At this age they are absorbing information about what is male or female, and the roles of boys and girls and men and women in their life. At this age children ask many questions about their bodies and why girls and boys have different genitals. Create an environment in which they feel free to ask questions and get answers about their body, health, and sexuality. At this age, children are able to understand more complex issues and are interested in learning more about life. Tell them how a woman gets pregnant, how a fetus grows in a woman s body, and why men cannot become pregnant.
Children are concerned about their bodies, their appearance, and what is normal.
Encourage them to ask questions and come to you with concerns. Talk to them about pregnancy and disease prevention. Explain the possible consequences of intercourse, and that it is adult behavior and not for young people. Reinforce your values and encourage communication. Give clear messages about your values.