I am sorry. Yet, if we are to be like Jesus we must learn the art of forgiveness. It is a serious matter to be unforgiving. There is a principle revealed in the model prayer given by our Lord to his disciples. Read those statements again-slowly and carefully.
Biblical forgiveness is based, in part, upon asking for forgiveness.
But we must always be willing to forgive those who have sinned against us. He removes it from our record. When we forgive, we must act as though the matter had never occurred. If we have truly forgiven we, too, will mark it off the record. Too often we humans foolishly refuse to extend forgiveness on the basis that we do not believe in the sincerity of the one requesting it.