It means we should learn to look at each other through the lens of God's word. Here' s what I mean. This woman in the synagogue has been bent over for 18 years. That's what it's like. People think you've committed some terrible sin.
Kids laugh and make jokes.
You can't look anyone in the eye. People don't know how to make conversation. You can't have normal sexual relations with your husband. You feel like you're an embarrassment to everyone you're with. The answer to that, of course, depends on what lens you're using.