Whether in physical threat or threat of vanishing, the permanent fear of violence locks us into seriousnes. The pre-possesion of our minds, our thinking this distorted geometry is all there is, requires us to play on the existing terrain. When we feel we have nothing, we exchange of packaged lumps experiences. We are left with a game we forget we are playing and are filled with desperation rather than excitement from relationships that are heavy rather than light. A dance on the margins becomes the main experiance of the dispossessed.
Alienation is the normal method of people relating today.
Whole lives are intwine with curlers or covered by mousse. Marriage is long term prostitution and prostitution is short term marriage. Since both relationships are fundamentally economic, lose all equality, spontaneity and play and follow the hierarchical violence of the commodity. The inability to actualize our desires in sex or in simply being together, comes from the constant externalization. The banality of personal obligation and economic obligation fuse.