Today, many men are involved from the moment the pregnancy test comes back positive, attending prenatal appointments, childbirth classes , and, after the birth, father-baby groups. Some men are comfortable with a lot of involvement, some aren't. But for most, seeing their child born is one of life's great moments.
Childbirth classes are invaluable.
Many men feel more confident after learning the mechanics of childbirth and acquiring techniques to help their wives through the experience. If a man still feels anxiety about his role, a birth assistant, or doula , can help tremendously in the delivery room, not only coaching the mother but also encouraging her partner to relax and participate comfortably. Make sure you know the rules of the hospital where you plan to deliver . Take a tour of the neonatal unit, decide what kind of room you want, and make sure that husbands or partners can be present throughout the labor , birth, and postpartum period. Most hospitals have come into the modern age, but some have restrictions about who can be present during a c-section or at other times.