But if she does participate, after a while, the wife often gets even more involved than her husband. Any number of possibilities, the worst of which involve hubby fuming jealously as wifey basks in the glorious newfound attention of several sensual men and women. For the most part, nowadays, American Swing is a femalist sexual paradise. Single women are welcome at swing parties, single men usually are not. Also, while most swinger women are bisexual, most swinger men are not, at least not actively.
Group sex presents women with certain benefits that neither dating nor relationship sex offers.
Some ladies use swinging to experiment with different forms of sex, such as sex with women or with more than one man. A good swing party is a femaleist sexual paradise. I consider the best swingers to be the bonobos of humanity. They're highly sexual, remarkably peaceful, and women are in charge . Which tends to be good for the gals as well as the guys.