history: My partner took my credit card and purchased a bag for herself without even asking me I found out that my partner purchased a new bag for herself with my credit card. She did not even bother to let me know or ask me before using it WOW_comma_ I would be quite upset_comma_  Atleast let me know before you do that!
current: Indeed. I was quite angry at her for behaving in such a careless way. She did not even apologize to me for her actions
next: wow, Thats unbelievable.  Did you let her know it upset you?