amategeko akwiye kuranga umukobwa uzi ashaka
mu buzima bwacu bidusaba kugira amategeko cyangwa umurongo ngenderwaho kugira tugere kubyo twifuza iri ihame abantu twese duhuriyeho buzima rukundo kugira umuntu agire ageraho muri iy’inkuru bwizacom iribanda mategeko y’ingenzi akwiye kuranga umukobwa rukundo nk’uko urubuga elcrema bigaragaje ntukibeshye imibonano mpuzabitsina ikimenyetso cy’urukundo mu mitego myinshi abakobwa bakunda guhura nayo uza mbere kumva kuryamana n’umusore ikimenyetso cyiza kumugaragariza urukundo ukwibeshya cyane ni bangahe se baryamana nyuma bagatandukana n’ubwo mwaryamana ntimubura gutandukana none se ukundanye n’umusore muzajya muryamana ukunde umugaragarize umukunda uzajya kubaka urwawe utarabaye imbata y’ubusambanyi uzubaka rukomere ntugategere umusore amaboko iteka iyi nayo ingeso abakobwa bamwe bakunda kugira mu rukundo ugasanga ibibazo bye byose agomba kubikemurirwa n’umusore w’inshuti iyo bimeze bitya uretse kuba umubera umutwaro kumubera umukunzi agaciro yaguhaga karagabanuka ndetse akagera n’aho akwinuba shakisha akazi cyangwa gukora kikwinjiriza bizatuma akubaha kurushaho ntuzashakane n’umusore umukurikiyeho amafarangaubutunzi abakobwa benshi bakunda kwitiranya amafaranga ubutunzi kuzagira umunezero rugo bagiye kubaka yego si mabi ariko si nayo shingiro ry’ibyishimo by’umuryango iyo umusore aguteretesheje amafaranga ubutunzi mugasezerana mukabana akenshi mugeze rugo agufata kimwe bintu atunze yaguze uzi impamvu ni wamukunze aricyo ukurikiye kurusha urukundo umufitiye kandi yarabibonaga si impumyi ni byiza gushingira rukundo gushiturwa n’ibintu ntukanywe ibisindisha abakobwa benshi gihe basigaye bafata gahiye uko umugabo asinda si umukobwa yasinda umukobwa wasinze aragayika cyane umukobwa watangiye kurara tubari yatangiye kuba icyomanzi iyo ageze rwe biramugora ndetse n’uburere bw’abana bukaba busa n’ubwa ntabwo bibiliya bayemera ivuga vino umukobanyi ni byiza wareka kunywa inzoga uretse kukugayisha inzoga zigira ingaruka nyinshi mbi buzima bizakugora kubona umusore mukundana wiyubashye gihe wahindutse umusinzi ukaba inshuti manyinya kubona umugabo uhamye mwabana rugakomera bizarushaho kugukomerera kuko musore wapfa kwisukira umukobwa umurusha kunywa ibisindisha ntukifuze kwakira gusa kwikunda rukundo iteka ukumva bagukundwakaza umusore mukundana agomba kuvunika cyane agomba guhora agutetesha bituma utaryoherwa n’urukundo urikunda wowe ntushaka gutanga kugaragaza amarangamutima yawe umuhanga mibanire y’abantu anthony robbins yavuze kugira umubano urambe biba byiza wumva watanga byinshi kuruta wumva wakakira gusa birumvikana kuko nushyiramo imbaraga ukammwereka urukundo rutarimo imbereka ntazazuyaza kugukorera nk’ibyo umukorera ndetse wenda akarushaho kuko yizihiwe