Communication is what we say and how we say it. Try using some of the following techniques to create a winning atmosphere. When children know that you accept them, just as they are, it is possible for them to grow, to change, and to feel good about themselves. When children feel good it is more likely that they will get along well with others. Children who feel accepted will be more likely to share feelings and problems.
Children deserve the common courtesies which adults use with each other.
And children learn by imitating the speech and behavior of adults. Attentively Get rid of distractions and pay attention to what the child is saying. At times adults may need to stop whatever they are doing and listen to the child. It is difficult to run a vacuum cleaner, cook dinner, or read the paper and, at the same time, pay close attention to what the child is saying. Do not pretend that you are listening when you aren't.