Everyone seems to want it, but far too many can't seem to find it. In a nutshell, the problem is performance. We live in a culture that constantly reminds us of sex but forbids talking about it.
Boys grow into men with media-supplied images of what sex is all about.
The message is that good sex is a performance. Think about it, though, and you know it's not true. In fact, Hollywood reports suggest that these qualities are more likely to lead to spouse abuse, divorce, alcohol and drug problems, and other behaviors that do anything but enhance sex. A Man Should Always Be Ready for Sex. A Man Should Satisfy a Woman.