The two pail system is great for 2 story houses with two changing stations. Don't put any water in your pail. It's not necessary and is a drowning hazard. You can sprinkle some baking soda in it if you choose. Plastic spatula for scraping the poop into the potty when stools are unformed.
Cloth wipes Wet- Changing a wet cloth diaper is just the same as changing a disposable diaper.
Just put it in the diaper pail. No rinsing or dunking is necessary. We suggest not using any wipes at all when changing a wet diaper. Just air dry baby's bottom for a few moments. Play with baby while air drying.