Jadilah orang yang independen. Rapikan lingkungan Anda. Luangkanlah waktu untuk merapikan penampilan Anda. Rawatlah diri Anda sendiri. Tidurlah yang cukup. Kembangkanlah hubungan yang positif dengan orang lain. Kurangi komitmen Anda. Bersenang-senanglah.

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. If you are co-dependent on others for your emotional health, lifestyle, or need them to tell you what to do, you are not in control of your life. Learn to solve your own problems and spend time alone to think and reflect. Only ask for help when you really need it, and learn from the people who help you so you can do more on your own next time.  Learn to meet your own needs. Get a job so you can support yourself if you live off of someone else. Then move out, and live on your own. Ask yourself, “What do I want to do today?” and make your own decisions. Think about what you love doing and what you feel passionately about. Don’t rely on others to tell you what to do or like. . Organization is important when you want to take control of your life. If everything is chaos in your head and in your house, then it is difficult to know where to start to solve any messes. Keep everything as neat as possible at home and at work so you don’t have to deal with clutter, and remember to put things back where they should be. Make lists, use a calendar and make decisions often instead of putting everything off.  Read papers, email and mail right away and take action right away, whether that means throwing it out, paying a bill or responding to a letter. Set up a daily schedule throughout the week, such as shopping, family time, appointments, task lists, etc. Throw things out that you haven’t used in six months. Don’t hold on to something because you could potentially use it in the future. Work on one thing at a time, particularly something small like a closet, and organize that first. Then move onto the next thing. Devoting some energy toward the way you appear to others can go a long way to make you feel better and more in control. Get a haircut, dye your hair, or do your hair in a new style. Buy or borrow some new clothes, and be sure to smile as often as possible. Be mindful of how much you spend, though, so you can keep control of your finances. Pay attention to what you eat, how much you eat and try to get some exercise...


Jadilah orang yang lucu, tetapi jangan bertingkah konyol.

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The class clown is usually a pretty popular kid, as is the prankster who's always making people laugh. Being genuinely funny is a hard thing to do, but it's an important part of getting other people to like you. Act funny and go with the joke the other person says. And don't constantly joke around or do pranks or the other person will get annoyed, bored, or frustrated with the pranks you are doing.


Jadilah orang yang memiliki gairah. Tanamkan rasa syukur. Ubah apa yang Anda bisa. Terus belajar. Hidup sehat. Bertanggungjawablah pada tindakan Anda.

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You want to bring passion to all parts of your life. It will help you to be excited about what you do and what you experience. Being passionate about things is also a great way to find friends and romantic partners, because people are drawn to those who are passionate about things.  Figure out what you like. This could be anything from cooking, to video games, to saving the whales. You should get out and try new things to figure out what interests you. For example: you might go to a free lecture at your local university about global climate change and become passionate about saving the planet. You wouldn't have found this passion if you hadn't gone outside your usual comfort zone and tried something new. You can also share your passion with other people. Get your friends interested in your interests, or go online and find like-minded people to get excited about your passions with. There are tons of websites out there devoted to everything from rock climbing to knitting. You can even look around your area to see if there's a group devoted to your passion, or a way to start one (like a writer's group, or a quilting circle). . Being grateful for things in your life is a prime way to boost your mental and physical health. It doesn't necessarily mean that everything is going swimmingly in your life. In fact, many of the most grateful people are those who have experienced some trauma or life altering (usually "bad") event, like an illness or death of a loved one.   Keep a gratitude journal. This means that every day you write down between 3 and 5 things that you are grateful for. They can be as simple as "the sun warmed me today" or "I got to have bacon for breakfast" or as big as "I got engaged today" or "my book got accept for publication." Make sure that you spend time thinking about the things that you are grateful for. Say "thank you" to the people you talk to throughout the day: the server who brings you your lunch, the lady who holds the door for you, your son when he makes you dinner. By spreading gratitude...


Jadilah orang yang murah senyum. Gantilah kata-kata yang biasa Anda gunakan. Lakukan kebaikan untuk orang lain, walaupun Anda tidak suka. Biasakan berkumpul dengan orang-orang yang Anda sukai. Carilah dan simpanlah kata-kata positif atau mantra. Buatlah jurnal dan tulislah setiap hari.

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When you smile, your brain activates neural messages that actually make you feel more positive. Even if you're feeling kind of "blah," make your face do the work of brightening up your day. It works.  An added bonus? When you smile, you'll spread positivity around to other people, putting other people in good moods as well. It's good for everyone. If you're not in a great mood, complaining about it won't make it any better. Practice forcing yourself to smile, and it'll become second nature. It's easy to say things that can accidentally bring you down. Using positive words, as opposed to negative words, has a proven effect on your mood and your attitude. Don't identify yourself with your feelings. Don't say, "I am sad" or "I am frustrated." Instead, put the negativity elsewhere. Say, "That movie made me feel sad" or "This task is difficult and frustrating." Not having a great day? That doesn't mean you have to act like it. Choose to spread positivity around, and the smiles you get in return will do a lot to make you think more positively. Here a few little ideas for things you can do to brighten someone else's day:  Clean up the house before your partner or roommate gets home Pick up coffee or donuts for your office Mow your neighbor's yard, or shovel their driveway in winter Just say hello and compliment a stranger If you want to think positively, surround yourself with other positive thinkers, and with people who bring out the best in you. Hang out with people who are supportive, friendly, and like you for who you are. If you don't like hanging out with someone because they put you in a bad mood, stop hanging out with them. One great way to keep your outlook bright is to keep little quotes or sayings that you like in your pocket, on your phone, or otherwise in your mind as you go about your day. Subscribe to positive affirmation feeds on Pinterest, Twitter, or Facebook to keep your social networking more positive an influence in your life. If you sometimes end the day on a sour note, train yourself to turn...


Jadilah orang yang positif Tumbuhkan kepercayaan diri Jagalah energi. Jangan memaksa. Miliki selera humor Jadilah pendengar yang baik Tindak lanjuti. Tempatkan diri Anda dalam situasi dinamis.

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. Choose to nurture positive emotions, thoughts and conversations.  People are attracted to other people and things that make them feel good. Practice being optimistic and looking on the bright side, so you spread your positivity to those around you.  Focus on the big picture instead of the individual obstacles that stand in the way. Expand your interests beyond your personal issues. Everyone likes the person who can set aside personal concerns, lighten up and be engaged with what others have to say. Show gratitude for the people, events, successes and experiences in your life. Let this feeling of being grateful spill over into your conversation, and let the person know you are happy to meet him or her.Keeping a journal of everything that you are grateful for on a daily basis can help you to stay positive before and after meeting new people.  Catch yourself when you think negative, critical or judgmental thoughts about yourself or other people. Counter these negative thoughts with 2 positive things about the person or yourself.  Maintain a positive posture, keeping your back straight, shoulders slightly back, chin held high and your arms wide. Holding this posture during conversations can make you appear confident and positive and can reinforce your positive feelings. . Your body language is not the only thing that will benefit from you thinking and behaving more confidently. Your relationships, self-esteem and ability to persuade people will also be enhanced. You should realize that you have value, are talented, skilled and have something to offer that others want or need.  Speak up when you have something to say and speak with confidence. Don't phrase what you say as a question with your tone of voice rising at the end. Make statements and don't use uncertain phrases like "I think".  Tell yourself daily what makes you special. Look in the mirror and say, “I like you.” When you can like yourself, others will like you too. Recognize when you do a job well, and focus on solutions instead of problems. . Energy...


Jadilah orang yang positif. Ketahui kekuatan Anda. Latih kemampuan bicara di depan umum. Jadilah ahli di bidang Anda. Jadilah orang yang karismatik. Jadilah orang yang bisa dipercaya. Beri inspirasi.

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. If you want to be an influential person, you'll quickly learn that positivity will work more than negativity. People gravitate toward people and are willing to be influenced by people who are positive and nurturing, not harsh and criticizing.  If you're going to criticize someone's work or offer suggestions or alternatives, start by praising something. Instead of launching into a critique, say, "That's a great thought, but what if we tried it a little differently…" Avoid conversation topics that involve complaining and criticizing. Talk about things you like, not things that bug you. People will be more attracted to spending time with someone who wants to have fun and talk about positive things. Influential people are those who know how to play to their own strengths. What is something that you do well? What do you do better than most people? Recognizing and emphasizing your strengths in your personal interactions is a great way of influencing others.  If you're a harsh critic of yourself, listen to what others say. What are you often praised for doing? What earns you high marks in the eyes of others? Try to write down a list of your achievements and attribute each of them to something that you think you do well. This can be an excellent and easy way of identifying your major strengths. . If you can't speak up for yourself and communicate in a concise manner, it'll be hard to be influential. Influential people learn to voice their opinions and their ideas in concise language. You need to be convincing. Speak clearly and loudly when you speak to command attention. Don't talk over people, but make sure you can be heard. It's hard to influence anyone while you're mumbling. If you want to influence others, you've got to do it with more than your good word and your ability to manipulate people. You've got to have the skills and the expertise to back up your words. You've got to walk the walk and talk the talk, which will allow you to be more assertive in your influence.  If you want to influence your friends,...


Jadilah orang yang rendah hati. Hormatilah orang lain. Jadilah orang yang bijaksana. Jadilah orang yang murah hati. Terimalah pujian. Terimalah kritik dengan baik. Bersyukurlah.

