conv: There are times when I feel like getting a girlfriend_comma_ but than I remember how nice it is to be by myself.  When I feel an urge to get a girlfriend_comma_ I simply remember how nice it is to be independent. It's good to explore your own interests and what makes you grow on your own. Yes_comma_ I still think that there are good and bad sides in both of these cases. Hopefully one day you will be willing to explore a relationship in a serious way.