Learn ways to reduce the risk of future victimization, it may help the victim to feel less vulnerable. Healing is a long-term process and the rape and feelings about the rape, need to be talked about and integrated into their total life experience. Recognize that seeking help from others is an effective form of coping, not a sign of weakness. Look for self-help groups that deal specifically with the sexual assault you have had. Letting the victim decide what they want and are capable of doing can restore a sense of control.
Choices are extremely important in the recovery process.