Gurudeva tells us to. Keep the wife and children happy. The family begins to flourish in love. Love says I'm sorry. Love says thank you.
Love is also generosity.
Whoever you love you are generous to. You give, you give you give. If you give in love it comes back to you double. No personal advice will be given, and you will receive no reply to your e-mail. Aum Namah Sivaya.