Article in English: You don’t need to pretend like your loved one isn’t dying, or even act like things are looking up when they’re not. The person you’re with will appreciate the fact that you’re being honest and open and won’t want you to act like nothing is wrong. That said, you should still treat your loved one with kindness and make sure to be sensitive to his or her needs. You may be at a loss for words, but when you’re in doubt, make sure you say something that makes your loved one feel better, as much as that is possible. Some people and cultures are uncomfortable talking about dying. If your loved one feels that way, avoid discussing death. Another thing you can do when you talk to your loved one is to ask how you can make the day easier. This can mean running some simple errands, making a phone call or two, or even getting a snack for the person. Maybe your loved one wants a hand massage or just to hear a funny joke; don’t be afraid to ask about what you can do to ease the pain. Your loved one may feel like asking you to help out even more would be a burden, so you can take the initiative and ask yourself. If the person really doesn’t want help, accept it and move on. Your loved one may want to start talking about an old memory or may have a story or an idea to share. You should encourage him or her to talk, even if the subject matter is painful or serious. Just be there for them and let them know that you care about what they have to say. If they’re not thinking clearly or losing their train of thought, then you can be there to help out. Encourage the person by making eye contact and asking the right questions after he or she speaks. If the person is really making him or herself agitated by talking, you can talk about slowing down a bit or taking a break. But in general, talking is the person’s right, so allow them to take the lead. While you should be honest and open with the person who is dying, you can also hold back when it’s necessary. Sometimes being too honest will only lead the dying person to feel your pain...

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Будьте честны и тактичны. Спросите, чем вы можете помочь. Предложите человеку поговорить, если он этого хочет. Не поднимайте болезненные темы. Наблюдайте за человеком. Продолжайте говорить, даже если вам не отвечают. Знайте, что говорить, если у человека появились галлюцинации.


Article in English: You don’t need to purchase a special cloth to clean and polish your sterling silver. A soft, lint-free cloth made of a fabric like flannel or microfiber works well. Using a nonabrasive cloth will prevent scratches on your sterling silver.  Never use an old t-shirt. Printing and ink on the shirt can damage the silver.  Avoid tissues and paper towels, as they can scratch sterling silver. Gently polish the surface of the sterling silver. Make long strokes that go along with the grain of the silver. Avoid rubbing the cloth in circles, which can magnify existing scratches. When the area of the cloth you are using to polish the sterling silver turns black, begin using a new section of the cloth. This will ensure you do not place the tarnish you are removing back on the silver. If you find it difficult to reach tiny, detailed areas of the sterling silver, try using a cotton swab. Make sure the swab is one hundred percent cotton, as other materials may scratch or dull your sterling silver.

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Используйте мягкую, неабразивную ткань. Выполняйте продольные движения. Трите чистой частью ткани. Используйте ватную палочку в труднодоступных местах.


Article in English: You don’t need to splurge on a professional photograph, but posting a blurry cellphone photo or a photo of you as a child doesn’t tell the person viewing your profile much about your current appearance.  Have a friend take a photo of you, preferably on a summer day. Don’t wear sunglasses, a hat or stand in the shadows. Don’t forget to smile and look at the camera like you’re happy to see the person behind it. You want your profile picture to be appealing and show you at your best. Action shots also work well as they show off your interests in an active, immediate way. Choose a shot of you playing ultimate frisbee in the park or dancing at a concert. Names like “SpunkyHunk” or “HotMinx” may have been funny back in high school, but silly or overly sexual profile names will only signal to others that you aren’t interested in a serious connection or relationship. Choose a profile name that shows off your personality but still feels grown up. You can also abbreviate your name for an easy profile name. For example: “SuperSteph13” or “BradW.” It can be difficult to describe yourself well in words. A close friend may know you better than you know yourself and be able to add in details about yourself that you may not be aware of or feel awkward about putting in your profile. Don’t just put down hobbies like “walking on the beach” or “drinking on the weekend”. These are cliches that won’t help your profile stand out. Think of interesting hobbies that could be conversation starters, like “Cards Against Humanity Champion 2015” or “Addicted to traveling in South America” or “Fan of early Battlestar Galactica”.  Try to also include sociable hobbies. Hobbies like “bookworm” or “internet addict” indicate you are not a very social person and don’t go out much. Play up your love of anything sporty, outdoorsy, or public, like concerts and art exhibitions. Focus on concrete and specific details, like your favorite books, films, celebrities, or sports. Rather than noting “hockey”, list your favorite hockey team, or rather than...

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Используйте недавнее фото, где видно ваше лицо. Выберите ник для профиля, который не будет казаться слишком глупым или ребяческими. Попросите близкого друга помочь заполнить профиль. Указывайте свои хобби конкретнее. Будьте честны и настойчивы. Пусть ваш профиль будет коротким и милым. Оставайтесь на позитиве. Проверьте грамматику и правописание. Регулярно обновляйте свой профиль.


Article in English: You don’t need to spout of a list of facts or quote the entire Sunday paper in order to impress people with how refined you are. In fact, when it comes to being refined, less is more. You should say what’s on your mind in a succinct and clear way that leaves little up to doubt. Don’t bog your peers or strangers down in facts or in an effort to show off; instead, state your opinions briefly and confidently, and you’ll be showing that you’re a refined person who doesn’t need to ramble on to make a point.   You don’t need to speak in long, elaborate sentences to try to impress people. Short, concise sentences with clear words are best.  You also don’t need to use million-dollar words to make your points, either. It’s better if everyone can understand you. Refined people are never in a rush because they’re sophisticated enough to give themselves time to do everything they want to do. They don’t rush to dinner, they don’t speak too fast, and they don’t rifle around their purses at top speed to find something because they already know that everything is in place. If you want to be refined, then you should work on moving in a confident, precise manner instead of moving fast, talking fast, and acting fast.  Instead of speaking fast and saying “um” and “like” every two seconds to fill the pauses, practice talking more slowly and really thinking before you speak so you can avoid using those conversational fillers. Though refined people do get their feathers ruffled on occasion, they tend to keep their cool in public. Therefore, they avoid cursing when they get upset or saying anything untoward in the heat of the moment. In fact, they generally avoid being vulgar by mentioning sex, going to the bathroom, or any other subjects that are likely to be distasteful to some people. This doesn’t mean that refined people are boring, but that they’re just classy. Cursing is a sign of bad breeding and refined people avoid it at all costs.  If you do lose your cool and curse, however, just apologize. Nobody can be refined all the...

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Разговаривайте простым языком. Говорите медленно. Не употребляйте ругательств. Извиняйтесь, если вы повели себя некультурно. Не употребляйте жаргонных слов. Избегайте вульгарных разговорных тем. Думайте, прежде чем говорить. Делайте комплименты. Не говорите слишком громко.


Article in English: You don’t need to tell the person your reason for calling them or talk about your obsession. It could be your best friend, sibling, or someone you haven’t talked to in a while. Chat with them, or ask them to go for a walk, meet for coffee, have lunch, or do another activity together.  Say, “Hey, how are you? I just wanted to touch base and see how you’ve been. Anything new?” Try asking, “Do you have any plans today? Want to grab a coffee or lunch?” Staying social can help you get your mind off of your obsession, so do your best to maintain your relationships in general. If you take steps to control your thoughts and distract yourself, your feelings will likely improve with time. However, if you can’t change your focus or if things don’t eventually improve, it might be best to see a professional. A therapist won’t judge you or tell anyone about your feelings. Their job is to help you, so be honest with them. Emotions don't have a strict timeline. However, you should notice yourself gradually thinking about them less as weeks and months pass, and your feelings should become less intense. It might be time to see a professional if you've tried unsuccessfully on your own for at least 1 or 2 months. You should also get help if your obsessive thoughts become more frequent, or if you experience recurrent feelings of despair, withdraw from daily activities, or think about hurting yourself or others. If you’re still in school and don’t want to ask your parents to take you to a therapist, you could talk to your guidance counselor.

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Разговаривайте по телефону или проводите время с близкими людьми. Обратитесь к специалисту.


Article in English: You don’t need to twist yourself up like a pretzel, but a few gentle stretches can go a long way toward protecting you from injury. Make sure you stretch your arms as well as your legs, because it is possible to get a shoulder cramp. Stretch before and after every run, and after you wake up for bonus points. Be sure that you are warmed up before you stretch. It is important for your muscles to be warm when you stretch.  To stretch your hamstrings, do the figure-4. Sit on the ground with one leg extended in front of you, and the other bent so that its knee touches the floor and its foot touches the other leg’s knee. Reach toward your extended foot, and hold. To stretch your quads, stand on one leg and grab the ankle of your other leg. Gently pull it back. If you have trouble balancing here, tighten your abs. To stretch your shoulders, move one arm so that your hand is between your shoulder blades and your elbow is pointing up. Grab the elbow with your opposite hand and pull carefully. It’s good to keep a consistent pace, but stopping your running to walk every now and then is actually good for your muscles and breath. Plus, if you’re doing a long run or race, you’ll need to stop running to rehydrate anyway. This doesn't only help you run longer without losing your breath, but it also helps reduce the chance of getting cramps. 8 glasses (64 ounces, or about 2 liters) a day is the gold standard, but everybody is different—experiment until you find an amount of water that feels right for your body without weighing it down. It's possible to overdo it with hydration; excess water might make you feel bloated or weighted down. Listen to your thirst cues, and don't keep chugging water if you feel like there's no room in your stomach for it. A couple hours before you run, fuel yourself correctly! Carbohydrates are the preferred fuel for long-distance runners, and the right ones burn slowly and consistently to give you plenty of energy. You can throw a little fat into your pre-running meal as well (like olive oil or...

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Выполняйте упражнения на растяжку. Переходите на шаг, если потребуется. Пейте воду. Съешьте побольше углеводов. Заведите полезные привычки.


