Even then, only one could speak at a time. Most modern day tongue speakers ignore this time and time again.
Confusion best describes most modern day meetings that promote speaking in tongues.
It is a well known fact that many women claim to have the gift of tongues today and preach and even pastor some churches. You may be assured that this is not of God. People who uncover their nakedness while claiming to be under the power of the Holy Spirit are surely not of God.