history: A few years ago, my marriage broke up, and I found myself living alone for the first time in my life. Though I eventually grew accustomed to the solitude, it took a while to get used to it. I found myself divorced a few years ago_comma_ and for the first time in my life_comma_ I was living alone. I felt sad and depressed due to my insecurities and felt rejected from society
current: Yes, I felt that way for a while. But then I grew used to the solitude.
next: The problem is I don't think you can grew out of my specific insecurity.