Holding a grudge can be like having a thorn in our heart. We wouldn't think of leaving a thorn in our finger, but we may harbor bitterness and anger associated with a past hurt for years. To forgive can be a great relief, but it takes conscious effort on our part. Praying for those who have hurt us and asking God to change our heart can free us from the pain of negative feelings and memories. Forgiveness brings peace and allows us to enjoy the blessings of everyday life.
Forgiveness brings peace to our hearts.
Confession is supposed to free us to enjoy fellowship with Christ. It should ease our consciences and lighten our cares. But some Christians do not understand how it works. They feel so guilty that they confess the same sins over and over, and then wonder if they might have forgotten something. Other Christians believe God forgives them when they confess, but if they died with unconfessed sins, they would be forever lost.