We don't need to put any effort into our salvation. Faith alone is not enough. We must actively resist evil, while acknowledging that the effort to resist comes from God. Regeneration is a gradual process taking many years, involving effort, love, good works. Marriage love is heavenly, spiritual, holy, pure and clean.
Genuine marriage is spiritual and lasts forever.
The husband is the head of the wife. Husband and wife are equals before God. Heaven is a place of praise and relaxation. Heaven is a place of usefulness. The Bible should always be taken literally.