Men feel it is unfair that they are still usually expected to pay for dates and take the initiative to ask the women out. Men know that rejection hurts, and women have the real control over dating, sex, and money, in the opinion of may male extremists. Abortion is another topic several men feel strongly about. Men do not have a right to choose in the United States, yet it takes two to make a child, and half of that child is biologically his. If a man wants a child and the woman aborts the child, if he grieves most people do not recognize his grief as legitimate.
Domestic abuse is a crisis that many women have to deal with.
However, men are now claiming more often that they too are abused. This fact may be unpalatable to many, and may even be described as 'anti-feminist', but it is a fact that must now be addressed. Feminists feel that these complaints by men are just designed to take away the feminist s thunder and judicial influence in this particular area. Feminists claim they want equality in the military, but will not lobby for women as a matter of civic duty to be obligated to sign up for the draft or be required to fulfill their obligation of combat duty. Men want feminists to realize that most males are willing to die for females, but many females take this for granted and are not willing to do the same for men.