It's what most couples do most often, but if that is all they do their sex lives will seem unfulfilled. Leisurely lovemaking lasts for 45 minutes to an hour and may need to be scheduled to fit into busy lives. This type of lovemaking could include showering together, setting a romantic scene with candles and lingerie, massage or a long session of teasing. Couples tend to do these things in early stages of relationships but allow them to become less frequent as time goes by. The wonderful thing about leisurely lovemaking is that although you may only find time to partake once a month, the feeling of intimacy will linger.
Adventuresome sex presents couples with their greatest challenge.
It removes them from everyday habits and adds a sense of risk and playfullness. It can be hilarious or erotic, but will bond the couple together like nothing else. In the next few weeks I will explain in detail and give examples of the different kinds of sexual play mentioned in adventuresome sex. In the meantime, remember to talk about new and exciting sexual turn-ons in an intimate but not sexual arena. Your partner will find it much less threatening.