hamenyekanye impamvu nyamukuru ituma abakozi basambana nyirabuja
abagore bakunda utuntu duto cyane bamwe bagabo badaha agaciro nabyo bituma abagore babaca inyuma bakarya kubishakira bantu basuzuguritse nk’abakozi rugo cyangwa abashoferi abagore bakunda utuntu duto cyane bamwe bagabo badaha agaciro nabyo bituma abagore babaca inyuma bakarya kubishakira bantu basuzuguritse nk’abakozi rugo cyangwa abashoferi umugabo w’ umunyarwanda tutari butangaze amazina yatubwiye byamubayeho uyu mugabo kigero cy’ imyaka nyakanga nibwo yamenye umugore amuca inyuma akaryamana n’ umushoferi akibimenya yirinze guhita amugaragariza uburakari dore nubwo umugore yamucaga inyuma yakomeje kumwubaha nk’ umugabo akamwitaho nk’ bisanzwe yakomeje kumuneka amenya afite inzu yakodesheje ahuriramo n’ mushoferi bagakorerayo mabi barangiza umushoferi akamucyura bagataha uretse kandi inshuro nyinshi mugore yabaga arimo kwiganirira n’ umushoferi ibiganiro basanzwe terefone baterana ububyara umwe abarira inkuru umugabo ntabyiteho yatubwiye nyuma y’ amezi atanu abimenye yagushije neza umugore bagahuza urugwiro ntibyari bisanzwe mubano wabo yarangiza akamwereka afite y’ amuca inyuma anamugaragariza ibimenyetso amubaza ikibitera ngo umugore yaguye kantu nyuma kumva umugabo amaze amezi atanu abizi amuca inyuma nyamara akaba ataramugaragarije umunabi ibi byatumye umugore yiyemeza kubwiza umugabo ukuri amubwira impamvu aryamana n’ umushoferi akaba akunda kuvugisha inshuro nyinshi terefone ariko ahamagaye umugabo amubwira nabi aramutesha umutwe kandi yibereye kazi nyamara umushoferi baganira bacishije make akamubarira inkuru akanamutera urwenya uyu mugore yeruriye umugabo nubwo amuca inyuma atamwanga ahubwo ashaka uwamufasha ruhuka igikabwe n’ igitsure umugabo amushyiraho ashatse baganira ’ umugore yongeyeho impamvu aryamana n’ umushoferi baganiriye bagahuza urugwiro bigatuma umwe yisanzura kuwundi kugeza basambanye uyu mugabo yakomeje atubwira yasubije inyuma amaso agasanga koko umugore amuvuzeho abigira ngo munsi umugabo yiyemeje kujya afata umwanya akaganiriza umugore neza nk’ abantu bakundana umugore areka kongera guca inyuma bashakanye umugabo rwose butabanye neza ntabwo ankica inyuma inama nagira abagabo ukumenya abagore bashimishwa guteteshwa bakabibakorera ushobora kuba utekereza impamvu nyamukuru ituma abakozi basambana nyirabuja batabonye ibyinshimo bihagize buriri kuko umugabo adashoboye abahanga bijyanye n’ imibonano mpuzabitsina sexologue’ bavuga ibyishimo gitanda bituruka kuntu umugabo n’ umugore babanje kuguyaguyana n’ uburyo umwe yirekuriye mugenzi