Talk about your situation. If a problem persists even after discussion has taken place, your RA may be helpful in working out an acceptable solution. Understanding Each Other. If you can share your feelings and reactions in some of the following situations, you will be ahead of the game in understanding and empathizing with each other during the ups and downs of college life. Talking It Over.
Communication is the key to successful residence hall living and interactions of all kinds.
Always strive to keep communication channels open. Chances are that if something is bothering you, it is bothering your roommate, too. It's not easy to keep your feelings bottled up inside, and when you do, you may eventually blow up. Be honest but tactful when talking to your roommate. If you're finding it difficult to express your feelings, ask your RA for help, he or she can be a terrific sounding board.