history: My friend borrowed a good sum of money from me, but I guess he doesn't feel that paying me back is a priority. It makes me sad to know that my incoveinence isn't important enough. I loaned my friend a good bit of money_comma_ but he does not seem to be in any rush to pay me back
current: If you report him to his wife, the shame will make him pay you back
next: He doesn't have one (go figure) so that won't work. I just wish I had considered it more beforehand