The key here is to be seen doing family stuff. Hang out at Freedom Park -watch out for those jogging Dilworth yuppies. Do the Carowinds thing - riding the Wayne's World Hurler counts as quality family time. Just keep those errant thoughts to yourself. Reset your bio-clock.
Business starts early in Charlotte.
The 7 a.m. breakfast meeting is de rigueur. Every other work day, stick with that IBMer navy suit and white shirt - you can't go wrong. The field is wide open. Mentoring at school is popular, as are church, charitable and cultural involvement. Prior commitment at church or with the family.