Birth order is one factor, an important factor, in determining the nature of a marriage.
It can help determine whether the relationship will be difficult or harmonious, whether the couple can work together, whether they can communicate with each other and to what extent and how they will make decisions. Before we can look at birth order in marriage, we have to determine the psychological birth order, which may be different from the chronological birth order, of the couple. The following can be used to discover the birth order. Identifying Your Psychological Birth Order To determine your birth order, decide which of the following T-shirt sayings most nearly describes your personality as others see it. If in doubt, ask someone else to identify your T-Shirt.