Doesnt misrepresentation of Biblical truth take some respondsibility for this disintegration or is it simply it's judge and jury. I ponder this often. I wonder if the big deal about sex is a smoke screen to something more important and fulfilling than the physical. This seemed to be God's message when I studied his word without prejudice. Perhaps it is the much needed message not to use sex as a vise or escape, but simply for what God intended.
Christians seem pretty quirky on the subject.
I just sense there is a message behind the message. Much as the majority of Gods word. Sex outside the bond of marriage is not permitted at any time according to the Bible. It is a general term that refers to sexual immorality and does include sex outside of marriage but, as you rightly point out, can include hiring prostitutes and other sexual sins. The spiritual dimensions of marriage have also been relegated to the sidelines it seems.