I sometimes wish I wasn't so darned emotional. Thanks for the ideas. If I take the kids and we leave - that's even more disruptive to them. Maybe you have some ideas here. Jan, I guess I think plan B is your husband watching you and children walking out the door.
Children are also very adept at sensing trouble between mommy and daddy.
Its not something you can shelter them from really. I think kids often blame themselves or wonder if it was something they did to cause these problems. You can take care of that with talk. You probably know far better than I do what Plan B is. It seems that you hope so.