Even if you prevent your children from watching TV violence, they will still probably play war games. There is even violence in children's books, including the Bible and fairy tales. Parents may be relieved to know that some experts say playing with weapons can be a positive experience for children. Children playing war games learn to make rules, follow rules, and cooperate with others. Also, preschoolers know they are powerless.
Children see toy weapons as symbols of power and strength.
When children play with toy weapons, their fantasies help them master fears of helplessness in real life. Creating Strong Families Strong families make time to be together and have fun together. Planning family fun time is one way to make sure the family talks to one another and builds connections that help them through rough times. Understanding Teens Understanding the developmental tasks of teens can help parents and others understand why adolescents act the way they do and how to positively deal with their behaviors. For example, between the ages of 12 and 14, teens often test limits and rules.