GCC has had a lot of bad publicity in the past due to this. GCC is primarily a place of worship and if we come with other motives, we should be disciplined or stay away. Growth in GCC is imperative, but that does not mean we have to accept bad conduct, after all, it is hampering our growth. This year I want to make a positive effort to talk. There is much being said in private or not said at all.
Dialogue is like a needle to a boil, it opens up, cleans, and gives an opportunity for healing.
Gay people need to start talking about ALL the issues. Deep down inside, we all know what God wants and what is best for us, we must heed this call, even if it makes life difficult in the short term, because it will pay dividends. We must stop condoning bad conduct. That's what God wants. That's what we need to be happy.