They're trying to compensate for what they are losing on the pate. Or so the story goes. OK, so the title is a come-on, but I stand before you admitting that all of the above can be true, and sometimes is. But there is another kinder, gentler side to Pinot that goes overlooked far too often by my viniferous brethren. You may not ask directly but you certainly listen to all of those cues that fall into the non-verbal category.
All lovers have their sweet spot.
Pinot Noir does too. Ignore it, and you are destined for either a short or stress-filled relationship, or both. Live in the presence of your lover's needs. Caress her the way she wants to be touched, and she will give back to you ten-fold. Pinot is sweet and gentle, she is so expressive and giving, if we only spend the time and energy to meet her half-way.