When people talk about the size of a black hole, they are referring to the size of the event horozon. The more mass the singularity has, the larger the event horizon. If that were true, the whole Universe would get sucked up. But farther away, things do not get sucked in. Stars and planets at a safe distance will circle around the black hole, much like the motion of the planets around the Sun.
Black holes are truly black.
Light rays that get too close bend into, and are trapped by the intense gravity of the black hole. Trapped light rays will never escape. Since black holes do not shine, they are difficult to detect. Neutron Stars and Pulsars Neutron stars are very dense and spin very fast and are typically only 10- 15 km in radius. Because neutron stars form from burnt-out stars, they do not glow.