A genuine smile comes from genuine happiness. Studies on what makes people happy reveal that it doesn't have much to do with material goods or high achievement; it seems to whittle down to your outlook on life. In other words, try to how to Be Optimistic and real smiles will appear on your face throughout the day.  Think about who has the most genuine smiles: kids! They don't worry as much as adults because life is less complicated for them. Try to follow their lead and be laid back and playful! Try not to force yourself to smile unless you're really feeling happy. Stop being a people-pleaser. If you constantly smile in order to be polite and agreeable, you're tightly controlling your countenance and not giving your Duchenne smile much of a chance to shine through. A real smile arises from your own personal joy, not someone else's. When you're in a situation that's not making you feel cheerful, but you don't want to appear as though you're having a bad time, you've got to find your happy place. Think of something that makes you want to jump for joy, something that brings a smile to your face without fail. This exercise will help you recognize what really makes you happy. Look in the mirror and cover everything below your eyes with a handkerchief or similar. Then start thinking or talking out loud about your happiest memories. Smile as you do so. You'll notice that at some points, your eyes "twinkle" and you get "crows' feet" wrinkles near your temples. There's your Duchenne smile! The closest you're ever going to get to smiling with your eyes on command is to channel your happiest memories and let your face do the rest. If you're preoccupied with the color or straightness of your teeth, the prominence of your gums, the smell of your breath, and so on, you might subconsciously stifle your smile because you feel embarrassed. Taking care of the issues that distract you from fully smiling will help you have a brighter and more genuine smile.  Look into whitening your teeth and getting rid of bad breath to take...

TL;DR in Spanish:

Ten pensamientos positivos Encuentra tu lugar feliz. Ten confianza en tu sonrisa. Sé inconsciente cuando hables con la gente.


A giclee print is a type of print that has a higher quality and longer lifespan than most inkjet prints. If you're selling your artwork, a giclee print will make your work look more professional. There are 3 main criteria a piece must meet to be considered a giclee print:  The resolution is at least 300 dpi. This makes the image sharp, clear, and look professional. The print is printed on archival paper. Archival paper will maintain the colors and integrity of the ink for up to 100 years. If you're selling your artwork, you want your customers to be able to keep it for a lifetime. The print is created with pigment-based ink in a larger printer. Pigment-based ink won't fade like dye-based ink will. Most printers that will take pigment-based ink are larger than regular inkjet printers, and they hold up to 12 different color ink cartridges (as opposed to 2 or 3 in inkjet printers). You can only use pigment-based inks in certain printers. A lot of the brands that make standard inkjet printers – Canon, Epson, HP, and Kodak, for example – all make printers that take pigment-based inks. You can see which models can print using pigment-based ink at https://laserinkjetlabels.com/pages/pigment-based-inkjet-cartridges/. Once you click "print," a dialog box will come up. Choose your printer from the "printer" drop-down menu, then choose "other options." Under "color management," choose "Photoshop Element manages colors," then your printer in the printer profile under that menu. It will allow the software to adjust the colors according to your printer so they come out looking professional. When you're preparing your digital artwork, your computer will use RBG mode to create and save the colors. RBG mode tells your screen exactly how to display them. However, when you're ready to print, choose CYMK mode instead. Those colors are designed specifically for color printing. The conversions from RBG to CYMK can make colors that appear bright on screen look slightly dark once printed. If you're going to convert to CYMK mode,...

TL;DR in Spanish:

Elabora una impresión Giclée para los trabajos que vayas a vender. Utiliza una impresora de alta calidad. Modifica la configuración de la impresora. Utiliza el modo CYMK para la impresión de arte. Realiza una impresión de prueba de la imagen.


A girl who is interested in you will laugh more often and her voice may rise in pitch. She might even say flirtatious things, like complimenting you on how you look today. If she is more willing to talk about personal topics with you, such as your plans for the future, she might be interested romantically.  If you’re lucky, she’ll even give you helpful hints for dates like mentioning that she loves a particular band or wants to go dancing.   Giving you a compliment such as “Oh I love your shirt!  That band is one of my favorites.” can indicate interest. If she asks you about what you are doing later on in the week she might be subtly asking you to spend some time with her. If the person is constantly interrupting you or doesn’t seem focused on the conversation then they are probably not romantically interested in you.   Try to pay attention during your time together for signs that she may not be interested in you:  Interruptions are rarely a result of a girl being shy, which makes it a good indicator. Gauge the responses you get during a conversation.  For example if you were just explaining how well your garden is growing and she responds with “Uh-huh....” she is likely not interested. Silence can be a good indicator that there isn't a good connection. Some studies propose that humor is one of the best indicators of romantic interest. If you are having humorous exchanging and laughing at one another’s silly jokes, there may be a romantic spark in your relationship. Humor is a way to test the social waters and figure out if you are a good fit with the person.  For example, you might both playfully imagine a silly situation and discuss what you think would happen. Joking around can let you know if your sense of humor is similar with hers.  You might enjoy puns and she might hate them.  While this may not prevent you from liking each other, it's good to know how best to make one another laugh. Playful behavior can be a sign of personal interest and is also a trait that is commonly valued in potential partners. ...

TL;DR in Spanish:

Presta atención a cómo habla y de qué habla. Nota si te interrumpe. Nota si se ríe. Nota si tiene un comportamiento juguetón. Nota si tiene celos.


A girl who likes you will laugh more when you're around. She may even laugh at something that's not that funny, just because you said it. If she seems to be laughing or giggling a lot while you're talking to you, she may be into you. If you've been friends, she may suddenly seem more distant. If you haven't been close, she may suddenly seem more affectionate. If her behavior suddenly changes towards you, her feelings may have changed, too. Also, watch how she treats other people in comparison to how she treats you. If she treats you differently, that could indicate she likes you. People who like each other tend to make gentle contact while talking. For instance, she might reach out and touch your arm when she's making a point, or she might rub your shoulder as she walks up behind you. Hugs are also a good sign. While she's not likely to follow you around, she might just show up where she knows you're going to be, such as reading in the library when she knows you have study hall there. Alternatively, she might try to sit at a nearby table at lunch or even at the same table. Also, if she seems to be more dressed up than usual when she's around you, whether at school or when you're alone, that could mean she likes you. If you're talking on social media or by text message, she'll likely reply fairly quickly if she's into you, often within minutes if she's online. If she's not that into you, she may wait longer to reply. Also, if she adds you on social media, that's a good sign, too. Often, she'll mention more than once that she doesn't have a boyfriend or girlfriend. If she's gay or bisexual (and you are, too), she might bring up that fact more than once to let you know she's available. If she's always saying nice things to you, that's a pretty good sign she could be into you. Of course, everyone gives out a compliment every now and then, but if she is doing it regularly, pay attention. For instance, you may notice she is always complimenting what you're wearing or how smart you are. If she pays close attention...

TL;DR in Spanish:

Verifica si se ríe de tus chistes. Verifica si empieza a actuar de manera diferente a tu alrededor. Presta atención si te toca demasiado. Verifica si trata de estar cerca de ti demasiado. Verifica qué tan rápido responde a tus mensajes. Verifica si hace saber a todos que está soltera. Presta atención a los cumplidos. Verifica si recuerda pequeñas cosas acerca de ti.


A girl's words should say just as much about her potential interest in you as her behavior. She might flirt, but does she pay attention to you, to what you say, and to who you are as a person? Listening is a key indicator that she is interested. Pay attention to an any details that she drops.  For example, does your mystery lady remember things that you say? Does she recall that you really hate banana peppers on pizza but really like anchovies? Does she quote Star Trek at you, because she knows that it's your favorite movie? What about other likes and dislikes? Does she remember your birthday? Does she ask how you are if you've said that you had a bad day or are feeling unwell? What about small details? For example, a girl who remembers that you wore a red sweater to last year's Christmas party – when you have long forgotten – either has a great eye for detail or pays special attention to you. While a casual flirt might ask you how you are, how your work is going, or other stock questions, an interested lady will want to know more about you personally. Does she ask questions about you, questions that show a deeper interest? This is a good sign.  Questions about your family, friends, pets, hobbies, and other personal details may show that she wants to know more about your personal side. Does she ever ask you embarrassing things, i.e. the name of your goldfish, the name of your favorite stuffed animal as a child, or other cute but somewhat mortifying questions? This could be a good sign. It is a very good sign that a girl is interested in you if she talks about you with her friends or family, or at least hints that she does. This means that she thinks of you are part of her life and wants others to be aware of you. It means that you rank high enough to be included in her other important relationships.  Listen carefully for hints. She will probably not say openly, “I talk about you all the time with my friends.” You'll have to read between the lines. Does she lead on that she shares stories about you or things...

TL;DR in Spanish:

Presta atención a los detalles. Fíjate en sus preguntas. Fíjate cómo encajas en sus otras relaciones. Detente a pensar.


A good amount of space is 4 by 5 feet (1.2 by 1.5 m), though you can make it smaller or larger. An ideal area should get 4 to 5 hours of sunlight a day. If the area is not very level, even it out with garden tools. Then, then fill in the gaps with things like twigs, leaves, and bark. This is optional, but it can be helpful when it comes to containing your garden in one space. You can use wooden planks, or you can use materials such as branches, bricks, or rocks. The material you choose for your garden wall largely depends on cost and the look you’re going for. For example, wooden planks are commonly used and look nice, but they are more expensive than branches. Once you've cut the grass and weeds, do not remove these cuttings from the area. If you leave them there, they can help fertilize your no dig garden!

TL;DR in Spanish:

Elige un lugar nivelado para el jardín. Restringe el jardín al construir una pared alrededor de él. Poda o corta el área para alistarla, pero deja recortes.


