The loss felt by friends and classmates of youth victims is often not recognized by schools and relatives. There are few resources for older survivors, but the needs of youths are beginning to be addressed. The effects may stabilize, but the loss is forever felt. Personal values and beliefs are shattered. The individual is changed emotionally.
Every survivor needs immediate support at the time of the loss.
This is generally not available, which complicates bereavement. Most need long-term support best given by other survivors. Some may need individualized or family counseling or medical care. All need help in understanding suicide and what it has done to their lives. Some rely on prescription medications to help with conditions such as anxiety, depression, and insomnia.