If people want to give to you let them. Be careful not to become overtired. Some people find speaking with a close female friend can be very supportive. Medical support groups can be beneficial and people can share experience, strength and hope with one another. Many religious faiths encourage practices like attending services, prayer, spiritual study, that help with coping with pain or illness.
Hospital chaplains are available.
They can help a person find meaning in their current life experience. Stress management education. This teaches about the connection between stress and physical problems. Relaxation training, stress coping and pain management strategies are taught.