In most cases, there is something going on in the tower that you, in the airplane, don't know about. If it doesn't work out, then I get the pleasure of practicing a go-around, something I don't get much, for real. If you can adopt the mindset that there's always a reason for something, but that you just don't know what it is, you'll rarely be wrong, and it makes flying a lot easier. Try to find the humor in the situation. Think of the report you can write to the chief pilot, and how you might inject a little humor into that report.
Chief pilots are a humorless lot, and they HATE humor in official reports.
That alone should be enough to cheer you up. This is a test Seriously, think of all this as a test. Pay attention, now, this is important. Think of how others will see you, after this problem is all over. As for how to handle the two women, both of whom are expecting a romantic interlude at the layover, that is beyond the scope of this column.