The third great task is the transition to parenthood if that is part of the relationship plan. This can be fraught with difficulties and competitions as well as the greatest source of joy and love. The fourth task is coping with crisis. Fifth is making a safe place for conflict. Here we say, we are complicated, feeling human beings.
Conflict is inevitable.
You are safe here to show the deepest parts of yourself. No one is leaving. This can be a tough challenge for relationships. Exploring sexual intimacy is sixth. The authors note that a loving, intimate sexual life is very important for the conjugal bond, and renews and re-energizes the relationship on an ongoing basis.