conv: I've been so upset lately_comma_ the house has been a mess and my husband hasn't been helping clean. I've had a rough week! The house has been a mess from my dogs and toddler. My husband hasn't been helping out much_comma_ its fustrating! Why is he not helping? I'm not sure! He has been busy with work but also has been going out with friends a lot :( Oh_comma_ well work can be tough too sometimes