history: I had a one night stand during my last official trip. I am scared to tell my wife that a baby was birth out of the one night stand, what do i do?  had a one night stand during my last official trip. I am scared to tell my wife that a baby was birth out of the one night stand_comma_ what do i do? Oh that is a tough one! You have to tell her no matter what! Just suck it up and break it to her!
current: I'm scared she will leave me. This is because I don't have a child with her yet
next: I know you are scared, but this was a choice you made, now you have to deal with the consequences.