Man looks to the principles, but woman can perceive that truth which needs to be said when. It is important for women to place the love of a husband over the love of children. In Poland, men are left unloved very often. The love of a woman for her husband requires a greater effort, with grace, than that for children. But when there is mutual love among the parents, there is greater love toward the children.
Children are never jealous of the love of parents and are always unstable during a parental fight.
If the love between the parents is not real, then the parents become possessive of their children's love. Growth in love benefits from the mutual exchange. Saint Paul says that man and woman cannot live apart. The Talmud says that God didn't create woman from man's head or feet, but from his side. Love is the capacity to draw out the good from another.