Trust is built on a base of authenticity and honesty. The child knows that the therapist's communication is honest. When therapists say one thing and do another, trust does not develop. A child who trusts a therapist is more willing to risk, and learns more easily. Physical handling by the therapist is a powerful system of communication.
Communication takes many forms.
A child's learning style or sensory preferences are communicated by movement toward or away from specific activities or interests. A child who knows that the therapist listens, increases the frequency or consistency of expression. Active listening provides empathy, encouragement, and a feeling of acceptance. When children feel respected and understood, they are more willing to challenge the unknown. With a greater willingness to let go of the familiar and explore change, the child discovers more options for function.