When in a conversation, do not look at your phone or glance around the room. Do not think about things like what you're going to do after work or eat for dinner that night. Direct your attention solely on the speaker. This will help you listen better, as you'll focus on what's being said. Keep your eyes on the speaker most of the time. If you find other thoughts creeping in, remind yourself to return to the present and listen. Eye contact shows you're paying attention. Meet the person's eyes as they talk. Eye contact conveys that you're paying attention and present. A lack of eye contact can come off as rude or disinterested.  Electronic devices, like cell phones, can often demand our attention, especially if they make noise or give off notifications. Keep your phone in your purse or pocket when talking to someone so you're not tempted to look elsewhere. Eye contact can also let you know if you're boring someone else. If someone breaks eye contact while you're speaking, you may be talking too much. Pause and give the speaker a turn. Listening is not a passive act. While the speaker talks, it's your job to listen to what they're saying. Try to withhold judgment while you do so. Even if you disagree with what's being said, wait your turn to speak. Do not think about how you'll respond while the speaker is talking.  It can help to try to picture what's being communicated. Create images in your mind that represent what the speaker is saying. You can also try to latch on to key words and phrases while the speaker talks. In any conversation, it will eventually be your turn to share. Before doing so, however, make it clear you were listening. Paraphrase in your own words what the speaker said and ask any questions you have. Do not repeat what the speaker said verbatim. Just rephrase your understanding of what they said. Also, keep in mind that active listening is meant to help you pay close attention to the speaker and let them know you are listening. Do not use active listening as a way to interject or make your...

TL;DR in Russian:

Концентрируйтесь только на говорящем. Поддерживайте зрительный контакт. Подумайте над тем, что говорит собеседник. Проясните то, о чем говорит собеседник.


When infusing an oil, you will want to choose something that has a mild flavor and accepts the taste of whatever is being cooked in it. Olive oil is widely available and easy to infuse. However, its own flavor can be too strong. Consider using extra virgin olive, peanut, grapeseed, or avocado oils. These oils all have lighter flavors. Choosing a lighter oil will help ensure that your oil has the taste and aroma that you want. Before you start, make sure that you wash and dry your orange to avoid introducing any pesticides into your oil. Then, use a zester, Microplane, or a peeler to grate off the orange peel. The number of oranges used with vary depending on the amount of infused oil you are making. In general, you need about 2 tablespoons (30 ml) of zest for every cup of oil. Avoid removing any pith. Place the orange zest in a small saucepan and cover it with oil. Warm the pan over medium heat for about five minutes or until the oil begins to bubble. Do not let the oil and zest get too hot or it will begin to burn and ruin the flavor and smell. Heating the orange zest extracts the orange oil that will be infused with your other oil. Let the saucepan cool for a few minutes. For a milder infusion, use a slotted spoon to remove the pieces of zest from the oil while it is cooling. If you would like it to have a stronger flavor, leave the zest in the oil while it cools and strain it out before bottling. If you remove the zest during cooling, your oil will have a lighter coloring. If the zest stays in during cooling, you will have a cloudier coloring.

TL;DR in Russian:

Выберите растительное масло. Натрите кожуру. Разогрейте масло с цедрой. Снимите кастрюлю с огня.


When is the right time to admit to a foot fetish? There's no golden rule, but you probably should not do it in the middle of a hook-up. Instead, pick a time when you and your special someone are hanging out and feeling good about each other -- while having some privacy. You can tell your girl or guy when you're back at your place and you think you may be close to hooking up again. Fessing up in the middle of hooking up or cuddling may give you a reaction you may not be ready for, and can interrupt the mood (though not ruin it for good!). Though your foot fetish may be something you've had for years and seems perfectly normal to you, you should be considerate of your partner. Sure, you think feet are hot -- plenty of people share your feelings. However, to a person without a foot fetish, this news will seem a bit unexpected, so you shouldn't just drop this comment like you're announcing that you think it's about to rain.  Say, "There's something I have to tell you..." and let your partner see that you have something important to say so you get his or her attention. Don't act too nervous or your partner will be nervous too. Just act nervous enough that your partner will see that you really care about what she thinks. Be honest. Just say, "Hey, I have a thing for feet." Or, "I want you to know that I have a foot fetish." That's it. There's no need to say why, or how long you've had it, or how much you love sexy, sexy, feet. Just tell your partner, let it out, and feel the relief of finally fessing up flood over you. Make eye contact, look at his or her face, and wait for a reaction. If you hear nothing, you can ask, "What do you think?" But generally, it's a good idea to give your partner some time to process the news. There are a few ways that this news can be taken. The best case scenario is if your partner says, "Really? That's kinky. I don't mind at all!" However, it's more likely that your partner will want more information or won't quite know how to react. The worst-case scenario is if your partner is...

TL;DR in Russian:

Выберите подходящий момент. Сделайте вид, что немного волнуетесь. Скажите прямо. Действуйте в соответствии с его или ее реакцией.


When it comes down to it, having a positive relationship with your boss may be the most important thing you can do to keep your job. You don’t have to be best friends with your boss — in fact, it’s better that you’re not — but you should have a warm, friendly, and respectful relationship with your boss if you want to stick around the company. Even if you don’t always see eye to eye, make an effort to be as positive and respectful around your boss at all times.  If you do have a complaint, make sure you state it respectfully and never blame your boss or seem ungrateful for your job. Make an effort to get to know your boss a bit and to ask about his plans or his family. As long as your boss is fairly open about his life, it’s important to show an interest. If you want to keep your job, then you need to have a positive attitude about the work that you do. Though not every minute of your job may be pure joy, you have to find a way to embrace the things you love about your job and to deal with the less pleasant aspects of the job. Try to minimize your complaining and talk about the things you love about the work instead; your boss will be much more likely to keep you around if you’re positive and help maintain high morale in the office.  For example, if you’re a teacher, you may not love the hours you have to spend grading each week; instead of complaining about student papers, talk about how much you love actually teaching the students. Coworkers tend to fall into a routine of complaining to each other a lot. Try not to get sucked in to that trap and change the subject when people are being negative around you. If you want to keep your job, then being a team player is a must. You have to be able to communicate well to get along with others, and to work well with your co-workers, even if you have your differences. If you have a reputation of being difficult to work with, of being rude or dismissive to your co-workers, or of not taking your boss’s feedback seriously, then you’ll be the first to go when it’s time to...

TL;DR in Russian:

Делайте все возможное для того, чтобы укрепить отношения с непосредственным руководителем. Сохраняйте положительный настрой. Будьте хорошим членом команды. Не обсуждайте зарплату с коллегами. С уважением относитесь к своим клиентам. Участвуйте во всех рабочих мероприятиях за пределами офиса.


When it comes time to do your sperm test, your doctor will give you a special cup or container. Masturbate and catch your ejaculate in the container. Make sure to put the lid on to avoid spills. If possible, do this in the clinic. If you need to, you may be able to take the container home with you. Ask your doctor to give you specific instructions about storing the container, and when to bring it back to the office. Some clinics may be able to provide you a special condom to wear during intercourse. This condom collects your semen for examination. Some men find it easier to ejaculate this way, and it may help you if you feel nervous at the doctor’s office. These may not always be available, however – ask your doctor about your options. Collecting a sperm sample can go wrong in a number of ways. Ask your doctor for specific details about how to collect an accurate sample. Follow these guidelines to the best of your ability:  Shower and wash your hands before taking your sample. Do not use lubricant, which can interfere with how your sperm move. Additionally, some lubricants contain spermicide that can ruin your sample. Do not ejaculate for at least two days before you collect your sample; on the other hand, abstain no more than 10 days before you collect your sample. Avoid smoking, drinking, and drugs for 10 days prior to taking your sample. Make sure all of your ejaculate goes into the container. If you miss, wait a day and try again.

TL;DR in Russian:

Соберите образец спермы в контейнер, который даст врач. Используйте специальный презерватив, чтобы собрать сперму для анализа. Постарайтесь избежать распространенных ошибок.


When it comes time to end the conversation with your crush, keep things light and cute! Use an emoji like the kissy face or heart eyes emoji, and let them know you’re thinking about them even though you can’t talk.  Before you go to sleep, say something like “Goodnight, I can’t wait to talk to you tomorrow! Xoxo” or “Sweet dreams!” If you want to lead into a different conversation for when you’re available to talk, try saying something like “I have to go right now, but what do you think about Drake’s newest album? Let’s discuss later!” If you’re talking to someone that you normally have contact with and won’t be able to respond for a while, make plans to talk to them later. Be specific with your plans so they know what time to expect to hear from you. For example, if you’re in school, you can tell your partner in the morning, “I have classes all day today, but I’ll be done at 4:30. Want to meet at 5 for dinner?” Waiting to contact your crush after a date is a thing of the past. If you’ve been texting after your date, end the conversation by thanking them for a great night and suggesting that you do it again.  For example, you can say something like “Thank you so much for such a fun night! Let’s plan another one soon?” If you’re confident that they like you, you can be more bold. Try saying something like “I hope I dream about you tonight!” Talking to someone who has a crush on you can be a tricky situation. Try to remain friendly but be straightforward with your responses. If you don’t want to talk to them, let them know you aren’t interested and end the conversation there.  For example, if they ask you to hang out, you can say something like “You’re a nice person, but I’m just not interested in you that way.” Try not to suggest continuing the conversation or saying anything like “Talk to you later,” which can give them the wrong idea. If you ever feel unsafe after rejecting someone, tell a trustworthy person. Contact law enforcement as soon as possible if the person sends you threats or begins to act strangely.

