To help your child cope you can learn a simple thing called distraction. Distraction is when you turn your attention on something other than the pain or what is happening to you. You can be very creative with your ideas for distraction. Another way to help your child is to let the medical personnel know what things they can do to distract your child's attention during painful procedures. They will appreciate the suggestions and it will help them give better care and provide better pain management for your child.
Distraction is a simple thing that can have powerful effects.
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