Encourage them to join your church or synagogue youth group or other organized and construc- tive group activities. Help them to deal with the normal stress of living in our complicated world. Assure them often of your love and support. Parents often assume their children know they love them, but that's not always the case. Tell them frequently that you love them.
Cults offer love and companionship.
At the same time, assert your autho- rity as a parent. Many children turn to cults because they provide guidance, structure and authority that make them feel secure. Encourage critical thinking so they can rationally assess cult recruiters' claims. Ask teachers and counselors in your school to watch for and to keep you informed of any changes in these areas. Seek help if you feel it is necessary.