For starters, he writes, a person should decide that relationships are more valuable than the need to be right. Remember and recognize God's willingness to forgive, he counsels. Recall that God expects you to do the same for others. You must take the first step toward resolving conflict. Finally, he said, it is important to recognize that refusing to offer forgiveness is hypocritical.
Damaged emotions can function again.
Ruptured feelings can be restored. Bruised and damaged egos can be healed. Relationships can once again flourish. The resulting peace and contentment stemming from forgiveness are sure to last well into the New Year, even if the vow to lose 10 pounds or start a new exercise regime falls by the wayside, he said. Reccord's book can be purchased at LifeWay Christian Stores nationwide or online .