As a result, the connection between one's family and one's mutual-help group can be underestimated. The reality of the relationship between one's family and one's chronic condition suggests that a family focus be incorporated into mutual-help groups. It does little good for someone to enjoy their mutual-help group, like their fellow members, and look forward to attending if the group does not aid them in dealing with their everyday circle of family and friends. Some mutual-help groups emphasize the importance of independence with chronic conditions. Striving for or achieving independence is frequently advocated.
Interdependence can be a more helpful concept and posture.
Interdependence is a state of maturity. It recognizes that persons move from dependence to independence depending on the situation and that caring relationships involve both independence and dependence. Families are groups of interdependent persons. Mutual-help groups and families are also interdependent in that changes occurring in one can affect the other. The ripple effects of chronic conditions are many.