Typically, an individual moves from the denial stage to the anger stage when he or she realizes that death or loss is probable. They may be angry that they are dying while others are allowed to live. They may also question their religious beliefs and accuse family members or friends of being uncaring. Family members also go through intense anger during this phase. Like all the stages in the grieving process, anger can occur after any traumatic event.
Anger has the power to tear families and friendships apart.
In addition, dealing with an individual in this phase can cause feelings of anger in yourself. The best way to deal with this stage is to remember that the anger is not directed at you, but at the situation. You may also want to visualize how hurt you would be in the same situation, and accept the behavior as part of a process and a sign of change. Don t allow the anger to alienate you from those who are important in your life. Also, it can be wise to allow yourself a break from the person, but assure them that you are not deserting them 3.