He caused you to create roles and those roles are being performed by us spirits. A perfectly normal pagan relationship. Well you can look at it like that if you want to, but I created Mal2 to my specifications just as I conceived all the rest of you. She caused you to think you created the spirit of Malaclypse. Besides, I changed her so much the Greeks would never recognize her.
Deities change things around all the time.
A spirit is a product of definition and the one who is doing the defining around here is me. Your identity is what I say it is. Just to prove it, I'm going to change your name. It's OK with me. Fate is fate.