TL;DR in Russian:

Завершите разговор на кокетливой ноте с помощью милого комментария или смайлика. Договоритесь поговорить позже лично или по телефону. Поблагодарите его за хорошее времяпровождение, если вы были на свидании. Непринужденно завершите разговор, если человек вам неинтересен.


When it comes time to wash your shoes, remove the insoles and wash them first. In a small bowl, prepare a mixture of warm water and laundry detergent. To wash the shoe insoles, use a sponge or a rag to scrub away the smell, dirt, and stains. Rinse the insoles off with warm water when you've finished scrubbing them with your detergent mixture. Lay them near a window or on a towel to dry.  If your insoles are still smelly after washing them, put them in a plastic bag with some baking soda and leave it overnight. If the insoles still smell bad after a night of baking soda, soak them for 2-3 hours in a mixture of vinegar and water. Then, wash the insoles again with soap and water to remove the scent of the vinegar. Many shoes can be washed in the washing machines, including running shoes, sneakers, and most cloth shoes. If your shoes are machine washable, wash them in warm water with strong detergent. After washing, let your shoes air-dry instead of putting them in the dryer.  Remove the shoe laces before putting your shoes in the washer. If your shoes are made of suede, leather, plastic, or any other delicate material, do not put them in the washing machine. If you are washing nicer sneakers or shoes made of more delicate materials, wash them by hand instead of in the washing machine. Make a soapy mixture out of warm water and liquid laundry detergent. Use a rag or a soft brush to gently scrub the shoes with this mixture. Once you've scrubbed the shoes with the mixture, get a fresh rag and wipe the shoes down with warm water to rinse the soap away.  Leather shoes can be washed by hand. Use a rag to gently scrub the shoes with your soap and water mixture. Suede shoes can be washed by hand, but you must be careful. Use a rag or soft bristled brush, and clean the suede in downward strokes. Brushing/cleaning the suede in one direction will help to lift stains from the material. If you're nervous about washing your suede shoes, then you should take them to a professional cleaner.

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Помойте стельки. Пригодную для машинной стирки обувь постирайте в стиральной машине. Постирайте обувь вручную, если она изготовлена из деликатных материалов.


When it comes to any relationship, honesty is the best policy.  You'd like your man to be honest with you, so be sure to afford him the same courtesy. You should never withhold or hide things from your man -- you may think that you are preventing him from getting hurt or angry, but this could really backfire in the long run, when he eventually finds out. Kindness is an important trait in any relationship, but one that is often overlooked.  The whole "treat 'em mean, keep 'em keen" is fine for the dating scene, but doesn't really work once you're in a relationship. Being kind encompasses a lot of things -- it means being patient and understanding if your guy makes a mistake, it means doing nice things for him just because you care, and it means treating him with dignity and respect, just as you would like to be treated. Men may not like to admit it, but most of them desperately want a little TLC every now and them.  So don't forget to express your affection by giving him a big hug and kiss when he's looking a bit down. If you're at the "I love you" stage in your relationship, don't be afraid to remind him of how you feel or feel like he's the one who has to say it first. Very often, people in committed relationships find themselves settling into a comfortable, predictable routine.  And while this has its benefits, its nice to inject some fun into your relationship and do something spontaneous every once in a while, just to keep things interesting. Plan a romantic weekend trip for the two of you, or organize a day out to visit a museum, zoo or art exhibition. Book a sky-diving or scuba-diving experience. Get out of your comfort zone and you'll see a whole new side to your other half! Treating a guy well is all about loyalty -- there's no point being nice to his face, then complaining about him behind his back to family and friends.  He needs to know that you're there for him and that you have his back 100% of the time -- just like he has yours. Next time someone disagrees with your man or criticizes him for...

TL;DR in Russian:

Будьте честны. Будьте добры. Будьте любящи. Будьте спонтанны. Будьте верны.


When it comes to asking your parents for something you want, timing is everything. Your mom or dad are much more likely to say yes in the middle of a relaxing Sunday afternoon on the porch than when they come home from a stressful day at work or have spent all day cleaning the kitchen. Look for a time when your parents are relaxed, when they don't have a million things on their to-do list, and when they're generally happy with you. Though it may be impossible to know exactly what's going on in their minds, you can watch them for a little while to get a sense of whether or not they would really listen to your proposition. Though you may not know exactly what your parents are worrying about, you should avoid asking them right before your grandparents visit, when they're doing work at the kitchen table, or when they just generally seem too tired to really listen. Though you can't wait forever to ask them, it's better to wait until the time is right unless you're really in a rush. Another thing to think about is when you actually want to have your sleepover. Don't ask to have the sleepover the night before your grandma comes to visit, and don't ask to do it when you know your parents will be doing some spring cleaning. Pick a time when they won't have much to do around the house or too much on their minds. The more convenient the time, the more likely they'll be to say yes. You should also pick a time when you are relatively free so they'll be less likely to make an excuse like, "You have a math test/soccer game/spelling bee competition that day." You may really, really want to have a sleepover as soon as you ask for it, but it's important to think at least a few weeks ahead to improve your chances. When you approach your parents to ask for something, whether it's for them to buy you a new video game or to get a ride to the movies, tone is everything. If you come in there acting like, "I'm going to have this sleepover and you're nuts if you think you can stop me," then they will say no faster than you can walk...

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Спросите своих родителей, когда они в хорошем настроении. Попросите разрешить провести ночевку в удобное время. Будьте вежливым вместо того, чтобы требовать. Пусть первая вечеринка с ночевкой будет простой. Предложите сделать что-то хорошее взамен. Покажите им, что это будет хорошая возможность для вас, наладить отношения со сверстниками. Если базовые подходы не работают, попробуйте более радикальные методы.


When it comes to avoiding dehydration, you want to see how much water you need. As stated, 9 to 13 cups (two to three liters) of fluid, primarily in the form of water, is necessary for the average person; however, you may need to make a point of drinking more water under certain conditions.  If you exercise, make sure to drink extra water before, during, and after your workout routine. If you're experiencing excess heat or humidity in your area, you'll need to drink more water than usual to make up for fluid lost through sweat. When you're sick, particularly if you're vomiting or experiencing diarrhea, you'll need to drink more water to make up for lost fluids. If you're pregnant or breastfeeding, you'll need more water. It's recommended that pregnant or breastfeeding women consume about 10 to 13 cups (2.4 to 3 liters) of water a day. A good way to assess if you're getting enough water is looking at your urine color. Clear or pale yellow urine indicates you're consuming a healthy amount of water. Darker yellow urine indicates you need to up your fluid intake. You should make an effort to make sure you're getting enough water. Try to keep a log, on your phone or in a journal, of how much water you're drinking each day. If you have a smartphone, there are many apps you can purchase that help you keep track of your daily water consumption. If you want to stay hydrated, certain beverages should be avoided. Certain fluids promote dehydration and should not be a part of a healthy diet.  Alcoholic and caffeinated beverages can cause dehydration. You should drink these beverages in moderation. You should also drink water while drinking alcohol, tea, or coffee to help counteract the effects of these liquids.  Alcoholic and caffeinated beverages, such as coffee, teas, and colas, promote dehydration. You should avoid such drinks in general.  Fruit juices are often heavy on carbohydrates and not enough sodium. Try cutting them with 50% water first to help hydrate yourself. Dehydration can cause serious medical problems....

TL;DR in Russian:

Оцените потребности своего организма. Понаблюдайте за цветом своей мочи. Записывайте количество потребляемой воды. Избегайте определенных напитков. Ознакомьтесь с признаками недостатка жидкости в организме.


When it comes to being funny, timing is everything! This is especially true when it comes to the situation at hand. For example, if one of you knocks over a drink at a restaurant, that’s a great time to make a silly joke – it’ll lighten the mood. If she’s upset about something going on in her life, though, tread carefully.  If her pet just died or she failed a math test, trying to cheer her up with witty one-liners may fall flat or possibly upset her more. If you're going through something or just not feeling particularly funny that day, don't try to force it. Every girl is different, so try to adapt to her personality to make her laugh. Ask her simple questions to gather the intel you need. For example, you could say something like, “Did you watch Stephen Colbert last night?” If she says yes, she probably likes political satire! If she brings up a certain movie or television show, work with that type of humor. For example, if she mentions Portlandia or an episode of SNL, that gives you an idea of what she likes. Some girls love dark humor and sarcastic comebacks, so if you are certain she’s into that, go for it! In general, though, it’s better for everyone if you keep things light and fun. Being sarcastic or cynical right off the bat might come off as aggressive or weird. If you’re dropping gallows humor nonstop, she might eventually get tired of that vibe or feel that it’s just a bummer in general. Definitely avoid making sarcastic remarks aimed at her, especially if you don’t know her well. Laughter is infectious and enjoying a humorous situation together can help cement your bond or make her more attracted to you. However, make sure you're not laughing at her expense. If you're laughing and having a good time, you want her to be doing the same.  Mimicking her sense of humor is one way to laugh with her. If it's risqué, for example, use off-color humor, too. Keep it natural if you can: if your humor is naturally sunny and gentle, adopting a dark, sarcastic style could come across as forced. Only follow her...

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Научитесь выбирать подходящий момент для юмора. Постарайтесь понять, что именно кажется смешным вашей девушке, и действуйте в этом направлении. Помните о том, что юмор должен быть легким. Смейтесь вместе с девушкой, а не над ней. Не думайте, что вам необходимо постоянно быть забавным.


