Masters love to face what is in their face, because they know what is in their face is in their vibration. And this is a key to transformation. Undesirable conditions don't control your experience. They are outside of you, and all your control comes from within. When you look at what you don't want, you draw those things to you.
Connection is creation.
Unconditional love has nothing to do with putting up with conditions that are not the way you want them to be. That is conditional love. You must resonate with conditions the way you want them to be. As you do this, realities that do not represent you will fade away. Masters beam the dream as a broadcasting signal, no matter what conditions appear to be real.