If anyone causes physical or property damage, ask them to leave. Call the police if damage warrants action by law enforcement officials or if unwanted guests refuse to leave your home. Notify the parents of any person who arrives at the party under the influence. Never allow anyone under the influence to drive. Parents, police, taxis, and friends are available to help.
Curfews give both parents and teens a sense of security.
Know where your teenager will be Require a phone call to keep you informed, many plans for an evening are changed midway through. If you will not be at home, let your teen know how you can be reached. Know who will be providing transportation throughout the evening Discuss with your teen possible situations that might necessitate a call to you or a specified friend or neighbor for a ride home. Urge your teen never to ride home with a driver who has been drinking. You might have an understanding that there will be no punishment for a call letting you know that things are getting out of hand.