history: I was so upset when my daughter went in to labor and I couldn't be there. She lives in Indiana and wasn't due for several more months.  I was really upset when my daughter went into labor and I couldn't be there. 
current: I'm so sorry but what a joyous occasion. 
next: She lives in another state and wasn't due for several more months. Everyone is fine now though, so it has turned out to be very joyous.