Hope it's not too much like yet another cheap Murphy imitation. Freud would have had the time of his life examining adventure-programmers. No it's not fair but you are the only one who must sleep.
All monsters invariably suffer from chronic insomnia.
You always get killed at the one time you did NOT join a group. If there are four ways to run when you flee, YOU run into the death-trap. Lagging always happens when you are under attack. Losing your link always happens right before the auto-save. MUDs are the places where death is the most expensive kick of them all.