history: Someone I am kind of in a relationship with wants to come over this weekend and I am not sure about it. It's too soon after so much has happened and I don't want to deal with anymore upset. Someone I am kind of in a relationship with wants to come over this weekend and I am not sure about it. Why are you hesitant
current: It's too soon after so much trauma as happened and I don't want to deal with anymore upset.
next: Then just tell him no.  If it's meant to be he'll respect it