We should grow sexually just like we do emotionally. Look at it as a lifetime blossoming experience. Now, enjoy your upcoming reunion with your H and let s compare notes when we re in our seventies. I appreciate that very much. When I filled out MY questionnaire last night, it gave me better insight to where H was coming from.
Frequency is one thing.
Approach and method is quite another. Maybe he just wants variety. Maybe he wants planning on your part or aggressiveness. Maybe he wants you to attack him when he walks in the door wearing your birthday suit. I also think it's an area we might want to re-evaluate in a few months, since I haven't had the opportunity to meet his SF need.