He also needs to learn the discipline of work. Learning to be a responsible, productive member, of the family is important. Picking up toys and putting away clothes helps prepare the child for the responsibilities of adult life. Third, effective discipline is individualized. Wise parents do not compare one child to another.
Children are individuals, each with strengths and weaknesses.
They Find security in being loved and accepted. Even when the child is punished, he must sense that it is because he is loved. Each situation must be seen from his view point before issuing mandates. Parents should respect a child's right to express himself, being courteous and considerate of his feelings. Fourth, effective discipline is rewarding.