Love makes all of the decisions. What most people call their lives is an endless pursuit of things they think will make them happy. Because their desires are limited, they get limited results. Go to the Source of Happiness. Happiness is Love.
Awareness is Love.
Give yourself to What you already are. And let everything be an expression of That, without any conditions or reservations whatsoever. It's all just Consciousness being in love with Consciousness. Every body is a part of us. It is only natural for bodies to be attracted to other bodies.