He will do the same. Ask if he has siblings, their ages, names, where his family lives, etc. It's just talking girl, no big deal. Give yourself positive mental messages instead of negative ones of failure and fear. If you need to, read a book or two on affirmations, and start doing them every day.
Affirmations are an amazingly effective way to change one's thoughts and expectations.
You gain control of your mind and thoughts instead of allowing them to control you. I have been with the same man for 10 years now and the stark reality is, I'm still not in love with him. Now after 10 years and three kids later, here we are. We both have successful careers, we're really nice people to others, people think we're a loving couple but behind the closed doors we absolutely hate each other. We can't go 1 hour without cutting each other down or hating each other.