history: Once someone I thought loved me left me for another man. The love of my life left me for a better man. Oh no! Hey_comma_ I wouldn't say a better man. I'm sure you are just fine for someone else. She didn't deserve you.
current: I feel like sometimes i can be overbearing with my love and it backfires on its intended purpose 
next: Okay, yeah a lot of people seem to have that problem. Maybe you can learn from it for next time.