We are helped to refrain from anxiety and undue fascination to see the hand of God. God sometimes silences our senses in prayer, which can be both painful and fascinating. Our knowledge will not be perfect until love accompanies it. One way loving knowledge can be deepened is through suffering, especially the suffering of the cross of others. The gift of wisdom gives a taste that descends to the will and the other faculties of the soul, without necessarily a taste of sweetness.
Human wisdom is discursive, based on philosophy and the fruit of which is theology.
The fruit of wisdom is love. Wisdom flows from the Holy Spirit. We are more receptive to God. It is elicited in the soul overcome by God. We cannot possess it, but only experience it.