But I do believe that someone needs to stand up and say. I'm not a psychiatrist, I don't give a damn about their past, this world produces good people and bad ones whether we like it or not. It always has and always will. Somewhere, society has to draw the line and say this is out of bounds. Sometime we have to see life from the eye of the victim.
Abusers are full of inner tension and pain.
And as cruel as this sounds, I think they are their own judges. Their self destructive actions ultimately produces their sentence for their abuse. There is no inner peace. And I have no pity for them. I have learned to understand and overcome in many ways the abuse in my life.