My own preference in decision making is strongly intuitive. I have great faith in intuitive ethics. I almost always know at some deep inner place whether a decision is right or wrong and I can discover that simply by paying honest attention to how I feel about it. Your religious values and principles can serve you as guides to your decision making. Your psyche serves up nightly messages from your soul in your dreams.
All dreams come in the service of health and wholeness.
They present us with the subplots of our stories that we might otherwise not notice. Pay attention to them and look to them for help in outlining the next chapter of your story. One of the sources of our living tradition that we cite in our covenant is wisdom from the world s religions. Virtually all of them have some version of the Golden Rule, to do unto others as you would have them do unto you. From Judaism you might draw on the tradition of the Sabbath, taking time off from other activities for celebration, thanksgiving, contemplation and prayer.