All the help must be online. But online help can't sit on your lap and catch falling tears when things go wrong. What the heck. Decide to go for it anyway. Do the dirty work of real life.
Dinner is eaten.
House is cleared out. Wife and child are at in-laws. No one around to hear war cries, groans, and outright bawling that are sure to occur. Give a pep talk to the Comtrade. Offer to exchange various body parts for installation success.