Welcome Dr. Jeff. Thanks for joining us again today. We are ready to take our first relationship question. It takes much commitment, much faith, a lot of understanding and a whole lot of love. It is absolutely worth the risk of possibly being hurt because part of that communication is discussing any feelings of possible hurt.
Communication is the key.
However, I think that many boys are raised to always be first in what they want with regard to their needs. It is up to us as parents to resocialize our boys and girls so that there is equal time for getting those things that make us happy. In all seriousness, it takes a multi-faceted woman to keep a man happy, focused and interested. This means intelligence, personality, humor and sexuality. What helps to build trust and communication is what we spoke of earlier and that is being able to speak to one another at any time and making sure the door is open to discussing whatever is on your mind, positive or negative.