Depending upon your circumstances, you may feel it appropriate to leave the terms general in nature at this point. You are entitled to agree to a different plan at a future time, but you will have to submit the change to the court for its approval and the issuance of a new order. If you are unable to agree after seeing that this plan is not workable, you can ask the court take part in making the decision. In writing your plan, be realistic. Many people find that alternating these events from year to year is workable.
Children become very hurt and confused by unmet expectations.
This process is difficult enough on them as it is without adding to the problems. This is only an example. It is a formula commonly used, but you should develop your own plan that fits your unique circumstances. Wife shall have primary physical custody of our child, Barbara.