The passive aggressive male is an epidemic in our culture. There are many techniques that he uses to satisfy his appetite for absolute control of his environment and power over women. Emotional Withdrawal, The Subtle Putdown, Isolation and Neglect are just a few of these. Designed to undermine a woman's self confidence, this type of behavior is frequently the cause of low self esteem issues affecting women's lives. In some cases the end result being suicide.
Emotional abuse is emotional violence.
The one who will submit to his sick needs. These men are sick and unfortunately are the least likely to admit they have a problem and seek help. The thought of leaving him seems impossible, which is why she will try anything to keep him happy. She will give in to his cold demands to the point of denying her own needs. So she begins to abuse herself.