Abstract:
Provided is a relationship support apparatus capable of preventing a user from inconsistently applying for relationships. An receiving section ( 32 ) receives an input of identification information of a desired relationship partner user, and further receives an input of identification information of the relationship-seeking user. A determination section ( 38 ) determines, based on the identification information of the relationship-seeking user and the identification information of the desired relationship partner user, whether or not an agreement has been reached on the relationship between the relationship-seeking user and the desired relationship partner user. A suspension section ( 40 ) suspends, based on a result of the determining performed by the determination section ( 38 ), the relationship-seeking user and the desired relationship partner user from carrying out a relationship-seeking activity with respect to another user.

Description:
CROSS-REFERENCE TO RELATED APPLICATIONS 
       [0001]    The present application claims priority from Japanese application JP 2010-150619 filed on Jun. 30, 2010, the content of which is hereby incorporated by reference into this application. 
       BACKGROUND OF THE INVENTION 
       [0002]    1. Field of the Invention 
         [0003]    The present invention relates to a relationship support apparatus, a relationship support method, and a storage medium. 
         [0004]    2. Description of the Related Art 
         [0005]    In recent years, a relationship support business for supporting men and women in seeking a relationship therebetween has been expanded by use of the Internet. A relationship support system used in the relationship support business is equipped with a search function useful for finding someone of the opposite sex that one likes, an opposite-sex partner recommendation function of referring a user who seeks a relationship with someone of the opposite sex to a person of the opposite sex determined to be suitable as the user&#39;s relationship partner, and other such functions. The relationship support system is provided with various ideas for promoting the use made by users. 
         [0006]    Japanese Patent Application Laid-open No. 2010-86214 discloses a technology in which a blurred image of an applicant who applies for a relationship is presented to the other person, it is verified whether or not the other person accepts the image exchange application, and if it is verified that the application is accepted, a higher-definition image of the other person than a blurred image of the other person is presented to the applicant while a higher-definition image of the applicant than the blurred image of the applicant is presented to the other person. According to the technology disclosed in Japanese Patent Application Laid-open No. 2010-86214, it is less likely that an individual is identified by an indefinite person viewing the image one-sidedly, which can promote the use of the system. 
       SUMMARY OF THE INVENTION 
       [0007]    However, the system according to Japanese Patent Application Laid-open No. 2010-86214 raises a problem that it is possible to inconsistently apply for relationships to an indefinite number of users. In the relationship support system utilizing the Internet, communications between users are generally performed via a network, and hence it is actually difficult to understand each other&#39;s identity sufficiently. If the users of the relationship support system include such an inconsistent user as to apply for relationships to an indefinite number of users, the credibility of the relationship support business may be damaged, and the expansion of the relationship support business may be hindered. 
         [0008]    The present invention has been made in view of the above-mentioned problem, and an object thereof is to provide a relationship support apparatus, a relationship support method, a program, and a storage medium which are capable of preventing a user from inconsistently applying for relationships. 
         [0009]    In order to solve the above-mentioned problem, the present invention provides a relationship support apparatus, in which information of a plurality of users looking for a relationship partner is registered, which supports the plurality of users in seeking an opportunity to have a relationship with each other, and which is communicably connected to terminals of the plurality of users, the relationship support apparatus including: receiving means for receiving identification information of a desired relationship partner user, with whom a relationship-seeking user seeking a relationship desires to have a relationship, sent from the terminal of the relationship-seeking user, and further receiving identification information of the relationship-seeking user, with whom the desired relationship partner user desires to have a relationship, sent from the terminal of the desired relationship partner user; determination means for determining, based on the identification information of the relationship-seeking user and the identification information of the desired relationship partner user that have been obtained through the receiving means, whether or not an agreement has been reached on the relationship between the relationship-seeking user and the desired relationship partner user; and suspension means for suspending, based on a result of the determining performed by the determination means, the relationship-seeking user and the desired relationship partner user from carrying out a relationship-seeking activity with respect to another user. 
