One of the points I was trying to make there is that Japan, for example, works best when people have a clear sense of what their place is. Of how they stand relative to everybody else. How they work as a unit. Whereas America worked best when people had no sense of their proper place and thought, like my dad, they could imagine some new future for themselves tomorrow. You could move to Alaska, take on a new name, and your past is erased.
Institutions work best, and so do people, when they are the best versions of themselves.
They are extremely different kids. They're both very talented. I love them both dearly. But they're very, very different. And each of them will probably end up doing a different thing in his life, and that's good, because they would be unhappy in each other's roles, proper walks of life.