history: I was at a get together recently and a friend's husband was flirting with me. I made it very clear to him that I am happy in my marriage and not interested. I was at a get together recently and a friend's husband was flirting with me. i feel bad for your friend. did you tell her?
current: I didn't know what to say to her, and was afraid she wouldn't believe me and it would cause her to be angry at me. It's a bad situation. 
next: oh god, that sounds terrible