Use positive terms. It is as if your thoughts are the plan on paper and your feelings bring it into 3-dimensional reality. If you really want something in your life, let your excitement be there. Tell the world. You deserve it.
Fear is the same energy as excitement.
If you lean away from something, you get fear. If you lean towards it, you get excitement. Many people don't manifest what they want, because they are not willing to choose. They are so scared to make a mistake that they never move. The universe responds to your moves.