The grief of fathers for sons is a very special Hell. Fathers who lost sons to suicide live out an especially exquisite agony. And they wonder why we don't like to talk about it. I am angry because of how my son came to die. My anger is a normal response to the nature of my loss.
Anger is characteristic of male grief.
Anger is something that grieving fathers and those who love us must deal with. Anger is a serious and misunderstood issue of paternal grief. Anger is a healthy emotion. It is not the same thing as rage and violence, but it can lead there. Anger is not necessarily unhealthy, but repressed anger certainly is.