Introduce yourself and explain that you were called because of a possible injury. Ask permission to enter the residence to make sure everything is okay. Separate the parties involved in domestic violence before interviewing them, even if they are not violent or arguing when you arrive. Ask victims whether they would like you to contact a family member or friend. Avoid judging victims or personally commenting on the situation.
Abusive relationships continue for many reasons.
Offering advice to the victim at the scene will not solve this complex problem. Even if no children are present at the scene, ask whether there are children in the family, and, if so, find out their whereabouts. Keep in mind that children sometimes hide or are hidden in these circumstances. Approach children with care and kindness. Look for signs of emotional trauma or distress.