forums right I felt I wasn't worthy I felt it was a stupid question that everyone knows it but me I think the more that we tell those stories the people that that's natural that's okay everyone goes through that I think the better right that's why I'm happy to tell my story how poorly I did I tell my story how frightening it was to ask the question on untangle but we can also do a good job I think so tango we try to monitor the forums and I can't say that I do this all the time but if I see somebody that you know they're due and