The Drama of the Gifted Child helps readers reclaim their lives by discovering their own needs and their own truth. As such, this book addresses many issues related to cult-like family groups and the infantalizing dynamics found in so many groups where the leaders become parental figures. Basic Books, 1981. You'll really enjoy this book, particularly if you've been in any Eastern-style group. The authors explore belief systems from the perspective of language and authoriatarian hierarchies.
Church members feel manipulated, used and shamed.
Before you join anything, read this remarkable book. You'll think twice before merging with the crowd or joining any mass movement or cult.