The Bible says that suffering is as normal a part of human existence as breathing. I have overcome the world . Suffering deepens our dependence on Christ for strength and teaches us that He is worthy of our trust. The Bible never says our lives can be pain free. Paul learned from his agitating thorn that Christ's strength is perfected in our weaknesses.
Character is developed through suffering.
Two days ago I left my mother's hospital bedside in Ireland to fly across the Atlantic to bring you this message today. I know more about the love of Christ that sometimes lingers than ever before. Mother suffered a massive stroke on Wednesday morning. It is not likely that I shall see her again this side of heaven. Out of the deepest resources of my soul I must tell you today for Christ's sake that when God does not respond immediately to our cries in pain it is not because He does not love us, but precisely because He does love us and wants to accomplish some growing purpose in our lives.