Reminiscing may focus on the person's life in great detail from the early years through the present. What is important to remember in opening these doors to the past is that not all memories will be pleasant. Be sensitive to those subjects that a person would rather not discuss. You may want to ask if the person wishes to continue talking about the subject another time. Respect the person's right to privacy, but on the other hand, be available if the person wants to reopen the subject.
Confidentiality is very important to maintain.
Gossiping with other residents or friends about a difficult point in a person's life will cause you to forfeit any trust you have gained. Reminiscing can be a successful group activity. It can focus around a specific time period in the past or around such life experiences and events as birthdays, living on a farm, having children or favorite toys and games. Some pointers for working with a group are given below. Provide a comfortable, warm, well-lit room with a minimum of extraneous noise.