The couple will find that they are unable to have that which comes naturally to others and being human, it is reasonable to expect that the couple will have to go through similar emotional stages of emotional adaptation. Infertile couples who never succeed will ultimately find acceptance of their diagnosis. It is not an easy or pleasant process but it is a necessary one. After couples have resolved their situation, different choices will be available. If the lack of success is due to poor quality eggs, donor eggs have enabled these couples to be parents.
Adoption is the right choice for some couples.
Other couples may choose to remain as they are, remembering that they married and decided to make a life together because of each other and not because of possible future progeny. While treating infertile couples, we have found that the process is as important as the outcome. Of course we wish every couple could have a healthy baby, and we're ecstatic when that happens.