If your child will be participating in a competitive event, most likely his or her speech will be evaluated in terms of content and delivery. These kinds of opportunities can be very valuable because they help youth set goals and work to achieve them. These events also provide opportunities to receive constructive feedback from judges and evaluators who are themselves experienced speakers. It's important for youth to develop healthy attitudes about competition. Their lives will be filled with situations where what they do will be judged and measured in comparison with what other people do.
Competition can be an exciting and stimulating experience.
When handled constructively it can motivate youth to work hard and put forth their very best effort. Acknowledge the goals your child has set for him or herself. Let your son or daughter know that regardless of the outcome, you're proud of him or her for making the decision to be a competitor. Make sure your child knows that while you are hoping he or she will do well in the competition, you will still feel the same way about him or her regardless of the judge's decision. Help your child develop a healthy approach to winning or losing by stressing the importance of doing one's best even if it ends up not being the best.