A third personality type is more people-oriented. These folks think of their spirituality in terms of how it relates to the people they care about. Still others are problem-solvers. A fifth group is more intellectual about faith issues. They emphasize learning facts and grasping spiritual concepts.
Different personalities use different languages of spirituality.
If a mystical type marries a problem-solver, they can easily end up talking past each other. Often, the sticking point comes down to an uneven level of interest. Typically, one partner feels a much stronger need to talk about God to feel close spiritually, while the other is content simply to share activities like worshiping together or spending time with friends from church. One spouse actively pursues spiritually oriented conversations by bringing up first one subject and then another. Less-interested mates see things differently.