than the tons of earth Big John held up. Jesus bore the weight of God's anger against the sin of the whole human race. D Nobody is able to comprehend the close relationship between the Father and the Son. From eternity theirs was and is a relationship of divine and perfect love. Think of the prayers He sent up to heaven.
Divine love is so much deeper than human love.
There was a holy, perfect intimacy between the Father and the Son. However, in His sufferings Christ no longer experienced the love of the Father. Instead, He experienced the anger of God. What is unique is that Christ experienced the judgment of God though He was innocent. In the Bible we see Jesus before Pilate's throne.