The godly person makes the kinds of decisions that are right and noble. He does not take an easy path simply to avoid either pain or trial. Brotherly kindness . We're to come down from our theological ivory towers and get involved in helping others in the trenches of life. We need to make room for other people in our lives.
Charity is simply Christian love.
It's the one virtue that surrounds and unites all the others. L - listen. We need to listen to other people. O - overlook. We need to overlook other peoples minor faults.