history: My mom is having weight loss surgery. Im worried the risks are too dangerous.  My mom is having weight loss surgery next week_comma_ I'm nervous. What kind of operation is it? I'm unfamiliar with weight loss surgery. But typically surgeries like that are very safe_comma_ but it is natural to feel nervous about someone you care about.
current: She is having gastric bypass surgery, I feel like it would be too dangerous due to her medical state. She wont listen to me!
next: Well, everyone is entitled to their own life choices. I'm sure she'll be alright.