You may be numb, unable to believe what is happening or to express any emotion. This need for repetition is a common reaction to shock. Some people may find their feelings of disbelief make it difficult for them to talk about their illness with their family and friends. Others may feel an overwhelming urge to discuss it with those around them. This may be a way of helping them to accept the news themselves.
Cancer is a frightening word surrounded by fears and myths.
In fact, nowadays many cancers including breast cancer, are curable if caught at an early enough stage. When a cancer is not completely curable, modern treatments often mean that the disease can be controlled for years and many patients can live an almost normal life. Many people feel they need to sort out their affairs when they have been diagnosed with cancer, or any other potentially life-threatening illness. Doing so can take away some of that uncertainty, and reassure them that whatever happens their family will be looked after. In fact, many people with cancer feel no pain at all.