If you are uncomfortable shopping at the meat market in person, order out. On the internet, all you really have is talk. So, here is your chance to be known prior to judgement. However, be careful in this department. This is where it gets a little tricky.
Exaggeration is nothing new.
We have all run into people, or been those people, who have told little white lies about such things as our salary, our jobs, our marital status. However, on the internet, the exaggerations can be much larger. Someone can also exaggerate about what he or she looks like, and also furnish a picture. There are NOT that many super models out there. If you get a picture that looks too good to be true, you might look through some catalogs to make sure your new prospect did not just scan in the latest Sears catalog underwear section.