The third point is to develop several possible solutions before making a decision. Adhering to this point avoids premature closure which, while it may avoid the tension of the conflict, will compromise effective resolution. This may take more than one negotiating session, giving family members an opportunity to consider the merits of each option without undue pressure from other family members. The final point is to insist that the resolution is based on objective criteria. Doing so gives family members the opportunity to look to a standard other than their own power or opinion.
All families have Conflict, particularly if there is at least one teenager in the household.
Learning to resolve their differences and conflicts amicably is important for families. It will help negotiate the sticky issues of family living, and teach children and adolescents a skill which they will be able to use in all areas of their life.