But, I too, have some advice of my own that I would like to pass along this month. And how true those words have been. The days when I do what comes naturally without thinking about what the books say are the days when things run smoothly. Take for instance the controversy over responding promptly to our baby's cries. There is a widely accepted myth that even very young babies are able to manipulate their parents with their cries.
Babies cry for a reason.
It's their only way to communicate. And a new mother should never second-guess her instincts to scoop up her little one and give her what she needs. She learns this when you watch and respond to her cues consistently and with love. When you comfort your crying baby, you are showing respect for her feelings. I say if it works for the entire family, go for it.