One need is to hear and distinguish the true calls within us. This can be difficult in a world that would tell us what our calls should be. I feel that Seekers comes as close to this as any church I've been involved with. I've felt that the Seekers felt that God was present and participated in the many areas of our lives, not just when we were on mission to the poor or needy. I also believe that the core issue as we live out our calls, is whether we live them out in loving ways.
Any call is fouled when it is executed in unloving way environments.
The mark of loving ways is first that the ways work for all those involved. This aspect of loving ways force out evil and unloving environments. They also release life energies and open the doors to the creativity God would bring about through us. This is a tough battle. Unloving ways often are covered with a veneer of virtue.