For a person with a disability, sexual activity may be a less spontaneous, more planned activity in order to address issues of fatigue, pain and bowel and bladder routines. Strategies may include trying different positions, or having a partner play a more active role. Other forms of sexual expression may be used. This may call for experimentation and alternative methods of pleasuring. Assistive devices may be used.
Communication is important in all relationships.
When a disability exists, it is very important for partners to discuss their thoughts, feelings, needs, wants, and how they can mutually satisfy each other. Persons with disabilities must also be responsible for their sexual health. Health promoting behaviors such as self breast and testicular exam and regular check- ups are responsible ways to identify potential problems. Sexuality is an intimate, personal area of our lives, one which may be difficult to talk about. However, if you have concerns or questions regarding sexuality issues related to a disability, please ask one of your rehabilitation professionals.