The 'femin' in feminism obviously means female. It is the 'ism' that creates a wrong perception. When 'ism' is attached to any word it creates an elitist and separatist feel.
Every true feminist wants the sexes to be equal.
So a more appropriate title for such a person is equalist. Equalism is still an 'ism' yet one cannot be a separatist if you believe in equity. The feminist movement should not be devalued to such a petty technicality. It is important to point out what drives the feminist movement and to know that a serious demand for equity supports it. The fallacy of the bra-burning butch is ridiculous.