Expect the unexpected as you sort through your feelings. Do not try to care for yourself by excessive care taking of others. Seek professional evaluation if you find that you are unable to resume many of your daily living activities after two weeks. Do not promise more than you can reasonably deliver. Provide as much structure for the child as possible.
Children often exhibit increased physical symptoms in responding to crisis.
Do not help the child to hide feelings. Consider professional evaluation if you become concerned about the child's behavior. Offer a listening ear. Consider flextime options. Either postpone major decision making responsibilities or allow the co-worker additional time to consider options before making a decision.