I tell the males that even if you have had sexual experience, you need to practice your own abstinence. That if there was ever anything that was a good escape, welfare was it. And it's over. So if you make a baby, they will find you and they won't care about your sob story. You will have to pay.
Boys are cute, and teen-age males are at the prime of maleness.
Look at what he's asking you to do. I advise my daughters and other women that, unless the male is 28 years old, do not make any kind of commitment with him. Well, let's go back to the sex part. You give an abstinence message. They kept the male busy working.