So these conversations are hateful, loveless panderings to obligation rather than an intimate exchange and negotiation of desires. Communication is always an exchange of desires, even if all you desire is to be heard telling a story or a joke. So, when you can embrace your lover s desire as just as legitimate and valuable as your own then any conversation is an opportunity to learn about one another and learn from one another. Then, Let s make a couch date sounds inviting, a promise of more love to come. Even if you re asked to change, it will be during an open conversation filled with love and desire.
Communication is an exchange of desires.
Melody Starr Safety February 21 I live to love, not play it safe. Many people hold back on love to be safe. As if they would die if they experienced the new intimacy. Yes, if their old identity died, that would bring about new life. It would be unfamiliar.