If we don't trust them, they and their female companions will find each other elsewhere. But we can't really blame them if they don't. And then think of the interested, mainstream singles who will indeed associate nudity with sexuality because of their mainstream experiences. We know they will only really understand otherwise after they have a different kind of experience with us. We also know they are interested in building supportive relationships with each other.
AANR clubs are uniquely qualified to share the message that our sexual roles are complementary.
This is a message mainstream single men and women are ready for. We should be sharing this message widely. We can, if we simply reach out to do so. Women need better reasons to join than those we now publicize. We tell men and women that nudity is neutral as regards sexuality.