Just turn on the radio or television for five minutes, and you'll probably hear or see premarital sex being promoted. Yet, the more they promote fornication, the less valued sex seems to be. This even leads to an incredible amount of divorces . By not waiting to have sex until married, there's nothing pure, new, or exciting about it. They're all selfish .
Affairs are clearly selfish.
Not only that, but they seem to break every one of God's commandments. They involve coveting someone and setting either a person or sex up as an idol. They involve stealing from one's own spouse, be it time, money, love, attention. They certainly don't honor the parents of any party involved. They are covered up with lies and deceit.