Expect what you want. You will recieve your feelings back. You go in expecting to not wanting to piss off your roomates so walk on egshels and keep quite your whole stay, expect that. For me it was vacation and i spoke up and said i am not used to being quite wich opened up room for conversation. If you see something say something. Airbnbs should be standard for new commers that you dont have to like eachother you just need to accept each others differences and if your drom minnesota tell them to go fuck themselves if that dont like you. What we do