history: Whenever my girlfriend at the time broke up with me and ghosted me, I had no idea what to make of the situation. I never would've expected her to do that, since she seemed really into me. A month or two ago my girlfriend randomly broke up with me and I had no idea that she was even close to considering that.
current: I am very sorry to hear that, that must be terrible....
next: It wasn't a great time, but it just really irked me since I had no idea that she was not into me at that time. She must've been really good at faking it.