This is metanoia. The task of the spiritual director is to be aware of God in her own life at all levels and thus enable the directee to be mindful of God in his. With this kind of attitude, all actions can become contemplative. We are not so much building the Kingdom as discovering it and creating it. Beauty becomes more valuable than productivity, depth becomes more beautiful than superficiality.
Chronos time becomes kairos time, the profane becomes sacred.
Chapter Four of Dunne's book is especially helpful in this area.