Those emotions include irritation, resentment, anger, and even rage. That is true whether we're dealing with our parents, our siblings, our spouse, or our children. Just ask your local police officer about family violence. They are also the ones with the greatest potential to trigger in us such emotions as fear, hurt, frustration, and eventually anger. Anger is not necessarily a sign of relational immaturity or instability.
Anger is an inherent component of all human relationships.
Anger is so prevalent in marriage where you are so dependent on and vulnerable to someone else. People in healthy and unhealthy relationships argue and disagree. The difference is that in the healthy relationships those disagreements result in increased understanding, trust and security. They reflect mutual respect, even in disagreements. Healthy expression of anger is a testimony to the strength of a marriage.