It does not control, unless you buy into that belief system. Positive or negative energy, which is considered polarity consciousness, is going to be a thing of the past. We need to learn how to create in the new energy of oneness. The first step is to become aware of what you think and feel on a daily basis. It's not our thoughts that create our reality, it's the emotion behind those thoughts that create.
Emotion is energy in motion.
She has turned her life around by creating with joy. We also create what we focus on, whatever that may be. It may be health, wealth, and happiness, or illness, poverty, and anything else we choose to experience. In order to know what we choose to create, we first need to know what we do not want to manifest in our life. Then stop focusing on the negative things in life, and start focusing on the good things you would like to manifest.