It means getting in touch with the emotional state of the child. Once you have done this, then it means doing something to let the child know that you understand. This can be done by actions, decisions, the touch of a hand or a hug as well as with words. To have his creations, his ideas honored and accepted You can do this by reflecting back to him what he has just said, either in the exact words or the same ideas. It means hanging his artwork or stories on the refrigerator.
Children see through false praise immediately.
What the child says to himself is far more important than the words you use. Something to look forward to Actually, this is a basic human need and is healthy for the entire family. Plan activities that you know will please everyone even something as simple as reading a story together or making a special dessert. The important thing here is to make sure that you follow through on your promises. Some children come into this world knowing how to relate to their peers.