What I like about modesty is that it's the opposite of prudery. Prudery implies you can't be moved by anything. But modesty suggests that you have sexual feelings and emotional feelings, and you have hope. Modesty ensures that you're with the right person before you expose something vulnerable. You shouldn't have to prove you have desire by having early sexual relationships.
All studies show that girls who do that have low self-esteem.
Well, I'm challenging the whole basis of sex ed because of the discomfort it causes. We're taught by the culture that discomfort about sex is something we have to get over. I think the discomfort kids feel is instinctive and it protects them. And in the absence of sex ed, they will figure it out. Our parents didn't have sex education and they were perfectly capable of having us.