Affection is shared in ways family members find mutually acceptable and is not dependent upon the successes or failures of individuals. Family members seek to achieve the level of emotional closeness that is comfortable for them. Family members are able to see the positive relational aspects of their stepfamily, such as the opportunity to care about people and have new experiences with them. Leading the family is a strong, unified couple who plan adequate time to be alone together. Communication Strong stepfamilies adopt a style of communication that is satisfying to their members.
Family members can communicate frequently, openly, clearly and directly.
They share important personal feelings, daily experiences, goals, dreams, joys and sorrows. They take the time to listen to what others have to say. They practice a style of communication that is clear, open and encourages people to take responsibility for their thoughts, feelings and actions. Family members regularly discuss values and beliefs important to them. Because step-parents are often more mature and motivated to be successful, they are likely to strive to be good communicators.