Husbands, love your wives like Christ loved the church. Notice that poetically, the first lines of each of the sections addressing men and women are parallel. Wives, submit to your husbands. Husbands, love your wives. However, it could also be considered a restatement, which I suggest it is.
Christian love includes submission.
So when men are told to love to their wives, the poetic parallel suggests it means submit to them. In English, we get the wrong message from this verse. This is not saying the husband is the boss. The Greek word has only one meaning, the head on our shoulders. The relationship between husband and wife, like that of Christ and the church, should be as close as the relationship between a person's head and body.