Perhatikan apakah anak bernapas dengan cepat. Lihatlah apakah anak kesulitan bernapas. Dengarkan bengek anak. Perhatikan apakah anak batuk-batuk. Carilah retraksi (retraction). Periksa lubang hidung yang melebar. Awasi “dada diam” (silent chest) pada anak. Gunakan alat Peak Flow Meter untuk menentukan keparahan serangan asma.

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A normal respiratory rate in an adult is generally no more than 20 breaths per minute.  Depending on age, children can have faster resting respiratory rates. It's best to watch for any general signs of abnormally fast breathing.  Children between 6-12 years should take about 18-30 breaths per minute. Children 12-18 years should take about 12-20 breaths per minute. A child who is breathing normally mainly uses the diaphragm to breathe. A child having an asthma attack, though, may have to use other muscles in her effort to move more air. Look for signs that the child’s neck, chest, and stomach muscles are working harder than usual. A child who is struggling to breathe might assume a hunched posture, with her arms braced on the knees or a table. If you notice this posture, the child may be having an asthma attack. Children having asthma attacks often make a soft whistling, vibrating sound when they breathe. This usually happens when they exhale, as air is forced through a narrowed passageway. You may be able to hear wheezing during both inhaling and exhaling. Note, though, that in mild attacks or early in severe attacks, you may only hear the wheezing when the child breathes out. Asthma is the most common cause of chronic childhood cough. Coughing causes the pressure in the airway to rise. This, in turn, forces narrowed airways open and temporarily allow better airflow. So while coughing helps the child breathe, it's a symptom of a larger problem. Children might also cough when the body tries to expel environmental triggers that may have caused the attack.  A cough can also be a sign of a respiratory infection, which can trigger asthma. Persistent night coughing is a common symptom of mild to moderate persistent asthma in children. However, if the child coughs repeatedly for a long time, she is probably having an attack. Retractions are a visible “pulling-in” between and just below the ribs or at the collarbone as the child breathes. They occur as the muscles work hard to pull air, but the air can’t move quickly...


Perhatikan apakah anjing Anda mengumpulkan benda mati atau mengadopsi anak anjing lainnya. Perhatikan perilaku bersarangnya. Perhatikan perubahan pada nafsu makannya. Perhatikan produksi air susu.

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Adopting an inanimate object is the most common behavioral change that your dog will show during a false pregnancy. This adoption (also called surrogate mothering) of objects like toys can make your dog protective or possessive. She may go so far as to collect bedding and nesting materials for the objects. During the later stages of the false pregnancy, your dog may also try to adopt another dog's puppy as her own. When you try to take the puppy or object away, your dog might seem excessively restless and anxious. Nesting behavior is a very common phenomena when a dog believes she is pregnant. You may notice your dog preparing a safe and secure place for a puppy. She'll try to accumulate her favorite items, water bowls, blankets, and newspapers in order to make a comfortable nest. Your dog might also carry some playing toys to the nest for the puppies she thinks will be born. Your dog might groom more often than normal and change her behavior. For example, if your dog is normally outgoing, she may become quiet and withdrawn. If she's normally aloof, she may become more dependent and needy. She may also seem nervous and aggressive. Your dog may become very hungry, as though she's building herself up to prepare for feeding a litter. This will cause noticeable weight gain. Or, your dog might lose her appetite because she feels nauseous. Watch for either of these changes in appetite.  Some dogs will also take treats and save them in their beds, rather than immediately eat them. Many dogs with false pregnancies will also drink more water, which causes them to relieve themselves more often. Even though your dog might not actually be pregnant, the fluctuating hormones can cause changes in the mammary glands. The glands will be engorged and swollen. They might even produce milk to the extent that you can see milk leaking from her mammary glands. To check, press the tit of the mammary gland.Sometimes milk production may be more rapid than usual if an adopted puppy is stimulating her mammary glands.


Perhatikan apakah dia lebih sering berolahraga. Perhatikan apakah dia punya baju-baju baru. Amati apakah potongan rambutnya baru atau dia mulai sering berdandan. Perhatikan apakah tubuhnya wangi kolonye, bukan aroma yang biasa.

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While she might be improving her health for personal reasons, it’s also possible that she’s exercising for a new lover. Watch for big changes in her appearance, as well as long hours spent in the gym. These could be signs that she’s cheating. Don’t assume that your wife is cheating just because she’s exercising a lot. She may just want to look and feel better for herself, or she could want to impress you. Although it’s possible that she just wants to feel good about herself, your wife may get new clothes to impress a new lover. This is especially true if she’s buying sexy clothes that you never see. Notice if she’s bringing new clothes into the house or if you’re seeing clothing purchases on your bank or credit card statements. If you have concerns, talk to your wife about her desire for a new wardrobe.  Say, “I’ve noticed you’ve bought a lot of new clothes lately. Is there a special reason?” Then, listen to what she has to say. Remember, she may just want new clothes because she’s diving into a new trend or she’s recently lost or gained weight. Don’t assume she’s cheating. These are ways she might try to improve her appearance, which can sometimes be a way to impress a new lover. However, she may also change up her makeup and hairstyle for herself. Notice if she’s fixing herself up specifically to go out without you. It’s helpful to consider what’s been going on in your wife’s life. If she’s been dressing down for several years because she’s been busy with the kids but now she has more free time, she might be spending more time on her looks because it makes her happy. She may smell like cologne because she’s spending time with a lover. If you notice a change in your wife’s smell, ask her about it. If she doesn’t have a reasonable explanation, then it might be a sign she’s cheating. Don’t assume that one incidence of her smelling like someone else is a sign she’s cheating. For instance, she may have a coworker who wears too much cologne.


Perhatikan apakah dia memandang sekeliling ruangan. Perhatikan apakah dia menahan tatapan mata selama beberapa detik. Lihat apakah dia mengibaskan rambut. Perhatikan apakah seorang wanita mengekspos lehernya. Carilah senyum tersipu dari jauh. Cari bahasa tubuhnya yang positif ketika Anda mendekat.

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You may notice she looks around the room for a few seconds, not really meeting anyone's eyes. Then, she may take a quick look at you, sometimes from the side. These darting glances means she's at least noticed you. Some women may not want to be caught looking, while others will look intently for a few seconds. However, if you notice a woman looking your way repeatedly, it's likely she's interested. If she's been taking darting glances then catches your eye for a few moments, then that indicates she's even more interested. If you see her looking your way, give her a smile to show you're interested, too. If she's interested, a woman might tilt her head back a bit, pushing her face up. You might catch her doing this after she looks at you from across the room. Alternatively, she might toss her hair or flip it back with one hand.  Typically, a woman playing with her hair is a good sign. Similarly, if she fixes her outfit, such as adjusting her skirt, that could be a sign she wants to talk to you. With this movement, she may tilt her head to the side, revealing her neck. This is a way of showing she's vulnerable and that she's willing to get to know you better. She may do this across the room or while talking to you. In a conversation, this could be a sign she's listening, as she's cocking her head to hear you better. If she's noticed you and looked your way a few times, keep glancing her direction from time to time. If she smiles at you, she's likely inviting you to come over and talk to her. Sometimes, she may give you a half-smile where she doesn't show her teeth. She may be inviting you to get to know her more, though she could also just be placating you. When you start walking over, check to see how she responds. If she turns her body toward you and smiles, that's a good sign. However, if she turns away, crosses her arms and legs, or frowns, that's a bad sign, and you should probably abort your mission.


Perhatikan apakah dia membatalkan rencana dengan orang lain. Perhatikan apakah dia menunjukkan kemarahan jika Anda membicarakan gadis lain. Perhatikan apakah dia menyarankan untuk pergi berduaan saja. Amati reaksinya saat Anda mengungkapkan perasaan Anda kepadanya.

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If she’s canceling plans with other guys to hang out with you, keep that in mind. If you notice she's not as quick to talk about her latest beau either, chances are she views you as more than a friend and wants to be in a relationship.  This is particularly true if she has talked about other guy crushes in the past, but suddenly changes the subject if you mention them. When she stops viewing you as one of the girls and refuses to share anything about her love life, you can rest assured that the feelings are mutual. In the past, you used to be able to get her take on your love life. Now she seems to blow up at the mere mention of another woman. If this happens, it’s probably safe to assume that she wants to be your only leading lady. She may tease you about past relationships, but if you mention someone you currently like, it may not go over well. Past relationships may be her way of teasing you, but mentioning a recent crush will ensure she won’t be smiling for long. In the past, you were more likely to hang out in a group setting. Now that she keeps asking to spend time alone with you, this may be a clue she’s into you. If you're being consistently invited to places that her past boyfriends accompanied her to, such as weddings or dances, you should probably have a discussion about whether you’re more than friends. If she's a good friend, she will appreciate your honesty. Though it may be awkward at first, you'll ultimately feel relieved once you've been honest.  Tell her how you feel. While it could be awkward and you may feel extremely nervous about revealing your feelings to her, you'll be glad you did it. It's much better to say something than to not say anything at all.  You may notice a look of relief on her face when you share your feelings with her. If she lights up when you tell her about your feelings, it is probable that she feels the same way. Begin the conversation by telling her how much you respect your friendship with her and that you've recently been having feelings that are beyond that of a...


Perhatikan apakah dia menjadi lebih mudah marah dan naik darah. Perhatikan apakah dia tidak memiliki kemampuan untuk fokus. Tanyakan perasaannya. Ketahuilah bahwa Anda mencari gugusan gejala. Waspadalah pada pikiran bunuh diri atau pikiran tentang kematian. Tunjukkan dukungan Anda jika ada tanda-tanda ingin bunuh diri.

