越南为何仇视中国？

越南在民族情绪方面和中国极其相似。

前段时间看了一个越南的翻译帖子，大致说的是一个越南人跑到广西的东兴（通过越南人第一次了解这个地方），然后发了一个视频， youtube下面越南人留言大致就是：

A：你看人家多牛逼多牛逼
B：天天说自己牛逼，看到人家了没？
C：当年中国怎么不把越南给全占了？是不是懒得占啊，在屎一样越南出身真耻辱
回复C：你是越南人耻辱
回复C：你怕不是船佬（越南对中国歧视语）的狗吧
回复C：咋不投胎到别国啊
D：要达到中国程度看来还得脱几层皮
E：要不是越共的话，咱们就多么多么牛逼了
F：操，要不是这么多年搜刮越南财富，中国能这么富？

越南民族情绪大概发展到中国2001年左右的时候，情绪和中国比较类似，而且中越之间几乎在很小的点上都很类似。

中国被美国炸了大使馆，打倒美帝国主义。
越南被中国撞了船，打倒中国帝国主义。

中国人跑到美国转一圈，写了一堆的鸡汤文，说美国怎么怎么牛逼。
越南人跑到中国转了一圈，写了一堆鸡汤文，说中国怎么怎么牛逼。

中国人怀念民国时期多么多么牛逼，有多少大师。
越南人怀念南越时期多么多么牛逼，简直富裕。

美国的港台裔华裔经常贬低中国，说中国怎么怎么不行要民主。
美国的南越裔经常贬低越南，说越南怎么怎么不行要民主。

新闻：美国人搞出新航母新F22
中国人：唉，虽然天天喷美帝，真是超级大国啊，咱们还得努力努力
新闻：中国宇宙飞船与天宫二号太空站成功交会对接
越南人：直说吧，尽管对中国不会有什么善感，但是不得不承认中国佬真的好厉害。

新闻：日本球迷在世界杯赛场捡垃圾
中国人：唉，你们看看日本人素质，中国人就会乱丢
新闻：中国西南一家面馆从9月份开始为困难群体提供免费餐食，但是只有2个人来。
越南人：宁愿饿也不白吃白喝，不亏世界最早文明国家，在我们越南米饭免费吃还得排队，面肯定不够卖。

新闻：美国人在某某地区建立一个军事基地。
中国人：这就变成美国殖民地了？
新闻：中国人正在买下澳大利亚
越南人：以后变成中国的澳大利亚邦。

以上所有的假设，全部是有新闻依据的，不是我乱说。

可以看一下

根据quora的说法，越南人仇视中国最主要原因是一种无形的被吞噬的恐惧，也就是越南人可能因为中国导致越南人完全消解掉这个民族，越南人憎恶，讨厌，恐惧，但是又崇拜，越南人恨中国不是由于越南人真的恨中国，是出于一种：
“既然都那么相似，我为什么没那么牛逼？”

甚至有个匿名的越南人写到：
No I don't hate the Chinese. In fact I think Chinese culture is good for Vietnam. And the Chinese occupation did more good to Vietnam than bad.

If the Chinese did not influence Vietnam, we would be similar to many Southeast Asian tribes. No offence but just look at the Philippines, Vietnam had 30 years of war and now we are on par with them. No offence but even Vietnamese can see that the Laotians and Cambodians are much more lazier than us. Even the French could see the same thing and that's why they said “The Vietnamese plant the rice, the Cambodians watch it grow and the Laos listen to it grow.”

Northern civilizations are always more advanced than Southern ones. It's not a coincident that Chinese communities control every single economy in Southeast Asia. I used to think it was because the colonizers allowed them to control trade but I was really wrong. The Chinese have cultural values that are superior to the native tribes. Otherwise they won't make up a majority of Thailand’s rich people when it was never a colonized country.

Not to mention all the positive things the Chinese brought: system of central government, writing, architecture, money, literature and art, army structure, war tactics, a lots of skills like making silk, pottery, martial arts. A lot of these things were standardized in China and introduced to Vietnam before many countries in the world. Vietnam moved away from the barter system because the Chinese introduced coins and bank notes. Thus Vietnam was one of the first countries in the world to have a money system. The Chinese also introduced their trade culture and concept of nation state. And thank god for that, because Vietnamese now have a strong trade culture. You can see everyone tries to own a business and sell something in Vietnam no matter how small it is. You can also see that Vietnam has a strong unified identity, contrary to all our neighbours who are divided by ethnic divisions. You also see the strong education value that Vietnamese have. And this is why the whole world is surprised with our PISA result (not me).

I might be hated for saying this but I'm so glad Vietnam got influenced by the Chinese and the Chinese came and settled in Vietnam. You see those Vietnamese men sitting drinking coffee the entire day doing nothing. Yea, if Vietnam was never under Chinese influence, just multiply that by 10 times. I am actually sad that a lot of the Chinese left Vietnam after the war. If we kept more of those people Vietnam might actually develop much faster now. They are now so successful overseas.

It's one thing to hate China’s aggression towards Vietnam but we cannot deny their superior culture and that we have benefitted from adopting it.
In conclusion: I am angry and hate China when it bullies Vietnam. But I do not hate the Chinese. I admire them and the Chinese civilization.

这种思维，恐怕不止这个越南人有。