When it comes to bigger holes that cannot be mended with a single seam, your best bet is to look into getting a patch-- an extra piece of fabric you can integrate into your jeans to cover the hole. You can find patches at a local arts and crafts or clothing specialty outlet. Buy a patch that matches the colour of your jeans as closely as possible. You'll want to get a patch that's slightly bigger than the hole you're covering; that way, you'll have some extra room to make errors.   While denim patches are the safest bet if you're looking to really repair your jeans, you can take the damage as an opportunity to stylize your jeans with brightly coloured or flannel patches.  Adding a patch that will clearly stand out from the rest of the clothing will give it a down-to-earth flair. While denim (or 'masked' alterations) are best sewn in on the inside of the jeans, patching different fabrics to the outside of your jeans will make them more prominent and eye-catching.   If you're feeling thrifty, you can harvest your own patches from jeans you don't use anymore. If you have a bigger hole that will require a patch, you should still cut off the frayed edges. Even if it sounds like you are consciously losing material, the frayed edges won't be any help in mending it, so it's best to get rid of them, leaving a clean hole. Take some scissors and cut excess threads around the hole. By the end, there shouldn't be any threads significantly sticking out. With patches in particular, it's recommended you turn your jeans inside out while you're patching them. That way, the most visible seams won't be externally visible. It'll also give you a bit of extra room to make sewing mistakes. It's typically better to sew a denim patch in from the inside. This will make the patch look less evident, as well as cover up the most visible stitch lines. Once you've got your jeans turned inside out, take a sewing needle and thread and sew the patch. Try to keep your sewing as close as possible; you want to integrate the fabric into your jeans...

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Приготовьте заплатку, которая подойдет к стилю ваших джинсов и размеру дыры на них. Обрежьте осыпавшиеся края дырки. Выверните джинсы на изнаночную сторону. Пришейте заплатку стежками, максимально близко повторяющими рисунок переплетения нитей на джинсовой ткани. Прогладьте пришитую заплатку.


When it comes to brisket, the better your starting materials are, the better your finished product is likely to be. While it's always possible to ruin a good piece of meat (or to make something great out of a mediocre piece of meat), in general, the very best brisket comes from the highest-quality meat. In addition, because cooking brisket is an enormous time investment compared to other meat dishes, you'll want to make sure that the time and effort you spend on your brisket is worth it. In the U.S., meats are typically assigned one of four quality grades. From lowest to highest, they are: select, choice, prime, and wagyu. Try to get the highest-quality cut possible. Avoid “select” meats, which can be somewhat tough and flavorless, unless you have no alternative. For this grilling recipe, we'll use a dry rub (a dry, powdery mixture of spices and seasonings that, as its name suggests, is rubbed directly onto the meat). For a great dry rub recipe, see the ingredients section above, or, alternatively, use your own recipe — there are literally hundreds of great ones online. Regardless of the dry rub recipe you use, you'll apply it to the brisket basically the same way: wiping it on with your hands to give it a thorough coating. It can be slightly easier to apply your dry rub if you wet your brisket with a light spritzing of water beforehand. This moisture helps the dry ingredients of the rub adhere to the meat but quickly evaporates during cooking, ensuring the meat achieves a proper blackened “bark”. Some brisket grillers like having having a bowl of "mop sauce" handy for basting, brushing or "mopping" the brisket as it cooks. This thin, flavorful sauce allegedly keeps the brisket moist and juicy. However, some grillers discourage this practice, claiming that it prevents the formation of a crispy "bark" on the outside of the meat and prolongs the cooking process. If you'd like to try making a mop sauce, try mixing together the ingredients in the recipe provided above, or use your own! If you make your own mop...

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Начните с того, что выберите свежий, качественный кусок говядины. Насыпьте на выбранный кусок мяса сухую приправу. Если вы хотите, то можете приготовить соус для того, чтобы поливать мясо в процессе приготовления. Разожгите гриль. Готовьте мясо на медленном, непрямом жаре. Если вы хотите, можете добавить в гриль немного стружек или щепок для дыма. Когда мясо готово, достаньте его из гриля и подавайте на стол.


When it comes to buying Ray-Bans, not all sellers are created equal. Some, unfortunately, make a practice of selling fakes, or, in the case of pawnbrokers, may be indifferent to fakes in their inventory. To ensure that you only buy fine, high-quality Ray-Bans, only make purchases from sellers that are officially-licensed by the Ray-Ban corporation. If you live in the U.S., note that you can use the store locator on the official Ray-Ban site to find licensed sellers near you. As with many luxury goods, if your Ray-Bans seem to be a steal, they probably are. While Ray-Bans vary greatly in price depending on their make and model, they're never cheap. Being hand-made from the finest materials available, Ray-Bans are a premium good sold at a premium price. Be very skeptical of supposed Ray-Bans being sold under their market price, even if the vendor has some sort of convenient excuse for the discount. As an example of the sort of costs you can expect for new Ray-Bans, know that, within the Wayfarer group of models, new glasses can retail from about $60 to as high as $300. If you're ever unsure of a seller's veracity, why take a risk? To make sure you get real Ray-Bans, simply buy from Ray-Ban's official website, ray-ban.com. The Ray-Ban site allows you to easily browse the entire Ray-Ban catalog, making it obviously preferable to any sort of "shady" seller you might otherwise use. Like most knock-offs, fake Ray-Bans aren't nearly as high of quality as the real thing. They're almost always more poorly made, more likely to break, and not as good-looking. However, besides these obvious points, there are several other compelling things that may make fakes even less appealing to you as a buyer. Below are just a few additional reasons why you may want to avoid buying and wearing fake Ray-Bans:  Fakes may not provide adequate protection from the sun’s UV rays. In fact, wearing sunglasses without UV protection can actually be worse for your eyes than wearing no sunglasses at all.  Fakes almost never come with warranties,...

TL;DR in Russian:

Покупайте только у лицензированных розничных торговцев. Остерегайтесь предложений, которые «слишком хороши, чтобы быть правдой». Если у вас есть сомнения, покупайте непосредственно у Ray-Ban. Подумайте о том, почему идея носить подделку является неудачной.


When it comes to changing our personalities, it has to be more than just something we want. We have to need it. We have to reach a point where we can no longer function the current way we are. Think of why you want to be a social butterfly and concentrate on it. Digest it. Turn it over in your brain. Now get set on changing it. This will be a 'light bulb' moment. You won't see a change in your behavior overnight, but you will see a change in your mindset. You can't run before you walk! You won't realize you're a social butterfly until you're in the middle of a party one day, sitting back and thinking "Huh? When did this happen?" Once you're set on the idea of becoming the life of the party, don't think, "Okay. Scott's party this Friday? I'm gonna wow everyone there." That's not how it works. That just sets you up for failure and will ultimately end up in you going home, wrapping yourself up in your covers, and not coming out until you get hungry. Set small goals. 5 minutes of wowing the crowd, not the entire night.  It totally depends on where you are on the social butterfly spectrum. Some people can't even go to parties without being miserable while others will mingle, but only with the people they're comfortable with. Wherever you are, aim for a little more. When you get that little bit more, aim higher. You know what you want to do and you know to take it slow. Now how do you do it? Well, you start by removing fear and anxiety when it comes to social situations. Here's a few things to keep in mind:  Everyone's worried about getting embarrassed or rejected. If they say they're not, they're probably lying. At the very least they used to be not so carefree! Find a social butterfly you know and ask them about this. They'll tell you of their social anxieties, too!  You won't die. Unless you start a conversation with the next unabomber and inadvertently insult his cat, you'll be fine. In fact, the odds of something legitimately bad happening are slim to none. At the end of the day, we all go home worried about...

TL;DR in Russian:

Посвятите себя этому. Ставьте перед собой небольшие цели. Забудьте о страхе. Будьте сами собой Будьте уверенными Мыслите позитивно.


When it comes to compatibility, the most important thing is that you feel united in some way. It might be that you spend your free time in similar ways, share a hobby, or just enjoy being together. When you think about your partner, consider what items you want to connect on. Whether you both love camping or both already have children, make sure there’s at least one thing you can bond over with your potential spouse. Perhaps similar beliefs unite you or you both value family. Everyone has a different way of approaching problems in a relationship. Some people get angry and yell, others avoid, and still others handle conflict as it arises and compromise. It matters little which style you and your partner have, but more whether both of your styles are similar.  Think about how you tend to approach conflict and find a man who has a similar or complementary approach. Even if his style is different than yours, you both should work well together to resolve conflict. Resolving conflicts can help you understand each other better and not hold resentment toward each other. If religion matters greatly to you, find a partner who shares your beliefs. Marrying someone with different beliefs from you can affect your relationship and cause problems in the future, so think about how this might affect your potential marriage and family. If it’s imperative to you and your family that your husband share your same religion, you must either ask him to convert or break up. Talk openly about how religious differences will affect your relationship and potential children. Find common ground in your beliefs or values. Learn to accept their religion and learn about it. Consider how you approach money and find a man with a similar approach. If you tend to meticulously budget and save your money, find a man with similar values. Money can be a big problem and major source of conflict in a marriage, so pick up on a potential partner’s habits early on. Consider your values around keeping separate bank accounts or using a joint bank account....

TL;DR in Russian:

Проверьте вашу совместимость. У вас должны быть схожие методы решения конфликтов. Обсудите религиозные различия. Обсудите финансовую сторону. Постройте отношения с семьей.


