You will have time to smile, to play with them, to read to them. People will brag about what good kids you have, and you will smile even more. Your kids will brag about what a fine Mother they have, and you will getyounger. It's worth it to you to train the kids. Secondly, and by far the most important, the children benefit from being trained.
Children have a developing conscience.
They are making judgments about themselves, about how they are doing. Many children look into their parents' faces and know that it is useless to even try further. It doesn't matter, I can't do anything right. I am a bad person. Nobody likes me.