Sit down with your husband and ask him to help you prioritize your day . Tell him what you think needs to be done and let him help direct you. Pray for Our Lord's guidance before you work together on any schedule or plan. Remember that structure is also extremely important. Men work in a structured environment and they can be a great help incorporating structure into our homes.
Children really flourish with structure.
Colleges are finding that homeschooled graduates are self-disciplined and have solid time management skills. This is a direct result of well-structured environments. I'd like to share a simple chart that works for our family and is similar to the one below. Just modify it if you wish to adapt it to a plan that will work for your family. Let the children fill in what time they started and finished.