If you mean no, say it clearly and firmly. Don't go to a secluded place with someone you've just met or don't know well. Suggest meeting at public places. Drive your own car, use public transportation or have enough money for a taxi. Especially don't go to your date's apartment or invite him to yours if you are just getting to know him.
Date rape occurs most often in the rapist's home.
Beware of the impact of alcohol and other drugs on your judgment and that of your date. These drugs often play a role in sexual assault. Don't rely on a charming, pleasant presentation in a man you've just met. Get to know a man before you place your trust in him. Preventing Stranger Rape Be alert and aware of your surroundings, both inside and outside.