The capacity for computers to duplicate the human experience of love and devotion is complex, and scientists are taking stands on whether or not it can be done. Dr. Dertouzos, in his book, What Will Be , explains why he thinks the essence of human contact will never be duplicated by technology. He describes the essential need for at least occasional physical contact. Whether or not technology can replace the magic of real relationships, it is clear that when such sexually stimulating technologies are used and not discussed with an offline partner, deceit and betrayal of fidelity agreements is likely. Infidelity then, can happen with software and any future type of technology.
Infidelity involves the breaking of a promise of sexual exclusivity.
Only you and your partner can define that sexual exclusivity to the degree that makes you comfortable. Given the diversity of the global population, that cannot be defined for you by any professional, although some may try. For these people, it will become ever more important that discussions of relationship agreements be clarified to include all forms of technology-based sex, even when it starts as educational exploration. It is strongly recommended that you have such a discussion with your partner and negotiate your respective needs from the perspective of the many technologies that can now bring strangers into close emotional and sensory contact. The age of spiritual machines.