conv: I have a really big game coming up this weekend. I haven't played soccer since I was a kid and have been really nervous about joining an adult league.  I have a really big game coming up this weekend. I haven't played soccer since I was a kid and have been really nervous about joining an adult league.  Good luck! I'm sure it will be fine. I just don't want to embarrass myself or my team. I'm so scared i'm going to make a fool of myself.  You're too hard on yourself. Everyone messes up sometimes_comma_ even the greats.