But sometimes the girl is the abusive partner or rapist. Guys aren't the only ones. Guys and girls can both be the victims, and they need to know that it is not their fault that they are being abused. Abusers are not necessarily the scary bums or crazy people we sometimes imagine they are. They can be everyday people without any real outward signs that might hint at their abusive behaviors.
Abusers are rich, poor, educated, dropouts, professional, unemployed and people of all races.
They live in the city or the country, and they look just like you and me. Teen relationships consume our minds each and each day, because they are important to us. The next time you go out with someone, be careful, and stay safe. Paige Lehman is a freshman at Wakulla High School. RAPE HELP Victim Services 2 Lafayette Street New York, NY 10007.