Concentrate on the positive. Remember, children's self-confidence needs an extra boost when they fall at a task. Treat your child as a unique, valued and respected individual, not just an extension of you. Take time to hear your child's feelings and concerns, especially those that concern your military lifestyle. Be a good listener.
Children feel good about themselves when they know others value what they have to say.
Show respect for your child's interests and ideas, even when they differ from your own. Show your appreciation and pride in those efforts. Love your child unconditionally. Express your love frequently. I will be a good role model for my child, setting an example of appropriate behavior.