Name calling causes the person to revert back to their behavior and feelings they had as a little child when their parents scolded them. It either renders them helpless or makes them more angry. Name calling, criticism and blaming only perpetuate the problem. Watch your use of cursing. Cursing adds negative energy to the confrontation placing the other person in danger of feeling shame.
Cuss words are like waving a red flag at a bull and increase the heat of the argument.
Know that your use of cuss works only shuts the other person down and that they feel the need to defend themselves further. Do not make empty threats. Do not threaten to leave the relationship or order the other person to get out unless you really mean it. Threatening to break up the relationship only brings up more fear and defensiveness in the other person. Stop using statements of sarcasm.