When it comes to complimenting a girl, you'll want to avoid anything that makes her feel like a sex object (or a "piece of meat") rather than a feeling, thinking human being. Keep you compliments about her beauty, her intelligence, her decisions, and her personality. Avoid the following subjects:  Her sex characteristics (e.g., bust size) How revealing or non-revealing her clothing is Her race or ethnicity Outward identifiers of her religion or social status While it's OK to be attracted to someone or be captivated by someone's beauty, getting too fixated on her looks can be a great way to ruin your chances. In extreme cases, this sort of behavior can constitute harassment. Actions and comments that are inappropriately personal or sexual or personal are off-limits. Avoid the following sorts of actions:  Staring or ogling — especially if you're looking below the neck Asking prying questions about her dating or sex history Pressing her for a chance to hang out together if she says "no" or offers an excuse for why she can't Making any sort of comment that insinuates that she should do something sexual with you Touching someone inappropriately against their will is wrong. At best, it is cause for this person to get angry with you. At worst, it can be a crime. If you haven't already established that touching is OK, keep your hands to yourself except for harmless flirtatious gestures like briefly touching her shoulder as you laugh. If she appears uncomfortable or asks you to stop, stop — even if you don't think you're doing anything wrong. As noted above, gentle teasing can be a great way to flirt with a girl and get her to blush. However, there's a fine line to be aware of here. Teasing a girl in a way that makes her feel self-conscious or under attack can lead to hurt feelings, anger, and even lasting grudges. Avoid the following sorts of topics as a general rule:  Negative comments about her appearance or weight Serious criticisms of her personal, political, or religious views Gossipy comments about her family...

TL;DR in Russian:

Не объективизируйте девушку. Не будьте странным. Не позволяйте себе неуместных прикосновений. Не нужно жестоко дразнить девушку. Не полагайтесь на деньги и подарки.


When it comes to cooking pork, a wide variety of cooking methods can give juicy, tender results as long as they're carried out properly. For instance, with thin cuts of pork like pork chops or sirloin cutlets, you may want to quickly cook the meat with high surface heat to give it a crisp, savory exterior, then transfer the pork to less-intense dry heat to finish cooking it. For instance, you might sear your pork in a hot pan on the stove (or on the grill), then transfer your pork to the oven (or move it to a cooler area of the grill and close the lid) for the rest of its cooking time.  The indirect heat is vital to keeping your pork tender and juicy. While searing is great for giving your pork a delicious exterior "crust", using direct heat to cook your pork completely can easily lead to a tough, over-cooked piece of meat. Indirect heat from an oven or a closed grill, however, gradually cooks the entire piece of meat, leading to a tender, evenly-cooked final product. Since direct heat (like a hot pan) cooks the outside of your meat much quicker than it cooks the inside, you'll generally only need to cook for a minute or two per side to give your entire piece of meat a good searing. However, indirect heat (like from an oven) will take a longer time to cook your pork — usually about 20 minutes per pound. One sure-fire way to get a moist, tender piece of pork is to braise it. Braising is a slow, high-moisture cooking method that involves placing the meat in a mixture of liquid (and sometimes solid) ingredients and allowing it to simmer in the mixture for hours. Braising produces extremely moist, tender, and flavorful meat, so it's often the preferred method for cooking somewhat tougher cuts of pork, like shoulder cuts and country-style ribs. In addition, the liquid used for braising can be used as a sauce or gravy, which is handy for pork dishes served with rice or a similar side dish.  Though braising times for different pork cuts can vary, in general, you'll want to braise pork for about 30 minutes or so per...

TL;DR in Russian:

Обжарьте свинину, затем запекайте. Еще один способ, чтобы свинина получилась нежной и сочной, это тушение. Копчение является постепенным способ приготовления на низком огне, используется для приготовления барбекю из свинины и  мясо  получается с дымком. Томите мясо или используйте медленноварку. Дайте мясу отдохнуть после приготовления. Нарезайте свинину поперек волокон.


When it comes to dealing with toxic parents (or toxic people in general), the best thing you can do for yourself is to distance yourself from them, whether you are the child of that person or an outside person. It may not be possible to cut off all contact with them, but you can do your best to stay out of their path.  If you are over the age of 18, you are legally an adult. You can leave your parent’s home and never look back if you want. If you do hope to maintain a relationship with your toxic parent, you could consider explaining to the parent why you’re distancing yourself. This might encourage your parent to get the help they need; however, you should also be prepared for a parent who has no interest in changing. Make sure to evaluate whether or not cutting off your relationship with the parent is worth it or if you would miss the relationships that you might lose in the process, such as with your other parent and/or siblings. It may be worth it to stay in the relationship to better maintain these other relationships. In some cases, it may be best for you to cut off all contact with your parent. Especially if it is clear that they have no interest in doing anything differently. Go out and find people that treat you well and make them your family. Many people find friends that they treat as family. This may be painful, but in the long run, you will likely be happier and healthier for it. Whether you are a child of an abusive parent or someone close to the family who sees what is going on, it is important to realize that there may not be much you can do to change the situation. The only person that you have any control over is yourself. A toxic person will only change when they recognize the error of their ways, and if they are ready to put in the work to change the way they think and behave. Unfortunately, not many people have this kind of self-awareness.  If you are a close family friend, you could try talking to the toxic parent about what your concerns, but this will be a difficult conversation, and...

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Отдалитесь от токсичного человека. Не всегда есть возможность изменить ситуацию. Старайтесь помнить, что все мы люди.


When it comes to determining the cost of an investment, your expenses usually don't begin and end with the money you put into the stock, mutual fund, etc. For people without direct access to the stock market (i.e., most ordinary people), it's necessary to use an investment adviser or broker to help build a portfolio and, because these experts don't work for free, the cost will be a little higher than the money set aside for the investment. Start determining the cost of your investment by identifying the amount of money you plan to use purely for the investment. As an example, let's say that we've recently inherited $20,000 from an obscure relative and that, rather than squandering it all on a luxurious vacation, we want to invest half of it in the stock market to get some long-term potential out of it. In this case, we'll say that we are investing $10,000. As noted above, investment advisers don't usually work pro bono. Generally, an adviser will need to be paid in one of two ways: via a flat fee (usually hourly) or via a commission (usually a percentage of the investment). In both cases, determining the impact on the total cost is simple. For fee-based investment services, multiply the adviser's hourly rate by the amount of time spent on your portfolio and include any minor associated fees. For the purposes of our example, let's say that our chosen adviser charges $250/hour (not bad — prices can easily range to $500/hour). If she agrees that it will take two hours of work to put together our portfolio, her fee will be $500. Let's say we need to add $100 to this in the form of various minor fees and we get a total of $600. Another way to pay your adviser for handling your investments is in the form of a commission. This is generally a small percentage of whatever you buy through the adviser. The more money you invest, the smaller the percentage usually is.  In our example, let's say that, on top of her flat fee, our adviser also charges a 1% commission. This is only for example purposes — in the real world,...

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Определите начальную сумму инвестиций. Вычислите все гонорары. В случае выплаты консультанту комиссионных, их размер зависит от величины инвестиций (чем больше денег вы инвестируете, тем меньше процент вы платите консультанту). Вычислите налоги на инвестиции. Вычисление общей стоимости инвестиций.


When it comes to dressing during pregnancy, comfort and style are key. What feels right in week 9 may feel downright wrong by week 14.  What perfectly flatters your curves during the second trimester may become rather indecent by the tail end of your pregnancy. Buy the right size for your changing body. Do not buy larger clothes then you need unless you like how they look. Purchase clothing designed for maternity wear when you start to show if you wish. This clothing will be built for greater comfort, and it’s usually a better idea than purchasing regular clothing in bigger sizes. If cost is an issue, check thrift stores. You can usually wear regular clothes for the first three months. Avoid the temptation to just buy much larger clothes unless you want to. The problem with just buying larger clothes is it can make you look, well, larger. Maternity clothes will be fitted in the right places while allowing room for the bump, so they can help you retain a sense of shape. Different people carry their babies different ways. Some people have high pregnancies, for example, and some people carry the baby lower.  For those carrying their babies low, clothing that’s soft on the waistline will be more comfortable. Shirts cut below the bump can look attractive. If you’re carrying high, you can try to create a line between the breasts and bump by adding high belts and ties. Don’t give up. Just because you’re pregnant, doesn’t mean you can’t retain your typical style. You don’t always have to go for the sweatpants, either. In the first trimester, the challenge for many is to keep the pregnancy under wraps. Many people don't want to divulge their growing secret until at least the second trimester. Thus, you can usually stick to non-maternity clothing for the first three months.  What to do: Go into your closet and put aside anything that feels too tight or clingy. Stick with silhouettes that flow over belly, hips, and thighs that can camouflage the few pounds you may gain in the first months. Wear soft knits, A-line...

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Одевайтесь по-разному, в зависимости от стадии беременности. Познакомьтесь со своим телом и типом фигуры. Одежда для первого триместра. Одежда для второго триместра. Одежда для последнего триместра. Подумайте о покупке эластичного пояса для беременных.


When it comes to finding a true friend, you can't afford to be lazy. A real friend won't just magically materialize on your doorstep, so you need to be willing to put some work in. Take matters into your own hands and start socializing.  Stop waiting for other people to do the work for you. Call people up and ask if you can hang out with them, or organize an event yourself. Don't worry about seeming desperate or needy. Focus on you and your goal. If it all works out in the end, then who cares? Try to hang out in such a way that no one feels you are clinging to them in desperation or friend-poverty. If there is a group, make eye contact with everyone, and not directing your speech singularly. You won't make friends by sitting at home alone every night. You need to be proactive, so force yourself out of the house and meet as many people as possible. It might be intimidating at first, but it'll be worth it in the end.  One of the easiest ways to meet people is through friends you already have. Tag along to a party or social event and get your friend to make the introductions. Meet people through hobbies or classes. Friends are generally people that you share a common interest with, so the people you meet through hobbies or classes are excellent potential friend material. Meet people through work. You might have a work colleague who you feel a connection with, but you've never hung out socially. Now is the time. Meet people online. Sometimes there's a stigma attached to meeting people online, but it can be a genuinely great way to meet people. Blogging, social networking and posting on online forums are all perfectly viable ways of socializing. Avoid going to places that have one focus. This means that you shouldn't try to get a chance at cinemas and theaters, since there the main focus is on the screen and you won't meet too many people there except by chance. Public places like tea and coffee shops, parks and bars help a lot in socializing. However, there are other places with a friendly environment that you...

