history: My girlfriend at the time was so much less passionate with me than she was with one of her male friends. It made me so envious.  My girlfriend at the time seemed to be so much more passionate when talking to one of her friends. What do you mean exactly? She doesn't have the same passion when speaking to you?
current: She just seemed to be so much more energetic and engaged when she was talking to him.
next: Oh wow, I'm sorry to hear that. That must hurt.