Let's read the story together. By offering an alternate activity, a child is given something else to do. Give Choices If a child gets a choice whenever it is possible, he probably will be more cooperative. Keep the choices simple. Be careful not to offer a choice where none exist.
Choices give children a sense of control and a feeling of competence.
Announce a few minutes ahead of time that soon a new activity will take place. The change from one activity to another will be much easier. Children Need to be Reminded of Parent's Expectations Before going out a child should be reminded of the parent's expectations on their behaviour. It is important for the child to know that he can go to a parent if he has a problem. An important part of discipline is reinforcing positive behaviour.