history: I am a very naive person, so I was completely shattered when my boyfriend came home and told me he was moving in with another woman.  I am a very naive person_comma_ so I was completely shattered when my boyfriend came home and told me he was moving in with another woman. How long have you been with your boyfriend? 5 years! We lived together for four years. 
current: That's a long time, so sorry to hear about your troubles.
next: Yes, it was really hard. I really trusted him, so I missed all the red flags. 