Our Pygmalion project, then, is to make all those near us just like us. For more information click here. Fortunately, this project is impossible. To sculpt the other into our own likeness fails before it begins. People can't change form no matter how much and in what manner we require them to.
Form is inherent, ingrained, and indelible.
Ask a snake to swallow itself. Form cannot be self-changing. Of course, some change is possible, but it is a twisting and distortion of underlying form. Remove the fangs of a lion and behold a toothless lion, not a domestic cat. Our attempts to change spouse, offspring, or others can result in change, but the result is a scar and not a transformation.