history: Shortly after I got married, my wife and I decided that we wanted to have kids. When we found out she was pregnant, we couldn't wait to find out if we were having a boy or a girl. When my wife and I got married_comma_ we knew we wanted to have kids.  When we found out that we were expecting_comma_ the only thing on our mind for the longest time was if we were having a boy or a girl.
current: What exciting news! Did you find out ahead of time what the gender of the baby was?
next: We did! We were living in Japan at the time, and we were paying this clinic 2000 yen a week so we could keep getting ultrasounds of the baby.