conv: I went on a date with my ex's best friend while we were dating I can't I went out with my ex's best friend while we were dating. I was a jerk but it was Karma biting her in the butt. Had she done that to you before? Right before that I found out she was seeing other people while I was in Iraq. What a shame!  Yea_comma_ it worked out for the best. A few months after that I meet my wife and we have been together for 11 years now. First baby is on the way in December.  Congratulations!