Every child needs a strong, loving relationship with a caring adult to feel safe and secure and to develop a sense of trust. Ensure that children are supervised and guided. Children learn important social skills by interacting with others in well-supervised activities. Unsupervised children often have behavioral problems that can lead to violence. Model appropriate behaviors.
Children learn by example.
Discuss problems with them and help them learn to resolve conflicts nonviolently. Do not hit children. Physical punishment sends the message that it is acceptable to hit others to solve problems. Nonphysical methods of discipline help children deal with their emotions and teach them peaceful ways to handle problems and conflicts. Be consistent with rules and discipline.