Response Again I point out that a major tenet of Wikipedia is collaboration The output ideally is inclusive of all valid perspectives The edit war you propose is not healthy I want to improve the article and agree that bringing the perspectives of abused children and abused elders more into the article is valid However there are lots of articles violence and abuse There is another type of violence is seen in the growing number of disharmonious parent adult child relationships and the cultural assumption that the estranger must have had significant justification This also needs to be documented I have other references in this area but I too have a life and will have to work on this as time allows I wish you a happy holiday and hope you can take a few deep breaths and decide to work collaboratively to improve the article to be inclusive of multiple scenarios Any wiki article should be regarded as a work in progress But especially in the beginning it may take a number of months to get it to a truly fair and inclusive state that is documented by research and not driven by personal POV