advantage but I made up for it with arguing um so I put up my hand and ice I tried to explain to her what was wrong with what she just said yes and I think she got frustrated and she said ok Hinton where where do where do you think all good things come from a classic kind of parent move yes um build up build an assumption into the question I leave the kid with the problem of dealing with it um because of my father I um I thought for a moment and said Russia no this wasn't what was expected in an English private school in