This also inhibits their ability to develop their own standards of performance. They become confused, not knowing what is really good. Parents should keep in mind that they are not the only judges of their children s performance and ability. Children have to be taught to live in the real world. In school, their teachers and peers constantly evaluate children.
Children are also perceptive enough to judge their performance against that of their peers.
In such a situation, constant and indiscriminate praise from parents can have an adverse effect. Such parents disappoint their children because the children feel that while they are striving to better themselves, their parents are content with the status quo. Accurate assessment of children s abilities and giving constructive criticism is the best approach. Do not discourage children from setting high standards for themselves. But be around to encourage them if they are dissatisfied with their achievements.