history: My sister passed away in 2010. She had taken her own life and my mother and I found her after she did. It was very traumatic and painful for us, and all our family.
current: My sister passed away several years ago. She took her life, and my mother and I found her right after she did it. This was very painful, traumatic and hard for us all.
next: oh wow, how did your mother handle this, how did you handle it . i can only imagine the pain.