Mate may love the dedication to work, even the successful image. Not enough time for relationship. Also the Three will put feelings on back burner, maybe indefinitely. Feelings get in the way of getting the job done. What we used to consider the Artist personality.
Attention goes to what is missing in life.
Something distant that will make me complete. What is here in front of me isn't quite it. Deep emotions are the only authentic truth in life. Difficulty with flatness of ordinary life. Intensity, bittersweet melancholy.