As people get to know each other on a more intellectual and private level, they find a different perspective arising from simple conversation. The turnon is from being around people who interest you. A good host today will invite people who are stimulating by having wide interests. Partygoers say they find the interactions more personal now. When the talking trails off, there is food.
Chocolate seem to be the dessert of choice.
Dr. Howard Shaffer, head of the Center for Addiction Studies at the Harvard Medical School, says there is no biochemical reason that desserts would especially appeal to people who have cut down on drinking. Today, cocktail party guests mingle, talk, then pair up to go out to dinner. People still drink, but not to get drunk, most people are beginning to understand that they simply don't need the aftereffects. More people are hiring entertainers for parties, even in their homes. Psychics, comedians and magicians are also hired for entertainment.