He needs to deal with his midlife crisis and learn how to find fulfillment in acceptable ways without damaging his marriage. Trust can be rebuilt. He has to understand that you won't trust him overnight. You need to know that you can't act suspicious and hope to have him feel okay. It will take work from both of you.
Communication needs to be open - on all levels.
He should feel he can talk to you about his personal problems - and do it. And you need to know how to react when he tells you things that sound threatening. No part of this website may be used on another's website, newsletter, ezine or other electronic or print publication without express permission of the author. Nora Penia is the sole owner of all content not attributed to others. All this material is copyrighted and any illegal use is against the law.