For me to see this I have to closed my eyes and look really hard and listen to the silence in my head. It's all there. I believe that happiness is a choice and sadness is the guilt for not daring to want more. And, not to do something about it. To be afraid is not to believe we can change.
Anger is the defense mechanism of fear.
Arrogance is the quilt of insecurity. To feel unappreciated is the emptiness of not getting what I want. To not get what I want is my fault. And it is me. I most never forget that I own my feelings.