I always do and always will. Some children have a natural and seemingly inherent sense of caring and sensitivity. Such cases are rather rare, however. The self-centered life is typical of most children, particularly adolescents. In fact most of the problems teens face, whether taking the form of rebellion or of extreme shyness and withdrawal, stem from their rather intense preoccupation with self.
Children can begin to learn sensitivity and unselfishness at a very young age.
Parents also should tell their children how the things their children do make them feel. Sometimes children think of parents as people on whom they can vent their feelings without making a dent. Tell children about the positive things, too. Simple kindness and friendliness is a great human value. Children need to know the positive side of being a friend, acting friendly and kind, and becoming polite and courteous.