They don't understand what the big deal is about domestic violence. Their parents did it, so they do it too. In the counseling, they learn different ways to communicate without using their fist. They learn what makes them angry and how to control their anger. And they learn to take responsibility for their actions, rather than blaming someone else.
Counselors hope the domestic violence court causes a ripple effect through the community.
Santa Maria is a small town. She also hopes a former batterer will help his family and friends to stop abusing their spouses and children. I've sent a lot of people to jail and prison. But I feel much better when I can see a decrease in violence. New ideas versus old models Judge Jim Jennings of the Supreme Court in Santa Barbara County commends the judges and people involved with the domestic violence court for making an effort to reduce crime.