May be excused from normal tasks. Sexually Stimulating Child treated like a miniature sex-object, provoking a premature preoccupation with sex. Parent may fondle the child when bathing, or bring child into bed with him. One parent may be glad to be relieved of sexual obligation when partner molests a child. Parent may be seductive.
Child is forced into secrecy and made to feel guilty.
Child is puzzled but frequently compliant, and may stay dependent. Often results in confusion and hostility. Recognizing and changing a dysfunctional parenting style to a more democratic one, often requires the support and insight of an experienced Adlerian psychotherapist, since the parent's basic style of life may have to be changed as well. For additional information about democratic parenting, read Adlerian Child Guidance Principles. Also see Adult Consequences of Childhood Parenting Styles.