Paul tells us to be in the world but not of the world. I am very deliberate about trying to build relationships with nonbelievers. Pray for God to put in your life, someone who needs you. He will honor that prayer. I hear you now.
Different people have different styles of evangelism.
Peter was very confrontational, while Paul was very intellectual. Likewise, different personalities will respond to different styles of evangelism. Find the style that best suits your personality and use it. The main thing is just being the person that God wired you up to be. Next week I will lay out some different styles of personal evangelism that are found in the Bible.