I never thought it was my fault or anyone's for that matter. I just figured that they needed to break up, so I had to accept it. This incident was a learning experience. It helped me to realize how, and how not to raise my child, and that I needed God to do it. The following was written by a psychologist specializing in helping teens deal with the divorce of their parents.
Broken families are on of life's greatest tragedies.
We know clearly from the bible that it was never God's plan for families to experience such devastation. My heart goes out to the many children of such broken marriages who suffer much pain as result of their parents' action. It is never easy for anyone to go through what you have gone through, or perhaps are even going through right now. Yet in some sense, God will still be able to use this unfortunate experience to prepare you for a life that will be fuller and richer. When parents split up, there can be many emotions that a youth may have to deal with.