It is in the openness of accepting the unfolding of these perspectives that a new form and understanding will emerge. This describes what was real for you and no one can take it away or deny you that reality. Equally, you are not doubting the other' ability to hold a different perspective. Conflicts Conflicts are great opportunities for learning and growth The stronger the emotion, the tighter the impasse, the larger the opportunity for a personal breakthrough. Conflicts help us identify the balance between control and emergence.
Conflicts rise from our 'shadows'.
Shadows are aspects of oneself that we might not acknowledge or be ready to accept. Those are not only the negative aspects of ourselves we are not able to see, it also includes positive qualities, abilities and talents that we are not ready to bring forward . This is very important to remember. The things that we put out of our own awareness we see as coming to us from the other. For example, when we feel angry with someone for what we perceive as their inability to hear us, it reflects the anger we feel at ourselves for our own inability to hear others.