She's had a long time to get used to it. And she knows I've always had a need for both masculine and feminine relationships. The idea of allowing a committed relationship, to both a man and a woman, is taking it only a step further. I can't say which is better. But gays and lesbians have put an investment into being gay or lesbian.
Bisexuality challenges the sacrifices they have made.
Gays and lesbians share the idea that you have to be one or the other. Whenever we announce our existence, it ticks people off. We don't fit the rules. For someone like me, who loves nothing better than to break a few rules when it comes to sexual boundaries, that sounds good. I hope this conference, and other events like it, will encourage bi people to come out of the closet.