A good cage for a single canary will let them fly back and forth many times. Get one that is at least 16 inches (41 cm) tall and 30 inches (76 cm) wide with bars that are 1⁄2 inch (1.3 cm) apart. It should also be wide and long, rather than tall, to give the bird room to fly.  Do not buy a round or ornamental cage. These do not provide enough space for the canary to fly properly. Pick a metal cage made out of iron or powder-coated steel. Find a room that is frequently occupied so that your canary does not get lonely. Set the cage against the wall or in a corner away from any windows, doors, air vents, direct sunlight, or drafts.  A living or family room, home office, or dining room may be good places. Do not put the cage in the kitchen. Do not use any sprays, air fresheners, furniture polish, scented candles, cigarettes, or other fragrances in the same room as the cage. Do not place the cage on the ground. It should be at least eye level. Newspaper lining will help you clean up bird droppings easily, and cob bedding works well too. Replace the newspaper or bedding every day so that the cage does not become too dirty. Avoid using cat litter or wood shavings as cage liner. Perches give your canary somewhere to fly and roost. Two perches in their cage will keep them active and happy. Look for perches between 3⁄8 inch (9.5 mm) and 3⁄4 inch (19 mm) in diameter.  Tree branches make for great perches. Place the perches about 16 inches (41 cm) apart in the cage. Place them at opposite ends of the cage to maximize their room to fly. Generally, canaries will need three dishes—one for food, one for water, and one for a bath.  Do not put the dishes under the canary’s perches or else droppings might fall into them.

TL;DR in Spanish:

Compra una jaula grande y rectangular. Encuentra un lugar con actividad y que sea seguro para poner la jaula. Cubre el piso de la jaula con periódico. Coloca algunas perchas. Coloca recipientes para comida, agua y un baño para aves.


A good detective story usually starts with a strange or intriguing crime. Look at current news stories for crimes that have been committed recently or solved by real life detectives. Use a crime from the past, such as a cold case that has never been solved, as inspiration for the crime in your story.  Look at the crime section in newspapers, true crime shows, and old newspapers at your local library. You can also use a crime that happened to a friend or family member as inspiration for a fictional crime. For example, you may focus on a crime like the murder of a close relative to someone the detective knows or the kidnapping of the most famous police dog in the county. The detective in your story is at the center of the mystery so they should be memorable, unique, and smart. They should have character traits like a keen sense of observation and an ability to get information from others. Make the detective in your story brilliant, but also human, with flaws. For example, you may have a detective that is an older woman who appears frail and bumbling, but is in fact a genius at solving crimes. Or you may have a detective who is blind but is able to rely on their other senses to observe their surroundings. Come up with a secondary character who works with the detective. The companion or partner can give the reader someone to identify with, as the reader may not be able to relate to a genius detective. The companion may not be as smart as the detective, but they can offer perspective on the crime. They can also assist the detective as needed. For example, a famous companion would be Dr. Watson in the Sherlock Holmes mysteries. Dr. Watson acts as a foil to Sherlock Holmes, as he is not as smart but he does help Sherlock to empathize with others and see the crimes in a different light. A good detective story will have a well-paced plot. A traditional plot outline includes six parts: the set up, the inciting incident, the rising action, the climax, the falling action, and the resolution. An example plot may be:  The...

TL;DR in Spanish:

Inspírate en un crimen o evento de la vida real. Crea un detective único. Dale un compañero al detective. Crea una trama interesante. Lee ejemplos de cuentos policíacos.


A good foundation is one that contains silicone, which will help “fill in” your skin. Avoid any foundations that are identified as luminous or matte- these have been known to make skin look unnatural. Instead, choose foundations identified by words such as “lightweight” or “sheer.” Lightweight foundations will make your skin appear smooth and glowing without feeling like you’re wearing a mask.  Know your skin tone. A foundation that is too light or too dark will make you look like you are wearing makeup (and the secret to model skin is to look like you are makeup free). To determine the optimal foundation skin for your skin, test various foundation shades on the inside of your wrist or on your neck- this will help you to figure out the tone of your complexion.  If you have a red tint to your skin, get rid of it with a yellow-based foundation. Models never look like they have makeup caked on their faces. To avoid a cakey look, dab on six dime-sized dots of foundation on your face. For optimal results, place two dots on your forehead, one on the tip of your nose, one on each side of your nose, and one on your chin. Make sure you blend in this foundation thoroughly with your fingers for a natural look. If, after you apply foundations, you still see discolorations or acne spots on your skin, you will want to focus specifically on these areas. Look for a solid concealer and concealer brush that you can use to apply makeup directly to dark spots or blemishes. Do you want that sun-kissed model look without having to face the dangers of ultraviolet rays from the sun? Makeup can help with this. Choose a bronzer that works with your skin tone and is no more than two shades darker than your skin color.  Apply the bronzer to areas of your face (such as your nose, forehead, and cheeks) that would tan in the sunlight, and make sure it is blended in evenly to the surrounding skin.

TL;DR in Spanish:

Elige la base adecuada. Aplícate la base con moderación. Oculta las imperfecciones. Usa un bronceador para que tu piel luzca radiante y saludable.


A good introduction isn’t ad-libbed. Spend time rehearsing it before you’re set to go on. Having to rely on notes on stage is distracting to the audience. Instead, make sure you know the words and can say them effortlessly. Your introduction must sound fluent and energetic. You can practice your introduction numerous ways, such as by recording yourself or saying it in front of people you know.  When stage fright is a problem, try reciting the introduction while looking in a mirror. Once you feel comfortable, rehearse it in front of family and friends. Recording your introduction is a simple way of hearing yourself while you’re alone. Play it back and listen for any spots where you need to improve. When you’re waiting for your moment, you’ll think to go over the introduction again. A few rehearsals is acceptable. Avoid wearing yourself out with numerous rehearsals and memorization. Let yourself feel secure from practicing and being enthusiastic about the guest speaker. It’ll keep your introduction from sounding scripted. Stating your name and title is useful if someone in the room is unfamiliar with you. Keep this line short so you can get to the rest of the introduction. Remember that you’re setting the stage for the guest speaker, so there’s no need for a long explanation of who you are. If someone introduced you earlier, you can skip this.  Say, “Good evening. My name is Alex Brown and I’m the organizer of this event.” When everyone knows you, such as for a teacher introducing a speaker to a classroom, you don’t need to do this. Because you practiced, you'll be ready to recite the introduction with enthusiasm. Keep the energy level high. Stand up straight. Increase the energy level as you build towards the introduction by producing a little more volume and authority. Remember how you’d want the introduction to sound if you were in the audience. You’d want it to inspire you to pay attention to the guest speaker. Many speakers get nervous or overexcited. They rush their speech, sounding inaudible. Slow...

TL;DR in Spanish:

Practica la presentación. Ensaya la presentación moderadamente antes de subir al escenario. Preséntate a ti mismo al comenzar. Muestra entusiasmo mientras hablas. Habla fuerte y claro. Guía los aplausos. Mira hacia el orador a medida que se aproxime. Dale la mano al orador.


A good mattress is your foundation. It will align your body and give you support where you need it most – in this case, the hips. Talk with your doctor or orthopedic specialist about what kind of mattress will give you the best support and sleep.  In general, you’ll need more support from your mattress. A firm mattress should provide this better than a softer kind, but make sure that it’s not too hard. Add a foam pad to the top of the mattress, too, to increase support and distribute your weight more evenly. Avoid mattresses with internal metal springs. These inner springs create pressure points, especially for side-sleepers and for joints like the hip. Instead, try a memory foam mattress, which will more even distribute your body weight. Losing sleep with hip pain is no fun. You’ll be better off if you make the most of the sleep you do get, though. Practice good sleep hygiene. Get into a healthy sleep schedule and maximize your rest, aiming for ideally 7 to 9 hours per night.  Go to bed and wake up at the same time each day. This rhythm is key. In fact, try to maintain your normal wakeup time even if you have a late night or sleep poorly. Create a restful bedroom environment. Make sure your bed is comfortable and that the room is quiet, cool, and dark. Relax in the evening. Starting a few hours before your bed time, start to unwind. Take a warm shower, for example, lower the lights, read a book, or play light or ambient music. Avoid caffeine and other stimulants. Also, turn off electronic devices – backlit screens can actually disrupt your sleep patterns. A few days in a row of pained and disrupted sleep can be stressful as well as tiring. You might even consider a sleep aid. Resist the temptation to get to sleep artificially, however, as pills and other sleep aids can have bad side effects.  Avoid drinking alcohol as a sleep aid, for one. Alcohol may help you fall asleep more quickly, but it disrupts your body’s normal sleep patterns and can make you feel groggy and fatigued in the morning. Minimize your...

TL;DR in Spanish:

Escoge un colchón firme. Mantén un buen horario de sueño. Evita usar medicamentos para dormir. Aplica hielo en la cadera antes de irte a dormir.


A good moisturizer won’t solve the problem of sagging skin, but it will mask the effect. Moisturizing will make your skin look fuller and improve the skin’s appearance, at least for a while.  Apply a moisturizer to your face and body often, ideally at least once per day. Do this after a shower when your skin is saturated with water, to lock in more moisture. Avoid creams that are too heavy, as they tend to clog pores. Choose a cream that’s formulated to your skin type, i.e. oily or sensitive skin. Try also to pick a “non-comedogenic” kind, which means that it won’t clog pores. Topical retinoids like Retin-A, Renova, Avage, and Tazorac are derived from vitamin A and, when applied to the skin, partially repair damaged collagen. You can use these over-the-counter substances to reduce your fine lines and other wrinkles and even help the skin renew itself faster. Usually, you apply them overnight.  Look at your neighborhood pharmacy for such creams. Usually they cost under $20. Apply topical retinoids at night and rinse off in the morning. Then put on a good sunscreen and protective clothing, as they can make your skin burn more easily. Also be aware that, in high doses, retinoids can make your skin scaly, itchy, or excessively dry. The idea behind exfoliation is to remove the outer layer of dead skin, which leaves your skin brighter. If done right, exfoliation over the long-term can stimulate collagen production and make your skin more youthful looking. It can also make other topical treatments more effective.  Try to exfoliate with a scrub or a motorized scrub brush. Again, you should be able to find these at most pharmacies for a reasonable cost. You might also try an at-home, 2% salicylic acid wash. Be careful not to be too aggressive. Over-zealous exfoliation can damage the skin and leave the redness or discoloration. Avoid exfoliation if you have rosacea or inflammatory acne, for example. Talk with a board-certified dermatologist to see what the best kind of exfoliant is for your skin, as well as how often...