         [0010]    Further, the present invention provides a relationship support method of registering information of a plurality of relationship-seeking users who seek a relationship and supporting the plurality of relationship-seeking users in seeking an opportunity to have a relationship with each other, the relationship support method including: receiving identification information of a desired relationship partner user, with whom a relationship-seeking user seeking a relationship desires to have a relationship, from a terminal of the relationship-seeking user; receiving identification information of the relationship-seeking user, with whom the desired relationship partner user desires to have a relationship, from a terminal of the desired relationship partner user; determining, based on the identification information of the relationship-seeking user and the identification information of the desired relationship partner user, whether or not an agreement has been reached on the relationship between the relationship-seeking user and the desired relationship partner user; and suspending, based on a result of the determining, the relationship-seeking user and the desired relationship partner user from carrying out a relationship-seeking activity with respect to another user. 
         [0011]    Further, the present invention provides a computer-readable storage medium having a program stored therein, the program causing a computer to function as a relationship support apparatus, in which information of a plurality of users looking for a relationship partner is registered, which supports the plurality of users in seeking an opportunity to have a relationship with each other, and which is communicably connected to terminals of the plurality of users, the program further causing the computer to function as: receiving means for receiving identification information of a desired relationship partner user, with whom a relationship-seeking user seeking a relationship desires to have a relationship, sent from the terminal of the relationship-seeking user, and further receiving identification information of the relationship-seeking user, with whom the desired relationship partner user desires to have a relationship, sent from the terminal of the desired relationship partner user; determination means for determining, based on the identification information of the relationship-seeking user and the identification information of the desired relationship partner user that have been obtained through the receiving means, whether or not an agreement has been reached on the relationship between the relationship-seeking user and the desired relationship partner user; and suspension means for suspending, based on a result of the determining performed by the determination means, the relationship-seeking user and the desired relationship partner user from carrying out a relationship-seeking activity with respect to another user. 
         [0012]    According to the exemplary embodiment of the present invention, it is determined whether or not the agreement has been reached on the relationship based on the identification information of the desired relationship partner user specified by the relationship-seeking user and the identification information of the relationship-seeking user specified by the desired relationship partner user, and based on the result of the determination, the relationship-seeking user and the desired relationship partner user are suspended from carrying out the relationship-seeking activity with respect to another user. With this configuration, according to the exemplary embodiment of the present invention, it is possible to prevent the user from inconsistently applying for relationships. 
         [0013]    According to one aspect of the present invention, a mode of enabling the relationship-seeking activity to be carried out is defined as an active mode and a mode of disabling the relationship-seeking activity from being carried out is defined as a suspended mode, the receiving means receives an input of a change request to change the suspended mode to the active mode from at least one of the terminal of the relationship-seeking user and the terminal of the desired relationship partner user in the case the relationship-seeking user and the desired relationship partner user are in the suspended mode, and the suspension means changes the relationship-seeking user and the desired relationship partner user from the suspended mode to the active mode based on the change request that has been obtained through the receiving means. 
         [0014]    Further, according to one aspect of the present invention, a mode of enabling the relationship-seeking activity to be carried out is defined as an active mode and a mode of disabling the relationship-seeking activity from being carried out is defined as a suspended mode, the receiving means receives an input of a change request to change the active mode to the suspended mode from the terminal of the relationship-seeking user along with the identification information of the desired relationship partner user, and further receives an input of the change request to change the active mode to the suspended mode from the terminal of the desired relationship partner user along with the identification information of the relationship-seeking user, the suspension means changes status of the relationship-seeking user and the desired relationship partner user from the active mode to the suspended mode based on the change requests that have been obtained through the receiving means, and the determination means determines, based on the identification information of the relationship-seeking user and the identification information of the desired relationship partner user, whether or not the agreement has been reached on the relationship between the relationship-seeking user and the desired relationship partner user, and notifies the relationship-seeking user and the desired relationship partner user of a result of the determining. 
         [0015]    In this aspect, there may take such a structure that, while the relationship-seeking user and the desired relationship partner user are in the suspended mode, the receiving means receives an input of a change request to change the suspended mode to the active mode from one of the terminal of the relationship-seeking user and the terminal of the desired relationship partner user, and the suspension means changes one of the relationship-seeking user and the desired relationship partner user from the suspended mode to the active mode based on the change request that has been obtained through the receiving means, and notifies another one of the relationship-seeking user and the desired relationship partner user of the change to the active mode. 
