inama zagufasha guhitamo neza muzarushinga
gushaka umugore cyangwa umugabo niyo ngingo ibaho igomba kwitonderwa iyo amahitamo yawe abaye mabi ubihirwa ubuzima bwawe bwose abantu benshi bakunze kwibaza bagenderaho cyangwa bashingiraho guhitamo neza umugabo cyangwa umugore bazabana akaramata uyu munsi turarebera hamwe inama wakurikiza gihe ugiye guhitamo muzarushinga nkuko tubikesha urubuga elcrema rwandika rukundo n’imibanire baza umutima wawe mbere mbere pfukama ubaze imana ndetse uyisabe kukwereka kuguha umufasha ugukwiye ubwo imana muruhande rwawe haba hakurikiyeho kugisha umutima inama iherere ufate umwanya uhagije wumve uhamanya n’umutima wawe igisubizo nikiba yego marangamutima ugendeyeho ariyo komeza usome intambwe kabiri wumva wifuje mwakora imibonano mpuzabitsina iyi ngingo muzibanze ugomba kugenderaho kurushinga ntibivuga muzajya muhora murebana maso muzajya mugira umwanya uhagije gukora imibonano mpuzabitsina niba ukunda kwiyumvamo umuriro waka woweyewe ukaba unanirwa gusinzira ikimenyetso cyiza wahisemo neza mugiye kurushinga bitabaye ntirwaba urukundo bwaba ubucuti busanzwe menya umunsi gutera akabariro bizaba bitagenda neza cyangwa bidakorwa bikwiye rugo rwanyu gucana inyuma gusenya ibibazo binyuranye bizaba bikomanga muryango iyi ngingo niyo ahanini abantu benshi bibandaho nubwo ingenzi hari ibindi ugomba kwitaho umenye neza mugiye kurushinga amahitamo meza iyi ifatwa nkingingo shingiro ry’urugo kumwiyumvamo mumaze igihe mukundana banza urebe umwiyumvamo gihe ese ikibazo kivutse hagati yanyu ubasha kukihanganira umwibonamo se nk’umuntu mugiye kumarana ubuzima bwawe bwose usigaje isi amarangamutima umwereka ubona ayagusubiza kukigero kimwe n’icyawe cyangwa wenda akurushaho niba hari biri hasi cyangwa mudahuje nzira mbi niba muhuje ubona byose sawa soma inama ikurikira kubabarira amakosa y’ahahise wamuhisemo mubane ashobora kuba afite amakosa yakoze gihe cyahise niba wumva ubasha kuyamubabarira ukumva wishimiye ugiye kubana utitaye hahise munzira nziza ni inshingano wihaye kuzamufaha gukosora ibitaragenze neza urukundo ntirureba ibyiza gusa niwita kubyiza bye nturebe agirira intege nke urukundo umukunda urumamo ntago malayika umuntu wambaye umubiri ushobora gukosa muhuje intego mu buzima buri wese agira intego n’indoto yifuza kugeraho iyo ubonye ugufasha cyangwa ugutera imbaraga kugera kucyo wahoze urota biragushimisha ufite intego wihaye cyangwa wifuza kugeraho ubona muteganya kurushinga azagufasha kugera nzozi zawe agutera imbaraga buzima bwawe buri munsi niba ubona ikinyuranyo nturi nzira nziza iteka muzahora muhanganye kuko nyine munyuranya ugushaka kuba azi gufata ibyemezo niba umukobwa ukaba ugiye gushinga urugo ugomba kureba umusore mugiye kubana azi gufata ibyemezo umugabo niwe uyobora urugo agomba kuba adahuzagurika gihe gufata ibyemezo bihamye kuba azi gushaka ubuzima hambere nibwo umugabo ariwe wita mibereho y’urugokuruhahira kwambika umugore n’abanaariko isi igeze ntibyakorohera umuntu umwegutunga urugo amashuri asigaye ahenze ubukode cyangwa kubaka inzu si ibintu byoroshye isoko ibintu biri kugenda bihendaniba ushaka urugo rwanyu ruzakomera kandi rukaba ruhamye ugomba kureba umusore cyangwa umukobwa wifuza mwarushinga azi gushaka ubuzima bityo akaba atazagutererana kwita rugo kuko ntiwabyishoboza umukunzi wawe agukundira mu gihe mumaze mukundana ugomba kuba waritegereje ngingo umuntu ugukunda ntakabuza mwabana mugashobokana wawundi waje agukurikiyeho amafaranga umutungo umuryango ukomeyeiyo biyoyotse ntimuba mugishobokanye kuko ajyana nabyo yemera amakosa mu mitetere muntu ntahora intungane niba akoze amakosa ayemera akabasha kuyasabira imbabazi nzira nzima uwo musore cyangwa mukobwa niwe ukwiriye kubana murizerana kandi murubahana kwizerena kubahana nabyo biri nkingi mwamba zituma umubano ushinga imizi muri gihe amakimbirane kwiyongera icyizere gike kutubahana nabyo biri mpamvu zibitera niba umwubaha akaba abigira mukongeraho kuba mwizerana nayo ingingo wagenderaho ukemeza muzubaka rugakomera guhitamo nabi muzarushinga ikosa abantu benshi bicuza izi nama zimwe wakwifashisha guhitamo umugabo cyangwa umugore muzabana niba hari izindi wakongeraho uhawe rugari shyira igitekerezo cyawe ahabugenewe dufatanye kubaka umuryango nyarwanda kugisha inama rukundo uru rubuga ohereza ubutumwa inforwandamagazinecom