history: I was living at a backpackers and had tried talking to this cute German girl but she just ignored me all the time. So I thought she hated me.  Until she decided to open up one night and let me get to second base. 
current: I had tried chatting up this cute German girl at a hostel I used to live at but she just kept ignoring me.  I thought she hated me until she just opened up one night...and let me get to second base...mind blown I've just accepted I'll never understand women 
next: Well, go ahead, know that women are an art, that you get many attempts