Q. My boyfriend, whom I loved very much, left me two days ago. I'm amazed that you could manage to make it to your keyboard.
Breakups are terrible, and the first few days are usually the worst.
The most important thing you can do to help yourself recover is to focus your efforts on you, you and you. Also, feel free to indulge in the silly, happy-making stuff that you would never dream of doing otherwise. I bought bottles and bottles of vitamin supplements that I had no clue what to do with. And time does heal. They say that the first week of a breakup is the absolute worst, the first month is really, really hard, and the months after that slowly get easier and easier.