In the past, most of us have connected with others through our heart chakra. However, connecting through the heart usually involves also interacting with the sexual chakra. Rather than to continue acting out our old ways of connecting there is a new way to meet another person with all chakras, all levels. In addition, getting into a balanced male-female state also allows those around to find balance as well. By being balanced, we can witness more of what is happening in the relationship, rather than being pulled into the spiral of old dynamics.
Balance is found by moving our focus to the center point of our pineal.
Doing so allows us to perceive the other on all levels from our pineal point rather than our heart chakra. This change in our perception makes it easier to move from feeling based reactions in polarity into a proactive, state of choice. We will still stay connected with the other person, yet come from a place of compassion. We become more of an observer or a witness creating a safe space for another instead of a participant, taking every action of the other person personally. To maintain our balance while figuring out what is happening is very easy.