Some children, particularly those age nine and under, may be unable to grasp the reality of the tragedy, or comprehend that violence could affect their own lives. Others may be frightened that something could happen to them. And still others may attempt to protect themselves through denial, cynicism or apathy. Regardless of how your child responds, he or she will be looking to you for answers, guidance and support. Speak to your child about any incidents of school violence, openly and honestly, adapting your conversations to the age of your child.
Children deserve honest answers, regardless of their age.
Children usually feel better when they can talk about their feelings. Reassure your child. In addition, remind your child that his or her teachers and the police are also looking out for his or her safety. Monitor the media. Monitor and limit the amount of television your child watches.