I don't think so. In the third place you lack the courtesy to let your spouse speak his or her thoughts. Love is not proud and it's not self seeking. After you've gone over your differences, affirm you love for each other. Dr. O'Leary found that holding hands, kissing and greeting one another warmly on a regular basis had more to do with marital satisfaction than helping with household chores, doing things together and thanking one another for acts of compassion.
Love is patient and kind.
I don't think you're going to get through very many days of your marriage without some kind of disagreement. That's not the end of the world or your relationship. If you pay more attention to how you disagree than you do the issues, you'll probably come out all right in the end. Sometimes, however, it does parallel the wisdom of experience. I think also it is a spiritual gift.