It is entitled Forgiveness Forum and is an outgrowth of my recent Doctor of Ministry thesis at The Chicago Theological Seminary.
Forgiveness is a response to a serious wrong or betrayal.
In fact, I don't believe it is even humanly possible to completely forget such serious injuries. Also, in some situations we need to be able to remember the injury, so that we don't let ourselves get into the same situation again in which we might be hurt. I do agree with the point, however, that if we say we have forgiven, but still keep throwing the memory of our injury back into the face of our injurer, that our forgiveness probably has not really taken place, at least not fully. We initiate that process by deciding that we want to forgive. But that process is completed when we, through a gift from God, no longer feel ill will toward the person who injured us.