Chances are the person's physician is familiar with local nursing homes and can offer suggestions appropriate to the situation. It's also important to know what a nursing home is, as opposed other forms of elder care. However, many nursing home residents are there primarily because they can no longer manage daily activities such as bathing, eating, dressing, and going to the toilet, and there is no one at home who is able to provide the kind of care they need. Take the loved one along if possible. The National Council of Senior Citizens suggests meal time and weekends for drop-ins to get the best idea of how the place really runs.
Appearance can tell a lot about the quality of care.
Too many drowsy or listless patients may indicate excessive use of drugs and tranquilizers. Tour the entire structure including the kitchen and look at several patient rooms and bathrooms in different sections. Remember that quality of care is not a function of a building's newness. See if registered or licensed practical nurses are on the floor or in each wing. See if fresh fruits and vegetables are served and if residents can get food they like, prepared to their needs.