It's time for teenagers to stand up and let people know that they're more than dumb animals run amuck. It is possible to save our love for our eternal spouse. Abstinence, real abstinence, means not having any type of sex. And we're all smart enough, and honest enough, to figure that one out. It isn't, after all, rocket science.
Abstinence is the true love thing to do.
Anyone that tells us otherwise is inferring that we're not much more than mindless animals. If they do say no, then you know that they're not the right person for you, anyway. If they say yes, you've got them. Sex is the most intimate part of love, and isn't like a cheap handkerchief to blow one's nose into and casually throw in the trash. If you're not saying that, something's wrong.