She Wants You to Make Her: Why and How to Have a High-Polarity Sexual Relationship

Fifty Shades of Grey didn’t sell 100 million copies because it was politically correct. Rather, it drew on something fundamental about masculinity and femininity.

While our culture tries to minimize, or even deny, the difference between the sexes, the most successful and enjoyable intimate relationships continue to celebrate and use that difference.

Male and female are real, and they complement each other. Just like male and female bodies, male and female psychologies have co-evolved for sexual intimacy and mutual pleasure.

But only if you know how to use them.

When a man experiences his masculinity by making his woman feel more like a woman, and a woman experiences her femininity by making her man feel more like a man, intimacy ceases to be a negotiation and becomes an extraordinarily exciting exploration.

She Wants You To Make Her is your key to understanding the polarity and complementarity of the sexes, and how to make relationships that are collaborative rather than compromising.

Are you a woman in a relationship who would like to feel more intensely desired, chosen and feminine?

Are you a man in relationship who would like to feel more affirmed, trusted and masculine?

Are you a woman who would like to be with a man who is dominant but not domineering?

Are you a man who would like to be with a woman who is grateful but not demanding?

Are you a person of either sex who would just like to find a partner who knows what turns you on and enjoys providing it, with you equally excited to do the same for them?

If the answer to any of those questions is “yes”, then She Wants You To Make Her may be the most important book you read this year.

She Wants You To Make Her is a celebration of masculinity, femininity, and what happens when they come together in the right way. It is a practical guide to male and female sexual expression in dating and relationships, and an antidote to the current politicization of biology, gender and sex.

It explains how men and women can turn their sexual relationships into a source of that excitement and intensity that so many of us only experience in diluted form through reading erotica and watching porn.

Of course, excitement and intensity are not the only point of an intimate relationship. Fortunately, their pursuit can be the most enjoyable and effective way to develop powerful communication and unbreakable trust.

Men, this is a book you need to read.

Women, this is a book you need to read – and then give to your man.