Being second best is a great achievement if you do it honestly, drug free and remain healthy. That's all even the best shoot for. If you aren't succeeding, you aren't following the right program. I think so. We are not all that different.
All human beings come from two cells.
The sperm cell and the egg cell. The moment these two meet in the womb they start forming more cells and a new life emerges. This new life is a new person made up of two parts. Both a physical body and a spiritual intelligence, each inside of it telling it how to develop and function. The physical body is made up of all the various parts that we are familiar with, however, this intelligence is housed only inside the nervous system.