Communicate more instead of playing mind games. Trust me, the only way you'll have that feeling of love, is by knowing each other more. Just my two cents. P.S. Love is not just based on feelings because feelings change everyday. So don't expect to feel warm and fuzzy all over every single day.
Love is patient.
Start off by being good friends by being there when she needs you, listening and understanding. Be thoughtful and be pro-active to her needs before she asks for them. Spend a lot of time with each other. Don't start one, and when one starts, finish it as soon as possible. When you get into an argument, pause and listen to her.