TL;DR in Spanish:

Hidrata bien tu piel. Usa retinoides tópicos. Exfóliate. Prueba cremas antiedad de venta libre. Evita dañar más tu piel.


A good person works hard for a relationship to succeed. ” In generations past, these were seen as necessary goals, but modern women also work toward a career, committed partnerships, life-fulfilling hobbies and volunteering–to name just a few goals. Being a woman who is good for others means being a good listener. Understand that although some people will come to you for advice, others come to talk and feel supported. If you are volunteering your time because of guilt, peer-pressure or other fears, you may want to focus on your own well being until you have the strength to give because you want to help people. Raising kids or being a role model is hard, because you constantly try to help others avoid your mistakes. Show them how to make good decisions through your own actions.

TL;DR in Spanish:

Enfrenta los desafíos en cualquier relación. Entiende que ser madre o esposa ya no define a la “buena mujer”. Escucha a la gente. Únete a un voluntariado o contribuye a la caridad por razones adecuadas. Intenta enseñar a los demás con el ejemplo.


A good place to look is through the web. There are a number of sites that have lists of symbols you can copy and then paste into your Facebook message. Let us use this site as an example: http://fsymbols.com/all/. Scroll through the available symbols and see which one you like. Highlight it with your mouse, right-click it, then click “Copy.” Right-click either on a chat field or on the Status Update field, which is located at the top of your News Feed upon entering facebook. Right-click on the chat or Status Update field and select “Paste” from the context menu. You should see the symbol on the text field. Now, all you have to do is write a status or chat message and hit “Post” or “Send.”

TL;DR in Spanish:

Busca un símbolo que quieras colocar en tu estado o mensaje de chat. Copia el símbolo que quieras. Dirígete a tu perfil en Facebook. Pega el símbolo.


A good real estate agent considers their work a full-time job and knows that weekends and evenings can be the busiest times. In real estate, every day is a "business day" and if crucial items come up on evenings or weekends, you need an agent whom you can reach. An agent who isn't available throughout the day may not be your best option.  If an agent does not answer during "regular business hours," you may have an agent who is doing real estate on the side. Their "day job" may not allow them to give you the attention you deserve. Conversely, an agent who doesn't answer evening or weekend calls, or worse yet, has a voicemail that states anything about "the next business day," may not be available when you need them. If an agent does not work in your area, or cannot readily provide information about the area, this is a bad sign. A quality agent should be able to quickly rattle off things like neighborhoods, general price ranges, nearby businesses, and so on. If an agent cannot provide specific details about an area, you may want to find someone who knows it better. Typical commissions are usually between five and seven percent. When agent offers a lower commission, make sure they aren't offering you less service than higher commissioned agents. Before signing a contract, verify that all of their promises are in writing. When buying, you don't usually have to worry about the commission because the seller generally pays both sides (buyer and seller) so focus instead on customer service and contract knowledge.

TL;DR in Spanish:

Evita a los agentes que no responden o devuelven tus llamadas. Evita a los agentes que no conocen la zona. Verifica que una comisión más baja no implique menos servicios.


A good relationship is based on teamwork, whether it's with your spouse, your little league coach or your work colleagues. A good team has a common goal. It knows its way to success is dependent on acknowledging the skills and abilities of each person, not insisting on things being done one way only. Find a suitable name for your chosen higher principle. Call it love, truth, or spirituality. Connect with your higher principle regularly and in all beautiful or difficult situations. Live in the center of your relationship, guided by your higher principle. Constant criticism of another suggests superiority and disdain; this condescension destroys love. When there is a place for criticism, provide it factually, sensitively and at the right moment. The basic rule for each relationship is least two thirds praise and less than one third constructive critique.   Compliment each other. Men love admiration. Women love gestures of affection. Look in the mirror. There are plenty of things that you know aren't promoting the best of yourself. Work on those aspects of yourself and learn from what others have to say too. Avoid cutting off your partner too often from his or her wishes. Say "Yes" as often as is possible. Every relationship requires effort. It isn't as simple as meeting someone, hitting off and hoping it'll stay strong. It requires a commitment from both parties to care, nurture and work through issues that assail the relationship from time to time.  Marriage is work. It is a false way of comprehending the purpose of marriage that you can completely let go of yourself at home. It takes some effort to make a relationship succeed, and you have to decide if you're willing to put in that work. Spend regular time undertaking certain activities that make you and your partner happy. For example, sex, dining, travel, excursions and a common hobby. Do not demand too much from a partner, life or even from yourself. Anyone who cannot limit his or her wishes risks being permanently unhappy. If you do not know the point of...

TL;DR in Spanish:

Sé un buen miembro de equipo. Aferra tu relación en un principio positivo. Evita hacer muchas críticas. Esfuérzate bastante para seguir teniendo una buena relación. Sé modesto. Resuelve constructivamente los conflictos. Sean honestos entre ustedes.


A good rule of thumb is that if you aren’t using it, turn it off. This goes for lights, televisions, computers, printers, video game consoles and so on.  Use a power strip to control multiple items with the flip of a single switch. You can plug all of your devices into one power source. This is especially useful for computers and entertainment system setups. When you're done, simply turn the power strip off with the switch.  If you find that you have a hard time remembering to turn your devices and appliances off, try picking up an outlet timer at your local hardware store or online for as little as $5.00. Set the timer to turn off at the same time each day. Leaving devices such as laptops, desktop computers, mixer-grinders, ovens, TVs etc., plugged in can use "phantom" energy. Many devices and appliances simply stay on standby or enter a sleep mode when they are turned off. These items still draw electricity when they are in this state. This is especially important if you go on vacation, and for items that you do not anticipate using within the next 36 hours. Set your systems to a slightly lower or higher temperature than it is outside, when you can. This makes it so your systems don’t have to work as hard. Plus, the warmer the heat, the more money it costs; and the same goes for your air conditioner—the colder the air, the more money you spend.  When the winter is too cold to set your thermostat just above the outside temperature, set it at the lowest temperature that is comfortable for your family. During hot summer weather, set your thermostat at the highest temperature that is comfortable for your family. For example, you might set it at 78 °F (26 °C). Although you might not feel cool, it's far better than 90 °F (32 °C)! Use a fan or natural ventilation as often as you can to keep cool when it is hot outside. Wear extra layers and use a blanket to stay warm when it is cold outside. LED light bulbs do cost more than conventional light bulbs, but the benefits outweigh the cost. They use 25-85% less energy,...

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Ahorra energía apagando los aparatos eléctricos si no estás usándolos. Desconecta los dispositivos en donde sea posible de forma que se limite el flujo de electricidad. Modifica la configuración de temperatura en tu casa. Cambia tus bombillos a bombillos led en la mayor cantidad posible de luces. Usa un tendedero anticuado en lugar de una secadora eléctrica. Mide la energía que consuman tus dispositivos empleando un medidor de kilovatios.


A good rule of thumb is to feed your goldfish no more than he can eat in about one to two minutes. Goldfish can literally eat themselves to death, so you need to be very careful that you do not need overfeed your goldfish. Feeding him up to three times a day should be sufficient. Grab just enough food that you can easily pinch between your thumb and index finger. This is about the amount of food that you should feed your goldfish. With the many different types of goldfish food that are available, you will need to know the proper way to prepare each type of food. This will lessen the likelihood that your goldfish will experience digestive upset after eating.  Pre-soak flakes to prevent your goldfish from swallowing air bubbles when he eats the flakes; swallowing air bubbles can lead to swim bladder problems and constipation. To pre-soak the flakes, dip them in the tank water a few times before fully placing them in the water. Feed them one to two times a week. Pre-soak pellets for 10 to 15 minutes, or until they are about twice their original size. Place a small amount of tank water in another container and place the pellets in this container. After they have softened up and increased in size, add them to the tank. Feed the pellets two to three times a week. Pre-soak freeze-dried food in a small container of tank water to prevent digestive upset.  Completely thaw frozen foods before adding them to your goldfish’s tank. Place the food in your refrigerator for the thawing process. Peel, chop, and soften fruits and vegetables. Boiling is a good way to soften vegetables.  Fruits and vegetables can be given as occasional treats. Thoroughly rinse live food if you find it yourself in the environment. Rinsing earthworms with water will help to remove the dirt and potential disease-causing organisms that may be in the dirt. To feed worms, cut them into small pieces before putting them in your goldfish's tank; you could even try placing the small pieces on a toothpick and feeding them to your fish that way. Feed the...

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Alimenta al pez dorado con pequeñas cantidades varias veces al día. Aprende la manera correcta de preparar cada tipo de alimento. Observa al pez cuando lo alimentes. Elabora un plan de alimentación si vas a viajar.


