Use your personal memories of the individual, if you have any. For example, if you knew the deceased in your youth, recall those times. Infuse your eulogy with a little humor, especially if the deceased was a jokester or had a good sense of humor. Keep all humorous references appropriate to the occasion. Be as brief as you can while still doing justice to the life of the deceased.
Brevity is the key to a well-received eulogy.
If you re not sure how much time you should take to deliver the eulogy, ask the person conducting the funeral or the family what they expect. You may want to rehearse the eulogy a few times so you ll feel more comfortable delivering it. If you find yourself becoming too emotional to continue, stop for a moment and try to collect yourself. If you feel you are are unable to resume, you can ask the clergy member who has been officiating to read the eulogy for you. Inc. How things get done.