Communicating with your child in his teen years, is an aid to change your relationship into one of guidance, instead of absolute control. Make time to talk with your son. Tell him that you would like to have lunch with him and discuss some important subjects. Let him know that you respect his privacy, but that you must establish honest communication. Show him that lying will not get you off his back, but honest discussion will.
Curiosity is normal.
Seek to understand the true nature and motivation for your son's behavior and use this event as an opportunity to create discussions, rather than avoid them. You should not rely on this information as a substitute for personal medical attention, diagnosis or hands-on treatment. If you are concerned about your health or that of a child's, please consult your family's health care provider immediately and do not wait for a response from our professionals. Inc. Legal Disclaimer. You should not rely on this information as a substitute for personal medical attention, diagnosis or hands-on treatment.