He has been banished. Parents are frequently absent or busily pre-occupied. Parent may be prominent or preoccupied with work, poverty, wealth, alcoholism, divorce, or illness. No one sets limits. Neglect is usually emotional.
Child lacks ability to form close relationships.
Never has the feeling that someone cares about him, is on his side. Absent parent may be idealized into a superhuman saintly image. Rejecting Human cactus plant projecting spines everywhere, yet having a soft, dependent, hidden center. He is painfully self-isolating. He is denied any acceptance, treated as a nuisance or a burden.