Answer children s questions. Be as honest as possible, while providing answers at children s developmental level. Consistency is an important factor in all child care, but it is especially important for children whose parents are in prison. Increase attention for children s birthdays and other significant events. Respect the parental bond.
Children love the incarcerated parent.
Even if caregivers do not agree with parent s unlawful actions, we still need to support the children. Disrespect or negative conversations about parents will only hurt children. Recognize negative reactions. Behavior and changes in children may indicate their attempts to understand and deal with their missing parent and the resulting changes. Talk with your director and other teachers for strategies to help the child, but keep the family information confidential.