A good rule of thumb is to feed your pigs roughly 7 pounds of food for every 30 pounds of body weight. Piglets, for instance, may only need about 1-2.5 lbs (0.5-1 kg) of creep feed per day, while a full-sized hog might eat anywhere from 15-50 lbs (6.8-23 kg)!  Pregnant and lactating sows typically need an extra 0.5kg of feed per day to be able to nourish their unborn litter or produce milk for their young.  It’s generally better to give your pigs too much food than not enough. As mentioned, they’ll stop eating when they’re no longer hungry. Do some research on the specific nutritional needs of the pigs you’re raising to get a better idea of exactly how much of what to feed them. Automatic feeders refill themselves continually as their contents are depleted. This can make feeding less of a chore for busy or forgetful farmers. And since pigs instinctively know when to stop eating, you won’t have to worry about overfeeding them accidentally.  Automatic feeders can be used to dispense grains, pellets, meal, or any type of dry feed.  Look for feeders with separate troughs to make sure your pigs are getting enough to eat and aren’t being forced to fight over food. Whenever you feed your pigs something that comes out of the still or stove, portion it out into individual servings in a large trough. That way, you can make sure they’re only eating a predetermined amount. Using a separate trough will also eliminate the need to dirty up or risk contaminating your main feeder. Only serve as much leftover table food as your pigs can eat at one time. Anything left behind will quickly spoil and become a health risk. It’s important to make sure your pigs’ feeder or trough stays well-stocked when they’re young and their growth is most rapid. Once they reach their full size, a single large, balanced feeding a day should be enough to keep them healthy and satisfied.  If possible, provide your pigs with a fenced-in field or pasture where they can graze between feedings. If it’s not possible for your pigs to graze, stick to...

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Determina cuánta comida necesitan los cerdos para crecer. Invierte en un alimentador automático para una alimentación sin complicaciones. Usa un alimentador para servir sobras de la mesa y destilar granos. Alimenta a los cerdos una o dos veces al día.


A good running hill will be fairly steep and at least 40 yards long. Unless you know of such a place (and its length) off the top of your head, you’ll probably want to drive around in your car and check out some nearby places.  If you don’t have a car, then take a walk around the area or ride the bus if one is available. Depending on the hill you choose, you may need to consider traffic flow, availability of sidewalks or berms (if running on the road), lighting, foliage, and the general safety of the area that you will be running in. As with any athletic activity, it’s important to be aware of the conditions and plan your attire appropriately, including whether to running shoes or cross-trainers. Jog for 2–4 minutes on a flat area near the hill. If you really prefer it, however, you can do a light jog up and back down the hill to get your body ready for the sprinting workout. Even though you’ll be sprinting up the hill, you’ll want to do your stretching on flat ground so as not to over-tire yourself. Dynamic stretches are performed while walking, and you can help prevent injury if you do a limited number of these before beginning your sprinting workout. Aim to spend about 5–10 minutes stretching before doing hill sprints. Some particularly good stretches for this type of workout are high knees, butt kicks, and toy soldiers. Stretch until you feel energized—not fatigued. You can increase with each sprint, but only by about 10%. If you’re new to sprinting, or not in great shape, you may want to wait until the third or fourth session to go all-out on any of your sprints. Walking down the hill will give your body time to recuperate between sprints. If you still feel too fatigued after getting to the bottom of the hill, walk on flat ground for another 15–30 seconds before beginning the next sprint. Steeper hills require shorter strides and vice versa. It is important to pay attention to your running form so that you avoid injury.  Don’t stare at the ground! Hold your chin at the normal level and keep your eyes...

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Busca una cuesta. Trota para calentar tus músculos. Realiza estiramientos dinámicos sobre un área plana. Realiza tu primera carrera corta con una intensidad entre 50 y 70 %. Descansa entre carreras. Observa tu método. Tómatelo con calma la primera vez. Enfríate sobre un terreno plano. Realiza de 1 a 2 sesiones a la semana.


A good strategist knows how to work smarter and not harder. One way to work smart is to work your way through big projects by tackling smaller, manageable parts. This helps you beat excess stress and fend off procrastination. Plus, as you complete each part, you gain a greater sense of self-efficacy and confidence in your abilities.  Look at the project as a whole and decide how it can be divided into several steps. What should be done first? Second? Third? Create an action plan that allows you to complete each section in a logical order. Once every section is complete, review the project in its entirety before submitting. An effective strategist knows that continual growth requires taking a step back and reassessing one's methods. It also means seeking feedback from others. Getting input from others brings awareness to what's working or not working. It also reinforces the idea that success is a team effort.  Be specific in your request. Ask, "How do you suggest I handle this task?" or "How do you think I can improve my client relationships?"  Whether you agree or disagree with the response, paraphrase the feedback so that the person knows you received it (e.g. "So, you're saying I need to..."). Then, thank the person for his input. It can be very effective to seek input from a range of sources--superiors and subordinates alike. Good strategists are highly impactful leaders. One technique that helps you to maximize that effectiveness is delegation. When you are tackling a difficult project in which a team member has the skills to assist, reach out for help. This strategy can greatly improve your performance and productivity.  Delegation is an effective strategy because it enables those who are properly suited for specific tasks to handle them accordingly. That way you are not wasting time trying to retrain or learn new skills that someone on your team already has. Another reason to delegate is to give other team members a chance to learn tasks that you do repeatedly, and, therefore, have already mastered....

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Descompón las tareas grandes. Pide opiniones con frecuencia. Aprende a delegar. Rodéate de personas eficaces.


A good tagline can sometimes pique the interest of people who may not otherwise match you. By crafting a unique, thoughtful, or interesting tagline, you might lure in people who would otherwise pass you by.  Be honest about who you are and what you like, and include some specific detail that might be interesting. Try to sum up everything in a line: "Outdoors lover, Columbia graduate, writer, and into the finer things in life." Avoid being dishonest. Unless you go sailing a couple of times a month, don’t say that you sail all the time. Don’t use overtly sexual references. By completing your profile in full, you’ll give potential matches the minimum amount of information they need to assess you. At the same time, Tinder may sort incomplete profiles down to the bottom of the swipe list.  People might pass you by if you skip the bio section. Use this as an opportunity to give readers a glimpse into who you are. For example, if you volunteer at animal shelters on the weekend and work as a whitewater rafting guide during the summer, let people know. Make sure to fill in your education qualification. This is important, even if you don’t have a degree from Harvard Business School. It gives people – and Tinder – a sense of your experiences. Just as not having any info in your bio will hurt you, having too much text will also hurt you. By providing too much, you’ll provide potential matches with information that might lead them to move on.  Tinder has a 500-word limit. Try to come in well under that limit. Anywhere between 100 and 300 words is ideal. Only use as many words as you need to describe yourself and give others a sense of who you are. Your description of yourself might be as simple as "I'm an introvert who enjoys the arts, classical music, and the outdoors." Avoid long words or wordy or run-on sentences. While it may be beneficial to provide insight into your personality, you’ll likely lose matches if you share too much information. Ultimately, less is often better when you’re trying to get matches with...

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Redacta un buen eslogan. Llena todo tu perfil. Reduce la cantidad de texto de ser necesario. No brindes demasiada información. Reescribe el texto en caso de que parezcas demasiado presumido. Incorpora el humor.


A good teacher can give you detailed feedback and advice on how to improve your voice. Aim for someone with classical training, as a classically-trained teacher is likely to have experience with a variety of styles. Listen to the way they handle their breath, volume, articulation, control, vocal habits, and resonance. If you’re particularly fond of their style, see if you can replicate it. Replicating someone’s style is a great way of learning to sing, because it forces you to try things you might not normally try when singing. Pay attention to how they breathe and support the notes with their breath. Note their posture and body language. Watch the way they use their lips to shape the sounds and words that they are singing. Think about why you dislike a certain singer or speaker. What do they do differently from the ones you like? Are they doing something wrong or is it just not your style? It is amazing what a good sound engineer can accomplish during a recording session. If you really like an artist's recordings, try to figure out how much is real and how much is engineered before you decide that "you can never sound as good as that!" Ask those whose voice you like what they are doing to get that sound. Most will be flattered and pleased to share this information with you.

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Encuentra un profesor profesional que sea bueno. Escucha atentamente a algunos cantantes y oradores profesionales. Observa a algunos cantantes y oradores profesionales. No ignores a los profesionales que no te agradan. Compara la forma en que un artista suena en una presentación en vivo con cómo lo hace en una grabación. Ve a lugares donde haya micrófono abierto y cualquier otro local de eventos musicales.


A good time to ask for an iPod is near a birthday or Christmas or another holiday. If you do ask for one around those times, don't ask for a lot. Your iPod will be your "big" present.  If your parents have been arguing or talking a lot about money, it is not a good time to ask for an iPod. Wait until you stop hearing those kinds of conversations. Don't stress that you need the iPod immediately. Instead say, “I know that maybe I can't get this immediately, so I was thinking that I could wait for a few months, or until my birthday.” If you can ask when you can have a long discussion, your results will be better than if you ask when your parents are rushed or irritated.  Car rides are a good time to ask, since your parents will be sitting for a long time. If you spend time doing chores together, like washing dishes, your parents might be able to spend more time talking to you. If your parents say that the iPod is too expensive, they may not be able to afford it. Wait a few months, and try to save up some money before asking again.   Do not whine or complain that everyone else has an iPod.  Instead, revisit previous steps, and try to demonstrate why having the iPod would be useful to you. If your parents turn you down without much explanation, do not be too aggressive. Wait a month or so, and then casually bring up the reasons that you would like an iPod again. If your parents seem like they might say yes, but have some reservations, make sure that they know how responsible you will be.  Let them know that you will not be distracted while your parents want you to be paying attention to them. Say, “I won't let the iPod distract me from what is important. I won't use the iPod when you're talking to me either.” Make sure they know that your schoolwork won't suffer either.  Say, “I know that you might be worried that I won't pay attention in class.  I really only want the iPod for my down time, or when I'm waiting for the bus.  I won't use it during school.”

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Encuentra un buen momento para pedir el iPod. Pide el iPod en un buen lugar. Sé razonable. Establece las reglas básicas.


