uburyo abashakanye basigaye babana nk’abatandukanye
ubusanzwe abashakanye bakagombye kubana bahuje bafite intego y’ubuzima n’ibindi bibagira umwe bigatuma babana neza kandi munezero nyamara minsi hari bimwe byerekana abagore n’abagabo banana by’icyitiriro gusa ugasanga mitima baramaza gutandukana dore uburyo bamwe bashyingiranywe basigaye babana nk’abamaze gutandukana gihishanya umutungo hari bamwe bitwa basezeranye ivangamutungo risesuye ariko nyamara ugasanga babaho nk’abasezeranye ivanguramutungo buri umwe afite umutungo adashaka kwereka mugenzi ibyo bijya gutangira bihera tuntu duto ugatangira guhisha amafaranga make wenda wabonyemo impano bikazakura bikagera mitungo myinshi si byiza guhisha mwashakanye umutungo ufite kuko mwese muba muwusangiye iyo mubikora gutyo muba mubaho nk’abamaze gutandukana kuko niho umwe atajya amenya iby’undi kurara byumba bitandukanye ikindi gisigaye kivugwa cyane uburyo abashakanye bagira ibyumba bibiri umwe akaba afite icye hariya n’undi icyumba cye ku buryo ntaho muba mugihurira kubaho buzima ukumva amahoro uba wibeshya cyane ntibyari bikwiye abashakanye byumba bitandukanye cyeretse gihe hari impamvu runaka z’igihe gito nko kuba umubyeyi kiriri n’ibindi ntimugahe umwanzi umwanya mube byumba bitandukanye kandi mwarasezeranye kuba umwe guhishanya imishinga y’ahazaza kuba wagira igitecyerezo kijyanye n’umushinga uzabateza imbere gihe kizaza ukabihisha mwashakanye uba umufata nkaho mwatandukanye ubu uzasanga umwe ajya banki agafata ideni atabigiyeho inama n’uwo bashakanye ukazasanga bimwikubise hejuru kandi bagombaga kuba barabigiyeho inama mbere kutajya muganira kuganira niwo musingi byose gutuma urugo rukomera abantu bashakanye nyamara bakaba batagifata umwanya kuganira bajye bamenya batangiye kwimenyereza uburyo bazabaho nyuma gutandukana iyo utakiganira n’uwo mwashakanye usanga agenda yumva kure ni usanga atakigushyira mishinga kuko muba mutaganiriye mubyunguraneho inama guha agaciro muntu ukamurutisha mwashakanye iyo wumva hari muntu ufite agaciro buzima bwawe yaba umubyeyi umwana inshuti n’undi muntu wese ushaka mubaho musa nk’abatandukanye uwo mwashakanye niwe uba ugomba gufata iya mbere buzima bwawe ukamugisha inama mbere yuko uyigisha ababyeyi bawe inshuti zawe cyangwa se muntu wese nta wundi muntu numwe uba ugomba kwitambika hagati hanyu aze mbere y’uwo mwashakanye ubu bumwe buryo bugaragaza ingo z’abashakanye zisigaye zibaho buzima bw’abamaze gutandukana kandi hanze bikitwa babana nk’umugore n’umugabo