ibimenyetso by’ ingenzi bizakwereka umukunzi wawe atakigukunda namba
hari abantu benshi rukundo ariko by’ukuri wareba ugasanga igihe cyari kigeze batandukana buri umwe agakomeza ubuzima bwe urubuga elcrema rwakusanyije ibimenyetso bigaragaza igihe kigeze ugafata umwanzuro gutandukana n’umukunzi wawe hari abantu benshi rukundo ariko by’ukuri wareba ugasanga igihe cyari kigeze batandukana buri umwe agakomeza ubuzima bwe urubuga elcrema rwakusanyije ibimenyetso bigaragaza igihe kigeze ugafata umwanzuro gutandukana n’umukunzi wawe nta cyizere ukigirira umukunzi wawe niba cyizere ukigira umukunzi wawe igihe kirageze mutandukana kuko icyizere ikintu cy’ingenzi gituma abakundana bagumana iyo cyizere gihari urukundo ntirushobora gushinga imizi ntimubasha kumvikana bintu by’ingenzi buzima bwanyu niba utabasha kumvikana n’umukunzi wawe bintu by’ingenzi bireba ubuzima bwanyu igihe gutandukana ibintu bijyanye n’umuryangoumutungo idini bishobora kwangiza cyane umubano w’abakundana gihe batabyumva kimwe ibishashi by’urukundo byarashize niba utakiyumvamo ibishashi by’urukundo ndetse ukanagerageza bikanga bivuze rukundo ruri hagati yanyu n’impamvu kugumana umukunzi wawe aracyakomeye mateka y’ahashize niba umukunzi wawe akomeye mateka ndetse akumva atayareka mpamvu kugumana urukundo nyarwo rwubakira mateka y’uyu munsi rugateganyiriza ejo hazaza mugorwa gukemura amakimbirane hagati yanyu nibyo koko rukundo rushobora kubura amakimbirane ariko iteka mudashobora kuyikemurira mugakenera umuhuza igihe kirageze ufate umwanzuro kubivamo kuko abakundana nyabyo babasha kwikemurira amakimbirane yavuka hagati wumva bwisanzure ahubwo umeze nk’ufungiranye niba udashobora kwisanzura ugaragaze utekereza ikimenyetso mukwiye gutandukana iyo umuntu rukundo rw’ukuri abasha kugaragaza ibyiyumviro bye ntacyo yishisha abo mubana bahora baguhangayikiye niba abantu muhorana bahora bahangayitse kubera uburyo ubanye n’umukunzi wawe bisobanuye igihe kigeze ugasuzuma imibanire yanyu byaba ngombwa ugafata icyemezo gutandukana akenshi umuntu rukundo biragoye kumenya hari ikitagenda inshuti n’umuryango nibo babanza kubibona ntimukiganira bikwiye kimwe bimenyetso by’urukundo ruhagaze neza uguhana amakuru hagati y’abakundana bidashoboka mugirana ikiganiro kirambuye kandi gikora mutima mpamvu n’imwe yatuma mugumana kuko mwaba guta umwanya ubona atakigushyikira niba utekereza umukunzi wawe atagushyigikira ukora ndetse akenshi ukabona gahunda ze arizo zibanza imbere n’ikimenyetso urukundo rwanyu ruri marembera arakubeshyaigihe umukunzi wawe atakikubwiza ukuri atakikubwira ibibazo yagize musangire akabisi n’ agahiye akabishye n’akaryoshye akwereka atakigukeneye buzima bwe kuko umuntu mukundana akubona nk’ umujyanama mukuru bigatuma agutura agahinda key yageze nsinzi agashishikazwa kubikubwira ntabushake gutera akabariro agira iyo umugabo wawe cyangwa umugore wawe atagishaka mutera akabariro ugasanga ngingo ntacyo imurebaho wabimubwira akakureba nk’icyo imbwa ihaze akakubwira yumva atameze neza gihe ubimusabye mutera akabariro bishobora kuba ariyo nzira yahisemo kukwereka urukundo rwanyu rumeze nk’ igicaniro cyazimye kutaguhamagara mu kiri rukundo rwanyarwo yaguhamagaraga inshuro zitabarika akakwandikira ubutuma bugufi ndetse rimwe rimwe akakoherereza n’amagambo meza ajyanye n’urukundo amwe tuzi izina ry’imitoma ariko ugasanga wowe wigora ukamuhamagara ubashe kumva ijwi rye ugatangira ukibaza cyabaye nta kwirushya uzahita wibwira umutima utakigutekereza habe gato gutinda kazi ese inshuti yawe y’umuhungu cyangwa y’umukobwa yaba ikubwira akazi kaba kayibanye kenshi buryo budakura ruge yego rimwe rimwe yajyaga kazi agatindayo ariko arapanga n’akazi kadashoboka nijoro kandi ntako agira agatangira akakubwira njye sinkunda umunru ushaka kungendaho cyane angenzure buri mwanya’ iki gihe uzahite ubona rukundo akigufitiye kuko hari izindi gahunda yigiriyemo zitandukanye yaguha umwanya mukagira byinshi mugeraho kwiyibagiza ibihe byiza mujya mugirana iyo umukunzi wawe ashaka urukundo rwanyu rujyaho akadomo yirinda ikintu cyose cyabagarira urukundo rwanyu ugasanga mwarajyaga musohokana nko wikendi ntibikibaho cyangwa se ntabwo umunsi mukuru nk’umunsi w’amavuko mukiwizihiza atangira akwereka bushake bwinshi akigufitiye kandi n’umwanya afite ndetse rimwe rimwe akakubwira yabyibagiwe nubona ariko bimeze uzahite wibwira urukundo rwanyu ntarwo iyo byishimo akigira ugihura n’umukunzi wawe minsi mbere urukundo rwanyu mwasaga nkaho musigaye mwitwa bwana madamu byishimo ariko ubungubu musigaye murebana ay’ingwe ukibaza impavu ukayibura akaba yarajyaga agutungura ukabona aguhaye impano idasanzwe ariko ntakikwikoza niyo atashye aza ajya buriri kuvuga menshi kuko atakiri barimenshi ibi bimwe bintu bizakwerekako urukundo rwanyu ntarugihari ugukura amaso