Ensure that your children understand that their race, gender, socioeconomic status, or religious backgrounds totally incapacitates them and makes personal choice and responsibility impossible. When necessary, hire a lawyer and sue all possible parties rather than admit any wrongdoing. Children cannot control their sexual energies so you should invest in condoms and birth control pills. Conservative groups that encourage abstinence are clearly out of touch with reality and their puritan ideals have no place in a modern society. Sexual activity in the early teens and even younger is to be expected.
Abortion is the solution to unwanted pregnancies when they occur.
By the way, you don't need to be informed if your daughter has an abortion. Teach your daughter that her right to choose an abortion has nothing to do with the rights of an unborn child. Teach her to do what she wants at the moment and then teach her that the consequences of her actions are unfair tragedies that are thrust upon her by evil religious groups. If your son rapes a woman while on a date make sure he understands it was not his fault. Teach your son that if a woman dresses in a seductive way, he can treat her in any way he chooses.