My wife went the shelter and filed for divorce because I yelled and screamed at her and my 2 girls. This happened in July. We are now going for counseling together. She needs it more than I do. I went through Anger Manegment 8 weeks, Parenting for Men 12 weeks, and now through DivorceCare for 13 weeks.
Every bit helps.
Both of us do not want divorce but something have to be done when people are disrespectful toward one another. My wife and girls were scared of me to. I have never been on drugs but verbal abuse is bad enough. Now we are rebuilding our marriage and hopefully soon we will reunite. So there is alot of hope for you too.