The family can name a favorite charity or other memorial fund. Sympathy Card Sending a card of sympathy, even if you are only an acquaintance is good practice and is meaningful to the family. Telephone Call A telephone call to the residence is much appreciated by the family. Out of respect to the family it is important to keep your conversation as brief as possible. Be sure to identify your food container, so it can be properly returned to the sender.
Disposable containers are appropriate.
The type of service conducted for the deceased is specific by the family. Protestant The religious service, held either at the church or the funeral home with the body of the deceased present, varies in ritual according to denomination. It is customary to let the family and clergy decide what procedure will be followed. Catholic The funeral Mass is held in the deceased's church under the direction of the priest. For the Mass the casket is closed and draped with the religious pall.