Your Mother doesn't work here. Clean up after yourself. Welcome to responsibility, you're going to be here for a while. There are going to be times when you really cannot do everything by yourself. Before you burn out or drop out, learn to ask for help.
All campuses have some sort of support system in place.
Learn where it is and how to use it at the beginning of the semester, before you need it. Don't be afraid to seek help and refuse to feel guilty for asking. Learn to ask your roommate for help when you really need it. Letting someone help you is a way to let them get to know you. This is another skill your future spouse will appreciate.