It is unfortunate that many people believe that to ask for help is a sign of weakness, for in reality it is a sign of strength. Asking for help does not mean people are incapable of solving their problem For in the final analysis, it is the people themselves who solve their problems.
Counselors merely guide people and give some direction to their search for solutions.
There are few people who have not needed help in times and crisis have a better chance of finding effective and permanent solutions in a shorter time. Persons with problems of ten become discouraged which only emphasizes weaknesses. They often overlook strengths still presents are well as other alternatives for coping with these problems. A trained counselor may assist in achieving as better understand of strengths or weaknesses. Advice from well-meaning friends and relatives, in many cases, may further aggravate the situation.