This same applies to horses. What you are doing is teaching resentment. Lee talked about how horses and humans are not that much different. We are all motivated by comfort. For example if you are sitting in the sun and geting hot, you will try to find shade.
Comfort is what horses are always looking for.
Lee is wanting to help build heart and desire in her horses. She believes in Ray Hunts philosophy that you cause the right thing to be easy and the wrong thing to be difficult. Her story to braing his home is about her asking he 2 teenage boys to take the trash out. She would only ask once. The one kid that got upand took the trash out did not have to do anymore chores for that day.