His true intentions are exposed. Not only does he miss the entire concept of Gemilus Chesed by chattering about the act of charity he intended to do but didn't because the employee quit. But he causes pain and embarrassment by discussing the matter with friends of the former employee. Had it been an act of Gemilus Chesed, the employer would have followed through, providing the shirts without discussing the matter with anyone. Gemilus Chesed is a very mature act based entirely on the foundation of kindness and nothing more.
Acts of kindness stand on there own.
Gemilus Chesed is not supported by misconceived ideals or less than pure intentions. Gemilus Chesed rises far above the average being to great heights. A box will appear. Type in the subject of your choice to search JewishPath.