conv: Ex blames me for all things bad. I really hate when people can't hold themselves accountable for their own actions and decisions. I agree. So often does pride get in the way of personal growth and reflection. Absolutely. Yet_comma_ these people have a horrible way of twisting things in order to guilt you_comma_ even if you'd done nothing wrong! It's a very manipulating and confusing feeling. You'd hope folks would grow up_comma_ but sometimes people get set in their ways_comma_ and become impossible to change.