Once your child has received the consequence, the issue is over and should be forgotten. It is time to move on. Do not stay angry or resentful. Instead, let your child know that you still have confidence in his or her ability to behave appropriately. Know what to do when your child begins testing you.
Children often test their parents to see if they really mean business.
Do not be surprised if this happens to you. When given a consequence, your child may cry, scream or yell at you, or beg you to give him or her just one more chance. Stand your ground. No matter how much your child cries or pleads, you must follow through with the consequence. Do not give in, no matter how upset your child gets.