From the temptations and trials the Lord allows in our lives, we know the graces the soul possesses. Many find it difficult to recognize their temptations and trials. Help the directee become aware of the temptations he or she faces. Consider how he or she reacts to them. Do not presume that the directee has completed the process of the first conversion.
Conversion is a life-long process.
Nonetheless, there is the first conversion, where the person desires to avoid every serious sin and all occasions leading to sin. Disposition of the soul what is beneficial at this stage may not necessarily be what the directee is seeking or desires. Some things may be good at a certain level and not another. This will determine the kind of books the directee may read or avoid the method of prayer and other relevant activities. Level of sensitivity of a soul should be considered.