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Depression in men is commonly displayed through anger. It is not uncommon to lack sleep and energy when depressed, which can ultimately have a significant effect on his mood. If your loved one has been displaying random fits of anger, this may be an underlying symptom of depression. Women tend to show emotional symptoms in the form of tears, and communicate their need for assistance. Men on the other hand tend to act out, typically in a more aggressive, angrier fashion. A man with depression will likely display trouble concentrating, remembering details, or making decisions. He'll be unable to concentrate and make decisions, be it important or minute. This will greatly affect his home and work life. If he has depression, he likely feels sad or empty. If he's unwilling to open up about it, you may observe him being generally down about life.  He may not get excited or feel happy about things that would normally be pleasurable, which is another way to determine if he's feeling blue. Men generally have difficulty expressing sadness. Sometimes this emptiness manifests as feeling hopeless, irritable, anxious, or angry. He may seem pessimistic, easily annoyed, worried about things out of his control, and will display a short temper. If this person displays 4-5 of the symptoms listed above, he is most likely dealing with depression.  However, one or two symptoms do not indicate a depressive episode – we all feel down and blue at times. What's more, depression will last for more than two weeks; mere sadness goes away sooner and is often only in certain environments. If depression does seem to be the case, know that it's highly treatable. In fact, most people will experience at least 1 depressive episode at one point in their life.  It's incredibly common and nothing to be ashamed about. . This is often the hardest symptom to observe because people often do not want to talk about suicide.  However, this can be observed through speech patterns.  People who are depressed may make comments about just wanting to get away,...


Perhatikan apakah dia mulai mengeluh tentang Anda atau hubungan dengan Anda. Amati perubahan dalam gairah seksnya. Perhatikan apakah kemesraan emosional di antara Anda berdua sudah berkurang. Waspadai jika istri Anda tiba-tiba ingin privasi lebih. Perhatikan apakah dia jadi lebih sibuk dengan ponsel.

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Your wife may start pointing out your flaws or sharing concerns about your relationship. This may be because she’s genuinely unhappy, or she could be trying to look for a reason to justify her affair. Either way, it’s important for you to take notice and talk to her about it. Ask her what’s bothering her and discuss ways you can improve your relationship going forward. For example, your wife might say things like, “I’m sick and tired of coming home to a dump,” “You never listen to me,” or “We never have fun together anymore.” Ask her follow up questions like, “How can we work together to keep things clean?” “What can I do to show you I’m listening?” or “How does date night this Saturday sound?” This way you can address her concerns to hopefully improve your relationship. Your wife may desire more sex, less sex, or different sex. Consider if she starts offering you sex more often but doesn’t seem to be engaging with you. Similarly, notice if the heat suddenly leaves your relationship and she starts turning down sex. Additionally, pay attention to a sudden interest in role playing or sex games.  Your wife may want more sex if she feels bad about cheating or is having an emotional affair that leaves her wanting sexual fulfillment. She may want less sex if a new lover is meeting her needs. Your wife may want different sex if she’s wanting to pretend she’s with a new person. Your wife may stop sharing the details of her life with you, which is a sign that something is wrong. If she’s not coming to talk to you about her daily activities, her problems, her emotions, or things she’s excited about, then she may be sharing these things with someone else. Talk to her to find out what’s going on. For example, let’s say your wife seems to be shutting you out. Go to her and say, “Hey, I’ve noticed you’ve been really quiet lately. I’d really like to talk to you about how you’ve been feeling.” If your wife is having an affair, she’ll need to keep secrets from you. This requires her to keep her phone, bag, computer, and bills...


Perhatikan apakah dia sering memuji. Perhatikan apa yang dibicarakannya. Tanyakan kepadanya tentang hubungan asmara.

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Think about whether your coworker compliments you a lot. Compliments or other positive remarks might indicate that they have a high opinion of you or even a crush on you.  If your coworker consistently compliments the job you’re doing at work, it might mean that they just respect you as a coworker. If your coworker compliments your physical looks or other things that are not related to work, it might mean that they have romantic interest in you. Don’t take compliments by themselves as an indication of your coworker having a crush. Evaluate compliments in the context of other factors. The subject of your conversations with your coworker can give you pretty solid cues about their feelings for you. As a result, pay a little attention to what your coworker says to you and the types of conversations they initiate. Ask yourself:  Does your coworker bring up highly personal information?  If so, this might signal that they see you as more than just an acquaintance. Does your coworker talk sex, being intimate, or romantic interests? This might be a way of getting your attention in a romantic way. Does your coworker confide in you? This suggests that they see you as more than just a coworker. Does your coworker invite you to activities outside of work? This could be a sure sign they’re interested in you romantically. After watching for other signals, you might just need to plain out ask your coworker if they have a crush on you. While this might not be the easiest or the most comfortable thing to do, it may get the results you want.  Say something like “do you think our relationship goes beyond work?” If you don’t want to be direct, try using humor to offset your question. Perhaps make a joke about how other employees avoid you, then say “you don’t seem to hate me like everyone else.” Be careful about suggesting you want more than a work relationship.


Perhatikan apakah dia tidak bisa lepas dari ponsel. Perhatikan penggunaan ponsel yang terus-menerus. Carilah ponsel kedua.

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Smart phones have made navigating an affair easier than ever. If your partner is unusually attached to his or her phone, they may be using it to communicate with a new love interest.  Watch your partner to see if they keep the phone constantly by their side, such as during bathroom breaks, when taking a shower, or when stepping outside to take out the trash. This may be a sign that your partner doesn't want you to access their phone.  Some partners may also alter the settings on their cell phones to enable security codes or phone locks. This may be done to prevent you from accessing their personal data such as contact phone numbers or messages. Observe your partner for increased cell phone activity, such as more phone calls or excessive text messaging. Take note of the times of day these calls and texts are occurring. Ask yourself if your partner regularly communicated during these periods before.  See if your partner acts suspiciously when on the phone or texting, like abruptly hanging up when you enter the room. Does he or she attempt to hide the texts that they are typing, or delete text messages quickly after sending or receiving them? If your partner is frequently speaking in hushed tones while on a phone call, they may be attempting to prevent you from hearing their conversation with someone new. If your partner is having an affair, getting a secret second cell phone is a smart move. With a secret phone, your partner would not need to worry about leaving a record of unexplained incoming and outgoing calls.  Prepaid cell phones are cheap and easy to purchase. If you see your partner with a prepaid cell phone, that was not acquired for work or another legitimate purpose, be concerned that he or she is doing something they wish to hide. Look in bags or purses for a hidden phone. It is unlikely that your partner would keep a secret second phone in a visible place. A likely spot for hiding a secret second phone is in the car. Look in the glove box or under the seats. Watch for strange or new bills arriving...


Perhatikan apakah garis-garis putih di dagingnya menghilang. Tekan daging salmon untuk memastikan teksturnya masih padat. Periksa daging salmon untuk menemukan perubahan warna.

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Salmon, unlike most other kinds of fish, is well known for the thin white lines which separate the layers or flakes of its meat. These lines indicate that the fish is still fresh and edible. If you notice that these white lines have disappeared—or if they’ve turned to a more gray color—the salmon has likely gone bad. Edible, fresh salmon should be firm to the touch. If salmon in your refrigerator has become squishy, mushy, or unexpectedly soft in texture, it’s likely expired. The white lines between flakes of salmon can indicate its firmness in addition to its freshness. Once the lines have faded, the meat is all but guaranteed to be mushy. Unlike other types of fish, as salmon ages and begins to go bad, it will develop discolorations. Look over the surface of the meat. If you see any spots that are not the healthy pink color of most salmon, your fish has likely expired. Most of the discolorations you’ll find on salmon will be dark. However, spoiled salmon can also have small white-ish patches.


Perhatikan apakah ia adalah orang yang pesimis. Perhatikan apakah ia berusaha meniru kebiasaan Anda. Perhatikan apakah ia mengeluh tentang ketidakadilan. Amati apakah ia suka mencari perhatian. Pantaulah perilakunya saat bersosialisasi.

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Jealous people tend to have a negative outlook overall. They may feel other people succeed easily while they struggle for everything. If your friend is jealous, you may notice general pessimism during regular interactions.  A pessimistic friend will be generally dismissive of your new endeavors. If you want to, say, teach yourself a new skill, a jealous friend will list reasons why you should not, for example. A jealous friend will be pessimistic about themselves too. If you try to suggest the solution for a jealous friend's problems, they will be quick to find reasons why this will not work. Jealousy can often manifest in imitation. If your friend is jealous of you, they may want to copy some of what you're doing to try to have a similar life to yours. You may notice your friend dressing like you, imitating your tastes and mannerisms, and talking and joking about the same subjects you do. You may also find your friend tries to upstage you while imitating you. If you start running for 20 minutes a day, for example, a jealous friend may start running 30 minutes a day. Your jealous friend may make frequent claims to you about how things or situations they feel are unfair. For example, they might say something like, “It is just so unfair that things come so easy for you. You get all the good paying jobs and I am stuck in this dead-end one.” Pay attention to these frequent references to unfairness, as many times they are blaming outside circumstances for why they cannot have or achieve what you have. Jealous people are often attention seekers by nature. Pay attention to how your friend acts around others. A jealous friend will always try to be the center of attention.  A jealous friend may do things like show off on social media. They may post overly happy or positive things about their own life. You may also notice them friending your friends as they're eager to gain social approval from those close to you. A jealous friend may seek attention in a group. They may try to make the loudest jokes or tell the...


Perhatikan apakah ia berada di sekitar Anda. Lihatlah jika ia mencoba membuat Anda kagum. Perhatikan apakah ia menertawakan kata-kata Anda. Perhatikanlah jika ia memberikan perhatian kepada Anda. Perhatikan cara ia memperlakukan Anda. Perhatikan apakah ia membela Anda.