TL;DR in Russian:

Возьмите инициативу в свои руки. Встречайтесь с новыми людьми. Не воспринимайте все происходящее близко к сердцу. Не будьте слишком требовательны. Будьте настойчивы. Будьте терпеливы.


When it comes to formal events, clip-on bow ties are never acceptable. Look for a sturdy fabric in a color that either complements your tuxedo or your date’s outfit. The edges of the bow should align with the outer corners of your eyes. If you’ve never tied a bow tie, now is the time to learn! There are many different styles, but the classic semi-butterfly is the most popular. If you’re having trouble, ask the tailor to help you tie the perfect bow. Pick out silver or gold cufflinks with gems or engraving on them. If you have a watch with a metal or leather band, you should wear it to the event. It’ll help with staying on time, and it gives a more professional appearance. You can also wear jewelry like small chain necklaces or rings, as long as the metals don’t clash with each other or look gaudy. A few days before the event, get a haircut and tame any facial hair. Good grooming pulls the outfit together and is important for appearing tasteful. On the day of the event, wear your hair slicked back or styled. Remember to trim your fingernails and shape your eyebrows, as well. You can get a manicure and an eyebrow wax at a salon or spa.

TL;DR in Russian:

Выберите самый лучший галстук-бабочку, который подойдет к наряду и лицу. Дополните образ такими аксессуарами, как запонки и бижутерия. Проследите за тем, чтобы выглядеть чисто и опрятно.


When it comes to forming new friendships, you’ll have to stick your neck out. You can’t expect new friends to just fall into your lap; it’ll take effort. Join new clubs or organizations at your school. Choose a new place in your community where other people your age hang out. When you meet someone new, show your interest. Ask the person about themselves and try to find things the two of you have in common to build a connection. Don't focus on the subject of your estranged friend. Instead, just try to get to know the new person. To ensure that future friendships are healthier, think about what kinds of people you want to be around. If you and your ex-best friend grew apart, consider what you would want in a friend today. Choose people who are positive influences and who share similar values. Make a list of positive traits you want in a friend. Don’t be rigid to this list, but use it to determine if potential new friends fit the bill. In addition to choosing positive friends, you also want to be that friend to someone else. Reflect on some of the ways you could have been a better friend to your ex-bestie. As you form new friendships, try to develop better habits this time around. Good friends are excellent listeners, able to let their friends be themselves, and are there when their friends need them. Find ways in which you can start being a better friend. You may have never considered it, but there may be someone among your current friends who is best friend material. Spend more time with people you feel a connection with and see what unfolds.  Maybe you have a regular study buddy that you don't know all that well. You might say to him after a study session, "Hey, man, I was thinking of grabbing a bite to eat. Would you like to join me?" Spending time with this person one-on-one outside your usual context may help you get to know them better. You don’t have to rush off one week after the breakup and select a new best friend. The best friendships form over time, as mutual trust and respect develop. Don’t set out...

TL;DR in Russian:

Ведите активную социальную жизнь. Будьте разборчивы. Будьте хорошим другом. Узнайте своих друзей, с которыми вы сейчас поддерживаете отношения, лучше. Не пытайтесь искать замену своему лучшему другу.


When it comes to freehanding, it's good have a variety of different brush sizes and textures to choose from. Brushes with firm, square bristles are great for creating the thick, straight outlines of letters, while small brushes are great for details. If you feel more comfortable writing your letters, you can purchase acrylic paint pens at most craft stores. If you want your letters to be even across the wood surface, it's a good idea to use a straight-edge first. With a pencil, you can outline a soft line to follow, like lined notebook paper. You can create a top line as well, so you know exactly how big each letter should be. You can create any demarcations you think will help you make evenly-sized, straight lettering.

TL;DR in Russian:

Возьмите разные кисти. Используйте линейку, чтобы получить ровные буквы.


When it comes to hair, different people have different ideas of what's "short" and what's "very short." If your idea of "very short" is something that's between pixie and bob-length, get some light layers to help distribute the volume--otherwise you might end up with a puff! If your hair is cropped short, you don't have to worry about layers. It doesn't need much volume control. For even better results, consider getting a graduated pixie, where it is a little longer on the top than on the sides. Don't go for a precise cut; leave it coarse and choppy. A sculpted pixie cut is similar to the classic pixie, except that it is cropped short on the sides and left longer at top. This is a great option for those who are transitioning from long-to-short hair (or vice versa), or for those who are treating their hair for heat damage. This is a versatile hairstyle that is easy to style and take care of. It is perfect for those with natural or African hair and is a great alternative to doing protective styles, such as cornrows.

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Сделайте многослойную стрижку, чтобы оптимально распределить объем кудрявых волос. Подумайте о классической стрижке пикси, если хотите получить более выразительную прическу. Попробуйте прибегнуть к градуированной стрижке пикси, если хотите сделать лицо более выразительным. Подумайте о коротких афро-стрижках, если у вас тугие кудри или самые настоящие африканские волосы.


When it comes to homemade beyblades, the consensus is that large rubber erasers make the best bases for beyblades. They're just heavy enough to help a beyblade spin with more power, and they're easy to decorate and customize. Find a large white eraser - a round one, if possible - to use as the body of your beyblade.  If you can't find an eraser that fits the bill, you can make the base of your beyblade out of white styrofoam. Find a flat piece of thick white styrofoam. Several pieces of cardboard glued together will also do the job.

TL;DR in Russian:

Сделайте базу для бейблэйда.


When it comes to illustrating, you need to keep the dimensions of your pages in mind to make the most of it. This includes leaving enough space for the text, and making your drawings big enough that they occupy an acceptable amount of space on the page. To get a better grasp of this, it's a good idea to make miniature 'storyboards' to visualize how big certain objects on the page should be when compared to others. Doing a double-page illustration (where one panel of the story encompasses two pages to make a larger image) is an ambitious move if this is your first time making a picture book, but it's perfect for climactic parts of the story that somehow warrant more than a single frame. Before you even set them to paper in a serious way, you should have a very clear idea how you want your art to occupy space on the page. Having a notebook on the side to plan out and develop your ideas freehand is far preferred over jumping into the picture book impromptu. While you're planning out the illustrations, try to make them as close and applicable to the writing as possible. Whenever you're left in doubt, refer to what you've written in the story. Try to keep a consistent tone and style throughout the book. A picture book that goes all over the place will stand a much weaker chance of making an impression than one that drives the same point consistently. The vast majority of stories center around the exploits of characters. For most traditional narratives, you'll need to get really good at drawing (and redrawing) a handful of characters. It is recommended you spend some time practicing your character designs once you have a basic framework for your story. The more you draw the character, the more chances you'll have to get the look right and change things if need be. Visual design is incredibly important for characters in picture books. If you have trouble visualizing what your story's characters look like, try meditating and letting the story play out in your head. Failing that, studying the character design in other...

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Составьте план сюжета. Выстраивайте и развивайте свои идеи рисунков. Разработайте внешний вид и тренируйтесь рисовать персонажей. Добавьте рисункам объем. Нарисуйте готовые изображения на качественной бумаге. Сделайте титульную страницу.


When it comes to living a satisfying life, silence about what you want is the enemy. In order to find your voice and stop suffering in silence, you must acknowledge that you are not using your voice. Awareness of the problem is the first step towards changing it. Here are some signs that you may not be using your voice:  You often get stuck with work no one else wants to do. Other people get credit for your work or ideas. You often do things because others want to, but not for yourself. You feel dissatisfied because you are not living life on your own terms. . Your personal values are the beliefs, ideas, and principles that guide your decisions. Think of your values like a road map--they direct us down the life path that we want to be on. If you often feel like you are suffering in silence, you may be living against your personal values. If your personal values are unclear, you can learn to identify your values by completing an inventory. Assertiveness gives you the opportunity to be more open, honest, and direct in your communication. This will allow others to recognize your needs and so that you can feel as if your voice is being heard. Practicing assertiveness can help you overcome suffering in silence and boost self-confidence.  Practice being assertive frequently, in small ways, to get started. Reach out to someone every other day. Send a text or call family and friends, ask someone to coffee, or let a friend know that you need a shoulder to cry on. You might text your friend, "I've been feeling blue today and need a pick-me-up. Are you up for take-out at my place?" When you are talking to another person, turn towards them. Stand with your feet planted firmly on the ground. Have a pleasant, but firm, facial expression. Speak with a calm and soft voice, but be sure it is not overly quiet or whiney. Phrase your words in the form of "I" statements. This involves stating needs in a way that allows you to take ownership of them while minimizing defensiveness of others. For example, instead of saying "You...

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Признайте проблему. Определите свои ценности. Научитесь позитивному общению. При выражении своих потребностей используйте язык тела. Научитесь владеть своими желаниями и потребностями.


