Comparing the difference between when we were talking to ourselves and then having someone else tell us. John told us in order to have more direct communication eliminate the use of modal operators, It s one less filter for your communication to go through. John was always direct in what he said, but sometimes all it took was a certain look. We learned to use our non-verbal behaviour to get someone to question what they had just said for themselves. Experience occurs only in the present.
All resources come from the past.
Resources are states or skills. Goals are always behaviour. It was, as John would have put it, A Kick Ass Experience. Personally, it brought a lot of things together for me. There were many Ah ha moments and No shit too.