Don't look for order. Order is only found in the plan , but doing it is not organized. It's like a chef planning a meal. He doesn't serve you the same thing. Let's look at the elements that are in the story.
Audience is very sentimental.
Always plan the shape of scene. Don't rehearse things to do. Planning before on being the other person, then don't plan when you start doing. People are afraid to be ridiculous. What you do is plan up until lighting the match.