Children need to know it is ok to have their own feelings about each parent. Let your child know it is ok to like being with the other parent. That may be hard for you, but children feel better when they have some good feelings about both parents. Sometimes children may not want to leave one parent to stay with the other. Let them know you understand that is hard.
Help can come in many ways.
Let your child's teacher know your family is having hard times. The teacher can give extra help and comfort when your child is upset. Tell your child you told the teacher. Children think the divorce is a secret because no one talks about it. But divorce is not a secret for people who care about your child.