No sensible person would be upset. However, common sense would indicate that the original agreement should be followed. But I don't like your methods. Each of the Satir Modes has a characteristic style of body language. Placaters cling and fidget and lean on others.
Computers are stiff and rigid, moving as little as possible.
Distractors cycle through the other Modes with their bodies just as they do with their words. THe body language of Levelers is distinguished by the absence of these other patterns, and by the fact that it's not in conflict with their words. People use Blamer Mode because they are insecure and afraid that nobody will respect or obey them. Distracter Mode cycles through all of these states of mismatch and expresses panic. To the extent that they are capable of accurately judging their own feelings, people using Leveler Mode use words and body language that match those feelings.