It will yield to the demands of others no matter what their quality or ambition. Not so with others who are simply in a natural parental love. We are never allowed to judge another's spiritual quality. The Lord alone can know this. We can, and must take a stand on moral and civil matters in life from a love of the common good.
Charity demands it.
Yet, we can do this out of love for the neighbor. We can act with justice, without malice, and with the desire for a good end. As far as possible, we must observe what is good in the neighbor, excuse faults or put a good interpretation on them. If we see faults, we can act in charity. Finding fault is simply a way of feeding our self-love if we do so from lack of charity.