I am curious why this child of the five is having trouble. As boys get into adolescence male role models become very important. If there is an uncle or cousin who is a young adult and who would be a good influence you might want to see if they would make a concerted effort to reach out to your son. Your son may or may not be receptive to counseling. Insist, if you can, that he give it a try even if he is reluctant.
Chemistry is very important.
A Youth Agency which specializes in working with adolescents may be a better bet than a general counseling agency. Finally, there is in the midwest, and I am sure all over, a Big Brother and Big Sister Organization that provides young adults who will reach out and spend time with younger kids and adolescents who seem in need of an available adult role model. I suggest you check that out as well. You and your son are both up against a big challenge. He is obviously trying to get through in less than optimal circumstances.