Be patient with one another. Realize that when we suffer losses, it is natural to express disbelief, anger, sadness, anxiety and depression afterwards. Emotions will rollercoaster and moods can change suddenly. Spouses' viewpoints may vary considerably. Even in crisis, it's all right to laugh.
Laughter can help relieve tension.
Information from University of Wisconsin Cooperative Extension. Supporting Teens in Crisis Young people often respond to distress by trying to handle it alone or talking to other teens. In a crisis, they need to feel they can rely on adults. Do not discount or underestimate the significance of their concerns. Offering help early.