gushinjanya amarozi ubusambanyi biraganisha apotre bizimana n’umugore gatanya
nyuma y’intonganya kurwanira imitungo gushinjanya ubugambanyi gushwanira bayoboke gusenya urusengero n’ibindi byagiye biteza umwuka mubi hagati apotre liliane mukabadege n’umugabo apotre bizimana ibrahim mbere tariki gicurasi nibwo rukiko rw’ibanze nyambirambo hakomeje ibijyanye n’urubanza bareganyemo basaba gatanya hakaba hari hategerejwe imyanzuro igomba kuvamo ariko kuko hari uruhande rwagaragaje ibindi bimenyetso bishya bizashingirwaho rukiko urubanza rwasubitswe rwimurirwa kuwa mbere utaha tariki gicurasi apotre liliane mukabadege azwi nk’umuhanuzi umukozi w’imana akaba n’umuyobozi w’urusengero umusozi w’ibyiringiro ruherereye kimisagara mujyi kigali ahazwi nko ntaraga gusa rukaba rufite andi mashami harimo n’ishami riherereye i runda karere kamonyi uyu apotre mukabadege liliane yashakanye apotre bizimana ibrahim akaba yaranahoze ayobora urusengero rw’i runda ndetse anamwungirije buyobozi bw’iri torero buryo bw’amategeko representant legal ibijyanye n’itorero imiyoborere yaryo n’imitungo yaryo byagiye biteza umwuka mubi hagati y’aba bavugabutumwa kugeza ntera y’aho hajemo gufungwa gusenya urusengero ruherereye i runda karere kamonyi iby’umubano wabo iby’itorero ryabo n’umwuka mubi wabaranze bifite amateka maremare kugeza barimo gushaka gutandukana burundu ndetse hitabajwe inkiko nabyo tugiye kubavira imuzingo nkuru si ubwa mbere batanze ikirego batandukane burundu tariki gicurasi mugabo bizimana ibrahim yatawe yombi akurikiranyweho kunyereza imitungo itorero rye n’umugore ishami runda anabereye umuyobozi hanyuma aza gufungurwa itariki gicurasi bimaze kugaragara aregwa bidafite ishingiro amaze gufungurwa haza kubaho kutumvikana hagati n’umuyobozi w’itorero mugore bashakanye ndetse bizimana akaba yaraje gutangaza umugore liliane mukabadege wamufungishije afatanyije n’abandi bantu bakomeye itorero icyo gihe umugore bishop umugabo reverend ariko bombi baherutse gushyirwa rwego hejuru rw’intumwa z’imana apotres cyangwa apostles ndimi z’amahanga muhango bimitswemo apotre paul gitwaza tariki kanama ubwo umugabo yafungurwaga gihe gicurasi yahise ajya gutanga ikirego rukiko asaba bahabwa gatanya agatandukana burundu n’uyu mugore buryo bw’amategeko divorce kuko basanzwe abakozi b’imana kuba baragiranye ibibazo bikageza bashaka gutandukana bapfa imitungo gushinjanya ubugambanyi byakuruye umwuka mubi itorero ndetse bombi kongera gusubira imbere y’abayoboke babwiriza bibabera ikibazo gikomeye baza gusanga bigiye kubangamira akazi kabo kuba abavugabutumwa baje gufata icyemezo kwiyunga kuwa mbere tariki nyakanga bageza imbere y’urukiko urupapuro rusaba ikirego gutandukana cyateshwa agaciro uru rwandiko tukaba twarabashije kurubonera kopi ubu nabwo nyuma y’igihe babana ariko umwuka mubi udasiba kugaragara ukagera bayoboke b’itorero ryabo ibintu byongeye kuzamba umugabo ashinja umugore guta urugo kurusahura ndetse banatangiye kugana inkiko baburane batandukane byemewe n’amategeko bakaba bombi baragiye batangaza ntawe ukifuza kongera kubana n’undi si ubwa mbere mugore ashinjwa gusahura imitungo y’urugo muri gicurasi bizimana ibrahim yafungwaga nyuma akavuga yagambaniwe n’umugore agifungurwa yasanze mugore yarasahuye imitungo aranimuka nk’uko tariki nyakanga babyiyemereye bombi kiganiro bagiranye n’abanyamakuru ndetse mugore agasaba imbabazi umugabo atazabyongera bizimana ibrahim yabwiye inyarwandacom gihe umugore yarasahuye urugo yabigaruye ariko bimwe ntibigaruke uku gusahura urugo byongeye kuba intandaro kujya nkiko bashaka gatanya nk’uko urwandiko nzego z’ibanze twabashije kubonera kopi rubigaragaza muri uru rwandiko ubuyobozi buvuga tariki ukuboza bwageze rugo bizimana ibrahim bugasanga umugore yarasahuye urugo agatwara ibikoresho birimo intebe televiziyo radio frigo ibitanda bitatu kuryamaho imodoka imyenda n’ibindi bikoresho rugo bifite agaciro k’amafaranga y’u rwanda arenga hatabariwemo agaciro k’imodoka