history: Everytime my friend comes over and brings his kids, he never keeps a close eye on them and they ravage my place! When my friend comes over he never keeps an eye on his kids and they ravage my home!
current: That is horrible! Have you ever said anything to him about it?
next: I don't know how to bring it up. I always hope he'd catch subtle hints like when I ask his kids to please not climb on my stuff!