Talk to him. Give your baby lots of love and attention. Sometimes adults think children who do unpleasant or annoying things are spoiled. But what adults see as bad behavior may simply be normal behavior for a child at that particular age and developmental stage. This is unpleasant and irritating, but it does not mean the child is spoiled.
Children do things that are irritating and obnoxious.
Throwing tantrums, ordering people around, and testing the limits parents set for them are just normal ways young children behave at times. A toddler, for example, is just beginning to use his improving language and physical skills to meet his own needs. His attempts may be pretty clumsy, but understanding parents see the annoying aspects of their toddler's attempts at independence as part of growing up. They see the tantrum as a sign of a frustrated child, not a sign of a spoiled child. Wise parents recognize that with time, patience, and parental guidance young children learn more acceptable ways of communicating and getting their wants and needs met.