Latarsha was nice, but it was overall too much. You must check in and check out with her in person (she lives on site). Your guest, even if that person is your spouse, will need to provide ID or be verified through Airbnb in order to be let in. No where in her listing does it say she has to check you in and out. Had I known all of this ahead of time, I would not have booked. I prefer "ghost host" bookings where I do not need to meet, see, or interact with them on any level unless there's an issue. What did me in was the bathroom towel situation- despite my reservation being for 2, only 1 wash cloth, 1 hand towel, and 1 bath towel were left out. My wife was undressing and getting ready to get in the shower when I requested another set of towels - to my shock, Latarsha said she would need to enter the unit to get the towels that were locked up. I declined, that was a bridge too far. I'm not sure if it's a control thing or a micromanaging thing.
However, her unit was clean and spacious.