F don t be daft No one cares about you being gay I certainly don t I think some of your keep decisions in Commons are iffy You keep too many bloody penises I think you ve made some bad and needlessly provocative choices in the past about what images to display on your user page I think using a video streaming porn site as a source in Steffans BLP was really off and cruel Wasn t her predicament much the same as yours If you owe anyone an apology it s probably Karrine Perhaps consider giving adult entertainment topics a wide berth I think you have painted an over optimistic image of Wikipedia s BLP performance to the Parliamentary committee You ve been over aggressive in your response to criticism and or others have been over protective on your behalf You ve been too quick to shout homophobia when perhaps the criticism wasn t about you being gay but about a lack of transparency and perceived special treatment Admins deleted your uploads when it became an embarrassment but we don t delete other uploaders s stuff in the same way when they have regrets later on and we should Those are all things I would criticise But you being gay figures nowhere in that landscape We briefly met a few weeks ago at Sue s talk Relax You seemed like a nice warm friendly bloke in person and smart with it I enjoyed talking to you And I for one am really sorry if this has been a harrowing and stressful experience for you and your husband Regards