Bear them with loving patience, you have to forsake nothing. Neither indulge, nor restrain. Take refuge in none but Him. Dependence on Him makes one fearless. If you have devotion, you need fear nothing.
Devotion is never devoid of strength.
But, we lose our patience and do not accept even that one-fourth of sorrows given by Him. So many varied problems and hindrances must come, otherwise people won't understand and realize how and why He is the best of all friends and companions. He is the Dearest One, who keeps us protected in all calamities and adversities, which are unpredictable. Don't be obsessed with any wish. Shake off sadness.