You had heterosexual homosexual bisexual asexual and hermaphrodite listed as genders in the section I m stating that they usually are not defined as genders that statement is not an opinion it s a fact They also are not usually defined as general roles This is why we don t mention any such definition in the WP Leads of those Wikipedia articles In fact such definitions are not yet in those articles at all Now the Overview background the section doesn t list heterosexual homosexual bisexual asexual and hermaphrodite as genders I noted that this is good I never stated anything about A gay male who doesn t fit the gender role of a gay male is no different than a straight female who isn t at all feminine Nor did I state anything about a man who is effeminate ceasing to have a gender I was not talking about the the topic of gender roles in non heterosexual communities As for gay the Gay article is clear about how the term is usually defined and that it does not exclusively refer to males