conv: My long term boyfriend and I broke up recently. I'm so lost right now. My long term boyfriend and I broke up recently. I'm so lost right now. when that happened to me i watched a lot of movies _comma_ for some reason the sad movies made me cry_comma_ but just be strong and patient one day you realize you can do better or find someone new I know_comma_ it's just so frustrating after spending so long building your lives together.  it happens to the best of us_comma_ and i totally understand where your coming from _comma_ spend some time with your friends or loved ones 