Today we have women cops and firefighters risking and giving their lives for househusbands. Feminism is chaos. Godism is divine order. That is false patriarchy. The Andelins teach that God speaks in the Bible clearly for men to be good leaders.
Christians call it servant leadership.
Patriarchy is leadership. There is good leadership and bad leadership. The 20th century has become more and more feminist and marriages and families have gotten more and more worse. The Victorian era was better for marriages than the 20th century just as free enterprise was better for America in the Victorian times than the increasing socialism in the 20th century. Feminism and socialism go together.