It is in this context that the reader may learn some rules on the road to romance. A plan or a map as it were, to hopefully make fewer mistakes in one's efforts to succeed in the complex matters of relationships, courtships, dating, Love, Loving, and desiring to be Loved. These essays then may be read as letters of advice, a plan for successful romance, or rules for the road, so to speak, into the wonderful world and art of attractions and romantic encounters. Naturally, no one person has all the answers. Nor can there be any single formula and equation for everyone to follow in order to find their hallmark Love and romantic bliss.
Love is too much a mystery, too indefinable.
It has been, and will always be, human- kind's most desirable, most illusive, most wonderful, and most incomprehensible experience. More poets, more writers, more songs, more paintings, and more art has been inspired and parented by Love than any other human attribute. I, Jon, cannot say I possess the answers to life, Love, and the achievement to happiness, success, and romantic fulfillments.