No matter how painful or destructive your relationship is today, you have the ability to turn your situation around. No matter how painful or destructive your relationship may be there is always hope for improvement and restoration. Antagonism and defensiveness can be dissolved. Anger and resentment can be replaced with forgiveness and compassion.
Conflict can turn into cooperation.
Maybe you'll fall back in love and stay together in a way that works. Maybe you'll need to go your separate ways. Whatever happens, you have the opportunity and ability to heal your relationship. You can be free of the hurt, the anger and the resentment. This is true whether you live together or apart.