conv: My wife's birthday is coming up. I got her a gift and the party planned out way ahead of time this year. My wife has a big birthday coming up and I've got a great weekend all laid out for her. Oh how exciting!  What do you have planned? We are going to eat tonight. Then tomorrow we are having a big surprise party with her best friend. I even had a couple of her friends fly into town that she hasnt seen in years. I bet she is going to be so surprised!  Is she hard to surpise? Yes she kind of is. I dont think she knows_comma_ but I can't really tell for sure. Well I'm sure everything will go great!