What finally got us through was realizing that Hayden did know what she needed and would keep telling us until we understood. By consistently responding to her, we learned how to soothe and comfort her, and, even more important, we fostered a very strong sense of security within her. One time a child-psychologist friend who was visiting us commented that Hayden's cries were not angry and demanding, but rather expectant, as if she knew that she would be heard. Being there for your child will only make her strong. You've checked the diaper, offered food, checked his temperature, and yet you can't find anything wrong.
Babies cry because of their own inner needs and their individual temperaments.
Some cry more and harder than others, even when they are in loving arms. They do this not because their parents are less capable, but because some babies are wired that way. Your responsibility is to support your child until he feels better. When you're relaxed, Baby will feel more relaxed too. EYES One of the most important things our daughter taught us was to imagine situations from her viewpoint.