The hell they don't. What they mean is they want more money, much more. If, after having been exposed to someone's presence, you feel as though you've lost a quart of plasma avoid that presence. You need it like you need pernicious anemia. Build up a kindly, avuncular, benevolent image.
Interdependence is the key word.
Avoid all fuck-ups. You all know the type. Anything they have anything to do with no matter how good it sounds turns into a disaster area. Do not offer sympathy to the mentally ill. Now, you may encounter the devil's bargain if you get that far.