If so, then Jesus is not fair. If Jesus was fair, and we believe He is, then He would make available something to us that He made available to Christians 2000 years ago. The Catholic Church holds to the belief that this power and authority was passed down. There is a very human need to open our heart and unload our burdens with another person-one who will keep them secret forever. We get the benefit of counsel from an objective and experienced priest to help us avoid sin and grow in holiness.
Confession is a sacrament and all sacraments give grace.
We all need to hear those words. That feeling of certainty.