I talk with many people like you who have become depressed as a reaction to transitions, losses, injuries, or traumas. There's a big difference between care and fixing. Care is patient with the process, fixing seeks quick solutions. Care is respectful, fixing is shaming. Care is compassionate, fixing is rejecting.
Care is helpful, fixing is hurtful.
I encourage you to get help now before your depression becomes even more debilitating. Feel your feelings.