These signs say your child is crying for help. Talk with your child about his behavior and your expectations for him or her. Don't wait until it is too late. Head it off before there are dire circumstances coming out of it. The child who shows these signs needs a safe person to work out his problems.
Anger does a number on people and always huts the family.
Anger begets anger. The more people rant and rave, the more hostility they build up. What children want is someone to listen to them and understand them. Getting professional help is the best investment you can make in your child's future. Or your might get a family friend, rabbi, minister or teacher to talk to your child.