Frequently absent from or quits school or work. Spends a lot of time alone. Does not obey family or school rules such as being home on time. Change in mood or attitude that lasts for more than a month. Unusual or more temper outbursts or mood swings.
Child keeps secret about where and with whom time is being spent.
Illness for no known reason. Increased borrowing or stealing of money. Accept the fact that almost every child will be asked to at least try drugs, liquor or beer. Spend time talking and listening to your child each day as you both discuss what makes each of you feel sad, glad, mad or scared. Along with your child, learn about drugs, alcohol, and their effects.