This is an exciting time, and also a very critical one for the future of the community. The beginning of such a venture is the right time to talk about every imaginable facet of life together and make sure that everyone has the same idea of what they are getting into. By reaching broad and fundamental agreements now, it is possible to avoid misunderstandings and problems later. The subjects to discuss fall into three primary areas which are often sources of conflict. First concerns financial matters.
Bills are a critical reality of any living situation and they have to be paid.
If any one person comes up short on their part of their obligation it puts a strain on everyone else. Everyone should understand what they will have to pay and be able and willing to do so on time. The second critical point to cover concerns chores and house hold duties. Houses need to be cleaned, and when more people pass through an area, the more often it needs to be cleaned. People planning on living together should agree on what standard of cleanliness they require to be comfortable in their home, and everyone should do their part to maintain that.