The other connections with sex after cancer are fatigue, depression, and anxiety. It also seems like my anatomy has been altered. My husband says he can't penetrate too far without causing me pain. Yes we both enjoy oral sex, but I wish intercourse could be less painful. I will ask my gyn about the tight muscles on my next visit.
Anniversaries are often pretty difficult.
It all keeps flooding back. My mom just had her one year anniversary as well. I joined late. Actually, there's quite a bit of research bgoing on now about hormone replacement therapy after breast cancer. I suspect the recommendations will change fairly soon, and it will be available for many women who have been through breast cancer.