Three practices per week and two to three tournaments is common for premier II teams.
Many Classic teams have a similar program.
I the summer we have drop in soccer games for thoses who just cann't get enough over the summer. While in a perfect world every member fo the team and parents would agree on the schedule at the start of the season. Unfortunatlly this is not the case for most teams. Your club should have guidlines as to what is expected at the various levels. If not, the coach will have to take the lead and may have to dictate what the team will do.