We eventually got to meet in person and that was that. I have since relocated to be with him and divorce was filed before I went to meet him. We are both happier than either of us have ever been. We tune into each other so well. Trust me ladies, there is nothing wrong with breaking the vow, especially when the other already let it die.
Life is too short to be unhappy and miserable for the rest of it.
Good luck to all you guys out there. Remember, be the Knight in Shining Armor, and be for real when you do it. None of those ever worked on me. Well, maybe when I was 14. I can tell when a call is trying to steal me from my boyfriend.