history: I'm a guy with pretty thick skin.  I can take the most politically incorrect or classless jokes and dish them back...but I become livid when someone insults my family for no reason
current: I've got thick skin and can trade crass, classless, and politically disturbing jokes all day...but if someone insults my family with malice I go livid and deny all responsibility for whatever happens next
next: I hear you.  Jokes are one thing, family is another.