I believe that family values are fundamentally the same for everyone. They are the core system of virtues, morals and beliefs that guide us in our daily lives. It seems to me that whether a person is lesbian, lay, bisexual, transgender or straight has no bearing on those core principles.
Family values are a personal credo.
Treat others as you yourself would like to be treated. I think this simple phrase is the foundation of most rules and laws in our society. Everything from laws against stealing and murder to demonstrating compassion and tolerance comes back to this core principle. These values are not owned by any one group in our society, as many in the Christian Right would have us believe. They are not God-given, but rather cultivated by society as a whole.