The only thing they experience is the fear and the disapprobation in the sound, the voice of the parents. Before a child sheds their teeth it only appears to understand what we are saying. What truly happens is that the child is just imitating our voice and words. Out of the dialogue in their neighborhood comes an inner dialogue into existence, by a monologue of repeating the words of others. Language starts with the words of others, which we pull within.
Language is indeed an obsession.
Words we basically do not understand. And there is another problem. Let us do a little exercise. Yes, you did. Our mind cannot handle denials.