Place yourself into the real world. Pragmatically tell people that since you are in this world, you should joyfully become a normal part of this world. Everything is normal. If you have a failure, then there is a reason for the failure. Failure is the mother of success, so don t worry and grief.
Difficulties are the foundation to form and reflect upon one s exquisite soul.
Therefore, do not treat difficulties as stumbling blocks. All of your own difficulties, do not treat them as difficulties. This way, use this kind of mentality to treat everything as being beneficial to everyone, including yourself. Do not treat it as being not beneficial to yourself or others. Consequently, everyone that you do must be beneficial to others and to the world.