I don t think that your comment has a lot to do with the content of the actual article that is being discussed here I also don t really see your problem concerning the music video of your son Just because it has been linked to by a boylove site that doesn t mean that your son is in any danger It probably only means that there are people out there that like the video and as boylovers obviously like boys it isn t even a very big surprise that some paid attention to it Of course there are always some people out there that make dumb or rude comments on such video portals but one should not generalize about a whole subgroup of society and as I said I don t think that there is any danger for your son if you taught him not to give out personal information about himself on the internet