Sometimes you check. Love means trust. You are calm, secure and unthreatened. Your beloved feels that also and that makes them even more trustworthy. Infatuation might lead you to do things you will regret later, but love never will.
Love is an upper.
It makes you look up. It makes you think up. It makes you a better person. I mistook for love was infatuation. One of the things in that list was that trust is love.