However the pregnancy was due to my own actions. Abortion should not be used as a contraceptive as it is so many times. In a very small scale example, it is like when you go out drinking all night and decide to drive home. You may get home fine and sleep off your drunken stupor or you may be picked up by the cops and thrown in jail. When you have sex, you may get pregnant and you may not.
Abortion is the easy way out of an unwanted pregnancy.
It was very hard to tell my parents that I was pregnant for a number of reasons including the fact that I was not married. When people engage in sexual activity they know beforehand that there is chance of conceiving a child, with or without using contraceptives. But I will also admit that I had a very, very easy pregnancy and delivery. And every woman's pregnancy is different. There are no two pregnancies alike because there are so many variables, i.e. pain tolerance of the mother, kind of medication taken during labor, if you have morning sickness, etc.