Anger and aggression are normal for children. These feelings must be controlled and directed in acceptable ways.
Children have to learn how to balance their own needs with the needs of others.
Let your child know that feelings of anger are all right. Never hit your child when you are angry. It hurts them and it scares them. It also teaches them that violence can be used to solve problems. Hearing adults yell and scream in anger can be hurtful to your child.