You want your dance to follow the musical elements, so stay with the rhythm. And even thought the music is starting to feel oh so good, don t get so excited that you start whipping her around like some rag doll. After all she s your partner, not your puppet. Finally, Relax and Have Fun. Remember you are out here to have fun with another person.
Dancing is a social activity.
So relax, enjoy dancing, but be responsible. If the lady makes a mistake or you do, don t worry about it. Let it go, apologize, if warranted, and move on. It s no big deal unless you make it a big deal.