Inborn individuality, however long suppressed, is always trying to surface. But because our experience in the world tells us it will be met with opposition, we must push it back down. Denied our individuality by society, we develop inner alienation and loneliness. We feel despised, rejected and abandoned for we know we'll never be liked or loved for who we really are. The prime directive of a society such as ours, is to get its members to conform and those that don't are systematically disenfranchised.
Conformity is confused with civilization.
Our country was forged by men and women who were very much the individualists. People and society flourish when individuality is allowed to blossom without interference. Minds that are forced to conform are diseased. Visualize an unborn child. We label families as dysfunctional when really the whole of society is dysfunctional.