num_pages: 140
description: Cindy Crabb provides a DIY tour of the promise and perils of sexual relationships in Learning Good Consent . Building ethical relationships is one of the most important things we can do, but sex, consent, abuse, and support can get complicated. This collection is an indispensable guide to both preventing sexual violence and helping its survivors to heal. Includes a foreword by Kiyomi Fujikawa and Jenna Peters-Golden.“Whether or not you think you need it, whether or not you’re a survivor, or dating a survivor, or even having sex, you would probably benefit from reading this book. And the people you choose to be intimate with will probably thank you for making their safety a priority.” —Nomy Lamm, Feminist Review“ Learning Good Consent … offers powerful, complicated information (instead of shallow questions and uncomplicated answers). This book speaks to those who are unlearning silence as a safety/communication strategy.” —Jen Cross, make/shift“Essential reading.” —Colin Atrophy Hagendorf, author of Slice Harvester“What this book does is to stress not ‘no means no,’ or even ‘yes means yes,’ but ‘Do you want me to stay here with you?’ ‘Are you here?’ ‘I thought I wanted this, but I’m not sure now.’ ‘Do you think we should take this farther?’ I’m moved that this book is here. It matters.” —Alison Piepmeier, author of Girl Making Media, Doing FeminismCindy Crabb is an author of the influential, feminist, autobiographical ‘zine Doris , which has been anthologized into two The Encyclopedia of Stories, Essays and Interviews and An Anthology 1991–2001 . Her essays and analyses of the impact of her writing have appeared in numerous books and magazines, The Riot Grrrl Collection ; Stay Solid! A Radical Handbook for Youth ; Girl Making Media, Doing Feminism ; and We Don’t Need Another Dispatches from the Next Generation of Feminists .
language: English
title: Learning Good Consent: On Healthy Relationships and Survivor Support
publisher: AK Press