conv: I found out my wife was having an affair with one of her co-workers_comma_ i had him over at our house and was kind to him.  I found out my wife was having an affair_comma_ the worst part is i knew the guy and welcomed him in my home and was kind to him. Oh man_comma_ I'm really sorry you have to go through that. Betrayal like that is so painful. How are you doing? I'm learning to live my live without her_comma_ it's tough. Some honesty would have made the way it ended much better. Thanks for the kind words. Of course_comma_ no one deserves to have their heartbroken like that. I hope you find someone who treats you with the respect and kindness you deserve.