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Gracious people are always humble. They don’t brag about how great they are or show off; instead, they act modest and wait for other people to note their achievements. They don’t make a spectacle of themselves, they are in awe of how big and complicated the world is, and they don’t march into a room like they own the place. If you want to be humble, then be happy to be who you are without showing off about it. Always give other people credit. If someone says you’ve done great work on a project, mention that you couldn’t have done it without the help of your other co-workers. Treat other people with kindness and respect – even if they don’t always deserve it. Be punctual if you said you were going to be somewhere. Hold doors for people. Don’t text your friends or look distracted when you’re supposed to be giving another person your full attention. Make eye contact, don’t curse, and treat people kindly regardless of their social status or their position within your social network or company. Treating people with respect means treating everyone the same, regardless of what you think they can do for you. Having tact means not saying anything that is offensive, off-color, or just plain weird. Tactful people think before they speak and they are discreet if they have to say something slightly uncomfortable – like if they have to tell a person that he has something in his teeth. Be aware of what you say and also of how you say it – you may mean well, but your comment may be taken the wrong way because of your tone or the words you used. Being tactful means not bringing up anything that can cause a stir. If you know you’re hanging out with two people who have very opposite views on Obamacare, for example, then don’t bring it up in their company. Generous people are able to give – whether it’s their time, their money, or their love and kindness. Be a person who is always looking for a way to help others, whether we’re talking about your closest friends or perfect strangers who are in need. Cultivate a generous spirit...


Jadilah orang yang sejujur mungkin. Gunakan gaya bahasa yang tepat. Carilah informasi dari “dalam”. Tetaplah teratur.

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Remember: headhunters can’t give you a job, which means it’s not your job to go about the business of impressing them. It’s your job to go about the business of proving that you fit the bill for the opening. You need to be upfront and frank with a headhunter when it comes to compensation requirements, your experience level, and the other qualifications for the job. There’s little sense in wasting time with opportunities you’re inappropriate for. It is important to be well put-together for meetings with headhunters, since you're going to be representing them as much as you'll be representing yourself at the interview. If you look disheveled and like a poor candidate, the company will be less likely to go through that headhunter again. The headhunter’s goal is to match people and companies, and you have to have information to do that, but it needs to be summarized and condensed into a manageable and tiny chunk for the headhunter. This includes a good resume, a short blurb, and additional background information from a phone or in-person interview. Recruiters then have a better idea if you fit that client's culture as well as technical requirements. And sometimes the information that you give the recruiter may open up another position that will be an even better fit. Don’t expect recruiters to pour over your resume, or even be familiar with it. The average resume gets approximately 5-10 seconds of glance time. Get your headhunter to give you as much information as possible before an interview regarding the company and the people you're interviewing with. Ask your headhunter to confirm how other candidates who have interviewed for the same job you are interviewing for have failed so that you avoid making the same mistakes. If the headhunter has worked with this company before, there may be some helpful information out there.  Don’t expect a wealth of inside info. It’ll be your job to get ahead and figure out how best to sell yourself in the interview. The headhunter can only show you to the river, but can’t show...


Jadilah orang yang sensitif dan lembut jika sedang bersamanya. Jadilah diri sendiri. Jalinlah hubungan dengan mengembangkan sisi kreatif Anda. Bergaul dengan teman-temannya, keluarganya, dan hormatilah apa yang mereka lakukan. Bersikap murah hati dengan memberi. Bersungguh-sungguh pada saat Anda memberikan ungkapan kasih sayang.

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If Aries men are the crash and burn, fly by the seat of your pants type, Pisces men are more gentle, nurturing, and romantic. The more you can turn on your gentle side, exploring your natural sensitivity and vulnerability, the better your chances will be. The Pisces man doesn't care how much money you have, what kind of car you drive, or where you live. While it's a plus to him, he doesn't base his opinion of you on superficial factors like job status. Pisces men are looking for more of a soulmate, not a status symbol. Pisces men are very in touch with their creative side; they tend to look for the same thing in their romantic interests. If you've got a creative bone in your body, get in touch with it, explore it, and nurture it. A Pisces man who sees you develop a relationship with your art will want to explore that relationship with you. That's your in.  Art, spirituality, music — these are all expressions of your creativity that you can show to the Pisces man. Philosophy, sculpture, writing are also good hobbies to cultivate in order to put your best foot forward. A Pisces man may not be the life of the social party, but he treats the friends he does have like family, and he treats the family he has like friends. Invest in his family in order to invest in him. Pisces also like to feel that they are welcomed by your family. Therefore, try to prepare your family for someone who has a rich inner life, but whose outer shell may not immediately suggest it. Because Pisces internalize a lot about the world, perhaps noticing injustice and cruelty in ways that other signs don't, it helps to be generous around a Pisces you're trying to woo. Don't fake it, because he'll be able to see right through your shenanigans; tap into your most charitable self and let that person come out. Whenever you say "I love you," mean it. Don't be afraid when he says it back because a Pisces's words are the most meaningful and carefully chosen of any sign.


Jadilah orang yang tegas Atur batasan yang jelas. Pancarkan rasa percaya diri. Ketahuilah perbedaan antara empati dan simpati, dan jauhilah simpati. Bernapaslah.

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. Communicate with others in a way that lets them know your wants and needs while still respecting theirs.  When being assertive, use “I” statements; facts rather than judgments; take ownership of your thoughts and feelings; and make clear, direct requests rather than phrasing them as questions to which people can respond “no.”An example might be to say, “I have noticed that you often leave your dishes in the sink rather than putting them into the dishwasher. When I come home from work/school I get anxious when see them there, and I feel the need to clean the kitchen up before I can start making my own dinner. Let’s come up with a timeframe for doing dishes that we can both live with.”  If assertive communication is new behaviour for you, be prepared for people who know you to be confused by the change. It may be helpful to explain to them that you are trying to change the way that you communicate. Part of being assertive means  setting clear boundaries. The purpose of setting these is to protect yourself and also to give others a clear idea of what you are and are not willing to put up with. An example of setting a boundary might be, with an alcoholic relative, to tell them that you enjoy their company, but you do not like the way that they behave when they are drunk; as a result, if they call you or come over when they are drunk, you will hang up on them or not let them into your house. . Exuding confidence is largely about  body language. When communicating with someone, some key things that you can do to appear confident include maintaining  good posture, making eye contact, and being calm and positive.  When standing, good posture means keeping your shoulders straight, back and relaxed, your abdomen pulled in, your feet hip distance apart, your weight balanced evenly on both feet, and your hands hanging naturally at your sides. In addition, you’ll have a gentle bend to your knees (don’t lock them), and your head will be balanced on your neck, not tilted forward, back, or to the side.  Assertive body...


Jadilah orang yang tegas. Gunakan keahlian mendengar yang aktif. Meminta maaflah. Buatlah komitmen untuk melakukan perubahan yang positif.

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Using assertive communication skills means saying how you think and feel in a respectful and appropriate way. When you are assertive, you admit when you are wrong and take ownership of your personal faults. You do not blame others for your mistakes.  Avoid passivity, which involves avoiding talking about it, hiding, going along with what everyone wants you to do, and not standing up for yourself. Do not be aggressive, including: raising your voice, yelling, belittling, cursing, and violent behaviors (throwing things, hitting). Avoid being passive-aggressive. This is a mix between passive and aggressive forms of communication where you may be upset but not be forthcoming with your feelings. Therefore, you may do something behind someone’s back to get revenge or give them the silent treatment. This is not the best form of communication and the person may not understand what you are trying to communicate or why. Send positive nonverbal messages. Our nonverbal communication sends messages to the people around us. A smile says, “Hey, I should be frowning, but I can be brave and get through this thing." Let the person that is upset vent his frustrations and wait to respond.  Try to focus solely on listening to the person instead of thinking about how to respond. Focus on the other person's feelings and thoughts instead of your own. Make summary statements and ask clarifying questions, such as, "I hear you saying that you are angry because I forgot to clean the bathroom, is that right?" Empathize. Try to be understanding and put yourself in the other person's shoes. When we make mistakes we sometimes hurt others. Saying you are sorry shows that you regret the mistake, feel bad about the harm you’ve done, and that you want to do better in the future.  Don’t give excuses or try to explain it away. Simply own up to it. Say, "I admit I forgot to clean the bathroom. I am so sorry about that." Be careful not to blame others. Do not say something like, "If you would have reminded me to clean it then maybe I would have...


Jadilah panutan bagi remaja yang lain. Jadilah pribadi yang sabar dan baik hati. Lakukan interaksi dengan orang-orang yang dikucilkan. Belajarlah menerima penolakan atau kekecewaan dengan jiwa besar.

