Whether you use your femme realism to upgrade to first class or to take over the world, being bad is being powerful. Part of being bad is realizing the control a girl has. Hormones control a man, and women control hormones. Sure, taking advantage of people isn't always the best thing, but sometimes it's just too fun. But, having fun and being a bitch are two completely separate things.
Bitches try to fill others with self doubt, and make others miserable.
Misery loves company, and she's the perfect example. Being bitchy isn't fun, it's just stupid. Admit it, being bad is fun. You got in trouble, but it was worth it. Now, unleash your inner bad girl to get that feeling in your life all the time.