I am well known for email campaigns. Yours is just the latest. Your best way out of this dilemma is through the concept of perception. Instruct him to do so. The complainant should be instructed to thicken his skin, if he is to be a happy queer and not waist the Commission's time.
Free speech goes both ways.
I will be referring to gay web pages that are horribly offensive to Christians. I welcome the opportunity to prove their arguments wrong. That is what the web is all about. Sticks and stones can break our bones, but names can never hurt us. That is what we were taught as kids.