history: I really believed my boyfriend when he told me that he loved me. I don't know why my boyfriend lied to me about seeing another woman. I thought he loved me. Do you think it's possible that he does still love you and also made a horrible mistake? I'm not sure_comma_ but I'm hoping that he will realize he's messed up. I think that when people cheat and lie_comma_ it's because something is wrong with them and not their partner.  If he doesn't realize his mistake_comma_ then he doesn't deserve your love.  I wish you all the best!
current: Thank you so much. Hopefully, it all works out, and he comes back to me.
next: I hope you realize your worth too. I do this thing where I think about another woman in my life who I really care about (mom, daughter, etc.) and I think "if this was happening to them, what kind of advice would I give them?"  Sometimes, we think we deserve less.