Each group took on one of the topics, and a reporter in each group took notes on the discussion. Choose your battles. The parents should determine which issues fall into which category. A good deed system getting points as a reward for good behavior. Issue Need to Work together as husband and wife.
Kids play off of both parents.
It is important to communicate with each other. Spouses need to find common ground and a shared philosophy on raising children. As a mom, we always feel like the rule maker, disciplinarian, bad guy, while Dad comes in and is the fun guy. It depends on the situation. Mom and Dad should talk about roles.