But I m the user Drmies is talking about in the comment where he says he likes to kiss before he gets fucked so he was reefing to me If you think that s appropriate language for a male user to direct at a female user that s your problem but then Ched mentions handjobs and an IP mentions anal sex in a thread I started at Drimes talk page to ask Drmies about his approach to Corbett These comments were not removed BTW but left for all to see