In only a moment one can be conceived in Christ. Click book for more information. We are conceived in Christ. But as it took time for Skyler to be formed once he was conceived, so it takes time for us to be formed into the image of Christ once we are conceived in Christ. For all of us who are weighted down under an anvil of discouragment over the slow growth in our spiritual lives, marriages, or relationships, it may be time to exchange our stopwatches for some calendars.
Conception happens in a moment.
Formation takes time. Don't give up.