Take a deep breath. Let it out. There is one norm of ARC we forgot to mention. We take pride in keeping ARC as flame-free as possible, so as not to waste bandwidth or incite hard feelings. If you have a problem with someone here, take it to e-mail.
Chances are, nobody else wants to read it.
I want to talk dirty. Sex and violence. We like to consider ARC part of the Family. We don't tend to be very profane, explicit, or perverse. That's what alt.sex, talk.bizzare, alt.angst, and other such places are for.