Many women really liked Art, and I waited it out. We met right after his divorce, so he had some wild oats to sow. Then he decided he wanted to be with me. He knew it was the right choice. There is financial security.
Finances are a big part of the second marriage, working positively and negatively.
In this case, we are dealing with the positive aspects of finances. If the husband has done well over time, the new family and second wife reap the rewards of his monetary success. My husband had been kind to his first wife financially which made him feel better. There is also money for our lifestyle. We just had a baby six months ago, and I know that we can afford help and schooling for this child.