I wish you luck. I'm not sure how Paxil may effect women, the pamphlet on this medication did warn about reduced libido. My wife and I haven't been close for years now. I believe I have tried very hard to encourge closeness and intimacy. I may just have well have lived the life of a monk.
Communication requires two way dialogue.
One way is strictly a broadcast. I have been attempting to work with my wife in redeveloping our relationship for the past 8 years. Reaching that point reduces some short term stress and anxiety. However, my heart is on the verge of being broken. That feeling is not pleasant.