Play the field. It requires a lot of effort to be in a healthy love relationship with someone else. That's just not smart. When you strain a muscle, good doctors will insist that you give it a rest if you want it to heal. Give a monogamous, committed relationship with someone else a rest for now.
Broken relationships take time to heal.
The relationship I am talking about is the broken relationship you have with yourself. Not only must you know this, you must acknowledge that there is a problem that needs repair before the healing can begin. If you want to know what the problem is in your relationships, it's very simple. Look into the mirror. You must muster the courage to look the problem straight in the eye and declare your independence from it.