Lest you think that Provincetown pride began early in the 1960s, consider that this small New England town's current permutation is simply the latest in a long chain of discovery by adventurous world travelers. Throughout Provincetown's transition from American Indian settlement to gay playground, travelers have come to this small point of Cape Cod seeking religious and other freedoms. Plum's features smoke-free rooms, while Rose Acre is conveniently located on Commercial Street. Most activities in Provincetown involve looking at things and deciding if they float your boat. Go toward the Atlantic and turn right to find the girls.
Active types can soak up the sun with a volleyball game rather than a nap.
Don't forget to pretend the water is not cold. The outlying countryside also offers opportunities for hiking, horseback riding, and camping. Provincetown is certainly not provincial in its cuisine. If you manage to close the place, a final, traditional stop for the evening is Spiritus, a late-night joint that's open from noon to 2 a.m. and is famous for its espresso milkshakes. Women-friendly listings in Provincetown.