Learn Effective Communication. Increase your feeling word vocabulary. The more accurately you can indentify your feelings, the more likely you are to effectively express them and get the associated needs met. Learn the steps for problem solving. Court Each Other .
Couples often complain that over time their relationship has become routine and boring.
This is typically the result of failing to continue the art of courting beyond the wedding ceremony. The desire to be courted is not extinguished with marriage. Spend some time remembering the kinds of things you did to attract one another in the first place and start doing them again. Time together does not have to occur away from home or be expensive to be satisfying. Participate in Marriage Enrichment Activities .