impamvu zituma ukururwa n’uwo mutashakanye ukumva umukunze
bijya bibaho umwe bashakanye wumva yakunze muntu kandi yaramaze guhitamo bazabana birashoboka urwo rukundo rwabo runakomeza akaba yasiga barashakanye agasanga mushya muri nkuru tugiye kureba impamvu zituma umwe bashakanye yisanga akururwa n’undi n’icyo wakora igihe bikubayeho umuhanga by’imitekerereze witwa mullinax avuga kuba umuntu wubatse yakibona akururwa n’undi muntu batashakanye kibazo kirimo aho biba ibyiyumviro biza ako kanya ariko nyuma bigashira mu bushakashatsi n’abandi bakoreye bagore biga kaminuza buhinde bagaragaje abagera bemeje bigeze gukururwa n’undi muntu batashakanye gusa bavuga bihita bishirira kuko abagera gusa aribo bemeje gukururwa byaje kuvamo urukundo rubaganisha guca inyuma bashakanye ku rundi ruhande ariko hari abavuga igihe cyose wiyumvisemo wakuruwe n’undi muntu mutashakanye kandi waramaze guhitamo gihe uba wamaze gutangira inzira kumuca inyuma ari abavuga gukururwa n’uwo mutashakanye kibazo kirimo n’ababona harimo ikibazo bahuriraho hari impamvu zituma ukururwa n’uwo batashakanye agera rwego kumva yamukunze akaba yanaca inyuma bashakanye dore impamvu zimwe zituma gukururwa n’undi muntu bivamo urukundo guta mwashakanye nkuko tubikesha agasarocom kuba urugo rwawe ruri bibazo iyo musanzwe mutumvikana n’uwo mwashakanye biroroshye ukururwa n’abandi bagore cyangwa se abandi bagabo bamwe bagenda bashaka amahoro kuko bumva bayaburiye rugo rwabo nyamara icyiza ukwiye kubanza gukora ushoboye ugarura amahoro rugo rwawe gutwarwa umutima n’abandi ikinda ugomba kuzirikana urukundo rwose rugira igihe k’ibibazo n’igihe cy’ibyishimo gusa urukundo ruramba nyirarwo bazi bakemura ibibazo bagirana hagati guhora ubona ibibi gusa by’uwo mwashakanye akenshi uhora ubona ibibi gusa by’uwo mwashakanye biroroshye wisanga wakuruwe n’undi mutashakanye ibyo biterwa mwashakanye umubona ukamubonamo ibibi k’uwundi ukaba ujya kureba ibyiza utabona k’uwo mwashakanye nta muntu ubaho w’umutagatifu abagore n’abagabo buri wese afite uruhande rubi n’urwiza iyo ushaka kubaka urugo runezerewe kandi rurambye wirinda guha agaciro ibibi kurusha ibyiza by’uwo mwashakanye ibibazo biza nyuma kubaka urugo nyuma gushinga urugo hari hagati y’abashakanye havuka ibibazo kuba basanzwe batabana kuba umuntu aribwo yiyereka bashakanye ntacyo amukinze rimwe rimwe bibazo bituma utangira kwibaza ushobora kuba waribeshye k’uwo mwashakanye iyo ugize muntu mukubitana ubona ariwe ugukunze kurusha mubana nyamara burya ushobora kumukurikira ugasanga usize urabisanze kuba utarigeze ukunda mwashakanye muri minsi usanga kubeshyanya mukundana byaragwiriye buryo umuntu murinda mujya kubana uziko agukunda kandi akuryarya niba waraje ukurikiye ibindi bintu k’uwo mwashakanye niyo wabibona ntabwo umutima wawe uzatuza wihingemo urukundo ruze niho uzasanga ahubwo wisanze ukururwa n’abandi ukabona ibyiza byabo rimwe rimwe mwashakanye abifite ariko kuko utamukunze ntabyo wabona kuba umuntu ugukurura afite agamije hari wibwira yuri gukururwa n’undi muntu mutashakanye ukumva biterwa kuba umukunze nyamara akaba aguhiga afite ikindi agamije shishoza n’usanga muntu afite ibindi agamije birimo kugusenyera kurya amafaranag yawe kukwinezezaho urugero abagabo bashobora agutanga byose bakobwa bakabarya umutima kuko bashaka kubafata nk’ibikoresho kwishimisha n’ibindi uramutse ubonye muntu ariwe uba ukwitoratozaho kuko afite indi mpamvu wamuhungira kure kuko yazakugwisha mutego ukazabibona nyuma muri make ntabwo wavuga uzirinda guhura n’abandi bantu kimwe utazabirinda mwashakanye gusa ugomba kuzirikana mwashakanye wamuhisemo bandi kandi ukamuha cyizere kuba yaragutoranyije bandi ibyo bizabarinda gukururwa n’abandi kugera rwego kuba urukundo kuba mwacana inyuma nta mpamvu n’imwe ukwiye kwitwaza ugomba guharanire wasigasira urukundo rw’uwo mwashakanye ukaba aribyo ushyiramo imbaraga