But sending someone who views at least some of these practices as a pathology smacks of a setup. Yes, a lot of macho men are into the scene for the wrong reasons. A lot of submissive women are there for the wrong reasons too. People don't change just because they're wearing black leather. She doesn't have to like it, but the least she could have done was to check her prejudices at the hotel door.
ADD is a neurological disorder with a genetic link.
I 'd like to suggest that, with or without Ritalin, I know of many similar children who are much happier homeschooling in an environment where they really can be in control of their own lives. I've had it since I was a child and was diagnosed when I was 25. I don't know if I could hold down a career without Ritalin. Things like returning calls, paying attention to someone speaking to your group, or just completing a task are Herculean chores. I wish I had known that when I was trying to study in school.