Don't seek conformity of beliefs so much as you seek to challenge one another to love and good works. Challenge your assumptions. Challenge your beliefs. Rethink the issues. If we keep doing what we have been doing we are going to keep getting what we have been getting.
Beliefs always proceed behavior.
We do what we do because we believe what we believe. If we keep thinking what we have been thinking we are going to keep doing what we have been doing and keep getting what we have been getting. The only way we will make progress in our ministries is to challenge one another's thinking. We have all fallen short of God's glorious ideal. We stand in grace.