The flip side is that self-actualized people are less needy for a romantic partner. I don't think so. Romantic love is especially important for men and women in midlife. A number of women in their fifties find the great love of their lives. When the love in a relationship dies completely, no amount of rekindling will help.
Couples therapy can also help.
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