It brings up those aspects of consciousness that are unlike love for the purpose of transformation and empowerment. The intensity of the process can be quite challenging. As we embrace our partner, their pain-filled memories, recognizing the fragile little boy or girl within. Intellectualizing the process misses the grand opportunity provided. No one is at fault.
Blame is just another response to be transformed.
Be courageous in feeling into all that comes up. You can trust it with your life. It is your life. It is All-Life. Return To Harmony.