Article in English: Applying cold to a swollen area can help reduce inflammation and pain. You can either wrap ice in a towel or use an ice pack and press it against the swollen areas on your face. Hold the ice pack against your face for 10 to 20 minutes. You can use an ice pack multiple times each day for up the 72 hours. Keeping the swollen area elevated can help reduce swelling, so keeping your head up can help. During the day, sit with your head upright. When you get ready for bed, position yourself so that your head will be elevated while you sleep. You can place pillows behind your back and head to angle your upper body back against the headboard. When your face is swollen, avoid hot things for at least 48 hours. Hot things can increase the swelling in your face and make the inflammation worse. This side effect of heat means you should avoid hot showers, hot tubs, hot baths, and/or hot packs. Turmeric is a natural remedy believed to help reduce inflammation. You can make a paste by adding turmeric powder or freshly ground turmeric to water. You can also mix turmeric with sandalwood, which also is supposed to help inflammation. Apply the paste on the swollen area of your face, making sure to avoid getting it in your eyes. Leave the paste on for around 10 minutes. Rinse it off. Then, press a rag covered with cold water on your face. Some facial swelling will go away on its own, especially if it is connected to minor injuries or allergies. You just have to be patient and deal with it until then. However, if it doesn’t change or get better within a few days, go to the doctor. If you are experiencing facial swelling, don’t take aspirin or other NSAIDs to help with any related pain. These types of over-the-counter pain relievers can cause your blood not to clot properly. This inability to clot can lead to bleeding as well as increased or prolonged swelling.

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Приложите пакет со льдом. Держите голову выше. Избегайте всего горячего. Попробуйте нанести пасту из куркумы. Дождитесь, когда отек спадет. Постарайтесь не принимать какие-либо лекарства.


Article in English: Applying ice or cold to your hickey in any form will help reduce the swelling. Here are some things to try:  A cold compress. Ice in a zip-lock bag. A cloth dipped in icy water. A cold spoon. Moisten a spoon with water and put it in the fridge for five minutes. In a pinch, grab a frozen item out of your freezer and hold it against your hickey. Leave it on for a while, then take a break, and apply the ice again. If you're feeling too much pain, put the ice away for a while.   Do not apply ice directly to the hickey. Make sure it is covered by a cloth, paper towel, or zip-lock bag. If you're using a spoon, you should place it in the freezer every five minutes to keep it cool, or keep a few cold spoons in the freezer to speed up the process.

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Приложите лед к месту засоса. Приложите лед на 20 минут к засосу.


Article in English: Applying paste to a square cooler is a bit more challenging than a round one, because simply placing a dot and applying pressure will not result in full coverage. There are varying approaches that people claim allegiances to, so we’ll cover a few of the more popular ones:  The lines method – Place two thin lines of thermal compound on the base of the cooler. The lines should be parallel and spaced so that they are each placed a third of the width of the processor. The lines themselves should also be about a third of the processor’s width in length. The cross method – This is very similar to the previous method, but the lines are crossed in an “X” pattern instead of parallel. The length and thickness of the lines should be the same as the previous method. The spread method – This is one of the most popular and effective methods, but takes a little more effort. Place a small amount of thermal paste onto the base of the cooler. Using a plastic finger protector or a plastic bag, use your finger to spread the paste evenly across the surface. Make sure to cover the entire surface that will be in contact with the processor, and ensure that you do not apply the paste too thick. In most cases, the paste should barely hide the metal underneath. If you are using either of the line methods, apply even pressure to the heat sink as you install it to ensure that the paste covers the entire surface. If you are using the spread method, you MUST install the heat sink at a slight angle to prevent bubbles from forming. This is because the paste is usually spread too thin to compensate for bubbles after pressure is applied. The CPU fan wire should be plugged in the CPU fan socket because it mostly has the PWM function which allows the computer to adjust the fan speed automatically without changing voltage. Check that the fan is spinning. Enter the BIOS by pressing F1 or Del key during POST. Check if the temperature is normal, CPU temperature should be below 40 degree Celsius when idle, same for GPU.

Summary in Russian:

Нанесите пасту на основание радиатора. Установите радиатор. Подсоедините кулер. Загрузите систему.


Article in English: Applying pressure to the muscles will increase blood circulation and help relax muscles. Think of this as providing yourself with a targeted personal massage. For example, use your left hand to squeeze the deltoid (shoulder) muscle on your right arm. Take a slow, deep breath, and hold the pressure for 5 seconds. Then, release your hand and slowly exhale. Keep your arm relaxed so you don't cause stress to surrounding muscles. Keep doing this for about 5 minutes before moving on to another muscle. Before and after you perform physical activity, stretch your muscles to prevent stiffness or soreness. Stretch each muscle group for 15–30 seconds to effectively reduce the tension. Be sure to stretch the muscle until you feel a good pull with no serious pain.Here are some good stretches to practice:  Slowly roll your ankle and foot in circles if your calf is sore. Pull your foot towards you, and then point your foot back down while squeezing to work your calf muscle. Raise your shoulders up to touch your ears, and then roll them back down and around. This will help your shoulders and upper back. Lean your head to each shoulder, and keep it there for 15 to 20 seconds. Be sure to stop when the pull becomes too intense. This should loosen strain in your neck muscles. Performing light cardio is a good way to relax and loosen your muscles by increasing blood circulation. Simply walk on a treadmill or take a slow jog outside at a quick pace for 15 to 20 minutes. Remember to keep the pace faster than a walk, but don’t outright run. The purpose of light cardio is to relax your muscles, and more vigorous cardio may cause muscle tension. You could also jump rope or swim for 10–15 minutes.

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Чтобы избавиться от скованности мышц, попробуйте напрячь и расслабить их. Попробуйте выполнить растяжку скованных мышц, чтобы помочь им расслабиться. Занимайтесь легкими кардио-тренировками, чтобы ваши мышцы оставались подвижными и пластичными.


Article in English: Applying pressure to your gums with sterile gauze after pulling out a tooth can reduce pain and stop any bleeding that occurs. If your gums hurt or bleed a little after you pull out a tooth, then roll up a new piece of gauze and apply it to the tooth socket (gum area where the tooth was rooted). Apply pressure to the gums until the bleeding stops. The bleeding should stop within a few minutes. You can also use a wet teabag to soothe your gums after pulling out a tooth. Steep a teabag in hot water for a few minutes and then take it out and squeeze out some of the excess water. Then, let the teabag cool for a few minutes and apply it to your tooth socket to combat any pain that you feel. You can use green, black, peppermint, or chamomile tea to soothe your tooth. If the pain is still bothering you, then you can take a pain reliever such as acetaminophen or ibuprofen. Make sure that you read and follow the manufacturer’s instructions for use. If the loose tooth is causing you pain or if you just can’t seem to get it out, then call your dentist for an appointment. Your dentist can pull the tooth with the help of an anesthetic so that you will not feel any pain. In some cases, teeth may have a cyst or granuloma, which basically an infection, at the end of the root. Your dentist is the only person that can clean the socket and remove the infection, so you should consult them if you think this might be the case.

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Приложите давление на десну, чтобы остановить кровотечение. Приложите влажный чайный пакетик на лунку. Примите болеутоляющее средство, которое можно купить без рецепта. Обратитесь к стоматологу, если не можете вырвать зуб самостоятельно.


Article in English: Approach your family member with kind feelings. Obviously, the feelings won't be the same as what you'd feel for a crush, a lover or a close friend (unless you and your family members are also friends). Continuing to talk while hugging is okay.  Where you place your hands is not important because the person you're hugging won't think it over too much. Press gently. You don't necessarily have to have hard contact. Stroke your hands quickly across the top of the other person's back. Smile when you let go.

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Подойдите к члену семьи. Обнимите своего родственника, продолжая разговаривать.


Article in English: Approximately 10% of men 40-70 suffer from severe erectile dysfunction (ED) and another 25% suffer from moderate erectile issues. By 70, 49% of men experience moderate to severe ED. In the the vast majority of cases, however, it is the result of preventable lifestyle choices.  Sedentary behavior, smoking, and alcohol consumption are major contributors to ED.  Heart disease is also a major contributing factor. You should try to increase your ratio of “good” HDL cholesterol to “bad” LDL cholesterol. Lose weight, exercise, more and replace saturated fats in your diet with unsaturated fats like those in olive, peanut, and canola oil. Eat more nuts and fish, cut down on butter and cheese. Eliminate trans fats altogether.  If you are still having issues with ED, talk to your doctor about medications that can improve your situation. Sarcopenia is a condition that makes it more difficult for men to both develop and retain muscle. Typically, men begin to experience this condition (and hence lose muscle) around the time that they turn 30. This muscle loss, however, can be slowed or halted with resistance training. Use weights, or body weight exercises (like push-ups) that require you to strain your muscles to exhaustion. Try to progressively increase the amount of weight that you are using. About 3 out of 10 men show significant signs of balding by 30 and over half of men experience significant balding by 50. Typically, it is a slow process, that progresses steadily for a period of 15-25 years. There is no medical risk associated with balding and many men adapt to balding with simple stylistic changes, like shaving their heads.  Alternatively there are two medications, Finasteride and Minoxidil, which are known to either slow or reverse the process of balding. However, if you discontinue treatment the process of balding will resume rapidly. There are also scalp surgeries that can disguise balding, however, they are expensive and results vary. The most traditional option is to cover your head. Wigs can be used to create...

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Измените образ жизни, чтобы предотвратить импотенцию. Регулярно тренируйте выносливость. Будьте готовы к облысению. Боритесь с морщинами. Помните о том, что это нормально.


