Or feel sorry for yourself long The body's in the unknown so the body says I want to return back to familiar territory so the body starts influencing the mind then it says Start tomorrow, you're too much like your mother. You'll never change. This isn't gonna work for you. This doesn't feel right And so if you respond to that thought as if it's true that same thought will lead to the same choice Which will lead to the same behavior, which will create the same experience which produce the same emotion I want to talk about that notion of