I've worked with many conflicting couples who weren't too sure what the real issue was. But they were sure that whatever the issue, their position was the correct one. To add more muscle to their argument, they would say that their view was the most biblical one. Threatened by Differences I've known some Evangelicals who believe that Christians who are mature will agree almost all of the time. Every decision made must reflect the unanimity of those involved.
Conflict is viewed as a sign of immaturity and carnality.
But in many ways just the opposite is true. Those who believe that diversity always leads to division feel threatened by differences. They tend to discourage individual uniqueness and creativity. Individuals are pressured not to disagree. Spirituality and maturity are in part determined by the degree to which everyone thinks alike.