For example, they must know where they will be living and going to school. Also, they need to know, in an appropriate way, why the parents are divorcing. They don't need to have the details. Keep your statements simple when talking to the children. Children need to be told what the future holds for them.
Children also worry about their parents.
They want to know where that parent is because they feel that he or she has vanished. They must be given a commitment as to when they will see that parent again. The visiting parent should also bring the child to his or her new place of residence as soon as possible so that the child can inspect its physical setup. Children are also deeply concerned about whether the parent remaining in the family home will be able to manage. Be sure to actually tell each child individually that he or she is not the cause of the divorce.