Respect is another important quality, and develops in much the same manner as does trust. Adults who succeed in creating a relationship with children, a relationship rich with trust and respect, are more likely to maintain a strong and healthy bond than adults who convey a feeling of betrayal. Estimates vary, but an aggregate average reveals that approximately three percent of Americans are adoptees. Furthermore, anywhere in the US approximately eleven percent of the population is a member of a triad. In this example, members of the triad include the birthmother, the birth father, and the adoptive parents.
Anger is demonstrated most often by the adoptive parents.
I am an adoptee who discovered my status at the age of twelve. Immediately, a feeling of rejection overwhelmed me. I confronted my adoptive parents regarding my friend's statement and was told that he had told me the truth. My adoptive parents spun a tale, asserting that my mother did not want me. I was forced to hear about an irresponsible hussy who was not suitable to be a mother.