The wife begins to feel that the husband does not desire her, only her body. The husband begins to feel that his wife doesn't really want to have sex with him, that she is cold, and constantly requires him to beg for sex. These attitudes gradually poison their whole relationship. With this crucial part of their marriage gone bad, soon other problems develop. Before they know it, the couple is in divorce court, dividing up their mutual property.
C ontraceptives treat children like a disease.
We have to take medicine, or have surgery done to prevent them. When a couple does become pregnant in our modern culture, it is more an occasion of condolences than congratulations. A pregnancy after a couple has one or two children is treated as an unfortunate mistake, which any couple will be careful to avoid in the future. As Christians we know that this attitude is wrong. The Bible tells us that children are a gift from God.