You may be blaming yourself for the gambler's behaviour, leading you to feel very confused. Wanting receipts for shopping etc does not work, and often makes it worse - the gambler tends to increase their scheming activities. Recognising if it is an Abusive Relationship Domestic violence comes in many forms. Having to constantly account for the other's whereabouts. How to Respond Use planned caring confrontation instead of explosive responses Stating what you want too strongly, by screaming and being pushy, puts people off.
Compliments actually work wonders in the heat of an argument.
Expressing positive regard for someone during a conflict makes it much easier for the person to open up to your ideas. Sometimes a written dialogue can help you to handle the situation. Discover your weak points by discussing it with a friend or someone skilled in communication. Nobody is to blame for somebody else's gambling behaviour. The only reason a gambler wants to gamble is because they want to.