history: How can one stay married for 10 years without cheating? How can one stay married for 10 years without cheating? By being a decent person...I'm not a cheater and could never..I am very monogomous..Why would you get married if you wanted that?
current: Ok, I think I am just being scared and finding an excuse 
next: I think so. Having integrity and good character would stop you from doing that, would you want to be cheated on? You should be honest with your partner..or work on and water your relationship if you don't like it the way it is. Cheating after 10 years would truly make you a terrible person to waste someone elses life for 10 years only to go through such a betrayal.