When it comes to macular degeneration, the most affected area is the central vision, with the peripheral vision still partially intact. For this reason, people with macular degeneration can still use their peripheral vision to compensate.  A magnifying glass can help make object seem larger so that they are easier to see.  Magnifying glasses vary from 1.5 to 20 times magnification. They are easy to travel with. Many can fold up to pocket size. Try a stand magnifying glass. This type varies from two to 20 times magnification. It can be mounted so that your hands are free. It is helpful for patients who may also suffer from unstable or shaky hands. Some types have an additional light feature to aid in dim lighting situations. This type of device varies from 2.5 to 10 times magnification. It can be useful to help see distances. With the same variations of magnification as telescopes, binoculars are useful because you can use both eyes to view items. This type of magnifier is mounted on the patient's glasses and is useful for distance vision. It allows the patient to transfer between distance viewing and telescopic vision. There are also spectacle lenses for normal viewing.  These work similar to bifocals. These are approved and prescribed by Low Vision Specialists. This stand-mounted video camera magnifies reading or writing material onto a video screen. You can use this type of magnifier to aid in a variety of tasks, such as reading, writing, crafts and viewing photos. Some can also underline and highlight information. This type of device can also be used with a computer. This machine will read typewritten text out loud. Use Ocular Recognition (OCR) software to turn your personal computer into a reading machine. These types of lenses work by absorbing the light transmitted through the eye. They reduce glare and harmful ultraviolet rays.   These lenses can transition between light and dark areas. They can be worn over prescribed glasses.

TL;DR in Russian:

Пользуйтесь увеличительным стеклом. Попробуйте пользоваться монокуляром или телескопом. Пользуйтесь биноклем. Используйте увеличительное стекло, которое крепится к очкам. Пользуйтесь видеоувеличителем. Пользуйтесь устройством, которое будет читать текст. Узнайте больше об абсорбирующих линзах.


When it comes to maintaining tile, the best solution is prevention. By sweeping, vacuuming and polishing your flooring on a consistent basis, there will be less chance of stain-causing substances accumulating underfoot. Be on the lookout for places where dirt and debris have a tendency to collect, especially in corners, beneath furniture and around the baseboards.  Aim to sweep or vacuum your tile floors every couple of days, and to mop or give them a more extensive wipedown about once a week.  Neglected tile will quickly begin to advertise itself. If you allow it to get bad enough, it may even negatively affect the value of your home. When left untreated, even the smallest spill can become a stubborn stain. As promptly as possible, blot the affected area with a clean cloth dampened with warm water or a small amount of vinegar solution. Tracked-in dirt and food particles should be swept up so they don’t get ground into grout or rough surfaces.  Gradually apply more vinegar as need until the stain begins to come out. Responding to messes quickly is especially important if you have light-colored tile or grout that make discoloration more noticeable. Tile is praised for its durability and ease of cleaning, but it’s not indestructible. Harsh chemicals like bleach can cause natural materials to fade, while astringent cleaners may ruin the smooth finish of porcelain tiles after only a few uses. Whenever possible, opt for mild green alternatives such as vinegar and baking soda instead.  Even commercial tile cleaners can take their toll when used frequently, and are usually no more effective than garden variety vinegar, anyway. Never use anything more abrasive than a stiff-bristled brush or kitchen sponge to scrub your tile floors. Doing so may leave behind small scratches in which dirt and mildew can set up for good.

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Регулярно мойте пол. Сразу же вытирайте капли и грязь. Не используйте химические чистящие средства.


When it comes to making your speech work in real life, the most important thing you can do is practice, as much as you can.  Try practicing in front of a mirror, so that you can see how you are delivering the speech. This can help you notice  your facial expressions and body language. These can help or hinder your ability to get your message across.  For example, you might notice you are slouching, or that that you fidget with your collar. These actions suggest to an audience that you aren't confident. Better still, record yourself with a video camera and watch the tape afterwards. This can help you see (and hear) where your delivery needs improvement. It has the benefit of providing audio, and also won't distract you as much as a mirror when you're speaking. Once you've practiced on your own a few times, try giving the speech to a small group of friends or family members. Ask for their feedback on your message and delivery. On the day of the speech, dress appropriately for the venue and audience you'll be speaking to. Generally speaking, this will mean dressing professionally. But, the degree of formality will vary. A speech to a film club to convince them to show your film won't require the same degree of formality as speaking to the executives of a movie distribution company. For the executives, you would want to wear a suit. For the film club, that might be overdoing it. Many people find public speaking intimidating, but try to relax and be yourself as you give your speech.  Be friendly and make eye contact with the audience.  Move around, where appropriate, but don't fidget or pick at your clothes or hair.  Don't read the speech. It's okay to use a few notes to keep yourself on track, but your speech should be mostly memorized.  Roll with the punches. If you make a mistake, don't let it derail your whole speech. This might be an opportunity to use a little humor. Then, move on. If there is something specific you'd like your audience to do, provide them with any resources you can to make it easier. It is...

TL;DR in Russian:

Отрепетируйте свою речь. Оденьтесь соответствующе. Расслабьтесь. Задействуйте аудиторию.


When it comes to obtaining seeds for your cactus, you have two options: buying seeds from a gardening store or supplier or picking your own from a cactus that you already have at your disposal. Here, you are essentially choosing between price and convenience — store-bought seeds are cheap and pre-packaged, while self-picked seeds are free but require a little more work.  If you're buying seeds, you shouldn't have too much trouble finding them for sale. Many brick-and-mortar garden supply stores sell cactus seeds, while online shopping sites can allow you to effortlessly browse hundreds of varieties before ordering. If, on the other hand, you want to pick your own seeds, start by finding the seed pods or fruits on your cactus. Usually, these are brightly-colored offshoots of the main cactus body which bear a flower. When the flower falls off, the pod or fruit is ripe and is ready to be harvested (assuming it has been pollinated).

TL;DR in Russian:

Соберите семена от существующих кактусов или купите коммерческие семена.


When it comes to oil stains, the more oil you can get out of the fabric before it sets, the better. As soon as you notice a stain on your clothing, try to blot out as much of the oil as you can with a rag or paper towel. This won't prevent a stain by itself, but it will make the stain as minor as possible as well as helping to make the stain easier to remove.  If the stain is caused by a thicker oil, such as butter, mayonnaise or car grease, try scraping up the excess oil with a butter knife, rubbing it on a paper towel, and discarding it. Be sure to use a blotting motion to remove the oil. Don't try to rub the stain out — this can spread the oil, rather than removing it. The method in this section should work for oil stains in most fabrics, including those used in clothing. If your oil stain is in a piece of clothing, be sure to insert a thin piece of cardboard, plastic, or another non-permeable material into the clothing under the stain before you start to treat it. This keeps the oil from soaking through to the layer underneath and also prevents any cleaning materials you use from doing the same. For other types of fabric, like sheets and upholstery, you may not need to (or simply may not be able to) use an insert to protect any layers of fabric under the first. To soak up extra oil that's already worked its way into the fabric, try using a neutral absorbent powder like baking soda, talc, baby powder, etc. Gently work the powder into the fabric with an old toothbrush to soak up excess oil. You should notice solid clumps of powder begin to form — this means that your powder is beginning to absorb the oil. Dust the clumps off as they form and continue scrubbing. Add more powder as needed. You'll want to gently brush until you notice the solid clumps of powder becoming infrequent (this usually takes about five minutes or less). When you're finished, wash the powder out by rinsing lightly with water and scrubbing gently with the same toothbrush you used to work it in. Next, grab a bottle of liquid dish soap...

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Если пятно свежее, промакните его бумажным полотенцем. При работе с одеждой используйте картонную вставку под пятно. Нанесите тальк или пищевую соду прямо на ткань. Возьмите жидкое мыло (обратите внимание не средство для мытья посуды, а мыло) нанесите одну капельку на пятно. Нанесите мощное моющее жидкое средство прямо на пятно, в качестве предварительной обработки. Положите предварительно обработанную одежду или ткань в стиральную машину. Повторите при необходимости. В качестве альтернативы, попробуйте использовать пятновыводители.


When it comes to our everyday lives, it's too easy to just keep moving, keeping yourself so busy you don't have to face who you really are and how you really feel. Coming face-to-face with reality is a scary prospect, but in order to find what makes you happy, it must be done. So take a step back and look at yourself. What's the honest reason you want to make changes ? It's fine if you don't know right now. It's fine if your answer is something totally intangible and abstract like "being afraid you're not yourself" or even being afraid that you are. You'll get somewhere a bit more concrete soon; just keep it in mind. A generic unhappiness or sense of anger is a red flag that something's up. And you do know the reason why. It's just hiding from you for right now. If someone tells you that you can't change your personality, they're wrong. For example, you can go from an introvert to an extrovert, you can go from awkward to socially apt and you can go from hating yourself to loving yourself (just to name three). So if the way you view yourself is keeping you from being happy, start doing something about it. It may take a while, but what good thing doesn't?  Again, the main obstacle here is pinpointing what it is you want to change. Is it something on the outside, like your weight? Or is it something on the inside? Both are doable! But do know that sometimes it seems like something is the answer and it's not. If you think you're ugly, losing weight may just result in you thinking you're thinner and still ugly. Before you take on this task, make sure you're self-aware enough to do it right. As much as we hate to admit it, plenty of us would rather be with someone who makes us miserable than sleep alone. Why is that? What's so terrible about being by yourself? And this doesn't just go for romantic relationships -- we keep around friends that are detrimental to us, too. So look at yours. Is there someone in your life who shouldn't be? Why are you keeping them around? If your answer to that first question is "yes,"...

