Try to talk them through. Family and friends are only too pleased to listen and support you while you think them through and move on. After a few weeks, you will need to see colleagues from your deployment to cope with the incomprehension of other people. Partners, who often feel alienated after the homecoming, can also contact partners of other veterans for mutual support. There is an awareness of the problems faced by families after an operational tour.
Agencies exist that can help with family problems faces by soldiers returning home.
If you are concerned about family problems you should seek the advice of your unit medical officer or private doctor. Do's and Don'ts after End of Tour Do not bottle things up. Try to discuss concerns as they come up. Do not try to avoid thinking about experiences from your tour. Do not isolate yourself.