Truth Love Honesty Communication Send your kids an E-vite to spend some time together. When I tell my son to do chores or homework, he rebels. See the expert's response More parenting resources from the federal government.
Clear Rules Discuss the consequences of breaking the rules.
Research shows that young people are less likely to use tobacco, alcohol, and other drugs if their parents set clear rules about not doing so. If parents have not previously established rules around more basic activities of daily living, however, they will have little chance of getting their children to obey a rule about not using marijuana, tobacco, or other drugs. Don t make empty threats or let the rule-breaker off the hook. Don t impose harsh or unexpected new punishments. Punishments should involve mild, not severe, negative consequences.