They are often the focus of unwanted attention from boys and can become self-conscious of their body development. They typically do not enjoy the recognition from their early maturing age-mates and are clearly at a disadvantage in most sports. Their small stature creates a situation where they are treated as if younger. Girls who are late in maturing can be at an advantage because they are maturing at the same time as their male peers, and this can lead to the development of common interests. Comparisons with their female peers, however, can cause feelings of rejection and lowered self-esteem if the delay of puberty is significant.
Boys tend to acquire self-esteem by being viewed as capable and proficient in some sort of activity.
Self-esteem is really how someone feels about the unique talents and strengths that make them who they are. Generally, boys value physical activities and judge themselves by their physical skills. Simultaneously, the girls are influenced by the images portrayed in the media about the female body and are judging themselves by this standard. The development of high or low self-esteem depends on the degree to which the boy or girl feels he or she measures up to these standards. Generally, girls tend to focus on romantic fantasies and the expression of emotions as a way to become close to their male peers.