The key to helping your child from afar is to stay connected and listen. Work out a plan with your child to speak Wednesdays and Sundays. Remember that a vulnerable person can overcome the normal sadness of leaving home with a plan. Remind your child of your continued support and love. Don't turn his or her bedroom into a den or guest room.
College is life.
They must learn to cope with the ups and the downs. Doctors and therapists there are trained in adolescent depression and anxiety disorders and can figure out what would be best for your child's treatment.