I challenge you to put your allegiance to God above that of any human heritage. Make His life, His Word and His ways your heritage. They most often develop without any deliberate, conscious effort. They not only show us a certain way, they easily lead us along that way. The same factors that make them handy also make them frustrating and even dangerous.
Grooves are hard to break out of.
The wrong ones we must break loose from, or we'll pay dearly. His left wheels went off the road and got snagged by a groove of sorts. Despite his best and most desperate efforts, that groove took him into a culvert. Identify them personally, or sort through some of them as a class.