The three sons and their wives and 6 of the 7 grandchildren were there - only Ben, the second oldest, unable to get away during freshman year finals at Emory University was missing. The three sons also contributed their thoughts.
All people deserve respect.
An honorable man is trusted, and a trusted man must act honorably. Honor is hard earned and easily spent. Tactful honesty usually works. Self-interested dishonesty cannot truly benefit. Knowledge is never wasted, and satisfaction of curiosity is its own reward.