Do not use colors. Flooding is grounds for a kick. Repeated flooding is grounds for a ban. No seduction or excessive sexual innuendo online. Make your advances using more private means.
Administrators have final say in all matters.
If you remain unsatisfied with their decision, well, there are plenty of other channels to visit. Any action taken will be reviewed by the other administrators as soon thereafter as possible to decide whether the action was necessary and whether or not any other action should be taken. The MoxyFruvous IRC Channel is not a democracy. The channel is currently co-managed by Robert Johnson and Adam Hartfield. All final decisions are made by these individuals.