Article in English: You don’t want a harsh shampoo that strips oils from your hair and skin. Choose one formulated to moisturize your scalp and hair, such as a formula that includes hyaluronic acid or argan or tea tree oil. Shampooing your hair too often can strip the oil from your scalp and leave your skin and hair dry. If you like to shower or bathe every day, simply cover your hair with a shower cap to keep it dry, or rinse your hair with water and apply a conditioner to keep it moisturized. If you work out frequently, you should rinse and condition your hair at least every other day. Dried sweat can create an odor and irritate your skin and scalp. Choose a hair tonic or toner with ingredients like glycerin and aloe, which can calm and soothe your scalp. After shampooing, apply the tonic directly to the problem areas of your scalp. The tonic will seep deep into your skin to provide lasting relief from itchiness. Conditioner is formulated to moisturize hair, not skin. If you apply it to your scalp, it can clog your pores and lead to buildup and itchiness. Only condition your hair from the mid-lengths to the ends. An exfoliating mask can remove product and oil buildup, as well as dead skin, from your scalp. Use it once per week to keep your scalp skin healthy. Harsh chemicals in hairspray, gel, mousse, and dry shampoo can dry out your scalp. Try to limit the amount of products you use on your hair, and if possible, pick products made from natural ingredients.

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Выберите увлажняющий шампунь. Мойте голову шампунем не чаще двух или трех раз в неделю. Наносите тоник для волос после мытья головы. Не наносите кондиционер на корни волос и кожу головы. Раз в неделю используйте маску-пилинг для кожи головы. Уменьшите количество используемых косметических средств.


Article in English: You don’t want the stain remover to ruin your upholstery, so be sure to test any stain remover first on an inconspicuous spot before using it. For stubborn stains on leather upholstery, pretreat the leather with a leather conditioner. Then apply a leather stain remover on the stain and rub it in. Allow it to sit for about 30 seconds and wipe off the stain remover. For ink stains, use hairspray or rubbing alcohol mixed with water. Spray the hairspray on the stain and blot carefully with a damp, clean cloth to avoid spreading the ink or letting it run on the upholstery. For greasy or oily stains, such as lipstick or food grease, use a watered-down paint thinner formula and a cotton cloth. Put a little bit of paint thinner in a cup and add an equal amount of water. Dip a cotton cloth in the cup and rub it into the stain. Sprinkle the stain with salt or cornmeal and let it sit overnight. Vacuum this section of the upholstery. Be sure to test the paint thinner on your upholstery to make sure it will not stain or ruin the material. If you happen to spill coffee, dilute the coffee with cold water and blot with a paper towel. Apply some glass cleaner and let it sit for 5 minutes. Blot again with a paper towel to lift up more of the stain.  Always blot stains. Never scrub them, so that they are not rubbed further in to your vehicle's upholstery. If the coffee is still visible, scrub the upholstery with dishwashing liquid and rinse with warm water. Blot the area again with paper towels. Dry the area with a hair dryer. Hold the hair dryer at least several inches away from the spot so that you don’t scorch the upholstery. If someone gets carsick in your vehicle and vomits on the seat or the floor, clean it up as soon as possible to prevent it from setting into the upholstery. Wipe up excess vomit and dilute the stain with cold water. Wash the area with mild soap and warm water. Then neutralize the stain by pouring a small amount of club soda on a cloth and blotting it on the stain. Alternately, you can use a mixture...

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Перед использованием пятновыводителя протестируйте его на незаметной поверхности обивки, чтобы удостовериться, что пятновыводитель не повредит ее. Для удаления стойких пятен на кожаной обивке предварительно обработайте ее кондиционером для кожи. Для удаления чернильных пятен используйте лак для волос или спирт, смешанный с водой. Для удаления жирных или масляных пятен, например, пятен от помады или жирной пищи, используйте разбавитель для краски и хлопчатобумажную тряпку. Для удаления кофейных пятен нанесите на них холодную воду и промакните бумажным полотенцем. Пятна от рвоты нужно удалять как можно быстрее, чтобы они не въелись в обивку. При удалении пятен крови (помните, что от таких пятен очень сложно избавиться) не используйте горячую воду или мыло, так как это только усложнит удаление пятен.


Article in English: You don’t want to be rude on purpose when you have to reject a girl. Whatever you say to her, make sure to mention you are flattered she asked. Tell her you respect her courage, even if you are still not interested in accepting her offer.  When you show her respect and appreciate how hard it was to approach you, you let her keep her dignity even in the face of rejection. Say something like, “I’m flattered that you are interested in me. I appreciate your bravery in telling me how you feel.” It’s tempting to put the blame on her for asking you out or showing interest in you, but avoid doing this. Take responsibility by answering her with statements that focus on yourself. Putting the blame on her makes her feel attacked and belittled.  This is all about keeping it friendly and not hurting her feelings. Don’t say, “You’re not pretty enough for me to be attracted to you.” It’s demeaning and makes you look bad. Say something like, “It’s been fun getting to know you, but I’m not looking for a relationship.” Or, “I’m still trying to figure out exactly what I want in a girl, so please don’t take it personally.” Don’t string her along past the point where you know you’re not interested. She will continue to develop feelings for you, which will make it worse when you let her down. It’s kinder to cut her off early than to string her along.  Even when it seems cruel, this is better than making her think you are interested for a long time and then telling her that you aren’t. Say, “I’m sorry if it feels like I haven’t given you a chance, but I don’t want to pursue this relationship any further.”

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Скажите девушке, что вы цените ее интерес к вам. Используйте Я-высказывания, чтобы взять ответственность за свой ответ. Отвергните девушку на ранней стадии, если не чувствуете с ней связи.


Article in English: You don’t want to become the focus of the argument. Avoid taking sides and try not to participate at all; it’s not your job to referee. If a parent tries to drag you into an argument, be honest and say that you don’t want to choose sides. This is your right. It’s important to have a sanctuary you can retreat to if the fighting stresses you out. Having a place to go will spare you from having to see and hear these intense exchanges. Here are some different options to consider:  Hang out in the backyard if you have one. Go to your room if it’s private and you can’t hear the fighting. If you don't have a safe spot in your own home, go somewhere else. Try a neighbor that you're close to. You can also try another family member or a friend, if they're in walking/bicycling distance, or if you drive. If you can’t leave the house, at least keep yourself occupied so you don’t have to witness the fighting. Something with volume you can turn up may be your best option. Use headphones if you have them. Additional things you can do:  Finish homework. Use the opportunity to take care of yourself and your responsibilities. Read a book, especially if the noise level is low or you can wear headphones. Play video games. These can be great to take your mind off the argument. Even if your parents sometimes argue ‘’about’’ you, avoid thinking that you’re the cause of the dispute. You can’t ‘’make’’ them fight, they choose to do it based on ways of interacting they’ve learned in the past. Nothing you do is enough to force them into having an argument. One great way to protect yourself from the stress of parents fighting is to develop your own relationships. Research shows that strong social support is good news for your health. It's even possible to develop positive relationships if your parents haven't been the greatest role models. It may take a little work, but as long as you focus on important aspects like communication and trust-building, you can escape the cycle of harmful relationships: If your parents are separated or...

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Займите нейтральную позицию. Найдите в доме безопасное место. Попроситесь к кому-нибудь домой. Посмотрите любимое кино или послушайте музыку. Не вините себя. Общайтесь с другими людьми. Знайте, как вести себя, если родители развелись или разошлись.


Article in English: You don’t want to break your video game controller in a fit of anger, so the best thing to do when you first notice you are feeling angry is to gently put your controller down.  You may want to shut down your game system as well to remove the video game images and sounds from your environment. You might show signs of anger in your body, even before you realize that you are feeling angry. Pay attention to how you are feeling physically. You might be headed toward an angry outburst if you are experiencing any of the following symptoms:  Tense muscles and clenched jaw Headache or stomachache Increased heart rate Sudden sweating or shaking A dizzy feeling If you have become angry, you should take a break from playing the game.  Distract yourself from the aspect(s) of the game that made you angry by doing something else for a little while.  Taking time to cool down may allow you to return to the game with fresh eyes, and you may find yourself more successful upon returning to the game later.   The next time you need a distraction from your frustration you can:  Call up a friend (or meet with one in person!) Make yourself a meal or snack Clean your room, the kitchen, or the bathroom Getting a change of scenery by going outside is a great way to calm yourself down in a hurry. To keep recurring anger under control, try to balance your video game time with some daily outdoor time. Exercise is another great way to help improve your mood.   Getting physical exercise can make you feel happier in as little as five minutes.  What you do for exercise does not matter. Just make sure that you raise your heart rate and your body should release some endorphins to make you feel better. Becoming angry can elevate your heart rate, cause you to shake, and make all of your muscles tense. You can counteract these effects with deep breathing.  You can also use deep breathing along with meditation to help control your emotions.  But using deep breathing techniques alone can offer benefits that are similar to meditation as well.  To...

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Отложите в сторону джойстик. Научитесь распознавать физические симптомы приступа гнева. Сделайте перерыв. Сходите на прогулку. Делайте физические упражнения. Дышите глубже.


Article in English: You don’t want to change who you are just to get the attention of a guy, especially if it means pretending to love Star Wars or talking about a band you can’t stand for hours. Talk about your favorite TV shows, a great movie you just saw, the hobby you most care about, or really any of the things you care about, and guys will be drawn to your passion. Think about it as not being different from talking to your girlfriends about everyday things — except that you can avoid talking about the guys you like!  The subject of your conversation is less important than making sure that you and the guys you talk to maintain a fair balance between talking and listening. Try not to dominate any conversation and leave room for other people to talk. If you’re talking to a guy one-on-one, try not to do more than about half the talking. Though it’s important to feel comfortable actually talking about the things that matter to you, you should also be able to get a sense of when a guy is starting to lose interest. If you’ve been talking about your horse for twenty minutes and you see the guy shifting on his feet, checking his phone, or looking around for a friend who can give him a save, then you can shift subjects by asking him a question instead. Learn to read body language and facial expressions to see whether or not a guy is listening to you. If he’s listening, he’ll be making eye contact (unless he’s super shy or has a crush on you!), and turning his body toward you instead of away. One thing you can do is to offer a subtle compliment to a guy from time to time. You don’t have to tell him he has the world’s most beautiful eyes or that he’s a big hunk, but you can compliment a new shirt the guy is wearing, tell him he did great in yesterday’s basketball game, or just make a kind, lighthearted comment that lets the guy know you care. You don’t have to actually have a crush on the guy to give him a compliment, either. You can say something like, “You’re so good at chemistry. How do you do it?” Or, “You have such a unique...

