also naturally follow so to create what you really care for first and foremost thing is that what you want must be well manifested in your mind that this is what i want is that what you really want you must look at it because any number of things in your life you have thought this is it the moment you reach there you realize that's not it it's the next one and the next one and the next one so what is it that one really wants is one thing first of all we must explore once that is clear and we are committed to creating it now