Boy bullies are frequently physically aggressive, while girl bullies tend to be subtler, suing alienation, put-downs and intimidation. However, physical aggression by girl bullies is on the rise. Bullies turn into anti-social adults likely to commit crimes, batter spouses and abuse children. Victims are typically insecure, isolated children from overprotective families. Seeking out a friend to stick with can be a strong protective, particularly for boys.
Confidence is the best weapon against a bully, fighting back the worst.
Help children devise clever comebacks, and get involved with anti-bullying efforts in schools. Instill empathy for the bullying victims. Limit and discuss television violence, which reinforces the idea conflicts should be solved with aggression. Identify children at risk, and support victims. Integrate bullying into education programs such as art, writing and physical education.