It gives us energy when we feel the most inert. However, the energy brought by anger is blind energy. It leads to inability to tell right from wrong. It clouds our perceptions and leaves us unable to create good solutions. Anger also consumes our energy, leaving none with which to engage in reflection or introspection, from which healing can grow.
Anger is the inner enemy.
It is the destroyer of happiness and the destroyer of our future. Judges in divorce courts realize the destructive power of anger, and we often recommend counseling to address it. Counseling doesn't always make divorce better, but litigation fueled by anger always makes divorce worse. All Rights Reserved.