Someone may be sending out a veiled provocation, and while you're busy avoiding this, it suddenly becomes a full-blown fight. Arguments can clear the air, but they can also hurt people's feelings. Own the part of this anger that belongs with you. You'll probably have to play slightly confused referee to feuding friends or crying children. There's an aggressive quality to today's planets and people are not exactly sitting on their real feelings.
Anger is hard for many women to manage.
We're often not allowed this emotion in our early family environments. Don't be too hasty or too judgmental. Release buried ego energy and let it go. You may feel quite angry with anyone who brings this up. It's a good time to get feedback about these issues, but not if the person talking is attacking or being ruthless.