Go with this one now as it is time for you to move forward with your life and leave me to mine. It is mind to mind communication, they do not have to be present. As you develop your abilities to communicate with spirit, BE SURE you are doing so under the direction and with the guidance of your Higher Self. You do not want spirits living with you or moving into your body. It's hard on the body and it's hard on everyone concerned.
Death is a natural part of moving on and growing.
Encourage spirits to do that. Just found your web site,and i find it very interesting. I know I have something around me,but I can not make contact. I Have had direct contact from a friend who passed on about a year ago. I must tell you this, because it is very strange.