Don't be rehearsing in your mind what you are doing to say while your partner is talking. Don't try to shout each other down. Remember there are never any losers in a constructive fight. Constructive fighting always ends with both parties feeling at least satisfied with the outcome. When the above skills become an unconscious aspect of your communication skills, your fighting abilities will be enjoyed and all your relationships will benefit from conflict.
Constructive fighting is a skill all couples can master.
Enjoy learning it. All rights reserved. Dr. Thomas is a Life Coach and licensed psychologist. Opinions expressed are not necessarily shared by members of the Coalition.