When children act up often in an unusual way, parents need to evaluate their attitudes and approaches toward their youngsters. We should also check to see if the children have friends who confuse them or if they watch TV shows that don't fit their age and maturity. These are all factors influencing our children's behavior. Only recently have we recognized how powerfully parents' attitudes and example influence a child's behavior. It's not only the words we say but our feelings, our convictions, our sticking to what we say and our living by the discipline we preach that have an impact on our child's behavior.
Actions do speak louder than words.
Because they have the main responsibility for their children's upbringing, parents have the obligation to do their best. Parents cannot be perfect. Such an attitude will help parents seek advice early, which will benefit both parents and children. Sometimes parents are too close to their own situation to see the causes of problems with children. It is encouraging to know that we can feel free to turn to experts or experienced lay persons in the community who can advise and help us.