I'm all for women wrestling. Not if they want to be on the team. In the match I observed, the girl did win. The boy was smaller, weaker and forever ruined among his peers. Usually, the results are otherwise, however.
Boys typically are stronger, and often the girls get hurt.
Everyone by now understands the need to allow girls equal participation in sports. Since 1972, Title IX has made it illegal to do otherwise. But pitting boys against girls in contact sports is an error in judgment that shouldn't need explaining. In our scrambling to manufacture laws of gender-proportionality, we've forgotten the more compelling laws of the jungle. The answer may lie in the increase in date rapes and the growing rate of violence against women.