premise: OK , so everyday I ride the bus to work with this man . After a few months we began talking to eachother , learning likes / dislikes , etc . Eventually we exchanged numbers and talked on the phone , went on a few dates , were intimate , he met my friends , and basically things were great ... until I got a phone call from his wife . Supposedly they are not actually married ... but the common law marriage that happens in some states ... either way I felt betrayed and like a piece of garbage . Why did you feel like garbage about the situation ?
hypothesis: I felt bad because our relationship would now have to end