Now let me change the rules a bit. I believe that it is a certainty that you can succesfully reprogram yourself and begin living a life much better than you had before and that you can do so through many different methods. Whether you use meditation, affirmations, a partner or a counselor it is possible. Each of us will require a unique approach tailored to their psychological make-up. I believe unequivocally that the problems and the negative aspects of our life are their for a much more profound reason.
Life is connection.
God is connection. And we are all a part of that divine harmony. If we simply, set out to fix ourselves to create a better life for ourselves then we are essentially failing what I consider to be the entire meaning of life. If you only achieve everything you ever wanted, then in my opinion you will have accomplished nothing and will leave this life as spiritually poor as when you entered. There is a much deeper lesson and a much more profound experience that life is meant to teach us.