Their tragedy is often greater. We wish now to address ourselves particularly to all of you involved in the heartbreak of marriage death. We recognise that there is a real grief process that you have to work through. There may also be a deep anger compounding the hurt you feel. Both your grief and your anger should meet a compassionate response within the community of the Church.
Anger damages the one who is angry.
Like grief it must be enabled to heal. You should not have to apologise for seeking the counsel of the priest. On the contrary you should find in the priest a ready listener and an understanding pastor. Likewise, the parish community should reflect the warmth of a loving family. You must know that your burden of loneliness does not have to be carried alone.