Scolding or criticizing your child in front of others demonstrates a lack of sensitivity and respect. Through your daily words and actions, let your children know that they can't be replaced, that each one is very special to you and that you love and value them. Think about what you're saying to your child. This is because these behaviors are less tangible and don't leave visible scars on children's bodies. However, they often leave deep and hurtful scars on children's minds and on their self-esteem.
Children can be emotionally and psychologically crippled by a consistent pattern of emotional abuse.
Parents are only human and when these behaviors are isolated incidents, while regrettable, permanent damage does not usually result. Nevertheless, these behaviors are abusive and harmful to children. Name calling or profanity directed at the child. Put-downs and ridicule. Demeaning the child in front of others.