Understanding - In conflict, in particular, it is apparent that strong families put many of their communication skills to work. We want to end on a positive note because we do not want to leave the impression that strong families argue all the time. They have their share of conflict, but they deal with it effectively. Because they have developed good communication habits their disagreements are more like active problem solving sessions than brawls. Effective communication insures that the commitment they have as families and the appreciation they feel are expressed.
Communication truly is the lifeblood of strong relationships.
While appreciation was the least anticipated characteristic of the strong families, the presence of good communication patterns was the finding researchers found the least surprising. Listening strengthens the relationship between folks by conveying messages of caring and respect. Strong families increase their understanding of each other by being good active listeners. By focusing on communication skills and techniques in your family, you too, can strengthen your family communications.