As Josh Waitzkin says, "It is incredibly important for parents to make their feedback process related as oppose to praising or criticizing talent. If we win because we are winners, then when we lose, it must make us losers." These studies show not only the mechanisms by which mindset affects performance, but they also show something else that is very important: they show that we can change mindsets, and that's important, because most of us have fixed mindsets about something. Another study that showed that we can change mindsets