Try to tell your children about the decision to divorce together using words they can understand. Assure your children of your love and that you will still be part of their lives. Be specific about the changes that will happen in their lives. When their parents separate children feel that their world has fallen apart. The majority of children will recover and heal.
Children can have the same feelings as adults.
However, they differ in their understanding and control of feelings. All they did was fight all the time. I could hear them late at night. They said really bad things to each other. I used to lie in my bed and cry all the time.