uko mwakongera kubana neza nyuma kuguca inyuma
iyo umwe bashakanye amenye bashakanye amuca inyuma usanga umubano wabo uzamo uruntu runtu kongera kwizerana bikabura nyamara burya nubwo urukundo rwanyu ruba rwajemo kirogoya nyuma yaho ubuzima buba bugomba gukomeza kandi bikagenda neza dore wabigenza nkuko bitangazwa n’urubuga psychologytodaycom rwibanda mibanire y’abantu irinde gufata imyanzuro utabanje gutega amatwi mwashakanye nubwo waba ufite ibimenyetso byose bikwereka mwashakanye yaguciye inyuma si byiza wahita ufata imyanzuro kibazo utabanje kumutega amatwi birashoboka hari adashaka kukuvigisha kuko yagize ikimwaro icyo gihe ugerageza kuba wowe ucisha make kuko akenshi umuntu ikosa ashaka kwihagararaho icyiza mwese mwabiganiraho mufite umwanya mwateguye neza gushikama ugahangana n’ibyuyumviro bibi iyo bihe nk’ibyo wumva amajwi menshi mutima wawe akubwira ibibi gusa utangira kwicuza ugatekereza wanze batari buguhemukire n’ibindi icyo gihe niho bisaba uba uretse gufata ibyemezo kandi ukirinda guhita usaba uwaguciye inyuma kubiganiraho banza ubwawe utuze urenge icyiciro guhangana n’ibitekerezo bibi kandi umureke atuze mubone kubiganiraho gufata icyemezo irinde kuvanga ibibazo igihe mukiri mwanya gukemura ikibazo cy’uko mwashakanye yaguciye inyuma rwego kugera musaruro mwiza wirinda kuvanga ibibazo niba rugo mufite ibibazo kuba abana babuze amafaranga y’ishuri wibizana kibazo gucana inyuma kora kandi buryo n’umwo mwashakanye atajya ruhande rw’ibyo gushakira umuti irinde kuvugira hejuru igihe mwashakanye kwisobanura niba mwashakanye kwisobanura irinde kumuvugiramo byaba byiza buri wese yubashye akajya areka akavuga n’undi aagafata umwanya akavuga abitekereza mubabarire ubivanye mutima niba wumva ufashe umwanzuro gukomezanya n’uwo mwashakanye nubwo yaguciye inyuma kora buryo umubabarira ubivanye mutima irinde kuzahora ubimucyurira nyuma yego none ntitwavuga ibikomera bizakira burundu ariko none ugomba kwirinda kubigarura cyane kuguca inyuma igikomere kitoroshye gukira ariko none byaba umwanya gutangirira zeru rukundo igihe mwese mufashe ingamba niba waragize ibyago kuba mwashakanye yaraguciye inyuma mukaba mubana ariko mubana nabi ubikurikije byatuma mwongera mukabana neza kandi bikamurinda kongera gutekereza kuguca inyuma