This helps to gain their trust. It then becomes easier to redirect them when they do something wrong. All of this helps to enhance their capabilities. You also have to teach the children limits. They need to learn that they cannot have their own way at all times.
Children also have to be taught to express themselves.
They sometimes get angry because they are disappointed or have low self-esteem. When they feel this way, they can become mean. We teach children to deal with life by using kindness . Even though we have to do all these things, the greatest joy we have is to hear the squeals of excitement when we knock on the door. The hugs and kisses and the love we get each day make everything else we do very easy.