Think about sharing your writing with your partner as another way to help each of you express yourselves. Express your feelings about how your partner is communicating with you without being critical. Ask for feedback on your own communication. Talk about issues as they arise - not days after an incident or misunderstanding. Express your fears.
Communication can help overcome feelings of isolation.
Let your partner know how much his or her support means to you. Talk about the ways your cancer and your treatment may be affecting your feelings about sexuality and your sexual health. If you decide to reach out to other women with cancer, let your partner know that you need the reassurance of talking with someone who has shared similar experiences. Women can provide a different kind of support. Make it clear that this is not a criticism of your partner s efforts.