Five evidences of a spirit of rebellion are bitterness, stubbornness, unteachableness, undisciplined living, and argumentation. Bitterness is the first evidence of a spirit of rebellion. Bitter people reveal their bitterness by complaining about their lot in life. They tell you that things would be different for them if they had your silver spoon. When you listen to a bitter person talk you discover that all their problems are the fault of others.
Bitter people have a difficult time accepting personal responsibility for their lot is life.
If you find yourself blaming others, check for a spirit of rebellion. Stubbornness is the second mark of a rebellious spirit. There is a rejection of open, honest dialog because their position will collapse under the light of truth. Some modern psychologists seek to reason with the stubborn child or adult and coax them out of their stubborn stance. I like the straight forward manner of the good old days.