October is designated National Communicate With Your Kid Month, and is an opportune time to initiate communication at the family table. Today's world is very different from that of times past. The world moves faster, is theoretically much smaller, and lives are busier. Still, parents should make a concerted effort to plan at least two mealtimes during the week when the family sits down together to eat and talk. In most cases, this will mean the evening meal, when everyone returns home from work or school.
Communication is the focus.
One person talks at a time. This is essential for a true discussion where all viewpoints are heard. Discuss only positive topics. Do not allow these family mealtimes to become fights or disciplinary times. Parents need to share information too.