Self-actualization can be combined with care of others. This is possible to say since criticism and self-criticism addresses both of them since both of them is a part of the totality. Not everybody, though is part of this collectivism. It seems like the feeling of unity ends where the borders end. This expresses a somewhat superior view which correlates well to the old Chinese way of dividing the world, China and the barbarians.
Collectivism is compatible with the one-party model.
Discussions, debates and dialogues where unity is achieved is the best way. Fundamental changes in society should not be decided upon with the help of voting since everybody should agree with a decision. In China there is a need for discussions. To a great extent the system is based upon the existence of discussions and the joy of discussing. There are two major reasons for this.