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Говорите о том, что вам действительно интересно. Вовремя меняйте тему беседы. Говорите комплименты. Задавайте вопросы. Не бойтесь шутить над собой.


Article in English: You don’t want to damage your already tender skin any further. If you must expose yourself to the sun, wear sunscreen with a Sun Protection Factor (SPF) of 30 or more and cover your skin. UV rays can still pass through clothes to a certain degree.  Continue to wear sunscreen after the blisters have healed. Don’t be fooled by cloudy or cold weather. UV rays are still strong during cloudy weather, and snow can reflect 80% of the sun’s rays. If the sun is up, the UV is there. Do not pop your blisters. They may pop on their own, but you want to protect your blisters as much as possible in order to prevent infection and damage to the lower, more delicate layers of skin. If the blister pops on its own, cover it in gauze to prevent infection. If you think your skin may already be infected, go to a dermatologist immediately. Some signs that your skin may be infected include redness, swelling, pain, and heat. Similarly, do not peel the skin. Scaling may occur on the sunburned area, but do not peel it. Remember, this area is very sensitive and susceptible to infection and further damage. Leave it alone. Aloe vera can be an effective natural cure for minor burns such as the blistered sunburn. Aloe vera gel are the best choice since they will cool the burn. Aloe is believed to decrease pain, rehydrate the affected skin, and aid in the healing process. Indeed, research has shown that aloe vera helps to heal burns faster (9 days faster) than without any use of aloe vera.  The best products are the most natural products without any additional additives.  Aloe vera gel with no preservatives can be purchased at most drugstores. If you have aloe vera plant on hand, you can apply the aloe vera inside the plant directly by breaking a leaf in half. Allow the gel to be absorbed by the skin. Repeat the process as often as possible. Try using aloe ice cubes. They can help soothe the pain as well as treat the skin. Aloe vera should never be applied to an open wound. Emollients like moisturizers are safe to apply on your blisters....

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Старайтесь избегать прямых солнечных лучей, чтобы ожог не стал еще интенсивнее. Не трогайте поврежденную зону. Приложите алоэ вера. Попробуйте аналогичные средства. Попросите врача назначить вам 1% крем сульфадиазина серебра. Не стоит применять спреи и кремы, содержащие анестетик. Пейте много воды. Правильно питайтесь, чтобы организм смог быстрее восстановиться.


Article in English: You don’t want to have to wait several minutes while the thermometer determines the temperature, so choose an instant-read variety. Make sure it gets cleaned after each use.  You should occasionally calibrate your thermometer to be sure it gives an accurate reading. To do so, fill a small pan with water and bring it to a rolling boil. Take the water’s temperature—it should be 212 °F (100 °C).  Turn the hex bolt at the bottom of an analog thermometer to calibrate the temperature if it is incorrect. Consult the manufacturer’s directions to calibrate a digital thermometer. The edges may be warmer than the center, so to know if your cake is done, you’ll need to test the temperature in the middle. Don’t push the thermometer down to the bottom of the pan, simply stick it halfway through the cake. Keep in mind that sticking a thermometer in the cheesecake may cause it to crack, so try to only test the temperature once, rather than multiple times. If you must test it more than once, stick the thermometer in the same hole you used the first time to minimize cracking. Once the center of the cheesecake reaches 150 °F (66 °C), the cake is done! Take it out of the oven and allow it to cool completely on a wire rack. If it is not yet done, put it back in the oven for about 5 minutes, then check it again to see if it is done. Repeat until you get a reading of 150 °F (66 °C).

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Купите быстродействующий кухонный термометр. Измерьте температуру внутри чизкейка. Температура внутри чизкейка должна быть 66 °C.


Article in English: You don’t want to look desperate by texting immediately, but you also don’t want to wait too long. Many women say they lose interest if they don’t hear from a guy pretty soon after that initial exchange of numbers.   About 24 to 36 hours is a good rule of thumb. Use text messaging to communicate to her that you are interested in talking with her.  Don’t allow texting to become an habitual exchange between the two of you.  In addition, texting a lot with someone you don't know well can be awkward and she might read it as a sign that you're not really that interested. If you just met, re-introduce yourself; if she is someone you know or knew, but haven't texted with, mention that she gave you her number.  If she doesn't have your number, she may not have any clue who you are when you first text.  Try saying “Hi Stella. It’s me, Stanley, we talked on Monday.” If you exchanged some small talk, bring it up. Remind her that there was a spark of interest when you both met. Stay away from anything negative about the situation when you met.  If she was irked about the long line at the DMV, don’t remind her of feeling irritated. Tell her how great it was talking with her.  Say something like “Chatting with you made waiting in line actually fun.” Follow her lead in terms of text lengths and complexity.  Mirroring her sentence structure can strengthen a connection, because it suggests that the two of you are in sync with each other. The biggest drawback about texting is probably that it can’t communicate things like facial expression, tone of voice, or body language.  So don’t make sarcastic remarks, or make remarks that read as critical, complaining, or insecure.  She won’t be able to be charmed by your self-deprecating humor without seeing your cute grin and adorable shoulder shrug too. Let her know that texting with her is great, but you are hoping to talk on the phone with her.  You could try saying something like "This is fun texting with you, and I'm sure talking with you will be even more fun." Don’t try to pin...

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Подождите один или два дня. Пишите сообщения только для того, чтобы установить контакт с девушкой. Напомните ей о вашей последней встрече. Обращайте внимание на ее сообщения. Следите за тем, что вы пишете. Скажите девушке, что вы бы хотели поговорить с ней вместо того, чтобы ограничиваться перепиской. Подготовьте почву к телефонному звонку.


Article in English: You don’t want to put the contact in your eye if it may cause irritation. Hold your contact near your eye and check it over for any damage or dirtiness.  If your contact looks damaged, throw that contact away and use a new one. If you see any dust or debris on the contact, rinse it clean with contact solution. Most contacts are disposable, meaning you change them frequently. Depending on the type and brand of contact you’re wearing, your doctor will likely tell you to change them daily, weekly, biweekly, or monthly. Always stick to this schedule and change your contacts as directed. This will help you keep your eyes healthy.  Soft contacts are typically changed either every day, weekly, biweekly, or monthly. Extended wear contacts can be worn overnight, and they're typically changed weekly, biweekly, or monthly, depending on the brand and your individual needs. Rigid gas permeable lenses last much longer and may be worn for up to a year. However, your doctor will give you additional cleaning instructions for maintaining these lenses, which aren't prescribed often. Don’t try to save money by wearing your contacts for too long. Your contacts were formulated to last for a certain period of time. After that point, they start to deteriorate, making them less comfortable and more likely to collect germs, bacteria, or debris that can harm your eyes. Taking off your contacts every night may seem like an inconvenience, but it’s very important. Sleeping in contacts that aren’t labeled for extended wear can dry out your eyes, expose your eyes to more bacteria, and lead to serious complications, like ulcers. Always remove your contacts at night unless your doctor tells you it’s safe to sleep in them. If you have dry eyes, you may not be able to sleep in contacts even if they’re approved for sleeping. Talk to your doctor if you think you have dry eyes. It’s normal for a contact lens case to get dirty over time. To clean your case, bring a pot of water to boiling. Next, put the contact lens case into the boiling water and...

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Убедитесь в отсутствии повреждений и загрязнения перед тем, как надеть линзы. Меняйте линзы в соответствии с указаниями врача. Спать в контактных линзах можно только по разрешению врача. Чистите или меняйте футляр для контактных линз каждые три месяца. Не используйте слюну или водопроводную воду для очистки линз. Убедитесь, что глазные капли подходят для использования с контактными линзами. Снимайте контактные линзы перед приемом ванны или душа. Не плавайте и не ходите в джакузи в контактных линзах. Используйте запасные очки.


Article in English: You don’t want to risk pushing your wife further away by being too aggressive or desperate while trying to win back her love.Similarly, you don’t want to let yourself become overly vulnerable, constantly complain, or let yourself go – none of these developments will help you win your wife back.  Remind yourself that her attitude towards you depends on your current behavior. Calmness is both more mature and more attractive than any behavior that might qualify as craziness. Remove yourself from a conversation or location when you feel yourself begin to slip emotionally. If your wife won’t answer your calls, it’s easy to become worried – even frantic – especially when your marriage is struggling.  It’s very hard to acclimate to a spouse actively keeping you at a distance, but remind yourself that you can’t control your wife’s behavior.   After you’ve called once or twice and she hasn’t returned your calls, leave her a voicemail or text saying you’re hoping to hear back from her soon. Quit calling and texting. Try not to worry about what she is doing.  Don’t allow yourself to imagine worst-case scenarios. Recognize that she may simply need some space. It may seem counterintuitive – and it may be hard to do – but giving your wife some space will give you both the time opportunity to think things over.  Verbalize your intent by saying something like, “We both need time to think, and I respect that.” Demonstrate your confidence and independence by acknowledging the current distance between the two of you, and stepping back before doing anything that might make things worse.

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Не ведите себя слишком отчаянно. Не нужно без конца звонить и писать своей жене. Оставьте ее в покое.


