For women who ve had hysterectomies and lost their orgasms along with their organs, she ll often prescribe Viagra. Kellogg-spadt recommends the Herotica series.
Fantasy is an integral component of sexual desire.
It comes from the neck up. Sexual desire is about liking pleasure, liking your body, wanting to share, not fearing intimacy. When I ask Janet if she fantasizes, she chews on her upper lip and says, Not in any major way and certainly not anything wild by any stretch of the imagination. Sometimes, Janet becomes overwhelmed with hopelessness. To me, this is a real tragedy, she says sadly.