No one can chart that blue and lonely section of hell. There are no maps of the change. Or you don't. The Stand Don't knock on Death's door. Ring the bell and run away.
Death hates that.
All you have to do is say something nobody understands and they'll do practically anything you want them to. If you were happy every day of your life you wouldn't be a human being, you'd be a game show host. Only enemies speak the truth. Friends and lovers lie endlessly, caught in the web of duty. The Gunslinger Do or do not.