There can not be ideal people and nobody can have a full set of necessary characteristics. I can love a man forgiving some his shortcomings. We often can not explain why we love this person. Love is poor if it can be measured. A man and a woman should live together.
Family is the most important thing for a normal person, and there can be no other alternative.
My life came to a standstill waiting for something light, clear and reliable. All a woman wants is happiness, love and understanding.