Be sure to say no immediately after you witness the bad behavior, and have fun with it. You don t want to come across as a meany, or your children may not respond as favorably. If they feel as if they ve been completely scolded, they ll be depressed and may not learn as well from the situation. You need to make it seem like good behavior is fun. Make a game out of good behavior and be playful about learning how they re supposed to act.
Children have a natural unwillingness to share.
This can be one of the most difficult character traits to teach a child. You want to begin teaching your child to share at an early age. Encourage your child to share whenever she s playing with a sibling, with you, or with another child. If your child is used to playing not just in the room with other children, but also WITH other children, that will make it easier to learn sharing. Another good way to teach good behavior and social skills to organize events to play with other children.