Then I saw two expert sex therapists that in their professional opinion said my problem isn't in my head. Also I never get the feeling of build up of tension in the parts of the body like the prostate that i should. I sometimes get a pain in the pudental nerve after long erections. The report said the herniation was not pressing on nerve roots. I have never been seriously injured and I have never even been wounded in my groin area ever.
Docs say it probably autonomic and sympathetic nervous system related.
Again i get firm erections but never orgasm. I don't know of any connection between heart pains and anorgasmia nor of a certain heart rate range required for orgasm. There may be an autonomic nervous system problem so perhaps seeing someone in that field would be helpful. Dr. Fouad is the specialist in that area here and your local University hospital should have someone who is trained in autonomics. I hope you find some answers.