The only way a woman can reform a man is by antithesis. To inspire is something else.
Civilization is largely a matter of buttoning and unbuttoning.
I know, I know - Fate has hammered me, too, hammered my soul into better shape than it once was. Relax, cease the struggle, and you have nothing with which to fight. Most people who pride themselves on riding a hobby don't - the hobby is in the saddle. If you want to know what you think, make a speech. Cultivate only those habits that you are willing should master you.