In spite of common single mother stereotypes, you know, the irresponsible teen, or the zoftig woman, slumped on a sofa, eating bon bons and watching Jerry Springer, most mothers heading households are actually very dignified. I've talked with many, young and old, some with newborns, others whose kids are in college and some graduates even helping to raise grandchildren. They all possess this matriarchal dignity, a quiet power that was rarely seen in the mothers in my days of growing up. Another mom on welfare dresses impeccably when seeing her caseworker. With make-up and a simple, polished look, I rarely feel intimidated.
Dignity can have a look, an attitude, pride, or simple or elegant presence.
Matriarchs are back. Matriarchs are in. Confidence Being self-assured is a valuable trait for anyone, but it's a pretty big asset for a single mom. Because you get to make many decisions without input of another adult, you need to feel in control. But having confidence alone isn't enough.