Use everyday opportunities to talk as occasions for discussion. Some of the best talks you'll have with your child will take place when you least expect them. And remember that it often takes more than a single talk for children to grasp all they need to know. So talk, talk and talk again. Encourage them to talk it out.
Children feel better when they talk about their feelings.
It lifts the burden of having to face their fears alone and offers an emotional release. If your child appears constantly depressed, angry or feels persecuted, it is especially important to reassure him that you love him and encourage him to talk about his concerns. And if he has been violent or a victim of violence, it is critical to give him a safe place to express his feelings. Monitor the Media Over the years, many experts have concluded that viewing a lot of violence in the media can be risky for children. Pay special attention to the kinds of media your children play with or watch.