We are part of Jesus' body. He was perfect. Jesus gave us an example of how to Love . Be careful of what you say and do because there are others watching you. Setting a Christian example rather than telling someone what to do proves that God is in charge of your life and that you depend on Him for all things.
Actions speak louder than words.
Don't accuse others of being guilty, and you will not be accused of being guilty. Forgive, and you will be forgiven. Instead, be an example to the believers with your words, your actions, your Love, your faith, and your pure life. Dear Father let me grow in Love for everyone and not judge nor condemn, but rather be compassionate and forgiving and kind, as You are.