In fact, some prayer circles exist not to change reality, but to embrace it. The group is composed of women of varying ages and faiths - some who attend a church or synagogue, and some who don't. Naparstek says prayer circles provide a form of community worship that may be lacking in the lives of those who belong to no formal religion. Many formal religious services, Naparstek says, don't provide an opportunity for someone to ask for help with a painful life situation they may be facing. The argument over whether it's better to pray singly or in groups has engaged theologians for centuries - with no conclusive outcome, Dossey says.
Current studies do show, however, that no one method of prayer works better than any other.
What matters most, Dossey says, is that people pray authentically, with love and compassion. Due to Buddhism's growing popularity, it is a technique widely practiced in many places these days, she says - even by the minister of the Unitarian Church in her hometown of Montclair, New Jersey. For those who face the new year with feelings of despair, or who are ill, or who are troubled by global tragedies, joining with others in prayer can help bring healing balm to troubled souls. It may even help the world become a better place.