Caring adults bring with them a set of other positive influences on teenagers. The following chart shows some of the most significant differences. Here are some starting points. A poll of Minnesota youth found that most teenagers think adults have a negative view of them. Though troubling, this result isn't surprising.
Adolescents are the brunt of cartoons, comedy routines, and adults' complaints.
Too often, these negative images become self-fulfilling. When teenagers don't think a parent or other adult respects them, they won't turn to that adult for support or guidance. Showing respect involves changes in attitudes and behaviors. Treat youth the way they expect to be treated themselves. Recognize and acknowledge teens' abilities and efforts.