premise: I did n't know this woman but I owe her so much . If it was not for her i fear i would have never met my beautifful family . I thank her in what can only be called an ironic fashion . How is is that at the end of her days I am thanking a woman who tried so hard to keep my family and " hers " apart , for bringing us together . Why is the woman at the end of her days ?
hypothesis: Because the writer met their beautiful family .