It usually becomes more frequent and damaging over time. There are some warning signs that relationship abuse may be present. Pattern of unrelenting criticism Extreme jealousy Scary behavior of any kind. Victims often feel they cause abuse or provoke it. Some may come to feel they deserve it.
Abuse is never okay.
If you feel you are being abused in a relationship, there are several things you can do. If you are a student, a member of the residence hall staff can assist you. Call or go to the Victims' Advocacy Program on campus. The advocates can assist you with referrals on and off campus. This office is responsible for student discipline.