I am thankful every day for my new life. There is more happiness now in one day of my life than all the twenty-five years I spent in that lifestyle of treachery and deceit. The first issue I would like to address is that there is no one, no matter if they have had a sex-change operation, or have lived crossed dressed for years that cannot change. Change is available to every person struggling with homosexuality. There are no special classes of inverts and perverts.
Any motivated person can change.
Age may play a factor in motivation. He has seen all the aspects of the lifestyle and it no longer holds any mystery for him. By 40, many are ready and willing for change, they are completely disillusioned with the lifestyle. The unmotivated homosexual cannot change, so not all homosexuals can change. There are unmotivated homosexuals, a high percentage of them, but this does not mean if they find the motivation that they cannot change.