We can choose to see and expand the darkness or the lightness of each relationship. We can choose to illuminate the bad or the good in every situation. That to which we give our attention grows and grows. A little flaw becomes a big one as we talk about it. So, too, a good point becomes an enormous asset as we focus on it and give it attention through our thoughts and conversations.
Every decision is a choice.
Where we put our attention can be a life-changing choice. Our attention steers our path and directs our thoughts. Sometimes it appears that we do not have a choice about where we place our attention. Sometimes we need a reminder. Six projects were due in the same week.