They feel isolated. Fear of further beatings, no place to go and the risk of loss of support for herself and her children prevent women from seeking help. Domestic violence affects children, even if they are not physically abused. The cycle of violence may be passed from generation to generation. It is important to know that most abusers become MORE violent unless they get help.
Beatings become more severe and occur more often.
This decision is the sole responsibility of the woman. They can also assist you in utilizing community resources. It takes courage to ask for help. You are not alone. Remember that your partner did not have to hit you, no matter what you did, and that physical and sexual violence are crimes.