She begins to look forward to going to the meetings. She finds tremendous solace in them. At home things are better because she is learning to defocus off others and to focus on herself. At work she is also able to concentrate. She is more patient and tolerant with her children.
Life works much better.
Peace and harmony are once again a part of her daily experience. Codependents attend meetings simply because they offer experience, strength and hope of recovery. Participants share their personal stories and how Alanon has helped them. The program is referred to as the fellowship because of the camaraderie and support offered to all who enter its doors. There everyone is welcomed and supported in sharing the truth about themselves, to own their feelings, to accept rather than judge, to support rather than exclude.