She's willing to pursue new interests. When challenges arise, she is able to work toward finding solutions. She voices discontent without belittling herself or others. She knows her strengths and weaknesses, and accepts them. A sense of optimism prevails.
Children are very sensitive to parents' words.
Remember to praise your child not only for a job well done, but also for effort. But be truthful. Reward effort and completion instead of outcome. Be a positive role model. If you are excessively harsh on yourself, pessimistic, or unrealistic about your abilities and limitations, your child may eventually mirror you.