If you ask a question you don't want an answer to, expect an answer you don't want to hear. Sometimes, he's not thinking about you. Live with it. Don't ask him what he's thinking unless you are prepared to discuss such topics as navel lint, the shotgun formation, and monster trucks. Get rid of your cat.
Dogs are better than ANY cat.
It's like the full moon or the changing of the tides. Let it be. Shopping is not sport. Anything you wear is fine. You have enough clothes.