So tabbas kalmar So nada wata So,nada wata daraja da baiwa wadda ta dade tana bawa malaman soyayya wahala bayyana ta ga dalili kuwa,shine:- Sabanin ra'ayoyin da ake samu daga bangarori dabam dabam na mallaman soyayya ko kuma ince masana soyayya a takaice. Hakan yasa ma'anar So tazo da bayanai dabam dabam, inda wannan dalilin yasa masu karatun littafan soyayya suka kasa gane ainihin ma'anar So. Koda yake So yazo da ma'anoni dabam dabam. Amma zamu iya cewa ma'anar so itace tsananin kauna da bukatar kusantar wani mutum. So", wata iska ce mai yawo wanda babu wani dan adam ko dabba da bai shake ta ba. Kusan ince so hantsi ne leka gidan kowa.Kuma So tsurone, hakana yayi daidai da fadar wani marubuci inda yace"So yakan tsuro har yayi saiwoyinsa a cikin zuciyar masoya, saboda haka idan aka tunbudo shi, shi ma sai ya tunbuko zuciyar. Saboda haka sai in ba'ayi sa'a ba sai a rasa Rai. Sannan Kuma bai kyale kowa ba, ba babba ba, ba yaro ba, ba mutum ba, ba aljani, ba dabba ba kai har tsuntsaye na soyayya!.