using the law of attraction or the principles from the secret but before we get into it so real hit it Bob today isn't that they're struggling it's not they can't get out of this it's because the that they're in isn't big enough and why I say that is because if that was big enough right now if the people had a girl acquaintance or that head they would actually get that ass moving always understand that emotions is what these emotion is energy in motion so if your emotion or drive is not stronger you're not gonna do anything to get out of it