history: When I lost my dad, it really hurt me. It was just so random It killed me pretty much when I lost my dad. It was so random and I was not ready for it That's awful. It sounds like a freak accident. What happend?
current: He had a brain issue that got him instantly
next: Wow, I am sorry to hear. I had a friend with an aneurysm pass suddenly about 2 years ago. It was hard and I can't imagine how you feel with it being your father. 