history: There was this one time I was with my friend, and there was this customer who was being rude. We looked at each other, and had the same thoughts without saying out loud to each other. One time I went out to eat with my friend. And there was a customer who was just very rude and vulgar. My friend and i gave each other "the look" and realized we were having the same thoughts. I was surprised.  (Thank you for your words! I have a mom to talk too_comma_ so it helps but loads of trauma_comma_ abuse and death are hard to even talk about. Thank you! I hope you feel better too!) I have had to talk to customers who were nasty to clerks before! It's shocking.
current: (im glad to hear you have someone. But having someone who cant be biased always helps too) It really is. Some people can get so nasty and vicious over the smallest things! Im so glad i got out of the food industry. 
next: I know right? Oh lord- the food industry is the worst, especially for waitresses.