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A guy who's interested in you and who wants to flirt with you is going to be around. End of story. He's not going to be busy all the time, he'll make time for you. Even if he's shows his interest by ignoring you, he'll make sure to be ignoring you in person.  Remember, it's hard to flirt if he’s not even there. If he's never around, he's not likely to be flirting with you. Even if he's not physically around, he'll make his presence felt by sending texts, calling you, and making sure to show up at the same things you’re going to. A guy who's interested in you and wants to spend time flirting with you might try to impress you. When he's doing or saying something "cool" he'll make sure to check in to see if you're paying attention to how awesome he is. See if he tries to outdo his friends when he’s around you. He outdoes them in terms of the cool things he's done, he wants to outdance them on the dance floor (and show you what a good dancer he is), he wants to try out that new bike trick. A guy who likes you is going to laugh at your hilarious comments (even if they aren't that funny, especially if they aren't that funny). Your flirty banter is going to make him laugh, if he's into you. Just remember, mean laughter is not a good sign. He can laugh at you when you're acting silly, but if his laughter hurts, run away from that guy. You don't want to flirt, or do anything else, with that guy. Again, a guy who is interested is a guy who is paying attention. If he's acting very kindly towards you, doing nice things for you, helping you out, there's a definite chance that he might be interested (especially depending on the types of things).  For example: if he brings you flowers, or a little something because he thought of you (even if it's something silly), that's a very good sign. He also might do something like bring you soup when you’re sick. It shows that he's thinking of you and it shows that he's willing to help you out, especially if it's out of his way. This is a big one. A guy who has a flirty personality...


Perhatikan apakah ia mau menaati aturan. Amati apakah ia terkesan sangat arogan atau merasa lebih hebat dari orang lain. Perhatikan apakah ia berperilaku impulsif dan tidak bertanggung jawab. Perhatikan apakah ia suka mencari gara-gara dan melakukan menipulasi emosional. Waspadalah saat berada dalam situasi berisiko tinggi. Ketahui bahwa psikopati adalah gangguan mental, bukan penilaian moral.

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A key criterion for antisocial personality disorder is general disregard for rules, laws, and social norms. A psychopath understands the concept of a rule or law, but they don’t believe they’re subject to what society deems right and wrong. Keep in mind if someone steals a candy bar or runs a stop sign, it doesn’t mean they’re a psychopath. There’s a difference between breaking a rule and consistent, flagrant disregard for all rules and norms with no remorse. Disregard for laws and social norms stems from an extreme sense of entitlement. Someone who has antisocial personality disorder believes that they are above society’s rules, and they justify virtually any action as long as it gets them what they want. They don’t experience guilt about breaking the law or manipulating others. Without a sense that they have to follow rules, people with antisocial personality disorder are prone to reckless, risky behaviors. Drug and alcohol abuse are common. A psychopath is less likely to think through a decision, and might be quick to offer a response such as, “I did it because I felt like it.” Remember, a wild night on the town or going for a joy ride doesn’t make someone a psychopath. Antisocial personality disorder is a complex group of behavioral patterns. Only a mental health professional who’s trained in abnormal psychology and has experience with psychopathy can make an accurate diagnosis. Gaslighting is the process in which a friend or romantic partner convinces you that your thoughts and perceptions are wrong. Signs include second-guessing yourself, constantly feeling the need to apologize, always taking the blame, and always making excuses for your friend or partner.  You might have a gut feeling that something is wrong or feel like you’re losing your grip on reality. If believe you’re the victim of gaslighting or emotional manipulation, reaching out to a trusted loved one or mental health professional can help you regain objectivity. A psychopath manipulates emotions to get what they want, maintain control over...


Perhatikan apakah ia melakukan berbagai cara agar mendapat kesempatan untuk berinteraksi dengan Anda. Amati apakah ia menyentuh Anda dengan lembut. Perhatikan apakah ia mengamati perubahan kecil. Perhatikan apakah ia meniru cara Anda duduk atau berdiri. Perhatikan apakah ia terkesan jual mahal.

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This person might “bump into you” in the halls between classes or make a point to speak to you each time they see you. If they go out of their way to say hello or to speak to you, this can indicate interest. Watch for the person making excuses to be near you and spend time with you. For example, they might be eager to offer you a ride home or to walk you to class. Someone who’s interested in you might touch your hand or arm as you speak or touch the small of your back as they move behind you. Touching is a way to get close to you and show interest. Eye contact while touching you is a good sign that they’re interested, especially if they smile. The person may ask if you just got a haircut, got new shoes, or tried something different with your makeup. Someone who is interested in you will pay more attention to small details. If they comment about something, take this as a good sign. For example, they might say, “That’s a nice shirt. Is it new?” Someone who’s interested in you might start mirroring your gestures, posture, or body position. Mirroring shows that they feel connected and likely attracted to you. Notice if the person started out sitting or standing in one way and later looks more similar to yourself. Change your body position and notice if theirs changes as well. Some people choose to be indirect in showing that they’re interested and may send some mixed signals. For example, they might wait to text you back or not really appear to be interested in you. While manipulative, this is one way that some people show interest. It’s up to you, however, to respond in a way that is acceptable to you. If you like it when someone plays hard to get, play along. If you don’t like it, move on.


Perhatikan apakah ia memberikan pujian yang tidak tulus. Perhatikan apakah ia menghindar saat Anda bertanya. Ceritakan kepada teman baik dan tanyakan apakah ia mendengar rumor tentang Anda. Perhatikan cara penggosip membicarakan orang lain.

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Pay attention to how the person you suspect of talking behind your back speaks to your face. Someone who talks about you behind your back is often angry or upset with you. These emotions can come through in how they interact with you, such as thinly veiled jabs or backhanded compliments.  Even if the someone negates their nasty comments with a, “just kidding,” it may be that they are having trouble hiding their anger. An example of a backhanded compliment might be, “Congrats on getting in. I hear that’s great…for a state school.” Someone who talks about you behind your back may not want to be honest with you about their feelings. Asking the person a question or two can help you determine if they’re hiding something from you. If the person is reluctant to answer or seems as though they are lying, that may mean they have been airing their grievances elsewhere. If you suspect someone is unhappy with your performance on a group project, for example, you might ask, “Are you mad about the project?” If they avoid you or say they don’t want to talk, it’s possible they’ve been talking to others about their feelings. Go to a friend you know you can trust and ask them if someone has been talking about you behind your back. Assure them that you will not implicate them if you confront the person who has been doing it. Let them know that you simply want to understand what you may have done to deserve this treatment because it’s hurting your feelings.  You might say, “I think Lisa is talking about me behind my back. Have you heard any rumors? I wouldn’t ever tell her you told me, but I’m confused about why she’s mad at me.” It’s vital not to violate the trust of your friend who sheds any light on the talking behind your back. They are potentially exposing themselves to rumors and the anger of others by confiding in you. Someone who gossips to you about other people behind their backs also likely talks about you behind your back. If you have many friends like this, it may help to distance yourself from them if you don’t want...


Perhatikan apakah ia meminta saran Anda. Perhatikan jika ia mengejek Anda. Perhatikan jika ia memberi Anda pujian. Perhatikan jika ia melontarkan pertanyaan yang "menggantung".

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A guy who likes you, wants to connect with you. This will mean borrowing books from you, taking movie or music recommendations. He may even turn this into a chance to get in a little verbal flirting, by teasing you about your choices This shows that he values your opinion and wants to connect with you on a deeper level. It also probably means that you've got awesome taste! Gentle teasing can be a big part of flirting, so a guy who is teasing you is probably trying to flirt with you. This means teasing you about something you're doing, or making jokes about your terrible sense of direction, for example.  He might also make jokes around you more often than normal, because he's trying to get your attention by making you laugh. This could be anything from making bad puns to making gentle fun of himself (his bad sense of direction). Make sure that he isn’t saying mean or hurtful things. Teasing shouldn’t make you feel bad about yourself. He might be trying to flirt, but he's not doing it in a very kind way. Give this sort of guy a pass. A guy who's interested in you and wants to flirt is going to be paying attention to you. Complimenting can also be a part of flirting, especially if he couples if with teasing.  He might compliment your appearance, your smile, what you're wearing, and so on. He might also compliment you on things other than your appearance. Things like your writing ability, your story-telling abilities, your head for math, your skill with videogames, etc. These are the kinds of questions that keep you talking, as well as see if he can hang out with you more, or flirt with you more. Pay attention to whether he drops these into the conversation.  A couple examples of dangling questions are: “So you’re single because…” or “You’re doing what this weekend…” These questions indicate his interest in your relationship status or whether or not he can see you, but in a flirtatious manner.


Perhatikan apakah ia mendambakan gaya hidup yang mahal. Cari tahu apakah ia memiliki banyak penggemar. Perhatikan apakah ia sering mengatakan hal-hal buruk tentang gadis lain. Pikirkan apakah ia hanya bisa meluangkan waktunya denganmu dalam jadwal yang sangat ketat atau waktu yang sangat terbatas. Perhatikan apakah ia sering cemberut. Perhatikan apakah ia pernah mencoba untuk melakukan obrolan yang mendalam atau bermakna denganmu. Perhatikan apakah kemesraan yang ia tunjukkan sering meredup dan membara.

