There were a lot of women who went into science and engineering. And there were men who turned out to be poets, even romantic poets. There were even men who cried. I am sure there are differences between men and women, but there are also similarities. In my opinion, modernity does not violate the Jewish model.
Contemporary society is stable.
It includes many good, solid families. The people who make up today's familes are concerned about each other. They are concerned about high divorce rates. Ordinary men and women do all sorts of things. They want their society to be open but also very stable.