By talking to children ahead of time and teaching them ways to get out of a bad situation, parents can help their children through such a traumatizing experience. But we now know that parental support and encouragement can help reduce the negative effects that surface later on in life as a result of bullying. If children know they can trust adults in their lives, they will feel stronger and more secure. Also, teach children to control their anger by talking instead of fighting. Let them know that words and the ability to walk away can show a bully just how confident and in control they really are.
Bullies are less likely to intimidate children who are confident and resourceful.
But the truth is, sometimes non-aggressive tactics don't work, leaving families and victims feeling helpless. It's up to the family to figure out whether this is a course of action they wish to take. Family values, views on violence and the safety of the child have to be considered first and then clearly communicated. No matter what the circumstances may be or how the situation ends up, being a victim of a bully is a traumatic experience and parents should pay extra attention to their children after an episode has occurred. Constantinou urges parents to remember what it was like to be a kid.