They let you know if they are unhappy with your behavior, but it is typically done in warm, friendly way so that arguments and hard feelings are generally avoided. Women from Asia appreciate a gentleman. These women do not scold you, and call you a male chauvinist when you hold open a door for them. They appreciate politeness and thank you for it. Women from Asia appreciate the way western men treat their women.
Asian men have a bad track records for the way they treat their women.
They expect their women to serve them, to carry the heavy bags, to walk behind, to take orders from him, his son, and his mother. Western men, especially American men have very good reputations. We are world famous for treating women with respect and consideration. These traits are very appealing to any women who receives your letters. Women from Asia value marriage.