It teaches fear, humiliation, rage, and that violence is an okay way of reacting. Take time out for yourself, count to 10, or call a friend for support when you feel angry at your child. When you do overreact or discipline too harshly, tell the child you made a mistake and are sorry. This will help your child to continue to feel loved and supported. Recognize that each child is unique.
Children have different temperaments and growth rates.
They must be praised for their individual accomplishments. They will begin to see the connections between their actions and your response. Parents who are sensitive to a child's behavior will encourage positive self-esteem. Choose quality child care and stay involved. Research shows that high-quality child care and early education can boost children's learning and social skills when they enter school.