My lawyer sent the final divorce papers to the judge when i specifically requested to see a draft copy before the final papers went to the judge, because there were alot of unanswered questions. I was assured by her paralegal that they would never take papers to the judge without me seeing them first. Well the papers went to the judge and he signed them. I had requested that the original child support orders stay in effect. I went to her the next day aand siad I felt that they threatened me into taking this, by dangling the fact that I wouldn't be able to leave the state.
Any advice is welcome.