I spent the first forty years of my life making major interventions into other people's lives, and I have an idea of the limitations of that method. I see a major event as rather like major surgery. It is a moment, but whether people use it, whether people go with it, needs to be seen. It's a long process of forgiveness. It's a natural process.
All natural processes are long processes and they last.
Not to presume that we could change that, because it might be a life-long process, or many lives' long process. However, it changes the idea. Cancer gives you a new idea. Cancer changes your whole life. It shifts you.