She told me once that her boyfriend gave her a much needed hug, and then out of nowhere she felt this repeated tapping on her back. Many times, if others pay attention, they can catch you tapping out rhythms on the tables or your own legs. One day I noticed my boyfriend playing his snare part to our marching music on the table. I asked him if he knew that he was playing on the table. I guess it never dawns on the all-powerful drummers that it's not a normal thing to beat on the tables or your girlfriend's head.
Drummers are perfectionists.
You all practice more than anyone else in the band. There is no other explanation to that because average drummers practice around four hours per day. You'll practice until you're blue in the face, or until you're hands fall off, whichever comes first. It is because of that drive that you are the best in the band and that's why others admire you. When this happens your company might as well vanish because everything you talk about they won't comprehend.