dore impamvu zituma abasore bishimira kubana n’ abakobwa babyariye iwabo
ni kenshi uzasanga umukobwa yihebye nyuma guterwa inda rimwe rimwe yibaza umusore uzamurongora nyuma kubyarira ariko rimwena rimwe hari igihe usanga bibeshya kuko hari abasore badakozwa kurongora umukobwa utarabyaye nibyo hari abasore uzanga bifuza kubana cyane n’abakobwa babyariye iwabo dore impamvu eshanu urukundo umukobwa watewe inda n’umusore nyuma akamuhemukira ntahite amutwara buryo uzasanga afite urukundo rwinshi ariko atari wawundi upfa gushukisha ubonye byose icya mbere abanza gukora umubwiye umukunda abanza kukwigaho cyane kugira atazongera kugwa mutego buriya amaze kukumenya neza nibwo yirekura akaguha urukundo rw’ukuri kuko akeneye umugabo mukobwa kumuzanamo gukorana imibonano mpuzabitsina mutarabana cyangwa mubanze gusezerana ntabwo biba byoroshye ikimenyetso cy’urubyaro hari imiryango ibura imbyaro bibaho cyane niyo mpamvu hari abakobwa bafite agaciro cyane imbere y’abasore kuko bagaragaza ikimenyetso cy’uko babyara hari ubyara umwana mwiza umusore yamubona akifuza yamubyarira cyangwa akamwifuzaho urukundo bitewe n’uko abona yita mwana akumva mubanye n’abawe bazajya bahabwa uburere bwiza gufata neza umugabo umukobwa wabyariye iwabo nk’uko twabikomojeho haruguru akeneye umugabo niyo mpamvu uzasanga muntu uzi kwita basore cyane akabaha care mbese akagaragaza abishimiye cyane bwana yifitemo cyangwa agasuzuguro kubenga gukora cyane ntabwo wamara kubyara umwana ubona se ntacyo wenda agufasha ugende urere amaboko oya urahaguruka ugakora rimwe rimwe ukaniteza imbere umusore ubona ukora cyane gutekereza wabyaranye n’undi mugabo ntacyo biba bimubwiye ahubwo yumva kubana aribyo byatuma mutera imbere vuba kandi n’umwana akamufata nk’abe ubwiza hari umukobwa umara kubyara ubwiza afite mbere bugahinduka yaba ananutse ukabona yabaye umudamu ushyitse ubyibutse ukenyera igitenge bikamubera buryo umusore umubona abona hari ikintu kinini cyahindutse ubu bwiza afite ishusho y’umubyeyi niyo ishobora gutera umusore kwifuza yamubera umugore gusa none umaze kubyara akitera ikizere ugasanga yarihebye nubwo aniyitaho nako yiyicira isoko