But when it comes to sexuality, they're more similar than different. But you're not making love with the average man or woman, you're making love with Sam or Mary. Our desire to know about these mythical average creatures is a kind of laziness. We can certainly understand that boys and girls are usually raised differently. But each boy and girl learns these lessons in a unique way, and every child is influenced by chance and opportunity, social class, ethnicity and genetics.
Life is a lot more complicated than Mars and Venus, black and white, male and female.
If you want to be considered a unique individual, don't treat your mate or yourself like just a man or just a woman. Calif. He has written for national magazines and appeared on many TV shows, including Donahue, Sally Jessy Raphael and Jenny Jones. Copyright 1999-2001 MyPrimeTime, All Rights Reserved. Inc. The names of actual companies and their products mentioned on this site may be the trademarks of their respective owners.