Dr. Rosemond, a family psychologist, suggests these 5 old-fashion principles. Praise the act, not the child. Use phrases such as, You did a great job on this project, and you should be proud. Instead of You re a terrific little girl. Excessive praise can create a strong dependency.
Children can become addicted to praise which can lead to feelings of insecurity.
Help your children learn they are capable of standing on their own two feet by not letting them stand on yours. Do for your children only what they can t do for themselves, and remember that children usually underestimate their ability. Provide support and encouragement. Teach your children that choices result in consequences. When children misbehave or do not make wise choices they need to know that the behavior was inappropriate and learn that they must pay a price for the behavior or unwise choice.