This couple can have either a very neat and clean home or a real mess on their hands, depending on their ability to work together as a team. Without exception, every couple I have ever worked with struggles with effective communication. Part of the reason is that two people with the exact same communication style rarely marry each other. Because of this factor, we oftentimes misunderstand what the other person is saying and then react to what we think we have heard. What happens is that each of us give what we would most like to get, but the other person may not want that at all.
Fighting is optional.
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