Be aware of this, and watch the other queer attendees for cues about how to respond to things. If they are, get on board. Commitment, Caring, and Cheese Those who opt not to go for the BTW are left somewhat in the lurch in terms of models. Unfortunately, most people are not poets, and when they try to speak about their great love for each other, there is going to be a certain amount of cheese. Bring crackers, and consume it gratefully.
Cheese can be tasty if it's high-quality.
These will have been written by the couple, and they will probably have a lethal sap quotient. Show fortitude and sensitivity, and weep rather than laughing. The difference will be that many of these will probably not come from the Bible. They will probably be poetry or prose written by other people, in which gay or lesbian love is celebrated. Since part of the point of doing a gay wedding is to get together a community of people who do accept and affirm the couple's love, there will likely be a spot in the ceremony where they ask y'all to get up and do that, one way or another.