history: I stop taking people serious after i realize that my wife of 5 years had a baby without telling me I stop taking people serious after i realize that my wife of 5 years had a baby without telling me Oh my god that's crazy_comma_ I'm sorry to hear that.
current: It's alright, I think it's good to do proper background check and make sure one is 100% sure before jumping into dealings with people these days 
next: I hope nothing like that ever happens again.