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As a Christian youth, you should lead by example. That means following Christian teachings. Everything you do in your life should reflect the goodness of God.   Show positivity, smile, and do good works. Don’t talk behind other people’s backs. Be kind to all people, including those who aren’t popular. Love thy neighbor as thyself.  Walk the walk, don’t just talk the talk. Be a leader. Don’t participate or laugh at sinful subjects. Just walk away. But also try to get people to stop doing it. If you see bullying occurring, intervene. Be the one person at your school that doesn't tolerate cussing or gossip. Don’t drink, smoke, party, cheat on tests, gossip, or engage in other negative behaviors.  Be someone who spends Friday night on their knees in prayer rather than at a party getting wasted. If people can't tell you're a Christian by your actions and words, you're doing it wrong. You need to live every single day with the right attitude.  Love others and be willing to help them even at cost to yourself. This is a fundamental commandment that Jesus gave during his time on Earth. To love others as you love yourself is so important. Don’t let ego and status stop you from treating others as you would your own brothers and sisters. Don't be close minded. Love all people of all religions, races, sexual orientations, and beliefs. Don't swear or speak about inappropriate things, or make intolerant statements. You can't make a positive difference if you are cursing or making dirty jokes. Be respectful, honorable, and pure. Set an example of Christianity every day at work or school, or both. Be humble, kind, patient, and respectful when engaging with non-Christians. Jesus showed love to people who were treated negatively by others or regarded lowly by society. Never give up on someone, and especially never give up on God, in the good times and the bad.  You will encounter islands in school and other settings. This means there are people who only hang out with certain people because they don't know anyone else and won't...


Jadilah panutan baik. Luangkan waktu untuk anak-anak Anda. Buatlah komunikasi suatu prioritas. Jadilah fleksibel dan mau menyesuaikan gaya pengasuhan Anda. Sadari kebutuhan dan batasan Anda sendiri sebagai orang tua efektif. Hindari pilih kasih dengan lebih dari satu anak. Tunjukkan bahwa kasih sayang Anda tidak bersyarat.

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Children learn a great deal about how to act by watching their parents. Children, especially young ones, think their parents are more or less infallible. They see their parents as being supremely intelligent and powerful - basically incapable of making bad decisions. Do your best to live up to this idealized image. Before you lash out or blow your top in front of your child, think about the example you're setting.  Embody the traits you wish to cultivate in your child: respect, friendliness, honesty, kindness, tolerance, and many more. Do things for other people without expecting a reward. Above all, treat your children the way you expect other people to treat you.  Children also look for role models at school, among their friends, and in the media. Some of these things you can control, others, you cannot. Know that, though your child may have multiple role models, you have a unique privilege in that you are a near-constant presence in his or her life. Make the most of this privilege. When you have a child, the most important duty you have is ensuring his or her physical well-being - feeding, clothing, and housing them well. This and countless other responsibilities require you to spend time working so that you're able to provide for your child. However, once these necessities are assured, it's very important to invest your remaining time in your children themselves. Never lose sight of the fact that, in the balancing act between your family and your work, your family should always come first.  When you spend quality time with your child, show them they're important by being fully present in the moment. Put your phone on silent, and turn off other screens, such as the TV or computer. Give your child your full attention. With so many demands on your time, it's often difficult for parents and children to get together for a family meal, let alone spend some quality time together. Children who are not getting the attention they want from their parents can act out or misbehave because, to them, negative attention...


Jadilah panutan yang baik. Perjelas aturan dan ekspektasi Anda. Terima masukan. Beri hadiah untuk karyawan yang bekerja dengan baik. Jadilah pemimpin yang disukai.

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To earn respect, it's important to show that you know your stuff. People will respect and listen to you, if they know you are knowledgeable in your field.  Discuss your experience. Without showing off, let your employees understand how long you've been in the business and what you have achieved while you were there. Not only will they have a better understanding of why you're sitting in the boss' chair, but they'll be more excited to be a part of your team and will admire you. Act professionally. Though you may be the boss, you should still be cordial to all of your employees.  You should also still meet the basic standards of professionalism such as; dressing appropriately, coming to work and meetings on time, and communicating in a professional manner. Whether you're the CEO of a company or the manager of a team of four people, it's important to make your expectations "crystal" clear from the beginning.  Have a Code of Conduct or an Expectation Notice that you can point to which shows employees how to act. Give feedback based on their work, and relate it with your Code of Conduct. If you're working on a project, your goals and expectations should be clear from the beginning.  Then your employees will be more motivated and not confused. It is preferable to have your goals down in written form. Don't change your instructions in the middle of a project. Though some adjustments in the workplace are necessary, it's important to not only be clear about your expectations, but to also be consistent. If you change your mind about what you want halfway through a meeting, your employees may not take you seriously, or they might be frustrated. Though it's important to be firm, you should still leave some room for the considerations of others.  This way you won't look like a dictator. Also, there's a lot you can learn from your employees, which might help your business thrive.  Ask for feedback. It's important to ask for feedback after you've wrapped up a project, set up guidelines during a meeting, or you have thrown a...


Jadilah panutan. Berikan waktu kepada anak Anda untuk bermain sebebas-bebasnya. Sediakan fasilitas yang diperlukan. Rancang ide-ide menarik. Dorong anak Anda untuk menerima kegagalan dan kesalahan. Lontarkan pertanyaan yang tidak hanya bisa dijawab dengan “Ya” atau “Tidak”. Batasi konsumsi teknologinya. Berfokuslah pada proses, bukan hasil.

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Be open-minded in your thinking and find lots of solutions to many problems. Show your kids that you are flexible and willing to try new things. When faced with difficulty, show your kids that you can approach the problem in different ways and still be okay.  If your kids ask you a question, be creative in how you answer it. You can brainstorm different solutions with your child before answering the question. For instance, your child may ask, “Where does rain come from?” You can start to wonder together, “Well… it comes from the sky… what else comes from the sky? Could it come from that?” If your kid asks you how to draw a heart, show lots of different ways to draw a heart (like using straight lines, using dots, or drawing flowers in the shape of a heart), even including the anatomical way, then ask your child to think of some. Allow your child to have unstructured playtime where you do not interrupt, direct the play, or make suggestions. Choose toys for your children that don’t have one specific purpose but let your child find many uses.  Encourage activities like painting, drawing, and building. Avoid or have very few cause-and-effect toys, such as a jack-in-the-box or other pop-up toy. Don’t correct your child’s play unless there is obvious conflict. If your child says, “I’m bored”, set out some toys, and start a story line and have your child complete it. For instance, you can set up some dolls and say that they are traveling all over the world. Their first stop in in Prague, where do they go next? What places do they want to see? How long do they travel for, and how many countries do they visit? Have specific spaces for activities, especially messy activities.  Create an art space for your children where they can paint and make a mess without it affecting the whole house, or a dress up area where all clothes go. When it comes time for Christmas or birthday gifts, request art supplies, musical instruments, building materials, and costumes.  Repurpose things you have around the house: paper towel and...


Jadilah pasangan kencan yang hebat. Berikan pujian. Bicarakanlah tentang hal-hal yang "aman" pada awalnya. Ajukan lebih banyak pertanyaan untuk mengenalnya lebih jauh. Terus berkencan dan bersabarlah.

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If the girl that you like says yes and you do get to go on a date with her, make sure that you do all that you can to make sure that she wants to go out again sometime. Little gestures like opening doors, helping her put her coat on or take it off, and paying for dinner can be very impressive to some girls. If you really want to wow her, show up at her door with flowers, take her somewhere fancy, and impress her with your food recommendations at the restaurant. To impress her even more on your first date, find out what she likes through casual conversation and plan a date that incorporates those likes. For example, if she is a big fan of horror movies, take her to see the latest horror flick. If she is a Chinese food fanatic, take her to a Chinese restaurant for dinner. If she loves to play mini golf, take her to play some mini golf! When you first pick up or meet up with the girl for your date, make sure that you pay her a sincere, specific compliment. You can say something simple like, “You look amazing in that dress!” or, “Your hair looks really pretty.” Whatever you choose, just make sure that you deliver the compliment in a direct way and look her in the eye as you say it. Keep the compliments coming as you continue to date and get to know each other. Don’t just compliment her appearance either. Make sure that you also compliment her intelligence, her sense of humor, and her other talents as you learn about them. For example, you can say something like, “I really admire your talent at track and field.” When you are first getting to know a girl that you like, you should be careful not to delve too deeply into personal issues. Stick to things that won’t get her feeling uncomfortable or vulnerable For example, you can ask about her favorite music, movies she’s seen recently, or her hobbies. Avoid discussing topics that might be uncomfortable for her such as your ex-girlfriends, family conflicts, or your religion. Instead, focus on questions that help you get to know her better. Ask her about her likes and...


Jadilah pasangan yang baik. Jangan menjadi orang yang suka mengkritik, pemalas, atau posesif. Jangan berselingkuh.

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Be someone that's good to date. If you become known as a great person to date, it will be much easier to find a boyfriend in the future. Be supportive. Be someone that's great to be around. Do not become known as someone who is critical, lazy, or possessive in relationships. These qualities will make others not want to date you. Give your boyfriend his space, let him be himself and continue to make yourself a better person by going out and doing things. The best way to guarantee that no one in your social circle will ever want to date you is to cheat on your boyfriend. Be loyal and keep your attention on him. If you'd rather be flirting and hanging out with someone else, then you need to break up with the guy you're dating. It isn't fair to either of you if you'd rather be somewhere else. If you break up, be gentle about it. Try not to hurt his feelings any more than you have to, and be respectful of him even after you guys are done. Nobody wants to date a heartbreaker.


