I don't know you. I don't think this is an exhaustive list of things that will be said. Love is more than saying. But True love is more than saying. It is a behavior.
Authentic love is a practiced behavior.
I know it's hard to be involved in people's lives. We aren't as involved with people any more. We often don't know their needs. We drive to work by ourselves with music on loud. Sit in cubicals all day long.