Just fucking is good. I ve never viewed vanilla in the pejorative sense, nor shall I ever. Indeed, I ll take as much of it as I can have without a single complaint. Likewise, there are other things good absent the dynamic of power exchange. Holding hands is good.
Conversation is good.
Enjoying music together is good. Watching television together is good. Debating politics is good sometimes heated, but usually fun. There is nothing more important to me than My Lydia. Power exchange, or not.