But, thankfully, there is a grassroots abstinence message gaining in popularity. You are special, for you are created in the image of God. Sex is not an animal act, and you are not an animal with animal instincts. You have the God-given ability to control your actions. You can choose to remain pure and chaste until you take the vows of marriage with that special person God has chosen for you.
Christians are to be morally and sexually pure.
It suggests refraining from all acts or thoughts which incite desires that confict with one's virginity or marital vows. It stresses restraint or avoidance from all sexual actions that would defile or cheapen oneself before God. Sexual intimacy is to be reserved for marriage. This union of two becoming one is physical as well as spiritual. Nevertheless, to avoid fornication, let every man have his own wife, and let every woman have her own husband.