Article in English: Approximately half an inch (1 cm) from the spine of the book, use a utility knife to cut into the cover's book cloth on both the front and the back. Avoid cutting along the hinges, as these connect the cover to the text block. You can then take the bone folder and gently pry the spine off of the book. Either measure the spine that you just removed, or measure the space between the hinges on your textblock. Cut a piece of cardboard or Bristol board to match this measurement. Select a sturdy piece of cotton or linen fabric that matches the current cover of your book. Measure it to equal the size of the spine, and then add an additional inch to the length and two inches to the width. Cut the fabric out in this shape. Cover the back of your spine with book binding glue, and center it over the book cloth. Cut the corners of the fabric off at 45 degree angles, and add glue to the bottom edge of the board. Fold the top and bottom of the book cloth over and press it into the spine. Using the utility knife, chip away as much of the old spine's glue as you can from the text block. You want the new spine to have a clean start, so make sure it sticks by properly preparing the space it will fit. Place the book with the spine edge facing up. Use bricks to hold it in place. Glue a spine liner paper to the pages of the book. Put glue on the exposed book cloth of the new spine. Carefully drape the new spine over the book.  Starting from the spine, push the book cloth onto the cover. Use a bone folder to remove any air bubbles. Wrap the book cloth around the top and bottom of the original cover. Place the finished book into a book press overnight to dry. Place a piece of waxed paper inside the cover to prevent the pages from sticking.

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Снимите старый корешок. Измерьте корешок. Подготовьте ткань. Удалите остатки клея от старого корешка. Подготовьте книгу для нового наружного корешка. Prepare the book for a new outer spine. Установите на место новый корешок. Дождитесь, пока подсохнет.


Article in English: Approximately one hour before bed, dim the lights slightly in the person's home or apartment. Bright lights create stimulation in the brain, and as a result, can make it more difficult to fall asleep. By dimming them, a person more likely to fall asleep later on at night. If the lights in the house or apartment cannot be dimmed, one alternative is to turn off all overhead lighting and leave a few smaller lamps on to create a dimmed effect. Set the room to a comfortable temperature if the home or apartment has a thermostat. If the room is too cold, the person will not be comfortable enough to sleep because he or she will feel chilly. If it's too warm, he or she will be sweaty and uncomfortable. Usually, a temperature around 72ºF (21ºC) is ideal. Also, try to keep the room as quiet as possible by closing windows. In a home or apartment without a thermostat, try providing a fan to keep the person cool or extra blankets to keep them warm. Rather than getting into bed and immediately turning off the lights to go to sleep, encourage the person to pick up a relaxing hobby once they get in bed. This will help bring the day to a close. By relaxing before bed with a repetitive activity, the person will be less stimulated, and thus be more likely to fall sleep.   Try reading for 30 minutes before bed, for instance. Be sure they do not reach for their tablet or phone. Once in bed, the bright lights from their tablet or phone will stimulate their brain and make it difficult to fall asleep after they are turned off. After their new nighttime activity, such as reading, suggest that the person further relax through exercise. One exercise frequently recommended includes progressive muscle relaxation, which involves going through each muscle group in the body and flexing and relaxing it. Another suggested exercise is deep breathing, which will also help prepare the person for bed. You may also suggest mental exercise which will distract the mind, for instance, thinking of fruits and vegetables that begin with the same letter.

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Приглушите свет. Подготовьте спальню. Побудите человека заниматься любимым делом перед сном. Научите человека расслабляться.


Article in English: Approximately two-thirds of men who experience infertility have difficulty with sperm production. Difficulties with sperm production include not only how many sperm are produced but also the quality of the sperm. In terms of quantity, ejaculating less than 15 million sperm per milliliter of semen is considered a low sperm count. If you suspect you may have a low sperm count, you should ask your doctor about getting your sperm count tested. You could also do a home sperm test.  Do a sperm test at home. You can purchase a home sperm test online or at major drug and department stores. Typically, these home sperm tests are reasonably accurate in measuring sperm count. You will have to ejaculate into a cup, wait ten minutes, and then look for your results.  Remember that home sperm tests are limited in their ability to test for male infertility. They only measure sperm count and do not check for things like motility, shape, and other aspects of sperm quality. Although many plans cover the diagnostic tests needed to determine infertility, there can be complications. You should check with your insurance plan to see if they cover the infertility tests you want to take.  Some plans cover the diagnosis of infertility but not the treatment. You should also see whether or not your plan covers infertility treatment. Check to see if there are age and gender related restrictions in your plan. Your doctor will likely conduct a physical examination and look at your medical and sexual history. The next step will likely involve an analysis of your semen. You will have to masturbate into a cup and they will send the sample to the laboratory for sperm count testing.  If the sperm analysis is not sufficient to determine infertility, your doctor may do a scrotal ultrasound test. This test is used to look for problems such as varicocele (varicose veins in the scrotum).  Get hormone testing to see if there is a problem with testosterone.  Get a post-ejaculation urinalysis. This test is used to determine if your sperm are travelling...

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Подсчет количества сперматозоидов. Узнайте, покрывает ли ваша страховка обследования на бесплодие. Попросите доктора провести проверить вас на бесплодие. Обратитесь к профильному специалисту.


Article in English: Apricots have a tendency to become discolored when they are exposed to air. By dipping them in a shallow plate filled with a citrus juice like lemon or pineapple juice, you can prevent them from blackening.  You can use any ascorbic acid or citrus juice, including powdered ascorbic acid or vitamin C tablets. However, lemon or pineapple juice will give the apricots a pleasing flavor and they are easy to find.  You’ll only need a splash of juice for each apricot, so a 1 quart (0.95 L) jar should be sufficient for a moderately-sized batch. The best containers for freezing apricots are plastic containers with tight-fitting lids, especially if you’re going to pack the fruit in syrup. You can pack the apricots as tightly as your like without crushing them.  Leave at least 1⁄4 inch (0.64 cm) of headroom in the container to allow the apricots room to expand. If you’re not packing the apricots in syrup, you can place them in freezer-safe bags if you prefer. Using a stick-on label or a permanent marker, you should indicate that the fruit you're freezing is apricot, because it can be hard to differentiate fruit slices once they're frozen. Including the date on the label will help you keep track of when the apricots will expire. Fresh apricots which are not packed in syrup will last in the freezer for up to 3 months. To prepare a heavy syrup for apricots, prepare a mixture of 80% water and 20% sugar. Mix the water and sugar together and bring to a boil, then pour over the raw fruits in the freezer-safe containers. Use 1 cup (240 mL) of syrup for each 1 quart (0.95 L) of prepared fruit   This isn't necessary, but it will prolong how long you can store the apricots in the freezer, and it will help preserve the flavor of the apricots.  You can keep apricots in the freezer for up to a year if they are packed in syrup.

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Погрузите абрикосы в лимонный или ананасовый сок. Разложите половинки абрикосов в контейнеры, пригодные для использования в морозильной камере. Укажите на контейнерах название фруктов и дату изготовления. Замораживайте абрикосы в сиропе, чтобы продлить срок их хранения.


Article in English: Aquariums take a bit of maintenance to make sure all of your critters stay alive and well. About every 2 weeks, 10-15% of the water in the tank should be replaced with fresh water. If you are using tap water, let the water sit in an aerated bucket for about 24 hours to allow the chlorine to air out.  Check your local water source to determine if there are heavy metals in your water. Use filtered water if you are concerned about the quality of your tap water. A gravel vacuum is a handy tool to have to help control the algae in your aquarium. When you change out the water, vacuum the gravel at the same time to remove algae growth and any uneaten food that may have accumulated.  Clean the aquarium walls with filter floss or a magnetic tank scrubber to keep algae from accumulating on the glass. Add plants, snails, or daphnia to help control the growth. Count your fish at least once a week to determine if any have died. Smaller fish can decompose quickly and cause spikes in nitrite, ammonia, and nitrate levels. These can be harmful to the other fish in your tank. If you see a dead fish, remove it as soon as possible.  Use a test kit to check the levels of ammonia, nitrite, nitrate, and pH. Replace the water if the levels are too high. The ideal levels vary depending on the type of fish you have, but in general, the ammonia should be between 0.0 to 0.25 mg/L, the nitrite should be less than 0.5 mg/L, the nitrate level should be less than 40 mg/L, and the pH should stay around 6.

Summary in Russian:

Меняйте воду. Контролируйте рост водорослей. Вовремя удаляйте умерших рыбок.


Article in English: Aquatic newts need a proper aquarium set-up to live happily. A 10-gallon (38 L) tank is a good choice, but a larger tank is generally better. Don't place your newt in anything smaller. Newts do well when there are at least two in a tank. Consider getting two newts, which can live happily in a 10-gallon (38 L) tank. Though the newt is named an aquatic newt, they need both land and water in their aquarium. Consider making your aquarium 70% water and 30% land. The tank needs enough land area for your aquatic newt to come completely out of the water and onto the land.  Slope aquarium gravel up towards one edge to create an island or place a large rock inside with a slope for your newt to climb up. Make sure the slope is not too slippery since newts sometimes have trouble climbing. The slope should be gradual instead of steep. Their feet can slip on steep slopes. Aquatic newts will spend most of their time in the water. Placing enough water in the tank helps ensure they stay healthy. The water should be at least 10 inches (35 cm) deep. The newt should be able to move around while completely submerged under the water.  You should only use dechlorinated water. Chlorinated water or water with other chemicals can harm or kill your newt. To dechlorinate your water, use special reptile dechlorinating tablets which you can purchase online or at pet stores. You can also use spring water. You can buy spring water at any grocery store or supermarket. Never use water directly from the tap. The chemicals in it will kill your newt. If you're going to use water from the tap, you must let the water sit out in an open container for at least 48 hours or longer so that the chemicals can evaporate out of the tap water before adding it to your newt's tank. Washed aquarium gravel should be placed along the bottom of the tank. Place a layer of gravel that is two inches (5 cm) thick. You can gradually stack the gravel so it slopes out of the water to give your newt a place to get out of the water. Consider using large, smooth, round...

