The learned skill of process awareness illuminates this rich world of ceaseless inner communication. Every motivated client can learn this skill. You can teach clients to do the same. Typical divorced families develop these too, and often bring them into a new stepfamily as ex mate hostility and arguing . Courting co-parents rarely understand or anticipate how inevitable, frequent, and divisive these disputes are.
All relationships develop values conflicts .
I do too. I choose to avoid this medical-model word, despite it's clinical utility and political correctness. That causes protective repression and denial. This impedes healing. The concepts we unconsciously associate with words form our conscious thought-experiences.