Children progress through predictable stages and their needs and behaviors change over time.
There are many good books to help you. Check with your child's doctor, school, your church or the local bookstore for ideas. Hitting or shaking a baby causes them to cry more and greatly increases the risk for serious physical damage or death. It is normal to be stressed when your baby cries, but it is dangerous to express your feelings with physical force. Don't forget to pay attention to your children when they are being good.