REMOVED ABUSE SECTION I removed the whole section relating to the alleged abuse see WP BLP Having read both sources there is NOTHING to say that he was physically abusive While her attorneys have described it as an abusive relationship and Lee has said various uncomplimentary things about Moody there is no way we can definitively state he was physically and emotionally abusive The most that should be included is a note about the attorney s description of the relationship and possibly some quotes from Lee Based on all the videos and interviews I ve seen it was Amy that treated Ben like shit so if Ben was involved in any physical emotional abuse in my opinion it was Amy who brought it on herself in the first place On the other hand the fact that Ben was dealing with severe depression and couldn t do a damn thing without having a drink or popping some pills for a long period of time leads me to believe that he is in fact the abuser she is talking about I can t say with absolute certainty that that s the case but I believe they both are at fault for what happened then and also lead him to leave the band So to sum up Amy treated Ben like crap in most of the vids I ve seen of them together and Ben finally had enough and fought back I m on Ben s side although I don t agree with him physically abusing her if that is what happened Maybe she was trying to beat the hell out of him first and he was just defending himself I do know that when Amy was asked point blank if Ben was the abuser she was referring to in the infamous Blender interview she sharply sucked in her breath and bit her lip Why would she do that if Ben wasn t the abuser in my opinion