The facts indicate, however, that living together may not be such a good idea after all. Studies show that, on average, cohabiting couples have more conflict in their relationship, are less sexually fulfilled, and are less likely to have stable, satisfying marriages if they do marry. Our community is right to condemn domestic violence, to punish those who offend and to provide shelter and care for the victims. But we need to do more by way of prevention. One step is to get the word out.
Cohabitation is risky- especially to young women and children.
If a man isn't husband material or if he refuses to marry, it may not be a good idea to live with him either. Dr. Sider is Executive Director of the Pine Rest Family Institute and Vice-Chair of the Greater Grand Rapids Community Marriage Policy. Opinions expressed are not necessarily shared by members of the Coalition.