Love Finally, it is all about love. As Jesus has told us, the two greatest commandments hang on the ultimate reality of Love. And this is the biggest misunderstanding that we find when talking about Boundaries. Many people think that boundaries are about selfishness and are at their root, self-serving. Nothing could be farther from the truth.
Boundaries are about freedom, and freedom is always meant to have as it s ultimate fruit, love.
As Paul says, and we would echo to anyone who uses boundaries in a self-serving way, You, my brothers, were called to be free. Boundaries are about God s restoring freedom to you and me so that we could take control of our lives to be able to love Him and others. Ultimately, that is the fruit of boundaries, to love our of freedom, and with purpose. A Fruit One final note. All of the above talks about taking control of your life.