Boys are still taught to forfeit sensitivity for a 'mask of bravado,' say violence experts.
Elementary schools emphasize reading and restrict the activity of young boys, who are generally more active and slower to read than girls. Teachers often discipline boys more harshly than girls. Sensitivity isn't modeled to boys, so they don't learn it. Fathers tend to demand that their sons act tough, mothers tend to expect boys to be strong and protective and their friends enforce the rule that a boy doesn't cry. Boys hear confusing messages, for example, to embrace an androgynous sex role and yet not become too feminine.