If you're the type who can keep a pocket calendar of assignments and dates, do so. It's very helpful. If not, decide how you best keep tasks in your mind without having to depend on someone to remind you. State what you need. Teachers and parent groups really depend on your support at home and at school.
All parents can make a contribution in helping their children do well.
Middle schoolers need your participation even though they may not say so. Read these communications and respond when necessary. Make sure your child is at school on time. Promptness is a plus at middle school, as it is in the world outside. Come to every school event you can, including teacher conferences.