amakosa wakirinda gukorera umukunzi wawe
urukundo ikintu gikomeye cyane hagati y’abakundana iyo utagize ukora urukundo rwanyu rukomeze gukomera ntirushobora gukomera habe mba ariko ushobora gutuma rukomera gihe wabashije kwirinda amwe makosa akunda gukorwa rukundo aya amakosa akomeye cyane ushobora kwirinda rukundo kudaha agaciro urukundo buri wese akunda agaciro buzima busanzwe noneho umuntu ukunda ukamuha agaciro biramushimisha cyane biba ntako bisa kudaha agaciro umukunzi wawe bishobora gutuama umubano n’urukundo ufitanye n’umukunzi wawe bicyendera ugashiduka rukundo rukiri mwe guha agaciro mukundana bimwereka umwitayeho kandi bikamwongerera kugukunda cyane wikihugisha cyane kintu kiguhugije uburire umwanya umukunzi wawe gufata imyanzuro uhubutse iri irindi kosa rikomeye cyane rukundo hagati y’abakundana rikunze gutuma habaho intongana n’imirano itarangira gufata imyanzuro uhubutse ntago byiza kuko bituma urukundo rwanyu rudashobora kuramba ikiza cyatuma urukundo rwanyu rubasha gutera imbere mwajya mufatira hamwe umwanzuro ibi byatuma hahoraho ibiganiro mpaka hagati yanyu bigatuma hahora impaka turwane buri gihe rugo indwano zitari ngomwa kumenya gucunga umujinya wawe nti iby’agaciro ni ibintu bitangaje kumva imirwan yabura hagati y’abakundana cyangwa se abarushinze abakundana bakunze kurwana n’ikintu kigaragara bapfuye akenshi ubusa bapfuye ntago byiza hahora mo imirwano kuko ntago myiza ishobora gutuma mwashakanye mutandukana kuko ntakwihanganira umujinya wawe utabasha kugenzura kwihagararaho makosa twese dufite uburyo twihagararaho bintu bitandukanye ariko kwihagararaho gihe makosa ntabwo byiza kuko akenshi bikunze gutuma habaho ugutandukanye kw’abashakanye cyangwa kw’abakundanakwihagararaho akenshi bikunze guterwa n’umujinya urwango kwikunda nibindi bitandukanye genzura umujinya wawe ndetse n’amakosa yawe kuko bishobora kugukururira gushwana n’umukunzi wawe buryo butari buteganyijwe kutanyurwa n’urukundo urukundo rugira byinshi akenshi ushobora kurugira imbamutima yawe iyo utanyuzwe n’urukundo rw’umukunzi wawe n’umukunzi wawe ntago akunyuze kutanyurwa n’urukundo aguha akensi biramubabaza cyane kuko ntago yiyumvisha uburyo mwakomeza gukundana utanyuzwe n’urukundo agukunda ibi bituma habaho ugutandukana kw’abakundana kuko batishimiranye kugerageza kwiharira ubuyobizi mu rukundo ikintu kibi cyane kugerageza kwiharira ubuyobozi rugo gushaka kwereka umukunzi wawe umurusha uruhare runini wowe kurusha mwafatanya mujye mwumvikana byose bituma urukundo rwanyu rugenda ruzamo ibitotsi ni byiza guhuza n’umukunzi wawe kuko birushaho gukomeza urukundo rwanyu kumvikana intwaro ikomeye cyane rukundo rwanyu kuko niyo yonyine yagira ibavana n’aho ibageza kutanyurwa gushima umukunzi wawe agukorera ikintu cy’ibanze rukundo kuko bituma urukundo rwanyu rugira rugera iyo umukunzi wawe ugerageje kumuha umwanya ndetse ugaha n’agaciro akubwiye bituma abasha kwishimira umubano wanyu urkundo ikintu gikomeye cyane hagti y’abakundana bityo biba byiza nibura unyuzwe n’urukundo aguha kandi ukagerageza kumwereka byagushimishije kandi ukabimubwira byaguhimishije kuko bituma agerageza kwigirira icyizere cy’ibyo agukorera ha agaciro umukunzi wawe ndetse ugahe n’urukundo aguhakuko bizatuma mubasha kugira mugera iterambere ry’urukundo rwanyu guca inyuma mwashakanye ni kenshi wumva abashakanye cyangwa abakundana bacanye inyuma ibi ntabwo byiza rukundo habe gato kuko bituma ugira iraha cyangwa ubuhehesi buhoraho uretse kandi nubwo mwarushinganye abyemera kuko akenshibishobora guhita bimutera kumva gaciro cyangwa urukundo umufitiye agahera yishakira ubundi buryo yakibonera uwamwishimira kumuca inyuma bituma abona ntacyo avuze imbere yawe bityo bigatuma akubonamo umwanzi nabyo akenshi bibyara ugutandukana hato hato kutumva umukunzi wawe umbano ikintu cyiza cyane hagati y’abakundana kandi biba umunezero udasanzwe kereka mukundana umwumva kuko bituma abona uwitayeho kumva ibitekerezo by’uwo mwashakanye bituma abasha kubona gutahiriza uugozi umwe bityo bizatuma abasha kwirekura bitekerezo agerageze akubwire icyatuma urukundo rwanyu runabasha gutera imbere ndetse n’iterambere ryo buzima busanzwe mugore cyangwa mugabo musore mukobwa amwe makossa uzagerageza kwirinda gukora gihe ushaka urukudo rwanyu rutera imbere mukibanira akaramata n’ubuzira herezo yanditswe bizimana jean damascenemuhaburarw