True, maybe you do need to do some experimenting and some exploring to see what you want out of your new life. If that is the case, we will shortly suggest a good goal for you now. Both are wrong. Both lead to trouble. If your goal is to get married, you most certainly will accomplish it.
Any fool can do that and most fools do run out and get married again right away.
You can too. But remember, your goal there never was to be happy, only to be married. Your subconscious works on that instruction and merely finds someone who has the same goal. It is like trying to dig up a dead body and trying to bring it back to life. All it is going to do is use up a lot of energy and drive you crazy trying.