num_pages: 279
description: The inspiring true story of a transgender girl her identical twin brother and an ordinary American familys extraordinary journey to understand nurture and celebrate the uniqueness in us all from the Pulitzer Prizewinning science reporter for The Washington PostWhen Wayne and Kelly Maines adopted identical twin boys they thought their lives were complete. But it wasnt long before they noticed a marked difference between Jonas and his brother Wyatt. Jonas preferred sports and trucks and many of the things little boys were supposed to like; but Wyatt liked princess dolls and dress-up and playing Little Mermaid. By the time the twins were toddlers confusion over Wyatts insistence that he was female began to tear the family apart. In the years that followed the Maineses came to question their long-held views on gender and identity to accept and embrace Wyatts transition to Nicole and to undergo an emotionally wrenching transformation of their own that would change all their lives forever.Becoming Nicole chronicles a journey that could have destroyed a family but instead brought it closer together. Its the story of a mother whose instincts told her that her child needed love and acceptance not ostracism and disapproval; of a Republican Air Force veteran father who overcame his deepest fears to become a vocal advocate for trans rights; of a loving brother who bravely stuck up for his twin sister; and of a town forced to confront its prejudices a school compelled to rewrite its rules and a courageous community of transgender activists determined to make their voices heard. Ultimately Becoming Nicole is the story of an extraordinary girl who fought for the right to be herself.Granted wide-ranging access to personal diaries home videos clinical journals legal documents medical records and the Maineses themselves Amy Ellis Nutt spent almost four years reporting this immersive account of an American family confronting an issue that is at the center of todays cultural debate. Becoming Nicole will resonate with anyone whos ever raised a child felt at odds with societys conventions and norms or had to embrace life when it plays out unexpectedly. Its a story of standing up for your beliefs and yourselfand it will inspire all of us to do the same.
language: English
title: Becoming Nicole: The Transformation of an American Family
publisher: Random House