Article in English: You don’t want to seem like you’ve prepared to move in for a week; but you’ll likely want a few essentials to make the morning after easier. You’ll also want to be able to brush your teeth and remove any makeup if you wear it.  See what you can fit in whatever bag you usually carry with you. If you normally carry a very small clutch or wallet, you’ll need to bring something slightly bigger or only pack the bare essentials. If your boyfriend lives far away and this is part of an overnight trip to visit him you can get away with packing a lot more. After all, you’ll need everything you would regularly travel with. You probably don’t want to get into the awkward situation of having to ask to borrow a toothbrush, but simply choosing not to brush your teeth can be awkward too. Pack anything that you simply can’t live without.  You may want to bring makeup remover if you wear makeup. Some women would rather go to bed with their makeup on than have their boyfriends see them without it. However, this can be bad for your skin, and if he’s your boyfriend he’s going to see you without makeup eventually. Pack anything you’ll need for dealing with your hair. Some women need to tie their hair into a rag at night but choose not to when they stay with a boyfriend. Of course you’re not going to put your hair up in curlers on this special night, but maybe you want to pack a brush, comb, or detangling spray. There’s a long list of things people bring with them in anticipation of the next morning. Think about what you’ll need for your morning routine and how long you think you and your guy will hang out before you head home.  If you're an early riser, bring your phone charger and a book or magazine. That way, if you're awake well ahead of him, you can keep yourself entertained if need be. If they fit in your bag easily, you might want to bring a pair of shoes that are easier to walk in than your date shoes. Don’t forget any medications that you need to take regularly.You can’t be sure what time you’ll be getting home in the...

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Подберите небольшую сумку. Сложите все, что вам нужно для отхода ко сну. Возьмите с собой вещи, которые потребуются вам утром. Возьмите с собой презервативы, если они могут вам потребоваться. Возьмите с собой наличные деньги. Подберите многофункциональный наряд.


Article in English: You don’t want to start too far back or jump too far forward in the story. Remember that you’re introducing the reader to a new world (even in realistic fiction) so make sure you give them a chance to learn the basics - the main character’s name, their personality, their driving force - in the first scene or chapter. If you’re not sure how to start, play around with different starting points. You might have to try a few before you find one that clicks, but that’s what writing is all about!  Try starting with a character in action or your character’s physical appearance to immediately show the reader who’s important. Start with a bird’s eye view of the setting. Describe sensory detail before zooming into your character’s life or home. Tell your readers a character’s “secret” to immediately hook them. Set up the central conflict at the very start to make the reader desperate to know what’s going to happen next. Begin with a memorable, dramatic, or important flashback. Be careful, as flashbacks can confuse the reader if they don’t know it’s a flashback. Think about what kind of opening line you want to write. Will it be absurd and amusing? Bleak and foreboding? Inviting? Unexpected? Will it present an expansive truth? The type of opening line you choose sets the reader’s expectations for the story to come and convinces the reader to read the next line. If you’re feeling stuck, look up examples of famous opening lines for inspiration:  Absurd and amusing: “It was a bright cold day in April, and the clocks were striking thirteen.” From Nineteen Eighty-four by George Orwell. Foreboding: “It was a queer, sultry summer, the summer they electrocuted the Rosenbergs, and I didn’t know what I was doing in New York.” From The Bell Jar by Sylvia Plath. Inviting: “Call me Ishmael.” From Moby-Dick by Herman Melville. Unexpected: “All children, except one, grow up.” From Peter Pan by J.M. Barrie. Expansive truth: “All happy families are alike; each unhappy family is unhappy in its own way." From Anna Karenina by Leo Tolstoy....

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Выберите отправную точку. Напишите несколько вариантов. Напишите интригующее первое предложение. Напишите пролог, если в рассказе присутствует глубокий исторический или сюжетный контекст. Не перегружайте читателя информацией.


Article in English: You don’t want your kiss to be out in the open with everyone staring at you. Try to find a place where there are not a lot of people. If you kiss in school, you may get in trouble if the teachers see you doing it.  Other good places to kiss are at a school dance, during a school sports event, or if you are hanging out outside of school. Just try to stay out of the open when you do it. Ask the person by saying, "Hey, do you want to go and hang out alone over there? It's a lot quieter and we can talk." The eyes can show a range of emotions, and are important for romance. Pay attention to how the other person reacts when you look into their eyes. If they look uncomfortable, they may not want to kiss you.  The other person will most likely be nervous. Don’t confuse this with them not liking you. If you’re unsure, you can ask them "Do you like being alone with me? Do you like me?" or "Would you mind if I kissed you?" If they are not pulling away and look comfortable as you gaze into their eyes, you may not have to ask them permission because they may want to kiss you as well. Before going in for the kiss, make sure that the person feels comfortable with you touching them in a romantic way.  If the person pull their hand away, you know that they feel uncomfortable. Never force physical contact with anyone. It’s inappropriate, illegal, and could get you in a lot of trouble. Go in for the kiss and don’t think about the consequences. This will probably be very hard to do at first. However, if you never take that first step, you won’t be able to kiss anyone.  For younger kids in elementary school, make sure to kiss on the cheek so that they aren’t grossed out or startled by you. If you are kissing on the lips, make sure you brush your teeth or use a mint before doing it.

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Останьтесь наедине с этим мальчиком (девочкой); вы же не хотите поцеловаться на глазах у всех. Посмотрите ему (ей) в глаза. Возьмите этого мальчика (девочку) за руку или обнимите его (ее). Прикоснитесь губами к губам или щеке этого мальчика (девочки).


Article in English: You essentially have two choices: you can face menopause angrily and in denial (but it's still going to happen), or you can accept it and make the most of the transition period to set yourself up for the remainder of your life.  When you feel negative emotions creeping up, or you find yourself overwhelmed by symptoms, stop and breath. Say to yourself, “I accept this change.” In a youth-prone society, it is very easy to fall into the trap of feeling that post-reproductive age, your womanhood is somehow reduced. The reality is that you're no less a woman! In fact, menopause is one of the most unifying experiences for women!  Use this change as an opportunity to connect with other women. By talking with other women about these changes, you can create new and lasting bonds that are forged through woman-ness. For many women, menopause is a time of redefinition of roles, interests, and reawakening of purpose. Many women find that this is a time for reflection about where they have been and where they are headed.  Is there something that you have always wanted to do? Is it finally time to end or alter a negative relationship? Could this be the time for you to put yourself first and get what you’ve always wanted? If you feel stressed during menopause, the fluctuating hormones are probably going to simply add to these feelings. Rather than reaching for a pill, consider ways to reduce the stress.  Can you handle your workload differently? Can you take up yoga, meditation, a gym class? Deep breathing exercises can help with hot flashes. It takes practice but is very effective. A healthy body will support a healthy mind and ease you through this transition. Use good food, water, and exercise to fortify you for this change in your life.  Use food as a way to improve your mood. Turn to "menopause super-foods" such as unprocessed foods, fruit and vegetables, beans and pulses, fish, sugar-free foods, etc.  Drink plenty of water to stay hydrated. The changing hormone levels affect how the cells in our body retain moisture....

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Сделайте свой выбор. Помните, что вы остаетесь женщиной. Пересмотрите свои цели. Сражайтесь со стрессом. Следите за своим физическим здоровьем.


Article in English: You gain and lose Respect as you proceed through the game, and it is one of the hardest stats to increase. There are a variety of factors that influence the Respect that you gain or lose. Below is how the Total Respect bar is broken down to total 100%:  Running Respect: 40% Completing Missions: 36% Territories owned: 6% Total money: 6% Muscle: 4% Progress with girlfriend: 4% Appearance: 4% 40% of your Total Respect comes from the Running Respect category. These are actions that you can take throughout the game that add or subtract from this total. Below are the actions that can gain or lose your Running Respect. Remember that these actions just affect your Running Respect, which makes up 40% of the Total Respect:  Killing a dealer: +.005% Killing a rival gang member: +.5% Killing a Grove Street gang members: –.005% One of your gang members dies: –2% Take a territory: +30% Lose a territory: –3%

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В процессе игры вы получаете и теряете уважение и его не так-то просто завоевать. Текущее уважение вносит 40% в общий уровень вашего уважения.


Article in English: You got caught, prepare to deal with the consequences. Whining, screaming, and making a scene isn't going to help you prove to your parents that you are more than an impulsive child. Acknowledging that you were wrong to lie shows maturity, and they may eventually realize you are old enough and mature enough to make decisions about what you do with your own body. This is another good reason to avoid the stick-and-poke--it makes a better impression if you made smart, safe choices when you got your piece and they don't have to worry about your health, too. Bringing up that it's your body and you can do what you want with it might not go well in the heat of the moment. It is a valid point, but probably one to be made once things have cooled down and you can talk rationally about your decision. It's sort of a dirty trick, but if you say your tiny heart tattoo is to remind you of your dearly departed grandpa, your parents might soften a little. Or if you got a crucifix, tell them it's tied to your faith and to remind you to be a good Christian, or your shamrock tattoo is to keep you grounded in your Irish roots. This works best with broad, symbolic tattoos that you can easily connect to something significant.

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Будьте готовы к наказанию. Извинитесь за то, что скрывали от них татуировку. Придумайте вескую причину, почему вы решились на татуировку.


