Families experience intense pressure from the multitude of responsibilities, activities and options of living in the '90s. Attending after-school athletic activities for both sons is a priority, so work responsibilities need to be completed by that time. This is my family. Yours is probably similar. Now consider that list and imagine the specific pressures that go with each activity.
All parents know about pressure.
The myriad details of parenting can be overwhelming as well as joy-filled. It's even more difficult when one parent assumes total responsibility. And we could all use a few more hours in the day. Install a pressure regulator vent. Talk it out.