Looking good is never bad. But most ladies are more auditory than visual, so it's more vital that you say arousing things. It's also important that you smell and taste nice. Take showers before going to bed instead of after getting out. Eat lots of celery and cinnamon.
Ladies are most sensitive to touch.
Explore the sensual paradise of her body. Find her hottest spots. The type of compliment depends on the lady. Worship her body, and she'll be more likely to want to share it with you. Ask her to masturbate for you .