You can be healed. Guilt results when one violates one's own moral code. Other women, later in life, change their position on the abortion issue and come to the realization that abortion is the killing of a child. This guilt hounds them continually, causing them to question their own self worth. Many begin to believe they deserve anything bad that happens to them.
Anxiety is a physical and emotional state of apprehension.
It can manifest itself as irritability, dizziness, heart pounding, headaches, sleeplessness etc. This can a result in an unexplained avoidance of anything to do with babies. She may avoid baby showers, avoid friends with new babies, grow quite when a group begins to talk about their young children etc. A person who has experienced a deep emotional pain may have determined not to become emotionally involved again, so as to prevent a reoccurrence of pain. Their emotions are kept on a flat level at all times.