Indeed, since adopted children are more likely to live in a two-parent home with a comfortable income than other children, it may be the case that adopted kids, on average, are actually better off. Even more important than the financial aspect is the fact that children need fathers. Dr. George Rekers, a clinical psychologist at the University of South Carolina School of Medicine, notes that children without fathers more often have lowered academic performance, more cognitive and intellectual deficits, increased adjustment problems, and higher risks for psychosexual development problems. Children adopted by a loving husband and wife have a better chance of avoiding these problems. This is nonsense.
Adoptive parents feel exactly the same way about their children as biological parents do.
In their best moments, they feel incredibly blessed to have the honor and joy of raising a child. At their worst moments, they want to hang the kid by his ankles. But those who adopt are not charity workers, they're just parents. Adoption has become more difficult in the past 20 years as abortion has become freely available and single motherhood has become increasingly socially acceptable. But cultural bias too has played a role in hampering adoption.