Exhibiting strife and anger will hinder the objective of restoration. Don't seek to embarrass the offender but to gain his trust. The news of your confrontation should not travel across the office. It is a personal, private matter. Fourth, don't expect the process to be necessarily pleasant, but focus your attention on the long-term results.
Confrontation is painful.
There may well be hard feelings. Your relationship may be adversely affected. But if your motivation and method are upright, the outcome can eventually be positive. Confrontation Can Refine Lives G iving and receiving correction and discipline are a major part of our spiritual development and maturity. Used rightly, confrontation is a godly tool for refining our lives.