When we think others must change for our own lives to get better, we are giving away our power and getting stuck in victim thinking. A better life tactic is to pray for personal guidance and creative solutions. My personal belief is that there are many spirit beings who would love to help us, but not necessarily as we would expect. In my more co-dependent days of the past, I learned the hard way that what I thought was best often had unexpected and painful outcomes. If you know someone who needs help, send prayers of love and ask for Divine guidance for that person.
Love is the most powerful healing energy in existence.
During the Cold War experiments in both the USSR and the United States proved the power of focused attention for both positive and negative outcomes. More recently, Larry Dossey has reported on experiments showing the healing effects of positive prayer on cells in petri dishes as well as on humans. Deepak Chopra explains how thoughts and emotions can add energy to situations and events through the Unified Field Theory and Quantum Physics. More and more evidence is showing that prayer, focused attention and group desire are powerful energy forces that create change. So, manifest away in a thoughtful manner, paying close attention to creating positive and loving energy only.