A lesbian or gay victim may have even greater barriers if there is discrimination because of sexual orientation. Fear, anger, feelings of isolation, low self-esteem and loss of trust are all common in children who witness abuse. Learning disabilities and behavioral problems which may be present are likely to intensify as they get older. In households where women are abused by their partners, there is often a high incidence of child abuse by the abusive parent. It is also becoming increasingly apparent that children in violent homes are frequently victims of incest and, unfortunately, the legacy of abuse doesn't stop when the children leave home.
Children develop behavior based on what they have experienced growing up.
Children from violent homes are at high risk for becoming adult victims or abusers themselves. Family and friends are indirect victims of abuse. The isolation and terror that victim lives with deprives those closest to him or her from meaningful and fulfilling relationships. Often the abuser will harm others close to the victim in an effort to hurt or control the victim. An abuser may harm children, other family members friends, pets, personal belongings and the family home.