This distance and alienation sometimes fools people into thinking they ve fallen out of love. They feel numb. They can t imagine ever re-igniting those loving feelings. But the truth is, the love hasn t been destroyed, it s just camouflaged beneath the numbness. And, by retracing the steps taken to weaken love s bond, the feelings of warmth, connection, friendship and intimacy can be restored.
Affairs don t have to ruin marriages.
There is little that is more devastating than to discover your spouse has been unfaithful. Most people take to heart the promise they make to forsake all others. An intimate relationship is one of the primary things that sets marriages apart from all other kinds of relationships. The connection, closeness and satisfaction you feel with your mate is very personal, something that is meant just for the two of you. This is why infidelity feels like such a violation.