You need to know how to love him and he needs to know how to love you in ways that have meaning to each other. My boyfriend just broke up with me and said that he was pretending to love me for three and a half years. I find it hard to believe. I find it hard to believe too. It sounds like he is just upset and is trying to hurt you.
Love comes with time.
Infatuation is very rushed and insistent and there is a lot of insecurity and you want all of their time. Love is much more confident and more caring and much more willing to be apart. If she is having a climax, then let her decide if she wants any improvements. She might be happy with what she has. Keep doing this over and over.