uko wakwirinda ibibazo biterwa kwigana urugo rw’abandi
nabonye bintu bitera ibibazo cyane yaba bagabo cyangwa badamu ugushaka kubaka urugo nk’abandi bantu ni byiza kugira urugo rw’ikitegererezo model ariko hari ibintu byinshi umuntu agomba gutekerezaho mbere kwifuza mugenzi amera runaka cyangwa urugo rwe rube nk’urwa kanaka kuko hari byinshi bibatandukanya dore bimwe ihame ry’uko umuntu unique nta muntu n’umwe ushobora kubona muntu basa ijana kw’ijana abahanga bumenyi bw’abantu psychologie bagerageje gushyira abantu byiciro bitandukanye aba sanguins colriques melancoliques n’abaflegmatiques bareba abantu bafite bahuje babashyira hamwe ariko bakemeza n’abari itsinda rimwe badahuje byose buri wese afite yihariye urugero ushobora kuba ufite umugoregabo udasabana cyane kubera ateye abashyitsi baza ntashyuhe cyane mwasura abandi wenda ugasanga mugabogore agira urugwiro akazimanira abashyitsi akabaganiriza ukabona urugo rwabo rungu ririmo iyo udasobanukiwe umenye umugabogore wawe ateye buryo butandukanye n’ubw’uwo wundi ushobora kumara imyaka n’imyaka umuhatira guhinduka cyangwa waraheranywe n’agahinda uzi ufite umugabo udakunda abantu kandi by’ukuri ntabwo abanga ahubwo niko ateye background cyangwa se amateka bene urugo n’ibyo bakuriyemo iki kikaba gifite imbaraga cyane rwanda kubera amateka yacu mu by’ukuri background ivuze byinshi umuryango umuntu yakuriyemo iyo witegereje umuntu yubatse urugo akenshi usanga bifitanye isano bugufi n’umuryango akomokamo hari igihe awigana kuko yawukundaga cyangwa akaba yarakuyemo ibikomere byinshi kubera ibibazo byariyo agahora yikanga agiye kubaka nk’iwabo bigatuma buzima bwe bwose ahangayitse afite ubwoba umuco umuntu yakuriyemo ibi biroroshye kubisobanura rwanda ingo z’abantu bavuye congo usanga zitandukanye n’iz’abavuye burundi cyangwa ahandi ababaye i burayi bikaba bitandukanye cyane umugabo yajya gikoni agateka gihe ahandi babibona nk’ubuganzwe hari ibindi nk’amashuli idini umuntu yarerewemo n’ibindi urwego rw’ubukungu urugo rugezeho classe sociale ubukire cyangwa se ubukene nabyo biri bintu bigira uruhare buryo urugo rubayeho ibi birazwi twese tutangana bukire hari ibindi twavuga nk’imiterere y’akazi umugabogore akora n’ibindi ibi bintu tuvuze byaguha neza ishusho y’uko rugo rwasa n’urundi kuko icya mbere umugabo umugore n’abana urwo rugo ntabandi basa cyane cyane ndavuga imiterere caractre hari n’abo basa ntibahuje background cyangwa uburere byose bisa ntibahuje ubukire cyangwa ubukene icyo wakora niba umudamu ukaba ufite umuryango ukubera urugero byiza rwose wabigiraho ariko ntibishoboka urugo rwawe ruba photocopie y’urwo rundi banza wibaze ibibazo bike nkibi ese umugabo wanjye n’uriya bateye kimwe utazatoteza umugabo wawe ushaka guhindura imana yamuremye ese umuryango umugabo wanjye yakuriyemo iteye ite iy’uriya se iteye ite ese uburyo babayeho ntibiterwa n’uko bifashije kuturusha ese njyewe n’uriya mugore twakira ibintu kimwe akazi se dukora kamwe gutinda wibaza bibazo byagufasha kumva neza icyiza ugushakisha mwabaho rugo rwanyu mukigira bandi ibyiza ariko mukabijyanisha n’imiterere y’urugo rwanyu adaptation ntibiguce intege ariko nakubwira hari n’ibizananirana ariko kuko uzi impamvu byanze ntibikubuze umunezero wawe iyo ufite umujyanama mufataniriza hamwe kureba imiterere yawe n’iy’umugabo wawe mukabona guha icyerekezo urugo rwanyu umufaransa yaravuze le plat du voisin est toujours le meilleur ni’ukuvuga urebye ibitari ibyawe ubona byiza ariko witonde kuko areba iwawe agasanga ariho heza reka turekere ahangaha n’ubwo twakoresheje ingero ziciriritse simple ariko muzi neza kugereranya ingo itera ibibazo bikomeye umugabo aganira n’undi kabari buri wese avuga umugore bombi bataha buri wese agatangira gutoteza mugenzi kuki utameze gutya cyangwa gutya ikindi n’uko biri bikurura guca inyuma kw’abashakanye icyo nkwifuriza wowe usomye nyandiko urugo rwawe rutatwikwa kwigana iz’abandi kabone n’iyo zaba nziza zite uzigireho ariko menge k teddy agasarocom