And use one basic approach to disciplining your children. Offering choices ane day and simply imposing consequences without any choices on another day can be confusing and frustrating to a child. Take Appropriate Action Fit the consequences to the misbehavior. If apologies are in order, have your child make them. And if you must scold your child, be brief and to the point.
Children stop listening if scolding goes on too long.
Do your best not to take your children's misbehavior personally. Keep in mind that we all slip up occasionally, including our children. Know what behaviors you must take a firm stand on and what you can be more flexible about. If things are going pretty well, don't make minor misbehavior into a big issue. Focus on your child's positive qualities and constructive behaviors.