A good training plan will indicate exactly how you will accomplish your goals. You should indicate how long training will last, how many sessions will occur, and what will happen during each session. Make sure that the steps align with your specific and broad objectives.  Create a training topic outline. When conducting training on productivity software, for example, your topics may include creating files, formatting text, copying and pasting text and saving files.  Break down the topics into specific titles. For example, formatting text might be divided up into 3 separate lessons: formatting fonts, paragraphs and tables. Include in your training plan a list of lessons complete with lesson objectives, specific activities and assessment plans, which may include pre- and post-tests, class discussions, or group activities. Figure out the length of each lesson. Determine whether you will need additional materials or resources for the individual lessons.  Determine the best training modality. You might deliver the training via online files, video conferencing, in person instruction or audio files. Choose the method based on the objective. For example, software navigation may be best taught in person or via video, whereas delivering information about safety procedures may be adequately communicated through web-based files. Engage participants to engage in the training activity. Puzzles, problem-solving exercises, questions, and writing activities are ways to keep trainees focused on tasks. Participation can help the trainees more effectively absorb the material. Accommodate a variety of learning styles. Watching video demonstrations, listening to audio and participating in hands-on exercises are ways to diversity activities. In your plan, offer specifics about all of the methods you will use in training. For example, if you plan to use a variety of modalities, such as Skype and in-person sessions, make that clear from the outset. It is also useful to explain your objectives for using a variety of methods.  For...

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Planifica los pasos necesarios. Diseña las lecciones. Esboza la estructura de la capacitación. Fija una duración de tiempo. Crea una sección de preparación para la capacitación.


A good walking stick starts with a good piece of wood, of course.  The size, shape, sturdiness, and age of the wood all contribute to the quality of a potential walking stick.  A good walking stick usually starts as a fairly straight piece of wood that is approximately one to two inches in diameter.  Look for a piece of wood that is as tall as your armpit (usually in the 55-65 inch range); you can trim it to length later.  Hardwoods tend to make the most manageable and sturdiest walking sticks.  Good options include maple, alder, cherry, aspen, and sassafras, among others.  Look for fresh hardwood, but never cut from a live tree to make a walking stick.  Enjoy nature, don’t damage it.  If you look around a bit, you will find a suitable stick that is still fresh but no longer living.  Avoid sticks with holes or other evidence of insect activity.  The stick may be weakened by insect boring, or you may unwittingly transport bugs into your home. If you are making the walking stick for your own use, stand the stick on the ground and hold it in front of you as you would when walking, with your arm bent comfortably at the elbow (roughly at a right angle).  Mark the stick about two inches above the top of your hand (or more if you intend to add a decorative top carving, for instance), and cut it to length with your saw of choice.  (Note:  Children or those unfamiliar with using saws should seek assistance.  Power saws can take a finger in an instant, and hand saws can easily cause deep cuts as well.)  If you want to size a stick for someone else before locating it, have him hold a broom out in front of him as described above.  Measure the height from the floor to a few inches above the top of his hand.  Take a tape measure or string cut to length with you on your walking stick search.  If you are making walking sticks for sale or to give to undetermined recipients, remember that the 55-65 inch range is a good general starting point for stick length. You can leave the bark on if you wish, but most people prefer the...

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Consigue una buena vara. Ajusta la longitud. Elimina la corteza. Permite que la vara se seque.


A good way to approach this is to not let it be a big, terrifying ordeal. Remember that, even if your parents don't agree yet, marijuana is completely legal in some states, has never caused an overdose, and is non-addictive. It doesn't have to be a big deal. So keep the conversation light from the opening lines onward to prevent them from thinking they should be worried:  "I wanted to talk to you guys about something before you find out, and I know that I can trust you to listen." "This isn't a big deal, but I wanted to let you guys know that I smoke marijuana occasionally." "I know you guys trust me to make good decisions, and I just wanted to talk to you a bit about my decision to smoke marijuana. Did you know that the National Cancer Society promotes the fact that marijuana kills cancer cells? Marijuana has been used to successfully treat insomnia, glaucoma, chronic pain, slow Alzheimer's, reduce and control seizures, and increase creativity. Like most plants in the world, marijuana has surprising medical benefits we are only now discovering. Because marijuana research is relatively new, new studies are coming out all of the time. Google "marijuana studies" every now and then to get more concrete evidence for your discussion if needed. Marijuana has been maligned for years not because it is dangerous, but because it is misunderstood. However, new studies are showing that marijuana has very few negative side-effects, and no long-term health issues arise from chronic usage other than a slight disposition towards gum disease. Be ready with these facts, and the articles to back them up to head off any worries of "health effects." There are almost no known cases of marijuana attributed deaths in the world and has no known effect on mortality rates. If you take marijuana purely for recreational enjoyment, then it may seem more difficult to convince your parents that weed is okay. But, when compared to other "acceptable" leisure-time substances, like alcohol and tobacco, marijuana is far safer. It is also...

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Empieza haciéndoles saber que fumas y diciéndoles por qué es importante para ti. Señala los efectos positivos demostrados de la marihuana como medicamento. Infórmales sobre la inexistencia de consecuencias a largo plazo. Hazles recordar que el alcohol y el tabaco son mucho más peligrosos y causan más dependencia. Diles cómo la marihuana no interfiere en tu vida o éxito. Demuéstrales que la marihuana casi nunca es adictiva. Diles que la marihuana ya no solo se trata de fumar hierba. Déjales formularte preguntas, habla y déjalos opinar.


A good way to begin seeing auras is to practice sensing them.  That means paying attention to how you feel in someone's presence.  Take a deep breath, exhale and then focus on the physical sensations in your body and your gut reaction.  Ask yourself how being around the person makes you feel--serene?  jumpy?  agitated?  Think about what color you would attach to this person. As your abilities are enhanced, sensing and seeing auras will become easier. Our peripheral vision is less damaged than the central part of our retina and has healthier photosensitive cells.   Also, since we've trained our central vision to be used in certain ways over the years, it can be difficult to call on it now to see in this new way of viewing auras.  One simple exercise you can do is to practice concentrating on one spot for 30-60 seconds. This will increase your sensitivity to light. Doing some training with bright, primary colors can help you develop the ability to see auras.  Cover a book in blue or red paper and stand it upright on a table several feet away from you.  Be sure the wall behind the book is white or neutral and the light in the room is soft but not dim.  Close your eyes, take a few deep breaths, relax and then open your eyes and look at the book.  Don't focus on the book, instead look a little to the side and past it.  After a while, you'll see a pale narrow aura coming from the book that will change to a bright yellow or green as you hold your soft focus.   When you get comfortable with looking at one book, try covering several books with different color paper and looking at them.   As you get better at seeing colors, work your way up using plants, animals and then people.     It's okay to blink normally and quickly while doing this exercise. The aura may disappear for a second when you do, but it will reappear quickly if you stay relaxed and hold your focus.     Keep practicing to get used to the way your eyes must maintain that steady, un-focus.  Don't strain your eyes or tense your eyes or forehead. Have a...

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Comienza por sentir. Desarrolla tu visión periférica. Sintonízate con los colores. Aprende cómo ver. Practica contigo mismo.


A good way to eliminate negative energy is to exercise vigorously. Exercise not only helps us to feel healthy, but it also helps us expel any excess or even negative energy that could be dragging us down or making us anxious. Consider:   Going for a run until you are tired. The distance of such a run might vary. Depending on your age and health, it could be from 1 to 10 miles. Run until you’re tired, but not until you’re exhausted and about to pass out. Make sure you get a good sweat going. Work out in the gym. Pick any exercise you prefer. Just make sure your exercise regimen gets your heart pumping and your sweat flowing. Consider dancing. You could dance ritually (as part of spiritual or religious worship) or just for fun. Many people see hot water as a way to dissipate negative energy and refresh and reinvigorate yourself. To do this, pick one of several approaches to cleanse yourself with hot water or steam. Consider:  Taking a really hot shower. Don’t burn yourself, though. Enjoying the relaxing and cleaning experience of a sauna. Taking a hot bath. A hot bath will help you relax and will aid in relinquishing negative energy. Accompanying your sauna, hot shower, or hot bath with pleasant scents, candles, and relaxing music. Practicing breathing exercises can help clear negative energy. By doing breathing exercises, you will not only increase the level of oxygen in your system, but you can also improve your mood and increase your energy level. As a result, breathing exercises are a great way to dissipate negative energy.  Inhale deeply as you count to ten. Hold your breath for five to ten seconds. Exhale for ten seconds. Repeat as needed.

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Ejercítate vigorosamente. Elimina las malas energías con agua caliente. Respira profundo.


A good way to gauge whether you're actually being pulled over is to determine whether you've broken any laws. There are many traffic laws, and those laws may vary somewhat from state to state, but generally speaking there are some basic laws that you will recognize if you've broken them.  Exceeding the posted speed limit by five or more miles per hour is usually sufficient cause for an officer to pull you over. Changing lanes without signaling, making an illegal u-turn, crossing a double-yellow line, or swerving and driving erratically are all sufficient reasons to be pulled over. If you're driving at night or in inclement weather (in some states) without your headlights on, or if you have a burned-out bulb in your headlights, tail lights, or turn signals, you may also be pulled over by an officer. If you haven't done anything wrong and a vehicle is attempting to pull you over, especially at night and/or in a remote area, you should be cautious and keep your guard up. If you feel unsafe pulling over in an unlit or remote area, you should not pull over yet. However, you'll need to signal to the individual that you are actually going to pull over. Otherwise you could be charged with evading the police, should it turn out to be an actual police officer.  Immediately put your four-way hazard lights on. Turn on the dome light inside your vehicle so the officer can see you clearly and know that you're not reaching for a weapon. When you do pull over, keep your hands where the officer can see them and avoid any sudden or unnecessary movements.  Slow down to a very low speed. Don't drive so slow that you'd hold up traffic (if other cars are around) or cause an accident, but enough to let the officer know that you're not trying to flee. Look for a well-lit or public area to pull over. Stopping on the side of the road in a remote area can be very dangerous if the individual is not a real police officer. Once you've pulled over, you'll need to take steps to protect yourself during the exchange. If the individual is...

