Long-term medical care can be a burden that you and your family may be unable to bear emotionally or financially, and this should be discussed openly and honestly. Expression of thoughts and feelings by family members can be very helpful. Even if you have reached a decision, it is important that family members, especially children, have their feelings considered. Children have special relationships with animals. Excluding or protecting children from this decision-making process because they are thought to be too young to understand may only complicate their grieving.
Children respect straightforward, truthful, and simple answers.
If they are prepared adequately, children usually are able to accept an animal's death. The act of saying goodbye is an important step in managing the natural and healthy feelings of grief, sorrow, and sense of loss. Your horse is an important part of your life, and it is natural to feel you are losing a friend or companion - for you are. Once the decision of euthanasia has been made, you and other family members may want to say goodbye to your horse. Spending some special time with your horse may be appropriate.