Make a want list for yourself. Always question yourself about your desires before you add them to your want list. Think about how to get what you want while thinking about what you desire. Having what you want can all to often be disappointing. An unfulfilled dream is an unquestioned thought or desire.
Disappointment can lead to irritation and alienation.
With effort you can recognize many new things. To recognize and realize yourself at the same time may cause a very undeniable fear of life to penetrate the conscious mind. This could lead to the point of paranoia or at least cause anxiety to rapidly develop. Being honest with yourself is the first step to clearing this type of fear. Recognize your own efforts and realize how damaging it has been to deny yourself recognition.