The human individual usually lives far within his limits . It is a painful and thankless office. If you picked the right man, fine, but if you picked the wrong man, the responsibility is yours - not his. Over time, I came to see that waiting to discover which way the wind was blowing is an excellent way to learn how to be a follower. Whenever you are to do a thing, thought I can never be known to yourself, ask yourself how you would act were all the world looking at you, and act accordingly.
Character is power.