history: My birthday was last weekend, and no one wished me a Happy Birthday. My birthday was last weekend_comma_ and no one wished me a Happy Birthday. I'm so sorry to hear that. How sad for you.
current: It is. I've been absorbed in work for the last 3 years and haven't gone out. So I guess everyone kinda moved on without me.
next: Did he ditch you as well? And how did the girlfriend react?