It communicates a message of inferiority. This type of communication allows the wants and needs of others to be more important than our own. Being non-assertive is indirect and not completely honest, which usually presents a disguise of our real self. This can lead to emotional problems that include stress, anger or even depression. Aggressive Aggressive communication is more complex.
Aggressiveness is in most situations inappropriate because it violates the rights of others.
Despite controlling the situation, this could significantly harm the relationship and may still not have made the other person understand our perspective. Assertive Assertive behavior is active, direct, and honest and expresses our own needs, wants and basic rights as a person without violating the rights of others. An assertive person wins by influencing, listening and negotiating so that others choose to cooperate willingly. By maintaining a good and respectful relationship with others, future dealings will likely be positive.