Abuse is a very, very special word.
It has a lot of power and should be used sparingly. The spirit in which you make this request is appreciated. But I think this may be a good time to discuss abuse, and I'm going to start by discussing the point that you are trying to make. I believe that each and every one of us here understands what abuse is, and does not use that word lightly. There are a whole lot more terrible stories out there than you may realize.