amakosa akorwa n’abagore mibanire
ni kenshi wumva abagore bavuga batanezerewe umubano wabo n’abo bashakanye uku kutishima babishinja abandi nyamara ntibatekereze nyirabayazana w’umwiryane n’abagabo muri nkuru turabagezaho amakosa akorwa n’abagore mibanire n’abo bashakanye nkuko tubikesha urubuga elcrema rwandika mibanire gufata imibonano mpuzabitsina nk’ingurane abagore benshi bakoresha imibonano mpuzabitsina nk’igicuruzwa bagakangisha abagabo kudakorana imibonano paka bagize babaha ni ikosa rikomeye kwanga gutera akabariro n’uwo mwashakanye kuko ushaka amafaranga kugura ikanzu nshya imodoka cyangwa ikindi ukeneye kutiyitaho abagore benshi bagwa kosa nyuma gushaka mbere y’uko ubana n’umugabo wawe ugaragara byari bifite agaciro cyane wowe nyamara nyuma kumufatisha’ waretse kwiyitaho mbere kuba waramubonye akaba uwawe byemewe n’amategeko si impamvu kureka kuba mwiza kwita buranga bwawe umugabo wawe yitezeho gukomeza kubona umugore mwiza yashatse amuhisemo bandi jya ugerageza guhora ufite ubwiza nk’ubwo yagukundiye amahane nta mugabo ukunda umugore w’umunyamahane si byiza kumva ibibazo byakemuka iteka uteye induru ntiwakwitega amahoro rugo igihe winubira buri kintu akoze kandi ukabigaragaza usakuza hari ubundi gukemura ibibazo n’ubwumvikane buke rugo udateye amahane ntukwiye gutuka cyangwa usakurize umugabo wawe umugabo wawe si umuhugu wabyaye kutizera umugabo wawe iri irindi kosa rikomeye abagore bakora mibanire n’abo bashakanye birumvikana ntiwifuza gusangira umugabo wawe n’undi muntu wese ariko se utamwizera kuki wemeye mubana si byiza ukimbirana n’abandi bagore kuko ubakekana n’umugabo wawe undi mugore si kibazo ikibazo umugabo wawe aho kurwana n’abandi bagore gerageza kumenya impamvu ukiri kumwe n’umugabo wawe nyamara akaba yiruka mugore wundi ni ukwitesha agaciro urwaniye n’undi mugore ruhame murwanira umugabo gufata abavandimwe b’umugabo wawe nk’abanyamahanga ntuzigere witega umugabo wawe azacika muryango kuko yakurongoye ibi ikosa gutekereza utyo kandi ntekereza ukunda umugabo wawe by’ukuri wagakunze ibye byose by’umwihariko abagize umuryango iga gukunda abagize umuryango kandi ntukabafate nk’abasabirizi bavuga bigorana kubana nyokobukwe kuko yumva usa n’aho gufata umwanya buzima bw’umuhungu nyamara kumusuzugura si muti w’ikibazo kuganira iby’ingenzi hari mutumvikanaho nta zibana zidakomanya amahembe umunsi umwe hari utazumvikana n’uwo mwashakanye ngingo runaka nyamara guca igikuba uca ibiti n’amabuye cyangwa ukabwira umuhisi n’umugenzi utumvikanaho n’umugabo bizakemura uretse gusubiza ibintu irudubi iga wabwira umugabo wawe utekereza buryo bwiza mahoro kandi umwubashye kubahana biba bikenewe cyane kugira umubano w’abashakanye urambe kutihangana hari irindi kosa abagore bakore mibanire n’abo bashakanye kwihangana biba bikenewe cyane kugira umubano wanyu urambe ugomba kwiga kwihanganira mubana niba udashobora kumwihanganira icyiza wareka gufata icyemezo kubana kwirengagiza igifu inda cye birumvikana ushobora kuba ufite akazi uhugiye zindi gahunda kandi rwose gufatanya imirimo mito n’akazi kawe gusa hano hasaba ubwenge n’ubushishozi cyane ushobora kuba ufite umukozi ubufasha gutegura amafunguro rugo rwanyu gusa ukwiye kumenya kugira wigarurire umutima w’umugabo bihera gushimisha igifu cye kugira ugere mutima w’umugabo ugomba guca nda ugomba kugenzura kumenya umugabo wawe abona amafunguro akwiye kandi ahagije ntubiharire umukozi gusa nubona akanya ujye utekera umugabo wawe amafunguro uzi akunda inshuti mbi iri irindi kosa abagore bagwamo kandi risenya ingo nyinshi ni ngombwa uhitamo inshuti neza kuko si buri wese wagira akumarira ntukwiye kubwira wese akakuri mutima cyangwa amabanga yawe ni bibi cyane kubwira inshuti zawe ibibi cyangwa intege nke z’umugabo wawe ni rimwe rimwe uba ukeneye umuntu muganira ariko ngombwa umenya muntu ukwiye kandi ukagenzura umubwira amabanga kugira uhisha cyangwa ukinga umugabo wawe bibi cyane kuko bituma agutakariza icyizere adatinze wowe n’umugabo wawe mugomba nk’ikipe itahiriza umugozi umwe kandi ntimwabigeraho hari amabanga muhishanya inkuru bijyanye amakosa akorwa n’abagabo bubatse ingo