We look to mates to provide a lot and our expectations should be reasonable. A good sign this is from God is that you will bring out the best in each other and have the desire to keep on trying even when times get rough. Lifestyle and Works - As mentioned earlier, life is a work. It involves work. A lot of people fall in love with a rock star or a doctor or an athlete.
Blood is thicker than water, meaning family relationships have powerful influences.
But it can also be misleading. Use the sound mind God gave you. If you can't, it may be a lying wonder sent for your destruction. Often in dating one will and the other won't. Or what can be a sign to one is not for the other.