You can talk with friends or roommates about your decision. You can focus on close friendships and have fun without the worry. You can acknowledge that abstinence is a smart choice from the standpoint of safety and give it credibility among your peers. Treat others with dignity, sensitivity, and respect, especially when there are differences of opinion or when the issue is sensitive. Influence others by your own smart choices and positive role modeling.
Actions do speak louder than words.
Written by Carol J. Mulvihill, R.N.,C., Director of Student Health Services, University of Pittsburgh at Bradford, Bradford, PA 16701.