It may be helpful to seek counseling to assist you in making changes in your style of interacting in relationships. All of us have a healthy impulse to find love, but addictions take us away from genuine love. A summary of some of the differences between healthy love and addictive love can help us find the genuine love we all seek and desire. Healthy love develops after we feel secure. Addictive love tries to create love even though we feel frightened and insecure.
Healthy love is part of the human fabric.
They cannot be separated. Addictive love is highly distilled. Healthy love is unique. Addictive love is stereotyped. There is always a certain type we are attracted to.