Get used to it. Users can't see the technology. The PC doesn't know you're a woman. Women have incredible endurance and technology doesn't happen without it. You can do it.
All great things have a down side.
The printing press permits pornography and hate propaganda. The radio makes dumb talk and bad music ubiquitous. Cars have wrecked our environment. Planes destroy community. There is no such thing as the unambivalently good technology.