They often use their postiion or profession to gain access to children. Once our children begin school, they will be influenced by persons outside our families. They will have to deal with the world. We have to deal with the consequences of that new found freedom. So here is something you can do.
Kids love to play games.
In your best actor's voice tell them you want to play a game of scouts, day care, school, soccer, or whatever activity they are involved in. Let them choose the game. Then ask them what the rules of the game are. Get them to explain the rules to you. Then play the game with them.