They see the same people that pushed the same emotional buttons and that becomes the routine and it becomes like a program So now they've lost their free will To a program and there's no unseen hand doing it to them. So when it comes time to change the Redundancy of that cycle becomes a subconscious program. So now 95% of who we are by the time we're 35 years old is a Memorized set of behaviors, emotional reactions, unconscious habits, hardwired attitudes, beliefs and perceptions that function like a computer program