Plan interesting and fun activities together. Learn how to play and let your little boy and little girl play. Make time, energy, and money for fun and romance a high priority. Have a multidimensional relationship. Most people do not have good assertive communication skills.
Assertive skills take time, study, and practice to learn.
Try these tips to become more assertive and to resolve disagreements more constructively. Care for other. Care for self. No name-calling, attacking, or blaming. Don't blame other or self.