First you have to look at how often you have them, how much importance you attach to them and how long each conflict lasts. You have to ask yourself, what are the characteristics of the partners. Then you have to look at the external sources and resources available to your marriage. Material resources, material things can intensify disagreement or they can in fact help you solve problems. If you stop and realise most marital conflict really grows out of some un-met need.
Disagreements grow out of un-met needs.
Something, which is not being fulfilled. If you explore with your partner what those things are and look at rational solutions for meeting those needs, all disagreements can be overcome. If together with your partner, your best friend, you sit down and explore what needs to be changed, you can build a perfect marriage.