You can see the humor from our perspective, as we see you attempting to define even the veil. You have choice in all matters. All of your environment is a result of choice. Prior to each incarnation, you scripted contracts and set up lessons for yourselves. You asked people to play parts that set you up with the opportunity to repay, or accumulate karma.
All contracts are only potential contracts.
It is the choice that activates the contracts . All that you experience is a direct result of the choices you have made. Because you knew of this rule when scripting these contracts and because you are aware that the veil is very effective, all important contracts have back-up plans in place. Often you see these back-up plans in ways you would not expect. It is very often that a woman makes a contract to be a mother and role model for a little girl.