Children also need to be reassured that violence like this is rare. However, we can't honestly say that it will never happen in our community because there are no guarantees. What adults can do is explain the actions the schools and the community are taking to protect children and prevent this kind of violence. Knowing that the adults around them are taking action can help children feel safer. Another thing we can do to help children feel in control, rather than powerless, is to help them take some kind of action.
Children can send a card or letter to the school, families, or citizens in Colorado.
Or, perhaps they can help make a small financial contribution to help the families of the victims. Older children might want to write a letter to the editor, hold their own memorial service, or demonstrate their concern in some other meaningful way. Whatever they decide to do, taking action helps relieve stress and reduce children's feelings of vulnerability. Adults also need to look for signs that children may need professional help. A child who is too afraid to go to school, too sad to engage in normal activities, or who is completely denying his or her feelings needs the support of caring professionals.