Support all efforts to remove verbal and physical abuse from youth sporting activities. Remember that your child is playing soccer. It's important to let children establish their own goal, to play the game for themselves. Be careful not to impose our own standards and goals on your child. Don't put too heavy a burden on your child to win games.
Children play for the fun of playing.
The best way to help a child to achieve goals and reduce the natural fear of failure is through positive reinforcement. No one likes to make a mistake. If your child does make one, remember that he or she is still learning. Encourage your child's efforts and point out the good things your child accomplished. Let Coaches Coach and Refs Ref Coaches and referees are usually parents.