Monica's place was new, modern, and spotless. The kitchen had everything you could need for even a long term stay. The beds were also very comfortable and I had a great sleep there.
However, I was a bit taken aback at the communication with Monica leading up to and during. I don't feel that Monica was the most welcoming host. I felt that traveling as a young male with other male friends meant we were guilty until proven innocent. The process to meet her initial insurance requirements was onerous, and sometimes simple neutral messages from myself were met with what I felt were passive aggressive comments or slight hostility.
Overall, I didn't feel that comfortable staying in the house as we all felt like we were walking on egg shells, even though we're all kind and considerate people.
I'm not sure if this is the usual experience with Monica, and I'm sure that groups of young males probably do cause havoc some of the time, but all the hosting rules are in fact chosen by her prior to booking. I don't feel I gave her any cause for the concern I received from her, nor have I had that experience in the past with 40+ Airbnb stays and universally and extremely positive reviews.
Monica, I do appreciate you letting us stay and the place was great value, but I think it's important to either ensure all your guests regardless of who they are feel welcome. You could also charge a larger deposit up-front since I can understand the fear you must feel renting out your property. Just hope you understand the way we felt treated was unusual for us, and to just be aware of your role as a service provider in any other hospitality business.
Thank you for hosting us.