Ask God to reveal to you the lesson He is trying to teach, but always give thanks and praise. Unforgiveness One of the most dangerous UN's is Unforgiveness. Once you have been born again, having been forgiven of the debt you could not pay, you no longer have the right to hold an unforgiving spirit against anyone. Satan starts very early placing hurt after hurt in our lives to set up offenses for which we will hold grudges in our adult lives. It is very prevalent in this age.
Child abuse is rampant.
I witnessed one day to a woman that was suffering from a terminal disease. The Lord gave me specific instructions that she needed to forgive something in her past. She confessed that she had never been able to forgive her father. He had molested her throughout her teenage years. She let it go that day and was healed of lung cancer.