Accepting and understanding others' opinions is a necessary step in nonviolent conflict resolution. Distinguishing between patriotism and opinion can be helpful. One can disagree with a cause or action but still believe in the right to have arms or feel it is important to defend a country. The manner in which issues are resolved is separate from one's allegiance or personal beliefs. Don't dismiss a child's fears.
Children can feel embarrassed or criticized when their fears are minimized.
Exploring the issues and positive ways of coping help children master their fear and anxiety . Maintaining routines and structure is also reassuring to children and helps normalize an event and restore a sense of safety. Having a personal relationship with someone in the area of conflict or target of terrorism can cause additional particularly troubling feelings. When a friend or relative is involved in a traumatic newsworthy event others often search for information. It is advisable to find the most reliable information source and filter out both the quantity and quality of the potentially inaccurate news provided to the general public.