He just sits in front of the computer all the time playing chess, reading news and who knows what. My lover and I have tried to go our separate ways but are still together. If divorce weren't so ugly and painful I would love to end it with my husband. I would rather be a single mom. It couldn't be any uglier than the lie you're currently living.
Children are very sensitive, perceptive and instinctual.
Most of all, they learn what they live. They, at least, deserve better. You're the adult. It's up to you to give it to them. We've been together for 18 years, married for 7.