We need to face up to the issues which the nuclear, fragmented and economically driven families of the nineties are confronting. I realize that no matter what I set out to discuss today there will be misunderstanding for the emotions around the problems involved here are deep and threatening. Still, I am going to take that risk because silence is no answer and there are people struggling alone with an issue that needs a lot of input and support. I have set one or two ground rules for myself. I will not use illustrations either from within my own family or those born of experiences with families in the congregation.
Confidentiality is critical.
It must be acknowledged that each family's and each person's circumstances are unique and must be respected. Decisions that you have made or must make are not under judgment here either directly or by implication. Please regard my thoughts as designed to create discussion and to invite input. There is an ulterior motive behind my thoughts this morning. I feel the need for some kind of a group, seminar or discussion series on the subject within this congregation.