I mean really commit. This means facing the fears of persecution, rejection, being aggressive, cold calling and whatever other things your psyche will throw at you. If it was easy, everyone would do. Following the road less traveled is more difficult and risky, but the rewards are always greater. Now you have your 'Hit List' and your Centers of Influence.
First step is to see if there are any overlaps.
I would venture to say that's not true. DON'T think you are circumventing the system or that you are being a bother. Pick up the phone now and do what it takes to get in contact with them. Remember the six degrees of separation. We are all just six degrees from Steven Spielberg.