They temptation is to deny a children's story of sexual abuse, to think that the children's story is exaggeration, misunderstanding, or even fantasy. Believe the child. Children do not imagine sexual experiences unless they have had them. Children should be taught that their bodies are private and belong to them. They should not feel guilty or be bribed into allowing someone to bother them or to touch them in ways that make them feel bad.
Child reports sexual activity.
Child has a sudden fear of strangers, a relative or a sitter. Child suddenly becomes unruly and destructive, shy or withdrawn. Child may act irritable, cranky, or develop short-tempered behavior. Child may act out feelings, run away, skip school, and be rebellious Child needs more reassurance than usual. Bedwetting Loss of appetite Pain, itching, discharge, swelling, bruises or bleeding of private organs.