At some point for example, when one partner files for divorce or engages in an affair the marriage is rudely awakened. When couples like Barbara and Joe enter therapy together, I consider them lucky. They were hoping for an option, other than filing for divorce or continuing to live parallel lives, that could salvage their sour relationship. And there is an option if you're willing to cooperate with what the unconscious is trying to achieve and actively work towards a conscious, passionate relationship. To all those couples who fell in love and soon found themselves in the throes of conflict, let me assure you that you married the right person especially if you have conflict.
Conflict is supposed to happen.
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