Spell out in writing what uncaring words and gestures are not permitted in your family. Involve all members, make suggestions for enforcement of the rules. Have all members sign it and post it. Post of list of chores that a child can do if he is short of money 8. When the jar fills up, take it to your favorite charity.
Charity begins at home.
Create Caring Coupon Books to encourage acts of caring and service. Kids can do chores for one another, read to one another, share a special toy, allow their sibling choose the TV show or music in the car or practice a sport or play a game with the recipient. Have each child choose a family member to give the coupon book. Illustrate it and make a cover. Staple sides together.