He wrote out a resignation letter, but we both agreed that he should job hunt first. There are some employment law issues that he needs to get up to speed on. All of this should have been done months ago, but at least he is finally doing something in a positive mode. Seems like little things that were just not an issue have been grating on my nerves. But he goes to Canada tomorrow on a three day trip.
Absence can fostor a desire to be together.
I have pulled out some things I wrote to my self months ago on why I wanted to make this marriage work. Reading them over helps. The Lessons Children Learn. How the Co-dependency Movement Is Ruining Marriages. How to Find a Good Marriage Counselor.