uko wagaragariza umugabo wawe umwishimira
iyo umugabo mwashakanye umwishimira ukifuza kubimugaragariza hari uburyo bwinshi ubinyuzamo bamwe batekereza uburyo bwiza ukubibabwira abandi bakabyandika mbuga nkoranyambaga n’ahandi uburyo bwose wakoresha bikuvuye mutima buba bwiza ariko hari ububa bwiza kurushaho butuma umugabo agaciro kuba umwishimira nkuko bitangazwa n’urubuga elcrema gushaka guhinduka abagore bamwe bakoresha uburyo guhindura uburyo bitwaraga rwego kereka abagabo babishimira kandi babubaha gusa none bakabikora bushoshozi buryo badapfa guhinduka bintu byose bashaka gushimisha abagabo kwitangira urugo kugirango ibitagenda bigende neza rimwe rimwe kugaragariza umugabo wawe umwishimira kandi bikamugera mutima bisaba kwitanga ni cyimwe kwiyemeza guhinduka ariko ukaba uziko ugambiriye gusigasira urukundo rwanyu niba wumva wishimiye umugabo wawe ntuzatinye kwitanga kintu cyose cyatuma urukundo rwanyu rusagamba kwiyitaho ukurikije umugabo wawe akunda uburyo wiyitaho wisiga wambara ubikora ugambiriye gushimisha umugabo wawe kuruta wowe kwishimisha bituma umugabo yumva umuha agaciro kandi ukamwishimira uzasanga ahanini abagore n’abagabo bapfa uburyo bw’imyambarire n’imisokoreze kuko umwe ashaka kubikor auko atabishaka ntibivuze uzabikora buri munsi kuko ukeneye kugira uwmanya gukora ukunda ariko mugiye nko gusura ababyeyi cyangwa se musohokanye ukamuha umwanya kuguhitiramo akunda kukubonamo wambaye bizamushimisha kurushaho kugisha inama umugabo wawe mbere gufata icyemezo runaka iyo ugisha inama umugabo wawe mber eyo gufata icyemezo bimugaragariza wishimiye kuba kumwe u buzima bwawe bwose ariko niyo byaba kantu gato ufasheho umwanzuro utabanje kumugisha inama gihe bimugaragariza mutari cyerecyezo kimwe guhora ushaka icyamushimisha umugore uha agaciro umugabo kandi akumva yishimye kuba kumwe uzasanga ahora ashaka icyumunezeza amenya umugabo yanga akabigendera kure yakosa agasaba imbabazi kwihagararaho kumushyigikira bitekerezo bikorwa ni byiza wishimira umugabo wawe akora umugaragariz ako umushyigikiye haba bitecyerezo akora abantu banga babasenya ariko bigeze bagabo biba akarusho niyo waba ubona igitecyerezo umugabo wawe afite utagishyigikiye ujye ubinyuza bundi buryo butamwereka umusenye kumushimira jya ukunda gushimira umugabo wawe kintu runaka yakoze gifite ingaruka nziza rukundo rwanyu muryango mur rusange usibye kuba bizamwereka umwishimira bizanatuma arushaho gukora neza kuko uzirikana akora ukabimushimira ntugatinye kubigaragaza ibi nibyo abantu benshi bakora bashaka kugargariza abagabo babishimiye ariko byuzuzanya n’izindi ngingo twavuzeho mbere aha niho ushobora kubigaragaza bantu mbuga nkoranyambaga kubimubwira kuganira n’ubundi buryo butuma ahita abyumva cyangwa se akabibona bitanyuze bindi bikorwa ruhande niba ukunda umugabo wawe ukaba wumva wishimiye kuba mubana nk’umugore n’umugabo bumwe buryo wakoresha kugaragariza umugabo wawe umwishimira bikaba byatuma arushaho kugukunda kukwiyumvamo