Alternative child care methods can be explored. It might be a time for realistic compromise and reevaluation of priorities. Reality Leaving your marital and career development to fate is risky. Love is an important bond as it is strengthened by communication with one another, and honest discussion of your personal needs and desires. Your wants and goals may change as you grow.
Love involves work, effort, pain, and happiness.
Reality Again, without perceived honest communication to one another, no living arrangement guarantees happiness. Conflict in any relationship means pain. Reality Conflict and trials may be great in intensity or number for the two career couple, but through understanding each other's needs and your own a deeper relationship can be gained. It has often been said that the satisfaction and fulfillment of growth through learning is first met by pain and hurt. Each problem is opportunity for growth.