Some teens don't show a lot of interest in serious dating. They may prefer going to events in groups or may spend much of their free time in sports or other activities that leave little time for a boyfriend or girlfriend. But many teens do date, often creating some concern on the part of parents. However, parents can maintain some control over dating by establishing family rules before teens begin dating.
Boys are usually a year or two behind.
Small said a positive aspect of dating is that teens can learn more about how to develop close, intimate ties with a person of the opposite sex. Dating also is a way to help young people begin exploring what to look for in a mate. Dating also may be used as a way to demonstrate or gain status, which can result in superficial relationships and hurting others. And, often the biggest concern to parents, dating can lead to early sexual relationships and the consequences that can arise from those relationships. It may be tempting on the part of parents to forbid or discourage serious teen relationships in the hopes of sparing their child some emotional pain and reducing the chance of early sexual activity.