Click here for help. I'm haunted by fears of my boyfriend being unfaithful to me with another man. Although I have been in love with him for years, my fears remain. I am afraid that he is a homosexual, or that he has a lot of temporary affairs. I don't want to control him, I just want to get clear about the nature of his sexuality and mine so that I feel secure within myself.
Intuition is an experience of reality without projection.
Intuition is simply a quiet realization of knowledge that descends into us spontaneously, inspiring heightened self-awareness. The presence of an emotional charge, like fear, usually means we are operating out of a fight or flight capacity. It kindly alerts us to our own discomfort or possible danger, but it lacks the specific feel or sense of completion that accompanies intuition. As a result, our ego-minds operate at hyperspeed trying to justify our fears, however irrational, because we want to be right. If you have allowed ambiguous fears to absorb you, then it seems natural that those fears would be projected into worries about whether his sexuality or commitment to you is ambiguous.