I need to get done. For example, my office manager, Kathy, came to me one afternoon, all in a tizzy because she had two clients requesting that I conduct our time management seminar for the same dates. I don't mind taking my share of the load, but much of the time the person bringing me the problem is just as well equipped to solve it as I am. By the way, Kathy came up with two ways to resolve her situation so the problem was solved, she did it, and I was free to focus on other matters. Neighbors can pool errand running.
Children can do laundry.
Co-workers will give a willing hand. Offer to help others first and when you need their help, they'll be there for you. Each of us have 10-20 hours per week of minutia to attend to. We have to go grocery shopping, dust and vacuum, mow the lawn, go to the pharmacy and the cleaners, wash the car, and on and on. Certainly these are important tasks that are necessary to make our lives work and there's nothing wrong with performing them ourselves.