As time passed, your relationship lost the novelty it once possessed. Romance fizzled as life's stresses and mundane routines took control of your attentions. While common, this scenario is not irreversible. First, overcome the anxiety you feel when faced with the word romance . It is not the words, gestures or actions that are romantic, but rather the love and affection that drives them.
Any gesture has the potential of romance as long as it comes from the heart.
Next, refresh your knowledge of what your partner enjoys and values. Even the act of gathering such information can be romantic. Play a question game in which you ask her what her favorite thing is to do on a Saturday morning or what is the most important thing to her in a relationship. Asking and then listening intently to your partner's responses demonstrates you are interested in her uniqueness and care enough to inquire. Once this knowledge is obtained, put it to use.