What was stressed, though, was to find the style of problem solving that went with the problem and then talk it through and focus on the positives that each partner brings to the relationship and reaffirm this on a daily basis. Real listening is a difficult task for many when you are stuck on your own agenda, but it is the key to reaching a solution. It is not only couples and families that need to listen to each other. The rest of us need to listen also. If we are to offer any support to farm families in these difficult times, we need to listen , really listen to what is being said about social justice and Catholic teaching and stand up in support of family farms.
Action can speak as loud and even louder than words.
Extend a hand of concern to farmers being forced to make such tough choices. Prayer never hurts at any time, but a caring word or action often speaks volumes to those struggling. What happens on the farm will eventually have an affect on our tables, our economy and our lives.