Show an interest in your child's activities. Help your child set realistic goals. If your child tries out for the track team, sit down together and discuss the commitment involved and the rewards of competing. Show your support by attending the events. Regardless of performance level, your love and encouragement are important to help your child stay committed and maintain self- confidence.
Criticism is one of the greatest threats to a loving relationship.
If performance is not up to your expectations, becoming emotional, or faulting your child's effort or commitment, isn't going to help. Address the issue, but don't criticize or belittle your child. Similarly, if your child is caught at inappropriate behavior, try not to resort to mere shouting or angry condemnation. Try to find the reason behind your child's actions, then work together toward a solution. Back to the top Personal lifestyle choices, such as the decision to smoke or drink, should only be made by informed adults.