And reconciliation does eventually come. It can take many months, years for most. Families who are offered compassion do manage their grief better. They are also better equipped to integrate the death of their child into their day to day lives. Parents satisfied with their level of psychological care are more likely to resolve the universal grief-demons of anger and guilt.
Issues surrounding death and dying are eminently complex.
While recent studies demonstrate that tears are healing during the bereavement process, many maintain the antediluvian doctrine that open expression of sorrow is a sign of weakness. Though neoteric pioneers of psychological research are forging through a gradual change in attitude, most remain uncomfortable discussing death. Trepidation concerning death and dying casts further complexities on the grieving process for families. Do not tell me it is for the best, or that all things happen for a reason. My dreams and my future are buried with her.