history: I was devestated when my grandmother passed away, I was not prepared to deal with that I was devestated when my grandmother passed away_comma_ I was not prepared to deal with that We never are prepared for something like that.. how long ago was it? 
current: It was about 7 years ago, but it still stings
next: I understand! Its been about the same for me since my parents passed and it doesnt hurt any less.  Im sorry but I can tell you are strong! 