history: I've been married a long time, but my husband has to travel for business so I feel a little bit by myself sometimes.  I've been married a long time_comma_ but my husband is gone quite a bit for work. I feel a bit by myself at times because of this :( that is no good! you need someone to be there and take care of you.
current: Luckily, my children still live at home, but it's not quite the same. Plus, it won't be too long before they are ready to move out
next: I have never been married, so i cant imagine,  but I would want to be with my spouse every moment of every day.