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Evalúa si has infringido alguna ley de tráfico. Haz una señal de que buscas un lugar donde detenerte. Permanece seguro dentro del vehículo.


A good way to get over shyness is to be comfortable with your dancing. Practicing in a room filled with friends or family might be intimidating, so look for an empty room. This could be your bedroom, living room when nobody is home, or a dance studio that is not being used. Look for a room that is not filled with furniture or junk. If you can’t find one, try to temporarily move things around to make space. This gives you the chance to see what you look like while dancing and get comfortable with that image. It also gives you an opportunity to see what changes you’d like to make to your moves to improve them. A full length mirror is ideal, though a smaller mirror will do. It may feel uncomfortable to see yourself dance in a mirror at first, but it will feel more comfortable over time. It’s easiest to dance to music you really enjoy. If the music you enjoy is difficult to dance to, put on something with a beat that inspires movement. It is also an option to put on music that is likely to be played at places you would be dancing, like at a school dance or club. Close your eyes, feel the beat and rhythm, and move in a way that feels natural to you. Try dancing to a wide variety of music to practice variety in your dancing. Watch dance steps from clips on the internet, on T.V. shows, or movies. Only watch first to take in the way the dancers are moving, interacting with each other, and carrying themselves. Look at what the dancers are doing to project confidence in their movements, like facial expressions and posture. Once you have watched the clip a few times, try to replicate the way the dancers move. You don’t have to do the exact steps the dancers are doing. Just try to move in a similar way. You will grow more comfortable with your dancing the more you practice. Keep improving them until you feel confident, and you can do them without thinking about it. Take a few minutes out of every day or every few days to dance. Keep it fun and light as you practice. It shouldn’t feel like a chore. To help with practicing...

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Escoge una habitación vacía para practicar. Baila frente a un espejo. Escoge tu música favorita. Mira videos de baile. Practica seguido.


A good way to prevent texting and driving is to turn your phone off. This helps you not hear any text or social media notifications, or see the screen light up when you get a text. If you don’t see any new messages, you won’t be tempted to look at them or respond. As soon as you stop, you can turn the phone back on. If you are on a long car ride, you can pull off the road every hour or so to check your messages if you need to check them. If you don’t want to turn your phone off completely, turn it to silent. Even on silent you can see when you have a message. Just make sure you put the phone face down so you can’t see it light up with a new message and be tempted. If you want to leave your phone ringer on, you can silence your text message notifications. If you want to keep your phone on, you can try to place it in a spot where you cannot reach it while driving. This helps keep your phone unavailable so you cannot be tempted to sneak a peak. Try placing it in the trunk, glove box, behind your seat, or in your console. If you do this, make sure you will not want to reach to these inconvenient places while driving. Trying to grab something out of reach can cause an accident. To avoid a situation where you realize you need to send a very important text, take a moment before you start the car to send any texts you need to. If you will not be able to wait to read the reply, send the text after your trip. You should also plug your destination in your GPS and pull up any playlists you want to listen to before you start the car. This is also very distracting while you drive. If you are in the car with someone, ask them to read you any texts you receive. You can also ask them to respond to the texts. This allows you to respond while driving without texting yourself. You should only let the person on your phone if you trust them and don’t mind them reading your text conversation.

TL;DR in Spanish:

Apaga el teléfono. Pon tu teléfono en silencio. Pon el teléfono en un lugar en el que no puedas alcanzarlo. Envía mensajes de texto antes de manejar. Haz que alguien envíe mensajes de texto por ti.


A good way to start taking stock of your current situation and find mental peace is to start a journal. Journaling is an effective way to guide yourself through introspection and find out what might be keeping you from mental peace. When you write in your journal, include your thoughts and feelings about your everyday life. To help you find peace, think about what means most to you and what keeps you present and happy in the moment, such as wisdom or creativity. To help find what matters to you and go towards mental peace, give yourself journal topics such as gratitude, intention, or meaning. Mindfulness can bring you mental peace by bringing your awareness to the present. Your mental peace can be disrupted by worrying about the future or being crippled by and stuck in the past. Mindfulness means being aware of your present thoughts, surroundings, and feelings without placing judgment on them. Mindfulness can also decrease your stress level and blood pressure, which can help produce a sense of calm throughout your body. Practicing mindfulness can also help you manage your emotions and adapt to stressful or difficult situations.  The practice of mindfulness allows you to create new neural connections and physically alter your brain’s structure, which can help you adapt your way of thinking to promote mental peace.  To try a mindfulness exercise, sit comfortably and focus on your breath. While you breathe, take stock of what your are perceiving through your five sense. Your mind may wander, but try to gently bring your awareness back to the present and what’s around you. . It may be hard to gain mental peace if you still suffer because of events from your past. Past traumatic events that are causing you emotional turmoil will certainly make you feel as though you are never at peace. Past events can include emotional, physical, or sexual abuse, traumatic events, or dismissive or neglectful home environments. All of these types of events can leave you with guilt, shame, fear, or depression. For these kinds of...

TL;DR in Spanish:

Empieza a escribir un diario. Practica la plenitud mental. Deja el pasado atrás


A good way to stop your dog from killing squirrels is to keep them out of your yard in the first place. That will be a win-win situation for your dog and the squirrel! Remove food, such as acorns, from your yard that would be attractive to squirrels.  Rake up any nuts and berries, and remove any leftover food (human or pet).  Bird feeders are very enticing for squirrels, so it would be a good idea to remove them from your yard. If that is not practical, replace the birdseed with something that squirrels do not like, such as safflower. Another way to keep squirrels out of your yard is to limit their access. If your trees have long branches, cut the branches so squirrels cannot use them as launching pads onto your roof or into your yard. Squirrels can leap about 10 feet, so cut the limbs such that the distance between the tree and your yard is more than 10 feet. If the squirrels keep finding a way into your yard, try to make your yard more undesirable to them. For example, bury orange or lemon rinds just beneath the soil in your garden to repel the squirrels. You can also sprinkle some garlic powder or cayenne pepper in the soil just before your plants bloom to keep squirrels away.  Certain plants, such as the Crown Imperial flower, can be deterrents to squirrels.  You could also spray commercially available squirrel repellent in your yard. If all else fails, squirrels will definitely dislike being the unwitting victims of a sudden burst of water. Place the sprinklers in areas where squirrels tend to frequent in your yard, like the garden. It probably won’t take long for squirrels to avoid your yard almost entirely. If squirrels continue to frequent your yard, or if you do not have the time to implement your own squirrel-removal strategies, consider contacting a professional company to do the job. It may cost anywhere from a few hundred to over a thousand dollars, depending on the extent of the squirrel problem.

TL;DR in Spanish:

Elimina las fuentes de comida. Mantén cortas las ramas de los árboles. Haz que tu jardín sea indeseable para las ardillas. Instala un rociador activado por movimiento en tu patio. Comunícate con un servicio profesional de extracción de animales.


A good wing trim will allow your bird to exercise the pectorals, or wing-flapping muscles, and will give it some coasting ability. Your bird shouldn't fall like a rock when it tries to fly, since landing on its chest can kill a heavier bird. Always trim less rather than more until you see how your bird adjusts. Heavier parrots like African Greys should be clipped less severely, while most cockatoos should be clipped more. Also decide on a day to be "Clipping Day," and mark it on your calendar each month. This should be the day you inspect the parrot’s feathers — they might not be long enough to clip. Then you would mark another date in the future to see (one week, two weeks ahead) if the parrot’s feathers are long enough. Make sure that you are doing the trim as you are supposed to. Your vet will be able to give you suggestions if he or she believes you haven’t mastered trimming your parrot’s wings.

TL;DR in Spanish:

Corta las plumas teniendo en cuenta el peso y la fuerza del ave. Revisa las plumas de tu ave una vez al mes, y córtalas siempre que sea necesario. Consulta con un veterinario.


A good woman possesses the ability to be honest about herself and other people. She is likely to be the person telling you the truth in a tough situation in a sympathetic way. A good person does not judge others quickly or freely. Whether you learn this from a religion or a sense of personal morality, open-mindedness and delay of judgment will make you exemplary. Being empathetic allows you to imagine how another person is feeling during a given situation. People who are empathetic are more likely to understand people’s emotions and give selflessly. A good person is good because she chooses not to be bad or evil. This means that she knows the difference and makes choices that support a principled way of life. A good person is respectful of others. The respect is usually returned.

TL;DR in Spanish:

Sé honesta. No juzgues. Busca la empatía. Cree en una brújula moral. Muestra respeto.


A graph of a function is a visual representation of the values of x and y that are solutions to a given equation. The graph may consist of individual points, a straight line, a curved line, or even some closed figures like a circle or an ellipse. Any point that lies on the line could be a solution to the equation.  For example, a simple equation like y=2x{\displaystyle y=2x} will have infinite solutions. Written in pairs of (x,y), some possible solutions are (1,2), (2,4), (3,6), or any pair of numbers in which the second number is double the first. Plotting these points on the x,y coordinate plane will show a continuous straight line that appears as a diagonal that goes upward from left to right. To see more samples of this type of graph, you may want to review Graph Linear Equations. A graph of a quadratic equation is one that has an exponent of 2, such as y=x2+2x−1{\displaystyle y=x^{2}+2x-1}. Some sample solutions are (-1,-2), (0,-1), (1,1), (2,7). If you plot these points, and others, you will find the graph of a parabola, which is a u-shaped curve. To review this type of graph, you can look at Graph a Quadratic Equation. If you need more help reviewing how to graph functions, read Graph a Function or Graph a Rational Function. An asymptote is a straight line that generally serves as a kind of boundary for the graph of a function. An asymptote can be vertical, horizontal, or on any angle. The asymptote represents values that are not solutions to the equation, but could be a limit of solutions. For example, consider the equation y=1x{\displaystyle y={\frac {1}{x}}}. If you begin at the value x=3 and count down to select some solutions for this equation, you will get solutions of (3, 1/3), (2, 1/2), and (1,1). If you continue counting down, the next value for x would be 0, but this would create the fraction y=1/0. Because division by 0 is undefined, this cannot be a solution to the function. Therefore, the value of x=0 is a vertical asymptote for this equation. Conventionally, when you are plotting the...

