history: When my old roommate got herself a boyfriend, I didn't realize how I really felt about her until she started spending more time with him. My old roommate got a boyfriend_comma_ and obviously_comma_ she started spending a lot more time with him than at our apartment.  That happened my freshman year with my best friend. It really sucks at first_comma_ but eventually you get used to it.
current: I eventually did, but I didn't realize how I really felt about her instead she was never around.
next: I'm still friends with my old roommate, but I found other people to spend my time with.