We've only been married four months and all we do is fight. I can't believe things can start out so good and fall apart so fast. I'm totally miserable. When I got to work this morning, I looked up numbers for divorce lawyers. Most divorces happen in the first three years because our concept of marriage is built on a Big Fat Myth.
All couples disagree, all the time.
Even if you lived with your best friend, or your clone you'd disagree. If you get divorced and marry someone else, you'll also disagree with him. You disagree because you are two separate individuals. You will both continue to have opinions about everything till death, or divorce, do you part. And they'll be strong opinions because you care so much.