GirlFriends Know is a friendly advice column. Well, I guess its a chance you take. I don't think you'll ever see fireworks or get all warm and fuzzy, but you should know it is right when even in the darkest of hours, you still can't imagine NOT being with him.
Arguments always lead to makeup.
His faults irk you, but not enough to throw it all away. You accept his family and love them for giving you him. You know what makes each other happy and try your best not to make each other unhappy. Marriage is a committment, its not by chance or luck. You make it work, you don't just find something that works.