Brothers, sisters, and priests in religious communities make three vows and some congregations make other vows as well. Poverty -We share our goods in common, live a simple life, and realize that we depend on God. Celibacy -We choose to love and serve God and all God's people, rather than to love one person exclusively in marriage. We offer our celibacy as witness and testimony to God's love. Obedience -We live in community and try to obey the will of God by taking part in the community's goals, hopes, and work.
Diocesan priests make promises of celibacy and obedience to their bishop.
No, they can't because dating is meant to lead to marriage, and as celibates we plan not to marry However, we very much want and need friendships, and we have friends of both sexes. We still experience normal, human needs, feelings, and desires. We work at remaining faithful to our vow of celibacy through prayer, closeness to Jesus, good friendships, and healthy physical exercise. It does happen. We try to develop the relationship within the limits and responsibilities of our commitment to celibacy.