It's difficult because of the high possibility of being misunderstood and hence offending or hurting someone. The last thing I want to do is compound the hurt life has already dealt to you. It's difficult to preach because I'm going to talk about some things that I'm unsure of, but I believe I need to say them. A third reason this is difficult is because some of you may get the impression that I am minimizing your problem or hurt. A fourth phase a person on their death bed enters is depression.
Depression is anger turned inward.
By this time we have learned to suppress the anger of stage two. Now the focus of our anger shifts from others to ourselves. We blame ourselves for letting death destroy us. On several different occasions I have experienced these stages during my past 57 years of living. I can tell you the fourth stage is the most painful and devastating.