Talk about concerns, stress and physical challenges. But also give each other suggestions for reframing hurtful statements, redirecting negative thoughts or balancing life with positive experiences. There may be some jobs or chores that support people take on. Some may be unnecessary, others very meaningful and greatly appreciated. Discuss any transitions of responsibility.
Assumptions are a set up for disappointment and conflict.
Be sensitive to each other, but be realistic and reasonable. While working together at the time of initial diagnosis, treatments and through the transition recovery, effective communication is a crucial challenge to meet. Success in this area will reap rewards for all concerned. Not all exercises or diets are suitable for everyone. Before you begin this program, you should have permission from your doctor to participate in vigorous exercise and change of diet.