Differing Dating Expectations . These are often false expectations that can lead to date rape. Poor Communication . Studies show that men may interpret messages in a sexual way more often than women do. She actually may be thinking that she would like to spend more time with him and get to know him better.
Alcohol blurs the already confused and mixed messages that are being conveyed about sex.
If you are right, you have not offended or exploited your partner in any way. If your assumption was wrong, it is now her responsibility to open up the communication and reinitiate the encounter. Examine your behavior on dates to be sure you are not doing things that could be construed as sexual exploitation of a woman. If a friend boasts of exploiting a woman sexually, condemn rather than condone such actions. Peer pressure can be used positively to help stop abusive behavior which may set the stage for acquaintance rape.