Rooted in self centeredness. The parent who indulges in child abuse is more in tune with their own feelings at the moment than what is best for the child. They are not working at all toward the long term needs of the child - and often do not realize the repercussions they are setting up for the child. They are too tuned in to their own frustrations or desires. The child begins to view God as volatile, angry and hard to please.
Discipline resolves ill feelings .
When done thoroughly and lovingly - all ill will is dissolved between parent and child. Discipline is followed by a concrete and genuine demonstration of unconditional love such as cuddling, hugging etc. The bond between the lovingly disciplined child and their parent is strong and sweet. Child Abuse creates hard feelings. Abusive punishment creates hurt feelings, unresolved resentment, anger and fear.