Feelings of guilt and depression can sometimes last several years. If the nevus is visible when dressed, stares and questions by others will occur. Children should be instructed to say, I was born with this birthmark. It doesn t hurt. It is not contagious.
Decisions regarding treatment are very stressful for most parents.
Ridicule of children with nevi or scars by their peers is common and coping strategies must be learned. Those with facial nevi have a particularly difficult time. Children with a nevus usually become very strong and courageous. Most children can go swimming wearing either regular or custom-made swimsuits. Ballet, dance, and sports are also possible wearing regular or custom-made outfits.