The chick is looking for a ring on her finger while the guy is happy as a clam just how things are. Guys are taught that landing a wife is equal to a prison sentence. Chicks want the emotional and financial security that marriage supposedly provides. Guys are scared by the emotional and financial responsibility that marriage supposedly requires. Chicks often place their relationships above everything else in their lives.
Guys often place their careers above everything else in their lives.
Sure these are generalizations, but you'll find that even in the most progressive relationships, some of these elements exist. Now if I were a Cosmo magazine advice columnist, I would tell you how to trap your man into marriage or play innumerable head games with him in order to get him down on his knee. If that's the kind of info you're looking for, jog down to your local newsstand and pick up an airbrushed copy for yourself. But here in ChickClick-land we like to take a more radical approach to relationships. It's called communicating .