I broke several ribs playing high-school football and they never healed properly. I turn over so l can sleep on the side that doesn't hurt. Two weeks later, I bumped into Doug and Mary at the supermarket. We changed sides of the bed. Show your love.
Actions can be as important as words.
One evening, I played The Ungame with Carmen, her husband and two children. Carmen was 43, attractive and financially well-off. Here's a woman who has almost everything, I thought. Carmen drew a card that asked her to talk about a hurtful moment. I felt so bad that every morning I went into the bathroom and looked for the tissue on which she'd blotted her lipstick.