conv: A time I felt I should be loyal and honest is when my good friend's boyfriend showed interest in me in a romantic manner. I am married_comma_ and I also really care for my friend_comma_ so two reasons I wouldn't encourage his behavior. I let him know that he was wrong to do that_comma_ and felt good that I did_comma_ but felt really bad for my friend. My friend's boyfriend recently made a pass at me. I'm married_comma_ and I also am really good friend's with his girlfriend so I felt really bad. I made sure he knew I was loyal and honest to both! Thats horrible. Did you tell on him? I struggled with it_comma_ but my friend was in a really bad spot_comma_ with no income and raising her grandchild_comma_ he was the financial supporter. So_comma_ I didn't tell her_comma_ as I knew it would really hurt her in several ways_comma_ plus she really loves him! Thats a tough situation.