ibaruwa yandikiwe abasore b’abanyarwanda bateganya kurushinga
murumuna wanjye nkunda dore urakuze ugeze igihe gushaka umugore ariko ntega amatwi nguhanure ndi mukuru wawe hato utazagwa ruzi urwita ikiziba n’ubwo twese tuzi muntu utunganye bivuze wowe nanjye malayika uturimo hari ingeso zimwe zimwe ushobora kwirengagiza mukobwa wahitamo murwubakane kubera uburanga bwe cyangwa ibindi nyuma bikazakugaruka nabi niyo mpamvu mukuru wawe nkwandikiye kugirango ngire nkugiraho inama ejo utazicuza muri baruwa ndashaka kukwereka ingeso udakwiye kuzihanganira rimwe mukobwa uzatekereza mwashakana mukubaka murumuna wanjye nkunda dore urakuze ugeze igihe gushaka umugore ariko ntega amatwi nguhanure ndi mukuru wawe hato utazagwa ruzi urwita ikiziba n’ubwo twese tuzi muntu utunganye bivuze wowe nanjye malayika uturimo hari ingeso zimwe zimwe ushobora kwirengagiza mukobwa wahitamo murwubakane kubera uburanga bwe cyangwa ibindi nyuma bikazakugaruka nabi niyo mpamvu mukuru wawe nkwandikiye kugirango ngire nkugiraho inama ejo utazicuza muri baruwa ndashaka kukwereka ingeso udakwiye kuzihanganira rimwe mukobwa uzatekereza mwashakana mukubaka muri bakobwa uzitondere kurushaho uwa uwa n’uwa kuko babi kurusha abandi aba utabitondeye n’iyo mutashakaga gutindana nabo ubwabyo byakuzanira akaga nyiramahane uzi mukobwa uhora arakaye umwe uhora avugisha ab’igitsina gabo nabi burya nt akabura imvano mwana mama ushobora gusanga yarababajwe kenshi n’abandi bahungu umukobwa nk’uwo mujinya uba ufite ishingiro uzumve hari igihe kimwe ashobora kuvuga abagabo neza buri gihe cyose abavuga nabi kuko niko abazi bishobora kuba atari ukubabazwa n’abahungu benshi rukundo ariko ugasanga se atarigeze yita nyina bikaba byamuteye umujinya bantu b’igitsina gabo rusange ntabwo ukeneye bene mukobwa kuko igihe bizabaho ukagira umubabazaho n’iyo waba utabigambiriye uzitegure azagushyiraho amakosa azi bantu b’igitsina gabo kandi ntuzanabasha kubikemura kuko utazigera umenya n’icyo ugomba gusabira imbabazi nyirakwikunda niba ukeneye kubaka urugo rurangwamo umunezero uririnde umukobwa wikunda gukabya umunezero uzanwa n’uko mwembi muwifurizanya kandi hamwe ukora ibishoboka byose mugenzi wawe anezerwe umukobwa wikunda cyane ahora ashaka kunezezwa kandi ntabwo yumva afite inshingano kwita munezero w’abandi umukobwa uhora ashaka kuba uwa mbere byose umwe uzakubwira inkuru z’umunsi w’amavuko gatatu kugira uwumenye atarakubaza uwawe ntabwo azigera aguha urugo rurangwamo umunezero nyirankundibintu mwana mama uragendere kure y’umukobwa ukunda ibintu cyane niba atari kuvuga imodoka kanaka kuvuga telefone yabonye n’aha cyangwa akaba arimo kuvuga ikanzu runaka yambaye cyangwa isakoshi igezweho uramenye rwose ubishoboye ntuzigere unafata izina rye mutwe umukobwa muhura buri gihe ukumva ikimushishikaje cyane ibintu nk’ibyo nushakana ntuzagirengo sinakubwiye nyirankundabose waba ukururwa mukobwa usekera buri mugabo wese umwe mbese umeze nk’akanyugunyugu uvugana buri mugabo wese akagenda atekereza yamukunze mwana mama uramenye rwose kuko burya ingeso ishira nyirayo yapfuye kandi ndabizi bitazagushimisha kumenya umugore wawe yirirwa akururukana n’abagabo muturanye abiganye bamenyaniye kazi n’ahandi akumva yabagira abe mukundabirori ikizakubwira mukundabirori kirori atatumiwemo kandi ntacyo ajya asiba n’iyo yaba atameze neza ahora yambaye imyenda igezweho ijyanye buri kirori umubonye wese ntashidikanye umunyamugi iyo atari kuvuga ikirori cy’ubushize cyagenze avuga