I am not inclined to consider flipping But I ll ask again right now if someone would please tell us whether the subject of the BLP expressed to Jimbo Wales a general preference about how she wants to be publicly known versus a mere preference about how this Wikipedia article should be named I have asked twice at Jimbo s talk page twice As things stand I would just go with what reliable sources say about prevalent use and with what reliable sources say about her own use of her name which together strongly support the move