conv: Its hard to deal with when your kids are getting older and have to handle their own problems. As a mom you can't just step in and fix everything like you want to. It's hard as a parent_comma_ when your kids are teenagers and have to handle their own problems You kinda want to hold their hand_comma_ but you know it's best they solve some problems on their own. You can't be with them all the time. I know_comma_ they mommy in me wants to just jump in and fix it all like I used to It is truely for the best. Try not to worry.