Give each child a bag and throw handfuls of individually wrapped candies, gum, pennies and inexpensive items such as bookmarks, pencils, erasers and stickers. The children try to quickly pick up the items and put them in their bag. Check dollar stores frequently and buy favors ahead of time to take advantage of sale prices. No party is complete without refreshments. A drink, home made cake and fresh fruit are simple and easy to prepare and serve.
Cupcakes work well with small children.
For a simple, yet attractive look, ice the cupcakes and decorate with animal crackers and soft, sugarless candies. Choose refreshments that can be completely prepared and stored in the fridge until serving time. End the party on a positive note by stopping it while everyone is still having fun. It's better to leave them wanting more than to drag it out and lose their attentions. There's even a free weekly email newsletter.