dore ikizakwereka umugabo wishimiwe rugo rwawe
nta kintu gishimisha umugabo nk’iyo abasha kwitwara neza gitanda usanga yishimiwe cyane muryango kuko abasha gushimisha umugore gihe gutera akabariro iyo umugabo yitwara neza buriri bisobanuye abasha gutuma umugore agera byishimo nyuma ndetse akarangiza abagabo siko bazi gushimisha abagore niba umugabo hari ibimenyetso wagenderaho ukamenya witwara neza buriri twavuga ahora yibuka wabimukoreye kuba umugore wawe ahorana ntekerezo igikorwa kigenda n’uko umushimisha buriri ikimenyetso uzi gukora ibi bituma ahorana akanyamuneza mwaba mutari kumwe akaguhamagaraga agusaba wataha vuba aba agukumbuye akumbuye si nziza ujya umwinjizamo igikorwa gishimishije umuntu ubibonera inyuma n’iyo kandi ntacyo umarira umugore wawe uzabibwirwa n’uko ahorana umushiha intonganya zidashira impamvu kumukemurira ikibazo ukimutera kurushaho aragushimira murangije kwiha akabyizi iki ikimenyeto cyakugaragariza witwara neza buriri niba murangije gutera akabariro rugo yirengagiza inshingano zawe akagushimira si itegeko kugushimira ahubwo yizihiwe bikamurenga ibi kandi bigendana kukugaragariza ubwuzu kukwishimira n’ibindi azabikubwira niba umugore wawe atarakubwira umuryohereza gitanda harimo akabazo iyo washimishije umugore biganiro mugirana bisanzwe akubwira uzi gukora gitanda iyo kandi ntakigenda aricecekera wowe ukibwira hari uba wamumariye kandi byahe kajya abagore bakunda kwifata cyane kukubwira umugabo abishya ariko witwara neza ntakabuza arabikwibwirira n’iyo yaba mugore udakunda kuvuga menshi ubasha kumushimisha ananirwa kwifata akakubwira akamuri mutima nta huti huti mugabo uzi gukora agira gushimisha umugore akabasha kugera byishimo bye byanyuma bisaba kumutegura bihagije kugenza ibintu gahoro huti huti y’abagabo bamwe bamwe ituma barangiza mbere y’abagore kubashimisha bikaba kure nk’ukwezi amarangamutima umugore akugaragariza gihe cy’igikorwa nkuko twabibonye bimenyetso bigaragaza umugabo witwara nabi gihe gutera akabariro umugore atagaragaza amarangamutima ntacyo umugabo ayamumariye nubwo amarangamutima akugaragariza nyuma y’uko murangije igikorwa ngombwa ariko umugore wizihiwe agomba kugaragaza amarangamutima gihe cy’igikorwa ntabwo umugabo yaba yashishije umugore igikorwa gikorwe bucece kugeza kirangiye gushimisha umugore gihe cy’imibonano mpuzabitsina kimwe nkingi zifasha abashakanye kubana neza niba usanze kimwe muribyo kikuranga kanguka kandi ufite byinshi gukosora kugira umugore wawe ubashe kumushimisha kandi biri nshingano zawe