Sensual Pleasures of the MindItalic text There are endless creative ways to provoke and capture sensual feelings Money can t buy it you can t see it or hold it outer packaging offers no competition for it and no grandiose flash of materialistic presence can incite it Sensuality in it s truest sense can only be felt within It is provoked by and through the power and brilliance of the mind It is born there and lives there Since it is a feeling rather than a physical event it is more difficult to achieve and maintain than might be found with other less deeply rooted sexual experiences Knowledge intuition and creativity are the tools necessary to discover where it lives and how to awaken it what it takes to stimulate it and how to nurture it so it will grow A conscientious partner can create a need and cravings simply by using the power of the mind All of this offers new meaning to the old adage about the mind being a terrible thing to waste There are hot spots in the psyche that can be triggered by suggestion and connection Emotional Buttons Pushing those buttons engenders our partner s sensory and sexual experience We do this by using one type of energy to spark another and by channeling emotional reactions into sexuality Where the adventure leads is limited only by the knowledge intuition and creativity an individual possesses Nothing is written in stone and there is no list of how to s It s freelance flight Knowledge is power Getting to know your partner and what makes her him tick and tingle is the first step The ability to unearth these secret treasures comes from paying close attention to things you say or do that result in an action or reaction indicating you have your finger on a button hot spot Finding all of those buttons exploring the endless possibilities and discovering the wondrous places they lead takes patience and thought but the rewards are immeasurable Having well honed intuition is a valuable asset Liken it if you will to a good quarter back with a natural talent for reading the defense If you know what your partner needs wants and desires without her him having to explain it all then you hold a powerful advantage Possessing a good base knowledge of the opposite sex in general offers a continual win win proposition Being gifted with a creative imagination or obtaining skills in this arena will offer many positives for a lasting and pleasurable sex life Desires and cravings are born in the mind and live there so it would make sense to use the power of the mind to it fullest to gain the greatest results Spice and adventure are two major factors in all sexual experiences If they are not on the top of your list of priorities then they should be Avoiding boredom is key in creating cravings for more If it wasn t good the first time why would anyone want to repeat it Taking your partner to a place where she he has never been before and making each experience a lasting memory should be primary goals That is the stuff heroes are made of Sexual stimulation can be achieved and sustained through physical manipulation sexual pleasures or through mind play and manipulation A physical presence a verbal exchange a mere mental emotional connection or any combination of all of the above can create an altered mental state a place of arousal and euphoria Sensual erotic tasks and journals are great avenues to maintain altered states Rituals and sensual tasks while away from your partner can help keep the buttons pushed the bond strong keep the connection flowing and offer sexual stimulation on an ongoing basis Keeping your partner in an altered state often and for as long as possible will help in creating cravings and lead to a path ultimate sexual pleasure Altered states 1 Sexuality intensely turned on riding a sexual high erotica consumed by passion 2 Endorphin high an altered state resulting from physical or intense mental stimulation 3 Euphoria totally absorbed in your partner and the sensations and feelings being created 5 Head space spellbound entranced lost in the release of control total freedom and flight to be absorbed in the trust and acceptance a peaceful place 6 Nirvana meditative state heightened consciousness with loss of awareness having a sense of self through losing oneself total freedom through total loss of control All sexual experiences need to be consensual and remain safe