what you want you want life to happen the way you want it now for example let's say all of you here are the india soccer team for the next world cup and i am the coach so these next four years everything that you need to know about football is taught to you everything that i know about football is poured into you in so many ways now the time to play the match has come you're on the field and the ball comes near your foot but you look at me and it's no good you've seen those coaches sitting there and boiling nothing happens