ibintu biranga umugore utishimiye gato umugabo bashakanye
n’ubwo rusange abantu bashakana neza bwumvikane hari igihe umwe bashakanye ashobora kubana n’undi kubera izindi mpamvu zitari urukundo cyangwa se nyuma kubana urukundo rukayoyoka kuburyo yumva atagikeneye kubakana mugenzi muri nkuru turabagezaho ibintu bigaragaza umugore utishimiye urushako ndetse utanyuzwe mba gukomeza kubakana n’umugabo n’ubwo rusange abantu bashakana neza bwumvikane hari igihe umwe bashakanye ashobora kubana n’undi kubera izindi mpamvu zitari urukundo cyangwa se nyuma kubana urukundo rukayoyoka kuburyo yumva atagikeneye kubakana mugenzi muri nkuru turabagezaho ibintu bigaragaza umugore utishimiye urushako ndetse utanyuzwe mba gukomeza kubakana n’umugabo umugore utishimiye urushako ntajya ahangayikishwa n’ikibazo aricyo cyose kiri rugo usanga yabihariye umugabo gusa muri rusange abagore nibo mutima w’urugo kandi nibo bashishikazwa cyane n’ibibazo biri rugo kuko akenshi nabo babimenya cyane umugore ugaragaza ibibazo biri rugo ntacyo bimubwiye ntaba yishimiye urushako rwe umugore utishimiye urushako kandi udashaka kubakana neza n’uwo bashakanye akunda kumva yakwikubira agaharanira inyugu ze gusa kwita byagirira akamaro umugabo iyo umugore utishimiye urushako amaze guhararukwa umugabo atangira kumwereka ntacyo avuze imbere agahora ashyira hasi ibitekerezo bye ndetse akamwereka atujuje abandi bagabo bafite umugore utishimiye urushako ntatinya guhemukira bashakanye haba kumuca inyuma kumuharabika kumutesha agaciro bandi bagabo ndetse kumuhemukira bundi buryo bwose iyo bikabije bikagera rwego ruhambaye mugore ahinduka bita igishegabo’ umwe uba yarigize umugabo rugo kuburyo jambo umugabo agira bene mugore ahora ahanganye n’umugabo ntiyemera gukosorwa mudakurwa ijambo umugore utishimiye urushako anyereza umutungo akoresheje gusesagura iraha rye cyangwa kugendera kigare cy’abandi bagore bagenzi hari n’ubwo awuhisha ahandi cyangwa akawujyana iwabo ntakangwe gukoresha amafaranga arenze ubushobozi bw’urugo rwabo umugore utishimiye urushako ntamenya kurera neza yabyaye abatoza gusuzugura se kandi ntibagire n’undi muntu bubaha ahorana intonganya ntamenya kuvuga neza haba rugo cyangwa baturanyi bigatuma urugo rutagendwa buri wese umugore utishimiye urushako ntakinya kubwira abandi bagore yiganye abashatse mbese akagaragaza umugabo gaciro afite kuburyo yamuha icyubahiro cy’umutware umugore utishimiye urushako kandi ahora yijujuta yivumbura mugabo kugirango atagira abazwa nk’inshingano ze ashobora kuba atujuje neza kandi akunda guhembera amahane rugo umugore nk’uyu yemera inama zose ahawe n’abandi atabanje kuzigenzura bitewe n’uko akenshi akunda gushyira amabanga y’urugo rwe hanze aha umugore ashobora gusenya burundu asenyewe n’inama zitari nziza yagiriwe n’abandi bantu umugore nk’uyu kwitondera kandi umugabo ufite umugore ateye gutya bimusaba kwihangana bikomeye n’ubwo bitabashwa buri wese