A winning attitude is a habit and so is losing. If you want some help in changing your attitude, get my book, The Win Book, a practical guide to make winning your habit and fulfilling your dreams. I must say that having a 'tude has gotten a bad rap. It isn't necessarily a bad thing.
Attitudes can be positive or negative.
And the truth is, everything in life, including dating, is about attitude. I'm not suggesting that you should act like you really believe your own press release, and be arrogant, rude, critical, and treat people poorly. That is a bad attitude, and shows a lack of respect for yourself and others. A negative 'tude is a buffer which only creates a wall between you and other people. When you have a negative attitude you attract and are attractive to those men and women who are emotionally unhealthy.