Children also need to know parents support school discipline policies and any reasonable consequences for behavior administered by the school. Children should understand the reasons behind household, school and other rules. If a child breaks the rules, consequences are more effective if they are consistent and appropriate to the severity and frequency of the offense. One of the best ways to teach a child is by example. Through their everyday actions, parents teach their children how to interact socially, handle competition and defeat, discuss differences, resolve conflicts, deal with frustration in solving problems and cope with stress and anger.
Children also learn from other adults in their lives.
Get involved with school and community organizations and activities. Becoming active in the child's school and community life brings many benefits. It helps parents understand their children's needs and wants. Situations arise that present opportunities for reinforcing what's taught in the home. Being involved also gives parents an opportunity to get to know teachers, childcare providers and others that spend time with children.