history: I recently had a baby and now none of my friends want to hang out with me anymore. The father also left me.
current: I recently had a baby and now none of my friends want to hang out with me anymore. 
next: Congratulations!  That's awful!  DO they not have kids themselves?  Its a pretty typical thing to happen when you're the first to have a baby among them and they don't understand that lifestyle. I've been there.