Communication is the lifeblood of any meaningful, close relationship. The closer the relationship, the more important communication becomes. Effective communication is always found in strong couple relationships. In fact, communication and quality couple relationships are so closely related that what influences one will likely influence the other.
Communication problems predict unhappiness in marriage better than complaints in other areas.
Distressed couples tend to use more destructive communication such as sarcastic remarks, criticism, complaining, commanding, disagreements, excuses and put downs. Happy couples are more likely to agree, approve and use humor and laughter. Distressed couples spend more time fighting and about more things than happy couples. Communication behaviors that predict winning a conflict are strongly associated with unhappiness in marriage. Less satisfied couples disclose more negative feelings to one another and are less likely to disclose at equal rates.