You need to know that what happened to you is NOT your fault. Abuse is about control, and so long as you don't tell on your abuser they will continue to do these things to you and there will be no way of stopping them unless someone else tells on them for you. Parents divorce parents, not their kids. If you're an ncp who's uninvolved in your child's life, you're a dead beat by your own doing. Kids need both parents, not just one.
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