All cultures find weddings to be a wonderful occasion.
The Italians view weddings to be particularly important and an extremely special affair. From beginning to end, the preparation for these ceremonies incorporated many tradition, some of which still take place in modern times. In the past, it was not uncommon for a male relative of the groom to go to the future bride's father or uncle to discuss the notion of marriage. Periodically, a messenger would be sent with a message making the bride's parents aware of the groom's intent to marry their daughter. On a rare occasion, the groom had a desire to propose directly to the woman himself.