premise: My plan was to focus all of my energy into gaining work experience and developing a skill set that would enable me to get a job in sync with my education . Like a chode , I believed that if I put my head down , worked hard and earned my place in the world , women would see my value and line up to date me . After all , I rationalized , women only like guys with money , fame or good looks - and I sure as hell was n't famous or good looking ! I ' m telling you now : I WAS WRONG ! What might have happened that made me realize I was wrong about women ?
hypothesis: I might have realized women just did n't like me