In the few recorded cases in which children appear to have made false allegations, it has usually been the result of manipulation by an adult. When children disclose allegations that someone has sexually abused them, it is more than likely true. Therefore, it is important for children to be believed. Like any victim, children are not to blame for being sexually abused, the only person responsible is the abuser. It is often difficult for parents to believe a child when child sexual abuse is reported, especially when the offender is someone known to the family, or a part of it.
Children have trouble remembering details.
Offenders who hold positions of trust in a community can often abuse children for years without being caught because no one believes the children or they want to avoid a scandal. Many children say they wish they had been physically abused so that bruises and cuts would have been visible and people would have been forced to ask where they had come from. Child victims who report sexual abuse have much to lose - they risk being disbelieved by their loved ones, being isolated in the community, the possible anger of the abuser, and losing their family. There is little reason for a child to lie. As a result it will likely go unreported and unnoticed.