If your love relationship does not feel mutual, there will always be an unfair use of power. This can lead to abuse, exploitation, or at the very least, poor self esteem and emotional dependence. Do you have a difficult time concentrating on your work or studies because you are thinking about the next time you will be together. It's not natural if this relationship has begun to jeopardize your work. A relationship that needs a lot of work is probably not one that will be satisfying or long lasting.
All couples have to adjust their lives and learn to communicate.
But if you find you are dealing with problems that seem overwhelming, they probably are. A relationship built on illusions is very easy to shatter. Save yourself some time, and be yourself. The good ones will stay and the others would leave eventually. If you feel you have to keep up a certain image in order to keep your partner happy, such as the party girl, or the rescuer, you are in for hard and unrewarding work.