history: I'm in a current situation with my mother where I am not feeling as caring as I used to be. This is because of how she acted towards me when my father was in hospice and watching him suffer through his last days.
current: My mom said some pretty offensive things to me while my dad was in hospice. It's hard to forgive her for them.
next: Sometimes people say things they don't mean when their angry. Maybe you should just let it go.