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Playgirls are generally characterized by their desire for a wealthy lifestyle, one supported by a variety of male admirers all competing for her attentions. If a girl seems particularly obsessed by material wealth and status, it might not mean anything about your relationship, but it could signify a playgirl in the making. Look out for the following warning signs that a girl might be somewhat materialistic, and also just crummy kind of date:  She refuses to split a tab She wants to go expensive places right away She mocks servers or waitstaff She refuses things like public transportation She mentions how "spoiled" she is, or wants to be She seems concerned with her attire, or with your's She doesn't seem to do anything for money She doesn't seem to care how much money she spends She usually wears expensive clothes, purses, and has lots of necklaces and earrings Playgirls sometimes require a big social network of admirers, friends, hangers-on, and lovers. These admirers are used by playgirls for support and self-esteem boosting. If a girl is regularly surrounded by guys they use to get attention and affection, you might be another in a long line.  Playgirls sometimes use male friends as possible prospects while at the same time exploiting the kindness that their friends are giving them. Playgirls often use these massive social networks to create some kind of a seductive web to entice other guys. Playgirls may also sometimes brag about how many men they have rejected, or how "hard to get" they are. Playgirls will often look on women as competition, rather than potential friends. If a girl regularly criticizes girls you know or strangers on the street based on little more than looks, it's not a great sign. If a girl gets jealous of any time you spend around other women, including friends, coworkers, and even relatives, that's also not a great sign. Playgirls date a lot of people at the same time. If you're worried a girl might be playing the field on the sly, one typical sign will be that she's unable to see you...


Perhatikan apakah ia mengikutimu di media sosial. Perhatikan pesan-pesan singkat yang tidak mendalam atau terlalu “biasa”. Perhatikan candaan-candaan kecil yang ia lakukan. Perhatikan apakah penampilannya menjadi lebih baik. Perhatikan hadiah-hadiah spesial yang ia berikan. Perhatikan waktu yang ia miliki untukmu. Perhatikan pujian yang ia berikan.

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One big indicator that someone is totally into you is by checking to see if that person has reached out to you via social media. This means someone is thinking about you when you are not together and wants to learn more about your personal life. If they send you a text message just to see what you are doing, or texts you all day long, then they probably can't get you off of their mind. Constant communication is a clear sign that they have a crush on you. If someone has a crush on you, they may lightly make fun of you, not to hurt your feelings, but to make you smile. That is a common method of flirtation. Along with teasing, watch for funny conversations. Chances are, they will try to keep conversations light and funny to get you to laugh, if they have a crush on you. It can be hard to tell if someone always tries to look their best, or if it is for you. If you are Facebook friends, try looking at their photos to get a sense of what their appearance is like when you two are not around each other. If it seems that they try to look at their best only around you, then you know they are trying to impress you. If someone stops at a shop you love to buy you a special gift, or surprises you with a little treat, then it is a sign of a crush. They want to make you happy with their small gestures of affection and show you that they care. If someone is always willing to spend time with you and never misses a chance to see you, then you can be sure they have a crush on you. Watch to see if they attend the same parties as you or cancels on other plans to hang out with you. If someone is crushing on you, be ready for compliments about even the smallest changes you make. Someone who likes you will notice when you get a haircut or buy a new pair of shoes, and they will let you know about that new change with a compliment.


Perhatikan apakah ia suka mencari gara-gara. Perhatikan apakah ia melakukan manipulasi. Amati hubungannya dengan orang lain. Cari tahu apakah ia berdusta karena faktor patologis. Pastikan apakah ia terkesan canggung dan berpura-pura saat meminta maaf.

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Psychopaths love to create chaos and drama. Because they tend to bore easily, it’s important that things stay interesting. They may provoke arguments and then come off as the victim. They wreak havoc on others’ lives and sit back and watch innocently. If someone in your life is a psychopath, you probably leave interactions with them questioning your own sanity. Let’s say you’re at work and the psychopath alerts you that one coworker has been insulting you behind your back. They coax you to confront the person. In the aftermath of an ugly confrontation, you eventually realize that the other person was goaded just like you. Everyone is driven by an objective of getting what they want. But psychopaths are identified as extremely cunning in this area. They are able to get you to do things you might not normally do. They may use guises, guilt-tripping, coercion and other methods to get victims to do their bidding. For example, you are a high-ranking executive in your company. The psychopath “befriends” you and teases out your weaknesses. One day you arrive at work to hear that news of a scandal is affecting the workplace. It seems sensitive information you told the psychopath was leaked to the media. You are fired. Guess who’s in line to take your position? Some psychopaths have many short-term marriages. They will blame marital problems on their ex-spouses, and never suggest that they played a role in the marriage's failure. The relationship starts off with them idealizing their partners. Over time, they devalue and ultimately discard that partner for a newer, more interesting one. They never truly bond with partners; therefore, walking away from a marriage or relationship is quite effortless. A psychopath will tell all sorts of lies—little lies to trip you up or whopping made-up stories intended to mislead. Even when telling the truth would be painless, they still default to lying. Surprisingly enough, this doesn’t cause shame. They take pride in their lies. And if you think you’ve caught them up, they simply...


Perhatikan apakah ia tetap bersamamu. Cari tanda-tanda yang menunjukkan bahwa ia merasa gugup saat berada di dekatmu. Perhatikan kebaikannya untukmu. Dengarkan pujiannya.

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If a guy is interested in you, even if he's ignoring you, he's going to want to be around you. You'll notice that every time you turn around, it seems he's somewhere nearby. Again, even if he's ignoring you, if he's interested he's going to make sure to ignore you nearby.  If he remembers what you tell him, that is one of the best signs. That means that not only was he listening to what you were saying, that he cared enough to remember it. If he's only in it for sex or for his own ego, he might pretend like he's listening, but he probably won't actually be listening. Make sure that you listen to him as well. He'll love that you're interested in him and that you remember what he says to you. It'll show that you think he's important. A lot of times if a guy's into you he's going to be a bit nervous around you. This is because he wants to make a good impression on you, so he's going to be trying to act cool.  Look for things like unexplained laughter, sweaty palms, or fidgeting but if he's keeping you in the friend zone, then don't bother with him. He might have a little difficulty maintaining eye contact with you without becoming a little uncomfortable. Do your best to make him comfortable. Tell him about that time you spilled a drink all over yourself at your work party, or something to make you seem human and not inhumanly awesome. If a guy likes you he's going to want to impress you and he's going to want to be there for you. If a guy is doing nice things for you he's probably a little bit interested in you, especially if those things are coupled with some of the other signs.  He might do something like lend you his jacket when you're cold, or he might offer to buy your coffee drink even though you aren't dating, or he might offer to drive you to the airport when you have to catch a flight. Do nice things back to him. This way he'll see that you are someone who doesn't take other people for granted and that you notice and appreciate what it is that he's doing. If you aren't interested in him try not to take...


Perhatikan apakah ia tidak mau mendengarkanmu. Perhatikan apakah ia tidak menunjukkan kontak mata. Amati bahasa tubuhnya. Perhatikan apakah ia mau membalas panggilan teleponmu dalam 24 jam. Amati apakah ia sering menghindari teman-temanmu.

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As said above, if a guy likes you (really likes you) he's going to want to know about you. That means that he's going to listen and remember when you talk. If he isn't listening, it's a pretty good bet that he's not interested. You can do better! He's also unlikely to ask you any questions about yourself. This is a guy you definitely want to stay away from. Either he's not interested, or he is interested, but he's too much of a narcissist to really see you as a fully fledged person who's interesting in their own right. While some guys can be nervous about making eye contact with a person they're interested in, at some point they usually do so. If he's looking at the room instead of you, especially if he doesn't seem to be listening to you, then he's definitely not interested. A big warning sign for someone like this is if he's too busy checking his phone to listen to you. It means that he's more interested in other people than he is in you. His body language can tell you a bit about how he's feeling, whether he's interested or not interested. If he isn't interested his body language should make that pretty clear.  He never tries to get closer to you, or touch you, even subtly. If he doesn't do particularly nice things for you, or anything for you, this could be a sign that he's not interested. Again, even if a guy is shy or dealing with his interest by ignoring you, he's still going to want to be around you. If the guy is never around, well, that's a sign he's not interested. With a very, very few exceptions, a guy will get in touch with a girl he's interested in. He will. A text message takes five seconds to write and send, even if it's just an "I'm busy at work. I'll text you later." A guy who is interested in you won't leave you hanging, especially if he wants you so bad. If the guy always manages to wriggle out of meeting your friends he's probably not that interested in you. Yeah, you don't want to introduce him to all the friends right off the bat, but if it's been a while and he's still the mystery man...


Perhatikan apakah isi pidatonya sesuai dengan peserta yang mendengarkan. Evaluasi kejelasan pidatonya. Lihat apakah pidatonya meyakinkan atau mendidik. Amati apakah pidatonya punya ciri khas. Evaluasi penutupnya.

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The content, including word choice, references and anecdotes, should be tailored to the audience who will be listening to the speech. For example, a "don't do drugs" speech aimed at first graders will sound very different from one meant to teach awareness to college students. As you listen to the speech, try to determine whether it hits the mark or seems a bit off.  Do not base your critique on your own personal opinion, but on how the speaker would be perceived by a wider audience. Your own biases should not come into play. If possible, note audience members’ reactions to the speech. Do they seem to understand it? Are they rapt with attention? Do they laugh along with the jokes, or do they seem bored? The speaker should use correct grammar and easy to understand language, making it pleasant to listen to the speech and follow what it’s about. Within a few sentences, the main subject of the speech should be clear, and the rest of the content should build in a smooth, understandable manner to support the speaker’s thesis. Again, whether or not you agree with or like the speaker should be less important than what the speaker is saying. When you’re deciding whether the speech is clear, consider the following questions:  Is the introduction effective? Did the speaker make his or her primary argument apparent within the first few sentences, or did it take awhile before you figured out what he or she was getting at?  Is the speech full of distracting tangents that do not relate to the primary argument, or does it build in a logical manner toward the conclusion? If you were to repeat the speech to someone else, could you recite all the main points or would you have trouble remembering what it was really about? In a well-written speech, arguments are skillfully put forth to prove a larger point. The content of the speech should demonstrate the speaker’s expertise on the subject at hand, and the audience should come away feeling they learned something new. Look for gaps in the speaker’s reasoning or places where...


