There really is a lot of work out there for those with the energy to find it and the skill and judgment to do it. Starting out won't be easy, but IF you get your head straight and work on the right things, there really is a good chance of achieving both personal satisfaction and financial security. Take a close look in the mirror while you consider the the following areas. You'll need a willingness to work with people, with all their faults and failings. You might not be real good at it, but you've got to be willing to try.
Clients are people, and the customer is always right.
The broader and more realistic your outlook, the more valuable your services will be to your clients. The best way to build that is through honesty, candor, and objectivity. Be willing to look first at yourself when searching for culprits, don't get greedy, and never, ever, lie to a client. Plan on working hard and long to get started. Finding clients takes time and effort.