Do not preach. Let the mentee lead the conversation and encourage him or her to think the issue through. Suggest that the two of you find additional sources of information. Do not try to be a counsellor unless you have been professionally trained. Recommend professional counselling as provided by the Pastor or Professionally Trained Counsellor, when your mentee needs their service.
All communications are to be kept strictly confidential .
In order to develop the type of relationship in which you can be effective, you must first be perceived as trustworthy . The only exception to this is if you feel that the mentee is being physically abused, neglected or is involved in a life-threatening activity. Report this act at once to the designated mentor coordinator who will take appropriate action. Keep your promise to your mentee. These young people are too familiar with adults who are not consistent in their words or actions.