If your child is the victim . . . Scrapes and bruises may be some of the first outward signs that your child is involved with a bully, but there are other more subtle signs as well. Your child may suddenly want to stay at home rather than go out to play with his friends. He may refuse to go to school, or suddenly begin to lose money or possessions. To combat the bully, you will need to increase your child's confidence.
Bullies recognize fear and use it to their advantage.
Teach your child what to say in response to verbal attacks. Work with school officials to make sure that your child is safe and that the bully receives consequences for his actions. Suggest that the school implement a comprehensive anti-bullying program. Strengthening your child's peer relationships will also help. If your child lacks friends, arrange for him to participate in positive social groups.