I recommended he offer training in discerning God's will from the Scriptures to several cell groups. You need to establish friendships. His face reddened. What I want to do is ministry. He had failed a critical test of leadership.
Community is essential to biblical leadership.
If a person can't build deep friendships that include accountability, that person is not ready to lead in the church. Katherine has the poise and stage presence of Snow White and was on our worship team. While never flashy in her song leading, people began to stumble over her seeming flawlessness. My concern was people were beginning to think of her more as an image than as a real person. Maybe you could work the sound board or something like that.