Children are educated about right behaviors and attitude to their father. Also, he teaches hope and expectation in the future. Sometimes he becomes his son's friend. This means that father's role is very important in terms of the growth of his children. The strict father is not good for children.
Children sometimes needs father's soft characteristic.
The seventh norm Wife in the object position serves Grandparents. She usually has thankfulness and obedience to them. The sense of love by her to her Grandparents is better than husband. The exemplary attitude as wife and mother influences a lot her family. To serve Grandparents well gives children good lessons for the future.