Motives become pure. Our decisions can be based on God s will, not ours. No longer have a promotion or demotion mentality. God can move us to the right place. We will be satisfied.
Discouragement causes mental, emotional, and spiritual confusion.
And this leads to hypocrisy. If you feel inferior, or fear rejection, it is natural to pretend to be someone you are not. Be honest with yourself, and reject a lifestyle of extremes. When hypocrisy takes over , then we attempt to be even better than everyone else in order to convince ourselves we are at least as good as they are. And blame becomes our defensive cover up.