Article in English: You got this. It's incredibly important to keep a level head and not get caught up in a mental sweat. You've been preparing for months! Everything will be fine. The calmer you are, the calmer your team will be, and the more smoothly the event will go. Besides, it'll all be over shortly! Seriously. You got this. You've covered all your bases, you've thought of all the possible problems -- if anything goes wrong, you know how to handle it. And remember: no one's going to blame you. A rowdy guest, bad food -- people know that you don't have control over anything. So relax. You'll be okay. Make sure you communicate with everyone on how to reach the venue and the time. The last thing you want is your entire team calling you at once the day of the event wondering where the heck the back door is. Even if no one is coming out and asking you questions, do your best to gauge their behavior. Does everyone seem okay with their job description? Are people getting along? If not, talk to them and see if you can work out the kinks. Maybe someone would be better suited to a different department or working with other people. Create a list of invitees in a spreadsheet and get a tally for heads. For most events, the number of people who RSVP will not represent the number of people who actually show. You could have 50 people who said they'll be there, but end up with 5 or 500. So while you should know this number, also be ready to handle either end of the spectrum! Remind VIPs about the events while you're at it. You'd be surprised how many people will say, "Oh, that's right. That's tomorrow, isn't it?" With a simple phone call or text, that can be avoided. Is the room clean and available? Is all the electronic equipment set up and does it seem to be working? Can you pre-load any equipment, if need be? Do the staff seem reasonably prepared? Check whether enough people are there to man the event. It's always best to have more than you need, of course. You may need someone to run off to do an emergency errand or take care of a...

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Сохраняйте спокойствие. Сделайте последнюю проверку по каждому пункту со своей командой. Проверьте все пригласительные и отклики. Зайдите на объект и проверьте, все ли готово. Сделайте наборы для участников. Сделайте бегунок. Составьте контрольный список вещей, которые нужно взять с собой на место проведения.


Article in English: You gotta walk before you can run, you know? Spend a couple of months dedicated to finding the best internship possible – preferably one that's paying. The bigger and better the reputation of the company, the further you'll start ahead when you're looking for a full-time, salaried gig. Most companies go on to hire from their intern pool. If you can't get a full-time paying gig initially, consider an internship to get your foot in the door. A great way to build up your portfolio and to get your fingers into a lot of pies is to do freelance writing. There are hundreds of websites out there that are constantly looking for good material. Why shouldn't it be from you? You will have to pitch ideas to various editors; they won't be handed to you. Find out the name of the editor of the department you want to work for, and shoot them an email. Link them to some of you work and give them a full-fledged picture of what you want to write. If the bait is good, they'll bite. And that's money in your pocket and possibly a byline for your name. Being a reporter anymore does not mean just writing. It means having a website, designing your blog, making videos, and being present on online. You're not just a writer, you're your own brand. This is you making yourself a full-fledged force in the journalism community. It seems silly, but put effort into getting a following on Twitter, Instagram, Tumblr, and all those other trendy websites that show the world how popular you are. The wider your digital presence, the more you will be taken seriously. To round out your skillset, it's a good idea to do a bit of everything. It's not detracting from the job you want, it's ensuring you'll get it and keep it later. If an opportunity arises that involves photo, video, copy editing, marketing, or broadcasting, go for it. You're just making yourself more valuable to the organization you're working for now and any organization you'll work for in the future. At certain jobs, this will be requested of you. Many journalists find themselves in one...

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Найдите место для стажировки. Занимайтесь каким-нибудь вольнонаёмным сочинительством. Поддерживайте свои цифровые ресурсы. Занимайтесь любительским редактированием, а также другими смежными занятиями. Устройтесь на работу в газету, журнал или ТВ-компанию. Выходите на более значимые рынки. Наращивайте опыт.


Article in English: You have a better chance of scoring a date if you're inviting her to an activity or event that you already know she's interested in. This also shows her that you're interested in her as a person. You already know her well enough to know some of the things she likes. Use this knowledge to your advantage. Knowing a girl well before becoming romantically involved means being able to give her something you know she’ll love. Let her know how much you pay attention to her and how invested you are by giving her a thoughtful gift that shows her how you feel.  You might choose some of her favourite songs or include one that lets her know how you feel about her. Burn a copy of the playlist on a CD for her or send her a link to it. It's an inexpensive and easy way to let her know that you care. Some good songs to include might be “Just the Way You Are” by Bruno Mars, “Your Love is My Drug” by Kesha, or “I’m Yours” by Jason Mraz. If your female friend doesn’t return your sentiment, it will be harder to come back from this and continue to be friends if she thinks you are always thinking about her sexually. Instead, talk to her about the deeper things you know and love about her. This is where you have a leg up on other people anyways. You already know things about her because you are friends. Whereas other potential love interests might have to resort to complimenting something physically obvious like her looks, you can bring up things that take time to learn about a person – like how you love that she volunteers at the animal shelter or that she cries when she watches sad movies.

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Узнайте больше о ее интересах. Сделайте ей личный подарок. Не отпускайте комментариев по поводу ее тела или физических особенностей.


Article in English: You have already determined the size of your room, which is 84 square feet.  Finding the center point is critical for laying the tile. It will determine where you will lay your first tile and the next ones. Measure one wall, for example the 12 foot (3.7 m) wall. At 6 feet (1.8 m), half the distance, mark a point with a pencil. Do the same on the other 12 foot (3.7 m) wall. Using your chalk line, anchor one end at the midpoint of one wall and stretch across to the midpoint of the other. "Snap" the chalk line by lifting it up slightly and letting it hit the ground; this will leave a straight line on the floor. Measure the 7 foot (2.1 m) walls and mark a point a 3 ½ feet on both sides. When you have found your center point, you will notice you will have a "quadrant" design on the floor, or 4 equally sized areas.  Starting at the center, "rehearse" your tile pattern by simply laying them on the floor without any adhesive or glue. Place the first tile at the corner nearest the center point. You are only going to work in one quadrant at a time. Begin placing tiles in a straight line towards either wall, leaving a small space in between the tiles. You will use 3 full tiles and 1 tile cut to 4 inches (10.2 cm), since the size of the 3 joints plus the 1 wall joint equals 2 inches (5.1 cm) and  your original tile size was 6 inches (15.2 cm) (6 inches original tile- 2 inches total joint= 4 inch tile). Note that this does not follow the realignment strategy mentioned above. Because this room is "squared," the true center is best left where it actually is. Simply make uniform cuts as they correspond to each side (in this case, you will have 9 inch (22.9 cm) tiles as the wall tiles on the "short" 7 foot (2.1 m) walls and 4 inch (10.2 cm) tiles on the long 12 foot (3.7 m) walls. Because this design is uniform, it is best to follow the same size cuts all the way around. To achieve this you may have to drain down radiator systems, remove the rad from the wall and take the taps off the pipework. Very time consuming but worth...

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Найдите центральную точку. Отрепетируйте укладку плитки. Повторите ту же процедуру на линии 1,08 м. Придерживайтесь такой же процедуры для других трех секторов. Заранее просверлите некоторые плитки, чтобы они вошли в места на полу, где находятся трубы радиаторы, водопроводные трубы и т.п. Чтобы просверлить идеальное отверстие в плитке, используйте кольцевую пилу. Если вы прорепетировали укладку, и ваша плитка лежит на полу, отмеренная и отрезанная, и соответствующая всем вашим эстетическим запросам, то считайте, что вы готовы наносить клей.


Article in English: You have basic rights to be safe and free of harassment at work. If things get to the extreme there are legal routes to take to end a hostile work environment. As mentioned above, getting to know how the human resources team works can help in extreme cases.   Most work places will have written policies for human resources that include a formal grievance or complaint process. This can be as simple as moving your desk away from the person you have a problem with or changing departments to avoid working with them. If the problem escalates you may want to consider getting a new job or taking the issue to your boss. An important part of this step is to make sure you are following the natural chain of command and don't overstep your immediate supervisor unless they are the person you have an issue with.    Harassment on the job can lower performance so most bosses are willing to proactively address problems.  Approach your boss with clear details of the problem. For instance, you might start off by saying “I am having a problem with…” then explain what you have done to try to resolve the issue before having to come to your boss.

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Защита от притеснений. Узнайте, как решаются проблемы между сотрудниками в вашей организации. Запрос о переводе. Обратитесь к руководству, если ситуация вышла из-под контроля.


Article in English: You have just applied the base and added some shading, creating something that looks like an upward-pointing arrow and some boxes. These boxes are your muscle, and will need some more defining. Simply swivel your brush in the highlighter, and then tap the brush to get rid of any extra powder. You can also blow on the brush to dislodge any excess. Take the brush, and lightly apply the highlighter to the muscles. Using a tapping or dabbing motion at first, then blend in the edges using a brushing, left-to-right and up-and-down, motion. Pick up your powder brush, and using a circular motion, go over the lines you have made. Look at yourself in the mirror, and be sure to examine your work from every angle: front, left, and right. If necessary, apply more bronzer or highlighter, but be sure to blend it again. To make it mostly waterproof, you can spray a layer of hairspray on top of the makeup. If your highlighter is too light and your bronzer is too dark, and blending did not help, you can further soften it by going back over it with pressed powder foundation. Simply swivel your powder brush into some pressed powder foundation that closely matches your skin tone, and dust it over your abdomen.

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Осмотрите свой живот. Возьмите чистую кисть для теней и обмакните ее в осветляющую пудру. Заполните кубики осветляющей пудрой. Сглаживайте, сглаживайте и еще раз сглаживайте. Готово.


Article in English: You have let this character become part of your life, especially if he or she has appeared in something you have read or watched for a long time. It is natural to feel some sense of loss. For teenagers and young adults who have not yet experienced death, fictional worlds can be a good entrance to thinking about and discussing the issue. Consider sharing your feelings with others. You may find this can be a good way to start talking about serious issues in your real life as well. If your favorite character has been killed off, or written out of the fictional world, you’ll probably be angry. Let others know about it. You will be experiencing some extreme feelings, and sometimes it’s better just to let those out. Just be careful about spoilers when dealing with popular books, movies, or TV shows. In the modern world, people don’t always experience things together, meaning some people won’t see things as soon as you do. If you posting on a public forum like Twitter, keep your comments vague, saying “I can’t believe that happened” rather than “Why did they kill my favorite character.” Keep the details for people you know are on the same schedule as you. Reflect on what made him so important to the story, and what made you fall for him. Talk to friends or others about the character, why his death is so frustrating, and what you liked most.  Reread or rewatch the parts of the book or show where your fictional love appears. The great thing about fictional worlds like this is that we can always go back. Look for other ways to keep the character in front of you, whether writing your own fan fiction, or drawing the character so you can see him again. Good fiction will deal with what follows from a character’s death. After she is gone, stick with the show or book so you can see the other characters react. This can help you accept what has happened. Alternatively, you can take a break from the show or book. If you are truly emotionally afflicted by what has happened, you’ll want to take some time away from this fictional...

