Those seriously involved in becoming multiculturally competent will often need to face ethnical dilemmas involved in cross-cultural situations. Often a wise recommendation shows sensitivity, respect.
Conformity allows a genuine relationship with fewer barriers.
But, whole sale adoption may be seen as disrespectful. Sometimes, one sees the other behavior of the other cultures as wrong. Necessary to be aware of one s own moral stance and at the same time of the need to display respect for others. The relativistic argue that it is not acceptable to judge another culture because it is based on its own set of values. The problem with this is that this suggests there are no firm beliefs or values on which to base identity and worth.