Then there s the yang approach. Oversized flannel nightgowns, or large, matronly, white cotton underwear either worn or given will do the trick fairly well. In the Wee Small Hours . Later, cuddle up in front of a movie. Now, Last Tango in Paris, The Double Life of Veronique or The Lover.
Love spells are an intriguing possibility.
The simplest one is to write exactly what you want on a piece of paper. Put it somewhere you will see it every day. It will happen. Or, try this old Gypsy spell. They are all governed by Venus and symbolize life, blood and passion.