It isn't always, of course, the he who craves a greater abundance of physical coupling. An equal number of women complain that their partner is too pooped to participate. Often the causes are varied. In any case, there is always something that can be done to make the situation better, if not necessarily ideal, if both partners are willing to go exploring. If talking about sex is a no-no in your relationship then you likely won't be able to identify the problem.
Communications is critical to successful sexual relations.
Alman maintains that keeping the spark alive is the only way a couple is going to achieve satisfying sex. Sex can take place within the context of an intimate relationship or not, and within various other kinds of relationships. Each relationship has its own natural rhythm, its own intimate dance, like breathing. Would that you could hold on to that stage. Life would be less complicated and more fulfilling.