We are simply hating the sin. We still love the homosexual, as a person. A simple test to discover whether you are too emotionally involved in your opposition to homosexuality to the extent that it diminishes your view of the dignity of a homosexual as a person is to pay attention to how you treat other sins and sinners in daily life. Some are more equal than others. There is no similar line in the Bible.
All sins are equal.
Let me tell you again, as I have before, living that sort of life will not inherit the Kingdom of God. There are plenty of deadly private, confidential, internal sins of the heart as well. Even once we've clearly grasped that heterosexual sins are identical to homosexual sins, and both are no worse that the internal sins of pride, greed and malice, the homosexual community still tests our patience. We just cannot handle sinners, of any variety, boasting in their sins. It isn't my responsibility to judge outsiders, but it certainly is your job to judge those inside the church who are sinning in these ways.