     
    
     
       BRIEF DESCRIPTION OF THE DRAWINGS 
         [0016]    In the accompanying drawings: 
           [0017]      FIG. 1  is a diagram illustrating an example of a configuration of a relationship support system according to an embodiment of the present invention; 
           [0018]      FIG. 2  is a diagram illustrating an example of a user profile screen; 
           [0019]      FIG. 3A  is a diagram illustrating an example of a mode setting screen; 
           [0020]      FIG. 3B  is a diagram illustrating an example of the mode setting screen; 
           [0021]      FIG. 4  is a functional block diagram illustrating an example of functions implemented by a server according to this embodiment; 
           [0022]      FIG. 5  is a diagram illustrating an example of user management data; 
           [0023]      FIG. 6  is a flowchart illustrating an example of a flow of mode changing processing performed by the relationship support system according to this embodiment; 
           [0024]      FIG. 7  is a diagram illustrating an example of the user management data; 
           [0025]      FIG. 8  is a flowchart illustrating an example of the flow of the mode changing processing performed by the relationship support system according to this embodiment; and 
           [0026]      FIG. 9  is a flowchart illustrating another example of the flow of the mode changing processing performed by the relationship support system according to this embodiment. 
       
    
    
     DETAILED DESCRIPTION OF THE INVENTION 
       [0027]    Hereinafter, one embodiment of the present invention is described in detail with reference to the accompanying drawings. 
         [0028]      FIG. 1  is a diagram illustrating an example of a configuration of a relationship support system  10  according to this embodiment. As illustrated in  FIG. 1 , the relationship support system  10  according to this embodiment includes, for example, a server  12  (functioning as a relationship support apparatus in this embodiment) and user terminals  14  ( 14 - 1  to  14 - n ). The server  12  and the respective user terminals  14  are connected to a network  16  such as the Internet so as to be able to communicate with one another. 
         [0029]    The server  12  is, for example, a Web application server including a control unit being a program control device such as a CPU that operates according to a program installed on the server  12 , a storage unit including memory devices such as a ROM and a RAM and a hard disk drive, and a communication unit being a communication interface such as a network board. Those components are connected to one another via a bus. The storage unit of the server  12  stores a program executed by the control unit of the server  12 . Further, the storage unit of the server  12  operates as a work memory of the server  12 . 
         [0030]    The user terminal  14  is, for example, a known personal computer including a control unit such as a CPU, a storage unit including memory devices such as a ROM and a RAM and a hard disk drive, an output device such as a display, an input device such as a mouse and a keyboard, and a communication unit such as a network board. Further, on the user terminal  14  according to this embodiment, a Web browser and an electronic mail client are preinstalled, and those application programs are executed. The user terminal  14  receives various services provided by the server  12  through the Web browser, and receives electronic mail transmitted from the server  12  through the electronic mail client. 
         [0031]    In this embodiment, after the user terminal  14  accesses the server  12  through the Web browser and inputs a user ID and a password that are described later, when the user terminal  14  accesses a predetermined URL, a screen corresponding to the predetermined URL is displayed on the display of the user terminal  14 . Note that, after the user ID and the password are input, the server  12  can identify the user ID of a user who uses the user terminal  14  with reference to, for example, a cookie. 
         [0032]    The relationship support system  10  according to this embodiment is, for example, a system used in a relationship support business for supporting men and women in seeking a relationship therebetween. Information related to users looking for a relationship partner is registered in the relationship support system  10 . When the user transmits a request to output a page corresponding to the relationship partner from the user terminal  14  to the server  12 , a profile screen  20  regarding the relationship partner exemplified in  FIG. 2  is output to the user terminal  14  through the Web browser. 
         [0033]    As illustrated in  FIG. 2 , the profile screen  20  includes a user&#39;s name (or nickname), sex, age, and etc. Further, the profile screen  20  includes a mode display area  22 . The mode display area  22  indicates whether the user is currently performing a relationship-seeking activity or is in a suspended condition. 
