They make adultery look attractive but it is devastating American families. He goes on to say how foolish it is to look outside of the marriage relationship for satisfaction. I suggest you get out you Bible and carefully read this passage in its entirety. Commitment means that your mate holds a position of honor in your life. That means there is a bond of sexual exclusiveness between you.
Complete commitment is the fuel that keeps the marriage warm.
I don't know what to do. The problem was tearing her and their marriage apart. That's what I call charitable communication. Words can be used like weapons. Job of old experienced this first hand and tells of the hurt misused words caused him.