now this became deeply personal to me in june 2009 when my 83 year old mother called me up she's a charismatic Christian she's not seen a doctor since 1968 she called me a mrs. Paul I'm scared I didn't recognize her voice she was shaking I said what's wrong and she said my right breast is five times the size of my left I have six angry lymph nodes dark and swollen on my right side I said I couldn't believe it why didn't you tell me sooner and so I rushed her to Swedish breast cancer clinic in Seattle and then we got