No one deserves to be abused . Domestic abuse is a private matter and others shouldn't interfere. Domestic violence is a crime. Without intervention, the cycle of violence will continue. Abuser is violent in all relationships.
Domestic abuse is anger based and anger control counseling is viewed as a solution.
Domestic abuse is not anger driven. It is power and control over another person. Abuser is violent in all relationships. Victim blaming is a way to avoid responsibility. Domestic abuse is never justified regardless of the problem.