history: Someone I am kind of in a relationship with wants to come over this weekend and I am not sure about it. It's too soon after so much has happened and I don't want to deal with anymore upset. Someone I am kind of in a relationship with wants to come over this weekend and I am not sure about it. Why are you hesitant It's too soon after so much trauma as happened and I don't want to deal with anymore upset.
current: Then just tell him no.  If it's meant to be he'll respect it
next: That is very true. I am seeing how the rest of the week goes or I will simply not be here when they come to fix some stuff around the house.