This is the triggering mechanism that starts the battle. It is like the first domino in a circle of dominos, each stage bumping into the next. Many sex addicts start their addiction with a poor self-concept. They perceive themselves as shameful, bad, evil people. They often view themselves as failures.
Addicts are ashamed.
Most sex addicts grew up in an unhealthy family. Sexual addicts attempt to escape family wounds and associated painful feelings through sexual activity. An incident at work or home causes him to question his competence again . He suffers emotional pain, and then the downward spiral begins for him. Another addict may fear loss of control.