Instead, you gave in to the reality of the situation. Death was going to take your husband and there was nothing you or anyone else could do to stop it. You didn't end his breathing, his eating, or his drinking. You ended a medicine that was bringing harm even as it tried to heal. It clouds the issue and heaps guilt on those involved.
Death is never, of itself, good.
It is the cessation of life, God's first gift to mankind. Even death viewed as a release from earthly suffering is a shallow, empty hope. The Christian sees it in starker terms, for the Bible speaks of being dead in our trespasses even as we live and breathe. Indeed, we are born spiritually dead, destined not only for the grave, but for the eternal death of hell. Yet one death overthrew Death.