Children gain security and stability knowing that they belong to a larger family with special history. Share stories about what it was like when you were their age. Tell about great grandparents and their lives, especially stories that help children see the personal side of those who have gone before. Talk about family traditions, and let children take part in making special food during holidays or events. Be a role model to show grandchildren that older people can be fun.
Children are sometimes afraid of growing older.
This is especially true if they see older people who are sick or unhappy. If children have a pleasant experience with elders who approach life with excitement and good humor, they will have a more positive view of growing older themselves. Show grandchildren acceptance just as they are. One of the special things about grandparents is that they usually do not have to deal with the everyday hassles as parents do. When you take time to be with grandchildren, when you listen to them and write notes, your love will come through.