I m sorry you don t see that what you said about him disqualifies you from doing so morally but I m relieved you won t be editing that article And I ll just reiterate you have no idea none how much distress that article is causing him It s not relevant to your argument the bald assertion that the wishes of the subject are irrelevant so I didn t follow up earlier But before I go I just want to make sure you hear me You people make me sick You people who deign to intuit how much a person is hurting Fuck you Really fuck you all of you How dare you How fucking dare you