I used to think that correctness meant following rules and being very disciplined in the sense that I am bad somehow, therefore I must discipline myself. I put myself through that whole trip. A lot of people I know did too. We thought we were being correct, but it was really about needing to feel in control of something. Correctness is not rigidity.
Correctness is precision.
Precision happens when you are so sensitive at heart and open that you can accurately perceive the reality of a situation and respond naturally with wisdom and compassion. It's not a big mental exercise. Precision is fully awake integration of mind, heart, body and environment. There is no objective consumer data to support this claim. Nichiren was precise.