This object cannot be an integral or dependent part of God. It must be independent. In creation we have left and right. No, they exist in order for them to become one. All of created things exist in these coupled relationships and their purpose is to become one.
Birds are male and female.
When the male moves, the female follows and when the female moves, the male follows. They sing because they want to attract each other, they sing because there is male and female. We cry sometimes for joy and sometimes for sorrow. But the fundamental quality underlying joy and sorrow is the same. The source of all motivation is always love.