The same rules of safety apply in cyberspace as would be used on a common playground. Rules for You Avoid Isolation Never put a computer online in a child's bedroom. Position computers that access the Internet in a public area. Supervise Occasionally read the messages your child is getting, and look in on chat activity often enough to make clear that there is no secrecy. The Internet is not a private place.
All material typed over a computer is broadcast to the public.
You aren't intruding on privacy because there is no privacy in cyberspace. Children enjoy the mystery of an alias but need concrete information to give when they're asked for it. Familiarize Yourself Participate with your child just as you would play with him or her on a playground. Be aware of the environment that will so consume your child's interest. It's not only your right, it's your duty to be involved.