history: I can't believe I let my boyfriend order the pizza for us. Nine years and he doesn't know what I like on a pizza? I have been with my boyfriend for nine years now Congrats! How is it going? I think I'm going to break up with him. Nine years and last week he ordered a pizza for us covered in black olives. That seems very trivial but do you mean that he still doesn't seem to know you? Exactly. I realized yesterday he does that all the time.  Have you tried counseling_comma_ reading going through a program? Are there good things? I know it is hard when a partner doesn't work on a relationship and keep it good
current: Nine years. He should know already.
next: For sure but no relationship is perfect and everything takes work