Your help and advise would be gratefully received. Hello , Please excuse the delay in reply , we had a few problems , as you can see from the site . If you do not mind , we will put the text of your question and our reply on our Temporary Advice page - no names or addresses of course . Getting to spank her will probably be a lot easier than you being spanked , most women have some form of initial objection to spanking another adult . Women can start out receiving only and later their interests change to giving .The trick is to make it as natural as you can .
Bare bottom is best as it is the most sensual way .
If it is not too late you may like to try body massages and lightly touching her bottom when making love . Your task will be a lot easier if you have a high degree of physical intimacy in your relationship with her . This is something which can not be pushed , it may or may not happen as a continuing occurrence . You have to be prepared to make strategic retreats and ultimately to give up the pursuit . Believe it or not this mindset will increase your chances and stop this issue spilling over into other areas of your lives .