ni cyihishe inyuma y’isenyuka ry’ingo hato hato
imibare y’inkiko igaragaza gatanya zizamuka ubutitsa kuko kugeza ugushyingo hari hamaze gucibwa imanza gatanya ubwikubwe bw’inshuro ugereranyije n’umwaka imibare igaragaza ingo zatandukanye zari ziba yerekana gatanya zikubye inshuro bingana myaka itatu ishize bamwe rubyiruko batinya kubaka ingo kubera ubwoba kuba nyuma y’iminsi mike bahita batandukana iyo uganiriye bakubwira cyizere bafite ingo zizamara kabiri igitangaje kunyura bibazo biragoye kubona ukubwiza ukuri kwabyo usibye kukwereka bikomeye gusa iyo ugerageje kuganira bamwe barakubwira bati kirazira muco kuvuga ibintu mazina ibi byaba ukwishyira hanze ariko akenshi bakabishingira kuba bigoye kubona kwizerwa wabwira ibibazo byawe iyo umukobwa agiye kubaka nyirasenge baramubwira bati uramenye uzitonde kandi nibikomera uzamenye burya zubakwa uwo aragenda yagerayo agahura n’ibikomeye ariko umutima muhanano ntumwemerere kuvuga anyuramo umuhungu bamubwira umugabo uwifata bibazo ntagaragaze intege nke noneho byakomera akabura amahitamo bikazagera ananirwa kubyihanganira nyamara biganirwaho byari gukemuka iyo tuvuze ikibyihishe inyuma ikintu kitagaragara ariko kikaba nyirabayazana igeza umuryango usenyuka muri nkuru yacu turavuga bibazo bamwe badatinyuka kuvugira ruhame ariko bishobora kuba intandaro gatanya imibonano mpuzabitsina ikozwe nabi kimwe bituma umuntu ashaka kubaka urugo harimo gukora imibonano mpuzabitsina ihoraho akenshi hari umwe bubatse yarasambanye mbere y’uko akora ubukwe agahora agereranya babana n’abo baryamanye mbere hari abandi basanga babana bafite intege nke mubiri uburemba cyangwa bakagira uburwayi butuma badakora imibonano iyi ngingo irakomeye kuko izana ibibazo byinshi birimo amakimbirane ahoraho agasuzuguro gucana inyuma kwikunda n’ibindi ibi bigitangira birihanganirwa ariko akenshi birangira bamwe bagiye busambanyi cyangwa bagatandukana igitangaje biragoye kubona ukubwiza ukuri yasanze uku bimeze ahubwo basaba gatanya bahimba ibindi byakumvikana bantu kuko batinya kwikoza isoni nyamara bagirwa inama mbere ahari byari kugira igaruriro gucana inyuma iyo umuhungu n’umukobwa barambagizanya buri wese agerageza guhisha ingeso ze kugira mugenzi atazishingiraho akaba yamwanga agerageza kugaragaza ibyakurura mugenzi kugira yemere bazabana rimwe rimwe ubwiye umwe mugenzi yitwara nabi anywa inzoga nyinshi agira inshuti mbi cyangwa asambana byitwa ugushaka kumwicira ubukwe burya ingeso ntitinda kwigaragaza wayihisha umwaka umwe ariko bigera bikanga yaba umugabo cyangwa umugore n’umwe ukunda babana amusangira n’abandi kuko mubana uba waramuhaye umutima wose waramushyizemo icyizere gihagije iyo byanze ugasanga abantu bahisemo gutandukana umwe cyangwa ntatinyuka kuvuga impamvu ahubwo abenshi babirenzaho bagahimba izindi badahabwa amenyo y’abasetsi kubura urukundo iyo umuhungu cyangwa umukobwa afata icyemezo gusiga iwabo ahagurutswa n’ijambo ryitwa urukundo akenshi kurambagizanya bararumweretse kigero gihagije igitangaje atekereza bizahora ariko intege nke abagabo benshi bahuriyeho agejeje umugore nzu atongera kumuhamagara buri kanya kumwandikira ubutumwa bugufi telefoni buryo buhoraho kumubwira utugambo twiza twuzuye