Jadilah pasangan yang dapat diandalkan. Bersabarlah Jangan bersikap seolah-olah Anda terobsesi dengan seks. Jadilah laki-laki setia

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. If you want to make your girlfriend want to have sex with you, then you should show her what an amazingly dependable guy you are. If your girl is going to trust you enough to have sex with you, whether it's her first time or if she's had sex before, then she has to feel like she can depend on you. One of her fears may be that as soon as you have sex, she won't be able to rely on you anymore because you would have gotten what you wanted. So, prove her wrong by being an upstanding and dependable guy.  Show up when you say you're going to show up. If you routinely pick her up half an hour late for your dates, she'll think that you don't think she's so special, and she'll be less likely to have sex with you. Don't be a flake. If you say you're going to take her to the beach over the weekend, do it. If you don't stick to your word, she won't be able to trust you. Be her rock. Let her talk to you about her problems and insecurities while knowing that you can make her feel better. Don't go hours or even a day or two without returning her phone calls or texts. This will make her feel like she can't depend on you. Some guys can be ready to have sex with a girl in the time it takes to down a beer, while some girls can take months, or even longer, to decide that they're ready to make love. And some girls -- sorry, gentlemen -- are really adamant about holding out for the one, and don't even want to have sex before marriage. So, don't rush into it -- wait for the girl to trust you first.  If your girl is barely comfortable with kissing, then you shouldn't bring up the "s-word" for a while. However, if you and your girlfriend are already comfortable hooking up in bed all the time after just a few weeks, then you can start thinking about taking it to the next level. If you want to make your girlfriend want to have sex with you, the worst thing you can do is bring it up or try to force it when it's way too early. This will turn your girlfriend off and will make her much less likely to sleep with you. Let's face it -- if...


Jadilah pastor yang baik. Asahlah keterampilan interpersonal. Berusahalah menjadi uskup. Berusahalah menjadi kardinal.

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Once you become a priest, you want to make sure that you excel at your job. This is the best way to earn a promotion in the ranks of the church. A good priest is dependable, and helps the members of his church and the community.  As a priest, you are responsible for the spiritual well-being of your congregation. You will perform sacraments, conduct Mass, and hear confession. An exemplary priest earns the designation "Monsignor". After you are a priest, any promotion that you receive will be by appointment. This means that you need to make a good impression on people who are in leadership positions above you. Work on relating well to others in your field.  Be an effective communicator. Make sure that you are comfortable speaking in front of a crowd. You already do this as a priest, and it will become more important as you advance in the church. Be confident and clear when you speak. Work well with others. As a bishop or cardinal, you will need to manage other priests. Practice listening to the needs of others, and effectively communicating instructions. A bishop is essentially the chief priest (or pastor) of a diocese. A diocese is the territory or region that contains the churches under a bishop's authority. An archbishop governs his diocese (called an archdiocese) and also oversees other bishops. The pope is responsible for choosing all bishops, including archbishops. Therefore, you need to make a good impression on those who advise him.  Make sure that you are in regular communication with the archbishop for your region. He will be able to offer a positive recommendation when asked for his opinion about you. Bishops gather for regular meetings, where they set policy and liturgical standards for their region. The pope is responsible for appointing bishops and archbishops. He relies on existing bishops to provide him with recommendations. Remember, you cannot formally apply to become a bishop or archbishop. You must be appointed. The pope's chief adviser in this process is the Apostolic Nuncio. He is the...


Jadilah peka. Jadilah anggun. Latihlah bagaimana Anda berbicara.

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Acting like a woman means getting in touch with traits often associated with femininity, which include empathy, honesty, affection and being nurturing. Watching movies and reading books centered on strong female characters will help you understand these traits even better. Remember that overall, women are known for being gentle and caring.  One of the easiest ways to understand feminine traits is to spend time around ladies. Drum up your female friends and set up a book club, wine night, or other weekly time to hang out. Empathize with others and be sensitive to those around you. Women aren’t known for their aggression, so try to be accepting and assertive in a gentle way. Improve your posture, and realize that feminine gestures, even slight ones, are very important. It is well-known that women often gesture while speaking, which adds femininity and personality to any conversation. Note the gestures and facial expressions of the women around you and try to imitate how they move.  Smiling and playing with hair are two common feminine gestures. Practice these in the mirror until they look natural. Try to make smaller, more graceful movements as opposed to big steps and heavy gestures. This will help you move with ease. Standing up straight will also give you poise and will make your body appear more feminine. It is key not only to look like a woman, but to sound like one. Women's voices tend not only to be higher pitched, but also more melodic. Women tend to take on the vocal patterns of those they spend a lot of time with, so find a female friend to emulate.  Be active! The best practice is talking to real people in public situations. This will help your progress, so don’t be shy or embarrassed. There are also tapes, articles, and the guides available on the web. Spend a few hours on the internet researching practice methods. If you're not satisfied with your progress, consider seeking out a professional speech therapist.


Jadilah pemain figuran. Cari peluang audisi di kota tempat tinggal Anda. Pergilah ke Los Angeles. Lamar pekerjaan yang tidak berhubungan dengan akting di industri perfilman.

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Extras are the people in movies with no speaking lines, the background people. Search for movie projects that are being filmed in and around your area. Look for calls for extras. These jobs will often be unpaid, and you won't get any quality acting experience, but it's something to put on your acting resume, so don't discount it. The simplest way to find extra work is to search online for upcoming films being shot in your area. Then contact the casting agency for the film and ask about extra opportunities. Volunteer to be an extra for free. Depending on the area you live in, there might be opportunities to be in films near you. Search online for open casting calls in your area. Look for both feature length films and short films. If you find an open casting call, go to the audition. Dress your best, prepare your audition material in advance, and give it your all. And most importantly, don't be discouraged by rejection. Taking rejection well is an essential skill for aspiring movie stars. Even if there's no professional acting opportunities near you, there's always student films. If you're anywhere near a college with a film-making program, there will be no shortage of film students looking for amateur acting talent. Depending on the area you in, there might simply be a lack of real acting opportunity near you. If you're really serious about becoming a movie star, you're going to have to move to Los Angeles eventually. This is where the majority of big-budget movies are made. It's where the acting agents are, and it's where big breaks happen. If you are applied for a movie role and it is not shot in your area you are going to have to fly to the nearest airport in that area. Plenty of famous actors started out with non-acting jobs and moved their way up. This is a common strategy for any profession. Start by looking for volunteer and interning opportunities in production companies.  Jobs on sets include production assistants, handling equipment, or catering. You can find opportunities by searching for these...


Jadilah pemimpin ketika beraktivitas. Miliki keinginan untuk berbagi dengannya. Pahami bahwa Libra adalah makhluk sosial. Ketahui bahwa Libra cenderung tidak suka berdebat.

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Libras have a tendency to be indecisive. Treat them right by simply deciding what you're going to do. If you guys are going out somewhere, choose the restaurant, or the movie, or the club...etc. Of course, you should always check to make sure that the activity is something your Libra actually wants to do, but if your Libra is struggling to decide between two things, save him/her the trouble and just make the executive decision. And by sharing, we mean anything--food, a seat, personal stories. But specifically for this step, know that Libras love to share. This means that if you order separate dishes, be prepared to give away a few (or many) bites--but don't worry, your Libra will be happy to share their last bite of delectable chocolate mousse. Libras are one of the most social (if not the most social) of the Zodiac symbols. As such, they like to flit from person to person at social gatherings. Understand that your Libra is not intentionally avoiding you--she/he just can't help but talk to everyone at a party. It's also good to remember that Libras strive to please everyone--even strangers they meet at parties. This applies particularly to social settings. There is a reason that Libras are represented by the scale--they like to keep the peace by hearing both sides of an argument or debate. That means they won't necessarily back you up in a debate, as they will also want to hear the other side. Don't take this personally--instead, learn from your Libra friend and try to be opened-minded. However, that doesn't mean they don't have your back. If you have a problem that you just can't seem to solve (making amends with a friend, what to do about your renegade younger brother, etc.) your Libra will be there to help you through it. Libras are fantastic at looking at a problem objectively and figuring out how to solve it in the least dramatic way.


Jadilah pemimpin rapat yang baik. Informasikan target kerja yang sudah dan belum tercapai. Fokuskan lagi jika diskusi menyimpang dari topik. Beralihlah ke topik berikutnya sesuai jadwal. Tegaskan topik yang penting. Bila perlu, bantulah pembuatan notulen. Lakukan klarifikasi jika terjadi kesalahpahaman. Sebelum menutup rapat, sampaikan ringkasan secara menyeluruh.

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Take responsibility for communication in the meeting.  Ensure it meets all agenda objectives. Delegate relevant leadership responsibilities to speakers who have a role in the meeting.  Demonstrate participation in all stages of the discussion. If this meeting addresses an ongoing series of objectives, mention where progress has occurred and who was responsible for it.  If there are objectives that had not progressed since the last meeting, address why. If this is due to lack of time or resources, talk to the point person about how to address this, potentially outside the meeting itself. There are times when enthusiasm or frustration can push discussions off course. Stay attentive and be sure to bring off-point discussion back into line with the goals of the agenda.  Below are some suggested approaches:  Frame the meeting as a "fact gathering mission":  When we do this, it implies that everyone needs to be heard in order to accumulate as much information as possible.  This can encourage meeting monopolizers to wait their turn.  Try Cyberstorming: Cyberstorming uses electronic chat or forum structure to share ideas and can be harnessed for the purpose of informal meetings. Since everything that is entered can be seen by all other team members, it removes the competition regarding who gets heard.  Neutralize rambling: If someone is rambling, say "That's a good point, Bob, and I'm glad you brought it up.  Let's talk about that later, ok."  Many times people don't realize that they are rambling, but if the point is important enough to them, they will come to you independently to talk at greater length.  Control tangents: Sometimes the problem is not that an individual goes on too long but that they attempt to re-focus the discussion on extraneous point outside the agenda.  When this happens, acknowledge what is being said and offer to add the discussion points to the next meeting agenda, but remain firm that the meeting has to move on to the stated objectives.  Have a one-on-one. Have a conversation with the...


