She is using smoking as an excuse. She is also using alot of other small things as excuses, it takes two to tango. I've made mistakes, as has she. Our biggest problem is that she does not WANT to try to resolve our problems, she is giving up on 14 years, this hurts. I would have given up smoking earlier, if I knew that was a problem.
Communication is key.
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