Let no member of this Church ever lose control of himself in such an unnecessary and vicious manner. Let him bring to his marriage words of peace and composure. I constantly deal with those cases of members of the Church who have been married in the temple and who later divorce and then apply for a cancellation of their temple sealing. When first married, they are full of great expectations, with a wonderful spirit of happiness. But the flower of love fades in an atmosphere of criticism and carping, of mean words and uncontrolled anger.
Love flies out the window as contention enters.
Otherwise you will bring only tears and sorrow into the homes which you will someday establish. Jacob, in the Book of Mormon , condemns his people for their wickedness in marriage. Work for an education . Get all the training that you can. The world will largely pay you what it thinks you are worth.