conv: My girlfriend's cat has cancer and we cannot afford the operation. I found out recently that my girlfriend's cat has cancer and we cannot afford the operation to remove it. Oh I am so sorry. Best thing to do is be there for her. Thank you for your sympathies. Have you ever dealt with losing a pet? I have and it really hard. It just takes time But a good support system makes it way better. I'm happy to hear you were able to get through it over time.