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Подумайте о том, чем вы недовольны.  Пересмотрите свою самооценку Оцените свои отношения. Начните искать новую работу.  Решитесь на переезд


When it comes to picking your clothes for working out, comfort is king. Picking fabrics that allow you to move, bend, sweat, and lift comfortably is always a smart idea — if you feel better at the gym, you'll look better. Rather than relying on stuffy materials like denim, vinyl, polyester, and so on, pick breathable materials like cotton, bamboo, and artificial fibers designed for athletic wear to keep cool and comfortable while you work up a sweat.  "Moisture-wicking" fabrics are an especially great choice for workout wear. These fabrics (which are usually artificial) transfer sweat to the outside of the fabric where it can evaporate, rather than trapping it against your body. When in doubt, layer. Wear several pieces of breathable clothing on top of each other and remove the outer items as you heat up and begin to sweat. When you're at the gym, you have a little more freedom than normal for how tight or revealing your clothes can be. Make the most of this! For example, if you're a woman who's naturally curvy, a well-fitting sports bra and curve-hugging yoga pants can accentuate your natural assets. On the other hand, if you're naturally thin, you may want to go for a bare midriff to show off your toned midsection. Your ideal outfit will vary based on your body type — everyone's a little different! One sure-fire way not to flatter your figure is to wear a one-color outfit — this can give almost anyone a "saggy" look (as if they're wearing pajamas). A much safer bet is to wear one neutrally-colored garment (black, grey, etc.) and one colored one — this creates healthy contrast, highlighting your figure. Some people who have a tendency to sweat a lot may find it beneficial to wear items of clothing that absorb sweat. Headbands, wristbands, ankle bands, bandanas, doo-rags, and other accessories can help keep sweat levels manageable, ensuring you look your best while you work out. For added effect, you may also want to consider wearing an antiperspirant deodorant to minimize the amount that you sweat and keep...

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Комфортная одежда. Подчеркните собственную фигуру. Используйте потопоглащающие аксессуары. Придерживайтесь гигиены. Максимально увеличьте растяжку. Выберите упражнения для достижения цели. Знайте, как сделать плоскими отдельные части вашего тела. Принимайте правильную позу. Не держитесь одного тренажера.


When it comes to playing spin the bottle, the very first thing you'll need is other people (unless you want to play by yourself, which would be a pretty sad sight). To begin, find a group of willing friends — the more the merrier! Try to get a group that contains people of both genders so that there are a range of many different combinations of people who can potentially kiss. Make sure your friends know what they are getting into before you start playing.  Kissing is something that's usually reserved for people who really like each other, so forcing people to kiss who don't want to can be really embarrassing for everyone involved. Don't pressure anyone into playing with you who doesn't want to. When everyone is ready (and willing) to play, arrange yourselves in a circle so that you're all facing inward. Traditionally, this is done on the floor, though there's no reason you can't also do it standing or sitting around a table. Regardless of exactly how you arrange your group in a circle, it's usually best to pick a spot with a tough, hard surface, like a section of hardwood floor. This ensures that the bottle you use can spin well without scuffing or damaging the floor. When you're all ready to play, pick one person to start the game. This person grabs a bottle (or, really, any similarly spin-able object, like a pen, glass, key, etc.) and spins it hard in the middle of the circle of players. After it starts spinning, no one may touch the bottle until it comes to a complete stop. If you're unsure of how to decide who should spin the bottle first, you may want to try letting the oldest or youngest play go first or having one person think of a random number and starting with the person who guesses closest to it. When the bottle comes to a stop, its "neck" (the end that opens) should be pointing at someone sitting in the circle. The person who spun the bottle has to kiss this person!  If you're not using a bottle, designate one end of the object you're using as the pointing end. For instance, if you're using a...

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Соберите группу друзей. Сядьте в круг. Раскрутите бутылочку! Поцелуйте того, на кого указывает бутылка. Перейдите к следующему игроку и раскрутите снова. Наслаждайтесь!


When it comes to pork terminology , the word "loin" doesn't mean the same thing as it does for humans. The loin is a long strip of meat near the pig's spine that runs the length of the pig's back. In general, cuts of meat from the loin are some of the leanest, most tender cuts on the pig, so they're an excellent choice not only for those looking for soft, juicy pork, but also for a nutritious source of lean protein. Some common loin cuts are:  Butterfly chops Sirloin roasts Sirloin cutlets Loin chops Loin roasts The tenderloin (sometimes called the "pork fillet") is a small subsection of the pig's loin that arguably produces the most tender pork of all. The tenderloin is a long, narrow, lean strip of muscle running along the upper insides of the animal's ribs. Because it is exceptionally juicy, tender, and lean, it's often one of the most expensive cuts of pork. Tenderloin is often sold:  On its own In sliced pieces or "medallions" In a wrapped-up "roast" A pig's rib cage extends from its spine down around to the edges of its belly and offers a variety of delicious, meaty cuts that vary in texture and flavor based on which part of the rib cage they're taken from. Rib cuts from the top of the rib cage (near the pig's spine) can resemble loin meat in that they're naturally somewhat lean, juicy, and tender. Cuts from the lower sections of the ribs (near the pig's belly) can also be quite tender when cooked correctly but are usually fattier and require longer cooking times to reach the perfect level of tenderness. Rib cuts include:  Baby back ribs Spareribs Country-style ribs Rib chops As its name implies, pork belly is a very fatty, boneless cut of meat that's taken from the area over a pig's stomach. Many people are familiar with pork belly from eating bacon, which are thin slices of pork belly meat. Because it's so fatty, pork belly usually requires long, slow cooking in the oven or on the grill to become edible, but the results can be deliciously juicy and tender. Beside bacon and related products like...

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Выберите мясо из поясничной части. Выберите вырезку. Выберите мясо из лопаточной части. Выберите подбрюшину. Выберите более упругие куски, если вы собираетесь готовить мясо в медленноварке. Подберите менее известные мягкие куски.


When it comes to precise definitions of which punishments are suitable and which aren't, parents' opinions differ; some parents opt for a strict approach, while others are more gentle. While there's no single right way to discipline a child, the suggestions in this section are intended as all-purpose tips that nearly all parents should find helpful. One example of a punishment that's suitable for all families is removing a misbehaving child's privileges. For instance, if a child's grades have been suffering because they haven't been doing their homework, you may want to restrict video game time to the weekends until they can show you a test with a grade of B+ or better. To be clear, you'll only want to take away a child's privileges as a form of punishment, not their basic needs. Temporarily keeping a child from seeing their friends or watching TV is one thing, but keeping a child from sleeping, feeling loved, or getting adequate nutrition constitutes child abuse. In the real world, there are consequences for breaking the rules; if a grown-up does something wrong, they will often be forced to pay back the people they wronged in the form of community service, paying a fine, and so on. Show your child the consequences for bad behavior by making them work to get things back to the way they were (or better) before they misbehaved. This is an especially useful tactic for when the child causes property damage. For instance, if your child deliberately paints on your kitchen table, a good punishment would be making them go through the process of stripping, sanding, and varnishing the wood to get it looking like new again. Time-outs are somewhat controversial; to some, they're a weak, ineffective, coddling way to discipline a child, while others swear by them. While some parenting experts believe that time-outs aren't effective for all children, many believe that, when used correctly, time-outs can help an agitated child cool down and discourage bad behavior. Try experimenting with time-outs for minor infractions; if...

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Отказывайте в привилегиях. Применяйте возмещение (заставьте ребенка расплачиваться). Применяйте бойкоты в качестве наказания, если ребенок хорошо реагирует на них. Применяйте естественные последствия. Применяйте домашние аресты. Заставляйте ребенка лично извиняться за крупные оплошности. Применяйте безопасные, легкие телесные наказания нечасто (если вы их используете).


When it comes to setting the perfect table, colors matter. Formal and informal dining have different rules when it comes to color.  Formal dining should have light colors. Whites and ivories are preferable. If you want to add slightly more color, go with a light pastel shade.  Informal dining is less rigid about color requirements. Any shade is appropriate, from bright, primary colors to lighter shades. When setting your table with your new tablecloth, placing the tablecloth should be the first step. Make sure you place the tablecloth correctly.  Buy a padded table liner, which you can purchase at a local home goods store, to set over your table. This helps hold the tablecloth in place. The liner should be slightly smaller than your actual table. Set this on the table first.  Drape your tablecloth over the table. Make sure, on a square or rectangle table, the four corners of the cloth align with the corners of the table. Smooth out the tablecloth with your hands to get rid of any bumps or crevices. A runner is a strip of fabric that runs over the table in a horizontal or vertical line. If you want to add something extra to your tablecloth, consider adding a runner.  Runners are often holiday-themed, which can be helpful if you're planning a party around a particular event. For example, if you have a Christmas party a runner decorated with images of holly and snow could be a nice touch. The length of a runner depends on whether you plan on lying it horizontally or vertically. It should be about a foot longer than the length or width of your table. You can add other toppings to your table. Vases, flowers, candles, and centerpieces can be a nice touch. Go with toppers that convey your personality and style.  Avoid any topper that takes up too much space. You want to make sure your guests are still able to eat and drink without disruption. Be careful with flowers. Avoid flowers with a strong scent as this can affect the taste of food and drinks. If your tablecloth is made from a very silky material, it may slip...

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Используйте соответствующую случаю цветовую гамму. Накройте стол скатертью. Подумайте об использовании дорожки для стола. Украсьте стол дополнительными элементами. При необходимости зафиксируйте скатерть держателями.


When it comes to spending money, there are some things that you absolutely, positively cannot do without. These things (namely, food, water, housing, and clothing) are your first priority when it comes to spending your cash. Obviously, if you become homeless or suffer from starvation, it becomes very, very difficult to meet the rest of your financial goals, so you'll want to ensure that you have enough money to cover these bare minimum requirements before devoting money to anything else.   However, just because things like food,  water, and shelter are important doesn't necessarily mean that you have to splurge on them. For instance, cutting down on the amount that you go out to eat is one easy way to drastically reduce your food expenses. Along the same lines, moving to an area with cheap rent or home prices is a great way to spend less on housing. Depending on where you live, housing costs can eat up a large chunk of your income. In general, most experts recommend against agreeing to any housing arrangement that will cost more than one-third of your income. If you don't already have an emergency fund with enough money in it so that you can survive if you suddenly lose your income, begin contributing to one immediately. Having a reasonable amount of money stockpiled in a secure savings account gives you the freedom to comfortably sort out your affairs in the event that you lose your job. After you cover your essentials, you'll want to devote a chunk of your income to building up this savings account until you have enough saved to cover about 3-6 months of living expenses.  Note that living expenses can vary based on the local financial climate. While it's possible to survive on $1,500 for a few months in Detroit or Phoenix, this might not even pay one month's rent for a cheap apartment in New York City. If you live in an expensive area, your emergency fund will naturally need to be bigger. Besides giving you the peace of mind of knowing that you'll be OK in the event of career difficulties, having an...

