It makes them unsure about when rules apply. When parents always enforce good rules, kids know they should always obey. It helps children to see the results of their actions. A child who learns a skill will enjoy success. A child who says something unkind may upset a friend.
Discipline works best when it's done with love.
Parents should provide rules, responsibilities and consequences to teach children. Discipline works best when it's done with love. Parents should provide rules, responsibilities and consequences to teach children. Kids change as they grow, and so should parents' discipline methods. Your child may be ready to pick up all of his toys instead of just a few.