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Помните, что нет ничего неправильного в том, чтобы горевать. Дайте выход своим чувствам. Найдите способы помнить о своем любимом герое. Продолжайте читать книгу или смотреть сериал. Помните, что судьба вашего любимого персонажа в чьих-то руках.


Article in English: You have probably have some kind of wedding budget. Many experts advise to factor 8-10 percent of your budget for your attire. This should give you some idea of how much you have to work with. If you are not sure what the state of the wedding finances are, try to figure it out or ask your fiancée before shopping. Getting a wedding dress isn't just about buying the dress from the store. You also may have to alter or adjust your dress. Make sure to give yourself enough flexibility to be able to afford this. Factoring in dress tailoring can take some of the pressure off of choosing a dress, because it can be hard to find a dress that fits exactly.  Many bridal shops have in-house tailors. If you want to estimate the cost of these adjustments, call a range of in-house tailors to get a rough estimate of how much an adjustment would be. You can also call other tailors in your city and see how much wedding dress alterations usually cost. Keep in mind that since you don't know what kind of alterations you may need, you only will be receiving a general estimate. Don't think of your wedding attire as only your dress. You will probably need to buy accessories like a veil, shoes and jewelry. Do some quick research to find out prices for these items, and take them out of the budget.  Don't forget to budget hair and makeup either. They are factors that sometimes slip between the cracks when establishing a budget for your wedding look. It may not be romantic, but you should run your wedding dress budget by your fiancée before shopping. It would be a shame to buy a dress you love and have to return it because you and your fiancée aren't on the same page. If your fiancé is not involved in the cost of your wedding attire, you don't have to consult him. However, if your parents or anyone else is involved in paying, you should talk with them before buying the dress. Sample sales are sales that sell last season's gowns at huge discounts. These gowns are not less stylish than current styles, they are only on sale because the...

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Учтите то, какое количество денег у вас есть. Учтите возможность посадки по фигуре. Учтите стоимость аксессуаров. Покажите свой бюджет жениху. Купите платье на распродаже, чтобы сэкономить деньги. Подумайте о том, чтобы купить подержанное платье. Запланируйте покупку на подходящее время. Подумайте о том, чтобы купить простое платье.


Article in English: You have probably heard that most times it's not exactly the situation, but your reaction to it that counts. Being an optimist is just as much about your reactions as it is about your thinking patterns. Stocking a toolbox with healthy skills that you can apply during stressful or upsetting times is key to maintaining your optimism. Healthy coping skills may include:  Cultivating positive friendships Staying physically active Using humor to lighten the mood Leaning on your spirituality Practicing meditation Escaping reality through reading Pursuing a range of interests and hobbies Spending time with a pet Don't try to be happy, as this can have the opposite effect. Rather than aiming to be happy, aim for engagement. Fully savor positive happy moments when you're in them. Then, when you find yourself in a negative mindset, choose a healthy coping skill to fully engage in and get your mind off what's getting you down. Becoming engaged in your life is like a cure for a pessimistic attitude. . One guaranteed way to feel more positive about your life, and turn the proverbial lemons into lemonade, is to develop a grateful spirit. Science tells us that consistently being grateful brings with it a multitude of benefits, include more happiness and job, less loneliness and isolation, stronger immune functioning, and a bountiful cycle of acting in a compassionate way towards others.  Incorporate the practice of gratitude into your life by noticing the small wonderful things that occur everyday. These might be laughter of children, tucking under a blanket with a good book, relishing in a gourmet meal, or hugging a loved one.  Make it your business to not only notice these small wonders, but you should also document them.  Start a gratitude journal that feature little kindnesses shown to you throughout each day as well as going into depth about specific events or situations of which you are grateful. When you are taking good care of your physical and mental well-being it becomes much easier to see the glass as half-full...

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Выработайте в себе здоровые навыки преодоления негативной ситуации. Вовлекайтесь в происходящее. Учитесь быть благодарным Ведите здоровый образ жизни. Стремитесь к балансу. Старайтесь воздерживаться от сравнений. Тянитесь к позитивным людям.


Article in English: You have probably seen lots of films if you are interested in becoming a film director, but you can start to use your film viewing experiences as a way to learn about film making. Watch as many films as you can and pay attention to the details.  Try to count at least 15 mistakes in each film you watch. Look for acting errors, editing errors, storyline continuity errors, etc. Develop your awareness of storytelling as you watch films. Try watching movies with the sound off and pay attention to how the story unfolds through images as well. Or, you can also listen to the dialogue, soundtrack, and other sounds in a film to see how the story unfolds through what characters say. . To become a director, it is important to get started right away and use any means necessary to make your own films. Get a camera if you don't already have one. Although a quality camera will help you to produce better quality films, start with any camera you can find.   Write your own screenplay or work with a friend who writes. Get a group of friends together on the weekend and shoot scenes for a short film. Over time, you can edit the scenes together using a program like Adobe Premier. Making short films will force you to start learning the technical aspects of directing. You'll need to know how to edit, write, and do everything else, too. Making your own short films will give you a chance to wear multiple hats and develop different skill sets. . The best way to learn to direct actors is by getting experience acting, whether this is by acting in your own films or being part of a drama group. Learning more about acting and doing some acting yourself will give you a greater appreciation for the actors that you are working with and it may make it easier to communicate with them. Try to learn the lingo of actors. For example, you can learn about different acting strategies or techniques, such as classical acting and method acting. While you will probably start out writing your own scripts, you may need to work with other people’s scripts...

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Смотрите фильмы критически. Начните создавать короткометражные фильмы Научитесь актерскому мастерству Читайте сценарии других людей. Рассмотрите возможность посещения киношколы Работайте в составе производственной группы. Начинайте налаживать связи


Article in English: You have the highest concentration of lymph nodes in your neck, collarbone, armpits, and groin. Once you know where they are, you will be able to check them for pain or swelling. There are other groups of lymph nodes throughout the body, including the inside of your elbows and knees, but these are not commonly checked for swelling. Press your first 3 fingers against your forearm. Feel around under the skin, paying attention to the feeling of the tissue underneath. This will give you a sense of what a normal, unswollen area of your body feels like. Lymph nodes that are not swollen have only a slightly firmer density to their surrounding tissue. It is only when they get irritated and swollen that you can feel them easily. Use the first 3 fingers of both hands simultaneously to circle behind the ears, down both sides of your neck, and under your jaw line. If you feel lumps accompanied by tenderness, you may have swollen lymph nodes.  If you can't feel your neck lymph nodes, don't worry. This is completely normal. Press gently and move your fingers slowly to feel for firm groups of tissue under the skin. Lymph nodes are typically present in groups, and are about the size of a pea or bean. Healthy lymph nodes should feel more rubbery and pliable than the surrounding tissue but not hard as a rock. If you can't feel the lymph nodes in your neck, lean your head towards the side you are having trouble checking. This will relax the muscles and allow you to feel the lymph nodes more easily. in your armpits. Place your first 3 fingers in the center of your armpit. Then slide them slowly down your torso a few inches until they are just above the side of your breast. The lymph nodes in this area are located toward the bottom of your armpit, near the rib cage. Run your fingers all around this area with gentle pressure. Move them towards the front of the body, the back of the body, and up and down a few inches. Move your first 3 fingers to the crease where your thigh meets your pelvis.  Press your fingers into the crease...

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Найдите лимфоузлы. Для сравнения проверьте участок без лимфоузлов. Проверьте лимфоузлы на шее и ключице. Нащупайте лимфоузлы в подмышечных впадинах. Прощупайте паховые лимфоузлы. Определите, увеличены ли у вас лимфоузлы.


Article in English: You have three choices when it comes to getting a honey bee box: buy a complete box for a lot of money, buy separate parts and put them together for less money, or build all your parts from scratch and save over 50% of your money. Regardless of which option you choose, you should always purchase your supplies from an esteemed bee seller. Buying cheap supplies not only will not last very long, it may also cause damage to your bees (and your honey!).  Always use untreated wood - typically pine or cedar.  None of the boxes/supers have bottoms, so you’ll only need to purchase enough wood to create the outer edges for you multiple supers. Some supplies - like your frames and the outer lid - can’t be made easily, and you’ll have to buckle down and purchase them. There will be 2 short sides that are 16.25-by-9.56 inches (41.28-by-24.28 cm) and 2 long sides that are 20-by-9.56 inches (50.8-by-24.28 cm). All 4 sides will have tongue-and-groove or dovetailed ends. Cut your wood to meet these measurements, and create the proper joints along the edges. The size of your honey supers will vary depending on if you desire ‘shallow’ or ‘medium’ supers. The length/width of your honey supers will be the same as your deep supers (long side: 20-by-your height of 5.75 or 6.625 inches, short side: 16.25-by-height of 5.75 or 6.625 inches). The height will vary. For a shallow super, your box should be 5¾-inches high; a medium super will be 6⅝-inches high. Just like the deep super, use a tongue-and-groove or dovetailed joint on the edges. Use waterproof wood glue to put your supers together. Put a small dab of the glue on each of the interlocking joints, and slide the slats into place to form your boxes. Then, use a system of vices to hold the boxes in place while the glue dries. When the glue has completed drying, use a few small nails to finish off building your supers. The bottom board is the first layer of your box and is just a flat piece of wood with raised edges. The board will be the same length/width of the supers, but the...

