Sometimes, it means accepting it as something you can't change. This does not come easy. Ittakes time and practice and courage. I am overcoming my fears. I am acquiring a comfortable new confidence.
Courage is fear that has said it's prayers.
Today he can discover his errors of yesterday and tomorrow he can obtain a new light on what he thinks himself sure of today. 2.One may hold truth, yet, without inwardly possessing it. The formula which we accept will lie sterile in our minds if we do nothing to apply it to the reality which it is intended to serve. This is where Al-Anon comes in. When we apply the steps and the program to ourselves, when we accept the fact that we also are powerless over alcohol, and that we need the Higher Power to help us, that we were given this problem, perhaps, for our spiritual growth, then and only then do we begin to share in its wonderful workings.