It is vital that you advocate for the child's needs prior to finalization. Many families have been afraid to insist on having all needed benefits specified in the adoption contract. For many there is a fear that the child will be removed and given to another adoptive family. It is important to confront this fear with a peer, counselor or your partner. Adoption does not guarantee a continued relationship with the child.
Adoption creates a legal relationship and responsibility.
Risks can be mitigated through careful planning, education and advocacy. As an adoptive family you are a valuable resource to the placing agency and the community. As an adoptive family you can be a life changing resource for a child.