I have a feeling that eventually society will become radical enough for this to happen. Unfortunately, at the pace we're going at, a steady crawl, it won't happen anytime in my lifetime. He's not you. He wears what he wants to wear and you wear what you want to wear. I hope not.
Clothing is the same thing.
It really is, it's just another trait in his identity. Just because no one else does it doesn't mean it's wrong, it just means that society is ignorant. Addendum I spoke in this editorial about transgender issues being the next in the ever evolving human rights movement. Trans people have always existed since the beginning of time, and in the case of the Native American Two-Spirits, who were free to live as members of the opposite sex and marry members of the same sex, have even been highly respected. I'm in the middle of reading Transgender Warriors , by Leslie Feinberg, and it's by far the best transgender book I've ever read.