Bringing the children up in the nurture and the admonition of the Lord is a huge task that too many are failing to accomplish. The word nurture is from the Greek word Paideia which means to train a child and includes instruction, correction, and chastening. The best discipline a child can get is to see the well-controlled life of parents. Freedom from screaming, accusing, fighting, backbiting, and two timing on the part of fathers and mothers is important to your children. Parents who are true to their marriage vows to one another is important to the children.
Children love both parents and they are most happy when the parents love one another.
The best thing you could do for the children is to swallow your pride, become humble, learn to get along with one another, treat one another right and stay together.