history: I caught my husband getting a phone number from another girl. I am not sure how to address to my husband about how I feel about him getting a phone number from another girl. I would be downright furious. Start by smacking him across the face randomly at dinner. That should be a good segway into the conversation.
current: That is how I feel. I don't think he understands how it makes me feel inside. 
next: Oh, he certainly will when he feels the hot, guilty tears running down his face from that strong, independent, jealous filled slap!