It is so easy to be entertained on the surface by pretty images and funny lines and miss the underlying message that we take away with us whether we want to or not. It's been suggested to me that no one really identifies with the women on Sex and the City , and that it's all just exaggerated. I know I can't be the only person to watch something like Kubrick's Eyes Wide Shut and be appalled by such a lovely, sexual visual underpinned by a deadly, moralistic story. A wife has a fantasy, relates it to her husband, husband freaks out, finds an orgy and gets in all kinds of trouble, only to be saved in the end by promising to be a good boy and pay more attention to his wife. We should go to the bookstore, or maybe Amazon , or even Clean Sheets and read up on this.
Fantasies are wonderful things for couples.
Of course not. But I like when Clean Sheets' readers critique our stories and articles with some depth and consideration. And The City are quite old enough to know that, yes, women can indeed have it all, just not all at the same time. And for heaven sakes, if they can't be having it all , at least they could be having some of those long slow deep soft wet three day kisses that can bring you to your knees. Tell us what you believe in our reader comments section Susannah Indigo is the Associate Editor at Clean Sheets.