We have also discovered that while it is impossible to completely monitor a child all of the time, children can learn limits simply by spending more time in direct contact with parents. Both my husband and I now look for ways to include our children in our chores instead. Though it may seem too time-consuming, it takes no more time and much more positive energy than frequent intervention in their negative behavior. The benefits are many. We can more closely monitor their activities and we can encourage their curiosity and exploration of their environment cautiously and constructively.
Consistency is most difficult when one is tired or rushed, but it is a key to problem areas.
They generally respond quickly to warnings. If they don't, minimal corrective action is usually sufficient. Not only do we receive compliments on their respectful behavior, more importantly my husband and I have found greater enjoyment having them with us at home and in public. When he was a toddler, I kept him safe not by keeping him away from dangerous things, but by introducing him to them under close supervision. With him in my lap, I would hold his hand firmly and give detailed explanations.