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Babies care deeply about their mothers, and their happiness and well-being.
Once we are all able to say 'yes, we matter very much indeed' we will all begin to have gentle, safe, dignified births. Imagine a sick, depraved, violent individual cutting your vagina open because it makes him feel correct in doing so. Now imagine that, after the cut, he rapes you with his penis as well. Then out of this barbaric bout of sex you conceived a child. What does it matter.