Hopefully it can be useful to fellow activos. To get this straight from the beginning, I'm not going to complain about it. We were all children. Sometimes we cried. Things hurt us and we couldn't do anything about them.
Adults are no longer children, mostly.
They try to comfort and do something about what hurts crying children. There is also a culture of complaint among adults. This can be deserved. Something may be wrong and stand a chance of improvement if someone else hears about it. I'm unaccountably sick.