With One Hand Tied Behind Your Back To do a quick switch in thinking, start to see any obstacle as a friend. Partner with your challenges to move proactively towards your goal. You'll find yourself relaxing into the moment and getting rid of stress. This is the means to find a better choice than the one you are currently considering. It's the opportunity to discover that life has a much better way than you could ever think up on your own.
Any new challenge thrives on the environment as it currently exists.
Imagine one of those big glass domes built to contain a carefully balanced ecology. Every factor has been set to a standard condition. These factors affect temperature, humidity, light, soil, plant and animal life. Change the conditions and the ecology must also change. So build a new set of conditions around your obstacle.