When there is dissension, division and fighting, someone is living a carnal Christian life. You can remove the frost from your marriage if you will give due diligence to peacekeeping. When believers walk in the light, peacekeeping is a top priority to them. Millions of people are called upon to live in difficult conditions. Some are born without arms, others have their legs blown off in war, some are born and abandoned.
Life is never free of pain and suffering.
Making right moral choices can make a marriage frosty. Some Christian wives stuck with men who act like scum-bags. They force their wives to watch X-rated movies and lie to customs officers at the border. Even in pain there is great joy is being true to the truth. Where there is physical abuse, it's often necessary for you to move out and separate yourself from the abuser and seek help.