If you feel you could easily be replaced, things aren't so good. The third aspect is a bit of a spin-off of the last one, but it needs special attention. It stems from my second year at Gustavus, when a friend I hadn't seen in eight months called me out of the blue seeking advice. He had been dating a girl for about four months, and things were good. She mentioned a detail about an ex that my friend could have lived a full and happy life not knowing.
Currently things are good between the two, but it really, really sucked for a short time.
Some would say the problem was more in my friend than his girlfriend, as if he has some sort of psychological problem, but I think that most people would act similarly to the way my friend did. Well, if you made it this far, thanks for reading. I hope this at least made people think a little. I also hope to live according to my own advice a hell of a lot better than I have in the past. The Gustavian Weekly.