ak’imyenda n’ibikoresho gikoni gusa mukabadege nyuma y’iminsi micye yaje kugwa gitumo apotre ibrahim yarimukiye ateza ubwega avuga ibintu umugabo yavugaga yasahuwe n’umugore abimufatanye nyuma gukora iperereza akamenya umugabo yarabyiyibishije amusige icyasha icyo gihe kandi mugore yahishuye byinshi mugabo aboneraho gushimangira yamuhuzwe kuburyo atakifuza basubirana n’ubwo umugabo apotre yafungwa rusengero akibarizwamo kuva yafungwa bizimana ibrahim ntiyongeye rimwe gukandagira itorero umusozi w’ibyiringiro runda abereye umuyobozi kuko yavugaga yagambaniwe akanafungishwa n’abo iryo torero icyo gihe yahise arekera iby’itorero byose maboko y’umugore umukuriye itorero ariko ashaka gukomeza kuba umuvugabutumwa ndetse yaje kugera ntera kwimikwa akaba apotre intumwa atagifite itorero abarizwamo kugeza n’ubu n’ubwo avuga yashinze umuryango w’ivugabutumwa yise repentance and hollines ariko akavuga torero akibarizwamo kwitandukanya n’itorero byarushijeho kugaragara cyane guteza umwuka mubi itorero tariki nzeri mugabo yajyaga rusengero ruherereye i runda agakuraho inzugi ndetse akanarandura icyapa cy’uru rusengero avuga rwubatswe kibanza cye ndetse akaba warwubatse igihe umuyobozi akaba ashaka gusubirana imitungo yashinjaga umugore muyobozi mukuru w’itorero kuba ashaka gukoresha imitungo y’urugo by’itorero rye umugabo ntiyemera umugore by’ivugabutumwa n’umugore ntiyemera umugabo ubwo twaganiraga tariki nzeri apotre bizimana ibrahim yashimangiye n’ubwo rusengero abarizwamo abwiriza ahantu hatandukanye ariko itorero ry’umugore akaba atahabwiriza kuko atemera mugore by’ivugabutumwa kandi n’umugore akaba atamwemera yagize ubundi mategeko y’intumwa intumwa ntigira itorero uretse hano rwanda amatorero ay’intumwa njye mbwiriza itorero iryo ariryo ryose kandi si ngombwa untumire ndijyana mfite ubutumwa bw’imana ndagenda nkabutambutsa kandi ubutumwa bw’imana ndabuhorana kuko ijambo ry’imana riri njyewe ngenda njyanye ijambo ry’imana nkaribwiriza ngataha mu musozi w’ibyiringiro ho sindabwirizamo kuko umuyobozi waho mugore ntabwo twubahana buryo bw’ivugabutumwa ntabwo twubahanye kubera njye ntanyemera nanjye simwemera gusa turemerana nk’umugore n’umugabo rugo nta rutugu rukura rusumbe ijosi urutugu rwakuze rugasumba ijosi rwitwa inyonjo njye sinshaka kuba inyonjo kuko niwe unkuriye by’itorero gusa n’aho duhurira cyane kuko itorero simpagera kuba nayoboraga i runda baramfungishije niyo ntandaro yatumye ntasubirayo kuko n’ubwo nafunzwe gihe icyatumye ntasubirayo itorero ryari ribifitemo uruhare umugabo avugwaho ubusambanyi kubyara abana benshi hanze n’umugore afite uwe ariko bombi ntibigeze babyarana ubusanzwe bizimana ibrahim mukabadege liliane bafite abana batanu ariko mwana n’umwe babyaranye kuko bashakanye mukabadege afite umwana umwe bizimana ibrahim afite abana bane bizimana ibrahim aherutse gutangaza mbere gato y’uko umugore asahura urugo amaze iminsi amubwira arambiwe kurera abana atabyaye akavuga byatewe ahanini n’uko umwana mukuru ibrahim mugore yashatse kumukoresha amanyanga se akaza kubimenya n’ubwo apotre ibrahim atasobanuye neza iby’ayo manyanga nyuma ariko kiganiro apotre mukabadege yagiranye n’abanyamakuru yavuze byinshi birimo kuba umugabo afite abana benshi yagiye abyara hanze n’ubwo ajya kunda kwemera afite batandatu gusa muri rusange bana n’umwe babyaranye akenshi umugabo agashinja umugore anywa imiti ituma atabyara mu bashinjanya harimo n’amarozi mu apotre ibrahim yagiye ashinja umugore harimo kuba yaragiye amutahura yashatse kumurogera biryo gusa abanyamakuru babibazaga mukabadege mutarama mwaka yarabihakanye abitera utwatsi yagize ntabwo nigeze mbikora arabeshya rwose ukumparabika nk’umukozi w’imana kubera azi avuze ikintu kiremereye kuko abantu bankunda kubera ndi umukozi w’imana w’ukuri aziko igisebo cyahita kinjyaho urusengero rugasubira hasi n’abakristo bagaseba niyo strategy akoresha azakubwira n’ikindi kitari ariko sinigeze mbikora n’imbere y’imana ishobora byose