The babysitter you choose should be able to give you a quick and positive answer. Once you feel confident in the babysitter's abilities, you should give them a tour of your home so they will know where everything is located. Keep a list of emergency phone numbers and always make sure that they know where the list is posted. Be sure to show the babysitter where the first aid kit is located, you don't want her to waste time searching for it if it is needed. Even adults sometimes feel uneasy and nervous around people that we don't know.
Children are no different.
Being left alone with a stranger, even if it is in their own home can cause them to feel uncomfortable. Have the babysitter over when you are home so that the children will have a chance to get to know the sitter before they are left alone together. Choosing the proper babysitter is an important decision. Taking the time to check references, abilities and getting to know the babysitter will only benefit you and your children. Remember, a safe child is a happy child.