Others are uncomfortable for reasons having more to do with psychology than esthetics. They may simply be turned off by their spouse s own lack of desire, or by other changes caused by the pregnancy such as the appearance of hair on the female body where none visibly existed before, or a change in the odor and taste of the vagina. Some are preoccupied by worries about fatherhood, and fears about an uncertain future. There s no right or wrong when it comes to sex for a pregnant couple. Each couple must explore the question of sex for themselves and come to terms with it.
Communication is the key to keeping the relationship healthy in spite of any difficulties.
Talk frankly to your doctor. He s probably more than willing and able to help alleviate your fears and address your concerns. Rest assured that most physicians say sex that is comfortable for both partners, practiced during normal, uncomplicated pregnancy, is perfectly healthy and natural up until the final stages. The choice is yours. Obviously, understanding and patience are required of both partners as you explore this important, integral facet of your relationship on you journey toward parenthood.