Go to a bookstore. Browse at the local CD emporium. Remember, there are plenty of women out there. You must believe you have something of value to offer the opposite sex. However, if shyness is a problem for you, there are self-help books and videos that can help.
Counseling is also an option.
You need to appear confident, act assertive and display a sense of humor. When you feel ready to take on a relationship, make changes in your life. Be comfortable talking about yourself and your interests, but don't forget to listen as well. Return to the Playboy Advisor home page. All rights reserved.