Working on your own thinking and negotiating a realistic relationship are two different matters. Sometimes an objective third party, such as a family counselor, can help. At other times you have to settle for an armed truce with limited contact with loved ones, and develop your own personal strength. Most colleges and universities have student counseling available, and if you have a health insurance plan, counseling is available through your insurance provider. If you are without health insurance, the United Way provides counseling based on your ability to pay.
Counseling is also available through the state vocational rehabilitation services.
Regarding the effects of VHL and society, in both cases you are more likely to deal effectively with both by controlling your thinking more than trying to control the disease or other people. I think this is a more optimistic and realistic approach. Otherwise you will find yourself becoming very angry, frustrated, and experiencing feelings of helplessness. Thank you, Dr. Wood, for being here with us, and for another excellent session. Good night, and I wish everyone well in their medical management and health.