If she puts her hands over her ears, she's heard enough for now. It's not your fault that some things are harder for you to learn than others. Your brain is like a radio with too much noise. We have to tune in the way you learn, just like we tune in the music clearly. It's like some wires got crossed, and they were plugged into the wrong holes.
Different things are just harder for different people.
Dear Rick, My son is an eight year old dyslexic in third grade. They will be learning cursive this year and I've been thinking about insisting that he not focus on that. My intuitive feelings are that if he spends the time working on printing letters, it will help him. Also, since I hope he will be able to use a laptop next year, I'd rather have him devote the time to keyboarding. Finally, I keep searching for a real good reason as to why script is important to master.