In London there are 7,000 cases of Domestic Violence reported each year to the Metropolitan Police, and this accounts for a quarter of all reports of violence to the Met. Domestic Violence occurs in male-female relationships with either partner being the victim or abuser or in same sex relationships It can include the use of Physical assault slaps, punches, kicks etc. May also involve throwing items such as plates, cutlery etc. Abuse can happen once only, over a short period of time, or be systematic, continuous and sustained. Victims can become severely traumatised and badly injured, sustaining permanent health problems There have been several well documented cases of deaths of individuals in violent relationships either due to the abuse or the victim fighting back in an effort to survive.
Abusers rely on the silence of their victims, allowing it to continue.
If you are experiencing Domestic Violence, you may feel that you love you partner and want to stay despite what is happening. If you feels you are a victim Step one is of course realising you are being abused and from there seeking emotional support and practical help. In an emergency always call 999 and get out. There are now many resources for female victims of Domestic Violence to go to for help, advice and shelter. Most helplines should have staff who are trained not jump to the conclusion the abuser is male.