The commander in the field is always right and the rear echelon is wrong, unless proved otherwise. Have fun in your command. Don't always run at a breakneck pace. Take leave when you've earned it. Spend time with family.
Command is lonely.
Whether you have a chapter house, chapter apartment, lodge, suite, or floor, any facility with a fraternity's name on it is the primary physical symbol of pride for a chapter. Having a chapter facility such as those mentioned above is a privilege that carries with it enormous responsibilities. The pride your members have in your organization is reflected in the way your facility is maintained. The chapter is judged everyday by the way it is kept and maintained. Take time everyday to pick up miscellaneous trash and debris.