It has to be this way, as it is by means of such pre-conscious structures that each mind builds its conscious thoughts. When the child reaches adult life, he or she will use these destructive schemas with his or her spouse and eventually with his or her own children. Also, these schemas are likely to be used with his or her friends and professional associates. Even worse, these destructive schemas and effects are passed on from generation to generation. For example, a girl-child who feels hate and fury when her new sibling is born, is likely to feel the same way, as an adult, when her own children are born.
Children are emotionally quite perceptive.
A child that feels that even his own mother doesn't love him or her, will in turn have difficulty in forming loving relationships. What actually happens is that he feels an inexplicable but irresistible compulsion to hurt and diminish certain women. Parents that harbor such subconscious hate and fury may also express these in various forms of child abuse or neglect. Even when the problem is serious, its effects may not become clearly apparent until the children reach adolescence. This means that this problem may exist for many years within the family without the parents becoming aware of it.