There is not a consensus among the Christian Community when dealing with the issue of homosexuality. There is not a consensus among denomination members nor is there a consensus among congregation members dealing with this issue. While individuals may agree with others, they are equally likely to find other Christians that they disagree with when dealing with this issue. To call those that you disagree with unchristian, confused, or lost souls is to do a disservice to this discourse. To state that your belief is the absolute truth reeks of egotistical righteousness.
Absolutism is just as dangerous as relativism.
While I believe there are absolute truths i.e. God is real. The Bible is the Word of God. To than carry this absolutism over to how the Bible is interpreted is wrong. I do not believe that I or for that matter any human can with absolute certainty say what God desires in ever aspect of our life. To do so closes the Bible for further learning.