Anger is much like a smoke detector in your home. These reliable alarms will activate and let us know when something has gone wrong. You have to do a little investigating before you determine where that fire originates, or what started it. Dealing with anger is much the same way. Children become angry for different reasons.
Children sometimes become angry because they re frustrated.
It may be with their schoolwork, the inability to make friends, or other tasks that they are having a tough time completing. Children that feel rejected or emotionally hurt in some way may also exhibit fits of anger. He s yelling at you, but he s also crying for help. One other underlying feeling to anger is insecurity. A child that is uncertain and anxious may mask these true feelings with exasperation.