George E. Pataki Governor Domestic Abuse is a pattern of controlling and coercive behavior which can involve physical, sexual, economic, emotional and psychological abuse. It affects people who are married, divorced, living together, dating, or in a gay or lesbian relationship, and people from all social, economic, racial, religious, and ethnic groups. Anyone can be a victim of domestic violence, but women are by far the most common victims. Sometimes, women aren't sure if they are victims of domestic abuse. Maybe you aren't sure.
Domestic abuse is about more than physical violence.
If your partner does things that make you afraid and that isolate you from friends or family members, you may be a victim of abuse. The following check list can help you determine if you or someone you know is abused. You are not alone - millions of women are abused by their partners each year. There is help available. Support from domestic violence programs, family and friends, the legal system, and social and medical services can help you find ways to be safer.