For a person with a disability, sexual activity may be a less spontaneous, more planned activity in order to address issues of fatigue, pain and bowel and bladder routines. Other changes may include trying different positions, or a partner may play a more active role than previously. Other forms of sexual expression may be used. This may call for experimentation and alternative methods of pleasuring. Assistive devices may be used.
Communication is important in all relationships.
When a disability exists, it is very important for partners to discuss their thoughts, feelings, needs, wants and how they can mutually satisfy each other. Persons with disabilities must also be responsible for their sexual health. Health promoting behaviors such as self breast and testicular exam and regular check- ups are responsible ways to identify potential problems. Sexuality is often a very intimate, personal area of our lives which we usually only discuss with those to whom we are very close. Please, if you have concerns or questions regarding sexuality issues related to a disability ask your rehabilitation professional.