Overcoming them always requires mutual apologies and heartfelt repentance toward each other. I want to know every aspect of Kim's thoughts and feelings and hopes and dreams. I want her to know mine, as well. I believe that in the future we really will become like two halves of a round rubber ball, virtually telepathic in our understanding of each other's hearts and minds. Our culture hasn't lent itself very well to this type of communication.
Communication is more than the external exchange of words.
We can work with someone for many years, and never really know what they think or feel when it comes to the all-important topic of true love. Husbands are often very embarrassed by this topic, and may not know how to start communicating about their innermost hearts. Wives have a chance here to reach deep down into their husband's hearts and minds and help create an environment where communicating about internal things is very natural and very comfortable. Amidst an atmosphere of mutual kindness, respect, and plain good manners, trust can build, and the couple's hearts can open to each other in new ways. It's a process that will happen gradually, based upon the couple's efforts to communicate constantly, on a daily basis, about everything.