The only way to know if you are HIV positive is to get tested. Call the Center For Disease Control's National AIDS Hotline, local health department, or AIDS service organization to find out where and how you can get tested. Lubricant can make condoms feel better by increasing the sensitivity. Put a drop of it inside the condom before you put it on. For performing oral sex on a woman, dental dams and even non-microwavable Saran Wrap can be used.
Dental dams are squares of latex that are used during oral sex.
Plastic wrap or a non-lubricated condom that is cut open can also be used as a dental dam. Like condoms, dams prevent the transmission of HIV if used right. Just place it over your partner s vagina or anus and do your thing. The rate of transmission is very low, but there is some risk when semen or vaginal fluid gets in your mouth, especially if you have small cuts or bleeding gums. The only way to be safe is to use a condom or dental dam.