You cannot by-pass, skip over, or get around grief. You have to go through grief in order to release it. Friends and family, although well-meaning, soon become bored and uneasy with your constant moaning and whining. They get frustrated when they have offered you their opinions and advice, and you chose to not follow it. Unfortunately, some people going through a painful breakup will seek for temporary solutions to kill their pain.
Depression is also very common.
Recovery shouldn't be yours alone to handle. Counselling, therapy, and recovery groups are available to help you. Our very own Circle of Hope is a great recovery support group that connects you with others who are either going through the devastation of a breakup, on the road to recovery, or well past the bridge and have happily and thankfully fully recovered and moved on. The Circle of Hope will help you along the way, pointing out and identifying rough bumps on that road and holding your hand all the way. The Circle of Hope is available to you as encouragement throughout your troubled times, and as a life-long friend forever after that.