She is evil and will not leave us alone. She is breaking up our 17 year relationship. He has given me a month to change his mind. Please, she has cast some kind of spell over his mind and heart. BUT it is also true that the gentleman in question has given her permission to affect and dominate him.
Love is a positive energy with true substance.
Selfish, negative, control for personal pleasure is a negative force which in a sense is a vacuum. I have a bit of trouble with this. He needs to KNOW his friend can't touch him without his permission. A woman named Bridget, started to chase my sig other a year ago. Since that time she has managed to get him to fall in love with her.