An exhibitionist is sexually aroused by the shock or surprise of the victim. The vast majority are male. Female exhibitionists may seek employment where the condition can be exploited, such as topless dancing, although most people in such jobs are not exhibitionists. Although this condition appears to be a life-long problem, if not treated, the condition often becomes less severe by age 40. Many mild forms of exhibitionism are considered normal in our culture.
Children often have a natural curiosity about their genitals and the genitals of others.
Young children may like to try to shock adults or other children by showing their genitals or underwear. This is typically a passing phase and only calls for professional treatment if it persists. Wearing suggestive clothing or strip teasing for a significant other are common activities. Most exhibitionists do not receive treatment until they are caught by the police and the court orders treatment. If you or someone you care about is an exhibitionist, early treatment is strongly advised.