For those interested in experiencing how real people live in New York, we recommend staying at Dani's in Brooklyn. Dani is very warm and welcoming, and this apartment is in a lovely quiet, tree-lined street - a great respite after our long, international flight. We felt like locals in a couple of days - nearby cafes are friendly, provide good food and are keen to accomodate food intolerances. Although Manhatten is only a short subway trip away - with all the must-see places - we highly recommend allocating some time to experience this local neighborhood, including a few hours wandering through the delightful, Prosect Park.
All essential items (and more) are provided by Dani and her environmentally-friendly approach is a treat when travelling.