He can also remind her to take time for herself, even if it means he must pick up the slack. Cancer doesn't work around a woman's schedule. There are meals to prepare, carpools to drive, and work to finish. For a man who has never been to the supermarket, these chores can seem daunting. But they must get done, even if it means seeking help from willing friends.
Couples spend a lot of time planning for the future.
Looking back upon your life together can draw you closer and give you a sense of the completeness of your life. I used to bring pictures to the hospital, and my wife and I would share our memories. Spend time alone with your wife. With death lurking nearby, not to mention doctors, nurses, friends and relatives, it is harder and more important than ever and to share intimacy. I held Corinne gently and kissed her.