Such a positive attitude is wonderful. It is helpful, however, to remember that young children have not had many opportunities to discover their strengths and weaknesses in an academic setting. It is not uncommon for school age children to set standards that are frustratingly too high or unsatisfyingly low. Children this age have not had much experience in setting and achieving goals. Also, they do not have the capacity to measure their own strengths and weaknesses.
Adults can help by providing experiences that are challenging, yet achievable.
Progressively learning new skills and becoming competent in those skills are sure ways to achieve a strong sense of identity and self-worth. Tips for parents Help your child feel lovable and capable The two key ingredients of self-esteem are feeling loved and capable. Parents can foster this in many little ways every day. It is important to your child that you listen, take his feelings seriously, and spend time alone with him. You also can show your respect and support by allowing your child to make decisions, respecting your child's possessions, and expressing love with words and hugs.