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Расставьте приоритеты. Начните откладывать деньги «на черный день». Оплатите свои долги. После этого отложите деньги. Теперь потратьтесь на нужные вещи. Излишества должны быть последней категорией расходов.


When it comes to using a computer, quitting cold turkey is no longer an option. We're increasingly dependent on the internet and email for work, our social lives, paying bills, and making purchases. Making an online schedule is a more viable option. Limit the time you spend online without completely eliminating the habit.  Plan what times you will go on your computer. For example, say you find yourself mindlessly passing the hours after dinner on the Internet. Limit the time you go online to one hour and, after that hour is up, find other ways to pass the time.  List the websites you plan to visit. The reason many of us fritter away hours online is because of unplanned websites visits and, as many sites link you other relevant sites, you end up getting drawn in for hours. Go online only with specific intentions. Plan to check your email, Facebook, read a news article, and then turn off the computer.  If you crave the occasional spontaneous internet searches, set a timer for how long you can search aimlessly. Give yourself one to two hours of unplanned internet usage and then disconnect for the remainder of the day. There are a litany of applications and add-ons available that can block your access to time wasting websites. Invest in some of these if self control alone isn't cutting it in terms of lessening your time on the computer.  If you're a Firefox user, there is an add-on called LeechBlock. You can block time wasting websites for specific time periods, ranging from a few hours to a few days. If you use Chrome, there is a similar add-on called StayFocused and Internet Explorer simply allows you to block certain sites by manipulating your blocking settings.  There is a MacOS application called SelfControl that allows you to black list certain websites. You set a timer and you are unable to access the listed websites during that time. For PC users, there is a similar application called Freedom. If your computer time is caused primarily by gaming or using certain application, it might be time to simply...

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Разработайте график пользования интернетом. Используйте технологии с пользой для себя. Деинсталлируйте все то, что вам не нужно. Усложните себе доступ. Делайте перерывы.


When it's hot, reduce the heat to low to medium. You can use regular vegetable oil, or create a 50/50 combination using vegetable oil and ghee. You'll need to keep the heat on low to medium to keep the oil from sputtering too much. Be careful when you're working with hot oil; stand back from the pan to steer clear of sputtering oil. You can use a spatula or a slotted spoon to lower each ball into the oil. This is a part of the process -- do not try to move them. They will rise to the surface on their own. Keep turning them so they are evenly cooked on all sides. You may not want to cook more than a handful of them at a time; otherwise, they may get crowded, bringing down the temperature of the oil and getting soggy. Make sure that all sides have browned evenly and remove each dough ball from the oil. A slotted spoon is best for this, because it helps get rid of the excess oil. This will help absorb the excess oil. You can even gently pat the dough balls with a paper towel. You can either heat it again, or just have had it heated on low during the whole cooking process. You can use any deep dish, bowl, or tray for this process. Make sure that the dough balls are completely absorbed in the syrup. Some people even like to let them soak in the syrup overnight to let them fully absorb the syrup. Once the Gulab Jamun have soaked in the syrup for a long enough time, they are ready to eat. You can add a garnish of slivers of pistachios before you serve them. You can enjoy them on their own or with some vanilla ice cream or yogurt. They are best served warm, though they can be tasty when they're cold, too. If you have any left over, you can let them sit in the fridge, covered with plastic wrap, for up to a week.

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Разогрейте растительное масло на сильном огне. Аккуратно кладите шарики по одному в горячее масло по края кастрюли. Пусть шарики опустятся на дно кастрюли. Обжаривайте шарики из теста в течение нескольких минут. Положите обжаренные шарики на бумажное полотенце. Разогрейте сироп на слабом огне. Перелейте теплый сироп в миску. Опустите обжаренные шарики Гулаб Джамун в сироп и оставьте их там, по крайне мере, на 1-2 часа. Подавайте.


When laughter strikes before you can stop it, excuse yourself. This gives you time to calm yourself and take a few deep breaths before rejoining everyone. Learn to recognize the sensation that comes before you laugh, and try to identify your laughter triggers so that you can excuse yourself in time.  Go to the restroom if you’re at a funeral or in the office. Walk away or get back in your car if you’re at an accident scene.  Leave the room if someone’s said something inappropriate. Put your hand over your mouth and make a coughing sound. If the laughter continues, use the coughing fit as an excuse to go to the restroom, where you can compose yourself.  This works well for times you start to involuntarily laugh before you have a chance to stop yourself. You can also pretend to blow your nose. Tell the person you often cope with upsetting feelings by laughing, then say you’re sorry if the reaction hurt them. Opening up to them will likely make them understand where you’re coming from, and it could help relieve your laughter by making you less nervous. Say, “I’m so sorry for laughing at your father’s funeral. I want you to know that I didn’t find anything funny, I just laugh when I feel sad. I hope that I haven’t hurt you.”

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Осознав, что вы вот-вот засмеетесь по возможности постарайтесь поскорее уйти в какое-нибудь уединенное место. Замаскируйте свой смех кашлем, если уже не успеваете выйти и отойти подальше. Принесите извинения, если все-таки засмеялись.


When learning any new language, it is important to stay motivated and never give up on your goal of fluency.  Stay committed to your language-learning goal by reminding yourself of how badly you want to achieve it. Think of all of the amazing experiences and opportunities that will be available to you once you've mastered the English language. You will be able to converse with English speakers from across the world and develop new and exciting relationships, you will be able to engage with English-speaking culture like never before and potentially further your career as a result of your new language skills. If you want to gain fluency quickly, you need to commit to practicing every day.  Learning a new language is based on repetition, so if you wait too long between study sessions, you will forget everything you learned previously and have to start all over again, wasting valuable time. However, you shouldn't study so much that you grow sick of English -- try to keep things interesting by completing a different task each day - one day of reading, one day of listening comprehension, one day of writing practice, one day studying grammar, etc. However, you should never pass up an opportunity to practice speaking English, as this is the number one most important thing you can do to gain fluency. One way to make the transition from being very good at English to being fluent is to train your brain to actually think in the English language.  Constantly translating from your native language into English and back again inside your head consumes time and energy. Every language has its own nuances and peculiarities, which makes it impossible to accurately translate from one language to another in certain instances. As a result, your spoken and written English will flow much more naturally and fluently if you can just train your brain to think in English. Think of it like a switch -- when it's time to communicate in English, you need to turn your English brain on and your mother language brain off! One of the greatest...

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Сохраняйте мотивацию. Ежедневная практика. Тренируйтесь думать на английском. Заведите англоязычных друзей. Не бойтесь ошибаться.


When leaving the interview, make sure to maintain confidence. Remember, you're being judged from the moment you enter the interview room up until the moment you leave.  Say goodbye to the interviewer and thank him or her for your time. Offer a handshake and maintain eye contact, giving a smile as well. When you walk out, stand up straight and walk in a steady, confident gait. Send the interviewer a brief e-mail or letter thanking them for their time. This can help you stand out from the crowd. It does not need to be more than a few sentences. Something, "Dear Ms. Johnson, I really enjoyed talking to you about the salesclerk position at Sear's this weekend. I appreciated you taking the time to interview me. Good luck selecting a qualified candidate for the position." It's always a good idea to follow up about a position. If you haven't heard back in a couple of weeks, call or e-mail the person who interviewed you and let him or her know you're still interested in the position.

TL;DR in Russian:

Уходите с уверенностью. Отправьте благодарственное письмо. Узнайте результаты.


When life is bleak, we're not going to laugh no matter what. To see the humorous side of things, we have to be willing. So work on helping him be happy (making someone happy is impossible -- they have to want it) by being your awesome self and gracing his presence with it. By being positive and fun, you're really doing all you can. Be his friend (or whatever is fitting for your relationship), do little things for him, and just try to make his life easier (especially if he's been dealt a sour deck of cards). Let him see the bright side of life so the humor can start flowing. There are few things funnier (and mood-uplifting) than a person that can embarrass themselves and just roll with it. There are few things worse than a person that embarrasses themselves and gets all self-conscious and shameful. So when you spill that soda on yourself, just say that you're saving it for later and that brown looks better on you than white, anyway. Also, it's like two-for-one perfume. You're just being frugal! Studies actually show that embarrassing yourself can actually get people to like you and trust you more. It sort of makes sense -- when you show you're down-to-earth, light-hearted, and just a plain human like they are, it takes away any possible intimidation and stress. Slapstick, physical comedy is the only kind of comedy that's been around for all of human history -- and it still is for a reason. If the witty asides don't come to you naturally, don't stress! You can convince him you're the funniest thing since Tina Fey by just using your non-verbal hilarity.  Popcorn? Uh, yes, please! It's time for a who's-got-better-aim contest. And spaghetti? It's totally Lady & the Tramp time. Standing in line for your favorite movie? Bored so incredibly that you're practically gnawing off your arm for something to do? Why would you not bust out the macarena? As long as he's the type that doesn't embarrass easily, that is.  Try play-fighting, tickling or play-attacking him. The bond of human touch is strong as steel. Is it time...

TL;DR in Russian:

Помогите ему стать счастливым в общем. Проявляйте желание посмеяться над собой. Перейдите к физическому юмору. Расслабьтесь.