As Adam and Tyler play together, Tyler grabs the toy out of his brother's hand. Adam reaches over and punches Tyler in the stomach. Both boys start screaming for the nearest parent to solve their problem. Nearly every family experiences arguments and fights among siblings. While parents may become tired of listening to the endless arguments, most would agree that they would not trade their children in for peace and quiet.
Children can often reach the best solution and longest lasting peace if left to their own devices.
This allows children to learn valuable skills in conflict resolution. Make sure that each child receives individual attention. You might use this time to work on a favorite hobby or homework. Give each child possessions and space they can call their own. Doing this should reduce conflict among children and help children feel important.