This is not the expected way for men to be. As the group spent more time together, the bonding that occurred worked its own miracle. Frequency assists in the bonding process. Men can learn a very important lesson from fully participating in a group such as this. Once men experience the committed listening of the group, they begin to feel more at ease in sharing their deepest concerns about their relationship, their work and their life with their spouse or significant other.
Every man needs to bond with other men from the heart.
He needs to fulfill his needs for intimacy with someone other than his lover, so she isn't his only outlet for feeling. Find a friend. Take off your mask. Show him who you really are. Once a week in the same place, at the same time with a two hour maximum is recommended.