This is after he told me that he wanted me to trust him and take him seriously. After he found out that I knew, he made no effort to call me and explain or anything. Even though he screwed me over, I still like him. But I'm scared of getting hurt again . Take the initiative, call him, and talk things out.
Communication is key.
Either he wants to pursue you, and you exclusively, or not. Perhaps he is also just stringing you along in case things with your friend don't work out the way he would like. Recently my husband of 4 years dropped a bomb on me. He told me he still had feelings for an old girlfriend he used to date. Then he tells me that our different religious beliefs are making him question whether or not he wants to be with our son and I any longer.