history: My cat seems to like my new girlfriend more than me, he sleeps with her on her side of the bed now. I think my cat likes my new girlfriend more than he likes me now. I've had that happen before. My cat is definitely more my wife's cat now. Does he still cuddle up with you?
current: Yea he loves to sit on my lap while i work, but prefers her side of the bed now when he sleeps. 
next: Haha, same for me. It's like as soon as my wife is available to sit or lay with, I'm chopped liver.