This attitude is not taught by telling the child what to do. This attitude is taught by the parents and coach acting like it is true and being consistent about it. If your attitude says this is awful then the child will learn that it must really be awful. If you act like it is unpleasant, but not a big deal then they will believe that that is what it is. How good or bad sports are for a child is determined by the adults around the child.
Children have a natural tendency to use imagination and imagery.
This is perfect for learning the proper ways of mental rehearsal and preparation. The parents should read books on how to use mental imagery and teach the child, with the verbal support of the coach or trainer, age appropriate ways of mentally preparing to play comfortably and well. This imagery is also used to prepare for the unusual and potentially troublesome situations that can easily throw a child s game off. If you are prepared mentally very little can force you off your best game. Learning the mental game, and how to control your responses , will go a long way toward eliminating the frustrations, hassles and slumps that make it hard to keep going while learning a complex game like golf.