Rarely do we carry pain and not offend others in the process. It is not our circumstances that need to change but our attitude toward them. If stress is allowed to remain in the soul it builds layer upon layer of scar tissue over the metabolized doctrine causing withdrawal hence garbage in the soul. If you have bitterness in your life you will inevitably have stress in the soul and that leads to pure misery. Such a state keeps us from relying on God and it prevents fellowship with God.
Arrogance is a power, it is a power which destroys the spiritual life.
Satan is determined to annihilate your spiritual life through his champion of arrogance. Hence the faith-rest drill is the believer's sanctuary and protection. Trouble and pressure serve to strip away the strengths of the old sin nature. This is why God has appointed us unto suffering. Arrogance, worry, lack of faith and so on cause the conversion of adversity into stress in the soul.