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Anticipation is key here.
Throughout the day, think carnal thoughts, as the two of you did when you were new to each other. Minutes before you have intercourse, draw on the fantasy encounter for an instant mental aphrodisiac. Try, for example, chair sex, which can be performed semiclothed. He sits in a wide chair preferably not an armchair while you straddle him, facing him or facing away. Stimulate yourself, or have him stimulate you, manually during intercourse to help you achieve orgasm.