Remain friends and lovers by setting aside time to play and be intimate together as adults. Be romantic outside the bedroom. Hold hands in public, give hugs and kisses that don't lead directly to sex. Praise and compliment one another often. Discuss and work through hurt and angry feelings so they don't go underground and ruin your relationship.
Accumulated anger kills love.
Be willing to act unselfishly and to please one another in the bedroom. Remember, your love is unique and special. Put your partner first-ahead of your career, hobbies and religious or community activities.