         [0034]    Setting contents displayed in the mode display area  22  are set on a mode setting screen  60  illustrated in  FIGS. 3A and 3B . Items “active”, “suspended”, and “resigned” are displayed in the mode setting screen  60  along with a radio button for each item. When the radio button for “active” is specified, the user becomes able to carryout the relationship-seeking activity. When the radio button for “suspended” is specified along with the user ID of a desired relationship partner, the user suspends the relationship-seeking activity. When the radio button for “resigned” is specified, the user resigns from the service. After the resignation, personal information including the user&#39;s name and sex is deleted. 
         [0035]    In this example,  FIG. 3A  illustrates a state in which the radio button for “active” is set. From this state, as illustrated in  FIG. 3B , when the radio button for “suspended” is specified along with the user ID (No. 1000) of a desired relationship partner, the user suspends the relationship-seeking activity. 
         [0036]      FIG. 4  is a functional block diagram illustrating an example of functions implemented by the server  12  according to this embodiment. As exemplified in  FIG. 4 , the server  12  includes a user management data storage section  30 , an receiving section  32 , a profile screen generation section  34 , a profile screen transmission section  36 , a determination section  38 , and a suspension section  40 . The user management data storage section  30  is implemented mainly by the storage unit of the server  12 . The other components are implemented mainly by the control unit of the server  12 . 
         [0037]    Those components are implemented by the control unit of the server  12  executing the program installed in the server  12  being a computer. Note that, this program is supplied to the server  12 , for example, via a computer-readable storage medium such as a CD-ROM or a DVD-ROM or via a communication network such as the Internet. 
         [0038]    The user management data storage section  30  prestores a plurality of records of user management data  50  exemplified in  FIG. 5  for managing a plurality of relationship-seeking users who seek a relationship with another user. The user management data  50  includes, for example, the user ID being an identifier of the relationship-seeking user, name data indicating the name (or nickname) of the relationship-seeking user, sex data indicating the sex of the relationship-seeking user, age data indicating the age of the relationship-seeking user, address data indicating an address of the relationship-seeking user, telephone number data indicating a telephone number of the relationship-seeking user, e-mail address data indicating an e-mail address of the relationship-seeking user, relationship-seeking activity mode data indicating a condition of the relationship-seeking activity performed by the relationship-seeking user, a desired relationship partner user ID being the user ID of the relationship-seeking user registered as the relationship partner by the relationship-seeking user, and etc. 
         [0039]    In this embodiment, for example, with regard to values of the relationship-seeking activity mode data, a condition in which the relationship-seeking user is performing the relationship-seeking activity is indicated by the value “active” of the relationship-seeking activity mode data, a condition in which the relationship-seeking user has suspended the relationship-seeking activity is indicated by the value “suspended” of the relationship-seeking activity mode data, and a condition in which the relationship-seeking user has resigned from the service of the relationship support business provided by a business entity is indicated by the value “resigned” of the relationship-seeking activity mode data. Immediately after or a fixed period of time after the user resigns, the user management data  50  on the user is deleted. It is assumed that the relationship-seeking activity mode data having the value “active” is referred to as “the user being in an active mode”, and that the relationship-seeking activity mode data having the value “suspended” is referred to as “the user being in a suspended mode”. 
         [0040]    As exemplified in  FIG. 5 , in the relationship support system  10  according to this embodiment, a user A, a user B, and a user C are registered as the relationship-seeking users. Further, in this embodiment, the value of the user ID corresponding to the user A is “0001”, the value of the user ID corresponding to the user B is “0002”, and the value of the user ID corresponding to the user C is “0003”. 
         [0041]    The receiving section  32  receives an input of data from the user terminal  14 . 
