With courage you can stay with something long enough to succeed at it, realizing that it usually takes two, three, or four times as long to succeed as you thought or hoped. Whether you believe you can do a thing or not, you are right. No person, no place and no thing has any power over us for WE are the only thinkers in our mind. You and I do not see things as they are. We see things as we are.
All blame is a waste of time.
No matter how much fault you find with another, and regardless of how much you blame him, it will not change you. The only thing blame does is to keep the focus off you when you are looking for external reasons to explain your unhappiness or frustration. You may succeed in making another feel guilty about something by blaming him, but you won't succeed in changing whatever it is about you that is making you unhappy. You allow them to persist by not seeking any other, better form of satisfying the same needs. I woke up early today, excited over all I get to do before the clock stikes midnight.