history: I went through a divorce, I had to leave my husband and daughter behind. It broke my heart and I felt so alone. One of the hardest times in my life was when I had to leave my husband and daughter when I went through a divorce. I am so sorry. I can't imagine what you must have went through. I felt like I had no one. The two people I loved most in life I barely saw and was disconnected from.
current: That must have been really hard. 
next: It was, but I grew so much from it, and it ended up being the very best thing that could have happened to me.