Healing Communication by Rick Phillips Human communication is primitive. Hearing only means that the ear is perceiving sound. Real listening is conscious and we are poor listeners most of the time. Weil People who are married or in committed relationships are healthier, wealthier, and happier. The main reason is simple.
Compassion is born out of lovingkindness.
It is born out of the wisdom of seeing things exactly as they are. But we may get distracted, we forget, we get caught up in something else, or we confuse another feeling for the state of compassion. In relationship, anger can be either healthy or unhealthy. How you process it is what determines whether it becomes a tool for growth or a source of pain and destruction. The issues you'll deal with in the early stages of divorce are generally on opposite ends of the emotional spectrum.