Good Facilitators share their own parenting frustrations and ask for help from the parents attending. The obvious place to start is with the parents of your own children's playmates. If you can influence them, it will have a profound effect upon your own family.
Kids only know what they experience.
If every home enforces the same standards, then those become the ideas that rule your kid's world. The same will hold true for expectations about drug use, study hours, appropriate behavior, honesty, respect for others and private property, etc. Here is a formula being used by many people around the country. For explanation purposes hold out your right hand. The thumb represents you.