Movies have trained them it is ok under intense circumstances. Reading, tender material, on a computer screen is like being alone. Research shows that people will be more honest on a computer questionnaire than on a written one or even a personal interview. Women are typically considered to be the primary caregiver in the home. Most teachers and baby sitters are women.
Boys typically have to ask permission to do something from women.
The cultural messages are shifting a bit. Those who clamp down on their feelings are only attempting to control their feelings and have little self control. Those who accept and allow their feelings and who can make a choice as to when and where to express them have what is called self control. Feeling with, rather than about, is one of the Keys to healthy living. Conari Press, is supplying all R.A.K. books and promotional materials such as pencils, pins, etc.