This same gathering came within one vote of authorizing the creation of same-gender commitment services. Even though it didn't do so this time around, I bet the Episcopal Church will authorize the creation of such liturgies at its next national meeting in 1999. The Episcopal Church is acting as a key, emotional work-leader in God's household, much to the consternation of some of its leadership and membership. Because of the steps the Episcopal Church took this summer, I believe other denominations will take similar steps in the future. With strides like these, and more like them, in due time God's households will become more open, functional communities of faith.
Actions are the outcome of reality.
Provide for change. Change is welcomed and considered normal and desirable. Self-worth is primary, with power and performance related to it. Communication, system, and rules are all related. Accept and even encourage change as potential source of growth for the individual and the family unit.