They will also look to a parent for advise when faced with peer pressure. Also, if a child understands peer pressure and the feelings it provokes, he or she will be less likely to give in. A child should also know that everyone, both children and adults, experience peer pressure at some point. Independence and individuality also tend to promote positive reactions to peer pressure. The suggested way to teach independence is by example.
Experts agree children of independent parents are much more likely to be independent themselves.
Other suggestions include getting to know your children s friends and their parents, knowing where they are and what they are doing at all times, not criticizing their friends, encouraging a variety of friends, teaching and praising assertiveness, and providing discipline. If a child repeatedly falls to peer pressure it is advised to seek a mental health professional. Confidence Is Key A child armed with confidence is a child ready to battle peer pressure. If a child is spending time with the wrong crowd and lacks self-esteem, he will likely follow their footsteps. A confident kid hanging out with the same group be will more likely stand by his morals.