amategeko ajyanye n’urukundo akwiriye kuranga abakobwa
mu buzima tubamo buri munsi bisaba umuntu agira umurongo ngenderwaho ashaka kugira ava n’aho agera si ihame buri wese awuhuza n’undi hari amategeko akwiriye kuranga abakobwa kugira ubuzima barimo n’ubwo ahazaza burusheho kuba bwiza aya amwe mategeko urubuga elcrema rwaandika mibanire rutangaza buri mukobwa wese ukiri ingaragu akwiriye gukurikiza buzima bwe buri munsi muri nkuru turibanda rukundo wikwihutira gushaka umugabo gukora ubukwe ukava nzu so nyoko indoto buri mukobwa ava akagera ariko gukora ubukwe bihabanye kubaka urugo rugakomera kubyitondamo kutabihubukira ingenzi cyane wirebera bandi ingendo y’undi iravuna wikoreshwa n’igitutu cy’abantu wihutire gushaka umugabo kuko sibo bazakubakira gushaka umugabo ukubaka urwawe ntawe bitanyura ariko kubaka rugakomera bikaba byiza kurushaho nta kikwirukansa kandi iyihuse yabyaye igihumye niba utarabona umugabo igihe kitaragera kandi byanze bikunze imana yakugeneye arahari ntukibeshye imibonano mpuzabitsina ikimenyetso cy’urukundo mu mitego myinshi abakobwa bakunda guhura nayo uza mbere kumva kuryamana n’umusore ikimenyetso cyiza kumugaragariza urukundo ukwibeshya cyane ni bangahe se baryamana nyuma bagatandukana nubwo mwaryamana ntimubura gutandukana none se ukundanye n’umusore muzajya muryamana ukunde umugaragarize umukunda uzajya kubaka urwawe utarabaye imbata y’ubusambanyi uzubaka rukomere ntugategere umusore amaboko iteka iyi nayo ingeso abakobwa bamwe bakunda kugira mu rukundo ugasanga ibibazo bye byose agomba kubikemurirwa n’umusore w’inshuti iyo bimeze bitya uretse kuba umubera umutwaro kumubera umukunzi agaciro yaguhaga karagabanuka ndetse akagera n’aho akwinuba shakisha akazi cyangwa gukora kikwinjiriza bizatuma akubaha kurushaho ntuzashakane n’umusore umukurikiyeho amafarangaubutunzi abakobwa benshi bakunda kwitiranya amafaranga ubutunzi kuzagira umunezero rugo bagiye kubaka yego si mabi ariko sinayo shingiro ry’ibyishimo by’umuryango iyo umusore aguteretesheje amafaranga ubutunzi mugasezerana mukabana akenshi mugeze rugo agufata kimwe bintu atunze yaguze uzi impamvu ni wamukunze aricyo ukurikiye kurusha urukundo umufitiye kandi yarabibonaga si impumyi ni byiza gushingira rukundo gushiturwa n’ibintu ntukanywe ibisindisha abakobwa benshi gihe basigaye bafata gahiye uko umugabo asinda siko umukobwa yasinda umukobwa wasinze aragayika cyane umukobwa watangiye kurara tubari yatangiye kuba icyomanzi iyo ageze rwe nabwo biramugora ndetse n’uburere bw’abana bukaba busa n’ubwa ntabwo bibiliya bayemera ivuga vino umukobanyi ni byiza wareka kunywa inzoga uretse kukugayisha inzoga zigira ingaruka nyinshi mbi buzima bizakugora kubona umusore mukundana wiyubashye gihe wahindutse umusinzi ukaba inshuti manyinya kubona umugabo uhamye mwabana rugakomera bizaushaho kugukomerera kuko musore wapfa kwisukia umukobwa umurusha kunywa ibisindisha ntukambare impenure uwambaye neza agaragara neza kwambara neza kwiyitaho biba kamere y’abagore rusange kwambara neza ukwambara imyambaro itagutesha ikuzo bandi iyo wambaye neza buri muntu wese aguha agaciro ukwiriye zirikana kwambara imyenda igaragaza ubwambure bwawe nayo igira ubutumwa itanga bakubona kandi butari bwiza mu kinyarwanda abavuga agapfundikiye gatera amatsiko nugenda werekana ubwambure bwawe umusore azakugirira ayahe matsiko kandi byose wabimweretse ahubwo azakoresha imbaraga zose birangire agusambanyije ahubwo gushishikarira kukugira umugore kwambara neza si ukwambara ibihenze ahubwo ukugirira isuku imyamabaro yawe kumenya kujyanisha