Whether it be children in the home, or an outsider who witnesses abuse, in one way or another, everyone is affected. Domestic violence and sexual assault are issues that deserve constant attention by the government and by the community. According to the MCBW, domestic violence statistics are increasing. And it is estimated that between 60 and 70 thousand Minnesota men will abuse or assault women this year. In all forms of abuse, the abuser deliberately misuses power, which they have been given, in order to manipulate and intimidate the other partner.
Abuse can consist of any type of hitting, punching, pushing, and biting.
It can also consist of derogatory comments, insults and constant put-downs. Over time, this can severely affect a person's self-esteem. The person being abused can begin to take on the abusive descriptions as if they are real and therefore, may start to believe that they are worthless and that the violence is their fault. One battered women, who wishes to remain anonymous, explained how after continual harassment, she reached the point of complete lack of self-confidence. I thought there must be something wrong with me or else I would not be treated in this way.