I have to say we felt unwelcome because of the signs saying I'd have to pay all sorts of penalties for the most ridiculous things, like opening a door in the kitchen. Or there was a rule that you have to take your shoes off. Plus there were CCTV cameras everywhere which made us feel super uncomfortable. Remember to read the rules, since you, for example, will pay a penalty if you don't take out the trash or you segregate it improperly. Remember that if you want to visit NYC, don't stay in Jersey as the commute is an extra pain.