When the first stage of denial passes, it is likely to be replaced by anger, rage, envy, and resentment. God is often a target for anger, especially in natural disasters. You may also resent people around you who didn't suffer as much loss as you did. Once you have gotten the anger under control, you may enter the bargaining stage. You may promise God that you'll be good or that you'll do something in exchange for what you need.
Bargaining can be a positive way to deal with stress.
Whether you bargain with God, with yourself, or with your family, it provides comfort for things you cannot control. Bargaining may help you cope with feelings of sadness without experiencing deep depression. Good bargaining skills allow people to see the bright side of even the most difficult situation. A crisis entails loss, which is followed by sadness. If you are absorbed by the sadness, you can become depressed.