history: A time I felt I should be loyal and honest is when my good friend's boyfriend showed interest in me in a romantic manner. I am married, and I also really care for my friend, so two reasons I wouldn't encourage his behavior. I let him know that he was wrong to do that, and felt good that I did, but felt really bad for my friend. My friend's boyfriend recently made a pass at me. I'm married_comma_ and I also am really good friend's with his girlfriend so I felt really bad. I made sure he knew I was loyal and honest to both! Thats horrible. Did you tell on him?
current: I struggled with it, but my friend was in a really bad spot, with no income and raising her grandchild, he was the financial supporter. So, I didn't tell her, as I knew it would really hurt her in several ways, plus she really loves him!
next: Thats a tough situation.