There is a big difference between lashing out with insensitive criticism and admonishing with respect and love. David gets into his first car accident two months after getting his license. He calls his Dad from the scene of the accident, assures him that no one is hurt, and breaks the news that the car is pretty banged up. Sarah forgets her lunch again. Criticism is the quickest way to both diminish a person's self image and poison a relationship.
Criticism is the quickest way to both diminish a person's self image and poison a relationship.
No one likes to be around a critical person. No one likes to learn from a critical parent or teacher. There is a big difference between lashing out with insensitive criticism and admonishing in a way that shows respect, concern and love. Frequent criticism tears at self-esteem. Even one particularly hurtful remark can remain ingrained in a child's consciousness.