He just doesn't always see their relevance to the issue at hand. For his part, he has worked on expressing certain feelings such as love via physical affection rather than his preferred mode, the sharing of ideas. So a place to start might be to simply assess your own awareness of your feelings. If so, that's the biggest part of the battle. Your worth as a person ought not depend upon how well you articulate your feelings.
Feelings tend to become more of a problem when they occur with limited awareness.
Celebrate your gifts whatever they may be. As for relationships, given that opposites do indeed attract, odds are that you may be drawn to persons who articulate their feelings well. Learn from them. Don't pretend to be something you're not, but do communicate your willingness to learn and your interest in meeting the other person's needs. And keep in mind that you have something to offer for the other person's growth as well, perhaps a deeper appreciation for the world of ideas or the place of reason in human affairs.