It's his behavior that is wrong. To effectively change behavior, it needs to be replaced. Therefore, the question is not how you can punish Jeremy for he's done, but what behavior can Jeremy replace with tantruming and screaming to help him get what he wants in an appropriate manner. Some think of the military. Building a house may also come to mind.
Carpenters constantly have to reinforce boards, bricks or the like for support.
The same holds true when you use reinforcement with your youth. The decisions you as a parent make in regards to your child's behavior supports or reinforces the outcome of that behavior. A positive reinforcer is anything that immediately follows a behavior which maintains or increases the frequency of that behavior. We are striving to meet certain needs, it must be understood that without consistent guidance of how to meet those needs, your child will take any route possible if it seems to work. With this in mind, it should be noted that positive reinforcement can include negative behavior.