history: I was disappointed in someone last night when they chose to ruin all the trust built up over something stupid. It just happened over nothing because they were cranky. I was very sad about someone last night when they chose to ruin all the trust built up over something stupid. THat sounds bad.  Are you alright?
current: Oh yes, they have done this a lot. I was just sad they chose to throw the tiny bit of progress away. They just like to ruin everything that's good, you know? A lot of baggage.
next: It sounds like you need soe distance from them