The earth and water without the sun are cast into the gloom and ice of despair. Together, a bountiful paradise appears in the home. It is in our nature that the husband most needs the respect and support of his wife and the wife most needs the love and gratitude of her husband. When these are missing, the seeds of discontent have already been sown. There are countless tragic tales and mountains of blame, but they all could have been erased if these vital ingredients were never lost.
Every wedding is a happy one.
Too often we set about trying to correct the faults of the other rather than praising their good points. To do this, the husband and wife must recognize only the good in each other and not dwell on each other's faults. A person can find all sorts of good in someone if he only tries, and if he is critical, he can also find all sorts of faults in them. However, no matter how hard one may try, nothing good comes from criticizing others. The more you criticize someone, it only helps to cause disharmony in the relationship with that person and does nothing to change him.