history: I had to kick my 18 year old son out of house.    He has been gone almost a month now. He kept doing drugs_comma_ and taking things that didnt belong to him.  It broke my heart but I didnt know what else to do. It's awful! I know so many families are dealing with similar situation. Sometimes we don't know how to help someone close to us. Heart breaking...
current: Yes you are right about that.  I dealt with it for a long time and then I just couldn't anymore.  Over and over things would disappear and he would of course always deny it.  He became violent at time to his sister and me and I couldn't put them at risk.
next: You can't help him until he wants to really change. Sometimes all you can do is pray.