Often this means dealing with old childhood energies dealing with lack of love, fears, security or abandonment. It is never too late to have a happy childhood. Instead of needing that special someone that gives you your security and spiritual needs, flower essences can take to a new level where you find your own deep inner well of personal spiritual fulfillment that you can share with those in your life. Often the essence we need most does not reveal itself by reading the description of the essence. Part of this is because of the limitations of using language to fully describe these vibrational essences.
Different people get very different experiences from the same flower essence.
A good analogy is four blind people feeling different parts of an elephant . One describes the trunk, another the tail, another the elephants voice and another the leg - you get the picture. Even though each description is very accurate it does not give a true representation of the elephant. That is why some people prefer to use techniques such as applied kinesthesiology or energy dowsing to determine which essence to use. Some individuals are so evolved that they can choose essences purely by intuition.