history: Seeing that you bought a white color when I asked you to buy green irritates me Seeing that  my wife bought a white color when I  asked her  to buy green disgust me I would be really frustrated with that as well. Did you exchange the colors? She promised to go and do that since she realizes how i feel 
current: Well it sounds like she's listening to you at least.
next: I think she still loves me regardless that's why