Time together, hugs, supportive language make the difference. Every child needs to know that he or she is loved. You can be disappointed, upset or angry at a child. They can make a bad mistake, but that doesn't make them a bad person. Please don't ignore signs that all is not well or try to place responsibility elsewhere.
All parents try to do their best.
At times we need the support of a trained person to help us sort out the issues facing us. Don't be guilty or afraid to seek that help. Remember, a child is the most precious part of your life. Children don't ask to be born. When you decide to be a parent, you have made the critical commitment to nurturing a new life to grow into a healthy, contented, productive adult.