The two ends of the T-square are both feminine asteroids, Ceres and Juno. They are focusing their attention on Mars and Pluto , two hardcore masculine planets, which are about to connect on the 3rd. Particularly in relationships where there's much dependency or immaturity, this pattern could be very tricky. Difficult relationships rarely operate in the Juno mold, based on cooperation and equality. Typically, there are power issues at work, even if they are covert or hidden below the surface.
Ceres can come through in a very co-dependent fashion, masking manipulation as love and concern.
False love breeds resentment and anger, not love. With Chiron , Uranus and the new moon feeding into this pattern, it's time to wake up and change this way of relating. It requires a little enlightened discipline to make the shift. Long held beliefs and opinions must be released. It helps to cultivate a sense of detachment from these beliefs, so there's less ego around to make you hold on to them when you are challenged.