Such oneness outside marriage is a defilement that God will judge. Keep your body pure. Keep your spirit pure. Keep your soul pure. Guard your eyes, your thoughts, your ears and your emotions.
Faithfulness builds faith.
Each day, tend the garden of your heart. As soon as you see covetousness start to sprout, root it out. Don't wait to see if the sun will dry it up. Don't wait to see how tall it will grow before you need help pulling it out. Don't wait to see what color it will be this time.