Tantric sex allows couples to marry sex and spirituality, which then carries them off together to ride a wave of energy that promises nothing short of pure ecstasy. Adding length to orgasms, up to 10 minutes at a time, pales in comparison to the promise of being orgasmic beings, which is our core nature. Thus, orgasm isn't centred on the genitals alone but becomes a whole body experience. Men achieve multiple orgasms or even experience it without ejaculation, women experience ejaculation, and some couples even achieve orgasm without touching each other - all this through a complex union of yoga, meditation and a tangle of erotic positions similar to the Kama Sutra. It's in the breathing.
Couples control their breath and, like yoga, combine it with various postures that capture energy.
In India, traditional Tantrikas spent years of purification under the guidance of a spiritual teacher, awakening their psychic energies, before they can even have sex with their partners. The point is to merge into a harmonious, ecstatic union with each other. And most importantly, tantric sex helps strengthen long-term relationships. The first thing you and your partner have to do is to realise that sex must be goal-free. It isn't about attaining orgasm but achieving a fusion of two souls.