Therefore, when you come to an impasse, either alone or as a peacemaker, tell each party that you need the help of others. Ask for suggestions as to whom each party would be willing to listen to for spiritual direction. Then call another meeting and proceed to the next step. It hasn't, proceed to Step 4. Examples are not always easy to recall in a short amount of time, but stick with it, the rewards will be more than worth it.
All sin has it's origin in pride, power and control.
Therefore, everyone is subject to similar experiences, though not in specific details. In either case, give appropriate time for recall and sharing. If this step cannot be fully completed to the satisfaction of all, then the one who cannot recall, share, or accept, should be confronted with his lack of insight, wisdom, and spiritual imaturity. A simple confession before God and others, with Godly Sorrow is enough. By now, a majority of the reconciliation process is completed and this step is a check point to be sure that all previous steps have been completed successfully.