ibyo buri mukobwa wese atekereza mbere gukora ubukwe
muri rusange umukobwa witegura kujya kubaka urwe hari ibintu atekereza bitandukanye umuntu yakwita inzozi z’urugo yifuza kuzagira bikaba ibintu buri mukobwa wese ugeze gihe ahora yibazaho mutima akiha ishusho ishoboka y’urugo rwe ni urwo rwego tugiye kubagezaho nzozi ndetse wabyitwaramo ziramutse zitabaye impamodore ibintu ashyira imbere atekereza rugo yitegura gushinga umukobwa wese ugiye gushinga urugo usanga yifuza kandi akumva urugo rwe ruzaba agahebuzo bukire kimwe azigera yifuza iweiki nacyo gituma abakobwa benshi bashaka abagabo b’abakire bumva bagiye gukira kakahava hari amara kugera iwe kukire bukayoyoka neza neza bitewe n’impamvu zitandukanye iyo bigenze gutyo uba ugomba kubyihanganira kuko ntiwasubira iwanyu ubukire wagiye ureba butakibarangwaho iyo umukobwa agiye iwabo yumva aruhutse kwirirwa agenzurwa n’ababyeyi cyangwa abandi babanaga akumva kwitwa umugore rugo bizatuma yigenga ntawe uzongera kumugendaho umukobwa utekereza gutya akenshi yibeshya cyane kuko hari asanga umugabo amugenzura kurenza abandi yigeze kubana nabo akenshi hari umukobwa ajya gufata umwanzuro gushaka umugabo yibwira uburyo guhunga ibibazo afite cyangwa kubikemura akibwira ntaho azongera guhurira nabyo ntaho umuntu ashobora guhungira ibibazo kuko hose birahagera ariko rugo usanga birenze kuko inshingano ziba zabaye nyinshi bityo mukobwa nuhura n’ibibazo birenze wagiraga utararwubaka ntibizaguce intege cyangwa ubyinubire kuko biba bikureba kandi amahirwe uba ufite uba ufite mufatanya kubikemura buri mukobwa wese ajya gushaka yizeye agomba kubyara abana ashaka ibitsina byombi ntiyibuke bashobora kubura urubyaro cyangwa akabyara igitsina kimwe kuko siwe wiha niba warishyizemo ugomba kubyara kandi neza ubyifuza nibitagenda wabishakaga ntibizakubuze kubaka gukomeza gukundana n’uwo mwashakanye kuko burya imana niyo igenera umuntu umukobwa rukundo n’umusore bagiye kurushinga asa n’uri paradizo kandi akabona bitazashira babanye batararugeramo akibwira bizahoraho nyamara witegereje neza usanga rukundo rukomeza rugo rw’abashakanye nkuko byahoze batarabaza kuko hari byinshi bihinduka mukobwa witegura kurwubaka nubona urukundo rwanyu rusa n’urushaje mwaramaze kubana ntuzabyinubire biguteshe inzira watangiye kuko utakibona utuntu runaka wabonaga umugabo agukorera mutarushinga ahubwo nugukomera kigabo ntuteshuke ukabyihanganira nkuko tumaze kubibona umukobwa yibwira rugo yifuza kuzagira byinshi kandi byiza gusa ariko bishobora guhinduka akumva ahise yanga urugo nyamara urugo rushoborwa kwihangana ugomba guteganya nzozi ufite zishobora kutazaba impamo ukanatekereza wabyitwaramo