It will probably be pushed back at you. However if you are cooking than you can quite reasonably expect someone else to lay the table and do the washing up. Beds and Bedrooms As soon as the children are old enough make them responsible for making their own beds and tidying their own rooms.
Bedding Use duvets and fitted sheets.
These will make laundry and making simpler Extra Work Do not make extra work for yourself, don't iron underwear, towels, sheets. There is no need. Buy clothes made of fabric that wash easily, easy to iron and drip dry. Don't bother peeling some vegetables before cooking them. Whenever I am trying to find out how to do something.