Binary opposites do not by any essential character involve a Centre and an Other. Language, and reality itself, involves the free play of opposites. Any binary pair could be seen the other way around, with the Centre as the Other and the Other as the Centre. You could just as well have a female, black, voodoo dominated society. The process called deconstruction is to show that a given Centre is in fact not given, part really one in a pair of free flowing opposites.
Deconstruction unveils the techniques by which the centre masquerades as a centre.
Thus is done by showing how the Other can be seen as the Centre. But this will be merely a temporary device, because really there is no essential centre, but just the free play of opposites. It's like ambiguous figures. This staircase can be seen from below or from above. Some people change it by will, with others it just happens to you.