When things go well you revel in their success and happiness. First, three realities . Long-term planning comes naturally to most adults. Most parents are already thinking of and planning for the future relocating, career advancement or changes, vacations, retirement, etc. Long-term planning does not , however, come as naturally for young people.
Different people are ready to make important life decisions at different times of their lives.
Some people are happily married at 18, others wait until their 30s. Some know their life s work at age 10, others need decades to decide. Trying to rush the process simply runs the risk of their making premature and unwise decisions. In fact, fewer than a third of all college students graduate in four years. Some programs requirements simply necessitate more time.