Maybe they are right. This vital question has been ignored. Most men grant to women a vulnerability they share with no other, sharing secret thoughts. Many women punish this vulnerability, criticizing a man's feelings and attitudes, gossiping to friends about his confidences. But they are complaining about their own creations.
Brutalization is a cycle.
Men and Marriage , George Gilder, p 8. Science , January 31, 1992. Boys and Girls of the same age are placed in public school classrooms together. Boys develop feelings of inferiority and clumsiness as they are compared, and compare themselves, to the far more dexterous and able girls their own age. Subset of Misogyny.