 honne and tatemae are japanese words that describe the contrast between a person's  and . honne may be contrary to what is expected by society or what is required according to one's position and circumstances, and they are often kept hidden, except with one's closest friends. tatemae is what is expected by society and required according to one's position and circumstances, and these may or may not match one's honne. the honneâtatemae divide is considered to be of paramount importance in japanese culture.. the very fact that japanese have single words for these concepts leads some nihonjinron specialists to see this conceptualization as evidence of greater complexity and rigidity in japanese etiquette and culture. ==cause== some analysts see honne and tatemae as a cultural necessity resulting from a large number of people living in a comparatively small island nation. close-knit co-operation and the avoidance of conflict are considered to be of vital importance in everyday life. for this reason, the japanese tend to go to great lengths to avoid conflict, especially within the context of large groups. the conflict between honne and giri (social obligations) is one of the main topics of japanese drama throughout the ages. for example, the protagonist would have to choose between carrying out his obligations to his family/feudal lord or pursuing a clandestine love affair. the same concept in chinese culture is called inside face and outside face, and they do not have to come into conflict. ==effect== contemporary phenomena such as hikikomori and parasite singles are seen as examples of late japanese culture's growing problem of the new generation growing up unable to deal with the complexities of honneâtatemae and pressure of an increasingly materialist society. debate over whether tatemae and honne are a uniquely japanese phenomenon continues in japan, especially among those japanese who feel their culture is unique in having the concepts of "private mind" and "public mind." although there might not be direct single word translations for honne and tatemae in some languages, they do have two
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