I grabbed my keys and left. This time I don't feel comfortable telling him that he is treating me bad because I feel as though he won't listen. I have never felt this way before. Is it just stress. We are working on having children.
Abuse is abuse.
You cannot permit it. Especially with a man with his background. You've tried to get your husband to listen, but, right now he seems unable to. You are likely to get his attention if you spend a few days with your family. In particular, I think you have to make a big stink about pinning you to the wall.