You say that we're supposed to try and follow God's instruction. But if every Christian was condemned that didn't follow His commands to the letter, there would be nobody in heaven with Christ. Your argument does not hold water. God views us all as equally sinful, and ALL of those who believe in His son and His sacrfice and do not add to or take away from that are saved by the grace of God. We all sin after we're saved, that is unavoidable.
All sins are equal other than the unforgivable.
We are as equally bad as them. This discussion continued here.