history: My husband keeps leaving his socks and underwear all over the house. I keep having to pick them up. My husband's socks and underwear are all over the house! Talk to him wisely
current: I'm not sure what you mean by "wisely." I could tell him, "Hey, I don't want to pick up after you," but I'm not sure that would go over well.
next: Oh I mean talk to him in the way that he will understand. With love so that he reasons with you