menya ibyagufasha kubana mahoro n’uwo mumaze kubyarana
impuguke by’imibanire zigaragaza umwana avutse abaye nk’urutare rukomeye umuryango ugomba kubakirwaho kugira umubano w’umugabo n’umugore ukomere zikaba zisangiza abashakanye n’ababyifuza uburyo bakwitwara guhora baganira mubano wabo bakwiriye kuganira uburyo bazajya bafashanya bazajya bamarana umwanya ndetse bazajya bita mwana dore umuryango uba wagutse ninde uzajya ubyuka guha umwana amata narira babona bakwiye gushaka umukozi kubafasha byose bakabiganiraho bakiga gahunda bityo umubano wabo ugakomera kwiha umurongo ngenderwaho ibi bibugwaho byafasha buri umwe kuzuza inshingano ze muryango buryo umugore n’umugabo buzuzanya ntawe uryamiye iyo ufite ubuzima buri gahunda bigufasha kuzuza inshingano zawe kuba umubyeyi ntibigomba kugabanya cyangwa kongera inshingano basanganwe iyo wibarutse ukaba umubyeyi kenshi bagore usanga hari inshingano birengangiza kuba umubyeyi ntibikuraho inshingano kuba umugore rugo ugomba kwita mwana ndetse ukita kuwo mwashakanyeabagore benshi bagaragaza bibabera uutwaro ariko impuguke zigaragaza byoroshye byise biterwa n’uko uba wabyitwayemo kutirengagiza umwana kimwe by’ingenzi bigize ubuzima bw’urugo bisobanuye mbere mutarabyara mwari abantu babiri rukundo ariko umwana avutse muba mwiyongereye bityo ntimugomba kumuheza cyangwa mumuhe umwanya muke buzima bwanyu mwembi kudatonganira imbere y’abana ntabwo byiza gutongana cyangwa kuba mwashwana mukanarwana imbere y’abana kuko ntago biba urugero rwiza ibi kandi bishobora gutuma abana batekereza ariyo mpamvu ya’intonganya bikaba byabahungabanya mutwe kuzirikana umubno n’ibihe byiza bagirana umubano mwiza wubakwa kwizerana ndetse kugirirana inama bishobora kumvikana nk’ibyoroshye nyamara miryango myinshi kiburamo ugasanga buri umwe ararengera inyungu ze nk’aho badashyize hamwe kuzamura urugo bombinubwo ubushakashatsi bugaragaza ibintu bike bikwiriye kugenderwaho guharanira umubano mwiza w’abashakany bamaze kubyarana ntibivuze hari ubundi buryo buttandukanye abantu bashobora kwisangama bataizi bubafasha kugumana umubano mwiza ibi kandi binajyana n’amateka y’urukundo rw’abashakanye yanditswe sarongo ruhumuriza richardmuhaburarw