No love 2. Some love 3. Adequate love 4. Even more love is wanted No one ever thought he received enough love from his parents. Their children will, if asked, say the same thing about them.
Disobedience is directly proportional to the shortfall in love.
His disobedience becomes his means for getting attention. Therefore your training and teaching is ineffective if you are not giving your child enough love. This sinful nature is the primary reason for his disobedience. This changes when he comes to faith in Jesus Christ. Sibling rivalry, competition, selfishness and jealousy are inversely proportional to love toward your children.