history: There was a few times but the most memerable and tramatizing time was when i was just a teenager learning about sex and other naughty things a young girl is supposed to be curiouse about anyway i was going thru some of my dads stuff looking for condoms when i found a picture of my dad and another women who i did not know kissng! It was very hurtful. I was a teenager very curiouse about sex and i found a picture looking for condoms it was of my dad and nother lady kissing.  I imagine that was a big surprise! Did you ever mention to him?
current: No i felt really ashamex of myself for going thru his atuff and i felt ashamed at him but never told him i found the picture.
next: Well, I can relate. My sister and I found some playboy magazines nosing around too!