If there is love between subject and object, there can be the right to participate together, the right of sharing the same position and the right of inheritance. If even the weak has love with its partner, it becomes strong. Without give and take, it shall decrease. For example, without the technological balance there is no progress in the advanced countries. Be a God-like subject and object.
Human relationships are very important.
It is good faith to ask from and report to the central figure. Male and female need each other for accomplishing the partner's will. Harmonizing these two makes the vertical love develop horizontally. Harmonizing man with woman by love means harmonizing heaven with earth. The vertical is unchangeable and center.