If you don t want to speak, you can always pass . In listening, listen carefully to what the other says, word for word. Pay attention to conflict as it arises. Expect, honor, and cherish it. Honor the voice and opinion of the other.
Conflict can be among our richest sources for growth.
Develop solutions inclusive of the range of opinions. Focus on exploring alternatives rather than specific answers or solutions. Dualism is characteristic of Western thought. When we limit problems to 2 sides or solutions, we limit embracing the complexity of the situation and the beauty of the range of solutions available. Your presence tells us how important you believe our ideas to be.