Evidence does indicates that immediately after playing a violent video game, a child will act with uncharacteristic, increased aggression. The effects, however, have not been found to be long-lasting. One 1994 study linked boys' strong preference for violent games with low self-confidence. And rarely do video games motivate players to depend on God for their strength and power. While nonviolent, educational games are available, fewer than 2 percent of boys choose them.
Boys prefer action-packed, violent or highly competitive sports games.
Limit playing time to about 20 minutes at a stretch, no more than an hour a day. Know and discuss the game's content. Help your child compare what happens in the game to what Scripture says about how we should live. Teach kids the difference between real-life violence and media violence. Help them understand the very real results of violent behavior.