So don't ask us. If you ask a question you don't want an answer to, expect an answer you don't want to hear. Sometimes we are not thinking about you. Learn to live with it. Get rid of your cat.
Any dog is better than any cat.
It's like the full moon or the changing of the tides. Let it be. Shopping is not a sport. Anything you wear is fine. Yes, you have enough clothes and yes, you have too many shoes.