Discernment takes time. Allow yourself to sit with any confusion, and invite God to join you in that confusion. Listen for what God may be telling you. Find a spiritual director who can help you in this process. Or contact a religious community to ask questions.
Discernment is different for different people.
God speaks to each of us in the ways in which we are most open to hearing and seeing. You may give each page an identifying name, server, and channel on the next lines.