And they really want to get over their anxiety. But let's ok. Let's take your ex-husband. Let's put him in a straitjacket Let's duct tape them and shoot them to the moon know what I mean. What are you gonna do now? You still have to make those changes. And so then the person's enemy dies or they're something shifts in their life And that person's gone. They'll find another person to hate. This is just how we function as human beings. We just slide another Reason to feel those emotions. So I think I think when people start to understand this, you know,