Words not matching your actions. Too often children see their elders blaming, denying, and excusing instead of owning up to mistakes. Children welcome it when you admit that you erred or don't know something, acknowledging that you struggle, too. Like fresh air, your honesty comes as a relief to kids. They are liberated, no longer dependent on the all-knowing adult.
Children then become freer to learn from their mistakes and grow as well.
Children should be sensitized to these areas. Also, help children become aware of approaching a person who has experienced upsetting changes, such as a divorce or the death of a loved one. 5. Not spending enough quality time with kids. Realize you are doing the best you can with the daily demands of your schedule. But maybe you could do better in the future.