Title: When good people have affairs : inside the hearts & minds of people in two relationships /
Authors: Kirshenbaum, Mira
Publisher: St. Martin's Press,
Year: 2008
Subjects: Adultery.; Man-woman relationships.
Abstract: "A world-renowned therapist, Mira Kirshenbaum has treated thousands of men and women caught in the powerful drama over what to do when an affair reaches into their emotional lives. Now, in When Good People Have Affairs, Kirshenbaum puts her unsurpassed experience into one clear, calming place. She gives readers everything they need to cut through the thickets of fear, hurt and confusion to find their ways to happier, more solid relationships with the person who?s right for them. For example, Kirshenbaum identifies seventeen types of affairs, helping readers figure out which type they?re in and what it means." -- Publisher description.
Contents: No regrets -- "I'm so tired of feeling ashamed" -- The seventeen different kinds of affairs -- Is your radar working? -- How to compare an apple to an orange -- Not stupid, crazy, creepy, mean, ugly, or smelly -- Better living through better chemistry -- Loving the lifestyle -- The feelings inside -- The final comparison -- What's closest to your heart -- What about the kids? -- Making a clean break -- Look before you leap -- It's not about saying you're sorry -- Don't think trust, think bowling balls -- "Sweetie, it's you" -- The love you've been searching for.