Children from violent homes also become victims. They are often neglected and abused, suffer severe stress and develop dysfunctional behaviors.
Children often view themselves as the cause of the anger and violence.
They may feel guilty and believe that the violence will not occur if they are well behaved. Trying to diffuse family tension to avoid violence. Children may attempt to manipulate their parents' behaviors, feelings and actions to stop the violence. They may draw attention to themselves or refocus the abuser's attention. Trying to intervene during violent outbursts on their mother's behalf.