conv: My father unexpected passed away around 2 1/2 years ago. We never thought he would be leaving us this soon and it was very traumatic to me. My father passed away about 2 1/2 years ago. It was totally unexpected and really was very traumatic and hurtful to me. He was still quite young and my family and I had no idea he had a life threatening health issue. I am sorry to hear that_comma_ I hope you had some time together before hand I was pretty close to my father and always lived close by. But_comma_ you always wish you had more time. But_comma_ the last words I said to him was that I loved him_comma_ and I'm grateful for that. That is good at least_comma_ you had some closure at the worst