She was in considerable pain for awhile, but then got a life of her own. So she married him. She felt free to marry him. The last exercise in the Spiritual Exercises is the contemplation to attain the love of God. The word attain is alcanzar in Spanish, which means to grab like a hawk .
Love goes by.
Because God or my introjected parents will be angry. In a sense I think the goal of spiritual life is to let go of our images of God, especially those images that come out of compulsion, and to let God show us who God is, which is frequently very different from a mean or even just an overly tidy God.