Well, I believe that I actually have a genetic predisposition to be funny, that my brain is wired to humor, and I'm wired more heavily. To get paid for who you are is much better than getting paid for trying to be someone else. The brain has no funny bone, that's a metaphor. I have three major crisis problems in my life, along with getting ready for Christmas and raising five children. The thing to do is to give yourself many breaks from the crises.
Crises flood the body with stress hormones.
The same thing happens with a massage. That's a control freak. People who are into tremendous order have safety issues. It makes them feel safe if everything is the way they like it. If everything is out of order, they feel out of control.