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Приобретите аквариум. Соблюдайте правильную пропорцию между поверхностью воды и суши. Добавьте достаточное количество воды. Выложите аквариум гравием. Используйте фильтр. Накройте аквариум подходящей крышкой. Установите источник средневолнового ультрафиолетового излучения.


Article in English: Are all the actors and crew present? If not, call 'em. If so, great. Now you have to make sure the deck is swept and mopped, everything is preset for the top of the show and it's all ready to go. If there are any hitches, people will probably come to you. It'll change every night. You're still the clock, even though you're out of rehearsals. Keep everyone posted on the countdown. Let them know at a half hour before that the house is open. Let them know it's 20 to places. 10 to places. 5 to places. And, finally, places. And make sure they say, "Thank you, 10!" (for example) before you assume they've heard you.  You'll also probably be letting everyone know when the stage is open and closed (for things like flying and whatnot), when physical and vocal warm ups are, etc. Basically when anything happens, you alert the masses. If you have a crew of veterans, this won't be that big of a deal. But the odds of everyone being seasoned aren't great! Assume they could all use a brush up and go over headset protocol. Here are a few things:   You will say "warning" and the cue number and whom it affects ("warning on deck cue 16," for example). The affected person should then say "Thank you, warning." After a warning, you will say "standby," as in "standby deck cue 16." The affected person should then say, "stage left," or "lights" or whatever their department is. When a standby is called, there is no more talking. When it is time for the cue, you call "GO." There is no response to this. You are the only one allowed to call the final go. Headset banter is a natural part of working backstage. It's a great part. Just know when it's appropriate and when it's not. Every night you'll have a front of house info sheet to fill out about ticket sales and box office issues. Your house manager and you will work out a system. But for their sake, keep your routine habitual. Try to show up at the same time and place each night so they can predict how things work with you. Co-ordinate with the front of house manager of when to open the...

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Убедитесь, что все безопасно и готово. Звонки. Общение через протокол гарнитуры. Работа с директором. Позывной к началу шоу. Отчет по шоу.


Article in English: Are homes cheap right now or expensive? Try searching for a graph of household income to home prices and see whether the city in which you're searching has a high ratio relative to other cities. Note that some cities like New York and San Francisco may be historically immune to such ratios. Talk with a real estate agent, or several agents, about the relative price of homes. Even if you don't get a definitive answer (it's tough to gauge whether the housing market is cheap or expensive, as the information is not always clear), you may get leads on specific markets to watch for or even homes that are steals. This information is valuable. Is a second home still a safe investment without rent padding the list of expenses? If it's not, you should seriously question buying a second home. Too many families buy a second home that's too expensive, betting that they'll be able to rent when they're not occupying the second home. When renting becomes unfeasible, impossible, or generates much less than anticipated, the homeowners are left with a failing investment. Add up all the likely expenses of owning a home. Can you fit these expenses into your budget with room to spare? Yes, you'll be building equity in your second home, but if investing in a second home leaves you severely cash-strapped each month, you may be better off waiting until you've paid off your first mortgage, for example. Here are some likely expenses to consider:   Property taxes. Different from state to state; the average annual property tax in Los Angeles is $1,200 for a $100k home, or 1.2%. If property taxes are inordinately high in the town you are considering, investigate the mill rate (real estate taxes) in neighboring towns. You could save a lot of money in real estate taxes simply by purchasing a home in a town close to your preferred location that doesn’t have a high tax burden. Basic utilities. These should be much lower if the house goes unoccupied for large portions of the year, but should not go overlooked. Upgrading/upkeep expenses. A house...

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Ознакомьтесь с ценами. Предположим, что вы не сможете сдавать в аренду свой второй дом. Составьте список возможных расходов. Вы не обязательно получите те же льготы, что получили при покупке первого дома. Проконсультируйтесь с CPA или налоговым консультантом, прежде чем делать покупку.


Article in English: Are there a few cute, single boys in your classes? Take action and start conversations with them to see if you connect. If their desks are near yours, this will be a little easier, but you can always chat them up before or after class, too.  Starting a conversation might be intimidating, but all you have to do is comment on something related to the class! If the classroom is freezing, you could say something like, “Are you cold? This classroom feels like the arctic.”  You could also ask them for help. You might ask, “Can I borrow a pencil?” or “Did you happen to catch the homework assignment?” A great way to meet potential boyfriends is to put yourself out there! Go to your classmates’ parties and attend school functions, like football games and pep rallies. The more boys  you meet, the more likely you are to find  the right one for you.  To make the most out of the social events you attend, you can’t stay huddled in a circle with your friends the entire time. If you see someone you like, start a casual conversation with them by commenting on something around you.  For example, you could say, “I love this song! Do you know it?” If he’s a fan too, you already have something in common! Your friends may know some cute single guys, so ask them if they can introduce you. Having a mutual friend with a guy can give the two of you something to talk about. Plus, if your friends approve of him, he’s probably a good guy. You might say, “I think I want a boyfriend. Do you know any cute guys that I should meet?” A great way to meet like-minded guys is to join an interesting activity or club! Having a common interest will help you connect.  If you’re an athlete, you could join a sports team, like swimming or track and field. You’ll be able to show off your killer athletic abilities while meeting boys who share your love for sports. Maybe you love helping others. Join a volunteer organization at your school to meet sweet guys who love to do the same.

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Поговорите одноклассниками, которые ни с кем не встречаются. Посещайте вечеринки и прочие мероприятия. Попросите своих друзей помочь вам познакомиться с мальчиком. Запишитесь в кружок или займитесь чем-то интересным.


Article in English: Are there pictures or art that can give you a clue on the topics you may be studying? What about the title? Is this a book for beginners or for someone with more skill?  Use the title for a more specific idea on the course. If it's a history book, will you be studying World History or Early American History? What do you already know about this subject? What about the authors, publisher and publishing date? Is this an old book or is it pretty current? How many chapters does the textbook have, and about how long are they? What about sub-chapters? What are the titles of the chapters and sub-chapters? Is there a glossary or a series of appendices? What about a bibliography? What types of words does the index have in it? Quickly flip through the pages. What immediately catches your attention? Take note of the chapter titles, bold words and vocabulary, photos, drawings, charts and diagrams. What do they tell you about things you'll be learning in the book? You can also skim to evaluate the difficulty of reading level for the text. Select one random page that is mostly text (not many visuals) and read it for comprehension. Time how long it takes you to read it.

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Изучите обложку. Изучите оглавление, алфавитный указатель и словарь. Пролистайте учебник, обращая внимание на изображения и заголовки.


Article in English: Are they confident in their habits? Do they display distinct qualities that most people do not possess? Do you know the person rather well? If so, this person may be a good candidate for analysis. On the other hand, does the person tend to act like everyone else? Is the person shy? Is the person quiet? Think about people you know very well and compare this person to them. Consider many personality traits, physical traits, and how they respond to stress. Compare this information to people that you know intimately to help you guess their sign. It is especially important to observe their behavior while they are in conflicts or while working in groups. We all learn to hide our inner feelings to some degree while in public. People usually display their astrological traits in relationships and tense interactions.  For example, Aries' first reaction when faced with conflict is to yell or threaten, Gemini will talk his/her way out of it, Cancer usually responds with an emotional outburst, Taurus responds to conflict with silence and a posture of strength, etc. Cardinal (Aries, Cancer, Libra, Capricorn): These people usually responds to conflict with a bold, decisive, instinctive action in an attempt to trump the assault. They are easily motivated to start tasks. Fixed (Taurus, Leo, Scorpio, Aquarius): These people tend to hold in their reaction and respond that the attempt to hurt them was futile, with passive aggressive behavior or with silence. They concentrate on finishing things well. Mutable (Gemini, Virgo, Sagittarius, Pisces): These people tend to be artful with conflicts, and are known to try to avoid arguments. They are good at motivating people. Aries is considered the youngest, while Pisces is the oldest. The younger signs tend to display quick tempers and be more selfish and eager to learn while the older signs are wiser, more compassionate and more set in their ways. This is where people get the term old soul. Base your prediction from your study of astrology. The average guesser should have a 1/12 guess...

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Найдите человека с ярко выраженным характером. Сравните человека с другими знакомыми вам людьми. Понаблюдайте за поведением человека. Обратите внимание на возраст знака зодиака: Потренируйтесь угадывать знак зодиака человека. Попросите человека назвать дату своего рождения.


Article in English: Are you a fan of Italian, Tex-Mex, Thai, fusion, BBQ? Dozens of cuisines have been created around the world using ingredients native to that region. The simplest approach when first learning to adapt a recipe might be to start with food that’s most familiar to you. This will help you recognize when the flavors are unbalanced. You will also already be familiar with the specific cooking techniques used for that cuisine. Find recipes you’d like to try by browsing cookbooks, magazines and recipes online if you don't already have one on hand you want to modify. Start with tried-and-true cookbooks and online recipes with many positive reviews, so you will know a recipe works well and that many like it. Finally, remember that modifying a recipe is an experiment. It could turn out to be the most delicious thing you’ve ever eaten or an inedible mess. Have fun with it!  Reviews of online recipes often include information on how the reviewer adapted it. They also often discuss tricks discovered to make the dish more easily and quickly. Reviews also frequently cover what didn’t work. You can also modify a dish through examining one you’ve eaten at a restaurant or friend’s home. Write down the ingredients you remember and the cooking techniques you think were used. Make this your base recipe.  Don't be surprised if the measurements and instructions don’t make sense when using an "heirloom" recipe written decades ago.  For instance, how much is a "tumbler" of milk? Go to a website such as this for translations and conversions: [1]. And when a recipe calls for ingredients in European or American/British units (e.g., grams versus ounces) that you need to convert, check out sites such as this: [2]. Is it because you don’t like all the ingredients but enjoy the dish overall? Are you adapting it to increase its yield or portion sizes? To make it healthier or to accommodate allergies? The answer will guide you in adapting it successfully. Here are some tips and links to websites that will help you a) convert yield and portion...

