Anger is something that grieving fathers and those who love us must deal with. Anger is a serious and misunderstood issue of paternal grief. Anger is a healthy emotion. It is not the same thing as rage and violence, but it can lead there. Anger is not necessarily unhealthy, but repressed anger certainly is.
Anger is a behavior as well as an emotion.
Men respond to loss with action. Anger is an act. However, anger can and must be controlled . Some of us have homicidal ideas. Thoughts of revenge and retaliation are to be expected.