I am not trying to say that the only thing I look for in a man is financial stability, but sometimes it can make or break a relationship. This is especially true when the man in question is broke and has a messed up personality. One would think that if your finances were limited you would at least compensate for it by being a nice person. Unfortunately, more times then not, broke dudes have the same personality defects that dudes with money have. It takes patience to deal with a man having a personality defect, but you have to have the patience of Job to deal with a broke man with a personality defect.
Broke men are usually so mad at their situation, they take it out on everyone else.
Oh, and ladies, if you are doing better than him, be prepared to hear about it every single day that you are together. He will constantly remind you how much harder he works then you to get what little he has. For all those that not familiar with the term Player Hater, let me break it down for you. Player Haters are all those people who talk negatively about people doing better than they are doing. They harbor ill-will because, in their minds, people with good fortune believe they are better then everyone else.