I do not want my son circumcised and my husband does. My husband and all of his male family members are circumcised. They insist that our son also be circumcised, but I do not want to give in to their pressure tactics. I just cannot do this to my precious baby. This is causing me a lot of stress.
Communication is the best tool to resolve differences.
You might also inquire on what basis the decision was made to circumcise those who are circumcised in your husband's family, and discuss together if those reasons are still valid. My son was circumcised yesterday and now I cannot get him to nurse. Things were going just fine before this was done. It sounds like your baby is hurting. You might want to talk to your son's health care provider about pain relief while he is healing.