conv: My ex boyfriend and I were together for 4 years.  I was faithful to him the whole four years I was totally committed to him in every way I could be.   HOwever he ended up cheating on me That kind of cold disregard for someone you're supposed to love is totally alien to me_comma_ the guilt would destroy me. It would me too_comma_ not only that but he just up and got with her like I never existed to him.   Its funny because he always accused me of cheating on him and I had no clue why.  It was him the whole time! Yeah Freud called it Projection_comma_ it's too bad people tend to hide their true natures so well.