inama zigirwa umukobwa ushaka kugira ibyishimo n’umunezero rukundo
mu rukundo buri wese ashaka kwishima kunyurwa n’umubano afinye n’umukunzi kuryoherwa n’urukundo ntawe bitizihira abakobwa n’abagorenibo ahanini bashaka kwitabwaho kugaragarizwa urukundo kuburyo bwihariye uri umukobwa ukaba ukunda kwibaza wakora ugumane umunezero rukundo urimo n’umusore gihe izi nizo inama ugirwa rwego kugumana ibyishimo bihoraho ntukifuze kwakira gusa kwikunda rukundo iteka ukumva bagukundwakaza mugenzi wawe agomba kuvunika cyane bituma utaryoherwa n’urukundo urikunda wowe ntushaka gutanga kugaragaza amarangamutima yawe umuhanga mibanire y’abantu anthony robbins yavuze kugira umubano urambe biba byiza wumva watanga byinshi kuruta wumva wakakira gusa birumvikana kuko nushyiramo imbaraga ukamwereka urukundo rutarimo imbereka ntazazuyaza kugukorera nk’ibyo umukorera ndetse wenda akarushaho kuko yizihiwe kwishima kwawe wowe wikumva mugenzi wawe ariwe ushinzwe ibyishimo byawe ntuzategereze agukorera ushaka wishime ibyishimo byawe wowe bigirira umumaro wimwikoreza umutwaro kubigushakira wowe ruhare ushaka kubigiramo urukundo nyarukundo si umuntu agiye kubonera amaronko ni amarangamutima muba mugomba gusangira ha agaciro ibyiza gusa ntamuntu si udakosa cyangwa agire ingeso zitari nziza maso y’abandi wikwita bibi by’umukunzi wawe ahubwo mukundire ibyiza akwereka bityo uzumva urushijeho kunezezwa n’urukundo rwanyu nawe nturi shyashya hari utamubanira neza wikumva ugomba kwita makosa ushobora kuba umurusha ingeso mbi muhe umwitangirizwa urukundo rwiza urutanga umwitangirizwa shyiramo intera gihe muhurira nubikora gutya bizabarinda kurambirana ahubwo nihacaho iminsi mudahura wumve umukumbuye ndetse wumve ugize ubwuzu kumubona si byiza ariho ubarizwa anyuze nguwo kumwe murambirana vuba wibika inzika niba mugenzi wawe agukoshereje wibiha umwanya munini kandi atari ikosa rikomeye kubabarira indangamuntu bakundana niba agukosereje ubika inzika hari icyiza uzamubonamo uzigera uryoherwa n’urukundo mukundana nugera igihe gushaka urumva urugo rwawe ruzarangwa n’amatiku gusa mufatanye iyo mushyize hamwe mwese mugashakira hamwe inyungu z’mubano wanyu nibwo muryoherwa gufatanya bigendana guhanga udushya buri wese agahora yiga cyangwa ashakisha icyakongerwamo gishya rukundo rwanyu urumva buri wese narwana intambara guhanga udushya muzibera isi y’umunezero gusa mushimire icyiza cyose agukoreye mushimire bizamutera imbaraga azabona atavunikira ubusa ejo arusheho mugire igihe kuba hamwe nubwo waba ukundana n’umuntu mutari hamwe gira igihe muhure muganire niba mwese mufite akazi shaka impera z’icyumweru umuhe gahunda musohokane mwishimishe mwizere icyizere nicyo cyubaka umubano wose numuha icyizere azakigenderaho kandi ntazaguhemukira kereka ingeso yifitiye nuhora umuneka cyangwa umucunga nk’ucunga umwana muto bizatuma atisanzura ube wabamutera umutima kuguca inyuma cyangwa kuguhemukira kandi wowe ubugizemo uruhare