history: I was given a gift from my spouse, someone wanted to borrow it but I could not lend it out. My spouse gave me a gift_comma_ a watch. A friend of mine wanted to borrow my watch but I could not lend it to her. It values a lot to me If it is a treasured gift_comma_ your friend should not be asking for it! how did you feel when she did ask you?  I was surprised because she knew who gave me the gift_comma_ but she insisted. Did she understand when you gave her the reason you didn't want to lend it to her?  No! She didn't speak to me for days_comma_ she said I was mean and selfish.
current: She doesn't sound like a good friend to me! 
next: That's exactly what my sister said. She should have understood the reason why I could not lend her the watch.