Listen for their concerns as well as their joys. Having an adult who really listens helps build the self-esteem of a child or young person. This kind of communication helps build a loving relationship between you and your grandchild. The child may turn to you for support or advice during a hard time or when making an important decision. Send special letters and notes just for them.
Children love to get something in the mail all their own.
Remember birthdays and holidays, but also send notes when nothing special is happening. It may be worth the cost of extra stamps to send a letter or card in its own envelope inside a larger mailing envelope. For very young children cut out pictures or cartoons to go with your note or send an audiotape. Offer companionship for activities they enjoy. Companionship can take many forms.