Whatever we focus our attention on, our Higher Selves gives us. Manifesting what we want isn't coercing the Universe. We are simply accepting more of the Universal energy as substance. The Universe isn't just wonderful, fuzzy ideals of love and joy. It is also all of the material substance that our physical world is created from.
Divinity is Love energy in physical form.
The chair you sit on, the job you have, your relationships, your finances, your health, all if this is Love in material form in your life. It is up to you to decide how much of that Energy you will accept. The Universe wants to give you all you could ever desire. The purpose of focusing on what you want is to change YOUR mind to accept it, to realize that you deserve it. Not to change the Universal Mind.