She may have a hundred other people's claims to give the same attention to. Remember it is much easier for your adjudicator to allow your claim.
Denials take time.
She is truly most interested in giving you the fairest and most timely decision she can. She does not have a vested interest in the outcome. She is happiest when the information required is in file and she is able to make a correct decision, whatever it is. Again, allowances are faster to do than denials, so if anything, your evaluator is looking for ways to allow your claim.