Partners who act excessively possessive. Partners who ignore your space boundaries. It is your right to decide how much, if any, sexual contact you have in a dating relationship. Be direct and assertive to get your message across. It is important that both people on a date respect each other's rights and act responsibly.
All people when confronted with assault or rape do the best they can, given the situation.
Your friend can assist you in finding an advocate, and can accompany you to the medical exam, the police department, or counseling servic es. Get medical attention as soon as possible. Seek counseling for assistance in dealing with this kind of experience. You are not alone. It is your choice whether or not to report the rape.