We all want to be around people we can relate to and be intimate with. This is most important in the areas we are most interested in. The more obscure and unusual your shared interest, the more valuable your bonds. Anyone can share sexual intimacies but only you offer that unique intimacy. Attitudes and Behaviors Attitudes control behaviors and outcomes.
Attitudes make self-fulfilling prophecies.
If you are like I was, you often have a little twinge of jealousy, followed by an instant feeling of guilt, when you first see your wife breastfeeding. The pros and cons of breast feeding from one dad's point of view. Fathering a Daughter Fathers foster the very things they hope to avoid for their girl by raising a daughter who is Daddy's little girl. The more I believed that people just wanted things from me, the less I offered anyone. I changed and took another road.