Communication is the basis on which decisions are made. Settlement may be imposed by judge. Couple designs their own settlement with aid of the mediator. Lack of commitment to results because of lack of participation. Strong commitment to results because of active participation in agreement.
Children suffer adverse effects of battles between the parents.
Children's benefit is prime focus of mediation. Good relationship between parents fosters positive adjustment by children. Children may be used as pawns to gain concessions from other side. Confrontation, bitterness, and hostility are fostered. The structure of mediation prevents the children from being used as pawns.