To find out, you must pray and converse with God. Without prayer, your spirit will suffocate and die. It's as simple as that. My hope and prayer is that we all have a healthy and disciplined life of prayer. And in order for you to go on to becoming a disciple, you have to be disciplined in prayer.
Discipleship requires the practice of prayer everyday.
Don't think of it as labor or work. It's just conversation with God, while driving, while meditating, or in a time set apart for God. We believe in the saving grace of God through his son Jesus Christ. We believe that we have been saved from death by his sacrifice on our behalf. We believe that God did this because he desires to have a relationship with us.