This doesn't help you meet people. Blatant requests for cybersex and blowjobs aren't usually answered. The best way to meet someone is to join a chat room, or here at Bianca's - hang out in the forums. Get to know people. You have a better sense of who's available, and will discover who is really male and female.
Desperation works as well in cyber life as it does in real life.
Take your time. When you post, either wait for some responses and pick one to go with OR go with the person to whom you first responded. No matter how bad it may turn out to be - take the sex to it's completion or mutually agreed upon endpoint. I cannot emphasize this enough. When Bianca creaks, or the responder isn't the world's fastest keyboardist - this is almost as rude as falling asleep real time.