It is not the magnitude of our actions but the amount of love that is put into them that matters. If in some small way I touch one heart in a positive way my purpose for this website will be served. Having children makes it our responsibility to nurture their relationships and give them a loving and secure environment to grow up in. It isn't always easy being a parent but raising children is something we do have a choice whether to do or not to do.
Children dont have a choice and can only take the family life they are given.
One thing is for sure, without strong emotional ties between children and their parents it isnt possible at a young age to develop self worth and find peace in their tiny little hearts. No bonding or strong attachment in a family is cruelty to children. It leaves them in a world of loneliness. Always on the outside looking in. It sets them up for a lifetime of insecurity, no self esteem and emotional disorders.