If bond is posted, the batterer will be released until a preliminary hearing is held. It is common for victims to fear for their safety during this time. You are a witness in the case, and tampering with a witness is a crime. If you are harassed or threatened by anyone regarding the case, report it to the police and ask that action be taken. Often the batterer is unable to admit there is a problem.
Counseling is only helpful if both partners want help and are motivated to work together.
If the abuse is habitual or extremely violent, the batterer may need long term therapy. If the batterer refuses to seek help, it is unlikely the beatings will stop. Statistics show the beatings will become more and more severe. You're not alone. There are many places in the Greater Waterbury area where victims of domestic violence may seek help.