There are steps and stages in a life, solid attainments matter, and much should wait till the time may be fit and good. Not every field should be tilled at once. According to this sight, we seldom reach own, solid character if we dispense with doing this and that on our own as interests take us. And mark as well that what is called character, then, is rooted in lust, in id, and some is fairly instinctual. Besides, more than one fairly typical plot of love may ensnare, next engulf and bring on harshness in due time.
Individual understanding rides over and above that if untamed.
Groping has to be allowed in such a process, and there are many ways to see to it, again. Cognitive development is not all of value in this world, but attainment of masterly wisdom that helps attainments here and later, can work well and be good. Moral has to be rather massive to stand against attacks in our days. Moral is not to be overlooked between persons of the opposite sex or in others. Moral indicates some attainments.