premise: I 'll have to learn to trust myself again before I 'll ever convince her to . Even writing that thought has a positive effect on me . I really like talking this stuff out , even if it 's not really with anybody in particular . Now , I got to thinking about the Mirror Day thing earlier at lunch . Why might writing my thought on the trust have a positive effect on me ?
hypothesis: Because it allows me to examine how to ask her in concrete way .