num_pages: 288
description: From the New York Times bestselling author of The Vanishing American Adult an intimate and urgent assessment of the existential crisis facing our nation.Something is wrong. We all know it.American life expectancy is declining for a third straight year. Birth rates are dropping. Nearly half of us think the other political party isnt just wrong; theyre evil. Were the richest country in history but weve never been more pessimistic. Whats causing the despair?In Them bestselling author and U.S. Senator Ben Sasse argues that contrary to conventional wisdom our crisis isnt really about politics. Its that were so lonely we cant see straightand it bubbles out as anger. Local communities are collapsing. Across the nation little leagues are disappearing Rotary clubs are dwindling and in all likelihood we dont know the neighbor two doors down. Work isnt what wed hoped: less certainty few lifelong coworkers shallow purpose. Stable families and enduring friendshipslifes fundamental pillarsare in statistical freefall. As traditional tribes of place evaporate we rally against common enemies so we can feel part of on a team. No institutions command widespread public trust enabling foreign intelligence agencies to use technology to pick the scabs on our toxic divisions. Were in danger of half of us believing different facts than the other half and the digital revolution throws gas on the fire. Theres a path forwardbut reversing our decline requires something radical: a rediscovery of real places and real human-to-human relationships. Even as technology nudges us to become rootless Sasse shows how only a recovery of rootedness can heal our lonely souls.America wants you to be happy but more urgently America needs you to love your neighbor. Fixing whats wrong with the country depends on you rebuilding right where youre planted.
language: English
title: Them: Why We Hate Each Other - and How to Heal
publisher: St. Martin's Press