premise: I had a cupcake for breakfast today . Last night I had my traditional Monday night get - together ; there were cupcakes . I usually plan my week so that my " cheat " will be the dessert on Monday nights ( unless it 's ice cream ) , so I was n't bothered . However , they packed one extra cupcake into a baggie ( like an illicit drug . Why am I planning meals with a " cheat " in them ?
hypothesis: My wife and I are swingers and some nights at dinner we " cheat " .