Jadilah pendengar yang baik Bersikaplah rendah hati Gunakan kata “aku” atau “saya”. Jangan menggunakan kata “harus” atau “mesti”. Berbicaralah dengan nada suara yang datar dan rileks. Ajaklah orang lain berbagi pikiran dan pengalaman. Jangan menyalahkan orang lain. Bedakan antara fakta dan opini. Pertimbangkan cara lain. Buatlah pernyataan yang jelas dan tulus. Gunakan bahasa tubuh yang asertif.

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Letting people know your boundaries and feelings while at the same time allowing them space to talk, discuss, and open up about their feelings is important. Ask follow-up questions during conversations and use affirmations such as nodding, gestures, and agreements.  Look directly at the person who is speaking. You needn't stare at him or her, but you should try to maintain eye contact for about 70% of the time you are listening. This helps communicate to the speaker that you're interested and paying attention.  It can be easy to slip into thinking about what we will say in response to someone else's statement before the other person's even done talking. For example, if a friend is telling you about her awful day, you might begin to think about how you will tell her about your terrible day while she is still talking. Doing so means you are not focusing on the other person. If you're having a hard time concentrating on what the other person is saying to you, try mentally repeating or summarizing what they're saying to you. This will force you to pay more attention. When it is your turn to speak, try asking questions or using phrases to clarify what you heard. For example, if you have been listening to your partner explain something you did that frustrated him or her, you should clarify what you heard: "What I heard you say is _____. Is that right?" This helps keep you from jumping to conclusions or misinterpreting. and modest. Assertiveness and humility make a fine combination. An assertive person doesn't need to shout "Me, me, me, look what I did!" from the rooftops. It is perfectly healthy to accept praise for a job well done or remind others that you made a contribution, as long as this doesn’t become boastful or focused on belittling others to prop yourself up.  Showing humility doesn't mean that you are being weak or demeaning yourself. Celebrate your successes and congratulate yourself when you have done something well. Just don't put down others to lift yourself up.  For example, if someone tells you...


Jadilah pendengar yang baik Selesaikan pertengkaran secara dewasa dan tulus. Hibur adik Anda ketika ia mengalami tantangan atau gagal. Hargai batas-batas pribadi adik Anda dan kebebasannya. Beri nasihat kepada adik Anda berdasarkan pengalaman Anda sendiri.

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. Perhaps the easiest and most direct way of being a good big brother or big sister is taking the time to ask your sibling how their day went and listening to what they have to say. Try to pull your sibling aside once a day and have a brief conversation with them especially if they are an adolescent or in their early teen years. Often, younger siblings want to be acknowledged and listened to by those they look up to.   Practice active listening in your conversations with your sibling, whether it's a brief check in talk with them or a heart to heart. Treat the conversation as a learning opportunity, where you get to know your sibling better and have a meaningful discussion. Focus your attention fully on your sibling and let them speak without interruption. Acknowledge what they told you and respond thoughtfully and without judgement. This will keep the conversation open and encourage them to confide in you more often. Though siblings tend to squabble and have small fights, you should make an effort to avoid having big, dramatic arguments with your sibling. This may mean being the bigger person and letting your sibling have the victory for a trivial fight. You should also try to offer your sibling a compromise, where you get a little bit of what you want and they get a little bit of what they want. This will help them to feel supported and respected by you, but it will also help them learn that they cannot always get  their way. If you're unable to resolve a conflict on your own, ask an authority figure for guidance, such as an older friend, an older family member, or parent. This will show your sibling that you're not afraid to ask for help when you need it. Your sibling will likely experience a range of trials and tribulations, and they may confront a difficult challenge of some kind or even fail in their attempt to do something great. Rather than shame your sibling for their failure or make them  feel bad about messing up, you should comfort  them and support them.   Comfort your sibling by telling them  to...


Jadilah pendengar yang baik. Ajukan pertanyaan untuk meminta kejelasan. Perbaiki pertanyaan buruk yang ia lontarkan tentang dirinya sendiri. Jangan menganggap remeh masalahnya. Jangan mencoba menyelesaikan masalahnya. Sarankan bantuan pihak profesional.

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It is very likely that your friend needs to talk about what happened (or is happening) and how they feel about it.  When they do decide to open up, let them talk about their situation and their feelings.  Listen to what your friend is saying, as well as how it is being said. A lot of times the way someone says something can tell you as much as what they say. Try not to interrupt a lot or make them feel rushed. Sometimes it is hard for people to talk about the things that are upsetting them. Think about what they are telling you, not how you are going to respond to what they are saying. If you don’t understand something, in a sensitive way, ask your friend to explain more or repeat what they said.   This can help you really understand what happened that has your friend upset. You can say things like, “So what you’re saying is…” or “So, in other words, what happened was…” This also lets your friend know you are truly listening and care about what they are telling you. For example, if they say "I'm worthless" or "I don't deserve to be happy", turn it around and say "Of course you deserve to be happy!" and/or "You aren't worthless; look at how many people love you and care about you. I love you and care about you too." Telling someone about a similar or worse situation, reminding them that it could be worse, or that things are worse for some people may seem like a good idea, but it can do more harm than good.  It can make your friend feel like you really don’t understand or care how bad the situation is making them feel. It can sound like you are calling them a “crybaby” or implying that they are upset over nothing.  Instead, say things like, “I can understand that you are upset” or “I see why you are upset”. Unless it is an emergency or they ask you for help in doing so, refrain from telling them how you would handle the situation.  Most often, people just want someone to listen to them. If your friend has been the victim of abuse or a crime, let them know you would like to contact the appropriate authorities so...


Jadilah pendengar yang baik. Berikan banyak pertanyaan. Pelajari perspektif orang lain. Pilih perdebatan Anda. Tidak setuju dengan hormat.

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. Practice active listening to show people that you have respect for their opinions and ideas. Watch and be quiet when someone else is talking and spend time thinking actively about what they're saying. Too often, we wait to talk instead of really listening to other people's ideas. Even if you think you disagree, try to consider the point of view and empathize with it before responding. You're showing respect to the person by hearing them out and letting them make their own case. You might be surprised. To show respect for other peoples' opinions, question them. Ask open-ended, leading questions that show you're fully engaged with their ideas and that you're listening closely. Questioning doesn't mean that you're trying to poke holes in their story, or that you don't believe them. Ask for more when it seems like they might have more to give.  Instead of asking for more details, ask about how someone feels about a particular topic. If someone's telling a story, ask "How'd you feel afterwards?" Even if you think you know, let them tell you. Let them make their own case. Learn to spread the wealth. If it seems like someone isn't talking much in a group conversation, ask them a specific question to open the door for communication. You don't need to draw attention to it by saying something like, "You're awfully quiet, Steve" just say, "Steve, what did you think of the Super Bowl?" Learning to empathize with other people who have very different experiences and perspectives than your own will help you learn to show respect. Be proud of your own opinions and perspectives, but don't assume everyone feels the same way and avoid putting them in an awkward position. Temper your attitudes and learn where people are coming from before you share your opinions so you can know how to respond. While it might seem easy to make a casual comment about how "dumb" football is in a mixed group, you can never know if someone's recently-deceased grandfather made a living as a ref and loved the sport dearly. Sometimes it shows respect...


Jadilah pendengar yang baik. Jaga nada bicaramu agar tetap sopan dan positif. Sebisa mungkin, hindari perdebatan dengan orang tuamu. Lontarkan pertanyaan. Sampaikan kepada orang tuamu mengenai cara mereka memperlakukanmu.

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Listening well is an important part of being perceived as an adult. Work on your listening skills to help your parents see you as a mature person. When you are listening to someone speak, maintain good eye contact, nod your head to show that you are hearing what the other person is saying, and use statements to express interest, such as “I see,” “go on,” and “yes.” Frequent complaining and a negative attitude may make you appear less mature to your parents. To prove that you are mature, do your best to maintain a positive tone at all times. When telling your parents about your day, focus on the good things that happened and minimize the bad. Also ask them how their day has been, and if their day turns out to have been not so good, show sympathy. Avoid whining or making critical remarks as much as possible. These behaviors are seen as a mark of immaturity. Do your best to avoid getting into an argument with your parents. Although you may still have an occasional disagreement with your parents, do not instigate an argument if possible. Instead, do your best to be agreeable and compromise with your parents if something seems unfair to you. For example, if your parents have requested that you be home by 9pm, do not complain or accuse them of being unfair. Try saying something like, “I don’t mind being home by this time most nights, but I was hoping to stay out a little later tonight. Would 10pm be alright?” If you do not understand the reasons behind something that your parents have asked you to do, then ask for clarification. Asking questions is a good way to improve communication and avoid unnecessary conflicts. Make sure that you phrase your question in a way that expresses what you need from them. For example, if you have a 9pm curfew, and you think it is unfair, try asking something like, “I know that you care about my safety, but I am still a little confused about why I have to be home by 9 tonight. Can you help me to understand why you want me home by then?” It is possible that you parents are not aware...


