No two children are the same. We should treat each as an individual, observe and respect her differences, and help her grow. With a child who is very sensitive we may need to give messages in a gentle way. A child who is easily distracted may need us to give undivided attention when we talk to him. If we notice each child's individual differences, we can be more helpful.
Children are different at different times.
When our child acts cross, we may not realize that she has had a bad day. Maybe a friend was mean to her. Maybe she felt like a failure at school. If we get mad about her bad mood, we may make it worse. We can take time to understand what our child is feeling.