This has to be done in a quick, sharp manner. During all of this, your child should be as vocal as possible. Yell and scream for all they are worth. A child needs to know they have the right to say no. At this time most parents will shudder at the idea of teaching a child to say no more than he already does.
Children have a right over their own bodies though.
They should always feel comfortable with any touch given. If they are not, then a child needs to know it is all right to say no. That he doesn t have to sit in Uncle Bob s lap or give goodbye kisses to Aunt Jane. Giving them this right lowers the chances of an acquaintance molesting them. It empowers the child by removing the intimidation of the possibly abusive adult.