The feeling of potency characterizes what is possible and done well while anger characterizes what is impossible, unsuccessful, frustrated or thwarted. Anger is energizing, powerful and exhilirating and is the emotion most difficult to control. Stress of all sorts creates adrenocortical arousal, lowering the threshold for anger. Anger builds on anger to become rage, which can easily erupt into violent action if untempered by reason. Belief characterizes what is proven true or correct and is to be sustained and cherished while shame characterizes what is proven false, inaccurate or inappropriate and is to be denied or dismissed.
Critical judgement is necessary to both.
Criticism can be delivered and received positively if it provides valuable information on how to achieve goals rather than if it is focused on deficiencies and failures. Love is characterized by positive, cooperative attraction while hate is characterized by aggressive rejection. Both are built over time through reflection on experience. Prejudices are a kind of emotional learning often acquired in childhood that are hard to eradicate entirely even when understood to be wrong. Embracing disparity by including it within one's view of the world is a hallmark of social integration and democracy.