Preschoolers may feel a bit lost in this world of older decision makers. A new vocabulary. These types of play make it possible for preschoolers to do some sorting by making distinctions between good and evil, right and wrong, power and powerlessness, good guys and bad guys, acceptable and unacceptable behaviors. The glamour, power and wit of superheroes and good guys are attractive to young children who feel they have few of these qualities. Enforce these limits without hurting others with your words or actions.
Adults are children's role models.
Take opportunities to talk about how the evil villain might have otherwise solved his problem. Watch a favorite superhero show together or read fairy tales and work with the children to create your own peaceful endings. Set up safety measures to allow children to leave the game, call time out or rotate roles whenever they wish. These alternatives give children power over fearful situations without violence. Monitor TV and video viewing.