history: My husband gets cranky when he gets woken up and takes it out on me. My husband takes it out on me when he gets woken up and it makes me so mad. I think he should exercise more self-restraint when it comes to your relationship I agree_comma_ but he doesn't think he is doing anything wrong.
current: That is very dangerous attitude to have. I would be very cautious as it may bring much unintended social consequences
next: Yes, it already has in the past. I do the best I can.