For sure, don't expose the abuse. If you do, be prepared to be isolated, to be blamed, to be accused as the one in the wrong, and be prepared not to be heard. However, pressure or no pressure, be proud of being awakened to the fact that verbal abuse is abusive, and be courageous enough to take a stand against it, and not tolerate it. The power of silence is in silence. By breaking the silence you lessen its power and thus the power of the abuser.
Exposure erodes the protective cover of abuse and of the abuser, so use the power of speech.
Speak out, speak up, and stand firm. Your stature will emerge and your liberation will follow. An outcome worthy of the price.