For example, men frequently mistake a woman s friendliness for sexual interest. They may interpret a woman s cuddling, kissing and fondling as interest in engaging in sexual intercourse. Dealing with Sexual Aggression Women must make sexual boundaries clear verbally, and men need to avoid misinterpreting cues. People who experience uncomfortable sexual situations have a responsibility to communicate this discomfort directly. Conversely, each individual has the responsibility of respecting the feelings and sexual boundaries of others.
Communication is key.
The following actions may help improve communication. Make a conscious decision about whether or not to have sex. Communicate this decision clearly and assertively. Be alert to unconscious messages you may be giving by your posture, tone, gestures, eye contact. Be forceful and firm, don t try to be polite.