‘I’m the only mum she knows’: parents’ understanding of, and feelings about, identity-release egg donation
Authors: Lysons J , Imrie S , Jadva V , Golombok S 
Published: August 2022

AbstractSTUDY QUESTIONHow do parents understand and feel about identity-release egg donation?SUMMARY ANSWERAlmost one-third of mothers and fathers did not understand the identifiable nature of their egg donation; mothers expressed complex and sometimes difficult feelings about the prospect of future donor–child contact.WHAT IS KNOWN ALREADYIdentity-release egg donation has been the only treatment option available to patients wishing to pursue this route to parenthood in the UK since 2005. However, little is known about how well parents understand this legislation, and how they feel about potential donor–child contact.STUDY DESIGN, SIZE, DURATIONThis qualitative interview study included 61 mothers and 51 fathers whose 5-year-old children were conceived via identity-release egg donation. Interviews were conducted between April 2018 and December 2019.PARTICIPANTS/MATERIALS, SETTING, METHODSData are reported from phase two of a longitudinal study of families created using open-identity egg donation. In-depth, semi-structured interviews were conducted with mothers and fathers. The interviews contained a section on what parents understood about the identifiable nature of the donor. These data were analysed using qualitative content analysis. Mothers who understood the identifiable nature of their egg donation (n = 44) were then asked about their thoughts and feelings regarding the prospect of future donor–child contact. Mothers’ narratives were analysed using thematic analysis.MAIN RESULTS AND THE ROLE OF CHANCEAlmost one-third of parents (28% of mothers, n = 17; 31% of fathers, n = 16) did not understand the identifiable nature of their egg donation. Mothers’ and fathers’ misunderstandings about identity-release egg donation fell into two categories: (i) Unclear about identity-release and (ii) Belief that the donor is anonymous. Reflexive thematic analysis revealed that egg donation mothers’ feelings about identity-release donation could be understood via three organizing themes: (i) identity-release as a threat, (ii) acceptance: it is what it is and (iii) embracing identity-release. The findings indicated that egg donation mothers utilized various strategies to manage their feelings about identity-release egg donation in day-to-day life, and each theme was associated with at least one coping strategy.LIMITATIONS, REASONS FOR CAUTIONParticipants were predominantly from White, middle-class backgrounds. Further research with a more diverse sample is needed to improve generalizability.WIDER IMPLICATIONS OF THE FINDINGSThese findings indicate that parents would benefit from more comprehensive provision of information, both at time of treatment and following conception, to ensure they have fully understood the nature of the donation. Parents may also benefit from follow-up care to help manage any complex or difficult feelings about donor–child contact.STUDY FUNDING/COMPETING INTEREST(s)This research was supported by a Wellcome Trust Collaborative Award [208013/Z/17/Z]. The authors have no conflicts of interest to declare.TRIAL REGISTRATION NUMBERN/A.