history: Whenever my family gets together we always argue. It is so annoying, especially when we are eating out. I feel ashamed of the silly arguments. My family loves to argue when we get together. It is annoying when we are in a restaurant and won't stop bickering. I bet that is embarrassing for you when you guys are out in public.  
current: You are right. Sometimes I want to be invisible. I wish we would all just get along.
next: I understand, trust me.  My family was the same way growing up.