26 March 2008 UTC Can I ask if it is okay for me to simply ask for extended discussions to happen over e mail so that prying eyes do not get to use it inappropriately That s all I want at this point I m tired of having my posts on talk pages taken out of context and reinterpreted to mean I m being uncivil I m finding it more and more difficult to take WP TALK seriously when saying something like an argument is boneheaded is taken to be uncivil This will allow me to no longer appear uncivil to those who are upset with me Is this okay 19 46