So the first one bit the dust when all he was looking for was sex. He had something to get over, there wasn't any. I was looking for personality. I had something to get over, there also wasn't any of that. The second and third were sweet, but there were obvious differences that would not be easily overcome.
Differences are good in a relationship, they make it fun and interesting.
The concept that two people feel they have so much in common due to their choice in music and movies is absurd. I had very little in common. I tend to reminisce on that relationship, because it was so good for both of us. We were only together for two and a half years, that seems to be my limit, but we had a way of doing and thinking about things the same way. We would always spend the last hour of the day laying in bed together reading and possibly discussing the things we were reading.