Finally, try to predict your feelings under various scenarios, and then take the action which feels the best. When you feel uncomfortable, you often actually feel it in your body, usually your stomach. Your body is trying to tell you to watch out, be careful, or to take some action to get out of a situation. When you feel uncomfortable, use your upper brain to analyze the situation. Determine what is making you feel uncomfortable.
Chances are there are several specific negative feelings.
Identifying them helps you determine what action is necessary. Sometimes you need to take unilateral action. Sometimes your action must involve others. Let them know with a simple, honest, clear, and direct statement. This helps you set your boundaries and helps you see who respects them and who does not.