The training allows parents to use the group process and their life experiences to assess their qualifications. Foster parents experience a relationship with the agency that is exemplified by mutual sharing of information and ready access to caseworker support, within the framework of respect and positive regard. They are informed of all meetings regarding the child's case, meet the birth parents soon after placement, and understand that their input is valued and needed. They are truly seen and treated as members of the team in thought, word, and deed. The agency provides opportunities for training or recommends outside resources that are relevant to the requirements of specialized parenting.
Agencies also provide regular planned respite opportunities and connections through mentoring.
Foster care in this country is already in the midst of a potential crisis, and the strains upon the system are becoming greater. In order to assure quality, consistent care and fewer moves for our children, we must retain experienced foster parents. If we are going to find permanent adoptive homes for children, we also must retain foster parents, as they make excellent adoptive parents for children who have experienced trauma, neglect, and separation. For the sake of our children we must retain experienced foster parents who understand the challenges and know what to do. Use the exercise to facilitate a discussion about ways to make the two sets of rankings align more closely.