conv: My upstairs neighbor gets up at 3am for work. Instead of preparing the night before she does everything in the am. I am so tired of being woken up! If my upstairs neighbor wakes me at 3am again I think I'll explode! I get that she has to go to work_comma_ but why not get organized the night before for goodness sake?! I know the feeling. You too_comma_ huh? How do you nicely ask someone to shut up? Yelling at that time of day just wouldn't be right. Leave a note on their door. and at the end put "thanks in advance" lol Nice idea_comma_ but I don't think subtlety is their strong point - they'd be liable to make even more noise_comma_ lol. Well_comma_ you can at least try.  I guess I could. Or I could just move. Still mad though! You could get earplugs lol