But only when men use it to concede something to them. They're not too keen on the reverse. However, if you've learned anything to this point, you must be familiar by now with the old contradiction of appearance versus reality. Well. . . a lot of what she wants are things you likely want too. While you are only the Captain, you are not without influence.
Admirals understand prioritizing.
Impress upon her your eagerness to satisfy her needs. Together, compile a list of all she must have. Ask for permission to put your list of desired additions beneath hers. Make sure you have suggested TV, VCR, and diesel heater on her list, for her comfort and enjoyment. If you're really smooth, you will have successfully explained the safety needs of having a reliable autohelm, and laptop computer Visual Navigator program co-phased with your GPS, as well as Radar.