But too often parents do not know what else to do. Spanking and hitting don't generally require much thought. Learning to discipline in more positive ways will take a lot of work on your part, but it will give you other choices that both feel better and work better. Following are some tips on disciplining in a positive way. When children know exactly what is expected of them, you'll have a better chance of getting good behavior from them.
Children begin to understand the idea of family rules around the age of two.
Limit the number of rules you set and keep them simple and easy to understand. Make sure you share with your children your reasons for having each rule. Establish what will happen when rules are broken. Make sure to involve the children in this process. Children need to be reminded.