Others threaten to batter their children. Children who see family violence or who are abused themselves can be deeply affected by it. They may have stomachaches, headaches, diarrhea, or problems with bed-wetting and sleeping. Often they have difficulty in school. Children may come to think that physical violence is a way of dealing with problems.
Abused children are more likely to get into an abusive relationship when they grow up.
Abuse to an unborn child, child abuse, or fear of child abuse are major reasons why some women choose to leave an abusive man. First, ask yourself if your relationship is safe. Arguments are normal in a relationship. However, physical violence is never normal or acceptable. No one has the right to hurt someone else.