Clarity Be clear in stating rights, rules, and limits.
Children need to know what the rules are, what the discipline will be for breaking a rule, and what that discipline is intended to achieve. Be direct and honest in establishing rights, rules, and limits. Never be secretive or try to manipulate. Some families write out rules about homework, TV viewing, curfews, friends, spending money, and responsibilities. Consistency Be consistent in rules and discipline or reward, but be flexible, too, to encourage growth.