history: When me and my wife first got together we had a long debate about money. In the end we decided that since i was at work most of the time she would handle all money matters and have most say in things.  many years ago when my wife and i first moved in with each other there were lots of debates about money Financial stress can be a major burden. How did you get over this issue? Well since i work more than I am at home we decided that she would handle the money and only have to consult me on major matters or purchases. That is a smart and well thought out plan I told her that if she ever messed up and we lost a house or something devisating happened that we would switch and i would take over.
current: Would you be able to forgive her for such a large mistake?
next: I like to believe i would, though i would be handling the money from then on.