While the physical disabilities and the brain damage that I have are inconvenient, a drag even, they're not as bad as the treatment by friends, social systems and especially the Do-Gooders. Of course they said I'd never walk again. Somehow Richy and I got one for my room. Boy, I wouldn't want me in my hospital. CYA is in section B in the hypocrites oath.
Care is always voluntary.
Sometimes hookers or Do-Gooders will fake it, if you pay them good. When their car payments, rent, insurance premiums and careers come out of helping, maybe their altruism's not really what it's about. It's an exchange of goods and services for money that we're talking about. Our society has difficulty distinguishing between the unwilling and the unable. Consequently it rewards the unwilling who are good whiners and deprives the unable who just want a chance to do for themselves as best they can.