history: I expect a lot more from my friends.  They're intelligent and highly capable people...but I feel like they're not living up to their full potential I'm the guy who gets mad at his friends for not living up to their full potential.
current: it is frustrating to watch i agre
next: like they introduced me to this self-employe gig they only do part time...and now I pay rent and bills with it, plus save some extra....and they still want to do it part time and keep their dead-end jobs they complain about!