Then, during the next generation in the 60s, 70s and 80s, Stage II rebellion and blame took center stage. You are causing my problems. You should fix yourself so that I can be happy. It is all someone else's fault why I get so many sour lemons in my life. Happiness and unhappiness don't just happen to us.
Happiness is a choice.
Most believe otherwise. Now in the mid-1990s, the possibility that all those lemons need to be made into lemonade is starting to enter the consciousness of millions. We are now as a society proceeding into Stages III, IV, and V, the stages where our lemons are made into lemonade. It is possible and very freeing. Roseanne too with her widespread talking about the secrets of abuse.