During the date he mentioned wanting to see me again, and the next day he even left a message, thanking me for the evening. I called back to thank him, and added that I was going out of town but that I'd be back the following weekend. The ball was in his court. I never heard from him again. I spent about 10 minutes sulking, and another 10 minutes wondering if I should call him.
Life is too short.
So he's not interested. In other words, it might sting a bit when you realize that you've been dissed, but take some comfort in the fact that at least he has saved you the trouble of having to figure out that he's a chump down the line. I'll keep you posted. I'll call you. I never received a call.