Punishment is something we do to our kids usually out of our own frustration at not knowing what else to do. Punishment is typically a knee-jerk reaction to misbehavior that has been allowed to go on too long. Discipline is designed to help, not hurt. Discipline is something we do for our kids in order to teach them self-discipline. Discipline is an expression of the love we feel for our children.
Discipline changes over time to meet the changing needs of the developing child.
Discipline is thoughtfully planned action that teaches children what is acceptable behavior, how to correct mistakes, how to make good choices and thoughtful decisions, and how to avoid problems in the future. Discipline accepts mistakes as an opportunity to learn. Discipline is most effective when it is provided by adults who model the behavior they expect. The more tools you have in your parenting toolbox, the better equipped you will be. Discipline requires a tremendous amount of self-discipline.