Listen to the tugging of the Spirit. Let the Spirit lead you to the wilderness like Jesus. Don't ignore them. If you have a touch of Messiah complex, pay attention and deal with it. We all have them.
Awareness is the first step.
Answers will only come if you're quiet. The latter will play to your addictions. Still, you may heed the wrong voice. The choice is tricky and rarely clearly demarcated. I think God wants you to risk it because God can and will redeem it.