The questions and concerns keep coming as the men recognize that they are all in this together. When we talk about the birth process dads discover what it means to really be there for their partner. You don't need to know every detail about what happens in labor or get a degree in obstetrics. Being present means you are there to fully share the birth experience with your partner. Childbirth is an extremely profound experience for a couple.
Dads are acutely aware that it is only the beginning of a great adventure.
The birth opens the door to their new life as a parent. In my fatherhood classes, the men gain perspective from discussing the road that lies ahead. I am worried my wife will be totally focused on the baby and not have any time for me. I want to make sure I can care for the baby, too. The list goes on and on and all the answers won't come from one three-hour discussion, but the class helps men give voice to their concerns and start the process of making decisions.