Always be genuine in your relationships with others. Avoid being negative to outsiders about those who are members of the church. Be aware of the damage that the tongue can do by gossiping, complaining, and criticizing others in the church. The unity of the local body of Christians plays a very large role in whether or not the outsider will be interested in Christ. The church needs to be aware of this and learn to accept every outsider not for what or who she is but for what she can become in Christ.
Children can be a great help in getting studies started.
They can help you talk more easily with other mothers. A good reason usually exists for getting together and letting the children play. Having small children does not free you of the responsibility to take advantage of your opportunities as they come. Study with the mother while the children play together. Regardless of the situation, make use of the opportunities God has given you by always being on the alert.