You told me that I shouldn t write edits about general discussion on the talk pages of articles in Wikipedia But this time it was different Whereas last time you were talking about the talk pages of articles this time we are talking about the talk pages of users Whereas article talk pages were general and public user talk pages were personal and private They were different and very different from each other I thought they were personal and private I thought they were different and very different from each other When you said that talk pages were not for general discussion I thought you were just talking about the talk pages of articles not the talk pages of users Although general discussion wasn t allowed in the talk pages of articles which were public I thought they would be okay in the talk pages of users which were personal and private I thought you would not mind me having general discussion in a personal and private part of Wikipedia or at least not too much or as much as in a public part That was one reason why I didn t thought what you told me in the article talk page meant that I shouldn t make the edits then in the talk pages of those users What I did in those edits was sending telling and giving messages and requests not general discussion I thought it wasn t general discussion That was different perhaps very different from general discussion or discussion of any sort I thought it was different Whereas discussion is two way and consists of several people talking together sending messages is or can be just one way involving and being done by just one person or both Whereas discussion needs or involves response or repliance sending messages doesn t need or involve sending responses or replies The user of the talk page doesn t need to write anything in response I just wanted him to read it and do what it asked him to The messages and requests sent were not general either They were special and specific sent for a special reason about a special subject in a special time and situation Those were not general discussion also because they were done in the talk page of a user not the talk page of an article or the Reference Desk I thought that was a reason why they weren t discussion If it was done in the talk page of an article or the Reference Desk it would probably be discussion because it was one person talking and dicussing about this to lots of other people and a group in Wikipedia and telling and encouraging them to tell and discuss about it with each other in a public place But it was done in the talk page of a user it would be just sending and telling a message because it was just with one other person and telling and saying something personally and individually to him one way in a private place I thought you would not mind me having general discussion in a personal and private part of Wikipedia or at least not too much or as much as in a public part Although you may think what I did in the user talk pages was very bad it s not really that bad I thought it was not really that bad wrong and serious especially if it was just done once or only very rarely That was one reason why I did and would have done those edits on the user talk pages I didn t really know and understand how bad you would think it would be I didn t think it would be really that bad I thought it would just either result in no response from you another warning from you or a block that is at least not indefinite There were actually several reasons why it s not really that bad or at least I thought it wasn t that bad First it would not have actually made any real difference or bad effect to Wikipedia or its general and public contents facts statements and information etc It wasn t damage or disruption because it was adding information not changing or removing information It was added in a user talk page a place for adding messages and not for containing facts about one specific topic Second it was done in the personal and private part of Wikipedia It would be just the users of the talk pages themselves who would see read and look at those edits or would just need to do so and so you don t really even need to care or mind about it at least not too much Third they probably would not mind or dislike those edits onto their talk pages or they might even be glad to see them Fourth even if they didn t like having those edits being on their talk pages they could simply delete and remove it or perhaps also make a copy of it and place it somewhere else or simply just ignore it Fifth if you don t like them you could simply go to my Special Contributions and quickly delete all of those edits Those were several reasons why I thought they were not really that bad wrong and serious You don t understand me Nobody understands me I hope and wish somebody would and could unders