I'm eventually with. My soul mate is out there. Once I'm in love, I'll never find anyone else attractive. Not so, observes Shirley Glass, Ph.D., a clinical psychologist in Baltimore. There's nothing wrong with finding someone other than your man hot, but if you're emotionally attached to that person and want to pursue the relationship, Dr. Glass notes, you need to end the first relationship before starting another.
Children make the relationship stronger.
But while she and her husband were enjoying being parents, they soon realized how little time they had for each other. Dr. Glass suggests that couples continue to strengthen their bond as their nenes grow up. Newlyweds' ages and the length of time they have known each other can be risk factors, Dr. Fowers concedes, but they don't usually predict whether a marriage will last. Being a good spouse, caring for your partner in your actions, and making your relationship a high priority are far more important than factors like age or how many partners someone has had. A great romance is always picture-perfect.