We do not need barriers. Through the power of love, it becomes possible to be rid of them. Women have soft places, they want something very hard and strong. Men want something very soft. There are bones and flesh in the body.
Bones are hard, flesh is soft.
We must remove all borders through true love. The man represents bone, the woman represents flesh. Bone and flesh create harmony because they are different. God is like the bone, human beings are like the flesh. Only through love can they become one.