The family joins together with unrealistic expectations of how they will get along. The family members need to grieve the past loss and explore expectations of each other. Two families with different beliefs, values, rules, and discipline share the same household. The family must begin to develop new rules, roles, and traditions. Adolescents may act out while younger children may do poorly in school or have physical pains or illnesses.
Family members begin practicing what they have learned.
The family begins to create its own traditions and memories. The stepfamily chooses to work hard to stabilize the relationship. Adults must forgive their former partners and themselves for the past failed marriage. Copyright Regents of the University of Minnesota. All rights reserved.