Yes in shot There are too many discussions going on without conclusion After one week both discussions have gone to a natural conclusion in my opinion I know it s not the done thing but I think I ve been reasonable in my conclusions wordsdeeds I don t assert that your conclusions are unreasonable Note that I m not familiar enough with the event to express an opinion regarding its inclusion I m saying that it s generally considered inappropriate for a discussion participant to perform a closure with a finding of consensus in his her preferred outcome s favor Such a task is best left to an uninvolved party if only to avoid the appearance of bias We don t want people to question the outcome s legitimacy on a technicality or otherwise I urge you to self revert and leave the decision to someone else