That does not apply to setting and using limits. There are four functions of limits. Limits protect people from physical harm, protect property, prevent psychological harm, and promote respect for others. Reviewing these functions will help parents decide if a new limit needs to be set and if an old limit is still a reasonable one. Limit Your Limits ' Limits must reflect your deeply held values.
Children respond to limits that are real priorities for parents.
Reduce the number of limits to the ones that really count. Limiting behavior that harms others or is deliberate disobedience is important at any age. Reasonable means limits that allow a child to succeed. Tune in to the child's individual personality and needs. Some limits are unreasonable because they are not humanly possible.