But you see, the Scripture says that God will give you life and will give you life abundantly. We live in a distorted world and the distortion of this world oftentimes creep in on us and they move from issues of disappointment to issues of significant pain. It might be social pain - maybe you feel ostracized from somebody you've known and loved and appreciated. Maybe somebody that you thought you were going to spend the rest of your life with turned out to be somebody you didn't know very well. Maybe it's physical pain - pain that ought not to be there because it isn't right that your body not function the way it currently is functioning.
All pain is simply the result of a sense of loss.
You and I feel difficulties, we feel disappointed, we feel pain when we've lost something. If it's physical pain we lost that harmony that our body ought to function with. Its simply out of step with itself. If it's social pain we've lost a friendship, we lost a loved one. We lost a relationship that's very important to us.