Now is a good time to start setting boundaries. It's not necessary to bring up the most disturbing topics in the first conversation Don't start by describing in technicolor detail the time you needed 43 stitches and a transfusion. Do what feels natural to you. You know yourself and your family and friends far better than I ever will. Communicate Be willing to talk to the people you're coming out to about your reactions, and ask them to let you know what they're thinking.
Communication goes both ways.
For most people who cut or burn, though, scars are a major problem. Sometimes it's possible to hide scars. Wrist scars can be covered by long sleeves, bracelets, or watches. Some leg scars in women can be hidden by pantyhose or tights. Heavy concealer makeup like Dermablend can be used to hide some scars.