It is important to note, also, that none of these expressions of anger will hurt the teenager or those around him or her. Tears Tears are a natural and necessary part of grief. If you do not see the tears, do not assume they are not there. Many teens will grieve privately, crying in the shower, in their rooms or alone at the gravesite. If a teenager should share their tears with you, be still, be quiet and listen - don't try to fix their pain.
Every teenager needs to grieve in their own time and in their own way.
To try and speed up the recovery process could be harmful. Listed below are some suggestions for helping the bereaved teenager. Ask to see a picture of the person who has died. Let them tell you about this person and why they were special. Have them share some special memories with you.