history: I had been friends with Mary for awhile now, but never been to her house. She invited me over for dinner and I had no clue she was a hoarder. Do you ever think you know someone and then you go to their house and find out their a HOARDER@ Woah_comma_ I never had that happen to me.
current: It came as a total shock! She would have been the last person I thought would be a hoarder
next: Yes, we can truly not judge people because unless you are very close with a person you can't know their full story!