history: I am having to be strong and not respond when it comes to a person I care about at times. It is hard to not be an enabler sometimes. It requires a LOT of strength and tough love. I I am having to be strong and not respond when it comes to a person I care about at times. Yeah_comma_ it can be tough. Especially if you're in a heated argument.
current: Yes or when they try and bait you.  It is hard to not be an enabler sometimes. It requires a LOT of strength and tough love.
next: I know right?!? Sometimes it's just best to be quiet, even though you know you are right, to help things get better.