There people who do not know how to ask for what they need. There are people who fall down and never try to get up. People want you to believe color doesn't matter. It shouldn't, but it does. The rightness of a decision is based on your ability to make it.
Decisions have power.
Decisions have force. The freedom from making a decisions can only come after we have made it. If you make a mess, clean it up. If you are afraid to take a chance, take one anyway. If you've done things that didn't work, do something else.