conv: Once I was ashamed b/c my husband asked me not to tell my mom that he was actually busy when she needed his help with something.  I ended up telling her and he found out and was pretty upset with me. Once my husband asked me not to tell my mom that he was busy that day when she needed his help but I told her anyway.  I really felt bad b/c he got pretty upset with me. I totally understand why he was mad. Why did you tell her? Yeah thats a good question.  I totally deserved him being mad.  I just felt bad for him b/c he was so busy that day and I didn't want him to have one more thing on his plate I guess I guess he wanted to be available if she needed him.