It is important for caregivers to recognize when children are angry, frustrated, possessive, or jealous and help them deal with and express their emotions appropriately. Adult modeling of appropriate behavior is a very strong teaching tool. Using positive guidance techniques and encouraging appropriate behavior helps children to develop self discipline. Appropriate limits and reasonable rules help children develop the self-control needed for cooperation. Children who learn to regulate their emotions may cope better with life's problems later.
Children can learn problem solving skills and decision making skills in many ways.
Using free play, with appropriate supervision, offers opportunities for social problem solving. Real problems that arise can serve as a natural way to guide children in meaningful problem solving. For additional ideas, refer to early childhood curriculum resources that have been developed especially to help young children develop skills in problem solving, cooperation, communication, stress management, resiliency, mental health, and other areas related to healthy social and emotional development.