They know to what source they must look. They know they cannot progress without constant infusions of goodness from Heaven. In the close relationships of family life there may be another gospel resource in addition to humility that is vital for balancing our strengths. Another woman is a devoted mother and her husband is a remarkable businessman. Often he feels neglected by her and she feels betrayed by his lack of devotion.
Charity is the essential lubricant in family relationships.
Each potential relationship has its own particular set of inescapable recurring problems. There is nothing that makes us quite as contentious as the belief that we are right and need to correct others. In almost all cases He will be less interested in our being right than in our being good. We want to win arguments. He wants us to conquer divisions with love.