An unfortunate necessity. Always look and act responsibly. It is typical that we will be perceived as ungrateful. People will exhibit denial. It has always been important.
Adoptees still happen to be treated as legal property.
Things take time. Adoptees are about the least powerful class in america because of the way they are treated in law and in spirit. We are legally barred from knowing our relatives from birth. We are called children in the law books. We are uniting through electronic media.