well-being is this if at all if you're unhappy the only and only reason why you're unhappy is life is not happening the way you think it should happen that's all it is so if life is not happening the way you think it should happen you're unhappy if life happens the way you think it should happen you are happy it's as simple as that so if life has to happen the way you think it should happen first of all how you think with how much focus you think how much stability is there in your thought and how much reverberance is there in the