If you get stuck, ask or hire someone to help. Forgive as much or more than you would like to be forgiven. Sometimes forgiveness is a gift you give yourself, especially when you do not feel like it. Forgiveness can release you from the pain of the offense. Celebrate what you want to see more of.
Appreciation can go a long way.
Listen to the heart more than you listen to the words. Focusing on the heart behind the words can lead to resolution of conflict and to taking care of each other. Don't be a Darren Stevens. In the old sitcom ''Bewitched,'' Samantha merely had to wiggle her nose to make incredible things happen. Darren was always trying to get her to stop using her magical powers.