Change is a constant for young adolescents. Children differ from their previous and future selves. They are often overwhelmed intellectually, physically, socially, and emotionally by developmental changes. Suddenly, everything goes out of focus. Many formerly good-natured children become irritable.
Cooperation can turn to power plays and struggles over simple tasks.
In other words, they suddenly think differently, look differently, act differently, and, well, cry a lot. If you are a parent of a child in this age group, you may recognize some of these behaviors. Don't worry, it's a normal part of growing up and they will grow out of it. Even if you know it's coming, early adolescence can be a frustrating and anxious time. Children can be successful during these years of early adolescence.