Agape love is a love focused entirely on the other person. It is shaped after God's love for us. Agape love is not concerned about what one can get out of it for oneself. Remember, Christ was willing to empty Himself completely and let go of everything in order to bring eternal riches to us who had nothing. Agape love does not demand reciprocal treatment.
Agape love is very concerned about the well-being of the one being loved.
Remember, God wanted desperately to have us live wholesome and fruitful lives - here on earth and in eternity. You're never quite sure of the response you're receive. Read the gospels. See Him act there, out of love, for you. Do an inventory of your life .