Both moms and dads are a little surprised by the demands of their new roles. When you attend baby's check-ups, prepare queries for the pediatrician. Ashton reminds new fathers that any involvement is valued, and that there is always a role for them. When women choose to breast feed, men often feel left out, like there's nothing for them to do. Not true, she said.
Babies respond differently to moms and dads, and they know the difference.
After a period of time, the baby will require a little less attention and be more fun for the father. Both Sunoo and Ashton emphasize the necessity of paying attention to your adult relationship through these life changes. In order to be a good parent, you need to be a good partner. Kids need to see their parents as happy, adjusted people who care for each other. And that should start immediately.