Show a Different Point of View. Emphasize that it is the behavior you do not like - you still love the child. Use Logical Consequences. Involve the child in identifying what will help him or her learn not to make the same mistake again. Allow Expression of Negative Feelings.
Emotions are a normal part of life.
Try creative solutions that stop behavior problems before they start. Give the Reason for the Rule. Spend some of your extra time mentoring a child in need. A mentor is a caring adult who makes an active, positive contribution to the life of a child who is not his or her own. A mentor is a guide, a friend, a listener, a coach - someone who cares.