You need to spend time thinking about your decision. Talk to your caseworker. Talk to your family or friends if you can. It is important that you feel comfortable about adoption if you plan on placing your child. Putting your child's welfare ahead of your own is an act of love and courage.
Adoption is very unselfish.
This is normal. Your caseworker will be there for you if you need to talk. Sometimes, seeing pictures and getting letters from the adopting family can help you through this process. All different types of women. Those of us who have previously worked in adoption worked with women ages 12 to 44, single and married, rich and poor, healthy, and very ill.