A couple does not share one libido. In fact, she and he may have different sex drives. Or she and he may be under different levels of stress or in different moods. In any case, both members of a couple can't always be sexually synchronized. And if you are steamed because your partner doesn't do the dishes or doesn't take enough of an interest in your hobbies, chances are you won't let yourself be carried to the pinnacle of orgasmic pleasure.
Communication is again the best antidote.
Once an emotional issue is resolved, passion and orgasm can surface once again. The body is a map of erogenous zones that respond to the touch of your partner. Anorgasmic women and anorgasmic men are equally likely to blame their lack of orgasm on an inexperienced partner, or bad technique. Sexual positions stimulate women and men in different ways. However, unfavorable positions were not picked as primary obstacles to orgasm.