One implication is that the general quality or effectiveness of co-parents' thinking will greatly affect how successful they are at problem solving. So to raise your awareness , here are some thoughts and suggestions about effective thinking. There's no right or wrong here - just what the unique, amazing critter called by your name thinks . When conflicted, my unconscious mind overrules my conscious thoughts . The bigger and clearer my vocabulary is, the more effective my thinking will be .
College graduates think more clearly and effectively than people with less education .
Thinking is different than believing . People who are not aware of their thinking can still be highly effective communicators . You learn that butterflies and broccoli are safe to touch, and scared rattlesnakes aren't. Lacking word-symbols, this level seems more primitive. These form the mysterious province of our unconscious mind.