Our judgment is also another important factor that should not be ignored. While we are passionate individuals, we should be able to exercise control. Control is acquired over time, it needs to be practised and fine tuned. Youthful exuberance can be very expensive in an environment saturated with all forms of sexually transmitted diseases and Lawsuits. Control makes it possible to achieve self discipline.
Control can keep self pleasure in check and ensure the satisfaction of partners.
A man that is able to control himself can delay orgasm and concenterate on giving pleasure. The nature of human beings is centered around sex. A man wants money to buy cars, clothes to attract women. The ultimate goal is to make himself more attractive to the opposite sex. A woman spends her money on making herself attractive for the same reason.