hari ingeso zimwe zimwe abagore bagira nyuma kurongorwa zigatuma abagabo bahorana agahinda
kenshi umugore atikosoye birangira umugabo atakimufitiye urukundo mbere ndetse bikanagera kigero kuba umuryango wacikamo kabiri gihe subiyeho azireke izo ngeso zikurikira kugira inshuti cyangwa abajyanama b’abagore bagenzi babi zimwe mpamvu zituma abagore batumvikana n’abagabo zikomoka kugira inshuti mbi zibagira inama impuguke by’imyitwarire zivuga abagore bafite kamere ishukika vuba bityo kubemeza ikintu bikoroha buryo bahita bakira bwangu inama mbi bavanye bagenzi ibi kandi bigaragazwa n’uko usanga myambarire ndetse n’imideri bigana bagenzi runaka batanazi impamvu runaka ituma bagenzi bambara cyangwa bitwara gutyo akenshi ikigaragaza umugore yatangiye kugibwa matwi ibikorwa n’imyitwarire bihinduka ugasanga umushyikirano hagati n’umugabo uzamo agatotsi iyo umugore ataretse nshuti cyangwa abajyanama babi kabuza bituma umugabo amwishisha ndetse agatangira kumuca inyuma ni byiza umugore agira ubushishozi gutoranya inshuti areba iz’inyangamugayo kandi zimuhesha agaciro ndetse zikanamwungura inama zatuma abana neza n’umuryango gukundwakaza abagize imiryango gusa nubwo bushakashatsi burakorwa ubusesenguzi n’ibiganiro n’abagabo byerekana abagore bishimira bene wabo muryango kuruta bashyigikira kubana bene wabo w’abagabo n’iyo babanye usanga bagirana amakimbirane cyangwa se bakabana mbuze ngira barebana ay’ingwe kenshi usanga abagore bakora ikosa rikomeye cyane ryo kwihugiraho gutonesha bene wabo buryo hari abafata umushahara n’ibindi umuryango winjiza bakabikoresha bita miryango batitaye umugabo afite umuryango cyangwa se nabo ubwabo bafite imiryango bagomba gufataniriza hamwe n’abagabo kwitaho igitangaje gusa babikora banerekana bakunda abagabo babouku gukunda imiryango kurusha iy’abagabo byerekana bene bagore rukundo namba bafitiye abagabo kuko ntibyumvikana ukuntu waba udaha agaciro kamwe umuryango w’umugabo wawe bityo uvuge umukunda kugira umwanda ndetse n’akavuyo nubwo bizwi abagore benshi baha agaciro ubwiza ndetse bagakunda isuku gushyira ibintu mirongo hari bamwe bagore bamara gushyingirwa nyuma kubyara bagahita bumva mpamvu gukomeza kwiyitaho kwita isuku y’umuryango umutima wose n’urukundo bakabyerekeza bana gusa bakiyibagiza bafite n’indi nshingano gukunda n’abagabo abateye gutyo usanga batanashaka gukomeza kureshya abagabo ahubwo ibikorwa byabo byose bikaba kubarisha umutima kubatesha agaciro muri kutiyitaho kuremerera abagabo kubera umwanda kudashyira ibintu murongo biha urwaho abakozi b’abakobwa gutangira kwikoresha udukorwa rw’urukundo kugira bareshye abagabo cyangwa se abagira barumuna nabo bakaba babaca inyuma iyo bitabaye abagabo batangira kwishakira abandi b’igitsina gore kubafata neza abagore bakwiye kumenya kuvuka k’umwana kutavanaho umushyikirano n’urukundo hagati n’umugabo ni ngombwa abagore bakomeza kwiyitaho yaba isuku y’umubiri isuku y’imyambaro ndetse kandi bagakora ibishoboka byose zabo hakagaragara isuku gahunda gufuhira umugabo bikabije abagabo benshi usanga binubira ukuntu abagore batabagirira icyizere bagahora babakeka bafitanye ubucuti n’abandi bagore ku bijyanye n’amafaranga abagore bamwe bafuha usanga bagenzura abagabo bakoresha amafaranga kubera bakeka bayakoresha kwita miryango gusa gutereta abandi bagore rusimbi cyangwa se kugurira agatama bagenzi cyane cyane ab’igitsina gore nubwo abagabo badafata rufuro cyangwa ibindi bisindisha ntibibuza abagore guhora bahangayitse babakekera ubusa nabyo bibuza amahoro abagabo bamwe bakumva kuba zabo nko buba gereza abagore bagirwa inama kumenya mugabo umwe kandi n’umuryango atari ikirwa wibane wonyine bityo bakwiye korohera abagabo ntibahore babashyira nkeke kubakekera ubusa kuko akari cyera n’ubundi bikomeje bitya abagabo bashyira bakabikora gutegera abagabo mibonano mpuzabitsina kugira bakunde bababoneho ibintu runaka bashaka iyo uganiye bamwe bagabo usanga batebya cyane abagore babatera umugongo cyangwa se bakavuga uburiri bwabo buhora bukonje ibi biterwa n’uko abagore benshi bakoresha imibonano mpuzabitsina nk’ingurane kubona bakeneye runaka bagabo biyibagiza uku kwiyima abagabo bituma bagira imyitwarire itari myiza yabashora bishuko ndetse kumva biyanze bananze abagore urunuka ikindi bamwe bagabo bubatse binubira bamwe bagore badaha agaciro ibikorwa by’urukundo byabo nk’urugero usanga bamwe bagore batajya bishimira gukorakorwa n’abagabo ibiganza byabo babyigizayo nk’aho byuzuye amahwa cyangwa byanduye cyangwa se abandi ugasanga bahorana umunaniro n’ibitotsi nk’urwitwazo rudashira uku gukanira cyane gutera abagabo agahinda gucika intege mushyikirano wabo urukundo rw’umugabo rurahungabana abagabo bamwe bashakisha abandi bagore ruhando cyangwa inyangamugayo bagahitamo kwibera inshuti n’agacupa ndetse ntibabe bacyitaye kwita muryango guhoza umugabo nkeke y’inshyuro kwibunza bitarangira kwibunza kw’abagore kubangamira abagabo cyane aho ngeso guhoza umugabo nkeke y’inshyuro kwibunza yadutse usanga umugabo agishaka kuba rugo abasabitswe n’iki kibazo usanga barihebye buryo bibagiraho ingaruka z’imikorere y’ubwonko ndetse n’umusaruro wabo muryango n’igihugu ugahungabana nubwo benshi bagore bitwaza babikorera gushyira murongo abagabo nk’ikimenyetso cy’urukundo nyamara bikomeje bivamo urwango cyangwa bigatuma habaho gutandukana muhaburarw