I wouldn't be surprised if a friend of your friend tells you about Isabel and her place in the Upper West Side (she's hosted that many people). They'd probably tell you that Isabel is a superb (nay, EXCEPTIONAL) host, and you should believe them. If not, then read on, because this post is for you!
I stayed in Isabel's pre-war apartment for two weeks and for folks coming into this: be curious, open-minded, and engaging. You probably already know NYC is not for the light-hearted, but if you plan to be aware, communicate well and learn the ways of New Yorkers quickly, you'll be just fine. Isabel helps the experience greatly--she communicates easily and excellently, offers wonderful suggestions for sightseeing and eateries in the neighborhood, and checks in with you regularly.
The space itself felt cozy and safe. I stayed in the loft space which has a thick ceiling to floor curtain separating from the other half of the room. There's closet space, a desk, giant bean bag, plenty of books to entertain yourself, and a top bunk bed with an incredible mattress. It's a pre-war building, so like Isabel will you tell, it certainly has character and charm. There is laundry in the basement of the building and you'll get to use a vintage elevator (it works just fine and is inspected, don't worry) to access the laundry room. The building is around the corner from the best things NYC has to offer--Central Park, bodegas, grocery stores (both convenience and chain), bodegas, two subway lines, bodegas, restaurants, and did I mention bodegas? Also bodega coffees. Definitely remember to support your local bodegas. Seriously, I will scream and shout this word from every rooftop to remind you.
So yes, this spot is all about location, location, and location. But it's also about the gracious hospitality of Isabel. She is clear and direct and rest assured you'll be kicking back with people from around the world. During my time there, I stayed with folks from Mexico City, Czech Republic, Texas, and Virginia. Variety is the spice of life! Truly--and this experience has reminded me how important that is. Thanks, Isabel.