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Определитесь со способами приготовления, которые вам больше всего нравятся. Просмотрите кулинарные книги, журналы и интернет-сайты в поиске рецептов для вдохновения. Подумайте над тем, почему вы хотите адаптировать рецепт. Приготовьте блюдо по оригинальному рецепту, прежде чем переходить к его адаптации. Необходимо понимать, какую часть рецепта можно изменить. Используйте коэффициенты, чтобы избежать неудач и создать больше новых рецептов. Изучите соотношения бульонов и соусов. Изучите соотношения в рецептах выпечки и хлеба. Изучите соотношение ингредиентов в рецептах заварного крема, английского крема и сладких соусов. Подумайте над тем, какие ингредиенты улучшат рецепт. Различайте понятия вкуса и аромата блюда. Внесите коррективы в рецепт. Оцените модифицированный рецепт.


Article in English: Are you a morning person? A night-owl? Maybe just after lunch is your peak period. Find the time in the day that you're at your best and structure your life around that fact. There's no sense in pretending to be an early riser if you crave the 3am study session in your soul. Listen to yourself and do what works. Creating a plan for yourself helps to eliminate distracting thoughts and stress. Compartmentalize each thing you need to do in a given day, trying to anticipate how much time you'll need to accomplish it. Try to leave in some wiggle room in case you end up needing more time to bash out a draft of your paper, or more time to prepare for that presentation at work. Try your best to do one thing at one time. When it's time to eat breakfast and read the paper, just eat breakfast and read the paper. You don't have to worry about studying for that English essay if you know you're going to study for it at 4:30, after you get off work and before you meet up for dinner. It's best if you can help to remind yourself why you're doing what you're doing to help keep you on track and remind yourself of the bigger picture. Remember your long term goals, and how the little things you do fit into your larger plan for yourself. One of the most nagging distractions when you're trying to sit down to study trig notes might be, "Why am I doing this? I should be out partying and living my life!" In those moments, it's helpful to remind yourself why you're studying: "I've got to pass this class so I can get my degree and go to grad school and become the most powerful pediatric neurosurgeon in Whitman County. My plan is in effect." Take time for an evil laugh, then get back to it. Monotony can be its own distraction. Learn when you're getting bored of the same old, same old. Try to structure your day by doing different types of activities back-to-back. So you don't have to do one housework thing after another, alternate studying and housework, or throwing in some exercise. Don't answer all your emails at once, answer a few,...

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Найдите лучшее время для работы. Планируйте каждый день с самого утра. Работайте активно как над краткосрочными целями, так и над долгосрочными. Создайте привычку, а затем вносите в нее изменения. Отдыхайте в соответствии с графиком.


Article in English: Are you a novice when it comes to anatomical studies, or do you have experience with the subject? Is there a particular component of anatomy, such as the skeletal structure or the central nervous system, that interests you? Make sure you are in an anatomy class that caters to your level of understanding and your needs.  If you are new to studying anatomy, it is advisable to take an introductory course in order to provide you with basic concepts, theories, and terms that will be needed for your future studies. If you have the ability, you may want to ask a friend or peer who has previously taken an anatomy course if you can look over their notes and syllabus to see if the class meets your needs. If you are studying anatomy as part of a diploma, degree, or certificate program, work with your academic advisor to make sure you are taking the correct course for your program. You may want to ask, “Does this course have a lab component that requires separate enrollment?” so that you can ensure you are in all of the right classes to get the credit you need. Check with your academic advisor regularly to make sure that your courses are correct. Anatomy deals with a large number of components of the human body. Use labeled diagrams and sketches in your notes so that you understand how the specific parts you study fit and interact in the rest of the body.  Ask your teacher, “Do you have any images or diagrams I can copy for study aids?” Use unlabeled versions of your diagrams or note sketches to test yourself and help reinforce your knowledge. Look to your classmates and see if you can create a study group or weekly meeting group to exchange notes and talk about the course. Use this time to have your peers help you with concepts that aren’t sticking with you.  This is also a great space to help tutor your peers, which in turn allows you to review and reinforce information in your own mind. Make these meetings fun, informal spaces where you and your peers can talk freely about what you are learning. Allow for...

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Если есть такая возможность, запишитесь на самый подходящий курс. Проверьте соответствие требованиям. Пользуйтесь наглядными учебными материалами. Общайтесь с одногруппниками. Выступайте в роли преподавателя. Изучайте связанные между собой дисциплины.


Article in English: Are you aware the other person’s faults and quirks? If so, then you’re in a normal phase of realistic love in which you may no longer see your partner through rose-colored glasses, but instead start to notice the things that might annoy or irritate you. It's okay to notice these things — no one is perfect, and your partner is going to start noticing quirks and imperfections about you, too. What's important is figuring out if you can accept these things about your partner.  Are you starting to notice that your partner never cleans up the dishes after eating? Or have you noticed larger issues you may need to work on, like that he often says he is fine when he's actually very upset? If you cannot tolerate the other person's faults at this stage, or feel that they are things that the two of you cannot work on, you might decide to move on from the relationship. Once you start to become more intimate with your partner, you’ll likely have more arguments and disagreements. If you're willing to compromise and put your partner or the relationship first, then you're beginning to be in a more committed and content phase of your relationship. Disagreement is unavoidable, but you can learn to communicate better with your partner by:  Listening attentively Avoiding judgments or blaming Asking for clarification Rephrasing or repeating to show you understand Talk about hard topics such as hurt feelings Ask yourself if you can get what you need from one another. The success of building a relationship will depend on if you can trust each other to be there. If you are both turning toward one another and listening to each other's needs, rather than getting angry or denying what your partner needs, then you are certainly in a phase of contentment.  To assess your level of trust, ask yourself if you are able to: Be vulnerable in sharing your concerns and insecurities to your partner. Be open to what the other person is feeling. Avoid getting angry, jealous, or possessive. If you’re in a healthy, contented relationship, you’ll start...

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Подумайте, принимаете ли вы недостатки своего партнера. Понаблюдайте за тем, как вы справляетесь с конфликтами и недопониманием. Определитесь с уровнем доверия. Прислушайтесь к тому, что вы говорите о будущем. Обратите внимание, готовы ли вы к совместной жизни.


Article in English: Are you close to throwing up in the air? There are some small measures you can take that might help you feel better fast.  Put pressure on the inside of your wrist. Press down, gently but firmly, with your fingers about two fingertip widths above your hand’s bottom.  Suck on hard candy to keep your saliva going. This will help reduce the feeling of a sick stomach in many cases. Ask for lemons. They will settle an upset stomach. The flight attendants might have some on their beverage trolley. Suck on the lemon wedges. It’s easier to rush to the bathroom if you’re sitting next to the aisle. If you’re a queasy flyer, request one!  To reduce motion sickness, focus your eyes on a distant fixed point. Keep your mind occupied. Do a Crossword puzzle or play a game on your computer. Take a long, deep breath through your nose, and then slowly breathe out. Take advantage of times that the seatbelt sign goes off, and take a bathroom break. This might help relieve some of your stomach stress. Ask to sit near the plane’s wing, where it’s most stable or back by the bathroom so you're close. Be aware that the back of a plane is the bumpiest, usually. You're more likely to get sick to your stomach in the back. Don’t stay crouched in the same position. Give your body some relief by moving as much as you can!  You will want to stretch somehow, either by walking to the bathroom or while sitting in your seat. Massaging the abdomen can also lower pain from gas. Do this gently. Try to shift position in your seat every half hour if you can’t get up. You can do this by crossing your legs, leaning forward, or putting your feet on your carry-on bag. This is the small nozzle you can turn on above you to direct air towards your face.  The gush of fresher air might make you feel somewhat better. Move your seat back and recline if you are allowed to do so. Look at the sky out the window, if you have a window seat, with your head slightly tilted back. Focus on the horizon. If your upset stomach is caused by anxiety, try to calm down by...

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Используйте быстрый прием снизить расстройство желудка. Попросите место у прохода. Смените положение. Включите вентиляционное сопло. Используйте специальный гигиенический пакет.


Article in English: Are you doing it to fit in at school? Do you want to be able to wear that gorgeous pair of earrings you just got for your birthday? Do you just really like the way pierced ears look? Thinking about your motives will help put the piercing itself in perspective, and remind you that the benefits of having your ears pierced will outweigh the pain of actually doing it. Know that you can wear clip-on earrings or use converters to wear pierced earrings, if you want to wear earrings without the pain of the piercing. If you're nervous about getting your ears pierced, seriously consider these options. Try wearing clip on earrings for a few days to see if you like them. You might decide that you don't need to get your ears pierced at all, saving you a lot of stress and pain. Investigate the health and safety hazards of piercing your ears. Consider any allergies to different types of metals you might have, as that will affect what earrings you can safely wear. Learn about how to take care of your ears after piercing them, including how long to keep your earrings in and how to clean your ears. Make sure you're comfortable with the risks of piercing your ears, and be confident that you'll be able to take care of them after they're pierced. Knowing about the risks is the first step towards overcoming them. Think about ways to mitigate any risks you learn about, and come up with a plan to keep your ears clean and safe. Make an appointment at a shop approved by the Association of Professional Piercers. Consider reviews and ratings, prices, and store hours before making your appointment. If you're worried about your safety, don't go to a shop such as Claire's that uses a piercing gun. The only way to sterilize piercing equipment is through the use of an autoclave, which would ruin a plastic gun. Choose a place that properly sanitizes their equipment, and be sure to use only high-quality jewelry. You'll be asked to sign a waiver. If you're worried about the legal side and about what your rights will be if anything goes wrong,...

