Immediately after getting married some people expect there new young wife to know how to fry eggs exactly the way they like it. After all, the diner you used to eat at knew how to make it. The egg and the anger have blinded this newlywed. He does not see that a new wife should concentrate on love. Love is not a fried egg.
Diners specialize in making fried eggs for unloved people.
Betty Doty has advice. If you believe that every one is doing all they can, you won't get angry. Accept it as a fact that people are doing all that they physically can. This attitude can definitely prevent people from getting angry. When you do not have wild expectations of others you will conquer the anger which can destroy your quality of life.