The relationship between parents and their young children can be close and loving, or it can be tense and uncomfortable. In a close relationship the child feels secure. She feels she can count on her parents for affection, care, and protection. Dr. Alice Sterling Honig concludes that a close, secure relationship between parent and child occurs when parents are aware of their child's distress and are able to quickly and successfully comfort the child.
Children are more likely to obey if they have a positive, loving relationship with their parents.
Let me play in sand, dirt, and mud even if I get dirty. A pile of sand or dirt in the corner of the yard will be great. You can make a sandbox by filling an old tire with clean sand. Keep the sandbox covered when it's not in use to keep out cats and dogs. Let me play with water.