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Подумайте, почему вы хотите проколоть уши. Рассмотрите альтернативы проколотым ушам. Проведите свое исследование. Выберите безопасное и проверенное место для прокалывания ушей. Изучите юридические аспекты пирсинга. Решите, где вы хотите пирсинг. Изучите процесс прокалывания. Подготовьтесь к жизни после пирсинга.


Article in English: Are you doing research on a certain topic?  Practicing a foreign language?  Learning more about life and culture in another land?  Depending on your interests and purpose in writing to a pen pal, you will make different choices about who you opt to connect with.  For instance, if you're interested in learning German, you should connect with a pen pal from Germany, Austria, or a German speaker in another country. If you're interested in learning more about Japan, you should identify pen pals in Japan who can share their insights into Japanese society. If you’re interested in simply making a friend, it might be beneficial to write to someone with whom you share some common ground.  Try to write to someone who is about your age and has similar interests.  Find pen pals who you think are interesting and can connect with. For instance, if you're a 17-year-old punk rocker, you'll be unlikely to connect with a 45-year-old businessman. There are pen pal clubs that cater to specific groups, such as just college students or just teen girls. This can help you find a pen pal easier. Don't be afraid to write with someone different than you. For example, instead of finding another 17-year-old punk rocker, you could find a 16-year-old ballet dancer. There are many forums and websites available which connect people to pen pals both at home and abroad.  Pen Pal World, Penpals Now, and Letter Writers Alliance are just some of the many sites which facilitate letter writing connections. Some services require fees while others are free. Both can provide good pen pals, but check before you get too excited about the sign-up process.

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Учитывайте причины для переписки. Учитывайте свои интересы и предпочтения. Используйте интернет, чтобы найти друга по переписке.


Article in English: Are you engaging in more date-like activities, or are you on the buddy system? Taking a long hard look at how you hang out can help you understand his real intentions. Here are some things to consider:  Are you doing couple-y things together without being a couple? Do you find yourself grocery shopping, cooking dinner together, or even going to the Farmer's Market with one grocery bag? These may be signs that he sees you as a girlfriend already. When you hang out, are you hanging solo or with a big group of people? This may indicate if he wants to see you a more than a friend.  If he invites his ten best friends or entire fraternity to join you when you hang out, he may not see you as more than a friend. But pay attention--if he only invites other couples to join you, he probably wants to pair off with you. But if he invites his siblings, best friends, or if (yikes!) you somehow end up meeting his parents, this is a sure-fire sign that he wants you to be a serious part of his life. You can tell a lot about what he really thinks by considering how often and for how long you hang out.

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Обратите внимание на то, что вы делаете вместе. Обратите внимание на то, как часто вы встречаетесь.


Article in English: Are you even aware of your innate need to fix or control others? Some people reading this may be in denial of a savior complex. By taking a closer look into your relationships with others, you can see a pattern of compulsive helping.  Have you stayed in a relationship in which you were unhappy because you thought the other person needed you? Do you find yourself frequently worrying about others and their problems? Do you feel guilty when others help or give to you? Are you uncomfortable letting others experience negative emotions, so you quickly try to resolve the problem? Do you exit unhealthy relationships only to find yourself connecting with similar people as your past partners?  If you answered yes to any of these questions, you may want to visit a therapist. A therapist can help you determine if these are unhealthy behaviors for you. You may not realize that in your attempt to fix everyone around you, you have left yourself starving emotionally, psychologically, and spiritually. Perform a self-assessment to look closer at areas of personal need. You may find that you have been projecting your own shortcomings onto those around you.    Identify your personal values. What beliefs, ideas, and principles drive your decisions and goals? Have you been living according to your values? Examine your  emotional intelligence. Are you able to recognize your emotions and effectively express them? Take a look at your  self-worth. Is your self-esteem connected to how much others value or need you? The compulsive need to rescue or help others is often rooted in your childhood. Researchers believe those who suffer from a savior complex or white knight syndrome are trying to fix some negative sense of themselves that arose in early life. Low self-esteem, abuse, or neglect may have contributed to this complex. You may choose friends or partners who are going through distress similar to that which you experienced in childhood.  Awareness is the first step in being able to repair a damaged sense of self. Take notice of the...

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Изучите повторяющиеся мотивы прошлых отношений. Замечайте личные аспекты, которыми вы долгое время пренебрегали. Признайте и примиритесь с детской травмой или безразличием. Обратитесь к психотерапевту по вопросам созависимых отношений.


Article in English: Are you girly? Wear floral patterns, pastel colors, skirts and dresses. Preppy? Try polos, chinos, capris, knee lengths skirts and dresses and oxfords. Edgy? Leather jackets, miniskirts,  short tight dresses, band tees, lace skirts and skinny jeans. Shop at stores that sell clothes that you like, not just trends. Dress to flatter your body and dress for the season. You wouldn't want to be caught in the snow in a miniskirt, would you? Don't wear too much makeup or too tight or short clothes. You're just a kid, after all. A lot of girls wear too much makeup, super trendy clothes and high heels just to fit in. But if that's not who you are, don't be it! Express yourself! If you like music, wear guitar earrings. If you like art, wear paint splattered jeans. Be yourself! Don't stop taking showers, washing your hair and wearing deodorant because you're "being yourself" or "making a statement". It's unhealthy. Take showers and wash everywhere.  Shave if you're allowed and it's necessary. Don't shave just to shave. However, you might wish to. Shaving is a choice and isn't necessary to be beautiful! Wash your hair as frequently as you think you need to. If you are unsure, ask your hairdresser, your mom or even a trusted friend (with healthy hair). Get a trim every 6-8 weeks to prevent split ends and avoid heat styling as much as possible. Use deodorant, antiperspirant, or combination every morning and after P.E. You can use perfume if you want, but be careful not to overdo it. If she says yes, don't wear too much. For middle school, wear chapstick, light lip gloss, and concealer. Don't use too much, it may look heavy. Remember that wearing makeup is your choice and you don't have to if you don't want to.

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Найдите свой стиль. Будьте естественны. Старайтесь выглядеть привлекательно. Попросите маму помочь вам сделать макияж.


Article in English: Are you going to a nice restaurant? To a ball game or a picnic? To a wedding or holiday party?  The type of clothes you wear to a certain event tells others that you care about your appearance and will help you feel more confident. If you’re going to a restaurant, try looking it up online to see if you can tell how fancy it is. For casual places, and for picnics or ball games, jeans and t-shirts or business casual clothes are just fine. For fancier restaurants, weddings, or holiday parties, you’ll want to dress up a bit more (a nice dress or skirt and blouse for women; a suit or dress shirt and dress pants for men) keeping in mind the exact location of the event to determine how “dressy” to be. Wear clothes that are clean and ironed, regardless of where you’re going. Shower each day, wash your hair, brush your teeth, and wear deodorant. Keeping up with hygiene may sound obvious, but letting it slack can be pretty detrimental to your social interactions, as well as put you at higher risk for getting sick. If you’re unsure, it never hurts to ask a trusted friend or relative what they think regarding an outfit you’re deciding on. You can get some helpful advice, especially if you’re going to a new place and your friend has been somewhere like it before. Or, if you’re just unsure how formal a certain occasion is (ex. weddings can be either extremely formal or quite informal) it’s a good idea to ask someone.

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Подумайте о том, куда вы идете. Всегда следите за собой. Спросите мнение другого человека.


Article in English: Are you going to be bathing in champagne in the claw-foot tubs of a five-star hotel? Or are you going to be roughing it in hostels with a stub of bread in your pocket? A large part of how much a vacation costs is what you decide to spend. Take an hour or two to figure out how much your trip would cost you and your companions. This should include airfare or gasoline costs.  Always add some wiggle room, overestimating rather than underestimating. There are always costs you don't foresee or things you want to do that you haven't accounted for. If the trip is more than you are willing to spend, make cuts where you can. If it ultimately means cutting the trip short, so be it. Let's say you figure your trip will cost $1,500, including airfare.  It's six months away. That means you have to save $250 a month for the next six months in order to meet the costs of your trip. Here are a few ideas where you can start saving:  Ditch that daily sugary latte. If you get a $4 coffee drink three times a week, that's $12 a week, and about $50 a month. That's $300 in six months right there. Eat from home more. Restaurants are great, but they're expensive. If you cook at home, you can save money not only because it's cheaper, but because you'll have leftovers that can last you days. Quit the luxuries for a while. That last drink on Saturday night? Pass. A movie next week? Nope. Heck, cable? Who needs it when you have Netflix? Take a look at what little things are fun, but that you could live without. If you plan ahead, you can save on prices by doing your research and searching around for deals, either for flights or for accommodation. Search online for things to do and travel tips to and around the destination you're visiting. In your learning, you'll know what to search for when looking for deals – like museum passes, hotel discounts, transportation deals, etc. And when you find those deals, nab 'em.  It is said that you should book airfare around two months out for the best deals – this is that happy place where airlines start...

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Определитесь с расходами. Составьте бюджет. В интернете поищите скидки на проживание, проезд, посещение достопримечательностей и других интересных мест, чтобы найти возможности сэкономить средства. Обзаведитесь дорожной кредитной картой (если это возможно).


