Practice the Ministry of Introduction by making referrals. Fundamental issues arise as we are in contexts. Read some books on the psychology of religions, and the best I believe is Jung. Avail yourself of your own religious traditions and resources and make sure you are fed in worship. Find a community of love and support.
Chaplaincy can be a lonely life since people are always graduating and leaving.
Resist an all-consuming life of work. Do your own work so that the grace of God is not blocked by your own personal hangups. Move beyond your family neurosis. Become a vehicle of God's love. It is essential that you have a good competent therapist.