ibimenyetso bigaragaza urukundo urimo rudafatika
hari igihe umukobwa cyangwa umusore yibwira rukundo nyamara urebye neza yita urukundo wasanga urukundo rudafatikafake relationship ndetse rudafite ruva n’aho rugana wigeze uba rukundo ariko rudafatika ese ujya wibaza urukundo rudafatika rubaho hari igihe ushobora kuba wibwira rukundo ariko mubyukuri urukundo urimo rukaba rudafatika busa nkuko inzobere mibanire y’abantu babigaragaza hari ibimenyetso bishobora kwereka umuntu urukundo arimo ntaho rugana cyangwa se ntacyerekezo gifatika rufite ikigaragaza urukundo rudafatika munsi ruba rushyushye ariko umunsi ukurikiyeho ugasanga byahinduye isura ndetse rusa n’uratarigeze kubaho urukundo rudafatika kandi rwarundi rutabasha kwihanganira ibigeragezo ikindi kiruranga gitekerezo gushinga urugo umusore n’inkumi bakundana bafiteibimenyetso biranga urukundo rudafatika ntiwizera umukunzi wawentumwiyumvamo icyizere kwiyumvanamo hagati y’abakundana n’ibintu by’ingenzi cyane rukundo kuba utazi neza umukunzi wawe agukunda by’ukuri kuba utazi neza agufata kuba ushidikanya wowe wenyine akunda n’ibindi bisa nabyo bishobora kukwereka urukundo mukundana rudafashije nawe ubwawe ntuzi ukunda umukunzi wawe hari igihe bibaho umusore cyangwa umukobwa yibaza amarangamutima agaragariza mugenzi urukundo cyangwa agahararo bikamuyobera niba ubwawe utazi urimo urukundo mukundana rudafatika nta bihe byiza mugirana biragoye abantu bakundana urukundo rudafatika bagirana ibihe byiza aha ndashaka gusobanura byabihe bitibagirana wicara ukibuka ukumva uhise ukumbura umukunzi wawe byabihe bituma urukundo rwanyu rurushaho kugira ingufu kuvugana gakekubonana inshuro nke zishoboka mu bintu biranga urukundo nyarukundo kuvugana kumenya mugenzi wawe ameze n’ingenzi mu ndimi z’amahanga nibyo bita communication niba mutagira igihe gihoraho kuganira kumenya amakuru buri umwe urukundo rwanyu tangira urugireho amakenga ntiwambwira uburyo bwakwira cyangwa igihe runaka kigashira utazi amakuru n’uko umukunzi wawe amerewe nurangiza unyemeze uburyo murimo urukundo hambere iterambere ritaraza nibwo byagoranaga ariko nabwo abakundana bohererezanyaga amabaruwa cyangwa bagasurana babishobojwe kuri communication yaroroshye kuburyo bitagoranye kurara umenye umukunzi yiriwe yemwe mukaba mwagirana n’ikiganiro n’ubwo mutandukanyijwe n’intera ndende niba biba rimwe rimwe harimo ikibazo guhora mushwana kutumvikana rukundo cyangwa mubano ibintu bibaho kandi ntakabuza bigomba kubaho kuko ntabwo iteka abantu bahuza byose ikigaragaza rukundo nyarukundo hari mutumvikanyeho cyangwa hari mugonganye mugira mukemura ibibazo vuba kandi mutuzo ariko wowe n’umukunzi wawe muhora mushwana bihoraho kandi bikagorana kwiyunga urukundo rwanyu rudafatika niba ufite umusore cyangwa umukobwa mukundana munsi urukundo rukaba rushyushye ariko ejo rukazima kandi iteka mugapfa udukosa duto menya urukundo rwanyu ntaho rugana binabayeho mukabana urugo rwanyu ntirwazamara kabiri cyangwa mukajya muhora ntonganya ntahazaza urukundo rufatika rugira icyerekezo n’intego abantu bakundana urukundo nyarukundo bagaragarizanya amarangamurima mbereka hejuru y’uko bakundana bafitanye ubushuti bufatikamugihe rukundo rudafatika abakundana bagaragarizanya amarangamutima gake gashoboka hazaza ntego bafite cyangwa icyerekezo cy’urukundo rwabo umukunzi wawe si byose wowe iki nacyo ikimenyetso kigaragaza urukundo rudafatika ubusanzwe umuntu ukunda by’ukuri byose wowe asobanura byinshi buzima bwawe ni hahandi wumva mutatandukana ndetse bibayeho byakuvuna umutima ariko rukundo rudafatika uba wumva umusoreumukobwa mukundana niyo mwatandukana ntagihombo waba ugize adahari ubuzima bwawe bwakomeza mpungenge