history: My girlfriend recently went on a white water rafting trip with her friends. Normally I might be concerned, but our relationship is going so well I remain committed and unworried. It's great to be in a committed relationship. Many people might be unnerved at their SO leaving for a week long kayaking trip_comma_ but not me.
current: I agree. I think it is important for couples to be secure enought to be happy that way.
next: For sure. We both have time to focus on our own activities. I think I'll read a book this week!