If I ever felt the slightest desire of that nature, I would immediately give up domination, since I would obviously be unworthy to hold a whip. SM is not the least bit sexual to me. I am dominant because that is my true nature, and I cannot be anything else. Sexual arousal would lessen my power and get in the way of my true dominance. I love wearing fetish clothing, especially very, very high heels.
All dominant women do.
Teetering around in agony makes us feel powerful. We only pretend it doesn't because we don't like giving you what you want. He is obviously a very special person who is perceptive enough to recognize my true nature. I don't understand why everybody doesn't do the same. If I can do something, and it pleases me to do it, I should do it.