This makes the father's role even more crucial. Most fathers are eager to be involved in parenting, yet research shows that may fathers spend little time with their infants or with daughters. Mothers often assume a larger role in early parenting, partly because of traditional expectations. Women are socialized to feel more comfortable in giving care to infants and to develop more skill with young children. Women, however, do not have a monopoly on parenting skills.
Dads also can learn to understand an infant's needs and how to provide comfort and care.
A father's parenting style affects the child. Authoritative fathers take the time to listen, guide, support, and show affection to children, but they also set limits. Their children are more likely to reach high achievement levels and attain positive identities than those with authoritarian fathers, who are unloving and use harsh discipline. Children raised by authoritarian parents are more likely to develop problems in school and with peers, and to use illicit drugs. When fathers discipline through yelling and hitting, children can develop behavioral problems as early as preschool.