Children Driving the Relationship Apart. Even though we aren't together, every night we find each other, drink some drinks, go home, and make love. We can't live together and we can't live apart.
Adults have the right to live their own lives even, and especially, as divorced parents.
While it may be difficult for his children to accept the fact that their father is living with a woman other than their mother, it is his duty as a father to explain the situation to them and help them become more comfortable with it over time. If he is not willing to relate to his children as a parent, but will only cower and do as they tell him to, my advice to you is to go on alone. If he can do it, everyone will feel better for it, including his kids. Click on her picture for her bio. OR Questions may also be posted on her Relationship Advice Board.