ibimenyetso byakwereka urukundo ufitanye n’umukunzi wawe rwakonje
rimwe rimwe bikunze kugorana kuba wamenya ibimenyetso byakugaragariza urukundo wakundanaga n’umukunzi wawe rwarangiye ariko hari igihe ubasha kuba wabikeka gihe ubona ishyamba ritakiri ryeru rutakimeze neza nkuko rwabaga rumeze hari igihe umwe mwe atishimye bikaba byagucanga ntumenye impamvu yabyo dore ibintu byakugaragariza urukundo rwanyu rwasinziriye ubona nde ugitangira gukundana n’umukunzi wawe kintu kimwe muba mutaraganiraga igihe cyose mukaba maraganiraga amanywa n’ijoro aka inshuti yawe nziza ubona ntacyo itakurutira buzima bwawe iyo hashize igihe aratangira aka kubaza ibibazo byinshi ugasanga atakikwikoza rimwe rimwe wamuhamagara akakubwira urinde ntakumenye icyo gihe yarakwikuyemo ushaka wakuramo akawe karenge ntabushake gutera akabariro agira ese umugabo wawe cyangwa umugore wawe yaba atagishaka mutera akabariro ugasanga ngingo ntacyo imurebaho wabimubwira akakureba nk’icyo imbwa ihaze ese yaba akubwira yumva atameze neza gihe ubimusabye mutera akabariro bizakwereka bushake acyigufitiye yaguhaze uzamenyeko umubano wawe warangiye ibyumviro byawe mukiri rukundo rwanyu mwabaga mwumva meze nkabari paradizo ukumva imibonano yanyu ntacyo mwayinganya ariko nyuma y’igihe gito ugasanga ntabwo amaraso yawe n’ay’umukunzi wawe ntibigihura bibe byakururana iyo wumva umutima wawe utakimushaka ushaka wakuramo akawe karenge kuko urukundo rwanyu ruba rwarakwamye kutaguhamagara mucyiri rukundo rwanyarwo yaguhamagaraga inshuro zitabarika akakwandikira ubutuma bugufi ndetse rimwe rimwe akakoherereza n’amagambo meza ajyanye n’urukundo amwe tuzi izina ry’imitoma ariko ubungubu ugasanga wowe wigora ukamuhamagara ubashe kumva ijwi rye ugatangira ukibaza cyabaye nta kwirushya uzahita wibwira umutima utakigutekereza habe gato gutinda rwiyuhagiriro ese umwanya umugabo wawe cyangwa umugore wawe amara rwiyuhagiriro ungana ute ese by’ukuri afata igihe kirekire arimo aroga nubona atangiye kujya atinda rwiyuhagiriro wamubaza akakubwira nabi uzamenye wowe mwanya muke akiguha mutima iki kizakwere urukundo rwanyu rwanyagiwe iyo byishimo akigira ugihura n’umukunzi wawe minsi mbere urukundo rwanyu mwasaga nkaho musigaye mwitwa bwana madamu byishimo ariko ubungubu musigaye murebana ay’ingwe ukibaza impavu ukayibura akaba yarajyaga agutungura ukabona aguhaye impano idasanzwe ariko ntakikwikoza niyo atashye aza ajya buriri kuvuga menshi kuko atakiri barimenshi ibi bimwe bintu bizakwerekako urukundo rwanyu ntarugihari ugukura amaso kuba nshuti yawe n’imwe agishaka kumva ese mwaba mwaratumiraga inshuti zanyu mugasabana buryo bushimishije ese umugabo wawe ahora ahuze cyane mwanya afite mu gihe atagishaka inshuti zawe zibagenderera cyane uzamenye rukundo rwinshi akigufitiye ibi bizahite bikwereka rukundo akigukunda kuko ntago umuntu w’ingenzi buzima bwe uzahite ukurayo amaso gutinda kazi ese inshuti yawe y’umuhungu cyangwa y’umukobwa yaba ikubwira akazi kaba kayibanye kenshi cyane yego rimwe rimwe yajyaga kzi agatindayo ariko arapanga n’akazi kadashoboka nijoro kandi ntako agira agatangira akakubwira njye sinkunda umunru ushaka kungendaho cyane angenzure buri mwanya’ iki gihe uzahite ubona rukundo akigufitiye kuko hari izindi gahunda yigiriyemo zitandukanye yaguha umwanya mukagira byinshi mugeraho kwiyibagiza ibihe byiza mujya mugirana ese umukunzi yaba yaratangiye kujya akwereka atakiwitayeho ari ntibindeba ugasanga mwarajyaga musohokana nko wikendi ntibikibaho cyangwa se ntago umunsi mukuru nk’umunsi w’amavuko mukiwizihiza atangira akwereka bushake bwinshi akigufitiye kandi n’umwanya afite ndetse rimwe rimwe akakubwira yabyibagiwe nubona ariko bimeze uzahite wibwira urukundo rwanyu ntarwo kukubera nk’intamabara iii y’isi ese waba wumva umeze nk’umuntu urimo kurwana intambara mutima wawe niba wowe n’umukunzi wawe muhora ntambara z’urudaca uzamenye hari ikitagenda neza hagati mwe ni ibintu bisanzwe abakundana hari igihe bagira intambara buzima bwabo bakaba barwana arko gihe uzabona mutangiye kujya murwana mupfa ubusa uzamenye ishyamba atari ryeru urukundo rwanyu rwakonje yanditswe bizimana jean damascenemuhaburarw