conv: Many years ago_comma_ my husband was acting a bit too 'chivalrous' to a friend of mine_comma_ which I felt was a bit too friendly. He said he was just being nice_comma_ but I felt like he found her attractive. I've been married almost 23 years_comma_ but many years ago_comma_ my husband was acting a bit too "chivalrous" to a female acquaintance of ours. He said he was only being nice_comma_ but I felt he was being a bit 'too nice'_comma_ which made me feel a bit upset.  That is VERY understandable. Emotional affair is still a betrayal.  Well_comma_ we really didn't know her very well and she actually just came to one of our friends house while we were there_comma_ and she was intoxicated. He was trying to help her get up and situated_comma_ but he was very insistent about it_comma_ even when she didn't want help. It looked bad to others. Well it's nice he is kind but yes that is a little strange. Women can usually take that as something and try to get with your man. 