Take easy, gentle, deep breaths. Allow your shoulders to droop. Sigh as you exhale. If it feels like fun, make sexy little sounds. Continue looking into your lover's eyes.
Breathing helps the body to relax and to awaken at the same time.
Touch your partner's face. Take your hand and lightly touch his cheek. Trace the outline of his jaw. Trace the outline of his lips. When his fingers pass your lips, lightly lick them.