Two people are too busy fighting to pay atention to what their fighting over and it got taken away. Those who are absent are always wrong. If someone's not there,then they don't know what's going on. To one who does not know, a small garden is a forest. Evil enters like a needlle and spreads like an oak tree.
Bad things start small and then they start to get big.
Unless you call out, who will open the door. Unless you ask for help, no one will know you need it. Confiding a secret to an unworthy person is like carrying grain in a bag with a hole. If you tell your secrets to a person that's not trust worthy, your secrets will be out in the streets. The fool speaks,the wise man listens.