I want to get my head pushed into the doggie water dish on her kitchen floor, her hands, drowning me in dog-water, her knee hard on my tailbone. I have to, you see, absolutely , go into the bathroom, and get myself off. I usually use her toothbrush. We're not part of a beehive or an anthill. We're to live as much as we can, full on, as individuals , indulging and enabling our beautiful peculiarities as often as we can.
Compromise weakens experience.
What makes us different is what makes us significant. Different, from everybody else, as individuals, not in terms of race or religion. Anyway, I'm hungry right now, and I like it. I WANT to be hungry, in everything. If you get full, you die.