Those who renounce the Self deserve the name 'A Lover'. Rightful or sinful are all the same. Your heart is thwarted by the control of the Self. Destroy it's hold on you and reach your goal. The Self and Faith must both be tossed away.
Blasphemers call such action blasphemy.
Tell them love exceeds mere piety. When the body bows in worship, the heart is a temple, and where there is a temple, there bad friends are weeds. When a liking for bad friends grows up in you, flee from them and avoid converse with them. Root up those weeds, for, if they attain full growth, they will subvert you and your temple together. The gentleman is troubled by his own lack of ability, not by the failure of others to appreciate him.