I went through the same thing as the lady who wrote How NOT to Treat a SIDS Survivor . My husband and I were accused of murder but it took 5 days after he died for them to even question us. That is except for my commander who came within minutes after he was called. It was 13 years ago but it still hurts very much and I still cry every time I think of him. I feel the pain the lady went through to be accused of killing her son.
All survivors can only help each other.
It helps to have someone who cares and can share your pain. I was alone. My husband and I were put against each other. My mother did not even try to understand what I was going through. No one cared what I was going through or what I still go through every day.