ibintu buri mugabo adakunda mugore
urwango ijambo ribi cyane ariko ntibivuze ryaba ribi rwego byageraho bibabaza umugabo ugereranyije agukunda nibyo koko ushobora kuba warumvise neza cyangwa se uzi hari ibintu bidashimisha abagabo ni ibintu bigoranye kuba yabikubwira bitamushimisha kuko umutima akenshi ntiwabimwemerera reba ibintu umugabo wawe cyangwa yanga inshuti yawe y’umuhungu idakunda wowe ntakunda kumva umeze nabi mu gihe wumva umeze nabi umugabo wawe akabimenya ahita yumva mubiriwe atameze neza kukurusha kuko ntago yifuza wagira uburibwe wowe umutima uratera cyane ukamurya kubera ukuntu abayumva agukunda cyane icyo akora ugushaka inzira zose zishoboka kugira akwiteho buryo bwose ntuzumve atakwitayeho ahubwo biba byamubabaje buryo utakumva iki kintu ntabwo umugabo wawe agikunda cyangwa inshuti yawe y’umuhungu igikunda ntakunda kuba yakubona urira nta kintu kibabaza kikanatera agahinda umugabo wawe kukubona urimo urarira kabone nubwo yaba yagukuise ashobora kuba yarakumvise urimo uraririra gake nko rwiyuhagiriro muvuganye nabi ariko ntakunda kuba yabona umugore arira kuko amarira yawe aramushavuza akagira aghinda kenshi mutima naramuka aguhojeje uzemere uceceke kuko bizamushimisha cyane kuko kukubona urira ntabwo byiza ntakunda wamujya kure umugabo wawe agukumbura cyane akumva yahindutse nk’umusazi birenze wowe ubitekereza kukubura iruhande rwe biramushavuza cyane akumva abuze amahoro atakubonye ibi niukuri kuko agutekereza cyane birenze nkiyo hari ahantu wagiye abayumva utatinda kuko akenshi aranakubwira ubanguke ntutinde yokandi wibuke wowe mugore umugabo wawe mubyatumye akugira umugore kwari ukugira umube ibhe byose ajye akubona ntakunda kukubona cyizere wifitiye umugabo wawe kunda kuba yaba akuri iruhande kubera akeka umeze neza kibazo kimwe ushobora guhura nacyo akunda kuba kumwe gihe abona wifitiye icyizere cy’ibyo gukora ariko abona wifitemo akavuyo ntago abikunda areba intege nke zawebiramubabaza kubona utari gukora ugomba gukora neza kuko abona cyizere wifitiye bikamubabaza ntakunda umuntu yagufata nabi ubusanzwe abagabo barihangana buzima bwabo niyo mpamvu amaraso atishimira kubona muntu agufata nabi utari ugasanga akeneye kumenya byinshi woweibi biramubabaza cyane kurusha wowe wumva bikubabaje utekereze impamvu y’ibi aruko agukunda kandi ataba asobanukiwe impamvu abantu batakubaha nkuko abayumva byagakwiye kugenda ntakunda washaka kwigira nkuko abandi bagore bameze akenshi tuba ndetse n’abo tubana nibo bashobora gutuma duhindura imitekerereze n’imikorere niba ushakanye n’umusore wigira ukumva amabwire y’abandi bagore bakubwira koi bi cyangwa biriya aribyo umugabo wawe yakunda kurusha biriya wamukoreraga umugabo wawe yagukundiye ndetse n’uburyo wamushimishagamo ariko niwiha gushaka gukora ibintu btamushimisha habe gato ntabwo azigera abyihanganira ahubwo uzabona akunda guhora arakaye wibaze impamvu yabyo uyibure ntiyishimira wakigana abandi bakora kugira bashimishe abagabo kuko wowe yagukundiye umukorera cyangwa se wamukoreraga nushaka kumva amabwire wowe mugore urimo urasenya urugo rwawe ibyo ntago umugabo azabyihanganira ntakunda kukubona watsinzwe umugabo wawe arashaka ahora akubona ushoboye wimwereka kintu ushoboye ahubwo gerageza ukomeze umushimishe nkuko wajyaga umushimishandetse nibinaba ngombwa ujye umukorera udutendo kugira ukomeze bagarire urukundo mufitanye kandi unaruvomerera akunda kukubna iruhande rwe umufata neza bikwiye ariko byiza guhora ukora icyashimisha umugabo wawe kandi ntukishimire gutsindwa umugabo wawe akubone wakonje ntakunda kumva uvuga utari mwiza nk’abandi mu buzima bw’abagore birazwi umubiri wabo uhinduka cyane ndetse rimwe rimwe bakaba bakumva biyanze giti cyabo wowe mugore ikintu ugomba kumenya umugabo wawe yagukundiye akenshi atari isura yawe ahubwo umutima mwiza ufite cyangwa se ukuntu umushimisha bikamurenga ikindi kandi gishimisha umugabo wawe uburyo umubwira ushaka n’ibyo wifuza akaba yabasha kubigukemurira buryo bwihuse kuri kumva uvuga utari mwiza cyangwa udashimisha n’imihindagurikire y’umubiri wawe ntibimugwa neza iyo akoze ikintu cyikababaza umutima wawe ntibimushimisha ushobora kuba wibaza koko atishimira cyakubabaza impamvu agikoze bikagucanga umenye inshuro nyinshi atari yabigambiriye ahubwo biba bimutunguye iyo akubwiye nabi akabona ntabwo wishimye arushaho kubabara cyane kandi birangira yicujije cyane impamvu yabimuteye akabikora ikimubabaza cyane bishobora kuba byabaviramo ugutandukana kandi atabyifuza ntakunda kuba yakubona utishimye birasoboka cyane wababara cyane ariko umugabo wawe ntago bimushimisha habe gato kuko ibyishimo bye abibonera mukuba wishimye kumusekera n’ibinezaneza byose ashobora kuba amakosa yatumye utushima ariko bizamubabaza cyane nabona wagira wapfushije bityo ikintu kizakubwira umugabo wawe cyangwa umuhungu winshuti yawe ugukunda akenshi adashimishwa kukubabaza buzima bweyanditswe bizimana jean damascenemuhaburarw