There will be those for whom you don't have strong affinity even though you love them. But mostly it's a matter of losing specialness. Each person becomes special in their own way, or it comes to be that nobody is particularly special, because you see the beauty of divinity in each. And that will tend to become sexual some percentage of the time. And the kind of people you find sharing this with you will be, like you, too much in self love to be creating for themselves, experiences where they are hurting themselves, either directly or via others.
Fear is a form of resistance.
By putting energy into fear of AIDS, you are helping to create it in your own private reality. Don't worry, and don't fear. Instead create deeply loving sexual relationships with people you believe in, you love, you trust, and who test AIDS negative, as do all their partners. Create a safe space for normal healthy loving sex without condoms. Their presence only reinforces fear.