In practice most people leave college before they reach this stage. Generally they are very friendly and often the source of very useful information. If you are married then you can apply to live in a college owned flat. The meals in Nuffield are probably the best in Oxford. The dinners are cheap and extremely good three nights a week.
Breakfast is a bit of a con, so practically no one goes.
Meals are served throughout the year, with small breaks at Christmas, Easter and during the summer. There is also a student kitchen which should be refitted in the near future. Each year students are given 20 of free photocopying by the College, along with a 50 book grant. Although what the College give with one hand they take with the other, charging 60 line rental for phones. The computing facilities are very good with seven reasonably high spec PCs, copies of all the latest software, colour printers and a couple of very helpful IT guys.