But there is no lack of sensation on his part, the orgasms are as strong as before. I am more attentive because I know how fragile he feels and it is very important for me to be as receptive and loving as possible. Even if I am not in the mood, I would not object as I would have previously. This has helped our sex lives a great deal. The more we do it, the more we both want to do it.
Activity feeds on itself, just as inactivity does.
Prior to RRP our sex lives needed a spark and the loss of erections ironically provided it. He spent last summer undergoing two major surgeries, the kidney first, it being the most life-threatening. Both were found early and no further treatment was required. The lack of a hard penis really is NOT a problem for me. But primarily the greatest benefit would be the psychological relief afforded my husband.