Introduction Ken Keyes wrote the Twelve Pathways . They are rather convoluted. The Twelve Living Love Proverbs Force and love cannot live in the same house.
Desire warps reality.
Things will change even if you do nothing. Pain is a signal someone is trying to pry off one of your barnacles. I programmed myself, so I can reprogram myself. Even this is polishing me. It is easier to pull somebody out of a well than climb in yourself and push them out.