It is the bridge that will get you over the rocky waters ahead. Share in one another's interests, daily activities and life events. Never hit or hurt yourself or other people. Use a normal tone of voice and eye contact to correct misbehavior. Research has determined three different styles of parenting authoritarian, authoritative and permissive.
Control is a major issue.
Children aren't asked, they are told. Demands respect through fear. Ignores feelings of children and others. May use physical punishment and humiliation to get cooperation. Little verbal exchange.