Women are not expected to speak out or make themselves a part of the conversation. The wife walks a step or two behind her husband, or if walking by his side, a step or two back, always giving him the lead. Living alone, too, is unusual. Similarly, drinking or smoking in public, no matter how innocent, is interpreted as a sign of moral laxity. When they drop in, at least a refreshing drink is always served.
Children generally leave the room, with a smile, when guests enter.
The mother remains close by to serve as needs arise. The father, if present, will speak with the guest. If not present, the mother and a son will fulfill this role, and if no son is present, the mother may act as hostess, but only with the accompaniment of someone close to the family. If the lady of the house is home alone and a male visitor comes to see her husband, it is not proper for her to invite him in, nor for him to expect to enter. Rather, he will leave a message and take his leave.