Even mild forms of abuse can bring on damage and cause interruptions in our lives. Abusive experiences happen not only in our private home life, but in our active social and professional worlds. I'd like to say I'm very sorry if this has happened to you, and no, it does not happen only to females. Perpetrators are not always male. It doesn't go away, but it can be survived, and you can recover.
Incest is a deeply challenging kind of rape to heal, but it can be done.
The damage caused by any rape is multi-layered, and the lasting ill effects will not change by themselves. Any accident or incident that has caused brain injury, coma, internal injury, lost memory, organ replacement, fear can be understood on a Spiritual level. The energies of these types of events have reason and purpose. It is possible to gain a deeper connection through spiritual insight in an attempt to support and aid any physical healing process you and your doctors find necessary. If this issue is real for you, I extend my sincere sympathy.