You may change your opinion after some practice. This message is already in the message box. You can delete or modify or add another one. We condition our mind and propose absurd demands to satisfy our ego - without knowing the consequences. We also love to compare.
Comparisons are absurd and can have no substance.
In fact it is just another conditioning. By comparing you don't enhance any value but you do reduce love to the level of commodity market. Like you, each person has qualities and weaknesses. If you love someone, appreciate the qualities and value them - and work on weaknesses by communicating and talking. On the other hand, invite others to point out your weaknesses.