The sixth insight states that childhood dramas block our ability to fully experience the mystical.
Interrogators steal it by judging and questioning.
And poor me's make us feel guilty and responsible for them. The above description from James Redfield's book, The Celestine Prophecy, defines four ways that people are in relationship with one another. All are attempts to control another's behavior. We attempt to control and manipulate others because we believe that if they would change their behavior we would be happy and so would they. When people do things we don't like, or when we're not getting our way, we think they are wrong.