conv: I got upset at my oldest son because he shows such lack of motivation.  While gettting on him might have been warranted_comma_ I feel bad for getting upset. I got upset at my oldest son's lack of motivation.  I feel bad that I got angry with him though. Maybe you just have to find a way to get him motivated_comma_ without showing anger. True.  I just haven't found a way to yet.  Need to be more creative. Yeah_comma_ just stay positive about it_comma_ I'm sure you'll figure something out.