Fifth, parents can teach their children that mistakes are for learning. Criticizing lowers self-esteem. When we learn from our mistakes, we gain confidence and wisdom. Teach children to learn the lesson and go on. Sixth, parents can recognize and respect each child s uniqueness.
Comparisons lead to competition, resentment and low self-esteem.
Appreciate the specialness of each child. Children s self-esteem increases dramatically when you know they value their uniqueness. This helps them learn to value themselves. Last, parents need to help their children feel successful. It s important to take the time necessary to train children how to do things well.