With society's current obsession about violence, aggression becomes a more problematic theme. Some might say that only men can handle their son's aggression, I would say that it all depends what we mean by 'handling aggression'. For me, the question is not how to handle, manage, discipline or do away with aggression. Aggression will always be part of life and it isn't all had. Rather, the task is to see how aggression might be kept moving and prevented from degenerating into the destructiveness which appears when aggression gets stuck.
Aggression is part of the process of communicating.
It is also a good and valid way of getting attention. Using the human body as an index, I've cooked up a way to address this question of aggression getting stuck and turning into destructiveness. Head aggression might take the form of a verbal onslaught, whilst chest aggression would be exemplified by the ambivalence of the bear hug. Genital aggression would be pornography, Don Juanism or the materialistic sexual thrills of the tycoon. Arm aggression suggests a whole range of images and acts- from striking a blow to strangulation .