But now he claims he's begun to understand his behavior, thanks to a newfound faith and a counseling program for batterers. And Gastineau is not alone in his fight to reform. He is joined by other men who are working to overcome their violent pasts. Post your story on the 48 Hours bulletin boards. It took Scott two years to admit he was battering his wife.
Experts say children of abusers often grow up to be abusive.
Scott says his son needs counseling, too. Funny how they pick up the worst things that you can possibly teach them. Sara Elinoff is co-director of the Men Overcoming Violence program in Western Massachusetts. They're not the men I knew. And I learned.