He always missed the first ten minutes. At home he was late for meals and late paying the bills. His lackadaisical ways infuriated Mabel his wife. Herb was always smiling. The silent treatment is just as wrong and hurtful as the Mt. St. Helen's eruption.
Depression is our inability to deal with anger and pain.
Some of us turn our anger inward and become depressed. Failure to take corrective steps can lead us into very deep depression that may require institutional care. We can deal with our anger and pain through grief and an honest expression of our anger. It had never occurred to me that I should understand some of the causes of my anger. First, I was taught a pseudo-spiritual way to handle anger.