Two ceremonies, the Wake and Round Dance illustrate the Cree philosophy of death and its relationship between us and Spirits. The ceremony for delivering the body back to Mother Earth as well as the ceremony to commune with Spirits who have shed the body constitute part of the bereavement and healing process. The Wake may last up to four days and three nights. Friends and relatives continuously take turns staying with the body. As people come and go they relate stories of earlier days and share memories of the deceased.
Laughter is acceptable because it is considered a healing medicine.
It releases tension and helps realize that there is still joy for those left behind. We also cry and comfort one another in our grief. Often songs and prayers are offered. Although it is a time of sorrow it is also a time of joy and reverence, for the Spirit is now free to join our ancestors. We are respectful to acknowledge that time will heal the wounds of immediate loss but that the memory of the person will not depart.