num_pages: 320
description: In an era in which I have many black friends is often a medal of Wokeness Ben hilariously chronicles the experience of being on the receiving end of those fist bumps. He takes us through his immigrant childhood from wanting nothing more than friends to sit with at lunch to his awkward teenage years to college in the age of Obama and adulthood in the Trump administrationtwo sides of the same American coin.Ben takes his role as your new black friend seriously providing original and borrowed wisdom on stereotypes slurs the whole swimming thing how much Beyonc is too much Beyonc Black Girl Magic the rise of the Karens affirmative action the Black Lives Matter movement and other conversations you might want to have with your new BBFF.Oscillating between the impulse to be one of the good ones and the occasional need to excuse himself to the restrooms stuff his mouth with toilet paper and scream Ben navigates his own Blackness as an Oreo with too many opinions for his fathers liking an encyclopedic knowledge of CW teen dramas and a mouth he can't always control.From cheating his way out of swim tests to discovering stray family members in unlikely places he finds the punchline in the serious while acknowledging the blunt truths of existing as a Black man in todays world.
language: English
title: Sure, I'll Be Your Black Friend: Notes from the Other Side of the Fist Bump
publisher: Harper Perennial