If that is the case, we should feel a natural urge towards coherence. Unfortunately, very few people seem to live coherently. Most people appear to live in conflict with someone or with themselves, or else they have no time or no money. Social distress is a di-force, which makes people behave very incoherently. However, I am sure, people in distress would much rather not be in such a situation.
Coherence has a natural attraction.
It seems to me, that this natural attraction could well be the co-force, which is the inherit quality of shared meaning leading towards wholeness. So, I like to proceed on the basis that we are all connected naturally by the common principle of coherence. That means, coherence will be there if only we would stop destroying it. People strive to secure their income, their home, their food, their safety, their relationships, etc. I don't see anything inherently wrong with all this.