In your sorrow, you may feel all or only one or two of the five common stages of grief. Denial is your first reaction to the news that your pet has died or is about to die. You simply don't want to believe it. Anger often evolves from the frustration you are experiencing. There are no answers to these questions, which may serve to anger you more.
Bargaining is probably the shortest of all stages of grief.
You may promise to spend more time with your ailing pet, to shower your pet with gifts, if only he or she will stay with you a little longer. Depression is a time when your tumultuous emotions ebb into one sorrowful expression. Most people feel a lack of motivation and would like to withdraw from the busy, happy world. Do not fear this depression at the loss of your pet. By taking a step back, you will allow yourself time to heal and put your pet's death in perspective.