I was sitting on a chair rubbing my feet when James offered to rub them for me. Um, how nice. Suddenly I felt as though I had no personality from my ankle up. I sat back and started to analyze the dynamics. He was so enraptured by the fact that I gave him permission to touch my feet.
B eing a submissive carries a lot of physical, mental and sometimes even spiritual power.
The rules between a dom and a sub are complex, with an extremely high degree of trust, which takes years to build. Subs acquire power by giving their power away. However, in this situation I held James' power. In a bizarre sense, he trusted me with a part of himself. I became the Dom.