history: My girlfriend wants me to go to Thanksgiving at her parents this year, but I haven't even met them yet. My girlfriend wants me to go to Thanksgiving at her parents this year_comma_ but I haven't even met them yet.
current: I don't envy you there. I have done the blind family meeting at a holiday dinner before. It's nerve racking. 
next: I feel a little nervous about it but my girlfriend doesn't understand.  She is starting to get irritated that I haven't given her my yes or no yet.  It is putting a strain on things.