Give them some minor duties of their own that will help them feel part of the family. Explain how to call for help. Children over the age of 4 should know how to call for emergency assistance. Keep this simple. Make sure they know their address and phone number.
Disasters are particularly traumatic for children.
They may lead to fears of abandonment, injury, and even death. Fantasized fears are real threats to children. Take them seriously. Encourage a confused child to talk and ask questions. Listen to what the child is saying about fears and about feelings about self, family, and what has just happened.