Every summer, my husband, eight-year-old son, and I stop in New York City for a few days to break up the long drive from North Carolina to Maine. This time, we decided to take a chance on Staten Island, and we booked two nights in the Dreamer's Suite in Alissa's Victorian Mansion, lured by the gorgeous photos, low rates, and promises of free parking (!!!). Our main concern was that it looked too good to be true--surely there would be hidden costs, black mold, bedbugs, criminal activities, *something*?

I'm happy to report that there was no cause for concern. The Victorian Mansion is a real delight. It's not a typical AirBNB listing, nor is it a commercial bed and breakfast; it's the kind of guesthouse you encounter more frequently in Europe, with private bedrooms, shared living spaces, kitchen, and (sometimes) bathrooms, and other travelers going in and out. When it's done right, it can be a wonderful experience, and Alissa's place definitely does it right. The house is worth a visit in itself; it's a lovely, funky old structure with lots of charm and detail, decorated very simply in a way that suggests Victorian richness but keeps the rooms feeling bright and open. The necessities were all there, and they were just right: everything was clean, there were buttery sheets, amazing mattresses, thick towels, air conditioning. Some of the rooms have private baths, while others share. We shared, but it was never an issue for us, even traveling with a child. And we never ran out of hot water! And it's true: you can park on the street, right outside the house, for free!

Along those lines: the house was nearly full during our stay, but we never had problems with the other guests, privacy, or the common spaces (well-stocked, sweet little kitchen, living/dining rooms, sitting porch). In fact, meeting some of the other guests (all international) was one of the great unexpected pleasures of our stay. I can't speak for everyone's experience, but while we were there, all the guests were clean, respectful, friendly, and quiet. And having to take the (free) ferry to Manhattan and back was a bonus, not a drawback. We drove down and parked at the station, no trouble finding a spot, but a bus stops across the street that will get you there almost as quickly. And the ferry is a required experience--classic views, great fun.

If you are comfortable with this type of lodging and the minor quirks of older homes, you will fall in love with the Victorian Mansion. I never met Alissa personally, but her communication was prompt, always helpful and informative, and friendly, and she was there to answer questions when I needed her. I hope this place will be around to host my family's New York trips for years to come, and I cannot recommend it highly enough.