conv: When I found out that my ex-wife cheated on me Two years ago_comma_ I discovered that my now ex-wife was cheating on me with someone she worked with. When I first discovered it_comma_ i was angry and hurt. I bet you were_comma_ I did that to my husband when I was young. I thought it was the solution to relief from abuse. I know it was a horrible experience at the time_comma_ now I think its the greatest thing to ever happen to me. Sleeping in different beds for 3 years isn't healthy. It took that to wake me up I guess that was what you call a temporary situation. Sometimes moving on is required.