ibyo wakorera umugore wawe igihe atwite bikamwongerera umunezero
gutwita k’umugore igihe kiba kirekire kandi kikarangwamo ibibazo bitandukanye cyane cyane bagiye kwibaruka umwana mbere iyi niyo mpamvu abahanga bijyanye n’imyororokere bagira inama abagabo bagomba kwitwara kubo bashakanye kuko hari byinshi bihinduka cyane cyane ugomba kumukorera kugirango bikomeze urukundo rwabo kandi bakomeze kugubwa neza rugo rwabo cyerekezo cy’iterambere ubushakashatsi bwakozwe bijyanye n’inzobere bijyanye n’umubano w’abashakanye bwerekanye abagore batwite mbere bagira umunezero udasanzwe bihe abagabo bababaye gusa ushobora kwibaza uti ibihe abagabo bagomba kubakorera kugira bigende neza kumufasha imirimo rugo umugore utwite mubiri habamo umusemburo umutera agahinda akumva yifitiye ikizere gike cy’uko gukora bidashobora kurangira neza kenshi biragorana bagabo guhita bumva ngingo kuko akenshi usanga ariyo bakiva busore ubusilibateri kandi bamwe bakaba bafata mirimo nk’iyagenewe igitsina gore ariko kikaba aricyo kintu mbere gishimisha mwashakanye gihe umufashishe kandi bikamurinda umushiha kumutega amatwi abahanga bijyanye n’ubuzima bw’abagore batwite bemeza hari igihe umugore akeneye cyane umuntu kumuba gihe kumwumva kumuha umwanya ikintu gikomeye kuko bimwereka uzaba umugabo kumuba bihe muzahura nabyo bigoye kujyana muganga kenshi abaganga basaba guherekeza abagore muganga gihe bagiye kwisuzumisha ndetse kwivuza yindi mpamvu ibitera bombi bahabwa ubutumwa bumwe bw’uko bagomba kwitwara gihe umugore atwite ibi bikaba bishimisha abagore kuko bumva bitaweho cyane n’abagabo kwihangana gihe yerekanye impinduka abagore bamwe bamwe gihe batwite habaho kuzinukwa kurya kunywa kuzinukwa abantu babana ndetse birashoboka yazinukwa n’umugabo muri bihe bigoye umugore akeneye umugabo yihanganira impinduka kurusha ikindi gihe aricyo cyose yigeze kubaho kuko agira ibibazo birimo kugira iseseme gucika intege kurwaragurika n’ibindi ibi byose usanga bigora abagabo bamwe kuko benshi bananirwa kwihanganira mpinduka ariko umugore afite umugabo wihanganira byose biramunyura cyane kigero utakumva kumubwira mwiza kandi ukamwitaho buri kanya abagore benshi gihe batwite bagira ibyiyumvo abantu badashoboye umubiri wabo uba wataye imiterere karemanoforme normal kuko bimwe bice byabo bikurura abagabo haba habayeho ihindagurika ryabyo aha niho akeneye amagambo meza amuhumuriza umubwira ubwiza bwe budashingiye kubibonekera amaso gusa ahubwo buva mutima biramushimisha cyane bigatuma yiyumvamo icyizere gikomeye umufitiyemuri gihe cyitoroshye akeneye amagambo meza ava kanwa k’umugabo impano n’ibindi ibi bikaba urufunguzo rufungura amarembo y’urukundo rw’imitima bombi kwihangana hari ibintu byinshi bihinduka myitwarire y’umugore gihe cyose atwite kandi byose bigenda byiyongera iminsi igenda yegereza igihe kubyara ibi bikaba biri bigora abagabo kwakira myitwarire ndetse bikaba byateza n’ibibazo hagati kuko akenshi hari igihe mugore arangwa n’umushiha aha abahanga bakaba bagira inama abagabo kubyakira ahubwo bakiga uburyo bagomba kubafata bihe bibagoye kumunanurira imitsi massage ibanga mbere ugomba kumenya abagore bishimira cyane igikorwa kubafasha kunanura ingingo zigize umubiri wabo gihe batwite bikaba akarusho k’umugore kubikorerwa n’uwo bashakanye gukorera umugore gikorwa bikaba bimwongerera umunezero utavugwaaba bahanga kandi bakaba bagira inama abagabo kudafata igikorwa gutwita nk’ikireba umugore gusa sibyo gato ahubwo ugomba kumuba kuko bihe afitiye ubwoba kandi agomba kumarwa n’umugabo