Relates well and easily, and can have two-way conversations. Knows that becoming a coach is an investment, not a seminar. If you have most of these qualities, consider yourself lucky, and don't assume that everyone does. In fact, few people do. And many of those people become coaches or clients of coaches.
Coaches attract people who are ready to have it all and still be themselves.
The coaching skills can be taught and learned. But we can't make somebody be a caring, alive, wonderful person. Coaches bring these qualities with them into the profession. There are many. You are working the clients who want to grow.