Call your pastor and see if they can recommend someone, or call your local crisis line and ask them for a referral.
Counseling does help.
Wishing you the best. I went and talked to a lawyer yesterday and it was a disater. He wanted to bring on a war like situation. I just want to do this by the book and fairly not try to screw my STBX to the wall. He also suggested to not allow my son to see his father because of laws in Ga about filing and who has our son 7 days prior and that will effect custody.