Watch their reaction and your own transformation. It was my Inner Guide that lead me in that direction. My ego fought desperately, but at this point, I feel my Inner Guide has won the battle. Every time I had a negative thought I pushed it out of my head. It is not easy, mind you, it takes allot of work.
Good things are worth the effort of hard work.
Neale Donald Walsch says in Conversations With God, Never allow yourself the luxury of a negative thought. Remember, that every negative thought you have, leads you in the wrong direction. Fight those negative thoughts with every ounce of power that you have. Learn to recognize the right messages. They usually come to us in the form of positive thoughts.