There should be no stigma attached to seeking help, whether it is from friends, your Tutor or Director of Studies or Chaplain, the Counselling Service or any other group. It may take courage to ask, but little can be lost by doing so. Finally, depression should not be seen as a completely negative thing. It may be part of being sensitive in a demanding environment, or a natural part of growing up. Although the people around you are important in a crisis, it is only you yourself who can decide if you are going to come through.
Depression is a traumatic experience but it is never hopeless.
Helping your friends Avoid trying to 'jolly people' out of depression. If what they're saying is hard to understand try not to criticise but simply listen. If you're prepared to listen, people usually don't mind if you don't understand, and may even appreciate it if you admit that you find it hard to relate to what they are saying. People may want to change the way they are behaving, but may not be able to, so don't be cross if your good advice is not accepted. Your friendship might be more valuable than you realise.