TL;DR in Spanish:

Repasa el significado de gráfico. Identifica las asíntotas. Grafica las asíntotas verticales con una línea punteada.


A gray or cream color with a tie is better for daytime weddings, while a darker color suit is better for nighttime. If you can't get access to a suit, then at minimum you should wear casual business attire with a blazer/sports jacket and dress pants.

TL;DR in Spanish:

Usa un traje de 2 piezas. Usa pantalón y zapatos de vestir. Si consigues una corbata, póntela.


A great example of pattern mixing is pairing stripes with flowers. You can also try a neutral print, such as pinstripes, with a specific print, such as sailboats or dolphins. If you want something more subtle, try matching prints, such as blue roses and blue scrolls. If you don't want to be so bold, try pairing solids and patterns. A floral tunic over solid leggings would look cute, and vice versa! Leggings will give you a very simple silhouette—even more so if you are pairing them with a fitted top. You can make your outfit look more interesting by breaking up the silhouette with a jacket or cardigan. Here are some ideas for you:  Pair leggings with a tank top and a loose-fitting tunic or cardigan. Cinch your waist with a wide belt for a more fitted look.  Pair bold leggings with a lacy/crochet shirt and a denim jack/chambray shirt. Complete the look with suede booties.  For a sporty look, layer a solid-colored workout hoodie over a comfortable shirt. Pair them with leggings in an interesting pattern and some colorful sneakers. If you feel like your top isn't covering enough, consider wearing a lace extender under it. This would look lovely with a romantic, flowing tunic. If the weather is too cool for flowing tunics, you can wear the extender under a cardigan or sweater instead. A lace extender is a tube of fabric that you wear around your waist or hips, depending on how long your shirt is. It has lace attached to the bottom, which will extend past the hem of your top, making it appear longer. Roll the leggings up a few times on each leg. Try to make the cuff as smooth and flat as possible. Pair the outfit with some flats and a loose, flowing shirt to complete the outfit. If the weather is cooler, pair them with a dress-like tunic and booties.  The wider you make the cuff, the bolder the look will be. How high up you cuff your leggings is up to you. Anywhere between your mid and lower calf would look great, however. Pull your hair up first, so that it is off of your back and neck. Fold the leggings in half...

TL;DR in Spanish:

Combina los estampados para crear contraste. Crea capas con las chaquetas o los suéteres para crear una silueta más interesante. Agrega un toque romántico y alarga la apariencia de las camisetas con extensores de falda. Enrolla las botas de los leggings si quieres acortarlos. Usa los leggings como una envoltura de cabeza.


A great facial skin toner will prevent skin from sagging, meaning your face (and jaw) looking their tightest. Any buildup of excess dead skin flakes will rob your face of its natural vibrance and definition, so it's necessary to keep all of that under control if you're wanting a truly chiselled jawline. Aim to get an astringent toner, as these tend to be the best when it comes to skin tightening. Collagen is the active ingredient in the skin that keeps the skin tight. Some cleansers and toners encourage collagen production in your skin, so it's recommended you do some research when it comes to buying products. Collagen-specific medical injections are also available, but the unnatural side effects make it hard to recommend as anything but a last-ditch option. If you use makeup, you can emphasize the look of your jaw subtly via cosmetics. There are a few ways to do this; if you're not so used to using makeup, getting the effect right may take a few tries before you succeed. These techniques should be kept slight and subtle; this way, the human eye won't notice anything's been done to tweak your jaw's appearance.  Contouring your cheek and jaw with a light bronzer will make your jawline more eye-catching. Apply it lightly in a downward motion, one or two shades darker than your natural skin tone.  Highlighting your jawline lightly will emphasize its shape. Add a two inch line directly above your jawline. This will improve your jaw's visual definition.  Taking a little bit of bronzer and dusting it along your jaw and neck will blend the above cosmetic effects. Be light with your application here; you just want to make it so that the contouring is blended a little better. As with virtually every other facial feature, surgeries are available to those who really want a quick fix. Digestive molecules are injected directly into the area you want to target, and burn down the excess fat, all the while encouraging positive collagen growth. Talk to a doctor if surgery sounds like something you might be interested in. If...

TL;DR in Spanish:

Usa un buen tónico facial. Utiliza productos que mejoren el colágeno en tu piel. Acentúa tu mandíbula con cosméticos. Considera un liposucción quirúrgica.


A great natural way to freshen up your garbage disposal and leave your kitchen smelling great is to grind up a handful of citrus peels. Any citrus fruit will do -- orange, lemon, grapefruit, lime. The citric acid in the peels will clean the blades and eliminate odors. Afterwards, add some spice, rosemary oil, or lavender oil for an even fresher scent. Baking soda and vinegar make a great odor-busting combo. Sprinkle half a cup of baking soda into the drain, then gently pour a cup of white vinegar on top. The mixture will fizzle and bubble. Let it sit for 5 to 10 minutes, then rinse it down with very hot or boiling water, with the garbage disposal running. Bleach is very effective at killing germs and will quickly freshen up your drain., however you don't want to use too much of it as it can also harden any grease in your disposal unit, making it difficult to remove.  Dilute a tablespoon of liquid chlorine bleach in a gallon of water and slowly pour it into your garbage disposal. Allow the bleach to sit there for a minute or two, then turn on the hot water tap and leave it running for several minutes to flush away the bleach. Borax is a safe and natural cleaning product which will effectively clean the garbage disposal and minimize odors. Simply put 3 or 4 tablespoon of Borax into the garbage disposal and allow to sit for about an hour. Then flush away with very hot or boiling water.

TL;DR in Spanish:

Usa cáscaras de cítricos. Usa vinagre y bicarbonato de sodio. Usa un poquito de lejía. Usa bórax.


A great resume is the first step to finding the perfect position, and a zoo keeper resume should highlight your experience, references, and education.  Resumes should be written in a legible font that is modern is appearance. Avoid flowery, cursive choices and write in font size 10 or 12.  While resumes should be relatively simple, tasteful colors, graphics, and borders can help you stand out of the pile. Try a monogram of your initials in the top corner or different colored fonts for the headers. Don't go for overly flashy fonts. Stick to dark blues and purples, colors that are easy to read.  Include only the information that's relevant to the job you're applying for. A zoo does not need to know that you tended bar in college to make rent, but they will want to hear about how you volunteered at a local dairy farm on weekends during your senior year.  Write in reverse chronological order. Start with your most recent experiences and work backwards. A good rule of thumb is that your best experience should be "above the fold." This refers to what you see on the front half of a folded paper. In other words, stack your most relevant work towards the top.  Ask someone else to look over your resume, like a professor, former employer, friend, or family member. Not only can they offer suggested for tweaking the order and format, they can proofread for you. Many people become blind to their own typos when working on a document for a long time. The job search can be overwhelming and many people do not know where to look. Have a strategy plan for finding positions.  The American Association of Zoo Keepers is probably your best option to start. They have a comprehensive list of openings in AAZK accredited zoos that is updated year round. Browse their list to see what is available and apply to any positions relevant to your skill set. Talk to previous employers. If you interned or volunteered at a zoo, you should contact them and ask about openings. Even if they have nothing at the moment, if they know you're looking they...

TL;DR in Spanish:

Escribe tu currículum. Conoce en dónde encontrar trabajos. Sé flexible en tu búsqueda.


A great source of vitamins A, C, and K, kale is recognized as one of the healthiest vegetables.  It is also has more protein than most greens with 4 grams of protein in just one cup.  While it’s a bit unconventional, kale can be a great base for your salad. An excellent source of vitamin C, cabbage also has more protein than some other leafy greens. Cabbage (particularly savoy cabbage) also makes a nice salad.  One cup of cabbage contains 1 gram of protein. This popular green will also add a little more protein than iceberg lettuce. It contains 0.86 grams of protein in one cup.  In addition, it is flavorful and a good source of vitamins A and C. One of the most common types of greens used in salads, this type of lettuce provides a nice crunch as well as nutrients.  One cup of this green is high in vitamin A and folate and contains 0.37 grams of protein.

TL;DR in Spanish:

Prueba la berza. Usa la col. Prepara una ensalada de espinaca. Usa lechuga romana de hoja roja y verde.


A great way to end a conversation is to wrap things up with a positive comment. You can thank the speaker for his or her time, dropping the hint that you now need to exit the conversation.  When things seems to be going on a bit too long, wait for the speaker to finish his or her sentence. Then, smile and say something like, "I'm so glad that we had the time to talk" or "Thanks very much for you time."  In the event the speaker does not take the hint, say something like, "Well, thanks again, but I really have to get going." Most people will not question a vague excuse and allow you to get on your way. A good way to push a conversation towards its natural end is to return to the conversation's original purpose. This can help bring the conversation full circle, allowing you to exit gracefully without seeming rude.  Almost every conversation has some purpose, whether its something specific, like making plans, or something vague, like sharing anecdotes from the weekend. By looping back to the conversation's beginning, you can force it towards a natural conclusion.  Wait for the speaker to stop talking. Then, make a comment about the original purpose of the conversation, indicating the conversation has accomplished that purpose and can now end. This could be something like, "Thanks for that tip. I will definitely try that next time I'm doing laundry" or "Nice to hear you had a great weekend." You can then offer a few closing lines, like, "I'll see you around" and make your exit. In a given situation, you may be presented with a natural transition to end a conversation. If you're in a bar, the music may suddenly become loud, allowing you to offer an apologetic smile and exit. If you're at a conference or networking event, a speaker may begin talking. If you anticipate there may be a natural conversation-ender coming up, you may want to wait for that. This can prevent you from looking as if you want to back out of a conversation early. Conversations have natural ebbs and flows. You may both be conversing gracefully...

