The frequencies of sex can vary from every day to once a month. Every couple has their own style and frequency. The problem is when one person wants it more than the other. Mixed signals and sexual and romantic communication is one of the perplexing things to study, particularly in this age of sexual harassment and political correctness. I encourage people to use words and be very precise.
Communication is the key.
I do not see America maturing in its sexuality for at least another 100 years. We are extremely adolescent about sex. We have these amazingly crazy standards that there should be no premarital sex. We are such a confused society about sex and maturity and about bodies that I think it will take us awhile to grow up. For timid husbands and wives in the bedroom, it s a good idea to encourage them that you want to be more adventuresome.