No one can fight this illness for you. My attitude is that my patients are the captains of their own ship, I am their navigator, and give them advice and direction. Only the patient himself can take the medications, suffer their side effects, and report whether or not the treatments seem beneficial. An actively participating patient has some sense of self-control. Yes there are rules and guidelines to follow, but there is no one treatment, one size fits all, that can be applied to everyone.
All rules have exceptions and there are millions of micro-decisions to made, often on a daily basis.
An informed patient may well discover a drug side effect or interaction that I just plain missed. The medical management of AIDS has never been easier and is only getting harder as our treatment options proliferate. There are many good and honorable reasons to make exceptions to the treatment rules, but these exceptions should always be made in an informed capacity, and preferably in consultation with a physician who is willing to treat you in a negotiable rather than dictatorial fashion. Finally, remember that all illnesses have their physical, mental and spiritual components. If you pour all your energies into the first two and neglect the latter, you are wasting a most valuable resource.