I would choose the woman I love. There are certain beliefs that I have that I will not do on the show. I don't believe in family violence. I don't believe in a husband and wife ever physically hitting each other. I don't believe a family should hit each other.
Brothers are a different situation.
Men should fight men. I think in a family home, behind closed doors, that no results can be achieved by violence. It's a very negative thing. I have objected to other things before. It's just my beliefs.