I will give only water to the guests. You may say anything, but I have some other way. Use the same way as the husband or Swami Narayana handled the situation. Sometimes, we may have failure when offering a frontal attack to the mind. A direct attack is not always going to be a success even in military operations.
Great wisdom is to be exercised.
We have to retreat, we have to move forward, we have to become invisible for some time, if necessary. There was a fierce bull. If it saw any human being from a distance, it would make a hissing noise through its nose. There was a gentleman who decided to control that bull. What he did was that he built a fence around that fierce bull.