Often these are the very differences that you were attracted to in the beginning of a relationship and they are often the very things that end up causing a tremendous amount of conflict. The first step to resolving conflict in a relationship is to understand and accept each others differences . The number one predictor of divorce is the habitual avoidance of conflict. Couples often avoid conflict because they believe it will cause divorce. We figured out that's when we have all of our fights.
Conflict is inevitable.
If there is more then one person, there is bound to be more than one opinion. Talk to each other. Irritations can pile up and prompt criticism or a sarcastic comment. It's best not to harp on a sore subject, but equally as important not to let things simmer until they reach a boiling point. Be an active listener.