num_pages: 267
description: On one side there is Grace: prize-winning author Diana Abu-Jabers tough independent sugar-fiend of a German grandmother wielding a suitcase full of holiday cookies. On the other Bud: a flamboyant spice-obsessed Arab father full of passionate argument. The two could not agree on anything: not about food work or especially about what Diana should do with her life. Grace warned her away from children. Bud wanted her married above alleven if he had to provide the ring. Caught between cultures and lavished with contradictory advice from both sides of her family Diana spent years learning how to ignore others well-intentioned prescriptions.Hilarious gorgeously written poignant and wise Life Without a Recipe is Dianas celebration of journeying without a map of learning to ignore the script and improvise of escaping family and making family on ones own terms. As Diana discovers however building confidence in ones own path sometimes takes a mistaken marriage or twoor in her case three: to a longhaired boy-poet to a dashing deconstructionist literary scholar and finally to her steadfast outdoors-loving Scott. It also takes a good deal of angst (was it possible to have a serious writing career and be a mother?) and even when she knew what she wanted (the craziest thing in ones late forties: a baby!) the nerve to pursue it.Finally fearlessly independent like the Grace shes named after Diana and Scotts daughter Gracie will heal all the old battles with Bud and like her writer-mom learn to cook up a life without a recipe.
language: English
title: Life Without a Recipe
publisher: W. W. Norton & Company