Divorces are messy and conflict ridden.
And, nobody seems to come through them without being damaged, including the children. We are in the midst of a divorce or thinking about divorce, and I know there's going to be an issue about who has the children or how often each of us sees the children. I've heard about custody evaluations, but don't really understand what they are all about. As a couple we are in trouble, we don't know what to do anymore and just can't seem to communicate. We have argued and argued, and just can't seem to get anywhere.