Other skaters are sometimes made to feel that they are not special.
All skaters have their own special qualities.
The mothers and coaches of these chosen ones should perhaps realize that. You child can sucseed but they won't be happy is you don't let them be a kid. Kids who have respect for other skater often. Having seen this happen in my club it makes me feel very sorrry for some of these children. Skater A may have a different goal than Skater B, but it is not any less important.