Having rid yourself of confusion by means of rigid oversimplification of complex issues, you see only the other's confusion. In issues like these, where the pros and cons are not as clear-cut as the two sides might claim, what happens when we begin to see how someone could have adopted the opposite view. To see that they were coping with the same underlying ambiguity and confusion that I resolved by taking my particular stand. Studying confusion can provide enemies with common ground for mutual understanding. That is the central assumption of this site.
Dialogue can help a lot.
Asking people how they came to hold the opinions they hold, what experiences shaped their convictions, can sometimes lead to a different level of understanding than sterile debate about who's right and who's wrong. As you have seen from the contents section, the topics covered in this site do not include most of those extremely difficult issues listed above.