It requires the character traits of initiative, courage, openness, honesty and firmness, all with appropriateness and flexibility. The person who understands Godly assertiveness has a quiet confidence that supports a free, spontaneous spirit in social situations. When assertiveness goes too far and takes advantage of others, it becomes aggression. Aggression ignores the rights of others, attacks them and puts them down. It is destructive and hurts people, making them feel inferior.
Aggressive individuals are often defensive, and have few loyal friends.