Just say no. You have hands. Hey, it happens. It's not something you plan for, but sometimes you just miss the gravy boat. Maybe they're tired, maybe they want you to feel like a big oily bohunk, maybe you aren't doing the one thing they need you to do.
Communication is important.
You'll be glad you did. Mynx, I have just got to know. Dish, girl, dish. I'm not heterosexual. I'm not homosexual.