At the same time, an erotic lover wants to reveal everything to the loved one what she or he dreamed about last night, what happened on the bus today, how a second grade teacher embarrassed him or her. Erotic lovers usually report having had a secure and happy childhood and believe that their parents were happily married. If erotic lovers do not get jealous it is because they are rarely apart. There is thorough commitment. An erotic type can go quite comfortably without falling in love, sometimes for a long time, but when cupid strikes, it is hard, fast, and total.
Breakups are explosive and painful.
Erotic lovers initiate sex early in their relationship. It is always perceived as perfect, or becoming so, as indeed are all qualities of and experiences with the partner.