ingaruka zigera muntu ufuhira umukunzi agakabya
gufuha si bibi ariko bikabije bitera ibibazo rukundo buryo mushobora gutandukana iyi nkuru ikubiyemo ingaruka gufuha cyane gufuha si bibi ariko bikabije bitera ibibazo rukundo buryo mushobora gutandukana iyi nkuru ikubiyemo ingaruka gufuha cyane gutakarizwa icyizere ibi bitekerezo bitandukanye biza mutwe w’ufuhirwa bimutera kumva igitangaza buryo atangira kwiyumva ashobora kuba adakwiranye n’uwo bakwiranye kuba amugiraho urwikekwe bene ako kageni gufuha bikaba imungu y’urukundo buryo gusa nabwo nyuma kugaragaza bibi gufuhira ukundango ukunda uramuhangayikira uramugenzura umwitaho wumva uhorana amatsiko y’uko ariaho ariicyo gukoraibi ibintu bisanzwe kandi byizana kuwo ukunda by’ukurigufuha ngombwa rukundo ariko nabwo umuntu akabigenzura kandi akagerageza kuganira mugenzi amwumvisha atari ukumufuhira kuko amwanze ahubwo ukumuhangayikira kuko amukunda cyane kandi yumva amuhorana nshingano ze gufuha bigaragaza kwikunda kwiyemera gufuhira bikabije umukunzi wawe kugeza ha handi wumva wamuyobora byose kugeza bitekerezo utazongera kumuha n’umwanya akubwire atekereza ngingo runaka ugasigara wowe umubwira kora kireke atigeze abaza umutimanama bigaragaza wikunda birenze urugero cyangwa n’umwiyemezi ndetse n’umunyagitugu rukundo akenshi binamuha shusho buzima bwawe busanzwe hanze y’urukundo gufuha bitera kubeshyana guhishana akenshi abantu babana n’ubumuga gufuha rukundo bahora baharanira gutekerereza abakunzi kubafatira ibyemezo kandi bibangamira urukundo mu rukundo habaho kubahana mpande zose kungurana ibitekerezo kuriiyo ukundana n’umuntu umufuhira bikabije kugeza amuubwiye cyose akimugayira bitewe n’uko atari wakimubwirije kugikora bigera yumva agiye kuzajya yikorera gahunda ze atanakubwiye cyangwa se yanamubwira ntamubwize ukuri gahunda ze cyangwa akanazimubwira yazirangijeaha kandi haziramo guhishanya rukundo mico idakwiye urukundo rw’ukuri kandi igenda itera abakundana kumva urukundo rubabihiye bikarangira banaruvuyemo gufuha bitera gucana inyuma kubenga ubangamirwaga gufuhirwa agize amahirwe agahura n’undi umukunda atamufuhira ahita areka wundi wamufuhiraga rimwe rimwe atanamubwiye gufuha birema indi shusho kuwo ukunda iyo umwe bakundana afuhira mugenzi amutera kubihirwa rukundo niba umukunzi wawe agira ajya ukamugenzura bikabije ndetse ukumva byakubujije amahoro umenye atabyizera nk’urukundo gusa ahubwo afite ibindi bitekerezo byinshi biziramo urugero ntanyizera abona namuca inyuma abona ndi mwiza cyane buryo atekereza abandi bamuntwara azi ajya akora yagiye buryo atekereza nanjye aribyo nakora