As with any divorce, I find myself wondering who gets to keep the friends.
Community starts with a common language and grows from there.
His bride was someone I had had a crush on for quite some time. I introduced myself as a clean and sober lesbian hippie deadhead intellectual who cared about the environment. Perhaps that's why leaving the Grateful Dead scene has been so drawn out and painful for me. And all of this non-linear thinking has me wondering other things too. The difference between the reasons my mother gave for disliking Vatican II and the reasons others gave is simple.