Punishment. . . . . . is teaching before, during or after an event. . . There are many positive discipline techniques. One of the best ways to help a child learn is by using methods of reinforcement. Positive reinforcement can be used to reward behavior that you want a child to continue doing. The best rewards are smiles, hugs and attention.
Compliments are especially important.
Children will begin to think of themselves as helpful, kind, creative or obedient if they are complimented often in this way. With time, they will be more likely to become the helpful, responsible person that society needs them to be. Sometimes more tangible treats may be used such as giving a child ice cream. However, the best way for the child to internalize the difference between right and wrong is to model appropriate behaviors. It is important to protect children from danger and keep them from getting too far out of control.