A tornado, a flood, the ups and downs of the stock market. These events are your experiences in life. How you react to them are your experiences of life. You always control your experiences of life. Let's look at how this works.
Life seems to have two steps.
This simply means that something happens in life. Let's call it X. Event X happens and X can be anything. You might get married, get divorced, be fired, get promoted, or win the lottery. Once Life Acts, once something happens, then it is your turn. You do something.