Conflict is made more difficult when we choose to handle it negatively. Myths About Conflict 1. Conflict is always negative. As people understand how conflict develops, what the choices are, and what skills they need to safely make choices, they gain confidence and control over their lives. Conflict can produce positive growth for everyone.
Conflict is always to be avoided.
The avoidance of issues doesn't resolve them or make them go away. It drives them underground and builds walls between people, causing resentment. Conflict damages relationships. Clearing the air and resolving a conflict reduces tension, brings understanding, and makes the relationship more open and honest. Conflict is a debate about right or wrong with a winner and a loser.