Take classes together, read a new book out loud to each other, vacation in a totally different place, agree upon a spiritual practice to do together each day, volunteer together for a service project in your community. There is no limit to the outer and inner adventures you can share with your loved one. Perhaps most important is the risk to bring depth to your relationship. We recommend periodic couples counseling sessions even if you are having no obvious difficulties in your relationship. It's an opportunity to go deeper into your connection.
Couples retreats can bring healing and renewal.
Emotional honesty with your partner will bring deeper vulnerability. In short, we urge you to spend quality time with one another. You and your relationship are worth it. A Practical Guide to Growing Through Love , is now available in bookstores. 35 years of wisdom from their own relationship and 25 years of wisdom from helping others is distilled into 252 inspiring pages that will deepen your relationship to yourself and others.