Together, write down their symptoms in order of what bothers them the most. When you go to the doctor, see which symptoms they actually end up complaining about. Have the doctor address each issue, take notes, and cross each item off the list as they are reviewed. Speak with the doctor in private if necessary. When a new medicine is prescribed, ask if any specific foods and alcohol should be avoided while taking this drug.
All drugs have side effects, and can interact with each other and produce further complications.
Get a lock box for their medications if you have any suspicions that they are not being taking appropriately. Hide a spare key someplace in their home in case you forget or lose your key, or if someone else has to give the medications if you cannot get there. Bizarre or unusual behavior that is out of character is one of the first signs of dementia. Be aware and don t dismiss these early warnings signals. Seeking help at this early stage will greatly help your loved one and reduce your frustrations.