Adjust your early impressions and objectives at this point in time. Sounds a little silly, come to think of it. I'm not suggesting you set your sights low to assure that you don't miss the mark. Set them high. Just don't set yourself up for disappointment.
Bodybuilders tend to be tough on themselves once they've become regularly invested.
We have only so much time, energy, focus and discipline. Something's gotta give. Job, family and responsibilities, though often filled with joy and satisfaction, devour us. Life is big and can bully us. Our training will take a hit once in a while.