Since childhood, we have been taught good communication is important for establishing any type of relationship. We learned it includes talking but definitely is much more than just talking. Too many couples spend large parts of their lives talking a lot but don't feel they are really communicating. There also are couples that don't talk a lot but feel very close and connected to each other.
Communication is a means for exchanging intimacy with others.
It is a way to share and feel a sense of belonging. Good communication allows others to really know us and to provide appropriate feedback and support when we need. Communication is one of the greatest joys of life. To understand good communication, we need to think of the skills required. Some very lucky souls naturally know how to communicate well with others but most of us have to learn these skills.