Different strokes for different folks. There are, they say, many roads to heaven, not just one. How boring God would be if he had everyone a clone or robot. Liberals do not like Conservatives saying that order comes first, then love. They see that love comes first, then order will follow.
Conservatives are very wary of focusing on feelings over principles.
Liberals feel fenced in with absolute, universal laws and principles and want to focus on emotions and experimentation. The truth is that a great basketball player like Michael Jordan can enjoy his emotions and be creative and fulfill his potential uniqueness only within the many rules of the game. Without referees enforcing those rules, there would only be chaos. Of course, God is love and does not want a million laws. Ayatollahs want that.