Anger is not about correcting conduct. Rather it is about burning bridges. If someone hurts us, the correct response is to retain control and approach them with restrained emotion and tell them exactly how we feel. Because in essence we should not want to harm the relationship. We should want to tell them that in truth we do need them, which is why we have taken such great offense at their behavior.
All anger is like a wave.
A bather in the ocean can ride a wave, or he can allow it to pass over. The amazing thing about anger is that the more we indulge ourselves in it, the more it grows and the more it spreads. Im sure that everyone knows that the more they talk while angry the more upset they become. Rather, when you really lose your temper, just try your best to sit tight and let it pass, because pass it will. Dont ride that wave.