I just know hold part of the truth. Some of them act less than gallantly when they've had a few. I'm not condemning all men. All sexual relationships reflect power relationships. Relationships between peers are much more likely to be equal and consenting.
Age difference is a key dynamic.
I had one of my most fulfilling sexual relationships when I was 14-16. He was six months younger than me. Things progressed at our own pace, with mutual respect. British teenagers are allowed to do different things at different ages because of the developmental theory of taking on responsibilities. If nothing was allowed until an age when everything was suddenly OK then excessive behaviour would be likely.