Participation - Hopefully, if the first four items are in place, participating in the cybersexual experience will follow naturally. What you are actually doing is masturbating with another person while enjoying a sexual fantasy that you are creating for each other. If you aren't comfortable about touching your own body, you probably won't enjoy participating in cybersex. If it's difficult for you to enjoy sexual fantasies, you probably won't be a good cybersex partner. If at any point, you feel like you aren't into the experience, it's better to let your partner know and possibly arrange another meeting at a time when you feel more ready, or decide that cybersex isn't your cup of tea.
Cybersex can be great, it can also be a drag.
Here is what I think are the ups and downs of cybersex. Anonymity - You can choose to be anyone you want to be. You can switch sexes, be tall or short, blonde or brunette, black or white, or a bug-eyed alien from the Pleidese. Only you will know for sure. Safety - You can't catch or pass on any diseases.