history: When my spouse was out of town for work, a friend stopped by to visit. This friend offered to kiss me, but I declined and asked the friend to leave. I only have interest in my spouse in this way. When my spouse was out of town_comma_ a friend tried to kiss me! wow_comma_ i do not know either to say_comma_ way to go or you better not
current: I said no and made the friend leave. I only like my spouse.
next: that's good to hear, and if your spouse finds out she would be proud and mad at the friend