To start look at the situation, honestly, and your feelings about it, see how your beliefs brought it about. When I look honestly I know that on both occaisions I had outgrown the work, but was too comfortable and scared of the unknown to jump. So I'm being pushed. For some people it can be hard to accept this when things are going well, they keep looking for the raincloud on the sunny day. They'll find it.
All experiences are fortunate.
This is not the same as all experiences being pleasant. Some things can be bloody painful, but you have the choice to learn something empowering from it, and grow spiritually or to decide you are one of lifes victims. Morgraine, and the Celtic Goddesses generally are known for revealing important truths through harsh lessons, not through coddling. A Note of Caution. The Warrior Way is for everyone who wants to walk it, but do not judge your life before you begin to work with it by these teachings.