ibintu bishimisha abagore ariko batajya batinyuka gusaba abagabo
ubusesenguzi bwagaragaje hari ibintu abagore bakunda ariko batajya basaba abagabo ibi bintu abagore babihuriyeho kandi ntibajya babisaba kabone n’iyo yaba umugore usanzwe uzwiho kwisanzura mukunzi weibi bintu inzobere by’inkundo zivuga ubikoreye umukunzi wawe gihe gishira utarigarurira umutima kandi bituma ahorana ibinezaneza ubusesenguzi bwagaragaje hari ibintu abagore bakunda ariko batajya basaba abagabo ibi bintu abagore babihuriyeho kandi ntibajya babisaba kabone n’iyo yaba umugore usanzwe uzwiho kwisanzura mukunzi ibi bintu inzobere by’inkundo zivuga ubikoreye umukunzi wawe gihe gishira utarigarurira umutima kandi bituma ahorana ibinezaneza kubyuka asanga wamuteguriye ifunguro rya mu gitondo nk’uko ukangutse wumva indirimbo ndirimbo haba hari amahirwe menshi ikwirirwamo ninako ukangutse ukabona ikintu gitunguranye cyiza kikwirirwamo abagore rusange bakunda umugabo utekerera kure akabakorera ikintu kibereka abitayeho niyo mpamvu umugabo wimbwirije agatega kurya mugitondo umugore akabyuka byageze meza gikorwa gishimisha mugore ariwe ntashobora gutinyuka kukigusaba kuko ubusanzwe aziko byakabaye inshingano kumwandikira ubutumwa bw’urukundo kimwe bintu bikora marangamutima y’umugore n’umukobwa bijyanye n’urukundo n’ukubwirwa amagambo aryoshye niyo mpamvu akunda kwandikirwa ubutumwa akunda ubutumwa bumubwira mwiza umukunze nubwo adashobora kubigusaba kumugurira imyambaro abagore bakunda umugabo wibwiriza akabagurira imyambaro kabone n’iyo yaba afite ubushobozi kwigurira aha bisaba kwitonda kuko abagore batabikunda kimwe hari ushimishwa wagenda ukamugurira ukamuzanira hakaba n’ushimishwa n’uko mwatemberana isoko ukamugurira yishimiye kumuhitiramo kumutereta abagabo bamwe bitwara nk’aho ibikorwa gutereta birangirana n’umunsi w’ubukwe nyamara n’umugore mubana akeneye ukomeza kumutereta nk’uko wamuteretaga mukiri fiancaille ibi nabyo mugore utinyuka kubisaba umugabo n’ubwo abikeneye gutemberera ahatuje gufata umugore wawe gatemberera ahantu hatuje bituma arushaho kukwiyumvano bikanabafasha kubagarira kuvomerera urukundo rwanyu abagore barabikunda ariko si kenshi uzumva umugore atinyuka kubisaba umugabo kumwoherereza indabyo ku kazi mu muco w’abanyarwanda kintu koherereza umukunzi indabyo kazi ntabwo kirahagera cyane ariko ubona bigenda biza kuko ubona nk’umuntu uvuye mahanga cyangwa warangije ikiciro runaka kaminuza hari abamuzanira indabyo sinzi abagore b’abanyarwandakazi babikunda ariko abagore bihugu bitandukanye bashimishwa kohererezwa indabyo kazi kumufasha akazi ko mu rugo inzobere by’imibanire zivuga umugabo afashije umugore akazi rugo bituma umugore yishima bikanabagarira urukundo rwabo ariko hari usanga bakibifata nk’ubuganza ukuri ababifata gutyo bibeshya guteka mugasangira uretse kuba umugabo yajya gikoni agatekera umuryango hari n’aho ugera ugasanga umugore n’umugabo ntibagira ikibahuza kuko hagati habamo umukozi rugo ubundi kuba umwe bashakanye yajya gikoni agateka akagaburira mugenzi bituma urukundo rwabo rukomera ariko bikozwe n’umukozi nzira imeza nk’ifunze bamwe bagore bashimishwa kuba umugabo yajya gikoni agategura ifunguro akabariro uzumva abantu bavuga urugo rusenyukira gitanda rukanubakirwa gitanda niyo mpamvu umukozi ushinzwe irangamimerere agiye gusezeranya abakunanye ababwira gutera akabariro ikintu kitagomba kubura bashakanye ikizwi abagore badakunze kwerura bakeneye serivise bigasaba umugabo yibwiriza umugabo adashoboye kwibwiriza umugore biramubabaza kandi hahandi ntaba buvuge abikeneye ibi bintu sibyo kamara ushobora gutekereza ibindi ugendeye uzi umukunzi wawe akunda ukabimukorera