For Parents of Big Brothers and Sisters Even though you have discussed the new baby and prepared your child or children, expect some jealousy and a period of adjustment.
Children are less able than adults to deal with interruptions in their routines and relationships.
Prior to delivery Assume that the older child will be jealous. You can be pleasantly surprised if he is not. Read the child books that are designed to prepare children for this event. Pick books that are appropriate for their developmental level and understanding of your child. Wait to potty train an older child till they are ready.