have a word like this word here- and what you're trying to do is you're not trying that much to predict the word sampling what you're trying to do is you're trying to say that in my space right here I simply want sampling to be closer than any other words that's not in the context window okay so so here is my word negative and here is my word sampling and I want these two to be close and if I if I sample another word like here this is the word cake if I sorry if I sample that I simply want that to be far away further than than