There are more good reasons than you thought to why you should make a change in your diet or work schedule. Make a wish list, and pin it someplace conspicuous. An imitation will not compare to the real product. Make plans to go to the theater or fix a gourmet dinner. Try harder to get along with a difficult person, purely for your own sake.
Children respond well to more reading.
The completion of a major task brings glorious perks and a burst of self-confidence. The time is ripe for forthright talk in the romantic arena. Consider committing to something you previously were unable to in the past. You can do it now. Fight a good fight.