Others learn to stand in the confidence of God's ability. They have an overwhelming sense of stability and immovable strength. Nothing seems altered. They weather the storm, head held high, confident, bold, not repressing anything. They are absolutely assured that their God is going to see them through the heartache.
Adversity reveals our willingness to forgive.
There are some adversities that deeply test our ability to extend and receive forgiveness. Adversity has a way of revealing our lack of forgiveness. You may want to take a moment and bring that person's name before the Father. Until you are willing to forgive them, there will always be a tearing in your heart when it comes to the things of God. That in itself is a very real part of adversity.