history: I found out the my girlfriend's mom had diead. I had to tell her the news myself since she didn't have any other family to tell her. I've been dreading having to actually say it.
current: I got the news that my girlfriend's mom passed away. I have to tell her the news myself since she has no other close family. I'm dreading having to actually say it to her.
next: first of all my condolences for your friend, and i know how hard this is for you both