history: Getting pregnant One of the scariest_comma_ yet happiest experiences in my life was finding out that I was going to have a baby. Oh I can relate to that especially if you are not prepared for it_comma_ it can get really scary
current: Oh, we were totally unprepared. In fact, my partner and I were working out of state in a compromising environment. We had to double on back home to get our lives set up for the big change!
next: You guys will be alright trust me I  experienced same with my partner and now we are fine. Our kid is a teenager now. I am happy for you guys