So it is with grief. Mourning is grief s time of healing. Some of grief s shotgun pellets You may be wounded by all, most, or just a few of these pellets . Your grief is unique to you. Someone you love is gone.
Death is final.
The questions may come up. Initially you may feel nothing. Combat veterans are often surprised to discover their wounds following an action. Accident victims may become aware of their own injuries after they have cared for others. Men often describe their emotional feelings in physical terms.