You had many good questions, and with so many different philosophies about diagnosis, treatment and management, it is very arduous to write an effective, but unbiased article. Recent research suggests that ADD is a physiological disorder characterized by some structural or chemically-based neurotransmitter problem in the nervous system. It appears to be inherited, although ADD-like behavior also can be acquired through brain injury, exposure to toxins or high fever.
Accurate diagnosis is difficult, but critical.
For the most recent guidelines for this diagnosis, you should contact the American Academy of Pediatrics. Remember what it is like to be a child and develop clear goals for yourself as a parent and for your child. Remember authority is essential but not being mean. Your relationship with your child is the key to success. This advice is from The Amen Clinic For Behavioral Medicine.