It motivated them to end the affair and explain to their children how wrong they had been. Although it was extremely difficult and very humbling, they were not only able to save their marriage, but also able to correct the lessons they had taught their children. They first took extraordinary precautions to separate from their lover. Then, with their spouse, they followed the Four Rules that Guide Marital Recovery. A person involved in an affair, whether is it secret or not, must take a hard look at the messages they are sending their children.
Children can learn unwanted lessons from an unfaithful parent.
But these lessons can be changed. A wayward spouse can decide to model new behaviors and teach new lessons. Let us know by posting it in a special forum catagory we have created in the Marriage Builders Forum. Click on the link below to visit and read others comments, also. View and post comments here.