We don't necessarily like the music, but the answer to your questions is yes. I've never wanted a divorce. My husband does. Time may be a great healer, but it's also a lousy beautician. Talk is cheap because supply exceeds demand.
Conscience is what hurts when everything else feels so good.
An optimist thinks that this is the best possible world. A pessimist fears that this is true. Even if you are on the right track, you'll get run over if you just stand there. My inferiority complex is not as good as yours is. I am having an out of money experience.