But when enough pressure is exerted, they will be able to stop on their own. The addict, or alcoholic, has a brain that's become hard-wired so that they have no control over their chemical use. They are literally powerless over their drug choice. Once they start using, they have no idea whether they'll be able to quit, or go on four day binge. Using, in spite of family or legal consequences.
Denial plays a big part in the alcoholics.
The alcoholics have no idea of the damage they are doing to family, job, and friends. They resist the idea that alcohol is the cause of their problems. This creates a family atmosphere that may be as crazy as the alcoholic's own life. But the alcoholic can't predict the extent or consequences of his or her use. Many alcoholics are functional in their jobs and in social situations, but they are nevertheless unable to stop their drinking patterns, and have not yet progressed to the point where their drinking has become an issue.