He was in the position of being unable to love although he wanted to love. All enemies are not bad. If an enemy turns into a lovable being, it becomes more educational and instructive than harmful. The love between a man and a woman is not purposeful but immediate. Thus, it is motivated love.
Love can leap to take possession of a certain standard.
If you love God you can leap to the Kingdom of Heaven. If you love me, you have to be able to hold the 220 million people of this nation in your hands and shed tears in my place. That is the path the Unification Church members should go. God seeks the group of people who, when the day of victory comes, lay their faces on the ground and cry more than those who just welcome that day with rejoicing and praise. It may be natural that children die without fulfilling their responsibility.