However, I think that many boys are raised to always be first in what they want with regard to their needs. It is up to us as parents to resocialize our boys and girls so that there is equal time for getting those things that make us happy. In all seriousness, it takes a multi-faceted woman to keep a man happy, focused and interested. This means intelligence, personality, humor and sexuality. What helps to build trust and communication is what we spoke of earlier and that is being able to speak to one another at any time and making sure the door is open to discussing whatever is on your mind, positive or negative.
Arguments are part of life.
However, arguments don't have to be an all-consuming part of a relationship. You can turn things around by turning the arguments into open, honest discussions. If you can master this on a daily basis, then you will see less anger and much more understanding. It didn't seem that way when we were together. Try not to personalize.