If a member is harassing your pastor, he isn't a sleeping dog, he is a biting dog. The church does not exist, as does a business, to make a profit or to hoard money. The church is on a mission. The main work of the whole church for the whole age is evangelism. The church is content oriented and the Bible is its source of authority.
Deacons have the opportunity and influence to help the entire church family stay on message.
Sometimes, I am going to mess up. Sometimes, I will have to hear bad news. When this is true, I would rather hear it from my friends than from my enemies. My friends want me to succeed. They will tell me in love, without trying to embarrass me or hurt me.