Give men credit. A man can see the inner beauty of a woman as well as the outer beauty. When I met my wife, an Ashkenazi woman, all I could see were her eyes. It was love at first sight. I didn't stop to ask how much she tipped the scales.
Intermarriage is due to factors other than how Ashkenazi women present themselves.
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