Treat her back, belly, shoulders, neck, thighs, legs, feet , and whatever else you can get your hands on, and go crazy. Discover her erogenous zones and remember to be gentle and attentive to every square inch of her welcoming body. The trick here is to find out what her favorite aromas are, and surprise her with them. Scented candles and oils are proven to have various physical effects on people, from a calming sensation to an aphrodisiacal response. Remember that although vanilla is an aphrodisiac of choice, you need to make sure your woman enjoys it.
Aromatherapy puts forth the belief that different scents create different reactions.
While roses create a sense of vitality and well-being, lavender eases tension and feelings of depression. Dip fresh fruit into melted chocolate and feed it to each other. There isn't anything much more sensual and arousing than feeding a chocolate covered banana to your girl. Spice up your little sweet dinner by respecting the tradition that says you must kiss your neighbor every time you drop some food into the fondue pot. Rules are rules, so they say.