What we say and do about drugs matters a lot when it comes to the choices our children make.
Children learn by example.
They adopt the values we demonstrate through our actions. As they grow, they're impressed by our concern for others when we bring soup to a sick neighbor and by our honesty when we admit making a mistake. Although we believe these traits are important, it's not always easy to be consistent. Because alcohol is off-limits for children, even asking them to fetch a beer from the refrigerator or to mix drinks at an adult party can be confusing. You can make your family's values clear by explaining why you choose a particular course of action and how that choice reflects your values.