history: One time my friend was telling me about his dog dying. He took it real hard and still wasn't over it after weeks had gone by. It just sucked seeing him so hurt.
current: You know, I find it difficult to respond to certain situations. Like when my friend's dog died, I just didn't know what to say to him.
next: Yeah, been there done that. You want to comfort them but you don't know what to do/say