history: I was to having a conversation with a co-worker when they asked me out on date. I refused letting them know I was married. Since this incident the have not spoken to me since. I have not seen the message about the incident but I do hope that person will speak to you.
current: I was having a conversation at work with a coworker and they asked me on a date. I refused since I am married.
next: That was the right thing to do. You respect your marriage.