history: One of my coworkers recently lost her daughter. I felt very bad for her and bought her a bunch of things and I make sure to take her out to dinner once a week to take care of her and make sure she's okay One of my coworkers recently lost her daughter. That's terrible!  I can't imagine how hard that is.
current:  I felt very bad for her and bought her a bunch of things and I make sure to take her out to dinner once a week to take care of her and make sure she's okay
next: That's very sweet of you.  She's going to need her friends to help her through this!