It is whatever works for birth parents. Weber said one of the main reasons birth parents choose adoption is because they want their child to be raised in a caring, two-parent home. Many feel adoption will give their child a greater chance for happiness and security. They are exceptionally caring and responsible young people, who loved their child enough to see beyond their own needs and meet the needs of their child because they thought that was best. They can take pride in their decision because they gave their child the gift of a family.
Adoption makes families happen.