I think that it's the nature of the mind to move toward pleasant experience in a grasping way. It's not my hope for myself that my practice will lead me to a time that there is no movement of my mind toward things that are pleasant. What I hope will happen is that I will never be driven or compelled by wanting. In the matter of catalogs, my rule for myself is not to make a decision in the midst of a moment of lust. Wisdom is the fourth of the paramis, and its characteristic is clarity.
Clarity seems the naturally developing result of restraint.
When the movements of the attention, fueled by stories, are attenuated by the capacity for restraint, clarity emerges. Validating for oneself the third noble truth of the Buddha, that peace is possible in this very life, requires only one moment of personal experience. The clarity to recognize freedom, even a moment of freedom, can lead to faith that becomes unshakable. Otherwise it's just hearsay. In a moment of clear awareness we recognize the pain in our life and realize that we have the capacity to manage it.