The bachelors are all glad to meet the husband outside the home, but somehow they do not want to enter it. The truth of the matter is that they are both married folks now and the days of their single bliss and happiness are over. That is the normal relation between man and woman in adult life. That is what happens to them if the river of their life flows on, uninterrupted till it meets the ocean of maturity. If it stops before it reaches this point, the man or woman becomes a homosexual adult, which is a very different matter from homosexual boys and girls.
Adult life demands some definite physical exhibition of the sexual impulse.
There must be a definite love object, and thus the man picks out a man to love and the woman picks out a woman. There starts the tragedy, for this action precludes the home and children for both of them. In the study of auto-eroticism it was show that there was a time at which each individual life was composed of two sexes. It was also shown that at one time in the life of the fetus it was impossible to determine the sex, that it had sexual organs, but was neither male nor female. Later on, there was a predominance of the male elements, and the fetus turned into a male or the female elements grew faster, and the result was a female.