Change your mind if you believe all physical contact must lead to sex. Practice being attentive. Take your partner' s feelings, ideas and opinions seriously. All said, Zilbergeld believes men need to balance sensitivity with assertiveness. Since the 1970s, some men perhaps internalizing the Alan Alda male ideal over the Burt Reynolds image have become too timid, too careful, he says.
Balance is key.
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