This has not been established. While some research reports indicate that about 2 out of every 100 boys are victimized, others claim that as many as 3 out of every 10 boys are sexually abused each year. These reports consistently indicate that the abuse of male children remains under-reported. This is not true. Adults have the power and responsibility to govern their sexual behavior in an appropriate manner.
Adults can choose a variety of ways to satisfy their sexual appetites with other adults.
It is legally and socially wrong for an adult to decide to use a child to gratify sexual urges. When it happens, the adult is abusing the child. Pleasure and sexual abuse are independent and unrelated phenomena. The fact that the child may have enjoyed the sexual experience has nothing to do with the issue of sexual abuse. To thrive, boys need attention and affection from adults.