We are programmed to heal quickly. If this weren't so, we wouldn't become so ill by taking so long to heal. The dark night comes when we are most content. The healer archetype demands you come into present time. Our biggest challenge is to get out of the literal mind.
Blame is a form of energetic cancer.
We live our lives trying not to know what we were born knowing. This is the cause of spiritual madness. We are not handed perceptions randomly. Manifestation is expensive. We are never being punished, only being taught.