The program should be punctuated by ceremonies, not dominated by them. Original poems, original songs, old poems and songs, all can be used to make up the ceremony content. A balance of songs and words ought to be sought. For maximum effectiveness, ceremonies must be planned and rehearsed. Cut the long speeches.
Ceremonies have more impact when they are kept to the point.
Make them impressive, dignified, simple, sincere. A ceremony is not the same as a religious service. It is inappropriate, given the many different beliefs present in participants, to make it religious. A ceremony can encourage participants to believe in God and to have reverence and respect for life. The location and setting ought to fit the mood that the planners want to achieve.