Since that expierence, she is untrusting, shy, and very defensive when in comes to men. I think in general she has recovered, however something like rape is similar to a long term trauma that one may never recover from. Men and woman who have raped, because yes I feel women can too, are sick, mentally unstable, insecure individuals. This is partially due to the lack of evidence and support as to who was and was not consenting in a rape situation. In my personal experience, I feel that it is essential to communicate and tell your partner what you want, how to do it.
Communication makes it more fun and better for each partner.