Remember that even though the atmosphere is a little crazier here, breaking up the place is NOT acceptable. This is not the movies. A crazy stunt or rowdy conduct will gain nothing except getting thrown out of the club and possibly a long night in jail. Contrary to what the media would have the public believe, gothic people are generally a quiet, non-violent lot. Also, since there are few places socially acceptable for them to inhabit, they generally all know one another and tend to take care of the places they do have.
Dance styles vary from club to club and theme to theme.
Remember that although the woman on stage may like being spanked by the man in a dress, she doesn t know YOU from Adam. The same logic applies here. The chances of stranger wanting you to tie them up and strike them, no matter how naked they may be, are slim to none. It would be like handing a helpless child off to the first person you passed on the street. Remember that racism and intolerance of any kind is deeply frowned upon.