At this point the Second Bardo begins. The person sees all that they have ever done or thought passing in front of them. Then comes the Third Bardo, which is the state of seeking another birth. All previous thoughts and actions direct the person to choose new parents, who will give them their next body. On the passing away of the father, the eldest son becomes the head of the family.
Leadership passes to the eldest son of the eldest son or the grandson of the father.
He must assume the responsibilities and duties to the ancestors on behalf of the family. The funeral ceremony, traditionally lasts over 49 days, the first seven days being the most important. Prayers are said every seven days for 49 days if the family can afford it. If the family is in poor circumstances, the period may be shortened to from 3 to 7 days. Usually, it is the responsibility of the daughters to bear the funeral expenses.