Only you choose the way those hearts are affected, and those choices are what life's all about. We have no right to be conquered and dishonored. We have the resurrection power of Jesus in our bodies. We have in our bodies the mighty Holy Spirit. God makes our bodies His temples.
Christians have all the power that there is.
If you have Jesus, then you have everything. Use your rights and privileges as a Christian. Take your place in Him. Now live and let Him live in you. Never both be angry at the same time.