umaze igihe ukundana n’umusore ariko ntajya agusohokanaimpamvu zibitera
gusohokana n’umukunzi wawe igikorwa cyiza kandi gishimisha ni umwanya mwiza kuganira itereambere n’ahazaza h’urukundo rwanyu ni igihe cyiza gukemura ibitagenda mubano wanyu buri munsi ni igikorwa cyishimirwa cyane n’igitsinagore rusange mu muco nyarwanda umusore niwe ugomba gutera intambwe mbere agasaba ndetse agasohokana umukobwa bakundana ni hari abakobwa bitabuza kwikora mufuka bagasohokana abasore bakundana mu rukundo rwanyu umusore mukundana akora ashoboye akugaragarize agukunda ariko gihe cyose mumaranye ntaragusaba mwasohokana haba kujyana minsi mikuru gusohokana mukagira ahantu mwicara mugafata kamwe mukaganira rukundo rwanyukugusohokana birori runaka n’ahandi muri rusange ntarigera rimwe agusohokana ahantu hateraniye abantu benshi wibaza impamvu ariko byarakuyobeye hari impamvu nyinshi zishobora kuba zituma yifata akaba ataragusohokana zimwe mpamvu zishobora kuba zibitera nizo tugiye kurebera hamwe afite abandi iyi mpamvu ishobora gutuma umuhungu mukundanye igihe atajya afata umwanya agusohokane kuba afite abandi bakobwa akunda cyangwa bamukundabishobora kuba impamvu ifatika idatuma agusohokana akaba ashaka kukwereka urukundo ariko ntibimenyekane hanze ntabwo yizera ukunda gusa umusore mukundana ashobora kuba akeka cyangwa abona atari wenyine mukundana kubera mpamvu atekereza kugusohokana byaba uguta igihe cyangwa kwiha amenyo y’abasetsi gusohokana n’umukobwa ukundwa n’abasore benshi ntabimenyereye ashobora kuba atamenyereye gusohokana n’abakobwa nubwo abakobwa aribo bagira amasonihari n’abahungu bazigira kugusohokana nacyo igikorwa kimutera isoni ikindi gishobora kubitera atamenyereye gutereta uri umukobwa mbere akundanye cyangwa se bake bakundanye ntawe yigeze asohokana ufatwa vuba ushobora kuba umukobwa woroshyeutazi guhakanira abasoren’abagabo baza kugutereta kuba yagusohokanaabona bashobora kumugutwara ariwe wakwijyaniye bikaba mugabo wasohokanye umugore hoteli kiyovu bikarangira amubwiye yitahaneyabonye abandi bamwitahoumugabo agataha aririmba urwo abonye iyi mpamvu ituma yumva mwakomeza gukundana ariko gusohoka akabyirinda hato hatazagira uha urukundo ukamuca myanya y’intoki ariwe ubyikururiye ntagahunda ihamye agufiteho gusohokana n’umuhungu cyangwa umukobwa bisobanura byinshi bumwe butumwa bw’ingenzi muba muha abahisi n’abagenzi mukundana kandi buri umwe mwe yafashwe kuri kubera ntagahunda ihamye agufitehoyanga kugusohokana atisibira amayira ntaba ashaka abandi bakobwa babona hari yihebeye ntiwamubwiye ubikunda hari abahungu bibera bagategereza umukobwa ababwira ashaka amukorera kuba mukundanye igiheakaba ataribwirijenawe ukaba utaramubwiye bigushimisha kandi bikunyuranayo impamvu ishobora kuba yarabiteye ategereje igihe nyacyo abasore bamwe bamwe bagenza ibintu gahoro cyane kuri afite igihe yabigeneye abona gikwiriye ashobora kuba kwiga ukuntu yazabigenza kikazakubera igikorwa cy’urukundo kizagushimisha ndetse uzahora wibuka ubuzima bwawe bwose ntumuteye ishemapresentable iyo umusore asohokanye n’umukobwa bigira impamvu nyinshi kumugaragariza urukundo murizo burya ariko ahanini hiyongeraho ashaka kwereka rubanda afite umukobwa ateretabakundana w’igitangazamwizaukeye kuba abona wamuhesha amanota mabi ahitamo kugufata nk’igitegwajoro umukobwa udafite igikundiro kuburyo wamusohokana ushobora kwibaza uti ese ukubera ankunda kandi abona ntamuhesha ishema impamvu nyinshi zabitera ariko ahanini afite agukurikiyeho kitari urukundo nk’uko wowe ubyibwiraakeneye muryamana gusaagukurikiyeho amafaranga cyangwa ubutunzi ufiteabona uhobora kumufahsa kubona akazi cyangwa kuzamurwa ntera ntabushobozi afite kuba adafite ubushobozi buhagije bimutera kwifata atagayika mwasohokanye kuri abona kugira agusohokana ahaseberebyaruta akabyihoreraakaba ategereje igihe azabonera ubushobozi buhagije akabona kugusohokana ndetse akahacana umucyo izi zimwe mpamvu negeranyije zishobora gutuma umusore adasohokana umukobwa bakundana tanga igitekerezo cyawe cy’izindi uzi ubona ntashyizemo