An image which comes to mind when describing gentleness is that of a parent loving a newborn baby. See how the parent tenderly holds the baby. Look at the love radiating from the parent's smiles, kisses, and caresses. See how the infant responds to that gentleness with pure delight. This is like the gentleness that the Spirit enables us to show towards all.
Gentleness gifts others with respect that is free from patronizing and idolizing.
Gentleness respects the differences of opinions and beliefs so as to promote dialogue, understanding, and consensus. Gentle men, women, and children offer their opinions without nagging or pressuring. They remember that the gentle gifts of persistent prayer and ready forgiveness are among the greatest gifts that can be given. Self-control helps set personal boundaries that protect self and others from the detrimental effects of immoral activity. Those who exercise the fruit of self-control enjoy intense pleasure and happiness, because they satisfy their desires in accordance with the will of God in accordance with what is truly good for their self and others.