I wish I could tell each person who has ever been hurt by another's ignorance how sorry I feel. Your sentiments are noble. However, if you have done nothing wrong, it shouldn't be your responsibility to apologize. Write to Abby. For a personal, unpublished reply, send a self-addressed, stamped envelope to Dear Abby, P.O. Box 69440, Los Angeles, Calif., 90069.
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