She wanted a rematch. It was so unfun, I said no thanks, and went to bed. I realized the competition in this family was sick, but I never put it together with Nism. As I look back, there were so many signs that I didn't recognize. They are overachievers in areas that allow competition.
Baseball players are real heavy on narcissistic behavior.
He needed to keep reminding himself that he existed. He would compete for the best parking spot, by-pass those waiting to be seated at a restaurant and get quick service. He competed with his peers, to be the first one to come up with a new idea. If his friend was on the cover of the weekend entertainment feature in the newspaper, he wanted to be on the cover of the next one, or in any other media. He used me to try and get those things done, but after awhile I would not do those things anymore.