Tinker had always said he would never date anyone he worked with, as did Rosen. The duo is firm in not violating their own rules on how to make their marriage and careers survive. One of those rules involves their conversations. If we violate the rule, it's a real challenge. It's 'I didn't start, you started it.
Laughter also helps alleviate some pressure.
Even if it means breaking a rule, Tinker says having a playful side allows the relationship to flourish. They both keep their calendar free, and plan simple evenings where they will cook a meal or order in, and rent a movie. No working on Saturdays. This rule enables them to leave the laptops behind and truly enjoy a quick getaway. Take vacations here and there.