Children should not feel extreme pressure to win. In some sports, such as football, hockey, and baseball, players are often encouraged to play and train too intensely. Coaches and parents should take a relaxed attitude about sports. A child's desire to please is strong. Tears and cheating are inevitable if children feel they must meet the expectations of many overly competitive adults.
Developmental pediatricians recommend guarding preteens from excessive demands and responsibilities.
A highly structured, competitive athletic program can rob a child of the essence of a carefree childhood. Although sports have much to offer children, they should not be pushed unwillingly into a sport. Parents and other adults need to take into account how children grow and mature. Differences in growth, ability, and desire, as well as physical and emotional responses to sports, should be respected. By visiting this site, you agree to the terms and conditions of our Visitor Agreement .