Aharon was so successful at this type of marriage counselling that after the couple would make peace the wife would give birth to a baby boy. She would name him Aharon. Our Rabbis said that over three thousand babies had the name Aharon. I hope that I and everyone should be like Aharon and bring peace to others. Comments that are directed personally generate heat not light.
Communication stops when the shouting begins.
If you wish to hold the view that we do not need to change current practice it is clearly your prerogative to hold that view. However the stakes are very high. Erosion of the Jewish population is occurring steadily and there already too few of us to allow that continue. But many young Jews clearly do not have that desire. I feel we can and should change current practice to make it more enjoyable and relevant to lives being lived at the edge of the 21st century.