In America school children are taught 'safe-sex' when they go on 'dates'. They are given condoms in lunch boxes. Condom sellers are going round in school compounds. The famous graduation day is a free sex day. Marriage has no sanctity.
Love is thoroughly and absolutely equated with sex and nothing else.
Marriages are based and broken on sex performances. Such uncontrolled sex currents have now entered the hell of homo sex and bisex, and HIV virus. But that is not merely an Amish doctrine. It is the Christian doctrine. It is the teaching of every Religion.