I personally think that if we don't change the borders, no solution is possible. Let's start with John's. Wars never solve anything. Hatred lives on. Negotiation is the key to world peace.
Dialogue leads to understanding.
I'll tell you who won, John. The Serbs are leaving. The refugees are going home. The Serbs lost thousands of troops and civilians, their country was bombed into the 1950s, they lost all but symbolic control of Kosovo and they won't get a dime of international aid until Slobodan Milosevic is hanging from a lamppost. NATO lost exactly four aircraft and two pilots, controls a chunk of Serb territory that Milosevic said he would never relinquish and, in the end, maintained diplomatic support from virtually every country on the planet except China.