It was the most horrible experience of my life. Not much of a consolation considering he was the most stupid person I've ever come in contact with. He was infuriated when I'd correct his errors. Because to back out and give up is a win to the party with the most money to lose. If you have to support children and you need to continue the standard of living they are used to, I believe you should fight til the end.
Depositions are to harrass one party into giving in.
It won't be this party. I have been harrassed in one way or another by his attorney for the past 6 months. I expect it to last approx. 2 more years. I'm going thru the same thing myself.