Jadilah pendengar yang baik. Tunjukkan ketertarikan Anda terhadap hal-hal yang diminatinya. Ajak dia berkencan secara teratur. Tunjukkan kekuatannya. Beri dukungan saat dia harus melewati saat-saat sulit.

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Support your girlfriend by listening to what she has to say. Avoid interrupting her or cutting her off when she speaks. Instead, make eye contact with her when she talks and nod your head to show her you are listening. Give her your full attention so she knows you care about what she has to say.  Avoid looking at your phone or your computer while she speaks, as this will just show her you are not listening. Try not to speak too much when she speaks or feel like you need to come up with a solution to her issue. Men have a tendency to want to fix things. Instead, simply pay attention to her when she speaks. Sometimes, listening is really what she wants you to do. Let her know you are listening by telling her, “I hear what you are saying” or “What I think you are saying is..” Let your girlfriend know you want to know about her likes and dislikes as well as what she likes to do for fun. Ask questions about her day and her interests to show her you want to get to know her as a person and connect on a deeper level.  For example, you may ask her, “What television shows are you into lately?” or “How was your workout this morning?” You may also ask follow up questions if you know she is interested in certain things, such as books, movies, sports, or art. For example, you may ask, “How was that book you were reading?” or “Did soccer practice go well?” You can also invite her to participate in your interests. If you like rock climbing, for example, offer to take her to a beginner's climbing wall sometime and teach her. This lets her see part of your world, and helps establish common ground. Have a regular date night where you go out just the two of you and do something you both enjoy, such as going for dinner or seeing a movie. Plan dates for special occasions, such as your anniversary or her birthday. Show her you care about her and want to celebrate her.  For example, you may plan a surprise birthday party for her to show her you care and want her to feel special. Or you may plan a happy graduation dinner at her...


Jadilah penganut agama Katolik. Renungkan panggilan hidup Anda. Jadilah pemimpin. Ikutilah pendidikan. Lanjutkan pendidikan. Tentukan pendidikan yang tepat.

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To become Pope, you must be both male and Catholic. If you were not born into the Catholic faith, you will need to convert. The process is called the Rite of Christian Initiation.  This is a process that will take time. You need to become educated in the Catholic faith and the ways of the church. This process is called catechism. You will need to be baptized. This occurs after your education is finished. Becoming a Catholic is an exploration of faith. You must be guided and mentored. Contact your local church to begin the process. Being a priest is not just a job, it is a lifestyle. Make sure that you are aware of all of the requirements. Catholic priests are not allowed to marry or engage in sexual activity.  Spend some time considering your vocation. You should consider your gifts. Are you compassionate? Is your faith strong? Are you happy with your vocation? These are important qualities for a priest. Get some advice. Talk to your own priest and ask about his experience. Ask specific questions, such as what a priest does. Then take some time to reflect on the path you feel you should take, whether you want to be a priest or not. As you get older, you can begin to more actively consider whether a career as a spiritual leader is right for your life. Around the world, many diocese offer leadership programs for Catholic youth. Ask your local priest if this is an option for you. Many of these programs offer courses in leadership development and spiritual growth. These programs can help you strengthen your faith, and make your vocation easier to understand  Enrolling in a leadership program can help you get a sense of the skills you will need to take on greater authority within the church as your career progresses to higher ranks. If your church does not offer a leadership program, find out of there is a scholarship program that will enable you to attend one in another region. You will need specific educational training to become a priest. First, you must complete high school. While you are in high school, you...


Jadilah pengertian terhadap orang lain. Jadilah orang yang peduli terhadap orang lain. Bersopan santunlah. Jadilah orang yang dermawan. Pertimbangkan untuk memuji orang lain. Tolonglah orang lain. Gunakan suara yang lembut.

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Part of being sweet means that you are thoughtful towards other people. You can achieve this by showing interest in other people's lives, or by doing nice things for them. For example:  Instead of talking about yourself, you can ask your friend about his day. This will show your friend that you are interested in his well-being. If your friend reveals that he is having a bad day, you can show how sweet you are by buying him some ice cream. It is your friend's birthday. Unfortunately, it falls right during Finals week and ends up being forgotten by everyone else as they scramble to complete assignments and catch up on last-minute studying. You can surprise your friend by bringing her a cupcake or a balloon to school. Part of being sweet is also being caring, which can be achieved through showing concern for other people. For example, if you notice someone looking upset, ask him or her what is wrong and if there is something you can do to help. This will show him or her that you care, even if he or she does not want any help. Part of being sweet means that you are polite and have good manners, even towards those you dislike. This means that you say things like "please," and "thank you," and "excuse me" or "pardon me." For example:  If someone compliments you, smile and say "thank you!" If you are eating in a cafeteria, and the salt shaker is too far away, do not reach across someone's face to grab it. Instead, ask: "Could you pass the salt, please?" If you are in a hurry and need to get through a crowd quickly, try not to shove your way through. Instead, say "pardon me" or excuse me" and try to weave your way past people instead. This does not mean that you have to donate all your clothes to charity and give in to everyone's demands. You want to be generous to a certain extent, but not so much that people begin to take advantage of you. For example:  Your friend forgot to bring her lunch to school, and she has no money to buy something from the cafeteria. You can offer part of your lunch to your friend, or lend...


Jadilah penjual yang aktif. Mintalah bantuan orang lain. Pastikan barang-barang selalu rapi selama acara. Lakukan negosiasi dengan mereka yang suka menawar. Berikan diskon besar pada menit-menit terakhir. Jangan langsung membereskan barang-barang setelah waktu tutup untuk menarik pengunjung yang datang terlambat. Sumbangkan barang-barang yang tidak terjual. Turunkan poster yang Anda pasang setelah acara selesai.

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Running a garage sale is a lot like working at a retail establishment, so bring out the salesperson within you.  Greet your customers with a friendly smile as they arrive. Ask customers if there is anything you can help them with. Then let them browse if they say no. You want people to feel comfortable at your sale and not like they are being watched or judged. Offer package deals (if a person buys a blender, for example, why shouldn’t they buy those margarita glasses as well?), and reward big buyers with bulk discounts. Don’t just hope that your goods sell themselves. Always have several people at the sale for the sake of convenience and security. You can ask your family members or friends to help out and repay them with a small fee or treat them to a meal afterward.  Bathroom breaks are made easier with extra help. When you need one, you can keep the sale running smoothly. Never leave the sale unattended for more than a few moments at a time and avoid leaving the sale under the watch of small children. As your sale progresses, things will unavoidably get disheveled, disorganized, and possibly even broken. If you want to sell as much as possible, you should try to keep things looking nice.   Straighten items as you walk by them and while you speak to customers. Move items around as you sell them, putting forward new and premium items in the front. Even though your prices are clearly marked, some people will try to haggle. Play along; haggling can be a fun experience, and you’ll likely make a lot more sales if you’re willing to reward these bargain hunters.  Don’t be afraid to decline an offer that considers all offers. After all, you’re trying to get rid of this stuff. Be sure not to drop your prices too early in the day. If you've successfully organized your garage sale, you should bring in plenty of customers that are willing to pay the full price. If you're having a multi-family sale, haggling on friends' items should only be done with their permission. If a customer isn't willing to compromise on their...


Jadilah penyerang tengah jika berbadan besar, kuat, dan dapat mencetak gol dari mana saja. Mainkan penyerang sayap jika Anda lihai menggiring bola dan mampu berlari cepat. Bekerja samalah dengan partner dalam sistem tandem untuk menciptakan duet penyerang tajam.

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The center striker, on most teams, is the top goal scorer. They must be aggressive towards goal, with a wicked shot as well as the ability to put any sort of pass or cross on goal no matter the body part. They use their strength to hold off defenders and keep the ball, either to turn and shoot or to wait for support to arrive.  Forward players should be strong and accurate with both feet. Center strikers must be confident with their back to goal, even if there is a defender on them. Moves, tricks, and quick bursts of speed are all important weapons to blow by defenders. You must not only shoot well but quickly. You should be able to fire off a shot with only a little bit of free space. Outside striker systems often don't have outside midfielders, meaning the outside striker has space to beat one defender and attack the goal. They are good crossers and good in the air, getting lots of balls from the striker on the other side of the field and sending others over. They tend to have good endurance, too, as they defensively cover the field back to half-field or further. Speed and quickness, as well as controlled foot skills at high speed, are highly recommended. A frequent striker combination is to have two center forwards up together. But forwards are never effective when they're taking up the same space—they work best when they are staggered with one above the other. The striker near goal holds the ball up, facing half-field, to draw defenders in. This creates space for the lower striker to get the ball facing goal, taking more shots.  When staggered, the top striker is usually the bigger one. They win the ball out of the air, hold it, then play off to the lower striker. The lower striker is usually quicker, turning and facing goal with quick passes and moves and using the high striker as support.  Both strikers are in constant rotation as the attack builds and teammates move into the attacking third.


Jadilah percaya diri dan bersikap ramahlah saat Anda mendekati seorang gadis. Prioritaskan kenyamanannya. Teruslah chatting dengannya jika Anda nyaman. Buatlah percakapan yang mudah dengan menanyakan pertanyaan terbuka mengenai dirinya. Pujilah ia dengan membuatnya menyadari sesuatu yang Anda sukai dari dirinya. Mulailah percakapan tentang hal yang Anda berdua sama-sama minati. Jangan mengeluh jika bisa. Jangan menanyakan hal yang bersifat terlalu pribadi. Gunakan tatabahasa yang baik saat chatting. Awasilah penggunaan emoticon ketika chatting. Perhatikan bagaimana pesan Anda diartikan.

