ibyagufasha kongera gukunda nyuma guhemukirwa kenshi
nyuma yuko uhemukiwe n’umukunzi wawe cyangwa se bakaba barabaye benshi ariko basiga baguhemukiye ushobora none kongera kwinjira rukundo bigashoboka kandi bikagenda neza igihe wakurikije inama tugiye kukugira nkuru banza wiyakire kuba waramaze kwakira ibyakubayeho nibyo bizagufasha gutangira ubuzima bushya kwakira ibyakubayeho uzabifashwamo kumva ubuzima butarangiriye ukiha icyizere imbere ariko heza kumva bizongera bikagenda nabi ntukumwe uzavurwa n’undi muntu muzakundana igihe ugifite ibikomere ntukizere uzabimarwa n’undi muntu mugiye gukundana si byiza utangira urugendo rw’urukundo wumva hari mitwaro bigiye kukuruhura ahubwo wowe wishakaho uzamumarira muri make rukundo witegura gutanga kurusha guhabwa jya wirinda kwirukankira kongera gukundana jya ureka ibyahise bigumane n’ahahise gihe wongeye kwinjira rukundo jya wirinda mukundana ahura n’ingaruka z’ibyo wahuye nazo cyangwase ujye ubimukangisha urugero mukundana agusabye gusohokera ahantu mwakundanga yagusohokanaga ntukamubwire bikwibutsa ibihe mwagiranaga cyangwa se umubwire wanze mujyayo kuko udashaka hakwibutsa mwakundanaga ushobora kumubwira utahakunda gusa mwakundanaga ukabireka kubivuga itonde ukunde umutima wawe ushaka wikihutira gukundana kuko wumva udashaka kuba wenyine cyangwa se wumve ushaka muzabana kuko mwiganye bashatse kuko se ababyeyi bagushyiraho igitutu n’ibindi kunda umuntu kuko wumva umukunze yindi mpamvu ibigutera irinde gutendeka si byiza noneho kumva ugiye gutendeka kugirango umwe azaguhemukira izagire usigarana kuko bishobora kukubera bibi nabwo ukaba wababurira rimwe fata ubona ukunda kurusha abandi ariwe mugumana utitaye kuba warigeze gutendekwa gerageza amahirwe ubonye wiguma bwoba kumva uzongera guhemukirwa kuko wasanga ariwe mahirwe yawe akazagukunda urukundo nyarwo waburiye bandi basize bagukomerekeje ibi bimwe byagufasha kongera gukunda nyuma yuko mwigeze gukundana bagusigiye ibikomere bikuremerera mutima source agasarocom