history: I used to be mad when girls wouldn't text me back....but now I'm more happy being unattached and busy making money and as a result they're the ones chasing me now I used to hate it when girls wouldn't text me back.  Now that I'm focused on my job and networking I put little to zero effort in meeting girls...and as a result they're the ones checkin up on me every night lmao
current: Absolutely! I've always noticed that phenomena. If you act too desperate it actually puts them off. On the contrary, acting a little disinterested gets THEM more interested.
next: Yup exactly... but I feel like even "acting" disinterested can be pretty transparent since girls are super intuitive...just staying busy and being constantly on your grind turns them on...for me personally anyway how bout you