TL;DR in Spanish:

Termina con un comentario positivo. Vuelve al propósito original de la conversación. Piensa en una transición natural. Espera por una pausa en la conversación para irte. Haz planes futuros.


A great way to further develop your leadership skills, is to take on more advanced roles at work. Whether you're a part-time or full-time employee, there are always ways in which you can take on more responsibility.  Speak with your manager about opportunities for taking on more of a leadership role. You may be able to be involved with training others or planning events within the organization. In the corporate world there are often set tracks to becoming a manager. Be honest with your supervisor and let them know your intentions. Ask them for advice and the steps you need to take in order to move up to a more senior position. Outside of work, there are many opportunities to lead through the organizations you're involved in.  Perhaps you're involved in a Home Owners Association. Volunteer to be president or, if it's election based, run for president and get others to vote for you. Schools are often looking for PTA presidents, so even if you're not involved in an organization, inquire at your child's school to see if you can be on the board. Being the president of an organization will help to improve upon your communication likability and listening skills. Even if there isn't a specific organization dedicated to community service projects, find a cause that you're passionate about and rally others to support you. It could be something as simple as creating a trash day where you recruit neighbors to help you pick up trash in the neighborhood. Lead the efforts by recruiting volunteers, organizing who should purchase what and designating specific cleaning areas. This will help you to improve upon decision making skills and leading with confidence.

TL;DR in Spanish:

Asume un rol superior en el trabajo. Ofrécete como voluntario para ser presidente de las organizaciones en las cuales participes. Organiza un proyecto de servicio comunitario.


A great way to get an idea for your avatar is to examine the community that you are posting in. Many people use an avatar that relates to the community in some way, and helps identify their interests. For example, if you post in gaming forums, consider using an image of your favorite video game character. If you post on car forums, choose an image of your favorite make and model. Nearly all forums require you to create a unique username, and many people base their avatar off of their username. This helps create a visual connection with your username, as people will quickly be able to tell who's posting. For example, if you chose the name of your favorite comic book hero, you can use an image of that character as your avatar. If your username is "HorseRider", then you might want to choose an image of a horse. Everyone acts differently online than they do in real life. Take your online persona into account when designing your avatar. Your avatar should be a reflection of who you are in that community. For example, if you've taken the time to cultivate a zany personality, your avatar should probably be off-the-wall and random.

TL;DR in Spanish:

Examina la comunidad. Observa tu nombre en el foro. Considera tu persona en línea.


A great way to get your name out there is to attend Michael Jackson conventions. People may be impressed by you, and hire you for future gigs. Make sure to network when you are at them by talking to as many people as you can.  Take photo opportunities with fans and post them to social media. Take any available opportunities to perform at these conventions. The Sunburst convention in Florida brings together a multitude of celebrity impersonators.  In June, 2015 Jackson's mother held a tribute convention with a dancing competition with a prize of $5,000. One way you can make money as a Michael Jackson impersonator is to participate in celebrity look-alike competitions. People can make a living by impersonating celebrities if they participate in competitions regularly. Celebrity impersonators can make anywhere from hundreds to thousands of dollars for a single gig at a live show. You can participate at corporate events, grand openings, birthday parties, and concerts.  If you’re good at dancing and singing it will be easier to land gigs. Look online for potential gigs near you. A great way to build a platform for a fan base is to be active on popular social media networks like tumblr, Twitter, Instagram, and Facebook. Post photos of yourself in your Michael Jackson attire to gain the attention of people online. You may even be able to get booked for a gig through social media.  Make sure to reply to positive comments and stay away from arguing with people online. Make sure to post appropriate content and stay in character when posting videos or images. One way to get your impersonation talents out to the world is to create content on Youtube that features your Michael Jackson skills. Create videos that showcase your dancing or singing skills, and make sure to look like Michael when you do it.  You can monetize your videos to earn money for views. Make sure to update your channel with new content so you fan base has something to come back for.

TL;DR in Spanish:

Asiste a las convenciones de Michael Jackson. Participa en competiciones de personas parecidas a las celebridades. Agenda actuaciones en espectáculos en vivo. Establece redes de contacto con fanáticos a través de las redes sociales. Crea un canal de YouTube y sube tus videos de imitación.


A great way to help illustrate a certain concept is to use analogies. One popular analogy to explain SEO is the library analogy. Most people are familiar with how libraries work; children and teenagers often have to use libraries to obtain sources and information for their school projects and reports. Using your client and his or her website in your library analogy might help your client make the connections. It will also help keep him or her engaged. Compare your client's website to a book on a familiar subject, preferably one that has something to do with his or her website. Try to use a variation of the website's name as the title, and a variation of your client's name as the author. For example:  If your client's name is Bob McBob, and Bob's Window Cleaning is the name of his website, use Window Cleaning by Bob Windowman as your fictional book. Window cleaning is something that your client can relate to, which will help keep him engaged. While you are at it, compare your client's competitors' websites to other books in the library on the same topic. So Wendy's Windows could become a book called Wonderfully Clean Windows by Wendy Wonders. The two ways someone can find your client's website is by either typing the URL into the address bar directly, or by typing in keywords into the search bar of a reputable search engine. Similarly, the two ways someone can find a book in a library is by either finding the book on the shelf, or by typing keywords into the library's computer. For example:  Bob McBob specializes in cleaning windows on multistory buildings. To find his website, someone could go to a reputable search engine, and type in words such as "window cleaning" and "multistory" and the city or suburb that Bob McBob has his business in.  Window Cleaning by Bob Windowman happens to have an entire chapter on cleaning windows on multistory buildings. Someone could find his book by going to the library computer and search the catalog using the terms "window cleaning" and "multistory" or "skyscrapers." If a...

TL;DR in Spanish:

Utiliza la analogía de la biblioteca. Toma a tu cliente y su página web en consideración. Compara la página web de tu cliente con un libro. Compara encontrar una página web con encontrar un libro. Compara la página web de tu cliente con un libro perdido. Compara los enlaces con las buenas reseñas de un libro.


A grill will give you a charred finish to the steak, while a sturdy frying pan will provide the most even cooking surface. Many chefs suggest either a non-stick pan or a cast-iron pan. The non-stick will allow you to use less oil, while the cast-iron pan has the most even cooking temperature. (15ml) of oil into the pan. Use olive oil or groundnut oil. When the oil starts to separate or a drop of water sizzles on the surface, it is ready for your meat.

TL;DR in Spanish:

Calienta una sartén o una plancha a alta temperatura. Pincela el filete por ambos lados con aceite o vierte 1 cucharada (15 ml) de aceite en la sartén.


A guy can’t miss you if you’re always right there for him. A great way to get him to miss you is to create space between the two of you. If you spend every minute of the weekend with him, start carving out time to spend away from him. Spend a Friday night at home alone or with friends instead of hanging out with your man. At first he will probably like the time alone, but if you begin to do this regularly, he’ll start missing you in his arms. Start having nights out with your friends instead of date nights, and then tell your guy all about how much fun you had. He will probably be happy for you, but he’ll also be a bit jealous of how much fun you can have without him. If you spend a couple weekends having fun with friends, you’re guy will soon start to miss being the person that's having fun with you. This works well with an ex-boyfriend as well. When an ex sees that you’re having fun and enjoying life without him, he will begin to miss being in your life. Start to post pictures and status updates about how much fun you’re having doing things on your own. This works very well when trying to get an ex to miss you. Show how much you’re enjoying life on your own, and your guy will be begging to hang out with you because he misses you so much. Don’t be fake on social media, just highlight the fun you’re having going out with friends and participating in activities on your own. Treat yourself to a new hairstyle and new clothes so that you look and feel awesome. Dress yourself up, and then go meet your guy somewhere. He’ll be surprised at your new look, and want to see you more. If you want your ex-boyfriend to miss you, show up with your new look to somewhere you know he’ll be. Walk by him looking awesome and as confident as ever. This will make him wish he was still with you and miss the time he used to be in your life.

TL;DR in Spanish:

Crea espacio entre los dos. Sal con amigos y cuéntale al respecto. Usa las redes sociales para resaltar la diversión que tienes independientemente. Hazte un cambio de imagen y luego ve a verlo.


A guy who laughs, stutters, makes weird jokes, or avoids eye contact when you talk is probably nervous around you. A lot of middle school boys are really nervous around girls they like, so this is a good sign! Do you ever find him butting into your conversations with a friend? This could mean he is trying to spark a conversation with you and wants to talk. Let him! Joke around a bit to let him know you accept him. Is he coming up often and talking to your friends but not necessarily you? He may be working his way around to you, and using your friends as the excuse to be nearby. It can be hard to tell if he likes you or just likes your friend. If he talks to the same friend every time, he probably likes them. But if he talks to a different friend every time, he might like you! People usually don’t say nice things about people they don’t like. If he’s giving you compliments when he doesn’t have to, he is probably interested in you!For example, things like "I really liked your presentation" or "That jacket looks nice on you" might indicate that he likes you. This takes some courage, but if you’re already talking to him and he’s showing a lot of signs of liking you, it’s okay to just ask! He might get embarrassed, but if he really likes you, he’ll say so.  You can just say “I like you a lot. Do you like me?” It’s best to tell him you like him too first, otherwise, he might think you’re making fun of him. If he avoids answering or even says no, just play it off as a joke. You can say “Just kidding!” and change the subject.

TL;DR in Spanish:

Observa si parece nervioso en tu presencia. Observa si trata de unirse a la conversación. Observa si trata de hablar con tus amigos. Presta atención a posibles cumplidos durante la conversación. Pregúntale si le gustas.