Try picking her up and taking her away from the setting and giving her a time- out. If you're out you can put her in her car seat and buckle it. We just placed our kids in a chair for a specified period of time and told them what they had done that was not acceptable and told them they had to sit there for a period of time and think about it. Remarkably, it works most of the time. She gives a lot of support and creative ways to approach your child's different way of dealing with issues.
Consistency is key in all cases.
For ordinary discipline try the 'time out' method. Remove the child from whatever activity is happening. Have them be separate for a few minutes. I think that is a similar approach. You can also try giving an 'order' and counting to 10 out loud.