impamvu zitera abagabo guca inyuma abagore bataramarana igihe kirekire
ni kenshi uzasanga umugabo bafatiwe cyuho baca inyuma abagore bataranamarana kabiri uruhande rumwe umugabo ashobora kubikorwa bimuturutseho kimwe n’uko n’umugore ashobora kubigiramo uruhare tugiye gihera mpamvu zishobora guturuka mugabo umugore ruhare yabigizemo kutamenya kwifatira umwanzuro umugabo akaba amaze ukwezi kumwe abiri cyangwa umwaka ashakanye n’umugore kubera kutamenya kwifatira umwanzuro akaba ahuye n’umukobwa cyangwa umugore akamubera ikigusha kugeza basambanye kumwereka atari murongo w’ubusambanyi bikamunanira ahubwo agasigara yicuza nyuma aha umugore ashobora kibikora agambiriye kugusenyera cyangwa se bw’uko yumva yagukunze ingeso yakokamye hari abagabo usanga igihe cyose bahorana irari ry’ubusambanyi bakumva guhora bahinduranya abagore ariryo shema aha kabone nubwo waba waraye ushyingiranwe n’umugore ntibyakubuza kumuca inyuma guhurwa vuba ugasanga umugabo azanye umugore hari yajyaga amubona akimajina ameze cyangwa kuriya asanze atariko bimeze hari abatabasha kwihangana bagahitamo gusubira rimwe rimwe bandi bahoze baryamana cyangwa se kugura indaya urubyaro hari abagabo batajya bihanganira kuba bamara umwaka batarabyara akabona amezi atandatu ashize umugore ataratwita ugasanga umugabo ahise yirukankira bandi bagore kugira arebe yavanayo akana kandi by’ukuri atari urubyaro bazarubura burundu ahubwo igihe kitaragera agatangira kujarajara bandi bagore bataranajya kwisuzumisha muganga ikigare hari abagabo usanga bagira ikigare kibi ukaba usangira kabari tsinda ry’abagabo bahorana imitima irehareha igihe cyose bakumva bagomba gusambana ugihoramo urandura ukaba waca umugore wawe inyuma kandi by’ukuri ntacyo wamuburanye gihe gito mumaranye hari izindi mpamvu zishobora guturuka mugore bityo umugabo akaba yamuca inyuma gufata nabi umugabo buriri niba umugore ukaba wumva umugabo ugomba kumufata nabi wishakiye gihe mugeze buriri uba urimo kumusinika umwohereza hanze ntabwo atinda kukwereka hari ukuburaho yakura ahandi kugendera muco hagendewe muco nyarwanda kera n’ubu hari abagabo bacyumva umugore utaraciye rubohero ndavuga ’gukuna cyangwa se guca imyeyo’ ataryoshya imibonano cyangwa se akaba hari abura aha uzasanga umugabo abimuziza kandi by’ukuri shingiro aho kumufasha gushaka umuti wabyo dore hari n’abakuna bakuze ahubwo akihutira kujya bandi bagore umwanda rwose kabone n’ubwo waba warashyingiwe cyumweru umugabo abona utiyitaho akabone mugore terera ntiwite isuku y’umubiri wawe cyumba muryamamo imyanya y’ibanga uzamenye umugabo azaguhurwa vuba ariko se munsi mukoranye imibonano bukira utoze urumva muraryamana agire apeti kongera kukwegera kumuca intege hari abagore bakunda kubwira abagabo amagambo y’urucantege babereka ntacyo babashije byagenda kose umugabo ageraho akumva imbere yawe ntacyo abashije agatangira kuguca inyuma bamuha care zirenze umuha n’ubwo yaba atera akabariro ntunyurwe kumunenga ahubwo mufashe umwigishe uzi kumuca intege hari abagabo uzasanga mitwe barokamwe n’ingeso nk’izi z’ubusambanyi rimwe rimwe ugasanga baritwaza abagore bubobere buhagije bafite amavangingo n’ibindi ariko by’ukuri buryo urugo rwubakwa babiri ikibazo kiri nimwicare mugishakire umuti kuko niwihutira kujya bandi bagore kwakundi uzavanayo imbwa yiruka ngizo ndwara zandurira mibonano mpuzabitsina zirimo vihsida gusesagura umutungo w’urugo gutandukana mutamaranye iminsi ibiri