num_pages: 242
description: When Judy Y. Chu first encountered the four-year-old boys we meet in this book they were experiencing a social initiation into boyhood. They were initially astute in picking up on other peoples emotions emotionally present in their relationships and competent in their navigation of the human social world. However the boys gradually appeared less perceptive articulate and responsive and became more guarded and subdued in their relationships as they learned to prove that they are boys primarily by showing that they are not girls. Based on a two-year study of boys aged four to six When Boys Become Boys offers a new way of thinking about boys development. Chu finds that behaviors typically viewed as natural for boys reflect an adaptation to cultures that require boys to be emotionally stoic competitive and aggressive if they are to be accepted as real boys. Yet even as boys begin to reap the social benefits of aligning with norms of masculine behavior they pay a psychological and relational price for hiding parts of their authentic selves. Through documenting boys perceptions of the obstacles they face and the pressures they feel to conform and showing that their compliance with norms of masculine behavior is neither automatic nor inevitable this accessible and engaging book provides insight into ways in which adults can foster boys healthy resistance and help them to access a broader range of options for expressing themselves.Judy Y. Chu is Affiliated Faculty in the Program in Human Biology at Stanford University and co-editor of Adolescent Boys: Exploring Diverse Cultures of Boyhood (NYU Press 2004).Carol Gilligan is University Professor of Applied Psychology and the Humanities at New York University. She is the author or editor of many books including In a Different Voice: Psychological Theory and Women's Development and Joining the Resistance.
language: English
title: When Boys Become Boys: Development, Relationships, and Masculinity
publisher: New York University Press