history: I was given a gift from my spouse, someone wanted to borrow it but I could not lend it out. My spouse gave me a gift_comma_ a watch. A friend of mine wanted to borrow my watch but I could not lend it to her. It values a lot to me
current: If it is a treasured gift, your friend should not be asking for it! how did you feel when she did ask you? 
next: I was surprised because she knew who gave me the gift, but she insisted.