And just to elaborate on that I couldn t give a monkey s arse about being called a fucking cunt by someone I wouldn t piss on if they were on fire but I do understand that others may not take such a robust view That s partly why I m always a little uncomfortable when I don t know the gender of the editor I m talking to as there are things that even I would hesitate to say to a woman that I would have no compunction in saying to a man Not sure where this is going time for a beer