ibintu umusore ugiye gutereta mbere akwiye kwitwararika
urukundo kimwe bintu by’ umunyenga isi gusa kurwiniramo kimwe gutangira ikindi kintu cyose utamenyereye biragorana kubona uhera umusore ugiye gutereta mbere afite urwikekwe kuko atizeye neza agiye gusaba urukundo bwakire busabe urukundo kimwe bintu by’ umunyenga isi gusa kurwiniramo kimwe gutangira ikindi kintu cyose utamenyereye biragorana kubona uhera umusore ugiye gutereta mbere afite urwikekwe kuko atizeye neza agiye gusaba urukundo bwakire busabe urubuga elcrema rugaragaza inama zimwe zimwe z’uburyo umusore akwiriye gutangira ikiganiro cye aganiriza inkumi ntukwiye kwirengagiza kumusuhuza ijambo mwiriwe hi ijambo ryoroheje ariko rifite imbaraga reba ikintu kiri yanyu gifite agaciro kivugeho kuko uburyo bwiza gutangira ikiganiro wowe musore ugomba kuba uzi amakuru vuba arimo kuvugwaho cyane cyangwa amakuru yerekeye ibyamamare kugira uze kubitangiriraho kiganiro cyawe kora buryo mukobwa kumwe aza kuguha ibitekerezo biba byiza kumwe n’umuntu mukaganira mukagira mwemeranyaho n’ibyo mutemeranyaho ho ikiganiro kiba cyatangiye kuryoha ugomba kuba wifitemo inkuru zisetsa ukamuganiriza umusetsa gihe kumwe muganirize bijyanye n’uburinganire uzasanga abantu benshi bageze ngingo birekura bakavuga mugurire ikintu kunywa igihe mugikomeje kuganira reba ikintu kiri umubwire cyiza cyangwa wagikunze complimenting her urebe n’uburyo abyakira ariko akenshi biramushimisha musezereho umugurira akandi kantu akeneye cyangwa ikinyobwa yifuza tangira uterete kandi ushyiremo imbaraga umunsi munsi ibi bivuze utangiye gutereta waganiriza umukobwa umunsi mbere bikakugendekera neza umunsi kabiri bikanga ntabwo ugomba guhita ucika intege ahubwo ugomba kureba uburyo wakoresheje umwegera approaches byaba ngombwa ukaba wahindura gerageza uhindure uburyo wenda waramusanze iwabo ncuro kabiri reba mwaganira mwasohokeye ahantu hakeye hatari ahabonetse hitamo ijwi uzajya umuganirizamo kugira urukundo rwanyu rukure ugomba kumenya uburyo uzajya uganiriza umukunzi wawe ndetse n’ijwi uzajya ukoresha kugira umwereke inshuti idasanzwe cyangwa se y’umwihariko muri iryo jwi ryiza riyunguruye niho uzerekanira agaciro kawe ndetse n’iyo mwaba mwari musanzwe muziranye bizatuma ahindura uburyo yagufataga ahite yumva hari icyahindutse ugomba kubaka ubucuti bwanyu buryo budasanzwe mu gihe urebye inkumi ukabona yakubera inshuti ugomba kuyereka umukeneyeho ubucuti buryo butandukanye n’ubusanzwe ukuvuga ugomba kumuha umwanya ukamwereka umwitayeho ukamuganiriza ibintu bituma atakurambirwa gerageza kugenda umwereka udushya umukorere ibintu atakekagag ako wamukorera umunsi munsi utangiye gahunda yawe kumutereta banza umwereke wamubera inshuti bisanzwe mbere kumwereka wamubera boyfriend ikintu kijya kigora abahungu uburyo gukurura abakobwa gihe barimo gutereta mbere gutangira umubwira yakubera inshuti idasanzwe banza byibura unamwereke wamubera inshuti buzima busanzwe ubuzima buri munsi kuko asanzwe abana n’abahungu benshi gerageza umwereke hari ikintu utandukaniyeho n’abandi ahora abona cyangwa abana nabo mbese umwereke ubucuti nyabwo ugomba kwikuramo ubwoba impamvu ugomba kwikuramo ubwoba ushobora kuba ufite amafaranga mwiza ureba neza umuntu w’icyamamare ahantu utuye ariko ukaba wabura umukobwa wagira incuti kubera gutinya kumubwira akakuri mutima ikindi kandi ubwoba butuma umuntu atigirira icyizere buzima busanzwe bikaba bishobora kugusubiza inyuma ukora menya uburyo wegera umukobwa n’uburyo umubwira umukunda ikigaragara hari bamwe basore bagenda bagahita babwira abakobwa babakunda gutyo gusa bagasa n’ababibatura hejuru batabanje kubateguza ugomba gushaka umwanya uhagije n’uburyo kubivugamo ushaka icyifuzo cyawe cyakirwa neza nta byiza kugenda ugahita ubwira umukobwa ndagukundageregeza ushake uburyo bwiza wamubwiramo umukunda kuza ubimutura hejuru kuko ashobora gukeka utabikomeje ugomba kandi kumenya ibihe umukobwa arimo kuko ushobora kumusaba urukundo bihe bibi bigatuma atabyitaho urumva ugomba kubanza guperereza ukamenya bihe bye byiza byamufasha kwakira icyifuzo cyawe kandi akacyitaho umukobwa naguhakanira mbere ntuzacike integer umukobwa naguhakanira munsi mbere ntuzahite ucika intege ikubitiro wumve byarangiye iki ikintu cy’ingenzi ushaka kubona umukunzi ugomba gukomeza kugerageza amahirwe yawe kuko abakobwa benshi ntibajya bemerera umuntu ubucuti urukundo nshuro mbere ugomba gukomeza kumwereka umugabo ugakomeza ugahatiriza amaherezo azagera abone umukunda utapfuye kubivuga gusa wikinira bimwereke umukunda by’ukuri abonereho ariko naguhakanira mbere ugahita ucika intege akabona ntugarutse azabona utamukundaga mbese wamukinishaga mwereke ibyiza afite mubiri ariko wirinde gukabya uvuge adafite niba umukobwa afite amaso meza cyangwa urundi rugingo rwiza mubiri bimubwire kandi umubwire ubikunda urugero mubwire ukunda inseko aseka neza bikagushimisha bizatuma abona umwitaho ubona igihe kwicara ukamureba ukamwitegereza ndetse ukanamutekereza ibi bitekerezo si kamara bijyanye kuganiriza umukobwa nshuro mbere kuko buri muntu wese agira uburyo bwe ushobora kuba uzi ubigenza wabisangiza abandi unyuze batangira ibitekerezo nkuru