abantu uzitondera guhitamo muzabana
iyo umuntu rukundo usanga hari imico abona k’uwo bakundana ariko akayirengagiza cyangwa se akumva bagiye kubana azamuhindura bageze rugo nyamara biba ukwibeshya kuko hari abantu mubana byagenda kose bakagutera igikomere kidashira buzima bwawe bwose dore abantu ugomba kwitondera gihe ushaka guhitamo muzabana umuntu w’umunebwe umusore cyangwa se inkumi mukundana umubonamo kugira ubunebwe bidasanzwe byagenda kose azakurushyamu gihe muzaba mumaze kubana jya ugenzura mukundana agira intego buzima kandi muntu uharanira kuzigera umuntu w’umunebwe ashobora kuba adafite akazi abitewe n’ubunebwe bwe cyangwa se akaba anagafite ariko akagakora buryo budafite intego umuntu ugira uburakari akaba yakugirira nabi hari abantu barakara akaba yahita agukubita cyangwe se akakubwirana umujinya mwinshi telefoni niyo mwaba mupfuye akantu gato ibyo bijyana kuba akubahuka bantu benshi akaba yakubwirana umunabi cyangwa se akaba yanatinyuka akagukubita umuntu udaharanira kukunezeza niba umusore cyangwa se inkumi mukundana muntu utajya uharanira kukunezeza nubabara mube mwifatanjije mubabaro wagize gihe umenye nimubana bizarushaho kuba bibi umuntu ugukunda ahora ahangayikishijwe kubona icyagushimisha atitaye kucyo biri bumusabe agere ntego gutuma wishima umuntu uguca inyuma hari abasore n’inkumi bazi neza bakundana babaca inyuma ariko agakomeza kumwizirikaho yibwira mico ashobora kuyihindura si ngombwa abe aguca inyuma gusa ahubwo niyo umuziho ingeso y’ubushurashuzi nimujya kubana uzabe wiyemeje kuzammihanganira ngeso ze kwibeshya wowe wamuhindura umuntu ukubeshya agukunda kubera ikintu kimwe agamije hari bamwe usanga bakora bashoboye bereke bakundana babakunda ariko bagamije kuryamana nabo ni ha handi yindi mishinga mushobora gupanaga niyo mwayipanga yaza yihishe inyuma kuryamana kwanyu kuko ariyo ntego afite hari n’abashobora kuba bagamije kubona imitungo utunze ukabona ariyo atumbiriye kurusha wowe icyo gihe uramutse ubibonye mbere yuko mubana uba ugomba kugenza make ugashishoza hari n’izindi ngeso nyinshi uba ugomba kwitondera uzibona mukobwa cyangwa se umusore mwitegura kubana gusa tubonye iz’ingenzi kwitondera cyane