Others are proud that they have chosen. Gays take offense at blanket statements that do not respect their individual differences. We should not. But the venue for disagreement is the public square. Even there our words should be sweet.
Bitter words reflect more on the speaker than on the topic.
Jesus' harshest words are for religious leaders, not those who sin sexually. At two web sites Christians are working on these issues. Bridges Across is moderated by Maggie Heineman of Philadelphia. Maggie is a new Christian, just a few months old in the Lord, and still a pro-gay activist. Email discussion lists at her site are entitled Faith, Journeys, Science, and Politics.