Counseling before commencement of cycle will help family members voice their expectations and concerns. As in any assisted reproductive cycle, the parties will no doubt ride the roller coaster of emotional ups and downs. Unresolved family issues may surface during these stressful times. After a failed pregnancy attempt, the surrogate may blame herself for not resting enough, for picking up her toddler a few times, or for not eating right. The intended mother may hide her feelings of loss, while trying to take care of others.
Counseling can help the parties move through the grieving process and decide on a next step.
When there are unresolved family issues or motivation based on obligation, using a family member as surrogate can result in difficulties throughout the pregnancy and beyond. The above topics can provide a starting point for initial discussions. Professional guidance can help to determine whether surrogacy is an appropriate choice for those involved. With adequate preparation and careful thought, using a family member as a surrogate can be a rewarding experience for all. Inc. If you would like to include this information on your website, you may link to the page directly on our site.