But if the woman would have demanded that he put his cigarette out at once because it s a nonsmoking area the man might have rebelled. This would have most likely angered the woman and she would begin to argue with him. For example, she uses words and phrases such as discuss, or call attention to, which are synonyms for induce. She dedicated this chapter to show how argument isn t always the best way to get a message across to people, yet she is disputing to her readers that arguing is evil. She seems somewhat of a hypocrite.
Arguments depend on the person.
Some people jump at every statement while others are laid back and take things as they come. Not everybody s tactics are the same, and this creates a diverse world with different kinds of people and different forms of arguments. What one perceives as a dispute others may see it as a mere remark.