The answers are not always clear. Each person, each family, each school, and each community may have a unique definition of conflict and violence. Conflict is a natural part of relating to others.
Conflict is also a great teacher.
When handled well, it can increase our understanding of ourselves and lay the foundation for creative solutions. However, conflict too often leads to violence. Sometimes, it seems inevitable. There are going to be some types of altercations. It can happen anywhere.