Guidance for touching is given during a class. Fathers learn information for understanding, recognizing and responding to their babies behavioral cues. A simple massage routine is taught that is gradually introduced to the baby. The father is fully present and focused on the baby during the massage. He provides a role model for active listening, empathy, and support.
Babies communicate joy, happiness, concerns, worries, and fears during massage.
This occurs most times when the tummy and chest area are massaged. The baby learns to trust that someone cares and supports them in their feelings and that someone is their father. A trusting loving relationship is established. These healthy emotional beginnings in the first year of life form the foundation for future relationships. The baby learns to incorporate these same behaviors in future relationships.