ibimenyetso bigaragaza wenda guca inyuma mwashakanye
umugabo n’umugore bashinga urugo gahunda gucana inyuma bafite uko imnsi igenda ishira niko ibitekerezo guca inyuma mwashakanye bigenda bikuzamo musezerana kubana akaramata wumvaga utazanabirota ariko kubera impamvu zinyuranye ugenda urushaho gushaka kwicika ingo nyinshi zitandukana divorce kubera ikibazo gucana inyuma hari ibimenyetso bishobora kukwereka ufite ibitekerezo guca inyuma umugoreumugabo wawe ibyo bimenyetso nibyo tugiye kurebera hamwe warabihiwe ubusanzwe umugore wawe atarabyara ibintu byagendaga neza ariko ntacyo akigupimira byaragabanutse gutera urubariro rugo ntibigikorwa ndetse bisa n’ibitakibaho usigaye wumva wagira wigenza ruhandeabagore benshi bamaze kubyara bagenda bagabanya gukunda imibonano mpuzabitsina hari impamvu nyinshi zibiterakwita kubana akagira umunaniro mwinshigufata imiti irinda gusama imburagihe nabyo hari igihe bigira ingaruka mugorekumva yarabihuzwe kubera ububabare ahura nabwo abyara inamani byiza kugira uzafatwe uryamanye n’umukoziwegera umugore wawe mukabiganiraho mugashakira hamwe igisubizo n’ubwo habayeho impinduka zitari nziza rugo rwanyukumuca inyuma siwo muti mwegere mubiganireho mushakire umuti hamwe wasezeranye kuzabana byiza bibi wimutererana siwe yari igitangaza mbere gushaka umugaboumugore kumwe ubuwari ufite umusoreumukobwa mwari inshuti cyane ntibyarangiriye kuko mwararyamanye umugaboumugore washatse ntagushimisha nk’umukunzi wawe mwahoranye usigaye uhora wibuka yajyaga agushimishakuri ukaba utabibona murugo wubatse ni ikimenyetso cy’uko ushaka guca inyuma mwashakanye inamamwigishe abigukorera ukizihirwa umukunzi wawe mwahoranye siwe kampala umugaboumugore wawe umwigishije cyangwa ukamubwira ibikunyura yabigukorera ntiwandavure umuca inyuma kandi ntacyo umuburanye uhora wumva wakwihorera umugoreumugabo wawe wamufashe aguca inyuma mushaka inshuti n’abavandimwe barabunga umuha imbabazi birarangira ariko wicaye ukibuka byagenzewumva utaye umutweukumva ushaka kwihorera ukamuca inyuma akabona bibabaza inamasigaho wamuhaye imbabazi ubikuye mutima kuba atarongeye byari ibyago yahuye nabyo biramugwirira wowe wishaka kubikorera agahimano urukundo nyarukundo urubabarira rukibagirwa numuca inyuma akabimenya senawe agashaka kukwihimuraho akwereke yabishoboramuzahora mukinosida hanze se izabarebera izubaurubyaro rwanyu ruzarerwa nande murashaka gusiga abana banyu gahinda ntugihabwa umwanya kubera akazi kenshi umugaboumugore wawe agirantakikubonera umwanya mbere mukiri kwezi buki yego ntibyamera kimwe n’ubwo ntamushyigikiye akwirengagize usigaye wumva usa nutagifite agaciro imbere y’amaso y’umugaboumugore wawe kubw’iyo mpamvu usigaye wumva washaka bakwitaho ndetse bishobotse ukabona muntu muzajya mukorana imibonano mpuzabitsina kuko murugo rwawe ntakikigenda inamaibibazo byose bikemurwa kuganira fata umwanya wicarane n’umufasha wawe umusobanurire ikibazo utamugeretseho amakosa mwereke hari ibitagenda rasa ntego umubwire urubariro rugo rwirengagijwe kandi ubona bigiye kubasenyera nimutabyitwaramo neza niba uwumva muzafata gahunda ihamye itabangamira akazi ke cyangwa izindi nshingano ze buri munsi ariko ntiwicwe nipfa urikumara ahari ganiriza umugabo wawe umwereke atakikwitaho mbere mwibutse yibagiwe abagore bakunda abantu babakunda bakabatetesha ibi bimwe bimenyetso ubaye hari ibindi ubona nibagiwe shyira igitekerezo cyawe ahabugenewe