Then some four weeks later the same person will be yelling, screaming, stomping and getting some more anger out. Until the thought is changed, never. Sometimes people just get tired of the pain. It is like building a callus over the thought. However, it is still there, and there are many other roads for the anger to get out.
Denial is the other unhealthy way to deal with the thought of pain.
The problem is the pain will always pop up some other place causing another disastrous neurosis. When we try to hide or disguise the pain as something else, it will be harder to find. Another technique that is utilized to deal with the thoughts that create anger or negative feelings is to change what you are thinking. You change the negative thought to a positive one. The problem is you have to remember all of the positive responses.