ibibazo by’ingenzi wibaza kugira wubake umubano uhamye n’uwo muzarushinga
gushinga urugo rugakomera kandi rukaramba minsi si ikintu cyorohera benshi amezi mbere y’uburyohe hanyuma buri wese agatangira kubona ukuri gutandukanye n’uko yarabyishyizemo ibikunze gutuma ububabare gutandukana buba igikomere cy’ibihe byose ariko se irihe banga abarambana bakoresha nubwo igisubizo kidahita kiboneka cyuzuye umunezero abakundana bahuriyeho imbuto zera mubano wabo bombi dore ibibazo bimwe umuntu yakagombye kwibaza ndetse akagira abikoraho kugira umubano n’uwo yahisemo uzarambe njye giti cyanjye mpagaze nte buzima bwacu twembi akenshi abakundanye bahisemo gukomezanya urugendo nk’abahuje icyerekezo ukunze gusanga imyaka igenda ihita umuntu agera yiyibagirwa burundu nk’umuntu giti cye buri gihe ugasanga uratekereza kuwo mwashakanye urubyaro umuryango n’ibindi biba byaraje buzima bwawe bigatuma wowe ubwawe nk’umuntu giti cye wibagirana ibuka mubano wawe n’umuryango mushya washinze umuntu giti cyawe ufite inshingano ariko kandi ugomba kubaho ubuzima bwe giti cye kugerageza guhuza ubuzima bwawe bwite n’ubuzima bw’umuryango bibangamiye ibindi ikintu buri wese yakagobye gukora bitabaye usubiza amaso inyuma ugasanga usigaye ubereyeho kunezeza abandi gusa bigatuma utangira kwanga ubuzima ubayemo ni mugenzi wanjye anzaniye mubano wacu buzima bwanjye mu bihe byiza n’ibihe by’ibibazo ngombwa wibaza umwanya mukundana ahagazemo buzima bwawe na afite itandukaniro hari byinshi byiza ashyira buzima bwanjye buryo butandukanye ariko se ibiki ni ibihe byiza afiye binyuzuza nabaho nte adahari ni gute kubana bimfasha gutera imbere buzima bwanjye uku guha agaciro mukundana ukazirikana ibyiza afite bigufitiye akamaro burizma bituma bihe bigoye mubasha gufatanya guseta ibirenge ni ubuhe buryo bwiza kuganira bakundana nta bantu bashobora kubana neza barambane badafite uburyo bwiza kuganira mu mubano nyawo abakundana bagomba kugira igihe kubwirana amakuru gutegana amatwi kubwirana ibyifuzo byabo byose hari kandi n’ubundi buryo kuganira by’urukundo bakarema isi bombi bakaganira gutera akabariro guteteshanya kubwirana amagambo meza y’urukundo n’ibindi nk’ibyo bituma urukundo rukura ni gute dushaka gukorana nk’abahisemo kubana iki ikibazo gikunze kwirengagizwe ariko gikunze kugusha benshi mutego gutandukanya ubuzima bw’akazi n’ubuzima bwawe bwite kugabana imirimo rugo uburyo gukurikirana ubuzima bw’abana n’ibindi nk’ibi ni ibintu abantu bakunze kwibwira byikora gutyo gusa nyamara biba byiza ubiganiriyeho n’uwo ukunda mugahuza ibitekerezo by’uburyo muzatwara urugo rwanyu rwego kwirinda amakimbirane ese dufite icyerekezo kimwe amarangamutima ikintu cy’ingenzi kugira icyerekezo nabyo kugira inzozi zimwe kubaka intambwe yindi imishinga izatuma muhumeka umwuka umwe gihe kizaza niba mwifuza gushinga umuryango umubare w’abana muzabyara muzatura n’ibindi nk’ibi mu gihe mwifuzaga bigenda bihinduka nabyo mugenda mubiganiraho mukagira muhuriza bigatuma mwubaka icyizere kirambye hagati yanyu twembi duhagaze dute mubano wacu n’abandi nubwo bihe mbere ibya rubanda muba mutarabiha agaciro iminsi igenda yicuma niko bagenda binjira buzima bwanyu buhoro buhoro ni gute se mwabasha kwisanga mubano wanyu rubanda inshuti n’umuryango mwabahaye uwuhe mwanya uruhare bagira mibanire yanyu uruhe ibi byose ibibazo buri wese ushaka urugo rwe rukomera agomba kwibaza kugira mutazaba nyamwigendaho ariko kandi ntimuzasamare mube rubanda nyamwinshi nk’abatagira ubwigenge