You can do anything you want. I really don't care what you do. The Autocratic Parent Welds Absolute Power. Autocratic parents are too strong on control and too weak on support. Limits overpower and outweigh Love.
Autocrats are big on rules, but low on relationships.
It's hard for autocrats to change. The Permissive Parent is strong on support but a wimp on control. As the diagram illustrates, Love overpowers Limits and, again, there is a serious imbalance in the family environment. You have probably heard about or seen permissive parents in action. Actually, the child is the one in action, while the parents sort of stand and watch him destroy flower beds, furniture, and the peace of the household, in general.