You could write yourself a check once a month. You should not reimburse yourself by making cash withdrawals from the conservatorship account. If you, your spouse, or your child wish to charge for room and board, you must first get approval of the probate court. Charges will only be approved if reasonable. As conservator, you are entitled to reasonable compensation.
All fees are subject to court approval.
You must decide whether you feel comfortable charging a fee. Oftentimes a conservator will not charge a fee if serving for a family member or friend. If you decide to charge, you may do so for time spent on professional duties as conservator, but not for time devoted to your personal relationship with the individual. The fee arrangement can be set forth in the order establishing the conservatorship. Regardless, you must show all fees you have taken or propose to take on the annual account.