history: My sister was recently in town to visit my dad and i didn't go and see her. I avoided her.  I feel like a terrible sibling right now.  What did you do to feel that way?
current: My sister, who lives out of state and i don't see often, was recently in town visiting our dad. I didn't visit with them.
next: I'm sorry to hear that, you could make it up to them by going to visit?