It's no different than someone who is an overeater who goes to Weight Watchers and learns how to say 'no' to that extra slice of chocolate cake. Vaughan said blunt talk between mates about extramarital temptations weaken the affair's lure. Secrecy only empowers temptation by allowing it to evolve into titillating fantasy. Actually it is too dangerous to NOT talk about it. The cheating spouse, however, is not alone in examination, said Farrell, a former researcher for New York City's Mt. Sinai Medical Center.
Chances are the relationship is lacking significant elements on both sides.
People forget that marriage needs to include the element of friend. This is the person that when everyone else fails you, you can come to them, you can always depend on them. Opinions expressed are not necessarily shared by members of the Coalition.