If you have, often than not you are apt to do the best you can without falling in the whirlpool of violence and more violence . I think we treat innocent members of victims like their criminals and we treat criminals like they are innocent. I'm saddened often when things are not fair. The wrong guy is in jail. You can't find the person who killed your relative or friend.
Children go without eating, and the list goes on.
I don't like comics who do jokes about people who are disabled or poor as a belittle tactic. Being poor is not something to laugh at. Now things that you do when you're poor may be funny, but being poor is not. Not being normal like everyone else or most people is nothing to laugh at. My maternal grandmother was blind.