The protection robs him of courage and self-reliance. The parent also rescues the child from experiencing the consequences of his actions. He is unable to function independently and tries to put everyone in his service with charm, tears, or temper. Indulgent Parents shower the child with attention, service, toys, or praise. The child is treated like a prince or princess.
Child passively waits for next offering of adults.
Often related to substance abuse. Eating and cleaning schedule may be unreliable. Child does not know what to expect of others or what is expected of him. Without order and kind, firm discipline, the child may not develop self-discipline. He may become unmotivated, uncontrollable, and crave excitement.