conv: I was feeling down about something I was scared to share with anybody_comma_ until someone very kind promised to listen and not tell anybody. I was nervous about a secret I had but I hated keeping it bottled up. Did the secret negatively affect others? No_comma_ but some kind person came up to me and promised not to tell anybody. I can understand that feeling. Well_comma_ if it was pretty innocuous there's no harm and keeping confidentialiy