history: I was married to my wife for thirty years, and even though she has passed I can't bring myself to date anyone else. I was married to my wife for thirty years_comma_ and even though she has passed I can't bring myself to date anyone else. After being married for that long_comma_ I really don't blame you. Do you want to move on and find someone else?
current: I don't, but my kids keep telling me to try it out.  I just feel like it's cheating and I can't stand the thought of it.
next: Well, if that's how you feel then maybe it is best if you stay in the dugout and don't play the field. No shame in that.