the first and foremost thing is you must be clear what is it that you really want if you do not know what you want the question of creating it doesn't arise if you look at what you really want what every human being wants is he wants to live joyfully he wants to live peacefully in terms of his relationships he wants it to be loving and affectionate or in other words all that any human being is seeking for is pleasantness within himself pleasantness around him if this pleasantness if it happens in our body we call this health and pleasure if it