It seems to me that, recently, he has been feeling even worse about himself, to the point where nothing will comfort him. He cannot afford counseling, and he has no health insurance. Any help will be greatly appreciated, because I just don't how to help him. Thank you so much. In fact, transitory feelings of sadness or discouragement are perfectly normal, especially during particularly difficult times.
Depression comes in many kinds and degrees.
Demoralization is usually part of depression, but it's not the whole story. Not all of these features are present in every depressive episode. Gently and directly talk with your friend about your concerns while setting limits for yourself because you are not a professional therapist. Let him know that you think he needs and deserves someone's full attention to his feelings and concerns, and that there are many people out there trained and willing to give him just that. Outside of Columbia, try calling the National Depressive and Manic Depressive Association at 800.826.3632 .