Start with a positive attitude and focus on the benefits of single parenting, such as less conflict and tension in the home. Many single parents treasure their newfound autonomy and independence and feel hopeful about the future. Establish firm, clear boundaries that leave no doubt that you are the boss. Children need limits. Use consistent discipline that provides clear expectations and guidelines for behavior and rely on natural and logical consequences.
Assign children appropriate chores and tasks.
No matter how loving and competent you are, you are still only one person and you are doing a job most agree is hard for two people to handle. Don't allow your children, or anyone for that matter, to manipulate you by making you feel guilty about the situation. Remind children that you are a team and have to work together. Give yourself credit for a job well done. You may have to wait until your kids are grown before you get any credit from them.