The more freely information flows back and forth between home and school, the better your child will feel about learning. The circle of support needs to be especially strong when your child first begins school, but it will remain important throughout his school years. It's best to talk to the teacher before a problem surfaces. Although some teachers might want to wait until the first school-scheduled conference to meet, try to arrange at least a quick conversation at the beginning of the year. Let your child see you speak with his teacher, or tell him that you did.
Children feel safe when the important adults in their lives work together.
Keep in regular touch. Use your first meeting to create a plan for staying in regular contact throughout the year. If you choose a system such as this, involve your child. Let him pick his favorite notebook, and give him the responsibility of carrying it between you and his teacher. If you'd rather chat than write, ask his teacher when you might call or meet with her briefly, either before or after school.