Or it may be warm at first and slow to boil, but given time, could really heat up. If you're accustom to fast food, then you don't wait for something to cook. And you also probably forget what happens when you play with fire. You can hurry dating and sex, but not connection. That takes time.
Connection is the coming together.
I'm not talking about what happens in one night or overnight. And you don't get it by having multiple emails either. Connection is a process by which you create intimacy. Emotional intimacy only happens when you get to know each other. And that takes time, unless you're with someone who has no more depth than a palm tree, which has none.