You do not tell others of this secret life, nor of your sexual fantasies. You are easily aroused sexually Geisler's Seven Principles of Ethical Hierarchy 1. Persons are more valuable than things. Infinite persons are more valuable than finite persons. Complete persons are more valuable than incomplete persons.
Actual persons are more valuable than potential persons.
Potential persons are more valuable than actual things. Many persons are more valuable than a few persons. Personal acts which promote personhood are better than those which don't. We had a field day discussing these, feel free to go off on our message boards.