2 Learn about various positions on the topic of disagreement. 3 State what we think we heard and ask for clarification before responding, in an effort to be sure we understand each other. 6 Share our personal experiences about the subject of disagreement so that others may more fully understand our concerns. Include our disagreements in our prayers, not praying for the triumph of our viewpoints, but seeking God's grace to listen attentively, to speak clearly, and to remain open to the vision God holds for us all. They exist within committees, congregations, presbyteries, synods, at General Assemblies and in the national life of the denomination.
Conflicts are inevitable in all of life and certainly in the church.
The history of the church is filled with conflicts and disagreements. Several of Paul's letters address the conflicts which were common in the early church. There have been and are going to be disagreements as Christians attempt to discern God's work in the world and as we interpret scripture. Conflicts can be harmful and even destructive. They can cause individuals a great deal of pain and the community of faith immeasurable damage.