Try to do something that everyone can enjoy and benefit from. Growth Through Conflict Individuals who have unique personalities and who are trying to develop a meaningful family life as well will experience conflict. This is normal. It is not conflict itself that presents the problem. Instead, it is how families deal with conflict that really matters.
Healthy families handle conflict in a creative and non-destructive way.
They recognize issues early and make decisions based on the input of each family member. They consider each person's ideas carefully and weigh the consequences of different alternatives. They deliberately try not to hurt each other. Members of a healthy family do not give in to conflict or feel intimidated by it. Every family member is allowed to express his opinion without the fear of being rejected.