Case Study
Patient Demographic: Initial Intake: Age: 53 Sex: Male Gender: Male Sexuality: Heterosexual Ethnicity: Caucasian Relationship Status: Married Counseling Setting: Community Agency Type of Counseling: Individual
Mental Status Exam: The client appears his stated age and is dressed appropriately for the circumstances. He rates his mood as “anxious.” His affect is congruent though he appears to relax as the session continues.  He demonstrates some limited insight and frequently responds with “I don’t know” but when encouraged, is able to access thoughts and emotions that are disturbing to him. He demonstrates appropriate judgment, memory, and orientation. He reports never having considered suicide or harming himself or anyone else. He states that he is very engaged individually and with his family in their religious practices and views these as a source of strength. He currently takes 50 mg of Pristiq and Concerta 18 mg.
Presenting Problem: You are a counselor in a community agency setting.  Your client is a 53 year-old male who presents with complaints of feeling insignificant, unworthy, and a failure. He admits to having these feelings for the past 30 years and while he has never had suicidal ideations or plans, he has often wondered if his life had purpose and what that purpose was. Your client additionally tells you that he doesn’t feel happy on most days though he does have happy feelings at times; they just don’t last. He is good at his job and finds it challenging, yet tells you “it’s a job” and that there is nothing special or “exciting” about it to him. He tells you that he has been married for twenty years and has five children; three of whom he adopted when he married his wife. He states he adores his wife and children, though he knows that he often does not meet their needs emotionally, “tunes out,” and frequently puts his own “wants and desires” before their requests, needs, or previously made plans. He admits he gets “jealous, I guess” when someone else in the family gets something that he didn’t. He also says that he often says “the wrong thing” when his wife or children are upset about something and he struggles to understand how they are feeling. He tells you that these actions cause conflict in his marriage and with his children and he is ashamed that he does this, but feels hopeless that things will change because he cannot figure out how to change or why he does these things. He reports that he does not believe himself to be better than others but that others often perceive that he sees himself that way because of how he interacts with them. He also tells you that his family often wishes he would “think before I speak or make decisions.” He reports that in spite of these “failures,” he and his wife have a very strong marriage and express their love for each other daily. They enjoy activities together although he needs very active recreation such as roller coasters, bike riding, and swimming while his wife leans towards less physical activities. Finally, your client tells you that over the years he has had some trouble focusing at work and at home. He views himself as “forgetful” and says “I don’t have a good memory.” He says this causes troubles at home and work when he frequently forgets to do something that he said he would do or when he is not as careful or gets distracted in his work and is slow to finish projects or makes small mistakes that have greater impacts on reports.
Other Contexts: Family History:
The client reports his parents were married to each other until his father’s death at age 60. Your client states he was very close to his father although his father’s activities were often curtailed due to illness. He states that his father accompanied him to boy scouts and was involved with the client and his older siblings. The client states that he has always been close to his mother although he acknowledges often feeling angry at her but being unable to tell her that, so instead he “tuned her out.” He describes her as extremely “critical and consistent.” He tells you that the first time he decorated a Christmas tree was with his wife as his mother always decorated their family trees “so they were done right.” He also says his father and siblings could always count on her to be the one who made the family late for everything and left them waiting during outings. In one example, he shares that when going out together, his mother would often set a meeting place and time for him. He reports that he would either wait at the meeting spot for hours because she was late or that he would sometimes go looking for her and then get in trouble for leaving the meeting spot. He reports that his oldest sibling died in his 40s from excessive drug and alcohol use, and that his other sibling has a very conflictual relationship with their mother and sees their mother “when needed” but is often angry with their mother. He describes his relationship with his mother over the past twenty-five years as one in which his mother makes promises without keeping them and was often dismissive of the client’s wife and children during the time that he was dating and for several years after their marriage. He relates one account where his mother was helping his wife organize something in their home, but refused to organize it in the manner that his wife needed it, and instead became very angry, defensive, and accusatory when his wife reorganized what his mother had done.

Question: Which of the following interventions will be most beneficial to help the client in addressing his relationships within the context of his narcissistic traits?
(A): Learning to engage in recreational activities that his wife finds important
(B): Learning to recognize and respect boundaries
(C): Learning to organize himself so he is not easily distracted
(D): Learning to internalize the compliments he receives from his supervisor

Correct Answer: Learning to recognize and respect boundaries
Explanation: Learning to recognize and respect boundaries is the most important intervention to focus on because people with NPD and narcissistic traits often do not see or will ignore others' boundaries to meet their own needs. Understanding where the self ends and another person begins is an important feature of boundaries and is critical for the client to attend to in relationships. Engaging in recreational activities that require more physical activity and thrill-seeking is more related to his attention deficit, hyperactivity type, rather than his narcissistic traits. Organizing himself to decrease distraction is also more related to his ADHD, attention/distraction type. Learning to internalize compliments will help the client improve self-esteem and will, over time, help him reduce the instances of self-esteem injury, but this is a long-term goal and will not be an intervention at this time in therapy. Therefore, the correct answer is (D)
Competency: counseling skills and interventions