When you decide to become sexually involved with your girlfriend, you need to think through the issues. Condoms and other birth control methods do not guarantee that your girlfriend will not become pregnant. As a matter of fact, over a million young women in this country face unplanned pregnancies each year. The abortion procedure is generally over quickly but it is very important that all body parts are accounted for.
Complications can occur.
If you are not ready to be a father and commit yourself in marriage to one woman, you should wait to have sex. The pain you can cause to your child and a woman are very real, it happens everyday. Be responsible for your actions and exercise your self-control. The Ventura County Crisis Pregnancy Center is here for boyfriends. There are trained male peer-counselors that would love speak with you and help you understand all of your options.