history: My friend would not stop whistling even though she knows I can't stand it. I was so irritated by it. My friend would not stop whistling even though she knows I can't stand it. Did you ask her to kindly stop? 
current:  Yes but she wouldn't. I was so irritated by it.
next: She may not be the best choice of a friend if she likes annoying you so much.  Maybe try distancing yourself from her for a while.