Whatever is most true about how you feel right then. Being this honest makes you vulnerable. Peaceful, loving alliance takes a great deal of personal conviction and self-confidence. You have to be okay with yourself no matter what other folks think. You have to be deeply courageous.
Alliance is hard work.
There is no objective truth to discrimination. You may want to say its wrong and bad and pointless and cruel and stupid, but people dont discriminate for no reason. You disagree with them, and disagreement is okay. And its not your job to undo those reasons - leave that to the psychologists, social workers, or parole officers. Instead, just be honest about who you are and how you feel, everywhere you go.