If we put a man on the moon - we should be able to put them all up there. Never let your man's mind wander - it's too little to be out alone. Go for younger men. You might as well - they never mature anyway. Men are all the same - they just have different faces so that you can tell them apart.
Love is blind, but marriage is a real eye-opener.
If you want a committed man, look in a mental hospital. The children of Israel wandered in the desert for 40 years. Even in biblical times, men wouldn't ask for directions. If he asks what sort of books you're interested in, tell him checkbooks. Sadly, all men are created equal.