No matter how the group is organized, the basic goal is to help people learn more about dealing with cancer-related problems. Some people are unsure about what happens in a support group. Usually members will talk about their concerns and problems and share ideas about how to cope. If you are not naturally a talkative person or are uncomfortable with groups, it is okay to be quiet and just listen. It takes a while for most people to feel comfortable, but eventually the trust that group members begin to feel will make it easier to participate.
Cancer can make people feel isolated from the rest of the world.
It often helps to know that others have similar thoughts and feelings and that you are not that different after all. Support groups offer many solutions to common problems compared with support from an individual, which provides one person's solutions. You are the best judge of what is helpful. If one method does not help, consider trying another. CAN HELP Put you in touch with others with similar experiences.