uko wahitamo umwana wifuza kubyara umuhungu cg se umukobwa
hari abantu bibaza bashobora kubyara umuhungu cyangwa umukobwa igihe babyifuza ndetse umwe bakunzi bacu akaba yaratubajije kibazo n’ubwo atari buri gihe biba bishoboka ariko abanga bemeza wujuje ibisabwa kandi ukabikurikirana neza ushobora kubigeraho dore inama kugirango ugene kubyara umuhungu cyangwa umukobwa hari usabwa kuba wujuje ndetse n’ubumenyi buhagije buryo umwana avuka umuhungu ndetse n’umukobwa babaho n’ibindi umugore atwita umuhungu cyangwa umukobwa byagenze gute ubundi igitsina cy’umwana kigenwa se ibi bivuze umugabo utanga intanga ivamo umukobwa cyangwa umuhungu iyo umugabo asohoye intanga ntanga akenshi haba harimo ubwoko bubiri izitanga umukobwa arizo x ndetse n’izitanga umuhungu y gihe umugore arekura ubwoko bumwe bw’intanga x iyo y y’umugabo ihuye n’intanga y’umugore x bikora igi rigizwe xy umwana ugomba kuvamo akaba umuhungu naho intanga x y’umugabo ihuye n’intanga x y’umugore bikora igi rigizwe xx akaba umukobwa muti wabikoresha ute ubyare umuhungu cyangwa umukobwa tugarutse mugabo utanga intanga x ndetse n’intaga y twababwira ubushakashatsi bwerekanye intanga y zibyara umuhungu zirangwa kwihuta cyane ariko zigapfa gihe gito ugereranije n’intanga x zibyara umukobwa ibi bikaba bisobanuye rugendo intanga ngabo zikora zerekeza zigomba guhurira n’intanga ngore intanga y zigerayo mbere gihe intanga x zihagera nyuma cyane kugirango ubyare umuhungu bikaba bigusaba gukora imibonano mpuzabitsina n’umugabo wawe nibura habura amasaha munsi y’umunsi umwemunsi y’amasaha intanga ngore irekurwe bityo ntanga y zinyaruka zizihuta zisanganire ndetse zihure n’intanga ngore mbere y’uko intanga x zihagera igihe zizahagerera zizasange igi ryaramaze kwikora naryo ntangiriro kubaho k’umwana icyo gihe ntacyo zizaba zikibashije gukora iyo ukoze imibonano mbere cyane y’uko intanga ngore irekurwa ntanga y zirihuta zikagera zigomba gutegerereza intanga ngore ariko zigatinda kuyibona uko zitinda nyinshi zigenda zipfa zindi x zikiyizira gahoro gahoro ndetse zahagera kuko munaniro mwinshi ziba zifite zikabasha gutegera ikindi gihe kirekire dore zishobora kugeza minsi zitegereje intanga ngore aha isohotse zihita ziyakira kuko y ziba zarapfuye cyangwa se zegereje gupfa bityo zikaba zidashobora guhangana ziriya x ese gute umuntu yamenya umunsi intanga ngore izasohokeraho iki kibazo kingorabahizi kandi ruzingiye kuko twabonye ryo shingiriro ryo kugera ntsinzi kugirango uwumenye bisaba umenya neza kubara ukwezi k’umugore aha umugore akaba ugomba kubigiramo uruhare runini reka tugendere rugero rw’umugore agnes ufite ukwezi kudahinduka gufite iminsi n’ubwo igihe intanga ngore ikuriraho kugeza isohotse imara isohotse kugeza umugore abonye imihango kirazwi kandi kirizewe iminsi bivuze agnes yabonye imihango munsi taliki intanga yasohotse taliki na none agnes yabonye imihango munsi kandi ukwezi kwe kukaba kumara iminsi azongera kubona indi mihango taliki intanga ikaba izarekurwa taliki ukuvuga iminsi ubaze uhereye inyumataliki ugaruka imbere niba agnes ashaka kubyara umuhungu arasabwa kureka gukora imibonano mpuzabitsina iminsi ibanziriza italiki ukuvuga iminsi intanga ngabo ishobora kumara itegereje intanga ngore ukuvuga taliki kugeza taliki ayikore taliki gitondo cyangwa se taliki nijoro ikitonderwa kugirango ugere bisaba umugabo afite buriya bwoko bw’intanga x kandi umugore akabanza kwiga ukwezi kwe neza kandi gihe gihagije kugirango atibeshya byibura amezi akareba ukwezi kwe kudahindagurika kandi kugira iminsi ingana ikindi buryo butizewe kuko ushobora kumara ariya mezi ukurikirana ukabona gihinduka ariko ukwa bigahinduka ariko uburyo wagerageza kuko hari amahirwe menshi y’uko ushobora kubigeraho gihe wakurikiza nama tukugiriye