history: After my wife left me, i've been trying to better myself and have a prosperous future. I'm looking to make positive changes and am optimistic about the future.
current: When my wife left me, i felt worthless and like giving up on life to be honest, I've since started making some positive changes and and more optimistic 
next: I can't even imagine how devastating that would be. I think you must be really strong to be able to move forward.