The Keys to Successful Flirting State reigns supreme. The most important component of a successful flirtation is being in the right mood for flirting.
Good flirts are playful, have a sense of fun, adventure and a curiosity about people.
When you feel good about yourself, only then can you give this to others. You can learn to use the skills of NLP to make changes in states whenever you need to do something childlike each day, jumping in puddles, smiling for no reason. If your main focus is concentrated on what you want, it will show. You may come across as desperate. Instead of worrying whether you will score or make a good impression, focus on what you can give.