amagambo ababaza abakobwa bayabwiwe n’abakunzi ibihe byose
kuba munyenga w’urukundo si ikintu gukinisha nk’uko abenshi babitekereza kuko bisaba kwitwararika kwitonda ukamenya utwara wihebeye amagambo umubwira kuko bidakozwe bishobora gushyira manga umubano bombi mu rukundo ntihakwiye kuzamo amakimbirane kuko akenshi usanga hari atandukanya bijyana rimwe rimwe gusanga hari amagambo yatije umurindi isenyuka ry’umubano mwari mufitanye uba ugomba kumenya gukora n’icyo utagomba gukora cyane ukirinda ubwira mukundana kuko akenshi aribyo usanga byabasenyeye burya abagore abantu bagira amarangamutima bashimishwa bakanababazwa n’utundi duto kugira murambane hari utagomba kubabwira n’ibyo witwararika inkuru dukesha urubuga elcrema rwandika inkuru zibanda mibanire n’urukundo igaragaza amagambo abakobwa batishimira cyane bayabwiwe n’abo bakundana umeze nk’umukobwa twatandukanye rimwe rimwe umusore ashobora kuvuga magambo atagambiriye gukomeretsa umukunzi ariko umukobwa biramubabaza yumva nk’agasuzuguro kumugereranya n’uwo waretse impamvu abakobwa batabikunda usanga abantu b’igitsinagore bagirirana ishyari ahita yiyumvisha mwatandukanye n’ubundi ukimukunda ukaba urimo kubimwibutsa unabagereranya ese uratwite kwiyongera ibiro gitsinagore ibintu bibaho igifu kikaguka ndetse nda hakabyibuha ntabwo kubona umukobwa mukundana yabyibushye bivuga atwite ndetse ukaba wanabyuririraho ubimubaza ntabwo bishimisha umukobwa mba kubazwa kibazo n’umuntu bakundana ahita yumva utamufitiye icyizere ndetse umufata nk’umusambanyi umeze mama wanjye nubwo ushobora kuba ugamije kumushimisha ntabwo umukobwa yishimira umugereranya n’umubyeyi wawe kuko ashobora kuba hari atamushimyeho akibaza impamvu ubagereranya ubusanzwe umukobwa uba ukwiye kumubwira ibimwerekeyeho wabonesheje amaso yawe kumugereranya n’abandi iri gereranya benshi bakobwa bava bakagera ntibabikunda ndetse bishobora gutuma birara sinkunda inshuti zawe kwerurira umukobwa mukundana udakunda inshuti ze bimwereka utamwishimira kuko burya abantu bagendana hari byinshi bahuriyehoabakobwa bakunda urungano rwabo ndetse bakanarubwira ibintu byinshi umutandukanyije narwo atangira kukugiraho amakenga ibyanyu bikaba byarangira nabi uburyo wasokojemo bushya ntabwo nabukunze ubwiza bw’umukobwa bunashingiye musatsi utuma agaragara neza imbere y’amaso y’abantu hari igihe utishimira uburyo umukunzi wawe yasokojemo gusa utanabikunze bifate nkaho byiza cyane igihe akubajije wabibonye wasanga impamvu yahinduye imisokoreze agira arusheho kugaragara neza imbere yawe tekereza ukuntu yakumva amerewe nuramuka umubwiye rwose yakoze yatakaje umwanya w’ubusa ufite imyaka ingahe iki kintu usanga abantu benshi b’abasore aricyo baheraho biganiro byabo nyamara bakirengagiza imyaka y’igitsinagore ingingo idapfa kwisukirwa gato kuko nyir’ubwite batabikunda uretse n’umuryango akorera bibaye ngombwa nibo babizi ahisemo kubikubwira kibazo ariko si byiza umubaza imyaka ndetse ugahatiriza abagore bumva kubabaza imyaka biba nko kurengera ndetse gukomeza gutsimbarara birababaza niba umukunda koko hari ubundi buryo uzakoresha imyaka ukayimenya wenda atanabizi ariko utamuhojeje nkeke ayikubwire nta gahunda gushaka mfite urukundo rutari urwa kinyeshuri umukobwa wese arufata nk’urugamije kuzavamo gushinga umuryango kumubwira gahunda gushaka ufite bisobanuye utamwishimiye kikaba ikindi kintu kibabaza umukobwa rwego hejuru uko utagomba kugereranya umukobwa w’inshuti yawe muryango wawe niko utakwigereranya se cyangwa basaza kuko hari akwifuza nk’umuntu ubarenze kwirinda gukoresha magambo bishobora kuba urufunguzo rw’ibyishimo mubano hagati y’abakundana gusa hari n’abo bidashobora kugira bihindura mibanire bitewe sosiyete babarizwamo n’uburyo batwaramo ibintu byabo salongo richard