mukobwa mugore menya ibintu wakorera umugabo kugirango ubashe kugira urugo rwiza
umunsi munsi ndetse mubuzima bwacu tubamo usanga umuntu wese ava akagera yaba umugabo cyangwa umugore yewe n’iyo urebye rubyiruko cyane rutari rwageza igihe kubaka ingo usanga buri wese asaba imana uwampa cyangwa uwazampa kugira urugo rwiza n’ubwo akenshi biba bitoroshye ariko nama zagufasha kugira urugo rwiza ntukigere uzamura ijwi mpamvu ariyo imbere y’umugabo wawe yabifata nk’agasuzuguro imigani ntuzagaragarizeumuryango wawe cginshuti intege nke z’umugabo wawe kuko byakugiraho ingaruka mujyemubikirana amabanga abef - ntuzigere ugaragaza kamere yawe igihe uganira n’umugabo wawe kuko utazi azabifata umugore ukunda kuburana kwishyira aheza ntagira urugo runezerewe imigani - ntukagereranye umugabo wawe n’abandi bagabo kuko utazi ubuzima babayeho bishobora kugabanya urukundo agufitiye ntugafate nabi inshuti z’umugabo wawe kuko utabakunze ujye ureka umugabo wawe ariwe umenya abatwara imigani ntuzibagirwe umugabo wawe yagushatse ntabwo umukozi wawecg ariwe wese kora inshingano zawe itang ntuzagire uha inshingano kwita mugabo wawe abandi bagukorera ibintu byose ariko ibijyanye n’umugabo wawe inshinganozawe z’umwihariko abef ntuzarenganye umugabo wawe ntacyo atahanye ahubwo ujye umusubizamo imbaraga gutegekwa - ntugasesagure kuko umutungo w’umugabo wawe uwagaciro ntukwiye kwangirika ntukagerageze kwirwaza kugirango uhunge inshingano muburiri ujye wubahiriza umugabo wawe nkuko abishaka imibonano ikintu cy’ingenzi k’umugabo kuko ukomeje kumwima ashobora gufata nshingano nta mugabo wakwihanganira ibyongibyo igihe kirekire ndetse bamwe basenga cyane ntuzigere ugereranya umugabo wawe bandi mwaryamanye cg inshuti zawe kera urugo rwawe rushobora gusenywa nibyongibyo ntugasubizanye n’umugabo wawe ruhame ujye ureka akore ibintu abishoboye bitazatuma agusubizanya inabi ruhame abef ntugatonganye cg uhinyuze umugabo wawe imbere y’abananta mugore w’umutima ukora abef - ntukibagirwe kureba umugabo wawe yambaye neza mbere yuko abandibabikurebera imigani - ntugakundire inshuti zawe zisanzura mugabo wawe cyane ujye ukaraba kandi wambare neza kuko umugabo wawe azengurutswe n’abagore bafata igihe kwiyitaho sam - ababyeyi umuryango cg inshuti ntabwo aribo bafite ijambo ryanyuma murushako rwawe luka ntugashingire urukundo mafaranga nonese wakomeza gukundaumugabo wawe igihe waba umurusha kwinjiza menshi ntuzibagirwe abagabo bakenera kwitabwaho gutegwa amatwi ntuzigere umuburira umwanya kuganira ikingi y’ingo zinezerewe abagaratiya ibitekerezo byawe nibitanga umusaruro ntuzirate umwigereranyehoko umurusha ibitekerezo byiza mujye mukorera hamwe abagrat ntugacire umugabo wawe urubanza kuko mugabo numwe unezezwa n’umugore w’ingare abef umugore w’umunebwe ntagira yitaho ntanamenya umubiri ukeneye gusukurwa kwoga imigani imigani hari imitekere umugabo wawe akunda ujye ugerageza guhinduranya amafunguronta mugabo utita kw’ifunguro ategurirwa imigani ntukifuze ibintu cyane mugabo unezezwe iteka n’ibibonetse luka ujye umenya kwakira neza umugabowawe cg wese winjiye iwawe niyo yaba ikirahure cy’amazi ufite umutima n’imyitwarire myiza nibwo bwiza bw’umugore mwiza imigani ntukifatanye n’abagore bananiwe ingo zabo cg bananiwe urushakorwabo imigani urugo rwawe rugira agaciro kuko uruhaye agaciro kwifata nabi ntibyemewe abaheburayo imbuto munda yawe umugishauva mana ujye ukunda abana bawe ubigishe neza imigani ntabwo ukuze cyane byagira ingaruka rugo rwawe urutererane ntukareke kurwitaho mpamvu ariyo imigani umugore usenga imana yuzuye kandi yujuje ibisabwa iteka ujye usengera umugabo wawe n’umuryango wawe yanditswe ubwanditsimuhaburarw