We don't know. As yet, there have been no systematic studies of the effects of medication on the behavior of people affected by alcohol exposure. Parents and doctors report successes and failure with many different drugs. Other studies do not find the same rates. This is still an open question.
Adolescence is a difficult time for many families.
This is even more of a problem when children have special needs. At this age, typical children are becoming independent, taking responsibility, leaning to get along with peers. Many of these things are very challenging for people with disabilities and the results can be very stressful to both the adolescent and the family. Many people are fearful about substance abuse by people with FAS and other alcohol-related problems. There is some evidence that exposed children are more at risk than others.