history: A time I felt I should be loyal and honest is when my good friend's boyfriend showed interest in me in a romantic manner. I am married, and I also really care for my friend, so two reasons I wouldn't encourage his behavior. I let him know that he was wrong to do that, and felt good that I did, but felt really bad for my friend.
current: My friend's boyfriend recently made a pass at me. I'm married, and I also am really good friend's with his girlfriend so I felt really bad. I made sure he knew I was loyal and honest to both!
next: Thats horrible. Did you tell on him?