Article in English: Are you going to break up with him because he's not treating you right, because you've lost interest, or because you're both too busy to make it work? Whatever your reason, you have to figure out exactly what you're going to say and how you're going to say it. If it's something like you falling out of love or falling for someone else, then you can find a nice way of ending it that would cause the least damage. Though honesty is important, you don't have to tell him everything if it would only hurt him. If you've fallen out of love, you may not want to be so blunt about it. You don't want him to completely break down if it comes as a shock. Though you shouldn't be too obvious about it, you don't want to throw your man completely off guard with the breakup. That means that he shouldn't think that everything is peachy keen the day before the break up, or even the week before. Once you've made up your mind, you should break up with him as soon as possible, but if you have to wait a few days to do it, then try to act more cold and distant in the meantime. Don't tell him how much you love him, or kiss him or act affectionate with him. Don't be a coward and send him a note, email, text, or phone call. Unless you're in a long distance relationship or he has a reputation for being violent when he gets bad news, you owe him the courtesy of meeting him in person one last time. If you don't do it in person, he'll reach out to you anyway, and you'll have to rehash the same painful conversation, but it won't be on your terms as much. If you don't do it in person, he will hold it against you after the relationship is over. It's important to break up with the boy as soon as you can  after making your decision. That being said, you shouldn't go and break up with him the second you you know it, or you might end up blurting it out in public or at an inopportune moment. Just pick a time when you'll be alone and will have some privacy, but nowhere romantic so he won't get the wrong idea.  Don't go to one of your favorite...

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Разберитесь что собираетесь сказать. Намекните. По возможности, сделайте это с глазу на глаз. Выберите правильное место и время.


Article in English: Are you having a pirate-themed party? A Christmas party? A black and white party? Whatever it is, start thinking about your goodie bag in terms of your party's theme. How does it fit in with the rest of your shindig? Think about when you're planning on giving out your goodie bag. If it's toward the end, you could include things that will remind your guests of the good time they had. Or you could leave room in the bag for them to insert a few things from the party that they enjoyed (crafts, candies, decorations, etc.). If the recipients are 10 year old boys, you probably don't want to fill those bags up with inkwell pens and small bottles of Courvoisier. And if your audience is a group of middle-aged women, you're not gonna be giving them bags full of beef jerky and Pokémon cards (and hopefully not having a jerky-themed, Pokémon party). What would your audience enjoy? The younger your audience, the more you should shy away from things that will be messed with for 5 seconds, broken, and then shoved in a drawer. You'd be better off with mostly candies or things that can actually be used, like pens or hair barrettes. If you are inviting 10 people, you can afford to splash out more than if you are inviting 30. These goodie bags are out of the kindness of your heart, so don't feel pressure to break the bank on them. How much money would you like to spend? Once you pick that number (and stick to it!), the contents will fall into place. A few dollars per bag is plenty. You want to aim for a number of filler items and just a few tokens that have actual value. Most goodie bags contain food or candy and tiny knick-knacks such as small toys, pencils, and stickers -- probably 3 to 5 of each. For example, if you were going with the pirate theme, you could include a shop-bought eye patch, some fake gold pirate's booty, and some themed sweets. You could even make homemade ones to save on the expense and make it even more personal.  You could also use tissue paper or pretty cellophane grass (the basket filler stuff) to give...

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Если у вашей вечеринки есть тема, поработайте с ней. Учитывайте контингент. Определитесь с количеством денег. Продумайте содержимое. Выберите и заполните мешочки.


Article in English: Are you heading to the sunny beaches of Phuket, Thailand or the chilly Patagonian terrain of Chile? Will you be traveling to several different climates. Consider the weather of your final destination and pack accordingly. If you are going to the beach, bring appropriate light-weight clothing. Don’t bring heavy, cold weather clothes if you don’t have to. They really add pounds. If you are going to a colder climate, bring a single coat to wear over layers, rather than several coats, which can be cumbersome and heavy. Layers allow you to strip down, if weather permits. Bring dual-purpose clothing. If you know you’ll be traveling through several climates, consider purchasing pants that turn into shorts with a zip of a zipper. Various companies make jackets that have removable sleeves and hoods. When only a few pieces of clothing are available, putting an outfit together can be a challenge. Bring clothes that are neutral in color, such as white, tan, brown, black, or blue so they can be mixed and matched.   Jeans are a versatile choice. You can wear shirts with jeans and be photogenic. If you are a girl, thin knits offer versatile as well as light clothing options. Shoes take up the most room in your luggage. To pack light, try to get by with only one pair of shoes. The type of shoes you pack will depend on your destination and planned activities. If you anticipate spending most of your time on the beach, a pair of flip flops should suffice. For business meetings, pack a nice pair of dress shoes in a neutral color that also works with casual attire. If you need more than one pair of shoes, wear the heavier pair for travel, and pack the lighter pair in your suitcase. Scarves, belts, bracelets, and earrings can help stretch your wardrobe to create different looks without adding a lot of weight or taking up too much space. Don’t bring too many accessories though. Keep in mind that some of the greatest souvenirs are clothing accessories. You might end up buying a silk scarf in Milan that you can wear later on your...

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Берите одежду по погоде. Выбирайте вещи цветов, которые хорошо сочетаются между собой. Подберите функциональную обувь. Берите с собой легкие аксессуары.


Article in English: Are you hoping to get someone special to notice you? Draw a mysterious stranger into your life? Dispel negativity from a wounded relationship? Spice up a lackluster love life? Make your interactions with the universe at large more loving? The most important part of manifestation, so get a very clear picture in your mind of what you’d like to accomplish.  Think very carefully about the potential drawbacks of your intention. If, for example, you intend to attract your ideal mate, think about whether or not you’re at a place in your life where you can enter into such a relationship. If you’d like to work your magic on someone you don’t know that well, brace yourself for the possibility that (s)he won’t be as interesting or attractive in real life as they seem from afar. Remember the rule of three.  According to the Wiccan Rede, “All good that a person does to another returns three-fold in this life; harm is also returned threefold.”  Encourage love by sending it out freely. Stay away from intentions that involve dominating, manipulating or in some way controlling another person.  Those kinds of intentions leave you open to receiving the same in turn. For example, instead of manifesting a nurturing, mutually supportive and satisfying relationship, you could draw to yourself someone who is wildly possessive and extremely jealous. Exactly what you choose and in what combination should be based on the kind of love you want to attract.  Start by emphasizing colors.  Red, for example, is the color most closely associated with passion and lust.  Pink is also a heart color but is considered to be more nurturing.  White speaks of innocence and would be appropriate for a platonic relationship.  Green's association is with nature and might be used to promote virility. Choose candles, clothes, papers, flowers, or other objects in a color(s) whose associations fit your needs. Integrate herbs into the spell.  According to herb lore, balm and catnip can be used to attract love, and marjoram can be used to dispel negativity and...

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Определитесь с намерениями. Соберите символические предметы. Очистите тело. Выберите место. Начертите круг. Зажгите свечи и сконцентрируйтесь. Повторение усиливает эффект. Будьте готовы к вариациям.


Article in English: Are you jealous of your sister? Do you pick fights with her and realize that’s what you’re doing? It might be that part of the problem is you, and your sister is responding to your treatment. It also might be that you have been busy with your own friends and life and haven’t paid much attention to her for a while. Whether she’s older or younger, close or far apart in age, every sibling relationship is different and the dynamics are dependent upon your personalities. Think about how you want to interact with your sister and how you want your relationship to work.  Do you want to be buddies and go to parties together? Would you rather have her as a mentor figure to help you figure out problems in your own life? Do you want to help, guide, and protect her? Are you still thinking of her as she was five years ago? Do you really know her as she is now? It’s easy to not pay attention to how your sister is growing and changing -- she’s always around and you have a lot going on in your own life. If you don’t really know what your sister is like now, or her interests or friends, it’s time to get to know her. She might feel the same about you.  Come up with some fun questions you two could ask each other, from wacky to ordinary: favorite movie of the last few years, favorite weird-sounding ice cream flavor, place she’d most or least like to visit. Follow her on social media -- you will be able to see how she presents herself and her interests, who her friends are, and how she sees her place in the world. Take a trip together. It could be a simple as an overnight camping trip to the beach or getting a motel room at the mountain. There’s just something about a trip with someone that can really help you get to know them more and open up. Do an activity together. It could be anything -- rollerskating, volunteering at a soup kitchen, learning yoga together, whatever you and your sister think sounds fun. Look through old pictures of yourself together. Remember some of the fun (and not-so-fun) times from childhood. We all come...

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Проанализируйте текущие отношения с сестрой. Определите, в каких отношениях вы хотите состоять с сестрой. Подумайте, как вы видите свою сестру. Начните отношения с чистого листа.


Article in English: Are you just making roses for practice or would you like to affix them to another item? For example, think about if you'd like to attach roses to a scarf, jacket, blanket, or hat. You'll need to decide how large you'd like your roses and how many you intend to make. A worsted weight yarn is ideal for starting, since you'll be able to see the stitches. Consider how you'll be using the roses. If they're embellishing a scarf or purse, you may want a specialty yarn. Make sure the texture of the yarn matches the texture of the item you'll be attaching it to. This is basically determined by the type of yarn you've chosen. The yarn package should give a suggested hook size for use with that specific yarn. Many worsted weight yarns will work with a number 5 hook or size I. The hook size suggestion doesn't have to be followed, but your crocheting might turn out knotty or too loose.

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Подумайте о своем изделии. Выберите пряжу. Выберите крючок для вязания.


Article in English: Are you playing hide and seek? Are you trying to surprise someone? Are you trying to evade detection altogether? The reason you are trying to hide (and any rules that you may have to follow) should guide you at this point.  If you are required to hide in one place the whole time, you'll want a spot with maximum cover that whoever is looking for you won't think of. If you are trying to surprise someone you don't necessarily need to be well hidden. You just want to be hidden in a place where they can't see you until they are close and you leap out and surprise them. If you are trying to evade detection altogether and are allowed to move, you'll want to take advantage of sight lines and mobility. Maximum cover is less important. Evaluate the area in which you will be hiding from the perspective of the person you are hiding from. If they are actively looking for you, where will they think you are hiding? What will their sight lines and priorities be?  For instance, if playing hide and seek, your "seeker" is going to be actively thinking of hiding places as well. For this reason, try to avoid common hiding places like closets and below beds. If trying to surprise someone you'll want to predict where they are going and position yourself in a blind spot that they'll have on the way to their objective. If trying to move and evade detection think of the sight lines that the other person will have. Ideally you will move in and out of these sight lines as their gaze shifts. Ideally, you'll have time to consider different hiding spots and find the best one. But if the person looking for you is right on your tail or if you are playing hide-and-go-seek and the Seeker is nearing the end of their count, you might not have the luxury of time. If so, you may have to rush. Even if you are in a rush, don't pick the most obvious spot. If it is really obvious, the person looking for you is sure to find it. If you have plenty of time, you'll want to start picking hiding spots after evaluating the territory from both your...

