A person who can make you laugh is undeniably attractive. There are so many other qualities that make people attractive and what I find interesting, another person might think deadly. That difference is what makes attraction so wonderful and so unique. The fact that I really like a quality in a guy that another girl may not, that propensity to sing from the Beatles' repertoire, for example, makes me who I am. It makes each relationship I have different from the next because perhaps I found a little part of me in another person.
Attraction is like a dance.
The rhythm and the steps are sometimes unknown, yet we dance to the music as if we were born doing so. Someday, my friend will realize her god has clay feet and she will move on to another dance, and another man. We will continue to circle around each other in the way I think only humans can. It is not about what society tells us is attractive, or what we are supposed to find interesting, it is about those unknown intangibles that draw us together. The mystery is what makes life interesting and it is what makes me say, lead me to the dance floor.