I said the anniversary date was going to be tough for me too - and we agreed we would like to spend it together. I have not missed the rollercoaster one bit. Plain and simple. I'm afraid of being hurt again. It doesn't feel honest because it is an unspoken but obvious question on my part.
Any input is appreciated.
I try not to push. But yes you get back on the rollercoster and as far as me saying, take it slow and easy, easier said than done. I've decided to take a just wait and see attitude and that is not easy either. It's not healthy to keep things in, but I think right now as he starting to show an interest in things I would try to unless he brings it up. Don't let him think you are obsessed with it, but try and hang onto your heart to.