Develop and shre mutual interests. Parents should look for activities geared to the youngsters' levels. They might take up surfing, cooking, antique restoration, soccer or crossword puzzles. Communicate frequently with children. Talking and listening to youngsters lets parents hear what their children are thinking and share feelings.
Communication happens best with minimal distractions and unstructured time.
Driving in the car, going the dishes and tucking a child into bed are prime times. Express affection often. Children need to know parents think they're terrific. Daily hugs, praise, backrubs before bedtime and kisses boost children's esteem and strengthens mutual attachment. Resolve conflicts quickly.