Teach your child frustration tolerance by not giving into their every wish. May I. These are opportunities for your child to develop social competencies. As they grow, the challenges facing them grow. Parents, not teachers, clergy or friends are the role models who have the greatest responsibility and potential for impacting their children. By taking the authoritative position when your child is first learning about the world around him or her will prepare them to be successful in a constantly challenging life.
Children look for strong authoritative figures to depend on and for direction.
If you do care, so teach them. Children are not fragile porcelain objects, but resilient, flexible, and forever developing humans. Saying no may make them initially angry at you, but the anger will turn to respect as the child matures. Remember parents, eating the crust fortifies your child so they can handle the rough edges of life.