history: I can't believe my ex didn't pay his car note and had the nerve to ask me for some money. He has a gambling problem. MY ex has a gambling problem. Thats why we broke up
current: That really stinks. What game did she used to play?
next: He play slot machines only. We broke up two years ago and he still hasn't gotten it together. He asked me for help with his car note the other day. I'm no enabler.