Perhatikan apakah karya memiliki nada serius atau muram. Kenali nada ketegangan. Perhatikan nada humor. Kenali nada sarkastis. Waspadai perbedaan antara suasana dan nada di karya sastra.

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One of the most common tones in literature is a solemn or gloomy tone, where the tone feels heavy or serious. Often the tone comes across as bleak or dark if it is solemn. You may respond to a solemn literary work by feeling sad or unsettled. A good example of a solemn or gloomy tone is in the short story “The School” by Donald Barthelme. Another common tone in literature is a suspenseful tone, which creates a sense of dread and anticipation in the reader. Often, you may feel on the edge of your seat or full of anxiety as you read a literary work with a suspenseful tone. A good example of a suspenseful tone is in the short story “The Lottery” by Shirley Jackson. A work of literature with a humorous tone will often make the reader laugh or smile. It can come across as playful, witty, or ironic. Sometimes writers use a humorous tone to counter a solemn tone in the same work, such as in a novel or a short story. A good example of a humorous tone is the poem “Snowball” by Shel Silverstein. In many cases, the genre of the piece can give you clues about the tone. For instance, a suspenseful tone is often found in thriller novels or mystery stories while a humorous tone is often found in works of comedy and satire. It can be tricky to distinguish between mood and tone in literature, especially because they are often connected or interrelated. Mood is different from tone in that it describes the setting and atmosphere of a text. Mood is created through the reader's response to the tone in a work. However, both mood and tone are shaped by the writer's ability to convey emotion in the reader. For example, if a story is set in an abandoned cabin the woods, it may have a creepy or unsettling mood. The author may then have a narrator or main character who uses a gloomy or depressing tone to describe the cabin in the woods to the reader.


Perhatikan apakah kucing Anda pernah pingsan. Cari atau rasakan adanya cairan dalam perutnya. Ketahuilah bahwa paralisis pada kaki belakangnya mungkin terjadi.

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Sadly, as feline heart disease progresses the signs and symptoms become more severe. One late-stage symptom of heart disease is fainting. The cat may have fainting episodes when the circulation cannot maintain blood supply to the brain. Another sign of advanced heart failure is fluid building up in the belly as a result of fluid changes in the cat's blood vessels, which can allow fluids to leak into the body. The belly may swell and fill like a water balloon. Another very serious sign of heart failure is hind limb paralysis. In the advanced stages of heart failure, blood clots develop. A common place for blood clots in cats is the point where the main artery to the back legs divides in two. The clot blocks the circulation to the back legs, leaving them paralyzed.


Perhatikan apakah kucing Anda tampak lesu. Rasakan adanya peningkatan laju napas yang tidak normal. Perhatikan napas kucing yang terengah-engah. Waspadailah posisi kucing "haus udara". Ketahuilah bahwa nafsu makan yang buruk merupakan sesuatu yang harus diwaspadai.

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When their heart is struggling, it tends to make the cat lethargic. This is because even a slight increase in activity, such as walking or going up stairs, places increased demands on the circulatory system.   Heart failure in cats can be caused by value issues, heart muscle problems, electrical conduction problems, hyperthyroidism, and congenital problems.  If the circulation is inadequate, then the cat feels light-headed, dizzy, and weak. This causes the cat to learn it's best not to move around much, so it tends to rest instead. Another early warning sign of heart disease is if the cat breathes more quickly, even at rest. This is known as an increased respiratory rate. The cat breathes more quickly because of fluid accumulation in the lungs, which makes it hard for your cat to absorb oxygen. In order to get enough oxygen, the cat has to take more breaths.  If you are suspicious about your cat breathing quickly, watch it while it's resting and count the number of breaths taken in one minute. Repeat this several times to be certain that you are getting a true figure. You will need to take this information to your vet, since it's normal for cats to hyperventilate at the vet's office, making it hard to take an accurate reading. The normal respiratory rate in the cat is between 20-30 breaths a minute. More than 35-40 breaths a minute at rest is considered high, and over 40 requires a vet's attention. Another sign of trouble is mouth breathing or panting. It is unusual for a cat to breathe through its mouth unless it is very stressed or has been playing vigorously. Mouth-breathing is your cat's attempt to get more oxygen because not enough is getting absorbed. If the cat is short of air, it may adopt the "air hunger" position. The cat crouches on its belly with its head and neck extended in a straight line. The elbows are held away from the chest in order to expand the chest as much as possible with each breath. Many cats with heart disease have poor appetites. When the cat swallows, it has to stop breathing. If...


Perhatikan apakah kucing mengalami kesulitan buang air kecil. Amati apakah kucing mengalami masalah BAB. Permudah akses fisik ke kotak pasir. Konsultasikan dengan dokter hewan untuk menyingkirkan kemungkinan adanya masalah kesehatan.

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If you see your cat straining while trying to urinate, or spending a long time trying with no result, take your cat to the vet immediately. Male cats in particular can develop urinary conditions where the urethra (the tube from the bladder to the penis) narrows or gets blocked. Typically small amounts of urine can pass until the cat is completely blocked and cannot urinate at all. This is a life threatening situation and needs immediate medical care. Blockages can also occur in the intestinal tract. Some cats with a urinary infection or blockage spend a lot of time trying to urinate, licking their genitals, or crying at their owner. Fecal constipation does occur in cats and can lead to chronic issues requiring special diets and laxatives. Diarrhea is not uncommon either, including chronic diarrhea related to inflammatory bowel disease. Any of these conditions are uncomfortable for the cat and may cause the cat to be afraid of the litter box or unable to get to the litter box in time to avoid an accident. Many cats with inflammatory bowel disease only have occasional symptoms for no obvious reason. Appetite changes, lethargy, vomiting, or increased hairball production can be signs of intestinal discomfort. If your cat is older or has an injury, it may not be able to get into the litter box as comfortably as it once could. Does your cat limp, need help jumping up to a chair or bed, have episodes of shaking legs, or seem painful around its spine or tail?  If so, take the cat to the vet immediately! You may be able to make the cat more comfortable by getting a litter box with lower sides, or with a "doorway" cut into the side. You may need to consider a larger box so that the cat can turn around easily once inside. An overweight cat may not fit comfortably in the box any longer. Get a larger box and place the cat on a diet. Consult with your veterinarian about safe weight loss strategies for your cat. Urinating outside of the litter box often results from a feline medical issue, including urinary tract...


Perhatikan apakah orang yang Anda ajak bicara menjauh dari Anda saat mereka menjawab. Carilah tanda-tanda kecemasan dan gugup atau ketegangan fisik dengan rahang terkatup atau bibir yang dirapatkan. Perhatikan kontak mata. Tangkaplah tanda-tanda pengalihan perhatian. Hitung kedipan matanya. Berikan usaha diri Anda sendiri penghargaan.

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This can be a clue that they are feeling stressed. Rubbing the hands against the thighs or the head will also indicate stress. Suddenly crossing arms and legs or looking away is seen as negative body language as well. Avoiding eye contact and staring too long into someone’s eyes can be a sign of anxiety and of lying. Eye contact is hard to fake, so if you aren’t noticing darting eyes or prolonged stares, the person is more likely to be relaxed. Looking toward a clock, a watch or a phone can mean the person is nervous or bored or they may be used to habitually checking their phone or email frequently. Starting a new task when they are talking to you is a better judge if they are paying attention. An increased blink rate will indicate a nervous feeling. This can be a positive thing, such as physical attraction, or an unconscious manifestation of stress from being the center of attention. People often have micro-expressions that may convey more accurately what they are thinking; however, they flash by so fast, it may only be your subconscious that registers it. Micro-expressions tell more than most body language cues.


Perhatikan apakah pacar sering menjelekkan orang lain. Pergok pacar saat berbohong.

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They may be saying awful things about that person, but pay attention to the fact that they are still talking about them 24/7. They are trying to fool you into believing the person is undesirable, thus throwing the suspicion off them. Casually ask a boyfriend or girlfriend where they were such and such day, and let them answer. Remember their answer, and ask again a few days later. If they are lying constantly, then they will have a hard time keeping up. They may start to get angry with these simple questions, another big hint.


Perhatikan apakah parkit ingin berpelukan dengan Anda. Perhatikan sayap burung. Lihat ekor burung. Amati postur tubuh burung.

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Cuddling is a clear indicator that your parakeet likes you and wants to bond with you. If your bird gently nuzzles against your hand, climbs around on your body, grooms you, and rubs against your neck, you will know that your parakeet likes you and feels safe around you. We typically think of a bird's wings as being an instrument of flight, but many birds, including parakeets, use their wings as a sort of body language. If your parakeet is flapping his wings, which may give the appearance of trying to fly in place, it is a good sign of your relationship with your bird. Wing flapping is one way parakeets display happiness around humans. Just as your parakeet's wings can be an indication of happiness, so too can his tail feathers. When a bird wags its tail (similar to a dog's tail), it usually means that your bird is happy to see you - though it can also indicate that your bird is about to relieve himself. Similarly, flipping the tail up and down is generally considered an indication of happiness, and can be taken as a sign that your bird likes you. The way your parakeet carries himself around you can tell you a lot about how he feels in your presence. Taking his body posture, along with individual pieces of body language like wing and tail fluctuations, can help you get a better picture of your bird's level of comfort around you.  A bird in a relaxed, non-rigid posture is typically happy and comfortable around his human.  A bird that "bows" his head - crouching down with his head "pointed" toward his human - is comfortable around that person and may be requesting a head scratching or petting.  Any kind of rigid body posture, usually accompanied by ruffled feathers and a restless, side-to-side movement, typically indicates discomfort, displeasure, or a lack of trust around a human. If your bird behaves in this manner, it's best to give him space. He either has not yet gotten comfortable around you or does not like something that you are doing. Find out what you are doing wrong and avoid that trigger.


