Her behavior changes. She becomes forgetful, develops unexplained bruises, and calls her children at odd hours. Eventually her family recognizes that Phyllis has an alcohol problem and intervenes. Through Phyllis' story, viewers learn about alcohol abuse in later life, the signs of an alcohol problem, available helping resources, and how to intervene. Through the lives of Ethyl, Claire, Sara, and Norman, viewers learn about the impact a change in living arrangements can have on an older person.
Discussion focuses on living arrangement options and factors to consider in making housing choices.
The caregiver's health is at stake when Alyce provides 24-hour care for Ernie and refuses help and respite. Alyce becomes isolated and loses her health, relationships and interest in life. Guidelines are suggested for making care giving decisions and reducing stress for the caregiver. Six months later, when he experiences additional losses, his pent-up grief explodes. Through Bill's story, viewers learn about the grief process, the impact multiple losses can have on an older person, and ways to support the bereaved.