impinduka ziba nyuma kurushinga n’uko wazitwaramo
nyuma gushyingiranwa wabishaka utabishaka haba hari impinduka zizabaho buryo wabanagamo n’umusore cyangwa se inkumi mwarushinganye izo mpinduka ziba ntibivuze zitera ibibazo bashakanye ahubwo igitera ibibazo ukutamenya uburyo bwiza kuzibamo kugeza muzimenyereye dore mpinduka ziba nyuma gushyingirwa wazitwaramo uburyo bw’imicungire y’amafaranga utarubaka urugo hari uburyo wakoreshaga amafaranga n’uwo mwashakanye akagira uburyo bwe iyo mutabiganiriyeho bibateza amakimbirane mugitangira kubana kuko uba wibwira uburyo bwawe aribwo bwiza n’undi akibwira uburyo bwe aribwo bwiza bibaye byiza mwabiganiraho mbere kurushinga ariko nyuma kurushinga mukajya mubishyira ngingo mugomba kuganiraho ni byiza kandi kubiganiraho mutarabitonganira mukumvikana muzajya mukoresha umutungo wanyu guhindura inshingano mbere gushyingirwa hari inshingano wabaga ufite ariko zitandukanye n’izo ufite nyuma gushyingirwa ubu ufite inshingano kwiyitaho kwita k’uwo mwashakanye ndetse hakazaziramo n’abana mutarabyara umugore n’umugabo mwese buri wese afite nshingano buri akwiye kuba y’undi kuko nyuma kurushinga nshingano zigomba gushyirwamo ingufu kurusha mbere mukirambagizanya niba waramwandikiraga ubutumwa bw’urukundo kabiri munsi ugomba gukuba kabiri bukaba bune izi inshingano zoroshye kuzikora kandi zigira umusaruro mwiza rukundo rw’abashakanye impinduka itumanaho mbere mutarabana akenshi mwakoreshaga ikoranabuhanga mugahura gake amaso maso ubu noneho murabana kandi uburyo uganira n’umuntu kumwe bitandukanye n’uburyo uganiriza umuntu muganirira telephone ubu noneho mwashakanye akaneye cyane amagambo wamwandikiraga ukayamubwira telefoni uyamubwira amaso maso azarushaho kunezerwa abikwiture imibanire n’abandi bantu mutarashyingiranwa wumvaga ufite uburenganzira kujya ushaka ntawe ubanje kubimenyesha ukajya gusura inshuti ugasohokana n’inshuti ntawubikubuza ndetse muryango wawe ukajyayo ubyifuza nyuma gushyingirwa bishobora guhinduka ukaba ufite ahantu utagomba kurenza banza umenye umunezero wabonaga kumwe n’inshuti n’abavandimwe ugomba mbere mbere kuwukura k’uwo mwashakanye kuko asa nkaho myanya y’abo ayihariye nubwo bitaba burundu akubuze gukomezanya n’inshuti n’abavandimwe gusa menya urugero byari biriho atarirwo uzakomezaho kuba mudahuje nzozi mufite n’ibyifuzo by’ahazaza mbere buri wese yabaga afite inzozi ze z’ibyo yifuza kugeraho ariko kugirango bigende neza musabwa kugira inzozi z’urugo buri wese agashyigikira kugera nzozi ze gihe zifitiye urugo rwanyu umumaro kwibeshya urugendo rwarangiye izindi mpinduka zishobora kuba bamaze gushyingiranwa buri wese yituriza akumva yageze yumvaga ashaka kugera mbese intego kubona abanye n’umukobwa cyangwa se umusore yakundaga ubundi bikarangiriraho mugasigara ntego y’ubuzima bw’urukundo rw’ahazaza mufite imbere na nyuma gushaka urukundo rurakomeza ugakomeza guha agaciro mwashakanye nkuko wakamuhaga mbere mutarabana kumenya ingeso utari uzi hari kandi nyuma kubana ushobora kubona ingeso utari uzi k’uwo mwashakanye mbere ikaba yagutungura cyangwa se waba usanzwe uyizi ikarushaho gukura witangira kwicuza impamvu wemeye kubana ahubwo komeza umugaragarize urukundo rurenze n’urwo wamwerekaga mbere iga kwirengagiza ibibi ubona k’uwo mwashakanye uhange amaso byiza bye bizabafasha izi zimwe mpinduka zishobora kuba bashakanye bamaze igihe gito bashakanye bikaba bishobora kubasenyera kuba intandaro y’amakimbirane igihe mutabyitwayemo neza mubiganireho kandi mufashanye mwese mube mufite intego kugira urugo rwiza