If possible, help your children know what to expect by talking over in advance what will happen during a crisis or time of transition. Then you and your child can make plans together about how to cope with the change. Things to Avoid Being defensive about your child when discussing a problem with his teacher. Try to be realistic about your child's behavior and work positively with the teacher towards a solution that you are both comfortable with. Ignoring a family crisis and pretending there is nothing wrong.
Children always know when something is wrong.
Giving false or unrealistic assurances to your child during a time of crisis. It's important to comfort your child but be truthful about how her life will be different as a result of this crisis or change in the family. Discussion Questions Read through these questions before watching the program, then think about them as you see the teachers in action. If you have a chance, discuss them with others. Think about ways that you could strengthen or improve your relationship with your child's teachers.