history: i promised my wife that i will stop drinking but it seems hard to stop, i feel guilty i promised my wife that i will stop drinking but it seems hard to stop_comma_ i feel so bad Maybe you could try AA meetings or suggest to your wife that she can go to Al Anon meetings. It's a good first start.
current: thanks alot
next: It worked for me and my husband. We were going through the same type of thing for about a year.