And they'd be surprised to learn how many moms and dads do choose to stay home, at least for a couple of years after their baby is born. If you believe firmly that no one can take care of your child as well as you, and you can make the necessary financial and emotional sacrifices, this just might be your childcare solution.
Conventional wisdom holds that having a parent at home for the first three years is best.
If you're committed to taking care of your baby and encouraging his development, then your child is getting quality care, and that's what matters. But if you must work or just aren't cut out for staying home, that's not necessarily bad. You can still be a good parent to your child even if you're not with him all day. If you're struggling with this choice, be sure to read our great debate on the subject. Add your comments to the bottom of this page.