When you're dealing with a soul mate, you're dealing with perhaps thousands of years of history as partners. The relationship will always have particular themes and concerns that each of you work on when you're together. If, in this current life, one partner just wants to have a good time and doesn't want to follow the soul path of the relationship, then the relationship is bound to fail. They need to remember that even though the connection between them is incredibly powerful and tangibly spiritual, it is no guarantee that the relationship is meant to be long term in this life. We need to look at our relationships as objectively as possible.
All relationships have their trials and tribulations.
But, just like any tool, it can be dangerous when not used correctly. A hammer is the best way to get a nail into a piece of wood, but if you're not careful you could end up with a smushed thumb. Common Boundary .