impamvu zishobora kuba zituma waratinze kubona murushinga
hari abantu bamwe batinda kubaka ingo kubera impamvu zitabaturutseho rimwe rimwe zirmo kubona bifuza bazukana urugo kikaba ikibazo uko gutinda hari impamvu zitanduknye zishobora kubitera tukaba tugiye kureba zimwe mpamvu zitera abasore n’inkumi gutinda kubona abakunzi bazarushingana uhakanira abagusabye urukundo vuba hari abantu babona ikosa muntu batangiye gukundana niyo ryaba ikosa ryoroshye agahita ahakanira batangiranye inzira y’urukundo bikaba byatuma utind akubona wifuza kuko ubona amakosa vuba ugahita ubivamo kwihutira gukora imibonano mpuzabitsina n’abo mukundana iyo ugingira gukundana n’umusore cyangwa se inkumi ugahita uganisha minonano mpuzabitsina ahanini byereka mukundana ushaka kwishimisha ntukihure kuryamana n’uwo mukundana kuko bishobora gutuma mutandukana gukuruza abagabo imyambarire kwishyiramo ugiye hose ushobor akuhabona inshuti bigatuma wihatira gushaka kwambara imyambaro bukurure abagabo nabyo byakubuz amahirwe kubona umukunzi nyawe gusa none ntibyakubuza kwambara neza ariko kwoshyiramo ukuruza abantu imyambarire imivugire ugaragara bishobora gutuma bagufata nabi ba uriwe wirinde kubyihingamo kubaho buzima bwigunze kubaho buzima butagira inshuti utagira ahantu ujya uhur en’abandi bantu nabyo bishobora kugutera gutinda kubona muzarushingana gusa none ntibivuz engo ujye wirirwa uzenguruka utubyiniro twose n’utubari buri mugoroba gira inshuti z’anahungu n’abakobwa ube umuntu utigunga ube wirebaho wenyine gutangira kwiheba iyo ukorera bwoba nko gusiganwa n’imyaka kugender aku bandi birakugor akubona umukunzi nyawe kuko hari uba udashaka urukundo rugenda intambwe ntambwe urugero ushobor aguhur an’umusore mbere ugashaka muganira bana muzabyara kujya kukwerekana iwabo n’ibindi bintu bitaza mwanya w amber eiyo abantu bagihura mbere gutekereza mugabo cyangwa se umugore uzabona iyo mutwe wawe hatangiye kuzamo myumvire nabyo biragora wabona umugabo cyangwa se inkumi muzarushingana uhora wumva n’ubundi abaje bagenda gahunda bafashe bikagutera kwiheba kutamenya kwita bandi bazaza kwifuza ibirenze urugero hari abantu barashushanije mutwe wabo umuntu runaka bazabana agomba kuba ameze agomba kuba atunze azaba ateye ugasanga urwo rutonde rw’ibyo wifuza wabuz eumuntu numwe ubyujuje gutekereza wifuza n’ibyo agomba kuba yujuje byiza ariko habura bike yujuje akaba aribyo byinshi ushobora kumwihanganira kuko bigoye wabona wifuza nyawe niba ubona waratinze kubona muzabana reba zimwe mpamvu twavuze atarizo zibitera ubone ubishakira umuti