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Определите свою цель. Думайте как человек, от которого прячетесь. При необходимости быстро найдите место. Найдите себе укромные места. Рассмотрите возможность спрятаться сверху. Подумайте о том, чтобы спрятаться внутри чего-нибудь. Оцените укрытия.


Article in English: Are you ready to get your geek on? Follow these steps to easily disable your internet:  Press the Windows key and R to get to the Run dialog. Then press Command and Enter. Finally, type in "ipconfig /release" and press Enter. Go to Network And Internet → Network and Sharing Center → Change adapter settings. (Your internet connection may be called "Local Area Connection" or "Wireless Internet Connection.") Click properties. If prompted, type in an admin code to continue. Open it, and click on the Internet Protocol Version 4 (TCP/IPv4). Press the Properties button. Type in a string of ones, so that your new IP address says 111-111-111-111. A dialog box saying "Since this connection is currently active, some settings will not take effect until the next time you dial it" may pop up. This is normal. Click "ok."Image:Change Your IP Address Step 7.jpg " Press the Properties button. " Close the 2 properties box again and connect to the web. Your computer should have a new IP address.

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Отключите доступ к Интернету. Откройте Панель управления. Щелкните правой кнопкой мыши на подключение к Интернету, которое вы используете (Среди доступных подключений могут быть: Найдите вкладку Сеть. Во вкладке Общие нажмите кнопку Использовать следующий IP-адрес (если он уже не выбран). Учтите, что может появиться диалоговое окно. Щелкните снова правой кнопкой мыши на своем подключении к сети, выберите Свойства. Во вкладке Сеть выберите Протокол Интернета версии 4 (TCP/IPv4). Выберите пункт Получить IP-адрес автоматически.


Article in English: Are you really still in love with him? If so, it might be worth trying to get him back, by showing him you still care and that you believe things will be better this time. Sometimes breaking up provides time for both people to realize that, more than anything, they just want to be together again. However, if you have any other reason for wanting your ex back, reexamine whether it's a good idea to try to rekindle the relationship.  For example, if you want him back because you feel lonely without him, that's not a good enough reason to get back together. The lonely feeling will pass with time. Or if you want him back because you feel jealous thinking of him with someone else, think again before you decide to try to get back together. Post-breakup jealousy is normal, and this, too, will pass. If your ex boyfriend has started dating someone else, consider him off-limits. Don't become that person who won't leave her ex alone after he has moved on. If he's happy with someone else, you could end up hurting him, his new partner, and yourself by trying to interfere. It might feel temporarily lonely or even boring to be on your own after the end of a tumultuous relationship, but try to ride that feeling out instead of going back to your ex. On again, off again relationships tend to be based on unhealthy patterns that won't go away. Resist the temptation to jump right back in when you know you're better off without him.

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Убедитесь, что у вас и у вашего молодого человека правильные мотивы. Подумайте дважды, прежде чем пытаться вернуть молодого человека, если он уже состоит в новых отношениях. Не пытайтесь вернуть вашего бывшего парня, если отношения были «токсичными» или оскорбляли ваши чувства.


Article in English: Are you romantically interested in your best friend?  Ask yourself whether you would be interested in pursuing a romantic relationship with this person if they did like you. How you feel about them as a romantic partner will influence your reactions towards their behavior.  If you are interested in them romantically, try to be honest with them about how you are feeling. If the signs are there, they might be interested in you as well. You could try to hint that you have a crush on someone to see how they react, or ask them if they are interested in anyone. For example, you could say "Jen, I've been thinking about our friendship a lot, and I think we could be really great together as more than friends." You may be giving them signals that you are interested in them without you realizing it. For example, you could be flirting with them, being more physically affectionate, or opening up more to them emotionally. If you are not interested in your friend as a romantic partner, you should try to stop these overly affectionate behaviors, since they could be giving them mixed signals. If you are interested in them, you can continue giving them signs that you are interested. You may still be confused about whether your best friend really does like you in a romantic way. You can talk to a close friend to ask their opinion and to see whether they know if your friend has a crush on anyone.  Do this carefully, you don't want word to get back to your best friend that you're talking about them behind their back. Only talk to friends that you really trust and who have a good perspective on the situation. You could also casually talk to one of their friends to see if they know whether your best friend is interested in someone. You could say something like, "Hey, I noticed that Zach hasn't been talking about Caroline anymore. Do you know if he's interested in someone new?" If you're still not sure, just ask. This is the only reliable way to figure out if they are interested in you romantically, but it can come with some risks....

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Подумайте, как вы себя чувствуете. Понаблюдайте за своим поведением. Поговорите с друзьями. Поговорите с ним. Очень хорошо обдумайте этот вопрос. Скажите, что вы очень цените вашу дружбу.


Article in English: Are you someone who wears makeup regularly? Or are you just getting started? Do you want to wear makeup in a professional setting or do you feel you have to? Even though there is research showing that women who wear makeup at work are often perceived as more competent and likable, this isn't a hard and fast rule. Lots of high-powered women don't wear makeup in a professional setting and have not been taken less seriously. So do what feels best to you and what you feel comfortable doing. Foundation? Concealer? Mascara? Eye shadow? Lipstick? Blush? The world of makeup is a big one, so think about what exactly you want to highlight, as you may not want to be putting on a full face every day. Ask yourself which features you want to accentuate and enhance.  Remember that look needs to stand the test of time; you don't want to have to keep retouching your look when you have to dash from meeting to meeting.  Consider how much of a luminance contrast you would like. Luminance contrast refers to how much the eyes and lips stand out compared with skin. Recall the old fairytale of how Snow White's lips were as red as blood, and her skin was as white as snow? That's the luminance contrast in action! This concept is still popular today; recent research has shown that makeup makes women appear younger by increasing the contrast between facial features (like eyes and lips) and skin tone. A CEO might wear different makeup to work than a bar owner, and it's important to stay setting-appropriate.  Decide whether your professional environment is conservative (very formal, a suits-and-pantyhose kind of setting), business casual (less conservative but still buttoned up and professional), or casual (no dress code or standard). If you're in the last category, then you don't really have to worry - you can do your makeup however you want! Nevertheless, the suggestions below may give you some fun things to consider or try.  Look at respected individuals around you in your field, and see what kind of makeup they wear on a daily basis....

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Подумайте о своих привычках и своем образе жизни. Подумайте, какой косметикой вы хотели бы пользоваться. Учтите специфику своей работы. Подготовьте все необходимое. Подготовьте все с вечера.


Article in English: Are you taking a new language next fall? Have you always wanted to speak Spanish, French, or Mandarin? Are you curious about computer programing languages? If so, summer is a great time to learn a new language. There are several ways to guide and structure your studies:  Download an app or computer program Purchase a workbook Work through an online tutorial (this is especially helpful for coding!) Hire a tutor Spend your summer immersed in a new hobby. Potential hobbies include:  Crocheting, sewing, or knitting Fixing up an old car or bike Cooking or baking Painting nail art Gardening Dog training Piano When the final school bell rings, it is very tempting to keep your textbooks shut for the entire summer. Instead of looking back on the previous school year, look ahead to the next one. Spend your summer vacation reading the books and practicing the skills you will learn in the Fall. This preparation will definitely pay off.

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Изучайте новый язык. Освойте новое ремесло или хобби. Готовьтесь к новому учебному году.


Article in English: Are you unemployed or did you have an unexpected accident that cost you thousands of dollars you weren't intending on spending? Sit down and figure out your largest financial burden by looking through all your bills and considering personal experiences or expenses that might be related to your financial woes.  Sometimes, identifying the source of your financial troubles can be challenging. For example, if you are emotionally attached to something, such as an expensive car, or you are addicted to shopping. The best way to really decipher the root cause of your problems is to strictly look at the numbers. Make a spreadsheet of your expenses based on your monthly bills. Order your costs from high to low to establish where the majority of your money is going. A savings account is critical to helping you get out of financial troubles. It can often prevent financial issues from ever occurring. It is recommended that you have enough savings to cover six months of living expenses, should financial troubles emerge. The best way to start a savings account is to divert some of your monthly spending into your savings account. Take the $100 you might spend on a concert ticket, and put it in your savings account instead. If you are already in financial troubles without a savings account, start one immediately and prioritize investing in it. It will help you in the long run, so you don't have to worry too much the next time you run into financial issues. Once you have figured out where your money is going, establish a strict monthly budget for yourself. Your budget will help guide your spending decisions and help you to spend your money in the most efficient way possible.  Start by knowing how much money you make on a monthly basis. Then, prioritize your budget by first setting aside money for car, house, student loans, and other necessary monthly payments. Then include other things such as groceries, gas, and entertainment. Adjust your budget according to inflation rates. For example, gas prices fluctuate and seasonal...

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Определите источник своих финансовых проблем. Откройте сберегательный счет. Составьте бюджет. Небольшими шагами сокращайте свои траты. Продолжайте отслеживать свои траты.


