Aliens gaze upon us in awe. And every single one of these stories takes place a very long way from Earth. Nothing resembling the human world is allowed to intrude. This is fun, of a sort. In each case they are either raped or threatened with rape.
Humans always win.
Men always win. Technic is all that counts. Interference with venture capitalists is all that keeps humans from owning the entire universe. All of this is fun of a different sort. And I don't think we have much fun having it any more.