If they listen to you, you let things go on through, and if they don't, you call something and make them listen to you. Sometimes, a player might be upset about something, and you try to calm them down. We do talk about a lot of different things. They're at an impressionable age, and I think we recognize that because we have stripes on, we make an impression upon them. They're expecting certain things from us, and part of what they're expecting is to be fair, and at the same time, to be willing to talk to them, not to be so far removed from us that they can't approach us.
Coaches are the same way.
They want you to be approachable, available to say some things, and move on. With the kids, it's pretty cut and dry. Cussing, fighting, et cetera, the things that are in the rule book. With coaches, well, coaches have to coach. They have leeway, as long they're coaching their kids.