history: My wife wants to have kids, but I'm not really sure I'm ready. I'd like kids one day, but maybe not right now.
current: My wife told me she's ready for kids, but I'm not sure if I am. I'm not totally against the idea, I'm just a little nervous about making such a big decision right now.
next: Well take it from me, I have one and twins on the way.... Never wanted kids either but once theyre here it's an amazing feeling!