The world passes away, along with every desire of every man for the things of the world, but he who does the will of God will remain forever. Love other people, your brothers and sisters. Know by this that you have surely passed from death to life. Anyone who does not love remains in death. Friedrich Nietsche 63.
Every cloud has a silver lining.
Tithe your plans and your speech. At least a tenth of your time should be used in deciding what not to do and what not to say. Be a survivor. Survivors are paradoxical. They are both serious and playful, tough and gentle, logical and intuitive, hard-working and lazy, shy and aggressive, introspective and outgoing .