history: My mother in law does not know how to mind her business.  She continually tells my girls how their father and I should do things My mother in law does not know how to mind her business_comma_ I don't understand why she has to be so undermining to us.
current: What a jerk! Why is she always in your biz?
next: I don't think she has any idea how nosy and irritating she is.  She continually will tell our girls how their father and I are doing things wrong.