Bushmen argue about unfair sharing, selfishness in gift-giving, and the failure to offer good hospitality. Quickly, arguments can become more and more emotional, with the arguers accusing each other of many wrong doings. They get angry and then, suddenly, without either person seeming to give in, the fight is over. A few minutes later, the participants are chatting and laughing together. Avoiding fights is very important because of the lack of rulers, judges, courts, and police to help them settle disputes.
Bushmen have peacemakers whose role is to intervene in a conflict and attempt to make peace.
One alternative, after a serious argument, is for one of the parties to the fight to finds an excuse to leave the camp. Bushmen would rather leave than risk a fight. Hunter-gatherers are afraid of violence because they know it can destroy a small group. They have dangerous weapons readily available to make a fight dangerous. Bushmen do not honour fighting and aggression.