Sometimes the best thing is let her cry on your shoulder. It's a permanent commitment, not a temporary situation. If you can't wait, then you probably should rethink your motivation. There are many other facets, but they fall into place quite well on their own if you handle these first few. If we're not for commitments, we wouldn't have a lot of things.
Bigger things require commitment, too.
Like the fact that you may be in a country that allows you life, liberty, and the pursuit of happiness. In fact, there might even be days when I don't feel very loving. But that doesn't change the fact of the commitment I made when, in front of God and bunch of friends and family members, I said I'd have Jessica to be my wife. I promised, she promised, God witnessed it, that settles it. Send a message with this form .