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When communicating with a girl online for the first time, put yourself out there so she knows that you are interested in her.  Start out by saying, "Hello!" or "Hi there!" Introduce yourself briefly; your name is likely all you need to share at this point. Ask her a question about something you saw on her profile that caught your eye. Online flirting and dating can feel uncomfortable and dangerous to many women, especially when they do not actually know the man with whom they are talking.  Respond to her in a timely fashion once she gets back to you. Responding too quickly might indicate that you are too eager, while taking too long might indicate that you have lost interest. It is best to respond within a few hours, whenever possible.  Focus on learning about who she is and what her personality is like. Asking her about her physical appearance or to send you photographs of herself will give the wrong impression of why you are chatting with her. Avoid immediately asking her out on a date or to meet in person. This also might give her the wrong impression and cause her to stop chatting with you. It is best to get to know each other for at least a few days before doing this. The point right now is to get to know her enough to determine whether you would like to take her on a date.  Keep the conversation balanced in terms of how much you talk about yourself. Answer her questions about you, and turn the conversation back around to her when you can. Be polite and funny, if appropriate. Do not be afraid to make jokes that you find funny, because chances are, she might also find them funny. "What do you do for a living?" "If you could go on vacation anywhere in the world, where would it be and why?" "What is your favorite season and why?" "Do you have brothers and/or sisters? How many?" "What is your favorite pastime with you family?" "What do you most enjoy doing with friends?" "Which is your favorite holiday and why?" "Do you like animals? What kinds?" "How would your best friend describe you?" "What is your...


Jadilah percaya diri. Berpakaian dengan keren. Cobalah gaya rambut baru. Curahkan isi hati kepada teman-teman Anda.

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Before you can think of getting others to fall for your charms, first you must look to yourself. Contrary to what you might believe, there's much, much more to looks than appearance. Nice clothes and style are a start, but nothing can replace a good attitude and self-respect. Girls can pick up when a guy doesn't believe in himself, and there's nothing as attractive as a girl who knows she's worth it. Regardless of your gender or the person you're trying to impress, confidence is an essential starting point.  For many people, learning to find confidence in themselves may be the hardest part of this entire process. If you're having trouble feeling secure in your chances of success, try writing down a list of things you like about yourself, and a list of personal qualities (e.g.: a great sense of humour, beautiful smile etc.) your crush would like you for. Don't worry if you're shy-- you can still show plenty of confidence if you're on the introverted side. Guys can feel really flattered if you feel slightly nervous around them. . If you're a shy guy, you might find girls are attracted to you for your mystery. Your best bet is to take comfort in what comes most naturally to you There is no one way to dress well-- part of this step is being able to figure out what your style is. Do some research into different styles. Try to recognize which styles appeal most to you, and which you think might look best on you. If you're having trouble, ask one of your friends for advice-- they're there for a reason, and chances are they'll have plenty of warm suggestions to help you spruce up your style! Don't try to overdo it with your appearance. Find a look that's fashionable but ultimately casual. You don't want to end up scaring your crush away! Nothing refreshes attention like a fresh new hairdo! This way, even if you've known him for a while, he will have to reconsider his impression of you. Who knows-- you may have found your new favourite look! Chances are you may be feeling stressed, excited, uncertain, or a mixture of...


Jadilah percaya diri. Ubahlah sikap tubuh Anda. Tingkatkan kemampuan sosial Anda. Kurangilah mengeluh. Tambahkan perbendaharaan kata Anda. Pertahankan pendapat Anda dengan tegas, tetapi tanpa merendahkan orang lain.

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Nothing communicates maturity like confidence. Even if your physical appearance, unique personality, or social skills aren't what you wish they are, that doesn't have to stop you from building self-confidence. There's a fine line between being confident and being arrogant or condescending. Confidence is feeling good about yourself, not better than those around you. Don't excessively brag about your accomplishments or speak in a way that puts you above others. This is classic immature behavior. Slouching is another classic behavior associated with teens. Hold your head up high and straighten your back. Learn how to walk confidently and improve your posture. Start by standing up straight wherever you are, whether it is walking down the street, sitting at your desk, using a computer, or waiting in line. Correct yourself whenever you notice your posture faltering. Soon, it will become second nature. Changing the way you carry yourself goes hand-in-hand with confidence. Keep your head up high; don't stare at the ground. Look people in the eye when you talk. Speak slowly and confidently instead of loudly. Remember your manners by using “please” and “thank you.” Listen closely to what others say; few things demonstrate maturity as much as a good listener.  When people finish stories about themselves, don't immediately launch into a story about yourself. This makes you look self-centered and uninterested. Instead, react to their story first, then use your own story as a way of relating to the other speaker. Learn how to use small talk. Ask how people are doing. Talk about the weather. Ask about their families. Be polite and carry on light conversation with people. People who are always complaining come off as immature and self-centered. As you mature, you accept that things come and go, and that complaining is unlikely to assist you. Brooding about how awful your life is won't help you actually improve it. Venting to your friends can be beneficial for catharsis or to solicit advice, but constantly complaining about...


Jadilah perhatian. Cintai diri sendiri. Jadilah asli. Menjadi elegan. Jauhkan arogansi di cek. Menjadi disiplin.

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. A lovely person has a good heart, hands down. They're empathetic and aware of how other people are feeling and how they can help. Here are two things to get started on the one-way train to thoughtfulness:  The next conversation you have, ask someone how they are. But when you say it, don't say it like you mean, "Hello." Look at them and say, "How are you?" And when they answer, listen. See if the conversation is any different than your usual conversations. Think of two things you could do right now that you've been putting off that might make people in your world smile. An email to that aunt you haven't spoken to in forever? Cleaning the dishes for your super busy roommate? And here's the kicker: Go do them! . The root of the word "lovely" is "love," after all! If you're caught up worrying how others perceive you and drowning in insecurities, it's pretty hard to come off as lovely. There's no room for gentle, understated grace and kindness if you think the world is out to get you. Yeah, this is a lot easier said than done. It's a process that can take years, and even then you'll have slip ups. But make it a point to make baby steps every day. Write a list of things you love about yourself. Wake up in the morning tell yourself you're beautiful. Spend ten minutes each day purposefully thinking positive thoughts. Do little things to make it seem more natural if it's an issue. . If you are not yourself, you cannot be lovely. You can be a lovely version of someone else, but you can't be a lovely you! And since "you" is good, why would you bother trying to be anything else? Being fake is just about as not lovely as it gets. Sometimes it's hard to know where we end and the person society tells us to be begins. Take a second to sit back and think about why you want to be lovely and what it means to you. Do you want to be lovely so people will like you? So men will be attracted to you? Hopefully the answer is no -- ideally, you should want to be lovely for yourself. . Go read the wikiHow article! Being elegant isn't...


Jadilah pihak yang berinisiatif. Alihkan rasa takut. Ambil pilihan. Maafkan ibu Anda.

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You may feel justified in expecting your mother to reach out to you, but don't be afraid to initiate contact. Your mother may want to reach out to you but not know how, or she may share similar feelings of fearing rejection. If you keep waiting for her to make the first move, don't be surprised if your relationship remains stuck. Before you decide to reach out, decide what you want to discuss first, and how you want to discuss it. Come in with a mindset of problem-solving, not accusation. Instead of internalizing anger and fear, realize that you don't have to react. Ask yourself, “What can I do to de-escalate this situation?” It's not your responsibility to manage her emotions, nor is it your job to make her anger or frustration your problem. Acknowledge her emotions without taking them on by simply saying, “I can tell that you are upset.” If your mother tries to corner you into making decisions or make you feel like you don't have a choice, call the bluff. Remember that you always have choices, regardless of how powerless someone makes you feel. When you reach your point of no return, be firm on not giving in.  Verbalize to your mother that you do have choices, and they are up to you to make. Thank her for her perspective, but feel free to make your own choice. Don't hold onto resentment. Forgiveness doesn't mean excusing her behavior, pretending a situation didn't happen, or letting her 'off the hook'. Forgiveness allows you to free yourself from holding on to any resentment or negative feelings toward your mother. And the sooner you are able to forgive, the faster you can begin repairing the damage.


Jadilah pramugari dan terbang ke seluruh dunia sebagai bagian dari pekerjaan. Bekerjalah di kapal pesiar untuk bepergian ke seluruh dunia dengan kamar dan akomodasi gratis. Jadilah agen perjalanan Jadilah pemandu wisata

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to fly all over the world as part of your job. Flight attendants travel daily and often get to spend the night in exotic locations, all while earning a good income and receiving nice benefits like discounted flights. Experience in the service industry or customer service will help you get a flight attendant job.  Requirements for flight attendants are different among different airlines. In general, you will need to be in good physical health, be able to stand on your feet for long periods of time, and be able to reach the overhead bins. Lots of airlines post available flight attendant jobs on their websites. Search online for available jobs with airlines that operate out of airports in your area. It’s important to know that flight attendants often work odd hours, especially when starting out, and you won’t be able to choose which destinations you fly to when you begin. to travel the world with free room and board. Working on a cruise ship will allow you to travel full-time while earning a salary and living for free aboard a cruise ship. Search online for available cruise ship jobs to find one matches your experience and interests.  Cruise ships are like miniature floating cities, so it’s possible to find almost any type of job you can imagine aboard a cruise ship. From restaurant servers to entertainers, people with all kinds of job experience and backgrounds are in demand on cruise ships. Understand that working on a cruise ship is not all fun and games. You will often have to work long hours and hard shifts. However, you will be rewarded with stopovers in far-away ports all over the world that you can explore. Naturally, cruise ships depart from major ports, so if you don’t live in a port city you will have to travel to one to start working on a cruise ship. to get good deals on travel and accommodation. If you've spent a lot of time exploring other places, you may be able to have a successful career as a travel agent. Travel agents provide the best advice on accommodations, entertainment, dining, and other...


