He says he still loves me. Please give me some advice before it's too late. Dear Separated, Some relationships are better off ended. I advise you to let him go and be glad of it. He shows all the signs of being a habitual abuser.
All abusers are nice between the abusive episodes.
That's why women stay. They're hoping for more of the good times, and the good part of the man that they know is inside there somewhere. However, every time they get close enough to get the good part, they get the abuse too. Verbal abuse is just as bad as physical abuse. Verbal abuse can destroy your inner self, leaving you depressed and unable to cope with either him or life.