There are many essential keys to success in relationships. Many of them. Among the most important of these is communication. This is what people involved in successful relationships are striving to do. When partners fail to discuss their differences, to voice their happiness and interest and disappointment, the relationship will inevitably begin to decline.
Conversations are a give and take.
That means that in order to have one you must also learn to listen. Such an arrangement is dictation, not communication. The next time you want to discuss something important, ask a question and then quietly listen to the response. Encourage your partner to elaborate on details, and show interest. When they have expressed their feelings, take your turn and .express yours.