But do not stop there. Have a discussion with your son. As our children grow, we are less able to control their actions, or their environment. The teen years usher in a time in which we must switch gears in parenting. Very often, parents simply give up, rather than establish a new relationship with their teenager.
Adolescence is a time of exploration as sexual feelings emerge.
Let your son know that lying about the issue will not make it go away. Your insistence on discussing this matter should be gentle, but firm. Tell him that you want to establish an avenue of communication that allows input from you, so that he will make decisions in his best interest. Share your concerns with your son. Explain that you are concerned that viewing this kind of material before he has even experienced healthy sexuality may be detrimental to developing a respectful and healthy relationship with his own body.