Many a time affairs constitute this. A problem can tear apart a partner emotionally and the other partner would not be aware of what the problem is or was. Unfortunately, it is easy sometimes with disagreements especially if you do not have satisfactory resolution skills. It is very easy for disagreements to go from interpersonal to personal. Where you just decide that person is never going to change and will not work with you and the conflict becomes something you take on inside yourself.
Communication becomes the real key to conflict resolution.
Communication is the best weapon for defence in your marriage to keep it strong and to keep it good, is something that you have heard so many times that now you feel like throwing up, every time you hear about it. What I really want to focus on is this whole idea that communication is more than just talking and listening, it involves hearing with your heart. Before we get into that, we better talk about what conflict really is. Disagreements are just another form of marital stress. There are lots of forms of marital stress but disagreement is one form.