history: My husband and I had an argument a few weeks ago. I got pretty mad and said some things I wished I hadn't. I felt bad and disappointed in my actions aferwards. 
current: A few weeks ago, my husband and I had a big argument. I said some pretty hurtful things, and wished I hadn't. I felt very bad and disappointed in myself afterwards.
next: I am single and never been married. I assume arguments are part of marriage.