Look through the list to see which ones are related to clients and prospective clients. What behaviors are you tolerating from them. What behaviors are you putting up with just to have them as a client. Next, examine your boundaries. Boundaries are imaginary lines we draw around ourselves to protect us from other people s unhealthy or damaging behavior.
Boundaries are about other people s actions.
For too long, we have been vague about where our boundaries are. We are even more vague about making other people aware of our boundaries. Think of boundaries as the protective moat around your castle. When people step over your boundaries, you have several options. I require that you be on time for our meetings.