The vast majority of abusers are men but women are also capable of sexual abuse. Child Sexual Abuse is any type of sexual assault of a child under 16. They may well be afraid that no- one would believe them. They may feel entirely to blame for the abuse. They may not be able to describe or understand what has happened to them.
Children often feel powerless to stop the abuse.
You cannot be responsible for consenting to an act you did not understand or which you were forced into. No matter how long ago you were abused, your feelings about what happened to you are important. You have the right to be listened to, no matter what you want to say. Through speaking about your abuse, you may well be able to overcome any difficulties that you experienced as an adult. The ability to feel good about self.