amabara kwambara ibikubera atari wigannye bagenzi bawe kandi bitagendanye n’imiterere yawe ite mirire yawe abakobwa n’abagore bakunda ibiribwa n’ibinyobwa biryoherera birimo amasukari menshi si byiza buzima bw’umuntu nubwo ubifata wumva bifite uburyohere ninako bigira ingaruka mbi buzima uri kwikururira indwara diyabetiigisukari ugomba gutangira kwitabira imyitozo ngororamubiri kuko igira akamaro kanini harimo kugabanya isukari mubiri kuyaza ibinure rwego kwirinda umubyibuho ntukifuze gukundwa nk’uko ubibona sinema bitandukanye buzima busanzwe abakobwa benshi hanze bumva bakundwa n’abasore urukundo babona sinema zinyuranye z’inkundo nyamara siko ibintu byose abakundana sinema bakora byashoboka cyangwa byakorwa buzima busanzwe hari amasomo twabigiraho ariko si byose si buri musore wese mwakundana wabasha kuguha impano y’imodoka nkuko bikinywa mafilimi amwe n’amwe si buri musore wese mwakundana ajye abona ubushobozi kugusohokana buri gihesigaho guhora nzozi kugereranya sinema n’ubuzima kuko akenshi ntibihura ibi bigendana kurebera bandi bagenzi bawe iteka ukumva umusore mukundana yagukunda cyangwa akagukorera wabonye nyirakanaka bamukorera ni imyumvire itariyo ubushobozi bw’abantu ntibungana kandi baca umugani ingendo y’undi iravuna ntukifuze kwakira gusa kwikunda rukundo iteka ukumva bagukundwakaza umusore mukundana agomba kuvunika cyane agomba guhora agutetesha bituma utaryoherwa n’urukundo urikunda wowe ntushaka gutanga kugaragaza amarangamutima yawe umuhanga mibanire y’abantu anthony robbins yavuze kugira umubano urambe biba byiza wumva watanga byinshi kuruta wumva wakakira gusa birumvikana kuko nushyiramo imbaraga ukammwereka urukundo rutarimo imbereka ntazazuyaza kugukorera nk’ibyo umukorera ndetse wenda akarushaho kuko yizihiwe ntugategereze ibyishimo byawe bandi abakobwa benshi binjira rukundo bumva ariho bagiye kubona isoko y’ibyishimo byabo wikumva mugenzi wawe ariwe ushinzwe ibyishimo byawe ntuzategereze agukorera ushaka wishime ibyishimo byawe wowe bigirira umumaro wimwikoreza umutwaro kubigushakira wowe ruhare ushaka kubigiramo urukundo nyarukundo si umuntu agiye kubonera amaronko ni amarangamutima muba mugomba gusangira ntukite makosa gusa ntamuntu si udakosa cyangwa agire ingeso zitari nziza maso y’abandi wikwita bibi by’umusore mukundana ahubwo mukundire ibyiza akwereka bityo uzumva urushijeho kunezezwa n’urukundo rwanyu nawe nturi shyashya hari utamubanira neza wikumva ugomba kwita makosa ushobora kuba umurusha ingeso mbi ntugahore umwitsiritaho urukundo rwiza urutanga umwitangirizwa shyiramo intera gihe muhurira nubikora gutya bizabarinda kurambirana ahubwo nihacaho iminsi mudahura wumve umukumbuye ndetse wumve ugize ubwuzu kumubona si byiza ariho ubarizwa anyuze nguwo kumwe murambirana vuba ntukabike inzika niba mugenzi wawe agukoshereje wibiha umwanya munini kandi atari ikosa rikomeye kubabarira indangamuntu bakundana niba agukosereje ubika inzikahari icyiza uzamubonamo uzigera uryoherwa n’urukundo mukundana nugera igihe gushaka urumva urugo rwawe rutazarangwa n’amatiku gusa yego rimwe rimwe usanga bigoye kwibagirwa ikosa umukunzi wawe yagukoreye cyane cyane ryagukoze mutima ariko si byiza wumva warigenderaho buzima bwanyu bwose akabaye kose uribyutse mufatanye iyo mushyize hamwe mwese mugashakira hamwe inyungu z’umubano wanyu nibwo muryoherwa gufatanya bigendana guhanga udushya buri wese agahora yiga cyangwa ashakisha icyakongerwamo gishya rukundo rwanyu urumva buri wese narwana intambara guhanga udushya 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