Before moving to California, I had the joyous privilege of being involved in a church whose pastor is an excellent, Biblical counselor. Under this kind of discipleship, the church develops elders who are equipped to rightly apply the word in the lives of the members as well as members who are trained to rightly apply the word in their lives and the lives of their loved ones. This is the kind of church to which you must flee. Unfortunately, they are too few. So, I beg of you, heed my earlier warnings and precautions.
Biblical counseling is another option.
Still, you must look carefully and examine carefully the theology and approach which the counselor takes. The good news here is that if you involve yourself with a counselor and are disappointed, you can usually sever the relationship without fear of being excommunicated. Fortunately, there are some fine counseling options. Once again, through my pastor, I became aware of the ministry of the Christian Counseling and Educational Foundation. I strongly recommend these seminars.