The physical relationship is part of God s plan for a successful family. One may not consider purity an issue in a given moment of time, yet a lifetime of dealing with the emotional and physical consequences is not worth the defilement . One should NOT defraud his brother 4. Begin this section by explaining the meaning of the words lust and concupiscence . The word lust means a passionate longing for something forbidden.
Concupiscence adds the sexual connotation.
Emotions are quite powerful when it comes to controlling behavior. However, until such a bond is consummated, there must be restraint place on such feelings. The strong emotion placed in man is meant to establish and maintain that durable bond in marriage. Christians are to live a quiet life of hard work and endurance. Jesus did give a difficult task of living in opposition to our natural instinct.