Violence is destructive, unproductive, life-negating, and unpleasurable. It is vitally important to incorporate our sexuality as an integral part of our humanity. It is energy that can be used to write symphonies, compose poetry, make babies, heal, and comfort. Suppressed passion comes out as anger, frustration, violence and despair. Touching is essential to normal human development.
Baby boys have erections, baby girls secrete vaginal fluid.
We are born sexual animals and we maintain levels of sexual interest throughout our lifetime. And it is continually changing. Sex is full of wonder and mystery - it is not something we can understand. We still do not know why some people have homosexual preference and others hetero. Hetero-sexuality is the predominant norm in our society, and yet we need to make room for the alternative sexual life styles that emerge.