Then you swap over and the other person takes a similar time to explain their point of view. If you don't succeed this time, return to the problem a few days later and try again. If you are not in the habit of talking in your relationship, it might be interesting to give it a try. Relationships are one of the curious features of human existence and can be well worth exploring. There are a great range of relationships and of relationship difficulties.
Counselling can be a great help in allowing to clarify complex relationship problems.
Sexual Problems Sexuality is dealt with on a separate page. No one would expect a child to speak fluently without having to learn and practice. Most people would be surprised if the Halls of Residence only gave one choice of breakfast or if all students were expected to dress the same. Ordinary people expect to have good days and bad days when it comes to working or performing a sport. However, when it comes to sex we have a tendency to completely forget that we are all human and all different, and we expect to have instant expertise, total conformity and complete predictability.