My parents did pursue the option of obtaining an artificial hand for me. I am grateful to them for leaving no stone unturned. But a hook and harness type limb was the only option available at the time all those years ago, and it ended up on the shelf. Of course situations differ and people differ and this is only my experience. But my advice to parents would be to 'go with the flow', and do not feel under any pressure to adhere to certain time-limits or social norms.
Children certainly adapt to situations in their own way and in their own time.
It is more important for them to feel accepted and loved for who they are. After much determination and hard work, I have obtained a permanent and secure government position as a typist with 40 words per minute. In my opinion it is very important to always pursue further studies and see myself as an important asset, and realize I have the power to influence and educate others. I travel a lot, horse-ride, and swim, and obstacles have only made me more determined. My friends believe my limb defect has acted as an accelerating element in my life, and never know what to expect from me next.