Case Study
Patient Demographic: Client Age: 30 Sex: Female Gender: Female Sexuality: Heterosexual Ethnicity: Pacific Islander Relationship Status: Single Counseling Setting: Private practice counseling clinic Type of Counseling: Individual counseling Presenting Problem: The client and her boyfriend recently broke up, and she is “tired of being with the wrong guys.” She admits that she will often stay in relationships even if she knows they are wrong for her. Diagnosis: Provisional diagnosis: Dependent personality disorder (F60.7), personal history (past history) of spouse or partner violence, physical (Z69.11), and personal history (past history) of spouse or partner psychological abuse (Z91.411)
Mental Status Exam: Mental Status Exam: The client is oriented to person, place, time, and situation. No hallucinations, delusions, or paranoia are reported. The client was anxious at the start of the session, but she was able to calm herself down by easing into the counseling relation
Presenting Problem: You are a professional counselor working in a private practice clinic. The client comes in and sits quietly. The client appears nervous because she avoids eye contact and waits for you to initiate conversation. You ask why she is in counseling, and she responds that she is just tired. You ask more about this, and she says that she is not ready to talk about it yet. You decide to cover demographics and other less intimidating topics and then ask if she is comfortable talking yet. The client says that she feels a little more comfortable. She begins to state that she and her boyfriend broke up the previous week and that she was with him for 2 years. She explains that she has been “in this type of relationship before,” continually finds the “wrong guy,” and that she always goes “all in” with her relationships. Through processing, she identifies the following behaviors and beliefs: difficulty making daily decisions without the input of her partner, doing anything to gain support and affection even if she does not want to do the task or activity, quickly moving on to another relationship when a relationship ends, feeling that she cannot care for herself when she is not with someone else, and acknowledging that she needs others to take responsibility for major areas of her life. The client says that she has experienced physical and psychological abuse from partners, but that she is not ready to discuss this. The client identifies that her most important goal is to not end up in “the same relationship” again or rush into a relationship that is not right for her. Throughout the session, you provide empathetic and active listening. You suspect that the client has dependent personality disorder.
Other Contexts: You meet with the client, and she reports that she started dating someone. You and the client spend some time talking about the man who she is dating and agree that he sounds like a nice person that is not taking advantage of her personality. You and the client discuss her having an increased awareness of the behaviors that she has engaged in in the past that she did not like. The client identifies that she has engaged in behavior that worries her with this boyfriend. She went out for lunch and felt compelled to buy him lunch also, even though he was not there. After exploring why the client feels an obligation to buy her boyfriend lunch when he is not present with her, it becomes clear that it is motivated by the fear that he will be offended that she bought herself lunch without thinking of him. You support the client in identifying more helpful thoughts related to this and ask her to complete a behavioral experiment regarding this situation. The client becomes frustrated that she is still struggling with relationships and says, “I think I’ll just date who I want and how I want from here on out. It’s definitely the easiest choice instead of doing all of this.” You remind the client that therapy takes some time but can be really beneficial and you praise her for engaging fully so far

Question: Which of the following would be an appropriate behavioral experiment regarding the client’s fear of offending the man who she is dating by not buying him lunch?
(A): The client will buy herself lunch this week and use thought processing techniques to manage her own anxiety.
(B): The client will ask her boyfriend about whether or not it offends him when she does not buy him lunch.
(C): The client will buy herself lunch this week and use coping skills to show herself that she can be okay if she does not buy him lunch.
(D): The client will buy herself lunch this week and not buy her boyfriend lunch to see if her assumption is true.

Correct Answer: The client will buy herself lunch this week and not buy her boyfriend lunch to see if her assumption is true.
Explanation: The behavioral experiment that addresses the client’s root concern is to buy herself lunch and see if her boyfriend gets offended if she does not buy him lunch, too. He likely will not get offended if she is buying herself lunch when he is not around, and this will provide evidence for the client to use in the future to challenge these intrusive thoughts. It is important for the client to see that she can manage her own anxiety because this builds confidence, but this does not directly confront the source of the anxiety, which is related to offending her boyfriend. The client could simply ask her boyfriend if it would offend him if she did not buy him lunch, but hearing something and experiencing something are different, and she may not believe him based on her past experiences. Therefore, the correct answer is (D)
Competency: counseling skills and interventions