As a regular Airbnb user due to my work, this was by far the worst experience I have had with the host. The space itself was as pictured, though not as clean as expected, especially the bathroom. The communication, however, was unacceptable.
After our 4-day stay, the host accused us of stealing her 8 k-cups and leaving bagged dog poop outside in front of her place. We simply used the 8 k-cups she provided (that's 1 coffee/guest/day). When we explained that to her, the response was that it is ok "if that's the truth." We didn't understand why this "truth" was questioned and why it would be worth bringing up to guests.
As for the bagged dog poop, the host's response was that we were the only ones with a dog in the building, therefore it makes sense to accuse us. Since it was outside, there was no reason to assume that it was us; it could have been a random passerby. Again, I was baffled as to why the host felt the need to accuse us, especially of something that could be easily dealt with.
This line of rude and petty questioning was extremely unprofessional and needlessly stressful for us. We felt we were respectful guests yet were surveilled and scrutinized. Once again, this was the worst Airbnb experience I have had.