sobanukirwa impamvu zituma mwakundanye cyera mugashwana bongera kugaruka
kubona abantu bakundana bahagarika urukundo ibintu bibahocyera kabaye nyuma y’amezi n’amezi cg iminsi myinshi ukabona umwe agerageje kugaruka nabwo umwe atangira kwibaza icyatumye bashwana kandi mbere barakundanagaakibaza impamvu yatumye barekana ndetse bakemera guhagarika urukundo nuwo bakundanaga kandi atarabyifuzaga impumvu nyinshi zitandukanye zituma mwahoze mukundana agaruka ariko bikaba ingenzi kumva neza nubwo urukundo buri gihe ukuri kwizera bishoboka atarirwo rutumye agaruka ahubwo hari ikindi kibyihishe inyuma gishobora kuba kiza cg kibi aha hari impamvu zituma mwahoze mukundana bakomeza kugaruka gukunda imibonano mpuza bitsina cyane abarenga kimwe kabiri cy’abantu bagaruka gukundana nabo bakundanaga bakuruwe kwikundira imibonano mpuza bitsina rwego hejuruiyo bibutse uburyo abakunzi ukuntu beza gitanda cg uburyo bahoraga babacyemurira ibyifuzo byabo bijyanye guhuza ibitsina igihe cyose babishatsebityo bagahita bagaruka bihuta bizeye ibintu bizajya bigenda neza nkuko byahozeicyo mwamenya ikiba kibagaruye atari urukundo ahubwo ukuba imbata y’imibonano mpuza bitsina ishyari riteye ubwoba hari abantu bagira ishyari rikabije kuburyo badashobora kukubona kumwe n’undi muntu nubwo muba mwarashwanye bwose bityo bakagaruka ndetse bakagerageza kukwigarurira ukaba utabava nzara aha itonde kuko si urukundo ahubwo icyavuye kukubonana n’abandi muntu cg umukunzi mushya nanone hariho igihe mwakundanaga bagaruka kugirango basenye umaze kugerahonk’igihe babonye wishimanye nuwo mukundana batishimye ntibashaka wishima ubwigunge bivugwa ubwigunge butuma abantu bagera batifuzaga kubaabo mwakundanaga bashobora kugaruka bitewe bonyine kandi bacyeneye bagendana cg baganira birumvikana utaba ugiye kuba gutemberana ahubwo bakumva wagaruka nanone mubuzima bwabo mukongera gukundana kurya umutugo wawe muba mwarashwanye bakagusiga wenyine ukaba warabaye umuherwe wifashije kubijyanye n’amafarangahanyuma bitunguranye bakaza bitwaje urukundo ndetse bagashaka kugaruka buzima bwaweurukundo ntacyo rukora kugaruka kwabo ahubwo nukuza kunyunyuza ibyiza ugezeho ndetse ngufu wakoresheje ubigerehosi abagabo bahura nicyo kibazo gusa kuko hari bagore bahura nacyo kudafata umwanzuro guhubuka kudafata umwanzuro bibaho bantu kuko hari igihe batazi neza bashaka buzima bwabo bigatuma bisanga basubiranye nuwo bahoze bakunda kandi atakibishaka cg yarabonye baba bagarutse nyabyo iyi mpamvu ntabwo ikunze kubaho kuko ibaho gacye cyane gihe bigaragaye igice kimwe cy’ abatandukanye kitashakaga ubutane bityo bakongera gukundanagusa rundi ruhande biragoye abashwanye bakongera gukundana kuko batagifitanye ibyiyumvo by’urukundo inama igihe bikubayeho ugomba gushishoza neza ukareba kugaruka kwabo mwakundanye mutagikundana atari mpyisi yiyambitse uruhu rw’intama rwera kuko baje kwangiririza ubuzima ndetse kukubuza amahoro wifitiye bitewe n’inyugu zabo bwite atari urukundo rubibateye yanditswe habarurema djamali