urukundo n’ibindi abagore bibananira kwihanganira kuko ntege nke zabo bakunda kwitabwaho kigero hejuru iyo yaje ashaka akibuze bamwe bafata imyanzuro gutandukana kimwe n’abagabo wudakunda gukundwa ariko hari abakobwa bamwe bajya kubaka by’ukuri yishakira kuba ariko atazi gutanga urukundo atabasha kurwakira ahubwo urugo rukaba aderese gusa burya usibye abantu n’inyamaswa n’ibimera bimwe bimwe byeretswe urukundo bitanga umusaruro akenshi urukundo rubuze muryango urasenyuka rero biratangaje kubana n’umuntu ugasanga arikunda bikabije wibaza wagiye kumara iyo bamwe babonye ubitaho birangira atwaye imitima kudaha agaciro mwashakanye guhabwa agaciro ikintu buri wese akeneye kandi ntibikorwa magambo gusa ahubwo bivanze n’imirimo ukorera mugenzi wawe birushaho kumwereka agaciro uzi hari abirirwa batavuganye bataha ntibanasuhuzanye ibintu byereka mugenzi wawe umutekerezaho kandi ukamuha agaciro ntibiba binini igihe utashye ukamuzanira akantu n’ubwo kaba gato hari bigaragaza iyo umugabo yiriwe rugo ukamwitaho akakwitaho ntibigira bisa gushimira mugenzi wawe ibyiza yagukoreye kumusuhuzanya ubugwaneza kumenya itariki y’amavuko ukagira impano umuha gihe ahugiye mirimo ukamwibuka ukamubwira ijambo rimuruhura n’ibindi ibi bibuze bishobora kuzana ibibazo bikomeye rushako rwanyu gukubitwa ihohoterwa ryo uwavuga hohotera riri miryango yaba yigiza nkana kuko amakuru avuga abagabo bishe abagore abakubiswe n’ibindi ntasiba kumvikana kera abagore barakubitwaga bakagenda babeshya abantu inka yamwishe jisho cyangwa yaguye kintu kikamukomeretsa kandi by’ukuri ukugira ahishire ibyamubayeho biratangaje gihe hakiri abagore bakubitwa hirengagijwe amategeko n’ingaruka bishobora kugira wakoze iryo hohotera kubera umuco hari ababikorerwa bagaceceka bumva ejo bizarangira kugera biganishije urugo byago bitandukanye harimo gusenyuka kwarwo aha ntitwavuga abagore babohoterwa bonyine ahubwo hari n’abagabo bahohoterwa n’ubwo umubare wabo atari munini ibi bikomeje kugirwa ibanga biba biganisha gutandukana gusuzugurwa muri kamere y’abagabo harimo gukunda icyubahiro buryo asuzuguwe bituma yiheba amarangamutima ntabyakire akaba yahitamo gutandukana n’uwo bashakanye kuko yumva yatakaje agaciro uyu muganiriye yihagararaho ntakubwira icyatumye asenya yasuzuguwe ahubwo akenshi ashaka impamvu yindi yumva yarushaho kumvikana burya abagabo benshi batinda kabari cyangwa kazi si bakunda akazi cyane ahubwo atekereza agiye gutaha akumva mpamvu yabyo agataha agiye kubyuka cyangwa guhindura imyenda n’abagore hari abasuzugurwa kandi bikaba byaratangiye cyera ntawe utazi kera umuryango wabyaraga abakobwa benshi wabonaga bafite ikibazo bakamera nk’abagushije ishyano ibi byatumaga abakobwa badahabwa uburezi kigero kimwe basaza no bizera muzi bavuga yesu yahagije abagabo ibihumbi bitanu ukuyemo abagore n’abana ibyo biguha ishusho y’uko umugore yafatwaga kugera hari amadini n’amatorero atarabasha guha inshingano hejuru igitsinagore kuko bumva badashoboye ibi umugore abikorewe muryango bimusiga habi akihangana bigitangira ariko bikazasoza atandukanye kutaganira bibareba umuco kutaganira usenya ingo nyinshi bitewe n’uko mwashakanye adashobora kumenya ibikunezeza cyangwa ibikubangamira keretse