Understand what the correct triggers are and then manipulate the human. Like Pavlov's dog. There is no secret here. For a long time behavioral psychologists and business people and have known this and have worked together shaping the appropriate market behaviors. During this past year, we have begun to work more closely with the partners and families of sex addicts.
Couples come into our office with faces pinched by fear, rage, and confusion.
Their faces express the trauma of a relationship or a household that is out of control. Often, as with our cartoon couple, one partner has immersed himself or herself in a fantasy that excludes the other partner. We have heard stories of people spending up to 24 continuous hours viewing pornography on the Internet. The consequences of this behavior are very painful for everyone. He looses the ability to express care and affection.