If you do, you may feel that you have no options at all. When you feel stuck, look at the problem from a different angle and try a new solution. Options have to exist. Take your 'own' decisions. You should neither take decisions for others nor allow others to make decisions for you.
Choices are never good or bad.
Choices are the decisions you take on the basis of your priorities. They are always appropriate or inappropriate. You have to be yourself and think for yourself. This does not preclude listening to others' opinions. Listen to others, but take your own decision.