I try and want to create a calmer environment for the baby we are trying to conceive. We truly love each other, we just get stuck sometimes. We both are a little hard headed. Click the RealAudio icon and listen to this answer in RealAudio format. Thank you for your question.
Communication is very important between partners.
And yet, often it is one of the most difficult things to do because we learn our patterns of communication as we grow up. We also have a pattern of communication that develops in us in relationship to the way that we respond with our parents and our siblings. So, first of all, what the two of you can do is make a conscious effort to look at your communication and see what you may be projecting onto each other. Get in touch with the awareness of the patterns within your communication. Now, secondly, what you could do is hold the other individual able.