history: I found out the my girlfriend's mom had diead. I had to tell her the news myself since she didn't have any other family to tell her. I've been dreading having to actually say it. I got the news that my girlfriend's mom passed away. I have to tell her the news myself since she has no other close family. I'm dreading having to actually say it to her. first of all my condolences for your friend_comma_ and i know how hard this is for you both Thank you very much. It is very upsetting.
current: ya it feels so weak to be in that place , but you should only give the strength required for your friend to overcome this situation
next: I hope I'm able to. I've never really been a pillar of strength myself.