Feelings of grief happen many times, not just when someone dies. It is important that children be able to talk about losses in their lives, whether it be the loss of a loved one, a pet, a tooth, a loss due to divorce, an illness, a move, a friendship or a child's dignity and respect.
Children grieve what they miss and want back, and their grief is as individual as it is for adults.
Whatever the loss, help them to express their feelings. Listen with your heart. Don't be afraid to cry with the bereaved. Suffering a loss at any time is difficult. A more intense sense of loss is experienced by those facing the holidays.