Everything is written. There should be no pushing in no way, but a certain beat, a very firm beat creating stability. This is it, what devides good musicians from less good ones. If you look for samples, you should not stick with one or two samples. Get more, invest more into your information material.
Colors play a great role.
Here we find the same problematic of relations. Watching the dress color combinations of a musician might say something about his musical taste also. The equipment is not the most critical point for the right execution of a given piece. It can change the sound quality dramatically for string instrument pieces, if you play a cigar-box or a stradivarius or another of the good violins. Could be the mouthpiece.