uri umunyamahirwe uzi gutandukanya bintu rukundo
mu buzima buri munsi abantu barakunda abandi bagakundwa ariko ntibigaragare buyo bumwe kuko n’intego zitaba zimwe hari urukundo nyakuri rushobora nu kuganisha gushakana hakaba n’urukundo umuntu yakwita uruhutiyeho nubwo zose inkundo zikaba zitandukanye haba biziranga haba mushyirirwe bikorwa yazo urukundo ruhutiyeho clash rurangwa akenshi n’utugambo tworoshye turyashye tw’ubusabusa abantu barurimo babwirana ariko make mushinga cyangwa musaruro bigaragara wavamo mu rukundo nyarwo habaho kuganira kungurana ibitekerezo mushinga runaka kishobora kubateza imbere ndetse bakagira n’umwanya uhagije kuganira rukundo urukundo ruhutiyeho rwibanda cyane bice bimwe bimwe by’umubiri umuntu yarakundiye urugero isura ikimero imigendere inseko kuberwa ubutunzi n’ibindi urukundo nyarwo ntirugendera bintu runaka bidasanzwe bigaragara bakundana nk’ibyagaragaye hejuru ahubwo abakundana rukundo nyakuri bumva banyuzwe n’uko mu yandi magambo barimariranyemo mu rukundo ruhutiyeho habayeho kutumvikana abakundana bahita batandukana byihuse kuko buri wese yumva kibazo azabona abandi bameze iyo urukundo nyarwo rugaragayemo agatotsi abakundana ntibihutira gutandukana ahubwo bashobora kumara igihe babyigaho bakazafata umwanzuro nyuma ndetse byanaba ngombwa bagakomezanya urukundo ruhutiyeho rutuma umwe bakundana yica bandi bantu kuko yumva arangamiye umuntu umwe gusa kubera kintu amukurikiyeho nyamara amaze kukigeraho cyangwa bashwanye arabagarukira mu rukundo nyakuri abakundana ntibafuhirana cyane ahubwo bahana akanya kuganira n’izindi nshuti n’abavandimwe uru rukundo nyakuri urugenzemo neza nshuti n’imiryango birabashyigikira urukundo ruhutiyeho akenshi ruganisha mibonano mpuzabitsina gihe urukundo nyakuri rwereka abarurimo imibonano mpuzabitsina atari kimenyetso cyonyine kigaragaza abakundana iyo rukundo ruhutiyeho habayeho kurumvikana mpande zombi zumva byazicikiyeho kureba icyakorwa gihe urukundo nyakuri rutegereza kandi rukihangana urukundo ruhutiyeho rurangwa abakundana bishimira kuratira abandi bakoze namusomye twasohokanye gihe abari rukundo nyakuri baceceka abantu bakabibwirwa n’uko babyiboneye urukundo ruhutiyeho rurafuha cyane jealous ariko by’ukuri haba hari inyungu idasanzwe abarukundana babifitemo mu gihe hatabaho gufuha cyane bakundana urukundo nyarwo kuko bagirirana icyizere nubwo urukundo ruhutiyeho rushobora gukura rukavamo urukundo nyarwo ntirukunze kuramba kuko indamu abarukundana barutegerejeho bamaze kuzibona inama si byiza gukunda cyangwa gushakana n’umuntu kuko hari umukurikiyeho cyaba umutungo ubwiza n’ibindi ahubwo kubera urukundo