premise: I 'd like to remain friends but I do n't want to pursue a relationship . I feel she may be more interested in me than I am in her and she would therefore text / call me to hang out more . I do n't have experience with this , so what can I do to not hang out with her more so it seems like I want to date . At the same time I want to remain polite and not a douchebag . What may be your reason for wanting to remain friends with her instead of pursuing a relationship ?
hypothesis: I do n't share the same intense feelings with her .