If I could quit, I would. I started smoking at the age of 13. By the time I was 16, he was dead of lung cancer and I continued to smoke until I was 36. If you are to be an effective success coach for your girls, practice what you preach. Send them a message that's clear, consistent and honest.
All success is built on a foundation of failure.
Let your girls know that it's OK to fail. It's OK to take a risk. It's OK to try what they've never done before. It's OK to try what no one has ever done before. If they flop, fine.