history: I am having a hard time coping with having to kick someone out. I know it's been necessary for them to get better but it doesn't make it any easier I am having a hard time coping with having to kick someone out. Are you kicking them out for a valid reason?
current: YEP! They are abusive and need lots of help I am not offering anymore..They have to want it for themselves!. I know it's been necessary for them to get better but it doesn't make it any easier
next: Just make it short and sweet.