Let others take responsibility for their problems. Dealt with guilt and needing to intervene. Asserted self and set appropriate boundaries. Looked at a shadow part of self. Owned your projections of anger at others.
Caught stress build up that preceded addictions use.
Felt the highs of addiction and called it by name. Observed how addictive behavior was rationalized. Chose healthy addictions to alleviate stress and conflict. Used stress management techniques of deep breathing, meditation, progressive relaxation, etc . . . Observed self judging and criticizing others.