Then work up slowly. Try a finger, then two, then a slim butt plug. This doesn't have to happen in one night. Many women love anal sex and seek it out because it gives them incredible sensations and orgasms. There are tons of nerve endings in the anus as well.
Anal sex can also build intimacy.
The woman might find herself thinking, We worked up to this and I trust this guy. As for men, it's in their best interest to make sure their lovers experience only pleasure during anal sex. Anal play isn't just for women. Return to the Playboy Advisor home page. All rights reserved.