Neither non-Queers nor Queers have naturally superior skills regarding the raising or nurturing of children. Both can and both do. Since pregnancy and birth is a physical, biological process, the mother is the only valid final decision maker. Religious systems have always existed. Most evolve as purposefully devised tools to ease common emotional and psychological stress such as that caused by a fear of death or of other natural phenomena which is not fully understood or as methods of controlling the behavior of followers.
All religious systems are inherently flawed.
Historically, as the number of believers in a particular organized faith system grows, believers with various motives attempt to impose their constructed beliefs on non-believers. Since these do not exist rigidly except as artificial constructs, those definitions are always proven flawed by growing numbers of exceptions. The faith system begins to weaken. Unless altered or discarded, these failing faith systems, driven by the increasing desperation of their adherents, become the opposite of their original purpose escalatingly rigid forces of destruction rather than constructed tools to make life easier for both leaders and believers. Currently, there are several such destructive forces spreading over the planet, with the most damaging emanating mainly from the U.S.A., although several are centralized in other countries.