num_pages: 240
description: "I was trying to get a cab one day near my apartment in Manhattan, and wasn't having any luck. In New York City, you know when a cabbie is looking for a fare because his light is on, so I didn't even bother raising my hand for all the unavailable, unlit cabs going by. But then it occurred to me: What if one of them had a broken light and the driver didn't know it? He'd be driving all over the city looking for someone to hail him, but no one would. Why? Because he was sending the wrong signal, inadvertently. Could it be that your own light is off?" --Nancy Slotnick  Have you tried every dating gimmick and almost (but not quite) given up hope? Nancy Slotnick is a professional dating coach whose program has helped hundreds of her private clients find love in six months or less. If you’re skeptical, you should be. There are no guarantees in life, but if you believe it can happen to you, and you’re ready to try something different, this is the book for you.  Nancy knows you don't need rules or endless theories--you need a strategy that works. With Nancy's Program, you will spend 15 hours a week on a targeted search for Mr. Right. If that sounds like a lot of time, consider the time you will want to spend with this person, once you meet him. Why not put in the time to find him? If you’ve wasted hours on internet searches that went nowhere, or if you’ve been hanging around, waiting for someone to notice how great you are, get ready to try a completely new approach. Nancy will show you how to truly and confidently put yourself out there and how to get men to notice you.  In Turn Your Cablight On, you’ll find Nancy’s expert tips, proven strategy, and invaluable advice on the male perspective. Nancy's husband Daniel Aferiat, a licensed psychotherapist in private practice in Manhattan, also gives his take on common dating situations and emotions in every chapter. If you’ve ever asked yourself why you’re still single when you have so much to offer, you’re about to find out how hundreds of women have made their own luck in love—and how you can, too.  Advanced Quotes: "TURN YOUR CABLIGHT ON is an intelligent Program for finding out what you really want in a man, and then settling for nothing less. Nancy's advice is for women who are ready to take a few risks to end up in a great relationship, instead of sitting at home and waiting for it to happen." --Alex Michel, the original “Bachelor”  "Nancy teaches women how to take control of the dating process without controlling the men. One thing we always hear from single men is that women don't see their point of view. Nancy really understands and translates the male perspective, and her instincts about them are right on." --Adele Testani and Ken Deckinger, co-founders of HurryDate  "With her highbrow credentials, Nancy Slotnick, Harvard '89, lends an air of legitimacy to the oft-embarassing arena of forced fix-ups." --The New York Post  "A great guide for those fabulous women out there who can't seem to find Mr. Right. Slotnick offers concrete advice for getting past the emotional and logistical barriers that unwittingly keep women from the relationships they seek." --Laura Berman, PhD, Director of the Berman Center, Chicago and author of Secrets of the Sexually Satisfied Woman: 10 Keys to Unlocking Ultimate Pleasure  "A businesslike, philosophical yenta, who used her professional skills to help people navigate the New York dating scene." --Joanna Weiss, The Boston Globe
language: English
title: Turn Your Cablight On: Get Your Dream Man in 6 Months or Less
titlecomplete: Turn Your Cablight On: Get Your Dream Man in 6 Months or Less
genres: Nonfiction
ratings_count: 15
publisher: Avery