This web site is all about how to work on this question and other questions in what we call a dyad. A Dyad is designed to prevent contamination, but it does not work without your attention. You must not contaminate, even if it is done with great love. It requires great self-control and a real trust that people don't need to be protected from Life. On the other end, this question can be used for clearing.
Clearing is useful for people who are into big problems, always in a crisis.
Clearing deals with indirect knowledge not direct knowledge. Clearing is on a par with therapy. It is a temporary fix for the troubles in life. Taking an Enlightenment Intensive for its clearing properties can be useful, but it is not the original intent of the process. In the final analysis, it is your choice what you work on.