The fact is, life is all about school and school is all about life. I bet we all know someone. We are either looking at things the wrong way or we are refusing to take responsibility. Of course there are millions of variations but somehow it usually relates to these two themes. The perception of not being worthy is wrong and the individual must take responsibility for the way he or she feels and quit finding someone to do it for them.
Anger is about expectations that are unmet and too much ownership.
The lesson is that controlling others responses, feelings and attitude is not our job and we are 'extending' ourselves beyond the way in which we were meant to.