Each day becomes more manageable. There are even times where it feels like it was all a dream. But it really did happen and, miraculously, we have survived. I know we would not be as sane as we are today without the invaluable support of friends and family. We are as committed as ever to having a family.
Adoption is our best choice.
We remain committed to having an open adoption. I cannot deny basic information to another birth mother. Time and circumstances will determine how much contact is good for each of us. I want our child to have answers to questions about identity. We are incredibly scared.