Rural Communities Rural communities are diverse in character but they do share some common features. Iwi, hapu or settler connections and traditions all play a part in defining the nature of a rural community. Many families are interconnected and related, and many have been a part of the same community for many generations. Newcomers to rural communities may have to deal with a new way of life. The male culture in rural NZ is traditionally built around being a hard man who can handle the harsh side of rural life, and the focus of social contact is often the rugby club or pub.
Guns are common in rural households.
Rural women are noted for their practicality and ability to cope with difficult circumstances. There is a custom of rural families supporting each other, sharing things and providing practical help in times of adversity or crisis. However, family privacy may be preciously guarded. Domestic violence may be seen as an individual and a private matter rather than a social and public issue. It is a big step for anyone to acknowledge that they are a victim of domestic violence, even to themselves.