Jesus Christ must be found in normal, everyday life. If the past is prolog, we have much to fear. Our current, improved economic circumstances do not make better men. Appoint elders that possess 15 characteristics. One of the required characteristics is for someone who leads his household, and manages his family well.
Family life is a clear display of one's character.
Additionally, one should be faithful in marriage. A man who cannot lead his own family should not lead in the church. Quick-tempered people should not serve as elders. Also, Titus prohibits addictions, physical violence or financial gain. Rather, find people who are hospitable, upright and holy, who love what is good.