You simply told me that you were angry. Correct negative behavior in a positive way. Since our goal is to help our children effectively deal with their anger, we must correct them. But how we do that will determine the results. I know college is important to you, and I don't want to see you hurt yourself.
Children have annoying, frustrating and upsetting ways of expressing their anger.
When you find yourself in the middle of conflict with your child, you must control your own anger and think about how you are coming across to the child. But this causes the child to be angry over her mother's grouchy mood. Your voice will communicate cheer and warmth rather than intimidation. Also, save commands for times when your child is willfully defying you. When you or your child is angry, maintain eye contact.