God created you as a valuable and beloved child, just as he did others. Believing this, you will not resort to threats, violence, and manipulation when you relate to others, neither will you allow yourself to be threatened, abused, or manipulated. E. Assertiveness Is Not Aggressive Definition of Aggressive Behavior People behave aggressively when they express themselves in a threatening, abusive, or hostile manner. Aggressive behavior shows itself in insults, belittling, and sarcasm. Manipulation is a sign of aggression.
Aggression shows itself when one individual assumes the right to make decisions for another.
F. Assertiveness Is Not Passive Definition of Passive Behavior People are passive when they fail to express their feelings, needs, or affections to others, or when they fail to stand up for their own rights. Passive people won't say no , even when they don't want to do something, and they won't say yes , even when they do want to do something. When someone is asked to do something, and he or she apparently agrees, but then does not follow through, even though he or she could, that is passive-aggressive behavior. All the passive-aggressive person's opposition takes place behind the scenes and under cover, while on the surface he or she may seem agreeable and compliant. In short, Jesus came to bring us forgiveness and new life.