It's filled with personal dislike and pettyness. But I don't see what good it is doing you to write these funny messages. It still happens as much as it ever did in today's times as ever. It may not make a lot of sense, but if your argument is true, then a lot of women are insane. And as you have pointed out, this isn't insanity, but merely symptomatic of the female sex.
All women act the same.
Instead, it seems to me that Dostoyevsky was profiling a social phenomeneon that happened in his time and still occurs today. Of course most women don't keep returning to abusive men. That isn't the issue. Perhaps human psychology just doesn't interest you at all. It's degrading to continue this discussion any further.