Tune out other distractions. Be a good listener and give all your attention to the other person. Make sure, too, that there is enough time to have the conversation. Work together to solve problems. Admit that neither of you have all the answers.
Chances are good that a mutual decision is more livable.
Keep the lines of communication open. Parents, don't pressure your teen to talk. Remind them that you are there whenever they do want to talk. Do the following activity with your parents. Print out or copy the table below.