Be happy, and if you're not, root out some of the causes of the unrest. I'm not saying ditch every relationship that isn't going well at this moment . If it's worth fixing, fix it. But if it's not going to get better, move on. There are nicer people out there.
Beer is good.
This came from my experience developing the Northwestern University online help desk with fellow Webbrewer 1 Brad Waddle. He's actually told this story on his site so you can read it there . But no where in Matt's book does it say that you can't have fun in the process. Quite the contrary. Macs think like I do.