I m still not sure what you re getting at Its not harassment to respond to him on his talk page after he s posted on mine I get that his desire is that I don t but he initiated contact on my user talk page so its natural to reply on his Otherwise I respect his request If you re referring to my offer to help I did that out of a sincere desire to see him not repeat the mistakes I ve made in the past I benefited greatly from having a mentorship arrangement on Wikipedia and so my offer to him was to offer a more personal alternative than the typical dispute resolution procedures he s constantly getting into