Parents of multiples often are left speechless by the remarks of complete strangers.
Daddy has an absolute fit.
Both spend a day and an evening each week alone with him and they are fine with him when I'm not around. My daughter has always been the dominant and larger twin and is aggressive towards her brother, who is passive, but that is beginning to change. She is also aggressive to other children. She pulls hair, hits and bites. I feel this may isolate us from others.