We finally have mechanisms in the justice system which will collect child support from those who can pay at the appropriate level and recognizes that some non-custodial parents have no means to pay. Many readers will be able to add to this list from their own experiences. The list is not meant to be exhaustive but the spirit of these suggestions is what will make the access work to the benefit of the children. A child can just take so much PAS before he rebels and decides to go try life with the other parent. Just as the Court awarded custody to the custodial parent in the first place, based upon it's assessment of her responsibility, the custodial parent will have to continue to show that same responsibility daily when dealing with the non-custodial parent.
Custody of children is a big responsibility and part of that responsibility is ensuring access.