Unfortunately, her choices get her into trouble and get her the rep of being a bad girl, rather than a good girl who just wants to have fun.
Bad girls are PURE spice.
As little girls we were sometimes taught to repress our real thoughts and feelings. We were told to put others' feelings and interests before our own. These socialization skills can make us passive and as we reach maturity, that passivity represents femininity. When men express aggressive or assertive behavior, they are encouraged and complimented. Some behavior is arbitrarily deemed bad by some people.