Every individual is different.
Nevertheless, some needs, traits and characteristics conform to traditional boundaries of age, gender, culture, etc. Some spouses will adhere to at least a few traditional roles and preferences, while others will continue to bash stereotypes until life becomes one big Pinata party. Thus, the needs discussed here are not grouped into his and hers. Once upon a time, it was men who preferred to flop around in old clothes and women who wanted to dress up. Even before the Great Gender Revolution, this stereotype was already challenged by women who went around the house in oversized shirts and hair curlers, and men who contemplated suicide when their white shirts were wrinkled.