         [0042]    In response to a generation request for the profile screen  20  associated with the user ID received from the user terminal  14  by the receiving section  32 , the profile screen generation section  34  generates the profile screen  20  including the name (nickname) indicated by the name data, the sex indicated by the sex data, and the age indicated by the age data that are included in the user management data  50  corresponding to the user ID. For example, the personal information that can identify an individual (such as the real name and telephone number) is not displayed on the profile screen  20 . Further, within the mode display area  22 , the profile screen generation section  34  explicitly displays “active” or “suspended” corresponding to the mode indicated by the relationship-seeking activity mode data included in the user management data  50 . 
         [0043]    The profile screen transmission section  36  transmits data corresponding to the profile screen  20  to the user terminal  14  from which the generation request for the profile screen  20  has been received. Then, the user terminal  14  outputs the profile screen  20  to the display. 
         [0044]    As described above, the user is able to know the profile and relationship-seeking activity mode of another user. Note that, the mode display area  22  may be excluded from the profile screen  20 . 
         [0045]    Here, the flowchart illustrated in  FIG. 6  is referenced to describe an example of a flow of mode changing processing performed by the relationship support system.  10  according to this embodiment. The description of the following processing example is directed to a scene in which the user A and the user B have already agreed on starting a relationship therebetween by use of an electronic bulletin board system or the like and applications for suspension of the relationship-seeking activity are accordingly received from the user A and the user B. Further, the user A and the user B are both in the active mode at the start of this processing example. 
         [0046]    First, the receiving section  32  receives, from the user terminal  14  used by the user A, the input of a request to change the relationship-seeking activity mode from “active” to “suspended” along with the input of the user ID “0002” of the user B being the user specified as the relationship partner (desired relationship partner user) (S 101 ). In addition, the receiving section  32  receives, from the user terminal  14  used by the user B, the input of a request to change the relationship-seeking activity mode from “active” to “suspended” along with the input of the user ID “0001” of the user A being a desired relationship partner user of the user B (S 102 ). Then, the determination section  38  determines whether or not the data received in the processing of Steps S 101  and S 102  satisfies a predetermined condition (S 103 ). In this processing example, it is determined whether all the three conditions that: (1) the request to change the relationship-seeking activity mode to “suspended” has been received from the user terminal  14  used by the user A; (2) the request to change the relationship-seeking activity mode to “suspended” has been received from the user terminal  14  used by the user B; and (3) the user corresponding to the user ID “0001” sent from the user terminal  14  used by the user B that is the user corresponding to the user ID “0002” sent from the user terminal  14  used by the user A (desired relationship partner user specified as the relationship partner by the user A) is the user A, are satisfied or not (that is, or at least one of the conditions is not satisfied). 
         [0047]    Then, if it is confirmed in the processing of Step S 103  that the above-mentioned conditions are satisfied (S 103 : Y), the determination section  38  notifies the user terminal  14  used by the user A and the user terminal  14  used by the user B that the relationship with each other has been agreed on in the form of electronic mail (S 104 ). Then, the suspension section  40  changes the value of the relationship-seeking activity mode data included in the user management data  50  on the user A from “active” to “suspended”, and sets the user ID “0002” of the user B as the value of the desired relationship partner user ID included in the user management data  50  on the user A (S 105 ). Then, the suspension section  40  changes the value of the relationship-seeking activity mode data included in the user management data  50  on the user B from “active” to “suspended”, and sets the user ID “0001” of the user A as the value of the desired relationship partner user ID included in the user management data  50  on the user B (S 106 ). Then, the processing illustrated in this processing example is brought to an end.  FIG. 7  illustrates an example of the user management data  50  used after this processing. 
         [0048]    If it is confirmed in the processing of Step S 103  that at least one of the above-mentioned conditions is not satisfied (S 103 : N), the determination section  38  notifies the user terminal  14  of the user B that the relationship with each other has not been agreed on in the form of electronic mail (S 107 ), and ends the processing illustrated in this processing example. 
         [0049]    Here, the flowchart illustrated in  FIG. 8  is referenced to describe an example of the flow of the mode changing processing performed by the relationship support system  10  according to this embodiment when the input of the request to change the relationship-seeking activity mode to the active mode is received from the user A after the end of the processing of Steps S 101  to S 107 . The user A and the user B are both in the suspended mode at the start of this processing example. 
