Whatever it is, believe me, God is not sitting around not giving us a husband, just because. God is whole and so therefore He must give whole gifts. In the meantime, praise him for the husband who is coming. I'm sure you've heard, when the praises go up, the blessings come down. There is a beautiful thing that takes place in the waiting process.
Caterpillars become butterflies in the waiting process.
Seeds become flowers. Sinners become saints. Women become wives. Men become husbands. You may feel like it's winter, but as Ecclesiastes says, to everything there is a time and a season.