But in moderation. Mix your moves in with the dance so that it becomes and integral part of the dance. Then your styling serves to contribute to rather than detract from the lady. Then relax, keep your rhythm, and enjoy dancing with a great dancer. Having a good time .
Dancing is about having a good time.
It s hard to have a conversation with the loud music, so consequently facial expressions or the lack thereof tell a lot. Don t wear a face that looks like you just lost your best friend, are bored, hate being there, or would rather be getting a root canal. Great when it all comes together . Great lead is when these nine elements or so all come together. It will happen.