Sometimes it is sadistic. It's their God-given duty to stick their noses into other people's business. Or, force their idea of what is 'right' on the world. To me it don't matter if that crap comes from Do-Gooders or people who call themselves disability activists. Control freaks look the same to me in white coats or in wheelchairs.
Control freaks are control freaks.
Whenever anyone tells me that they know what's best for me, or how I should act, a buzzer goes off. I'm heavy into autonomy, the control of one's own life. There are people who believe that people are not responsible for themselves and should be controlled from the outside. And this is just a microcosm of systems all over the country in cities and counties and states and in the big Federal Government. Some departments are worse than others, but all the time they're patting themselves on the back for how they're helping, and how they're professionals and quack quack.