If your wedding will be very formal, run with this option. The groom can distinguish himself in several ways according to Jen Stone, owner of New York's StoneKelly Events and Florals. It's a good idea to keep the flowers in the same color family for a consistent look, advises Peter Krask, a floral designer and owner of Peter M. Krask Design in New York. Krask also proposes the groom wear a fully open blossom while the groomsmen don buds of the same flower. For instance, if you wear a silver tie and matching vest, the groomsmen could sport a vest and tie combo that complements or matches the bridesmaid dresses.
Grooms can go one step further and wear a different type of neckwear from the guys.
Or, if you plan to wear an ascot, select a matching necktie for your men. Variety in the vest Vests are another element of the tux with which grooms can experiment. Pick a vest that's a different color from your groomsmen, but be sure to match patterns if you're mixing colors. If you choose a black tie and black vest, you could put the groomsmen in a color that matches the bridesmaid dresses. Or, set yourself apart in a cummerbund and put the fellas in vests.