Bear in mind that I was a last minute check-in (after 8pm), and I lacked important attention to detail, but the lack of communication could have saved the felling I had when I left the airbnb.
The host took over an hour to get back to me after arriving. Luckily their housekeeper was on the property and let me in after a long time of ringing the door and texting the host etc.
I missed that there was "no kitchen" listed on the property. I communicated to the host asking if I may use their refrigerator because I had milk immediately after they replied with check-in instructions (an hour later after I was there). Not only did they not reply, but they never replied! I placed my milk and $50+ stake dinner in their refrigerator that was labeled "Not for guest" before heading out to get a cooler and ice for the night.
when I returned, my milk and meal was gone! I communicated to the host asking for my milk and meal back but again they never replied. It wasn't until my checkout in the morning that I saw my milk and meal on their kitchen table that "was not" there that night. My original belief was that they threw it out, but my milk was room temperature as if it had been sitting out all night in a disclosed location.
I Understand and acknowledge this was mainly my fault for not looking at the list of amenities, but a little communication could have gone a long way. How they handled this situation was tasteless and I still have yet to receive a reply two days after my checkout.
So please don't reply here trying to explain now!