This kind of sex play does not make a child gay or straight. Teens and pre-teens want to know about sex, reproduction, and relationships. They need to know about sexually transmitted infections, birth control, and teen pregnancy, and how all of this can affect their lives. They must know they are responsible for their choices and how to have healthy relationships. We must reassure them that their sexuality and feelings are natural, especially if they re gay.
All teens make sexual decisions.
Parents may want to think about how they would have answered these questions when they were kids. Helpful Hints for Parents Set good examples that show kids how our lives are enriched by our values. Reassure them that they're normal. Respect our teenagers' privacy as much as we value our own. Do not pry.