I sent your URL to my husband, who sent it to his therapist. He loves your site, and now recommends it to his clients. And my husband loves it. I freely accept the responsibility for my portion of that. The sad thing is NOT that we are separated now, but that I waited to leave him until I didn't love or respect him any more.
Fear kills love.
It's that simple. If I had left while I still cared about him, there might have been some hope for the relationship. Odd little paradox for you. I will use it. When I told them it was about domestic violence, you could have heard a pin drop.