history: I felt ashamed when I had finally broken up with a boyfriend of five years.  He was abusive physically and mentally. I was not ashamed that I broke up with him. I was ashamed that I had stayed in the relationship for that long. I broke up with my abusive boyfriend of five years. Thats good. Abusive relationships are the worst. They are. I was ashamed that I had stayed in that relationship for so long. But_comma_ I met someone who is the complete opposite of him.
current: Great! You deserve it!
next: Everyone deserves to be happy in whatever capacity that may mean for who they choose to spend their time with.