It never happened and we stopped all contact for about a year. He's back in my life now and he wants to start dating. If you want a more serious committed relationship, you have to tell him how you feel. Your guy cannot have his cake and eat it too so to speak. It is up to you if you give him a chance.
Life is all about choices.
Just be honest and blunt with him, and see what his reaction is, and then make your decision. There are many articles that may help you in dealing with this and other issues that will come to play in your life. Love yourself first, and don't accept second best is my advice to you. Wishing you an epic and loving day.