Jadilah pria jantan. Lakukan kencan-kencan fantastis. Jangan mengharapkan kesempurnaan. Beri bantuan saat ia membutuhkannya. Jangan menekannya. Bersikaplah perhatian.

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You don't have to be Prince William to sweep your girlfriend off her feet. Just follow a few gentlemanly rules and your girlfriend will be feeling special in no time. Being a gentleman is about treating your girlfriend like a lady and paying attention to her needs and wants. And, of course, about making her feel special. Here are some things you can do:  Hold doors open for her Pull out her chair before she sits down Offer her your coat when she's cold Let her order first Check in to see that she's feeling happy Avoid being overly vulgar Have good manners Don't just take her to Papa John's and bowling every Friday night. Make an effort to plan regular date nights that are special, fun, and exciting. Though you can't go skydiving during every date (unless you're on The Bachelor), you can make an effort to keep your relationship feeling fresh and exciting by doing new things while also making time to do the things you love to do most together. Here are some great date night ideas:  Inviting her over and cooking a meal for her or cooking a meal together Taking a stroll through your town and window shopping on a nice evening Eating a type of cuisine she's never had before Seeing a romantic movie and going mini-golfing Taking a painting class together Going for a run together Picnicking Mini-golfing You don't have to try to do everything perfectly in order to make your girlfriend feel special. In fact, if you're so obsessed with planning the perfect date nights and being the perfect gentleman, your girlfriend may even get bored or feel like you're not being yourself. While it's great to make your girlfriend feel special, if you try too hard, she may feel like you're putting on an act. It's okay to make mistakes sometimes. If you do, though, just make sure to apologize. Nobody's perfect, and it's better to apologize than to try to act like nothing went wrong. To make your girlfriend feel special, you have to be there for her, and not just during the fun times. You have to be there to help her with her homework,...


Jadilah pria yang spontan. Jadilah seorang petualang. Buat teman-teman dan keluarganya terpesona. Pertahankan kemandirian Anda. Jangan mengabaikannya.

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Though having a routine, from date night to movie night, can help establish the patterns that make a relationship meaningful and healthy, that doesn't mean that a routine is always fun. Mix things up from time to time by being completely spontaneous. Make an effort to not do the expected and ordinary thing all the time, and the girl will love hanging out with you even more.  Take a random weekend trip to a place you've never been before. Try food from a country you've never even heard of. Do a cartwheel in the middle of the street. And don't underestimate the spontaneous hug, kiss, or compliment. If you want to sweep a girl off her feet, then you have to bring adventure and excitement to her life. This doesn't mean you have to go sky diving or climb Mount Everest, but it does mean that you should go out of your way to keep things exciting, pushing each other out of your comfort zones, and doing the things that you never thought you would do. Whatever you do that feels new, it will keep the girl's adrenaline pumping, and will keep making her excited about the relationship.  This could mean running a marathon together, learning to scuba dive, or even learning a new language. When a new task is presented, have the "say yes" mentality, instead of saying "no" and thinking of all the reasons why it wouldn't be a good idea. You may ask, "What do her friends and family have to do with her?" Well, the short answer is -- everything. While you can start off a steamy and exciting romance without ever meeting her friends and family, if you want to be in it for the long haul, then you have to make the effort to get to know her friends and to be polite and kind when it comes to meeting her family.  Even if you don't quite hit it off with her friends right away, give them a chance. If you stick with the girl, it's likely they'll be a part of your life forever. Sure, family events aren't always the most fun, but don't complain about it. If you really care about her, then you have to really care about her family -- even if...


Jadilah pribadi yang autentik Syukuri Jadilah pribadi yang murah hati dengan membagikan apa yang Anda miliki. Jalinlah hubungan yang bermanfaat Bebaskan diri dari emosi negatif Jadilah sukarelawan Kembangkan kehidupan spiritual. Jadilah pribadi yang bijaksana

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Being your true self is essential for developing your inner beauty. Reflect on your values, interests, and goals in life. Then, pursue what makes you happy. You can develop your authenticity by doing the following activities:  Notice how you feel in different situations, then do more of what feels right. Be open and honest with your friends. Don’t worry about being perfect because no one is. Be present in each moment by focusing on your 5 senses. Being grateful for what you have will make your inner beauty shine. Instead of complaining about what’s lacking in your life, focus on your blessings. Celebrate the people who are important to you, the talents or skills you possess, the opportunities you have, and the small comforts you enjoy. Here are some ways to express your gratitude:  Keep a gratitude journal to record the things you’re thankful for. Send your close friends cards that tell them how much they mean to you. Give small and meaningful gifts, like a poetry book, necklace, or painted stone. Tell your loved ones how you feel about them. Call people to check on them. You don’t need a lot of money to have abundance in life. You may be rich in time, talent, or creativity. Share what you have with others to help make people happy. This will help you have inner beauty. Here are some great ways to be generous:  Let people borrow your stuff. Give your time to help others. Share a meal with people in need. Bring snacks and drinks when you go to events. Give gifts to people in need around the holidays. Living with constant conflict and dealing with people who are toxic can drain you. This makes it hard to have inner beauty because you’re upset or exhausted all of the time. Instead, surround yourself with supportive, positive people who help you be your best self. Make sure you’re giving your friends, relatives, and partners the time, attention, and support that they need, as well.  Make time for your friends, especially those who’ve been there for you for awhile.  Make new friends to keep you growing and...


Jadilah pribadi yang baik. Berusahalah agar Anda merasa senang, meskipun berpura-pura. Ketahui nilai keutamaan yang Anda yakini. Ubahlah cara Anda memandang diri sendiri.

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to everyone around you. Believe it or not, this can be the first step to feeling your own power. If you don't see yourself as worthy or good enough, you might not recognize the effect you can have on others. Truth is, no matter who you are, you have the power to positively (or negatively) impact the world. Your lousy mood can be contagious; however, happiness and positivity are, too. Research shows that doing something kind for someone else increases the 'feel-good' chemical in our brains, known as serotonin. So, even when you're not feeling too great, try to be nice to others - you'll feel better in the process.  Take a moment to make eye contact. Ask others how they're doing or offer a sincere compliment. Try to remember names and ask friends or coworkers about their loved ones. Give people the benefit of the doubt. You don't know what's happening in their lives. You might be the one and only person to treat them like a human being today. You may not realize how just one kind word or smile - even from a stranger - can lift someone's spirit. Going through the motions of feeling happy and content can actually lead to contentment. Just as doing something kind for others can make us feel better about ourselves, pretending that we are in a great mood can, too.   If you wake up one morning feeling particularly low, try to stop the cycle by channeling positive energy. Look in the mirror and smile at yourself. It may feel silly, but it works. When you go out into the world and others ask you how you're doing, answer as if it's the best day of your life. Say things like "I'm having a marvelous day" or "The day just keeps getting better and better." Projecting happiness can result in a self-fulfilling prophecy. After you've spent an hour or so smiling and commenting on how great a day you're having, you'll eventually find that you really are having a good day. In fact, research shows that just faking a smile and arranging your facial expression in this way can invoke some of the same autonomic changes that a genuine...


Jadilah pribadi yang bersahabat. Bersikaplah toleran kepada siapa saja. Carilah teman yang senang bersosialisasi. Bersikaplah jujur kepada diri sendiri.

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When you’re feeling awkward or nervous, it’s tempting start scrolling mindlessly through your social media feed to look busy. However, this won’t invite people in. Instead, put down the phone and use relaxed, confident body language: smile, stand up straight, and make eye contact with others. You’ll look friendly and open.  Avoid crossing your arms and looking at the ground. Avoid spending too much time on social media. While it is important to stay in touch with old friends, it is also a good thing to meet new people. Fake it ‘till you make it. Even if you feel awkward, using confident body language will give the illusion that you’re at ease. College is a time to meet people with different backgrounds and identities. Don’t write someone off just because they aren’t similar to you or your high school friends. Keep an open mind, and  you just might find a new best friend. Your college will be filled with an endless variety of people. Some of them will be shy, and others will be the life of the party. You should find a balance of friends, of course, but you should pick out at least one person, or even a few people, who have really great social skills, are excited to meet new people, and are always up to something fun. This will maximize your chances of meeting as many people as possible -- and of finding the few people who really matter to you. You’ve probably heard this one countless times, but it bears repeating. After all, everyone is eager to make new friends quickly in college, so they may alter themselves to try to fit in. However, forcing a friendship usually doesn't work out so well. Be yourself for genuine, lasting connections.  Focus on your talents and strengths instead of your weaknesses. So what if you’re not so great at math? You’re a superstar in foreign languages! Take some time to think about your values and passions. What matters most to you? What do you want to accomplish in life? Remember, you can always find people who share your interests, values, and passions. Keep looking for ways to...