If the unwanted behavior continues, then they go to an adult for help. If the problem involves a bully or someone older or more powerful than the child, the child needs to get an adult to help. Getting appropriate help is one way of being an advocate for oneself. Children cannot always be their own advocate because they are children and there will be situations that they are simply too young or inexperienced to handle. In those situations they need to have the help of a parent, teacher, or counselor.
Communication is the key.
Let your child know that we at Beverly Farms really care about them and want to help. Their job is to ask for help when they need it.