history: I didn't tell my friend when her boyfriend hit on me. I felt very bad and wrong for that, even though I turned him down, of course. I didn't tell my friend when her boyfriend hit on me. She was in a bad spot and needed him for financial support_comma_ and that's why I didn't tell her. But_comma_ I still felt so bad about it.
current: I can empathize with you there.  Do you think there might be another way to let her know? 
next: Well, she had custody of her handicapped grandchild and no job, plus she was very much in love with him. I thought it would just make things worse for her.