history: I recently had a baby and now none of my friends want to hang out with me anymore. The father also left me. I recently had a baby and now none of my friends want to hang out with me anymore. 
current: Congratulations!  That's awful!  DO they not have kids themselves?  Its a pretty typical thing to happen when you're the first to have a baby among them and they don't understand that lifestyle. I've been there.
next: Well, the father also left, so for me, I've just felt very sad and isolated