When you want to change an unwanted behavior, it helps to first understand why your child is doing it. Temper tantrums are a normal part of growing up. They are part of a child learning self-control. Usually, they stop by age 4. To help you learn why kids have tantrums and for tips on how to avoid them, see the American Academy of Pediatrics page on temper tantrums .
Anger is an emotion that is caused by frustration.
Aggression means trying to hurt a person or to destroy property. It is normal to have some anger and aggression, and actually healthy. These feelings help us to get things done, when used in a positive way. But excessive amounts of anger and aggression used negatively and destructively may point toward an emotional problem. Get some tips on discipline and responding to an angry child .