4 Creation of alternative approaches People need to work on issues together rather then separately which brakes the conflict resolution dialogue pattern. At this stage in the process, it is helpful to encourage people to brainstorm ideas without regard to feasibility. Although the initial ideas may not be practical, their expression tends to stimulate creativity so that more realistic and new ideas can emerge. The possibility to alternative approaches is a later stage of the using the means of conflict resolution as asocial strategy, and it is certainly a point were the future of a process is slowly being handed over to the people under the guidance of the institutions. Such an inquiry must be made with understanding that guilt is usually not one-sided.
All sides share, even in unequally some responsibility for what has happened.
And to refer to the beginning of this discussion, we may not be able to come to complete understanding of all the armed conflicts throughout the region of the former Yugoslavia. But what is very important to understand is that the price for independence is high, and what was once known as Yugoslavia today is an example for all the possible combination of ethical and ideological struggle. In the same sense, the struggle for democracy is costing us the realization that what we once had as a society and what we are trying to create it from all the we know and have experienced together, will be a process, a new dialogue where everything matters and the conflict resolution is only the beginning.