conv: I didn't tell my friend when her boyfriend hit on me. I felt very bad and wrong for that_comma_ even though I turned him down_comma_ of course. I didn't tell my friend when her boyfriend hit on me. She was in a bad spot and needed him for financial support_comma_ and that's why I didn't tell her. But_comma_ I still felt so bad about it. I can empathize with you there.  Do you think there might be another way to let her know?  Well_comma_ she had custody of her handicapped grandchild and no job_comma_ plus she was very much in love with him. I thought it would just make things worse for her. Well money is not everything_comma_ one day it will come out and then the timing will likely be worse.