There are disadvantages, however, to using general language here. It can lead to confusion and lack of focus in group process and some people may experience theological language as a barrier to participation in the program. Early in recovery it is sometimes difficult to see the full extent of the unmanageability of our lives. Some of us continue to function at high levels in our careers and can appear successful. But the truth will eventually be made clear.
Addictions are progressive illnesses.
We find ourselves using more, using more frequently or using with more negative consequences as time goes on. This is because addictions are inherently unsatisfying. They do not satisfy us. They only lead to a longing for more. It is this lack of satisfaction that leads us to build unmanageable lives - lives devoted to things which can never satisfy.