ibizabera kirori gitaha mbese wundi uhora afite ubwoko bw’ibirori bidashira ngaho anniversaire baby shower bridal shower cyangwa house party agomba kwitabira ntuzatekereze bene mukobwa azatuza yubatse azakomeza gutyo kandi bene mwubakanye yarugusenyeraho rubanda bamureba bakabona umunyarugwiro ndetse ahubwo mwagirana ikibazo bakavuga wowe udashobotse nyirampabwabyose umukobwa wakuze ahabwa ibintu byose ashaka yaba abikeneye cyangwa atabikeneye umwe utarigeze agira avunikira cyangwa ikindi kintu kimusaba kwitanga akigereho ntashobora kukubera umugore mwiza n’ubwo waba utekereza ushobora kumuha ubuzima nk’ubwo asanzwe afite iwabo ugomba kwibuka kubaka bizana abana kandi abana basaba ubwitange ndetse kwemera kuvunika kubaka urugo ubwabyo ukwiyemeza kuvunika guhangayikira ahazaza h’umuryango umukobwa utarigeze agira yitangaho cyangwa ashimishwe n’ibyo yavunikiye buzima bwe mutarabana ntabwo azabyigira iwawe nyiranshakacare n’ubwo ibisanzwe abakobwa n’abagore bakunda kwitabwaho bimwe ab’ubu mwita care umukobwa ushaka kwitabwaho cyane ntabwo ashobora kubaka rukomere umugabo mwiza yita mugore ashoboye ariko ntabwo bishoboka yabikora buri gihe cyose umugore muzima agomba kumenya umugabo amukunda kandi amwitaho n’iyo yaba atari kumwe umukobwa udashaka ugira akanya n’inshuti zawe cyangwa abavandimwe bawe kuko buri gihe utari kukazi ashaka uba iruhande rwe cyangwa umwe ushaka muba kumwe ahantu hose igihe cyose ntabwo ashobora kukubera umugore mwiza kuko igihe bitazashoboka muba kumwe azumva urimo kumuca inyuma cyangwa gukora ayandi mabi hari n’abakabya noneho n’akazi akumva ukabya akagucyurira ukamurutisha ugakunda cyane ukwiye kugabanya ukajya umwirebera uzamwitondere kuko umunsi wamuhinguka imbere umubwira ndagukunda yaburaye yagukuramo kotsa nyiramagambo mbese umukobwa wabengutswe yaba ashishikazwa n’iby’abandi kurusha ibimureba yaba se mukobwa usanga atari kuvuga kanaka babayeho arimo kuvuga kanaka atunze cyangwa araye akora umwe mbese uvuga abitwara nabi abona abaturage badasobanutse n’ibindi nk’ibyo yibanda cyane buzima n’imibereho by’abandi uramenye rwose ntabwo ukeneye bene mukobwa kana mama ntiyazakubera umugore muzima kubaka bisaba kwita bikureba mukajya inama ndetse mukiha n’intego niba mugenzi wawe ashishikazwa n’iby’abandi kurusha ibibareba ubwanyu umenye utazigera utsinda intambara urimo kurwana nyirantacyoniyemezaumukobwa udashobora kugira ikintu kimwe yiyemeza abe aricyo akora cyangwa yiga umwe usanga ahora ashaka ikintu gishya yahugiramo utangira ikintu bitamaze kabiri akagishingukamo ntabwo yakwiyemeza kubaka ntuzigere utakaza igihe cyawe bene mukobwa erega ntafatika utamwitondeye wazashiduka akuvuyeho ibye uba usanga bidafite gahunda ihamye nyiragashizisoni niba buri gihe umukobwa ukunda ahora avuga nabi ndetse agashira isoni bantu n’iyo atekereza munsi ntuzirirwe unamutekerezaho rwose wibuke umugore rubanda babona mwiza ugwa neza umwe wubaha abantu rubanda bakajya bavuga bati kanaka niwe ufite umugore abandi barabeshya uwo mukobwa usuzugura gutyo nimubana burya ntuzagirengo kugusuzugura akakuraba nk’icyo imbwa ihaze bizamugora ndibaza nagerageje kukunyuriramo macye mbitekereza ahasigaye n’i ahawe mwana mama uzitonde kandi ufate akanya kawe witegereze neza unasenge kuko umugore mwiza umuntu amuhabwa n’ imana ariko kandi imana yanaguhaye ubwenge ujye ubukoresha gushishoza umenye icyiza n’ikibi yari mukuru wawe ugukunda cyane iyi baruwa yanditswe n’umukunzi w’ikinyamakuru ukwezicom