ubimubwiye uko ugenda ubangamirwa kenshi ntuvuge umutima uragenda ukazinukwa pe ukajya wumva cyiza kindi utegereje kandi wenda ubivuga mwari gushakira umuti hamwe iyo mutaganira ibibazo byatangiye bito bihinduka imisozi ingo zigasenyuka n’ubwo kuganira byiza ariko hari ibintu bijyana nabyo nko kumenya ubitwara ingingo wibandaho igihe kuganira uburyo kuganira ahantu ho kuganirira hari igihe ushobora gukeka wavuze wenda ibikubangamiye ariko bitewe n’uko wabivuze n’ahantu n’igihe wabivugiye ugasanga wangije byinshi umugore w’umutima wese yubaka urugo ariko umupfu ubwe ararusenya’’ imigani mu ukuri urugo rwubakwa n’ubwenge byiza gusaba imana ubwenge bwatuma twubaka urugo ntirusenyuke kutababarirana hagati y’abashakanye abantu benshi birabagora kubabarira uwabakoreye ikosa ariko bikarushaho ahemukiwe n’uwo babana gusa buriya muntu utagira amakosa mpamvu bibiliya ivuga tujye tubabarirana umuntu agize apfa n’undi kandi mugenzi wawe nagucumuraho uzamubabarire inshuro ikizakwemeza utamubabariye uhora umucyurira yakosheje noneho yagira irindi kosa akora ukabanza kumucyurira yagukoreye bibintekereza ukunda mwashakanye kumubabarira biroroha ndetse bikabanguka ibi bitinze urukundo rurayoyoka bikavamo impamvu gutandukana kandi utabasha gusobanura neza icyatumye ufata umwanzuro umeze utyo kwanga kwikosora ikintu kutikosora cyangwa guhora makosa amwe kiraremereye hari igihe umwe yumva asa n’uwasonewe gukora amakosa akumva ntawukwiriye gutinda myitwarire n’ubwo yaba ibangamiye abandi ahubwo agahora atunga intoki babana avuga ibibi byabo niba ushaka kumenya kwikosora uzahere kindi mwashakanye ahora atonganira cyangwa avugira nabi cyangwa se kimwe ahora akubwira kimubangamira ujye wibuka bibiliya itubwira ntitukagire igisitaza dushyira imbere y’umuntu wese umutungo ukoreshejwe nabi nta wabura kuvuga umutungo ukoreshejwe nabi n’umwe bashakanye bishobora kuba imbarutso gusenyuka k’umuryango hari umwe amenya amakuru hari imitungo icishwa ruhande cyangwa hari konti atariho cyangwa akabona ibiza rugo atazi neza amakuru yabyo dufashe urugero ushobora gusanga umugabo atahanye imodoka umugore ataragishijwe inama kuyigura n’ibindi ibi bigera igihe uwabikorewe akibaza ese njye ndi uru rugo hakorwa ibibazo bishakirwe umuti muri nkuru twibanze bibazo bisenya ingo kandi nyirabyo batabasha kubivuga nyamara biganirwaho mbere byari kubonerwa umuti bitaradogera reka umuco kuganira bibazo ube uwacu bizatuma dukemura ibibazo amazi atararenga inkombe abenshi basezerana bafite imiryango mushobora kubegera bakabafasha cyangwa ababaherekeje bukwe bwanyu parrain marraine abandi bafite insengero basengeramo mushobora kwitabaza abayobozi banyu by’umwuka yewe n’abayobozi leta dutuye tubagishije inama badufasha burya amategeko ntaberaho gutandukanya abagiranye ibibazo ahubwo icya mbere ukubunga bikwiye kumvikana gutandukana ugutsindwa mu by’ukuri wananiwe kubaka urugo bizagora abandi bantu kukugirira icyizere ahubwo bazajya bavuga afite akazi keza ayoboye abantu benshi ariko yananiwe n’urugo reka uruhare rwawe biri kukubaho ugerageze kutaba nyirabayazana bibazo byageza umuryango wawe gusenyuka ahubwo ugerageze gukora ibishoboka byose urugo rwawe rukomeze rubeho email protected