history: The other day my cousin emailed me. She mentioned that the whole family was about to head out for our annual family trip to the lake. I'm not able to go this year and I was so upset. My cousin was telling me about the family all heading out for the annual family lake trip. I was feeling so envious because I can't go this time. ooh_comma_ sorry about that_comma_ why cant you join the I haven't been having a good relationship with my mom for a few years now so I'm not really "welcome". 
current: sorry to hear that. Why dont you try to make things work with your mother's relationnship
next: I have reached out but she is mad at me for having a baby young, so she ignores me. I am waiting on her.