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Купите все необходимое. Сделайте гнездовой отсек. Сделайте магазин для меда. Соберите гнездовой отсек и магазин для меда. Купите или сделайте основание с ограничителем на входе. Покрасьте открытые части улья. Купите разделительную решетку. Купите крышки. Купите рамки для ящиков. Соберите улей.


Article in English: You have three options for locating a Yorkshire terrier puppy: breeders, breed rescues, and general animal shelters. Each of these sources has its own pros and cons:  Breeders: a breeder can provide the dog's lineage if a strong pedigree is important to you. However, breeders can be expensive, and unethical breeders might not provide the best care for your puppy in its earliest days. A bad breeder may also breed unhealthy dogs. Breed rescues: look for Yorkie-specific rescue centers in your area. These animals need good homes, so if you want to save an animal, a breed rescue is a good option. However, you will not have access to the dog's pedigree, and many dogs might be mixed-breed. You may also find more adults than puppies. General animal shelter: it will be hard to find a purebred Yorkie in a general animal shelter, and you’ll likely find more adults than puppies. However, if the shelter’s a kill shelter, you might save your dog’s life. Furthermore, shelters are usually far cheaper than breeders or breed rescues. Many rescues and shelters have websites that are updated regularly with the new dogs available for adoption. Keep an eye on these websites for the puppy you want to rescue. If you don’t see a suitable puppy on the websites, call the rescues and shelters to see if you can be put on a notification list. They may be willing to call you if a Yorkie puppy comes into their care. If you choose to buy your puppy from a breeder, you should conduct a thorough investigation into how ethical the breeder is. There is no license for breeding — anyone with a litter of puppies can call him- or herself a breeder. You want to make sure you only buy a puppy from someone who takes the responsibility of breeding animals seriously. A quality breeder will let you ask questions even if they don't have any puppies for sale. They may be able to refer you to someone who does have puppies at the moment.  Ask the breeders how long they’ve been breeding Yorkies, and whether they’ve seen any health issues in the dogs they’ve...

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Определитесь, где вы хотите купить собаку. Свяжитесь с центрами по спасению породы и приютами для животных в вашем районе. Позвоните заводчикам в вашем районе. Посетите всех заводчиков, которые, на ваш взгляд, вам подходят. Не поддерживайте щенячьи фермы.


Article in English: You have to be comfortable with yourself if you want to not be shy around girls. Though you can’t build up your self-esteem in a day, there are some steps you can take to be a more comfortable, confident person who feels good about what he does and what he has to offer. Here are some steps you can take to work on building up your self-esteem:  Work on accepting the things you can’t change about yourself. Admit what the flaws that you can change are, and spend more time addressing them. Spend more time doing something you’re good at or developing a new skill, whether it’s in writing, running, or photography. Hang out with people who make you feel better, not worse, about yourself. Take care of your appearance. Though you don’t have to look like a model, showering regularly and wearing clean, well-fitting clothes can improve your self-image. Another way you can make an extra effort to not be shy around girls is to talk to new people more every day. You can talk to the new guy in school, the girl who works in your grocery store, or even to the guests who are visiting your neighbor. As long as you’re not intruding, talking to a new person can help you gain confidence and discover more things about yourself, as well as to get rid of some shyness that is making it hard for you to talk to girls.  Talking to new people will help you read people on an individual basis and to get a better sense about finding topics that appeal to every person. It can also help you learn different conversational rhythms and to be okay with the fact that new conversations can be a little awkward, at first. Talking to new people and being comfortable with opening up can also boost your confidence. You’ll feel better about yourself if you see that you can appeal to more people than the usual few people in your social circle. If you want to not be shy around girls, then one thing you can do is make an effort to be a more social person who has more things going on. Sign up for a sports team, a debate team, a community service club, or any...

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Повышайте самооценку. Учитесь разговаривать с новыми людьми. Ведите общественную жизнь. Не требуйте слишком многого от новых отношений. Научитесь по-настоящему слушать. Следите за тем, чтобы не говорить слишком много.


Article in English: You have to be cool.  If you're thinking about your bowel movements all the time, then it's just going to make it harder. Relax, and try to think about something else.  Stay still! Although standing up will help, if you start making abrupt movements or doing something that requires exertion (such as running), it’s going to be a lot tougher. Above all, keep your dignity and stay calm. Make sure not to panic or hold your hand against your behind. It's all about applying mental will to the situation. yourself mentally so you’re not focusing on the poop so much. Come up with distracting thoughts like a kitten loving and cuddling you. Nothing funny or you may have a real accident in your pants.  Find a phrase, and repeat it over and over again in your mind to focus your mind on something else. Another way to distract yourself is by striking up a conversation with someone. Watch TV, read a book, or listen to music. Do anything to move your mind on to other thoughts for the time being. A mental task that requires concentration is best, such as playing a word game or writing down a to-do list. If there’s a bathroom nearby, and you’re just too embarrassed to use it at that moment (say, if you’re on a date), shake it off!  Pooping is a natural part of life, and everyone does it. You might feel better about it if you camouflage the smell. Spray a little perfume in the air of the bathroom after pooping, for example. Be prepared. Carry a mini air freshener with you.

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Старайтесь об этом не думать. Попробуйте отвлечь себя от мыслей о необходимости опорожнения кишечника. Поборите смущение и удовлетворите естественную потребность вашего организма.


Article in English: You have to clearly have a goal in mind so that you can focus on it. Concentrating on your goal in a sort of meditative practice helps you control your dream. You can be anything, but many people enjoy becoming something that will allow you to experience the universe differently, like an alien, bird, or fish. You can also use shape-shifting to confront your fears: for instance, if you have a phobia of spiders, you can shape-shift into one and experience life from its point of view. A clear pond, window, or anything else that gives you a good reflection will also work.  Stare at yourself and will your skin to change and form into the shape you desire. You can also start at one end of your body (for instance, your feet) and consciously think of each part changing. Some lucid dreamers like to walk through the mirror at this point, fully embracing the alternate persona. This is another method if you don't prefer to use a mirror or if you find it hard to visualize a mirror.  Simply behave as if you were the thing you want to become. . For example, if you want to shape-shift into a dog, go down onto your hands and knees. Start barking, and wag your tail. Pretty soon you'll feel your hands turn into paws and your face change.

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Решите, во что или в кого вы хотите превратиться. Превратитесь, глядя в зеркало. Ведите себя так, словно вы уже изменились.


Article in English: You have to find that teacher who is not too strict, maybe a little oblivious, and forgiving. Get on their good side at the beginning of the year so they're more likely to trust you when you come to them with excuses later. Laugh at your teacher's corny jokes and smile and try to be a good student for the most part.  Notice how your teacher reacts when other students forget their homework to gauge how much you can get away with. Notice if your teacher collects homework or usually just walks around and glances at your worksheet to make sure you did it. Try to get an idea of what your teacher likes. If they have pictures of their cat everywhere, you may be able to use that to your advantage later by telling them your cat is very sick or had to be put down and you were too devastated to finish the assignment. Remember that your teacher probably got into teaching because they are passionate about their subject. Participate in class as much as possible: if they believe you love history, too, they're probably more likely to be sympathetic later. Find out how much homework counts toward your final grade. If homework only accounts for 20% of your grade and you ace all your tests, projects, and class participation, you might be able to get by without doing homework and still get a decent grade. Say your computer or internet wasn't working, or your printer broke. Be aware that this is a common and pretty flimsy excuse, so your teacher may not buy it. If your teacher expects you to email them your assignment, ask them the next day if they got your email. When they say they didn't, act confused and explain that you definitely emailed them and that you can't believe it didn't go through. They probably can't check to see if you are lying and will probably give you an extension. Try to pick something your teacher won't ask about too much or won't want to call your family to verify. Say your mom and dad are having marital problems. Get teary-eyed if you can do that on command.  Claim the death of a family member. Make it...

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Сначала узнайте получше своего учителя. Свалите всю вину на технические проблемы. Скажите, что все дело в семейных обстоятельствах. Свалите все на свою память. . Обратитесь к школьному психологу во время урока. Будьте честны.


Article in English: You have to have some momentum when you ask her out, so work on developing that first. It's like racing: You have to rev your engine a little bit to warm it up before you take off. It's the same with girls: Look at the signals, build a comfortable relationship with her, and then ask her out.  Be observant. Don't make eyes at a girl if you know she is taken, or if you have another girlfriend. Remember, if you ask a friend if she's single, that friend will immediately go up to your crush and start rumors. You don't want to cause any unnecessary drama. Keep it to yourself for now. Look at her body language. See if she looks at you during class or talks to you more than usual. These signs mean she might already like you. If so, good for you! If one hand is fidgeting with her hair or she looks down at her feet bashfully, that's a good sign. Here are some other signs she might like you:  She giggles or laughs at things you say, even if they aren't exactly funny. She keeps constant eye contact with you when you're talking to each other. She tickles or touches you when she talks to you. She asks you to do her favors, like hold her backpack in between classes or hold her place in line. . Think of her as a friend that you like; it will be easier to talk to her, and less awkward. Plus, you will get a chance to get to know her. Girls need to be able to trust guys, and winning her friendship will help you get that trust from her. Be there for her when she needs it and don't expect anything back in return.  Spend time with her. Ask her to help you with a problem. If you sit next to her, it will be easier to get her attention. Ask her for help, making eye contact all the way. Perhaps compliment her, but only after she helps you. For example, if she helps with a math problem, say, "Wow, you're really quick!" or "Thanks, you're really good at this!" Help her out when she needs help.  If she asks you to do something, that's usually a pretty good sign that she's interested in you. Keep the attention on her face. Girls hate it...

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Не спрашивайте ее, нравитесь ли вы ей или нет. Подружитесь с ней. Познакомьтесь с ее друзьями. Осторожно начните с ней флиртовать. Медленно сломайте барьер прикосновений. Старайтесь не надоедать ей.


