The hour you spend with your child is not more influential than the hour someone else spends. Value time enough to spend it on your children. Children must learn quickly that they are not the center of the universe. Others have needs and rights as well. Self-restraint is essential to society.
Animals do what they want to do and what they are big enough to do with impunity.
Boundaries exist even where they are not recognized. Children need to have it deeply instilled that they are subject to irrevocable boundaries. Boundaries with no consequences are no longer boundaries. That one should design his own boundaries and be responsible to no one is anarchy. Self-control is the pinnacle of human existence.