Nevertheless, a few recurrent themes characterize these new kids on the block. Friends and social activities rule. Cliques and peer groups take the place of family, and more often than not parents find themselves scorned and rejected. Many parents watch helplessly as ninth graders spurn anything that might set them apart from the pack. What appears to be social bondage, however, is actually more like a social refuge where kids build confidence and self esteem.
Confrontation is inevitable, encompassing everything from the ridiculous to the relevant.
At this stage, kids are learning to think in abstractions and are often desperate to test out their advanced thinking in the form of endless debate. Along with all the bravado, ninth graders are also likely to be insecure, moody, and painfully self-absorbed. Entering high school brings drama to the smallest events. The rumor mill is in high gear, mundane occurrences assume huge proportions, and the repercussions are endless. It's an ongoing spectacle of tragedy and comedy.