history: My sister in law refuses to ever take her boys to the doctor.  There have been times they have been really sick and she just will not take them. There is something wrong with my sister in law.  She refuses to take her kids to the doctor for checkups or even when they are sick.
current: Wow that's pretty bad parenting.
next: That's what my husband and I think.  I mean even when they were babies and would run 103 fever, she wouldn't take them.  I just do not understand that at all - they are both grown now but she's pretty uninvolved with either of them.