         [0050]    First, the receiving section  32  receives, from the user terminal  14  used by the user A, the input of a request to change the relationship-seeking activity mode from “suspended” to “active” (S 201 ). In response thereto, the suspension section  40  changes the value of the relationship-seeking activity mode data included in the user management data  50  on the user A from “suspended” to “active” (S 202 ). Then, the suspension section  40  changes the value of the relationship-seeking activity mode data included in the user management data  50  on the user B that is the user corresponding to the value “0002” of the desired relationship partner user ID included in the user management data  50  on the user A, from “suspended” to “active” (S 203 ). Then, the suspension section  40  deletes the value of the desired relationship partner user ID included in the user management data  50  on the user A and the value of the desired relationship partner user ID included in the user management data  50  on the user B (S 204 ). Then, the processing illustrated in this processing example is brought to an end. 
         [0051]    Note that, in the above-mentioned processing example, after the end of the processing of Step S 204 , the suspension section  40  may notify the user terminal  14  of the user B that the relationship-seeking activity mode of the user A has been changed to the active mode in the form of electronic mail. 
         [0052]    Next, the flowchart illustrated in  FIG. 9  is referenced to describe another example of the flow of the mode changing processing performed by the relationship support system  10  according to this embodiment. In this example, after the mode has been changed in response to the request to change the mode, the users are notified of whether or not the relationship with each other has been agreed on. Note that, detailed description of the same processing as the flow illustrated in  FIG. 6  is omitted. The description of the following processing example is directed to the scene in which the user A and the user B have already agreed on starting the relationship therebetween by use of the electronic bulletin board system or the like and applications for suspension of the relationship-seeking activity are accordingly received from the user A and the user B. Further, the user A and the user B are both in the active mode at the start of this processing example. 
         [0053]    First, the receiving section  32  receives, from the user terminal  14  used by the user A, the input of a request to change the relationship-seeking activity mode from “active” to “suspended” along with the input of the user ID “0002” of the user B being the user specified as the relationship partner (desired relationship partner user) (S 301 ). Then, the suspension section  40  changes the value of the relationship-seeking activity mode data included in the user management data  50  on the user A from “active” to “suspended”, and sets the user ID “0002” of the user B as the value of the desired relationship partner user ID included in the user management data  50  on the user A (S 302 ). 
         [0054]    Subsequently, the receiving section  32  receives, from the user terminal  14  used by the user B, the input of a request to change the relationship-seeking activity mode from “active” to “suspended” along with the input of the user ID “0001” of the user A being the desired relationship partner user of the user B (S 303 ). Then, the suspension section  40  changes the value of the relationship-seeking activity mode data included in the user management data  50  on the user B from “active” to “suspended”, and sets the user ID “0001” of the user A as the value of the desired relationship partner user ID included in the user management data  50  on the user B (S 304 ). 
         [0055]    Subsequently, the determination section  38  determines whether or not the data received in the processing of Steps S 301  and S 303  satisfies a predetermined condition (S 305 ). In this processing example, it is determined whether all the three conditions that: (1) the request to change the relationship-seeking activity mode to “suspended” has been received from the user terminal  14  used by the user A; (2) the request to change the relationship-seeking activity mode to “suspended” has been received from the user terminal  14  used by the user B; and (3) the user corresponding to the user ID “0001” sent from the user terminal  14  used by the user B that is the user corresponding to the user ID “0002” sent from the user terminal  14  used by the user A (desired relationship partner user specified as the relationship partner by the user A) is the user A, are satisfied or not (that is, or at least one of the conditions is not satisfied). 
         [0056]    Subsequently, if it is confirmed in the processing of Step S 305  that the above-mentioned conditions are satisfied (S 305 : Y), the determination section  38  notifies the user terminal  14  used by the user A and the user terminal  14  used by the user B that the relationship with each other has been agreed on in the form of electronic mail (S 306 ). 
