Once a report to the police is made the legal process will begin. The victim advocate will aid you at each step and explain what will happen. Once you have made the step to report abuse, stick with it. There are many people and agencies available to help you. Often the batterer is unable to admit there is a problem.
Counseling is only helpful if both partners want help and are motivated to work together.
If the abuse is habitual or extremely violent, the batterer may need long term therapy. Information on counseling and therapy for a victim or batterer is available through referrals from the Crime Victim Advocate. If the batterer refuses to seek help, it is unlikely the beatings will stop. Statistics show the beatings will become more and more severe. The Victim Advocate can assist you in obtaining a restraining order requiring your batterer to stay away from you, your residence, and your workplace.