It means deciding which rules are most important. Be firm about these rules. Clearly tell the children what they are to do. Show and teach them how to follow the rules. Your tone of voice, words and actions show that you mean what you say.
Children usually comply when adults are firm.
Research findings indicate that children benefit from knowing that a responsible person is in charge. Be Detached . Pretend this is not your group. Most of us can stay calm when we feel less personal involvement. Stay Alert .