She is able to love her man and her mom. Actually, in class I hadn't thought of the fact that a female can love both her mother and her man, but it makes sense. I think it has something to do with the way women create relationships.
Females have a web of relationships while men are more narrow.
I learned in my psych class this semester that females relate to themselves in relationships while males do not. Males do not do this. So I think it is possible for women to love their mom just as much when they have a man.