history: After being married to my first wife for 8 years, I found out she was having an affair behind my back. It was not a very good time for me. After being married for 8 years to my first wife_comma_ I found out she was having an affair behind my back. Im sorry about that. How did you find out?
current: She came out and told me about it. It was one of the worst times in my life.
next: That stinks. Are you still with her or did you leave her?