For centuries our society has mistakenly emphasized the physical. Even BC, one favorable quality for any king was that he look like a king-tall, with great hair, I guess. God, however, uses different criteria for desirability. He had Samuel anoint David, the end of the line as far as Jesse's sons were concerned. Time proved the wisdom of that choice.
Christians are just as guilty as Israel was in singling out others.
Whether choosing a dating partner, a youth minister, or a group speaker, we tend to look for the attractive instead of the faithful. For your next date, go for someone with character. In your small group Bible studies, look for leaders who have spiritual depth. Become that kind of person yourself. Record your reflections by sending e-mail to yourself.