He was not writing a new Torah, laying down the law. He was giving the advice of the wise and reflective mind that we all need to hear if we are to discern for ourselves what is moderate and reasonable and truly beneficial for our spiritual growth in Christ. Significantly, Clement's vision of a Christian spirituality touching and enhancing every aspect of life, from sex to conspicuous wealth in household furnishings, had deep mystical roots. To be changed is the essential human experience. Self-transcendence and being conscious of the process of transcendence as it unfolds in us is what makes us human.
Despair is the death of the soul because it denies the possibility of transformation.
Spirituality facilitates growth.