Any attempts to do so will only cause trauma to sensitive tissue. The main preparation for breastfeeding is learning as much about it as possible. You will notice these changes later in pregnancy. The only way to avoid these changes is to avoid pregnancy altogether. During breast-feeding, your breasts will be somewhat larger and firmer, but after weaning the baby, they will return to their more original size and shape.
Fathers can hold cuddle, rock, walk, bathe, sing to, change and play with their baby.
To stimulate the baby s rooting reflex, tickle the baby s lower lip lightly with your nipple. Quickly bring the baby to you, do not take your breast to the baby. If he is not latched on correctly, take him off and do again until latch on is correct. It is important to keep his bottom pulled in just as close so his knees touch your abdomen. This will help assure that he can breathe out the sides of his nose no matter how close he is.