In doing so we bring about the very situation we dread. Possessive love can sometimes seem like hatred and often leads to it. The true self is beyond ego. I notice how problems start when I talk about my fears to those involved in them. My face reflects back unhappily in the mirror of their eyes.
Fear is contagious and damaging.
I need to think before I express the feelings it inspires. Name the fear to yourself rather than talk of it endlessly to others. There is always something beyond fear. Death is just a release back into the light of the infinite, the end of a session in the game. You can do no more than give love for love.