         [0057]    If it is confirmed in the processing of Step S 305  that at least one of the above-mentioned conditions is not satisfied (S 305 : N), the determination section  38  notifies the user terminal  14  of the user B that the relationship with each other has not been agreed on in the form of electronic mail (S 307 ), and ends the processing illustrated in this processing example. As described above, the server  12  may notify the users of whether or not the relationship with each other has been agreed on after the mode has been changed in response to the request to change the mode. 
         [0058]    Further, in the relationship support system  10  according to this embodiment, when the request to change the relationship-seeking activity mode to the active mode is received from the user A after the end of the processing of Steps S 301  to S 307 , the mode changing processing for changing the relationship-seeking activity modes of the user A and the user B from the suspended mode to the active mode may be executed in the same manner as the processing of Steps S 201  to S 204 . Further, after the end of the above-mentioned mode changing processing, the suspension section  40  may notify the user terminal  14  of the user B that the relationship-seeking activity mode of the user A has been changed to the active mode in the form of electronic mail. 
         [0059]    In the relationship support system  10  according to this embodiment, if the receiving section  32  receives, from the user terminal  14  used by the user in the suspended mode, the input of an application for a relationship with another user performed after retrieval of the profile screen  20  regarding a relationship partner, the determination section  38  notifies the user terminal  14  that the application for the relationship is rejected. As described above, the relationship support system  10  according to this embodiment is configured to inhibit the user in the suspended mode from applying for a relationship with another user. Further, the user terminal  14  used by the user in the suspended mode may be inhibited from retrieving the profile screen  20  regarding a relationship partner. 
         [0060]    In the relationship support system  10  according to this embodiment, when the receiving section  32  receives the input of the request to change the relationship-seeking activity mode to the active mode from the user terminal  14  used by the user in the suspended mode (for example, user A), the suspension section  40  changes the value of the relationship-seeking activity mode data on the user in the suspended mode to “active”, and notifies the user being the relationship partner of the user A (for example, user B) that the relationship-seeking activity mode of the user A has been changed to the active mode. 
         [0061]    In the relationship support system  10  according to this embodiment, the user can confirm whether or not the relationship-seeking activity mode of the other user with whom the relationship has been agreed on has been positively changed from the active mode to the suspended mode. Accordingly, the relationship support system  10  according to this embodiment can prevent such an unfaithful behavior as to keep from changing the relationship-seeking activity mode to “suspended” regardless of the agreement on the relationship with another user. 
         [0062]    Note that, the present invention is not limited to the above-mentioned embodiment. 
         [0063]    For example, at predetermined time intervals, the determination section  38  may monitor the value of the relationship-seeking activity mode data on the user B specified by the user A as the desired relationship partner user. Further, if the relationship-seeking activity mode of the user B has not been changed to the suspended mode, the determination section  38  may notify at least one of the user terminal  14  of the user A and the user terminal  14  of the user B to that effect. 
         [0064]    Further, for example, when the application for the relationship with the user B is received from the user terminal  14  used by the user A, the determination section  38  may send a prompt notification to change the relationship-seeking activity mode data to the user terminal  14  used by the user B. 
         [0065]    Further, for example, when the determination section  38  receives the application for the relationship with the user B from the user terminal  14  used by the user A, receives the application for the relationship with the user B from the user terminal  14  used by the user C, and receives the application for the relationship with the user A from the user terminal  14  used by the user B, the determination section  38  may notify the user terminal  14  used by the user A and the user terminal  14  used by the user B that the agreement has been reached on the relationship between the user A and the user B and notify the user terminal  14  used by the user C that the agreement has not been reached on the relationship between the user B and the user C. 
         [0066]    Further, for example, the relationship support system  10  may be configured to keep from providing part of functions to the user in the suspended mode. Further, the roles of the server  12  and the user terminal  14  played in the relationship support system  10  are not limited to the above-mentioned embodiment. Further, the server  12  may be constituted of one housing or a plurality of housings. Further, specific numerical values and character strings used in the above description and in the accompanying drawings are mere examples, and the present invention is not limited to those numerical values or character strings. 
         [0067]    While there have been described what are at present considered to be certain embodiments of the invention, it will be understood that various modifications may be made thereto, and it is intended that the appended claims cover all such modifications as fall within the true spirit and scope of the invention.