Article in English: Are your fingers long, your hands narrow? Do you have perfect cuticles and nicely-shaped nails? Small knuckles? Those are wonderful signs that you have good looking hands. Make sure you have a smooth, even complexion. Don't assume makeup will, well, make up for your imperfections. Birthmarks, freckles, moles, scars, crooked fingers, and irregularly shaped nails will severely limit your progress as a hand model. Pay special attention to your thumb; it'll play a huge role in many hand shots, so it needs to be good-looking. Here are some other things to consider:  Inspect the back of your hand. If you're a woman, it needs to be narrow.  Though women are more often hand models than men, men can be hand models too. Just make sure you don't have hairy knuckles. Don't get discouraged, though. There are a number of different types of hand modeling looks such as beauty, mommy, product, and older hands. This is just as important as having nice-looking hands. Can you hold an object for an extended period of time without leaning on anything and without shaking? Any movement will translate into blurry pictures, so if you find that you can't keep your hands steady, modeling might not be the best use for them. Shooting TV commercials or ads for your hands can take several hours. A  30 second spot can take upwards of 12 hours to shoot and you have to be ready at all times and prepared to do take after take of small actions. If you want to be a hand model, then you have to prepare to hold your hands in the exact same position for hours on end. This means that you have to deal well with boredom and have really, really steady hands. If you're addicted to caffeine or chocolate, you may have to curb your addiction, because these things will only make your hands shake more. You can even practice holding your hands steady for long periods of time so you'll be more comfortable when the time comes. Patience and the ability to always hit your mark can be the most important thing. Once the camera and lights are set, you have to be able...

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Руки, готовые к съемке. Руки должны быть устойчивыми, не трясущимися. Запаситесь терпением.


Article in English: Areas with rust and other heavy stains may need a little extra scrubbing. While the wall is still saturated in the cleaning solution, use a high quality rotating scrub brush attachment to work on the heavy stains.  This will loosen up the grime and debris and make it easier to rinse off. If you're dealing with rust, scrub it slowly and carefully. Attach the low pressure spray tip nozzle onto the pressure washer's hose. Rinse the solution off the first section of the wall, starting at the top and working your way down to the bottom. You will be able to see the dirt moving down the wall once you begin at the top. Follow that line of dirt down with the hose, making sure you guide all of it to the bottom.  Rinse the wall thoroughly so that no cleaning solution remains behind. Finish one section completely before beginning the next one. Repeat the same actions as before and allow the solution to sit for five to ten minutes before you rinse it off with the pressure washer. Continue in this manner, section by section, until you've completed the entire wall. Always rinse off the cleaning solution, working from the top to the bottom, to properly get rid of all the residue. Examine the stucco carefully. Check to make sure you haven't missed any areas of dirt. If necessary, repeat the application of cleaner and pressure rinsing to remove additional stains. Allow the wall to dry for at least 24 hours.

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Воспользуйтесь ручной роторной щеткой, чтобы удалить серьезные загрязнения. Смойте чистящий раствор с первой обработанной зоны. Обработайте следующий участок стены чистящим раствором. Проверьте стену на остаточные пятна.


Article in English: Argonians are a great choice for a Templar, if playing as your group's healer. They have a passive boost to experience for the Restoration staff which helps you gain access to those skills quicker, as well as boosts to their own healing, which can help keep them from becoming a target of the enemy team. Argonians are available to those in the Ebonheart Pact. Altmer have a natural bonus to their magicka pool and magicka regen, so they make great Templars. They also have bonuses to magicka damage and the Destruction staff, which should allow them to protect themselves from enemies. This makes them better as a damage-dealing Templar, with a more minor focus on healing. Altmer are available to those in the Altmeri Dominion. Bretons make a decent choice for a Templar, as they have a race-based bonus to magicka. They also have a number of race-based bonuses which allow them to protect themselves, important for keeping them alive long enough to heal your team. Bretons are available to those in the Daggerfall Covenant. Dunmer have a slightly larger magicka pool to draw from, which can help them make a good Templar. They also have a good mix of resistances and offensive bonuses, which keeps their role in battle more balanced. Their increased fire damage arguably makes them best for damage in this class. They work best as a combat-based Templar. Dunmer are available to those in the Ebonheart Pact.

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Игра за аргониана. Игра за альтмеров. Игра за бретонцев. Игра за данмеров.


Article in English: Arguably the most obvious way of showing love is through words of affirmation. This can range from anything from a simple "I love you" to a more elaborate passage about all the things you admire about the person you love. This applies to love in friendships as much as romantic arrangements. Often, saying "I love you" says more than most anything else, if only for the fact that people have placed so much emphasis on those three words. Touch can be used to a wide variety of positive effects. While the benefits would seem most apparent in a romantic connection, love may be demonstrated in all types of love. Depending on the type of connection you have with someone you love, physical affection may come naturally, and it may be reciprocated in turn. Physical touch feels good, and helps promote good feelings between the both of you.  Kissing and cuddling are best suited to show romantic love. A handshake or a hug can demonstrate platonic love. Sometimes, doing chores or helping out around the house will show someone that you care and love them. Even if it’s out of your way, take some time to do the thing that your loved one hates doing all the time. They’ll be sure to appreciate it.For example, if your loved one is very busy and don’t have time to wash the dishes, consider doing them to ease their workload. When people first begin to love, they rarely consider the long-term ramifications. It can feel amazing to love someone at first, but the greatest rewards come from a lot of persistence and effort from both sides. Once you have a strong relationship, don't get lazy; feed it every day. Whether that's through repeating the steps or exploring new ways, making love last is very important. If love was thought to be short-lived, it would never feel as powerful as it does. Put your loved one’s needs ahead of your own from time to time to keep your love consistent.

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Выражайте любовь словами. Используйте физические прикосновения. Оказывайте любезности и услуги.  Стремитесь сохранить любовь


Article in English: Argumentative people will often argue out of a desire to see an emotional response from their opponent. Don't show if the interaction is making you upset or angry. Smile. Show your antagonist you aren't going to let an argument bring you down. Sometimes that's all an angry, argumentative person is looking to do. Instead of trying to convince an argumentative person to see things your way, ask them questions to explain their viewpoint. Often this can help you get to root of the argument. For example you can ask "What is your reasoning behind that idea?" Aside from not having to justify your own position to your opponent, you are allowing them an opportunity to vent and feel their voice is heard. Many times this will be enough to calm an argumentative person, even if it doesn't resolve the disagreement. If you feel a situation is not going to be resolved in a positive manner, just step away from it. You can always pick up the topic again at a later time when you feel it can be discussed in a reasonable manner.

Summary in Russian:

Сохраняйте спокойствие. Ставьте вопросы. Иногда лучше отказаться от продолжения спора.


Article in English: Arguments based on logic, sometimes referred to as “logos” in the study of arguing, use examples and ideas which are rooted in simple, direct reasoning. These kinds of arguments are especially helpful when debating with someone who considers themselves smart and logical. They are also good for topics that are “serious” in nature, like politics and economics.  Try to use facts, statistics, and real life examples to make logical arguments.  An example argument would be: “Evidence has shown that rates of teen pregnancy have decreased as more comprehensive sex education has become mandatory in schools. You can see in this chart….” Arguments based on emotions, sometimes referred to as “pathos” in the study of arguing, use appeals to people’s heart and emotions. These kinds of arguments are especially helpful when debating with someone who is prone to strong emotions (showing heightened joy and easily visible sadness). They are also good for topics that are “human” in nature, like arguments about social justice, discrimination, or current events with great tolls on society (like the Israeli-Palestinian conflict).  Try to draw on people’s hopes and fears. Use personal stories and try to make a personal connection with either your opponent or your audience by comparing the situation to something that is close to them. An example argument would be: “Backing out now would pose an infinitely greater danger to us than if we stayed and tried to fix the problem. Untold lives could be lost if we leave but if we stay, then we can save lives.” Arguments based on authority, sometimes referred to as “ethos” in the study of arguing, use appeals to your authority and credibility or that of another who supports your ideas. These kinds of arguments are especially helpful when debating with someone who is not as experienced in the field or who has a particularly weak argument. They are also good for topics that are “academic” in nature, like arguments about medicine, science, or history.  Try to establish your credentials and...

Summary in Russian:

Используйте аргументы, основанные на логике. Используйте аргументы, основанные на эмоциях. Используйте аргументы, основанные на авторитете.


Article in English: Aries men are impulsive, and they love doing things on a whim. It keeps them feeling young and alive. Being with an Aries man, you may find that your plans to grab dinner together turn into a long night out with lots of dancing and exploring. Don’t be surprised if he suggests doing something crazy or unexpected. Aries men don’t mince words. They’re not afraid to tell you how they feel, even if it’s not nice. Be prepared for this so you’re not caught off guard when it happens. Remember to not take their bluntness personally — it’s just their personality. And if something he says hurts your feelings or offends you, don’t be afraid to be honest and blunt back. Aries are natural leaders, and sometimes they can be bossy. There may be times when your Aries man tries to boss you around or tell you what to do, but that doesn’t mean you should let him! Aries men actually like strong, independent people that stand up for themselves. Just don’t try to control him back or you could scare him off. For example, if you have plans to do one thing but he’s trying to tell you to do something else, don’t be afraid to say no. You could say something like, “If you don’t want to join me, that’s fine, but this is what I’m doing.” Despite their flashy exterior and self-centered personality, Aries men are actually sensitive and caring deep down. Once you’ve gained his trust, your Aries man will confide in you and give you the emotional support you need.  When you're hanging out alone with your Aries man, open up to him about your feelings and insecurities, and ask him questions about his own. He'll feel more comfortable being vulnerable with you if you're vulnerable with him too.

Summary in Russian:

Планируйте делать спонтанные вещи вместе. Ожидайте, что он будет откровенным и честным с вами. Будьте готовы постоять за себя, если он начнет все контролировать. Поймите, что под своей внешностью мачо скрывается чувствительная натура.