hashyizwe ahagaragara ibintu udakwiye kubwira umugore wawe
kugira umubano wanyu urusheho kuba mwiza kuzaba mwiza hari interuro n’ ingingo mudakwiye kubwira umugore wawe cyangwa umukobwa mukundana kugira umubano wanyu urusheho kuba mwiza kuzaba mwiza hari interuro n’ ingingo mudakwiye kubwira umugore wawe cyangwa umukobwa mukundana wakundanye n’ abagabo bangahe iki kibazo si ngombwa kukibaza umukobwa mukundana cyangwa umugore wawe kuko mubare w’ abagabo wagenwe umukobwa cyangwa umugore agomba gukundana nawo wenda ube wabimubaza kugira umenye yagejeje mubare iki kibazo abagore baracyanga kandi n’ cyongera mibanire y’ abakundana urashaka kunsura akenshi umusore wasohokanye n’ umukobwa ashaka mukobwa anamusura ni byiza kwirinda kumubaza kibazo ahubwo ukabimubwira buryo butari ikibazo kandi buha umukunzi wawe amahitamo uti si byiza ijoro turikesha turi hano’ niba nanone ushaka kumuha gahunda y’ ubutaha mwari kumwe cyangwa mwavugana sibyiza urashaka kunsura kuko ahita akeka ushaka muryamana ikiza umubaza yifuza ubutaha muzahurira urashyaka guhura n’ umuryango wanjye kujyana umukunzi wawe rugo iwanyu ikintu cy’ ingeni rukundo gishobora kugira cyangiza rukundo rwanyu igihe umuryango wawe utari witeguye kubaza umukobwa ashaka uzajya kumwereka umuryango wawe byumvikana nko kubimuhatiriza aho kubimubaza wabimumenyesha ukamusaba azakubwira igihe azaba yiteguye byari bimeze bite kuko muba mukundana ntabwo umukobwa atinyuka kukubwira bitagenze neza kuko adashaka kukubabaza ikiza utegereza akazabikugaragariza iyo myenda ntabwo ikubereye uru urugero rw’ interuro ubwira umukobwa mukundana cyangwa umugore wawe ikamubabaza ikiza wamubwira myenda yambaye utayikunze ukamuha ibisobanuro ariko umubwiye imyenda yambaye itamubereye yiyumvamo unenze imiterere warabyibushye niba warabyibushye abizi mpamvu kubimwibutsa ahubwo wamufasha gukora siporo kurya neza sinkunda inshuti zawe aho kugira ubwire umugore wawe cyangwa umukunzi wawe afite inshuti mbi ahubwo umufasha kubona guhitamo inshuti nziza akareka inshuti kera umukunzi wanjye mbere yankoreraga gitanda bikore igihe ukeneye umugore wawe cyangwa umukunzi wawe mushya agukorera umukunzi wawe mwatandukanye yagukoreraga bibi kubimubwira ahubwo ikiza ubimwigisha ukamubwira ubikunda gihe arabigukorera ariko umubwiye umukunzi wawe kera yumva urimo kwicuza kuba mwaratandukanye buryo bishobora kurakaza umugore wawe akakubwira uzamusange wamusize utamureba’