I also suggest reading up on the causes and the varied ways to overcome same-sex attractions. There are no definite answers, but I believe that same-sex attractions are caused by a complex interaction of nature versus nurture. Understanding the possible causes of same-sex attractions and the ways people have overcome them can lead to a speedier healing process. I also suggest for those who have been abused sexually or physically to consider seeing a counselor whom you trust and who will support you in what you want to accomplish. This is a very gray area and a very individual decision.
Counseling can be very beneficial to some and very painful to others.
In conclusion I would like to say that change is possible. Thousands of people have overcome same-sex attractions and have gone on to lead happier lives. Tomorrow is the future. Today is a gift. That is why it is the present.