I wanted to describe the amount of frustration I have in bringing another point of view to others. These difficulties often come hand in hand with paradigms but such a difficulty does not mean a paradigm. Sorry to disappoint. I don't think we have a paradigm. One of the greatest mistakes we could make is to believe we have discovered something new.
Children are great mimmics and love to copy e.g. mum or older kids.
As soon as our 5 year old picks up, say, a mop, the 20 month wants to do it too. Not only that, but attaching a new cloth to the mop requires skill, and when the older child changes a cloth, the younger one follows. But not perfectly, so the older child helps. This is something kids love to do. Help each other.