history: I am having to be strong and not respond when it comes to a person I care about at times. It is hard to not be an enabler sometimes. It requires a LOT of strength and tough love. I I am having to be strong and not respond when it comes to a person I care about at times.
current: Yeah, it can be tough. Especially if you're in a heated argument.
next: Yes or when they try and bait you.  It is hard to not be an enabler sometimes. It requires a LOT of strength and tough love.