Talk to your partner about using a condom before the heat of the moment arrives. If your partner will not agree to use a condom, he or she is not ready for sex.
Abstinence is better than unsafe sex.
Adults with AIDS were infected with HIV as young adults or youth. You can still have fun. Talk to your partner about STDs and how to prevent them. Even if you are using contraception other than condoms, you should still use a condom unless you are positive your partner is healthy, and monogamous with you. Before you and your partner have sex you may want to go together to be checked for STDs.