Your Complaint will be dismissed. If the defendant comes to the hearing and an order is issued, then he should be served with the order by a deputy sheriff at the courthouse. If he does not come to the hearing, then he will still have to be served with the order by a law enforcement officer before it will take effect. If I Disagree With It Maine law provides an appeal procedure. In other words, it is not likely that you could win an appeal because you disagree with the judge's findings of fact.
Appeals are difficult to complete without the help of an attorney.
The appeal deadline is 30 days from the date of the decision. If you are harassed by the defendant after an order has been issued and served on the defendant, call the police. Violation of any terms of your order, other than terms that the defendant must pay money, is a Class D crime. If criminal charges are brought, you can talk to the victim advocate in your district attorney's office. The advocate can tell you what is going on with your charges and answer your questions about the criminal court process.