You must achieve a satisfactory middle ground or you are not truly resolving the problem. Once you have agreed to a vision for achieving order, brainstorm ways and methods which will simplify. For example, put toys away at a certain time in the evening or twice daily. Establish follow through procedures in the family. For example, put dirty diapers in the diaper pail immediately after a diaper change.
All systems require organization to perform tasks and function smoothly.
From government to girls' scout groups, a order creates the space for creativity and meaningful interactions between people. Smooth functioning requires that you institute systematic methods to complete tasks in a timely manner. Creating order will assure the space and time to relax, have fun, and generally enjoy your family relationships. Return to Previous Page Gayle Peterson, MSSW, LCSW, PhD is a family therapist specializing in prenatal and family development. Her articles on family relationships appear in professional journals and she is an oft-quoted expert in popular magazines such as Woman's Day , Mothering and Parenting .