Bring gifts to Jesus. Most libraries have books that describe family events used in different cultures to celebrate Christmas. Just reading over these celebrations will be an education for the children and perhaps for you. As a result of the reading you may decide to try one or more of the events. There is an intersting practise in Guam.
Children are limited to three gifts.
They are expected to give one of the gifts away to someone in need of affection or attention. In addition to the usual lights and decorations on your Christmas tree add pictures and symbols of the way Jesus has come into your lives in the past year. Also add symbols and pictures of the times you and the children have brought Jesus to others during the past year. Try to reach out in some way as a family during the days of Christmas. Bring a needy family a basket or visit a person or family who is lonely or grieving.