history: My wife just confessed that she cheated, im irritated at her behaviour My wife just confessed that she cheated_comma_ im irritated at her behaviour. Totally dissapointed I'm sorry to hear about that.  I hope you both can find a way to work things out with each other.
current: There is no fixing buddy, in my religion once a woman cheats she is not desirable anymore 
next: Oh, that's too bad.  Well then I hope you can find happiness again in the future.  Good luck to you!