niba rukundo irinde kubwira umukunzi wawe magambo
akenshi usanga abantu babana nk’umugore n’umugabo cyangwa umusore n’umukobwa rukundo hari imirongo ngenderwaho biha cyangwa amwe mahame bagenderaho kugirango urukundo rwabo rugende neza iyo hatabayeho ubwumvikane usanga umuriro uhora waka cyangwa abakundana bagahora bashwana hano hari urutonde rw’ibintu abashakashatsi basanze atari byiza umugore abibwira bashakanye cyangwa umukobwa abibwira umusore bakundana n’ubwo batarabanje kubiganiraho kubwira umugabo wawe iby’abandi bantu bafite imbaraga bitewe n’uko umugabo rugo rwe cyangwa umusore yumva umuntu ukomeye imbere y’umukunzi si byiza bakundana amuganiriza bandi bantu yabonye cyangwa bigeze kubana bafite imbaraga kuko bishobora gutuma mugabo yifata nk’aho mbaraga afiteyumva asuzuguritse kubwira umukunzi amusumba burebure mu miterere y’umugabo yumva akomeye bintu byose bimukikije kandi agaharanira ishema rye n’igitinyiro kuba umugore cyangwa umukobwa yabwira bakundana amusumba umugabo yumva nk’igisebo bityo bikaba atari byiza umugore cyangwa umkobwa abimubwira n’ubwo byaba impamo kumwumvisha arwanye n’igikoko runaka atakinesha ibi bituma umugabo yiyumva ashoboye kandi yararemanwe ububasha ngo si byiza umugore cyangwa umukobwa abwira bakundana atashobora ikintu runaka kuko ahita yumva n’ikindi yabasha icyampa amaguru nk’ayawe abagabo n’abasore ntibabikunda kuko bahita bumva bafite amaguru nk’ay’abakobwa bityo bakumva bitabanyuze gato abantu b’igitsinagabo bumva banyuzwe n’uko ariko bakababazwa cyane n’uwashaka kubapfobya cyane cyane bijyanye n’urukundo uri musaza wanjye cyangwa umuvandimwe wanjye ubu bushakashatsi bwerekana abagore benshi cyangwa abakobwa bakunze kugwa ikosa nk’iryo babigira imikino ariko burya si byiza kuko umugabo cyangwa ashaka urukundo wundi muntu utari mwene wabo ibi bituma umuntu yongera gusubira masano ndetse akaba yajya ahora rwikekwe rukundo rwanyu ubimubwiye kenshi kwita umukunzi wawe sugar dady kugereranya umukunzi wawe bariya bantu bashuka abana cyangwa abandi bantu bakorane imibonano mpuzabitsina kubera indnke sugar dadymummy bisa gukomeretsa ubwonko n’ubwo ushobora kubivuga wikinira bitewe n’ibyo umukunzi wawe aguha cyangwa akandi kamaro agufitiye si byiza kuko bishobora gutuma umukunzi wawe ahagarika impano yakugeneraga bitewe n’ibyo wamubwiye cyangwa wamuvuzeho kubwira umukunzi wawe afite igitsina gitandukanye n’iby’abandi hari abantu bizihirwa bakavuga ibitavugitse kubera ibyishimo cyangwa amarangamutima batewe n’abakunzi ibi si byiza kuko bishobora gutuma umukunzi wawe yibaza hari abandi bafite igitsina gitandikanye n’icye n’aho yababonye ibi si byoza gato kuko bishobora guhita biteza intonganya gihe umugabo cyangwa umusore atabasha kwihangana abagabo cyangwa abasore ntibakunda abakunzi babagereranya n’abandi babonye umugabo ava akagera yumva yihagije nkuko byagaragaye ngingo zavuzwe hejuru si byiza umugore cyangwa umukobwa anenga imikorere y’umugabo amugereranya n’abandi ahubwo ikiruta yamugira inama bonyine ngayo nguko bibafashe kunoza imibanire yanyu