I never had to leave my children to work for downpayments. I was able to have a baby 4 and a half years ago and never work again. They didn't know how prices have zoomed up. I do feel bad that I got home for less money then worth - but I did not do anything illegal. My husband feels I have been an asset by being an at home mom.
Home is clean enough.
Clothes are washed. I do spend too much time studying for my mental relaxation. I bake my own banana cake, apple pies, and chocolate chip cookies. I am not a naturally domestic person - but view it as a way to survive in New York City. I do it for my children and husband.