I use them all for reference, and recommend them to every couple who contacts me. Not every one is focused exclusively on avoiding religion, but each offers a wealth of non-traditional ideas. Your Way by Carroll Stoner Common sense advice and practical ideas for every type of wedding.
Checklists help couples through every part of the planning process.
This book will help you keep everything in perspective and create the ceremony and reception that YOU want to have, not the one other people think you should have. Guides you through exploring your preferences and values, differences and similarities so you can discover what best fits your situation. Explains why creating your own ceremony is so important. Examples of many types of ceremonies, with ideas on vows, rituals, and ways to involve family. Suggestions for incorporating readings, music, and ethnic traditions.