Yes, there will always be the unpredictable that happens during the day, but the unpredictable does not have to create a crisis. The unpredictable doesn't have to always result in an internal emotional fire. The consistent internal fires are the result of people who have designed their behavior around keeping others reactive to their presence. I challenge leadership everyday to look around their environment and notice how many of the fires they are handed on a daily basis are created by the same people. They are planned and designed to keep the environment and your life in a reactionary state.
All behavior has an agenda.
As long as the person arson plans the agenda, you are the follower and they are the leader. They spend their days reacting to those whose negative presence controls what they will do during their day. As long as they are given the power to start fires and turn them over to you, they will do so. As long as they can keep you in a reactive state, they will continue that behavior. YOU What we are talking about is redesigning your behavior.