Perhatikan apakah pasangan menunjukkan gejala depresi. Doronglah pasangan untuk mencari bantuan jika dia belum mengambil langkah apa pun. Perluas pengetahuan Anda.

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You may suspect that your spouse is depressed by the way he or she is acting. If you are unsure, there are several common signs of depression that may help you to determine if something is wrong. Some of the common symptoms of depression include:  Persistent sad feelings Loss of interest in hobbies, friends and/or sex Excessive fatigue or feeling slowed down in thinking, speaking, or movement Increased or decreased appetite Trouble sleeping or sleeping too much Trouble concentrating and making decisions Irritability Feelings of hopelessness and/or pessimism Weight loss or gain Thoughts of suicide Aches pains or digestive problems Feelings of guilt, worthlessness, and/or helplessness Your spouse's depression may be so debilitating that it makes him/her unable to ask for help. He or she may also be embarrassed about their condition. If you suspect your spouse has depression, encourage them to talk to a therapist.  Arrange for your spouse to talk to a therapist. The therapist may make a referral for your spouse to see a psychiatrist. You can also ask your spouse or partner if he or she wants you to be there for moral support.  If you are not sure where to start, you can also consider making your spouse an appointment with your spouse's primary care physician to get recommendations. Understanding depression, its effects, and treatment will allow you to better understand your spouse and help him or her to make informed decisions. Ask questions, read books and visit reliable websites about the diagnosis and treatment of depression. There are many organizations that provide resources for people suffering from depression. Check out some of these websites to find helpful information as you support your spouse.   The National Alliance on Mental Illness website offers many resources, from basic information, to support groups and free courses.  The American Psychological Association's website offers information on depression, a psychologist search tool, and information on books and articles about depression.  The...


Perhatikan apakah penglihatan Anda buram. Perhatikan apakah mata Anda harus memicing ketika ingin melihat dengan jelas. Perhatikan apakah objek yang Anda lihat tampak ganda. Perhatikan apakah Anda mengalami sakit kepala atau mata terasa tegang.

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If you have episodes when you experience blurred vision, this should be taken very seriously. It could be an indicator of a broader health problem and you should arrange to see your doctor immediately. If the blurred vision comes more rarely or is limited to one eye, make an appointment with your optometrist or ophthalmologist.  Blurred vision means experiencing a lack of sharpness and fine detail when you look at something. Consider if this is just for objects close-up, far-away, or both. If you find yourself spending a lot of time squinting and narrowing your eyes to focus in on something and see it clearly, this can be a symptom of an eye problem. Try to be aware of how often you find yourself squinting involuntarily, and go to your eye doctor for a diagnosis. Double vision can be caused by a wide variety of things from your muscles to your nerves. But it could indicate an eye problem that might be corrected with glasses. Whatever the cause, double vision should be taken seriously and you should contact your doctor quickly. If you suffer sore eyes, or regular headaches this could be an indicator of an eye problem. Eyestrain or a headache after doing close work or reading can indicate presbyopia or hyperopia.  It can only be properly tested for by an optometrist or ophthalmologist, so you need to make an appointment for a test.  An eye doctor will be able to prescribe you the right glasses for your condition.


Perhatikan apakah perut ikan kembung atau tidak. Perhatikan apakah mata ikan menonjol. Perhatikan sisik yang menggembung.

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Dropsy is a build-up of fluids inside the goldfish. Thus, the first signs of dropsy will be general bloating.  Look for any unusual increase in size of the goldfish. Treating the goldfish at this early stage presents the best chance of saving the goldfish. Beyond the initial bloating, fluid build-up begins at the goldfish’s head. As fluid builds up under the goldfish’s eyes, they will start to bulge out. This is the classic symptom of dropsy. As fluid build up moves down the goldfish’s body, its scales will start to rise up from its body. When the fluid build-up has progressed through the goldfish’s whole body, it will look like an opened pinecone.  Pearlscale goldfish are sometimes mistakenly diagnosed with dropsy because their scales naturally have a raised bump in the middle. A Pearlscale goldfish likely only has dropsy if its scales are far more raised than usual. Once a goldfish has reached this change it is usually not savable. However, it doesn’t hurt to treat the symptoms and try to cure the underlying disease.


Perhatikan apakah perut kucing terlihat buncit. Periksalah bantalan lemak pada tubuh kucing. Lihatlah kondisi bulu kucing Anda. Perhatikan jika kucing muntah atau diare. Lihatlah warna gusi kucing. Perhatikan gejala-gejala anak kucing yang cacingan. Periksalah kutu pada kucing.

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A cat with a heavy worm burden (which means that they have a lot of worms), tends to have a potbelly but little fat cover over the spine or pelvis. A typical potbelly looks like a swollen tummy, round and full, and often the swelling is carried down low on the cat's body (the cat may even look pregnant). The difference between a potbelly and a fat cat is the rest of the cat’s body is also in poor condition. Roundworms are the most common cause of a potbelly, though other worms can also cause this symptom. When you run your fingers over a healthy cat’s backbone, you will most likely be able to feel bumps along the spine, but should not be able to feel sharp, angular bones. This is because there is a fat padding over the cat’s bones. Cats that have a lot of worms will not have these fat pads. When you stroke the cat’s back and pelvis, you may find that you can feel each sharp, angular bone. Body "condition" is a matter of assessing the fat cover over the cat’s bones. Landmarks such as the spine, hips, and pelvis are especially useful for this. Intestinal parasites steal much of the nutrition out of the cat's diet. This means that your cat does not get the vitamins, minerals, and proteins that they need to maintain a healthy coat. Check your cat for:  A dull coat. A coat that lacks any sort of gloss. A matted coat. Worms can physically irritate the stomach and intestinal lining, causing diarrhea and vomiting. A very high worm burden can physically obstruct the bowel and cause profound vomiting that is potentially life threatening. Cats can even vomit up a bundle of worms which look like squirming spaghetti. If your cat begins vomiting uncontrollably, bring him or her to the veterinary clinic immediately. Some worms, especially hookworms, can make your cat’s gut bleed, which can result in slow but steady blood loss. This blood loss can lead to anemia, making your cat sluggish and weak if it is severe enough. In kittens it can be deadly. You can recognize anemia by lifting you cat’s lip and looking at her gums. If...


Perhatikan apakah pikiran Anda melulu disesakkan oleh sosoknya? Perhatikan apakah Anda banyak ngoceh tentang si dia. Perhatikan apakah Anda banyak merubah hal dalam hidup demi si dia. Perhatikan reaksi internal Anda saat seseorang mengungkit nama si dia dalam percakapan. Perhatikan lamunan Anda. Perhatikan apakah segalanya mengingatkan Anda kepadanya. Perhatikan pikiran-pikiran Anda Saat membaca artikel ini.

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If you find yourself thinking about that special person more than you think about anything else, you most likely have a crush.  Perhaps you are at dinner with your family but you aren’t paying attention to the conversation because you are wondering what your crush is doing. Maybe you’re hanging out with your friends but secretly you wish that you were hanging out with your crush. When you are going to sleep at night, do you think about what it would be like to kiss your crush goodnight? Do you find yourself bringing that person up in conversation with your friends all the time? A major sign that you have a crush is when your friends tell you that you talk about that specific person all the time. If you feel comfortable doing so, it would be a good idea to talk to your best friends about thinking that you might have a crush on someone. They can help you figure your feelings out and might have some ideas about how to get to know your crush better. Be careful who you talk to about having a crush. Don’t just go blabbing to any random friend about your crush. If you do that, someone might tell your crush and then you might get embarrassed. Only tell your best friends--the friends you can trust the most. Do you have any habits or patterns you have gotten rid of or changed in the hopes of getting your crush’s attention?  Do you walk by their locker a million times in the hopes of seeing your crush? Have you changed the path you take to class because you know he/she walks that way? You have taken a new and deep interest in a subject that you know your crush is interested in, like photography or rock climbing. Often, when you have a crush, you will feel excited when your crush gets brought up in conversation. If someone mentions your crush in passing do you: Feel excited? Suddenly get that feeling like a bunch of butterflies are flying around your stomach? Feel like your heart might leap out of your chest? Blush and giggle? Get tongue-tied and flustered? If any of these things happen, you have a crush on someone....


Perhatikan apakah ras seseorang mengubah cara Anda berbicara kepada orang itu. Perhatikan apakah Anda membicarakan orang-orang yang berasal dari ras lain secara berbeda ketika mereka tidak ada. Perhatikan apakah ras seseorang memengaruhi keputusan yang Anda buat mengenai orang itu. Cari tahu saat-saat Anda berperilaku rasial terhadap seseorang.

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Do you treat all people the same way, or does something about your demeanor change when you're talking to a person of a different race? If you stiffen up or treat people of different races unkindly, that's racist.  Notice whether you feel less comfortable talking with people of other races. See if you easily make friends with people of different races. If everyone you hang out with tends to be the same race, that might be a sign of a problem. Maybe you're nice to people's faces, but do you speak kindly about them behind their backs? If you feel comfortable using slurs or perpetuating stereotypes when you're among people of your own race, even if you'd never do it in front of the person you're talking about, it's still racist. And in fact, even if you do these things in front of the person you're talking about, and the person says they're fine with it, that's not OK. Maybe the person really doesn't care, but you're still demonstrating racist behavior. This goes back to determining whether you treat people of different races differently or if you practice the same behavior with everyone. If you decide not to hire someone, not to be someone's partner, not to smile at someone, and so on based on the person's race, that's racist behavior.  Another classic example is crossing the street when you see someone of a different race approaching you. Even if your reaction is to crack extra jokes or act more outgoing than usual, if you're doing it because you assume something about the person based on race, you're treating that person differently. If you're new to understanding the nuances of racism you might not even realize that you've said or done something racist, even around people you consider friends. Remember that any time you make a judgement about someone's abilities, preferences or any other qualities based on stereotypes about their race, that's racist thinking. Saying these judgements out loud has the potential to be very hurtful to someone and perpetuate stereotypes that hurt everyone. Here are some types of...


