history: I always complain and treat my husband like crap, I need to change.
current: I always complain, nag, and treat my husband like crap. Which makes me feel like crap. I need to change/
next: Whoa, that is quite the confession. But you know, it's good that you recognize that you need to change a behavior. Very mature. Not everyone has that same ability to be honest with themselves, and you should feel proud about that!