It shows that if you can find the good in a bad situation, it might not be such a bad situation after all. To be able to think outside the box, and find the good in a situation is a talent that is admirable in anyone, whether you're gay, straight, or otherwise. Also, thank you so much for your words of praise. Dear Gay Guy, I recently bought new furniture, I spent a considerable amount of money, However when I got the furniture home, it kinda looks like a dental office, there is no personality to the room whatsoever - Perplexed in Pasadena Dear Perplexed, What gives a room personality is accessories. Add small knick-knacks, or Tchotchkes to the room to personalize it.
Color is also of major importance in making a room come alive.
Use vivid colors in floral arrangements, art, area rugs , or wherever appropriate. Dear Gay Guy, I recently purchased new carpeting for my home, it is a light color. I am having a party next weekend, and I'm getting very nervous about someone spilling red wine on my carpet. I have a great way to get fresh stains off carpets. This will only serve to mash the liquid into the fibers of the carpet and make the stain worse.