We won't have it any other way than our way. God's call for our lives is to reconcile not retaliate. The principles of the Bible are not external first, but internal . Surface religion, like that of the Pharisees has no lasting value. In fact it can send you to hell.
Angry words can kill another person's spirit .
Get a hold on that temper of yours. Watch the sarcasm. Determine to allow God to help you conquer that bad habit of speaking out in anger. When offended, seek reconciliation, not revenge . Get over it.