Form of detachment enableing me to see how I am in a given situation. One outcome in a given situation, which is highly emotionally charged, such that all other posiible outcomes are negated as irrelevant prior to the event. The sum total of conditioning which filters the needs of the self to suit conditioned standards. Ego uses fear to control individual self expression. Where emotionally charged situations are felt and able to be communicated to another person within a perceived safe space.
Intimacy is dependent on strength to become vulnerable.
Sexuality will change depending on what emotional comfort zone is being chosen by the body. State of no fear leaving only a state of total self acceptance. This state can only exist when all reflections of others are also of total acceptance. When I focus on what other people are doing my emotional focus will look for what is happening in myself, in others. If I am angry then I notice anger in others and the same for sadness, guilt, anxiety, love, joy, freedom, etc.