Talk about yourself. Describe some special events that you would not have experienced without a transplant. There are a few things you should keep in mind when you write to the donor family. Be sensitive-the family with whom you are communicating lost a loved one and they are grieving, so be sure to extend your sympathy along with your gratitude. Transplant professionals also recommend that you be sensitive about religious comments since you don't know the religious background of the donor family.
Confidentiality is required.
Sign your first name only and omit your address, phone number, or any other identifying information. Put it in an unsealed envelope. Then, on a separate piece of paper, write your full name, phone number, and the date of your transplant. Send both items to the Donor Family Services Representative at the organ procurement organization that handled your transplant. For most readers, that would be Pam Albert at the New England Organ Bank, One Gateway Center, Newton, MA 02158.