A professional who is just an employee of a large practice group probably does not have professional goodwill. There are a number of ways to accomplish this. The easiest way is to simply award a larger amount of other property to the other spouse. Otherwise, most pensions can be divided with court orders. For IRAs, the property division can simply be in the Decree.
Issues surrounding retirement plans can be complex, and it is best to get professional assistance.
Alimony or maintenance is only available for persons who were married. There are different types of stock options that would be treated differently. It is best to speak with an attorney about your specific situation, because there are exceptions to this rule, and ascertaining the purpose of the option is not always straightforward. A copy of any agreements pertaining to the exercise of the stock options. The exercise price for each option.