When the doctor cuts the umbilical cord at birth, the physical attachment to our mothers cease. This is when psychological and emotional attachments begin. Being physically attached to our mothers while in the womb is a life sustaining attachment. Without it, we would never be born but research has shown that emotional and psychological attachment provides a foundation that allows us to thrive in the world. A firm bond between mother and child affects reactions later in life.
Babies often become very attached to their primary caregiver.
In the 1950 s, this was usually their mother. In the 90 s and well into the future, it was, and will continue to be, more often than not, someone else. Babies who are securely attached to a mother figure feel she is a safe base from which they can explore the world. They are assured by the presence of this mother figure and go to her when they are hurt, stressed or frightened. This leaves a definite void in their lives.