want to become and you learn by becoming that person subtly in little ways in the way you dress in the way you talk in the unfailing courtesy you show to every person with whom you come in contact begin to act the part of the person who has already achieved that which you're shooting for the German philosopher Goethe gave us the secret when he said before you can do something you must first be something when you behave like the person you most want to become the things that person would have will tend to come to you is simply cause and