You like it when people are courteous to you. And you dislike it when people are discourteous or rude to you. So be courteous in all of your dealings with others. You like it when other people remember and use your name. So do the same for them.
Arguments are very negative.
They poison good human relations. You don't like it when someone argues with you. So don't argue with them. And if you see an argument coming, take the appropriate steps to neutralize the argument before it causes too much damage. Relationships are much better when both people focus on their areas of agreement rather than their areas of disagreement.