Perhatikan apakah sekelompok orang tiba-tiba diam saat Anda hampiri. Perhatikan apakah orang-orang tertentu berubah sikap saat bertemu Anda. Amati apakah ia terkesan menghindari interaksi dengan Anda. Perhatikan teman-teman yang sering berkumpul dengannya. Amati apakah ia menutupi layar ponselnya.

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Listen for a group of people that makes uncomfortable eye contact with each other and immediately gets quiet when you approach. The group may also avoid your gaze. Many people who talk behind the backs of others are too cowardly to confront the person directly about their feelings. They may feel awkward when you accidentally interrupt them talking about you. People who talk about you behind your back may find it hard to hide their negative feelings. They may want important figures, such as your teachers or boss, to think negative things about you, too. If people with a lot of influence in your life are suddenly treating you differently, it may be that someone is talking about you behind your back to them. For example, if your boss gives your typical weekly project to someone else, it’s worth following up on. Watch for signs that the person is dodging contact with you, such as avoiding eye contact, leaving a room or group when you enter, or pretending to ignore you. Also pay attention to any electronic snubbing. Someone who usually texts or calls often who stops contact abruptly may have a bone to pick. They may be avoiding you because they feel guilty about talking behind your back, or they may be trying to telegraph that they are angry. If you’re feeling bold, test the avoidance theory. If you think you see someone talking about you behind your back in a group, stroll right up and sit down. If the offending person gets up and walks away, your suspicions may be confirmed. Doing this also sends the message that you will not be intimidated. Someone who hangs out with people who don’t like you may not like you right now either. If a former friend is cozying up to someone who they know has been mean to you, that’s a signal they may be talking behind your back. It may also be an effort to hurt you. Take note of any friend who hides their phone when you come around or gets uncomfortable if you look to see who’s texting them. People who are bad mouthing you by talking behind your back may fear being found out....


Perhatikan apakah teman Anda hanya menghubungi ketika membutuhkan sesuatu. Pikirkan apakah teman Anda dapat dipercaya. Perhatikan apakah dia mengabaikan Anda. Perhatikan tindakannya. Waspadai perangkap rasa bersalah. Nilailah apakah dia bersikap mengontrol. Percayai insting Anda.

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If your friend only wants to talk to you or spend time with you when in need of help or advice, or if it is always about your friend's needs, then it's possible you're being used.   Does your "friend" ever call or text to hear about your day? Or does he or she only run to you when in need something? It could be a ride to the store, cigarettes, a bit of weed, a place to stay for the night, you're their fall guy when in need of a quick fix. Take note of whether this is a continued pattern of behavior. After all, helping out friends is a part of friendship; sometimes people get down on their luck and need help. But, if this is occurring all of the time, or it is the only context where you interact, then it is possible you are being used. A real friend does not betray your secrets, particularly in a way that could damage you. To assess whether your friend can be trusted, think back on whether your friend has leaked private information about you; especially if it is for personal gain. If so, it is possible that you are being used. Think about her relationship with her other friends. Does your friend betray the trust of his or her other friends or otherwise use them? If so, this is a sign that that your friend could be using you as well. Does your friend often exclude you from social events? A friend who is not using you would be inclusive and inviting, particularly among a group of friends that you both already know.  Keep in mind that friends do not need to invite each other to every social event that they attend; but if your friend never invites you to anything, and only reaches out when in need of something, your friend could be using you. If your friend mentions having plans with a group of friends that you also know, but you have not been invited, try asking if you can come too. Pay attention to the response. If there are no real logistical reasons why you could not attend and your friend still does not invite you, or makes up some flaky excuse for why you cannot attend, it is possible you are being used and...


Perhatikan apakah terjadi iritasi mata. Perhatikan apakah terjadi iritasi pernapasan. Lanjutkan dengan menyuntikan vaksin rabies. Perhatikan gejala lesu, lemah atau kehilangan nafsu makan.

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The spray can cause extreme irritation if it hits the eyes directly. If your dog shows signs of eye irritation—frequently pawing at the eyes, reddened and tearing eyes, eye swelling, squinting, or hard-to-open eyes—try to rinse your dog’s eyes carefully with plain tap water. You should also immediately contact a veterinarian. Dogs can also inhale the spray, leading to irritation to the respiratory system, including the nose. This may cause sneezing, nasal discharge, or drooling. Contact a veterinarian immediately if you notice these symptoms after a skunk encounter. While the spray of skunks does not carry the rabies virus, skunks are big carriers of rabies. Any time a dog encounters a skunk, there is a chance of exposure to the virus. Consult with your veterinarian after your dog has been sprayed to discuss a rabies vaccine booster to keep your pet safe. A very rare but serious condition called Heinz body hemolytic anemia can occur in a dog sprayed by a skunk. This is an emergency. A veterinarian must treat the dog for this potentially life-threatening condition. Signs of the anemia include pale mucous membranes, rapid heartbeat, panting, or a weak pulse. In a more gradual onset, the dog may be lethargic, weak, and refuse to eat. Signs can occur up to a few days after the dog has been sprayed by the skunk.


Perhatikan apakah tingkah laku pasangan terkesan aneh atau berubah secara drastis. Perhatikan apakah perilaku pasangan berbeda saat ia bertemu orang ketiga. Dengarkan baik-baik

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People who enter into emotional affairs sometimes engage in behavior that can be considered problematic or dramatically different from how they usually act. These behaviors can take various forms. Look for anything that is too intimate or personal between your partner and the other person.  For example, your partner may text the person often. They may also call the other person. This often happens at night, and may even be done secretly. Look for anything that your partner shouldn’t be doing with someone. You may also notice changes in your partner’s behavior such as staying up later, going into work earlier, spending more money, or drinking alcohol more often. Emotional affairs often give people an outlet to be different or act differently than they do around their partners. If you have contact with your partner and the person you suspect they are having an affair with, watch their interactions. Look for any differences from the way they act with you. For example, your partner may feel emotionally distant from you due to everyday stresses like bills, work, and home responsibilities. With this other person, they may be able to laugh, be relaxed, and be more playful. However, they might also because anxious or uncomfortable when they are around the person in your presence. As an emotional affair progresses, your partner may start comparing you to the other person, or they may start to express frustration with things about you that they have never mentioned before. The comments may be random and not meant maliciously, but they may still point to your partner thinking about the other person. For example, your partner may say, “They think my jokes are funny,” “They like the same kind of movies I like,” or “They can run at the same pace as me.” Start noting if your partner says things like this and how often.


Perhatikan apakah warnanya memudar. Cermati sirip ikan cupang Anda. Cari tahu apakah ikan cupang Anda lesu. Perhatikan kebiasaan makan ikan cupang Anda. Periksa kehadiran bintik di tubuhnya. Carilah tanda-tanda ikan bermasalah dengan pernapasan. Amati apakah ikan cupang Anda berusaha menggosokkan atau menggarukkan badannya. Cari gejala fisik lainnya.

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When a betta gets sick, his coloring may look faded out. He may even lose his color altogether. In a healthy betta, its fins will be whole. An unhealthy betta may develop holes or rips in its fins. Another unhealthy sign is if your betta's fins appear clamped down to the body; that is, they aren't fanned out properly. If your betta is sick, his activity level will go down. He won't be his normal, active self. His movements will slow down some.  Another sign of sickness is your fish hiding out at the bottom of the tank more often than normal.  Lethargy can be caused by low or too high temperatures as well, so make sure the temperature range of the water is good. With some sicknesses, your fish may stop eating altogether. If your betta appears uninterested in food, he could be sick. Look for small, white spots, especially around the head and mouth. This symptom can be a sign of a certain type of parasite, called Ich. It may sound funny to check a fish for breathing problems. However, if your betta is constantly at the top of the tank trying to get more air, that is likely a sign of a problem. Bettas naturally go to the top of the tank to take a breather at times, but doing it frequently is not okay. If your betta is trying to rub against the side of the tank, that could be a sign of a problem. Similarly, if your betta is trying to scratch on plants or objects in the tank, he might also be sick. Bulging eyes can be a sign of sickness. Watch for your betta's eyes protruding from its head.  Raised scales can also be a symptom of sickness.  Watch his gills. If he's unable to close his gills, they may be swollen, another sign of sickness.


Perhatikan asupan kalori harian. Usahakan setiap hari agar jumlah kalori yang terbakar lebih banyak daripada kalori yang masuk. Pastikan Anda mengonsumsi makanan bergizi. Sesekali berikan tubuh Anda waktu untuk “beristirahat”. Jangan mengembangkan kebiasaan menurunkan berat badan yang tidak sehat.

