Getting there isn't for the frail of spirit. Or the cluttered of closet. Getting there requires you build yourself into an Olympic-class competitor in the game of life. What you need is a coach, your own personal motivator. They're not just for top ranked tennis players any more.
Dentists have coaches.
Lawyers have coaches. Even coaches have coaches. The New Mexican Larry DeLeon was planning a big sales trip to California a few years ago in an effort to expand the Santa Fe door manufacturing business he owns with his brother. That's when his business coach, Jerry Nabb, stepped in. Though confident in his product, the idea of making sales presentations on foreign turf petrified him.