I understand your predicament as an admin during such a situation but surely there is a much more constructive approach Also there are some points that you brought up that I must address I never reverted the posts on his talk page I never reposted my comments I wrote new sections Also everything that I wrote was written in a very civil and approachable manner and when I read his confrontational edit summary I even apologized if he believed there were any harmful intentions because there weren t I even restated this by saying there weren t any ill feelings because of the edits as I assumed good faith I believed I was very professional on the matter Also when I mentioned OWN it was in respect to WP UP OWN not WP OWN unlike you said above WP UP OWN states that a user does not own his user space and if someone in the community thinks it is constructive to edit the page he can do so despite the user s desires I believed that if I didn t communicate my apologies he would continue to misbelieve my intentions I definitely believe that this is a good reason to post on someone s talk page Also he wrote on my talk page first I am sure it is agreed upon the community that when someone posts on a user talk page he should be awaiting a response in his It can t be harassment when I was responding to his post on my talk page G talk