In our world, we desire to make our neighbor feel guilty and responsible for what we do. If you offend your neighbor, maybe you need to take a good look at yourself, even if you believe you have done nothing wrong. Maybe you need to stop demanding your rights at the expense of your neighbor's peace of mind. If we spent half as much time confessing our wrongs as we spend trying to justify our wrongs, the church would become as meaningful as Christ meant for it to be. The true teaching of the Bible hangs upon how we seek to love God and our fellowman.
Biblical love demands responsibility.
And we ought to lay down our lives for our brothers. Dear children, let us not love with words or tongue but with actions and in truth. Sometimes it is essential that we be defrauded of our rights to keep from offending others. The very fact that you have lawsuits among you means you have been completely defeated already. Instead, you yourselves cheat and do wrong, and you do this to your brothers.