Drunk sex jeopardizes safety and consent. You have the right to decide what sexual behavior you want to engage in, free from pressure and coercion. There is help and support available. Know how to prevent HIV and other STIs. Sexuality is a significant part of being human and has many expressions.
Abstinence means many things to different people.
From the health perspective, it means not engaging in sexual behavior that may put you at risk for infections or pregnancy. If you have unprotected sex you are at risk for STI's no matter who you are, what your sexual orientation is, or what you look like. STI's are not inhibited by age, gender, socio-economic status, ethnicity, appearance or sexual orientation. Condoms, gloves, dental dams and abstinence are all valid means of protecting yourself from pregnancy and some STIs. The more partners you have in a lifetime, the higher your risk.