history: in my self for failing so hard i am a failure   what makes you think so? i'm pretty sure you aren't. I wan't to help my fiance_comma_ she is going through so much_comma_ my job isn't paying me much and i've been working as hard as i can and i still can't do much_comma_ i wan't her to come here already because she is the only thing that keeps me sane 
current: that doesn't make you a failure! you are doing more than enough and i'm pretty sure she appreciate every single thing you're doing for her.
next: yo uthink so? 