The lower their self-esteem, the more our affections verged on pity. Since our own concepts about men and manhood are greatly influenced by what we see and hear from men themselves, this concern over physicality seems to be nested in their own views about the male body. Strangely this conclusion seems to validate the plot of The Full Monty. But in all honesty, it's a lot like breast size to men. They may prefer a certain size, but most won't refuse a woman on the basis of something so shallow, or be stupid enough to insult her about it.
Confidence seems to be the key to both sexes view of the other.
In short, men and women aren't as different from each other as sites like askmen and mags like Cosmo and Maxim would like you to believe. Women do not only look for the emotional side of men, men do not only look for the physical side of women. At this point, the war of the sexes can't and shouldn't have to be reduced to the kindergarten concept that men are from Mars and women are from Venus. Rebecca Cullers is a second-year American Studies major who likes to supersize it, and then complain about the price.