She doesn't have to be in a clique to have friends. Encourage her to be generous with her hellos and her compliments at school and to keep her complaints about her classmates to herself. There is no such thing as a secret. Send notes of good cheer to your child in her lunchbox, to give her moral support, and volunteer at school every week or two, even if you have to take off work to do it. If your daughter still isn't confident enough, let her get some lessons in karate, tae kwon do, swimming, diving or ice-skating.
Competence makes any child much braver.
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