Article in English: You have to look the part before you can act the part. A true player should look smooth, but like he's not trying too hard. His clothes should have one goal--to help him find women who want to rip them off. Here are some ways to wear the perfect clothes:  Wear a nice long-sleeved button down shirt over a tight tank top. The ladies will want to get you down to your tight shirt so they can feel your muscles. Always wear shirts that hint at or display your killer biceps. Wear pants that are a little loose so they can hang low. Show the ladies just a hint of your boxers, and find excuses to lift up your shirt so they can see your rock hard abs. Once they see your happy trail, they'll want to follow it all the way down. Have smart shoes. Whether you're out at a fancy restaurant or wearing more casual sneakers at the gym, make it clear that your shoes are brand-new and expensive. The ladies will think you'll shell out the same amount of cash that you spent on your shoes on your fancy dates. Wear a few key accessories. Have a fun wallet, a big gold chain, and flashy jewelry. You are not trying to be subtle, player. Have a leather belt with a flashy buckle, so the ladies are already looking in the right direction. Being a player isn't all fun and games. To keep up the player look, you have to put in long hours at the gym. You won't be able to seduce the ladies if your biceps look like string beans. Here's how to do it:  Develop your cardio. Start by running for just one or two miles, but learn to run for at least five miles without getting winded. You won't be much of a Don Juan if you're wheezing while you leading your latest conquest up a staircase. Build muscle. Do whatever you can to have rock-hard abs, impeccable pecs, and strong shoulders. Hit up the bench press at the gym, or try a sport that will help build muscle, like boxing or basketball. Eat right. If you're taking a lady on a dinner date, you can eat something manly like a juicy steak, but when you're on your own, try to eat a healthy balance of fruits,...

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Подбирайте правильную одежду. Развивайте свое тело. Доведите язык жестов до совершенства. Чистота – залог успеха. Стильная квартира.


Article in English: You have two ways to access this window.  Right-click on the Start button to bring up the Start button menu. Click on “Properties” to bring up a new window. Right-click on an empty space in your taskbar to bring up the taskbar menu. Click on “Properties” to bring up a new window appear. Click on the tab labeled "Taskbar," then place a checkmark next to "Lock the taskbar" within the Taskbar Appearance section. You can also change other options including the ability to auto-hide the taskbar, change it’s position and adjust how buttons appear on the taskbar. In the Taskbar and Start Menu Properties window, click on the button that reads Apply then click on OK to save your taskbar preferences. The taskbar will now be locked, and you will not have the ability to reposition or modify the taskbar preferences until it is unlocked.

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Откройте окно «Свойства панели задач и меню “Пуск”». Закрепите панель задач в текущем положении. Примените внесенные изменения к панели задач.


Article in English: You just need a standard deck of cards that comes in a cardboard box. Remove the cards from the box and use a scissors to snip a small hole in one of the corners of the back of the box. Put the cards back in the box and take a look at the hole. You should be able to see the upper corner of the last card in the deck, revealing which card it is.  Come to your show with the card box already prepared. Keep the side with the hole away from the audience as you prepare to perform the trick. If you can find a box that has a picture of a playing card printed on it, as many standard decks do, all the better - the hole will barely be visible. Start by having the person shuffle the cards a few times. Tell him or her to pick a card and show it to the audience while your back is turned, then place it at the bottom of the deck of cards. Hold out the box of cards, hole side facing your palm, and tell the person to put the cards into the box. He or she will almost certainly place the cards into the box face down so that you won't be able to see the chosen card. If not, tell him or her to start over and pick a new card. Hold up the deck of cards, with the hole facing you, and announce that you're reading the volunteer's mind to determine what he or she picked. Look through the hole to see what the card is, then close your eyes and tilt your head toward the ceiling. Announce, "I've got it! It is (the name of the card)!" Pull the deck of cards from the box, taking care not to show the side with the hole, and hold it up to the audience so that they can see the bottom card.

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Вырежьте глазок в коробке из-под колоды карт. Попросите одного из зрителей выбрать карту. Сделайте вид, будто читаете мысли участника. Подтвердите свое умение читать мысли, показав карту.


Article in English: You know how forest animals like deer and mountain lions can move through the woods without causing a stir? People, on the other hand, tend to tromp noisily through the woods, alerting others to their presence from half a mile away. The key to moving like an animal is to be tuned in with your environment. Be aware of the terrain through which you're moving, and try to flow with it instead of moving against it.  Notice your surroundings. If there's a low-hanging branch up ahead, carefully crouch under it instead of blazing through and causing the leaves to rustle. Walk where there's cover. Whether you're walking through trees, buildings or furniture, stay close to cover, like an animal would. Don't walk in open areas where it's easy for you to be seen. Have steady movements. Think of the way a cat moves when stalking its prey. Move your body in a steady rhythm so that the sounds you make are steady, too. Random sounds will be more noticeable. Go on stealth runs and practice moving as quietly and unnoticeably as possible. Don't worry about how fast you're going. When you crouch close to the ground, you exert less force with each footstep, making it possible for you to walk almost soundlessly. Practice walking in a crouched position, absorbing the weight of your body with your knees. Engage all of your muscles. Stepping down with your heel first usually produces a "thud" that others can hear. It also prevents you from being able to crouch easily and distribute your weight evenly across your body. Walk toe first so you can move quietly and fluidly over any terrain. This will feel unnatural at first, so it's important to practice often before you have to put your stealthy moves to the test. You can run toe first, too. It's easier to do this barefoot or with minimalist shoes that don't have a lot of cushioning. Your body will naturally tend to lead with the balls of your feet rather than striking the ground forcefully with your heels. When you're trying to be stealthy, walking the straightest line from point A to...

Summary in Russian:

Двигайтесь как животное. Двигайтесь ближе к земле. Идите стопа к стопе. Сливайтесь с местностью. Знайте, когда нужно остановиться. Следите за дыханием. Поработайте над мягкой посадкой.


Article in English: You know how we talked about Cappy being serious and stoic? Yeah. Makes for a tough time getting them in the bedroom! You might be on your 6th date and you wind up with a gentle peck on the lips and a cab ride home. Don't be dissuaded! Things that come too easy aren't worth it, remember? A lack of sexual contact initially does not mean they're not interested. You just have to weasel your way in to get to the good stuff. They're not going to give it away for free, you know! And when you do get in there, it will be way more than you expected. Generally speaking, Capricorn views dating in a very traditional sense. In the beginning, you may go to dinner and a movie half a dozen times before he/she suggests something else. While this has its drawbacks, it has its advantages too. You'll experience a traditional courtship that can be very fulfilling and fun. Some men will insist on paying the bill, some women will want the door opened for them, etc. This will go away as the Cappy gets more comfortable, but will always be resonant in the smaller ways. More erratic and unstable signs aren't good matches for Capricorn. They are patient, serious, and often unmoved. If you don't understand that this is just how they are, it'll make for a very difficult relationship. It has nothing to do with you or how they feel about you. It's just how they operate and see the world. It's easy to mistake the Capricorn as melancholy. While this is obviously a feeling they're capable of, it's not necessarily so when you detect it. They're just in their brains, figuring out the best plan to action, weighing out logic and rationale, and devising a plan. Capricorn does not have time for someone who's really just an obstacle in their way to success. If you're a deterrent to what they want to achieve, you'll be ousted. Help them rise to the top like they're inclined to do and you'll be a necessary part of the action. A huge part of this is simply understanding that their motivation and ambition is an integral part of their personality....

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Не прекращайте соблазнять их. Станьте традиционны. Поймите, их отсутствие эмоций. Помогите им поддерживать свой имидж. Сломайте те стены недоверия.


Article in English: You know that ugly old lamp you have sitting on that desk in the corner? Don't let it go to waste! Believe it or not, you can resurrect that perfectly good frame from the traps of that old, not-so-trendy fabric. Some lamps will have one-piece frames and some will have a set of two rings: a washer top and a bottom wire ring, generally. If you're unhappy with what you have at your disposal, new lampshade wire rings are available at some craft supply stores. This project will be constructing a drum shade--the fancy name for a circular shade. These are generally made up of two separate rings. Making your own drum shade can be pretty easy as long as you have high-quality, durable materials. Get everything in order before you get started. There will be no last-minute trips to the store on your watch.  Fabric Styrene Wire rings Bulldog clips Fabric glue Bias tape Scissors Paintbrushes Maybe you have all the materials, but are they the right sizes? Check out your lamp rings first; they're the hardest to replace.  Your fabric needs to be at the very least one inch (2.5 cm) wider and longer than the width and circumference of your lampshade. You can either measure the circumference with a measuring tape or use the 'ol handy 3.14 x diameter trick. For example, if the diameter of your lampshade is 14 inches, 3.14 x 14 = 43.96, the circumference of your lampshade. So, you should be working with material that's at least 45 inches long.  You can choose how far apart you want your rings to be to determine the width . A little more than a foot (31 cm) is standard. Once you've measured your fabric, you can cut your styrene to fit it. The styrene should be 1 inch (2.5 cm) narrower and 1/2 inch (1.25 cm) shorter than your fabric. Styrene doesn't stick well to synthetic fibers -- use linen, cotton or silk for your fabric. This customizes your lamp, hides any old, rusting wire, and coordinates even the inside of the lamp with the room. Be sure to wrap the rings and spokes.  Bias tape comes in different colors and patterns; you can...

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Дайте вторую жизнь кольцам из проволоки от старой лампы. Подготовьте нужные материалы. Определитесь с размерами. Отрежьте ткань нужной вам формы и размера, по ней уже выкройте и стироловую прослойку. Оберните провод лампы косой лентой, не пропуская колечек и спиц, это скроет его недостатки, окисленные участки и позволит лампе наиболее гармонично вписаться в интерьер комнаты. Потихоньку отделите защитный слой от стирола. Склейте короткие стороны. Прикрепите канцелярские прищепки-собачки. Нанесите клей на выступающую ткань. Оберните ткань вокруг кольца.