that person who's totally happy that was abused every day of her life and they don't have the genetic disorder any longer you're gonna say wow that person doesn't look like a movie star that person doesn't look like they're vegetarian now that person doesn't look young and after whatever it is they're gonna look like a normal person and you're gonna say I identify with her identify her she can do it I'm into it now here's the cool part yeah we've seen then when people do this with the same stand on the stage and tell the story