conv: A few years ago I came home to an unexpected party for my birthday.  My wife (who was my girlfriend then) had planned it all with my friends without me knowing. A few years ago_comma_ before we got married_comma_ my wife planned a party for me for my birthday completely without me knowing. That sounds like a pleasant surprise!  It really was!  I walked into my apartment to like 15 more people than I expected. Thats so sweet of her and what a great memory to have! 