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While you can't lose weight from one part of your body specifically, losing weight from your entire body will also lower the amount of fat in your thighs. If you have good underlying muscle tone, this should leave you with slimmer, firmer thighs. Your first step should be to start keeping track of how many calories you eat per day — you may be surprised how quickly they can pile up. Calorie counters can be a huge help here. These handy online programs allow you to input the food you eat each day to get an accurate count for your calorie intake, then input your height, weight, sex, and exercise level to figure out how many calories you've burnt. Great calorie counters are available at Fatsecret.com, Myfitnesspal.com, and more.There are even calorie counter apps available for download to mobile devices. Once you know how many calories you're eating each day, losing weight is simple (though often not easy.) As long as you eat fewer calories than you burn during the day, you will lose weight — it's just a matter of time. The greater the gap between the calories you intake and the calories you expend, the quicker you'll lose weight. Note, however, that any diet that leaves you unbearably hungry or unable to function is not a healthy one. In general, one pound of body mass is equal to about 3,500 calories. Losing this many calories is more or less equal to losing one pound. In other words, if you have a calorie deficit of 500 calories per day, you'll lose about a pound per week because 500 × 7 = 3,500. Going on a diet doesn't mean starving your body of the things it needs to function. In fact, since you're eating less than you normally would, it's extra important to eat healthy so that your body gets adequate nutrition. As you stick to your diet, remember that you're aiming to skimp on calories, not nutrients, and plan your meals accordingly.  This means that high-calorie, low-nutrient foods (like processed foods, sweets, greasy snack foods, and so on) should be the first things to go. In fact, if you tend to...


Perhatikan bagaimana Anda mengubah satu sama lain. Pikirkan bagaimana dia menjalani kehidupannya. Perhatikan cara Anda berdua mengatakan bahwa Anda berdua peduli. Lihat apakah Anda merasa nyaman di tempat pasangan. Tanyakan pada diri sendiri apakah Anda memiliki keseimbangan yang nyaman dalam meluangkan waktu secara bersama dan secara terpisah.

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We often change, as people, when we're around another person a lot (especially someone we care about significantly). Sometimes we change each other for the better and sometimes we change each other for the worse. You will need to decide if you positively impact him and he positively impacts you.  Do you find that either of you is becoming possessive, jealous, distrusting, lazy, or constantly stressed out? This is probably not someone you want to be around. They probably are not the one for you and you will not like the person you become if you stay with them. Do you find that you inspire each other to be better people? Do you strive for more from life and for yourself when you're with him? Does he do the same? Do you make each other kinder, happier people? This is a healthy relationship and you will only improve each other's lives. Does it coincide with what you hope your future will be? Does he share the same values? For example, if you recycle and he throws trash out his car window, is this really going to work? Is he comfortable letting you see his tender side? Do you openly tell him you love him, even offering qualifiers such as "I love you a lot" or initiating the "I love you more" game? Look for discrepancies between what is said and what is communicated. We're often so blindsided by someone who waxes poetic about their love that we fail to notice whether or not they've done anything to back it up. At the same time, we might be so frustrated by someone who doesn't spout poetry that we overlook all the thoughtful, loving gestures they've made. Reflect on whether either of you fits into one of these categories. It's often said that living together is the true test of compatibility; a relationship that takes place entirely in restaurants and parks might be wine and roses, but having to share dishes, watch each other shave, and trip over dirty laundry can dispel an illusion in no time. If you live together, how well do you compromise on individual and shared responsibilities? If you don't, have you at least...


Perhatikan bagaimana dia berbicara kepada Anda. Lihat berapa lama waktu yang dia butuhkan untuk berbicara dengan Anda. Lihat jika dia membicarakan pria lain dengan nada negatif di depan Anda. Lihatlah jika dia selalu mengejek Anda. Lihat apa yang dia katakan mengenai wanita lain kepada Anda. Lihat apa dia benar-benar terbuka kepada Anda.

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If a guy calls you by your nickname, comes up with a new nickname for you, or refers to you by a pet name, this is a big sign. Anything he says that makes you feel special and that shows he's taken a unique interest in you can tell you that he's really into you.  Also watch for him saying your name more often than he absolutely needs to. See if he talks slowly and more softly when he addresses you. This means that he's letting his guard down because he likes you. See if he makes eye contact when he talks to you. Though he may look away occasionally, eye contact shows that he's paying attention to you. When you know he's in the same room with other people, pretend you don't notice he's there. See how long it takes him to spot you and how long it takes him to come over and say hi. Less than a few minutes means he's probably interested. However, if it takes him a bit longer to say hi to you, it may just be because he's really shy. You can also try to see how he reacts when you enter the room. Does his entire face light up, or does he barely change his expression? Anytime you hear him say anything negative about a guy, it means that he sees this guy as a threat — especially if it's another guy you know well. He clearly wants you to only pay attention to him, not anyone else. If you mention a guy friend to him and he immediately acts suspicious, it may be because he thinks you may have romantic feelings for the other guy.  If he knows you're going on dates and often says things like, "That guy isn't good enough for you," then he may just be saying that he thinks that he is good enough. He may also tease you about liking other guys you're just friends with. This could be another way for him to show that he's thinking of you romantically. If he's really into you, then he'll be more likely to tease you all the time. You may think he's just being mean or making fun of you, but if you find that he's giving you special treatment and always teasing you, it may not be because he thinks of you as his kid sister. If you...


Perhatikan bagaimana dia berkomunikasi dengan Anda dalam percakapan. Perhatikan antusiasmenya selama percakapan. Perhatikan bagaimana dirinya dalam percakapan kalian.

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There’s no single sign that someone wants to be kissed, but you can pay close attention to how she engages and interacts with you to get insight into whether she might welcome your affection.  Does she hold eye contact? If she looks directly into your eyes and maintains solid eye contact, it’s a sign that, at the very least, she’s engaged with you in the conversation. Notice as well if her eyes seem to get large while looking at you. Often when people like what they see, their pupils will dilate and their eyes will widen slightly. Does she smile and laugh? If she sincerely smiles and laughs at appropriate times during the conversation, it will tell you she’s enjoying the conversation. That in and of itself isn’t a reason to immediately go in for a kiss, but it’s a good sign. Does she keep glancing at your lips? If so, it may be a sign she’s thinking about kissing. But take it in context, though, because she may also just be in the habit of glancing at someone’s mouth when they talk. If you pay attention, it’s often relatively easy to pick up on her feelings about the relationship between you.  If she seems bored or anxious to get through the date, it’s most often a pretty clear sign she’s not going to feel ready for a kiss. If she’s enthusiastic during the date and suggests you go somewhere else to prolong the date--to get coffee, go for a walk, etc.--it’s a good sign that she’s enjoying the date and may be open to a goodnight kiss. You can often tell quite a bit about how the other person is feeling about the date simply by what they talk about.  If she’s actively involved in the conversation and asks questions that are aimed at getting to know you better, it’s a signal that she’s interested in you and may be developing some affection. If she talks mostly about herself, dismisses your comments, or sits in stony silence, take that as a pretty clear cue she isn’t very interested. If the conversation turns toward increasingly intimate subjects, it’s often a sign you’re both comfortable and perhaps also...


Perhatikan bagaimana dia memperlakukan Anda, dan bandingkan dengan perlakuannya terhadap teman pria lain. Amati tingkah lakunya dalam kelompok. Lihat sebaik apa dia mengetahui minat Anda. Lakukan tes kecemburuan. Perhatikan bagaimana teman-temannya memperlakukan Anda. Dengarkan pernyataan tertentu yang dia ucapkan di dekat Anda. Perhatikan siapa yang memulai obrolan.

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If she likes you, she'll probably act shyer or blush a lot when you are around. If she treats you the same as other guy friends, chances are she just wants to be friends. If a girl likes you, she may give you tons of attention, even if she is around other people. This is because you are the one she prefers talking to and spending time with. If a girl has romantic feelings for you, she will remember specific details about what you say. For example, she will remember when you said you prefer chicken to steak, or keep track of all your favorite songs. See if she gets angry and jealous when you flirt with another girl. If she seems bothered or starts asking you what you were talking about with that other girl, then she may have romantic feelings for you. If they show a sudden interest in you or ask you a lot of personal questions, chances are they are trying to get to know you better because their friend has strong feelings for you. If they try to tease you when the girl is around, it is probably because she likes you. When a girl likes you, she will indirectly express it when you two hang out. Here are some things she may say:  "I love spending time with you." "You're my favorite person." "You are so funny." If a girl always starts a conversation with you, especially if she has no real reason to talk to you in the first place, she’s definitely interested! If she sends you text messages just to say hi, or that she's thinking about you, it's a good sign.


Perhatikan bagaimana perasaan Anda saat berada dekatnya. Perhatikan apa yang teman-teman dan keluarga Anda pikirkan. Cobalah untuk membayangkan masa depan dengan orang seperti itu. Kenali tanda-tanda penolakan.

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No matter how sure you are that he’s the right one for you, if you have a nagging sense that something’s wrong, it might be. Not every love story is perfect, but the first step of a healthy relationship is honest evaluation.  If your relationship can’t stand up to deliberate scrutiny, you are hiding yourself from facing the truth about it. Talking to a friend may be helpful during this process. Many times, a friend will be able to help you see things about your relationship that you’ve avoided. If you notice that your family avoids talking about your beau, and your friends keep their distance, this is a sign that you’re in love with the wrong person. These are people who care about you, and about your well being. Talk to them about their concerns.  Try to listen without defending yourself or the person you’re in love with. It’s in your best interest to hear what they have to say, so keep quiet and listen while they talk to you. Your friends and family will have noticed if the person you love hasn’t been treating you with respect. If you’re having trouble seeing what a realistic future would look like together, you probably already know that it’s time to move on. If you can’t realistically see your lives together in 5 or 10 years, it might be because you’re in love with the wrong person.  Some people can be very fun to be with in the moment, but that doesn’t mean that you’re obligated to stay with the person forever. Sometimes it’s just the wrong time for a long-term commitment. Another sign might be that you continually find yourself daydreaming about what your life might be like without the other person in it. In this case, it might be time to make that dream come true. Sometimes the person you love doesn’t love you back, and it’s up to you to accept this. It will be easier to accept when you realize that his lack of love has more to do with him and his life than it does with you. Maybe he’s become involved with drinking or drugs, or has problems with depression, or is upset or otherwise self-absorbed. Maybe...