She says that we should take care of our family first. There is always something the family needs. My son would love a two-wheeler bike. I would love to give it to him, but he is almost four. When I was a kid, I didn't get a two-wheeler until I was 7 or 8.
Christians give freely.
That is my perception. I once told a Christian how much it took to send our daughter to Jewish summer camp. She was shocked. It was heavily subsidized by donations. Christians give freely and often.